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Speaker 1: Decision a face Sunny Sun on I had Ovision night

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to Hey, everybody, welcome to for crying out loud. I

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don't know why, but I feel like we had a

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week off. I know, I mean we did have a

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week off, like school. I feel like you and I

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I feel like we haven't done a show in two weeks. Yeah,

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I know, that's how it feels. So much has happened.

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We hugged each other when we saw each other. It's

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because so much. It's been a crazy busy but yet, yeah,

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it feels like it's been a month because pre pre Thanksgiving,

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we did shows basically talking about what we were going

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to do for Thanksgiving, right, and then you all listen

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to that show of us predicting our Thanksgiving on Friday,

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But in actuality, we hadn't That's right, right, Yeah, we did,

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we talked. In actuality, we hadn't had Thanksgiving. Yeah, now

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that you.

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Speaker 2: Know that, Vinnie says the Vinnie the nutrition has said

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that trip the fan is not. The turkey is not

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what makes us tired?

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Speaker 1: Oh what is it? Overeating?

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Speaker 2: It's all the carbs, all the pies and the you know,

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the yams and the It kind of makes sense He's like,

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it's not the Turkey, although there is trip to fan

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in Turkey, but I don't know if it's enough to, like,

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you know, make you feel like a darted bear at

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the end of the night.

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Speaker 1: I ate so much, not to be a big hack,

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but I ate a lot of food on Thanksgiving. I

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have been. I've been off sugar for like really yeah,

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for congratulations, like almost a month, because I wasn't eating

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sugar at Halloween. Had stopped right before, because Halloween is

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usually just the death of me. Like, if I'm eating

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sugar during Halloween, I will just make myself ill, right,

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I mean, the way people drink until they're drunk, I'll

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eat sugar until I'm just so slurring words at John yes,

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yelling at my kids. So I didn't do it, and

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now I've been sort of on a roll, but it was.

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It definitely was hard at Thanksgiving. So I made up

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for it in appetizer consumption. Nice. Nice, what's your favorite appetizer?

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I like a dip me too, meat.

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Speaker 2: All I do is dip, not just for appetizers to Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 1: That's my deal. I dip, you dip, I dip we dip.

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Oh yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah, whoa, whoa. Can I

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just tell you something that is exciting? Yes? Please, Okay,

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it's about It's about Lile Yele crocodile. Huh. So. One

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of the one of the things that Xander and ly

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bonded about at school was that Lyle posted something like

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in a chat about how much he loves Elton John

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or Queen and I one or the other that he

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said first, and Xander thought that was cool, like he

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posted a picture of Elton John or whatever. Anyway, it

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turned out as I guess you guys know from when

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we first started hanging out that he loves the band Queen,

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and it's something that kind of kept him sane. I

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think during the time that he was like in foster

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care and like he had this obsessive love of like

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all things like Freddie Mercury and the band and you know,

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other classic rock And he'd gone to see the movie

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and then we showed him the movie when he was

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at our house. The Queen he hadn't seen he'd seen

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the Elton John movie. He hadn't seen the Queen movie

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because it came out when he was in foster care

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and the foss oh right parents wouldn't take him right right?

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So when to So he came over and I was like,

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you want to see the ass his mom? First? He

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was like, yes, it's fine. Anyhow, I saw on a

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thing that a Queen tribute band, oh is coming to

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the Canyon club House and I was like, Xander, do

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you think I called them and I asked if I

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could bring kids and they said yes, really with an adult.

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So I said, do you think Lyle would want to

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go see Queen? And Xander was like, what, really, I

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go to a Queen. It's obviously a tribute band and

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he was like, Mom, oh my gosh. Really and I

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said yeah. So I texted Mom and I asked her

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and she was freaking out. Oh my god. I was like,

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oh my god, oh my god, everything you've done for

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our family. And she was like, it's just like she's

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the most appreciative. Why don't you take her? Does she

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want to go? No? I well no, Also, like she's

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got two other kids at home. I think it would

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be and then she'd have to get off of work.

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she wants it for her kid and she was so excited.

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So no, Robin and I are going to go. I

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was like, Robin, want to take this kid? When is it?

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It's you can get we can get you a ticket

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because we just got chairs, so that we're going to

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be like, I want to see if Sonny wants to go.

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He would love that. He's so fun. It's December eleventh, Okay,

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it's a week from Saturday. Got something.

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Speaker 2: I think the Tali's got a game or something on

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that day.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I'm want.

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Speaker 2: To look it up December eleventh, My gosh, gosh.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, he's so fun. Yeah, so Xander told Lyle, and

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Lyle was freaking out. And then so there's a whole

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other story beat that I'm going to get to because

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Sadie and Xander had a little birthday party. Yes, and

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so Lyle was there and so I was like nice,

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like Lyle my queen. Right, he was like, oh my god.

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So he's so excited, exciting, cute. I don't think he's

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ever I mean probably not never done anything like that. Right,

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it's got to be so fun.

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Speaker 2: The thing a kid will always remember too, totally always

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will remember.

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Speaker 1: I mean, this family is still struggle. I mean they're

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still struggling. I mean they have money from you guys,

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from the GoFundMe, and she's been so good. She basically

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it gets like doled out to her, and so she's

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so grateful for it, and she's like needs it from

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her rent because now she's in an apartment. But she's

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every time I talk to her, she's like, thank you

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for everything your friends have done for me, And like,

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I'm you know, everything that we have and the fact

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that we have somewhere to live and that you know,

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it's all because of you guys, and I never I know,

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I'm like it makes us happy and it's a good feeling.

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I mean, she's so deserving. Like here's a person. You know,

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you think about people when you think about people that

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don't have empathy for like homeless population, you know, because

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there's an assumption, as we've talked about, that they're all

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mentally ill and don't want help, that you know, hey,

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there's all these shelters, they just don't want help. Like

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that is what I hear a lot read on nextdoor

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dot com. That is maybe true for quite a few

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people that do have drug and alcohol problems and mental

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health issues, and yeah, they probably there are those people,

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but there are also people that you just don't hear

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about them find themselves with out of house and you know,

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health problems and the things that befel my friend that

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are no fault of her own. And then once it

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happens and your kids are in foster here, people don't

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understand how hard it is to get back on your

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feet exactly because let's you don't have a job, you're

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not trained, you know, and suddenly you have to fight

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a system to show that you have any help at all.

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while and you're in transitional housing, a lot of people

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you don't realize don't want to rent to you. Like

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family housing has to help you find a place. They

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have to be secretive about it, like they have to

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not put it on their application, and then it's like surprise,

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I'm getting help from la family. Yeah, there's a lot

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that goes into it. So the fact that she's out

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of that transitional housing where people were doing drugs, and

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like she's such a like a goody goody kind of

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you know, and that her son, her older son, is

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back with her.

