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Speaker 1: When your old career gives you lemons throwing some ice

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mix in some vodka colored a podcast from the Mac

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of All Trade Studio in Fairport and driven by Victor

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Chrysler Dots jeep Ram. It's Billified, the Bill Moran Podcast. Well,

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hello and welcome.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for getting your pot on, Thanks for telling

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a friend, and that's how we spread the word about

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the pirate ship. I'm so excited because Mark's here, new gig,

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all excited.

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Speaker 3: I'm very excited.

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Speaker 4: Laura's here.

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Speaker 2: Inner Green did not get to go out yesterday, for

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that was the big Saint Patrick say, celebrations right here.

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Speaker 4: Laura's look good. How's going on over here?

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Speaker 5: Mark's got that new confidence coming with the new job.

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Speaker 3: No, I just said she's looking good. Joel, Joe's my buddy.

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Speaker 5: Oh it's okay.

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Speaker 2: It is a weird time, right because it's hard to say,

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like you don't want to say to somebody, hey, you

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look great.

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Speaker 4: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know if a guy said, girl, a girl

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can see to another girl you look great, or say.

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Speaker 4: To a guy, it feels uncomfortable.

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Speaker 3: But if the guy says it to a girl, yeah,

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it's they're creepy.

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Speaker 2: Well, I remember I was sitting in one of my

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grad classes. Now I'm an elder statesman there, I'm gonna

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be fifty. I'm as old as you, right, I'll be

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fifty five this summer. And most of these kids are young.

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And I look across the table and there's a girl

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and I was like, Wow, she looks really good today.

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And I thought I cannot say that. And I didn't

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mean it in a creepy way. It just kind of

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the thought went in my head and I was like, well,

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he's saying I think you.

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Speaker 5: Can say it as long as you don't say it

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in a creepy.

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Speaker 4: Here's the problem.

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Speaker 3: You can still say it.

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Speaker 4: I mean, if if.

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Speaker 3: Doug said told someone they looked they look good, they

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would actually think it's creepy.

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Speaker 2: Maybe maybe, But that's my point is that I'm old,

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So what is that? You know what I mean, that's

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the problem. And it's true, that's the problem. And so

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I wouldn't want to say that to someone young. If

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I say something to someone who's a little more age equiment,

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hey you look great.

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Speaker 5: Right, Yeah, I don't think it's bad. I think it's

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okay to be complimentary of someone and there's a difference

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between complimenting them like Laura looks good today, verse like hey,

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what's up, sexy MoMA? You know god baby?

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Speaker 4: Ye do guys say sexy mom to you?

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Speaker 2: I don't know because I yeah, I mean I could go, hey, hey,

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looking right and how you?

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Speaker 3: Uh No, I can't good, I'm actually creepy. Well it

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just comes right out.

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Speaker 2: And maybe maybe, but your boyfriend went out with your

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friends the big sing Say celebration and came home with

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all the tea.

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Speaker 5: Oh I was getting. So yesterday I had my oldest

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son had playoff basketball game. Then he was in a play,

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his school play where he had a role. Back to

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his basketball game championship where he won, then back to

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the school play. So it was carding him back and

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forth for nine hours yesterday, and Joe was like, well,

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I'm gonna go out with you. No, he came to

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the he came to the basketball games in the first play,

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but then at like three o'clock he's we're done. I

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don't need to go to the second play. So he

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went out and met up with a bunch of my

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friends and immediately I start getting text messages of one

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person who I said I'm not going to say the name,

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and yeah, oh, him and his girlfriend are fighting and

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blah blah blah. And then he runs into a couple

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of my female friends and two of them are like

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fighting over another guy, and so he's telling me both

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of them and yeah, I got all the gossip. And

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when he got home last night around ten thirty, I'm

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getting ready to go to bed, and he is just

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talking my ear off and he was like, guess what happened?

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And then I had to drive someone this late. And

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then we went to Winfield and so and so didn't

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show up for the one girl that wanted to be there.

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Oh my god, he was a teenage girl last night.

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Speaker 2: That's kind of funny because you know what, as I'm

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hearing you talk, I'm starting to think, like most of

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your friends around your age right in their forties, so

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Speaker 4: To believe over and over.

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Speaker 2: And this kind of plays in even my weekend a

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little bit that through the first half of our life,

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we're winging it, and then you get to somewhere between

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forty and fifty and you start to go, well, a

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lot of this stuff was bullshit, but sometimes we regress.

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Speaker 4: When you hear women fighting over a guy.

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Speaker 5: Yup. I mean that's and this is like f two

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friends of mine. One is thirty six, yeah, currently separated

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from her husband. The other is forty three, also in

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the process of getting a divorce, right, fighting over the

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same guy. Both talking to Joe about it.

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Speaker 3: So the joke is, the joke is is that I

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go I've been I went to a lot of my

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friends first weddings, and when I got my forties and fifties,

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I go to I've been going to their second weddings.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you know, right, So that's what the ages were.

