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Speaker 1: When your old career gives you lemons. Throwing some ice,

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mix in some vodka in color.

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Speaker 2: A podcast from the Mac of All Trade Studio in

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Fairport and driven by Victor Chrysler Dods. Gee Ram, It's Billified,

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the Bill Moran Podcast.

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Speaker 1: Well, hello and welcome.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for getting your pot on. Thank you for telling

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a friend. That's how we.

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Speaker 1: Spread the word about the favorite ship.

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Speaker 3: Oh, we got a full one today. Laura's here, and

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I'm excited because there's something I want to bring up

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that I want Laura's help.

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Speaker 1: And then dissecting just a little bit. Yep.

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Speaker 3: Kevin is here, of course, and he brought a man

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who went to see this guy just the other day,

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the Bigfoot, the room, sasquatch sex, the squat sacks squatch.

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Speaker 1: Excuse me, that is right, sax squatch. Now. The thing

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that I find interesting, Keith, is I'm wondering, why does

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a guy in a bigfoot costume playing saxophone work like

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it works? Right? People want to see it. Where did

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you go see this?

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Speaker 4: The time I just saw him was a town ballroom

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in Buffalo.

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Speaker 1: So is that the first time you saw them? The third?

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Speaker 4: Third time?

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Speaker 1: So is it sold out?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? That was almost sold out on a Saturday night

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or Friday night, played two almost a thousand people and

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the town ballrooms.

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Speaker 1: One thousand people come to see this.

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Speaker 5: Can we wait backtrack?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Sure, go ahead? Okay, what's.

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Speaker 5: Sasquatch?

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Speaker 1: Sas Squatch?

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Speaker 5: But it's somebody who dresses up like their bigfoot?

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Speaker 4: Well, it's it's Sasquatch playing a saxophone.

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Speaker 1: What's the guy's name, Dave Mitchell?

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Speaker 4: It's Sasquatch.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'll send you a squatch.

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Speaker 5: I was gonna say, Sasquatch has a name, sax sex squad.

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Speaker 3: I think the guy's name is Dave Mitchell. And that's

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the thing is, like, what did it feel like in

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that room? You got a thousand people there to see

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a dude in a fucking it's a It's a puppet.

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Speaker 1: It's a puppet. Do you see it?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I have to pass around the videos from live seeing it.

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It's it's a great mix of you know.

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Speaker 3: Parents, that's like a different but he does he sings,

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but I think he uh auto tunes his voice or something.

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Speaker 4: He sings over the top of a lot of popular songs,

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you know, from party rock, animal to some Kansas to

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can what was the song I did September winded fire

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throws in a little rack asslet you're never going to

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give up?

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Speaker 5: Come on, this is like a mix of live music

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plus the kink of furries.

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Speaker 1: She had to take it there?

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Speaker 4: Ye take it there?

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Speaker 5: Can you deny that?

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Speaker 1: Well? I never thought that.

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Speaker 3: I was looking at it and I'm going, we're people

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vibing in the room, Like, what was it like in there?

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Speaker 1: What was the energy? None? Are people taking it seriously?

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Speaker 4: Oh? It's I mean, it's just fun. It's he's serious.

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Where people the.

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Speaker 1: Guy was a touring sex well he was. His name

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is Dean Mitchell, that's his name. It was a different

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bands and stuff. And you told me it was COVID.

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Speaker 3: That hit and he was bored just he put on

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a putting videos out that hit viral, put.

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Speaker 4: On a costume. A couple of years ago, he played

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at Photo City in Rochester. Oh yeah, and there was

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probably one hundred and fifty people there, Okay, And at

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some point in the show, you know, part of his

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old act, he on stage, you know, just plays the samples,

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plays the saxophone over the top of it, and then

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at some point he always comes down onto the floor

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and the la round and dance with everybody playing the saxophone.

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Speaker 1: I'm dull and are you really Yes?

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Speaker 4: So he goes And that's why I've seen him three

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times because the first time was like, all right, why.

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Speaker 1: What do you do the first time? You were on drugs?

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Speaker 4: Probably no, wasn't it.

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Speaker 5: I mean I would definitely take a gummy like you

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Speaker 4: But yeah, around the country, a lot of the shows

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are sold out. Yeah, he's played at Electric Forest, which

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is a pretty popular music festival. And if you were

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to look up videos of him playing Electric Forests, it's

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thousands of people in the daylight in the forest of

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just where's the Electric Forest. It's in Michigan. Oh, it's

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a festival that probably has like.

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Speaker 1: A Saat festival. I know they do.

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Speaker 3: They do do a Sasquatch festival somewhere, and I thought

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it was in Michigan.

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Speaker 4: No, this is just more of an m festival.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's big into he goes to like he's been

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to the EEDC in Vegas. Are you an muys going to?

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for festivals.

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Speaker 3: Are you going to what's the big one? It's the

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world something. It's going to be in Thailand. I just

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learned about this last night. That one is somebody told

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me that they're going to Thailand to see some EDM.

