Speaker 1: When your old career gives you lemons throwing some ice,
mix in some vodka. Color a podcast from the Mac
of All Trade Studio in Fairport and driven by Victor
Chrysler Dots. Gee, Brahm, It's Billified, the Bill Moran Podcast.
Speaker 2: Well, hello and welcome. We're on the cameras tonight. I
didn't go live yesterday. You got to do it twice.
I I don't know. I blame the weather. Yeah, I
blame I blame the weather. Blame yeah, how about that weather? Like?
It has been pretty nice and then we always get that.
I'm hoping this is the last little bursts of winter
we get. But I don't know if you notice this.
People are in crankier moods, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: I believe that.
Speaker 2: Frankier moods when when the weather.
Speaker 3: Is not good, I get migrains due to the weather.
And I wonder if if if the weather with the
barometric pressure, I do I do you like how.
Speaker 2: I dismiss your pain, Yes, and just mock it mesogynistic, awful,
toxic masculinity.
Speaker 3: Way, Well, your liver is trying to like compensate for
whatever is going on in your body that's missing. So
like the pressure has a lot to do with that.
They say, when like full moon people get inured, yeah
all that stuff.
Speaker 2: Oh they've turned into werewolves yeah right, or tire wolves. Yeah.
Well here's the thing that I've noticed, like sometimes when
it when you get a good snowstorm or or a
good rainstorm, it's an excuse to be a slug people, right,
I mean, all of a sudden, you're doing nothing. It's
like a day you don't really live. You just shut
it down. You land the couch, right, and.
Speaker 3: See, I can't do that. I gotta do something.
Speaker 2: Oh it's a mental health day or it's a you
know what I mean. Some under the guise of that, and.
Speaker 3: If it's a mental health day, people make an announcement,
they put on a press release. I am taking a
mental health day. But today that's like sluggish. People just
want to be Oh, it's not got an excuse to
be late.
Speaker 2: I haven't been talking about this whole lot, but I
I uh substitute teaching, just I gotta do things right.
So there's and these are now really young kids that
I'm around, and like.
Speaker 3: The Baldwins, the Baldwins, Alec Baldwins, kids like yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like they're little little kids. Yeah. And so there's
this woman and she's older and she says, uh, it's
a she makes she makes up her own holiday, be
nice to missus whoever day. I passed her in the
hallway and she goes, it's already a two more teeny day.
That means six olives. And I was like, that's fucking awesome.
She just said it to me. I really this school
just is this.
Speaker 3: Teacher about your age a little older.
Speaker 2: They can't I can't tell ages anymore.
Speaker 4: Okay, but that goes to show you how hard teaching
really is.
Speaker 2: Well, even though you're only doing it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, no, quote only this is late ten months a year.
Speaker 2: I gotta be careful. Oh what are you doing? No,
I'm just saying it's our job.
Speaker 3: I've always I've always defello.
Speaker 2: Yes I have No. That was an underhanded Dante. That
was because iPod shuffle of ship.
Speaker 3: No, because people tend to crap on teachers, everybody. I don't.
I don't. My only thing with teachers is this, when
they can play, a get.
Speaker 2: A lot of time off and you get a whole
summer off, and.
Speaker 3: When they complained when they can play, they have to
understand why people say that stuff.
Speaker 2: That's all.
Speaker 3: I'm not saying that I disagree with them. I'm saying
there are some of us that don't get vacations at all.
Speaker 4: Yeah, well, the average American works three hundred and twenty
days a year, they work one hundred and eighty. So
when they get mad that people don't understand their pain.
But it's like they get time off and that's okay.
I'm not they have a tough I wouldn't want.
Speaker 2: To be a teacher. All right, hang on, now we're
going sorry, No, that's okay, because I was going to say, like,
you know the weather and we become lazy slugs, but
that went into Danny think's teachers are lazy. That's what
I heard.
Speaker 3: That's what I heard. That what I said, That what
I said.
Speaker 2: I know, it's not what you said. I do.
Speaker 3: It's really angry.
Speaker 2: Really, teaching is tough because you've got a bunch of
different personalities. There isn't sometimes the budget to get the
certain kids the specific need. It's the kid with the
most need, right, So you ever see adults the.
Speaker 3: Biggest common denominated welles the biggest.
Speaker 2: I'm going to give you an example. You ever see
an adult with a speech impediment and you go, how
is that possible today when there's speech pathology and stuff. Well,
if the family didn't have the resources to do it privately,
and this kid wasn't so bad, and there were kids
that were worse and needed more speech intervention than he did,
he got he or she got left out because of budgets.
So now you got it. You're trying to teach that kid.
You're trying to get them to meet a certain standard,
get a curriculum right, get them through the day, have
them to actually pay attention, and it It is one
of these things that's hard because like I go in
there and I'm a clown. I juggle, I do shit,
it doesn't matter. I could do anything. And I like
the kids because I'm kind of meeting them where they are.
I can the teacher at this point in the year
really can't. They've got to get you ready for whatever's next,
whether it be the next grade, the finals, whatever. You've
got to get these kids to a certain standard. And
that stuff is stressful and many teachers, many teachers also
have another job. So like there I know one that
teaches Jim and then on the weekends. She's a waitress. Yeah,
I know one that teaches first grade and she's been
doing it for over two decades. And she no, she uh,
maybe she did right now, she's doing instacart.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, a lot of teachers do that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so they go and she goes and and yes,
I mean, I understand what you're saying, because your day
is short. Look, I'm going in, I'm doing that. I'm
up here in the morning, I go, I do this,
I come back, I do this. But I'm I'm different.
I'm nuts in a nutting way, like I'll work all
the time. I don't care. Yeah, I know, Yeah, I
just I like playing kind of the same way. So
I don't have kids, though, so I can do that. Yeah. Yeah,
it's tough sometimes.
Speaker 3: Kevin reminds me of that. Yeah, but you know what
Danny has what time he's right.
Speaker 2: Danny also says, teacher suck. I never said that. I
never said that. Didn't say that. I know. But I
also think, like when the weather's bad too and you're
stuck inside, you start to find all the shit that
annoys you about your the other people around you too,
too loud. Right, It's almost like everything that you normally
look past. Yeah, oh god, it's right there a yeah.
We uh.
Speaker 3: We worked with a woman named Manda Valentine whom like,
if you were chewing your gum too loud in the studio,
she would like pick up on it, like she had
like dog ears for that, and she's like she would
not not me personally, but other people in the room
like moose. I guess he goes, Oh, yeah, Amanda yeld
at me the other day for chewing my gum too loud,
like she's got special ear, special hearing. You didn't know,
but yeah, when you're locked in those studio like for
you know, the door's closed, you get a hear weird stuff,
especially when you have headphones.
Speaker 2: Same thing.
Speaker 3: When you're at home, you get the two of you
or the three like my father used to get. So
he'd come home from the steel plants so high strung,
and if it were one of those days where nobody
could do anything, he'd be more angry because he was
always like, let's clean, well, damn, we already clean, let's
clean again. And if we weren't doing something, they're idle
bodies that he would get angry that nobody was working
but there was nothing to work on. It was like
the kiss of death. Oh it's raining out. We're in trouble.
Why we just are? Yeah, because you knew, right, yeah,
well do.
Speaker 2: You have to chew with your mouth open? We used to.
I used to be able to tell when my parents
turned onto our street.
Speaker 3: Can hear the vehicle?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I knew the sound like dogs like that.
Speaker 3: They hear that, the sound of that.
Speaker 2: And I would be like running, diving, Oh me too, whatever, Get.
Speaker 3: The vacuum, Get the vacuum. Butch's coming home.
Speaker 2: Get the vacuum.
Speaker 3: My sister and my brother are listening to this podcast.
They know exactly what I'm talking about. I'd have to
go meet him at the front door install to get
anybody in their positions. I told a story at his funeral.
You know that's the Jurassic Park where like the water's
sitting there in the car and.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it starts to rattle, right yeah. Uh.
Speaker 3: He would get like that and uh. My father had
to work special glasses because he was cross eyed as
a kid. So if he got into those moods, his
hands would curl up. His hands would curl up like
one of those Jurassic Park dinosaurs. I told this story
at his funeral and I'd tell my brother.
Speaker 2: Don't move. You can't see us if we don't move.
Speaker 3: It's based on moping. He kept walking around like if
something wasn't clear, or we didn't do something right, or
he turned into a Jurassic Park in BBDs, especially like
Christmas morning.
Speaker 2: Danny came in here tonight and he was like I
told him, he was an iPod shuffle of thoughts. He
was all over the place bing bing, bing, bing bing
bing bing. Yeah, I'm sorry, No, it's good, is it?
Speaker 3: We should have taped it.
