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Speaker 2: best and worst the weekend? What's the best thing that
Speaker 2: happened this weekend? And the worst thing that happened this weekend?
Speaker 2: Bm My mask at whatever that is to eight, two, nine,
Speaker 2: four or five? What's the best? In what's the worst?
Speaker 6: Lindsay the best spending time with friends and family over
Speaker 6: the holiday weekend and the worst no fireworks, not at all,
Speaker 6: no show due to the storm on Saturday. We did
Speaker 6: make it to the marina on time before it started raining,
Speaker 6: and we thought, okay, we'll just grab a bite to
Speaker 6: eat inside the restaurant at White Honk Cove, and we
Speaker 6: got an appetizer, finished eating it, and then they were like, no,
Speaker 6: we got to evacuate you guys. It's getting way too bad.
Speaker 6: We're nervous now, especially after last week storm. So they're like,
Speaker 6: everyone too at a time on the ramp, and so
Speaker 6: we did that. I took a child, Kevin took a child,
Speaker 6: and we're walking down the ramp. It's pouring so hard.
Speaker 6: I took my hat off just so I could use
Speaker 6: it to keep grip on the railing of this ramp and.
Speaker 2: Crazy they just sent you out into it.
Speaker 6: Yeah, well, they didn't want us to get stuck in
Speaker 6: case it blew away.
Speaker 2: What if you blow away?
Speaker 6: I know, I know, lucky we could swim, I guess.
Speaker 6: And so we just ended up staying in the camper
Speaker 6: on Saturday night because we didn't want to drive home.
Speaker 2: And do you guys have a camper out there too?
Speaker 6: Our friends do, and they were in North Carolina for
Speaker 6: the weekend, so if they're not, they're like, yeah, feel
Speaker 6: free to use it.
Speaker 2: So it was the camper.
Speaker 6: No, not too bad. I mean it was really just
Speaker 6: raining so hard, but yeah, we didn't want to drive
Speaker 6: in that fast.
Speaker 2: And worst of the weekend. What's the best part of
Speaker 2: the weekend? What's the worst part of the weekend? Bmms
Speaker 2: and whatever that is to eight two nine four five
Speaker 2: gimb what's the best and what's the worst? Man, I
Speaker 2: tell you start off with the worst. The worst part
Speaker 2: of the weekend would have been Friday, right, me and
Speaker 2: my lady we're heading out to Grand Lake to hang
Speaker 2: out with some friends for the weekend, and hopped on
Speaker 2: the bike and got everything all loaded up. We got
Speaker 2: maybe an hour away from the house. Right, So we're
Speaker 2: an hour from the house and a damn valve stem
Speaker 2: on my back tire on the bike took a cramp
Speaker 2: on me. Didn't blow out, didn't run anything over. We
Speaker 2: were just kind of riding along and then you kind
Speaker 2: of feel a little shake a little bit and you're like, okay,
Speaker 2: that's a little weird. Maybe it's the wind. And then
Speaker 2: that shake got to SIMI in and it was like, okay,
Speaker 2: something definitely isn't right here, So pull over to the
Speaker 2: side of the road. Checking to make sure I didn't
Speaker 2: run over anything. It's a brand new tire. I just
Speaker 2: got that like maybe two months ago, right, So brand
Speaker 2: new tire. And I was like, I don't don't think
Speaker 2: it blue out, and everything seems fine. I didn't see
Speaker 2: any any punctures, right, didn't run over any nails in
Speaker 2: the highway or anything. And so I called my brother
Speaker 2: to come save my ass yet again. That guy has
Speaker 2: bailed me out so many times when it comes to
Speaker 2: two bikes and whatnots Every bike that I've had, actually
Speaker 2: he's had to come and pick me up. I figured
Speaker 2: that out over the weekend. Every bike I've had, he's
Speaker 2: had to come pick me up at some point in time.
Speaker 2: So all right, cool, that's cool. Man, get it loaded
Speaker 2: up on the trailer, and we had to wait an
Speaker 2: hour sitting on the side of the road in the
Speaker 2: blazing hot sun. Right, and I'm out there, jeans, sleeveless
Speaker 2: shirt cut hot au right, got all the gear, all
Speaker 2: the gear man, and and we just after we waited
Speaker 2: for forty five minutes is how long it took for
Speaker 2: him to get there. And we get it loaded up
Speaker 2: and get it to taking over to action where I
Speaker 2: get all my stuff done and hoping, hoping that maybe
Speaker 2: they can get it done within like a couple hours
Speaker 2: or whatever. Well it is, it is the friday before
Speaker 2: the holiday. They're closed on Saturday. Sure, they're not open
Speaker 2: Sunday or today, So I can't get my bike back
Speaker 2: until tomorrow. Yeah, tomorrow or whatever. And I'm like, ah, balls,
Speaker 2: So all week with that, all weekend without the bike,
Speaker 2: which is okay, you know, went back to the house,
Speaker 2: got the car, hung out for a little while just
Speaker 2: to see if they were going to be able to
Speaker 2: do it. They can't get it in, Like all right, cool,
Speaker 2: I'll just come and get it on Tuesday. So went
Speaker 2: out to the lake at a great time. The best
Speaker 2: part of the weekn actually happened this morning. Right, it
Speaker 2: was going to be hanging out at the lake, right,
Speaker 2: But but this is so awesome. My oldest boy is
Speaker 2: having his third child today, right, They're at the hospital
Speaker 2: right now having a baby. And I asked him, I
Speaker 2: was like, Jay, guys, ever come up with a name?
Speaker 2: He said, yeah, we're gonna name it after you. Gimpy. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I know he's gonna be Gimpy the third How awesome
Speaker 2: is that? Right? Because my youngest boy is named after me,
Speaker 2: and then so this will be the third. And I
Speaker 2: was like that that pleases my heart so much. And
Speaker 2: I says, I need you to do me a favor, though, man,
Speaker 2: he says, what's them? I said, just make sure when
Speaker 2: when he's having his own kids at that name carries
Speaker 2: on down the line. So and he said, it'll go
Speaker 2: on for centuries. And I love it. I love it
Speaker 2: so gay Lord, I can't. I think that is so awesome, man,
Speaker 2: I am. I am really excited. He should have been like,
Speaker 2: why did it take three times? Why didn't you do
Speaker 2: it the first time? They ran out of names. They're like,
Speaker 2: a like, I don't know what we're gonna call this.
Speaker 2: I'm like, you can call them Gary. But now they
Speaker 2: decided to go with Gaylord instead. So that's that's cool.
Speaker 2: That makes me very a very eventful day. Yeah, tell
Speaker 2: me about it. Bensty works the weekend. What's the best
Speaker 2: part of the weekend. What's the worst part of the weekend?
Speaker 2: Bmms and whatever that is to eight, two, nine, four five.
Speaker 2: Best part of the weekend was going to a friend's
Speaker 2: house and they barbecued and got in their pool and
Speaker 2: hung out and it was awesome. Nice, perfect amount of
Speaker 2: water heat, right, nice combo we bought, uh they sell
Speaker 2: Little Tito's Airport bottles. Yeah, and so we bought a
Speaker 2: couple four packs of those to make cocktails at poolside,
Speaker 2: which was you know perfect. And me being the weather nerd,
Speaker 2: I started getting all these alerts on my phone because
Speaker 2: it wasn't supposed to happen to like ten thirty eleven o'clock,
Speaker 2: and it was supposed to be just a kind of storm,
Speaker 2: and so I got these alerts from my other weather
Speaker 2: army and it was like, oh no. I was like,
Speaker 2: they're like, it's gonna be it should be fine. I
Speaker 2: was like, it's not gonna be fine, man, it is
Speaker 2: gonna be chaos. I lived kind of northwest of town,
Speaker 2: and it was sure enough it was. I got changed
Speaker 2: right then. I was like I'm done. I got a right,
Speaker 2: give me some coffee, because well, I didn't want to
Speaker 2: get stuck there. And they were like, oh, it's not
Speaker 2: gonna rain like ten minutes. I'm like, it ain't going
Speaker 2: to rain ten minutes, man, Like an inch and a
Speaker 2: quarter or something like that we got in that short
Speaker 2: amount of time and wind damage and I mean we
Speaker 2: had it looked like a we. I was like, we're
Speaker 2: gonna go home. My wife was like what, Like I
Speaker 2: would feel better for home. I don't want to be
Speaker 2: stuck here. It's already eight o'clock. Yeah, And so we
Speaker 2: drove home and about halfway I was like, this may
Speaker 2: have not been a good idea because trees were like
Speaker 2: bending right, yeah right. When you see leaves green leave,
Speaker 2: chunks of green leaves fly by, You're like, we've got
Speaker 2: to break. This may not be the best decision. But
Speaker 2: so those that was the best and the worst part.
Speaker 2: Probably the extra worst part is extending fireworks a second day.
Speaker 2: And where I live, there's two places that do fireworks displays,
Speaker 2: and so one was at nine when was at nine
Speaker 2: thirty last night? Yeah, you're like, I'm trying to sleep, man,
Speaker 2: I just to do it on a Sunday night feels
Speaker 2: I know they got to do it, but crazy fast
Speaker 2: and worst the weekend? What's the best thing that happened
Speaker 2: to you this weekend and the worst thing that happened
Speaker 2: to you this weekend? Best? Had a nice cookout? Worst?
Speaker 2: Now I have a toothache, going to get it pulled?
Speaker 2: Yeah that sucks? Do you get it replaced? Are you
Speaker 2: getting replaced or you just get it pulled. That's a
Speaker 2: good question. And what would you do? Uh, it depends
Speaker 2: on what the problem is. A toothache. Usually you can
Speaker 2: just do a nerve thing right, root canal, Yeah, and
Speaker 2: the problem will go away.
Speaker 6: Those are expensive, Okay, Yeah, it's cheaper just to pull it.