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And it almost has like a Disney name to it,

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Electric Daisy Carnival, Yeah, something like that. I've gone to

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the ones in Vegas. Yeah, the big ones in Vegas.

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Speaker 1: Do you do you get saw a lot of EDM.

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Speaker 3: Was always things like uh, molly and different drugs like that.

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those things because of the fentanyl right possibility.

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Speaker 1: But did you do all that stuff right?

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Speaker 3: And I'm not but believe me, there's no no judgment here.

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I'm just asking, like, what is that like? Because that's

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a drug I've never done.

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Speaker 4: I was always a free to enjoy the music as

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part of it. Yeah, the whole getting enjoying the music

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is the biggest deal.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Ecstasy too was one like and I always thought

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ecstasy was like made you amorous and all that, and

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Speaker 1: Was always the sex drug. Yeah, yeah, they x right.

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Speaker 3: People who took it, Laura, and they said that wasn't it.

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It just made them feel more and maybe you were

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touching people but they didn't have any.

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Speaker 1: Sex and the matrix over that. I have no idea.

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Speaker 4: Of course?

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Speaker 1: Okay and not of course but in the past, in

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Speaker 3: But I mean, what is that experience? Like when you're

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Speaker 4: I mean it's just you know, when the EDC Vegas,

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for example, there's one hundred sixty thousand people there that

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that the Vegas Speedway where they do the NASCAR races. Yeah,

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so it's just a giant carnival in the middle of

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the speedway with you know, tons of stages and music

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and crazy. It goes all night.

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Speaker 1: How much is it to get into something like that?

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Speaker 4: I mean you're spending for the tickets for for example

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that it's probably for the ticket I think they're like

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six seven hundred dollars a whole weekend, but.

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Speaker 1: Then go from like it goes twenty four hours.

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Speaker 4: It goes from Thursday night until Monday morning, so you're

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getting a full sunrise sunrise.

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Speaker 5: Then yeah, it's like a music festival. How much it

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costs to go to one?

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Speaker 4: I mean you think about what you're spending for a concert,

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go to a concert at say your pays three you know,

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you go to a concert at the arena wherever. You're

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spending three four hundred dollars for four nights or four

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hours of music. So winnu factor in many days and

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then just all that has led to all of a sudden, Hey,

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here's a guy playing the saxophone. Well, all right, sasquatch he's.

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Speaker 1: Going he's going to Amsterdam in the spring for a festival.

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Speaker 4: And festival yeah awakenings.

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Speaker 1: Are you married? No? Okay, lucky dastard.

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Speaker 3: Do you have a girlfriend? You don't have anybody? You

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would you take somebody with you?

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Speaker 4: I'm going to a couple of friends that are married. Yeah,

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notice Soulo traveling.

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Speaker 1: He's the pivot man. I'm wondering, but, uh, if this

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guy walked out as Dean Mitchell in gene same exact skills, right,

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he plays great? Does that? Is it as cool? I

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don't think so.

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Speaker 4: No, definitely not. I mean there are other artists that

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play you know, instruments or whatever, and but they just

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don't have that of like when you're going to see

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when the guy sold a thousand tickets or you know,

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playing in buffalo. He told someone else.

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Speaker 3: That has like him the yetti like admitted doing a

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Leprechaun all the bithical creatures in a band and.

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Speaker 4: It's a cover band. He's really just a cover band, sure,

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with a costume on, and you just go and it's fun.

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And every time he's come on tour. The first time

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I went, you know, he laughed at me. He's like,

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you're going to see what.

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 4: And the second time I said, going to.

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Speaker 1: See elf, you know what I mean? And it's like

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it's like watching a grown alf had I had, you know,

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purs Pitt is big in the live music, and he

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he was like, I think I might try it if

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if i'd go so im next time he comes around,

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I'm gonna go, Laura, I would.

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Speaker 5: Totally go and see him. I just pull up a

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picture of him. Though he's not good looking.

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Speaker 1: Out Dean Mitchell is not a good looking He is

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not a good looks a sasquatch or a man.

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Speaker 5: Way better looking as a sasquatch.

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Speaker 3: Really, I was wondering that because I go, the costume

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gives you permission, right permission to come out there.

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Speaker 1: And almost in a way have people act. Because I

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love what he plays. I'd love to know how much

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ass he gets.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if I don't know if he kills that,

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like he's not a good looking man, but like, yeah,

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I get it. I actually went to an EDM concert

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out in Red Rocks one year and it was such

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a vibe. It was so much fun and I love

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when you dress up for it, and you know, dress up.

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Speaker 1: How like costume with wings.

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Speaker 5: I didn't do like that, but I had like pigtails,

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neon body suit.

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Speaker 3: Like stop what you want me to be hateful because

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you don't.

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Speaker 1: Want to be Okay, I was gonna say, was there

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it was a crotchless.

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Speaker 5: No, no, I had short time, but like you know,

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he knows. It's like when you go to a different genre.