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Speaker 2: But here's the thing that I wonder, because you get divorced,

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and you got divorced for a reason, but primarily there's

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something something was a mess or not not good or whatever,

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and then to try to be jumping back into something,

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you know, is I don't know if it's because of

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the it's familiar, it's what feels right.

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Speaker 4: I want someone that's gonna treat me right.

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Speaker 2: But I would say the better thing to do is

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to just sit and figure out your shit, because you're

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just bringing that same shit to the new.

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Speaker 3: Right meet the new boss, same as Zula bas Yeah.

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Speaker 4: You know, am I wrong? No?

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Speaker 5: And I told you as soon as I got here.

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Another one of my friends who's yes later forties, Josh,

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broke up with her boyfriend of two and a half years.

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Speaker 3: And fine, Wow, she is a.

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Speaker 5: Packaged dime like, she's amazing.

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Speaker 3: I would even go in retirement, and so I would

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be I would date her retirement.

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Speaker 5: She is, she's absolutely amazing, and her boyfriend of the

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past two and a half years was nice, but I

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didn't ever feel that it was the right fit for her,

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and so you know, things that you wouldn't say when

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she's happy, and now she's she is the one who

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broke up with him because she's like, I didn't feel

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like our futures were aligned. I'm like, you're right. You

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were way too big of a person for him, even

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though you're so small and petite, like you're loving, you're compassionate,

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like you are outgoing, you have this personality and he

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was never at your level. Well, I actually just texted

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her because I told her.

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Speaker 4: What I told her hold On, I told her I.

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Speaker 5: Was on here, and I just said, when you're ready,

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I want to bring you on the podcast and have

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men send in their bios to date a Webster mom.

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She wrote, Oh my god, how fun.

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Speaker 3: All Right, I send her my resume.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to spill something here that I really have

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no talk about. But we're coming up on the thousandth episode.

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Speaker 4: Oh and I'm.

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Speaker 2: Thinking that we may have to do it out live somewhere.

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Speaker 5: That would be so much fun.

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Speaker 2: And there's a couple of different things that we would

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probably center it around. The music game we play, okay,

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so even the audience could play with us.

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Speaker 4: And but then we could have data hatty, I could

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have data haughty. There's a guy that says he wants.

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Speaker 5: To do uh guess that penis.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 2: There's a guy who wants to do the uh oh,

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what was the movie with Paul Newman where he was

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in jail on the fifty eggs or something like that. Anyway,

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the fifty egg challenge. He wants to do the one

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hundred deviled egg challenge.

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Speaker 3: Oh a listener with Doug dougle makeum, well, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: So I got to figure that out. I could have that.

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Speaker 2: Guy sitting on the side and we give him the

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entire show to consume all the eggs and we can

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talk to him because we figure maybe we'll go fifty

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eggs because there's mayonnaise and shit and paprika. So you

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just do fifty because really, it's a half an egg.

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Is what a deviled egg is. It's a half the egg.

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So it's not the cool Hand Luke challenge. That's what

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it was, Cool Hand Luke movie. So we could do that,

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we could do our trivia game, and we could have

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you know, the meat.

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Speaker 3: A hottie has hot friends. All Laura's friends are hot.

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I swear to god, I felt like I was in

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a freaking Victoria's secret party when we went to our

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house for birthday.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I have h Yeah, that's true. There's women that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, most of my friends are you know, that active

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state of mind through the gym, you know that I've

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met so Yeah, women who take care of themselves but

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still have fun your friends.

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Speaker 3: You know, I have friends that date your friends. So

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that kind of yeah, that kind of like makes me

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think I have a chance.

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Speaker 5: I was actually out with them the other week.

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Speaker 4: I love him.

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Speaker 3: He's my roommate. Who's that one of her friends? Boyfriends

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I lived with? Really, Yeah, we went into each other

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at a lawer's party.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, my one of my closest college friends, Megan has

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been dating his college roommate, right, was of.

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Speaker 3: My college roommate.

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Speaker 4: Okay, we just lived, we worked together.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Chad, and yeah he's great.

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Speaker 4: But it's it's all.

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Speaker 2: Here's what I keep going back to, because, like you're saying,

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you know, people ending relationships and stuff, we follow a

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script in like that in our twenties, right. I knew

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what I wanted to do since I was a kid.

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I wanted to be on the radio. I knew I

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was going to be on the radio. That was the

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end of that was it? That was where I thought

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it would end for me. I really did.

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Speaker 3: Is Is that funny?

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Speaker 4: Well? I mean it.

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Speaker 3: I mean I could.

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Speaker 2: I should talk a little bit more about that whole situation,

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because I didn't for a long time. Uh, And I

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could give the whole reason behind what I did. But

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but the script was there, right, So you I got

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the job. I didn't want to bounce around the country.

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I stayed, you know, in Rochester. I ended up doing

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the mornings and things like that that I wanted to do.