Speaker 2: It was funny. It was funny to me. I just
started laughing. And then you see, I think you think
like I laugh at you. I don't. I just laugh
at how wound up you get, because then you did
say and we had talked about this on the previous
podcast that you were on, like two episodes ago, where
we talked about the diet and the East African diet
and how they ate a Western diet for two weeks
and like if you're called American, yeah, they gained basically
six pounds in two weeks. They each have overage average
and they had a lot of damage. And Danny's like,
I'm afraid to eat, and I knew.
Speaker 3: Everything's new, everything new, everything's poisoned in microplastics, hormonal disruptors.
Speaker 2: Okay, illumino, all right, all right, all right, okay, not
really afraid to eat everything. No, but that's a lot
in your head like this, this goes through.
Speaker 3: This is your like weight I gained on my birthday weekend?
Speaker 2: How much?
Speaker 3: Eight pounds? Damn dude, I've already dropped six of it.
Speaker 2: Okay, But like when you lose some good ship, you.
Speaker 3: Don't realize that, oh my gosh, it's over. I blew
my hole, like weight weight loss. It's like, no, Dan,
just calm the f down. Everything's gonna be okay. But
I have to like take extreme measures to lose that weight,
like eating one meal a day, or like really checking
the lays on stuff because for some reason, my body
doesn't process carbohydrates. I've taken the test, it just doesn't happen.
But the doctors don't give you any tips on how
to do that. That's why you go to YouTube, because
you're looking for answers.
Speaker 2: So he just roll in cross eyed. I'm fucking sorry, Danny,
but that was funny as fuck and explains nothing that's true.
Speaker 3: Well, because like we we you know, if he was
in a mood, you know, all of a sudden, he
couldn't Here's exactly Dad's I was.
Speaker 2: It always crossed this cross.
Speaker 3: As a kid. He had surgery to get it back
to No, but he couldn't see well. No, he had
to have special glasses. And which is weird because he
was a good looking dude, but he had glasses. Huh,
not the good looking people like you know, you can't
be good looking and have glasses. But what I forgot
to tell in the story was that usually was because
we lost the remote and if he couldn't find the remote,
he would turn into the Jurassic Park dinosaur defined and
we had. Or if you couldn't find the remote, I
would have to sit there by the television and change
the channels until Dad found something worth watching because all
the other kids would scatter, who's left Dan, Danny will
do it, Danny will fix it?
Speaker 2: Stop stop. I had a big ball posta before I
came here.
Speaker 3: Microplastics what No, I'm just saying this. The pasta could
have MI. Did you cook it in? Would you cook
it in?
Speaker 2: I cooked it in in a steel pod. Okay, good.
But I might have had a Teflon pop for the
sauce and meatballs where you got microplastics?
Speaker 3: See what I'm talking about?
Speaker 2: All right? But you get yourself all been out of shape.
If you look for something, you're gonna find it. I
know you're gonna find it. So why go What would
be better? What would be better? Laughing about your dad
or worrying about the microplastic?
Speaker 3: Right exactly?
Speaker 2: You know, laughing about butcherking it out of this right?
I'd buy these by the case. I think about it
once in a while. I mean the other day, you know,
I pissed out an entire bottle all plastic. I don't know.
Speaker 3: I think a lot of that stuff disrupts our chemistry,
you know, I mean, that's that's the big thing. But
then again I realize, okay, look, do you really want
to live here forever? Or do you want to go
meet Jesus Danny? So you know there's trade off. I know,
I'm all over the placeolog.
Speaker 2: Do you realize that you do that?
Speaker 5: Though?
Speaker 2: No, you don't.
Speaker 3: I've been diagnosed with a d D. If it's got
an acronym, it's not okay, I haven't fucker's LBG.
Speaker 2: I got what you were saying. That's what made me laugh.
Are you who diagnosed you?
Speaker 3: A psychologist? Friend?
Speaker 2: Doctor? Okay, what do you what are you doing?
Speaker 3: I've diagnosed myself.
Speaker 2: What do you do about it?
Speaker 3: Well? You I just a lot of the stuff, like
you don't want to, like rely upon medicaid and if
you don't have to. So I just remind myself, Dan,
this is what you are, not who you are? Do
I tell myself? And you know what, it really works.
It works. It's worked. That book, that book you gave
me actually was helpful to It.
Speaker 2: Is a very helpful book, right, because most of the
suffering is in our head, right, it's our thoughts that
we're running away from the very thing we need. But
we we we do you we we Everyone does what
you do to some extent. You may do it to
a greater extent than others, but you do. We all do.
And I understand that.
Speaker 3: But I'm pretty bad at it.
Speaker 2: I got you tell but look I was I'll tell
you this. I was never die. While I was as
an adult, I took a questionnaire with a doctor, like
a questionnaire and they go, you're ady, you're add and
so they gave me medication and it seemed adult everything,
and I stopped taking it. Like I had friends of
mine who I really very close with, this family growing up,
the Walshes, and they came in here and we did
a podcast. One of them still lives in Rochester and
one's in Texas. One's still down in Poughkeepsie, but they
were up here and we did a podcast. And the
girl who was the woman a woman, the girl, a
woman who was a year older than me or ahead
of me in school, goes you were so adhd. And
she had her best friend here who I used to
just torture on the school bus, but not in a
way you would think, like not being mean, not that
kind of stuff.
Speaker 3: Like friendly teasing. But they didn't know.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no no, I was teasing. But I
was teasing about soap operas. And I would make up.
I would make up because you watch soap opers and
they were talking about soap oper so I would make
up stories hmm, and I go, wait, oh my god,
do you see what happened? And then then I incorporate
their names into the stories and stuff. She once got
off the bus, she turned around and she put her
hands and her fistay, shut up, screaming, shut up, I.
Speaker 3: Just because you thought you're gonna spoil it.
Speaker 2: No, because I was torturing her about soap operas and
you know.
Speaker 3: Guiding because guiding light was always on.
Speaker 2: The covers when they start making out what happens when
people were in bed together, to get nervous, all these things,
and I was a year younger than them. I was awful.
But what I what I was going to say is
the best thing I think you can do for adhd
IF or a d HD or a d D or
a uh is. There is a kid who had a
T shirt once that has.
Speaker 3: The ADHD a CDC logo.
Speaker 2: Uh is. I would say some kind of repetitive exercise
almost every day, Like when I was running, I noticed
my grades, my concentration, everything went up. When I was
on the track team and sometimes I was more middle distance,
I'd have to go out and crank out eight to
ten miles, and I was great.
Speaker 3: Because you're focused, you can know how to manufacture your time.
Speaker 2: Well, it wasn't even manufacture your time. It was just
that repetitive thing. Whenever it did inside your body, it
burned off like this excess of energy and you actually,
and I think most people who work out like I'm
now to the point where I'm going. I got to
get up at five o'clock and go to the gym.
My alarm went off this morning, and I didn't get
out of bed until five point forty five. But you know,
five o'clock, get up and go to the gym.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean my father was a creature of routine too,
Like when he hurt his knee, he was about to
be promoted after thirty three years, he was like Sipowitz
and NYPD blew and he finally got the job to
be the chief. Oh, my father became a foreman. So
the day he's supposed to take the promotion, he ends
up tearing his acl or something. No, he was just
moving something and he couldn't work again. And that's somewhere
he went nuts. All of a sudden, he started like
drinking alcohol, he started smoking cigarettes, things that I never
see my father doing, like my twenty years of life,
and my fig goes, Danny, it's good for you to
see me like this guy. Don't you think I'm some
type of folk hero. This is what I used to
be before you were born. I go, so you want
so you want to go back to those days. No,
I'm just going through phase. But he had to have
a purpose, he had to have a routine, he had
to have something to do.
Speaker 2: This is phenomenal. Yeah, this is his story. I am
going to write a show called Silver.
Speaker 3: This is just one family. We were the dog, We
were considered like the normal people. We had we had dinner.
Speaker 2: We call it Pine Creek because I'm gonna incorporate some
stories from pine planes. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3: By the way, you want to hear a random story
about pine planes that I heard?
Speaker 2: What?
Speaker 3: You and I both have serious satellite radio h You
ever listened to YouTube channel? They had a guest DJ
who was from rhine Beck. Okay, I forgot her name,
and she said, I started listening to you two in
ninety one. I'm like, I wonder if Billy knows this girl.
Speaker 2: What's her name?
Speaker 3: Oh, gosh, Emily or something. I don't remember the last thing.
I didn't catch it. I couldn't rewind it. But I'm like,
oh my gosh, she might know Billy because she went
to rhine Beck.
Speaker 2: Yeah, rhyine Beck isn't.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well she was from rhine Beck.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's where my mother lives. Okay, all right, we
will take a moment.