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Speaker 2: And he helps and he oh, that's nice, that's nice.

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That's nice that she has her older son too.

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Speaker 1: But everybody out there should feel like this is a

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true success story and now their kids are living like

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a normal life. That's awesome. I know that's great anyway,

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So that's exciting. Hi.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, how is your Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 1: It was really nice, As as I said before, nothing unexpected.

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We went to my brothers, my sister in law, my

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niece and nephew, and then our family friends, a couple

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friend of theirs that's that I've known for forever too.

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Now we're there with their daughter and that was it,

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just us chosen family. We're there for like nine hours

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with us ate a lot of food. Yeah. My sister

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in law is such a jew like, she is like,

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you know much would much prefer overfeeding than underfeeding. No

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such thing as like just a keish, like exactly just

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one keish each maybe, but right. Yeah, there's always like

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way too much food. And every year she's like, I'm

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not going to do as many appetizers this year, because

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you know, so we can save room for the meal.

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And then every year there's like a ton of advertisers

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and I'm always happy to see them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's nice, that's awesome. My poor kids, well, my

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poor kids. I went out, which I'll talk more about

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on Patreon, but my kids went to Auntie Lawrence Adam's sister.

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Speaker 1: Yep.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well you know, so let me just explain the scene.

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Speaker 1: There is her podcast out.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't not that I'm aware she have a bod.

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I don't think she has a podcast.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: She she lives like in this old old house, like

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turn of the century house, and with her boyfriend. Boyfriend

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is it's like around there somewhere right, okay, or maybe

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it's in still.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. She moves all the time.

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Speaker 2: Oh. I think this one is in Silver Lake and

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she's had it for a few years now. But she

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lives with her boyfriend. And her boyfriend is the nicest.

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I love him so super nice and so you know.

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and Italia's cousins. But they're in their twenties, you know,

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they're adults. I think the youngest is like a year

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or two out of high school already, so they're you know,

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they got like two of them have girlfriends. Anyway, So

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there's those boys that my kids don't know very well.

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lot of times they're not there. They're like with their

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dad or they're with their girlfriends. So my kids did

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Speaker 1: Them, right.

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Speaker 2: And then Adam's mom, you know, she makes an she

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in her old age does or was, I don't know

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lately because I'm not around, but was making an effort

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to see the kids at least like once a month.

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Like she would haul over there, even though she's like

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in a wheelchair and the step dad's got it like

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wheel her around and carry her out of the you know,

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it's a whole kshah. But they would come over and

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visit because you know, Adam would rather them come to

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us whatever, So she did. But then the dad, like,

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you know, this grandpa never made an I mean, he's

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didn't make any effort for his kids. He's not really

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making an effort with my kids. His wife, the stepmom,

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she's made you know, she's got her daughter. So Everythanksgiving

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when we would get together with them, I would cook

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Speaker 1: The Adams, Adam's dad, Adam's stepmom. Four parents still alive, okay,

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and both stepparents and original parents okay, are all still alive,

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and both mom and dad weren't great. No no, no, okay,

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no and there, but they're new spouses. Each of them

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make an effort. Well, the step dad is a little

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he's a little geeky, you know, he's an engineer at

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like Lacket or something, a little dorky like I rode

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a skateboard today.

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Speaker 2: Barely talks but when he talks, he sounds like he's twelve, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, huh and uh uh.

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Speaker 2: And then the step mom was mean to to Adam

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growing up, but super nice now and is making amends.

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she got to be inside the house and Adam had

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to live in the garage. Yeah, like that kind of stuff.

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Like she was spoiled. And then she got out of

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there early. She went to college and she was she split.

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Speaker 1: But now she's married and she's got three grown daughters

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who are married and have you know, one of them

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has kids. So they were always the life of the party.

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So every year for.

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the kids were born, but even after so I don't know,

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past like probably seventeen years. I've made the up until

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last year, I've made the you know, the holiday, the

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Thanksgiving meal, so everybody came to our house for Thanksgiving

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always every year. Adam liked it that way. I made

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the turkey, the stuff, everything.

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Speaker 1: I made everything because these people and they couldn't make

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a dish, they made the dessert.

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Speaker 2: And his stepmom was known for her roles. She would

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bring roles and then.

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Speaker 1: His story if anybody out there is like, yeah, me too,

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I'm known for my roles. That's bullshit. No, you know why,

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that's fucking bullshit.

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Speaker 2: Because Adam grew up with pot luck, pot luck, pop,

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you bring this, you bring and Adam hated that. And

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he's like no because he's just like it's away for

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his family to be lazy, more lazy, like you bring

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the Like his grandmother would throw these parties and she

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would farm everything out, like I'm gonna throw a party,

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but you're gonna bring the booze, you know, like so whatever, Okay.

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Speaker 1: Well I understand providing alcohol, but I don't see why

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you put that on your wife. Then yeah, it was

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all right.

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Speaker 2: What I was It looked like it was like because

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you know who inspired me was Wendy, and Wendy was like,

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you can do it.

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Speaker 1: It's it's it's.

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Speaker 2: You know, the timing is all is everything. But it's

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pretty simple if you plan ahead and you can do

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it all.

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Speaker 1: You know whatever, See why somebody can't be in charge

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of the freaking mass potatoes or somebody brings some appetites anyway,

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So I made the whole. We know. What was bad, though,

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was when I was pregnant with twins, and not only

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did I have to cook everything, but I had to

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clean everything. I had to clean.

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Speaker 2: I remember him saying, like the green bathroom has got

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like mold in the tile.

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Speaker 1: Oh my, go clean it. Yeah, yeah, that was bad.

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So every year. My point is though, like, no, forget that.

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Speaker 2: So the sister, the step mother and the step sister

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were the fun people of the family, the non blood

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related We're always so like, you know, Hillary's sister and

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this and her husband super nice, those girls super sweet.

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I mean I watched them go to high school together.

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young and dating Adam.

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Speaker 1: Now you know they're married. Whatever. They were always the

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fun people and so they came every so we look

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forward to that.

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Speaker 2: Now you remove them. It's like crickets, crickets, crickets. It's

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just like, you know, God's waiting room. Basically, it's pretty

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fucking boring, right, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So so my kids are like, well, is Hillary

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and the girls coming this year? And now they're not coming?

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What sorry, I'm going out, but you guys have fun.

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Oh no, So they went and and so the next

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day I was like, how's your thing?

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Speaker 2: How was your I asked Natalia first, how was because

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she was the one dreading at the most. Sonny was like, oh, whatever,

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as long as the football game's on, He's fine. She's like,

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yeah it was. She goes, uh, no, they lost power,

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no electricity.