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Then I got to leave and go to another station

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in town that I wanted to be. I like their

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management better, you know what I mean. I was having

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a lot of fights with management in my stuff, and

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then it uh, would you get married, buy the house,

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you have the kid, you do all this and it's

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almost like there's a script for the first half of

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your life. And then you get to around forty fifty

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and you go, no, no, no, this is all bullshit.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to run this script.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, just feeling not totally fulfilled. I mean, I said

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I was like, all right, this is what you did.

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He wants to get settled, you know, And I did

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the followed the routine, and then I was like, God,

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I'm so unfulfilled. And I talk about people looking at

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the outside in I was like, it looks like I

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have that white picket fence style life, but I was

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I felt empty inside a lot of the time. I

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loved my kids. My kids definitely helped, but then I

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was like, I was staying for the kids for a while.

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Speaker 3: It's funny because I did the same thing you did. Bill.

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to be in TV deb's but I found out something.

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Everybody laughed at me when I first took this job.

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last of the job. I found out I should have

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been a teacher.

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Speaker 4: I was.

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Speaker 3: I was, actually that was my colleagues to be a teacher.

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And I never knew that until you know, I started

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doing you know, until I started working and doing that,

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you know, And it's like how my life changes at

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age fifty five, then it was you know what I mean,

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it's a big change from what it was even when

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I was thirty five.

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Speaker 2: When it comes to home improvement, you've got choices. Let's

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say there's a hole in the bedroom wall and somehow

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nobody in the house knows how it got there. You

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could fix it, I mean there's always YouTube, right, but

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you know, three hours later it's gonna look like a

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patch job, not even a good patch job. And how

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about that leak under the kitchen sink. Yeah, you said

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you'd get to it, and that was what two and

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a half three months ago. If we're being honest, we

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all have that list, the one word deep down, you're

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not totally sure you've got the skills to pull it off.

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If it's my list, I'm calling Mac of all trades.

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Holes in the wall, handled, leaky sinks, done, full kitchen remodel. Yeah,

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they got that too, And hey, warmer weather's coming. How's

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that deck looking? Need it extended? Rebuilt outdoor patio? Don't

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be a deckhead called Mac of All Trades five eight

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five to zero two ninety two eighteen. That's five eight

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five two zero two ninety two eighteen. And you can

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see all they do online at Macofalltrades dot net. They'll

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handle it so you don't have to. A former senior

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defense intelligence official, his name is Christopher Mellen, says the

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federal government has extensive UFO and by the way, they

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want to change that term to UAP, so instead of

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unidentified flying object, they now want to call it unidentified

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aerial phenomena. That's better. No one's going to change, now,

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who's going to change? So they have satellite images of

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objects in space that doesn't resemble anything humans have built.

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According to Melon, the government holds a massive archive of photos,

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radar data, and videos, including additional footage similar to the famous.

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Speaker 4: If they say tic tac, I don't know what that is?

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Was there a ship that looked like a tictac?

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Speaker 2: Maybe go fast and gimbal UFO videos released by the

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military in twenty seventeen, there was one that looked like

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a tictac because I thought they were rewriting TikTok, like

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I really did. And then some of the most compelling evidence,

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he says, are clear satellite images of unidentified craft operating

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above Earth performing movements that are difficult to explain with

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current technology, and the government now does prefer that term

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instead of UFO. Under a recent order, federal agencies may

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release more files related to UFOs and aliens through though

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it's unclear how much will actually be made public.

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Speaker 4: Yes, it is. What the fuck is going on with.

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Speaker 5: That, I don't know, but these files will be more exciting.

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Speaker 4: Well, they will be to me too.

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Speaker 2: And then it says Melon says, intelligence agencies historically resist

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releasing classified information, so even if disclosure happens, it will

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likely be slow and incomplete. And he also says the

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files probably won't confirm alien contact, but they may show

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objects we still cannot explain absolutely.

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Speaker 5: I mean, you're I think we are very selfish. If

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you think that there's nothing else.

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Speaker 2: That's out there, that's a great term selfish, because I

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do think like, if aliens aren't visiting Earth, then have

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it introduced themselves?

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Speaker 4: I completely understand why.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you come down here, You come down

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to here and people are fighting over what?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean know they're not fighting on an our plane.

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, I guess I don't.

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Speaker 4: I definitely don't.

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Speaker 2: But I mean imagine traveling across a galaxy, right, and

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you come and land here and some people are arguing

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about I don't, I don't pick anything absurd, gas stoves

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on Facebook.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you know what I'm saying, gas prices, gas prices, whatever.

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's just strange.

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Speaker 2: But if they landed tomorrow, how do you think do

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you think humanity would handle it? Well, if all this

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stuff came out, now, what does that do to everything?

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Speaker 4: We? Like?

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Speaker 5: We can just shake those religious creep.

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Speaker 2: Their In my notes, the first one was religion, I go,

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what does that mean?

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Speaker 5: I mean it would be crazy, right, yeah, reincarnation and

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all that, you know, what we were derived from and

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Jesus in the Bible. It would think people go berserk.

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But imagine on the extreme those churches. You know, you

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can have a church that is for anything. So I'm

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sure that there are like alien obsession churches. Those people

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are going to be They're high horses Man's.