Speaker 3: Sorry, that was a lot going on. Okay, I'm fine, dude.
Speaker 2: All right, do we do you want to talk about?
Let me see. Let me say I have several things
I'm going to give you. We could talk about new
slang and how people are trying to reclaim things and
how that is we can have we outsourced our personalities
to algorithms.
Speaker 3: Top Oh gosh, yeah, that's a big one.
Speaker 2: Or would you like to talk about is it ever
too late to start living your best love life? When
you talk about living a long time, there's somebody who
is says they're living their best love life?
Speaker 3: Gos, We're all intriguing topic.
Speaker 2: Album's love life you want to do? We will do
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Speaker 3: In the river, I could see why this song probably
didn't get on a record.
Speaker 2: I kind of like it, though, oh I do.
Speaker 3: I didn't say it was bad.
Speaker 2: It says, but well, here's the thing is, I think,
like a lot of a lot of artists have unreleased music.
I think Prince had a whole like catalog and stuff, right.
I think Bruce, who I'm pretty sure sold his catalog.
I just I'm pretty sure Bruce sold his and I
thought it was for like a record amount of money.
I thought he got over five hundred million something. But
he has albums unreleased albums like and he didn't think
this was good enough to go now. I don't know.
That's why I asked, like, why is this coming out?
Is it Bruce putting it out? Is it Sony saying, hey, man,
we paid you or whoever bought his catalog? And I
don't know who that is. I said, we paid you
nearly seven hundred million dollars, We're going to release this
other stuff and you've got to get behind it. I
don't know.
Speaker 3: Could be I could be part of the agreement. Remember
when who was who sold a bunch of old the Beatles?
I mean, I didn't didn't like McCartney sell the rights
to all of his stuff. He ain't Lennon's book stuff.
Speaker 2: I know Michael Jackson had. He had and then he
bought it back after Michael died.
Speaker 3: And I think they because at some point it's going
to go into the public domain and then everybody could
just use it for free. So everyone's gonna try to
cash in now while they can. Kiss sold all their stuff.
But part of the agreement is you got to like
promote it. I guess, I don't know, uh, but uh,
I mean, Bruce is gonna play until he dies, you know.
I gotta wonder if the Stones are selling their selling off.
Speaker 2: I haven't seen that. I don't know. Uh sell caog
all right. Bruce Springsteen sold it to Sony Music in
a deal worth over five hundred million, That's what I thought,
because most people were selling for two or three or
one hundred million. Yeah, it's pretty good. Yeah.
Speaker 3: A lot of times, like bands will like have records
songs that they want to put on a record, and
then they can't put it on the record. Well, back
in the old days, you can only fit like eight
songs on an entire album. Yeah, so there was a
lot more stuff like the people from Bruce, like Bruce
that had they held back versus by guys from bands
from the nineties. Around a CD, you could put more stuff,
or you could have a double CD issued, like Pearl
Jam said when they there were certain songs that they
put on soundtracks because they sounded too much like all
the other songs they had on their albums, so they
just put them out in soundtracks. They were just as big.
Speaker 2: Look at that. So, uh, all right, the question is
it ever too late to start living your best love
life or does society just want us to believe that.
Speaker 3: I think society wants us to believe a lot of things.
Speaker 2: Okay, I will, I will. This will take us in
a several different directions. But if I say this woman's name,
I'm not sure you're gonna know who it is. Diane
Cannon sounds familiar. Actress, she's eighty eight years old.
Speaker 3: To almost I think I could almost see her.
Speaker 2: She was OSCAR nominated. She was married to Carrie Grant
and had a child with Carry Grant. Okay, we'll get
to that in a little bit. Uh. And she just
did an interview at the Hollywood Beauty Awards, and she
says she's not only dating, but she's got several special
someone's friends with benefits. Oh she's eighty eight.
Speaker 3: Well there's no commitment. You're at that age. You don't
want to settle down.
Speaker 2: You want to know the friends with benefits at eighty
eight they collect those security? What the fuck is it?
Speaker 3: Maybe since maybe they're getting their service security back on that.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 2: Uh yeah, And I mean when you think, why do
we view love, sex or even situationships as a young
person's game in a sense, But situationships.
Speaker 3: You never heard that term. You never heard that term situationship.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a it's a newer social media.
Speaker 3: In other words, it's like it's complicated.
Speaker 2: In a situationship kind of sort of let me see
your penis. I don't know, yeah, something like that. I
think a lot of people are now in situationships.
Speaker 3: Yeah. But there's a video of like something that happened
a couple of weeks ago at a local bar where
a guy's got his arm around to check. I think
I talked about this.
Speaker 2: Oh he was making out with somebody else.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, she was making and the dude with the
camera looks at the other guy goes, what the that
sounds like a situationship?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean Diane Catti's got more action than eighty
eight than most of us did, probably like in college
or something like that. She's not in retirement, daddy, She's
in refirement baby.
Speaker 3: Who Yeah, well at that age you could you could
get that fire back in many ways, I think a
lot of in a lot of cases. Well, Jennifer Goodrich, right,
she played Stiffler's mom. Because of that, she all of
a sudden started having relations with the younger guys because
it was cool it was to be with Stifler's mom,
and she went along with it because she goes, I'm
not gonna get this kind of Why don't she said this?
But she may have been thinking, I'm not gonna get
this kind of attention anywhere else. I think you're Diane Cannon.
You might be eighty eight, but you're still Diane Cannon. Right,
So guys who remember Diane Cannon probably want to live
out of fantasy. It may not be the Diane Cannon
of nineteen fifty five, No, no, no, but it's Diane Cannon, right.
Speaker 2: Like Rakel Welch, I saw something since you just say
this nineteen fifty five, I saw you know how this
is really funny? You know how they Maybe you did
it in your house in Silver Creek mark the height
of the kids. Yes, on a wall and you can't
see how brother does that? Yeah, yeah, somebody did it
with their droopy.
Speaker 3: Boobs nineteen twenty four.
Speaker 2: I fucking love that.
Speaker 3: Thirty one.
Speaker 2: I go, that's really funny. I had not seen that.
Speaker 3: You've heard, you've heard of I've seen the cartoon of people.
Speaker 2: This was someone actually doing it on Take time me
laugh because let me just go back again. Misogynistic, toxic masculinity,
that's me.
Speaker 3: I hate that term.
Speaker 2: I do too, because it's not true.
Speaker 3: Society being trying to push a five boys and I
guess what they're fighting back and good.
Speaker 2: I'm glad Diane Canna's gonna do a video Golden Girls,
Gun Wild Platinum. When you think eighty eight, look, I
can't imagine I did. I mean, my parents are my
dad will be eighty, my uncle is eighty one, his brother,
my aunt is going to be eighty. I can't imagine
them still getting it on. But I would think if
I was there, I'd want to still get it on.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, probably don't think, of course. And yeah, that's
why that's why it's so hard because one could do that,
women can't necessarily do that.
Speaker 2: So then there's like hormone replacement stuff. But I'm starting
to think, because you know, you're warned about side effects
of things, that's why, like under a doctor's care, like
your friend that we had in here, I think even
for women could probably be okay, because I don't know,
I mean, does it still feel good after menopause? I
have no idea, But this again is where and I
said this, and I don't know if you were here
or not, but I asked I might have been Mark,
if you could go back and go would you take
like a sex class from a sex therapist? Would you
just I don't know, up your game a little bit
or just have more knowledge because there's nothing like does
this feel good? I know you're like this, you know
what I'm saying. It's like at any age, I'm sure
even at nineties my tentures.
Speaker 3: It turned to Dane Cook special Well, was that he
did that whole bit you like that?
Speaker 2: I didn't know.
Speaker 3: I never thought he was that funny, but he like
a whole like the early two thousands, Yeah, he was big.
College women like loved him. The guys would go along
with it because he was like that sophomoric type of humor,
right right, But it wasn't like stand up. It was
more I don't know how to explain story storyteller. I thought, Yeah,
he was okay, we did a whole bit. We're like, hey,
like two guys a guy to girl getting Do you
like that?
Speaker 2: Do you like that to feel good? You like that?
Speaker 6: Now?
Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying, like, even at eighty eight,
maybe there's things you don't like or whatever. Could you
go take a cla And I know it sounds ridiculous
and almost embarrassing, but I'm like, maybe you should do that.
So when if you wound up in that situationship that
could become a relationship you know what you're doing?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean like with zoom, I think you could
do that or teams or whatever.
Speaker 2: Yes, you could do it where you don't have to
go somewhere. Yes, right, I mean from the kind of
lube works best. Yeah. Right? Do I need to lose
my finger or whatever? Uh, you get the idea. Here's
the interesting thing about Diane Cannon. Diane Kennon was married
to Carry Grant. She married she met Carry Grant when
she was twenty five.
