WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.600 --> 00:00:02.919 This is Gary and Shannon and you're listening to KFI 2 00:00:03.080 --> 00:00:05.839 AM six forty the Gary and Shannon Show on demand 3 00:00:05.919 --> 00:00:07.240 on the iHeartRadio app. 4 00:00:07.320 --> 00:00:09.240 I have Where Did It Go? 5 00:00:09.560 --> 00:00:13.919 I have a quick health update from the health desk Okay, 6 00:00:14.359 --> 00:00:17.039 the tuberculosis outbreak in Kansas. 7 00:00:17.280 --> 00:00:19.480 I woke up this morning and the first thought was, 8 00:00:19.559 --> 00:00:21.320 get me some TB news. 9 00:00:21.519 --> 00:00:24.600 This may not be the largest outbreak of the disease 10 00:00:24.640 --> 00:00:28.199 in history, but it is still significant because it's happening now. 11 00:00:28.839 --> 00:00:32.320 Two people have died since this outbreak started last January, 12 00:00:32.359 --> 00:00:34.920 and as of last or as of this week, sixty 13 00:00:35.000 --> 00:00:38.759 seven people in Kansas being treated for active tuberculosis, most 14 00:00:38.759 --> 00:00:40.960 of them in why in Dota County. 15 00:00:41.000 --> 00:00:42.200 I'm not sure I'm saying that right. 16 00:00:42.320 --> 00:00:42.880 Sounds good. 17 00:00:43.520 --> 00:00:46.039 Another seventy nine people have what they refer to as 18 00:00:46.159 --> 00:00:50.039 latent TB. They said that seventy nine active TV cases 19 00:00:50.079 --> 00:00:53.119 and two hundred and thirteen latent cases in those two 20 00:00:53.200 --> 00:00:55.280 counties where this outbreak is happening. 21 00:00:55.759 --> 00:00:57.240 They're not saying exactly one. 22 00:00:57.560 --> 00:01:01.000 It is a day of walking things back in Washington. 23 00:01:01.079 --> 00:01:03.960 It's where we kick off swamp watch the Politician. 24 00:01:03.399 --> 00:01:05.719 Which means I'm a cheat and a liar, and when 25 00:01:05.719 --> 00:01:08.280 I'm not kissing babies, I'm stealing their lollipops. 26 00:01:08.359 --> 00:01:11.439 Here we got the real problem is that our leaders 27 00:01:11.519 --> 00:01:12.000 are done. 28 00:01:12.040 --> 00:01:13.319 The other side never quits. 29 00:01:13.400 --> 00:01:18.400 So what I'm not going anywhere, So that now you 30 00:01:18.480 --> 00:01:19.519 train the. 31 00:01:19.359 --> 00:01:21.879 Swat, I can imagine what can be and be unburdened 32 00:01:21.879 --> 00:01:22.560 by what has been. 33 00:01:22.719 --> 00:01:25.599 You know, Americans have always been gone at President. 34 00:01:26.040 --> 00:01:26.840 They're not stupid. 35 00:01:26.879 --> 00:01:30.040 A political flunder is when a politician actually tells the truth. 36 00:01:29.760 --> 00:01:32.920 Whether people voted for you with not swamp watch, they're 37 00:01:32.959 --> 00:01:33.560 all counting on. 38 00:01:35.120 --> 00:01:37.239 Let's start with the Fed Reserve since it just came 39 00:01:37.280 --> 00:01:39.480 down a second ago. The Federserve analysis going to keep 40 00:01:39.480 --> 00:01:42.079 interest rates at the same level that was set last month. 41 00:01:42.280 --> 00:01:45.000 Although I mean that part of it's not a surprise. 42 00:01:45.120 --> 00:01:48.239 The surprise is this goes against the wishes of the 43 00:01:48.239 --> 00:01:52.120 new president. The FED Open Market Committee agreed unanimously to 44 00:01:52.159 --> 00:01:55.040 hold the target federal funds rate at between four and 45 00:01:55.120 --> 00:01:58.640 a quarter and four and a half percent. This is 46 00:01:58.719 --> 00:02:03.120 the just breaks, I should say, the three meeting streak 47 00:02:03.200 --> 00:02:05.560 of cuts that dated back to September when they rolled 48 00:02:05.560 --> 00:02:06.439 out their first rate cuts. 49 00:02:06.439 --> 00:02:09.919 Since March, well, they're waiting to see what the impact 50 00:02:10.000 --> 00:02:13.520 of Trump's policies will be They're gonna wait and see 51 00:02:13.520 --> 00:02:17.879 what's going on before they try and see what needs stabilizing. 