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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, we are late, but we are here.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi Plana Jenny with I'm still fun. Thanks for hanging

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<v Speaker 2>out with us every single week. Uh this writers, we're

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<v Speaker 2>trying to start. We got someone trying to come in.

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<v Speaker 1>You're on a podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>Say hi, Hello, it's your boy, Max Kiel O'Neill ak,

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<v Speaker 3>Fidel Maxtro ak Leonardo de Max Prio a k a.

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<v Speaker 3>Max Oel Rose aka Humphrey Frogart. I'm single. I love

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<v Speaker 3>long walks on the beach.

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<v Speaker 1>I ten.

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<v Speaker 3>I just want all the single ladies out there to

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<v Speaker 3>know that.

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<v Speaker 2>I was gonna say, if you don't know who it is,

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<v Speaker 2>you may have seen him on your local bumble app.

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<v Speaker 2>Max works over at KF A N and he came

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<v Speaker 2>in because he got the scent of two women and

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<v Speaker 2>it lured him in.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to be in there. Yeah, like a cartoon

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<v Speaker 1>character like Garfield following the Sonya Yeah, yeah, get your well.

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<v Speaker 1>That was a nice little intro to the podcast. There

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<v Speaker 1>you go.

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<v Speaker 2>Max is one of our I think universally favorites in

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<v Speaker 2>the entire building.

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<v Speaker 1>We love Max, great energy, he's wild, but ladies just

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<v Speaker 1>be careful. Just batch with him on bumble that man

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<v Speaker 1>like hill Era, I have some fun. We'll also air

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<v Speaker 1>it out on the radio for sure. So you did

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<v Speaker 1>to prepare yourself. We are we are late.

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<v Speaker 2>So I do apologize because I I drove back yesterday

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<v Speaker 2>and I actually could have potentially done our podcast, but

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<v Speaker 2>I would have had to come straight in to do it,

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<v Speaker 2>taking a one hour break. So I went to Door County,

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<v Speaker 2>which is my second year going and I love Door County.

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<v Speaker 2>You should go to Door County, Jenny.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I grew up going there a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>times because it's not it's like two and a half

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<v Speaker 1>hours from my hometown. It's not there. But yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't been there since I was pretty young.

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<v Speaker 2>Well.

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<v Speaker 1>I also my sister did a half marathon there like

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<v Speaker 1>seven eight years ago, so I was there for that,

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<v Speaker 1>but that was a quick trip. I didn't really get

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<v Speaker 1>to explore.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like when I bring it up to people

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<v Speaker 2>around here, that's what they say, they went once or

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<v Speaker 2>twice when they were younger, but they haven't really gone

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<v Speaker 2>as an.

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<v Speaker 1>Adult, and it's really it's really cute.

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<v Speaker 2>I will not be going back in the near future,

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<v Speaker 2>probably just because I've done it two years in a row.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm good and I got We chose Door County. Initially,

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<v Speaker 2>my two friends Abby Heidi and myself, they're my college roommates,

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<v Speaker 2>and we met there because it was kind of it's

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<v Speaker 2>a longer drive for them, but it was a kind of.

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<v Speaker 1>Like a middle point that we could.

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<v Speaker 2>We were going back and forth between Door County and

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<v Speaker 2>like places in Michigan, and after this year Heidi was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm good with Door County Now. I was like, me too,

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<v Speaker 2>because we brought our families this year. But I think,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, we'd go to like Michigan or something. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>just we try to find places that are less expensive,

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<v Speaker 2>but then you still end up spending a ton of

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<v Speaker 2>money on food and everything, especially bringing our families this year.

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<v Speaker 2>But I would highly suggest it. It's like a cute

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<v Speaker 2>just a cute little town. It's an easy drive from

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<v Speaker 2>the Twin Cities. It took us like five and a

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<v Speaker 2>half hours, and we're out on the other side, like

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<v Speaker 2>out in Minnetrista, so it could be less for other people.

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<v Speaker 2>And just I don't know. I think it's like you

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<v Speaker 2>have so many things. You have hiking, cute little shops,

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<v Speaker 2>good food wineries, just you have all the things you

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<v Speaker 2>would need for Like I think a perfect girls trip basically.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what would you say, because I know you said

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<v Speaker 1>you were going to do some of the same things

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<v Speaker 1>you did last year, So what are the things that

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<v Speaker 1>you did both times that you would recommend someone to do.

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<v Speaker 2>We did a lot of food things the same, so like,

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<v Speaker 2>I like a place called good Eggs, One Pound Burritos,

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<v Speaker 2>Wild Tomato Pizza, Door County Creamery is my favorite. I

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<v Speaker 2>get a million ice cream cones. They're amazing sandwiches and shops,

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<v Speaker 2>Sister Gold And we went back to again actual excursions

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<v Speaker 2>Washington Island.

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<v Speaker 1>You take a ferry over.

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<v Speaker 2>We got honked at because it has a famous curvy road.

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<v Speaker 2>You get out and take a picture and a car

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<v Speaker 2>was coming. They hanked Jake and I scared the crap

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<v Speaker 2>out of us. They were far away, yeah, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>one of those things where it scares you and you're

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<v Speaker 2>angry at them, but really they were doing you a

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<v Speaker 2>favor because they're giving.

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<v Speaker 1>You a heads up we're coming. But I was like, ah,

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<v Speaker 1>like so mad about it.