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 5: I love to go to live music, It's my favorite thing.

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I'm super passionate about it. But when I go to

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a country concert, I'm gonna wear something different than going

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Speaker 5: Versus going to I don't know, Celine Dion, Like you know,

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so I sure I would definitely wear trousers like that

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would be amazing.

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Speaker 1: Keith was saying that he was had just put out

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that he's looking for somebody to go on tour with him.

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Speaker 4: He had posted something about looking for help on tour

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and somebody to go travel around, and so he helped

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set up.

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Speaker 1: Take care of the show.

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Speaker 4: If you were look at his tour dates, he plays

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whole circuit everywhere and sells out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I'm thinking about this. I'm gonna work

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on getting him on. He Keith gave me some information

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Speaker 4: That would be great.

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Speaker 3: I'd love to talk to him because you know, I go, well,

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it kind of removes ego, right, It adds a mystique

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to this thing.

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Speaker 1: It makes it a little more interesting.

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Speaker 3: There's no real judgment other than because you're all there, right,

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I mean, the curiosity is there, and I think in

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a way it's like, don't take this too seriously. We're

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just here for fun.

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Speaker 4: That's the whole point of music.

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Speaker 1: Fun here it is.

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Speaker 3: But it's interesting that if you walked out as Dean Mitchell,

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is this you at You're at.

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Speaker 5: The Yeah, like fishnuts, you know. Yeah, that's like what

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you would wear to an edio. Oh boy, I mean

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that's actually more clothing than a lot of people who

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would wear.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, people who.

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Speaker 5: Have had two kids, like you know.

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Speaker 1: Send it over for the bank bank. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Man, if he just came out as Dan Mitchell, would

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it be as fun? Probably not in the sasquatch costume, right, Sure,

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it's just a good time and yeah, people show up

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and dance, and I mean.

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Speaker 5: I would totally go go to that.

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Speaker 1: That would be so much fun.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it does sound like fun, actually, I have to

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admit that. And the mask gives you like a little

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bit of freedom for him, and I think everybody else too.

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In a way does he does he stay completely in

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constant the whole time, the whole time? Yeah, hot ship though,

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Well yeah, I'm sure that smell like fucking home hockey equipment.

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Speaker 1: That's like homeless sessions.

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Speaker 5: Do you go to a lot of d M shows

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around here?

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Speaker 3: At Photo City Photo City autumn?

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Speaker 5: So what am I a guy that I dated for

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a little bit?

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Speaker 1: He was.

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Speaker 5: Is it DJ NOJ?

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Speaker 1: There was?

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Speaker 5: Well, like he performed at Photo City and I went

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to one of his shows and it was so fucking funny.

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Speaker 6: Like I was to play in the back room, he's

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putting on to play in the computer.

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Speaker 1: Everyone, why were you put in the back room?

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Speaker 5: Because I was his guest, you know, like you're.

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Speaker 4: In the green room.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, did you watch people?

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Speaker 1: Wow? Why? God are you right over? What's happening?

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Speaker 5: The water went down? What was his name, David? But

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his because he he used to perform. He would perform

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at like random rapes. He'd be like, yeah, I have

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a sat at three am this week, and I'm like,

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what the fuck.

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Speaker 1: Do you any videos? If you played a computer on

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your phone, we could bump in wait they go, these

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things start. Yeah, they started like.

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Speaker 4: I mean most of the nowadays, the local ones they

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all start. They were more like concerts where they started

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eight o'clock and you're home by one in the morning,

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so it's not like many years ago would be up

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till sunrise. Yeah. Yeah, there was one guy was at

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Photo City a couple of weeks ago played the violin

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as part of his set. It was like dubed up

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and bass music, and like the man, they slowly incorporated

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other instruments and make it more immersive.

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Speaker 3: And yeah, I get that that mask thing to hide

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because if I were really really honest about like uh,

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I think I was, Oh my.

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Speaker 1: God, you should do it for comedy could be completely racist.

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Speaker 5: Racked r e x T.

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Speaker 4: I don't know where that is.

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Speaker 5: Do you know that was his stage name? It just

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came back.

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Speaker 1: Did he have you call that? At certain times? When

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he dropped a beat?

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Speaker 5: He actually he was funny. I met him, he was.

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Speaker 1: He was woman.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 5: He I went to like a wine bar one time

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and he was the Somalia wow. And I just started

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talking to him and it was his birthday and then

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we just started hanging out for I don't like two months.

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Speaker 4: And the next year you're hitting in the green room.

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Speaker 1: How how long from meeting him at the bar to

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making out with him? Was it within twenty a half hours?

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Speaker 5: Probably?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: What's wrong without that happens? I don't understand. That's not

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a bad thing. No, you need like three dates.

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Speaker 1: I don't think so. But I'm so intrigued by this.

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Speaker 3: I'm also intrigued by the EDM thing because I I

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don't know if I even liked the music. I don't

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know if I'm all that familiar with it. I remember

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being at the you.

