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Speaker 1: Made a decision. Oh thanks Sunny sun On I hadsion.

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Speaker 2: Nice.

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Speaker 1: So what's up, everybody? Welcome to her crying out loud.

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Speaker 3: It's a show about raising kids, but not the way

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we do it.

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Speaker 1: You don't. It's a show now, it's a show about

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us talking about shows.

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Speaker 3: Our last episode really needed that disclaimer, because my whole

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telling my kids like, be mediocre. Yeah probably, I'm sure

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is already getting backlash as we speak, be mediocre.

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Speaker 1: It's funny.

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Speaker 3: Don't aim high, aim lower, then you'll be pleasantly surprised. Yes, yes,

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I just like, I just love her, this girl so

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much and she you know, she's hard on herself and

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like she's got all these hard classes and she's you.

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Speaker 1: Know, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, God, if my day consisted of you know,

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she's on she's on the ADHD meds and she's like,

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I got to tell you. It is helping, but more

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on the weekends when I'm doing homework and less in

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class when I'm trying to like listen to the teacher.

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And I'm like, because listening to a teacher talk about

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chemistry is going to be boring. I don't care how much,

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Like I don't care if you're doing cocaine and which

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used to make me really interested in things, still not

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going to help you want to hear about chemistry?

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Speaker 1: Right? Yeah, how is she dealing with driving?

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Speaker 3: Is she driving? And she to take a back a

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little bit at a time. She drives a little bit

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here and there. Yeah, you know, she goes like up

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the street to start, she'll she'll go in our neighborhood.

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But she claims that the reason she's not driving herself

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to school yet is because of me or me and

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John because we tell her not to. But that's not true,

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Like you know, when kids are like She's like, yeah,

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I would totally be driving myself to school, but you

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guys haven't let me yet. Uh huh, Well yeah we have,

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Like we absolutely have let her. We've been like, if

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you want to drive herself to school, drive herself to school, right,

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But then she doesn't ever say like I.

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Speaker 1: Want to drive. Yeah, yeah she does. She have to

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take a freeway no, No, okay, Well, you know, I

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guess our kids go at their own pace, you know,

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I mean Natalia, she wanted to hit the road as

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soon as she could. Sonny took a little longer. But

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then when Sonny had a car for a while. He

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loved it. But now yeah, now he doesn't have a car.

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Well he doesn't need a car where he is, you know.

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But yeah, I guess there's so many. I have a

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lot of friends whose kids aren't really driving yet, you know,

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even though they're seventeen eighteen, right, you know. But I

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guess these days if they have friends at drive and

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then between that and Uber, I don't know, there's not

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really Like when I was that age, like I couldn't

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wait to drive. I couldn't wait to get out of

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my house. That's the thing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean, on the other hand, like Sadie and Xander, well,

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Xander does go to his girlfriend's house like all the

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time and he needs a ride every time.

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Speaker 1: Does he want to get his license?

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Speaker 3: I mean he has not mentioned it. So he passed

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the online school. He got a certificate so he could

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feasibly go get his permit.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh.

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Speaker 3: Not mentioned it for a little while he was studying,

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and I was asking to quiz him and he'd be like,

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not right now, Okay, I'm like, And Sadie passed her

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online Driver's ed direct or whatever thing. She was like, yeah,

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I want to go, I want to go make my

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appointment now, And I was like, slow down, Like it's

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not that easy you basically because all these kids blow

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past the online part. They just you can just skim

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it and then take the quizzes at the end. But

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to actually go get your permit, you have to know

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what you're doing. Remember remember how Natalia failed it? Like y, yeah,

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so because you have to really study and you have

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to quiz yourself, and you have to go on the

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DMV website and do sample tests. And I was like, Sadie,

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when you can get through a few of the tests

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and get all the answers right, then I'll make the

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appointment for you. So she buckled down. She was like, okay,

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quiz me, quiz me. And then I would make her

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like I'm like, I'm not scheduling the test until you.

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I want you to sit with me, and I want

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you to get a bunch of them right in a row.

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in the car on the way there. Well, Xander's is

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just not that interested.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, some kids are just not interested.

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Speaker 3: He told me, schedule if you schedule me the test,

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schedule me and then that will motivate me to rint

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And I'm like, no, because I can schedule it fast.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but no, right right.

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Speaker 3: Also, he should have done it in the summer because now,

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like I'm not having him missed school to go get his.

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Speaker 1: Permit, right, that's true.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so now I gotta wait for a day that

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there's no school, but that's not a holiday.

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Speaker 1: So how do you get to the host? That's yeah,

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that's true. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So at this point, I'm like, maybe he should just

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wait till winter break, right right, and then get his

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permit and then he can start. But then he has

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to like have a permit for six months before license.

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Speaker 1: Right. Well, I think sometimes too. Once they get their permit,

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and taking the test and going there, and but once

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they get their permit, I think then they get excited

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to like, you know, okay, not now I want to drive,

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you know. Then it kind of it just kind of

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like gets the ball rolling.

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Speaker 3: Also, I do think Xander will be a good driver.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think, yeah, he's just.

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Speaker 3: Well cautious, but also he has more I don't know

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how to explain it. He he's he has very quick reflexes,

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you know, which makes him like good at sports, but

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also just like he's fast, he's on the ball, whereas

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Xander has quick Like I feel like Xander will be

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easier for him, less of a learning curve to like

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make quick decisions and know whether to turn on a

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yellow light or you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get it. Yeah, So tell us

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how is your weekend?

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Speaker 3: Well, let's let's let's say hello to our Okay, let's

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say let's say how to our people. We got Sandra's

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not easy being green and Jennifer get up, and Aaron's

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a dirty Sanchez. Sarah Fano she's my Bison, Yeah, Stephanie's

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dnker Rinker, and Leslie is still coughing. She's claiming COVID

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is real. Alicia Escalante from the and Kelly Brandt.

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Speaker 1: She is my aunt and your aunt as well, and

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she'll take a plan parents.

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Speaker 3: Rebecca a hot, great ass, and Gabby and Missy are

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a mess.

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Speaker 1: They're just uh, they're from here to Oregon and back.

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Speaker 3: Katerina is really struggling with her molars right now. Yeah,

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I bet she is m Valerie, Bubba Fenwick and Polly Uh,

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we love your pancakes, Athena, we love your dancing and

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your lipstick. And Rita's rocking, Elizabeth Williams kids in her bassonette,

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and Leslie's Coast to Coast Nikki call your girl, Katie's

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rolling on e Kelly Latida and Diggers frolicking whoo boom. Okay,

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I so I went to the Oregon UCLA game.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh, it's so funny. Now are you gonna be

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going to these games?

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Speaker 3: You know? After this one? I'm not one hundred percent sure. Okay,

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it sounded okay. I did have fun. So we got

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our tickets. We sat in the student section. It was all.

