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Speaker 1: I made a decision pace sunny sun. Yet on I

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had a vision.

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Speaker 2: It's nice.

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Speaker 1: What's up? Everybody.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to for crying out loud. We are I am

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in Florida. Stephanie's not with me, but I am. I'm

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in Florida, and I was supposed to hie, Stephanie. Hey, yes,

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So I was supposed to leave today and I was

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just getting all these alerts about the TSA stuff that's

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going down at all these airports, and I have to

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take two planes and I've been here since Tuesday last week.

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So anyway, my house is empty, as everybody knows, so

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I don't have to rush back. But I got two

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things working from my My family wants me to stay

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longer because my nephew coming in today with his baby,

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and I would have missed them, but I would have

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gotten back really late tonight.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, the plane situation, I would have been.

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Speaker 2: Cutting it really close for the second flight to get

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home tonight because my layover was only going to be

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less than an hour and there's already been delays today.

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So I got nervous and asked Stephanie if we could

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do a doom for our for crying out loud this week,

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so we're dooming it and it's working out pretty good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah for me. We did our Patreon which was it

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was a good one. Hella petty. I gotta say it'll

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be very petty. It was very petty, even for me,

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and I feel that we will get some blowback. But

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I want everybody to understand who who's listening and is

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also subscribed to Patreon, and a lot of people who

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listen to our Tuesday show, they listened to it on Patreon.

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So please understand that, yes, we're professionals. We're professionals podcasters.

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We've been doing this a long long time. But sometimes

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shit gets under our skin, of course, and and we're

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human beings.

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Speaker 2: Like yes, and sometimes it needs to be yes, and

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it needs to be addressed.

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Speaker 1: And then and we addressed it on Patreon. And some

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people need to get their ass called out, yes, exactly,

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being assholes, right, And you know they outed themselves. It's

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not like we're calling them out.

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Speaker 2: They said who they are they were, and yeah, and

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we called and Stephanie called it out.

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Speaker 1: I didn't have to be said. I didn't read any

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just so you know, I didn't read any personal text messages.

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Right years ago, you just have to listen. Years ago,

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I'm just going to bring this up. It doesn't really

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matter anymore. But many years ago, well, I'll say we

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even though I don't want to include you in this mess,

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you could say wee. But but there was an issue

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that we had with Heather McDonald from Juicy Skin Fame,

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who was nice a very very very big, very very

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terrible problem in America. She's a very very big podcaster,

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she has a very successful show. I was I'm not

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going to say good friends with her, but I was

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definitely friends with her in the nineties.

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Speaker 2: Wow' I remember when she came on our show early on,

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and I remember she I didn't really know who she was,

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but she was doing I think Chelsea Lately at the time,

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right because I remember she imitated Jennifer Aniston and I

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was like, oh my god, this girl's talented.

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Speaker 1: She nailed it. Yeah, yeah, she was. I mean, we

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did stand up together for you. We were kind of

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started doing stand up around the same time, and we

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had a mutual friend that put us on all the

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her shows, and so like I knew her like pretty well.

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I'm not going to say like I went and hung

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out with her, would go have lunch with her alone,

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but we did a lot of things like in small groups,

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and we are friends with the same people. Put it

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that way, and so I believe I did her podcast

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like years before that. And then anyway, the whole point

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of this is that she had an issue with Adam,

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which we can kind of freely say. Now, this situation

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was this, and this was all on Patreon, and you'll

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understand why I'm saying this in a minute. But the

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whole story was basically that we invited her on our

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podcast and she had said that she was blackbald by

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Norm and she really wanted to go on Adam's show,

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but she felt that she was blacklisted blackbald from all

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podcast one podcasts because she had an issue with Norm.

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Speaker 2: Norm is the head of the owner of podcast one. Yeah,

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rip right, yes, yeah, he passed away.

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is dead. Yeah. We'll let you know though if for

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some SOMETHINGO, if anything changes, Yeah, if he like, text

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you right now and he's like, how dare you? I'm

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still here? So what happened was what happened. What happened.

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cleared it with you. You were like, yeah, of course,

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like let's have her on And then like the day

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before Adam caught wind of it, and we can freely

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say this now too, right, he's a who cares. Adam

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was like hell no, well, Adam goes, no, you can't

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have her on the show, and right because she had

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some issue with Norm. Yeah, and he was like basically Adam, sorry, sorry,

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Adam if you're listening. But he was like, no, she's

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a bitch, and what we're not gonna I'm not going

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to risk it for He was not that's right, And

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you said, listen, he doesn't want her to come on

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our show and I'm not saying that she one hundred

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percent can't, but he thinks that that's kind of a risk,

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like why bad business or whatever? It was like why

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risk the relationship with Norm? And you were like, I'm

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or And I was like no, I like, I'm a

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big girl, she's my friend. I'll tell her. So I

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told her very nicely. We so we had a text

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exchange where I basically tried to explain it to her

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and was like, look, I don't own this this is

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not my podcast. This was Lynette's pod. I mean, because

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this was years.

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Speaker 2: Ago, years, years years, I was not It was in

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the very beginning of Adam podcasting, and like the first

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few years of podcasting with podcast one.

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Speaker 1: I think he just like started business with them. I

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mean yeah, maybe a little bit later than that after

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but yeah. But but the point is it doesn't really matter.

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this is my full time job, Like well that I

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do very very part time, but yeah, because we're very successful.

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I was like, this is my main gig, and like,

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I'm not really in a position to be like and also,

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let's be honest, she wasn't like my best friend, so

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I also myself wasn't going to be like arguing it

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with you, and who cares? Yeah cares. So I was like,

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so I explained it, and then she made a Patreon

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about it and read all of my texts.

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Speaker 2: This is my whole right, but wait, she did come

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on our show, so was she coming back again?

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then she wanted to come back. Then she had an

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issue and left podcast one that right, and then she

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was apparently not allowed. Joe Cooy wouldn't have her on.

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on their show. I want to say there were a

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couple other podcasters, but we told her that she was

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not black bald because she wasn't because she wasn't. Norm

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individual podcasters who decided for themselves not to have her

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on for whatever reason, whether they were being loyal to

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Norm whatever, right, right, right, yeah, but we weren't anyway.

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in return, and or somehow I read some texts later

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with somebody else, and somebody was like, you got so

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mad when Heather read your texts, and you did, made

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a whole thing about it, and now you're reading somebody

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else's text. But somehow, I think this situation was a

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little different. Yes, yeah, of course. It wasn't like a

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friend of mine. It was kind of a betrayal. I

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felt like Heather was yeahs for me, I remember Na

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not even high but whatever. I didn't really care that much,

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you know. Yeah, how I talked to Heather much in

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the since then, not really, but I don't consider I'm

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not liking a fight with other No, there's no beef. Yeah,

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why I think she let it go because we're bigger people.