Speaker 2: Listen, it's gonna be expensed. It's not. They're not just
Speaker 2: you know, using plyers right right, it's gonna cost. Best
Speaker 2: and worst the weekend. What's the best part of the weekend.
Speaker 2: What's the worst part of the weekend? Best of the weekend?
Speaker 2: Doing fireworks the family, even though the rain happened, worst
Speaker 2: of the weekend. I ate so many burgers and hot
Speaker 2: links that I gave myself upset tummy. Yeah.
Speaker 6: Uh.
Speaker 2: We tried to do fireworks because they were you know,
Speaker 2: my buddy was like, I'm gonna try get fireworks in.
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know, man. He lit the fireworks,
Speaker 2: the wind kicked up, they were I was, what are
Speaker 2: we doing? Yeah, a lot. Did you see some of
Speaker 2: the footage of people lighting fireworks and the lightning hitting
Speaker 2: the fireworks. No, but I've seen a lot with lightning
Speaker 2: in the background, which I thought was really cool pictures yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 2: And then the other thing about the weather is when
Speaker 2: it's like that, the humidity is so strong and there's
Speaker 2: no wind, then the firework creates so much smoke. You
Speaker 2: then can't see the rest of the fireworks, right, hey,
Speaker 2: because it's just staying there foggy. And that's what happened
Speaker 2: in Washington, d C. Where they did these crazy fireworks.
Speaker 2: I mean it looked awesome for the first forty seconds.
Speaker 2: It was like eight.
Speaker 7: Hundred and fifty thousand rounds something insane, right, probably all
Speaker 7: American made anyway, So the first forty seconds it looked crazy, picturesque, right,
Speaker 7: and then none of the smoke moved.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you just saw flashes in the smoke. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Best and worst of the weekend. I was having a
Speaker 2: great time with family shooting off fireworks in the rain.
Speaker 2: Then I got a call at a LEVENPM asking if
Speaker 2: I can cover a shift for Sunday. Oh no, sorry, man,
Speaker 2: it's too late time I half man. Best was got
Speaker 2: to relax. Worst had my thirty fifth birthday, few people remembered,
Speaker 2: and fireworks explosion. Well, happy birthday. Man Best had a
Speaker 2: big fish fry, swimming and friends. Worst trying to play
Speaker 2: golf Sunday hungover shot the worst round ever. Walking eighteen
Speaker 2: is not awesome. Now, it's also not awesome when it's
Speaker 2: a hundred. Right, you're just sweating out all the boozy
Speaker 2: heads and the only thing to make it worse would
Speaker 2: be hungover. People can smell you from a mile away
Speaker 2: down when right, best part got notification I start CDL
Speaker 2: school this week for you, man. Worst part? Girlfriend is
Speaker 2: a week late? Well where was she supposed to be? Oh?
Speaker 2: A week late? Yeah, this doesn't necessarily mean anything, but maybe.
Speaker 6: She's just stressed out about something.
Speaker 2: Sure, you getting your CDL call? Yeah? Yeah? How long
Speaker 2: do you wait? Or do you remember before you took
Speaker 2: a pregnancy test?
Speaker 6: Lindsay, Uh, I think it was like eight days.
Speaker 2: Oh you went like eight days?
Speaker 6: Okay, it was instant? Well eight days is an instant
Speaker 6: pretty much, that's a week. It wouldn't instant be one day,
Speaker 6: you think, so that day? Yeah, I guess, but it's
Speaker 6: I mean, it can be so all over the place
Speaker 6: when it comes to that, right, Really, something.
Speaker 2: To get a mop clean that up? Right? Any other
Speaker 2: situation with that much leak? Ad you go, we gotta
Speaker 2: figure this out. Women you're like, yeah, what are you
Speaker 2: gonna do? Best? Long weekend? Worst? Skywork Skaya took fireworks
Speaker 2: show had a malfunction which caused a premature finale. It
Speaker 2: happens as you get older, and there's you know, Reavie
Speaker 2: Men's Clinic can help with that. You just apologize and
Speaker 2: go on. Yeah, um beat Me and my girlfriend had
Speaker 2: a great weekend. H I'm gonna say, I guess it
Speaker 2: was me and my girlfriend had a great weekend. Worst.
Speaker 2: My neighbors decided to set off military grade fireworks last night.
Speaker 2: Muskoge woke me up. Long story, short words were had
Speaker 2: and the water hose got turned and wet fireworks didn't ignite.
Speaker 2: I think they I think that's criminal at that point. Yeah,
Speaker 2: you can't pour water on someone's stuff. Man, No, No,
Speaker 2: that's destruction of property. Yeah, essentially we were on these fireworks.
Speaker 2: They destroyed them. We were at the fireworks stand and
Speaker 2: they had a board of people who spent the most
Speaker 2: in the tent, like the top three. Oh nice, what
Speaker 2: do you think the top number one was? When I
Speaker 2: was there on the fourth of July at like one o'clock.
Speaker 6: Five grand uh.
Speaker 2: I was going to say four, but let's shoot higher
Speaker 2: and say seventy five hundred sixty one dollars and they
Speaker 2: got four things.
Speaker 6: Goodness, gracious, sixty one dollars.
Speaker 2: I don't know about you all. When I have a
Speaker 2: big purchase over two hundred dollars, I save for it, right.
Speaker 2: I start accumulating the money a little bit at a time.
Speaker 2: How long you've been saving for six How long did
Speaker 2: it take since last fourth of July? Yeah? No, I
Speaker 2: mean to light it and make it go. Yeah, right crazy.
Speaker 2: That's some of the things that happened in the neighborhood,
Speaker 2: like happened so like the neighborhood ones that people do
Speaker 2: feel like they go on and on and on and
Speaker 2: on and on and on and on and on. You're like,
Speaker 2: how much did you spend? Yeah, but it is cool
Speaker 2: and everybody likes it. I don't know.
Speaker 6: The dogs don't.
Speaker 2: Some adults don't.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Uh worst got workout induced VA's vasilitis best. My daughter
Speaker 2: really enjoyed the fireworks. Good. I'm gonna check some real
Speaker 2: quick because I think I know what this is, the vasculitis. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and it's known as the Disney's rash, the Disney's rash. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's a burning and mild swelling of the small blood vessels.
Speaker 2: That sounds terrible. Yeah, yeah, I'm sure you're young.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and you've got it from working out.
Speaker 2: I move. I think it's working. Sometimes known as a
Speaker 2: golfer's thing too. Yeah, they have drug induced vasculitis and
Speaker 2: then exercise induced vesculitis. Huh So the text Best of
Speaker 2: the weekend got to have a blast outside. Worst of
Speaker 2: the weekend got a message from a random hookup. She's pregnant. Damn.
Speaker 2: Oh sucks to be that person. Well, get a test. Yeah,
Speaker 2: not saying she's a woman of what's the term giving
Speaker 2: of loose morals? Right, she's a whore, but you never know, absolutely,
Speaker 2: and Jeff Finsley can help you through the whole process,
Speaker 2: right if you need it. Right. Someone said they spent
Speaker 2: over six k crazy.
Speaker 3: Yikes.
Speaker 2: It was not Jakes. It was just a stand on
Speaker 2: the side. They're all, there's a lot of Jakes. But
Speaker 2: it wasn't the big building. This was just a tint
Speaker 2: on the side of the road. Six grand. How big
Speaker 2: a truck do you think you need that? You just
Speaker 2: fill up the bed right one hundred percent? Because you
Speaker 2: ain't putting that in a forward escort. Sounds like you're
Speaker 2: at our fireworks stand. The guys spent sixty one hundred dollars,
Speaker 2: came back two other times, spend another five grand. That's
Speaker 2: the exact number of that. Yeah, I must have been
Speaker 2: at yours. Wow, it's a great stand. So eleven thousand dollars.
Speaker 2: Last thing you spend eleven thousand dollars dollars on, lindsay,
Speaker 2: not a car?
Speaker 6: Probably furniture for the house when we moved.
Speaker 2: Okay, give me appliance is a damn. You've never spent
Speaker 2: eleven thousand dollars on anything? Maybe lawyer fees. Yeah, I
Speaker 2: mean it feels like something you should go. I should
Speaker 2: reevaluate my stuff because you shouldn't spend eleven thousand dollars
Speaker 2: on a lawyer. Not a car trip. Oh did the
Speaker 2: Disney trip? Okay?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, and there were fireworks on that trip? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 2: That were better than that. Best was having a week
Speaker 2: in full of family being together. Worst took the dog
Speaker 2: out this morning before work and see the upright deep
Speaker 2: freezer door crack to open. Everything is de thowed, so
Speaker 2: it's frozen. Think about your words before you use them, people.
Speaker 2: We'll just let people think about that one. We're gonna
Speaker 2: take a break. We'll be back. Go ahead and see
Speaker 2: what Ghimpie has in his form. My forma go but
Speaker 2: it says here the huge crowds more in Iran's a
Speaker 2: supreme leader. Tens of thousands flooded the streets of Tehran
Speaker 2: yesterday wailing and chanting, with some calling for refenge. Even
Speaker 2: larger crowds are expected today, when Ayatolakmani's casket will be
Speaker 2: taken on a procession through the streets of the capital city.
Speaker 2: Iran is holding a six day funeral ahead of his
Speaker 2: burial on July ninth. The ceremonies are being held nearly
Speaker 2: four months after he's killed and a US Israeli airstrike.
Speaker 2: Peace talks between the US and Iran are set to
Speaker 2: resume after the funeral. Four months seems like a long
Speaker 2: time to hold onto a body before you bury it.
Speaker 2: I mean gotta prepare and plan. I guess either way,
Speaker 2: what else we got here? Dozens of deaths blamed on
Speaker 2: the heat. At least twenty five deaths are being blamed
Speaker 2: on the extreme heat that's gripping half of the nation.