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Speaker 4: That's a great point.

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Speaker 2: I've never I've never heard of that because we only

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know like the big religions, right, and in this country

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you have the freedom of religion, but some religions get vilified.

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Speaker 5: I guarantee, if we went on Facebook and googled like

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alien aliens exist groups, there's going to be hundreds of

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thousands of people who are in things like that.

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Speaker 4: Great, I gotta do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's really interesting. Don't doesn't scientology, say I was

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just consider get sucked up by it.

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Speaker 4: Don't you get in a spaceship.

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Speaker 5: Or something called tom cruise.

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Speaker 2: But I mean that's the religion I always think about,

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like freedom of religion, and then the one that gets

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shipped on shit on the most is scientology. I don't

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know enough about it. I'm just saying it's kind of

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a it's weird.

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Speaker 3: I know. Is Katie Holmes's father when they had to

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have her have bodyguards for a long time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she stays she was.

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Speaker 3: They were threatening her.

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Speaker 4: I'm sure.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and her doing that show she has body I'm

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pretty sure she still has bodyguards.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean it gave you some insight, right, and it

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doesn't sound good. Uh, you know, you hear certain things

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about Mormonism, and and that sounds odd, but but Jesus

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the Catholic, the whole thing was a mess.

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Speaker 3: Well, here's the problem with the Catholic religion. I'm Catholic,

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not really anymore grow Catholic. The problem is it never

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never modernized. It should women should have been able to

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become a priest, should have been able to be married. Yes,

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it was like they should things should have been done.

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But they're doing it still the same way they were

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doing it one hundred years ago.

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Speaker 2: And and and if nothing, it proves how man made

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that is.

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Speaker 4: Yes, Like you know, that was always my thing with

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the Catholicism. I always look at England in.

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Speaker 2: The mid century or mid I don't even know, sixteen

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hundred whenever King Henry the eighth he switched religion so

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he could get late. That's that's what he did, right,

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and that's why that's why they became more Protestant based,

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and Northern Ireland followed and Southern Ireland didn't, and that

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became worse. And it's like, it's fucking it's so crazy

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because I go, I don't human beings can't even merge traffic.

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You think you're going to be able to handle and

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diploma sation.

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Speaker 5: I mean, if this comes out that there is scientific

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proof of aliens exist, people are going to go crazy.

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It is going to be wild, right, you know.

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Speaker 2: Look, I would say if tomorrow the government confirmed alien

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technology exists, right, people still are freaking out.

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Speaker 4: But how would your life really change? And I'm thinking people.

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Speaker 5: Are gonna start doomsday prepping probably, but you.

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Speaker 2: Go to work, right, you would pay your bills, and

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you'd probably watch Netflix.

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Speaker 4: I just don't think your life would change that much.

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I really don't. And maybe that's our selfish thing, and

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I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Maybe the X Files comes back to you all. Yeah,

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highly read it.

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Speaker 2: But it reveals something about like human beings, you start

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to panic about what you don't even know, Like it's

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the uncertainty. Really, you're gonna go to work, you're gonna

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pay your bills, You're gonna watch Netflix.

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Speaker 5: I know, but that's like driving consumerism. It's just like

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when they say that there's gonna be a winter storm

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that's hitting and people go to the stores to stock up.

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Like if you're like, now you need an alien prep

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I mean, really think about it.

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Speaker 2: Well you Okay, So this is a weird thing because

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all my life I've had real trouble wrapping my head

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around the evolution of man and how come we still

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have apes? We're one chromosome away, right or something. There

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are our cousins, the chimpanzee, whatever, why do they still exist?

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And then there's us because most of the species that

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have evolved are It's been an evolution through things.

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Speaker 4: So what changed? What was the why?

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Speaker 2: Not the why of how it happened, the why like

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the fork in the road where human beings became less

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hairy and more rational minds in all this stuff, and

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the apes stayed the apes. That's the thing. And there

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are those that believe. And it makes me wonder because

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I often say, we don't have to truck things in

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from other planets. Everything we need is actually here on

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this planet. You got all your resources right. There is

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a theory out there that that aliens came here for

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other resources and they needed help getting these resources out,

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so they crossbread with the apes, apes, the apes or

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whatever Homo sapiens at the time. As that evolution, I

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don't know. And that we have alien DNA and.

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Speaker 4: US I love that I know, but yes, I agree,

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I agree and I'm not saying it's real. I'm not

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saying I believe it.

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Speaker 5: I'm saying my neighbor actually, once they have a conspiracy

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theory party where we all make the tinfoil hat, then

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we do like projection of our conspiracy theory.

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Speaker 4: But that but that's it.

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Speaker 2: And then there are people that that channel certain beings right,

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some from the metaphysical. But there's one and I'm just

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gonna tell you and you can go look them up yourself.

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Bshar Bshar is a from another timeline, like in the future.

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Who this guy I think is his name is darryl Anka.

