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Speaker 1: Second date. Update time, we're going to Manchester. Cody's on

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the line. Good morning, Cody.

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Speaker 2: Hey guys, it's.

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Speaker 3: Good, great, fabulous.

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Speaker 1: Well, obviously you're getting ghosted after a great first date

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and you want some answers. I hope we can help

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you out. Tell us about this great first date you

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went on.

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, I went out with Aaron and we

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had some cocktails in Hartford nice and in the afternoon

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it was I thought it was great and we had

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a lot in common. You know, she loves the paths,

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I love the paths. She loved the beach.

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Speaker 4: We both have family in New York.

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Speaker 3: WHOA, that's a lot in common. Only cow.

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Speaker 1: Okay, did you feel like there was flirting?

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Speaker 3: Like, were you like physically attracted to each other?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I mean I felt that.

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Speaker 3: Okay. So did you pay for the date?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 6: Okay, So after doing cocktails, that's kind of a tough one.

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Did it seem like she was like maybe in a

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rush to get somewhere afterwards or did the date just

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kind of go smoothly and just end on its own.

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Speaker 2: No, it went smoothly and we went to the park afterward.

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So or anything, you.

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Speaker 1: Walk through Bushnell Park in the snow a romantic That

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is it actually really romantic?

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Speaker 3: So I take it you've reached out to her and

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she's not responded. Is that it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, she's just like ghostings. She's all texting me back.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well listen, we're just going to give

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her a call. Cody, you're going to be listening in

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at any point. If you want to talk to Aaron,

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you can talk to her. We're just I'm going to

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ask her to be honest and tell us how she

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thought the date went. Okay, maybe she thought Bushnell Park

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was creepy like lake.

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Speaker 3: It's first date. You're walking in a park, I'd be scared. Well,

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he said that they got flirty. Maybe he was a

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little too flirty for her, liking maybe Hello, Hey, is

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erin there?

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Speaker 5: Hi?

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Speaker 3: Hey Aaron, it's.

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Speaker 6: Courtney, Aaron, it's Walmart chef.

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Speaker 3: Heyar and Savannah.

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Speaker 1: We're calling from KIS ninety five seven. You're on the

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radio this morning, Eron.

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Speaker 3: Oh Hi, Hey, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: You're on second Date Update. Hopefully you've heard of it.

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You go on a first date, you get ghosted, we

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get answers. Yes, Erin, we're calling you because Cody reached

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out to us. Yes, he said, he had a fabulous

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date with you. You both have friends, friends in common in

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New York or something.

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Speaker 6: Family in New York, sports teams.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you just have a lot in common, he said.

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There was flirting on the date. Uh, you're attract He's

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attracted to you.

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Speaker 6: He said.

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Speaker 1: You guys even went for a walk through Bushnell Park

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in the snow after the date.

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Speaker 2: Is there?

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Speaker 3: Tell us about the date? You know your story?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, so you're right, we do have a lot

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in common. That's true. And he was really nice until

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we did decide over to go to Bushnell Park and

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we built a snowmap.

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Speaker 3: And like, oh my god, I wait a minute.

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Speaker 1: You have afternoon cocktails, take a walk through Bushnell Park.

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Speaker 3: You build a shit snoman. Okay, I'm waiting.

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Speaker 5: Wait. So I made a cute little snowman, and Cody

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decided he was going to make a giant like male

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body part. You know which one I'm talking about next

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to my cute little snowman. Okay, when he was like

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making dirty jokes and acting like a twelve year old,

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and it was like.

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Speaker 3: Okay, real, sorry, so male private parts.

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Speaker 1: He built a giant male private part next to your

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cute snowman. Yep, yep, why why I don't understand. I

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don't know, Okay, and this is the main reason you're

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ghosting them.

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Speaker 5: Yes, there was such a turnoff, like, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Can we bring him on?

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Speaker 6: Cody?

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Speaker 3: Do we have to? Cody? Are you there?

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Speaker 4: It was come on, Aaron, oh man, and I made

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some balls. What's the problems.

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Speaker 6: Yet?

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry, I am not interested in dating a middle schooler.

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Speaker 4: So a middle schooler, why not? Man?

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Speaker 5: I just don't think that's funny.

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Speaker 3: So Cody, Cody, Aaron was complete.

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Speaker 1: She got the ick, she got the ick when you

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did the giant But I mean you were just doing

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it for fun, to be funny or like it's not funny.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, you.

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Speaker 4: Know, I was just inspired. You know, she's like, oh,

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she's making a snow man and it's so wholesome. Let me, uh,

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you know, could let me just oppose that with some

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with some dirty humor. Come on, it's not it's not

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like that.

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Speaker 2: I'm not drawing those like on you or anything, or.

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Speaker 1: Savannah's horrified by it. It doesn't bother me. Listen to me,

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Listen to me. There's two things girls, don't want in

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life picks or in the snow. Okay, I'm sorry, Okay,

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I'm just gonna say it. I don't mind a good snow.

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I mean, maybe not on a first date.

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Speaker 3: Is this anything?

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Speaker 6: Listen?

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Speaker 4: We usually a second date.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm just saying, listen, Cody, I feel like an

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erin if you thought the date before the snow, if

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you thought that part of the date was like fun

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and funny and you had a lot in common, I

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would my advice would be given another try.

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Speaker 3: But if you were, yeah, go ahead.

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Speaker 5: Sorry, I just i've been I've been into the dating

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scene for a minute, and I just okay, I don't know.

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I'm not interested. Like that's fair, that's not dirty humor,

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it's not my thing.

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Speaker 2: And like, okay, Courtney, you don't seem terribly upset by this,

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do you want to go out?

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Speaker 4: Sometimes?

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Speaker 1: I don't listen, Courtney, it doesn't mean I need to

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go on date. I think you're probably a nice guy.

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Cody just I'm gonna have to pass on that one.

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But so so that's a definite no, Aaron, you don't

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even want to try another date?

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Speaker 3: You're good?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, Okay, I'm sorry, I.

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Speaker 6: Mean he's trying to pick up other women in.

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Speaker 2: Front of him, literally no time.

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Speaker 1: All right, well Cody got his answer. There's going to

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be no second date. You guys, thanks for being on

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Second Date Update