Speaker 2: Over one hundred and fifty million Americans across the Eastern
Speaker 2: US were subjected to record sitting heat on the fourth
Speaker 2: of July, with heat alerts issued from the Midwest, to
Speaker 2: the Deep South and to the northeast, and Washington, DC
Speaker 2: National Guard members were seen rendering aid to heat victims
Speaker 2: attending the America two fifty festivities. The extreme heat helped
Speaker 2: create massive thunderstorms later in the evening, causing gusty winds,
Speaker 2: large hail, and power outages. Many fireworks displays have been
Speaker 2: postponed until after the thunderstorm. Because I'm a weather nerd,
Speaker 2: I was telling Lindsay before the show, I was checking
Speaker 2: shaded temperatures and the next week because they're saying it's
Speaker 2: supposed to be bad on Thursday in the shade anywhere
Speaker 2: between one hundred and two and one hundred and four
Speaker 2: in the shade. That's nice. And then the same thing
Speaker 2: on Saturday, and yeah, and looks like Sunday and a
Speaker 2: little bit on Monday. Yeah it's gonna be hot. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I just make sure you will hydrate it. Right. What
Speaker 2: else we got here? Research shows mosquitoes can learn to
Speaker 2: associate deet with food lope they get yes. Research conducted
Speaker 2: getting Research conducted at Virginia Tech suggests that mosquitos are
Speaker 2: learning to associate a common insect repellent with meal time.
Speaker 2: A study published by the Journal of Experimental Biology focused
Speaker 2: on a type of mosquito that can spread diseases such
Speaker 2: as yellow fever zeka and ding fever ding ding ding
Speaker 2: You Anyhow, it found that mosquitoes can learn to ignore
Speaker 2: low concentrations of deet on the skin and begin to
Speaker 2: associate it with the food. Researchers say beat should still
Speaker 2: be used, but that applying it regularly may be more
Speaker 2: effective than applying a high dose just once. And then lastly,
Speaker 2: here City of Bars bills offering free storm debris drop
Speaker 2: off through Friday. The side opens at eleven am on
Speaker 2: Sunday and then we'll be open for the rest of
Speaker 2: the week. It's located on city owned property. That says
Speaker 2: the debris disposal site will be open from seven am
Speaker 2: to four pm every day following Sunday. The city said
Speaker 2: only tree debris, brush, brush and vegetation damage during recent
Speaker 2: storms has allowed. Any other items will be re covidwing
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Speaker 1: You?
Speaker 8: Good morning?
Speaker 2: It says here Anna. You've been married thirteen years. Tell
Speaker 2: me how did you meet your husband? Oh?
Speaker 8: Well, it was actually kind of a silly story. I
Speaker 8: met him through a mutual friend who actually happens to
Speaker 8: be my ex I'll say. But yeah, we left them
Speaker 8: good terms and that's that's how I met him to
Speaker 8: be future husband.
Speaker 2: Did your ex set you up?
Speaker 8: Oh? More or less? Like I said, we were on
Speaker 8: good terms and we were, you know, just hanging out
Speaker 8: as a big group of people, as a small party
Speaker 8: in the backwards But yeah, that's its history.
Speaker 2: What was it about him that caught your eye it
Speaker 2: made you go whole boy?
Speaker 6: Hm hmm.
Speaker 8: Maybe that he was two of the three meals that
Speaker 8: were there, not including my ex.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, so it was a numbers game. Okay, yeah.
Speaker 9: Uh.
Speaker 2: It says here that you are an ER nurse. Tell
Speaker 2: me about why have you always been an R nurse
Speaker 2: or did you start another area of nursing and then
Speaker 2: moved to emergency.
Speaker 8: I did start another area that I knew from the
Speaker 8: get go that I always wanted to be an R nurse.
Speaker 8: I just didn't quite have the experience. It was, you know,
Speaker 8: kind of starting out doing my best. I think every
Speaker 8: nurse kind of start Moss nurses start on ned serge.
Speaker 8: But the whole time I was, you know, trying to
Speaker 8: get my footing, my experience to finally put in the
Speaker 8: application for an ER and you know, it took a
Speaker 8: couple of years before they accepted me.
Speaker 2: But it's it's been so TV. The Pit TV show
Speaker 2: specifically would depict the ers being chaos NonStop. It is
Speaker 2: like drinking getting a drink out of a fire hose.
Speaker 2: That that's how crazy it is. Is that accurate.
Speaker 8: For most of the hospitals. Yes, Now there's some lower
Speaker 8: acuity hospitals. There's two big hospitals in Tulsa that is
Speaker 8: fairly accurate. Now I won't say that at one hundred percent.
Speaker 8: There are days I said, wow, this is a really
Speaker 8: good morning. I mean you put your foot in your
Speaker 8: mouth and you realize, wow, nobody's woken up yet. I
Speaker 8: tried to watch the Pit. It took a little bit
Speaker 8: to well. I mean just I couldn't quite commit to it.
Speaker 8: There's some accuracies there. I think, as you're in this field,
Speaker 8: you've taken us a little bit more criticism for medical shows.
Speaker 2: Couldn't commit to it because of like PTSD, or couldn't
Speaker 2: commit to it because no.
Speaker 8: No, no, it just I guess I just thought it
Speaker 8: was kind of silly. I mean there were certain things
Speaker 8: in there that were just a little bit silly, but.
Speaker 2: That makes sense. I mean they embellished a little bit
Speaker 2: more than you felt was accurate.
Speaker 8: They're probably so there are I mean those wild scenes, Yes,
Speaker 8: they do happen.
Speaker 2: Uh. And what's the craziest thing you've seen working in
Speaker 2: the r.
Speaker 8: Ooh, it's hard to put something in number one spot.
Speaker 8: I mean, of course we get a lot of pretty
Speaker 8: major traumas.
Speaker 2: Uh gosh, it says here that you you had a
Speaker 2: teenager come through and they played a game that they
Speaker 2: shouldn't have played.
Speaker 8: Yes, that is one of probably the more more disheartening
Speaker 8: traumas that I uh that I witnessed it. It was
Speaker 8: a young feller and I mean, what do you say
Speaker 8: about that he was playing a game of Russian or what.
Speaker 8: I don't know who else was involved. I just know
Speaker 8: that he came in and you can kind of see
Speaker 8: that last look on his face, and that was probably
Speaker 8: the worst part of it. So, yes, he did not
Speaker 8: win that game of Russian Roulette.
Speaker 2: And when somebody comes in where it's clear they're not
Speaker 2: going to make it, how much effort do you put
Speaker 2: I don't understand how you guys can go, well, we
Speaker 2: got to keep trying when it is quite clear there's
Speaker 2: nothing that can be done.
Speaker 8: They do try. Yes, I mean we give it all
Speaker 8: that There are certain criteria. Blood work will tell you
Speaker 8: a lot about the condition of the body. So, for example,
Speaker 8: the pH of the human body, there has to be
Speaker 8: a certain happy zone, so you can kind of see
Speaker 8: when they're declining after they have passed. That will excuse
Speaker 8: me that that work will start to change. Also, people
Speaker 8: you know, fixed and dilated, there's a certain criteria. And
Speaker 8: of course you know the nature of the accident that
Speaker 8: I mean, when you put it all together, that's when
Speaker 8: the doctor will decide, you know, this is this is futall.
Speaker 8: We're not going to make any We're not going to
Speaker 8: be able to save him.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't imagine how challenging that is to see
Speaker 2: that unfold in front of you. We're talking with Anna R,
Speaker 2: one of our listeners. She's awesome, she's an er nurse.
Speaker 2: I like to ask nurses this question because I think
Speaker 2: it's such a fascinating question. You just don't think about
Speaker 2: it when you talk to a nurse. How many penises
Speaker 2: do you think you've seen?
Speaker 10: Oh?
Speaker 8: My goodness, millions, like a like a lot. Oh my goodness,
Speaker 8: Well you knows something, as you said that. I actually
Speaker 8: my goal is to try a day, and I think
Speaker 8: every nurse makes a silly goal mine is. I hope
Speaker 8: I don't see one that day. That's why I'm hoping.
Speaker 2: Wow, you and I have different goals, daily goals. That yeah,
Speaker 2: that I get it. We have a goal. I hope
Speaker 2: I don't see a penis today.
Speaker 8: Oh my goodness. Yes, whether it medical or you know,
Speaker 8: some people just they.
Speaker 2: Streak, right, they choose to show it to people for sure.
Speaker 2: What about what's the number of times you've treated somebody
Speaker 2: that had something in their butt?
Speaker 8: Oh? We personally maybe a couple dozen. But I think
Speaker 8: anything new has this this spidey sense, so to speak,
Speaker 8: where we know that somebody is getting something in so
Speaker 8: we have to be bored that it'll tell you what
Speaker 8: kind of in a subtle way, what a person's coming
Speaker 8: in for. Yeah, so when it says foreign body is
Speaker 8: that okay, all our ears kind of perk up. We
Speaker 8: start doing some little subtle snooping. Now, a poor body,
Speaker 8: it could be something as simple as, you know, maybe
Speaker 8: they got a bug in their ear.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 8: Of course we're all a little bit let down. It's
Speaker 8: just a bug in the ear, you know. But when
Speaker 8: we find out that somebody's put something where they shouldn't
Speaker 8: have and the no nos, what but that's a little
Speaker 8: bit better.
Speaker 2: What's the craziest thing that you've seemed to be a
Speaker 2: foreign body removed from an individual?
Speaker 8: Well, it actually was not successfully removed and had to
Speaker 8: go to surgery. That it was a full size shaving.
Speaker 6: Cream can Oh my goodness, No.
Speaker 8: That's Keppard.
Speaker 2: Or didn't. I don't know that that is that is crazy.
Speaker 2: And you guys have a Nurses have a really good
Speaker 2: sense to tell in someone's lying in those scenarios, right.