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I may have that name wrong, but he channels Bashar

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and he tells you basically how to live your life.

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And I will tell you like this guy does says, no,

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I watch it. There's no bullshit. It's like some of

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these people are Charlatan's that say this. I don't get

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that vibe from this guy. And I see a lot

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of his stuff on TikTok and he's saying that aliens

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will have contact with us in twenty twenty seven. But

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there are people and they send down, he said, they

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send down like precursors. So there are people walking among

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us to China, see if we're ready Trump. Maybe I'm

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just saying like, well, okay, but like we have a

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government trust problem already. Yes, right, so if these files

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come out, do we start to believe now it's not right.

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Speaker 4: Most of this stuff will be from we had.

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Speaker 2: Years and then you know, look, people say the moon ailing,

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the moon landing was CGI, so you know there's going

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to be that theory at all. And I do wonder

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if you know, if this all did come out, what

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the fuck would happen. You never think you're gonna need

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a personal injury attorney until you do. It's not something

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you plan for. You know, one minute you're just living

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your life. Do next thing, you know, you're dealing with

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an accident and injury, missed work and a whole lot

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of stress you didn't ask for. And here's the truth.

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Insurance companies they've got a plan. They know exactly what

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they're doing. The question is do you That's why if

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it's me, I'm calling Connors and Ferris. They know the system,

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they know how to fight, and more importantly, they know

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how to take care of people when things get messy.

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You're not just a case file to them. They walk

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you through it step by step and make sure you're

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not getting pushed around when you're already down. So if

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life throws you one of those moments, don't try to

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figure it out alone. Call Connors and Ferris or visit

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the things that we try to I think most people

477
00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:35,160
try to put it on an appearance of normal. I

478
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really do, and we're starting to see more and more openness.

479
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I showed you that app I forget what it was called,

480
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because I still get the ads.

481
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Speaker 4: For it, but I since I haven't gotten here.

482
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Speaker 5: I did delete that.

483
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Speaker 4: No, No, I know you did.

484
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Speaker 2: I know you didn't forbidden or something.

485
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Speaker 4: No, I forget there was ah, I do. I totally forgot, But.

486
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Speaker 5: I want to say it's with a p.

487
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Speaker 4: Oh, pure pure.

488
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Speaker 2: I think it was pure right, and you can find

489
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all your fantasy kind of stuff on there right. And

490
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the people my thing is like, we like things that

491
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are a little forbidden and I'm not even saying dirty stuff.

492
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Speaker 4: Why are secret menu so popular? Oh?

493
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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. We like things that we

494
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:25,559
think nobody backstage passes right to go to a concert.

495
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I want something nobody else can really have. It's a

496
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little forbidden, you know. I'm not supposed to be back here.

497
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Vip rooms. VIP rooms are crazy at clubs, but man,

498
00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:35,759
everybody wants to be up there. It's a little bit,

499
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you know, a higher status. I the speakeasies are making

500
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a comeback.

501
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Speaker 5: Oh my god, yes, right, yeah.

502
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Speaker 2: Because I got my mother a tour of speakeasies for

503
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Christmas down in New York.

504
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Speaker 4: Yeah.

505
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Speaker 2: But then she's like, they don't do them at a

506
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certain time, go with march. I think I think she

507
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traded it in for something else. Well only because no,

508
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,200
it wasn't. It was more because they were doing them

509
00:27:03,279 --> 00:27:05,240
later at night, and she wanted to just do it

510
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as a day trip to New York. And that means

511
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she goes, I wouldn't get home till late. She's seventy nine,

512
00:27:09,799 --> 00:27:12,720
it's dark. It's like she worries about she could.

513
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Speaker 5: Just find a guy to crash with in New York

514
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for the night.

515
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Speaker 4: Yeah, that'd be great. I'd love to see him want

516
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to do that.

517
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Speaker 3: Oh I don't live in New York.

518
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:25,799
Speaker 2: But I mean, do we want fantasies or do you

519
00:27:25,839 --> 00:27:28,440
just want the experience.

520
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Speaker 3: Sometimes the fantasies you have and you visit, you get

521
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to see your fantasy isn't as good as what you

522
00:27:36,759 --> 00:27:37,559
thought it was going to be.

523
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:40,319
Speaker 2: That is exactly what I was thinking, because sometimes the

524
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:43,319
fantasy is better than the reality it is, right. I mean,

525
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:46,279
we hear about people with threesomes and things, and I go,

526
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:48,440
that could go horribly wrong.

527
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:53,599
Speaker 5: I talked about this with the swinger stuff, like not swinging,

528
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:58,680
but going to like the voyeurs are more experiencing it.

529
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:02,160
I just think that the fantasy in my mind is

530
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:06,519
so hot, yes, that there's no way reality could live

531
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:07,039
up to it.

532
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:12,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, but what about like couples, because it might have

533
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been dug like after told me that he saw somebody

534
00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:20,640
who was looking for a third on Facebook dating, you

535
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:23,440
know where my husband and I are both straight, but

536
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:25,720
we're looking for a third We're looking for a guy.

