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<v Speaker 1>Hi, Hi, It's twenty twenty two, me again letting you

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<v Speaker 1>know this is an encore of an episode everyone needs

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<v Speaker 1>every day, and I just wanted to thank you up

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<v Speaker 1>here for the patients with these encores as I'm spending

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<v Speaker 1>some time with my dad helping him after brain surgery

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<v Speaker 1>through really some of the hardest times my family's ever had,

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<v Speaker 1>But your love and your understanding listeners has just made

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<v Speaker 1>this so much less stressful for me on this front,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just want to thank you for keeping us

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<v Speaker 1>in your big brains and in your hearts.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Sleep Part two? Ooh, it's a good one.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh hey, it's still your little stepbrother who tries to

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<v Speaker 1>trade you their calcified banana flavor now in lighters for

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<v Speaker 1>your mani RAS's Peed and Potter cups and you're like, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>little dude, step all the way off, How dary, that's

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<v Speaker 1>not how life works. Ali Ward back for the second

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<v Speaker 1>half of some Knowledgy. Did you listen to part one yet?

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<v Speaker 1>Deep sleep versus rem versus rim versus light sleep? Which

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<v Speaker 1>is the ug? Which is the glittery dress loafer? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you regularly disco with the night hag? How loocid is

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<v Speaker 1>your Property Brothers Experience. Does C three PO give you

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<v Speaker 1>PTSD If you have no idea what I'm talking about,

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<v Speaker 1>I've exposed you as having skipped part one. So go

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<v Speaker 1>listen to part one. Part two will be here for you.

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<v Speaker 1>When you're done, it will make way more sense. Come

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<v Speaker 1>onnk you Okay, So part twurs. It's just us now,

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<v Speaker 1>we get it. We have the basics on how sleep works,

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<v Speaker 1>what happens when we don't have enough of it, and

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<v Speaker 1>what our brain waves do, and why insomnia is a

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<v Speaker 1>product of fear and anxiety. But this episode answers Patreon

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<v Speaker 1>questions to help you get better sleep and includes yes,

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<v Speaker 1>the secret insomnia buster from your pod, dad's mom, your

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<v Speaker 1>pod nana fancy Nancy board. So I'm earnestly so excited

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<v Speaker 1>to share it because I swear it works so well

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<v Speaker 1>for me. Okay, so thank you to everyone who supports

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<v Speaker 1>You get to hear what episodes I'm working on. You

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<v Speaker 1>can submit questions. I may read your name on the show. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>this is my favorite job. You all pay my salary

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<v Speaker 1>read and cherish like notes from the feedback fairy. And

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<v Speaker 1>to prove it, here's a fresh one I just plucked.

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<v Speaker 1>Great Dad Jokes wrote in If Bill Nye, the Science

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<v Speaker 1>Guy and Dirty Jobs had a love child, it would

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<v Speaker 1>be this podcast. Great dad Jokes, you get it.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So Somenology Part two, let's get your questions with

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<v Speaker 1>Virginia based neurologist Sleep Whisperer, author of the Sleep Solution,

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<v Speaker 1>Why your Sleep is Broken and how to fix it,

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<v Speaker 1>and of course somenologist doctor W Chris Winter. Can we

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<v Speaker 1>do a rapid fire around? Oh yeah, I'm absolutely okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So I asked for questions on Patreon. As I do,

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<v Speaker 1>I say, patrons, hit me with your questions, and typically

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<v Speaker 1>I get fifty to eighty questions.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, I got two hundred and fifty five questions. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, twenty five pages worth of questions. Clearly, we're

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<v Speaker 1>not going to hit them all here we go, so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just going to run through. Meghan Younce wants to

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<v Speaker 1>know why do some people have different circadian rhythms?

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<v Speaker 3>So mean, Meghan, that is a genetic trait you probably

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<v Speaker 3>inherited from your mother and father as either being a

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<v Speaker 3>night owl what we call delayed sleep phase, or a

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<v Speaker 3>morning person a morning larco. So probably the simple question

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<v Speaker 3>is you acquired it from a parent. Now it is modifiable,

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<v Speaker 3>so there may be aspects in your life that allowed

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<v Speaker 3>you to change it. But to me, I think it's

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<v Speaker 3>a like eye color that we can work to overcome.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's kind of always there. And I'm a believer

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<v Speaker 3>just on it as in a side that our sleep need,

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<v Speaker 3>how much sleep do we need? And our timing is

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<v Speaker 3>Megan's describing when do we like at night or late

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<v Speaker 3>or early tends to push us into certain careers. Teacher

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit more sleep, more consistency in their life.

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<v Speaker 3>So and night outs tend to travel better, deal with

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<v Speaker 3>jet like better, and by some studies are smarter and interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, I didn't know that this kind of the follow

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<v Speaker 1>up question to that, Paul Hawk and a few other

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<v Speaker 1>people asked, I was a lifelong night owl and I

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<v Speaker 1>just woke up one morning a morning person. How does

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<v Speaker 1>that happen? Well, Paul, that's interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. For me.

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<v Speaker 3>A lot of times, things that I've involved in my

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<v Speaker 3>life can push me one way or the other.

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<v Speaker 2>One is like exercise first thing in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>I was training for like a trath on a long

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<v Speaker 3>time ago and meeting a group of people to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Really early, and I hated it. I dreaded it.

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<v Speaker 3>But after a few weeks I was waking up like

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<v Speaker 3>at four point fifty five in the morning, an hour

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<v Speaker 3>or five minutes before my longclock went off, and felt

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<v Speaker 3>really good and was falling asleep at ten o'clock at night.

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<v Speaker 3>So it can be certain things in your life, or

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<v Speaker 3>as our bodies mature, we tend to become less night

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<v Speaker 3>oriented in general and more morning orient. So, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>the high typical school students stays up at three o'clock

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<v Speaker 3>in the morning watching YouTube videos, wants to sleep until

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<v Speaker 3>two o'clock in the afternoons, really upset with mom when

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<v Speaker 3>she comes in opens up the blinds before lunchtime, and

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<v Speaker 3>then you look at Grandma and Grandpa living down in Sarasota.

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<v Speaker 3>They get the nutribullet out at three o'clock in the

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<v Speaker 3>morning making kale smoothies, and you're like, Grandma, well, my god,

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<v Speaker 3>what are you doing. It's three o'clock in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>I know this is when I wake up, isn't it great?

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<v Speaker 3>So we have a tendency to move towards that as

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<v Speaker 3>we get older. So maybe Paul has just moved there

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<v Speaker 3>very quickly.

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<v Speaker 1>So side note, like Paul, I too have recently come

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<v Speaker 1>to enjoy waking up early when I do it, And

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<v Speaker 1>I thought this meant like I have finally gotten my

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<v Speaker 1>shit together. It's happened. But Paul, it looks like it

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<v Speaker 1>just means we're old and marching ever closer to death.

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<v Speaker 1>So we win some we lose somebody.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you now. The steely blue gloaming and the

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<v Speaker 1>morning mist belongs to the Olds. So come join our

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<v Speaker 1>wise wrinkle party let's little spoons at seven am over

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<v Speaker 1>our third cup of percolated foltures.

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<v Speaker 2>Kylerk.

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<v Speaker 1>You wants to know, is it possible to tell the

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<v Speaker 1>exact point someone starts being asleep or is it just

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<v Speaker 1>a gradual blurring of lines into unconsciousness?

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<v Speaker 3>So you can see it on a sleep study, and

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<v Speaker 3>there is a sense of gradual. So when you look

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<v Speaker 3>at the brain activity, what you start to see is

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<v Speaker 3>a slowing of the brain activity. The eye movements that

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<v Speaker 3>characterize wakefulness becomes slow and rolling. So the answer is

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<v Speaker 3>generally over about a thirty second period.

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<v Speaker 2>That's how we score sleep.

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<v Speaker 3>We look at thirty seconds of sleep at a time,

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<v Speaker 3>and when you start to see a predominance of that

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<v Speaker 3>intermixing of sleep with the light wakefulness, that's when we

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<v Speaker 3>say sleep happens. So it's a gradient, but it's a

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<v Speaker 3>very short gradient for most people. Yeah, thirty seconds is

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<v Speaker 3>pretty sort yeah, and you could you could see it

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<v Speaker 3>very clearly.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not hard to find skype.

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<v Speaker 1>A scientist wants to know why do some people make

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<v Speaker 1>weird noises as they're falling asleep and what can we

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<v Speaker 1>they do to stop doing it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a tough one.

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<v Speaker 3>So one of my favorite weird noises at night is

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<v Speaker 3>a phenomenon called catithrinium, which is a prolonged expiratory moan.

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<v Speaker 2>PS.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks Jay, Leidiker for creeping on your vulnerable sleeping boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>and putting it on YouTube. So thirty six thousand strangers

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<v Speaker 1>and counting could enjoy what sounds like a constipated puppy

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<v Speaker 1>or a very frustrated porcupine struggling to understand tax paperwork.

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<v Speaker 3>So for a lot of people when they go to bed,

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<v Speaker 3>this is super super fun that you know, when you

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<v Speaker 3>find out the person you've you've committed your life to

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<v Speaker 3>do this, they will actually kind of take a breathe,

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<v Speaker 3>breath in and all of the things that I go.

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<v Speaker 2>Kind of like a foghorn all night long.

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<v Speaker 3>So these can be There's also somemiloquy, which is sleep talking,

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<v Speaker 3>which can be sort of gibberish or it can actually be,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, fully formed sentences that people have no idea

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<v Speaker 3>what they're talking about. These things can be treated. Often

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<v Speaker 3>there's underlying sleep problems that are causing them. So if

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<v Speaker 3>you can figure out the underlying sleep problem, like with

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<v Speaker 3>the sleep study, you can sometimes get rid of the

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<v Speaker 3>underlying You can get rid of the sound that the

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<v Speaker 3>patient's making, but they can be kind of difficult to

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<v Speaker 3>get rid of.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes, what could the underlying problems be so, for.

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<v Speaker 3>Instance, like sleep sleep talking, A lot of times what

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<v Speaker 3>happens is in individuals sleeping along, they'll have a little

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<v Speaker 3>breathing disturbance and as they kind of they kind of

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<v Speaker 2>One time, my wife woke.

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<v Speaker 3>Up in the middle of the night and said, we've

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<v Speaker 3>been watching the X Files, this show a long time ago.

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<v Speaker 3>Much as you try to bury it, the truth is

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<v Speaker 3>out there. She woke up and said, hey, could you

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<v Speaker 3>just go out there and go those dead bodies off the.

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<v Speaker 2>Wall and real quick? And I was like, what are

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<v Speaker 3>And then she would get real upset with you if

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<v Speaker 3>you tried to rationalize what she was talking about. So

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<v Speaker 3>you figure out very quickly the best thing would be like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll be all right, bye, I will take care of that.

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<v Speaker 3>She'd fall asleep and not remember anything about it the

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<v Speaker 3>next day. So, you know, but a lot of times

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<v Speaker 3>you would hear like a little breathing hiccup that would

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<v Speaker 3>kind of wake her up. It could be a little

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<v Speaker 3>acid reflux, it could be a little a random leg movement,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, coughing fit. There's lots of things that can

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<v Speaker 3>do it that would wake people up to do it,

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<v Speaker 3>even seizures.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a great video.

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<v Speaker 3>One time of a young woman who was very you know,

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<v Speaker 3>sort of proper and you know, raised right, as my

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<v Speaker 3>parents would call it. She would wake up in the

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<v Speaker 3>night and just say awful things, curse, make these very

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<v Speaker 3>vile sexual references.

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<v Speaker 2>Ps.

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<v Speaker 1>I tried to find a clip of this video, but

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<v Speaker 1>googling quote woman obscenities in sleep only turned up a

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<v Speaker 1>ton of gross tutorials about how to sleep with women.

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<v Speaker 1>And scrolling through this deluge of pickup artist DIY videos

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<v Speaker 1>made me too sad to keep looking.

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<v Speaker 2>So sorry, I had no recollection.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm doing it the next day and it turns out

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. Yeah, I just thought she was a

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<v Speaker 1>She got that treated. But I also hope she'd like

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<v Speaker 1>Bob Carlton asked, and we kind of touched on this

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<v Speaker 2>Is this something that really happened and we should bring

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<v Speaker 3>It did happen, and if it's a bit of a

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<v Speaker 3>denser read, but it is absolutely fascinating. A guy named

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<v Speaker 3>Roger Eric wrote this book. It's like a Day's End

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<v Speaker 3>or at Night's End or something like that. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so the real title is at Day's Close Night

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<v Speaker 1>in Times Past by a Roger Eckerch. I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>admit it. That does not roll off the tongue. So

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<v Speaker 1>I get why Doctor Winter could not figure that out.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's all about what happened during nighttime in pre

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<v Speaker 1>and taverns and brothels, yarns, spinning circles. And I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like now I need an episode on nocturnology, maybe to

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, doctor Winter explains.

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<v Speaker 3>But he writes about sort of sleep throughout antiquity, and

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<v Speaker 3>We would go to bed when the sun went down,

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<v Speaker 3>we would sleep, we'd wake up. We'd walk around at

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<v Speaker 3>night and greet neighbors and fall in holes that we

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<v Speaker 2>So should we bring it back.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know that we should voluntarily bring it back,

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<v Speaker 3>period up in a little spot of sleep, I think

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<v Speaker 3>that's okay.

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<v Speaker 2>And some would argue natural. I think it's okay.

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<v Speaker 3>If your night period is broken up by a little

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<v Speaker 3>period of wakefulness, that's not a big deal. You know

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<v Speaker 3>what is insomnia. It's not a person who can't sleep.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a person who can't sleep when they want to.

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<v Speaker 3>That's part A. Part B is you have to have

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<v Speaker 3>it's perfectly, perfectly fine and a great way to sort

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<v Speaker 2>It's not the end of the world. Just you're a wait,

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<v Speaker 2>go with it, and.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't do the kind of damage that like a

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<v Speaker 3>Very different terrifying screaming We're doomed, you know, going off

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, if we had had R two D

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<v Speaker 3>just what people needed to wake themselves from a deep

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<v Speaker 1>Again, if you missed part one, the midnight terror of

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<v Speaker 1>a mechanical C three po does await you, But you

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<v Speaker 1>got a lot of people who ended up not liking

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<v Speaker 1>Star Wars after that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's right, it's kind of vis response to the new movies.

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<v Speaker 1>LEVI like The Jeans and Ron Smith both asked about

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<v Speaker 1>shift work that it's awful for your health and what

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<v Speaker 1>can you do to negate the negative effects of that?

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<v Speaker 3>Levi and the other individual are absolutely right, ron or right.

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<v Speaker 3>The thing that terrifies me the most about sleep and

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<v Speaker 3>sleep science is not insomnia.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not the person when eighteen months without sleeping.

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<v Speaker 3>It's the person who is the shift worker who thinks

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<v Speaker 3>that they're doing okay with the fact that they work

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<v Speaker 3>a day job and also have a night job to

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<v Speaker 3>make ends meet. And these are the conversation we have

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<v Speaker 3>our clinic. I really think you shouldn't be doing this. Great,

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<v Speaker 3>you're going to be a mortgage doctor winner. No, I

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<v Speaker 3>can't do that, Okay, then shut up. So we do

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<v Speaker 3>often get into a position of they almost feel like

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<v Speaker 3>they don't have a choice. And the World Health Organization

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<v Speaker 3>classifies shift work is a Class two a car synogen. Now,

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's incredibly devastating to our health.