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Speaker 1: Can't get hammered drunk at ADM because the beat and

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the base is pumping. Yeah, fuck your head up. No,

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so you get drugs, right?

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Speaker 3: But I think I was at a I think they

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had an ed M tent at Woodstock ninety nine. Oh

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yeah yeah and when all night yeah, And I remember

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going in there and then I'm going, this isn't this

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is not for me.

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Speaker 4: It's not for ever.

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Speaker 1: And I left. But maybe I'm not out.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I'm more open minded now, Maybe I can uh

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sex squatches.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the entry point.

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Speaker 3: Right, I mean, maybe that's the thing because boy, you know,

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when you see a guy and as Laura said, and

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I thought this when I was thinking about talking about

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sax Squatch, was he not a handsome guy? And was

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this a way for that? But it doesn't sound like

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that was really the purpose. He just did it as

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a funny and it hit.

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Speaker 4: From what I understand, it sounds like you did a funny,

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you know, during COVID and made it, you know, just

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made a video and next thing, you know, went viral

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and turned into going to her.

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Speaker 3: There is something when people don't really know who you are,

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and he's putting out who he is so you can

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find him as his real name, Dan Mitchell. But that

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was the whole thing for me with radio, Like growing up,

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I was popular in my high school, really small high school.

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Speaker 1: I was athletic. That was all cool, But there were.

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Speaker 3: Like things that you just I don't know, it happened

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to you throughout life, Like I always thought and talked

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about I would do TV or TV news, and I

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never felt like I looked good enough on camera, and

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I was always like I don't know.

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Speaker 1: So then when radio came on, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Like, fuck, man, you get to be the coolest version

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of yourself because nobody can see you. So it was

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literally like putting on a mask when you think about.

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Speaker 1: It and hiding.

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Speaker 3: And I did that until oh, of sudden, you know,

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as you get older, you get a little more confident

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things work out for you're you know, you start building

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something and then now there's video everywhere. There were pictures

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and since so you couldn't hide anymore. But that was

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like the thing and says I'm watching this guy, I go, yeah,

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I kind of get the idea that you know, he

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might go out there and play songs he would never

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play without the mask on, only because if he does

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fuck up a little bit, nobody cares he's in the

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costume and we're not taking it to that.

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Speaker 1: Seriously, you know what I mean. That's the thing that

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I think it.

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Speaker 4: All starts back. You know, who would start at first?

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What kiss? Maybe there's probably kiss did as far as

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you know, the makeup, I don't remember anybody.

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Speaker 1: Alice Cooper, I guess in the seventies early did a

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lot of makeup, but it was just a little bit

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of makeup.

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Speaker 3: Yes he did and for a while, but but I

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thought Alice was like maybe one of the first that

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I remember, because it was the late sixties early seventies

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and Alice was really hiding anything though. No kiss your

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mindful makeup, right, That's what I'm saying. But he's kind

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of started that thing.

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Speaker 1: One of those guys and kids are really good looking

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without the makeup on either it was.

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Speaker 3: A complete no not And someone looked really rough, the

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guy who just died. I remember meeting him. He looked

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really rough. But the uh is that your DJ friend?

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Speaker 5: See I didn't have a type. I neated everyone.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, right, you were like, you know the United Nations, Okay, Dorian,

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let me get the turn. No, she was like this

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her vagina was like the statue of Liberty. Get your tired.

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Yes you're poor, but you're huddled masses.

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Speaker 5: Well this guy was poor. Let's just talk about Oh

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my god, it was poor.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean it happens, but you didn't care. You

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had fun for two months. Yeah, two months of.

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Speaker 5: Sucky.

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Speaker 1: You need to write a book, a book. I have

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been writing a book.

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Speaker 5: Well, I've been writing a lot more.

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Speaker 1: It's more book than biography.

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Speaker 5: I have my story written, not like turn it into

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a book, but just something something hard I do.

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Speaker 3: What I'm working hard, something like concrete. Yeah no, but

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what is your what is the story?

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Speaker 1: Just how you I.

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Speaker 5: Sort of wanted to write my own life story. I

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when I'm working with seniors, they sit there and they

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tell me their life stories so much. And I talked

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to them about like you know when you're going to pass,

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Like do you do your kids know this? Like have

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you told your kids these stories about your artifacts or

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your life? And I'm even talking to my own mom

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about things, and I'm like, I want something that because

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I'm not like a materialistic person like that, when I

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get older, my kids will be able to like read

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about what I would call honest. Are you're going to

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be Oh, I'm way too fucking honest, and this is

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why they won't read it until long.

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Speaker 1: Right, you should take some of your stories from your

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summers of love and turn them into like almost like

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a fifty shades, Like you could go with the sweet guy.

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Speaker 3: You could go with different things. And I've gotten in Harlequin.

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Speaker 5: I've always I mean, I went to school for journalism,

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so I've always written, and I write a lot of

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poetry and a lot of things. And there has been

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times where like, okay, fuck you.