537
00:28:25,839 --> 00:28:28,359
Speaker 4: Yeah. And I'm oh, guy yeah.

538
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:32,880
Speaker 2: And I was like okay, And I'm like, well, does

539
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:35,000
that make a stronger couple if you're open about your

540
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:38,319
fantasies and explore them together or does it all of

541
00:28:38,359 --> 00:28:41,000
a sudden Like That's the part that I could never

542
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:44,559
wrap my head around again with swinging, is like how

543
00:28:44,559 --> 00:28:47,359
do you watch the person that you supposedly love and

544
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:50,640
we're getting railed by somebody else and go that's hot?

545
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Speaker 4: You know what I mean?

546
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Speaker 5: Maybe, but like it in going along with someone who

547
00:28:57,000 --> 00:29:02,640
shouldn't be said, and how he liked to watch, Like yes, yes,

548
00:29:02,759 --> 00:29:05,839
I am so intrigued by that with other friends, Like

549
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:09,400
I do have a friend who's sleeping with someone right now.

550
00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:11,400
I'm like, oh my god, you guys are it would

551
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:13,200
be hot to watch the two of you together.

552
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 3: I think about certain people yeah.

553
00:29:16,799 --> 00:29:18,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, so.

554
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Speaker 4: You know, not my mind, my p's and qes over here.

555
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 5: But yeah. But then also going the other way of

556
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:37,039
not talking about sex and stuff, there are just other

557
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like the thrill of something that's more forbidden or risky,

558
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:49,559
that risky behavior and stuff. So I mean sky skydiving

559
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something like that.

560
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:55,480
Speaker 2: That's a great analogy, right because it's the novelty we

561
00:29:55,599 --> 00:29:58,720
want to feel alive, Yeah, and the fantasy can make

562
00:29:58,799 --> 00:29:59,720
us feel alive.

563
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Speaker 3: I mean there was a time when one time, you know,

564
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I'm not supposed to talk about this, but I gotta

565
00:30:03,759 --> 00:30:09,119
say this where I got so bored. I went on

566
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I was, I was going on my phone. I was bored.

567
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Speaker 4: Oh really yeah? Yeah, and it wasn't as good as

568
00:30:15,119 --> 00:30:15,960
you had It wasn't.

569
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Speaker 3: And you know, it was like, how long is this

570
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:18,559
is almost over?

571
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Speaker 4: Geez?

572
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:21,599
Speaker 3: I mean, how much stuff can you really want? You know?

573
00:30:21,799 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 4: Do?

574
00:30:22,039 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 3: Well?

575
00:30:22,319 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 4: Right right, you're stuck.

576
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Speaker 5: Let me talk my email.

577
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Speaker 4: I did.

578
00:30:27,799 --> 00:30:32,079
Speaker 3: I was checking my email, answering my email, going on

579
00:30:32,119 --> 00:30:34,200
Facebook text messaging.

580
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Speaker 2: Well, do you think everyone has a secret fantasy they've

581
00:30:36,799 --> 00:30:40,480
never told anyone about. I think so, like a secret fan,

582
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:42,000
like you've never told Eddie.

583
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:44,640
Speaker 3: Well, here's the thing. That's when you mentioned that, you

584
00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:47,079
know who the biggest people you have to watch out

585
00:30:47,119 --> 00:30:49,200
for are the people that don't talk but they had

586
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the fantasy but don't talk.

587
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Speaker 5: Absolutely. I was gonna say, no, everyone knows I speak

588
00:30:54,359 --> 00:30:57,400
my mind, but I think the majority, and I'm going

589
00:30:57,440 --> 00:31:00,480
to say, like eighty percent of people out there would

590
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:06,599
never ever admit their actual fantasies. Our fear of judgment

591
00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:10,799
or being looked at like different. Yeah, you know, yeah,

592
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:13,440
even though I guarantee the people who they're talking to

593
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:15,160
have secret fantasies.

594
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Speaker 4: On the shore.

595
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:19,359
Speaker 5: Absolutely, it's yeah.

596
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:21,079
Speaker 2: How do you get someone to open up about a fantasy?

597
00:31:22,799 --> 00:31:25,640
And I don't mean that like show me the manual?

598
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:29,319
Speaker 4: Trust well, because you're bringing up a great thing.

599
00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:35,599
Speaker 2: Like there's the term maps, right, minor attracted person is

600
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:38,440
what it stands for, So someone who's attracted to minors.

601
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And when this was discussed in a recent class of mine,

602
00:31:45,319 --> 00:31:49,039
the person leaning in the class said, you probably know

603
00:31:49,119 --> 00:31:52,400
a map and don't know it because you know it's

604
00:31:52,839 --> 00:31:56,640
you know that it's socially unacceptable. You've been able to

605
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:58,559
just navigate your life and blah blah blah. But they're

606
00:31:58,559 --> 00:32:00,680
a minor attracted person and that's kind of their thing.

607
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:06,759
And I go, if that's your fantasy, fucking shut up, right.