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<v Speaker 1>So real quick, what is shift work exactly? I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>a clear definition, so I asked the internet. Now, according

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<v Speaker 1>to the National Sleep Foundation, shift work is work that

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<v Speaker 1>takes place on a schedule outside the traditional nine to

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<v Speaker 1>five every day, so it can involve evening or night shifts,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe early morning shifts, rotating shifts, And yes, the World

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<v Speaker 1>Health Organization does classify shift work as a car synogen.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you heard the Surgical Oncology episode about breast

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<v Speaker 1>risk of developing breast cancer. Prostate cancer risk is also elevated,

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<v Speaker 1>along with a host of other cancers medical ailments. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>according to my good friend Wikipedia, this may be due

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<v Speaker 1>to alterations in circadian rhythm. So melatonin is a known

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<v Speaker 1>tumor suppressor and it's generally produced at night, so late

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<v Speaker 1>shifts may disrupt the production of it. And one study

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<v Speaker 1>I read reported that the underlying pathophysiological mechanism, which just

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<v Speaker 1>means why does this happen though, is that exposure to

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<v Speaker 1>light and darkness at weird times leads to disruption of

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<v Speaker 1>normal sleep wake rhythms. It's called chronodisruption. It means I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sleeping at the wrong times. My brain is confused. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, who's afraid of the dark, Who's afraid of falling?

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<v Speaker 1>A sleep of the lights on? That seems more dangerous now,

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<v Speaker 1>but what can shift work, like doctor Winter himself experienced

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<v Speaker 1>during his medical residency.

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<v Speaker 3>Do to a human When you look at individuals who

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<v Speaker 3>are engaged in shift work, we know that they have

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<v Speaker 3>much more difficulty with their weight, much more difficulty with

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<v Speaker 3>the blood pressure, more heart attacks, more strokes, more miswork,

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<v Speaker 3>more GI issues, more psychological issues. I mean, it's just

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<v Speaker 3>a very difficult thing to sustain. I remember when I

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<v Speaker 3>was in residency, when we were talking about that, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>a while back, that I felt that I was clearly

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<v Speaker 3>at my most unhealthy point in my life and if

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<v Speaker 3>this were my job, this is what I'll do for

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<v Speaker 3>the next thirty years. I don't know that I felt

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<v Speaker 3>And I look back at even my kids when we

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<v Speaker 3>look back at pictures of myself during that time. Thank god,

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<v Speaker 3>we didn't have a lot of digital cameras around at

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<v Speaker 3>that time, but the pictures that we do have my

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<v Speaker 3>kids are like, oh God, Dad looks terrible, pasty white,

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<v Speaker 3>just looks really unhealthy. And I think it's because I was.

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<v Speaker 3>So if you're a shift worker, talked to a sleep specialist.

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<v Speaker 3>There are medications that can help alleviate that. And I

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<v Speaker 3>would say. The other thing too, is to talk to

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<v Speaker 3>your employer about ways you can make the shift work

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<v Speaker 3>more humane. I mean, hopefully you're working for somebody says, look,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't care how you do it, we just need

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<v Speaker 3>to cover these shifts. There's ways you can construct your

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<v Speaker 3>work environment. There's ways you can construct it. You can

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<v Speaker 3>construct the way that shifts move from day to day

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<v Speaker 3>that are a lot easier on a body than others,

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<v Speaker 3>and a lot of times it's a matter of doing

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit of research or talking somebody about how ways.

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<v Speaker 2>To make that better.

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<v Speaker 3>The other thing, too, is you try to work towards

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<v Speaker 3>not being a shift worker. I mean it sounds really flip,

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<v Speaker 3>but being very genuine and that even if you like it,

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<v Speaker 3>and there's a lot of things to like about shift work,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, working at night for some people, there's not

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of administration around. You just show up and

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<v Speaker 3>do your work. It's kind of quiet, and some people

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<v Speaker 3>feel good at that time. But just understand, just because

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<v Speaker 3>necessarily mean it's probably a really good thing for your body.

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<v Speaker 2>Got it?

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<v Speaker 1>Same for jobs that involve a lot of jet lag.

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<v Speaker 1>Asking for a friend.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, absolutely, Again, there are things you can do to

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<v Speaker 3>treat JETL. There's some really cool goggles that you can

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<v Speaker 3>them have these old jet like calculators associate with them.

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<v Speaker 3>So if you're getting ready to go to Stockholm for

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<v Speaker 3>three days and then over to Brussels and then back

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<v Speaker 3>home to New York, you can use these lights at

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<v Speaker 3>certain times of the day to help you acclimate more

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<v Speaker 3>quickly to that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I got a lot of questions. Corey Navis,

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<v Speaker 1>Sophia Garbo's, g X, Barnett, Paula Hawk, Katie Spino, Maria Kumro,

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<v Speaker 1>Abigail Campbell, and Moore all asked how can some people

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<v Speaker 1>sleep for five or six hours and feel fine and

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<v Speaker 1>other people need eight or ten? Like why do some

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<v Speaker 1>people seem to need less?

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<v Speaker 3>So that once again kind of goes back to the

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<v Speaker 3>earlier question about how come some people are night oriented

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<v Speaker 3>and some people are day oriented. So when you think

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<v Speaker 3>about your sleep, everybody's listening to this has a certain

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<v Speaker 3>amount of sleep that they need that's individual to them.

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<v Speaker 3>Not only that, but it's also individual to you at

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<v Speaker 3>that time. So if you're a twenty year old, that

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<v Speaker 3>time might change when you're a seventy year old. So

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<v Speaker 3>not only do we have a time that we need

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<v Speaker 3>or a duration we need, but we also have a timing.

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<v Speaker 3>So those are the two variables I want you to

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<v Speaker 2>There are some.

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<v Speaker 3>People out there who need eight hours of sleep, and

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<v Speaker 3>we talk a lot about that in the media, being

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<v Speaker 3>sort of an average. I think the average is probably

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<v Speaker 3>closer to seven to seven and a half, but we

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<v Speaker 3>can agree to disagree. So whatever that average is, it

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<v Speaker 3>is an average. So when you're planning your picnic, there

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<v Speaker 3>might be a statistic out there that says the average

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<v Speaker 3>picnic attendedly two hot dogs and a hamburger. That is

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<v Speaker 3>awesome information to have as you are buying your supplies

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<v Speaker 3>because now you've got a little bit of an algorithm

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<v Speaker 3>for figuring out how to feed people. Now, that does

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<v Speaker 3>not mean that every person who walks to your pick

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<v Speaker 3>comes to your picnic, is going to heat two hot

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<v Speaker 3>dogs and a hamburger. So we need to get outside

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<v Speaker 3>of this idea that eight hours of sleep is somehow magical.

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<v Speaker 2>It is that that's what you need.

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<v Speaker 3>But if you're somebody who needs six and a half

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<v Speaker 3>hours of sleep seeking eight is going to care eat

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<v Speaker 3>an hour and a half of dead time, It's going

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<v Speaker 3>to be very unpleasant to you and might even be

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<v Speaker 3>interpreted as being insomnia. Well, I'm trying to get my

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<v Speaker 3>eight hours start to winter. I go to bed at

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<v Speaker 3>ten o'clock and it takes me like an hour to

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<v Speaker 3>hour and a half to fall asleep every night.

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<v Speaker 2>Is driving me crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>My first question I always ask people like that is

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<v Speaker 3>why have you chosen ten o'clock is your bedtime? And

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<v Speaker 3>they look at you like I really never thought about that,

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<v Speaker 3>sort of like saying, my lunch time is at ten

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<v Speaker 3>thirty am. Wow, tell me about your lunch. Well, I

435
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<v Speaker 3>ten thirty, I leave my office at go to the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>I sit down.

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<v Speaker 3>The waitress comes, she says, what would you like? I say,

438
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<v Speaker 3>I'm not that hungry, and she keeps coming back and

439
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<v Speaker 3>coming back and coming back. Finally, around twelve thirty, I

440
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<v Speaker 3>say I'll take a chicken sandwich please, Like that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody does that. The waitress at some point it's gonna.

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<v Speaker 3>Say, honey, leave, why do you keep coming at ten

443
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<v Speaker 3>thirty and just sitting there taking at my booth, like

444
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<v Speaker 3>go shop or go do some work and come back

445
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<v Speaker 3>when you are hungry. So you know, for the person

446
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<v Speaker 3>who asked the question about sleep duration, we're all different.

447
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<v Speaker 3>So if you're getting six and a half hours of

448
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<v Speaker 3>sleep and you feel so great and you don't feel

449
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<v Speaker 3>like falling asleep in movies or in meetings or things

450
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<v Speaker 3>of that nature, then you're probably doing exactly what your

451
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<v Speaker 3>body needs to be healthy.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's good to know.

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<v Speaker 1>Travis Gary, Julie Noble, and others asked backsider stomach, which

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<v Speaker 1>is best and why?

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<v Speaker 2>So it depends on how you define best.

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<v Speaker 3>Most people would describe sleeping on your left side as

457
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<v Speaker 3>being best because number one, our body's blood return comes

458
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<v Speaker 3>mainly through the rights of our body, if for engineered correctly.

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<v Speaker 3>So there's a thought that if you sleep predominantly on

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<v Speaker 3>your right side, you kind of compress that passive return

461
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<v Speaker 3>of blood to your body, which can be especially important

462
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<v Speaker 3>for pregnant women. So left side sort of alleviates that

463
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<v Speaker 3>our airways want to collapse more when we sleep on

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<v Speaker 3>our back, so sleeping on your side puts our airway

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<v Speaker 3>in a little bit more of a favorable position. Although

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<v Speaker 3>kids have big tonsils, sometimes it doesn't, but for an

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<v Speaker 3>adult that works out well.

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<v Speaker 2>The problem with sleeping on your side.

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<v Speaker 3>Is orthopedically, a lot of people find that it hurts

470
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<v Speaker 3>their shoulders, it hurts their hips or knees to sleep

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<v Speaker 3>on their side, So orthopedically the best position to sleep

472
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<v Speaker 3>is on your back. So the answer to the question

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<v Speaker 3>is you're saying from a sleep perspective, I would say

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<v Speaker 3>left side or on your back with your head somewhat

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<v Speaker 3>elevated to keep your airway more open. But you know,

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<v Speaker 3>there's all kinds of studies about sleeping positions. If you're

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<v Speaker 3>worried about wrinkles, or you're a woman with larger breasts

478
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<v Speaker 3>and you're worried about them sagging, then you really shouldn't

479
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<v Speaker 3>be sleeping on your side of your stomach. It should

480
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<v Speaker 3>be back all the way, keeps our skin looking healthier,

481
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<v Speaker 3>keeps our bodies looking more tone. So it really depends

482
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<v Speaker 3>on what you mean by which is best. So I

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<v Speaker 3>would say, in my world, left side of your body

484
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<v Speaker 3>is probably the best. On some sort of mattress that

485
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<v Speaker 3>maybe eliminates that kind of pressure feeling from your joints. Okay,

486
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<v Speaker 3>what about on your face. Sleeping on your face is tough.

487
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<v Speaker 3>I mean a lot of people sleep on their stomach.

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<v Speaker 3>It's fairly rare to find somebody who there's a stomach

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<v Speaker 3>sleeper who likes her face into the pillow.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a little dangerous.

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<v Speaker 3>But they do make pillows that kind of are almost

492
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<v Speaker 3>like the little massage.

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<v Speaker 2>When you have a massage and.

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<v Speaker 3>Your face down, you have your little face in a

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<v Speaker 3>little doughnut hole or whatever. So they do make pillows

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<v Speaker 3>they facilitate that. I would say that, you know, if

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<v Speaker 3>you're going to sleep on your face is try to

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<v Speaker 3>make sure you're not elimiting the amount of air that

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<v Speaker 3>you're getting or whatnot, or just yelling turn your head

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<v Speaker 3>to one side or the other.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, good to know. Yeah, I was asking for a quote. Friend,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure I sleep on my face more on

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<v Speaker 1>sleep apnea. After a quick break, during which you will

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<v Speaker 1>for making that possible. Okay, so I forget sappy there.

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<v Speaker 1>Back to sleep apnea, I researched it for us.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay quick aside.

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<v Speaker 1>Also on sleep apnea, there are a few different types

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<v Speaker 1>with different causes, But how do you know if you

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<v Speaker 1>might have it. Okay, do any of these sound like you?

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<v Speaker 1>Daytime sleepiness or fatigue on refreshing sleep, insomnia, perhaps more headaches. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here's what you do. You throw a lavish slumber party

533
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<v Speaker 1>and then over cereal the next morning. You just hand

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<v Speaker 1>out questionnaires to your friends asking if they heard any

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<v Speaker 1>loud or frequent snoring, silent pauses in breathing or choking

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<v Speaker 1>or gasping sounds. Or you could just request a sleep study.

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<v Speaker 1>If the doc's like, yep, you gots it, they might

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<v Speaker 1>work out some treatment that involves lifestyle changes like ditching

539
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<v Speaker 1>booze or cigarettes, maybe losing weight, side sleeping, or mouthpieces.

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<v Speaker 1>Some folks have to get surgery for sleep apnea, or

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<v Speaker 1>use a breathing device like a seapap, which stands for

542
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<v Speaker 1>continuous positive airwave pressure because it forces air past any

543
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<v Speaker 1>floppy throat obstructions you might have. I was doing some digging,

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<v Speaker 1>and it may not be a cure all for everyone,

545
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<v Speaker 1>but tons of folks who have finally treated their sleep

546
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<v Speaker 1>apnea with a seapap say it's life changing. And also,

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<v Speaker 1>if I we're not busy making this podcast, I would

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<v Speaker 1>go into the side business of aftermarket medical equipment and

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<v Speaker 1>sell seapop upgrades that look like glistening face huggers from

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<v Speaker 1>Alien or maybe Bain masks.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh do you think dog los is your lie?

552
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<v Speaker 1>Shannon has three questions, but I'm going to ask, well,

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<v Speaker 1>they're all good. Can you dive from sleep deprivation?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes or no?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, but it's not something that you would be able

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<v Speaker 3>to do yourself, meaning you'd have to employ friends with

557
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<v Speaker 3>you know, stun guns and cattle prods. So, and the

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<v Speaker 3>reason I'm saying that is because there are people out

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<v Speaker 3>there who have insomnia who feel like they're not sleepy,

560
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<v Speaker 3>that the fear of the situation creates the situation. So

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<v Speaker 3>I would say to this person, you are in no

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<v Speaker 3>danger of not sleeping. In fact, even people who come

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<v Speaker 3>to our clinic and I say, well you have to

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<v Speaker 3>have a sleep study. Why I can't sleep? Am I

565
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<v Speaker 3>own bed? How can I sleep in a sleep study?

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<v Speaker 3>I always tell them, why don't you go to the

567
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<v Speaker 3>sleep center. They're gonna look all these wires up to you.

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<v Speaker 2>I want you to lie in bed. I do not

569
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<v Speaker 2>want you to sleep.

570
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<v Speaker 3>Just lie their awake like you normally do for seven

571
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<v Speaker 3>or eight hours, and we'll see what happens.

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody ever does it. In fact, they you sleep more,

573
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<v Speaker 2>you know, than they do at home.

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<v Speaker 3>They'll come back and say, I told you I didn't sleep,

575
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<v Speaker 3>and I'll hear you slept for six hours and thirteen minutes.