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I hope Robin doesn't like yell at her phone. Robin

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and her husband weighed our season tickets. Yeah, they go

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to all the games. This game was at eight o'clock

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at night, so I guess you don't find out what

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time the game is for a while. So you buy

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your ticket, but you don't know what the game is

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going to be.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. We used to take the kids when they were

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like ten, eleven, twelve, for a few years in a row,

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Rose Bowl because our friends had season tickets. Yeah, and

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it was really fun. I have videos and pictures of

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them at the UCLA game. But yeah, I remember being

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like that, and then there's these the big games, the

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big rivalries. But yeah, yeah, you don't find out until

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like until it gets closer.

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Speaker 3: So I think maybe a lot of people didn't go

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to that game because it was late for them, although

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it's a Saturday night, so I don't know why that

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would be so late on a Saturday night. But yeah, yeah,

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but she had nothing to do with Well, okay, so

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a couple of I went with a couple of my

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mom front with my mom friend Sharon and her son

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goes to CLA. And then we got and then another

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dad friend of ours came, but he went and picked

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up his daughter who goes to UCLA and my friend

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Sharon's son. But Elbie wanted nothing to do with that.

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pick LB up too? And I was like no, she's

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like she's doing her own thing. She's very much like.

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I was like, how are you getting there? She goes,

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Speaker 1: Oh is that? Because I always wonder because the Rose

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bowls not close to the UCLA knows uh uh you know.

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so far away and there's that whole section for the students.

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students come, which is great, but it's like, did they

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take a bus? Like or do they all just come on?

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Speaker 3: They have these buses I guess, okay, called the router bus.

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You heard of this the US called the router bus.

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I don't know if that's a thing that's all colleges

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but we had we got tickets. Students bought us tickets,

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but not LB anyway, so my friend came over to

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our house. First, they wanted to leave like super early,

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so the game started at eight. But she's like, but

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we're going to go to a tailgate party. So I

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was like okay. So they wanted to leave at four o'clock. Wow, right,

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that's creation, that is dedication. Then when it was getting

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closer to four, she was like, hey, her husband's name

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is Joe. She was like, Joe thinks we should leave

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by three forty five? Is that okay? So I was like,

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to have like a drink or two. You know, I

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could be the designated driver. So she was like great.

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see where this is going. So then they're like, hey,

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can our friend our friend is coming. Would that be

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okay if he rides in the car with us? I

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was like yeah, sure whatever. So their friend came. He

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seemed like a nice guy, so John drove us out there. Okay,

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to the game with a bunch of his college buddies.

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Speaker 1: They were ducked out.

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Speaker 3: Ducked out, yes, yes, so, but Sharon was gonna be

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sitting with us because her you know, representing UCLA. Al Right,

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known what a Kashaw it was going to be Harsky.

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It's already a Kashaw. But now it's a big casino.

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Like you you get you get to the Rose Bowl,

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there is like there the roads are closed basically yes, right, yeah,

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there's what do you call those like courses. There's like barricades.

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like you gotta go this way. Now, you got to

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go this way, and then you know, then here's where

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the parking lot is. You're parking lot. We're in like

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lot seven. We're so freaking far from the thing, and

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it's all like stacked parking. So you're just like, God,

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You're just like, are we ever getting out of here?

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Are we gonna? Is this gonna go till tomorrow? Warning?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: And there's already tons of cars, like we're already there's

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a Lot one through seven. We got there at like

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four thirty, but we're already really all the way in

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Lot seven. Because these people are fucking serious about their

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college football.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 3: So Sharon's friend, now I've already forgotten if she's a

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UCLA alum. I don't think so. I think she went

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to school with Sharon, so they went to UCSB. Okay,

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but either her one of her kids wasn't a lump.

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But I don't know. These people are very serious. So

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they had set up a tailgating party. Okay, Sharon said,

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We're invited to a tailgating party. Now, I've never tailgated before, Kaylin.

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Have you been tailgated? Have you tailgated a little?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Well, I mean not at I don't. I can't

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remember when I did a sports one, but I you know,

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Bruce Springsteen, they have the tailgates. I mean, you know

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when you go to these games, you see the people tailgate. Yeah,

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they're like out there, they got the grill going, they're

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handing you a sausage, you know, a kilbasa and a

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beer and they're and they got their their chairs and

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they're all decked out or whatever team they're in due.

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Speaker 3: Yes, but here I am way older for I've never

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I didn't know, so I pictured in my mind, like

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you never tailgated before, were really so? I pictured a

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few some trucks and I pictured literal tailgate right like

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you in the back of your truck and people sit

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on the edge of the truck and like eat a

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burger or something. I don't know, bring some cookies. That's

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what I pictured. Tailgating with these cookies drinking some beers.

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Speaker 1: Shows you got it cooler.

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Speaker 3: I didn't know that these people are like making a hotel.

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Like I was like what. So shared goes, yeah, we're

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invited to this tailgating party and I was like, okay,

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so we're going to walk over to someone's pickup truck

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and she was like, yeah, it's going to be catered,

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like they've got food and it's a full bar.

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Speaker 1: And I was music going.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I don't know, like I don't know what to expect.

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So so we park our car and immediately there are

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kids that have like all this beer. This is not

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even the tailgating part. This is because I say to John,

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I'm like, so are we tailgating right now? He goes, no,

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not yet. And I was like, well, what do you

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call this that there's just people with the backs of

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their cars open, just like drinking beer. And John goes,

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I don't know people drinking beer by their cars, Like okay,

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so yeah, that's because yeah, pregaming.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I was like, okay, so this is not the tailgating

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part yet. He goes, no, not yet. So I'm like, okay,

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well now I'm hungry, though I'm not drinking. So they're

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all drinking John's immediately they're someone's handing him a beer. Hey, everybuddy,

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Like people are like sharing. Oh yeah, yeah, I think

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somebody had like a keg over there. This is just

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Lot seven. This is not the thing yet. Okay. So

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then finally we go over we go find her friend,

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which is in Lot six. They've got a big tent.

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They've got tables, all these tables set up. There's Jersey mics.

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They've got it to fully catered Jersey mics. There's a

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dessert table, there's appetizers. There's like a table with spinach

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dip and veggie trays.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Then they've got two big screen TVs with like these

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with the you know tables the like plastic. They're not

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they're like pop up. They're the same foldable tables and

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the play Yes, no, that's where the food is. But

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then they've got these tables that are like made of

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the same material that they the type of chairs that

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you open up at a sports game. Okay, it's like

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that vinyl you know. Then they've got little cup holders

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in them, so they just pop open these little tables

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and like you can sit on little folded bowl chairs

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and little foldable tables to put a beer in or whatever. Okay,

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I mean it is a massive setup. It is a

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big party. I mean there's like forty people at this.

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Like wow, it's like double tense. Yeah, it's like all

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I'm like John and I are like okay, yeah, wow,

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we had some food. We the hell paint.

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Speaker 1: Wait.