608
00:32:07,039 --> 00:32:07,799
Speaker 4: If that's true.

609
00:32:08,039 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 2: But then there are other ones like I don't have that,

610
00:32:10,799 --> 00:32:14,319
but I have There's be other things, you know, And

611
00:32:14,359 --> 00:32:16,359
then I've had people tell me about.

612
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:19,079
Speaker 4: One thing I never understood.

613
00:32:19,119 --> 00:32:20,759
Speaker 2: But I had a friend who talked told me that

614
00:32:20,839 --> 00:32:22,680
he dated someone who had a rape fantasy.

615
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:27,480
Speaker 4: And she wanted to what did you just say I

616
00:32:27,519 --> 00:32:30,200
sort of do? Did you just say I sort of do?

617
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 3: Why are you surprised at this.

618
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 2: I kind of am, because it's such a horrible thing,

619
00:32:36,319 --> 00:32:38,759
like it just and he wasn't really into it, so

620
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:41,680
he tried, but he wants She wanted him to like

621
00:32:41,759 --> 00:32:45,200
pop out of out of like the bushes.

622
00:32:45,079 --> 00:32:46,279
Speaker 4: And drag her in the house.

623
00:32:47,599 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 3: Remember the donkey punch.

624
00:32:49,759 --> 00:32:52,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I don't is that real?

625
00:32:52,599 --> 00:32:56,519
Speaker 6: Yes, okay, I mean yes, she must have done it

626
00:32:56,559 --> 00:33:00,079
before she minded me in a dunk. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,

627
00:33:00,119 --> 00:33:02,799
am I How am I going to do something like that?

628
00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:03,599
Speaker 4: I don't know.

629
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,559
Speaker 3: I don't know, Laura, would you want to get docu punch?

630
00:33:07,759 --> 00:33:07,960
Speaker 4: No?

631
00:33:08,559 --> 00:33:09,319
Speaker 3: I just wondering.

632
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:12,839
Speaker 5: I mean we've talked about like my choking, hair pulling,

633
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:17,880
all of that type of stuff. But I I see,

634
00:33:18,039 --> 00:33:22,839
I understand the rape fantasy. I know it sounds absolutely horrific,

635
00:33:23,519 --> 00:33:28,279
but I get it. It's definitely would have crossed my mind.

636
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:29,400
You have to have like.

637
00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:31,039
Speaker 4: Somebody you feel really safe with.

638
00:33:31,079 --> 00:33:34,359
Speaker 5: I would assume, well, yeah, right, yeah.

639
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:36,599
Speaker 2: You know, it's like going through a haunted house and

640
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:38,720
just knowing, oh, that's really just Joe behind the mask.

641
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:41,079
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it makes you feel a little safer.

642
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:44,039
Speaker 5: Yes, But they say, like have a safe word. I

643
00:33:44,039 --> 00:33:49,039
mean I've there. I will never can shame anyone. But

644
00:33:49,079 --> 00:33:51,720
there are some things that I am not really willing

645
00:33:51,759 --> 00:33:56,480
to do. But I've listened to there's a podcast I

646
00:33:56,519 --> 00:33:58,599
forget what it's called. I think it's called Why Are

647
00:33:58,599 --> 00:34:01,319
People Into That? And they take like deep dives into

648
00:34:01,319 --> 00:34:05,039
people's kings and you know, and it's just that they

649
00:34:05,119 --> 00:34:09,239
interview people who are into it, and it's very interesting.

650
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:11,920
Speaker 4: A kink that that would like that you go, I don't.

651
00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 5: Know the pee thing, I already said not.

652
00:34:16,679 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 4: To that's a fantasy.

653
00:34:20,039 --> 00:34:23,199
Speaker 5: Yeah that Boltemore asked about that, and I was like, m.

654
00:34:27,199 --> 00:34:29,360
Speaker 4: Oh, I could have cured athletes, but I don't want

655
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:32,199
the shower. I'm not really sure.

656
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:34,800
Speaker 5: But like, yeah, there are things like that, or I

657
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:37,760
think I talked about the TV show that was How

658
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:40,440
to Build a Sex Room, and it's people who are

659
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:44,920
into all different types of erotic pleasure. And some of

660
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,280
them were like a married couple that they've been married

661
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:49,719
for thirty years and they're like, we want to spice

662
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:54,000
up our sex life. So yeah, yeah.

663
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 4: I mean most guys at this age.

664
00:34:55,519 --> 00:34:57,079
Speaker 2: I heard a guy the other day he says, now

665
00:34:57,199 --> 00:35:00,800
I laughed so so hard because one guy it's like, yeah.

666
00:35:00,639 --> 00:35:02,400
Speaker 4: I thought I was getting lady other night and he

667
00:35:03,119 --> 00:35:04,599
goes and.

668
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 2: He's like, you still ask and the guy's like, hey,

669
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:10,079
he goes go and he goes because I usually just go, hey,

670
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:13,000
is this going to be a group project or a solo?