52 00:02:18.919 --> 00:02:19.599 In that vein. 53 00:02:19.919 --> 00:02:23.759 The White House Office of Management and Budget has walked 54 00:02:23.800 --> 00:02:27.639 back that memo that ordered a freeze on federal assistance. 55 00:02:28.439 --> 00:02:30.280 This led to a lot of chaos, a lot of 56 00:02:30.280 --> 00:02:33.479 confusion around the country as to which federal programs exactly 57 00:02:33.479 --> 00:02:34.520 would be impacted. 58 00:02:35.680 --> 00:02:37.039 There's an interesting. 59 00:02:38.319 --> 00:02:41.159 Wrinkle in all of this that's going on because so 60 00:02:41.439 --> 00:02:46.360 the President signed this executive order on federal funding. It 61 00:02:46.400 --> 00:02:49.280 was immediately challenged and it was supposed to go into 62 00:02:49.280 --> 00:02:52.560 effect a two o'clock our time yesterday. Just before that happened, 63 00:02:53.120 --> 00:02:56.680 a judge issue to stay on that and said that 64 00:02:56.759 --> 00:03:00.280 she could do a temporary restraining order. She had scheduled 65 00:03:00.400 --> 00:03:03.800 a meeting for Monday or a hearing for Monday. Then 66 00:03:03.840 --> 00:03:07.199 this morning this news came out that OMB walked back 67 00:03:07.240 --> 00:03:10.360 their memo that ordered the freeze on federal assistance. Now, 68 00:03:10.639 --> 00:03:14.120 Caroline Levitt, the White House Press Secretary, said this is 69 00:03:14.319 --> 00:03:18.800 not a recession of the federal funding freeze. It's just 70 00:03:19.759 --> 00:03:24.039 taking back the memo that OMB put out, and the reason, 71 00:03:24.120 --> 00:03:26.800 she said was to end any confusion created by the 72 00:03:26.840 --> 00:03:29.479 injunction that was posted yesterday just before the cuts were 73 00:03:29.520 --> 00:03:32.400 supposed to take place. She said in a tweet. The 74 00:03:32.479 --> 00:03:36.360 President's executive Order on federal funding remains in full force 75 00:03:36.439 --> 00:03:40.439 and effect and will be rigorously implemented. I don't know 76 00:03:40.439 --> 00:03:42.800 if she you can do that because of the injunction 77 00:03:42.879 --> 00:03:44.639 that was posted by the court, But. 78 00:03:46.120 --> 00:03:48.039 So that's what's going on there. 79 00:03:48.400 --> 00:03:50.560 The other big deal in DC today is that RFK 80 00:03:50.800 --> 00:03:55.319 Junior is sitting for his first confirmation hearing. Democrats have 81 00:03:55.400 --> 00:03:59.080 been hammering him on vaccine, comments, on his stance on abortion, 82 00:03:59.240 --> 00:04:02.719 although he agrees with most of them on that side 83 00:04:02.759 --> 00:04:07.319 of the aisle about the issue of abortion. Kennedy, of course, 84 00:04:08.039 --> 00:04:10.840 was running as an independent because the Democrats didn't want 85 00:04:10.879 --> 00:04:13.719 him to challenge Joe Biden. Then he ended up supporting 86 00:04:13.759 --> 00:04:16.839 Trump in the presidential campaign when he announced that he 87 00:04:16.879 --> 00:04:19.360 was going to drop out of the race right during 88 00:04:19.399 --> 00:04:22.560 the Republic I'm sorry, right during the Democratic National Convention. 89 00:04:23.240 --> 00:04:27.279 So he has been answering all kinds of questions about 90 00:04:27.680 --> 00:04:32.279 his actual view on vaccines, despite what Democrats have been 91 00:04:32.319 --> 00:04:35.000 pushing about him being anti vaccine. He even referenced a 92 00:04:35.000 --> 00:04:37.680 book that he wrote ten years ago. The first line 93 00:04:37.720 --> 00:04:40.240 of the book is I am not anti vaccine, And 94 00:04:40.279 --> 00:04:42.439 he says the last line of the book is I 95 00:04:42.480 --> 00:04:43.759 am not anti vaccine. 96 00:04:43.800 --> 00:04:46.839 And there was a tense moment between him and Elizabeth Warren. 