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<v Speaker 1>Tiffany and Cromwell is on the line. Tiffany, tell me

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<v Speaker 1>about this day you had with Evan.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so we went and played mini golf and then

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<v Speaker 2>we went out to dinner. There was definitely a connection,

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<v Speaker 2>like we had fun and we even talked the next day.

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<v Speaker 2>I called him, Oh, okay, thank him, and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>but he sounded a little cold on the phone. He

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<v Speaker 2>was being a little weird and distant, and he was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, give you a call s to set up

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<v Speaker 2>another day because you know, they don't know my schedule

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<v Speaker 2>right And now it's been three weeks and it's just

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like, was he a word all about it.

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<v Speaker 1>When you called him? Do you know if he was

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<v Speaker 1>at work or something it just couldn't take the call.

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<v Speaker 2>Good question, Yeah, good question. I actually don't know. I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't even think about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so that could be it. But three weeks, Jeff,

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<v Speaker 1>a guy taking three weeks.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>When you you kind of glazed over a mini golf?

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<v Speaker 4>Were you like super competitive at mini golf? Did you

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<v Speaker 4>like beat him? Did you rub it in his face?

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<v Speaker 4>Like sometimes that can be a huge for guys.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I did win? So maybe that I'm

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<v Speaker 2>masculated him. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I know it doesn't sound like a big deal, but

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<v Speaker 4>to a guy, it is a big deal.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, and my husband must be we're so.

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<v Speaker 2>Competitive life a couple of times he okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, then there's a couple of reasons this could be happening.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very interested to find out.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>We're just gonna let's just jump right in. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>put you on hold. We're gonna call up Evan. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna ask him about the date. I'm gonna ask him

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<v Speaker 1>just to be honest and tell us why he is

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<v Speaker 1>ghosting you. Are you ready for the answer.

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<v Speaker 5>Though, Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, I mean, what do I have to lose?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I wonder why those so.

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I will give a credit.

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<v Speaker 6>I think after like week one, after being ghosted, I

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<v Speaker 6>would have just like completely given up deuces.

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<v Speaker 2>Hif or your name and reason for calling, I'll see

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<v Speaker 2>if this person is available.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh, Courtney, Hi is Evan there? Hi Evan, It's Courtney.

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<v Speaker 4>Evan, It's Walmart. Jeff.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's Savanna, and you're on the radio. We're calling

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<v Speaker 1>from Kiss ninety five to seven this morning.

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<v Speaker 5>Good morning, Evan, Good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I want to tell you why we're calling you

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<v Speaker 1>because you're on second date update. Oh great, okay, all, well,

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully having you know what it's about. Second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>You get ghosted after first date and we try to

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<v Speaker 1>get the answers. I will tell you. Tiffany, who sounds lovely,

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<v Speaker 1>called us. She said, you guys played mini golf, you

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<v Speaker 1>went to dinner. She felt a connection. She actually says

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<v Speaker 1>she talked to you. She called you on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>to thank you for the date, and did talk to you,

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<v Speaker 1>and you said you were going to call her back.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's been three weeks.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean there's a couple of hiccups in net plan.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so is there a particular reason has been three

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<v Speaker 1>weeks and she's getting ghosted?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, from my perspective, you know, we went to

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<v Speaker 5>mini golf and it was fine. I was great. Afterwards,

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<v Speaker 5>we went to my favorite steakhouse and she's she's vegan,

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<v Speaker 5>so the media red flag for me, But like I

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<v Speaker 5>was really honestly looking forward to getting a rabbi, and

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<v Speaker 5>she insisted that since she's vegan, that I respect respect

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<v Speaker 5>her and don't eat steak in front of her.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh hell no, no, no, I would have left.

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<v Speaker 1>I would have got up and left her right then

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<v Speaker 1>in the ass.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't want to to eat a salad, eat a

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<v Speaker 3>salad at a steakhouse? Yeah, Like I was like sitting

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<v Speaker 3>there wondering if I had, if I was allowed to

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<v Speaker 3>get blue cheese on my wedge salad. Like, I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>what what do I what?

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<v Speaker 5>What? What can I eat? What can't I? I'm not

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<v Speaker 5>vegan in any way, shape or form, Like I take

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<v Speaker 5>my steak's medium rare. I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>It's too for a meat and potatoes guy. That's too much?

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<v Speaker 1>Can I just bring it wrong? Because are you? Are you,

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<v Speaker 1>dear Tiffany?

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<v Speaker 2>I am? I am? I was just listening. I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to see how far he was gonna go with it, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just I'm totally put off by this because I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to slaughter animals. I'm not like, oh god,

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<v Speaker 2>an okay, person, Like.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, like that's your personal life choice. You're gonna sit

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<v Speaker 5>here and impose them on me on our first date.

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<v Speaker 2>I I you could have actually what I liked or

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<v Speaker 2>where I wanted to go or anything you asked me out?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So you are definitely like a a really

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<v Speaker 1>strong vegan like you don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Even since I was a kid, I love animals. I

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<v Speaker 2>grew up breathing them. I have a connection with them.

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<v Speaker 2>I just I can't. I can't do it, so ware

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<v Speaker 2>absolutely can't, and it makes me super sad, like so sad.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, okay, so like here's here's my thing. There's lots

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<v Speaker 6>of great vegan places. But I think it's great what

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<v Speaker 6>you're doing. I think it's it's fabulous, it's noble. But

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<v Speaker 6>I I don't know that you get to tell other people.

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<v Speaker 1>How to, she asked him, respectfully, would.

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<v Speaker 2>You not I'm supposed to kiss this guy or have

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<v Speaker 2>something to do with him later in the night and

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<v Speaker 2>like get to know him and be close with him,

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<v Speaker 2>and he just reeks of dead animals? Like how am

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<v Speaker 2>I ever supposed to be turned off?

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<v Speaker 3>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>How is that supposed to do anything for me?

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<v Speaker 5>I was gonna say, I love a good steak, like I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>An animal lover too.

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<v Speaker 5>I adopted a dog, I have three cats, like I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, yeah, okay, but would you eat your cat?

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<v Speaker 5>Whoa my cat?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? So how is that different?

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<v Speaker 1>If necessary? He says, if necessary? Okay, my stomachs. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here's the thing I guess it's safe to say. You

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<v Speaker 1>know now why Tiffany, he was ghosting you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and it's absolutely ridiculous. I can date a meat either.

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<v Speaker 2>I just really didn't want to go to a steakhouse

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<v Speaker 2>on their first date and have somebody like try to

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<v Speaker 2>foresheet me me and then like weird about it.

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<v Speaker 5>It was just okay, yeah, but can can Can I

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<v Speaker 5>date a vegan?

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<v Speaker 1>No? Listen, I respect both of you and both of

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<v Speaker 1>your views, and it's there's not going to be another date.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just I appreciate you calling us, Tiffany and Evan.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate you being honest and letting us know why

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<v Speaker 1>you were doing the ghosting.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, without doubt,