576
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<v Speaker 3>Whenever I showed a judge her video and she said,

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<v Speaker 3>oh my god, I really thought that I was awake

578
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<v Speaker 3>all night long. In fact, I'm looking at this thinking

579
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<v Speaker 3>maybe you super imposed my face on another You know,

580
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<v Speaker 3>she was kidding. But so, no, you were not in

581
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<v Speaker 3>any danger of sleep deprivation. I always tell people insomnia

582
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<v Speaker 3>is the worst condition in the world that has almost

583
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<v Speaker 3>absolutely no medical consequence.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, it doesn't. It doesn't lead to plaques in the brain,

585
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<v Speaker 1>and so sleep deprivation does not insomnia. Insomnia and sleep

586
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<v Speaker 1>deprivation are two very different things. So, yes, if you're

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<v Speaker 1>working your a nine to five job, you come home,

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<v Speaker 1>sleep for two hours at seven o'clock, you go off

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<v Speaker 1>to clean office buildings all through the night, and go

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<v Speaker 1>right back to work the next day. Yes, you are

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<v Speaker 1>putting yourself in position of having trouble. However, or is

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<v Speaker 1>that person going to completely sleep to problem themselves.

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<v Speaker 2>No, they're going to do that job for a period of.

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<v Speaker 3>Time and what's going to happen is they're actually going

595
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<v Speaker 3>to fall asleep on the job. They're going to fall

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<v Speaker 3>asleep in their office the next morning. So it's very

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<v Speaker 3>difficult to sleep deprive yourself because you know, like I said,

598
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<v Speaker 3>sleep always wins. You're going to sleep, And unlike hunger,

599
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<v Speaker 3>which is a primary drive, and thirst, which is a

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<v Speaker 3>primary drive, sleep your brain can actually control yourself doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>So think of sleep as being a vital resource that

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<v Speaker 1>you don't even have to hunt or search for or gather.

603
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<v Speaker 1>You could just make it yourself if you just chill

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<v Speaker 1>out and let it happen. So imagine if you're like man,

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<v Speaker 1>I could really go for a lobsteroll, Well, I'll just

606
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<v Speaker 1>sit really still and breathe and it'll appear. Not sleeping

607
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<v Speaker 1>enough is like being hungry all the time when we

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<v Speaker 1>could just conjure lobster rolls. Now, why are we saying

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<v Speaker 1>no to sleep but yes to scrolling for so many

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<v Speaker 1>hours before bed? I'm asking myself this. Ps, if you

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<v Speaker 1>hate lobster rolls and this analogy doesn't work for you,

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<v Speaker 1>don't I don't care because it was for me. I

613
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<v Speaker 1>was talking to me. This aside was a private moment

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<v Speaker 1>between my heart and my brain and my mouth anyway,

615
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<v Speaker 1>So sleep happens.

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<v Speaker 3>So at some point it just takes the decision out

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<v Speaker 3>of your hands and you fall asleep.

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<v Speaker 2>Shannon also wanted to know what does lack of sleep

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<v Speaker 2>make you fat?

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<v Speaker 3>It does so sleep poor sleep in a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>ways makes you fat. It makes you too tired to

622
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<v Speaker 3>want to go to the gym. You're sitting around more,

623
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<v Speaker 3>which creates a problem. We actually burn less calories when

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<v Speaker 3>we're sleeping poorly. But the biggest thing is we start

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<v Speaker 3>to create this biochemical cascade of chemicals that make us

626
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<v Speaker 3>feel full go away, chemicals that make us crave really

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<v Speaker 3>bad foods or in abundance.

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<v Speaker 2>I always tell people when I was in.

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<v Speaker 3>Residency and really struggling and sleep deprived, I would go

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<v Speaker 3>to this little convenience store in the hospital and there

631
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<v Speaker 3>were these little packages of chips away cookies, and then

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<v Speaker 3>they had like the thirty three percent more family.

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<v Speaker 2>Size bag, and I would lie to the fill us.

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<v Speaker 3>This little woman who worked there'd be like, oh, yeah,

635
00:29:58.720 --> 00:30:00.359
<v Speaker 3>some of the doctors are one some cooks keys. I

636
00:30:00.400 --> 00:30:02.519
<v Speaker 3>want one or two, but no more than three. But

637
00:30:02.559 --> 00:30:04.279
<v Speaker 3>I need the family size bag. And by the time

638
00:30:04.319 --> 00:30:06.559
<v Speaker 3>I got out of the COMMUNECE started eating the entire sleeve,

639
00:30:07.319 --> 00:30:09.240
<v Speaker 3>you know. And so I look back on those days,

640
00:30:09.240 --> 00:30:12.119
<v Speaker 3>I think, oh god, it was so driven by something

641
00:30:12.680 --> 00:30:14.599
<v Speaker 3>I didn't want. That many cookies. It makes me kind

642
00:30:14.599 --> 00:30:16.440
<v Speaker 3>of sick to think about right now. But oh man,

643
00:30:16.480 --> 00:30:18.440
<v Speaker 3>I could put a herding on those cookies at the time.

644
00:30:18.799 --> 00:30:21.839
<v Speaker 1>Then of course these cookies put a herding right back

645
00:30:21.880 --> 00:30:24.880
<v Speaker 1>on you. So why does this happen? Let's blame a

646
00:30:24.960 --> 00:30:28.960
<v Speaker 1>trio of hormones, shall we. There's leptin, which tells your

647
00:30:28.960 --> 00:30:33.599
<v Speaker 1>brain's hypothelmus like, nah, I'm good man, I'm not really hungry.

648
00:30:34.079 --> 00:30:37.880
<v Speaker 1>So this appetite controlling hormone, leptin is supposed to peak

649
00:30:37.920 --> 00:30:40.720
<v Speaker 1>while you're asleep, but if you've been snoozing weird, it

650
00:30:40.720 --> 00:30:43.720
<v Speaker 1>goes a little wonky. Now there's also grellin, which is

651
00:30:43.759 --> 00:30:46.319
<v Speaker 1>the flip side of the leptin coin, and it signals

652
00:30:46.359 --> 00:30:49.799
<v Speaker 1>to your brain this show time and too little sleep

653
00:30:50.200 --> 00:30:54.960
<v Speaker 1>means a veritable monsoon of this hormone. Also insulin, the

654
00:30:55.000 --> 00:30:58.599
<v Speaker 1>third one stores fat, and yes, our insulin gets disrupted

655
00:30:58.599 --> 00:31:01.519
<v Speaker 1>when our sleep sucks. I am no medical person, but

656
00:31:01.640 --> 00:31:04.599
<v Speaker 1>I can confirm this research because once I was very

657
00:31:04.640 --> 00:31:07.440
<v Speaker 1>tired on a flight and I asked a stranger if

658
00:31:07.480 --> 00:31:09.799
<v Speaker 1>I could have some of his sour Patch kids, and

659
00:31:09.839 --> 00:31:12.519
<v Speaker 1>he gave me the rest of the bag. I think

660
00:31:12.880 --> 00:31:17.920
<v Speaker 1>out of pity and also fear. So there's your anecdotal evidence. Also,

661
00:31:18.000 --> 00:31:20.640
<v Speaker 1>they were really good. Julie Noble wants to know. I've

662
00:31:20.640 --> 00:31:22.759
<v Speaker 1>heard that women are typically lighter sleepers in men. Is

663
00:31:22.799 --> 00:31:23.759
<v Speaker 1>there a science behind this?

664
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<v Speaker 2>I think there are.

665
00:31:25.079 --> 00:31:28.319
<v Speaker 3>There are actually some studies that show that, and also

666
00:31:28.400 --> 00:31:31.640
<v Speaker 3>some studies that kind of relate it to childbirth. You know,

667
00:31:32.319 --> 00:31:35.279
<v Speaker 3>male of species going out to find food, female species

668
00:31:35.319 --> 00:31:38.400
<v Speaker 3>protecting cubs and whatnot. So there are some studies that

669
00:31:38.480 --> 00:31:41.759
<v Speaker 3>sort of look at that. So I think that that's

670
00:31:41.960 --> 00:31:45.240
<v Speaker 3>that's not an unreasonable thing to think for sure.

671
00:31:45.559 --> 00:31:46.000
<v Speaker 2>What do you.

672
00:31:45.960 --> 00:31:50.039
<v Speaker 1>Tell new parents who are like, I can't sleep, this

673
00:31:50.119 --> 00:31:52.200
<v Speaker 1>baby's crying, but I cannot just ignore the baby.

674
00:31:52.200 --> 00:31:54.000
<v Speaker 2>What do you tell them? Yeah?

675
00:31:54.039 --> 00:31:57.640
<v Speaker 3>I always tell parents, Look, you know, for the first

676
00:31:57.680 --> 00:32:09.400
<v Speaker 3>few months of the child's existence, it's gorilla sleep, not

677
00:32:09.480 --> 00:32:12.000
<v Speaker 3>grill like the animal like grill like the you know,

678
00:32:12.279 --> 00:32:18.880
<v Speaker 3>freedom fighter in the jungle somewhere, meaning you just get

679
00:32:18.880 --> 00:32:21.519
<v Speaker 3>it when you can, you know. I think it's very

680
00:32:21.559 --> 00:32:24.480
<v Speaker 3>important for parents from the get go, even maybe even

681
00:32:24.519 --> 00:32:28.599
<v Speaker 3>before the child is born, to start thinking about scheduling

682
00:32:28.640 --> 00:32:30.519
<v Speaker 3>not only in terms of the child, but your own schedule.

683
00:32:30.559 --> 00:32:33.799
<v Speaker 3>So if a mother who's pregnant is exercising at the

684
00:32:33.839 --> 00:32:35.440
<v Speaker 3>same time every day, it is not a good schedule

685
00:32:35.480 --> 00:32:38.359
<v Speaker 3>or self baby pops out often having sort of picked

686
00:32:38.400 --> 00:32:40.759
<v Speaker 3>up on that too, you know, bodies shaking and the

687
00:32:40.799 --> 00:32:43.160
<v Speaker 3>babies in there kind of moving around during the zumba class,

688
00:32:43.200 --> 00:32:45.200
<v Speaker 3>but not when your mom is sitting still.

689
00:32:45.240 --> 00:32:49.400
<v Speaker 2>So you know, parents can child rearing out.

690
00:32:49.440 --> 00:32:51.279
<v Speaker 3>And this is my next book as I'm writing a

691
00:32:51.279 --> 00:32:52.839
<v Speaker 3>book about kids in sleep, which I think is a

692
00:32:52.880 --> 00:32:55.000
<v Speaker 3>lot of fun. But you got to be very careful

693
00:32:55.039 --> 00:32:58.279
<v Speaker 3>because you're kind of straddling this line of sleep expert

694
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<v Speaker 3>doctor and let me tell you how to raise your

695
00:33:01.160 --> 00:33:02.640
<v Speaker 3>kids kind of thing. So I have to be very

696
00:33:02.640 --> 00:33:05.240
<v Speaker 3>careful not to step on any parents toes. But one

697
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<v Speaker 3>of the fundamental questions you have to answer with the

698
00:33:07.160 --> 00:33:10.240
<v Speaker 3>kid is are you going to schedule their life or

699
00:33:10.279 --> 00:33:12.480
<v Speaker 3>do you let the kid kind of decide what's going on.

700
00:33:12.720 --> 00:33:14.400
<v Speaker 3>You're going to tell them this is when they nap,

701
00:33:14.720 --> 00:33:16.279
<v Speaker 3>this is when they nurse, or are you just going

702
00:33:16.319 --> 00:33:18.000
<v Speaker 3>to basically pull it out and they can suck on

703
00:33:18.039 --> 00:33:19.720
<v Speaker 3>anytime they want to, which a lot of people do,

704
00:33:19.759 --> 00:33:22.839
<v Speaker 3>and that's perfectly your choice. But when you don't build

705
00:33:22.880 --> 00:33:25.440
<v Speaker 3>in some sort of structure or a schedule to a

706
00:33:25.480 --> 00:33:29.440
<v Speaker 3>little baby, it doesn't develop a schedule. So again, is

707
00:33:29.480 --> 00:33:31.319
<v Speaker 3>there a baby out there that's not sleeping?

708
00:33:31.519 --> 00:33:32.039
<v Speaker 2>No, there's not.

709
00:33:32.759 --> 00:33:35.880
<v Speaker 3>Is there a baby out there who's sleeping so inconsistently

710
00:33:35.920 --> 00:33:37.599
<v Speaker 3>and so unpredictably.

711
00:33:37.000 --> 00:33:38.519
<v Speaker 2>It's driving mom and dad crazy.

712
00:33:38.880 --> 00:33:42.240
<v Speaker 3>Absolutely, So if you can predict your kids sleep or

713
00:33:42.319 --> 00:33:45.079
<v Speaker 3>quiet times, you as a parent can get anything done.

714
00:33:45.119 --> 00:33:46.960
<v Speaker 3>So to me, that's really the goal of those first

715
00:33:47.000 --> 00:33:50.440
<v Speaker 3>few months of life is really being careful about the

716
00:33:50.519 --> 00:33:53.400
<v Speaker 3>messages you're sending. Okay, naptime is from ten to eleven.

717
00:33:53.799 --> 00:33:56.079
<v Speaker 3>What happens if the baby goes down screams? Is that

718
00:33:56.119 --> 00:33:58.839
<v Speaker 3>off until ten forty five? What do you do at

719
00:33:58.839 --> 00:34:00.599
<v Speaker 3>eleven o'clock? Are you going to wake maybe up because

720
00:34:00.599 --> 00:34:02.079
<v Speaker 3>that's the end of the nap time or do you

721
00:34:02.079 --> 00:34:04.039
<v Speaker 3>just go ahead let them sleep for the hour because

722
00:34:04.160 --> 00:34:06.640
<v Speaker 3>well they didn't sleep. They didn't say so, I would

723
00:34:06.680 --> 00:34:08.719
<v Speaker 3>say you wake them up at eleven o'clock and you do.

724
00:34:08.719 --> 00:34:11.360
<v Speaker 2>It with a smile and you have fun with them.

725
00:34:11.360 --> 00:34:12.880
<v Speaker 3>Now the baby's trying to fall asleep in the car

726
00:34:13.000 --> 00:34:14.760
<v Speaker 3>seat going to the store, and you don't let them.

727
00:34:14.760 --> 00:34:17.599
<v Speaker 3>Always kept these little wet washcloths in my car, and

728
00:34:17.639 --> 00:34:19.960
<v Speaker 3>when my kids started falling asleep in the car, I

729
00:34:19.960 --> 00:34:21.960
<v Speaker 3>would take their shoes off mess around their feet, which

730
00:34:21.960 --> 00:34:22.519
<v Speaker 3>made him cry.

731
00:34:22.559 --> 00:34:23.239
<v Speaker 2>They hated that.

732
00:34:23.480 --> 00:34:25.119
<v Speaker 3>And when that didn't work and they were still falling

733
00:34:25.119 --> 00:34:26.599
<v Speaker 3>asleep as I messed with their I would just take

734
00:34:26.599 --> 00:34:28.679
<v Speaker 3>a wet washcloth and throw it in their lap, and

735
00:34:28.719 --> 00:34:31.000
<v Speaker 3>they would get all upset about it. Oh God, now

736
00:34:31.000 --> 00:34:32.800
<v Speaker 3>I got this cold wet thing on my lap. Or

737
00:34:32.800 --> 00:34:34.639
<v Speaker 3>they'd play with it or suck on it. I didn't

738
00:34:34.639 --> 00:34:36.800
<v Speaker 3>care as long as they weren't sleeping, because this is

739
00:34:36.840 --> 00:34:39.719
<v Speaker 3>not the time we've determined to sleep. You had your

740
00:34:39.800 --> 00:34:41.599
<v Speaker 3>time by an hour ago, and you screamed and rocked

741
00:34:41.599 --> 00:34:45.840
<v Speaker 3>your your cage, your crib the entire time. So to

742
00:34:45.880 --> 00:34:48.039
<v Speaker 3>me get your kids on a schedule, let's step one.