97 00:04:48.199 --> 00:04:50.839 She asked whether he could or would continue to take 98 00:04:50.879 --> 00:04:57.959 money from lawsuits he referred against drug companies. There is 99 00:04:58.000 --> 00:05:01.040 a law firm that employs his son that is leading 100 00:05:01.120 --> 00:05:06.600 litigation against Merk over alleged serious side effects from a 101 00:05:06.680 --> 00:05:12.600 vaccine guard Gasil guard Ghasil Gardasil. Kennedy has said to 102 00:05:12.600 --> 00:05:15.839 be as profited from a consulting deal with this firm, 103 00:05:16.680 --> 00:05:19.839 and under his ethics agreement, would retain a ten percent 104 00:05:19.920 --> 00:05:21.319 stake of fees. 105 00:05:20.920 --> 00:05:23.600 Awarded by the court. 106 00:05:24.079 --> 00:05:28.199 Warren asked, you won't go to work for a drug 107 00:05:28.240 --> 00:05:32.160 company after you leave HHS, But you and I both 108 00:05:32.240 --> 00:05:35.240 know there's another way to make money. Then she asked 109 00:05:35.319 --> 00:05:39.120 him whether he'd declined compensation from lawsuits against drug companies 110 00:05:39.199 --> 00:05:42.879 during his government service and for four years afterward. He 111 00:05:42.920 --> 00:05:46.560 said he'd certainly commit to foregoing compensation while he's secretary. 112 00:05:47.720 --> 00:05:49.959 I mean, I don't know it's dirty when you make 113 00:05:50.079 --> 00:05:52.839 money from going after drug companies, but at least you're 114 00:05:52.839 --> 00:05:54.560 going after big Pharma. 115 00:05:55.199 --> 00:05:57.720 Right, I mean, if you're gonna the enemy of my 116 00:05:57.879 --> 00:05:59.040 enemy may be my friend. 117 00:06:00.120 --> 00:06:02.040 Yeah or the friend of mine. 118 00:06:02.959 --> 00:06:03.720 I know what you mean. 119 00:06:05.439 --> 00:06:07.959 Oh whatever, So anyway. 120 00:06:07.720 --> 00:06:09.399 Oh, I wanted to play this because there was a 121 00:06:09.480 --> 00:06:12.959 question specifically about an old sound Hugaryan Shane. 122 00:06:13.000 --> 00:06:15.480 Then what's going on in the Old Swamp Watch intro? 123 00:06:15.920 --> 00:06:20.199 There was a part that went something like, Gwampwamp is 124 00:06:20.199 --> 00:06:21.079 a bad dude. 125 00:06:21.240 --> 00:06:23.759 Okay, let me play that corn pop? Yeah? 126 00:06:23.800 --> 00:06:25.560 Why was that hard to remember? 127 00:06:27.879 --> 00:06:31.680 Baddoo that was the corn pop was a bad dude, 128 00:06:32.480 --> 00:06:35.040 but he only heard Wampwamp was a bad corn pop? 129 00:06:35.079 --> 00:06:36.120 You remember corn pop? 130 00:06:36.160 --> 00:06:38.360 He was the guy at the community pool where Joe 131 00:06:38.360 --> 00:06:41.560 Biden worked that was a bully and Joe Biden was 132 00:06:41.639 --> 00:06:43.879 haveing nun of corn Poply. 133 00:06:43.319 --> 00:06:47.839 That went something like, womp is a bad dude corn pop. 134 00:06:48.319 --> 00:06:51.600 I have no idea what that's supposed to mean corn pop, 135 00:06:51.680 --> 00:06:55.319 although it's turned into a nice song. Gwompwamp was a 136 00:06:55.319 --> 00:06:58.199 bad dude. Gwampwamp was a bad bad dude. I'll stop, 137 00:06:58.879 --> 00:07:01.560 but if it's in your head now, you're welcome. Have 138 00:07:01.600 --> 00:07:02.439 a great day of folks. 139 00:07:02.519 --> 00:07:04.600 Thank you ain't you gonna be singing that all day? 140 00:07:06.720 --> 00:07:07.000 Dude? 141 00:07:07.959 --> 00:07:09.319 You sound like bugs bunny. 142 00:07:10.600 --> 00:07:13.079 Kids are dumb. There's a story. 143 00:07:14.040 --> 00:07:17.600 A survey people by Education Week says that seventy seven 144 00:07:17.720 --> 00:07:22.639 percent of educator's report that kids are having difficulty handling pencils, pens, 145 00:07:22.680 --> 00:07:26.279 and scissors, fine motor skills, fine motor scar in the toilet. 146 00:07:26.759 --> 00:07:27.399 Here's a kicker. 147 00:07:27.480 --> 00:07:30.560 I have learned that this started almost twenty years ago, 148 00:07:30.879 --> 00:07:32.959 is when it started to be an issue. 