Speaker 3: By the way, Carrie Grant, when they say who's buried
in Grant's to him, it is Carry Grant that they're
referring to. Oh okay, that was from the Golden Girls.
Rose was on Jeopardy and she beat Dorothy because Dorothy said,
who was Ulysses s Grant? Alex said, no, it's Carry Grant,
Carry Grant. It was fifty eight she met him. She
was twenty five, he was fifty eight. And back then,
like back then nowadays, that's that's that's that's May December.
Back then they had to be like like BC A.
Speaker 2: D I guess okay, all right, okay. She married him
when he was sixty one and she was twenty eight,
and they had a child together. Child is now probably
sitting year sixty herself. I think David Spade. I think
David Spade, I'm not sure, has a stand up bit
about dating. Somebody does, Somebody in that Adam Sandler group,
and I thought it was Spade has a bit about dating.
Carrie Grant's daughter going to the house and the door
opening up, well, hello, come on it, like so, Diane Cannon,
look there it's a thirty three year age gap. Thirty
three year age gap wild and she said it was
like a whirlwind romance. And she's done that mini series.
It's called Archie. I don't know if anybody's watched it.
It's about Carrie Grant's life. She wrote a book where
she said a lot of nasty things about Carrie. She said,
like he would what led to the divorce more or
less was he would follow her around and say, why
is there not a coaster underneath your glass? How come
this is still a mess? Pull yourself together? You know
you're starting to put on some way, Darling gas.
Speaker 3: So it's like yes, but Jurassic Triassic Cretaceous.
Speaker 2: It's like yeah, and I don't know what.
Speaker 6: Uh.
Speaker 2: But she looks back now, she said, after healing from
the divorce, and she got married. I think again, But
so did Carrie. Oh wow. After the divorce he married
a woman named Jennifer. Jennifer I believe was thirty three.
Carrie Grant was seventy seven.
Speaker 3: Forty four years Holy cow, that's like my entire lifetime.
Speaker 2: Your entire life, Yes, between two people. And I go, boy,
you got an age that you like. I guess that's
the age you like.
Speaker 3: Well, it's like Leo DiCaprio, he's probably going to continue
to do this or or Okay, here's a great one.
Speaker 2: Mick Jagger.
Speaker 3: Doesn't Mic Jagger date in the same age group. Still,
Uh yeah, yeah, didn't Pacino just knock up some chick
a few years ago. He's like in her twenties.
Speaker 2: It's weird though, Carrie Grant, And she said, Carrie Grant
was like just charismatic and charming, and you were just
in awe of this man. And then somebody, I know,
you get to know him a little bit, and uh,
who's that?
Speaker 1: Me?
Speaker 2: What the fuck is he?
Speaker 6: Know?
Speaker 2: See, would have been better if I went out Dan,
he didn't have to mention it. But I'm right here,
I'm sitting right here, man. But yeah, she said that
he was like just this charming thing. But imagine she goes,
he was older than my dad. Imagine her saying, I
want you to meet and then I'm gonna, could you
fucking imagine to meet your uncle?
Speaker 3: We think about that.
Speaker 2: I mean, what you're doing? What I mean? And she
said her mother like just was in love with Carrie,
So of course it was okay.
Speaker 3: He probably knew how to schmooze her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Cary Grant was very debonair, and.
Speaker 3: Yeah, the old man was probably a little he's.
Speaker 2: A Hollywood led to me. Yeah, oh god, yeah, I
mean you're basically it's a child. Wow.
Speaker 3: We worked with the guy that a few of the
young girls over at the station love too. We worked
with a guy I'm not gonna say who, but like
you wouldn't even approach it. But they were like kind
of like hitting on him, and he was like, I'm
not going there. Sorry, I'm not doing it. You're way
too young. I'm not doing that.
Speaker 2: Do you know who? Come on, I'm stumped.
Speaker 3: I'll tell you after. But yeah, there were a couple
of lady. Yeah, there were a couple of girls who
were in sales.
Speaker 2: Who oh wait, hang on, yeah, kind of you know.
I don't even know if that's really real. Oh I
think so, na, not so sure. But there was about
a twenty five year gap. Yeah, but I don't think
that that was real. Oh I think it was na.
I know, I know, Okay, I would have too, Okay,
but I think there was more flirtation and getting the
reaction of the attention. There was, oh imever ongoing through
with it.
Speaker 3: I didn't think that was the case, I'm sure they
enjoyed it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think so.
Speaker 3: It'd be flattering at that age to receive that kind
of like aotension.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, the guy would also do things like got
a date and then he to find out that they
canceled out him. Oh I didn't know that part.
Speaker 3: Oh I didn't know that, damn it. Oh well, okay,
I stay a correct accounselor objection over rule.
Speaker 2: Yeah. What would happen if your if your sister had
brought home at twenty five years old a fifty eight
year old.
Speaker 3: Man and butch was still alive. Yeah, oh gosh, he'd
be weirded out by it. I think I think he'd
be weirded out because at that point he would have
been older than my father, and my father was from
a generation where they still tooking black and white photographs,
So that would have been real strange. I mean, he's
now he'd be looking at a guy who's basically remembers
what the horse and buggy was like. Okay, but he
was a kiddihawk when the Wright brothers decided to take flight.
I mean that's that that my father would have. I
think my father would have an issue with that.
Speaker 2: He really father wouldn't.
Speaker 3: But at the same time, though, if it'd be one thing,
if my sister like prepared him for it and then
he got skeptical and you ter get the guy. It's
I don't think if it sprung upon you.
Speaker 2: A retired star of the Buffalo Bills like fru Smoles. Yeah, yeah,
let's say it was somebody who is success. Okay, let's
say it.
Speaker 3: Okay, sure, no, like like, I think he would have
been less skeptical, Yeah, because he would have the idea
of the psychological idea that he quote knows yes the.
Speaker 2: Person right, right. And I wondered the same thing with
like carry grant. You know, bring home a fifty eight
year old guy you think you know them? Yes, and
he's all well dressed.
Speaker 3: And got a mascot. That's right, I mean because that
generation if you watch one of those movies that are
on tc A t M, see they all speak very
prim and proper. Yes, they all talk like this. Yes,
it's like it's not English or British, but it's like
that classic American.
Speaker 2: I think he was British. I think his mother was
from Britain or.
Speaker 3: Was he Okay, so he probably had a little accent.
Speaker 2: We'll take a moment and I will give you a
new slang that's shaking up social media.
Speaker 3: Good for Diane Cannon.
Speaker 2: Diane Cannon eighty eight, still getting it on. I'm just saying, hey,
you know, I used to do a horrible joke internet joke.
It's a joke I got off the Internet and then
it was I was doing stand up with the late
screech Dustin Diamond. Oh yeah, rest in peace, Dustin Diamond,
and I had dropped this joke from my act because
it was a hack joke. It was just horrible and
it was pretty gross. But I used to go, you
know it, well, what is it? What's the joke.
Speaker 3: About having relations with an old lady? Yeah, it's like
pulling apart a grilled cheese sandwich.
Speaker 6: There it is.
Speaker 2: That's it. And he did that joke on stage and
I was like, who good thing. I didn't do that,
but didn't go over well, no, he it was just
that he did it. Like you know what I'm saying,
I don't want to do RAUNCHI materia. That's why it's
usually good to be fairly clean. Yes, let them. Let
let whoever's headlining be the raunch right, you know. And
last they're really clean and they go, yeah, be as
filthy as you want. But it's usually a.
Speaker 3: Lot of Hollywood actors who try comedy can't do comedy.
Like David Keckner was terrible. I remember when he came
to town.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he was awful.
Speaker 3: Just wasn't fun. He just did lines from like his
movies and stuff like being packer on the office or
doing like the Anchorman stick.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: You know, but I remember a story about Screech and
I remember when he died. I texted Tommy, I go,
do you remember when I Screech died? I go, do
you remember we had him in the studio? He goes, yeah,
both because you guys had him on before with Louiez.
And I said, remember when he told Billy there was
no way to monetize a podcast? Yeah, and he goes, yeah,
what a check ass, Because if there was anybody who
could do a podcast and monetize it, it's that dude
telling all the stories. You're saved by the bell huge, No.
Speaker 2: You can't monetize it.
Speaker 3: And you like actually started almost yelling at him.
Speaker 2: Probably remember this in the studio.
Speaker 3: You were at us.
Speaker 2: We'll get into a new slang that is shaking up
social media. People trying to reclaim the word or are
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Talented yeah there's a slang word that's been shaking up,
social media the. WORD dan i don't think you've heard,
of It but i'll see if you have.
