Speaker 1: C K and Carmen.
Speaker 2: He's been ninety five friends nos, home for hip hop
Speaker 2: and hits. You know, when somebody ghosts on you, we
Speaker 2: do our job to figure out why they ghosted it
Speaker 2: and hopefully make a second date happen.
Speaker 1: Be ninety five? What's up?
Speaker 3: Hey?
Speaker 4: How are you guys doing all right?
Speaker 1: So?
Speaker 2: Second date up date? You kind of want to hang
Speaker 2: out with Chris? What's going on?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: So exactly, I kind of want to hang out with
Speaker 3: Chris and he's not getting back to me and I'm
Speaker 3: just hell confused.
Speaker 2: So so tell us a little bit about Chris, what's
Speaker 2: going on and why you're a little bit confused.
Speaker 1: Sure.
Speaker 3: So it's super random, but we actually met at a
Speaker 3: speed dating pussion.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, I've just.
Speaker 3: Been trying a bunch of different things and was like
Speaker 3: why not and was super.
Speaker 4: Surprised when it actually worked.
Speaker 3: Okay, it's really chill and cool, and we decided to
Speaker 3: go on up like an official first date.
Speaker 1: Uh huh.
Speaker 3: I do want to say though, that I've been singled
Speaker 3: for a bit now. I broke up with my ex
Speaker 3: and this like stretch of being single has been driving
Speaker 3: me crazy.
Speaker 1: Uh huh.
Speaker 3: Chris seemed really cool, and I don't know. I just
Speaker 3: I also want to say, we were like two seconds
Speaker 3: away from having sex at one point, and he didn't
Speaker 3: have a condom, So.
Speaker 2: Wait, wait, wait, wait, you guys had a good first date, obviously,
Speaker 2: so good that you guys ended up going back to
Speaker 2: your place or his place and then you know you
Speaker 2: was about rated to get it in.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Sorry, that does sound like the escalated qrit. It was
Speaker 3: a long date, but yes, yes, but so that's the
Speaker 3: only thing is like, it was obviously good enough, right,
Speaker 3: But that's the one thing that I keep getting caught
Speaker 3: up on is like maybe because we weren't able to
Speaker 3: have sex, but that's not cool. So I don't know.
Speaker 2: Okay, I see what you're saying, and you're like, if
Speaker 2: that was the end all, be all. I mean, it's
Speaker 2: kind of like it takes two to tango. You didn't
Speaker 2: have a condom, he didn't have a condom. He shouldn't
Speaker 2: be so upset with that, I would hope not. I mean,
Speaker 2: you're both doing the right things first time, y'all hooking up.
Speaker 2: You guys are having a great first date. You want
Speaker 2: to make sure that it's protected, all that good.
Speaker 3: Stuff exactly exactly, and so the fact that I mean,
Speaker 3: I think at the end of the day it was like, well,
Speaker 3: we definitely want to get together again so that we
Speaker 3: can finish what we started, and I just haven't heard anything.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, Well here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna
Speaker 2: get Chris on the phone. We're gonna see if we
Speaker 2: can make a second date to reality and see what
Speaker 2: happened and why he just kind of abruptly cut you off,
Speaker 2: because I mean, it seemed like everything was going extremely
Speaker 2: well and then out of nowhere, Chris just disappeared on
Speaker 2: you exactly.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it'd be awesome.
Speaker 2: So what is Chris gonna say? You're gonna find out next.
Speaker 2: Here we are inside a second date update see Kan
Speaker 2: Carmen is BE ninety five. So we were able to
Speaker 2: track down Chris second date update see King Carmen BE
Speaker 2: ninety five, got to figure out why he ghosted.
Speaker 1: I mean, things went so.
Speaker 2: Well they almost got it in on the first day,
Speaker 2: just saying I believe he's on the phone.
Speaker 1: Hey, what's up, Chris? How you doing? It's c K
Speaker 1: and Carmen from BE ninety five.
Speaker 4: Good morning, what's up guys, how you doing?
Speaker 1: What's up? Man.
Speaker 2: All right, So we're calling because we do this thing
Speaker 2: called a second date update.
Speaker 1: And before we go any further, I have to have your.
Speaker 2: Permission to continue this conversation on the radio.
Speaker 1: Are you good with that?
Speaker 3: Uh?
Speaker 4: Yes, I do permission.
Speaker 1: I love it, all right.
Speaker 2: So, Chris, you recently went on a date with someone,
Speaker 2: had a good time, you know, so good of a
Speaker 2: time you guys almost you know, did a little something something,
Speaker 2: but didn't have a condom. Do you have any idea
Speaker 2: of who I might be calling about?
Speaker 4: Huh yeah, you probably calling about Carmela, aren't you.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes.
Speaker 2: So with that being said, I'm curious to know what
Speaker 2: you thought of Carmela and how that first date went
Speaker 2: from your perspective.
Speaker 4: Yeah, this chick has reed boyfriend's name.
Speaker 1: On her like when you say on her like, I mean.
Speaker 4: She's got a tattoo of her ex boyfriend's name on
Speaker 4: her body.
Speaker 2: And so when you saw that, that was kind of
Speaker 2: like the ant can't do this, can't do this?
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, pretty much right away. I you know, I'm
Speaker 4: in of excuse. I was like, oh, I don't have
Speaker 4: a condom, but yeah, when I saw that right away,
Speaker 4: that was a big turnoff. And I'm like, I'm out
Speaker 4: of here. She needs to be with whoever's name is
Speaker 4: written on her.
Speaker 2: Okay, but you understand that people do have ex'es and
Speaker 2: people you know, may have done some crazy things with
Speaker 2: that ex and including getting a tattoo of the name
Speaker 2: on them at some point.