149 00:07:33.000 --> 00:07:34.120 What happened now? 150 00:07:35.079 --> 00:07:37.480 I just had a conversation maybe two years ago with 151 00:07:37.519 --> 00:07:40.519 my kids pediatrician where she was seeing studies that showed 152 00:07:40.560 --> 00:07:43.800 that because kids live in such a two dimensional space 153 00:07:43.839 --> 00:07:46.040 on screens all the time, that they are struggling with 154 00:07:46.079 --> 00:07:50.279 three dimensions, their brains are struggling exception. No, it's not 155 00:07:50.319 --> 00:07:52.399 that their death they can see, but it's just that 156 00:07:52.439 --> 00:07:55.240 their brains can't process spatial awareness. And it's weird because 157 00:07:55.279 --> 00:07:58.519 we've also decided that having an immense awareness of space 158 00:07:58.879 --> 00:08:00.279 is some kind of a sign of genius. 159 00:08:00.319 --> 00:08:02.560 Are high intelligence day behind me? 160 00:08:03.680 --> 00:08:08.240 Okay, you might want to move away from start to 161 00:08:09.759 --> 00:08:15.879 start time? You couldn't wait for the commercial break. 162 00:08:17.399 --> 00:08:21.879 No, My favorite part of the show today, By the way, 163 00:08:22.040 --> 00:08:24.240 is when Ellen k came down and she was talking 164 00:08:24.279 --> 00:08:27.600 to us about the concerts that's tomorrow night fire a La, 165 00:08:28.199 --> 00:08:31.040 and she had this big her eyes got really big 166 00:08:31.040 --> 00:08:33.360 at one point and she said, I didn't know when 167 00:08:33.399 --> 00:08:35.399 we were on the air or off the air. 168 00:08:36.960 --> 00:08:38.200 Because the stuff like this. 169 00:08:40.799 --> 00:08:43.519 Literally tips falling out of her mouth. Try to eat them. 170 00:08:44.039 --> 00:08:46.639 Well, we'll see how how deep she gets into this 171 00:08:46.759 --> 00:08:47.480 chicken burrito. 172 00:08:47.919 --> 00:08:49.440 I'm an award winning journalist. 173 00:08:49.559 --> 00:08:53.639 What listen, I know I had to be playing around. 174 00:08:53.679 --> 00:08:55.320 I'll take down Dave. We saw come after you next 175 00:08:55.360 --> 00:08:56.759 fair and evidently I'll punch you today. 176 00:08:56.879 --> 00:08:58.720 Your tooth has been bothering you. So you went and 177 00:08:58.759 --> 00:09:00.120 got some fake They had. 178 00:09:00.120 --> 00:09:01.360 Some bake Ora Jellens. 179 00:09:01.919 --> 00:09:04.200 She came back into the room like she had just 180 00:09:04.240 --> 00:09:06.279 had oral surgery, Like she's loopy. 181 00:09:06.000 --> 00:09:09.360 In the head, Like my mouth is done. 182 00:09:09.360 --> 00:09:09.519 Now. 183 00:09:10.240 --> 00:09:14.600 I don't know what I'm doing. Just realize I cannot 184 00:09:14.639 --> 00:09:15.039 be held the. 185 00:09:15.039 --> 00:09:22.440 Catle over my actions a mile topographical that we gottle 186 00:09:22.480 --> 00:09:26.000 o ointments. It crowds to no longer hold me responsible 187 00:09:26.000 --> 00:09:26.960 as an adult. 188 00:09:26.960 --> 00:09:27.840 Says it on the back. 189 00:09:30.360 --> 00:09:31.559 It feels so much better. 190 00:09:34.279 --> 00:09:37.759 I am surprised. They don't have just a little, you know, 191 00:09:37.879 --> 00:09:39.279 needlefull heroin in there for you. 192 00:09:42.240 --> 00:09:43.840 I think I'm gonna try heroin now. 193 00:09:44.159 --> 00:09:46.480 A couple of big stories that we are following. 194 00:09:46.720 --> 00:09:49.120 Uh, it looks like President Trump is going to sign 195 00:09:49.120 --> 00:09:51.360 the Lake and Riley Act here. This will be the 196 00:09:51.440 --> 00:09:54.240 first legislation to get a signature since he went back 197 00:09:54.279 --> 00:09:55.080 into the White House. 198 00:09:55.159 --> 00:09:56.960 Named in the memory of Lake and Riley. 