Speaker 3: Sizzle bop, Uh yeah i've, heard it but probably not
in the context that you're.
Speaker 2: Referring, to okay what do you what do?
Speaker 3: You? Say bop is bopping mean like having relations with somebody?
Speaker 2: He's? Popping yeah, well yeah we used to.
Speaker 3: Say, that, yeah Yeah, FRIEND tommy i think he's, bopping.
Speaker 2: Yeah okay? Popper okay or bopping yourself, yeah yeah or bopping.
The bologney yeah, right right that was. The phrase or
was it bopp in? THE bologney i think it was
the boy, Hearing sucks so who knows The, Bo yeah
so that that is exactly what bop. Bop is, and
uh it is just FUNNY that i think a lot
of times we uh hear words and aren't. Really sure
so this slang and sometimes there's la la Bob And
La la bob was. A, song no it was making
fun of a Girl in california for her. Body count
they Were going la, La Bob la la bob and
like it to kind of. WHOLE thing i don't know
and originated from the early two. Thousand SLANG but i
remember bop in terms of bop in FROM when.
Speaker 3: I was a, kid yeah maybe it's one of THOSE
retro i, don't, know flags like if we brought back
the phrase, living, Large, Right.
Speaker 2: Yeah so they talked to somebody From the University of
sydney who was a. Media, expert okay down under, we
go and they, just go it's a prime example of
how misogyny finds new. Digital DISGUISES and i can't say
that that's necessarily wrong as MUCH as, I like, i,
go oh, come on BUT then, i, think wow it's
all about body count and and, slut shaming and we
don't usually do that, with guys at least not a
lot of, the guys at LEAST when i. Was young it, was, like,
hey man the.
Speaker 3: Only difference between a stud and a slutter.
Speaker 2: Two letters, Yeah EXACTLY and i think that that but that's,
the thing and still to. This day so now some
women have decided to reclaim, the term and they Even Have.
Bob house it's a collective of young influencers flipping the
term and embracing their brand. And identity Is The. BOB
house i think there are adult stars and they Have The.
Bob house, oh yeah, all, right yeah so parents are
panicking about bob and their kids are online monetizing, slut
shaming and it's Like The shark tank. Only fans here's
the THING that i always wonder when people say we're
taking back that word or we're taking back that.
Speaker 3: There's certain words in society that certain cultures or subcultures
have quote taken back, and that and there are some
that we can't say even on.
Speaker 2: This, podcast, Okay okay i'm okay not. Saying that, I'm
okay i'm okay. WITH them i understand the sentiment. Behind,
it yeah but in, this CASE, THE bop, i say
are you trying to reclaim a term that is used to?
Slutshame somebody or are you TRYING to i, don't know
commoditize your commoditize make money Off.
Speaker 3: Your yeah the attention the. Attention, industry, like yes attention
is the, new information which is the. New oil right
like information was supposedly the new oil if you struggle it,
like now so like that's why when you have your
Smartphone or alexa in, your house if, you SORRY if
i set off your safe word in, your house if You,
have alexa my wife. HAS it i, hate it but
you know that now, like attention attention is now. Another
industry it's a cottage Industry where i'm the main CHARACTER
and i can make money just, be me which is
the laziest thing in. The world but but it's but
it's a it's an industry if you do, it right
if you do, it correct if you do.
Speaker 2: It RIGHT because i would make the argument and people
get very upset with Me, the kardashians what do? They
do what do? They DO and, i go they actually,
Work hard they Actually work they had something that people
were interested in and they and they ran with it
and they made. It work because how many other people
have tried reality shows of that type and haven't.
Speaker 3: Worked Well paris hilton was the first to do what,
she did and Then the kardashians took it to a
whole level, other, STRATOSPY.
Speaker 2: Right i mean, they however they, did it they did.
It right and that is a lot. OF work, i
mean it's not the, you know it's not digging, ditch
work but. It's Work like i've.
Speaker 3: Heard People Compare chris Jenner To. Bill Belichick now i'm, Not, joking,
yeah sure like the strategy strategized in, marketing yeah, Her, daughters, YEAH.
Speaker 2: Right i mean talk about reclaiming something you reclaim the.
SEX tape i don't know if it's if if it's
a time sick pr but it's.
Speaker 3: Certainly well the story was that she watched both they
did two, sex Tapes that kim AND ray j did two,
sex tapes and she watched both of them like she
was breaking. Down film i'm not making. This up you
could look. This up and, She, said okay go with this.
TAPE instead i think that's the. Better tape And As
rob low, has explained you take this tape to a
certain Lawyer, in hollywood who then somehow releases it to
the right person and then, you.
Speaker 2: Go oh, MY gosh i can't believe his. Videos, out
yeah he said This.
Speaker 3: To oprah robo said This, to oprah and all of
a sudden it becomes a, huge thing right because he
got caught.
Speaker 2: On, it well but he got.
Speaker 3: Caught, though yes that was, it's intention though that fell
into the. Wrong hands this is a situation where ever, since.
Speaker 2: Then, like well this is. THE keys I Think tommy
Lee and PAMs was. ACCIDENTAL too i think so that
was guys working on the house or building the house
and moving a safe and they got in there and
they saw the tape and they did what.
Speaker 3: Guys, Did yeah hulu did a whole thing. On it but,
BUT yeah, i Mean But rob, loo said since those incidents,
have happened and now all of, a sudden you have
a lawyer law there's a dude that people go to
to get this whole thing on.
Speaker 2: The roll on.
Speaker 3: The road and it worked out For. The Kardashians And
ryan seacrest also knew, them too and he's THAT was
i think they were his first shown his production company
when He Became ryan's seacrest and so then that took
off to. Another level So, but boppin they're.
Speaker 2: Taken, back boppin they're taking back the word bop bop
RIGHT because i asked my kid and it's one of these, things,
like yeah you're basically it's your. Body count it's a
Slut SHAME and i GO because, i said and? What's bop?
Because why.
Speaker 3: See that's usually a question that the kid asked the
parent and the, parent goes, why no usually You.
Speaker 2: Know jameson jameson was WHY and, i SAID because i
wonder what. It means it means. A slut, i, said,
okay yeah but, it's, weird like how do you have
that conversation with.
Speaker 3: Your kid oh so she's. A bop it's not, a verb, it's.
Speaker 2: Yeah or she's about it's meant to be that she's, a,
slut right which is. Just bad and by, the way
let me just say, something first.
Speaker 3: The, internets, forever folks let me stick up for sluts
for just. A, minute okay the world.
Speaker 2: Needs sluts it. Just does what the world needs now is,
a good. Nasty slut you want the Nasty dirty instagram?
Speaker 3: Is, available, yeah.
Speaker 2: Slut do you want? The slut sluts are. Good people,
they're giving, they're loving, they're caring they're giving. Of, themselves
right they're not, charging you they're yeah that, you, say
lovely you have a nice evening with. A.
Speaker 3: Slut yeah but they've done studies now on people who
are an, only fans women who are only fans. And,
stuff well, that's different, is? It though if you're monetizing your.
Speaker 2: That's monetizing i'm talking about just to just say a
bop and we're. Not monetizing and let's say it's a
woman who's been divorced or. Or widowed as, we, heard
uh we heard. The wind we heard the widow term
last Night from matt you get around is that's necessarily bad.
For her it would be rude to call her of
the person a bop if a guy. Did it nobody
says anything but she's. A bop but in, a way
if you heard at a certain she's, a bop, you
go let me buy. Her drink see.
Speaker 3: What happen there's always somebody thinking that That's what.
Speaker 2: I'm saying, you know, you know and if she's, a
bop here's the. Other thing here's, Another thing fellows that
you need to know about. The sluts she ain't. Sticking
around it's not.
Speaker 3: A headache not.
Speaker 2: A headache she got the reputation because there's a lot body.
Counts high that means she. PROBABLY leaves.
Speaker 3: I go Back To Rick Flair. Jersey Folks rick, flair's
documentary he did two. Of them he didn't like the
ONE he espn did, on it so he did his
Own on hancock because he didn't like THE way espn made.
Him look even though everybody on the documentary was told
to be Honest About, rick flair and they Asked, her
flair how many women have you? Been with he, goes
thousands and, he goes ain't? That terrible and then, he
goes that's not a. Happy thought and that's a guy
who WOULD like, i mean he his whole brand is
styling and profiling. And, EVERYTHING yeah, I mean i just
can't imagine when you get to a certain point in
your life looking back and, thinking that, you know looking back,
and go yeah that.
Speaker 6: Was.
Speaker 2: All oh i've heard other PEOPLE say I wish i did. That, more,
REALLY yeah I wish i was a little freer. With
myself i'm not saying one is right. OR wrong i
just think that that's.
