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<v Speaker 1>C K and Carmen.

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<v Speaker 2>He's been ninety five friends nos, home for hip hop

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<v Speaker 2>and hits. You know, when somebody ghosts on you, we

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<v Speaker 2>do our job to figure out why they ghosted it

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<v Speaker 2>and hopefully make a second date happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Be ninety five? What's up?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey?

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<v Speaker 4>How are you guys doing all right?

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<v Speaker 1>So?

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<v Speaker 2>Second date up date? You kind of want to hang

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<v Speaker 2>out with Chris? What's going on?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>So exactly, I kind of want to hang out with

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<v Speaker 3>Chris and he's not getting back to me and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>just hell confused.

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<v Speaker 2>So so tell us a little bit about Chris, what's

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<v Speaker 2>going on and why you're a little bit confused.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's super random, but we actually met at a

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<v Speaker 3>speed dating pussion.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, I've just.

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<v Speaker 3>Been trying a bunch of different things and was like

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<v Speaker 3>why not and was super.

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<v Speaker 4>Surprised when it actually worked.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, it's really chill and cool, and we decided to

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<v Speaker 3>go on up like an official first date.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh huh.

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<v Speaker 3>I do want to say though, that I've been singled

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<v Speaker 3>for a bit now. I broke up with my ex

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<v Speaker 3>and this like stretch of being single has been driving

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<v Speaker 3>me crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh huh.

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<v Speaker 3>Chris seemed really cool, and I don't know. I just

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<v Speaker 3>I also want to say, we were like two seconds

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<v Speaker 3>away from having sex at one point, and he didn't

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<v Speaker 3>have a condom, So.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, wait, wait, wait, you guys had a good first date, obviously,

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<v Speaker 2>so good that you guys ended up going back to

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<v Speaker 2>your place or his place and then you know you

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<v Speaker 2>was about rated to get it in.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, that does sound like the escalated qrit. It was

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<v Speaker 3>a long date, but yes, yes, but so that's the

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<v Speaker 3>only thing is like, it was obviously good enough, right,

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<v Speaker 3>But that's the one thing that I keep getting caught

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<v Speaker 3>up on is like maybe because we weren't able to

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<v Speaker 3>have sex, but that's not cool. So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I see what you're saying, and you're like, if

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<v Speaker 2>that was the end all, be all. I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 2>kind of like it takes two to tango. You didn't

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<v Speaker 2>have a condom, he didn't have a condom. He shouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>be so upset with that, I would hope not. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>you're both doing the right things first time, y'all hooking up.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys are having a great first date. You want

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<v Speaker 2>to make sure that it's protected, all that good.

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<v Speaker 3>Stuff exactly exactly, and so the fact that I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I think at the end of the day it was like, well,

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<v Speaker 3>we definitely want to get together again so that we

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<v Speaker 3>can finish what we started, and I just haven't heard anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, Well here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>get Chris on the phone. We're gonna see if we

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<v Speaker 2>can make a second date to reality and see what

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<v Speaker 2>happened and why he just kind of abruptly cut you off,

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<v Speaker 2>because I mean, it seemed like everything was going extremely

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<v Speaker 2>well and then out of nowhere, Chris just disappeared on

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<v Speaker 2>you exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it'd be awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>So what is Chris gonna say? You're gonna find out next.

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<v Speaker 2>Here we are inside a second date update see Kan

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<v Speaker 2>Carmen is BE ninety five. So we were able to

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<v Speaker 2>track down Chris second date update see King Carmen BE

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<v Speaker 2>ninety five, got to figure out why he ghosted.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, things went so.

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<v Speaker 2>Well they almost got it in on the first day,

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<v Speaker 2>just saying I believe he's on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, what's up, Chris? How you doing? It's c K

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<v Speaker 1>and Carmen from BE ninety five.

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<v Speaker 4>Good morning, what's up guys, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? Man.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So we're calling because we do this thing

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<v Speaker 2>called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>And before we go any further, I have to have your.

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<v Speaker 2>Permission to continue this conversation on the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you good with that?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I do permission.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>So, Chris, you recently went on a date with someone,

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<v Speaker 2>had a good time, you know, so good of a

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<v Speaker 2>time you guys almost you know, did a little something something,

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<v Speaker 2>but didn't have a condom. Do you have any idea

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<v Speaker 2>of who I might be calling about?

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<v Speaker 4>Huh yeah, you probably calling about Carmela, aren't you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes, yes.

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<v Speaker 2>So with that being said, I'm curious to know what

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<v Speaker 2>you thought of Carmela and how that first date went

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<v Speaker 2>from your perspective.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, this chick has reed boyfriend's name.

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<v Speaker 1>On her like when you say on her like, I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>She's got a tattoo of her ex boyfriend's name on

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<v Speaker 4>her body.

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<v Speaker 2>And so when you saw that, that was kind of

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<v Speaker 2>like the ant can't do this, can't do this?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, pretty much right away. I you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>in of excuse. I was like, oh, I don't have

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<v Speaker 4>a condom, but yeah, when I saw that right away,

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<v Speaker 4>that was a big turnoff. And I'm like, I'm out

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<v Speaker 4>of here. She needs to be with whoever's name is

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<v Speaker 4>written on her.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but you understand that people do have ex'es and

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<v Speaker 2>people you know, may have done some crazy things with

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<v Speaker 2>that ex and including getting a tattoo of the name

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<v Speaker 2>on them at some point.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that really a deal breaker? I mean, maybe like

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<v Speaker 1>get like a tattoo remove I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>Know, Yeah, I know, but it's it's always gonna be there.