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Speaker 3: Then they're going walking around with shots shots skis. They're

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just like they've got these fireball shots. They're giving way

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out bottles of fireball, little teeny mini bottles of fireball right,

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and people are doing shots. Okay. So now, okay, so

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the friend that we drove with. As soon as we

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got there, this guy is like, no, he's our age, right.

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All these people all have grown kids, right that were with, Right,

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So that guy is like, immediately gets there, he like

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starts pounding beers. John has like a beer, maybe a

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second beer, I don't know. Then we get to the

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tailgating part. This guy's already drunk. Now you've got this

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other couple that had followed us. Then I hope I

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don't get in trouble. They don't know me, so I

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can't imagine they're ever going to listen to this. But

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this lady is like pounding drinks. Then when you were

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with not the one, not my friend, but the third

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couple and not the guy who drove with us. But

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now there's another couple that we had to stop by

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so they could follow us there. This this is like

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I'm trying to this guy looks like the guy looks

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like he would have been in the show duck Hunter.

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Picture that, and then picture a woman who would be

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dating a guy and that looks like he's from the

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show duck Hunter. Okay, these people are getting there drank on.

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Now we're at the tailgate party part and she they

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they're shotgunning beers like old school, like making the hole

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in the can of beer and then pop in the top.

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And the guy that we drove there is just like

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he shot guns two beers in a row. Then he's

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having like contests with like and then doing the thing

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where you like throw the can down and then.

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Speaker 1: Like stomp on it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I was like, what is happening? Like what am

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I learning? Okay? Should we stop and take it?

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Speaker 4: Break?

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Speaker 1: Nice. Yeah, speaking fighting fight fight fight.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. So I was like I was having fun, but

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like I don't drink, So it was weird to watch

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all of these grown people, right, and I can't help

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but have like a slight parent thing where I'm like,

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how are these people getting home?

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Speaker 1: Like, Yeah, that's a good question. But they weren't it

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didn't they Well, the one guy who was doing heavy

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drinking drove with me, but the other the couple, it

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was like the duck hunting couple.

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Speaker 3: They were dry. They drove, they drove. They drove because

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we had to go meet them somewhere so that they

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could follow us the rest of the way in. Yeah,

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they drove, like a lot of these people drove. All

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I'm saying is like, I'm not trying to police other

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people's fun. I know that, hey, they've got a long

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night ahead of them. Maybe they all stopped drinking. And

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the time they drove hours.

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Speaker 1: Weren't you there four hours before showtime? Yep?

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Speaker 3: Yep. But here's what I was what I was having

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this moment. I was saying to my friend and a John,

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I was like, the crazy thing is we were seeing

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there because it was all of us older people with

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grown kids, and then it was a bunch of co eds,

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you know, college kids, and I'm looking at these kids

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that are like, you know, eighteen, nineteen, twenty twenty one

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years old, and I was like that was me, Like

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we're the adults, now we're the parents. People are looking

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at us like, oh, there's the old people.

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Speaker 1: There's the dronk like shotgunning beats you.

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Speaker 3: Wrong, old people, but also like a lot of older

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women like myself trying to recapture their youth, like still

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trying to look young and cute, you know, getting our

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botox and our fillers or whatever and trying to recapture

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our youth being at these games. And I was like, wow,

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these kids have like their whole lives ahead of them there.

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I was just watching these young girls like flirt with

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cute young boys, and I was like, it wasn't that

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long ago. It doesn't seem like that long ago, right.

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Speaker 1: Right, even though we are older, our brain is still yeah,

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like you can walk around and go, wow, that co

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like guy's cute, you know, right, like, but it's creepy

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because we're older women.

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Speaker 3: I know. And then it's like you look in the mirror,

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or you catch your reflection in a window, or your

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phone is accidentally pointed at you when you go to

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open your camera and you're like that, who's that old

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wrinkly lady? And you know, and then you also it

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just brought up like this idea that you're also kind

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of invisible, like you're the parent, you know, when the younger,

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when the kids are talking to you and their friends

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are to talking to you, they're like they have respect, yes,

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Like they're speaking to you like you're a grown up.

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And you're like, no, bitch, I'm young, like it I

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was your age, right, living the life that you're living

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like me, like drinking at keg parties and like flirting

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with cute boys and like, yeah, how did it go?

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Speaker 1: It went by so fat, It does go by fast.

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I know, I know, but so wait, this is this

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this tailgating thing is just so hilarious to me. So

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what were you concerned that the guy's gonna puke in

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the back of your car on the way home or.

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Speaker 3: Like I was, yes, I was like, wow, that he's

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really getting his drink on. I was like, is he

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gonna be okay for the ride home? And my friend goes, yeah, honestly,

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like he this is how he drinks. But he's always fine, right,

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I'm like, and he was spoiler alert, he was totally fine.

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He was not even acting drunk at all when I

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drove him home later that night. So no, you know

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what my main concern was was like, am I gonna

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I'm gonna have to pee? Like, I'm gonna have to

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use a porta potty. I used to not have to

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pee for super longions of time, but I was having

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anxiety that like, this is a long day and I'm

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drinking a lot of water and now like I want

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to make sure that It was kind of a ridiculous worry.

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It was fine. Yeah, I used a porta potty. It

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was no big deal.

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Speaker 1: And then they got the bathrooms in the stadium.

467
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 3: They do, but I was like, is there gonna be

468
00:26:34,319 --> 00:26:38,039
like crazy long lines. It ended up being fine. So

469
00:26:38,279 --> 00:26:40,839
eventually we're there for a few hours, and then we

470
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:43,480
walked over to the stadium and we got our seats.

471
00:26:43,559 --> 00:26:45,480
Speaker 1: Were you bored after like an hour and a half.

472
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:48,680
I was so fucking bored. I mean, come on, that's

473
00:26:48,759 --> 00:26:50,559
so long before the games.

474
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:53,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then it was a blowout, so and where

475
00:26:53,319 --> 00:26:57,000
the seats were too, we couldn't really see that well

476
00:26:57,039 --> 00:27:00,880
because we were over by all the way by the

477
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:04,160
end zone for one of the sides, so when they're

478
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:05,599
running the other way.

479
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:07,799
Speaker 1: No, well, not even be at the gates.

480
00:27:07,839 --> 00:27:09,839
Speaker 3: It was so much better to be watching it on TV.

481
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:13,920
There was no point. We were being so funny though.

482
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:16,519
The dad that we were with. That's the dad of

483
00:27:16,519 --> 00:27:19,240
one of Elbie's friends was being so funny. He kept

484
00:27:19,279 --> 00:27:21,759
yelling at all the college, all the UCLA students in

485
00:27:21,759 --> 00:27:24,480
front of us. He was like, makes some fucking noise.

486
00:27:25,079 --> 00:27:30,319
And then they'd be like, oh, okay, okay. He's like,

487
00:27:30,519 --> 00:27:34,279
I want to hear you make some noise right now.