671
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:17,880
I'm paraphrasing, but I'm like, I guess that's what it

672
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:20,920
gets to at some point. But you're right, the excitement,

673
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:23,880
that's the thing is like you look at people who

674
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:28,519
have had really long relationships, and I have a friend

675
00:35:28,519 --> 00:35:32,039
of mine, she got married, divorced, remarried, they have no kids,

676
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:35,360
she has had no kids, and they have a really

677
00:35:35,519 --> 00:35:39,280
cool life together and they're like the perfect couple together.

678
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:44,119
And yeah they do all kinds of like kinky shit.

679
00:35:44,199 --> 00:35:50,679
I'm pretty sure, yeah, And but yeah, it's weird. I

680
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:54,159
just think it's novelty. I think people like novelty in food,

681
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:56,760
they like that forbidden thing. They like it in music,

682
00:35:56,880 --> 00:36:00,519
like if I'm going somewhere to see you know, a

683
00:36:00,599 --> 00:36:03,880
private thing, there's something about that that that's exciting.

684
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:06,280
Speaker 4: And then the fantasy thing.

685
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:10,840
Speaker 2: And I think, I I really think sometimes uh, they

686
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:12,440
say something about who we are.

687
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:13,840
Speaker 4: A little bit.

688
00:36:14,639 --> 00:36:17,320
Speaker 2: But it also could just be the brain entertaining itself

689
00:36:17,599 --> 00:36:19,840
because once you play it out. We've heard too many

690
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:23,119
disaster stories about like, you know, anybody who's into that

691
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:25,559
is kind of gross, and and there are you know,

692
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:28,440
people that are open. But I think I think people

693
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:31,440
are becoming more comfortable and talking about it. Yeah, could

694
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:32,559
you be a dominatrix?

695
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:34,639
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, you got it?

696
00:36:35,159 --> 00:36:36,079
Speaker 3: Really?

697
00:36:37,199 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 4: Wow? Like hurting somebody wouldn't wouldn't mind.

698
00:36:40,639 --> 00:36:43,280
Speaker 5: Like wearing high heels and stuffing all over someone that's

699
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:44,280
so badass?

700
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 4: Bad ass? Ugh?

701
00:36:48,119 --> 00:36:51,679
Speaker 5: Really, especially if I was getting paid to do it.

702
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:53,280
That's amazing.

703
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:56,639
Speaker 4: We see unexplained bruises on Joe. We know why. I know, right,

704
00:36:57,159 --> 00:37:01,599
that's the thing that's hotly craft. All right, we'll get

705
00:37:01,679 --> 00:37:02,199
out of here.

706
00:37:02,599 --> 00:37:04,559
Speaker 3: I just uh what we're done.

707
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:06,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, we're gonna go have a beer.

708
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:07,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's almost two o'clock.

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Speaker 3: Where are we going.

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Speaker 4: We'll go to an Irish bar.

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Speaker 3: Oh, it's gonna be crowded.

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Speaker 4: I don't think so.

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Speaker 7: I think yesterday was your big day? Yeah, yeah, I

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think we're gonna go. We're gonna go to fair Part Yeah, okay,

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is that all right? Yeah, it's just up the road. Yeah, man,

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you coming? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Are you buying?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: All right, you know, I get one thing to say,

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what's that? And I think that you should be a

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better host. I think you should have like a cold

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cut tray in here, you know, some some you know,

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different kinds of you know, you know. I mean, okay,

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is that what you want?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: I just went, actually that is true, something about.

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Speaker 4: A snack cupboard. All right, I'm in Hey, look, whatever's gonna.

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Speaker 3: You know, I come in from a monday if I

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can hear a monday, and I you know.

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Speaker 4: You haven't eaten me yet. Yeah, you want dinner waiting necessarily?

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Know what I got you?

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Speaker 3: A couple of granola bars? Will freaking do the trick?

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Speaker 4: Okay, I will get a snack cover going all right,

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I'm that serious.

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Speaker 5: I love this for you.

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Speaker 4: Why do you love it for me?

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Speaker 2: I mean it's great, No, but it seems it seems

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valid and fair.

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Speaker 5: We're also here a lot, yes, of.

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Speaker 3: Course, but you don't have your money. You don't have

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a lot of money anymore.

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Speaker 4: I don't.

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Speaker 5: You're killing me. Why are you digging yourself in a

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ditch right now? He just said he's gonna go buy

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you a beer, and you're like, wait, now I want

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this and this and this you I am. I also want.

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Speaker 2: I'm financially fine, but I don't make what I used

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to be.

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Speaker 4: And that's it. I was just kidd. I had to

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sell one beer. I had to pull out of.

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Speaker 2: Some things which maybe in the future could prevent a

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problem present a problem.

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Speaker 4: But I think right now work all is good.

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Speaker 2: All right for Laura, who wants her her wants their

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Saint Patrick's Day celebration. For Mark, who believes the quietest

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person in the room is usually the most dangerous.

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Speaker 4: That's right, that's right, Bill Moran, We'll see you next time.

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