Speaker 8: Most of the time. Yes, this particular sea, he did
Speaker 8: not want to talk to me at all. He's like,
Speaker 8: just let me see the doctor. I was like, I'm
Speaker 8: going to be a part whether you want me to
Speaker 8: or not.
Speaker 2: Right, either I'm going to find out now or he's
Speaker 2: going to tell me.
Speaker 8: Right. So you're coming with a generic abdominal.
Speaker 2: Pain, right, right. Have you ever made friendship with somebody
Speaker 2: that you treated in the er, so like they came
Speaker 2: in for treatment and then you help them and then
Speaker 2: you somehow developed a friendship with them.
Speaker 8: I mean, I'm kind too, well, I mean it's a
Speaker 8: kind to me. I'm going to be kind to you.
Speaker 8: But as for long lasting friendships, I cut it off
Speaker 8: at the hospital. Now there's been a couple of patients
Speaker 8: who like, here, here is my number, and but it's
Speaker 8: usually you know, really sweet older folks. It's not anybody young.
Speaker 8: I mean, of course, I think we all get hit
Speaker 8: on by the occasional you know, drunk in the hospital.
Speaker 2: But right I can kind of cut it off. I
Speaker 2: can remember one instance where we were in the hospital
Speaker 2: and the it wasn't er, but the nurse was very
Speaker 2: accommodating and kind and and I remember just that person
Speaker 2: feeling like we had been friends for a long time.
Speaker 2: And I think that's just one of those characteristics that
Speaker 2: make the difference between a good nurse and a great nurse.
Speaker 8: Right yeah, I think so too. You certainly have to
Speaker 8: have compassion and empathy, and I think it's really hard
Speaker 8: for many nurses, especially in this setting, when there is
Speaker 8: a lot of verbal abuse, there's a lot of physical
Speaker 8: abuse from patients, so it's hard for many of them
Speaker 8: to you to wake up with a smile on their
Speaker 8: face and go into work and try to serve their community.
Speaker 8: It's different because when people come to the er, most
Speaker 8: of the time, that is the worst day of their
Speaker 8: entire life, and you have to take that into consideration.
Speaker 8: They're not going to be in a good mood. They're
Speaker 8: going to be mean. I would be too feeling good.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's an excellent point that you're seeing people on
Speaker 2: their worst day. Let's shift away from the nursing stuff,
Speaker 2: but it says here you almost drowned at Flint Creek.
Speaker 2: Tell me about how old were you? What was the scenario?
Speaker 8: So this is actually last year. Wow, yes, so somewhat fresh.
Speaker 8: So it was just a little family trip over to
Speaker 8: Flint Creek. I have a little water park there and
Speaker 8: this time of year it was very, very crowded. On
Speaker 8: the top. Lots of families, tents, cookouts, so they have
Speaker 8: a dam and this little dam will step off. Of course,
Speaker 8: there's a little waterfall, and I'm not sure if you
Speaker 8: remember around this time last year, we also had a
Speaker 8: ton of rain, so the water was really moving, but
Speaker 8: you didn't really notice it until you got to the
Speaker 8: little waterfall section. Of course, we were trying to make
Speaker 8: our way down the waterfall set up somewhere away from
Speaker 8: others so we could kind of hang out, well, me
Speaker 8: and my daughter who was fourteen, and we went up
Speaker 8: to the top of that waterfall and historically it's never
Speaker 8: been dangerous. I've never had any problems. I've scuba dived
Speaker 8: over there before when I first met my now husband,
Speaker 8: So my mindset going in is this is perfectly safe.
Speaker 8: So what outside? So when we get to the top,
Speaker 8: our plan was to jump a little bit further out,
Speaker 8: you know, just to have a good time. I guess
Speaker 8: my daughter was walking and she sat down, that lost
Speaker 8: her grip, her her little legs slipped off, and then
Speaker 8: she just fell straight down, and I saw the panic
Speaker 8: in my husband's eyes. I knew she was way too
Speaker 8: close to it, and my first instinct is to jump in.
Speaker 8: I mean not a not a clear logical thought went
Speaker 8: into my head. So I jumped, and no sooner than
Speaker 8: I did, I became vivicted myself. It was pretty quick
Speaker 8: that I realized the power of even something so small,
Speaker 8: that little tiny waterfall. And what I have is a
Speaker 8: cult a circulating current. So essentially, when you're trying to
Speaker 8: swim away, as the water is pushing down, as it's
Speaker 8: coming off there at the ledge, it pulls you back
Speaker 8: and then you get caught underneath and it pushes you
Speaker 8: to the bottom and you surface and you try to
Speaker 8: swim away and it pulls you back, and it's just
Speaker 8: a washing machine effect, and that's what happened to me.
Speaker 8: I was in such danger. I couldn't even, you know,
Speaker 8: think where is my daughter? I couldn't see. I knew
Speaker 8: I was getting fatigued. About the fourth or fifth time
Speaker 8: that it pulled me back, I remember looking around. I
Speaker 8: looked at my husband, who's just standing there, you know,
Speaker 8: wide eyed. I mean, if he went in, he would
Speaker 8: have certainly been in trouble. I was looking around for
Speaker 8: anybody else, and I just said help, help, before it
Speaker 8: pulled me back and pushed me down again. And that
Speaker 8: was not the time I thought said I'm not going
Speaker 8: to make it out of here. I didn't have any
Speaker 8: lung capacity. I'm not a strong swimmer anyway, but my
Speaker 8: legs were screaming, and it's just like I needed to
Speaker 8: take a breath. And it was on that time, you know,
Speaker 8: you start kind of thinking and praying and how am
Speaker 8: I going to get out of this? That was the
Speaker 8: last time that had pushed me down, and by God's
Speaker 8: grace alone, it pushed me out far enough that I
Speaker 8: was able to get away from that current and make
Speaker 8: my way to the shore, where I saw my daughter standing.
Speaker 8: She was crying. My muscles were so tired, I was fatigued.
Speaker 8: I just I couldn't even stand up. So it was
Speaker 8: very scary.
Speaker 2: It sounds like it was very scary. And have you
Speaker 2: been back since.
Speaker 8: No, we haven't gone back. Yeah, we've been to other areas,
Speaker 8: but not that one. I think it's still really traumatic
Speaker 8: for my daughter. And I mean, I'm certainly not going
Speaker 8: to go near the waterfall that. I think it's important,
Speaker 8: you know, to face your fears.
Speaker 2: We just.
Speaker 8: Haven't.
Speaker 2: Yeah, every time I've been there, I'm always surprised with
Speaker 2: how slippery the rocks are near that that damn area,
Speaker 2: because it you're right, it is moving faster in that spot,
Speaker 2: and it kind of takes you by surprise.
Speaker 8: Well, we were lucky, so it sounds like it's still.
Speaker 2: It gets to you.
Speaker 8: Well, I mean, as an ear nursia kind of have
Speaker 8: to be tough and kind of push some of those
Speaker 8: negative things down. But I mean, it's the second time
Speaker 8: I'm almost around the first time was when I was
Speaker 8: a kid in my parents' pond, but I didn't know
Speaker 8: how to swim there, and I just I have too
Speaker 8: much that I want to accomplish, you know, I want
Speaker 8: to see my daughter through. I'm want to get her
Speaker 8: to college. So I think all these experiences over my lifetime,
Speaker 8: which i'd like to think is it very long, you know,
Speaker 8: they do kind of added a little bit of a
Speaker 8: I guess I'm a scaredy cat.
Speaker 10: Now.
Speaker 2: I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Sometimes called
Speaker 2: people call that awareness And was there someone else that
Speaker 2: tried to help you? In that instance?
Speaker 8: I didn't see him on the top. So when I
Speaker 8: got out of the water and we were looking back, uh,
Speaker 8: you know my daughter, I'm trying to seethe and consult her.
Speaker 8: But within about a minute that is when we saw
Speaker 8: a body floating on top of the water. This person
Speaker 8: clearly was caught in the you know, the same kind
Speaker 8: of you know, washing machine effect, but he didn't make
Speaker 8: it out. And when we saw his body floating, you know,
Speaker 8: I'm still sitting there. My husband he went forward drug
Speaker 8: him out, and then that's kind of we had to
Speaker 8: go in. Okay, what do we have to do. He
Speaker 8: still had a pulse, you know, so you check that,
Speaker 8: make sure he still had a pulse. And if you
Speaker 8: have a pulse and you're just not breathing, that's when
Speaker 8: you have to do rescue breaths, so you essentially breathe,
Speaker 8: you know it, mouth the mouth. So I really didn't
Speaker 8: expect to kiss another man on the trip, but that's
Speaker 8: how it turned out.
Speaker 2: And did he survive?
Speaker 8: He did, he did survive. Life Light or some version
Speaker 8: of life flight came and took him from there, and
Speaker 8: I don't know which hospital. I'm curious. I mean, I
Speaker 8: do want to thank that person. I'm sure he came out, okay,
Speaker 8: I mean, being sick in twenty twenty six is twenty
Speaker 8: six is the best time to be sick because we
Speaker 8: have so much technology and people survived the most amazing things.
Speaker 8: But if he is out there, it's just the bravery,
Speaker 8: the fact that he tried. I do want to thank him.
Speaker 8: I don't know who he is, but.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that would be amazing if we could get a
Speaker 2: hold of him. And do you remember to try and
Speaker 2: help narrow it down when was this out there? What
Speaker 2: time of the year last year?
Speaker 8: It would have been probably the exact same time, you know,
Speaker 8: either July or August of last year.
Speaker 2: Well, if this is you or you know who this is,
Speaker 2: email us show at kmod dot com or text in
Speaker 2: and we'll see if we can't connect you with that
Speaker 2: person to see if that's even a possibility, because that's
Speaker 2: that's that would be amazing for you to be able
Speaker 2: to do that, because it sounds like it still hits
Speaker 2: you a little bit.