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We're right, we're known. Here's here's how I'm going to

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bring this home. You and I are known, if we

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are if we're known for anything. It's just always taking

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the high road.

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Speaker 2: Right exactly. But once in a while we have to

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call you know, people out. That's exactly right. So that's

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what our patreon is. Yes, and our patroon has nothing

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Speaker 1: No, like, not a thing. Oh my god, hilarious. So

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how long are you going to stay? Are you going

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to stay another week? So I don't know.

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Speaker 2: So uh now, now this is what I was trying

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to deal with before we got on zoom. Now Sonny's

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going to be on spring break, and Wendy wants Sonny

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to come out here. Natalia's not a to be home

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for spring not for She's only gonna be home like

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and see the family. So anyway, he's in class right now,

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Speaker 2: I'll be here for a few more days and sunny comes,

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it'll be still humored.

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taking time or I did take time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I took some ibuprofen and I've been icing my

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it's been nice because it's just been Wendy and I

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I don't love them, but you know, and she's you know,

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Speaker 1: But now it's just her and.

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of the night with a sick baby that she has

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were enjoying our just alone time. We were watching movies.

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We watched Get Up Ready or not? Have you seen

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that movie?

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Speaker 1: No? Ready or not? But let's let's because now we're

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going to get into a different topic. So let's really

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quickly talk about laundry sauce because.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I'm so excited that we have laundry

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sauce because Stephan was telling me because she got some

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laundry sauce in the mail and I told Wendy about

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this before I found out that we had laundry sauce

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today and she's going to order some. Oh my god,

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shes too. She's gonna love it. He's gonna love it. Yes,

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I can't.

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Speaker 1: I like, it's one product that I am absolutely obsessed

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with because and you know they're in Target now. It

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just that's right. I saw that. Oh my god, they

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have the sense are so great. If you want your

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clothes smelling like Australian sandalwood, Italian bergamot, or they have

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Egyptian rose, and it just it makes everything smell. I can't,

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I can't even like.

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Speaker 2: Like just Definitie has been talking about laundry Sauce for months, months,

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and we were so excited that we got to tech

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talk about it today.

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Speaker 1: Laundry Sauce on my own. Remember I told you I

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bought a huge thing of it because I was like, I,

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you know, I don't know when they're going to come

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back as a sponsor, but I can't live without it,

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Speaker 2: So literally was just telling Wendy about it before we

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found out they were responsed and that's how I found

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out there and target Yes so.

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Speaker 2: It's going to be home like around the Easter weekend. Yeah, okay,

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but then generally got it?

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I I fill this with lbie. You see her enough,

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it's more broad, you know what I mean? Like it is. Yeah,

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she's close.

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Speaker 2: I just saw I just saw her like a week ago. Yeah,

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she's she comes home a lot. Yeah, Sonny's been. But yeah,

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so Sonny will be done with school, I thinked and

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then this week and then or maybe in a day

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or two, I don't know. I'm waiting for him to

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call me back after his classes and then we'll figure

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that out. But but then on the flip side, I

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me to stay because they're all coming in tonight. Well,

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Nicholas is coming in with his baby and his wife

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and and his in laws are coming, and then Anthony.

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I'm not gonna be able to see the other Anthony

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and his family they're coming next week. I won't be

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here that long. But I was saying, it's just been

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nice just hanging out with Wendy. She made me lentil

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soup from scratch, Like what the heck? It was delicious.

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fresh strawberry, she whips up whipp cream, makes it in

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two seconds.

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Speaker 1: Like don't you don't just buy whip cream?

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Speaker 2: Shit?

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Speaker 1: No, no, no.

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Speaker 2: Like she just whips it up. I mean yeah, I'm like,

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how do you do it? She's like, well, you need

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this this hand blender thing. I'm like, well, now I'm out.

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I don't have that. I don't know who's got a blender?

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Speaker 1: You know those things. I know what you're talking about

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because I got for like a stocking stuffer for Sadie,

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like a couple of Christmases ago. It's literally you can

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get it in Target. They're like the fro things. Yeah,

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isn't that what she's talking about?

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Speaker 2: Or there's that that there's a frother like for your coffee.

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She's got a bigger one, but she like, I don't know,

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maybe I have one. I would have to dig it

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out and look it through my.

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Speaker 1: Are you talking about a mixer? Like what you would

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mix like batter with.

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Speaker 2: Like yeah, but it's like she's got like a handy

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dandy one that's not you know, you don't have to

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use the big She also has that, you know, the

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big bowl mixer on her counter and she uses that

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all the time, like to make mashed potatoes, like.

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Speaker 1: Just whips it up. But last night we went out.

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Speaker 2: We we went to a nice steak dinner last night

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and had a good time. And it was funny people

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watching here in Florida because like we were we ate

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dinner at the bar because the restaurant was packed and

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it took forever to get our food. But anyway, next

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to us was the couple with the old man that's

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got one foot in the grave the other one on

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a banana peel, Like he looks older than shit, and

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then like the woman next to him, he's like forty

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years younger than him, fifty years younger. Like you can tell, like, okay,

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what's going on here, right, you know? Yeah, So but

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we had.

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Speaker 1: Fun and then we watched Yeah, we watched the movie

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Ready or not.

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Speaker 2: I highly suggest it's it's it's it's it's hard to

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it's kind of like a knives out. It's a gory movie.

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But it's over the top and kind of ridiculous. But

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the dialogue was hilarious, like very dry, like ARCHI a.

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Speaker 1: Sense of humor. Who's in there?

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Speaker 2: I mean, the only guy that I think it was

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Penn Badley Badgely huh.

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Speaker 1: I think he's the only one. I don't know. The

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rest of the Oh, oh, what's her name? Was in it?

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Speaker 2: Some of this older actress she was in sex Lies

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and videotape Andy McDowell. Oh, yeah, yeah, she's in it.

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And that's pretty much it. Like the main girl. She

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kind of reminds me of a Robbie Margot, but I

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don't think she's anybody that kind of made it good too,

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because the you know, these are like real characters, but

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it's just it's hilarious. It's like it's an intense movie.

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It's basically there's this rich family and this this guy

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marries this bride and it's a tradition in their family

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that after they get married, the night of their wedding,

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they all they're on this mansion and they all go

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on lockdown and they hunt her and they have to.

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She's she's fine.

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Speaker 1: But they will all like self combust and die.

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Speaker 2: I know it sounds crazy, Okay, Yeah, so they have

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to hunt her and kill to trying to kill her.

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That's it's like a game like Ready or Not. It's

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hide and seek basically. Yeah, so it's there's part two.

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Now there's a movie with part two that's coming out

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pretty soon.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. But anyway, so we watched that, we watched, we

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got caught up.

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Speaker 2: On Mormon Wives, which is insane and all the story,

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and I wanted to ask you, Stephanie, what's going on

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with the Bachelorette got canceled?

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Speaker 1: The Bachelorette certainly did get canceled. I'm gonna I'll tell

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you this. And I've said that, you know, Cecily and I.