743
00:34:48.679 --> 00:34:48.960
<v Speaker 2>Ps.

744
00:34:49.119 --> 00:34:52.519
<v Speaker 1>Doctor Winter is not alone in seeing this visual correlation.

745
00:34:52.840 --> 00:34:56.760
<v Speaker 1>I found an article titled quote why cribs kind of

746
00:34:56.880 --> 00:35:00.800
<v Speaker 1>look like cages on fatherly dot com, and it said

747
00:35:01.159 --> 00:35:04.519
<v Speaker 1>that cribs have evolved from the seventeen hundreds. There was

748
00:35:04.519 --> 00:35:08.519
<v Speaker 1>an Italian practice of popping a slatted half shell of

749
00:35:08.559 --> 00:35:12.039
<v Speaker 1>an old whiskey barrel over your we one, kind of

750
00:35:12.159 --> 00:35:15.000
<v Speaker 1>like a protective cage so you wouldn't roll over it

751
00:35:15.039 --> 00:35:18.679
<v Speaker 1>and kill it in bed. Oh, simpler times, eighteenth century

752
00:35:18.880 --> 00:35:22.400
<v Speaker 1>state of the art baby technology was just a liquor

753
00:35:22.480 --> 00:35:25.800
<v Speaker 1>soaked splinter cage for parents who care enough to.

754
00:35:25.719 --> 00:35:26.519
<v Speaker 2>Provide the best.

755
00:35:27.039 --> 00:35:31.400
<v Speaker 1>Mike Melchare and Ashland Todd McLaren all kind of asked,

756
00:35:32.159 --> 00:35:34.639
<v Speaker 1>why can you sometimes sleep for a really long time

757
00:35:34.639 --> 00:35:38.400
<v Speaker 1>and feel super lethargic and sluggish, Like can you not

758
00:35:38.679 --> 00:35:39.880
<v Speaker 1>catch up on last sleep?

759
00:35:39.960 --> 00:35:40.039
<v Speaker 3>Like?

760
00:35:40.159 --> 00:35:41.880
<v Speaker 2>Is it not like a bank account? So those are

761
00:35:41.880 --> 00:35:43.599
<v Speaker 2>two different things. So you can.

762
00:35:43.679 --> 00:35:46.559
<v Speaker 3>And there's some really interesting new research that says individuals

763
00:35:46.599 --> 00:35:49.599
<v Speaker 3>who might struggle to get the perfect amount of sleep

764
00:35:50.159 --> 00:35:52.719
<v Speaker 3>from time to time, as long as relatively quickly as you.

765
00:35:52.719 --> 00:35:54.480
<v Speaker 2>Try to make it up with the nap, that's a

766
00:35:54.519 --> 00:35:54.880
<v Speaker 2>good thing.

767
00:35:54.960 --> 00:35:58.519
<v Speaker 3>So you're got to catch a flight, it's delayed and

768
00:35:58.559 --> 00:36:00.840
<v Speaker 3>you don't get home until three o'clock in the morning,

769
00:36:00.880 --> 00:36:02.559
<v Speaker 3>and you thought you're gonna get home at ten, and

770
00:36:02.599 --> 00:36:04.159
<v Speaker 3>you got to go to work the next day. I

771
00:36:04.199 --> 00:36:06.679
<v Speaker 3>think it's perfectly fine to make up for that lost

772
00:36:06.719 --> 00:36:09.079
<v Speaker 3>sleep with a nap or some sort of supping that'll

773
00:36:09.079 --> 00:36:13.239
<v Speaker 3>sleep here or sleeping in when we sleep in unusual times.

774
00:36:13.239 --> 00:36:15.119
<v Speaker 3>So I always like to look at people's schedules, and

775
00:36:15.159 --> 00:36:17.679
<v Speaker 3>college students are the worst. You know, Monday was a Friday.

776
00:36:17.719 --> 00:36:19.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm an organic chemistry class that starts at eight. I

777
00:36:19.960 --> 00:36:22.039
<v Speaker 3>couldn't get anything other than eight o'clock class. It really

778
00:36:22.079 --> 00:36:24.440
<v Speaker 3>was the pits. And then Tuesday and Thursday, I don't

779
00:36:24.440 --> 00:36:27.119
<v Speaker 3>have a class until noon. And then on Friday night,

780
00:36:27.199 --> 00:36:30.000
<v Speaker 3>Saturday and Sunday, I don't even go out until two

781
00:36:30.079 --> 00:36:32.559
<v Speaker 3>in the morning, let alone you know, waffle house whatever

782
00:36:32.559 --> 00:36:35.039
<v Speaker 3>the next morning. So when people have these schedules that

783
00:36:35.039 --> 00:36:38.000
<v Speaker 3>are kind of all over the place, the brain adopts

784
00:36:38.000 --> 00:36:40.960
<v Speaker 3>this position of what do you expect.

785
00:36:40.480 --> 00:36:42.159
<v Speaker 2>Of me at nine am?

786
00:36:42.320 --> 00:36:45.320
<v Speaker 3>On these days we're sound asleep, on these days we're

787
00:36:45.360 --> 00:36:48.559
<v Speaker 3>already an hour into an organic chemistry lecture, and on

788
00:36:48.679 --> 00:36:51.960
<v Speaker 3>these other days we've just gone out a couple hours ago.

789
00:36:52.079 --> 00:36:54.639
<v Speaker 3>So your brain, I always say, this is this is

790
00:36:54.800 --> 00:36:56.559
<v Speaker 3>my term makes no sense to a lot of people,

791
00:36:56.599 --> 00:37:00.079
<v Speaker 3>but your brain, your brain just kind of goes gray,

792
00:37:00.119 --> 00:37:02.880
<v Speaker 3>no black, there's no white. It just kind of adopts this.

793
00:37:03.599 --> 00:37:06.199
<v Speaker 3>It's how people feel. W live in Portland or Great Britain.

794
00:37:06.239 --> 00:37:08.280
<v Speaker 3>It's gray all the time, there's no sunlight, so you're

795
00:37:08.320 --> 00:37:11.000
<v Speaker 3>just kind of like, I'm not terribly depressed, but I'm

796
00:37:11.039 --> 00:37:13.679
<v Speaker 3>also not super happy either, and you know, so you're

797
00:37:13.719 --> 00:37:16.679
<v Speaker 3>just kind of this kind of melancholy all the time.

798
00:37:16.719 --> 00:37:19.719
<v Speaker 3>I think people feel that way. So to me, the

799
00:37:19.800 --> 00:37:22.320
<v Speaker 3>answer to that is probably number one. There is this

800
00:37:22.519 --> 00:37:25.199
<v Speaker 3>entity of sleep inertia. We try to sometimes make up

801
00:37:25.199 --> 00:37:28.000
<v Speaker 3>our sleep and we have these massive sleep blocks, so

802
00:37:28.039 --> 00:37:30.119
<v Speaker 3>our brain doesn't exactly know how to feel when we

803
00:37:30.159 --> 00:37:32.440
<v Speaker 3>wake up. So a lot of people will feel worse

804
00:37:32.559 --> 00:37:35.239
<v Speaker 3>after a night of sleep or even a nap if

805
00:37:35.239 --> 00:37:37.880
<v Speaker 3>it sort of surprises the brain. So the best way

806
00:37:37.920 --> 00:37:40.559
<v Speaker 3>to sleep, the best way to nap is to try

807
00:37:40.559 --> 00:37:43.559
<v Speaker 3>to have your sleep period end at the same time

808
00:37:43.679 --> 00:37:45.840
<v Speaker 3>every time. Oh okay, so it's a very difficult thing

809
00:37:45.880 --> 00:37:47.840
<v Speaker 3>to get somebody to say, Look, you have the opportunity

810
00:37:47.920 --> 00:37:50.480
<v Speaker 3>to sleep till noon. It'd still be better if you

811
00:37:50.519 --> 00:37:53.719
<v Speaker 3>woke up at eight, had something to eat, went outside

812
00:37:53.719 --> 00:37:56.599
<v Speaker 3>where there's sunlight, walk the dog, all bit of physical activity,

813
00:37:57.280 --> 00:38:00.440
<v Speaker 3>and then if you wanted to supplement your sleep, take

814
00:38:00.480 --> 00:38:03.480
<v Speaker 3>a nap at a designated time. So that way we

815
00:38:03.519 --> 00:38:07.039
<v Speaker 3>don't interrupt what your brain is sort of expecting. You know,

816
00:38:07.039 --> 00:38:10.639
<v Speaker 3>we don't get hungry generally because we need food. We

817
00:38:10.719 --> 00:38:14.159
<v Speaker 3>often get hungry because our brain is saying, oh, it's noon,

818
00:38:14.760 --> 00:38:16.599
<v Speaker 3>this is when we usually have the chicken sandwich. So

819
00:38:16.639 --> 00:38:19.159
<v Speaker 3>here we go, let's get ready for it. It's not oh,

820
00:38:19.199 --> 00:38:22.840
<v Speaker 3>we're calorically needing food a lot of time. So we're

821
00:38:22.840 --> 00:38:25.119
<v Speaker 3>just trying to create a good rhythm for our brain.

822
00:38:25.239 --> 00:38:28.840
<v Speaker 3>So for meals or in rhythm or exercises in rhythm,

823
00:38:29.119 --> 00:38:30.480
<v Speaker 3>often our sleep will fall suit.

824
00:38:30.639 --> 00:38:32.639
<v Speaker 2>Oh that's good to know. So you can make up

825
00:38:32.679 --> 00:38:33.519
<v Speaker 2>for a lack of sleep.

826
00:38:33.559 --> 00:38:35.760
<v Speaker 3>So if you stayed up all last night doing some

827
00:38:35.880 --> 00:38:38.239
<v Speaker 3>great project for work, as long as you can make

828
00:38:38.239 --> 00:38:41.599
<v Speaker 3>it up pretty quickly, you'll scientifically live just as long

829
00:38:41.639 --> 00:38:43.760
<v Speaker 3>as the person who always gets the right amount of sleep.

830
00:38:43.880 --> 00:38:48.679
<v Speaker 1>Okay, boo yah to them, ooh yeah. Cory Navis, Michael Saidembuga,

831
00:38:48.920 --> 00:38:53.760
<v Speaker 1>Emily Mankis, Melissa Brewer, Janella Lindauer, John Worster all asked

832
00:38:54.039 --> 00:38:59.199
<v Speaker 1>kind of about sleep supplements, about melatonin, about ambient about

833
00:38:59.280 --> 00:39:01.239
<v Speaker 1>taking something thing to sleep?

834
00:39:01.400 --> 00:39:03.679
<v Speaker 2>Is that good or bad? What are we dealing with?

835
00:39:04.199 --> 00:39:06.400
<v Speaker 3>So I will my disclaimer will be. I'm not a

836
00:39:06.400 --> 00:39:09.400
<v Speaker 3>big fan of sleeping pills. I think that they certainly

837
00:39:09.480 --> 00:39:11.760
<v Speaker 3>have up their place, and I guess I would think

838
00:39:11.800 --> 00:39:15.519
<v Speaker 3>of a sleeping pill like an appetite stimulant. You probably

839
00:39:15.559 --> 00:39:17.800
<v Speaker 3>don't know that many people who take appetite stimulants.

840
00:39:17.840 --> 00:39:19.440
<v Speaker 2>They do exist. They're out there.

841
00:39:19.880 --> 00:39:22.400
<v Speaker 3>But when we all go out to lunch and we're

842
00:39:22.440 --> 00:39:25.119
<v Speaker 3>sitting around everbody's ordering food and you don't feel hungry,

843
00:39:25.159 --> 00:39:25.760
<v Speaker 3>what do you do.

844
00:39:26.599 --> 00:39:28.119
<v Speaker 2>I guess is you don't say, oh.

845
00:39:27.960 --> 00:39:31.400
<v Speaker 3>Gosh, hey, guys, does anybody have an appetite stimulant? Because

846
00:39:31.440 --> 00:39:33.400
<v Speaker 3>I'm really not hungry for lunch right now, and I

847
00:39:33.400 --> 00:39:35.000
<v Speaker 3>know if I don't eat, i'll starve to death. And

848
00:39:35.000 --> 00:39:37.119
<v Speaker 3>I've seen these videos on the internet of people starving

849
00:39:37.119 --> 00:39:37.400
<v Speaker 3>to death.

850
00:39:37.440 --> 00:39:38.360
<v Speaker 2>It looks terrible.

851
00:39:38.599 --> 00:39:41.719
<v Speaker 3>I don't want to do that, so please look around

852
00:39:41.880 --> 00:39:44.000
<v Speaker 3>find something for me to take. So we don't think

853
00:39:44.039 --> 00:39:45.920
<v Speaker 3>that way when it comes to our food. We think, huh,

854
00:39:46.000 --> 00:39:48.000
<v Speaker 3>it's unfortunate because this food looks really good and I

855
00:39:48.159 --> 00:39:49.679
<v Speaker 3>like to eat, but I'm not really that hungry. But

856
00:39:49.719 --> 00:39:52.000
<v Speaker 3>oh well, I'm sure I'll get hungry at some point

857
00:39:52.000 --> 00:39:54.079
<v Speaker 3>in the future. So I think for a lot of people,

858
00:39:54.199 --> 00:39:58.440
<v Speaker 3>sleeping pills become a crutch that is completely unnecessary and

859
00:39:58.559 --> 00:40:00.639
<v Speaker 3>kind of this weird lie that you you need something

860
00:40:00.679 --> 00:40:01.320
<v Speaker 3>to fall asleep with.

861
00:40:01.360 --> 00:40:02.400
<v Speaker 2>Other people don't. Now.

862
00:40:02.559 --> 00:40:04.760
<v Speaker 3>The flip side of that is a shift worker. You

863
00:40:04.800 --> 00:40:06.840
<v Speaker 3>work seven eight to seven p for four days, you

864
00:40:06.840 --> 00:40:08.599
<v Speaker 3>have two days off, and you get back working seven

865
00:40:08.639 --> 00:40:09.280
<v Speaker 3>p to seven A.

866
00:40:09.719 --> 00:40:11.760
<v Speaker 2>So you're constantly moving backwards and forwards.

867
00:40:11.840 --> 00:40:16.800
<v Speaker 3>You're a traveler, you fly to Shanghai every two weeks

868
00:40:16.800 --> 00:40:19.519
<v Speaker 3>to do business, and you have struggled to adapt. I

869
00:40:19.519 --> 00:40:23.239
<v Speaker 3>think those are perfectly appropriate ways reasons to take medications.

870
00:40:23.360 --> 00:40:26.639
<v Speaker 3>Melatonin in particular, because it's such a good drug at

871
00:40:26.679 --> 00:40:29.039
<v Speaker 3>helping us adjust our circadian rhythm.