Speaker 3: The WAY but i think we get emotionally wrapped up
in those who we think we do, we yes so somebody.
Speaker 2: Usually does. You know some people can look at it
as forgive me, mutual masturbation and other people put a
lot of heart and soul, into it and those are
the ones that. Get hurt but there are sometimes the
ones that have a high body count because they give
them themselves, so much you. Know whatever the only. THING
was i just do WONDER when i hear the thing
like we're going to reclaim that, word BOP and, i
go are you or are you just gonna monetize someone off?
Of it make the bob house and it's, our word
because nobody's gonna stop calling, you bob but they're gonna
pay to watch you in your.
Speaker 3: Bob house it's a big people at the top of
the pyramid are gonna make the money and everybody else
is going to try to, do it and all they
gonna do is get a. Bad reputation have.
Speaker 2: You like there's all these trends and words like the.
Word bop it's a slang term that it's all over.
The internet have you ever seen These get Ready with? Me,
Videos no you've.
Speaker 3: Never seen That get Ready?
Speaker 2: With, me yeah it's a lot of times.
Speaker 3: You just like getting ready for your day and taping
it and pulping people take interest.
Speaker 2: In, it yeah you talk to people as they. Do
it you didn't. Know this i've been thinking about doing it.
GET ready i think doing like cooking videos. Was lame get,
All Right so i'm going to have my soup get
ready with me to go to, billifid right something. Like
that but there's a lot of times it's women Through. Fairport,
By hey i'm going on a date and they'll put
on their makeup and. THEY talk i met, this guy,
you Know and i'm. Not sure I'm little never like they.
Just talk it's Called get Ready. With, me well this
is A get Ready with ME that i just. Absolutely
love this is my Favorite get Ready with? Me ever here.
We go you ready.
Speaker 6: By ninety? FIFTH birthday i can't. Believe it my party
starts in ten MINUTES and i am rushing because my
ex called me and said happy birthday. To me never
never talk to your ex on. YOUR birthday i learned
that lesson at. NINETY five i can't Believe that i'm.
Speaker 2: Ninety five that's CRAZY and i feel like.
Speaker 6: TWENTY five I think i'm the oldest girl on this
app halfie birthday, To me i'm gonna wear my party.
Air rings let me show you my, birthday.
Speaker 2: Asked this is. My birthday this is exactly What get
Ready with me videos. Are like.
Speaker 6: It's going to mess my air.
Speaker 3: Litl the Name.
Speaker 6: Get Ready with me for my ninety.
Speaker 2: Fifth birthday, gr Yeah get ready with me for my
ninety Fifth, Birth no i've never. Seen those you've never. Seen,
them no you're not, On TikTok, No dan you're missing
out on the. Whole world there's all kinds. Of communications
chinese don't need to know where money you're. Talking about
everybody knows where. You are i'm going to tell you
something that happened. Last night listen to. Me closely they
probably listen closely. To. Me listen somebody in here, brought
up Probably Me josh allen's. Ex, Girlfriend, Oh. BRITTANY brittany
i didn't know, Her, name williams did not know, her
name britt will, HANG on i did not know, her
name couldn't come up, with IT and i just said
how money can change the entire look of, a person
like she came a few. Extra lbs not not, you
know unattractive, at all, not unattractive but she WAS certainly
i thought She. WAS wyoming i wouldn't have Put. Her
california but So, then mark Who's All things, gossip says
says that, he hears he Hears the the rumor is
that she didn't hang out with, the wives, your girlfriends
but she would bring her own friends in and would
treat everybody. Very snobbishly she was just. A, snob okay
as time went on that that that according to Gossip
columnist Mark, The, soldier MARK would i think we have
To see gussip With. THE mark i think, About it
so you Know what?
Speaker 3: I'm, hearing.
Speaker 2: Yes EXACTLY so i put out like a promo because
we didn't turn the WE we i used to. Term
we it. WAS me i did not put the cameras
on life. LAST night I thought, i did switching, cameras
around watching all the stuff on him on her ill,
look good? Look Great uh so, THIS today i throw
one up. On TikTok that's a Quote from mark Referring.
To BRITTANY but i didn't know. HER name i look
over my suggested Follows. On instagram, Will YEAH so, i,
go wait?
Speaker 1: Is that let?
Speaker 2: Me see So then i'm Looking and i'm looking THROUGH and,
I go i can't tell because she's SORT of i,
forgive me but she looks like every super attractive rich chick. These,
Days right she's an attractive she just looks like every.
RICH girl i Go To, Park, city utah and they
all look. Like That it's i've. Seen It so i'm
like the boots, and yeah well all, of it all of,
the hair. The makeup, you know there's a couple of.
Spots something the way you just look somebody description reminded me.
Of somebody no nobody, would know somebody from. Back. Home,
Okay yeah And so i'm looking, at IT and, I
go i think This Is josh allen's, ex GIRLFRIEND and
i type in Who Is josh allen's? Ex girlfriend and
then they, came UP and, i go oh, my god
tell me the devices. AREN'T listening i. Get sick WE
never i never said her name. LAST night i can't
think that that's a coincidence.
Speaker 3: OUT here i want to go to mine and see
if she. Pops, UP yeah i. UNFOLLOWED her.
Speaker 2: I don't i never, followed HER and i still don't. Follow.
HER quack i just went to LOOK because, I go,
I think i think that's his. Ex GIRLFRIEND then. I
couldn't i. COULDN'T remember.
Speaker 3: I don't know where you get, suggestive. FRIENDS though, I
mean i think you have to scroll for a while
before you find some. Suggestive, FRIENDS no i thought it.
Speaker 2: Came, UP oh i was posting something and it came
up to. The right, oh OKAY well i was posting
Something on, Instagram anyway.
Speaker 3: But actually one of your promos. Came, up yeah oh,
my gosh.
Speaker 2: Shut up it's the promo from last Night with mark talking. About,
it yeah she was, Hanging, out now what the?
Speaker 3: Players wise she's pretting your old girlfriends at town hanging out,
with him a big Snobby everybody Mark the soldier every
fifteen minutes with the. Gossip report he's Like The mike
sedoni of The. Of, billifider yeah, you know it's.
Speaker 2: So okay so maybe you're.
Speaker 3: Right man maybe MAYBE because i because you just brought,
that up and all of, a sudden what pops up On.
My instagram it Is weird Mark the soldier talking.
Speaker 2: About it it could, be uh it could, be COINCIDENCE
but i. Don't.
Speaker 3: Know, yeah, well well so the story is that if
There's A. Wi, fi well let's put it. This WAY
so i have an apartment and, our neighbors, you know
Run The wi fi and they Have, the internet and
we pay one price. For everything and so if somebody's
looking up like mops, or whatever like on the, Other house,
i'm like WHY am i getting ads from mops and,
BEING oh i was looking up mops for for. My
floor but it all runs through The Same. Wi fi
so like if mac is looking up stuff like tax
or nails and stuff and you get ads, for those
it's not because you looked it UP or i. Looked
up it all comes from like whoever's looking up stuff
Through The? WI Fi A wi. Fi service it's not necessarily.
The phone they want you, TO think i. DON'T know
i don't either Find out.
Speaker 2: And a lot of times when you talk, about something that's.
Speaker 6: What.
Speaker 3: Happens, yes Well, Now alexa Bezos and amazon are saying
that now they're selling all, your information all. Of it
there's they're not even denying, it anymore like they just
they're just recording.
Speaker 2: The, time.
Speaker 3: Yea my conversations with my wife about. Her, day hey you,
know what you need? A drink?
Speaker 2: Ding dong amazon's here with ye, all right we'll take Them,
Moment dan have we outsourced our personalities?
Speaker 6: To?
Speaker 2: ALGORITHMS oh i. HOPE not i will explain what this
big tech living is like AND why i SAY that
i have a theory, About, That billy i'm sure. You
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Speaker 3: A kiss from A strange a?
Speaker 2: Thousand thirty this Is New elton John With. Brandy Carlisle
but i'm watching. The video it's all old Footage, of
elton like going back to when he was. Going bald but.
Speaker 3: He's got to be selling the catalog soon.
Speaker 6: You.
Speaker 3: GO soon i guess like they.
Speaker 2: Have this kind of turned into everybody's. Favorite.
Speaker 3: Ass, yeah well He And brandy carlile have this, partnership
now were like he Had Had. Bernie taupin she's like
writing lyrics and he's writing music around them and. They're
collaborating they did a whole SPECIAL on Cbs on sunday
with it.
Speaker 2: THIS week i think, So yeah god DAMN it? I
missed HOW did?
Speaker 3: I missed might find It. ON paramount i wanted to,
watch it but my wife wasn't in the mood to,
watch IT so i changed. The CHANNEL.