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Cecily and I have talked about this on Rose Pricks.

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We did a full episode about it. But I don't

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give a fuck. I didn't like Taylor, Taylor Frankie.

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Speaker 2: Paul right at all. I was, yeah, you you were

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telling me this a couple of weeks. She's like a

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week ago, she's.

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Speaker 1: Just trashy, trash, trash.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know anything about her until this last week.

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Speaker 1: The girl was already on probation like, how do you

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have how do you make somebody the bachelorette that's literally

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on probation for domestic violence, right and reckless child endangerment?

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What so that that's your bachelorette who's who's got two

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kids from her first guy and a kid from this

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from Dakota who she's currently instill entangled with. Both of

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these guys, by the way, have taken out restraining orders

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against her and filed for custody of their their It's like,

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how was this ever somebody to show as like a

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prize for all these guys, right? And that's did ABC

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not do their due diligence or they just I think

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they had it? Yeah? I think they just I think

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they were just like what ratings? Do you think that

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they they saw that video? Yes? No, well there was

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will we know there was video tape of the arrest

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because they aired that was in the very first season

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of Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. They showed video of

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the of her like arrest basically, right, So I don't

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know if that I don't think that video of her

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actually kicking him and throwing chairs at him. Did you

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see the video? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I watched the whole thing like the unedited version

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where you can hear her child in the background crying.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's very disturbing, very disturbing. Yeah, and and

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it bothers me that so many people are like, look,

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I don't I don't know Dakota. I know what I've

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seen on Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. He does not

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seem great. He seems like a piece of shit. They

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have clearly have a toxic relationship. But I don't know

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how you shift. So many people online are just like, well,

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what did he do before she hit record? Before he

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hit record? It's like, what difference does it make? Right?

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It's nice? She she's She has said that she has

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major anger issues, and she said on a podcast that

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she lost her mind and went crazy and like blacked

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out and was Yeah, at least she was honest on

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that podcast.

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Speaker 2: She did I'd apologize though, No, didn't know, just was like,

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I got blackout drunk. I kind of don't remember some

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of the nets of the evening she said.

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Speaker 1: She says she was drunk. She said she she was

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blackout drunk. Oh, I thought she meant she was blacked out,

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like from anger, Like she just I don't know. Maybe

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that's what she said. Yeah, it's just that it wasn't

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the first time, and obviously and then she was put

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on probation and then it's happened again, so it's right.

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But I think that even though it happened again and

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that the charges are pending, I still think they would

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have ABC would have aired it. Right, got video not

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come out? Knock getting that your opinion from an ABC standpoint.

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It's about the money, right, It's about the money. But

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I can tell you they probably.

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Speaker 2: Losing their mind when that video came out, because when

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I didn't know the show got canceled yet and that

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video came out, and I was like, they are not

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they can't air that show, Like there's no, that's domestic violence.

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Here it is in a video and you and they're

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gonna show on Sunday night and there's a child involved.

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Speaker 1: How's the agent they're gonna like, Oh, here's.

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Speaker 2: Our new Bachelorette. Like no, there was no way they

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were gonna be able to do it. What did they

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air in replacement?

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Speaker 1: Do you know? On Sunday what they aired instead of

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The Bachelor aired something about like a crew cruise ship,

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that cruise thing. I saw a clip of it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, because I was wondering, like they're gonna have

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to put something up, you know.

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Speaker 1: But now the new I'm hearing on Monday Morning.

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Speaker 2: This week is now she's looking to sue ABC, and

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some of the guys that were on the show are

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looking to sue ABC, saying that they were put in

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an endangerment and endangered environment with being on that show

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with her.

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Speaker 1: Like what now they're suing?

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Speaker 2: And now she her lawyers are suing basically saying they

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knew everything and they still decided to have me on

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and now they're in violation of my contract because even

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though she has those charges, it wasn't nothing has been.

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Speaker 1: She's innocent to proven guilty. So now they might have

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a lawsuit from her. Yes, hear about that. I did.

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I did read that, except for the the talking heads

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are saying she's not gonna win that lawsuit, like probably,

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I mean she can, she can file about lawsuit. She's

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not gonna win because if they say they because they

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can say that she broke her contract by continuing to

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to commit you know, by committing another crime, something is

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going something. I guess when the charges come out, I

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mean I guess she would be banking very heavily on

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not getting charged with anything for the latest thing she

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did rightow. But yeah, I think she has a point

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that like they all wanted her exactly, and it's on that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think people are going to get fired

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over in the production side, on Warner Brother's side, I think,

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because you know, they should have. I don't know that

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somebody's going to have to be held responsible for that

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Bachelorette situation in ABC for sure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, heads are going to roll. It's not going to

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be pretty interesting interesting. Yeah. But the thing is, like,

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I'm not above trashy TV obviously, It's just it just

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wasn't going to feel enjoyable to me because I don't

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I find her to be so unlikable. I mean, I

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watched two seasons of Real of the Secret Lives of

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Mormon Wives and there's she's hateable character, so I'm not

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recrooting for her. And then all the guys are pretty

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much maga and she's maga. So like, it's just not

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for me. It's not my going to be entertaining. It's

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set me. I don't care. And also everybody already knew

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that she was she hooked up with Dakota before she

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left and since she got back, hence I got me

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and they got back together immediately upon her coming back.

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So it's like, what did she pick a guy? Didn't she?

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I heard she she picked a guy, right, she was

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being performative and like being on a TV show. And

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didn't she sleep with Dakota the night before she went

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to do the Bachelorette? Yes?

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Speaker 2: Wow, yeah, not likable person, just not no. Yeah, it's

471
00:25:50,039 --> 00:25:52,759
a turn off that. And also I see what like

472
00:25:52,839 --> 00:25:56,319
Hulu and ABC are doing because they had one of

473
00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:59,200
the girls from Mormon I think Whitney or whatever. I

474
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:02,599
don't know, they're whoever anybody's names are. But one of

475
00:26:02,599 --> 00:26:04,920
the girls from Mormon's Wives did Dancing with the Stars.

476
00:26:05,759 --> 00:26:10,200
I think, so yeah, so I can you know, I

477
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:12,160
see what they're kind of. They were trying to do

478
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:15,519
a stunt casting with the Bachelorette by thinking they were

479
00:26:15,519 --> 00:26:18,119
going to choose her from the Mormon Wives. It just

480
00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:21,920
it just backfired big time, you know. And it's so

481
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:25,000
funny because I was watching this little side note, I

482
00:26:25,079 --> 00:26:30,119
was watching I'm still watching The vander Pump I'm watching

483
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:35,039
season eleven after the fallout scandal. Oh yes, so I

484
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:39,039
watched the Scandal season. That was pretty crazy. I don't

485
00:26:39,039 --> 00:26:40,920
know if you guys know, but like, you know, Tom

486
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:44,359
Sandoval cheated on her anyway, But I found it funny

487
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,319
that they were doing They were talking about Dancing with

488
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:49,839
the Stars and how Shina wanted to do it and

489
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:55,440
Arianna was able. And that's an NBC Peacock show, the

490
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:59,039
the the vander Palm, and so they were doing that

491
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:02,400
cut of like they were able to talk about Dancing

492
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,480
with the Stars, but they were not able to say

493
00:27:04,519 --> 00:27:07,279
the show that Tom Sandoval was on. They just said

494
00:27:07,279 --> 00:27:11,240
he went to do some uh some reality challenge show

495
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:13,920
in Australia, but they couldn't have said the name of

496
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:17,359
the show because it was on Fox. No, he's on

497
00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:22,319
that too. No, he did special off on Fox. Yes,

498
00:27:22,559 --> 00:27:24,319
he almost he almost won.