Speaker 8: He does.
Speaker 2: When that ended, So all that's done, you pack up
Speaker 2: and leave right.
Speaker 8: Yes, we did. We got our stuff and we left
Speaker 8: right away, said my daughter. She was just really really
Speaker 8: frightened by it. And there was I mean, what do
Speaker 8: you do as a mom who was nearly a victing yourself.
Speaker 8: I mean, it's just hard to try to provide that reassurance.
Speaker 8: But she's doing okay now, she's thriving. We just really
Speaker 8: don't talk much about it.
Speaker 2: How long was that ride home? It probably felt like
Speaker 2: an eternity.
Speaker 8: This is about a fifty minute ride home.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it was right. That is crazy what we
Speaker 2: haven't even We couldn't even get to the other thing
Speaker 2: because we've run out of time. That you had that
Speaker 2: It was crazy that happened to you. But I know,
Speaker 2: being in our nurse is probably one of those things
Speaker 2: that people don't say thank you enough, because I think
Speaker 2: nurses are vitally important to the medical world. They do
Speaker 2: a lot of the heavy lifting that gets credited to
Speaker 2: other people. So I just want to say thank you
Speaker 2: for you and all the other nurses out there that
Speaker 2: do all that hard work. Thank you, And we sure
Speaker 2: enjoyed talking to you. And and if we hear something,
Speaker 2: we'll make sure we connect you with that person.
Speaker 8: Okay, Okay, that sounds good.
Speaker 2: Thank you, see you later, right bye, and our listeners
Speaker 2: are awesome. Take a break and we'll be back the
Speaker 2: Big Men Morning Show returns. Excuse Remember school lunches I do,
Speaker 2: and I remember to this day. I would give anything
Speaker 2: to go back and have that chocolate chip cookie that
Speaker 2: they made. I don't know how, I don't know. It
Speaker 2: was special. It was the perfect amount of crunchy and
Speaker 2: chewy and chocolate chips. They were the small chocolate chips,
Speaker 2: so it covered. And they were kind of big too.
Speaker 2: They weren't just like a normal size. They were a
Speaker 2: little bit bigger than the average cookie. And so a
Speaker 2: list got compiled of the top five best school lunch desserts. Okay,
Speaker 2: and that cookie was on it. I mean, it's a
Speaker 2: cafeteria cookies. Do you remember cafeteria cookies? I don't know.
Speaker 6: I don't remember us having cafeteria cookies. I remember the
Speaker 6: vanilla pudding with nilla wafers and bananas, okay, and it
Speaker 6: wasn't that great, but like an option, yes, but it
Speaker 6: was an option. Or chocolate pudding with whipped cream. That
Speaker 6: was usually one that I got.
Speaker 2: I don't remember wrong, I don't remember putting at all.
Speaker 2: But on these lists are some ones you expect, like
Speaker 2: oatmeal cream pies. I don't remember them handing out pre
Speaker 2: made off site desserts or snacks.
Speaker 6: No, we had popsicle days, but that was more of
Speaker 6: a that wasn't in the cafeteria. That was like if
Speaker 6: it was real hot outside, the school provided pop.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like like in your classroom they'd bring around popsicles.
Speaker 6: They would, they would. It would be like right before
Speaker 6: recess they would hand them out and then you would
Speaker 6: take them out and get to eat them at recess
Speaker 6: because you know, they didn't want you messing up the classroom.
Speaker 2: Or right the number of hands that it would have
Speaker 2: to be washed after that. Another one on this list
Speaker 2: of top desserts from school frozen juice bars. These are
Speaker 2: called Smooth Smooth or there was a mini made version.
Speaker 2: It was kind of like in a triangle thing. You
Speaker 2: had to rip open.
Speaker 6: Yep, we did have those.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't remember those, but essentially like an icy
Speaker 2: type of thing, right.
Speaker 6: Yeah, or or a fruit bar and had like chunks
Speaker 6: of fruit in.
Speaker 2: It but it was frozen. Yeah.
Speaker 6: Uh huh.
Speaker 2: Another one ice cream cups with the wooden spoons. I
Speaker 2: remember those, and so it looked like saucer but there
Speaker 2: would be fruit perfectly mixed in. Yeah, and he had
Speaker 2: to pull the little cardboard thing off. Yeah.
Speaker 6: I hate the wooden spoons. I feel like anything served
Speaker 6: with a wooden spoon, that's all you taste. And I
Speaker 6: know in Australia they don't serve plastic cutlery. It's all wooden.
Speaker 6: And that was like when my friend Natalie went there
Speaker 6: to visit, she said that was the one thing she
Speaker 6: couldn't stand because you taste.
Speaker 2: The wood right. I don't know if I have an
Speaker 2: opinion on it either way. That's interesting. And then strawberry
Speaker 2: shortcake bars. I don't remember getting these either. Again, something
Speaker 2: packaged off site. Yeah, no, and we get these now
Speaker 2: because my kids love them. I find them really I've
Speaker 2: tasted a couple of times and thought it was really gross.
Speaker 2: I don't love sprinkles, so whatever that coating thing is
Speaker 2: on the outside of the bar is what gets me
Speaker 2: freaked out.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't know if those are. Sometimes they would
Speaker 6: give they had pop tarts.
Speaker 2: Okay, you could do pop tarts.
Speaker 6: I know that. Like at my kids' school now they
Speaker 6: have like an a la carte where you can go
Speaker 6: and buy it and they can get treats.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, don't I know it.
Speaker 6: Yeah yeah we didn't. That was never an option for us.
Speaker 2: No, it was for us, but not until high school, right,
Speaker 2: And it was never anything like, well, my kids gatorade,
Speaker 2: they have Sunday Day yeah right, Cereal. Never candy bars,
Speaker 2: I mean crazy stuff. Somebody text and said our cookies
Speaker 2: were Otis spunk Meyer.
Speaker 6: Oh okay.
Speaker 2: That was always like presented as a really like good
Speaker 2: respected cookie, and I felt like it was garbage at best.
Speaker 2: I've never thought those were good cookies.
Speaker 6: So our kids sell Otis shirt comeyer, but I don't
Speaker 6: think we ever had them to purchase.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've never had them. Been like, man, these are
Speaker 2: good Double Tree cookies. I don't know what they used,
Speaker 2: but there's a pretty good ollie.
Speaker 6: I remember a friend of mine never had a Double
Speaker 6: Tree cookie, and we were walking by the hotel, and
Speaker 6: I said we should just stop in for a cookie
Speaker 6: because I bet they're fresh. What they have cookies? Yeah,
Speaker 6: And we walked in and it changed his life.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're so good. Yeah, perfectly hot.
Speaker 6: Yes.
Speaker 2: Uh and a couple of years ago they had them,
Speaker 2: but I don't know if that's still because things changed
Speaker 2: so much. Yeah, they still have them. Oh yeah, warm
Speaker 2: chocolate chip cookies to you at check in. There's even
Speaker 2: an allergy free version and a gluten free version, and
Speaker 2: it's free of the top nine allergens. What are the
Speaker 2: top nine allergens? Okay, peanuts right?
Speaker 6: Any nuts?
Speaker 2: Yeah, flour right people that seliac yep, sure, dairy, milk,
Speaker 2: what else? Hell, I don't know, so I pulled the
Speaker 2: list up here. Peanuts feels like number one, tree nuts, milk,
Speaker 2: egg fish, shellfish, soy wheat, and sesame. Now, some of
Speaker 2: those we should obviously know aren't a part of a
Speaker 2: chocolate chip cookie. But what do you make a chocolate
Speaker 2: chip cookie out of? Then? No egg, no milk?
Speaker 6: Yeah, you gotta use uh gluten, the gluten free flour.
Speaker 2: You still need to buy. To me, you already use
Speaker 2: like almond or milk, and you can.
Speaker 6: Do it without egg. You can make them without.
Speaker 2: Egg, but you need a binding agent. And to me,
Speaker 2: the I I have had a cottage cheese cookie.
Speaker 6: Yeah, you tell a difference.
Speaker 2: You absolutely can tell the difference. Nothing beats a real
Speaker 2: chocolate chip cookie. People that suffer from these type of
Speaker 2: allergens and they don't get to eat real chocolate chip cookies,
Speaker 2: you're acting like they're good. I remember when my wife
Speaker 2: was pregnant with our first kid and she couldn't have dairy.
Speaker 2: She was having like a bad reaction. We she'ld have
Speaker 2: dairy and so, but we do pizza, and so I'd
Speaker 2: be like, Oh, we're gonna We're gonna make dairy free,
Speaker 2: use dairy free cheese. It's gonna be great. It wasn't.
Speaker 2: It was gross. It's gross. It days nothing like pizza, right,
Speaker 2: It's so bad.
Speaker 6: Everything made me sick when I was pregnant with my
Speaker 6: first except four cheeseburgers, French fries, and chocolate milkshit. That
Speaker 6: was it. Everything else I would throw up. And Kevin decided,
Speaker 6: from now on, we're not going out to dinner anywhere,
Speaker 6: because as soon as we would leave the restaurant, I
Speaker 6: was throwing up in the parking.
Speaker 2: Lot right, wasting the money right, So.
Speaker 6: I lived off of Brahms cheeseburgers and malts.
Speaker 2: Doesn't feel like a punishment, No.
Speaker 6: It wasn't. It was for me. I would get really
Speaker 6: tired of it really quick. But and to this day
Speaker 6: I think that that is his fit in my kid's favorite.
Speaker 2: Meal, Do you eat it or no?
Speaker 6: Not really?
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Speaker 3: Good morning, Jeff, Hey, good morning. How's it going.
Speaker 2: We're doing great and we've already got people texting in
Speaker 2: asking questions. Family law is the topic going through divorce
Speaker 2: or custody, name changes, guardianships, anything like that. Jeff can
Speaker 2: answer those questions. And we had somebody text in this
Speaker 2: morning when we did Best and Worst in the weekend,
Speaker 2: and he said he got a message from a random
Speaker 2: hookup that she's pregnant. What would be your advice if
Speaker 2: someone called up to you and said that.