488
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:37,759
He'd be like, all of you stand up right. He

489
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:40,440
was being funny though, ye yeah, but it was making

490
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:43,599
me laugh really hard, and my friend Sharon was being

491
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:46,960
really funny. We were having so much fun. Okay, So

492
00:27:47,079 --> 00:27:50,400
then meanwhile, I'm life three sixteen lb right, like, where

493
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:54,079
is this bitch? So she had not left, not left,

494
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:57,319
not left at like six point twenty, She's like starting

495
00:27:57,359 --> 00:27:59,880
to get on a bus, but.

496
00:28:00,079 --> 00:28:03,440
Speaker 1: The game starts at eight though, right exactly.

497
00:28:03,079 --> 00:28:04,480
Speaker 3: Yes, So I don't know.

498
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:06,839
Speaker 1: I was thinking, because you were so bored and we

499
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:10,119
were there for so long. Yes, where's somebody else? Like

500
00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:10,559
a doctor?

501
00:28:10,839 --> 00:28:15,400
Speaker 3: Exact sober? So Elbie gets there. She's adorable. She and

502
00:28:15,559 --> 00:28:18,480
I ended up seeing her walk past me, and of

503
00:28:18,519 --> 00:28:21,559
course we're all screaming Elbe, and she doesn't hear me,

504
00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:24,720
or pretends not to hear me. But then I texted

505
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:26,720
her I was like, we're like five rows behind you.

506
00:28:27,279 --> 00:28:30,680
So she came over and said hi, and that was

507
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,519
really cute. But then she was sitting with her friends

508
00:28:33,599 --> 00:28:36,559
and yeah, but it was like nice to see her,

509
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,000
of course, but it was not like I was going

510
00:28:39,039 --> 00:28:42,319
to the game with her. She had no interest. She

511
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:44,440
came and stood with us for a little while, but

512
00:28:44,519 --> 00:28:48,759
my friend's kid sat with us, and the other the

513
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:52,640
dad's daughter sat with us too, so like Ilbe had

514
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:53,160
no interest.

515
00:28:53,319 --> 00:28:57,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, she was her first game, right, first game. Yeah,

516
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,880
and she was in the student section, which is cute,

517
00:29:00,079 --> 00:29:03,119
and she's mid rush, so she's like she came up

518
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,279
to tell me about how excited she was about the

519
00:29:05,279 --> 00:29:07,920
houses and you know, talk to us about that a

520
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:08,359
little bit.

521
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:11,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, such an exciting thing. But she left it like halftime,

522
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:15,119
Oh really, Yeah, we looked down. She's gone, I check

523
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:18,960
live three sixty. She's like on the two ten freeway somewhere.

524
00:29:19,079 --> 00:29:22,559
I'm like, okay, I haven't talked to her. I don't

525
00:29:22,559 --> 00:29:26,920
know where she went, right, but yeah, so they left,

526
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:30,720
so okay, So I'm stuck there though, because now we're

527
00:29:30,759 --> 00:29:34,799
bored and want to leave. But the friends that were

528
00:29:34,839 --> 00:29:38,079
with were rooting for Oregon. And they were sitting some

529
00:29:38,119 --> 00:29:41,599
of them were sitting on with an Oregon section. Well

530
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:43,680
they're having a great time because we're getting killed.

531
00:29:43,799 --> 00:29:45,319
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, they're.

532
00:29:45,079 --> 00:29:48,559
Speaker 3: Having a good old time, like watching their team defeat us.

533
00:29:49,039 --> 00:29:51,559
We made like no offensive points.

534
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, Sonny was bombed. Sonny's a huge UCLA fan.

535
00:29:54,759 --> 00:29:57,680
Speaker 3: So we had like a pick six so which is

536
00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:00,119
like an interception, and then they bring it back and

537
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:03,400
then we had a couple of field goals. That's the

538
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:05,440
only points we put up on the board. So there

539
00:30:05,519 --> 00:30:10,240
was like then the quarterback got hurt. So finally we're

540
00:30:10,279 --> 00:30:13,880
like we're leaving. So then it was this whole adventure

541
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:15,880
getting back to our car because now it's dark.

542
00:30:17,039 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 1: So did you stay the whole game, not the hole game,

543
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:24,000
the almost to the end?

544
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, well we definitely. I think we left in the

545
00:30:27,279 --> 00:30:32,359
fourth quarter and then so we find our car, which was,

546
00:30:32,359 --> 00:30:34,960
like I said, a whole adventure. So there's this at

547
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:37,480
the Rose Bowl. I don't know if you've parked near

548
00:30:37,519 --> 00:30:40,880
where there's these big cement gully. There's like a big

549
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:45,640
gully right that goes like it's a gully, it's a

550
00:30:45,799 --> 00:30:49,680
cement thing that has it's very steep, you know, So

551
00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:52,079
there's a bridge to walk over it at one point,

552
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:55,119
so we found ourselves on the wrong side of this

553
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:57,200
gully and our car was on the other side, so

554
00:30:57,240 --> 00:31:00,279
then we had to double all the way back to

555
00:31:00,359 --> 00:31:04,240
this bridge, across the bridge and come back. Well, when

556
00:31:04,279 --> 00:31:06,480
we're on the other side of the gully, all of

557
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:12,519
a sudden, we hear this crash and like banging, crashing,

558
00:31:12,599 --> 00:31:15,279
car crashing noises, and then all these people are yelling

559
00:31:16,039 --> 00:31:20,240
a car had gone over basically like the cliff and

560
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:22,119
driven into the gully.

561
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:23,559
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

562
00:31:23,799 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 3: And then I mean they had to have fucked up their.

563
00:31:27,839 --> 00:31:29,599
Speaker 1: Car, Oh my god.

564
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 3: And people were screaming and yelling. But then we watched

565
00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:35,720
the car started driving on the side of the gully,

566
00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:38,920
got up a bunch of speed, and then got out,

567
00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:42,039
got out and then just like drove off.

568
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 1: That's some crazy driving.

569
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:48,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, But also like how drunk right you have to

570
00:31:48,839 --> 00:31:52,160
be to drive into a gully and then drive yourself

571
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:54,799
out of the gully and then just like speed off.

572
00:31:55,359 --> 00:32:00,000
That's insane, yeah, because I was like, their car is crashed, right,

573
00:32:00,039 --> 00:32:02,880
and John's like yeah, but.

574
00:32:02,799 --> 00:32:04,880
Speaker 1: They still could drive it and they got they got

575
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:08,279
enough speed to get Wow, that's got sy driving.

576
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:14,079
Speaker 3: So then I was like, this whole thing is dangerous.

577
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:17,200
Speaker 1: Like now I know, oh my god, I can't believe

578
00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:18,640
you've never been to a tailgate.

579
00:32:18,799 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 3: No, but how much drunk driving are people doing at

580
00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:26,119
these things? I mean, I don't know. I think that they.