499
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:26,079
Speaker 1: He went almost. I think he was like second to

500
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:28,240
last to win. He almost won. He was like a

501
00:27:28,319 --> 00:27:28,799
runner up.

502
00:27:28,839 --> 00:27:32,519
Speaker 2: But anyway, I just found it interesting that they were

503
00:27:32,519 --> 00:27:35,559
doing you know, uh, they were doing They were able

504
00:27:35,559 --> 00:27:37,440
to talk about Dancing with the Stars on that show,

505
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:41,319
but they couldn't say anyway, this whole crossover thing, Yeah,

506
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:42,559
they fucked up big time.

507
00:27:43,519 --> 00:27:49,079
Speaker 1: So yeah, like getting turn on reality. No, I'm not

508
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:52,480
used to zoom. Sorry, Okay, that's okay. You know, I

509
00:27:52,519 --> 00:27:55,160
was just thinking I just had a thought, little side

510
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:58,200
note that this kind of crossover, this kind of stuff

511
00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:00,440
has been going on for a long time, because I

512
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:04,920
remember when we were young, remember Battle of the Network Stars, Yes,

513
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:09,200
that was yeah, that was ABC. Yeah, Battle of the

514
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:12,119
Network That wasn't Reality Stars. Then it would just be

515
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:14,640
sort of like B levels level.

516
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:18,240
Speaker 2: Celebrities, dukes of Haver Hazards versus like the cast of

517
00:28:18,319 --> 00:28:19,519
Dallas versus.

518
00:28:19,599 --> 00:28:22,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, but then they would also just have individual people

519
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:26,880
like Jack, Yeah, like the Jack Tripper, John Rider, Yes,

520
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:31,559
like people like not like Yes, sitcom people, game show hosts,

521
00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:34,400
whatever would come on and then you know, have to

522
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:37,240
compete and channel it out. Yes, I think that was

523
00:28:37,279 --> 00:28:41,359
the original. I think I used to find that pretty enjoyable. Yeah,

524
00:28:41,359 --> 00:28:42,039
that was good.

525
00:28:42,359 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 2: And then they also did the crossover, like they introduced

526
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:47,920
Laverne and Shirley on Happy Days and then they spun

527
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:51,279
out they always did spin off the Missed those Days

528
00:28:51,279 --> 00:28:55,119
and just regular sitcoms that were you know, corny but funny.

529
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:58,359
Speaker 1: Oh, I mean, you know that was my life. It's

530
00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:01,200
like I have a visceral auction to thinking about, like

531
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:05,119
the Tuesday night lineup that was Happy Days Lavernon Shirley.

532
00:29:05,279 --> 00:29:07,400
I think she was only allowed to stay up till nine,

533
00:29:08,079 --> 00:29:10,359
So yeah, I could watch eight o'clock and then the eight.

534
00:29:10,319 --> 00:29:15,079
Speaker 2: Thirty show, right right. I snuck into my brother's room,

535
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:16,440
Dean's room, and watched.

536
00:29:16,759 --> 00:29:17,279
Speaker 1: Yeah it was.

537
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:20,599
Speaker 2: It was Happy Days Levernon Shirley three's company and too

538
00:29:20,599 --> 00:29:23,160
close for comfort at one point that was.

539
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:25,039
Speaker 1: And then at ten o'clock hour.

540
00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:29,839
Speaker 2: It was, uh, those the married couple that were like

541
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:31,799
in private eyes.

542
00:29:32,319 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 1: Oh it was Stephanie Powers one.

543
00:29:34,799 --> 00:29:37,839
Speaker 2: Yeah it was Stephanie Yeah, yeah, yeah, he loves the

544
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:42,880
murders something. Yeah, okay, god and together. Yeah, what the

545
00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:43,920
heck was the name of that.

546
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:50,640
Speaker 1: Ar to Heart to Heart? Yeah, Stephanie Powers show. Now

547
00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:54,279
I'm being the Kaylin Hard Yeah yeah, yeah, to heart,

548
00:29:54,519 --> 00:29:57,160
Oh my god. And remember I forgot when this was on,

549
00:29:57,359 --> 00:30:01,799
but I was obsessed with the six million Dollar Man, yes,

550
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:05,599
and then the Bionic Woman and then the Bionic Woman.

551
00:30:05,759 --> 00:30:12,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, shit, I don't like it's that's so it's so

552
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,599
funny you brought that up to Sunny was forced to

553
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:18,960
watch The Bionic Man with his dad on a trip

554
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:21,920
recently and he was like he was like, so that's

555
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:24,200
the kind of TV you guys had back then, Like, yep,

556
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:25,799
those are the shows we used to watch.

557
00:30:26,359 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, so she's a bionic woman. She's like a

558
00:30:30,079 --> 00:30:33,799
half robot half woman. Okay, but I love this. Like

559
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:37,119
every week you got you had to hear the backstory again.

560
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:41,759
In the intro, it was like, yes, blah blah blah, it.

561
00:30:41,839 --> 00:30:45,839
Speaker 2: Was a private eye special ops and she had a

562
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:49,400
thirst for murder, like it's like solving murder.

563
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:50,240
Speaker 1: Remember that.

564
00:30:50,359 --> 00:30:52,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then they show him like you know, driving

565
00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:54,160
in their convertible on a highway.

566
00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:58,119
Speaker 1: He but the whole thing was like nobody knows her whatever,

567
00:30:58,279 --> 00:31:01,039
Like they had to we can rebuild him. Remember he

568
00:31:01,119 --> 00:31:04,240
got like he was he had like the greatest mind

569
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:06,440
or whatever. But then he was in some kind of

570
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:10,839
explosion and so then they had like the special thing

571
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:15,240
they rebuilt him. Yeah, I think hers was hers was

572
00:31:15,279 --> 00:31:20,000
something else, the reason woman. Yeah, it was like something else.

573
00:31:20,039 --> 00:31:22,880
Maybe she was in like a you know, mountain climbing accident.

574
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:25,839
Speaker 2: I don't know, but she had a bionic arm, right,

575
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:27,440
Like I just remember her arm.