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Speaker 1: I was like, so did you eat? And she's like, yeah,

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we ate.

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Speaker 2: But then I talked to Sonny and she Sonny was like, yeah,

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they had a generator, so they lost power in the

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middle of it. It wasn't like so all the food

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was already done. They ate and it was you know,

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it was fine. He goes, but no internet, and and

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then Sonny's like, we were there for like two hours

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in Italian's like, no, we were there four hours. I

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counted hour one hour two by hour three and a half.

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Speaker 1: I was like, let's go and uh.

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Speaker 2: And then they invite like stragglers, like some neighbor son.

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He was like, I don't know who this guy was.

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He looked like Joe Gotto. You know, Joe Gotto is

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one of the practical jokers.

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Speaker 1: Joe. He's like, he looked like Joe Gotto with a mullet.

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He was. He was awkward. He was like just like a.

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Speaker 2: Fish out of water, like who's this this guy?

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Speaker 1: You're like, no, wonder, he doesn't have anywhere to go

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for Thanksgiving exactly, so like some neighbor.

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Speaker 2: And then he's like some other lady I've never met

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before who kept everybody kept going. You remember Adelaine, she

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was at your Thanksgiving in two thousand, you know, Like

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he's like it was what and he goes, at least

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I had the football, but they didn't have the TV on.

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Speaker 1: And he's like, that's my bread and butter at Thanksgiving?

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Like I didn't watch TV.

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Speaker 2: There was like the generator only could generate certain parts

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of the house.

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Speaker 1: I guess I don't know. Oh my god, that sounds

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like good miserable miserable.

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Speaker 2: And so that was their Thanksgiving and my Thanksgiving. Yeah,

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I'll tell you. I'll tell you more.

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Speaker 1: About you have a story, Yeah, I gotta. I got

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a little story.

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Speaker 2: Went carry ok, yeah, I went karayoking up. I went

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to Sunset Tower, which was really nice. Uh huh with

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my girlfriend Jody and a couple of friends, and then

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went to uh.

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Speaker 1: Then we went like then we went to Residuals. Do

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you remember Residuals Residuals? Yes, I used to work there.

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Remember right.

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Speaker 2: Right still kicking by the way, there's a guy the

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bouncer at the door wears an iron cross and sunglasses

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at night, but super friendly.

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Speaker 1: I wonder if it's the same owner. So I don't know.

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Remember I told you this story. So the owner was

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this guy named Craig Tennis, who was his claim to fame.

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I'm sure that he doesn't own it anymore. He was

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already old at that point, so he's probably long since retired.

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But so and he had this young wife named Brie.

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And Brie is now like a DJ, like a but

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like a a coast like a Coast FM, like one

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of those like I'm I'm Brie. What Yeah, I know,

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well I've heard I think that's her. You know how

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they go? I Ted Stephanopolis, I think it's her. Oh okay,

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she was kind of young and blonde and a total bitch. Okay, okay.

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So the owner was this guy who used to be

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the booker for the Tonight Show. So he was obsessed

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with like I mean he opened the bar for TV people,

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right because he was like a big like and he

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opened it with a bunch of other people like in

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the business, Like I think there were like nine people.

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He got a bunch of investors together and so, but

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he was obsessed with anybody that was a writer. Gary,

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you have something to weigh in on. Studio looks weird?

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Oh oh sorry I was. I wasn't listening to you, guys.

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I look in here. It's a it's a change, yeah,

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but it's dating the studio in here. I love you Thanksgiving.

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So anyway, Craig would be really would always have to

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warn you if somebody famous was in there. But his

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idea of fame was not my idea of fame, Like

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my idea of fame was that story about how Steve Lucather,

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the guitar player, called me a cunt after he was

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over served too many Long Island iced teas. His idea

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of fame was like that guy and his friend wrote

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two episodes of Hardcastle and McCormick. So their first round

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is on the house and I'd be like, okay, Like

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you got to treat them like VIPs. I'd be like, okay,

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I'm on it. You know. Also, I was doing a

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lot of drinking. Sometimes I was like literally too drunk

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to like add up my checks at the end of

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the night. But it was so smoky in there. Oh,

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I could have mad. I was in my twenty I

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was in my early twenties when I worked there, Like

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these were those days, red onion days. Like I was

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young because I moved to La I was only like

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eighteen or nineteen, and it was one of my early

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earliest jobs. Wow, Like I was probably I had probably

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just turned twenty one when I was working out, old

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enough to work there. But yeah, how long it's been around? Wow? Forever? Yeah. Yeah.

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Matt Perry used to come in. He was a regular.

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We had karaoke there, and Matt Perry would come in

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and hang out. It was like a hangout place. It

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was like a Cheers but people could smoke in there

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and it would be so smoky. And I remember one

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time I had to open the back door so I

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could like lean out and breathe, and Craig got really

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mad and screamed at me. Oh wow, And I think

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I told him to fuck off or or I told

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his wife to fuck off for the Stephanie, I know,

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and I got fired, or I quit, or he I

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knew he was going to fire. You know. Yeah, I

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fired a lot.

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Speaker 2: It's still the same kind of place. I mean, there's

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you know a lot of industry people, you know.

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Speaker 1: But they didn't have we went.

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Speaker 2: I went there a couple of nights a couple of

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weeks ago, and then we went there aft. So we

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went to we had some you know, martinis at the dinner,

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and then we went there but it was like dead,

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and so we went to another place that had karaoke,

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The Oaks, which is by Kaylen's house. Well, now, Kaylyn,

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is anybody listening to our show? No, Kaylin's gone. Garry

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just wants to admire the studio.

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Speaker 1: There's no timer. There's no timer. We can't tell what

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it's Well, let's talk about Hello Tushy, Hello Tushy.

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Speaker 2: I just want you guys to know I'm listening in

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the other room.

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Speaker 1: Matt. You guys are doing great. A lot of great conversation,

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a lot of jokes, some twists and turns in the story.

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Just keep up the great work. Thank you, Matt. You

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guys aren't seeing the timer. I'll put the monitor on

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because we do have a timer running. But it feels

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like no time at all, am I right? Right? I

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mean it could we could be four minutes in, we

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could be twenty you know, idea, what where we are? Okay?

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So okay? So then after karaoke you tried, so you

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went to the Oaks? Yeah, we went to the Oaks

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by your house, Kaylin. You know the Oaks. Isn't that

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your place? I used to live in and I would

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go to it often. It's fine. Yeah, they have karaoke.

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Yeah yeah, I've done karaoke. Yeah yeah, Okay, well I

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haven't really done much karaoke in my own.