Speaker 1: Is that really a deal breaker? I mean, maybe like
Speaker 1: get like a tattoo remove I don't.
Speaker 4: Know, Yeah, I know, but it's it's always gonna be there.
Speaker 4: It's it's like, uh, and she's the kind of person
Speaker 4: who's gonna tattoo someone's name on it, who it might
Speaker 4: not work out with. It just was a big turnoff.
Speaker 4: It's just it's just a note.
Speaker 2: Well, here's the thing. We have Carmela on the phone
Speaker 2: right now. I'm not sure if you know how the
Speaker 2: second date update works, but Carmela is on the phone,
Speaker 2: and I mean, I gotta let Carmela.
Speaker 1: I mean, you heard him, Carmela. First of all, I
Speaker 1: heard him.
Speaker 3: But I don't understand if you had an issue, you
Speaker 3: could have said something right then and there, like why
Speaker 3: are you now just saying like that's the deal breaker?
Speaker 3: And you literally lied to my faith, Like tell me.
Speaker 4: You have an issue? Well, I mean, I was just
Speaker 4: I was just being polite. You know, I don't really
Speaker 4: know how to how to deal with it, like and
Speaker 4: I mean, am I wrong? Am I wrong?
Speaker 3: Is this?
Speaker 4: Is this a a you know? Is that just it's
Speaker 4: just a word now on your body? Is here? Is
Speaker 4: this is a guy you still like? You still like
Speaker 4: or still have feelings for?
Speaker 3: Yes, I was in a ten year relationship with that dude, okay,
Speaker 3: And so that was a big part of my life.
Speaker 3: And we do still talk from time to time, but
Speaker 3: I'm not interested in being with him.
Speaker 2: And you know what, like I said, when you're in
Speaker 2: a relationship, things happen. Sometimes you do things when you're
Speaker 2: young that you regret when you're older. And I'm sure
Speaker 2: that this is probably one of those things. And I
Speaker 2: know I kind of mentioned this earlier. You never know,
Speaker 2: she could be in the process of getting that tattoo removed, because,
Speaker 2: like I said, when you're young, sometimes you do silly things,
Speaker 2: especially when you're in love.
Speaker 4: Here you, by way, didn't you just say that she's
Speaker 4: still talking to a guy?
Speaker 3: I mean we're civil Yeah, I mean this person was
Speaker 3: a big part of my life. Ten years is a
Speaker 3: long time. It'd be one thing if there was some.
Speaker 4: Dude I gated for a couple of dates. You know, Yeah,
Speaker 4: I mean you see what I'm saying. It's enough for me.
Speaker 3: Well, it's a note for me too, because you're honestly rude.
Speaker 2: I mean, this is kind of an interesting one.
Speaker 1: You know, maybe if you were like, now we have.
Speaker 2: No communication anymore, we don't talk. I can see how
Speaker 2: Chris may say, you know what, she's in the process
Speaker 2: of getting the tattoo removed. She doesn't talk to the guy.
Speaker 2: Everything's all good. I'm down to see where this may go.
Speaker 2: But I mean, I know that you said that it
Speaker 2: was ten years and he's still kind of a part
Speaker 2: of your life. Do you see him always being a
Speaker 2: part of your life? Is that something that you're probably
Speaker 2: never gonna get rid of and you always, at the
Speaker 2: very least remain friends.
Speaker 3: I mean, I can't predict the future. I don't know,
Speaker 3: and I'm not gonna get a tattoo remove It's a
Speaker 3: sensitive area and so I'm just not going to go
Speaker 3: through with the removal.
Speaker 4: That's stupid.
Speaker 1: Well, where is this tattoo?
Speaker 4: It's right next to her.
Speaker 3: For real, you're gonna say that on the radio?
Speaker 4: What the hell? Yeah, if you say that, I'm rude.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell tell the listeners what's what?
Speaker 1: Well, that was.
Speaker 3: An information for you to reveal. It's my body. If
Speaker 3: I wanted to say that, I could have.
Speaker 2: I mean, yes, she's right, I mean, but we kind
Speaker 2: of know where the tattoo is now.
Speaker 1: And yes, that's kind of.
Speaker 2: A sensitive area, in a very personal area in the
Speaker 2: sense that I mean maybe as a guy, if you're
Speaker 2: like I'm about to you know, possibly, you know, make
Speaker 2: love to this person, that's probably not the last thing
Speaker 2: you want to see before you get intimate.
Speaker 3: Maybe that sounds like insecurity to me. If you could
Speaker 3: be yes, secure in yourself and you can't deal with that, then.
Speaker 2: Right are You can also look at it like, well
Speaker 2: he's lost my game.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess I need to find good, but I
Speaker 4: don't want to be reminded of it every time. So
Speaker 4: you're going to keep a picture of them around nothing
Speaker 4: you issue?
Speaker 3: This all sounds like you, Chris.
Speaker 4: This is a you issue.
Speaker 3: So I'm going to find someone who's secure and doesn't
Speaker 3: lie to me.
Speaker 1: Not good that a hymnist, I understand.
Speaker 2: I can see quickly that this is not going to
Speaker 2: go in the direction of a possible second date. So
Speaker 2: I mean, I appreciate you coming on and being honest. Carmela.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry that we couldn't make a second date happen
Speaker 2: today and hopefully you got the answers that you need
Speaker 2: and you feel like, man, it's time to move on
Speaker 2: and find someone other than Chris.
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is a blessing, So thank you.
Speaker 1: So there you go this morning.
Speaker 2: Second date update, c K and Carmen has been ninety
Speaker 2: five Presnos Home for Hip Hop and Ince