872
00:40:29.440 --> 00:40:33.719
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so quick aside. Melatonin is that hormone. It's produced

873
00:40:33.760 --> 00:40:38.199
<v Speaker 1>by a tiny pie sized mid brain, little nugget called

874
00:40:38.280 --> 00:40:41.320
<v Speaker 1>your pinial gland, and it makes you sleepy, it helps

875
00:40:41.320 --> 00:40:43.840
<v Speaker 1>you dream, And for a long time we thought only

876
00:40:43.880 --> 00:40:46.480
<v Speaker 1>animals made melotonin, but it turns out it's in a

877
00:40:46.480 --> 00:40:49.199
<v Speaker 1>bunch of plants, you guys. So now we have melotonin

878
00:40:49.239 --> 00:40:52.039
<v Speaker 1>supplements and gummy vitamins and over the counter access to it.

879
00:40:52.599 --> 00:40:56.599
<v Speaker 1>But some experts warn against using the supplements long term

880
00:40:56.800 --> 00:41:01.199
<v Speaker 1>because it can cause next day grogginess or rumpiness. But

881
00:41:01.239 --> 00:41:05.400
<v Speaker 1>what is a big melatonin cock blocker? You ask good question,

882
00:41:05.719 --> 00:41:09.440
<v Speaker 1>and it's blue light, so to boost your natural melatonin

883
00:41:09.480 --> 00:41:12.119
<v Speaker 1>in your brain. This is why people say lay off

884
00:41:12.159 --> 00:41:16.360
<v Speaker 1>the screens after dusk. New fangled light sources like screens

885
00:41:16.400 --> 00:41:20.079
<v Speaker 1>and phones blast daytime raise into your brain at the

886
00:41:20.119 --> 00:41:25.519
<v Speaker 1>wrong times. It's very confusing. And firelight and incandescent bulbs

887
00:41:25.960 --> 00:41:28.559
<v Speaker 1>have these warmer wavelengths that don't mess with you by

888
00:41:28.599 --> 00:41:30.760
<v Speaker 1>the bye, just in case you want to be like

889
00:41:30.960 --> 00:41:33.960
<v Speaker 1>next level hipster and bring back those really long, creepy

890
00:41:34.039 --> 00:41:37.079
<v Speaker 1>nightcaps and maybe carry a candle around from room to room.

891
00:41:37.639 --> 00:41:41.199
<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of feeling that, And between that aesthetic and

892
00:41:41.440 --> 00:41:44.639
<v Speaker 1>whittling spoons at dawn, I'm kind of smelling a real

893
00:41:45.199 --> 00:41:49.320
<v Speaker 1>alley Ward Instagram rebranding over here, just coming over the

894
00:41:49.400 --> 00:41:51.760
<v Speaker 1>sunrise horizon. My friends, who's into it?

895
00:41:52.320 --> 00:41:52.440
<v Speaker 3>No?

896
00:41:52.519 --> 00:41:52.719
<v Speaker 1>One?

897
00:41:53.400 --> 00:41:54.599
<v Speaker 2>Fine? Okay?

898
00:41:54.639 --> 00:41:58.119
<v Speaker 1>So why else might someone take a sleeping pill or

899
00:41:58.159 --> 00:41:58.760
<v Speaker 1>a supplement.

900
00:41:59.159 --> 00:42:01.079
<v Speaker 3>Death of a loved and you lost your job, some

901
00:42:01.199 --> 00:42:04.239
<v Speaker 3>emotional upset to have a big problem with the sleeping pill.

902
00:42:04.280 --> 00:42:06.480
<v Speaker 3>I don't, but the plan should be, Hey, here's a

903
00:42:06.519 --> 00:42:08.559
<v Speaker 3>sleeping pill. I'm really sorry this thing happened to you.

904
00:42:09.320 --> 00:42:11.159
<v Speaker 3>This will help you kind of get to this immediate,

905
00:42:11.440 --> 00:42:14.039
<v Speaker 3>you know, burn of the of the situation. But then

906
00:42:14.039 --> 00:42:16.199
<v Speaker 3>we're going to do things to move us away from it,

907
00:42:16.360 --> 00:42:17.719
<v Speaker 3>you know. So maybe the many people have talked to

908
00:42:17.920 --> 00:42:19.480
<v Speaker 3>R why do you take amby, Well, I can't sleep

909
00:42:19.519 --> 00:42:22.159
<v Speaker 3>without it when that start it started? You know it's

910
00:42:22.159 --> 00:42:24.000
<v Speaker 3>because of the divorce. Oh, I'm sorry to hear that.

911
00:42:24.360 --> 00:42:27.000
<v Speaker 3>Has that been hard? Well was seventeen years ago. Like

912
00:42:27.239 --> 00:42:29.599
<v Speaker 3>number one, she's not coming back, you know. Stop carrying

913
00:42:29.639 --> 00:42:32.519
<v Speaker 3>that towards number two. The reason why you're taking the

914
00:42:32.559 --> 00:42:34.800
<v Speaker 3>ambient has nothing to do with a divorce. It's because

915
00:42:34.920 --> 00:42:39.599
<v Speaker 3>now the divorce precipitated a problem, that something is perpetuating.

916
00:42:39.639 --> 00:42:41.320
<v Speaker 3>So let's get down to the bottom of what that is.

917
00:42:41.679 --> 00:42:44.000
<v Speaker 3>So if you're taking melotone every night, be careful with that.

918
00:42:44.079 --> 00:42:46.639
<v Speaker 3>It can actually make you feel like you're constantly traveling

919
00:42:46.679 --> 00:42:48.960
<v Speaker 3>east because most people take the melotone right when they

920
00:42:49.000 --> 00:42:51.599
<v Speaker 3>go to bed. If you're giving your kids melatonin because

921
00:42:51.599 --> 00:42:54.280
<v Speaker 3>it helps them sleep, I've got a big problem with

922
00:42:54.280 --> 00:42:57.039
<v Speaker 3>that as well too. So pills and sleep, I think

923
00:42:57.119 --> 00:43:00.360
<v Speaker 3>that they don't really belong with each other. And ask

924
00:43:00.400 --> 00:43:02.559
<v Speaker 3>your doctor the next time. You know, what is the

925
00:43:02.719 --> 00:43:06.800
<v Speaker 3>evidence that this medication works. It's surprising some of the

926
00:43:06.840 --> 00:43:09.360
<v Speaker 3>answers that you'll get, or if there's even an indication

927
00:43:09.519 --> 00:43:10.119
<v Speaker 3>for this drug.

928
00:43:10.119 --> 00:43:12.440
<v Speaker 2>A lot of people take the drug sarah Quill, which

929
00:43:12.480 --> 00:43:12.880
<v Speaker 2>is an.

930
00:43:12.840 --> 00:43:16.239
<v Speaker 3>Heavy duty antipsychotic, to help them with their sleep, and

931
00:43:16.280 --> 00:43:18.440
<v Speaker 3>not only is it not indicative for sleep, it's actually

932
00:43:18.440 --> 00:43:20.960
<v Speaker 3>recommended that people not take that drug for sleep. Just

933
00:43:20.960 --> 00:43:23.960
<v Speaker 3>be careful about the medications you're getting. Doctors, their heart's

934
00:43:23.960 --> 00:43:26.159
<v Speaker 3>in the right place. They want to do something, and

935
00:43:26.239 --> 00:43:28.960
<v Speaker 3>for you to say I'm not sleeping, they feel very

936
00:43:28.960 --> 00:43:31.400
<v Speaker 3>compelled to do something, and often that comes in the

937
00:43:31.400 --> 00:43:32.079
<v Speaker 3>form of a pill.

938
00:43:32.679 --> 00:43:36.119
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So remember, blue light from our phones and TVs

939
00:43:36.199 --> 00:43:40.000
<v Speaker 1>and laptops is just not something we've evolved to see

940
00:43:40.039 --> 00:43:42.719
<v Speaker 1>at night. Our brains process blue light as like, okay,

941
00:43:43.000 --> 00:43:46.639
<v Speaker 1>daytime or wakeness. Now, if blue light is the cock

942
00:43:46.679 --> 00:43:49.960
<v Speaker 1>blocker of melatonin, then it might be helpful to block

943
00:43:50.039 --> 00:43:53.320
<v Speaker 1>that cock block with cool blue blocker glasses, and by cool,

944
00:43:53.719 --> 00:43:58.039
<v Speaker 1>I mean warm toned. Now, which brand of glasses should

945
00:43:58.079 --> 00:44:02.400
<v Speaker 1>you buy? There are a million research them. First, I

946
00:44:02.440 --> 00:44:05.400
<v Speaker 1>found an article on Consumer Reports that tested three different

947
00:44:05.440 --> 00:44:08.039
<v Speaker 1>brands and they ranged in price from eight dollars to

948
00:44:08.159 --> 00:44:10.719
<v Speaker 1>like fifty five dollars, and the ones that cut the

949
00:44:10.719 --> 00:44:13.000
<v Speaker 1>most blue light they found out were the cheap ones.

950
00:44:13.159 --> 00:44:16.880
<v Speaker 1>One brand called Ubex skyper rated the highest. So the

951
00:44:16.920 --> 00:44:20.400
<v Speaker 1>most expensive ones cut about half the blue light is

952
00:44:20.440 --> 00:44:23.039
<v Speaker 1>the cheap ones in this particular study, so look it

953
00:44:23.119 --> 00:44:26.239
<v Speaker 1>up first. PS, if you are researching these classes on

954
00:44:26.280 --> 00:44:28.960
<v Speaker 1>your phone in bed right now, just let it wait

955
00:44:29.000 --> 00:44:32.639
<v Speaker 1>till tomorrow. A couple more questions in Little Here's Carl

956
00:44:32.880 --> 00:44:37.360
<v Speaker 1>and Hale's Parcels asked about blue lights on cell phones.

957
00:44:37.679 --> 00:44:39.519
<v Speaker 1>Should we be turning our phones to yellow? Should we

958
00:44:39.559 --> 00:44:42.599
<v Speaker 1>be taking our phones and throwing them into a landfill?

959
00:44:42.679 --> 00:44:43.639
<v Speaker 2>What should we be doing?

960
00:44:44.159 --> 00:44:46.039
<v Speaker 3>I don't think we need to throw our phones into

961
00:44:46.079 --> 00:44:47.760
<v Speaker 3>a landfill, although if you'd like to come to my

962
00:44:47.760 --> 00:44:50.280
<v Speaker 3>house into my kids' phones into a landfall, I would

963
00:44:50.320 --> 00:44:52.639
<v Speaker 3>not fight you on that one. I would actually disappointed,

964
00:44:52.679 --> 00:44:54.599
<v Speaker 3>but secretly be like ill. Thank god Miles came over

965
00:44:54.639 --> 00:44:57.519
<v Speaker 3>and through the phones in the landfill. So to me,

966
00:44:57.760 --> 00:45:00.800
<v Speaker 3>I think it's just about managing our phones. Phones are great.

967
00:45:01.360 --> 00:45:03.360
<v Speaker 3>They really help us kind of keep connected, they keep

968
00:45:03.440 --> 00:45:05.679
<v Speaker 3>us safe. There's all kinds of fun apps and whatnot,

969
00:45:05.760 --> 00:45:08.800
<v Speaker 3>and audiobooks, et cetera. To me, the biggest thing is

970
00:45:09.199 --> 00:45:12.920
<v Speaker 3>as we start moving from dinner to our bedtime, that

971
00:45:13.360 --> 00:45:15.480
<v Speaker 3>sort of period, we really want to start looking at

972
00:45:15.559 --> 00:45:19.000
<v Speaker 3>lighting in our house, our routines, and finding a way

973
00:45:19.119 --> 00:45:21.679
<v Speaker 3>to sort of move away from computers and cell phones

974
00:45:21.719 --> 00:45:24.840
<v Speaker 3>at that time. Okay, it's eleven o'clock. If somebody needs me,

975
00:45:24.880 --> 00:45:26.079
<v Speaker 3>they can get a hold of me. But I'm going

976
00:45:26.119 --> 00:45:28.440
<v Speaker 3>to plug my phone up in a kitchen. I'm not

977
00:45:28.440 --> 00:45:30.440
<v Speaker 3>going to take it into the bedroom with me. It's

978
00:45:30.480 --> 00:45:32.000
<v Speaker 3>something I can do when I can look at when

979
00:45:32.000 --> 00:45:34.760
<v Speaker 3>I'm having trouble sleeping. So I think, you know, good

980
00:45:34.840 --> 00:45:37.920
<v Speaker 3>hygiene with our cell phones is really important if you're

981
00:45:37.960 --> 00:45:40.480
<v Speaker 3>somebody here, you're a nurse, and you know you may

982
00:45:40.519 --> 00:45:42.760
<v Speaker 3>get called in the night, so you can't really separate

983
00:45:42.800 --> 00:45:46.039
<v Speaker 3>yourself from your phone at night, you know, installing things

984
00:45:46.159 --> 00:45:50.920
<v Speaker 3>like dimmers on our phones, or employing the little night settings,

985
00:45:51.000 --> 00:45:54.480
<v Speaker 3>or even getting little blue blocker glasses. Uvex make some

986
00:45:54.679 --> 00:45:56.880
<v Speaker 3>Swan Wicks, make some that you can keep on your

987
00:45:56.920 --> 00:45:58.719
<v Speaker 3>bedside table, so when you're looking at your phone, you

988
00:45:58.719 --> 00:46:01.400
<v Speaker 3>put the little blue blocker glasses on, so those harmful

989
00:46:01.639 --> 00:46:03.880
<v Speaker 3>wavelengths of light are not keeping you up at night free.

990
00:46:03.960 --> 00:46:07.480
<v Speaker 1>Johnson wants to know what's the difference between hypersomnia and narcolepsy.

991
00:46:07.960 --> 00:46:09.519
<v Speaker 2>So that's a great question, Brie.

992
00:46:10.119 --> 00:46:13.079
<v Speaker 3>Hypersomnia you can think of as being sort of the

993
00:46:13.559 --> 00:46:19.239
<v Speaker 3>umbrella term of the hypersomnia's narcolepsy, it would be a

994
00:46:19.280 --> 00:46:23.559
<v Speaker 3>specific one, and asking that question because of this term

995
00:46:23.719 --> 00:46:28.199
<v Speaker 3>idiopathic hypersomnia Wisk has thrown about in sleep, which is

996
00:46:28.280 --> 00:46:31.719
<v Speaker 3>essentially your sleepy He don't seem to fit all the

997
00:46:31.760 --> 00:46:34.440
<v Speaker 3>criteria of narclepsy, and the doctor has no idea what

998
00:46:34.480 --> 00:46:37.280
<v Speaker 3>to do with you, so they call you idiopathic hypersomnia,

999
00:46:37.280 --> 00:46:40.639
<v Speaker 3>which kind of drives me crazy. So lots of things

1000
00:46:40.679 --> 00:46:45.480
<v Speaker 3>can make us hypersomnic. Narcolepsy is a situation where you're

1001
00:46:45.519 --> 00:46:49.079
<v Speaker 3>not making chemicals in your brain that stabilize wakefulness. So

1002
00:46:49.119 --> 00:46:52.440
<v Speaker 3>a typical narcopsy patient will sleep eight hours, wakes up,

1003
00:46:52.480 --> 00:46:55.559
<v Speaker 3>feels pretty good, goes to his favorite art history class,

1004
00:46:55.599 --> 00:46:57.320
<v Speaker 3>sits down the front row because he thinks if I

1005
00:46:57.400 --> 00:47:00.000
<v Speaker 3>sit in the front row won't fall asleep, and immediately

1006
00:47:00.159 --> 00:47:02.480
<v Speaker 3>nods off and doesn't even feel sleepy to begin with.