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Speaker 2: I don't karaoke, but I like watching it. I'll cheer

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friends on, but I'm not a karaoke person.

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Speaker 1: That's not me. Can I just tell you that, I mean,

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this is a weird leap to make. Yeah, and I

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have so many other things to talk about, but I

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do want to complain about all the adults in my

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life who have birthdays right around this time of year,

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who are way too into their birthday. None of them

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listen to this show. But it is like, yeah, it's

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worse than my kids, like Mike's. First of all, well,

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I was gonna say my one set of kids, and

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then LB you know, so two birthdays in November, November

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twelfth and November twenty six, which I just had to,

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you know, help plan something. You have to make their

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day special. They're your freaking kids, exactly right. Yeah, but

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I'm like, what, I don't think that my adult friend's

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birthday should be equaling the amount of special. No.

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Speaker 2: I have a friend recently that did the same thing,

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was like, you know, like.

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Speaker 1: She was like, it's my birthday, so like we gotta

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go out, we gotta go out, we gotta go out.

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I'm like and I'm like, yeah, I gotta figure it out.

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Speaker 2: I got to figure out my schedule with Adam because

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I don't know which weekend, you know, I gotta it's

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holidays and our schedules are changing, so let me talk.

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Speaker 1: Oh, just tell them it's my birthday.

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Speaker 2: Just tell them.

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Speaker 1: It's like, oh my god.

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Speaker 2: And by the way, you know Adam very well. Do

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you think dude, you don't give a fuck. It's my

469
00:24:55,559 --> 00:24:57,119
birth He gets to give a shit about his own.

470
00:24:57,119 --> 00:25:00,240
Speaker 1: Kids birth You think he gives it about your birthday? Right? Oh,

471
00:25:00,319 --> 00:25:04,519
let me rearrange my schedule for her birthday, for Josephine's birthday,

472
00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:07,480
Like what right are you fucking? I swear to God

473
00:25:07,519 --> 00:25:12,119
this happened not like two weeks ago. Like, come on, dude, really,

474
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:15,079
and that makes me not want to celebrate your birthday

475
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:15,640
by the way.

476
00:25:15,839 --> 00:25:18,359
Speaker 2: That just pushes me away. I know that makes me like,

477
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:19,799
I don't give me.

478
00:25:19,839 --> 00:25:23,079
Speaker 1: Too, it's too much pressure. Yeah. And the thing is,

479
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:25,200
even though you might know in your mind that that

480
00:25:25,279 --> 00:25:28,079
pressure is being spread around to all their friends, it

481
00:25:28,079 --> 00:25:31,000
doesn't make it better. Somehow, it just makes me more resentful. Huh.

482
00:25:31,079 --> 00:25:34,279
It's like, get over it. And you know those people

483
00:25:34,759 --> 00:25:37,519
are also and some of you guys are guilty of this,

484
00:25:37,599 --> 00:25:40,279
so just pretend I'm not talking about you, But those

485
00:25:40,319 --> 00:25:42,440
are the same people that will also be Like, I

486
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,759
know it's ridiculous that I'm this into my birthday, but

487
00:25:44,799 --> 00:25:46,400
I can't help it. I've just always been a person

488
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:49,160
who's into my birthday. Well you can help that, you

489
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:53,599
can help it. I don't get it because I don't mind.

490
00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:56,960
Speaker 2: Celebrating Semi's birthday, but don't put the pressure on, like,

491
00:25:57,039 --> 00:25:58,880
don't don't be like what what.

492
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 1: Are we gonna do? What do we know?

493
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:04,640
Speaker 2: Like most of my close friends, Suzanne Melissa, like, you know,

494
00:26:04,799 --> 00:26:08,160
I'll say like, it's your birthday, let's you know, No,

495
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:11,039
they always go, oh, we don't need to, like let's

496
00:26:11,079 --> 00:26:12,160
just let's just go to.

497
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:15,400
Speaker 1: Dinner, Like that's how normal, that's how are right, right?

498
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:17,720
But we all have that friend, one of my friends

499
00:26:18,519 --> 00:26:21,000
who I love, I really do love her. This is not,

500
00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:24,119
you know, a fatal fly or anything, right, but she

501
00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:27,519
and she knows even she's one of those people like

502
00:26:27,599 --> 00:26:30,440
this year she was like and she we just went

503
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:32,440
out for her birthday, but she was like, you got

504
00:26:32,519 --> 00:26:35,920
this year. I really don't care. My husband even said, like,

505
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:37,519
you make too big a deal of your birthday. It's

506
00:26:37,559 --> 00:26:39,559
too much pressure for everyone. She's like, so I really

507
00:26:39,599 --> 00:26:42,000
don't care this year. It's fine, But all of her

508
00:26:42,039 --> 00:26:45,319
friends were like, yes, you do. You're the that's all

509
00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:47,359
you care about is your birthday. You plan for it

510
00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:51,160
like three months in advance, right, So of course her

511
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:53,559
friend we're all like, okay, well here's the day that

512
00:26:53,759 --> 00:26:56,160
for so and so's birthday that we're all getting together.

513
00:26:56,519 --> 00:26:59,480
But meanwhile, there's another friend who's more of like an

514
00:26:59,519 --> 00:27:04,880
outline to me in the friendship. She's birthday girl who's

515
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:06,960
really into her birthday. This is like a very good

516
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:09,880
friend of hers, and it's she's in my mom friend group.

517
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:11,759
But I'm not, like I'm not the closest to her,

518
00:27:11,839 --> 00:27:14,440
let's put it that way. But but I'm also invited

519
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:17,200
to hers, but like it's like we're every weekend. Is

520
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:18,960
like then it's this person, and then I have my

521
00:27:19,079 --> 00:27:24,359
other friend who's like really into her birthday, and it's

522
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:28,079
like becomes a whole thing of like it. I mean,

523
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:31,680
it's like a war room, like figuring out like, well,

524
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:33,680
I want this person to come because I you know,

525
00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:36,039
I've recently talked to this person this person to come,

526
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:38,039
but I don't know if these two people and oh

527
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:40,880
my god, right, I know I don't need to be

528
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:43,079
in on the ground floor of all the planning for

529
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:46,480
your birthday, right, we're not that cool, Like you're not

530
00:27:46,599 --> 00:27:49,960
my child, like I did love wanning for my own

531
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:53,680
freaking kids. Yes, it's so weird, isn't it so bizarre?

532
00:27:53,839 --> 00:27:56,640
Oh my god? How is your kids' birthday? Oh my god,

533
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:02,839
so fun really so. And it's so funny because I

534
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:07,480
made myself a little bit crazy because a lot of

535
00:28:07,519 --> 00:28:10,599
you guys will understand this feeling. I didn't want them

536
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:15,440
to feel less planned than LB. But Elbe is super social,

537
00:28:15,599 --> 00:28:18,759
so she, you know, she's got to do something for

538
00:28:18,799 --> 00:28:21,039
her birthday. They all do, all these girls this age.