Speaker 9: Step one is to get a DNA test once the
Speaker 9: baby is born. I mean, that's a lot of people
Speaker 9: pull though, well, why can't we get one now, Well,
Speaker 9: if the baby's in utero and hasn't been born yet,
Speaker 9: can't do it. But don't automatically assume that it's yours.
Speaker 9: I hate to say it that way, but that's kind
Speaker 9: of the fact and truth of it is is that
Speaker 9: if it's a random hookup and you don't know this person,
Speaker 9: and there's a good chance that there may be other
Speaker 9: random hookups involved, So you know, the first thing is
Speaker 9: is don't assume at yours. And second thing is is
Speaker 9: make sure once the baby is born that you do
Speaker 9: get a DNA test. Do not sign the birth certificate,
Speaker 9: do not sign the acknowledgment of paternity at the hospital.
Speaker 9: If you're going to be involved that way, because that
Speaker 9: will put you on the hook. Step one is always
Speaker 9: get a DNA test first.
Speaker 2: What would be your response to somebody who says, I'm
Speaker 2: I feel like I'll get pressured into it or I
Speaker 2: may make things worse by not signing or asking for.
Speaker 9: A DNA I mean, I would say, look, you have
Speaker 9: a right to know if the child is yours, okay,
Speaker 9: and if it's a random hook up again someone you
Speaker 9: don't know, I mean, someone you met at the bar,
Speaker 9: or the I don't know, the church mixer or whatever.
Speaker 3: You know, whatever it may be, right, you have a
Speaker 3: right to know.
Speaker 9: And just because someone says that yours doesn't necessarily mean
Speaker 9: that's the case, especially again, especially if you don't know
Speaker 9: this person at all, and so you have a right
Speaker 9: to ask for that DNA test. You have a right
Speaker 9: not to sign those documents, and so you know for
Speaker 9: sure that the child is yours. So first and foremost
Speaker 9: always you know, and they're gonna pressure you with, well,
Speaker 9: I'm going to take you to court and I'm gonna
Speaker 9: do this, I'm I gonna do that. Won't go for it, okay,
Speaker 9: But at the end of the day, get that DNA
Speaker 9: test first. That is absolutely step one before anything else.
Speaker 2: And even if he's he is the father, he still
Speaker 2: has to go to court because they're not married, right.
Speaker 9: Right, I mean, if she files something great, the first
Speaker 9: thing that you can ask in court for is a
Speaker 9: DNA test. And you should ask for a DNA test
Speaker 9: if you don't know this person and it was a
Speaker 9: random hookup. I mean, I'm not trying to, you know,
Speaker 9: hurt anybody's feelings. I'm not trying to say that anyone
Speaker 9: is promiscuous or anything like that. But at the end
Speaker 9: of the day, when it's something you don't know and
Speaker 9: know nothing about, always, always, always, always ask for DNA tests.
Speaker 9: And even if you do know him, always, always, always
Speaker 9: ask for DNA test.
Speaker 2: Yeah, the timeline of events is hard to navigate in
Speaker 2: those scenarios, and that's really what the issue is.
Speaker 3: And don't be threatened. I mean, that's the things they're
Speaker 3: going to threaten.
Speaker 9: They're going to say all sorts of nasty, mean things
Speaker 9: to you and threatening with all sorts of things.
Speaker 3: You still have a right to ask for that DNA
Speaker 3: test and you should.
Speaker 2: Jeff Finsley from Hensley Associates is with us. If you
Speaker 2: don't need a question about family law answered, he can
Speaker 2: do that right now. A couple ways to get your
Speaker 2: question to us email show at kmod dot com, call
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Speaker 2: four five. This one says two weeks ago, my friend
Speaker 2: had a protective order filed on him, but he says
Speaker 2: the last week his future ex wife contacted his mom
Speaker 2: to tell him to get his ass down there and
Speaker 2: sign the divorce papers. Is that a violation of a
Speaker 2: protective order? And if it is, is it too late
Speaker 2: to file anything? Okay?
Speaker 3: So here's the here's the kicker of protective order.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 9: And I've had a lot of discussions with different judges
Speaker 9: in different counties about this issue. So when a person
Speaker 9: files a protective order against you, all right, they can't
Speaker 9: violate their own protective order. Violation means that you are
Speaker 9: doing something wrong that would put you in such a
Speaker 9: way that there would be potential criminal charges.
Speaker 3: File this sort of thing.
Speaker 9: So it's not a violation, but it is definitely showing
Speaker 9: the court that they're not afraid of certain things. Now,
Speaker 9: this one's a little different in the sense that she
Speaker 9: went through someone else to get to the message.
Speaker 3: She shouldn't be doing that. Okay.
Speaker 9: If you get a protective order, don't be calling you know,
Speaker 9: someone that's related to the other person.
Speaker 3: Or a friend or you know whatever. Don't do that.
Speaker 9: If you have a protective order, if you're the one
Speaker 9: that is asked for one, all right, because that's just
Speaker 9: going to show the judge that you're not afraid and
Speaker 9: that you don't need one. But if you're the person
Speaker 9: who has the protective order against you, do not respond. Okay,
Speaker 9: even if they try and reach out to you, even
Speaker 9: if they text you, call you email, you do not respond.
Speaker 9: Save those things and use it in court to show
Speaker 9: the court that they're not afraid of you. So it's
Speaker 9: not a quote unquote violation, but it is definitely something
Speaker 9: to show the court that they're not afraid.
Speaker 2: Is having a protective order? Does that show up on
Speaker 2: your criminal.
Speaker 3: Record so it can show up in background checks?
Speaker 9: Yes, I mean, if it's on OSCN and it shows
Speaker 9: up on background checks unless you get it expunged, it
Speaker 9: will always show up. Now, there are two types of
Speaker 9: protective orders. Okay, there's an emergency one, all right, and
Speaker 9: then there's a permanent protective order. The difference being is
Speaker 9: that when you first go in to get one, it's
Speaker 9: an emergency, and then it can turn into a permanent.
Speaker 9: Emergencies are not supposed to affect your job or you know,
Speaker 9: applying for jobs in any way. It's not supposed to,
Speaker 9: but permanent ones can. And if you have those, give
Speaker 9: us a call. We'd like to talk to you. I mean,
Speaker 9: if if one's been dismissed, it was permanent and then
Speaker 9: it's been dismissed it after a certain amount of time
Speaker 9: and you need to expunge.
Speaker 3: It, give us a call.
Speaker 9: We'd love to help with that expungement so you cannot
Speaker 9: have to worry about messing up your job applications.
Speaker 2: Jeff Heinsley from Hensley and Associates is in the studio
Speaker 2: answering your questions about family law. A lot of times
Speaker 2: we talk about divorce and custody and child support and
Speaker 2: things like that, but there's also another angle of child
Speaker 2: I'm sorry of a family law that I don't think
Speaker 2: we talk about enough, and it says I've got a
Speaker 2: younger sister who's mentally disabled. She has to be watched constantly.
Speaker 2: She was being watched by my grandmother until my grandmother
Speaker 2: passed away, and after that she became volatile, and now
Speaker 2: she has to be monitored twenty four to seven because
Speaker 2: she has threatened to kill people and harm herself. We've
Speaker 2: talked about putting her in a home for adults with
Speaker 2: mental disabilities, but she said that she doesn't want to go.
Speaker 2: Does she have the same rights as regular people because
Speaker 2: of her condition or does she have to do what
Speaker 2: her legal guardians want her to do?
Speaker 9: Well, I mean, if she has legal guardians in place,
Speaker 9: guardians that have been appointed by the court, then they're
Speaker 9: the ones that make the medical decisions, they're the ones
Speaker 9: that make the financial decisions, those kind of things. So
Speaker 9: you know, whether she wants to go or not, it's
Speaker 9: in the guardian's hands at that point. Now, to have
Speaker 9: gotten to the point where there's a guardian in place
Speaker 9: for an adult disabled, per individual with mental health or
Speaker 9: whatever it may be, obviously there has got to have
Speaker 9: been at some point some showing to the court typically
Speaker 9: that the person is unable to make those decisions on
Speaker 9: their own. So if this individual is such that she
Speaker 9: is not able to make those decisions, it sounds like
Speaker 9: the court made that determination during the guardianship process.
Speaker 3: I mean whoever this is, I'd have to give us
Speaker 3: a call.
Speaker 9: I'd love to ask a few more questions, but the
Speaker 9: basic just is if they've already proved to the court
Speaker 9: that she's not able to make her own decisions, then
Speaker 9: it would be the guardian's decision as to what happens
Speaker 9: to her and where she goes and things like that.
Speaker 2: What happens to somebody who has a guardianship, like in
Speaker 2: this example where the grandmother was sounded like the grandmother
Speaker 2: was in charge and then she passes, does someone else
Speaker 2: have to step up?
Speaker 9: Or yeah, absolutely, somebody else has to step in and
Speaker 9: become guardian at that particular juncture. So you know, guardianship
Speaker 9: terminates upon death of either individual. And if grandma was
Speaker 9: the guardian and she passed away and so, then somebody
Speaker 9: else has to file with the guardianship court to say, look,
Speaker 9: so and so has passed away, the individual needs a
Speaker 9: new guardian, and I'm stepping in so and maybe that's happened.
Speaker 2: We just don't know what happens in that influx time
Speaker 2: between the person passing away till the proceedings where the
Speaker 2: person is deemed the next caretaker.
Speaker 3: Well, I mean at that particular juncture.