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<v Speaker 4>It's it's like, uh, and she's the kind of person

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<v Speaker 4>who's gonna tattoo someone's name on it, who it might

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<v Speaker 4>not work out with. It just was a big turnoff.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just it's just a note.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, here's the thing. We have Carmela on the phone

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<v Speaker 2>right now. I'm not sure if you know how the

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<v Speaker 2>second date update works, but Carmela is on the phone,

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<v Speaker 2>and I mean, I gotta let Carmela.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you heard him, Carmela. First of all, I

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<v Speaker 1>heard him.

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<v Speaker 3>But I don't understand if you had an issue, you

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<v Speaker 3>could have said something right then and there, like why

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<v Speaker 3>are you now just saying like that's the deal breaker?

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<v Speaker 3>And you literally lied to my faith, Like tell me.

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<v Speaker 4>You have an issue? Well, I mean, I was just

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<v Speaker 4>I was just being polite. You know, I don't really

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<v Speaker 4>know how to how to deal with it, like and

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, am I wrong? Am I wrong?

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<v Speaker 3>Is this?

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<v Speaker 4>Is this a a you know? Is that just it's

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<v Speaker 4>just a word now on your body? Is here? Is

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<v Speaker 4>this is a guy you still like? You still like

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<v Speaker 4>or still have feelings for?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I was in a ten year relationship with that dude, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>And so that was a big part of my life.

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<v Speaker 3>And we do still talk from time to time, but

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not interested in being with him.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know what, like I said, when you're in

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<v Speaker 2>a relationship, things happen. Sometimes you do things when you're

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<v Speaker 2>young that you regret when you're older. And I'm sure

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<v Speaker 2>that this is probably one of those things. And I

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<v Speaker 2>know I kind of mentioned this earlier. You never know,

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<v Speaker 2>she could be in the process of getting that tattoo removed, because,

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<v Speaker 2>like I said, when you're young, sometimes you do silly things,

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<v Speaker 2>especially when you're in love.

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<v Speaker 4>Here you, by way, didn't you just say that she's

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<v Speaker 4>still talking to a guy?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean we're civil Yeah, I mean this person was

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<v Speaker 3>a big part of my life. Ten years is a

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<v Speaker 3>long time. It'd be one thing if there was some.

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<v Speaker 4>Dude I gated for a couple of dates. You know, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I mean you see what I'm saying. It's enough for me.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it's a note for me too, because you're honestly rude.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, this is kind of an interesting one.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, maybe if you were like, now we have.

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<v Speaker 2>No communication anymore, we don't talk. I can see how

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<v Speaker 2>Chris may say, you know what, she's in the process

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<v Speaker 2>of getting the tattoo removed. She doesn't talk to the guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Everything's all good. I'm down to see where this may go.

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<v Speaker 2>But I mean, I know that you said that it

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<v Speaker 2>was ten years and he's still kind of a part

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<v Speaker 2>of your life. Do you see him always being a

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<v Speaker 2>part of your life? Is that something that you're probably

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<v Speaker 2>never gonna get rid of and you always, at the

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<v Speaker 2>very least remain friends.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I can't predict the future. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm not gonna get a tattoo remove It's a

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<v Speaker 3>sensitive area and so I'm just not going to go

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<v Speaker 3>through with the removal.

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<v Speaker 4>That's stupid.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, where is this tattoo?

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<v Speaker 4>It's right next to her.

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<v Speaker 3>For real, you're gonna say that on the radio?

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<v Speaker 4>What the hell? Yeah, if you say that, I'm rude.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna tell tell the listeners what's what?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that was.

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<v Speaker 3>An information for you to reveal. It's my body. If

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to say that, I could have.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, yes, she's right, I mean, but we kind

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<v Speaker 2>of know where the tattoo is now.

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<v Speaker 1>And yes, that's kind of.

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<v Speaker 2>A sensitive area, in a very personal area in the

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<v Speaker 2>sense that I mean maybe as a guy, if you're

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm about to you know, possibly, you know, make

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<v Speaker 2>love to this person, that's probably not the last thing

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<v Speaker 2>you want to see before you get intimate.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe that sounds like insecurity to me. If you could

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<v Speaker 3>be yes, secure in yourself and you can't deal with that, then.

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<v Speaker 2>Right are You can also look at it like, well

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<v Speaker 2>he's lost my game.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I guess I need to find good, but I

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<v Speaker 4>don't want to be reminded of it every time. So

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<v Speaker 4>you're going to keep a picture of them around nothing

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<v Speaker 4>you issue?

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<v Speaker 3>This all sounds like you, Chris.

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<v Speaker 4>This is a you issue.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm going to find someone who's secure and doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>lie to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Not good that a hymnist, I understand.

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<v Speaker 2>I can see quickly that this is not going to

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<v Speaker 2>go in the direction of a possible second date. So

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I appreciate you coming on and being honest. Carmela.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry that we couldn't make a second date happen

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<v Speaker 2>today and hopefully you got the answers that you need

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<v Speaker 2>and you feel like, man, it's time to move on

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<v Speaker 2>and find someone other than Chris.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, this is a blessing, So thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>So there you go this morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Second date update, c K and Carmen has been ninety

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<v Speaker 2>five Presnos Home for Hip Hop and Ince