581
00:32:27,119 --> 00:32:31,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think they drink early, early on, you know.

582
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:35,200
And also dudes, guys you know that have been drinking

583
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:39,119
for years. I don't know. I think they're just better

584
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:41,799
at it. They know when to sober up. And also like,

585
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,599
what but the where you did you eat some good

586
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:51,559
food like barbecue or the Jersey mikess too, But I

587
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:55,519
like it when they're grilling up the burgers and stuffs

588
00:32:55,519 --> 00:33:00,559
and the sausages and peppers, and yeah that's the best

589
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:03,960
because I would come out of a concert and they'll

590
00:33:04,039 --> 00:33:07,000
be like out there late at night, like growing up still,

591
00:33:07,039 --> 00:33:09,720
like you know, finishing off the food they have, and

592
00:33:09,799 --> 00:33:12,119
I would just be like, I'll give you a five

593
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:14,599
bucks for hot dog right now, I'm starving.

594
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah I was. I was very hungry. So yeah,

595
00:33:19,359 --> 00:33:21,880
so I ate the Jersey Mics. Yeah, had a cookie

596
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:27,440
because you know, back on the sugar. So yeah, so

597
00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:29,720
that was sat So then yeah, we and then I

598
00:33:29,839 --> 00:33:31,960
drove everybody home and.

599
00:33:33,279 --> 00:33:36,200
Speaker 1: That's good. Yeah. Yeah, so you were the designated driver.

600
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:42,160
Speaker 3: And then, as you know, Saturday night, Jean Smart hosted SNL.

601
00:33:42,359 --> 00:33:42,839
Did you know that?

602
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:43,799
Speaker 1: Well, I didn't know that.

603
00:33:44,119 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 3: Yeah.

604
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Speaker 3: Nice.

642
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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, so.

643
00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:04,519
Speaker 3: SNL you know, I'm kind of friends with Gene, right.

644
00:36:05,119 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 1: I heard that's that's what they're saying in the streets.

645
00:36:08,039 --> 00:36:09,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I haven't talked to her in like a

646
00:36:09,559 --> 00:36:12,679
really really long time. But when we heard she was

647
00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:16,159
hosting SNL, I was like, I should text her and

648
00:36:16,519 --> 00:36:20,039
wish her luck, and then Xander and Sadie were like,

649
00:36:20,079 --> 00:36:22,000
oh my god, you have to do it. So I

650
00:36:22,039 --> 00:36:24,119
sent her a text and I just wrote, Hey, good

651
00:36:24,199 --> 00:36:27,519
luck hosting SNL next Saturday. Easy on the cocaine.

652
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:29,599
Speaker 1: That's cute.

653
00:36:30,039 --> 00:36:32,440
Speaker 3: So she wrote back, I just have to read you

654
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:35,719
what she wrote back, because she wrote back ha and

655
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:38,960
then in all caps and then with a like a emoji.

656
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:44,159
Remember she's like really into emojis, with a googly eyed

657
00:36:44,599 --> 00:36:47,480
face with the tongue owl like ha. And then she

658
00:36:47,559 --> 00:36:52,880
wrote f YI play reading postponed until TBA in October. Sorry,

659
00:36:53,679 --> 00:36:57,000
hope y'all are well? Okay? So I was like, she

660
00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:57,960
doesn't know who this is?

661
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:01,199
Speaker 1: Oh really, you don't know what she means either.

662
00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:03,960
Speaker 3: I don't have no idea what that means, but like

663
00:37:04,039 --> 00:37:07,119
it's obviously. But then so then of course my brain

664
00:37:07,199 --> 00:37:09,800
was like, so am I not in her phone anymore?

665
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:13,039
Like yeah, so did it just come up as a

666
00:37:13,119 --> 00:37:17,480
random number or does she know more than one Stephanie

667
00:37:18,079 --> 00:37:23,599
or I don't know. Let's analyze this again. FYI play

668
00:37:23,639 --> 00:37:31,360
reading postponed until TBA in October period, Sorry and then

669
00:37:31,559 --> 00:37:35,920
hope y'all are well play reading? Why would I be?

670
00:37:36,159 --> 00:37:38,679
Why would she be apologizing to me about a play

671
00:37:38,679 --> 00:37:39,800
reading getting postponed?

672
00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 1: You know, Stephanie, I really I I come to find

673
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:50,039
out a lot of people sometimes just are a little

674
00:37:50,079 --> 00:37:55,760
scatter brained, and they talk like they think you know

675
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:59,679
what they're talking about, uh huh, and or they think

676
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:05,320
they're talking to somebody. Maybe maybe there is more than one.

677
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:07,679
Maybe there is more than one Stephanie. But wouldn't she

678
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:11,719
have your full name or wouldn't she you know, sometimes

679
00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:13,960
when your kids are you would put the kids.

680
00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:18,599
Speaker 3: Well. I didn't say anything like right, like Xander says, Hi,

681
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:22,920
I didn't give her any clues. I just said good

682
00:38:23,039 --> 00:38:28,119
luck and then made a cocaine joke. I mean, I

683
00:38:28,199 --> 00:38:30,880
guess I could be. Maybe she knows a hundred Stephanie's

684
00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:35,519
she's very very famous right now. No, she's hosting SNL.

685
00:38:35,639 --> 00:38:39,000
She was hosted the fiftieth anniversary, the season premiere.

686
00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:40,679
Speaker 1: Oh it was the season premiere.

687
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:45,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, but if they're fiftieth anniversary.

688
00:38:45,679 --> 00:38:47,320
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is when you're you know, when

689
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:50,880
your friends, your kids make friends, you put like Stephanie

690
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:54,159
and then like I would put on my phone Xander's mom.

691
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:59,320
You know you do that, right, So maybe she doesn't

692
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:02,000
have it that way. Maybe she just says Stephanie, W

693
00:39:02,599 --> 00:39:05,760
I don't know, and then I only saw the I don't.

694
00:39:06,199 --> 00:39:08,400
Speaker 3: No, I agree. I just thought it was funny that

695
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:10,599
it was like, Okay, she doesn't know, she's she's not

696
00:39:10,679 --> 00:39:13,920
putting the name to the Yeah, it is kind of

697
00:39:14,039 --> 00:39:19,599
just yeah. But hey, she responded and her play got postponed,

698
00:39:19,679 --> 00:39:20,960
so you know, and.

699
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:21,880
Speaker 1: She's sorry about it.

700
00:39:22,199 --> 00:39:24,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I just thought it was funny.

701
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:25,280
Speaker 1: So did you watch it?