Speaker 9: If the guardianship is terminated, then that person is their
Speaker 9: own legal decision maker and things like that, whether they're
Speaker 9: able to or not. And so that's why you know,
Speaker 9: at that juncture, if someone has passed away, we'd probably
Speaker 9: move in on some sort of emergency to show the court,
Speaker 9: I mean, depending upon the level of incapacity that the
Speaker 9: person has, moving with the court and say look, the
Speaker 9: guardian has passed away. We need someone in right away.
Speaker 9: And so you know, try to get that done as soon.
Speaker 2: As possible with us of Hinsley Associates. You can email
Speaker 2: us show at kmod dot com. You can text BMMS
Speaker 2: and whatever your question is to eight two nine four
Speaker 2: five or call eight three three four six ozho KMOD.
Speaker 2: This is an interesting one we've never gotten before either.
Speaker 2: Is this right? DHS refused to modify my hold support
Speaker 2: after I got a new job. I'm making seven k
Speaker 2: less than I was and they said it doesn't meet
Speaker 2: the modification standard. Also, I have two bonus kids that
Speaker 2: I have been taking care of for five years. Me
Speaker 2: and their mother are married, but I have not adopted
Speaker 2: them yet. DHS says I can't add them because I
Speaker 2: haven't adopted them. Yet DHS also said I can't ask
Speaker 2: for a modigan for twelve months, just seeing what I
Speaker 2: can do and if this is right or not.
Speaker 9: Okay, so let's do the easiest one first. The easiest
Speaker 9: one is the bonus kids. You don't get a modification
Speaker 9: on them. You can't count them because they are not
Speaker 9: biological children between you and your new wife. Okay, that's
Speaker 9: just not allowed. Unfortunately, the law does not contemplate that.
Speaker 9: And again, if you have a problem with that, please
Speaker 9: call your legislator for your district, who can make those
Speaker 9: changes down in Oklahoma City. Now the other parts of it.
Speaker 9: If his income has changed, there's no reason why they
Speaker 9: in my opinion, again, there may be something here we
Speaker 9: don't know, so please, who are this is? Understand? I
Speaker 9: can only answer based upon what you sent us. What
Speaker 9: you're telling me, at least in this position is is
Speaker 9: that if your income has changed and you're making less
Speaker 9: than you were before, you still have a right to
Speaker 9: a modification. Whoever this is, please call our office. I'd
Speaker 9: love for you to talk to our attorneys and tell
Speaker 9: us a little more because I can't say reason as
Speaker 9: to why DHS would not go ahead and allow a
Speaker 9: modification to happen unless there's something else again that we
Speaker 9: don't know, some other issue that's involved. As far as
Speaker 9: asking for one in twelve months, the law is is
Speaker 9: that if your income has changed at any point, even
Speaker 9: if it's less than twelve months, you can ask for
Speaker 9: that modification. So in this case, if you've got let's
Speaker 9: say it was modified, and then in three months you've
Speaker 9: got a job where you're making more making less, you
Speaker 9: can still ask for another modification. Modifications can be done anytime.
Speaker 9: Now understand, they don't have to be done in DHS
Speaker 9: Administrative court either. That's why you want to give us
Speaker 9: a call so we can file it in district court
Speaker 9: and have it modified in district court if DHS Administrative
Speaker 9: Court is not working with you in some way, so
Speaker 9: please give us a call. Love to hear a little
Speaker 9: bit more on this. But from what you're telling us,
Speaker 9: other than not adding your bonus.
Speaker 3: Kids, can't do that. That's not allowed.
Speaker 9: If you had a baby with your new wife, you could,
Speaker 9: but not bonus kids. Otherwise, there's no reason from what
Speaker 9: you're telling us right here anyway, that there can't be
Speaker 9: a modification.
Speaker 2: Jeff Finsley's with us from Hensley and associates, and it
Speaker 2: looks like we got a phone call. Good morning, you're
Speaker 2: on the air.
Speaker 10: What is your name, Fley?
Speaker 2: Andrew? What's your question for? Jeff Finsley.
Speaker 10: Okay, So I was imprison We was married, but she
Speaker 10: had a kid, two of them. Actually this was eight
Speaker 10: years ago. I just got a settlement. They took fourteen
Speaker 10: thousand dollars for back child'sport. Okay, that's how I found
Speaker 10: out about this. The children are not mine. I'm white,
Speaker 10: she's white. They're Mexican. She says openly that I'm not
Speaker 10: the father. They're garnishing my checks right now, right.
Speaker 9: And legally they can do that because any kids born
Speaker 9: during a marriage, whether you're together physically or not, those
Speaker 9: kids are legally yours. You were on the hook legally
Speaker 9: for them until they turn eighteen or age out. So
Speaker 9: whether she had kids or not while you were in prison,
Speaker 9: if you're still married, those kids are legally yours and
Speaker 9: you're on the hook financially for them.
Speaker 3: That's the law in Oklahoma.
Speaker 10: Unfortunately, we've been divorced for the kids were maybe a
Speaker 10: year old. I got out and got the divorce.
Speaker 9: Right, but they were born during the time you were married.
Speaker 9: And if they were born during the time you were married,
Speaker 9: they are still legally yours and you are legally financially
Speaker 9: responsible for them. Does she have somebody else that they
Speaker 9: that that calls them, that the kids called dad, or
Speaker 9: the dad that somebody that holds them out as their
Speaker 9: own kids?
Speaker 10: Another dude, She's not with anybody right now that I
Speaker 10: know of. But they know that their they know who
Speaker 10: their dad is.
Speaker 3: Right, I understand that. But the basic gist of it
Speaker 3: is is that if.
Speaker 9: The kids were born during the marriage, Okay, were these kids.
Speaker 3: I'm stuttering, were.
Speaker 9: These kids addressed in the decree when you got a divorce,
Speaker 9: when you got out?
Speaker 3: In other words, that the decree say anything about.
Speaker 10: These kids, not that I'm aware of.
Speaker 9: Okay, here's what you said your name earlier. I'm gonna
Speaker 9: give it to my staff if you will call my office. Okay,
Speaker 9: Corbyn is going to give out the number here at
Speaker 9: the end of the segment. Call my office and we'll
Speaker 9: set you up to talk to one of my attorneys.
Speaker 9: You've got something going on and there might be a
Speaker 9: way out, but we need I need a little more information,
Speaker 9: and we're kind of short on time here on the air,
Speaker 9: so please give us a call once you hear the
Speaker 9: number that Corbyn gives later. Okay, yes, we're in Tulsa.
Speaker 10: Okay, so even if I missed the number, I can,
Speaker 10: I can look you up.
Speaker 2: Yep, absolutely, just look up Pinsley Associates. Okay, Okay, all right,
Speaker 2: all right, buddy, good luck, all right, see you later.
Speaker 2: We bring this up all the time. Yeah, and it's
Speaker 2: still people aren't aware that if you have a person
Speaker 2: in your life that you were married to and you
Speaker 2: are no longer together and they get pregnant and have
Speaker 2: a child, you are not divorced those kids. That is
Speaker 2: your child, regardless if he can prove he wasn't with her.
Speaker 9: It doesn't matter me. It doesn't matter if they know
Speaker 9: who their dad is. That it doesn't matter if they
Speaker 9: know that you're not the dad. I mean, from a
Speaker 9: legal standpoint, in the state of Oklahoma and most states,
Speaker 9: you are legally dad, which means you are legally responsible
Speaker 9: for them, for child support and everything else until they
Speaker 9: age out.
Speaker 3: So you know, if you've got that situation, give us
Speaker 3: a call.
Speaker 9: There are alternatives potentially, but that's when we need more facts.
Speaker 2: Is that an out of date law or is that
Speaker 2: the legislator's going, hey, somebody's got to be the dad
Speaker 2: in the scenario.
Speaker 9: I think I don't necessarily think it's an out of
Speaker 9: date like. You have to understand, Oklahoma and most states
Speaker 9: are very much about kids need to be taken care of.
Speaker 9: People shouldn't be able to get off easy. I mean,
Speaker 9: forty fifty years ago you used to be able to
Speaker 9: sign your rights away in Oklahoma. You can't do that anymore.
Speaker 9: You haven't been able to do that for decades. The
Speaker 9: idea behind it is is somebody has to be responsible
Speaker 9: for these kids. Somebody's going to help pay for them
Speaker 9: because a lot of times, not all, but a lot
Speaker 9: of times these kids are on sooner care. So their
Speaker 9: states involved, which means there's state money being used, which
Speaker 9: means somebody's got to pay for it because our state
Speaker 9: is you know, poor for whatever reason, legislature, governor whatever.
Speaker 9: So with that being said, the idea is that somebody
Speaker 9: has to pay and so that's I don't think it's
Speaker 9: an out of date law. I think it's a law
Speaker 9: designed to make sure that children are taken care of.
Speaker 2: Does it need to be changed to have an exclusion
Speaker 2: like in this scenario.
Speaker 3: Well, I mean that's the thing is is that maybe?
Speaker 9: But again, as I always said, since we've been doing this,
Speaker 9: your local legislator, whoever that is in the state House
Speaker 9: or the state Senate, they are the ones that have
Speaker 9: the ability to make the change. Okay, we just had
Speaker 9: a bunch of primaries and all that other stuff. Okay,
Speaker 9: you have the physical ability to control who is going
Speaker 9: to be represented, and if you don't like the way
Speaker 9: the laws are, talk to them.
Speaker 3: They're the ones that can change it.
Speaker 2: Jeff Finsley from Hensland Associates is with us. Last text
Speaker 2: we got here says, can I modify out support if
Speaker 2: my income doesn't change, but if my expenses change? I e.
Speaker 2: Wife is a stay at home mom, so I'm paying
Speaker 2: bill all bills, car payments, et cetera.
Speaker 3: Nope, it doesn't work that way.
Speaker 9: It's income change only the state doesn't care about your bills.