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Speaker 3: And by the way, that character was a mask. Andrew

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Dice Clay isn't really even his name. I forget his

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real name, and and.

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Speaker 1: But he just was. That was a character that he

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did is a.

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Speaker 3: Bit in his stand up and it caught fire and

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then he sold out Madison Square Garden and he kind

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of became that guy.

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Speaker 1: But he wasn't really that guy. He was kind of

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a really sweet, sensitive guy that people didn't know. The

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same thing with Alice Cooper, like he kept quiet for years,

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he loved playing golf. That's not rock and roll. He's like,

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you know what I mean, handicap, He's a really good guy,

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that's what I mean. Yes, yes or what.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if he's still he's in his seventies now,

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I mean maybe maybe he is, who knows. But I

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like the idea of writing and they sell things now

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there's almost kits.

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Speaker 5: That Jory Worth and everything, and that's sort of what

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inspired me because I want to do that with my mom, right,

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you know, right.

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Speaker 3: And I knew people. I think I think Marge was

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doing something like that. And they give you like deadlines

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when to have it down and all this stuff, but

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it would read.

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Speaker 1: The Marge chronicles.

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Speaker 5: They give you prompts like write about this, right about that,

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you know, and that's something that is never going to

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go out of style or get old. To write down

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your actual life experience.

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Speaker 3: I think it's important in a way to kind of

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know what shaped you, right, And a lot of times

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we can all look back and go, well, my family

476
00:22:16,039 --> 00:22:17,880
arrived on the shores of the United States and blah

477
00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:20,279
blah blah blah blah, and they keep that that's how

478
00:22:20,319 --> 00:22:24,720
you got here, Okay, But did that shape you? And

479
00:22:24,799 --> 00:22:28,480
I always think not really, it's more your previous generation

480
00:22:28,559 --> 00:22:31,680
and maybe the generation before them, and what was happening

481
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:34,960
in the world right that that even shaped those people,

482
00:22:35,319 --> 00:22:38,039
and then you start to see the patterns.

483
00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:40,799
Speaker 1: That they they brought forward and you brought forward.

484
00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:43,359
Speaker 3: And it's a little it's a little freaky, but it

485
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:47,160
can be uh kind of eye opening for sure. Your

486
00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:53,839
book every day is my birthday?

487
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:57,319
Speaker 5: No, that's in honor of greg birthday twin Yes.

488
00:22:57,559 --> 00:23:00,519
Speaker 1: Oh that's right. Oh that's right. That's come up in May.

489
00:23:02,519 --> 00:23:04,680
We got a couple months. I'm not going to skip

490
00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:05,519
one of them this year.

491
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:08,359
Speaker 5: Oh fuck, yeah, you need to skip both like you

492
00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:09,119
did last year.

493
00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:10,880
Speaker 3: You need to skip both. Is that what you're trying

494
00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:14,599
to say? That's Kevin's way. All right, we'll take a moment. Actually,

495
00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:19,000
I want to get into something that Kevin does.

496
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:21,799
Speaker 1: Got a jack off.

497
00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:26,599
Speaker 3: Nope, I have no idea about that family. Well, maybe

498
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:27,240
we'll get.

499
00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:28,319
Speaker 1: Into that right after this.

500
00:23:28,559 --> 00:23:30,759
Speaker 3: If the new year has you saying I did not

501
00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:33,920
sign up for this, like a worker's comp case, social

502
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:38,119
security disability, or a personal injury claim, don't try to

503
00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:39,880
google lawyer your way through it.

504
00:23:40,519 --> 00:23:42,119
Speaker 1: Go to Connors and Farris.

505
00:23:42,519 --> 00:23:45,200
Speaker 3: They have offices in Buffalo, New York City, Syracuse, and

506
00:23:45,279 --> 00:23:50,119
Rochester and they'll get back to you within twenty four hours.

507
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:52,640
Speaker 1: Yeah. So even when you're stress scrolling.

508
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:55,559
Speaker 3: At two am, you can call two six to two COMP,

509
00:23:56,039 --> 00:23:57,839
tell them a little bit about what's going on in

510
00:23:57,839 --> 00:24:00,519
your life, and within twenty four hours one of their

511
00:24:00,519 --> 00:24:02,160
attorneys will get back to you.

512
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:04,039
Speaker 1: You'll talk to real lawyers.

513
00:24:03,759 --> 00:24:07,960
Speaker 3: Who will explain things in plain English, not legal mumbo jumbo.

514
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:14,799
Workers comp, Social Security, disability, personal injury complicated. Absolutely something

515
00:24:14,799 --> 00:24:20,279
you should handle alone. Nope, Connors and Ferris experienced, responsive

516
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:23,799
and committed to serving you better called two six' TWOTER.

517
00:24:23,799 --> 00:24:26,519
Comp helps available right.

518
00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:37,839
Speaker 1: Now not sax.

519
00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:41,279
Speaker 3: Squatch sorry you want to say SaaS sas.