1007
00:47:02.960 --> 00:47:05.760
<v Speaker 1>This literally happened to me in an art history class

1008
00:47:05.840 --> 00:47:08.480
<v Speaker 1>in an auditorium of six hundred people. I sat in

1009
00:47:08.480 --> 00:47:12.039
<v Speaker 1>the front row to stay awake, and I fall asleep.

1010
00:47:12.320 --> 00:47:16.239
<v Speaker 1>So either every person on earth has done this, specifically

1011
00:47:16.360 --> 00:47:19.320
<v Speaker 1>in an art history class about double barrel vaulted stealing

1012
00:47:19.400 --> 00:47:22.760
<v Speaker 1>architecture in cluinneal villages. Or I'm just more and more

1013
00:47:22.800 --> 00:47:25.960
<v Speaker 1>convinced that doctor Winter guessed this because there is a

1014
00:47:26.000 --> 00:47:28.960
<v Speaker 1>glitch in the simulation. We're all living in an alternative

1015
00:47:29.039 --> 00:47:31.280
<v Speaker 1>universe anyway, So some people get tired.

1016
00:47:31.480 --> 00:47:34.440
<v Speaker 3>So these are individuals who are largely outside of control

1017
00:47:34.480 --> 00:47:35.480
<v Speaker 3>of their own sleepiness.

1018
00:47:35.559 --> 00:47:36.920
<v Speaker 2>How do you know which you are?

1019
00:47:37.159 --> 00:47:41.320
<v Speaker 3>So that would be something that would probably require visiting

1020
00:47:41.360 --> 00:47:44.400
<v Speaker 3>a sleep specialist, But we've talked about some things already

1021
00:47:44.400 --> 00:47:48.800
<v Speaker 3>that kind of indicate it. Number one, you're a hypersomnic.

1022
00:47:48.880 --> 00:47:51.800
<v Speaker 3>You're excessively sleepy, which is different from being fatigued. You're

1023
00:47:51.840 --> 00:47:55.519
<v Speaker 3>saying no, no, no, beyond fatigue. I can't read without

1024
00:47:55.559 --> 00:47:58.000
<v Speaker 3>falling asleep, A fall asleep watching shows. I don't go

1025
00:47:58.039 --> 00:48:00.559
<v Speaker 3>out on dates because always, not often, it makes me

1026
00:48:00.599 --> 00:48:04.239
<v Speaker 3>feel uncomfortable. So you're expressing a lot of drive to

1027
00:48:04.320 --> 00:48:08.360
<v Speaker 3>sleep despite adequate sleep. Sleep paralysis can come someings go

1028
00:48:08.400 --> 00:48:11.039
<v Speaker 3>along with it. An entity called cataplexy can go along

1029
00:48:11.039 --> 00:48:14.159
<v Speaker 3>with it. When somebody is wide awake, often feels some

1030
00:48:14.199 --> 00:48:18.320
<v Speaker 3>sort of emotional upset or elation. They're happy and all

1031
00:48:18.320 --> 00:48:21.119
<v Speaker 3>of a sudden feels paralyzed, like their knees want to buckle,

1032
00:48:21.199 --> 00:48:23.519
<v Speaker 3>or they can't hold their head up, or their hands

1033
00:48:23.559 --> 00:48:26.800
<v Speaker 3>become very limp. People have very vivid hallucinations as their

1034
00:48:26.840 --> 00:48:29.800
<v Speaker 3>falling asleeper waking up at a young woman with narcolepsy

1035
00:48:29.840 --> 00:48:32.480
<v Speaker 3>who had this hallucination that her husband was like rummaging

1036
00:48:32.519 --> 00:48:34.960
<v Speaker 3>around her underwear drawer, and so she confronted them the.

1037
00:48:34.960 --> 00:48:37.280
<v Speaker 2>Next morning and said, what were you looking for? Why

1038
00:48:37.320 --> 00:48:38.000
<v Speaker 2>were you under her door?

1039
00:48:38.039 --> 00:48:39.960
<v Speaker 3>He's like, I was not in your underwear drawer, and

1040
00:48:40.000 --> 00:48:42.039
<v Speaker 3>she's like, I'm certain that you were. He's like, honey,

1041
00:48:42.119 --> 00:48:43.880
<v Speaker 3>I would tell you if I were. I wasn't. And

1042
00:48:43.920 --> 00:48:46.000
<v Speaker 3>she came to understand that over time, she was having

1043
00:48:46.000 --> 00:48:49.039
<v Speaker 3>these very vivid hallucinations as she was waking up that

1044
00:48:49.079 --> 00:48:49.840
<v Speaker 3>really weren't real.

1045
00:48:50.079 --> 00:48:50.599
<v Speaker 2>Oh wow.

1046
00:48:50.760 --> 00:48:55.480
<v Speaker 3>So a lot of people with narclepsy struggle to discern

1047
00:48:56.039 --> 00:49:01.000
<v Speaker 3>reality and something that's not meaning. I thought I did

1048
00:49:01.039 --> 00:49:03.760
<v Speaker 3>a podcast with Ali, but I ran into her and

1049
00:49:03.760 --> 00:49:05.440
<v Speaker 3>she's like, no, we haven't done it. Yet it's coming

1050
00:49:05.519 --> 00:49:07.639
<v Speaker 3>up next week, so you start to doubt, did I

1051
00:49:07.679 --> 00:49:09.559
<v Speaker 3>pay the bill, did I have the conversation with my

1052
00:49:09.559 --> 00:49:11.480
<v Speaker 3>neighbor about barring the lawmow?

1053
00:49:11.559 --> 00:49:13.320
<v Speaker 2>Or did the podcast ever happen?

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00:49:13.440 --> 00:49:16.400
<v Speaker 3>They sort of live in this weird place in between

1055
00:49:16.440 --> 00:49:19.599
<v Speaker 3>reality and dreaming and have this difficulty understanding which was real.

1056
00:49:20.599 --> 00:49:22.840
<v Speaker 2>Are there any movies about sleep that you love or hate?

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00:49:23.239 --> 00:49:25.639
<v Speaker 3>Remember a movie called Insomnia? I think it was like

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00:49:25.719 --> 00:49:28.079
<v Speaker 3>with al Pacino and Robin Williams. That was thought was

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00:49:28.119 --> 00:49:32.079
<v Speaker 3>really interesting because it was mainly filmed in Alaska when

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00:49:32.119 --> 00:49:33.400
<v Speaker 3>it was always dark.

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00:49:33.440 --> 00:49:35.719
<v Speaker 2>I always thought that was kind of interesting. Are you

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00:49:35.760 --> 00:49:38.360
<v Speaker 2>doing okay? I mean you haven't been sleeping much, Detective Dormer,

1063
00:49:40.360 --> 00:49:42.039
<v Speaker 2>Another night up like this and you're really going to

1064
00:49:42.119 --> 00:49:45.800
<v Speaker 2>lose it. Don't worry. Well, you can sleep when you're dead.

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<v Speaker 1>So this movie seems kind of scary but very al

1066
00:49:50.199 --> 00:49:55.239
<v Speaker 1>PACINOI that's my official scholarly review. Also, his character's name

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00:49:55.519 --> 00:49:59.960
<v Speaker 1>is Detective Dormer and it's about sleep. Dormer literally means

1068
00:50:00.119 --> 00:50:02.920
<v Speaker 1>sleep in French. I only watch a trailer, but if

1069
00:50:02.920 --> 00:50:04.639
<v Speaker 1>there is not a scene in this movie where two

1070
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<v Speaker 1>cops are like eating apple fritters in a squad car,

1071
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<v Speaker 1>being like, it's so weird that this movie is about

1072
00:50:09.960 --> 00:50:12.440
<v Speaker 1>sleep and your name literally means sleep. Then I refuse

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<v Speaker 1>to see the film.

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<v Speaker 3>Generally, Hollywood tends to treat things like narcolepsy as almost comical.

1075
00:50:18.719 --> 00:50:21.840
<v Speaker 3>You know, it's a funny character that every time something

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00:50:21.880 --> 00:50:23.079
<v Speaker 3>happens he falls over.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe the one that I would like the most is.

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00:50:25.480 --> 00:50:30.679
<v Speaker 3>Inception because it sort of touches on this idea of

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<v Speaker 3>lucid dreaming, which I thought was really cool and really

1080
00:50:33.119 --> 00:50:35.559
<v Speaker 3>took it to a neat place. I think lucid dreaming

1081
00:50:35.679 --> 00:50:38.480
<v Speaker 3>is a fascinating topic, So maybe that's the one that

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00:50:38.519 --> 00:50:39.159
<v Speaker 3>would choose.

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00:50:39.320 --> 00:50:42.239
<v Speaker 4>Is lucid dreaming something you can choose to do. It's

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00:50:42.280 --> 00:50:45.800
<v Speaker 4>something that you can you can it's a skill. Now

1085
00:50:45.840 --> 00:50:49.679
<v Speaker 4>some people just do it if you've never had lucid dreams.

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<v Speaker 4>So lucid dreaming is simply being aware that you're dreaming

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<v Speaker 4>when you're dreaming.

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<v Speaker 1>As long as I'm so horny for entomology in this episode.

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<v Speaker 1>Lucid comes from the root word for light or clear,

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00:51:00.119 --> 00:51:04.559
<v Speaker 1>and it was coined by Dutch psychiatrist Frederick van Eden

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<v Speaker 1>in a nineteen thirteen paper called A Study of Dreams

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00:51:08.440 --> 00:51:12.159
<v Speaker 1>so exploring free will in different states of consciousness was

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00:51:12.199 --> 00:51:15.519
<v Speaker 1>pretty progressive for an old and timing dude. But he

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00:51:15.599 --> 00:51:18.400
<v Speaker 1>also thought the demons cause nightmares, so.

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00:51:18.559 --> 00:51:21.480
<v Speaker 3>You know, and then dream control is sort of the

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00:51:21.480 --> 00:51:25.559
<v Speaker 3>next step of oh wow, I'm dreaming that I'm doing

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00:51:25.559 --> 00:51:27.880
<v Speaker 3>this thing. I'm staying on top of a building. Dream

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00:51:27.920 --> 00:51:30.880
<v Speaker 3>control would mean you could actually just control yourself jump

1099
00:51:30.920 --> 00:51:33.840
<v Speaker 3>off the building and then fly. So you can do it,

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00:51:34.880 --> 00:51:37.039
<v Speaker 3>and the way to do it is to really start

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00:51:37.079 --> 00:51:40.960
<v Speaker 3>becoming aware of your own reality. And so what I

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00:51:40.960 --> 00:51:42.800
<v Speaker 3>would do when I was going through this phase of

1103
00:51:42.960 --> 00:51:46.639
<v Speaker 3>trying it out and writing about it for this outlet,

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00:51:46.920 --> 00:51:49.760
<v Speaker 3>I would during the day, I would take my ring off,

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00:51:50.119 --> 00:51:51.000
<v Speaker 3>my wedding ring off.

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00:51:51.119 --> 00:51:53.679
<v Speaker 2>I would turn it around and look at.

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00:51:53.480 --> 00:51:55.320
<v Speaker 3>It and kind of look at my hands and say,

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00:51:55.719 --> 00:51:58.079
<v Speaker 3>this is a real thing I'm doing. I'm not dreaming,

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00:51:58.079 --> 00:51:59.360
<v Speaker 3>and that would put it back on. So I could

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00:51:59.360 --> 00:52:01.519
<v Speaker 3>actually do that mind as I drove or as I was

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00:52:01.559 --> 00:52:04.360
<v Speaker 3>talking to patients. And then what you start to do

1112
00:52:04.480 --> 00:52:07.800
<v Speaker 3>is you start to question reality in your dreams. And

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<v Speaker 3>so what happened was I would have these dreams. I

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00:52:10.199 --> 00:52:12.639
<v Speaker 3>had one dream that I was going to a circus,

1115
00:52:13.199 --> 00:52:15.400
<v Speaker 3>and all of a sudden, I was like, wait a minute,

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00:52:15.679 --> 00:52:17.159
<v Speaker 3>and I would look at my hands and they were

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00:52:17.159 --> 00:52:19.480
<v Speaker 3>all distorted. I was like, this is a dream, I'm

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00:52:19.480 --> 00:52:21.320
<v Speaker 3>doing it, and that would wake up because I was

1119
00:52:21.360 --> 00:52:24.559
<v Speaker 3>so excited. But eventually you get to this place where

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00:52:24.880 --> 00:52:26.599
<v Speaker 3>you just kind of make it a habit to sort

1121
00:52:26.599 --> 00:52:29.079
<v Speaker 3>of question your reality throughout the day, and you bring

1122
00:52:29.119 --> 00:52:32.239
<v Speaker 3>that behavior into your dreams, and as you start to realize,

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00:52:32.679 --> 00:52:34.159
<v Speaker 3>oh wait, this isn't a dream, you can do a

1124
00:52:34.199 --> 00:52:36.440
<v Speaker 3>lot of really cool things. One is, look at your hands.

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00:52:36.719 --> 00:52:39.039
<v Speaker 3>Our brains do a very poor job of rendering our

1126
00:52:39.079 --> 00:52:41.960
<v Speaker 3>hands and our dreams, so you'll have like twelve fingers

1127
00:52:42.039 --> 00:52:45.199
<v Speaker 3>or like two massive monster fingers or something.

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00:52:45.719 --> 00:52:47.480
<v Speaker 1>So side note, I look this up and there's this

1129
00:52:47.599 --> 00:52:51.920
<v Speaker 1>whole wiki site and forum on lucid dreaming wherein people

1130
00:52:52.000 --> 00:52:56.039
<v Speaker 1>shared their weird finger experiences. Here are two of my favorites.

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00:52:56.199 --> 00:53:00.280
<v Speaker 1>One is I remember to do a reality check at

1132
00:53:00.320 --> 00:53:04.960
<v Speaker 1>my hands and realized that they're actually class. Another person said, quote,

1133
00:53:05.239 --> 00:53:09.320
<v Speaker 1>my fingers appeared jumbled as if I had no bones. Okay,

1134
00:53:09.400 --> 00:53:12.960
<v Speaker 1>so all Ward is no Edwardian era mental health professional,

1135
00:53:13.039 --> 00:53:16.320
<v Speaker 1>but I'm fairly certain that these people are just afflicted

1136
00:53:16.320 --> 00:53:16.960
<v Speaker 1>by demons.

1137
00:53:17.079 --> 00:53:18.559
<v Speaker 3>The other thing you can do is, like you know,

1138
00:53:18.679 --> 00:53:21.880
<v Speaker 3>pull your skin or push your finger into the palm

1139
00:53:21.880 --> 00:53:23.519
<v Speaker 3>of your hand. A lot of times it will pass

1140
00:53:23.639 --> 00:53:27.639
<v Speaker 3>through or your skin's very flexible. If you look down

1141
00:53:27.679 --> 00:53:30.920
<v Speaker 3>at your feet, your feet often don't touch the ground,

1142
00:53:31.320 --> 00:53:33.239
<v Speaker 3>which is probably where you're not to touch the earth.