539
00:28:21,039 --> 00:28:23,119
You know, she was turning seventeen, so she wanted to.

540
00:28:23,279 --> 00:28:26,119
It's just funny because she's texting me right now. But

541
00:28:26,319 --> 00:28:28,720
it's it's nothing emergency. You know when you see a

542
00:28:28,759 --> 00:28:32,640
text from your kid. Yes, it's either absolutely nothing or

543
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:36,039
it's like, oh my god, I'm sick yetime, it's not

544
00:28:36,039 --> 00:28:36,400
nothing in.

545
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 2: Middle ground, like has your day gone now?

546
00:28:40,319 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 1: So so anyway, so she had and I think I

547
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:46,160
told you I already told you this, but she had

548
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:48,680
like a dinner with a bunch of her friends and

549
00:28:49,119 --> 00:28:52,519
but then we had to take her out, so their

550
00:28:52,519 --> 00:28:54,920
party was not on their birthday. And you know what

551
00:28:55,079 --> 00:28:57,839
this when they're kids, you can't like when you're an

552
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:00,119
adult and you're planning. Let's say you're an adult and

553
00:29:00,119 --> 00:29:02,680
your birthday's on a Friday, but you're doing something on Saturday.

554
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,759
You don't need to celebrate all day Friday. You're like, oh,

555
00:29:05,759 --> 00:29:08,000
we're doing something on Saturday. You don't need like all

556
00:29:08,079 --> 00:29:10,480
day long. You don't wear a crown around the house

557
00:29:10,559 --> 00:29:14,680
and go it's my birthday like and expect. Well, normal

558
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:18,119
people don't, but when it's a kid, like I don't know,

559
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:20,599
I remember being a kid and it's like a special day.

560
00:29:20,759 --> 00:29:22,880
So you can't just like be like, listen, you guys,

561
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,279
your parties tomorrow, so let's not worry about your birthday

562
00:29:25,319 --> 00:29:27,960
to night. Of course, yeah, so you have to do

563
00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:31,000
take them up for dinner. So it's a whole kashaw

564
00:29:31,079 --> 00:29:34,480
them on the freaking November because Albie had the family

565
00:29:34,559 --> 00:29:37,000
dinner on the Friday night and then come home and

566
00:29:37,039 --> 00:29:39,279
we had to have sing our Happy Birthday with just

567
00:29:39,319 --> 00:29:41,880
the family and give her presents. But then like the

568
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:43,759
next day was her party, so then I had to

569
00:29:43,839 --> 00:29:47,200
arrange for all the kids to go to dinner and

570
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:51,400
so same. But so the kids, so you know, I'm

571
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:55,000
always complaining they don't have friends. But luckily the ones

572
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:59,559
that they do have, we're all available for Thanksgiving weekend

573
00:30:00,079 --> 00:30:02,720
and they decided Sadie wanted to go do laser Tag.

574
00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:06,160
Oh yeah, yeah, and it's super fun. I made it

575
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:09,039
like this little old school birthday. I said, you know what,

576
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:12,519
I can't. I don't want to deal with like ten

577
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:16,640
twelve kids in a restaurant. Oh my god, I just

578
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:19,839
thought about something else that I have to tell you.

579
00:30:20,079 --> 00:30:22,680
Remind me that I'm going to add to your Patreon. Okay,

580
00:30:22,759 --> 00:30:25,000
I can't say it on the regular show. Okay, I'm

581
00:30:25,039 --> 00:30:29,720
just going to remind myself. Okay, it's about my neighbors.

582
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:33,359
But anyway, so they invited all their friends and we

583
00:30:33,359 --> 00:30:36,319
were going to go to Laser Tag first and then

584
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:38,799
come home and do like a little party and have

585
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:41,559
some cake and have a good day. But I was

586
00:30:41,839 --> 00:30:44,759
stressing myself out. I know you're going to know what

587
00:30:44,799 --> 00:30:47,119
I mean where I was like, okay, but I'm going

588
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:51,559
to have to time the pizza to get delivered. I

589
00:30:51,559 --> 00:30:53,200
don't have to figure out when we're going to get

590
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:55,480
home from Laser Tag exactly so I can be there

591
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:57,920
for the pizza. And then are the kids going to

592
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:00,400
be like, we're hungry, we want to Of a sudden,

593
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:02,160
I was like, why don't I just have them come

594
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:05,720
over have the pizza early? Right, like do a five

595
00:31:05,759 --> 00:31:09,000
o'clock five pm, have pizza. And that's what I did.

596
00:31:09,039 --> 00:31:11,000
I made it easier on myself. I was like, who cares,

597
00:31:11,039 --> 00:31:13,599
they're kids. They'll eat when they eat. So at five

598
00:31:13,599 --> 00:31:17,680
o'clock we had pizza, ruffles, potato chips, French onion, dip,

599
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:22,480
m and MS sprite and coke. Like I just made

600
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:25,920
it like this old school like kids. Yeah, they loved it.

601
00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:28,599
They loved it. They all the kids like sat around

602
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:31,519
the table and ate the food and some like some

603
00:31:31,599 --> 00:31:35,519
salad and some grapes and like they hung out. Of course,

604
00:31:36,119 --> 00:31:39,319
if it was adults, that would kill two hours. With kids,

605
00:31:39,359 --> 00:31:42,720
it's like twenty minutes. La They're like okay, now what yeah,

606
00:31:42,759 --> 00:31:46,680
but I was like okay, took them to the laser Tag.

607
00:31:46,759 --> 00:31:50,000
We played laser Tag. They have like the best time.

608
00:31:50,039 --> 00:31:52,160
We did three rounds of laser Tag and then we

609
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:54,880
all came home. Then we did cake and then the kids.

610
00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:57,319
Then I started texting parents like we're done. You'll get

611
00:31:57,319 --> 00:31:59,920
your kids. Yeah that's awesome, Yeah, that's great.

612
00:32:00,279 --> 00:32:00,480
Speaker 2: I know.

613
00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 1: And then Xander had his bff with the famous mom

614
00:32:07,559 --> 00:32:10,680
he slept over. Each kid could have one friend sleepovers.

615
00:32:10,799 --> 00:32:12,920
I couldn't deal with more than that. Yeah, that's perfect.