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<v Speaker 2>But it was awesome, And I feel like there was

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<v Speaker 2>like something specific I was going to share about the trip,

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<v Speaker 2>but I don't know what it is now.

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<v Speaker 1>Any crazy stories, not really, I mean those family friends Heidi.

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<v Speaker 2>So Heidi did gift us so in college because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>now I'm I'm considered old, right. We recorded everything in

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<v Speaker 2>college on Heidi's video camera. Okay, for years she's had

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<v Speaker 2>the tapes, we have no way of watching them. She

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<v Speaker 2>finally transferred those to little USB drives for me and Abby,

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<v Speaker 2>so we popped them in her computer. When I tell you,

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<v Speaker 2>I have never felt more uncomfortable watching anything in my life.

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<v Speaker 2>It is so cringey to watch your eighteen year old self.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, not a single video was filmed anytime

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<v Speaker 2>before three am. Every video of hours we were up

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<v Speaker 2>fully awake doing and I was like, I thought I

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<v Speaker 2>always went to bed early. Apparently not Apparently I was

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<v Speaker 2>between midnight three five am. We were constantly doing weird

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<v Speaker 2>stuff in our dorms, things I didn't remember doing. We

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<v Speaker 2>videoed spring breaks, so how our dorms worked were kind

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<v Speaker 2>of cool. You had four girls in a room and

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<v Speaker 2>right next to your room before guys in a room,

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<v Speaker 2>so it was like co ed dorm floors. So we

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<v Speaker 2>had like where we each had to do a proposal

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<v Speaker 2>to the guys next door. We filmed that we filmed,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, we were doing early content Jenny, where we

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<v Speaker 2>had to re enact what each person's personality was. So

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<v Speaker 2>it would be like, okay, you're coming in, Okay, open

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<v Speaker 2>the door, and Heidi running through because she was the

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<v Speaker 2>klepto of our group. And then Heidi would dress up

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<v Speaker 2>as a man and she'd come in and offer five

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<v Speaker 2>dollars to see Abby's boobs because Abby was the hoochie

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<v Speaker 2>mama of the group. If you will, someone comes up

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<v Speaker 2>and punches me in the ass because I'm the whiner

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<v Speaker 2>of the group and I'm whining on the ground. Amy

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<v Speaker 2>was like the jerk of the group or something. It

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<v Speaker 2>was just like I don't know. I was like this

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<v Speaker 2>is and it was so cringey. My voice I should

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<v Speaker 2>play audio, Jake and all of them like everyone sounds

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<v Speaker 2>kind of the same, but you I do not know

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<v Speaker 2>what my voice was. First of all, very southern, way

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<v Speaker 2>more southern than it is now, but also like there

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<v Speaker 2>was no depth to it at all. Yeah, and I

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<v Speaker 2>don't even have a deep voice now, but like it

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<v Speaker 2>is bizarre, Jake, and they're like, your teeth look different.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you get something done to your teeth? Since then?

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<v Speaker 2>I was like in Reno, I got six month braces,

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<v Speaker 2>but like they're like, maybe your teeth changing changed your voice,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, oh, Like I hated seeing it.

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<v Speaker 2>There were lots of moments of me dancing and singing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm glad to have the memories. So that was

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<v Speaker 2>a highlight for me. Watching that the tapes, it was

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<v Speaker 2>cringey but great.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you're also probably going to look back

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<v Speaker 1>on like certain things that we've done on like either

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning Show or your show now a cult because

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I played I think it was the first

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<v Speaker 1>time I ever celebrated a birthday with you guys on

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<v Speaker 1>the show. And so there was a Facebook live video

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<v Speaker 1>and I think I got like a memory on Facebook

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<v Speaker 1>for my birthday this past year. Yeah, and so Andrew

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<v Speaker 1>and I watched the whole thing and it wasn't bad,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was not the video to watch sitting next

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<v Speaker 1>to your boyfriend when you were super single back then,

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<v Speaker 1>and we were talking about all of my craziness and stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I don't want him to be

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<v Speaker 1>like hearing all this stuff, Like it's not like he

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't know like me being single and doing whatever I wanted,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's still like a respect level of like, I

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<v Speaker 1>would prefer you not having to watch this. Yeah, I'm like, God,

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<v Speaker 1>there's probably so many things that exist out there now

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<v Speaker 1>so from the show, and I won't completely reveal this.

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<v Speaker 2>A former show member reached out to me years ago

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<v Speaker 2>and asked me to delete videos on the Dave Ryan

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<v Speaker 2>Show YouTube. Yeah, I know, and I don't think I

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<v Speaker 2>deleted them because I was I'll be honest. I was

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<v Speaker 2>like afraid I would get in trouble for deleting them

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<v Speaker 2>because I wasn't on the show at the time and

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<v Speaker 2>that channel is like Dave's channel, not mine. But I

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<v Speaker 2>did go in and like hide them, like make them

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<v Speaker 2>private where no one can see them except for the

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<v Speaker 2>people who have the channel. Yeah, but I it was

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<v Speaker 2>because I think they were afraid that they were things

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<v Speaker 1>That would go And I was like totally respect that.