576
00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:31,119
Speaker 1: They're showing her arm in the in the intro and

577
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:35,000
somebody had bionic hearing. Either she did or he did,

578
00:31:35,079 --> 00:31:37,279
because remember then they she'd put her ear up to

579
00:31:37,319 --> 00:31:41,440
and then it would be when she needed to overhear

580
00:31:41,519 --> 00:31:48,039
something from really fair. Yeah, those were the TV shows

581
00:31:48,039 --> 00:31:53,440
we had to watch. No, remember Fantasy Island, Like I

582
00:31:53,519 --> 00:31:58,119
loved that show. The plane, the plane, the plane. I

583
00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:00,799
remember the beginning of that show where you'd see the

584
00:32:00,799 --> 00:32:03,799
couples in your mind, you'd be like, what's the twist?

585
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:08,119
Speaker 2: Gonna be right right right? My dad was on an

586
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:09,480
episode of Fantasy Island.

587
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:10,799
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

588
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:14,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, he played an ambassador from like Italy because he

589
00:32:14,839 --> 00:32:17,640
spoke Italian, so that's how he got the part. I

590
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:19,720
just remember he was an ambassador from Italy and he

591
00:32:19,759 --> 00:32:22,359
was dressed like an ambassador and he had like, you know,

592
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:24,279
one or two scenes, but that was it.

593
00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:28,640
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629
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movies did you watch? Well, we watched Well, we got

630
00:34:33,199 --> 00:34:36,000
caught up on Love Story. You haven't watched Love Story.

631
00:34:36,039 --> 00:34:39,400
I've only watched like the first episode. Yeah I have.

632
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 2: It's like the first few episodes were kind of like, eh,

633
00:34:42,519 --> 00:34:44,559
it just it got bad. It gets better and better.

634
00:34:44,679 --> 00:34:47,039
They had the wet We watched the wedding episode. We

635
00:34:47,119 --> 00:34:49,639
watched like three episodes back to back. We were up

636
00:34:49,679 --> 00:34:51,360
until like three o'clock in the morning.

637
00:34:51,519 --> 00:34:54,440
Speaker 1: And then, you know, we've just been hanging out. I was.

638
00:34:54,639 --> 00:34:58,880
Speaker 2: I saw the video of Justin Timberlake. Did you see that, Yes,

639
00:34:59,039 --> 00:35:00,480
getting arrested us.

640
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:01,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

641
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:05,119
Speaker 2: No, wonder why he didn't want that thing out there?

642
00:35:05,559 --> 00:35:08,840
No wonder, I mean he if anybody didn't see it,

643
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,280
like the way he was talking to the cop.

644
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:13,800
Speaker 1: First of all, you saw it, right, Like I'm on

645
00:35:14,039 --> 00:35:19,920
I'm on tour the eggs. He was smashed the cops.

646
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:25,480
You're what, I'm a tour. He's like doing what or

647
00:35:25,519 --> 00:35:29,559
whatever some stuff. This is like a tour. I'm a

648
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:32,159
I'm justin Timberlake, bitch.

649
00:35:34,039 --> 00:35:37,000
Speaker 2: And he's like, you're who you have a driver's license?

650
00:35:38,119 --> 00:35:40,199
I mean, you know, we're all getting old. And the

651
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:44,639
freaking cop doesn't recognizer. No, justin timberlaketing right right right.

652
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:46,119
Speaker 1: And then he's.

653
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:49,400
Speaker 2: Got the best friend money could buy, which is this

654
00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:51,800
this woman that's with him. It was just a friend.

655
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:54,199
I guess she's like a designer or something. She's like

656
00:35:54,199 --> 00:35:58,039
a store on La Sienica. Rich has a house out

657
00:35:58,039 --> 00:36:00,960
there in sag Harbor. She's with him, and I think

658
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:04,880
he was following her back to his house and it

659
00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:07,840
was only like three blocks. It was dude, you guys

660
00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:09,840
could have gotten out and walked. You didn't have to,

661
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:10,320
you know.

662
00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:13,920
Speaker 1: Like what from what I understand, it's a very small area.

663
00:36:14,119 --> 00:36:17,000
Speaker 2: And from where they got where they were leaving and

664
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:19,840
got pulled over, the house was like two blocks away,

665
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:22,320
Like it was so close, and I think he was fine.

666
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:24,599
So she gets out of the car and now you

667
00:36:24,679 --> 00:36:27,800
got the best friend in the world going wait, wait

668
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:30,360
what They're like, we're arresting him for drunk driving and

669
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:34,280
she's like, no, shut up, shut up, no, like she's

670
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:36,920
down the cops, shut up, and she's begging the cop

671
00:36:37,039 --> 00:36:38,440
like I'll do anything.

672
00:36:39,159 --> 00:36:41,079
Speaker 1: What does that mean? Like i'll do anything?

673
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:44,000
Speaker 2: Like you know, it's like easy, watch what you're saying,

674
00:36:44,119 --> 00:36:45,360
like you know what I mean.

675
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:47,440
Speaker 1: I know that's not what she meant. Yes, but like.

676
00:36:47,679 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 2: Okay, you know, and then she's like, come on, you know,

677
00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:51,119
bye bye bye?

678
00:36:51,159 --> 00:36:54,079
Speaker 1: You know you love that song that was sexy back.

679
00:36:54,159 --> 00:36:58,000
That was my favorite part. You just reached into the

680
00:36:58,159 --> 00:37:02,159
vault for bye bye bye, Like if he remembered any song,

681
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:03,960
it's not gonna be bye bye bye.

682
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:09,119
Speaker 2: Now about one of his hits that were recent, more recent.

683
00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:12,079
Speaker 1: You know, justin Timberley had to be going like, really, man.

684
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:15,079
Speaker 2: Come on, out of everything in my die and my catalog,

685
00:37:15,159 --> 00:37:19,639
that's what you bull out Like she ye bye to jail.

686
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:22,239
Speaker 1: She can't even think of like a more recent song

687
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:24,159
off the top of her head. So was she was

688
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:27,519
she drunk too? No? I don't know. She said she

689
00:37:27,599 --> 00:37:29,760
had one drink though I think she told the cop.

690
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:34,360
Speaker 2: Isn't that what everybody says, of course, like one drink,

691
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:36,679
oh yeah, And then he said I had one martini.

692
00:37:37,039 --> 00:37:39,639
Speaker 1: First of all, martinis are super strong even if you

693
00:37:39,679 --> 00:37:42,119
have one. Second of all, I don't have one. He

694
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:45,840
was very trou he was very drunk. He had probably

695
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:49,079
three or four martinis. He was And then did you

696
00:37:49,079 --> 00:37:51,599
see him when he was in jail, like handcuffed and

697
00:37:51,599 --> 00:37:54,440
they walked him to the cell and he was in

698
00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:56,559
he was in the jail and he was handcuffed with

699
00:37:56,599 --> 00:37:59,039
one arm and he was like, I just can't believe

700
00:37:59,039 --> 00:37:59,960
what you guys are doing.