1143
00:53:33.320 --> 00:53:35.840
<v Speaker 3>Your feet don't touch the ground. Our brain has trouble

1144
00:53:35.880 --> 00:53:39.039
<v Speaker 3>rendering our body in three dimensional space. It's really cool

1145
00:53:39.039 --> 00:53:41.480
<v Speaker 3>to look up at the ceiling of your house, which

1146
00:53:41.559 --> 00:53:44.320
<v Speaker 3>often looks like the sky. Everything when we look up

1147
00:53:44.400 --> 00:53:47.159
<v Speaker 3>typically looks dark. During the lucid dream, my favorite thing

1148
00:53:47.280 --> 00:53:49.639
<v Speaker 3>is try to find a mirror in your dream and

1149
00:53:49.639 --> 00:53:50.360
<v Speaker 3>look at your face.

1150
00:53:50.719 --> 00:53:54.039
<v Speaker 2>That is absolutely a total freak show. Oh my god.

1151
00:53:55.079 --> 00:53:56.719
<v Speaker 2>It's cheaper than drugs too.

1152
00:53:57.199 --> 00:53:59.440
<v Speaker 3>I would imagine, so yeah, and it's and you can

1153
00:53:59.519 --> 00:54:01.559
<v Speaker 3>get better at it. I had a swim coach when

1154
00:54:01.639 --> 00:54:04.280
<v Speaker 3>my son's swim coaches told me one time he was

1155
00:54:04.360 --> 00:54:07.519
<v Speaker 3>such a good lucid dreamer that he could actually plan out.

1156
00:54:08.400 --> 00:54:11.559
<v Speaker 3>He could use the time and his dreams constructively. Like

1157
00:54:11.599 --> 00:54:13.440
<v Speaker 3>he would think, Okay, well, we're going to swim this

1158
00:54:13.519 --> 00:54:16.440
<v Speaker 3>team next week. I'm going to construct my relays this way.

1159
00:54:16.440 --> 00:54:19.400
<v Speaker 3>I'm going to actually sacrifice this relay because I don't

1160
00:54:19.400 --> 00:54:21.280
<v Speaker 3>think we would beat them anyway, and we'll put them

1161
00:54:21.280 --> 00:54:23.199
<v Speaker 3>in these events like so we have it all worked

1162
00:54:23.199 --> 00:54:24.280
<v Speaker 3>out by the time he woke up.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, it's really interesting. Yeah, that's billable hours.

1164
00:54:28.320 --> 00:54:29.719
<v Speaker 2>That's good. That's exactly right.

1165
00:54:30.840 --> 00:54:34.360
<v Speaker 1>And any flim flam you'd like to debunk anything, any

1166
00:54:34.400 --> 00:54:35.559
<v Speaker 1>myths that you wanted to dispel.

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<v Speaker 3>Alcohol is terrible for your sleep. Have as much as

1168
00:54:39.719 --> 00:54:41.559
<v Speaker 3>you want to have it with breakfast.

1169
00:54:41.159 --> 00:54:42.960
<v Speaker 1>Do you want a mimosa?

1170
00:54:43.440 --> 00:54:46.199
<v Speaker 3>In general, you always tell people look sedation and sleep

1171
00:54:46.280 --> 00:54:47.239
<v Speaker 3>or two different things.

1172
00:54:47.599 --> 00:54:49.199
<v Speaker 2>Michael Jackson, Heath led Er.

1173
00:54:49.239 --> 00:54:51.400
<v Speaker 3>A lot of people figured these things out the hard way,

1174
00:54:51.440 --> 00:54:54.440
<v Speaker 3>and it's always upsetting to me that I know people

1175
00:54:54.519 --> 00:54:56.800
<v Speaker 3>like that and people out there are going to people

1176
00:54:56.880 --> 00:54:59.760
<v Speaker 3>for help and it just seems to be this arms race.

1177
00:55:00.119 --> 00:55:02.679
<v Speaker 3>How much sedation can we give somebody, So be very

1178
00:55:02.719 --> 00:55:03.320
<v Speaker 3>careful with that.

1179
00:55:04.119 --> 00:55:04.440
<v Speaker 2>Ps.

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<v Speaker 1>So, speaking of alcohol specifically, it can help sedate you

1181
00:55:08.280 --> 00:55:11.039
<v Speaker 1>into light sleep. But do you remember how rams sleep

1182
00:55:11.400 --> 00:55:13.400
<v Speaker 1>happens in the second part of the night, and it's

1183
00:55:13.440 --> 00:55:16.280
<v Speaker 1>the one that's restorative for your memory, it's good for

1184
00:55:16.360 --> 00:55:20.559
<v Speaker 1>your mood and concentration. So alcohol disrupts that it's kind

1185
00:55:20.599 --> 00:55:22.960
<v Speaker 1>of like the friend who leads you to a party

1186
00:55:23.320 --> 00:55:26.000
<v Speaker 1>and then ditches you there and the party sucks. Do

1187
00:55:26.119 --> 00:55:28.559
<v Speaker 1>not trust it. Alcohol can be kind of a dick

1188
00:55:28.599 --> 00:55:28.960
<v Speaker 1>that way.

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<v Speaker 3>I think the idea that if you in your dreams,

1190
00:55:32.079 --> 00:55:34.639
<v Speaker 3>if you you're falling and you hit the ground, you die,

1191
00:55:34.639 --> 00:55:36.280
<v Speaker 3>I don't think that's the way the case at all.

1192
00:55:36.679 --> 00:55:38.440
<v Speaker 2>That's not true.

1193
00:55:39.239 --> 00:55:42.400
<v Speaker 3>I don't know. There's so many great questions. I feel

1194
00:55:42.400 --> 00:55:43.599
<v Speaker 3>like we've covered everything.

1195
00:55:44.239 --> 00:55:48.280
<v Speaker 1>What about What about things too, like counting sheep or

1196
00:55:48.400 --> 00:55:51.199
<v Speaker 1>the method where you breathe seven in four out.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely So.

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00:55:52.320 --> 00:55:55.840
<v Speaker 1>This breathing exercise was developed by doctor Andrew Wheel who

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<v Speaker 1>kind of cribbed it off of pranayama, which is an

1200
00:55:58.400 --> 00:56:02.360
<v Speaker 1>ancient technique. So that just you do this. You exhale

1201
00:56:02.400 --> 00:56:05.360
<v Speaker 1>completely through your mouth and you make a whoosh kind

1202
00:56:05.400 --> 00:56:08.239
<v Speaker 1>of sound, and then you close your lips and hail

1203
00:56:08.360 --> 00:56:11.400
<v Speaker 1>through your nose as you count to four in your head,

1204
00:56:11.599 --> 00:56:17.079
<v Speaker 1>So four count, hold the breath in for seven seconds,

1205
00:56:18.320 --> 00:56:21.360
<v Speaker 1>and then over the next eight count in your head,

1206
00:56:22.760 --> 00:56:26.480
<v Speaker 1>make a wishing exhale from your mouth. So you practice

1207
00:56:26.519 --> 00:56:31.280
<v Speaker 1>this pattern for four full breaths. You inhale for four,

1208
00:56:31.960 --> 00:56:36.360
<v Speaker 1>hold for seven exhale over eight. It's supposed to distract

1209
00:56:36.400 --> 00:56:40.159
<v Speaker 1>you from anxiety and calm your nervous system. You're breathing,

1210
00:56:40.440 --> 00:56:44.480
<v Speaker 1>you're getting oxygen, you're doing math. You're not thinking about

1211
00:56:44.480 --> 00:56:46.559
<v Speaker 1>whether or not the thing you bought for the office

1212
00:56:46.599 --> 00:56:50.119
<v Speaker 1>gift exchange was too cheap. But what's my mom's big

1213
00:56:50.199 --> 00:56:51.119
<v Speaker 1>insomnia trick?

1214
00:56:51.280 --> 00:56:53.400
<v Speaker 2>Here? It is? I feel like it deserves a soft

1215
00:56:53.480 --> 00:56:53.960
<v Speaker 2>drum roll.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, good, We're gonna call it the sleepy fancy nancy technique.

1217
00:57:00.079 --> 00:57:02.760
<v Speaker 1>My mom does this thing she taught me that works

1218
00:57:02.800 --> 00:57:06.239
<v Speaker 1>like a charm where you think of a category like fruits,

1219
00:57:06.639 --> 00:57:09.679
<v Speaker 1>or boys' names or electronics, and then you go with

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00:57:09.800 --> 00:57:13.400
<v Speaker 1>something that starts with a okay, apple b BlackBerry, see,

1221
00:57:13.840 --> 00:57:16.159
<v Speaker 1>and then you go down and I never make it

1222
00:57:16.199 --> 00:57:20.239
<v Speaker 1>past like ll, I'm out. But do you have anything

1223
00:57:20.239 --> 00:57:20.679
<v Speaker 1>else like that?

1224
00:57:21.960 --> 00:57:22.960
<v Speaker 2>I think that's awesome.

1225
00:57:23.119 --> 00:57:26.199
<v Speaker 1>Some sample categories you can use for this alphabet game

1226
00:57:26.480 --> 00:57:32.320
<v Speaker 1>types of fruit, boys' names, girls' names, gender neutral names, cities, snacks,

1227
00:57:32.599 --> 00:57:37.679
<v Speaker 1>vacation activities, clothing brands, cereals, items you would keep it

1228
00:57:37.719 --> 00:57:41.960
<v Speaker 1>a purse, animals, really anything. I've done so many of these.

1229
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<v Speaker 1>Let me know what some of your sleepy fancy Nancy

1230
00:57:44.760 --> 00:57:47.679
<v Speaker 1>categories are I'm here for them. I will probably use

1231
00:57:47.719 --> 00:57:49.559
<v Speaker 1>them next time I'm jet lagged in awake on the

1232
00:57:49.559 --> 00:57:51.639
<v Speaker 1>wrong coast, which will literally be tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 3>So to me, what you're hitting on is something very

1234
00:57:54.440 --> 00:57:58.119
<v Speaker 3>important and without getting too crazy into it, as you

1235
00:57:58.119 --> 00:58:00.639
<v Speaker 3>get back to the idea of what insomnia is, it's

1236
00:58:00.679 --> 00:58:03.960
<v Speaker 3>really not the inability to sleep. But when people who

1237
00:58:04.039 --> 00:58:06.960
<v Speaker 3>have insomnia really start to struggle, they really start to

1238
00:58:07.039 --> 00:58:10.320
<v Speaker 3>try to sleep. If I'm sitting out watching television, I'm

1239
00:58:10.360 --> 00:58:14.480
<v Speaker 3>finishing up watching bats when Paradise, I can never make

1240
00:58:14.519 --> 00:58:14.840
<v Speaker 3>it to.

1241
00:58:14.840 --> 00:58:18.880
<v Speaker 2>The Rose finale because I always fall asleep. Katie, I

1242
00:58:18.920 --> 00:58:21.840
<v Speaker 2>accidentally called out the wrong name. I would like to

1243
00:58:21.840 --> 00:58:24.960
<v Speaker 2>extend to you the option of staying. I'll say, see

1244
00:58:24.960 --> 00:58:26.599
<v Speaker 2>how things go. Sure, thank you.

1245
00:58:26.800 --> 00:58:29.079
<v Speaker 3>But then I wake up, I get into bed and

1246
00:58:29.119 --> 00:58:31.400
<v Speaker 3>I can't fall asleep. Why is that, Doctor Winnis, Because

1247
00:58:31.440 --> 00:58:33.239
<v Speaker 3>when you're watching the Batcher, what are you trying to do?

1248
00:58:33.480 --> 00:58:37.719
<v Speaker 3>You're trying to figure out if Astrod is going to

1249
00:58:37.760 --> 00:58:40.039
<v Speaker 3>stick with this guy or she gonna dump him because

1250
00:58:40.039 --> 00:58:41.239
<v Speaker 3>he set a dog or whatever like.

1251
00:58:41.280 --> 00:58:42.239
<v Speaker 2>That's what you're trying to do.

1252
00:58:42.320 --> 00:58:44.840
<v Speaker 3>You're not trying to sleep when you go to bed

1253
00:58:44.840 --> 00:58:46.840
<v Speaker 3>and you turn the lights off. A lot of people

1254
00:58:46.960 --> 00:58:50.000
<v Speaker 3>suddenly really start to try to sleep. So you struck

1255
00:58:50.079 --> 00:58:53.079
<v Speaker 3>upon something that's very important. Give yourself a task that's

1256
00:58:53.119 --> 00:58:55.519
<v Speaker 3>not trying to sleep. You're kind of giving yourself sort

1257
00:58:55.519 --> 00:58:57.840
<v Speaker 3>of a complicated task. You're trying to visualize the letter

1258
00:58:57.840 --> 00:59:01.800
<v Speaker 3>of the alphabet. Okab, what's a fruit? Blueberry? Okay, great,

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<v Speaker 3>see you. Let's tell way cherry. I guess so now

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<v Speaker 3>you've decided you're not going to try to sleep. You're

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<v Speaker 3>just gonna relax and name fruit or named boyfriends. We

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<v Speaker 3>tell our professional athletes all the time. Look, when you

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<v Speaker 3>go to bed, professional pitcher, I want you to throw

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00:59:14.719 --> 00:59:19.039
<v Speaker 3>thirty perfect pitches before you fall asleep. Oh wow, Visualize

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<v Speaker 3>the stadium around you, your favorite catcher, you're on the mound, everything,

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<v Speaker 3>your coat, your pitching coach shows you, your arm slot,

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<v Speaker 3>your movement.

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<v Speaker 2>Of the ball.

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<v Speaker 3>Let go visualize the ball in real time, flying through

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<v Speaker 3>the air and landing in your catcher's mitt. Look around,

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00:59:32.679 --> 00:59:34.840
<v Speaker 3>scratch yourself, catch the ball when he throws it back

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<v Speaker 3>to you, and do it again.

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<v Speaker 2>Once you do it thirty times, then you're allowed to

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<v Speaker 2>fall asleep.

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<v Speaker 3>What's so funny is they'll come back and say, man, Doc,

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<v Speaker 3>you know I'm trying to do that thing you asked

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<v Speaker 3>me to do and shoot those free throws before I

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<v Speaker 3>go to bed, or throw those pitch before we go bed,

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00:59:45.360 --> 00:59:47.719
<v Speaker 3>and I can only throw about four or five pitches.

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<v Speaker 3>The next thing an m alarm clocks going off, right,

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<v Speaker 3>So I don't tell them. Well there, that's the point

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<v Speaker 3>is that you know that I'm trying to get you

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<v Speaker 3>away from this idea of let me think about trying

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<v Speaker 3>to sleep, but oh no, I'm not asleep yet.

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<v Speaker 2>What am we gonna do? And try to find something

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<v Speaker 2>else to other?

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<v Speaker 3>Cool thing is that when you pick an activity, So

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<v Speaker 3>if you're somebody who is a pitcher or a basketball player,

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<v Speaker 3>you like to do you like to run, or you

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01:00:07.119 --> 01:00:10.519
<v Speaker 3>do some sort of special skill, if you visualize yourself

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<v Speaker 3>doing that at night, your brain doesn't differentiate practicing something

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01:00:15.360 --> 01:00:18.280
<v Speaker 3>and actually visualizing it that well. So if you're somebody

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<v Speaker 3>who likes to, you know, play basketball, visualizing yourself shooting

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01:00:23.440 --> 01:00:25.960
<v Speaker 3>those free throws will make you a better ballplayer.

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01:00:26.320 --> 01:00:27.480
<v Speaker 2>So I love the idea that.

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<v Speaker 3>Either way, even if you make it through your thirty

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<v Speaker 3>free throws and want to do thirty more, it's not

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<v Speaker 3>wasted time. There's a really cool device called Muse, which

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<v Speaker 3>is a little headband or it's a pair of sunglasses

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<v Speaker 3>that measures your brain activity and feeds it back to

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<v Speaker 3>you through your earbuds.