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<v Speaker 2>And I would hope, like if I ever left and

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<v Speaker 2>someone had control of that channel and I reached out

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<v Speaker 2>and asked them because I was afraid of like affecting

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<v Speaker 2>me and my reputation, I would hope that they would

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<v Speaker 2>do that for me. Yeah, because times have changed in

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<v Speaker 2>just the time that you and I have been here,

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<v Speaker 2>and obviously there will be audio I pull for myself

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<v Speaker 2>when I was younger in Indiana, I'm like, well, nope,

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't play that today.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's nah.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I don't have to have it on like

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<v Speaker 2>a CD somewhere so I could listen to it, but

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<v Speaker 2>no one else can ever find it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's bizarre. How is your weekend? What did you do? Uh? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So you know those videos that you might see on

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<v Speaker 1>Facebook or TikTok or Instagram where it's like a little

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<v Speaker 1>kid and they're at there a school concert and they're

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<v Speaker 1>like looking around in the crowd for their parent, and

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<v Speaker 1>they're starting to get really sad because they don't see

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<v Speaker 1>their parent, and then they get really happen. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So I was that kid, except for I never found

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<v Speaker 1>my parents. So I just cried this weekend. Oh So

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<v Speaker 1>what happened was I head down for the Challenge this

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<v Speaker 1>past Saturday, which is an event that we do with

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<v Speaker 1>the Salvation Army where if you're part of it, you

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<v Speaker 1>can repel down a building whatever. So Andrew had a

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<v Speaker 1>five and at ten fifty Andret texted me being like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry I had to leave to go to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>So I get down there and there's nobody there. I

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<v Speaker 1>about ten thirty, but like I still was hoping that

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm just sad, Like I literally repelled bel dated

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<v Speaker 1>and nobody even saw me, Like we didn't even have

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<v Speaker 2>Oh man, So then that makes me so sad.

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<v Speaker 1>I because I have I do know the video, Like

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<v Speaker 2>The cutest video of all of his little Christmas concert

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<v Speaker 2>of her. Like sad and then she I have that

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<v Speaker 2>her seeing me and a little light in her eyes.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was imagining her if she looked around and

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, love me and so Andrew had like plans to

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<v Speaker 1>home later that afternoon and I am just still sad,

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<v Speaker 1>and I told him. I was like, I'm gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>really honest, I'm really sad you weren't there, and I

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<v Speaker 1>understand that it's not your fault, but like, it doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>take away from the fact that I'm just like very sad. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And he's like, well, you know, of course they're right away.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, it's not my fault. Like I had the showing,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't expect you to take that long to go down,

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<v Speaker 1>And it's true, I didn't expect it to take that

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<v Speaker 1>long either. So I was like, I totally understand where

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<v Speaker 1>you're at. I just want you to know how I'm

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<v Speaker 1>feeling because I just was sad because when you do

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<v Speaker 1>big things in your life, you remember the moments of

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<v Speaker 1>the people who show up for you, and he was there,

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<v Speaker 1>but he wasn't care, you know. Yeah, But I'll never forget.

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<v Speaker 1>Like my first triathlon, I had a couple of girlfriends

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<v Speaker 1>say that they would come and cheer me on, and

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<v Speaker 1>they didn't come, and they like, oh, yeah, I got

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<v Speaker 1>I was hungover, I blah blah blah blah, and I

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<v Speaker 1>and those moments like do matter to people, you know?

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<v Speaker 1>So anyways, I was sad and I had planned like

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<v Speaker 1>a surprise date night thing for us that night, and

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<v Speaker 1>he like asked if we were still going. I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>We're still going. I'm sad, but I'm not mad at you,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's not fair to be mad, Like it's not

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<v Speaker 1>in the end, it's not your faults. Like, do I

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<v Speaker 1>wish you would have scheduled your showing a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>later because you knew that I had that sure, But

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<v Speaker 1>like I can't dictate everything about your job, and you

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<v Speaker 1>did probably schedule at a time that made sense according

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<v Speaker 1>to like us being in that vicinity, you doing the

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<v Speaker 1>showing near that hotel whatever. So that was my weekend. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I had a good weekend outside of my little emotional

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<v Speaker 1>roller coaster on Saturday, just kind of I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>I accomplish it. I had a weird Facebook marketplace exchange

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<v Speaker 1>why Because I've been trying to get a standing in

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<v Speaker 1>adjustable desks. Yeah, and I've so many people recommended this

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<v Speaker 1>one from Costco, but it's like three hundred and seventy

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<v Speaker 1>bucks and it's like kind of expensive. So I finally

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<v Speaker 1>see one on Facebook marketplace and I'm like, hey, can

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<v Speaker 1>I come look at this whatever? Because it was the

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<v Speaker 1>shittiest quality of video and one picture that like didn't

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<v Speaker 1>show barely any of it, and right off the bat,

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<v Speaker 1>I should have known it was going to be a

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<v Speaker 1>mess because she didn't know the measurements, didn't know the brand,

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<v Speaker 1>like couldn't give me any information. And then finally I'm like, okay, whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>She lives literally a minute away from me in Saint

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<v Speaker 1>Louis Park. I'm just gonna go look at it. It's,

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<v Speaker 1>if anything, it wastes five minutes of my day. But

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<v Speaker 1>then I'm sitting there and I'm like, hey, can you

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<v Speaker 1>send me your address so I can come? And then

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<v Speaker 1>she doesn't respond and she goes, are you on your way?