199 00:09:57.000 --> 00:10:00.639 This nursing student killed by an illegal alien in Georgia 200 00:10:00.679 --> 00:10:05.159 would allow the detention of undocumented immigrants accused of theft 201 00:10:05.200 --> 00:10:08.320 related crimes. He had apparently been released many times on 202 00:10:08.360 --> 00:10:12.440 those theft related crimes before being accused of murder. Fed 203 00:10:12.480 --> 00:10:17.639 Reserve kept their interest rates level. Investors widely expected that 204 00:10:17.720 --> 00:10:20.799 the decision to maintain the current level does pause a 205 00:10:20.840 --> 00:10:23.320 series of three consecutive interest rate cuts imposed by the 206 00:10:23.320 --> 00:10:26.200 Fed over the final months of last year. And the 207 00:10:26.279 --> 00:10:29.320 National Weather Services it is cold and getting colder. We 208 00:10:29.360 --> 00:10:33.120 could see temperatures into the mid twenties in some parts 209 00:10:33.120 --> 00:10:35.000 of La County tonight into tomorrow morning. 210 00:10:35.039 --> 00:10:36.000 Did we ever play the thing? 211 00:10:40.320 --> 00:10:42.159 This is by far my favorite day to be here. 212 00:10:42.320 --> 00:10:47.720 I just why why you're low grade high? 213 00:10:48.799 --> 00:10:52.080 I don't think it makes you high. You guys, it's Origella. 214 00:10:51.600 --> 00:10:53.879 At nineteen year old on a zema right now, like 215 00:10:53.960 --> 00:10:57.120 it's very strange to see you to the bubbles. 216 00:11:00.039 --> 00:11:02.879 Don't understand institution. 217 00:11:04.919 --> 00:11:06.000 Here's here's the other thing. 218 00:11:06.559 --> 00:11:10.440 Justin she has this has been dry January, probably the 219 00:11:10.480 --> 00:11:12.039 most chemically intoxicated. 220 00:11:12.080 --> 00:11:15.559 She's what's true. 221 00:11:15.799 --> 00:11:18.600 I am sorry. I did not know that was that 222 00:11:18.720 --> 00:11:21.240 was that was just below my Dave. We the backle 223 00:11:21.279 --> 00:11:24.200 of the previous. 224 00:11:22.639 --> 00:11:26.240 It's okay, it's all right. I'm basically dying of a toothpain. 225 00:11:26.679 --> 00:11:29.639 No, and I'm sorry. Of Justin Warshon was joined as 226 00:11:29.639 --> 00:11:33.000 we talk about parenting stuff. Uh and you're still parent yep. 227 00:11:32.840 --> 00:11:33.399 So far. 228 00:11:36.919 --> 00:11:43.320 So I sorry, sorry interrupting, interrupting party of one. I 229 00:11:43.480 --> 00:11:47.200 was reading People magazine last night and it came across 230 00:11:47.240 --> 00:11:51.000 an article about a documentary on HBO. An Update on 231 00:11:51.039 --> 00:11:54.000 our Family is the name of the documentary, and it 232 00:11:54.879 --> 00:11:56.679 opened me up to this whole world I did not 233 00:11:56.759 --> 00:11:57.960 know existed, and I'm. 234 00:11:57.840 --> 00:11:58.559 Terrified of it. 235 00:11:59.159 --> 00:12:03.000 And it is people who have kids and go on 236 00:12:03.080 --> 00:12:06.039 YouTube and chronicle their entire lives with their kids. 237 00:12:06.559 --> 00:12:09.000 Husbands are in on it, wives kids. 238 00:12:09.399 --> 00:12:12.919 They document everything from sun up to sundown and they 239 00:12:12.919 --> 00:12:15.080 make money off of it, sponsorships and stuff. 240 00:12:15.600 --> 00:12:16.679 And the whole thing is that. 241 00:12:16.720 --> 00:12:20.240 Like some people have babies just to get more followers, 242 00:12:20.440 --> 00:12:26.480 because when baby news happens, there's a an obvious bump 243 00:12:26.679 --> 00:12:30.960 in followership. And the more followers you have, the more 244 00:12:31.159 --> 00:12:33.240 lucrative endorsements you have, and all of that. 245 00:12:34.840 --> 00:12:36.879 It's terrifying how prevalent it is. 246 00:12:37.080 --> 00:12:39.480 I every time you hear about this, where you know, 247 00:12:39.559 --> 00:12:42.120 like I've yet to see a successful family have a 248 00:12:42.159 --> 00:12:45.399 reality show, and that's a great point, like come out 249 00:12:45.440 --> 00:12:48.000 and be like everything was great, like we maintain just 250 