Speaker 9: They just don't. I mean, the courts don't care about
Speaker 9: your bills. The fact that because the idea and I'm
Speaker 9: not trying to be harsh, it's just this is how
Speaker 9: it's looked at. Is is that the idea that you
Speaker 9: chose to take on more debt or to get married
Speaker 9: to somebody who's not working, or to buy a bunch
Speaker 9: of stuff and not have money, that's your fault. The
Speaker 9: way the state looks at it. Again, I'm trying to
Speaker 9: be harsh. This is just how judges and the state
Speaker 9: looks at it. They look at it as children come first,
Speaker 9: before you start buying stuff or getting involved with people
Speaker 9: who don't work. You have to pay your chial and
Speaker 9: support child support first and foremost. So Unfortunately, just because
Speaker 9: your expense is change, that is not a reason for
Speaker 9: modification in the state of Oklahoma.
Speaker 2: These things can be really complicated, and it sounds like
Speaker 2: when it comes to adult guardianships, those are even more
Speaker 2: complicated and canby That's why you need to have somebody
Speaker 2: help you that knows the laws and knows the navigation.
Speaker 2: We have people call all the time ask about DHS.
Speaker 2: That's probably the biggest argument I would give on why
Speaker 2: you need to hire Hensland Associates because they work with
Speaker 2: those people all the time. They know how to speak
Speaker 2: correct LINGO and get in with them and get things
Speaker 2: taken care of. Absolutely, so it doesn't matter if it's
Speaker 2: a DHS scenario, or it's a custody issue, or it's
Speaker 2: an adult guardianship issue. The folks at Hinsland Associates are
Speaker 2: there to help and you should call them three nine
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Speaker 2: throw your curveballs and you might find yourself in trouble
Speaker 2: in other areas of law, and the folks a Hinsland
Speaker 2: Associates can help with that as well.
Speaker 9: Absolutely so, anything in addition to famul law. If you've
Speaker 9: got something like a dui that you've been pulled over
Speaker 9: by the cops for whatever reason, for drinking and driving
Speaker 9: or drugs and driving. If you've got something as mundane
Speaker 9: as a beating ticket all the way up, or if
Speaker 9: you've got an issue where let's say probate, where you've
Speaker 9: got somebody who's passed away that needs a will dealt with,
Speaker 9: or you need a trust or a will or something
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Speaker 9: law we can help you with through our office in Pasca.
Speaker 9: Give Leah a call up at Shoemake Law Firm. That
Speaker 9: is our firm up there. If you can't remember her
Speaker 9: name or its name, give us a call a Hinsley
Speaker 9: and we will get you transferred up there. But literally
Speaker 9: anything in addition to family law we can help you with,
Speaker 9: and we'd love to help you out.
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Speaker 3: Hey too, Thanks you're listening to the Big Mad Morning Show.
Speaker 2: I was telling Lindsay this morning there were two well
Speaker 2: there was a couple crazy stories, but two specific crazy
Speaker 2: stories that I wanted to bring up. And one of
Speaker 2: them happened at the Quick Trip up North at seventy
Speaker 2: five and twenty and a altercation, a disagreement happened between
Speaker 2: a man and a woman. And the details I know
Speaker 2: is that the man got in his car, drove over
Speaker 2: the woman and killed her. Oh Jesus, and then drove
Speaker 2: off and they had to chase him down. And she,
Speaker 2: if I remember correctly, she was a mother of seven. Wow,
Speaker 2: And I have no idea what exactly happened. Hopefully he
Speaker 2: wasn't like I'm gonna run you down, and he just
Speaker 2: there was some confusion, and right, it wasn't premeditated. I
Speaker 2: think there's a big difference between like I'm gonna run
Speaker 2: you over with my car. I told you to get
Speaker 2: out of the way type of chaos and you're like
Speaker 2: I'm out of here and then just back up speed. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Have you guys been watching Dutton Ranch? No? I try,
Speaker 2: I say, I asked, because one of the characters that's
Speaker 2: on there, of course, you know how they do what
Speaker 2: they go to the prison, they find somebody to go,
Speaker 2: yeah or whatever. One of the characters on there, that's
Speaker 2: that's why he went to prison drunk one night, got
Speaker 2: in a fight with this old lady or whatever, went
Speaker 2: to get in the truck, backed up, didn't realize she
Speaker 2: was behind him, and ended up doing the same thing
Speaker 2: and ended up spending time in the big house. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't know. And I say, I hope only because
Speaker 2: not that it lessens the death of this person, right,
Speaker 2: but only because it makes it not so heinous that
Speaker 2: the world is filled with that hate you'd like to
Speaker 2: think the right, No, I know, but just a tragic
Speaker 2: story for that family, yeah, right, just crazy. The other
Speaker 2: chaotic story involves a old like a retirement house like
Speaker 2: an old folks place, okay, and their grandson came to
Speaker 2: visit them and stabbed the grandpa. She grabs the phone,
Speaker 2: calls nine to one one and while they're talking to her,
Speaker 2: he stabs her. Oh Jesus, and the line goes silent.
Speaker 2: And they ended up catching up with the kid because
Speaker 2: it's a kid, and he admitted to it. Damn yeah,
Speaker 2: I am the police. Like, I went and checked the
Speaker 2: video of the surveillance of the old folks home and
Speaker 2: the staff was like, yep, that's their grandson. Oh so
Speaker 2: this happened at the nursing home, at the old folks home. Yeah,
Speaker 2: not like you old folks right, right, I thought it
Speaker 2: happened at their house. No home like Porridge right and Bunko.
Speaker 2: They're just trying to live out the rest of their
Speaker 2: days peacefully. I don't know. I don't know if that's
Speaker 2: peacefully there, but I hear your point that that definitely isn't. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and just the idea that I don't know, I don't
Speaker 2: know if people just don't think there's consequences or I
Speaker 2: don't want to say video games, but like there's no
Speaker 2: real consequence in a video game. No, And so you
Speaker 2: don't understand consequences. Hey, you hit the button, start all
Speaker 2: over again. I don't want to think that that's the case.
Speaker 2: But you never know anymore. Man, I think I'm just
Speaker 2: gonna start saying this. Let your kids play with hammers, right,
Speaker 2: let them, let them play with hammers. Let them realize
Speaker 2: hammers break things. They can smash your finger, right, they're
Speaker 2: really dangerous. Yeah, let them let them. Let them burn
Speaker 2: their hand on the stove a few times. That feels
Speaker 2: a little child abuseless. But I hear what you're saying.
Speaker 2: But letting it play with hammers hammer's not indicative that
Speaker 2: the stove is like you're physically well. I'm not saying
Speaker 2: you put their hand on the stove. You just let
Speaker 2: let them touch it. Let don't touch it. It only
Speaker 2: takes about maybe twice three times for the slow ones
Speaker 2: in the back. I don't know how many times have
Speaker 2: you burnt your hand on the stove exactly. Some people
Speaker 2: are lesson learners, some people aren't. That's why I said,
Speaker 2: you know, for the slow ones in the back, me included.
Speaker 2: But again, that family, they lost two people, like two
Speaker 2: sets of people, right, they lost their son and they
Speaker 2: lost the grandparents because that kid's going to jail forever. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I just never understood how somebody can do that to
Speaker 2: their own parents or grandparents, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: Maybe it's just me I was I was taught to
Speaker 2: respect the elders. Yeah right, yeah, no matter who they are,
Speaker 2: if they're older than you, you respect them. And by
Speaker 2: respect that doesn't mean stab them with the knife. No. No,
Speaker 2: to be fair, I have stabbed my brother and he
Speaker 2: is older than me, but he stabbed me first, granted
Speaker 2: they were years apart. Well, I'm just gonna quote a
Speaker 2: line from m clarence has real nice parents, right right.
Speaker 2: Good for you that you have good parents. Not everybody's
Speaker 2: that lucky. Not everybody has really nice and loving people
Speaker 2: in their lives, and they have people that abuse them physically, mentally, sexually,
Speaker 2: take advantage of people around them in other ways, and
Speaker 2: they're just not nice people. I wonder if this particular case,
Speaker 2: if that's the other part of the story that we
Speaker 2: don't know about, right with the grandparents, Like, was was
Speaker 2: there any kind of abuse? I'm not saying that it
Speaker 2: justifies it, but it's kind of okay, I get it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't get that. I'm not a big
Speaker 2: fan of vigilante justice, right, nor am I? But I
Speaker 2: mean if you were, if you were abused sexually, physically
Speaker 2: or whatever as a child, or however long this goes on.
Speaker 2: I mean, people snap, wouldn't you if it went on
Speaker 2: for so long? I don't know. No amount of therapy
Speaker 2: can help you out. Yeah, I'm not a defender of snapping.
Speaker 6: Right, And he was safe from them? Now, they weren't
Speaker 6: a home.
Speaker 2: Well, it's not prison, it's not prison. How do you
Speaker 2: know his parents didn't force him, right? How do you
Speaker 2: know those people abuse their dad and their dad passed
Speaker 2: it on.
Speaker 6: Right?
Speaker 2: Being an old folks home is hardly safe. Hey, let's
Speaker 2: go to Grandpa's room. I want to show you some
Speaker 2: Pope Poia guide. I don't know what people show people
Speaker 2: at old folksongs. I'm just imagining. I'll show you the
Speaker 2: painting not painted. All right, there you go, Still got porridge,
Speaker 2: still got rice pudding from dinner. Yeah, to me, I'm
Speaker 2: not a defender of snapping. You still have a responsibility
Speaker 2: at core values to not harm individual even when things
Speaker 2: are hard. Yeah, I guess you're right. I guess I
Speaker 2: know you don't ever play cards with me I'm gonna
Speaker 2: read it every time you have a tell yeah, the
Speaker 2: eyes rolling right. No, I don't have any cards. My
Speaker 2: hand is crap. I'm just gonna put money in here.
Speaker 2: I don't know what. How do you play this game?
Speaker 2: All right, we got to take a break. We'll be back.