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<v Speaker 1>Is one message? The next messages and do you do

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<v Speaker 1>you have help? And do you have a truck? And

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<v Speaker 1>I go, no, I'm not on my way. You haven't

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<v Speaker 1>sent me the address, yet I need your address first,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she responds, that's weird, seriously, and I go

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<v Speaker 1>what I would go, haha, okay, I mean I can't

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<v Speaker 1>come buy this from you if you don't send me

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<v Speaker 1>your address. She goes, I asked you if you had

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<v Speaker 1>help in a truck. I go, you also asked me

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<v Speaker 1>if I was on the way. So it was like

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<v Speaker 1>this weird fucking back and forth for a while, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I realized she was like kind of an older woman,

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<v Speaker 1>and so she just like face in a place. But

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<v Speaker 1>then she like gave me the wrong address. We're circling

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<v Speaker 1>gush we because she like tight her she said, she

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<v Speaker 1>fat fingered it. Whatever. Yeah, finally we get there. Honestly

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<v Speaker 1>looks a little murdery kind of vibe. She's not there.

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<v Speaker 1>Some guy is there. So I'm like, okay, so now

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<v Speaker 1>this person who went by faith on Facebook is a man. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm confused because it wasn't a profile picture of a woman.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like a Meeta or something. So then it's

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<v Speaker 1>like this driveway, and Andrew did come, and so I

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<v Speaker 1>go down to the driveway and get us turned around

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<v Speaker 1>to be able to like jet out of there, Like

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<v Speaker 1>what is happening. Yeah, and then I did end up

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<v Speaker 1>buying it. I tried to tell I did try to

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<v Speaker 1>talk her down to one fifty because she had it

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<v Speaker 1>at two hundred and I should have been able to

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<v Speaker 1>get it down to one fifty because the house was

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<v Speaker 1>like dark and like, yeah, really dirty honestly, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't really fully see like in good lights. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and when I got it back, like the there's a

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<v Speaker 1>glass toppy and there's definitely some scratches on the top.

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<v Speaker 1>But I got her down to one seventy from two

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<v Speaker 1>hundred and brand new from Pasco. It's like three seventies.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm like cool, I saved like fifty five percent.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah on this not bad. I'm hyped about that. That

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<v Speaker 1>was like my big day on Sunday. I think that

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<v Speaker 1>is very exciting.

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<v Speaker 2>I love to I prefer to like sell stuff on

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<v Speaker 2>Marketplace that thrill, But when I get a good deal,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like that too. I was going to say another thing,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you were saying you were like wheeling

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<v Speaker 2>and dealing on Marketplace too. And I told Jake, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>we have got like you know, you go through those

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<v Speaker 2>phases and my mom goes, well at least your house

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<v Speaker 2>is big. When I have too much clutter, you can

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<v Speaker 2>see it. She's like, at least you can't see yours.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, it doesn't make it any better. Then

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<v Speaker 2>we have too much. I know we have too much

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<v Speaker 2>stuff because like every little nook and cranny's filling up.

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<v Speaker 2>We got to just get Jake go's you know, he'll

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<v Speaker 2>make jokes. She would just get rid of everything and

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<v Speaker 2>start from zero. Well, really know what we really need.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, yeah, that's the way to go.

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<v Speaker 2>I also discovered yet another horrible quality about myself on

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<v Speaker 2>this trip, because like, you know how people will say

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<v Speaker 2>things about like, oh, your kid is like acting like you,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's not a positive thing. And they were saying

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<v Speaker 2>like because I was saying all of was whining about

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<v Speaker 2>something and they're like, oh, I A don't really get

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<v Speaker 2>is that from you? And I was like, every four

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<v Speaker 2>and a half year old wines. They're like, oh no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>she has your inflection when she whinds. And I was

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<v Speaker 2>like okay, well and then like but that bothered me

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<v Speaker 2>deep within a little bit because I'm like, I, of

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<v Speaker 2>course don't want all of to get my negative qualities.

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<v Speaker 1>I only wanted to get my positive ones, and I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to.

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<v Speaker 2>Get all of Jake's stuff because Jake is like just

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<v Speaker 2>such a good person, but I am so bad about

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<v Speaker 2>not I think I'm getting better about hiding it a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit, but I'm probably not gonna think I don't

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<v Speaker 2>like doing what other people want to do. I just

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<v Speaker 2>want to do what I want to do. And it's

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<v Speaker 2>such a I think, negative quality and so selfish to

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<v Speaker 2>be like that. And I know I feel like I'm

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<v Speaker 2>probably like that because I was, to a degree.

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<v Speaker 1>And only child.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not an only child, but my sister's nine years

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<v Speaker 2>older than me, So for the majority, I just got

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<v Speaker 2>my way and what I wanted to do, and I

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<v Speaker 2>think that that probably is what it comes from. Also

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<v Speaker 2>possibly just like a personality trait you just have. But

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<v Speaker 2>like I wanted to go to like a store too,

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<v Speaker 2>And so the girls went to a store while the

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<v Speaker 2>guys took the kids to the beach, and I was

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<v Speaker 2>just getting so frustrated I could fill it myself. I

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<v Speaker 2>was probably hungry too, but I guess feel myself getting

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<v Speaker 2>so frustrated because they wanted to.

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<v Speaker 1>Look at stores too. That is such a shitty attitude.

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<v Speaker 2>They should also be able to get to look at

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<v Speaker 2>the two stores they wanted to look at, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was the reason I was getting frustrated is because if

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<v Speaker 2>I saw something I liked at the store, I just

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<v Speaker 2>bought it left they would be like, I'm gonna think

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<v Speaker 2>about it and we'll come back to the same store

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<v Speaker 2>if I want to buy it. So we went back

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<v Speaker 2>to two stores for them to do that, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was getting it and I'm like, that is they weren't.