701
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:02,599
Speaker 2: And I can't believe what you guys are doing. And

702
00:38:02,599 --> 00:38:04,559
they're like, yeah, well yeah, you're gonna and then they

703
00:38:04,599 --> 00:38:07,320
bring him to his cell. They show him in the cell,

704
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:10,920
a dark cell with one bench, and he's just standing

705
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:13,079
there and they're like, they're like, so you're gonna have

706
00:38:13,119 --> 00:38:15,800
an arrangement tomorrow and he's like tomorrow, I got to

707
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:18,360
stay here tonight and they're like, yeah, we have blankets

708
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:20,880
if you want them, we'll bring you some blankets. And

709
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:23,960
he's like this is just for like they yeah, in

710
00:38:24,079 --> 00:38:27,039
the jail cell. No wonder why this guy didn't want

711
00:38:27,039 --> 00:38:29,519
this thing to come out, but he tried to stop it.

712
00:38:29,639 --> 00:38:32,159
Speaker 1: Why did he have to stay overnight though I've never

713
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:35,039
you don't really hear about that very often unless people

714
00:38:35,039 --> 00:38:36,119
can't afford their bail.

715
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:39,920
Speaker 2: Well, I think because he was drunk, they put him

716
00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:42,000
in a drunk tank. I think that they had to

717
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:46,480
like sober up, and he had an arraignment the next morning, So.

718
00:38:46,679 --> 00:38:47,119
Speaker 1: I don't know.

719
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:49,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think they keep you overnight if you're drunk

720
00:38:50,039 --> 00:38:51,880
like that and get DUI.

721
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:55,159
Speaker 1: I have, I mean so many of my drunkish episodes.

722
00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:59,519
I've just recorded three in a row, and one of them,

723
00:38:59,559 --> 00:39:01,719
who's going to be like next week, her name is

724
00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:05,239
Laura van Antwerp. Yeah, she had. I can't tell you

725
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:09,480
how many really cute, very normal looking women I've had

726
00:39:09,519 --> 00:39:13,320
who have gotten duys and been to jail with them,

727
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:16,360
stayed overnight in jail. Yeah.

728
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:16,079
Speaker 2: Yeah.

729
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:21,360
Speaker 1: One of my people, Tara, who's great, uh, great writer,

730
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:25,719
she's looked so normal. She spent like eleven days in

731
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:29,519
jail because, yeah, because the bail, because she'd had a

732
00:39:29,599 --> 00:39:32,039
previous thing, and the bail was kind of high, and

733
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:35,480
she couldn't get like somebody to get her out, and

734
00:39:35,519 --> 00:39:37,920
she ended up being there for like eleven days. Yeah.

735
00:39:38,599 --> 00:39:41,920
Oh my God. I had a friend that was a lawyer.

736
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:43,599
I won't say where.

737
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:47,199
Speaker 2: Uh he got he got put in the men's jail

738
00:39:47,199 --> 00:39:51,840
on Downtown and he was like there for almost two days,

739
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:55,840
stuck there and not by himself, like justin sima in

740
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:58,880
a jail cell with other drunks, and they're like, you know,

741
00:39:59,599 --> 00:40:03,280
tough looking guys. And here's this door door dirky, dorky

742
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:06,880
looking lawyer with his like you know, suit and his

743
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:09,760
soup pants and a dress shoes, and like he's like

744
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:13,440
stands out like a sore thumb. Yeah, it's pretty bad. So, yeah,

745
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:14,519
he had to stay in jail.

746
00:40:15,039 --> 00:40:18,280
Speaker 1: I bet he made friends though, so unlike, you know,

747
00:40:18,519 --> 00:40:19,880
you don't want to be you don't want to be

748
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:22,119
like a child molester and be in a cell with

749
00:40:22,199 --> 00:40:26,239
other people. I bet you they're kind of sought after. Yeah,

750
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:36,039
they hate exactly, like like, hey, can you get me out? Yeah? Yeah, exactly, yes. Yeah. So, uh,

751
00:40:36,079 --> 00:40:38,960
this is something that I wanted to tell you. Hold on,

752
00:40:40,199 --> 00:40:44,920
Oh so this is kind of all this is related.

753
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:46,960
I'm going back. I'm going all the way back to

754
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:48,840
the beginning of the show where we were talking about

755
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:54,039
having Natalia be kind of close at UCSP Yes, it's

756
00:40:54,199 --> 00:40:59,039
just really really nice. It's very nice, and you get

757
00:40:59,039 --> 00:41:02,559
to see them a lot. And Elbe's home for spring break,

758
00:41:02,599 --> 00:41:05,599
but she finished one of her finals early and I

759
00:41:05,639 --> 00:41:07,880
was laughing with John because it's just gotten to the

760
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:11,280
point that I see her arrive at home, Like she's

761
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:14,480
literally home right now while we're recording. But if we

762
00:41:14,519 --> 00:41:17,239
see her arrive at home, I don't even get that

763
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:19,519
excited atny. It's not that I don't want to see her.

764
00:41:19,559 --> 00:41:21,599
It's more like, oh, yeah, I'll be oh Elby's home,

765
00:41:22,079 --> 00:41:23,840
Like I'm not even gonna get If I'm like laying

766
00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:26,280
in bed watching TV, I'm literally not going to get

767
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:28,079
up and go to the door because it's like I

768
00:41:28,119 --> 00:41:30,360
see her. That's how much I see her. Right if

769
00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:33,039
she goes to work, oftentimes she'll stop at home to

770
00:41:33,159 --> 00:41:37,920
like grab something. It's awesome that she basically doesn't feel

771
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:43,119
like she went away to school, right, But so the

772
00:41:43,159 --> 00:41:45,760
other so last night, but this is just what's so cute.

773
00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:51,000
I feel like my relationship with Elbe has blossomed even

774
00:41:51,039 --> 00:41:53,239
more since she's been an adult. And I know we

775
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:56,199
talked about this last week, but this is even more.

776
00:41:58,199 --> 00:42:00,559
It's gonna sound like a humble brag. Okay, so hashtag

777
00:42:00,639 --> 00:42:03,480
humble brag. But last night Elbie and I were talking

778
00:42:03,519 --> 00:42:06,000
and she was like, Mom, we were being really funny.

779
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:08,039
We were playing word Hunt on our phone. Do you

780
00:42:08,039 --> 00:42:10,039
ever play Game Pigeon with people?

781
00:42:10,559 --> 00:42:10,639
Speaker 3: No?