Speaker 1: What i was just not?
Speaker 3: INTO it i JUST thought i was curious? About it?
Why is why HAVE am i? A?
Speaker 2: CLOUD do i? Amuse? You yes. It's, okay yes you
fucking abused the ship out of. ME today i didn't
watch it because. My wife why just don't? Watch it
then go back and? Watch, IT yeah i could do.
That Beer alton john's. Super talented, my god what to?
Tell it? You know it was.
Speaker 3: A savant every one of his fingers was Insured by
Lloyd's of london for a million.
Speaker 2: Dollars, each oh here's what do? You?
Speaker 1: Want stop.
Speaker 3: Funny Thing is i've. Heard stories i've Never seen elton.
In CONCERT and i remember once sitting Down With. Steve
tasker we are at a Dinner And steve tasker was
talking about the Difference Between billy Joel And elton john were,
touring together and he said the differences between, the performances and,
He Said billy joel is not The Musician elton, john
is but he's five times. The Entertainer billy joel puts on.
A Show elton john. Can't entertain that's why he's gotta
wear the outfits and. The glasses but he's got, no
Showmanship Where billy joel is. All, Showmanship okay i'm asking
you because you've probably have seen both, Of. These guyston
I've Seen billy JOEL'S like ms, concert.
Speaker 2: Special Saw The Billy. Elton, john yeah they had the. Dueling,
PIANOS yeah I wish.
Speaker 3: I did then they had a falling out and then
they asked about it each about it and they didn't
know what it. Was about they just had a. Falling,
out yeah it was more of a, miscommunication thing and.
THEY decided i think at one point they were going
to go back, on TOUR but i don't think.
Speaker 2: It, happened, no, WOW oh i did not know that.
At All But billy.
Speaker 3: Joel, IN concerts i guess. IS hystericus i Have seen
elton's just he's just performing, the songs but he's all
dressed up in a funny outfit because he it looks
like back in.
Speaker 2: The seventies he did put on, A SHOW but i.
Don't know he. MAY have i. DON'T know i didn't
get to see any of. THAT stuff i asked This
Because elton john super talent and the personality to wear
and pull off, those outfits the Diamond studded dodger's outfit
or the sequence study, that time Yeah Outfit billy joel
kind of just being That long island guy, leather jacket almost,
fifties style like, you, know yeah, Du wop it's on him.
For sure but there are PERSONALITIES and I and i
look at things NOW and i try, to go. We're everything, everybody's.
Personality everybody everybody who's, done anything uh started out doing
it by mimicking. Somebody else, Oh yeah and you can
tell it, in comedy you can tell it on radio
to a. Certain extent you could probably tell IT, on
tv all kinds. Of it just like that's a derivative Of,
or hey you idolize so and so and and and
there's nothing wrong. With THAT but i start, to, think
like are we still making real choices in our life
or is big tech? Taking over and THE reason i
say that is you brought, up well we talked about
the phones listening, to US but i would, even, say
like if you're on a dating app the, suggestions yet
is it really some you KNOW what, I mean like
you suggest it's suggested, to you and shows you watched
they're suggested to you based on what you've. Watched previously
SO it's ai making a decision based on decisions you.
Previously MADE and, I go i'm not sure if, they
like do you want your type curated?
Speaker 6: For?
Speaker 2: You yeah do you understand make in? Any?
Speaker 3: SENSE yes i call it the delusion, of choice not
the illusion, of ches the delusion, of choice the delusion
being you think you have, the choice because. You don't
you want to have the choice of the.
Speaker 2: Choice right and YOU and i are old enough to
remember life. Before, algorithms yes before there was any of.
THIS stuff i mean it's algorithm driven everything now in terms,
Of STUFF and i mean you think now you get Things, like, Spotify,
TikTok netflix even. DATING apps i don't know what?
Speaker 3: Is?
Speaker 2: IT bumble i heard somebody talk, About.
Speaker 3: Bumble, bumble tender plenty, of, Fish.
Speaker 2: Hinge, yeah yeah what?
Speaker 6: Is? It?
Speaker 2: Okay uh it just makes. ME laugh i was On.
Speaker 3: Bumble okay single.
Speaker 2: Was that one that you ask? People women you Try.
Speaker 3: To yeah you try to, match up but they have
to make the. First move it empowers, the women Does,
it yes, so, supposedly, yeah yeah.
Speaker 2: Because, they, go, look man sometimes people are trying to,
reinvent themselves not, reinvent themselves but rediscover, right marriage, life,
choices changes, career, pivots, whatever kids life. Goes on and
now you're you're kind of standing there and you're trying
to go get back out in, the world so. To
speak and everything is sort of an, algorithm now And
if i'm not in, your Algorithm then i'm not going to.
See YOU and i think that's kind of a weird way.
Speaker 3: TO live, I mean i'm a recruiter And, in LinkedIn
and we're subject to the, algorithm too and we've actually
put in the same information, at work all, of us the,
same information find the same. Bad candidates all our lists.
Were different so it's a matter of just getting lucky
and finding the right person who wants to respond and
actually take the take, the role go through. The process It's,
very yeah.
Speaker 2: Everything's, algorithm, well okay so here's more OF my i
don't know how what how you would categorize, this QUESTION
BUT i i think it is one that will make.
People think at least it's one that's been rolling around in.
My head for a couple. Of weeks how can you
have any growth in yourself if your algorithm reflects back
to you your current state of mind twenty four. To seven.
Speaker 3: That's a. Great question you're living in your own personal echo,
chamber exactly.
Speaker 2: Because what i'm saying, is like if you're looking for,
personal growth if you want to break out of whatever
slump you feel like, you're, In whatever.
Speaker 3: You're not going to do that if you keep listening
and seeing this. Exactly exactly BUT if i were a
conservative or a LIBERAL and i only watched liberal or conservative,
YouTube videos i'm only going to be fed one side of.
The other i'm never going to get. Both sides i'm
never going to get. Both Perspectives and i'm just going
to turn go down that path and just become more
Of A.
Speaker 2: Jack white but we'll take taken away from, even politics
because sometimes that gets ugly, with, people right people get a.
Little Offended what i'm, saying is let's say it's one
of these THINGS where i want to. GET myself i
gotta get, FIRED up i gotta get to. THE gym
i want to. DO this I gotta And yet i've
been liking a lot of like homemade. Pizza things, oh
yeah how to make. Homemade, PIZZA oh i get those instagram.
My videos so that Was my, friday, mood Right my.
Friday MOOD and, i, GO oh i like. That one
oh that one. Looks good you kind of go down
a little bit of, a, hole right and then now
it's all these different recipes coming at you that. You
LOSE and i know this is a bit of, a
stretch but you lose the motivation to go to the gym,
because hey what's a little? Ice grub hey this is a.
Speaker 3: Healthy, way YES so i don't have to go to the.
Speaker 2: YOU know i could just. Eat these is? It laziness is?
IT convenience i think it's a little bit.
Speaker 3: Of both and the addiction of keeping, YOU scrolling i.
Speaker 2: THINK it's i think it's. COMPLETELY different i think that
it's disguised, as laziness it's spoken, as CONVENIENCE and i
think if we really look, at it it's. Total surrender
you've surrendered to this without knowing you've surrendered. To, this
noo there's nothing wrong with looking. At TikTok there's nothing wrong.
With That but i'm starting, to, think like if you
can give yourself some time, without it if you can
actually put a, you know turn on that do not
disturb and just put it away and give yourself even
if it's forty five minutes a, HALF hour i don't
know where you're. Not looking and you know we have
terms now doom Scrolling and I'M an, Adhd person and
then we hear or that all the ads are do
you have? High cortisol this is a sign of. High
cortisol maybe, it is maybe. It isn't i'm Not a
i'm not, a ditogram but it's gonna keep.
Speaker 4: You reflecting that back to you because that's all.
Speaker 2: The shit you look at all, the time and you.
Speaker 3: LIKE it i, got algorithms you Know what i'm saying
for freaking. FISH oil, i, Mean yes That's what i'm.
Speaker 2: Trying, to say, is like so if you're looking to
even try to, improve yourself and are there ways on
these devices that you can find to? Improve, yourself Absolutely
and i'm sure. There are i'm sure, There ARE but
i would also say when you, find them put this
down for a little bit and go, do it because
everything's an algorithm and you may not even be seeing
a great choice. For you if you're dating and, and
look maybe you want to Be Like diane cannon and
have friends with benefits Hers Of, social security yours. Heads
chlamythia but you Know what, i'm saying like you. COULD
have i, don't know it just is. It was it's
just something that was very agorithm and stiff. That, out
YEAH because I had i had a flattering uh moment
last WEEK and i stopped in To see DAMIEN and
i had lunch. Over there it was Late, on friday
AND then i probably stayed LONGER than i, ever intended
but it's usually what happens. To ME and i. Wasn't
late it was like. Five thirty but there was a
woman there and she was talking about uh to somebody
else AND they i was talking whatever that she's on
some dating apps and this and that and the. Other
thing and, she's, like uh, she goes are you on?