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<v Speaker 2>They were walkable, we weren't driving forty minutes. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 2>it ended up taking like two hours, and in my

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<v Speaker 2>head it was gonna be a thirty minute adventure. But

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, this is a personal issue. None of them

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<v Speaker 2>were frustrated when I was like looking at the stores

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to look at. Yeah, and I don't. I

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<v Speaker 2>hate that quality in myself, Like and I know I'm

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<v Speaker 2>like that with things with Jake as well.

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<v Speaker 1>It'll he would say.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes to anything I want to do, but if it's

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<v Speaker 2>something he wants to do, I might say yes, but

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<v Speaker 2>I also might be like I really don't and he'll

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<v Speaker 2>just be like okay, and I'm like, ugh, I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>I get my way too often with things.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean I don't know. I think a lot

423
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<v Speaker 1>of relationships are kind of like that. If yeah, you're

424
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<v Speaker 1>truthfully like a heterosexual relationship. I feel like a lot

425
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<v Speaker 1>of times women their partners will allow them to do

426
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<v Speaker 1>whatever they want to do, but women will put their

427
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<v Speaker 1>foot down right a little bit more or because I

428
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<v Speaker 1>think that's kind of how it is more so with

429
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<v Speaker 1>Andrew and I. I mean, on a vacation, Andrew does

430
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<v Speaker 1>every single thing that I want to do, and then

431
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<v Speaker 1>like if he suggests things, it's not that I don't

432
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<v Speaker 1>want to do what he wants to do, but he

433
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<v Speaker 1>didn't do the research that I did right, so that

434
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<v Speaker 1>so I don't know that we're guaranteed to have a

435
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<v Speaker 1>good time doing something he might suggest. And one time

436
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<v Speaker 1>we did like these sand dune things on the Oregon

437
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<v Speaker 1>coast and it was one of my favorite things from

438
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<v Speaker 1>this West coast road trip we did. Yeah, and it

439
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<v Speaker 1>was a last minute addition that he found and we

440
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<v Speaker 1>did and it was great. But I'm totally like that

441
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<v Speaker 1>mostly honestly only on vacations. And I like that with Andrew,

442
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<v Speaker 1>but I'm very much like that where it's like I

443
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<v Speaker 1>want to do this. The last trip we went on,

444
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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to do this one hike, he wanted to

445
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<v Speaker 1>do another one, and we did the hike I wanted

446
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<v Speaker 1>to do, and then he loved it because I was like,

447
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<v Speaker 1>I think this one's better the research.

448
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah for sure, whatever, it's okay, Yeah, well it's not

449
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<v Speaker 2>it isn't it is, and it's I just think that, like,

450
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<v Speaker 2>you know, it's funny because so how my friend group

451
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<v Speaker 2>works is Hiding and I are both alpha, and Abby

452
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<v Speaker 2>is like very like she's Abby's very specific because she's

453
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<v Speaker 2>she's not diagnosed OCD, but I we call her that,

454
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<v Speaker 2>and I know you probably shouldn't politically correct like do

455
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<v Speaker 2>that anymore, but I think that she would agree. She it,

456
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<v Speaker 2>I mean everything. She's very specific on things, and I

457
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<v Speaker 2>don't mean just like she has her taste, like every

458
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<v Speaker 2>time this. She's been like this since we were in college.

459
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<v Speaker 2>So I would walk in, kick off my shoes and

460
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<v Speaker 2>do something, and when I would come back, they'd be

461
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<v Speaker 2>laid out perfectly. In this house we rented, every single

462
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<v Speaker 2>time I would go past the mudroom, she had lined

463
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<v Speaker 2>up every set of shoes perfectly, and it actually is

464
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<v Speaker 2>lovely because it's really like having a built in maid.

465
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<v Speaker 2>But when I was in college, I hated it. I'd

466
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<v Speaker 2>be like, because she'd put my shoes away in the closet,

467
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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, Abby, I'm trying to go do something now

468
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<v Speaker 2>to go upstairs and get my shoes out of the closet.

469
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<v Speaker 2>And I made a rule she had to leave my

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<v Speaker 2>shoes out for twenty four hours before she put them away.

471
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<v Speaker 2>But I but it, so how did I usually end

472
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<v Speaker 2>up getting into one little little tiff?

473
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<v Speaker 1>We didn't this time?

474
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<v Speaker 2>Nice, But she did make a comment at the beach

475
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<v Speaker 2>where she was like, Oh, are you in a better

476
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<v Speaker 2>mood now that you've had something to eat?

477
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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, I wasn't in a bad mood.

478
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<v Speaker 1>You can do that though with like your friends for

479
00:21:21.799 --> 00:21:25.559
<v Speaker 1>a while. You know that you're saying over it. I mean, listen,

480
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<v Speaker 1>I like, I think that I'm pretty go with the

481
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<v Speaker 1>flow when I'm in a bigger group setting on like

482
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<v Speaker 1>a vacation or something. Yeah, But I also choose my

483
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<v Speaker 1>vacations and how I travel now very particularly because I've

484
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<v Speaker 1>had so many bad situations of traveling with people who

485
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<v Speaker 1>are not fun for me. So I've just like tried

486
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<v Speaker 1>to avoid ever being in a situation where we're going

487
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<v Speaker 1>to be doing things maybe that I don't want to do. Yeah,

488
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<v Speaker 1>you know, yeah, Like I just I don't know. I

489
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<v Speaker 1>mean I try to think like this Savannah bachelorette party.