520
00:24:41,599 --> 00:24:45,880
Speaker 1: Squatch. Yeah.

521
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:50,759
Speaker 3: Uh kevin texted me yesterday and he, said how about

522
00:24:50,799 --> 00:24:51,160
this for the?

523
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:53,400
Speaker 1: Podcast i'm just going to the.

524
00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:57,880
Speaker 3: Text, oh what is something so subtle or simple that

525
00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:00,079
you can do that will annoy the shit out of?

526
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:05,839
People and he continued for, ME i like going To

527
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:10,599
wegmans on a Busy saturday and go the wrong way

528
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:12,759
against the flow of, traffic just to annoy.

529
00:25:12,799 --> 00:25:17,119
Speaker 1: People and all they can think is you're how old are?

530
00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:18,839
You forty? Five i'm older than.

531
00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:22,759
Speaker 3: That, okay you're over forty. FIVE i, go this isn't.

532
00:25:22,839 --> 00:25:27,640
Recess what are we doing? Here because the normal fall

533
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:29,920
you go Into, wegmans you go through the, produce, right

534
00:25:30,079 --> 00:25:31,680
you go to the, fishing to, meat and then you

535
00:25:31,759 --> 00:25:33,759
go past all the meat and you go to the.

536
00:25:33,799 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 1: DAIRY i don't to go the other. WAY i don't

537
00:25:35,799 --> 00:25:38,440
start to beer and work. Back, okay but you only

538
00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:40,640
do that just to annoy people a lot of. Times, Yahs.

539
00:25:42,079 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 5: LAURA i MEAN i hate going to through grocery store, period.

540
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:48,799
Speaker 1: Right because of people like.

541
00:25:48,799 --> 00:25:50,839
Speaker 5: That he caused me boozy for My.

542
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:53,039
Speaker 1: Instagram i'm on the west. SIDE i can't afford the.

543
00:25:53,039 --> 00:25:56,160
Speaker 3: Instacart well you can't afford the, instagart but but LIKE

544
00:25:56,599 --> 00:25:59,759
i get, YOU i do a mix of both depending

545
00:25:59,759 --> 00:26:03,480
on WHAT i have going. On but this is like

546
00:26:03,519 --> 00:26:06,519
a micro rebellion or. Something it's fun being clusterol in the.

547
00:26:06,519 --> 00:26:13,079
Speaker 5: Store it's fun being. Cholesterol, yes, yes.

548
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 1: Yes WHAT i.

549
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:15,680
Speaker 3: Mean it's like power in tiny spaces AND i, go,

550
00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:19,720
well there's something here that over under how many how

551
00:26:19,759 --> 00:26:20,640
many Looks i'm going to?

552
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:22,680
Speaker 5: GET i sort of wish that car was here right.

553
00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:26,240
Now so.

554
00:26:26,799 --> 00:26:29,200
Speaker 1: That's the same. Thing On, christmas Like Christmas, EVE i

555
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:31,519
love going to the mall At Christmas, eve getting a

556
00:26:31,559 --> 00:26:33,400
little couple of them pretzels with the, cheese just sitting

557
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:34,079
there watching the.

558
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:36,799
Speaker 5: Misery, Okay danny said he likes to do that, too

559
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:40,759
and beflick to do. That i've been doing it, People

560
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:47,039
but why Hate LIKE i avoid stores when they're, BUSY

561
00:26:47,279 --> 00:26:49,319
i hate going to DO i just like.

562
00:26:50,079 --> 00:26:53,039
Speaker 3: WEEKEND i just love all the people's. Misery it makes

563
00:26:53,079 --> 00:26:53,920
me feel better about.

564
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:56,559
Speaker 1: Myself, yeah because you're. Misering there we.

565
00:26:56,599 --> 00:27:00,640
Speaker 3: Go, okay because here's the thing THAT i think it's

566
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:01,599
a cry for help in some.

567
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:04,440
Speaker 1: WAY i don't. Know you're a mom of, boys, right isn't.

568
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:07,119
It it feels like it's like some kind of cry for.

569
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:10,000
Help but then at the same TIME i start going

570
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:13,039
and hang on a. Second life gets very structured as

571
00:27:13,039 --> 00:27:13,279
you get.

572
00:27:13,319 --> 00:27:16,079
Speaker 3: Older, Right you've got mortgage, payments you got a job

573
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:18,279
that maybe you, like maybe you don't. Like some days you,

574
00:27:18,279 --> 00:27:19,799
do some days you. Don't you got to be, There

575
00:27:19,839 --> 00:27:22,000
you got to be there at a certain. Time your

576
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:24,720
life is run on a. Schedule how do you? Rebel

577
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:28,279
because there is something like you want to push back against?

578
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:30,240
Life AND i will tell, you like.

579
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:33,119
Speaker 1: It's, drinking, well drinking and go to the supermarket for.

580
00:27:33,079 --> 00:27:37,680
Speaker 5: Me but like you're inconveniencing yourself while you're doing.