782
00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:14,679
Speaker 1: I don't have any any games on my phone. It's

783
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:17,159
on everybody's phone. If you go to like if you're

784
00:42:17,159 --> 00:42:19,559
going to send someone like a gift, you can just

785
00:42:19,599 --> 00:42:21,679
go down and there's Game Pigeon, and there's just all

786
00:42:21,679 --> 00:42:25,039
these silly little games, like there's a pool's a word hunt,

787
00:42:25,079 --> 00:42:29,079
and there's the darts. It's really silly, like I could

788
00:42:29,119 --> 00:42:30,960
send you one right now and you'll see what I mean.

789
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:36,400
But started sending me word Hunts and I was playing it,

790
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:38,320
and then we were just being really like abusive to

791
00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:40,719
each other because I kept winning. And then she was going,

792
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:44,840
fuck you, mom, you know you're an asshole, and which

793
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:47,599
makes me laugh so hard. And then at one point

794
00:42:47,679 --> 00:42:50,280
she was just like, I hate you so much. I'm

795
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:53,079
never speaking to you again. And then I wrote back, okay,

796
00:42:53,079 --> 00:42:56,920
but what do you want for dinner? Though? And then

797
00:42:57,000 --> 00:42:59,679
she said, do you want to go eat at a

798
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:02,599
the restaurant she works at. I won't say the name

799
00:43:02,639 --> 00:43:04,880
of it, but do you want to go eat at

800
00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:07,920
this restaurant? And I was like, oh shit, yeah, I

801
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:11,800
kind of do, but then it's a bit pricey, and

802
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:15,519
she she gets a discount, right, but I didn't want, Like,

803
00:43:15,639 --> 00:43:17,960
but Sadie and Xander were home, and I didn't want

804
00:43:18,199 --> 00:43:21,320
I can't bring the whole family, didn't want to ring

805
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:24,159
them out. So I told her, like, no, we we

806
00:43:24,159 --> 00:43:26,639
should go for lunch when like Sadie and Xander are

807
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:29,480
at school. But then Sadie and Xander were like, we're

808
00:43:29,519 --> 00:43:31,320
going to go do something. We're going to go to

809
00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:34,000
dinner with our friend, and LB and I looked at

810
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:38,079
each other like oh and then so I said, all right,

811
00:43:38,159 --> 00:43:41,199
let's go cut So last night went to dinner with her.

812
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:45,320
We had the best time, and she introduced me to

813
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:47,880
like all her coworkers and she was like, this is

814
00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:51,599
my mom and this isn't the best and we just

815
00:43:51,639 --> 00:43:53,960
like and we talked. We'd kind of been talking a

816
00:43:54,039 --> 00:43:56,159
lot during the day, but like, we don't run out

817
00:43:56,199 --> 00:43:59,800
of stuff to talk about. She had more stories for me.

818
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:03,599
It was really fun, and we were doing that thing

819
00:44:03,679 --> 00:44:06,239
that you do with your kids where you're like, oh

820
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:08,440
my god, whatever, happened to so and so that you

821
00:44:08,519 --> 00:44:10,880
knew from elementary school? Do you ever keep up with

822
00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:13,480
them on social media? And then she would be like, yes,

823
00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:16,880
look here's their Instagram and I'd be like, right, oh shit,

824
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:20,800
they look the same. And then whatever happened to this teacher,

825
00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:23,320
whatever happened? Oh remember this? And we had just like

826
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:27,840
the best time, and I was like, kids are the best. Yes,

827
00:44:28,119 --> 00:44:31,360
I know right, I'm feeling the same way too.

828
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:34,400
Speaker 2: I have a story I'll tell you about on Friday

829
00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:39,000
about Natalia, but it is changed now the way she's

830
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:43,159
after she's left for school, and like we've I feel

831
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:46,000
like we've gotten closer, you know, Like she calls me

832
00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:49,000
all the time just to say hi and chip chat

833
00:44:49,079 --> 00:44:52,079
because she's in between classes or on her way home

834
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:54,599
or whatever she's you know, doing her laundry.

835
00:44:54,679 --> 00:44:56,320
Speaker 1: She just calls me and we just sit there and

836
00:44:56,400 --> 00:44:58,719
chat for like an hour or two. You know.

837
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:02,239
Speaker 2: It's it's so nice and she right, we don't run

838
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:03,920
out of things to talk about, because she tells me

839
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:06,440
about her boyfriend and or she'll tell me about her

840
00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:10,360
friends and what they're doing, you know, And she never

841
00:45:10,599 --> 00:45:12,719
used to want to talk to me about any of that.

842
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:13,159
Speaker 1: Stuff.

843
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:15,519
Speaker 2: I know, she was like in high school, she was

844
00:45:15,559 --> 00:45:17,000
just like no, I you know, she didn't want me

845
00:45:17,039 --> 00:45:19,000
to know any of their business. She just wanted to

846
00:45:19,079 --> 00:45:22,920
me remember everybody's names and not know anything about their business,

847
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:23,119
you know.

848
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:24,880
Speaker 1: Or if I'd say, you know, you.

849
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:27,199
Speaker 2: And Mobile Muffin getting along, like I don't want to

850
00:45:27,199 --> 00:45:28,360
talk about it, I want to tell you, like she

851
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:29,519
would always shut me down.

852
00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:34,119
Speaker 1: It's not like that at all anymore. It's so nice. Yeah,

853
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:35,400
that's so nice.

854
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:38,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, And going to dinner with them is so is

855
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:41,679
extra special because you see, like they're like a young

856
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:45,239
woman now, they're not a kid anymore. They're like adulting

857
00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:47,960
at like the restaurant where she's working at. You know,

858
00:45:48,079 --> 00:45:50,639
I did the same thing lint an Italian's restaurant where

859
00:45:50,679 --> 00:45:53,519
she worked at, and introduced me to everybody, and it's

860
00:45:53,559 --> 00:45:56,920
like they're like a little adult now, you know, and

861
00:45:56,960 --> 00:45:59,360
they're so you know, like Elvie of course we've had

862
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:01,960
her on her show, like super interesting to talk to.

863
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:06,960
She's got the gift, the gab, you know, and super smart.

864
00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:10,440
It's just so fun now like now these kids are older.

865
00:46:10,199 --> 00:46:12,360
Speaker 1: And it's so sweet to see your kids the way

866
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:15,719
the world sees them too, because a bunch of her

867
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:19,320
coworkers were just like, oh my god, Elbie is my favorite.

868
00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:23,760
I love her. Our waiter was like, I love Elbie.

869
00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:26,239
She's just like every time every time she comes in,

870
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:28,480
like I'm so excited to work with her. She's just

871
00:46:28,519 --> 00:46:33,559
this ray of sunshine. And I'm like, oh she is. Yes,

872
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:34,039
it is.

873
00:46:34,159 --> 00:46:36,280
Speaker 2: It's nice to see the other people how they see

874
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:38,880
your child. Yeah, it's a great feeling.