00:12:48.159 --> 00:12:50.120 and you start to wonder, like is a lot of 251 00:12:50.159 --> 00:12:52.600 the drama produced because they need to make it interesting 252 00:12:52.799 --> 00:12:55.240 or does it become this thing where your job has 253 00:12:55.320 --> 00:12:58.159 now become interesting so you have to manifest drama in 254 00:12:58.200 --> 00:13:00.320 your life where normally there might not be any. Or 255 00:13:00.799 --> 00:13:03.639 is it a genuine reflection that just most family struggle, 256 00:13:03.759 --> 00:13:06.279 like most people are just struggling to have what we 257 00:13:06.320 --> 00:13:09.039 would like to be a regular normal life. I don't know, 258 00:13:09.159 --> 00:13:11.960 but this seems like just a horrible reason to have 259 00:13:12.000 --> 00:13:12.480 a family. 260 00:13:12.559 --> 00:13:16.039 And I just like when my son who wanted he wants. 261 00:13:15.759 --> 00:13:17.240 To be an actor, he came to be when it's 262 00:13:17.279 --> 00:13:19.159 eight and I just flat out told him no, I'm 263 00:13:19.159 --> 00:13:20.360 like because, and he's like why, and. 264 00:13:20.320 --> 00:13:22.639 I go, statistically, it doesn't break well for you. 265 00:13:22.600 --> 00:13:24.440 Because dads are built to squash dreams. 266 00:13:24.480 --> 00:13:30.320 Exactly, Thank you, Gary. I thought I was doing my 267 00:13:30.399 --> 00:13:32.279 job to make him creative. Right, he has to have 268 00:13:32.320 --> 00:13:34.840 an abusive father so he can lash out and write 269 00:13:34.919 --> 00:13:36.799 negative characters his fathers and movies. 270 00:13:37.159 --> 00:13:38.879 Yeah, all he wanted to do is work. He just 271 00:13:38.919 --> 00:13:39.600 wanted to work. 272 00:13:40.440 --> 00:13:42.879 Hate every family movie ever made where the dad is like, 273 00:13:42.919 --> 00:13:44.519 I'm just trying to pay for you in this three 274 00:13:44.559 --> 00:13:49.039 thousand square foot house. But I'm the animal, I'm the villain. Oh, 275 00:13:49.120 --> 00:13:54.000 we're only happy when dad's not working. 276 00:13:54.840 --> 00:13:56.879 Evidently I'm coming in hot and I apologize. 277 00:13:57.200 --> 00:13:58.399 I feel bad for day. 278 00:13:58.639 --> 00:14:01.240 I don't. Yeah, I mean, how why would you have? 279 00:14:01.440 --> 00:14:01.559 Like? 280 00:14:01.600 --> 00:14:03.840 You don't. You don't make a person for content. That's 281 00:14:03.879 --> 00:14:04.639 not a reason to have it. 282 00:14:04.759 --> 00:14:08.200 That's exactly what they take is is that you're making 283 00:14:08.279 --> 00:14:11.759 things for content. You're using your family for content, and 284 00:14:11.799 --> 00:14:13.360 it's disgusting and. 285 00:14:13.320 --> 00:14:16.600 The volume of time that your kids like you. Just 286 00:14:16.639 --> 00:14:18.759 hear so many interviews of people who grow up in 287 00:14:18.879 --> 00:14:22.399 entertainment and now they have to learn about dealing with 288 00:14:22.440 --> 00:14:25.480 the idea that all of their mistakes are publicized whereas 289 00:14:25.480 --> 00:14:28.200 ours aren't. Right, Like, we get to screw up and 290 00:14:28.240 --> 00:14:31.480 nobody really knows. But if somebody who's famous screws up 291 00:14:31.600 --> 00:14:34.759 or they have a million followers on YouTube, it's. 292 00:14:34.639 --> 00:14:35.360 Hard to hide from that. 293 00:14:35.519 --> 00:14:37.720 Yeah, and I still like there was a couple I 294 00:14:37.759 --> 00:14:40.559 saw documentary. I think it was a documentary on like 295 00:14:41.799 --> 00:14:43.480 I think it was maybe you porn or something or 296 00:14:43.519 --> 00:14:44.720 porn hub is like some kind. 297 00:14:44.639 --> 00:14:47.080 Of there was a this where you watch your documentaries? 