702
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:30,360
Speaker 3: I did watch it, Yeah, and it wasn't great. But

703
00:39:30,599 --> 00:39:35,159
sn o is the writing is not like it used

704
00:39:35,199 --> 00:39:38,719
to be. No, I know, Bowen Yang is really funny,

705
00:39:40,159 --> 00:39:44,400
and the Weekend Update is still funny. And the cold

706
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:46,599
open was really funny. They had a lot of guests

707
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:49,599
they were doing They did a funny Kamala and they

708
00:39:49,599 --> 00:39:54,199
did a funny Joe Biden and they but yeah, the

709
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:56,119
rest of the show was like, but.

710
00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:59,599
Speaker 1: How was her opening monologue?

711
00:40:00,119 --> 00:40:00,920
Speaker 3: Sorry it was okay?

712
00:40:01,159 --> 00:40:05,039
Speaker 1: Yeah, I I you didn't see it?

713
00:40:05,079 --> 00:40:05,559
Speaker 3: Did you watch it?

714
00:40:05,639 --> 00:40:07,679
Speaker 2: Kaylen, No, I don't. I don't watch US.

715
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 1: No, now I'm gonna watch it.

716
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:11,880
Speaker 4: I mean, I guess it depends if they have a

717
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:15,199
guest on that I really like, then I'll watch it. Yeah,

718
00:40:15,559 --> 00:40:17,480
like when Shane Gillis was on US and I was like, Okay,

719
00:40:17,519 --> 00:40:19,719
I got to watch this one. But for the most part,

720
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:21,960
now I don't just really find it that funny.

721
00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:28,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I find it awkward sometimes. Yeah, some skits

722
00:40:28,559 --> 00:40:30,320
are just really like.

723
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 3: Oh, I don't really watch it normally. We just watched

724
00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:38,159
it cause to see Gene right right now. Yeah, Kaylin,

725
00:40:38,559 --> 00:40:42,480
you had some adventures with your kids this weekend.

726
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:44,119
Speaker 2: We went to a birthday party.

727
00:40:44,599 --> 00:40:47,440
Speaker 4: Ila's classmate had a party at her house, at her

728
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:49,760
friend's house, and so we went over there. They had

729
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:53,000
two big, you know, like inflatable water slides and a

730
00:40:53,039 --> 00:40:55,000
trampoline and.

731
00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:55,519
Speaker 2: There was a lot of kids there.

732
00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, really very hot.

733
00:40:57,079 --> 00:40:57,320
Speaker 2: Yeah.

734
00:40:57,360 --> 00:40:59,119
Speaker 3: Did they invite the whole class?

735
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:02,960
Speaker 4: Uh, we didn't see the whole class there. There were

736
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:04,639
a couple kids, but I'm not sure.

737
00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:07,719
Speaker 3: You don't know if the whole class was invited.

738
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:08,119
Speaker 2: Though, I don't know.

739
00:41:08,199 --> 00:41:09,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, do they have a rule that you have to

740
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:12,159
invite the whole class or fewer than seven kids.

741
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:12,679
Speaker 2: I don't know.

742
00:41:13,679 --> 00:41:15,920
Speaker 3: See Kaylen doesn't. He doesn't know.

743
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:17,800
Speaker 1: Because he doesn't have to know these things, right, I know,

744
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:19,679
I know Amy knows. Well, what'd you do?

745
00:41:20,119 --> 00:41:23,199
Speaker 3: I guarantee you Amy knows, or policy is for birthday

746
00:41:23,199 --> 00:41:24,239
parties or she does.

747
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:27,920
Speaker 1: But like, for instance, Kaylen, what'd you do the whole time?

748
00:41:28,079 --> 00:41:28,920
Speaker 2: I watched football?

749
00:41:29,119 --> 00:41:31,800
Speaker 1: Yeah? There you go? Case closed?

750
00:41:32,599 --> 00:41:36,119
Speaker 3: So not drop off yet they're too young? No, right y?

751
00:41:36,199 --> 00:41:38,639
Speaker 2: I know we stayed there. There's a bunch of parents there.

752
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:42,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel see remember when you were the kids

753
00:41:42,639 --> 00:41:45,480
were at the age there's that weird age where when

754
00:41:45,519 --> 00:41:50,360
you have a party you have to count for entertaining

755
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:54,719
the parents. Right, Yeah, So when you're thinking about ordering food,

756
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:56,880
or even if it's just pizza, you have to think

757
00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:58,280
about parents.

758
00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 1: Are the parents gonna want to have just pizza? Yeah?

759
00:42:03,039 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 3: Do I have to get a salad for the parents?

760
00:42:05,039 --> 00:42:06,039
So was there good food?

761
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:11,360
Speaker 2: It was Costco pizza, It was pretty good? Yeah?

762
00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:14,280
Speaker 3: Okay, did Amy go or was thish?

763
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:14,440
Speaker 1: I know?

764
00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 2: We both went.

765
00:42:17,119 --> 00:42:20,639
Speaker 3: So it was like something to do for both of you.

766
00:42:20,679 --> 00:42:22,880
Speaker 1: See now, Caitlin, you do get a lot of credit

767
00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:26,519
because you do go to a lot of things I do. Yeah,

768
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:28,800
like you go to their games and you go to

769
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:30,599
their the birthday parties.

770
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:34,199
Speaker 2: And Ila scored three goals in her for the weekend.

771
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh wow, I love ooh girl.

772
00:42:38,679 --> 00:42:38,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

773
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:42,639
Speaker 4: Well, there's like there's a little like tent set up

774
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:44,599
kind of at the park where they sell like toys

775
00:42:44,639 --> 00:42:47,440
and stuff. And I was playing and she wasn't really

776
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:49,280
into whatever, and she was like, Hey, can I get

777
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:51,719
a toy? And I was like no, And I was like,

778
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:53,840
but if you score a goal, I'll get you some candy.

779
00:42:54,159 --> 00:42:56,159
And then all of a sudden, she was very into

780
00:42:56,159 --> 00:42:57,039
the soccer game.

781
00:42:57,199 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 1: Oh wow, see how that works?

782
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, like right away.

783
00:43:01,639 --> 00:43:02,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, pretty much.

784
00:43:03,119 --> 00:43:08,360
Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's hilarious. That's so cute. So did

785
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:10,559
you have to get her three pieces of candy since

786
00:43:10,559 --> 00:43:11,000
she scored?

787
00:43:11,039 --> 00:43:13,039
Speaker 2: She honestly, she forgot about it. We never ended up

788
00:43:13,079 --> 00:43:13,679
going to the store.

789
00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:17,400
Speaker 1: That's the best. It's just so funny.

790
00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:20,360
Speaker 3: Oh, that's so funny. What about Blake?

791
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:23,760
Speaker 4: Blake did not score any goals in her game, but

792
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:25,000
she tried very hard.

793
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:29,639
Speaker 3: So so cute.

794
00:43:30,079 --> 00:43:32,880
Speaker 4: There's a real go getter on Blake's team that was

795
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:35,519
a bit of a ball hog, you know, just kind

796
00:43:35,519 --> 00:43:38,079
of taking the ball at every turn. So you're just

797
00:43:38,119 --> 00:43:40,239
like all right, you know you're running around out there.