616
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:16,400
That's perfect. Yeah. And Sadie had her friend that I've

617
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:21,119
discussed on Patreon, who sometimes seems not into her. But

618
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:23,519
we're we're in a good period. It's good and it

619
00:32:23,599 --> 00:32:27,200
was lovely. That's awesome. They had such a good weekend,

620
00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:30,480
which was so nice. That's so nice. But they were

621
00:32:30,799 --> 00:32:33,039
so bummed to go back to school. I can't even

622
00:32:33,079 --> 00:32:36,039
tell you. They looked like like a bomb hit our house.

623
00:32:36,039 --> 00:32:39,880
I know, it's like, I know, I know. They looked trauma.

624
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 2: And I had friends over on Saturday night. He was

625
00:32:44,599 --> 00:32:47,960
up all night, and then he had friends over again

626
00:32:48,039 --> 00:32:51,440
yesterday to watch football and stuff, and then he was

627
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:55,240
exhausted and he went to at eight o'clock, text me,

628
00:32:55,279 --> 00:32:58,160
I'm going to bed. I'm exhausted, good night, love you,

629
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:00,880
And he went to bed, didn't even really eat dinner,

630
00:33:01,359 --> 00:33:05,599
And then around I'm chilling in my bedroom, like eleven o'clock,

631
00:33:05,599 --> 00:33:07,680
he comes walking in to get Phil out of my

632
00:33:07,759 --> 00:33:09,359
room to take him to his I'm like, wait, I

633
00:33:09,359 --> 00:33:11,599
thought you were asleep. He goes, I fell asleep for

634
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:15,039
like forty five minutes, well like an hour maybe, and

635
00:33:15,079 --> 00:33:16,920
now I can't go back to sleep, and I'm like,

636
00:33:17,039 --> 00:33:19,400
are you kidding. Then I get a text from him

637
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:22,200
at four o'clock in the morning. I have been up

638
00:33:22,279 --> 00:33:25,000
and off all night, like his sleep schedule is off.

639
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:27,759
So now he had to miss like first period this morning.

640
00:33:28,599 --> 00:33:33,680
Oh and he's walking to school. Yeah, well so first

641
00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:34,680
period this morning.

642
00:33:34,759 --> 00:33:38,799
Speaker 1: Okay, so you know the math teacher that we do

643
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:43,319
not like, Yes, well that teacher. So I don't know

644
00:33:43,319 --> 00:33:47,359
about your kids, but Sadie is like if she has

645
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:50,079
to learn something or have tutoring. So, by the way,

646
00:33:50,599 --> 00:33:55,640
our listener Yvonne called her on yeah, the tutor. She's

647
00:33:55,720 --> 00:34:01,200
been Sadie's tutor. She's awesome, ah, amazing. If you guys

648
00:34:01,279 --> 00:34:03,480
should you guys should hire her? Did she come out?

649
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:06,160
Guess who? I'm recommending her to, Yvonne. If you're just

650
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:12,800
hearing this, I'm recommending her to actresses. To my friend.

651
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:16,239
He's an actress, who said I told I told her

652
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:17,800
I went out with her the other night and I

653
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:21,599
told her all about the tutor. I didn't say exactly,

654
00:34:22,159 --> 00:34:23,920
I don't really want her listening to the podcast, so

655
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:26,320
I didn't say, oh I know her from a podcast.

656
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:28,960
I just said I just know her and she's great

657
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:33,960
and anyway, so she had tutored Sadie for this math

658
00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:36,400
test that was supposed to happen the friday before the break.

659
00:34:37,079 --> 00:34:40,239
The teacher decided we're not having the test. He didn't

660
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:43,639
give the test because he'd been absent like the day before,

661
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:46,639
so they hadn't done something that he wanted to do.

662
00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:50,280
So he basically iced all the kids and is giving

663
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:54,079
him the test today, which is Monday. So of course

664
00:34:54,119 --> 00:34:57,960
Sadie yesterday was like so already dread. She's like, so

665
00:34:58,039 --> 00:35:00,760
we have the math test on Monday. And I was like, well,

666
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:03,039
do you remember how to do everything? Because she'd had

667
00:35:03,079 --> 00:35:06,239
tutoring the night before the test and she's like, I

668
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:08,800
don't know. I go should we get Yvonne to like

669
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:11,480
do you want to do an emergency session so that

670
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:14,280
to refresh you so that you feel good going? And

671
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:17,360
she was like yes please. So I messaged Evonne. I

672
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:20,599
was like, hey, man, can you help out like last minute?

673
00:35:20,639 --> 00:35:22,079
She was like yep, I can do it right now.

674
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:25,800
So she does it on zoom zoom. Nice. Sadie sends

675
00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:29,159
what she's working on and she Yvonne goes over it

676
00:35:29,199 --> 00:35:30,960
on her own, like make sure that and then she

677
00:35:31,119 --> 00:35:38,320
teaches them so gently, so like patiently, and she's just

678
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:41,880
so like the antithesis of these teachers that are like, Okay,

679
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:46,760
let's go. She's like, really make sure that Sadie understands it,

680
00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:49,519
and says, don't just say you understand it. That's what

681
00:35:49,559 --> 00:35:52,199
I'm here for, and tells them in a way that's

682
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:56,440
so simple for them, and she felt so good afterwards.

683
00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:58,480
Speaker 2: She was like, yeah, I'm ready. I'm ready for my test.

684
00:35:58,559 --> 00:36:01,760
I wonder if she does chemistry. That's what I need,

685
00:36:02,199 --> 00:36:03,000
any chemistry.

686
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:04,960
Speaker 1: Well, I told you I have a chemistry tutor for you.

687
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:05,039
Speaker 2: Go.

688
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, that I love.

689
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 2: She has a she's had this this older kid teacher

690
00:36:12,199 --> 00:36:14,800
here and there. But yeah, I mean, we'll see. I

691
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:15,280
have to ask her.

692
00:36:15,599 --> 00:36:17,599
Speaker 1: I have a service. It's called I can't remember what

693
00:36:17,599 --> 00:36:20,920
they're called, but if anybody wants it, they do over zoom. Yeah,

694
00:36:21,199 --> 00:36:26,400
and it's great. They're pre med students. Nice. Yeah, not expensive.

695
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:27,519
Well that's good.

696
00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:34,840
Speaker 2: So Saturday morning, Natalia, So a couple of weeks ago,

697
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:37,440
she was like, I really, because we're not you know,

698
00:36:37,519 --> 00:36:38,559
we weren't going anywhere.

699
00:36:38,599 --> 00:36:39,639
Speaker 1: We didn't go to New York.

700
00:36:39,519 --> 00:36:43,800
Speaker 2: Blah blah blah blah blah. Her and her boyfriend, who

701
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:46,719
I love more and more every time I see him.