875
00:46:39,039 --> 00:46:40,920
Speaker 1: I love it. I know. It's so nice. And then

876
00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:44,079
it makes like you remember the hard times that you

877
00:46:44,119 --> 00:46:46,880
went through, and I remember the times that I had

878
00:46:46,880 --> 00:46:50,719
to be like, Okay, Stephanie, she is not your friend,

879
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:54,199
she's your daughter, like you know, high school, and the

880
00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:56,519
times where I had to be like, I think you

881
00:46:56,599 --> 00:46:58,920
need therapy. Like, you know, as much as we don't

882
00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:01,800
want to acknowledge what our kids are in trouble, you know,

883
00:47:02,039 --> 00:47:05,519
we do have to. That's I think of myself as

884
00:47:05,519 --> 00:47:08,360
a kid a lot of the time. But yeah, being

885
00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:11,559
a parent made me realize the times that I need

886
00:47:11,559 --> 00:47:14,599
to just go okay, now, I have to. Now I

887
00:47:14,639 --> 00:47:18,159
am the adult, and I have to. Whether I worry

888
00:47:18,199 --> 00:47:20,519
that it will affect my relationship, it doesn't matter I

889
00:47:20,559 --> 00:47:23,280
have to be the like as you have too many

890
00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:24,679
times over the years with your kids.

891
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:28,599
Speaker 2: Right, oh yeah, And I remember like we would fight

892
00:47:28,639 --> 00:47:30,679
all the time. We would butt heads all the time.

893
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:33,559
Everything I said and she would it was met with

894
00:47:33,599 --> 00:47:37,480
an argument. And I do like remember getting into into

895
00:47:37,559 --> 00:47:41,000
therapy like she. They both went to therapy pretty young

896
00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:45,119
for a while, and they saw that Britney therapist that

897
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:49,119
I tossed the therapist is we use that term very loosely,

898
00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:51,719
that's right, right, she was a coach. She was a

899
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:52,559
therapy coach.

900
00:47:52,639 --> 00:47:55,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, she turned out to be a nightmare.

901
00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:58,760
Speaker 2: But then now they stay still are seeing the same

902
00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:01,800
therapist that they saw in high school, which is nice.

903
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:04,039
They have a great therapist that both of them once

904
00:48:04,079 --> 00:48:07,840
a week. And it's you know, and for as a parent,

905
00:48:08,199 --> 00:48:10,880
you have to recognize when your child needs, you know, help,

906
00:48:11,199 --> 00:48:15,400
and and maybe therapy is you know, it's a big

907
00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:18,119
reason why they're I don't know. I think also girls,

908
00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:21,039
as they grow up, they start to see how other

909
00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:25,639
parents are maybe or like I know, for experience, like

910
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:29,440
Natalia's friends that are not close with their moms and

911
00:48:29,639 --> 00:48:32,440
they're kind of problematic when one of her friend's mother

912
00:48:32,760 --> 00:48:36,320
just like checked out father's checked, like, you know, and

913
00:48:36,360 --> 00:48:40,239
she sees that, and she's like appreciates, you know, what

914
00:48:40,360 --> 00:48:44,400
she has. And in that I think like has matured

915
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:46,840
her a lot too, you know. And I think she

916
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:50,480
sees now it's like the respect for your mother now,

917
00:48:50,559 --> 00:48:53,079
you know, it's it's it's changed, and I like it.

918
00:48:53,079 --> 00:48:57,000
Speaker 1: It's been nice. Yeah. And she just before we before,

919
00:48:57,239 --> 00:49:01,000
I just had a question, is she definitely go going abroad?

920
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:04,000
I don't know. I got to talk to her about that.

921
00:49:05,119 --> 00:49:10,000
We'll see. I'm going to talk to her during spring break. Yeah. Well,

922
00:49:10,079 --> 00:49:12,719
let's give a shout out to our friends. We got

923
00:49:13,199 --> 00:49:22,639
Dick Frolicker, Nikki Yea her girls Nikki call yah yah sure, Nikki.

924
00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:26,400
Elizabeth Williamson's got a lot of kids and riding bassiett

925
00:49:26,519 --> 00:49:29,400
is scooping them up and going them in her bassiette

926
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:32,519
and rocking them, rocking them rackety.

927
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:37,760
Speaker 2: She loves We love your pancakes, Valerie, she hits it

928
00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:41,559
out of the park, Katerina, check that, moor Girl.

929
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:44,199
Speaker 1: Missy and Gabby are they there.

930
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:49,159
Speaker 2: They're at they're at the airport helping out the TSA's officer.

931
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:51,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're helping out security line. I like that. Kind

932
00:49:51,599 --> 00:49:54,639
of get a moving yeah thing. Rebecca Lipin is my

933
00:49:54,679 --> 00:49:58,119
friends so cute you good writer. Kelly Bryant, she's not

934
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your aunt, but yeah, she'll take you. Alicia Escalunday City

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a Monday, Leslie, stop with the coffee. Aaron's a dirty Sanchez, Sandra,

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it's not easy being green. Stephanie's a stinker rinker. Christa

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it's drut. Kelsey is between two ferns and Katie's rolling

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on all them ease. And then we got speaking of therapy.

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This is like a good one for grown ups, for couples,

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but for everybody. Kaylie Pettis she's a licensed marriage and

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family therapist and she's in Seattle, but she can see

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clients virtually across Washington State. So you know, take our

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advice about get some therapy. Emerald Bloom Therapy dot com. Uh,

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Everyday Custom Everyday Shop dot Etsy dot com. That's our friend,

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Edward's sibling. I want to say. They do like a

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com at Unbecoming Stories. You're gonna love these Family Skepticals

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or podcast about raising kids without any kind of dogma,

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any kind of specific religion. Just do your own thing.

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Listen to Family Skeptical Momanfrida Palm Springs, Palm Desert, such good. Yeah,

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I love them. We should do another meetup there. That

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would be fun. Maybe the summer the fun play. Oh

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my god, summer Pomp Springs meetup, let's think about that.

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That would be yeah. Uh just basic Becky dot com.

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Check out her website. She's got so many fun t

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Uh and she'll give a discount for if you use

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like and follow their Insta page at Sugar Skull eight

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oh eight. If you want to go, you know, see Lynette.

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If you get a ticket right away, just contact Christine

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Black with Waves and Wonder. Yeah, She'll come on down.

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She'll make your uh yeah, Waves and Wonder travel. Go

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on our Facebook group and just say hey, Christine Black,

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I need you. Jacob Crowley is giving his shout out

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to the a c l U. I love you, Jacob,

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I'm obsessed with I love you Jacob. Yes, and your

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support for the underdog always And that's what a CLU does.

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And with every episode Adam Learner Adam's got a car

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dot com. He got me a car. You got Lynette

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her car. He got uh, Julie Casseum's daughter a car.

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You get everybody that's involved in this show gets a

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car from Adam.

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Speaker 2: That's right, grist right, Adam. Yes, he hooked up my

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Kirstin and Phoenix. Hey got the truck.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, everybody. We love you guys. I got

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our Patreon. Yeah, you're a parent here now, don't ever

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sad that angle