581
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:40,599
Speaker 1: That i'm really not Because i'm just doing WHAT i

582
00:27:40,599 --> 00:27:40,920
have to do.

583
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:45,200
Speaker 3: Anyways, yeah but WELL i, know but, yeah but where

584
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:46,720
do you put your rebellion as an?

585
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:48,599
Speaker 1: Adult where does it? Fit where does it fit in your?

586
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:52,240
Speaker 3: Life because you're, right drinking too much is definitely rebellion

587
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:56,359
some people That. No, never, no not even last night

588
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:57,880
when you called, ME i COULD i go right?

589
00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 1: Away right? AWAY i, go, oh you're. DRUNK i didn't

590
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:00,480
you last?

591
00:28:00,559 --> 00:28:00,680
Speaker 4: Night?

592
00:28:00,799 --> 00:28:05,920
Speaker 1: Yes the fuck you? DIDN'T i? Did, yeah you called

593
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:10,920
me at like nine, O'clock, yes around eight eight forty

594
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:12,880
sometime between eight forty five and.

595
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:16,799
Speaker 3: Nine uh you called, me AND i believe you were With.

596
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,640
Keith and then you sent me a picture of uh

597
00:28:20,079 --> 00:28:24,359
like a mini catch a mini keg of fireball going

598
00:28:25,079 --> 00:28:25,519
bye this.

599
00:28:25,599 --> 00:28:29,559
Speaker 1: Tomorrow, yeah, yeah BUT i don't want to call. It.

600
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:33,160
OKAY i might have been trying to Call. Bob, No,

601
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:35,799
no you called. Me you knew you were calling. Me

602
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:37,920
what DID i? SAY i don't even remember WHAT i?

603
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:41,680
Said you said that BECAUSE i, STARTED i can tell your.

604
00:28:41,759 --> 00:28:45,759
Drink oh? Man did here to put the shooting out

605
00:28:45,759 --> 00:28:46,279
of The christmas?

606
00:28:46,359 --> 00:28:49,480
Speaker 3: Gift we're doing all The christmas gifts And i'm like

607
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:52,920
what and, yeah so you we got a lot.

608
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 1: Done we. Did i'm bringing him. Tomorrow, okay so you

609
00:28:56,759 --> 00:28:59,839
knew YOU i called, that that's. Why, yeah, okay BUT

610
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:05,680
i was can no ship and that was and that

611
00:29:05,799 --> 00:29:07,519
was before that was before we really started.

612
00:29:07,559 --> 00:29:10,559
Speaker 5: Drinking it's like the night That bill called his hair dresser.

613
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:14,559
Speaker 1: Night all, right that was not that was your.

614
00:29:14,599 --> 00:29:18,359
Speaker 3: FAULT i blame, you AND i do blame you a little.

615
00:29:18,359 --> 00:29:20,359
Bit there's a little bit of ecarishment And.

616
00:29:20,359 --> 00:29:21,039
Speaker 1: I'm, like what AM i?

617
00:29:21,079 --> 00:29:21,759
Speaker 4: DOING i don't even.

618
00:29:21,839 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 1: Know you guys got to take my shit away from

619
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:25,440
When i'm. Drinking, well, see this is the, thing is

620
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:29,359
LIKE i swear To god like, okay so, OKAY i

621
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:32,359
think most adults rebel in different.

622
00:29:32,359 --> 00:29:33,039
Speaker 4: Ways we just.

623
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:34,720
Speaker 1: DO i drink too.

624
00:29:34,799 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 3: MUCH i do it to avoid all the SHIP i

625
00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:41,279
have to. DO i realized that plainly last, week like

626
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:44,680
it AND i, GO i. DIDN'T i haven't gone out this.

627
00:29:44,759 --> 00:29:46,559
WEEK i shut it. DOWN i, GO i have.

628
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 1: TO i have. TO i have.

629
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:52,839
Speaker 3: To but like adults by, motorcycles we drink too. Much

630
00:29:53,039 --> 00:29:55,279
kevin walks the wrong way in a grocery. Store but

631
00:29:55,519 --> 00:29:57,799
AM i the only one that little settlely rebellion. SHIP i,

632
00:29:57,839 --> 00:29:59,160
mean there's there's got to be something you.

633
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:00,400
Speaker 1: ALL i do it.

634
00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:05,559
Speaker 5: SUBTLY i do it by being. AUTHENTIC i don't conform

635
00:30:05,759 --> 00:30:09,079
to the societal norms that they THINK i should be

636
00:30:09,119 --> 00:30:11,279
as a divorce mom business what?

637
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:13,359
Speaker 1: Is what are those? SOCIETY i don't even know if

638
00:30:13,359 --> 00:30:13,839
that would.

639
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:16,079
Speaker 5: Be, well just like How i'm open about.

640
00:30:16,039 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 1: It, NO i just don't know.