490
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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's a bachelrette party. We had an itinerary

491
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<v Speaker 1>for most of the trips. So but I got my

492
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<v Speaker 1>way and I got us to go to this one

493
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<v Speaker 1>coffee shop and little shop area, and then the group

494
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<v Speaker 1>that came with me was like so hyped because it

495
00:22:05.160 --> 00:22:07.279
<v Speaker 1>was super cool. Yeah, and I got my way with

496
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<v Speaker 1>that while the other girls went straight to this beach

497
00:22:09.359 --> 00:22:11.240
<v Speaker 1>we were all going to meet at, and so it

498
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<v Speaker 1>was like easier because we were split up, and like

499
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<v Speaker 1>the girls that I was mostly hanging out with, we

500
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<v Speaker 1>were all interested in doing the same things, you know.

501
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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know. I think it's just I think a.

502
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<v Speaker 2>Lot of people are like that. Yeah, and you do

503
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<v Speaker 2>find out if you can travel with people or not.

504
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<v Speaker 2>We did the, like I said, the full families this time,

505
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<v Speaker 2>and it was so great because her kids are like

506
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<v Speaker 2>lovely and they all have just played with them constantly.

507
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<v Speaker 2>I mean I barely was even checking it on her

508
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<v Speaker 2>nice I was like, where's all of Is she good?

509
00:22:35.759 --> 00:22:39.079
<v Speaker 2>I hear a scream somewhere. Yeah, she's good. She mostly

510
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<v Speaker 2>this is how kids are. If you ever have kids, Ginny,

511
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<v Speaker 2>you may not, you will learn the things you spend

512
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<v Speaker 2>the money on they don't care about. They care about

513
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<v Speaker 2>the weird shit olives highlight for the entire vacation. Bunk

514
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<v Speaker 2>beds and in the airbnb. She could care less probably

515
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<v Speaker 2>about anything else we did. But the bunk beds were

516
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<v Speaker 2>so oh cool. She wants bunk beds at home. This morning,

517
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<v Speaker 2>I miss the bunk beds. I'm driving her to school.

518
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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, all right, move on, And Jake said, should

519
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<v Speaker 2>we get her bunk beds?

520
00:23:08.400 --> 00:23:10.920
<v Speaker 1>Like no, I just bought her a bed, and he's like,

521
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<v Speaker 1>there's only a small window where they want bunk beds.

522
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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, I always wanted one when I was

523
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<v Speaker 1>a kid. But I also shared a room with my

524
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<v Speaker 1>old Rachel, so we literally shared a bed till we

525
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<v Speaker 1>were like almost teenagers, and I was always like, I

526
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<v Speaker 1>need a bunk.

527
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<v Speaker 2>Bed because we were sharing a room, but we never

528
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<v Speaker 2>got one. I was top bunk my sophomore year of

529
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<v Speaker 2>college with Abby. I don't know why I chose the

530
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<v Speaker 2>top bunk. I don't even know if I was cool maybe,

531
00:23:38.720 --> 00:23:41.200
<v Speaker 2>but that's embarrassing. As a like twenty year old woman,

532
00:23:41.319 --> 00:23:43.519
<v Speaker 2>I thought that was cool. Yeah, I look back at them.

533
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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, what a horrible decision.

534
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<v Speaker 1>But whatever? Can I tell you that? Andrew and I

535
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<v Speaker 1>are the where the couple on Instagram where it's like

536
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<v Speaker 1>a meme and it's like you travel somewhere and within

537
00:23:56.039 --> 00:23:57.759
<v Speaker 1>three minutes you're like, we should move here?

538
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<v Speaker 2>Oh, Jake, can I at the same table we look

539
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<v Speaker 2>at realistic get on Zillow immediately and start looking at

540
00:24:01.880 --> 00:24:02.839
<v Speaker 2>how much houses.

541
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<v Speaker 1>Are and stuff. So Ever since we went to Seattle

542
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<v Speaker 1>and Lovenworth like a month ago, Andrew has been like

543
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<v Speaker 1>heavily talking about like he loved Seattle so much, and

544
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<v Speaker 1>we've always loved Colorado for snowboarding and stuff, but like

545
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<v Speaker 1>Denver itself, like it's a fun city and I like

546
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<v Speaker 1>to visit. I don't know that I foresee myself ever

547
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<v Speaker 1>wanting to live in that city anymore. Yeah, if you

548
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<v Speaker 1>are a snowboarder skier, you know how much of a

549
00:24:24.759 --> 00:24:26.839
<v Speaker 1>nightmare it is to get out into the mountains when

550
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<v Speaker 1>there's snowstorms and stuff because there's only one highway that

551
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<v Speaker 1>goes out there. So realistically, like snowboarding wise, it's not

552
00:24:32.960 --> 00:24:36.599
<v Speaker 1>like the best location. So Seattle has been like a

553
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<v Speaker 1>top subject with Andrew lately, to the point that he

554
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<v Speaker 1>has been saying a lot about moving and like really

555
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<v Speaker 1>like considering different things, and like there's some stuff that's

556
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<v Speaker 1>changing in the real estate industry that I don't fully