298 00:14:47.200 --> 00:14:49.240 Yeah, why is that not? It's a great there's a 299 00:14:49.240 --> 00:14:51.639 lot of them. I've got I haven't even scratched the surface, 300 00:14:51.679 --> 00:14:57.080 it seems, but really short anyway about the site. 301 00:14:57.200 --> 00:14:57.720 Yes, it was. 302 00:14:57.720 --> 00:15:00.399 About like the development of the porn hubs. And I 303 00:15:00.480 --> 00:15:02.120 think there was like there or something. There was a 304 00:15:02.159 --> 00:15:03.799 family that was there. Oh no, it was Ashley Madison. 305 00:15:03.840 --> 00:15:05.840 I'm sorry all of the greats that I'm going through, 306 00:15:06.559 --> 00:15:08.240 but there was a family that they were like a 307 00:15:08.279 --> 00:15:11.360 good Christian couple. And then it came out that this 308 00:15:11.559 --> 00:15:13.919 that the husband who was on this YouTube channel, that 309 00:15:13.960 --> 00:15:16.639 they were a good Christian couple. He was having multiple 310 00:15:16.639 --> 00:15:19.000 affairs through Ashley Madison, and then he had to kind 311 00:15:19.000 --> 00:15:21.240 of deal with that publicly because people started finding out 312 00:15:21.240 --> 00:15:23.000 when there was a data leak about who was on 313 00:15:23.080 --> 00:15:25.840 Ashley Madison and his name came up. So like, I 314 00:15:25.919 --> 00:15:28.759 just and it's rough, right, Like how like I just 315 00:15:28.799 --> 00:15:30.919 don't know of anybody who comes out of that okay 316 00:15:30.960 --> 00:15:33.759 where the family seems good? But how many of your 317 00:15:33.799 --> 00:15:36.200 friends have families that you would say like they're doing great, 318 00:15:36.360 --> 00:15:38.279 like maybe or maybe not even great, but just good. 319 00:15:38.480 --> 00:15:40.879 Well, you know, there I can think of a few, 320 00:15:41.120 --> 00:15:44.759 a handful probably that probably overshare about stuff, but they 321 00:15:44.840 --> 00:15:48.000 only overshare the most positive stuff. And you know it 322 00:15:48.039 --> 00:15:52.440 can't be all positive. It just can't. There's just no way. 323 00:15:52.600 --> 00:15:55.320 Well, and I'm even saying, like in your circle of friends, 324 00:15:55.360 --> 00:15:57.720 all of our circle of friends, I would say probably 325 00:15:57.919 --> 00:16:00.399 my perception is that at least seventy percent of my 326 00:16:00.480 --> 00:16:03.559 friends have a really good family life, like things are good? 327 00:16:03.919 --> 00:16:05.840 Right? Is that? Do you think that I'm wrong about that? 328 00:16:06.320 --> 00:16:06.519 Well? 329 00:16:06.519 --> 00:16:10.440 What's your definition of good? I mean, not like your 330 00:16:10.480 --> 00:16:12.840 marriage is on the rocks. Yeah, not the marriages on 331 00:16:12.879 --> 00:16:15.879 the rocks. The kids are being neglected or or like 332 00:16:16.039 --> 00:16:16.559 out of line. 333 00:16:16.679 --> 00:16:18.279 It may not be easy but it's good. 334 00:16:18.440 --> 00:16:21.799 Yes, Okay, yeah, I don't know about seventy percent, but 335 00:16:21.960 --> 00:16:23.840 I mean cause I think I think people would be 336 00:16:25.000 --> 00:16:27.399 They're less likely to share with you the information that 337 00:16:27.440 --> 00:16:29.240 would make you think that it is not so good. 338 00:16:29.279 --> 00:16:31.720 And that's a great because I've made this joke recently. 339 00:16:31.720 --> 00:16:33.399 I was hanging out with people and I'm not good 340 00:16:33.440 --> 00:16:35.799 at that. Like I say everything like I don't. I 341 00:16:35.799 --> 00:16:37.639 don't I say the things I mess up. I say 342 00:16:37.639 --> 00:16:38.360 the things. 343 00:16:38.080 --> 00:16:40.799 That I succeed at. I don't. People tell me all 344 00:16:40.840 --> 00:16:42.759 the time, Like, that's probably something you shouldn't. 345 00:16:42.360 --> 00:16:42.720 Be telling you. 346 00:16:44.919 --> 00:16:46.080 I'm glad you come in here and do it. 347 00:16:46.120 --> 00:16:46.480 Everyone. 348 00:16:48.000 --> 00:16:50.759 Let's talk about emotional well, which one do you want? 349 00:16:50.799 --> 00:16:54.600 You want a hardest age or let's talk about emotional emotional. 