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Speaker 1: I've been blessed with the opportunity to share conversations with

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each and every person who has appeared on NBC's The

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Voice from twenty sixteen to this present day. We now

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have it all on one podcast, that Voice. It's on

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Arrow dot net a R r Oe dot Net.

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Speaker 2: I like asking questions, and the reason why is because

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the fund begins when you start researching for answers such

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as the importance of outreaching? Are we even doing it right?

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Are we enabling takers to grab even more plus outreach

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versus hoarding? Who decides when it's too much? My name

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is Arrow. I'm a daily writer, a silent wolf. I

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stand on the sidelines and do nothing but watch, listen, study,

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then activate. I happen to call it the daily mess,

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a chronological walk through an everyday world. Yeah, it's my

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morning writing as a receiver of thoughts and ideas. We

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as people tend to throw things to the side because

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we think we're going to deal with it later on. Well,

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when a subject hits me, I know it it's time

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to dig in. It's still keeping that daily journal, but

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by doing the research, the picture becomes clearer. This is

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the daily Mess, more than ever places of worship are

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geared up and pushing forward. The importance of doing this

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thing called outreaching, But are we even doing it right?

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Is it really based on having the right amount of

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time to give? Well, let's be very clear about one thing.

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Right from the very beginning. Outreaching is not based or

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measured by the number of ticks on a clock. The

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true calling is making sure that you show up, connecting,

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offering support, Being right here, right now with an intention.

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Giving a project two hours of your time is looked

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upon as being meaningful. In fact, one person of community

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support says, one to two hours of hard work and

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dedication to your community is far greater than showing up

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for ten hours and all you did was stand around.

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A couple of hours can encourage someone who is struggling.

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It builds trust, offers relief and support. Plus at plants

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a seed that will grow later. A very important message

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about outreaching is about creating an impact, not trying to

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impress another. With an act of duration coming up next,

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what should you give when you're outreaching? There are things

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that people are just throwing away. Hey, welcome back to

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the daily mess. The subject outreaching. Oh and it can

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sometimes mean receiving physical things that you do not want.

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It is very human to gather as much as you

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can before it runs out. Well, how much of what's

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been outreached has ended up in the trash or it's

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the perfect example of hoarding. Does what we give actually matter?

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Here's what the research says. A lot of items given

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in the name of love become clutter or a waste

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of space in another person's life. A complete list of

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what receivers are tossing out and ignoring. Pins you know,

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writing instruments, they don't want them, key chains and other trinkets.

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Stop wasting your staples and ink, creating flyers and pamphlets.

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They're not reading it. It's a waste of time and money.

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And T shirts forget it. It's not top shelf items

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for those seeking help. They aren't wearing the T shirt

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that you so lovingly shared. Another place to look into

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are single use items. Studies show outreaching is good for

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the soul, but the receiver has no need for single

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item uses. As for throwing stuff out, bite your tongue

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and don't let the poison really get into your effort. Here,

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what you are giving away does become hoarding material The

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receiver doesn't want to disrespect the giver, so they put

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it in a box and they shove it into a corner.

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Yuph i'm rrow. And that's the daily mess.