798
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:42,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, those ball hogs.

799
00:43:43,159 --> 00:43:44,320
Speaker 3: Yeah that's the worst.

800
00:43:44,559 --> 00:43:46,800
Speaker 1: Yeah it was the ball. But at that age you

801
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:48,719
kind of needs somebody to take over.

802
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:54,760
Speaker 3: Yeah. The worst are boy young boys basketball. Those boys

803
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:56,559
are the worst ball hogs.

804
00:43:56,639 --> 00:43:58,719
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah I hated that.

805
00:43:59,079 --> 00:44:02,320
Speaker 3: Yeah. So Kaylin, are you enjoying? Like is it fun?

806
00:44:03,119 --> 00:44:07,480
Speaker 2: Do you like sometimes other times it's a hassle.

807
00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:10,920
Speaker 3: What parts of hassle? Let's hear you vents.

808
00:44:10,639 --> 00:44:13,039
Speaker 2: Just going to the soccer the soccer practices.

809
00:44:13,079 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 4: I go to two a week and I bring my

810
00:44:15,079 --> 00:44:16,920
lawn chair and I just set up and then I

811
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:20,840
just sit there and you know, it's boring, right, But

812
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:22,239
it's fun to watch them in the games.

813
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:23,400
Speaker 2: But practice is boring.

814
00:44:23,679 --> 00:44:31,000
Speaker 1: Practice is boring. Yeah, games are funner. But yeah, it's

815
00:44:31,039 --> 00:44:34,599
just I feel for Kaylin, like he's so easy going.

816
00:44:35,159 --> 00:44:38,079
You know, it's just a it's kind of you just

817
00:44:38,159 --> 00:44:38,920
roll with the flow.

818
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:40,800
Speaker 2: I do. I do roll with the flow.

819
00:44:41,119 --> 00:44:42,559
Speaker 3: Do you talk to the other parents?

820
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:46,320
Speaker 1: No, See that's the other thing. You're not fighting with

821
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:49,639
any parents yet or anything. You're not bumbing like cheese.

822
00:44:49,679 --> 00:44:50,440
It's off of them.

823
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:53,039
Speaker 3: No, are you finding any other parents annoying?

824
00:44:54,039 --> 00:44:55,880
Speaker 4: No, they're all cool, I guess. I mean they all

825
00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:57,920
talk to each other. So why don't you talk.

826
00:44:57,800 --> 00:44:59,280
Speaker 2: To them because I don't want to.

827
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:04,480
Speaker 4: Why I don't want to It's that's.

828
00:45:04,159 --> 00:45:07,039
Speaker 1: Like my guy friends that are dads. They don't want

829
00:45:07,079 --> 00:45:10,400
to talk to any other parents either. I mean I

830
00:45:10,599 --> 00:45:12,960
can three get three guy friends off the top of

831
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:15,239
my head that have kids. They go to their games

832
00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:17,000
and they don't want to talk. They don't want to

833
00:45:17,039 --> 00:45:20,039
socialize with the other parents. They just kind of sit

834
00:45:20,119 --> 00:45:21,599
off on their own.

835
00:45:22,639 --> 00:45:24,599
Speaker 3: So does Amy go to any of this stuff too?

836
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:25,480
Speaker 2: Your games?

837
00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:29,000
Speaker 3: Okay? But yeah, you're in charge of the practices because

838
00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:30,239
you have the flexible schedule.

839
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:32,599
Speaker 4: Yeah, and she's making dinner too. It's right around dinner time.

840
00:45:32,679 --> 00:45:35,199
So yeah, she stays home with one of the girls.

841
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:37,719
I take the other one to practice.

842
00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:39,519
Speaker 1: Okay, that's nice, that's good.

843
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:41,639
Speaker 3: Okay, So it's a little it.

844
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:44,320
Speaker 2: Talks to all the parents, so yeah, let her do that.

845
00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:46,159
Speaker 3: So have you had to go to any more like

846
00:45:46,199 --> 00:45:47,199
school functions?

847
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:51,280
Speaker 2: No, not yet. There's I have to work some school

848
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:54,599
function in like two weeks. It's October.

849
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:57,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, I got to go and spend a Sunday working

850
00:45:57,280 --> 00:45:58,559
on some like booth or something.

851
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:01,199
Speaker 3: Yeah, Halloween a Halloween festival.

852
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:04,679
Speaker 2: No, it's something else, like Carnival festival. That's something like that.

853
00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's only going to go downhill from here, kaln

854
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:13,760
Like he's only going to be more expected of you.

855
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:16,599
Like kindergarten is kind of the sweet spot. It's like

856
00:46:16,599 --> 00:46:19,159
they're just gearing up to expect a lot from you

857
00:46:19,679 --> 00:46:23,239
as they get into the other grades, and there's gonna

858
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:25,960
be stuff at their school that you need to go

859
00:46:26,039 --> 00:46:29,599
to to like this little show or that show or

860
00:46:29,639 --> 00:46:30,840
this parent night or whatever.

861
00:46:31,039 --> 00:46:36,199
Speaker 1: Like it's constant, yeah, until you catch on and go, okay,

862
00:46:36,199 --> 00:46:38,119
fuck this. I don't need to go to every every

863
00:46:38,559 --> 00:46:43,159
like I don't have to volunteer at every event, right, Yeah.

864
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:44,800
Speaker 4: We need to make like a certain amount of hours,

865
00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:47,440
like we need to put in like thirty hours over

866
00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:49,719
the year at school events.

867
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:50,760
Speaker 1: Wow.

868
00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:53,800
Speaker 4: Or you can just pay money, right, But I already

869
00:46:53,840 --> 00:46:56,039
paid money, so I wouldn't have to do any fundraising stuff.

870
00:46:56,559 --> 00:46:58,000
So I was like, all right, so at least I'll

871
00:46:58,000 --> 00:46:58,719
work the hours.

872
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:00,559
Speaker 1: Yeah.

873
00:47:00,639 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 3: Oh wait, so wait, if you already paid money so

874
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:04,920
you don't have to do.

875
00:47:04,880 --> 00:47:07,719
Speaker 4: It, you're separate things. One is fundraising and the other

876
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:11,000
one is like working volunteering.

877
00:47:11,079 --> 00:47:15,519
Speaker 3: Right, So I thought, if you pay money for the fundraising,

878
00:47:15,559 --> 00:47:17,000
then you don't have to do the volunteer.

879
00:47:17,079 --> 00:47:19,559
Speaker 1: Now I still got to now because they the fundraising

880
00:47:19,639 --> 00:47:19,920
is you.

881
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:22,519
Speaker 2: I can pay the money to not volunteer as well.

882
00:47:22,559 --> 00:47:25,119
Speaker 4: But since I already paid to not fundraise, I feel

883
00:47:25,199 --> 00:47:27,920
like I'll just work work the volunteer hours.