557
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<v Speaker 1>know how to explain it, so I don't want to

558
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<v Speaker 1>like get into it, but it has the potential to

559
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<v Speaker 1>really change how Andrew makes money. And so he kind

560
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<v Speaker 1>of is like starting to weigh up options in case

561
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<v Speaker 1>he maybe has to pivot his career right, And I

562
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<v Speaker 1>have told him because I love my life here, but

563
00:25:09.079 --> 00:25:12.359
<v Speaker 1>I've now lived in the Midwest my entire life, and yes,

564
00:25:12.400 --> 00:25:14.640
<v Speaker 1>the Twin Cities is very different than the town I

565
00:25:14.640 --> 00:25:18.400
<v Speaker 1>grew up in Wisconsin, but I just like feel like

566
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<v Speaker 1>I need to be around mountains.

567
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<v Speaker 2>You have said that, like since the beginning of knowing you,

568
00:25:22.960 --> 00:25:26.759
<v Speaker 2>and you've like been like, and you've also been very

569
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<v Speaker 2>much like, I want to do this while I'm still

570
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<v Speaker 2>younger and can like do all the hikes and things

571
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<v Speaker 2>I want to do.

572
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<v Speaker 1>So, like we were on a walk on Sunday and

573
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<v Speaker 1>we were just like talking about all the opportunities of

574
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<v Speaker 1>things we would get into if we ever lived in

575
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<v Speaker 1>like the Pacific Northwest or something. And I mean, of

576
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<v Speaker 1>course hiking would be like a big one, but I've

577
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<v Speaker 1>always thought it was like I've been starting to get

578
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<v Speaker 1>into watching like these people on Instagram that do rock

579
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<v Speaker 1>climbing and stuff, and I think that might be a

580
00:25:52.839 --> 00:25:55.000
<v Speaker 1>little too much considering I just went off a building

581
00:25:55.039 --> 00:25:56.359
<v Speaker 1>and the other day and I was terrified.

582
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<v Speaker 2>Started just going to the Bouldering Project in Minneapolis and

583
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<v Speaker 2>see if you like it. Jake and yell and go

584
00:26:00.680 --> 00:26:03.240
<v Speaker 2>every week. They love it and it took all of

585
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<v Speaker 2>last week.

586
00:26:04.079 --> 00:26:07.200
<v Speaker 1>Andrew really wants to get into, like it's a certain

587
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<v Speaker 1>kind of kayaking that's just not your normal kayaking. It's

588
00:26:09.559 --> 00:26:11.799
<v Speaker 1>like whitewater kayaking. It's probably all it's called.

589
00:26:11.799 --> 00:26:13.200
<v Speaker 2>But is it the one where you're like in a

590
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<v Speaker 2>solo one and you can like kind of flip in

591
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<v Speaker 2>and that it's so terrifying to me.

592
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<v Speaker 1>So like he kind of wants to get into stuff

593
00:26:19.359 --> 00:26:21.519
<v Speaker 1>like that. And it's like and he loves mountain biking

594
00:26:21.559 --> 00:26:24.759
<v Speaker 1>and stuff. Yeah, it's like we love Minnesota. Andrew's never

595
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<v Speaker 1>left the Twin Cities. And I did tell him I

596
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<v Speaker 1>go one thing that I was able to experience it.

597
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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you haven't been able to. Is when

598
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<v Speaker 1>I left Wisconsin to go to college here in the

599
00:26:34.559 --> 00:26:37.160
<v Speaker 1>Twin Cities, it was just like this whole new life

600
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<v Speaker 1>I was starting, and obviously also very different because I'm

601
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<v Speaker 1>going from high school to living on my own and

602
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<v Speaker 1>going to college. But I was like, I will never

603
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<v Speaker 1>forget those days of exploring the city by myself for

604
00:26:46.359 --> 00:26:49.119
<v Speaker 1>the first time and just learning new things. And it's like,

605
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<v Speaker 1>there's so much for the Twin Cities to offer, but

606
00:26:52.039 --> 00:26:55.759
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I've done it all. Yeah, like not truthfully,

607
00:26:55.880 --> 00:26:58.000
<v Speaker 1>not too many things get me super excited to do

608
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<v Speaker 1>in the Twin Cities anymore. And it's like a living

609
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<v Speaker 1>in Granted, I don't think we could even honestly afford

610
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<v Speaker 1>living in Seattle, like it's a very expensive city to.

611
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<v Speaker 2>Live it is, but I mean, my I'm actually surprised

612
00:27:09.799 --> 00:27:11.720
<v Speaker 2>you would want Seattle instead of going more a little

613
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<v Speaker 2>bit closer to the coast.

614
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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I've always said that Organs might say I thought, yeah,

615
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<v Speaker 1>you were more organ coast. I definitely am. But I

616
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<v Speaker 1>do see I like the city of Seattle so much

617
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<v Speaker 1>that I do I feel like I just want to

618
00:27:26.279 --> 00:27:28.279
<v Speaker 1>be able to still be in a big city. I

619
00:27:28.359 --> 00:27:32.000
<v Speaker 1>have access to mountains and water and stuff, So you

620
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<v Speaker 1>don't really unless like, Portland's probably the closest where you

621
00:27:35.440 --> 00:27:37.920
<v Speaker 1>can get kind of both the water and the mountains

622
00:27:37.920 --> 00:27:40.440
<v Speaker 1>and stuff for big cities in Oregon. And I don't know,

623
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<v Speaker 1>I've never I've only gone through Portland.