350 00:16:54.159 --> 00:16:58.320 Regulation the emotional So what they found is that the 351 00:16:59.039 --> 00:17:01.759 common factor or the best way or the parent who 352 00:17:01.759 --> 00:17:04.400 has the most impact on a kid who can regulate 353 00:17:04.400 --> 00:17:07.640 their emotions is a father, because fathers are prone to 354 00:17:08.119 --> 00:17:10.480 like they use the example of rough house, like rough 355 00:17:10.480 --> 00:17:14.119 housing while while you're wrestling with your kid and you 356 00:17:14.119 --> 00:17:16.480 have a smile on their face and they feel like 357 00:17:16.480 --> 00:17:19.039 they're doing stuff that's rough, but they never get hurt. Right, 358 00:17:19.559 --> 00:17:21.519 that that teaches them to kind of deal with a 359 00:17:21.519 --> 00:17:24.759 little bit of anxiety. And dads are also prone to 360 00:17:24.839 --> 00:17:27.319 like push their kids to more risky situations. 361 00:17:27.519 --> 00:17:27.759 Right. 362 00:17:29.920 --> 00:17:33.240 As an example, my kids used to jump on our 363 00:17:33.240 --> 00:17:35.720 bed and we would do a pillow fight. Yeah, many 364 00:17:35.759 --> 00:17:39.279 many days, many many days out of the week. And 365 00:17:39.319 --> 00:17:44.839 the rule was the first person who cries the first cry. Yeah, 366 00:17:45.000 --> 00:17:48.599 game's over, games over all things shuts down and kick. 367 00:17:48.960 --> 00:17:52.000 Out of those kids start out fun and funny and like, 368 00:17:52.079 --> 00:17:56.519 you know, push them over and get old like yeah, 369 00:17:56.559 --> 00:18:00.880 somewhere in that in that vein, but not eighteen No, No, 370 00:18:00.960 --> 00:18:01.680 we tried that once. 371 00:18:01.759 --> 00:18:03.279 It didn't worry. 372 00:18:03.319 --> 00:18:07.319 You cried, But there was a time when I would 373 00:18:07.400 --> 00:18:09.640 ramp up, you know, you'd get it, and then there 374 00:18:09.680 --> 00:18:11.599 was like, this is going to go on forever unless 375 00:18:11.599 --> 00:18:12.599 one of these guys cry. 376 00:18:12.680 --> 00:18:14.400 So I just rare back and what. 377 00:18:14.359 --> 00:18:16.359 Am throw a kid against a wall? 378 00:18:16.480 --> 00:18:16.640 No? 379 00:18:16.759 --> 00:18:17.599 I never did that. 380 00:18:17.640 --> 00:18:20.240 I would just knock him off the bed because that 381 00:18:20.640 --> 00:18:22.240 at least the floors carpeted. 382 00:18:22.599 --> 00:18:23.640 You would purpose. 383 00:18:25.960 --> 00:18:28.640 What I'm hearing is you would purposefully make your children cry. 384 00:18:28.839 --> 00:18:31.559 Yeah, that's what a father does, Shannon. 385 00:18:32.160 --> 00:18:34.319 Hello, Yeah, I'm regulating their emotions. 386 00:18:34.359 --> 00:18:37.079 Interesting else is teaching them. 387 00:18:37.000 --> 00:18:39.920 To deal with the negative experience, which that's to me 388 00:18:40.319 --> 00:18:43.000 is I really can resonate with that. Like I really 389 00:18:43.039 --> 00:18:45.279 think that that's what dads do. 390 00:18:45.400 --> 00:18:47.920 Is that this whole I left all the corporal punishment 391 00:18:48.000 --> 00:18:48.720 up to my brother. 392 00:18:48.839 --> 00:18:51.480 I think, oh what they outsourced. 393 00:18:51.079 --> 00:18:53.359 It in terms of being thrown against a wall and 394 00:18:53.359 --> 00:18:55.359 things like that pillow fight, stuff like that. 395 00:18:56.079 --> 00:18:57.039 He do that to you? 396 00:18:57.160 --> 00:19:00.240 Oh yeah, but your dad wasn't a guy who would 397 00:19:00.240 --> 00:19:02.319 wrestle or do any now, but what do he make 398 00:19:02.359 --> 00:19:05.440 you do? Like kind of scary things like, I don't know, 399 00:19:05.480 --> 00:19:06.640 go out on a fishing boat. 400 00:19:06.519 --> 00:19:08.000 Or something something that makes you go You wouldn't know 401 00:19:08.000 --> 00:19:09.119