884
00:47:28,159 --> 00:47:28,960
Speaker 3: I see. It's like.

885
00:47:31,559 --> 00:47:34,239
Speaker 1: It's like Coltrans working on the side of the freeway.

886
00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:38,239
I don't know. Yes, put in your time community service,

887
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:39,519
yes is what it is.

888
00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:42,519
Speaker 3: Yes. And forced interaction with other parents.

889
00:47:42,679 --> 00:47:45,000
Speaker 1: Oh, that's the worst.

890
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:53,400
Speaker 3: See. But some women and men probably like that's where

891
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:56,320
you make Like this is like our college, you know,

892
00:47:56,760 --> 00:47:58,599
like this is where you make your I mean I

893
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:00,679
made a lot of my mom from when my kids

894
00:48:00,679 --> 00:48:03,880
were little. Yeah, like that's where and you know some

895
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:06,199
of these I know a lot of the elementary school

896
00:48:06,239 --> 00:48:08,559
parents are still like really good friends with each other.

897
00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:11,400
Oh yeah, me too, Like I'm not really in that group.

898
00:48:11,519 --> 00:48:14,239
Mine was more the ones I met when the kids

899
00:48:14,280 --> 00:48:17,440
were really little, like mommy and me. Those are still

900
00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:21,119
my mom friends right to this day. And that you know,

901
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:25,320
the school, the mom's Yeah. Yeah, well, you.

902
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:27,440
Speaker 4: Know when I went to that party, you know there's

903
00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:29,559
a couple guys watching football or whatever, but all the

904
00:48:29,599 --> 00:48:32,239
other dads were a lot older than I was. I

905
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:35,519
was very clearly like the youngest person, youngest dad at

906
00:48:35,559 --> 00:48:37,679
that party, and they were all like older and knew

907
00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:40,440
each other already. So I was like, all right, I'll

908
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:43,239
just let them yeah talk, I'll just sit here and watch.

909
00:48:43,519 --> 00:48:45,800
Speaker 3: That's Yeah, you are a young dad.

910
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:50,760
Speaker 1: You very young, Yeah, especially for Los Angeles, but yeah,

911
00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:53,119
well cal Yeah, I don't know I get or should

912
00:48:53,119 --> 00:48:54,960
I say these days, Well, we're not in like the

913
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:59,000
South or the Midwest where you turn out your kids younger. Yeah,

914
00:48:59,039 --> 00:49:03,679
but for yeah, for definitely in the southern California area,

915
00:49:04,039 --> 00:49:05,679
you're young. Yeah.

916
00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:08,840
Speaker 3: I mean I had my kid's late thirties and forty

917
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:12,639
and like a lot of the parents were my age.

918
00:49:13,000 --> 00:49:15,639
Like I didn't feel weird at all. Yeah, meaning there

919
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:18,320
was not like an old mom, right, everybody was like

920
00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:19,519
we were all around the same age.

921
00:49:20,519 --> 00:49:23,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, me too. Yeah.

922
00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:28,199
Speaker 3: The young moms were total outliers, like he didn't socialize

923
00:49:28,199 --> 00:49:29,199
with any of us.

924
00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:33,320
Speaker 1: For my school, the young moms were the Russian brides.

925
00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:36,639
There was a couple of them, I do. I remember

926
00:49:36,639 --> 00:49:39,320
there was one like she could barely speak English, and

927
00:49:39,639 --> 00:49:41,519
I felt bad for her because she seemed lonely all

928
00:49:41,559 --> 00:49:41,920
the time.

929
00:49:42,159 --> 00:49:46,599
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, because you her old husband does not paying

930
00:49:46,599 --> 00:49:47,320
attention to her.

931
00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:48,760
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah.

932
00:49:49,199 --> 00:49:53,000
Speaker 3: So well on that note, Okay, shall we wrap things up?

933
00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:54,039
Speaker 1: Sure?

934
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:59,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, Hold one moment please, because I forgot to look

935
00:49:59,800 --> 00:50:03,440
the up really quick. You might have to edit this.

936
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Oh okay, here it is. Oh no, that's the wrong thing.

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Sorry one second please, Okay, all right. So I have

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a different shout out for our girl, Samantha Cruz, and

939
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it is this. Do you know someone in North Carolina,

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South Carolina or Georgia on Medicare? It's so confusing, but

941
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you know who can clear it up. Billy Cruise. That's

942
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Samantha cruz husband. Give him a call and find out

943
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how a Medicare advantage plan can help with not only

944
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medical bills, but also provide extra money for things like

945
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groceries and even pet food. It works alongside a Medicare plan.

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So you can call or text Billy Cruz at seven

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zero four three zero two three nine three nine. The

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free review and the plan is free. Also, Laurie Bishop

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is helping her son launch his new business. And it's

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the Better Test Prep Act Guide. And so he designed

951
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this because he got a full ride to his dream

952
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school because he figured out how to get a great

953
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score on it. So this is a digital download and

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here's how you get it. Bit dot l y dot

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all lowercase better test Prep. Okay, so bit dot l

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y dot Better Test Prep. Check that out. Also, my

957
00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:37,239
boyfriend Jacob Crowley has is telling everybody about Camp Loostboys

958
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dot org. This is a sleepway camp for trans men

959
00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:43,639
who never got to have a like a camp experience.

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You know, I cried when I watched the video. There's

961
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a big video about what they do. Go to camplostboys

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dot org and please watch this video. It's so sweet.

963
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They get to do like archery and swimming and fireside

964
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chat and it's really really cool. Also, our friend Sergio

965
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has this friend named Aubrey who has worked with this

966
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charity called Kasa Teresa dot org, which is a safe

967
00:52:13,239 --> 00:52:17,239
haven for pregnant women in crisis. I'm not one hundred

968
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percent sure if it's an anti abortion site. If it is,

969
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I'm warning you somebody thought it was, but hey, maybe

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it's not. And in any case, they're helping like homeless

971
00:52:29,639 --> 00:52:32,800
women and women like who are having like addiction issues

972
00:52:33,559 --> 00:52:36,719
have a safe haven. Yeah if they're pregnant, so like

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you can't be mad at that, so check that out

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Kasa Teresa dot org. And then as always Adam Lerner

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he's gonna help you get a car. Adam's got a

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Car dot com. He'll help you get a buy a

977
00:52:50,800 --> 00:52:54,880
new car, Lisa Car, or buy a used car. He

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can help you out with all of it. And our

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girl Kelsey with ferncandle dot com. She makes the candle

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out of her house. They smell delicious like tobacco, stage, lavender, sandalwood,

981
00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:09,199
and they're made of soy so they're better for the

982
00:53:09,360 --> 00:53:12,000
environment and they last longer, so you know, go to

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ferncandle dot com or find her on Instagram at Ferncandle Nice.

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All right, everybody, thank you guys, thank you your parent Now,

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don't have it up. It's many goo