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<v Speaker 2>Is the form of like the sound of the rainforest.

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<v Speaker 3>So when you sit there at lunch time, you finish

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<v Speaker 3>up your lunch, you put your little Muse thing on,

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01:00:49.519 --> 01:00:52.480
<v Speaker 3>you do a little meditation session. You can practice the

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<v Speaker 3>ability of quieting your mind down, so you can learn

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<v Speaker 3>what it takes to make the sound of the ocean

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<v Speaker 3>get really quiet, and then you think about your mother

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01:01:00.199 --> 01:01:02.599
<v Speaker 3>in law gets really loud again, so you can so

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<v Speaker 3>now when you go to bed at night, you've gotten

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<v Speaker 3>very good at this ability to quiet your mind, which

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<v Speaker 3>either help you fall asleep or allows you to sort

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<v Speaker 3>of assume this sort of meditative state, which by some studies.

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<v Speaker 2>Is just as good as sleep. Wow.

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<v Speaker 3>And the cool thing too, is I love this story

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<v Speaker 3>you gave because you've got this little mechanism that gives

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<v Speaker 3>you confidence, like you know what to do. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 3>get in bed, I'm gonna fall asleep usually no problem.

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<v Speaker 3>But if I can't, I'll just do what you described.

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<v Speaker 3>And what's funny is I was talking to a magazine

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<v Speaker 3>editor one time. I was describing her the benefits of

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<v Speaker 3>resting and how sleep's great, but resting is very good too.

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<v Speaker 2>I just don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Believe that, you know, even though you're telling me all

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<v Speaker 3>his research. And I said, yeah, so if you just

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<v Speaker 3>rest it all through the night, you'd be okay the

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<v Speaker 3>next day. You wouldn't be perfect, but you wouldn't you know,

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<v Speaker 3>the F word in my clinic is function.

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<v Speaker 2>You wouldn't be dysfunctional.

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<v Speaker 3>And she said, gosh, you know, why don't you do that,

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<v Speaker 3>like prove it, Like why don't you just rest all

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<v Speaker 3>night and write an article? But I was like, sure,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll do that. I've been trying to write this for

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<v Speaker 3>two years, very exactly what you said. I get in bed,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to like, okay, I'm gonna I want to

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<v Speaker 3>start off with state capitals. I'll start with Maine. I

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01:02:06.440 --> 01:02:10.039
<v Speaker 3>think it's Augusta, Maine. I think, is that right? And

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<v Speaker 3>then you know, by the time I get to like Virginia,

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01:02:12.480 --> 01:02:14.639
<v Speaker 3>I'm out cold and long cart goes off. So I'm

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01:02:14.800 --> 01:02:17.840
<v Speaker 3>trying really hard to be in a dark room with

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01:02:17.880 --> 01:02:20.039
<v Speaker 3>my eyes closed, but not sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's amazing how quickly sleep comes and you try

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01:02:22.239 --> 01:02:22.800
<v Speaker 2>not to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, that's a very good parting words, Let's repeat that, and.

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<v Speaker 2>It's amazing how quickly sleep comes and you try not

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<v Speaker 2>to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, what's your least favorite thing about your job? What

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<v Speaker 1>sucks the most?

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<v Speaker 3>What sucks the most about my job is? Uh, this

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01:02:39.519 --> 01:02:42.239
<v Speaker 3>is a great, great question. I'll step on my soapbox.

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<v Speaker 3>I love treating patients. I love helping people sleep better.

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01:02:47.760 --> 01:02:51.840
<v Speaker 3>But in our current medical climate, it is very difficult.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not trying to paint a sob story here, but

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<v Speaker 3>it is very difficult for doctors to spend time with

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01:02:57.400 --> 01:03:01.159
<v Speaker 3>patients and get enough money from insurances to keep the

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01:03:01.239 --> 01:03:03.159
<v Speaker 3>lights on their clinic. I read an article in Forbes

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01:03:03.159 --> 01:03:07.480
<v Speaker 3>about how many doctors are literally living paycheck to paycheck,

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01:03:07.519 --> 01:03:09.000
<v Speaker 3>which was funny because one time my wife and I

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01:03:09.079 --> 01:03:11.639
<v Speaker 3>were watching The Bachelor, speaking of the Bachelor, and the

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01:03:11.679 --> 01:03:14.920
<v Speaker 3>host comes out and says, oh, and ladies, he's a doctor,

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01:03:15.239 --> 01:03:17.159
<v Speaker 3>and like all the ladies are, Oh, it's so great,

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01:03:17.280 --> 01:03:20.760
<v Speaker 3>and my wife literally audibly grown. She's like, Oh, it's

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01:03:20.840 --> 01:03:23.039
<v Speaker 3>not the cash cow you think it is. So but

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<v Speaker 3>the issue really is that the biggest thing I struggle

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<v Speaker 3>what sucks is that I don't feel like I have

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01:03:29.119 --> 01:03:32.920
<v Speaker 3>the time to devote to my patients sometimes because I've

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01:03:32.960 --> 01:03:34.960
<v Speaker 3>got to see a certain number of people to pay

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01:03:35.079 --> 01:03:38.000
<v Speaker 3>my office staff. Now, being able to lecture, being able

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01:03:38.000 --> 01:03:39.760
<v Speaker 3>to write a book and talk to people like you

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01:03:39.880 --> 01:03:43.119
<v Speaker 3>work with sports teams takes a tremendous pressure off of

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<v Speaker 3>my clinic that a lot of practitioners, really good practitioners,

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<v Speaker 3>don't have. So hopefully, you know, we'll be able to

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01:03:48.800 --> 01:03:52.280
<v Speaker 3>kind of work around this and make healthcare affordable but

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<v Speaker 3>also allow doctors to practice their craft in a way

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01:03:55.559 --> 01:03:57.119
<v Speaker 3>that they can help patients and not feel like they

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01:03:57.159 --> 01:03:58.960
<v Speaker 3>got to see thirty patients in the day, right.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think patients like it either.

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<v Speaker 3>They don't, And you know, I talk pretty freely about

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01:04:04.000 --> 01:04:05.920
<v Speaker 3>it with my patients, like if I'm late or running

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<v Speaker 3>behind or whatnot. You always try to make sure that

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<v Speaker 3>every patient can say what they want to say if

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<v Speaker 3>it means I won't be a little bit late.

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<v Speaker 2>And for most people, they're they're they're pretty patient.

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<v Speaker 1>They're pretty patient. So thanks for your patients, patients. Oh fuck,

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<v Speaker 1>do I.

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<v Speaker 2>Have to do another etymology for this one? I do?

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<v Speaker 1>I do. I can't not Okay, So I just looked

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<v Speaker 1>this up and the root for both patients and patients

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<v Speaker 1>is the Latin for suffering. So next time someone thanks

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<v Speaker 1>you for your patients, they're saying literally, thank you for

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01:04:35.400 --> 01:04:38.840
<v Speaker 1>suffering for me, which is kind of endearingly emo. I

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01:04:38.960 --> 01:04:42.639
<v Speaker 1>like that patience and being able to suffer evidently is

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<v Speaker 1>a virtue. And what's your favorite thing about your job?

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<v Speaker 3>My favorite thing about my job is the idea that sleep.

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody likes to talk about sleep, you know, sleep, and

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01:04:53.039 --> 01:04:54.599
<v Speaker 3>it's one of those things if I go to a party,

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01:04:54.639 --> 01:04:57.199
<v Speaker 3>introduce myself as a neurologist. You know, I got a

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01:04:57.239 --> 01:04:59.800
<v Speaker 3>grandmother's got parkins or whatever. But if you talk about sleep,

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01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:02.880
<v Speaker 3>everybody's got a story to tell. It's sort of this

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<v Speaker 3>universal thing and I love to tease other doctors about.

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01:05:06.400 --> 01:05:09.920
<v Speaker 3>You know, I missed that article on Time magazine that

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<v Speaker 3>said Mysteries of the spleen, you know, like in this

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01:05:12.679 --> 01:05:15.199
<v Speaker 3>poor guy's like devote his life to understanding the spleen.

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<v Speaker 3>But you know, all time, I mean, there was a

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01:05:17.559 --> 01:05:21.199
<v Speaker 3>national geographic we subscribe to. Just recently there was back

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01:05:21.239 --> 01:05:23.719
<v Speaker 3>to back issues on athletic performance, which is near and

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<v Speaker 3>dear to what I do and the next issue was sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, people love it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's fascinating, it's cool to talk about the brain's awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>So you know, if you're like the toad doctor, the

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01:05:32.800 --> 01:05:34.920
<v Speaker 3>spleen doctor, it's not fair.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm telling you, I get it. It is not fair that.

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01:05:36.880 --> 01:05:38.719
<v Speaker 3>Media does not pay as much attention to you and

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01:05:38.760 --> 01:05:41.159
<v Speaker 3>all the awesome things that you're doing. So to me,

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01:05:41.199 --> 01:05:43.280
<v Speaker 3>it's just the diversity of different things you can do

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<v Speaker 3>as sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>Or so much fun.

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<v Speaker 3>I get to talk to people like you and hang

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01:05:46.440 --> 01:05:48.920
<v Speaker 3>out and talk to a baseball picture. It's like every

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<v Speaker 3>day is different, so much fun. Well, I'm so excited

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<v Speaker 3>you did this. Thank you so so much.

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<v Speaker 2>It's my pleasure.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Time, so ask alert people all of your groggiest questions

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01:05:58.000 --> 01:06:00.800
<v Speaker 1>because it might change your whole life and your dreams.

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<v Speaker 1>So once again, Doctor W. Chris Winters is at sportsleep

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<v Speaker 1>Doc on Twitter W Chris Winter on Instagram. He runs

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<v Speaker 1>the Charlottesville Neurology and Sleep Medicine Clinic in Charlottesville, Virginia,

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01:06:14.159 --> 01:06:17.400
<v Speaker 1>and his book is called The Sleep Solution, Why Your

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<v Speaker 1>Sleep Is Broken and How to Fix It. So if

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01:06:19.639 --> 01:06:21.960
<v Speaker 1>you like his voice, he also reads his own audiobook,

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01:06:22.599 --> 01:06:24.039
<v Speaker 1>I Have a copy of his book. I bought it

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01:06:24.159 --> 01:06:29.159
<v Speaker 1>legit style before even booking him. It's really funny, shockingly

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01:06:29.199 --> 01:06:31.400
<v Speaker 1>funny and down to earth and a really great read.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's packed with tons of neuroscience and tips, so

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<v Speaker 1>it's really good. Ologies is at ologies on Instagram and Twitter.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Ali Ward with one L on both. I'm also

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<v Speaker 1>on did I mention Invention every Saturday morning on the CW.

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<v Speaker 1>In case you want science content that's a little more polished,

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<v Speaker 1>kid friendly, has zero f words or talk about butts,

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<v Speaker 1>help support the making of the show and also helps

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<v Speaker 1>you find other allgites in the wild. Perhaps you'll spot

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<v Speaker 1>someone in a shirt. Thank you Shannon Feltis and Bonnietch

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<v Speaker 1>who reached out to me after episode one to offer

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<v Speaker 1>to help me make that a reality. Also thank you

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<v Speaker 1>to the mystery person who sent me an envelope of

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<v Speaker 1>cash in the mail to help support the show and

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<v Speaker 1>signed it ken damn it, I mean Steve. I'm buying

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01:07:18.199 --> 01:07:21.599
<v Speaker 1>rechargeable batteries for the Zoom recorder like a sensible uncle would.

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<v Speaker 1>The Ologies Facebook group is popping off full of kind,

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<v Speaker 1>curious Funny People. Thank you to Aaron Talbert for helping

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<v Speaker 1>run that. Thank you to Nick Thorburn for writing and

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<v Speaker 1>performing the theme song, and of course, to Sleep Deprivation

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<v Speaker 1>poster child Stephen Ray Morris for editing these episodes altogether.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, at the end of.

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<v Speaker 1>The show on ologies, I tell you a secret, and

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<v Speaker 1>this week's secret is that this morning I found three

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<v Speaker 1>imasks aka pinned socks behind my bed. And my other

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<v Speaker 1>secret is I had this epiphany the other day. Then,

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<v Speaker 1>when it comes to doing things we've never done or

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<v Speaker 1>are too scared to do, being scared of doing them

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<v Speaker 1>and not doing them is way more painful than doing them.

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<v Speaker 1>Even if you get it a little bit wrong and

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<v Speaker 1>it's not perfect, you can always do it again. So

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<v Speaker 1>I started a page in my notebook. I made myself

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<v Speaker 1>write down all the things that I'm afraid to do,

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<v Speaker 1>and I let them just kind of pour out of

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<v Speaker 1>a pen, unjudged. And I was surprised that among them

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<v Speaker 1>were say no, go to sleep for real. I actually

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<v Speaker 1>wrote that, so please see part one on sleep procrastination.

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<v Speaker 1>And then another item was do more live science and

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<v Speaker 1>comedy events, so I will let you know how I

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<v Speaker 1>do with tackling those, particularly the last one.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, It's twenty twenty two, Ali word, And I will

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<v Speaker 1>tell you I'm not doing great on the live events.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you that much because when I recorded this

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<v Speaker 1>in twenty eighteen, I was not aware that there was

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<v Speaker 1>a cute little virus on the horizon just cackling all

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<v Speaker 1>tiny at me. So maybe not so many live events

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<v Speaker 1>the last couple of years, but we'll see. Also, again,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for being such sweety peace about my family situation.

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<v Speaker 1>If you've been missing any updates. Your belived Grandpap, the

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<v Speaker 1>original dad of Ward, has reached a bit of a

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<v Speaker 1>bend in the road with cancer, and after emergency brain

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<v Speaker 1>surgery last month, his doctors have told him it's time

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<v Speaker 1>to just rest and stop treatment and just enjoy what's left.

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<v Speaker 1>So we've had a few encore episodes while I sit

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<v Speaker 1>on the couch across from him and we just give

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<v Speaker 1>him anything he wants to eat, and we watch the

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<v Speaker 1>Warriors play basketball and we tell him we love him

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. So that is up right now with the

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<v Speaker 1>House of Ward. But we've got some new episodes we've recorded.

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<v Speaker 1>We're just working on him slowly behind the scenes as

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<v Speaker 1>we prioritize other stuff, and that's why we've run on

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<v Speaker 1>course the last couple weeks, So thanks for bearing with us.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, back to life advice from twenty eighteen, And

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<v Speaker 1>if you have a few minutes and a piece of

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<v Speaker 1>paper and a writing utensil, will just make yourself write

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<v Speaker 1>down what you're a little afraid to do, because it

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<v Speaker 1>might surprise you what you write down, and maybe just

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<v Speaker 1>give you a little gentle kick in the tush to

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<v Speaker 1>do them, because it's so much worse to hold back

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<v Speaker 1>than it is to do to try and fail again,

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<v Speaker 1>So we might as well just do things as long

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<v Speaker 1>as we're live, right, Okay, So that's.

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<v Speaker 2>My secret for you this week.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll let you know how I'm doing on those and meanwhile.

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<v Speaker 5>Kiss him, sleep cool, snooze in okay, Bye bye pacadermatology,

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<v Speaker 5>hobbiology or doe zoology, lithology, theology, meteorology, ecatology, ethnology, seriologyology

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<v Speaker 2>Wize everybody, everybody e