624
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<v Speaker 2>I don't know a lot about port It's the same

625
00:27:44.079 --> 00:27:45.920
<v Speaker 2>in Seattle as it is any big city, though, you

626
00:27:46.079 --> 00:27:48.519
<v Speaker 2>just want it, you just to afford to live. You

627
00:27:48.720 --> 00:27:50.480
<v Speaker 2>just go outside to on the suburb cities. This is

628
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<v Speaker 2>with my friend Ellen, who did radio there did.

629
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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so anyways, he also, like Andrew, also says things

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<v Speaker 1>like this a lot, and like never actually wants to

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<v Speaker 1>write do anything in the There's no plan just so

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<v Speaker 1>everyone's not right if you're listening right now. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>have any intention of leaving anytime soon. But like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's been a more consistent conversation and a more of

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<v Speaker 1>like if we moved to Seattle, not a like, well

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<v Speaker 1>maybe someday we'll move, you know, it's more of a like.

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<v Speaker 1>It seems a little bit more right. Interest. He's more

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<v Speaker 1>interested than I've ever heard him in the past. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>So anyways, But you know, we're once again. It's I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>we would change our entire lives if we were to move.

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<v Speaker 2>I obviously selfishly don't want you to, but if you

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<v Speaker 2>did live there, that would be a good spot. Like

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<v Speaker 2>I would if my friend's been way at least need

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<v Speaker 2>them to go to a spot I would want to visit,

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<v Speaker 2>So that would be a spot I would actually visit.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. That's how I feel like my younger sister.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to reveal too much because she hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>told many people, and I don't know who listens to

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<v Speaker 1>this podcast, but she's talking about moving somewhere in like

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<v Speaker 1>a year, and I like am so hyped because I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, good, go because I want to go visit, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>somewhere that's like fun to visit, versus like, sorry, I

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<v Speaker 1>moved out of my home for a reason, We're going

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<v Speaker 1>to go back there for a reason. I like going

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<v Speaker 1>to see my family in fond a lot all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of like, all right, we're going to go

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<v Speaker 1>to the Gillies the drive in again to get ice cream,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's great ice cream, but like, yeah, there's only

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<v Speaker 1>so much you can do there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. When my sister moved to Orlando. I was pretty

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<v Speaker 2>like excited about that. Florida is not my favorite spot

662
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<v Speaker 2>and it's obviously not even on a beach area, but

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<v Speaker 2>they do are around a lot of cool things, not

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<v Speaker 2>just Disney either, but like we're going to go there

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<v Speaker 2>for Thanksgiving, and she was like, we should go to

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<v Speaker 2>Hemingway's house, which it's a drive, but like I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>that will be so cool to go see Hemmingway's cats,

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<v Speaker 2>the six toed cats and things, and they are right

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<v Speaker 2>by that spot. You've probably seen the tiktoks or videos

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<v Speaker 2>where everyone's paddleboarding and the huge manatees are under the

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<v Speaker 2>clear water. That's right by where she lives. So I

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<v Speaker 2>think we're going to try that, assuming they're in season.

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<v Speaker 2>I have to look at the dates. I actually don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>but yeah, it's fun to have like a destination. And

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<v Speaker 2>also for us in the winter, having a spot to

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<v Speaker 2>go on Florida and stay for free and they have

677
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<v Speaker 2>a pool is just really nice too. So if you're

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<v Speaker 2>planning on moving away from your family and friends, you

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<v Speaker 2>need to be considerate of it being a spot that

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<v Speaker 2>they want to visit.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, definitely, and that you have one spare bedroom so

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<v Speaker 1>they can sleep for free, or that we can't. Yeah, exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>I was. I don't think I said this on the

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<v Speaker 1>podcast when I talked about that trip out to Seattle,

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<v Speaker 1>but we stayed at my friend's house for one night

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<v Speaker 1>and they live in West Seattle, and I was like

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like stressed about it because you're at a

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<v Speaker 1>point in life where like you don't really want to

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<v Speaker 1>crash on your friend's couches. And even though they're both

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<v Speaker 1>very successful, real estate is still so expensive out there

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<v Speaker 1>that their house that they paid way more than we

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<v Speaker 1>paid for our house, is about half the size of

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<v Speaker 1>our house, and so they've got one guest bedroom. In

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<v Speaker 1>the last time I went to visit, they only had

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<v Speaker 1>a full bed, and Andrew and I have a king

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<v Speaker 1>bed in our bedroom, so I was like, oh, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was hot and they didn't they don't have central air,

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<v Speaker 1>so I was like, this is going to be the

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<v Speaker 1>longest night ever. But luckily there was enough of a

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<v Speaker 1>breeze that it kept to the pool and they did

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<v Speaker 1>upgrade to a queen bed the last time I was there,

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<v Speaker 1>so we were able to like survive it. But I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, Oh, I like to go visit friends, but

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<v Speaker 1>like in the end, I almost want to spend more

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<v Speaker 1>money to just have a comfortable night of sleep versus

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely money, you know, absolutely.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you have anything else that you want to talk about?

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<v Speaker 2>I think we're like at our time, that's about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, remember you can always email us Fallon at katiwb

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<v Speaker 2>dot com or Jenny at katiwb dot com and we

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<v Speaker 2>appreciate you thanks for listening.