702
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:51,599
Want to go to Disneyland. So she they went online,

703
00:36:51,639 --> 00:36:55,559
they bought their tickets and then she was like, can

704
00:36:55,599 --> 00:36:58,360
you drop us off to Disneyland and his mom will

705
00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:02,400
pick us up? And I was thought, yeah, sure, okay,

706
00:37:02,599 --> 00:37:07,360
can you pick me up at seven am Saturday morning? Oh?

707
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:07,920
Speaker 1: He said that.

708
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:11,840
Speaker 2: She said I have to because I wasn't there. Adam

709
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:14,199
was there, So she was like, can you drive us

710
00:37:14,199 --> 00:37:16,239
at seven am because they open at eight and I

711
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:19,360
want to be there like right when they open. I

712
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:22,639
was like okay, So I got up, I picked her

713
00:37:22,679 --> 00:37:27,440
up and met his mom. His mom was super lovely sweet.

714
00:37:27,559 --> 00:37:32,239
His mom is white, dad is Filipino, and he's just

715
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:33,559
like a good little.

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Speaker 1: Mixture and he's so sweet. So we were in the.

717
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:40,760
Speaker 2: Car and she's, you know, covetching about her Thanksgiving and

718
00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:43,800
no power and this and that, and then he's in

719
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:46,440
the backseat and then he goes, how is your Thanksgiving,

720
00:37:46,519 --> 00:37:47,440
missus Corolla?

721
00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:50,360
Speaker 1: But he says it in a sincere like I can

722
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:54,880
smell bullshit, you know what I mean? Right, he was

723
00:37:54,920 --> 00:37:57,559
like like sincere, you know, Because then we were talking

724
00:37:57,599 --> 00:37:59,480
about it, and he was like making a joke like

725
00:38:00,119 --> 00:38:02,400
I don't know, like he was like joking around and oh,

726
00:38:02,519 --> 00:38:06,239
you know, he's just like so innocent, like to the

727
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:08,639
point where I was trying to figure out a place

728
00:38:08,679 --> 00:38:10,719
to drop them off, and the talier was like, why

729
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:13,639
don't you just drop us off at the California Adventure hotel,

730
00:38:14,039 --> 00:38:16,079
because I because every time we go there, that's where

731
00:38:16,079 --> 00:38:16,719
we kind of go.

732
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:20,360
Speaker 2: That's like our first spot. And then we go to

733
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:25,639
the California Adventure and I said okay, and she's like,

734
00:38:25,639 --> 00:38:27,280
because I know where to go from there.

735
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Speaker 1: So I'm like okay.

736
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:31,719
Speaker 2: So I pull into the California Venture and the lady

737
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:33,719
was like, Hi, are you checking in? I was like, no,

738
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:36,159
I'm just dropping them off. No drop offs here. You

739
00:38:36,199 --> 00:38:38,079
have to drop them off at the you know this

740
00:38:38,159 --> 00:38:41,119
street that go out, go right, go left. I was like,

741
00:38:41,519 --> 00:38:43,840
I'm not going to drop him off. So she's like,

742
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,039
just turn around. So I go in, I turn around,

743
00:38:46,079 --> 00:38:48,199
and the tally goes, just let us out right here.

744
00:38:48,599 --> 00:38:50,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I was gonna say, why couldn't you just

745
00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:52,639
go like yes, I get.

746
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:56,119
Speaker 2: The car right, So I pull in to turn around

747
00:38:56,760 --> 00:38:57,599
and I pull over.

748
00:38:58,159 --> 00:39:00,679
Speaker 1: I go, okay, I'll just let you out here. And

749
00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:03,840
then he's in the back going I don't know if

750
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:08,000
that's a good idea. She's watching. It's like right, so

751
00:39:08,079 --> 00:39:08,480
then the door.

752
00:39:08,559 --> 00:39:13,480
Speaker 2: So Italia opens the door, and then you here, excuse me, bitch.

753
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,000
I was like, yeah, you're right. So then I like

754
00:39:17,039 --> 00:39:19,559
turn around and then uh and then and then again,

755
00:39:19,679 --> 00:39:21,599
I'm like, I pull out. Then I pull over on

756
00:39:21,639 --> 00:39:23,440
the street. I'm like, you want to get out here?

757
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:25,440
And he was like, I don't know if this is

758
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:27,079
a good like he's just like, you know, he's a

759
00:39:27,159 --> 00:39:30,480
very Yes, he's a rule follower, which I love. Okay,

760
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:34,159
that's good. Then he came over to help her with homework.

761
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:35,280
Speaker 1: Wait, so did they have fun?

762
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:38,199
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I'm gonna put a picture on our

763
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:40,519
f col She took a picture of them in front

764
00:39:40,559 --> 00:39:41,039
of the castle.

765
00:39:41,079 --> 00:39:43,360
Speaker 1: It's so key. Yes, they had a great time. They

766
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:46,440
were there. They got there at eight. They were there

767
00:39:46,599 --> 00:39:51,400
and her mom picked him up at eleven. Oh my gosh.

768
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:51,679
Speaker 2: Yeah.

769
00:39:52,159 --> 00:39:52,400
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: They both passed out in the car on the way home.

771
00:39:54,599 --> 00:39:57,239
They had a great time. He bought her like a

772
00:39:57,239 --> 00:39:58,559
little souvenir ears.

773
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Speaker 1: Oh it's so cute.

774
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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I know, And I like that he

775
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:05,400
doesn't go to her school. You know, I like that

776
00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:09,400
because then there's not so much of each other and

777
00:40:09,679 --> 00:40:11,639
you know, distractions and shit.

778
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Speaker 1: You know what I mean.

779
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:15,760
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, and he's a good student, and he invited

780
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:20,000
her this weekend to their winter formal, so I know,

781
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:22,639
so she's gonna wear her one of her home co

782
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:27,400
dresses that she didn't wear, and she wants, like, my

783
00:40:27,519 --> 00:40:30,480
girl that does my hair to come and like fix

784
00:40:30,559 --> 00:40:33,519
her hair. So her and her one friend and his

785
00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:35,440
best friend, the four of them.

786
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Speaker 1: Are going to go together.

787
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:39,079
Speaker 2: But I'm gonna drop her off, and the mom invited

788
00:40:39,119 --> 00:40:42,320
me to stay. She's like, so this is the whole schedule.

789
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:44,920
She emailed me, the whole rundown, and she's like, after

790
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:48,239
the kids get picked up, they're gonna go to the dance,

791
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:51,000
then the parents are gonna hang out and have food,

792
00:40:51,119 --> 00:40:54,119
and you're more than welcome to stay. I feel like

793
00:40:54,119 --> 00:40:57,760
I have, you know, I have to like stay or

794
00:40:57,760 --> 00:41:00,039
at least, you know, show up and say hi and

795
00:41:00,039 --> 00:41:00,679
and stuff like that.