Dating APPS and, i, SAID no i don't. WANT to
i DON'T want i don't, WANT like i don't. Want
that AND yet i. Guess it, you know maybe it's
like shooting fish. AND abo i.
Speaker 3: Don't know my WIFE and i did not meet on a.
Dating app i'm very happy about THAT because i, THINK
fish I think i think it makes everything a. Meat
Market and i'm not talking. Just dating i'm. Talking everything
everything is now. A product you are. The product you're.
THE product, I mean i think that was The social
there was this one documentary AROUND during covid talked about.
SOCIAL media i. FORGOT that i think it Was Called
The social problem or something, like THAT and i don't
know what it Was. On netflix and, in essence you
are the product. They've studied like you Know In, las
vegas the, slot machines how it gets in the noises
and the bright lights and you. Keep spinning why because
you want a better story, coming up you want, better
stuff you want a, better feed and so you just
the idea is to keep you scrolling so that you'll
buy something or you'll do and, THEN.
Speaker 2: Well, i, mean look take it to something. Really simple
how many people have bought Shit on amazon because it,
Was suggested oh you bought this? Like this you Know what,
i'm saying and you. Probably, would yeah there's, nothing RIGHT
but i just it just seems like to me when you,
go more is it our personality or our personalities being
told to us and letting and letting us not just?
COVER that i think there's more to the human being
than the. DIGITAL stuff, i think, YOU know i WONDER
and i. Don't know i'm watching young people like my
son's age just to kind of see what is and
what isn't. With THEM and i don't know if my
KIDS are i don't KNOW because i haven't talked to
other people who have kids about. That age but these
are guys who, have, jobs work they, you know they
do certainly like their shows and things, like that but
there's not a whole lot of social media stuff other
than showing you what. They're Doing but I'M not i.
DON'T know i see like less, and LESS and i
wonder if they'll even get. Burned out like one of
my guys goes to church, every week, loves it goes to,
the gym does that sort. Of thing reading is sort
of a. LOST thing i, don't know but yet all
the bookstores, are AROUND so i. Don't know maybe it's.
Helping people there's, an author a horror Author in greece
who does. Really well she's all over social media and
does a. Great JOB so i, just THINK like i
guess the saying would be all things, in MODERATION but
i go if it's twenty four. To seven you reflecting
back you were moved from last week. Or whatever you're
never going to get out of.
Speaker 3: That, RUT yeah, i agree it's it's scary in. A way,
i mean you're kind. Of you you're only, Hurting yourself
you're only cheating yourself if you don't, branch out like
you gotta be able to put that, phone down, they,
say like, you know try to put the phone away
two hours. Before bed, no screens that INCLUDES the tv
and if you, have to we're.
Speaker 2: Blue blockers, Some comments bill just wants to choke and.
Get out this is the reference to. Upin chokes some
of us can't be put back into the wild for
the good of.
Speaker 6: The.
Speaker 2: Public amen somebody says they Saw Both elton John And
billy joel and. They rocked they. Both rocked. They did
they're both.
Speaker 3: Great Performers Just billy joel's more of. The performer elton's
more of, the savant right, you know, but, uh, yes
yeah so we'll probably get Videos From billy Joe And
elton John And, bruce springsteen.
Speaker 2: Like yes probably on our Front or instagram. Or.
Speaker 3: WHATEVER yeah i Got off facebook like, twenty TWENTY and
I don't i don't. REGRET it i don't miss it
because you. GET stuck i got stuck in this loop
of banned, people's, Drama right and so, it's like is
This all i'm? Gonna GET am i not going to
get like other old friends from high school tell me
about their kids or tell me About this THAT all
i got was like complaining about politics and. Banned drama
and it was just like that'd be so sick of.
This crap it's just that's that was. MY algorithm, I
uh i.
Speaker 2: Don't Really even i'll scroll through it a. LITTLE bit.
I don't i. DON'T know i mostly post for the podcast,
up THERE but. I don't the, other, thing too is Like.
Speaker 3: ON instagram i do Have an, instagram account and On
my instagram account a lot of videos for, health health,
you know, health tips workout videos, and stuff but not
everything's a.
Speaker 2: Good idea oh really, yeah, really well, of course what's.
Common sense? What's supplements.
Speaker 3: That's supplements it's.
Speaker 2: Just, Ideas, hey dan want to, have big big muscles?
Like me, yeah right and.
Speaker 3: Small balls these are the only three Forty five these
are the only three exercises.
Speaker 2: You need, yeah, Righteah probably i'm sure that's out There
and that's my thing IS like.
Speaker 3: I think i HAVE so i book. BARK these i
got ten book marks of the only three exercise, you
need and they're, all DIFFERENT so i must need like.
Seventy exercises and then my point is who has time for?
Speaker 6: All?
Speaker 3: This somebody, you know if, you could you could drain
your lymphatic system by just doing these four things? Every
morning who?
Speaker 1: Has?
Speaker 3: Time right if you want to have brownies without, the
sugar who?
Speaker 2: Has? Time yeah BUT but i do.
Speaker 3: Apparently, scrolls yes that's.
Speaker 2: The problems that's. My, point, HEY LOOK i i will
say this. IN closing i think as, human beings we
are all capable of much more than we do right
than then we even believe that you can really. Push
Yourself and, sean McCarthy who's helping put on the hutchin
any fest as, McCarthy ten sat in the chair where,
you are and he said that at the end of
the day he always ASKED did i? Do IT did
i do enough FOR did i get it all? Done today?
Or whatever and that's a different question than. You know
but think of the amount of time we're on the.
Phone distracted take a look next time you run a
traffic light take a, look around just a glance and
just see how many people you see on. Their phone
it's like it's become. An APPENDAGE and i. DON'T know
i have another friend who has written and published a
book and got written a course and cut all kinds
of videos to help his daughter send the recruiters for
d one school that she did get accepted to for,
field hockey all, The STUFF and, i go where do
you find? THE time i DON'T. Watch tv i'm not
looking at social media all. The time the people that
are making the shit that you want to make aren't
doing what. You're doing they're not looking at. Their, phone
no they're out. Doing, something yep they're making. It happen,
they're writing they're spending time on themselves and sometimes that.
You'll see you'll see things on. Social media, they'll say
disappear and become a different person in. Six months probably.
Could happen probably. Could happen. You know they want you
to probably sign on front of. HER bullshit i will
give you all points if you, Sign up but my
point is you have it. In you you know what
the right thing. To do, is laziness convenience or is?
It surrender i'm, Not sure i'll call.
Speaker 3: It surrender i'll tell you THIS when i have gone
downstairs in the basement to work Out and i'm taking
my phone with me and accidentally left the phone down
there and gone back Upstairs and i've gone two or
three hours without my phone to realize he was, my,
Phone right AND then, I realized oh, MY gosh i
didn't need the. Damn, phone no.
Speaker 2: That's why I'M saying i. Need it just put it
on do, not disturb and if somebody really wants to,
get you they'll call TWICE and i think. It breaks
they'll call. Your wife yeah, you, KNOW yeah i.
Speaker 3: Find, you yeah.
Speaker 2: That's ALL but i would call jameson you're cape a fall.
Speaker 3: Of two they get off the disc track and get.
Your father.
Speaker 2: You're capable of. Doing more That's what. I'm saying don't watch,
the video be the. Video only don't. Say yeah but
you Know what, i'm, saying like go just to go. Do,
it yeah what's the worst that's. Gonna happen you're either
gonna be right where you were or further along than
you thought you.
Speaker 3: Would Be marcellus wiley always had a phrase, he goes.
Speaker 2: Oh no It Was.
Speaker 3: Roland williams, he said a year, from today you're gonna
wish you. Started, today, yeah, yeah absolutely it's a it's a.
Speaker 2: Great one. UH yeah i just had this similar conversation with.
My kid, he, GOES oh i got my GRADES TO
a X. And y i'm not gonna say where. They
ARE and, I, go okay you don't seem like. YOU'RE
happy i GO because i knew you could, do IT
and i think you're capable of you for, More right i'm.
Gonna push i'm gonna be a.
Speaker 3: Little bit if you click on, THIS video i can
help you get.
Speaker 2: Those grades And For, Dann Barrillo I'm. Bill moran we
haven't outsourced our personalities Here. ON billified i haven't see
a ship run Named.
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Speaker 2: Mississip