796
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:04,360
Speaker 1: So that's this Saturday. Oh that's the Saturday. Yeah. But

797
00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:05,000
they she.

798
00:41:05,039 --> 00:41:07,719
Speaker 2: Had a great time. They had a great time, and

799
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:11,559
then last night he came over. So Sunday I wanted

800
00:41:11,599 --> 00:41:14,760
to make dinner, you know, Sunday dinner, and like, I

801
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:16,519
can't sunny.

802
00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:19,599
Speaker 1: He doesn't like my cooking. So he was with his friends.

803
00:41:19,639 --> 00:41:22,320
Speaker 2: And then she was like, I'm meeting dinner with Jake.

804
00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:25,079
We're gonna go like we're gonna go walk somewhere. And

805
00:41:25,119 --> 00:41:28,119
I was like, how about I make dinner for you guys. No,

806
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:32,239
we're gonna I'm like, oh, okay, So but then I walk.

807
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:35,440
So then I go to her bedroom and I knock

808
00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:38,840
on the door and they're like both under the covers

809
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:39,639
in her bedroom.

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Speaker 1: Ah.

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Speaker 2: But they were like watching TV like they were just

812
00:41:44,519 --> 00:41:46,239
and I go, can I just keep this door open?

813
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:46,599
Speaker 1: Please?

814
00:41:47,119 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 2: And she, you know, he's like, of course, you know, yes,

815
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:51,880
And I've had to talk with her.

816
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:55,000
Speaker 1: And did he look embarrassed when you saw them under

817
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:55,760
the covers together?

818
00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:59,679
Speaker 2: They didn't like jump up or anything. I mean they yes,

819
00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:03,000
he's still he sat up, you know, like hi missus Corolla,

820
00:42:03,079 --> 00:42:03,840
you know kind of thing.

821
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:04,280
Speaker 1: But like.

822
00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:10,440
Speaker 2: They it's I mean, they they seem pretty innocent. They

823
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:13,840
were under the covers because her room is cold, and

824
00:42:14,079 --> 00:42:16,440
they weren't like under the they weren't like in her bed.

825
00:42:16,559 --> 00:42:18,440
They were on top of her bed with a with

826
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:20,679
a cover over like a throw.

827
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 1: Okay, that's a little That's what I was kind of picked.

828
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:25,880
I was picturing first them under the covers, and then

829
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:28,280
I was sort of like adjusting my mind to like

830
00:42:28,519 --> 00:42:29,320
maybe they were.

831
00:42:29,199 --> 00:42:31,920
Speaker 2: Like yeah, yeah, they had they had one of her

832
00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:34,800
throws over them. Okay, So but I was like, can

833
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:35,440
we just keep.

834
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:38,840
Speaker 1: This door open? Yeah? And but I told you though

835
00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:40,559
that I had to talk with her and everything. Didn't

836
00:42:40,599 --> 00:42:45,760
I did I tell you about? I didn't? Well I did.

837
00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:49,239
Speaker 2: I recently had this talk with her like, look, you know,

838
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:50,880
there's a big responsibility.

839
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:55,239
Speaker 1: You know. I think you're I think you're too young still,

840
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:57,440
but you know, because there's a lot of responsibility that

841
00:42:57,480 --> 00:43:01,159
comes with you know, s e X and blah blah blah.

842
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:03,920
Speaker 2: And she listened. I thought she was gonna be like, oh,

843
00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:05,880
I don't want to hear no, but she listened. And

844
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:08,159
she's like I understand, she goes, but listen, you have

845
00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:12,880
to know that I'm not anywhere near that right now, okay,

846
00:43:13,159 --> 00:43:15,800
like okay, anywhere near like which.

847
00:43:15,559 --> 00:43:17,360
Speaker 1: Base are you at right? Right? Right right?

848
00:43:17,639 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 2: But she's like, no, I'm not like and I said,

849
00:43:20,039 --> 00:43:21,880
but yeah, I want you to come to me and

850
00:43:22,159 --> 00:43:25,800
let's talk about it, so, you know, no judging or anything.

851
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:27,639
I still but again, I'm.

852
00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:28,280
Speaker 1: Not I'm trying.

853
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 2: I ask Brittany, like how to word it, so you know,

854
00:43:31,639 --> 00:43:35,000
I'm not giving her the go ahead, but I am

855
00:43:35,079 --> 00:43:37,639
being realistic, like, yeah, I want her to come to me.

856
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:39,039
Speaker 1: So yeah.

857
00:43:39,119 --> 00:43:41,719
Speaker 2: But but basically, and she, you know, I explained to her,

858
00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:44,599
and you know, she's a little on the young side still,

859
00:43:44,679 --> 00:43:46,239
so she understood.

860
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:46,400
Speaker 1: You know.

861
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:49,119
Speaker 2: She was like, I promise you, I will talk to

862
00:43:49,159 --> 00:43:50,760
you when the time comes.

863
00:43:51,079 --> 00:43:54,000
Speaker 1: Did you tell her like, once you do it, then

864
00:43:54,039 --> 00:43:56,079
it's kind of expected, like then you're going to be

865
00:43:56,119 --> 00:43:57,760
doing it all the time. It's like you can't really

866
00:43:57,760 --> 00:43:59,440
go backwards in the relationship.

867
00:44:00,679 --> 00:44:03,519
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know if I said that part,

868
00:44:03,639 --> 00:44:05,440
but yeah, do you want me to tell her?

869
00:44:05,519 --> 00:44:10,880
Speaker 1: Yeah? Will you tell her? Can you imagine Stephanie had something? Listen,

870
00:44:11,519 --> 00:44:14,719
I know you've never heard from me before directly, but

871
00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:16,760
your mom and I were talking and I just have

872
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:19,480
a few I just want to Yeah, I felt like

873
00:44:19,519 --> 00:44:22,480
she didn't clarify this one, pet I have notes on

874
00:44:22,599 --> 00:44:28,760
the talk. Well that's good. Yeah, yeah, so you got

875
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:32,519
it out there. Yes, But yeah, he's he's a sweet kid,

876
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:35,440
And if you find out that Aunt Wendy's taking her

877
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:37,880
to a hip hop class, then you know things have changed,

878
00:44:38,039 --> 00:44:43,760
right right? Yeah, So there you go.

879
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:50,239
Speaker 2: Hey, thanks everybody, Thanks Caylen for not being around when

880
00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:53,320
we needed you anytime your parent now, don't nap it up.

881
00:44:58,480 --> 00:45:02,360
Speaker 1: Let accom