641
00:30:19,079 --> 00:30:23,759
Speaker 5: What LIKE i remember WHEN i started my, business my

642
00:30:23,799 --> 00:30:26,079
mom was, like you need to keep quiet on some

643
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:30,519
things because you don't want it influencing like those that

644
00:30:30,559 --> 00:30:33,000
would hire. You And i'm, like, well but that's not.

645
00:30:33,119 --> 00:30:39,200
Me like political, views HOW i just feel, yes my dating,

646
00:30:39,279 --> 00:30:41,480
past LIKE i think to.

647
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:46,039
Speaker 1: Braveyard, yeah.

648
00:30:46,039 --> 00:30:52,039
Speaker 5: But you, Know i've JUST i have always been. OUTSPOKEN

649
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:56,559
i haven't like been that quiet woman that you know

650
00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:57,319
you're supposed to.

651
00:30:57,359 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 1: Be you're like a regular Or rosa.

652
00:30:59,279 --> 00:31:04,559
Speaker 5: BARKS i don't want my white privileged ASS i.

653
00:31:07,279 --> 00:31:09,039
Speaker 1: The back of that. Track, FUCK i.

654
00:31:09,079 --> 00:31:14,279
Speaker 3: Don't, yeah white privilege is an interesting thing to always

655
00:31:14,279 --> 00:31:18,519
discuss BECAUSE i think that it's SO i really do you.

656
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:21,079
Speaker 1: Want the white privilege? Contest like two weeks, AGO i,

657
00:31:21,119 --> 00:31:24,599
DID i. Did it wasn't white. Privilege it was just

658
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:28,920
it was in one of my, classes DID i talk

659
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:31,759
to you about? This? Okay so in one of my, classes.

660
00:31:31,359 --> 00:31:33,720
Speaker 3: The diversity, class they did what's called a privilege, walk

661
00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:39,319
and they asked questions and depending on your, response you

662
00:31:39,359 --> 00:31:41,920
either move, forward state, stationary or.

663
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 1: Took a step. Back, okay, Okay so if you.

664
00:31:47,119 --> 00:31:50,039
Speaker 3: Grew up in a household with at least one parent

665
00:31:50,119 --> 00:31:54,720
who graduated, college step. Forward if you if you lived

666
00:31:54,759 --> 00:31:57,240
in a household with at least one parent who had

667
00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:00,640
an advanced, degree because that's the, job that's what the job,

668
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:01,599
required take a step.

669
00:32:01,599 --> 00:32:04,599
Speaker 1: Forward so, Right so both my par and it was

670
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:05,000
things like.

671
00:32:05,039 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 5: That it was.

672
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 1: Things like if you ever went to summer camp or private,

673
00:32:12,279 --> 00:32:14,799
school take a step, forward those types of.

674
00:32:14,799 --> 00:32:17,559
Speaker 3: Things AND i knew when this, began AND i think

675
00:32:17,599 --> 00:32:19,799
most people in the class. Knew the first one to

676
00:32:19,839 --> 00:32:22,240
the candy ball was probably most likely going to the

677
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:28,640
fact was going to twigs in. There AND i didn't

678
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:31,559
take any of the. CANDY i felt too. Privileged, no

679
00:32:32,279 --> 00:32:33,000
he just turned.

680
00:32:32,799 --> 00:32:34,400
Speaker 1: Around and made it rain on all the other people

681
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:35,480
that weren't that weren't getting.

682
00:32:35,559 --> 00:32:37,359
Speaker 5: Kiddy he, said this candy isn't good enough for.

683
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 1: Me, yeah but this is not ALL i say is like,

684
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:45,839
everybody people get VERY.

685
00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 3: I don't even know how to say to get hot

686
00:32:50,079 --> 00:32:53,640
over this. Issue the people do not like this because

687
00:32:53,839 --> 00:32:56,680
what they'll. Say many people will, SAY i worked my

688
00:32:56,960 --> 00:33:01,240
ass off to get WHERE i, am AND i will, say,

689
00:33:01,559 --> 00:33:04,599
Yeah i'm sure you, did but the road to get

690
00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:07,640
where you were had less potholes than it did for other.

691
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 1: People whatever that. Is AND i think sometimes to just understand.

692
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:15,119
Speaker 3: That one of the THINGS i didn't really like about

693
00:33:15,119 --> 00:33:18,960
this was somebody did say and they NAMED i don't

694
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:20,599
even know If i'm allowed to talk about, it but

695
00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:22,519
they just kind of, said, HEY i was thinking about

696
00:33:22,519 --> 00:33:24,160
somebody WHO i knew was in the, back AND i

697
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:29,000
was wondering how they. Felt and SO i, said because it's,

698
00:33:29,119 --> 00:33:31,640
ME i, GO i didn't even know you were back.

699
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:32,640
Speaker 1: THERE i was all the way up the.

700
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:36,119
Speaker 3: FRONT i mean you you literally are the definition of

701
00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:37,480
the privilege in that whole.

702
00:33:37,519 --> 00:33:41,079
Speaker 1: Program, well, sure, absolutely AND i know.

703
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:41,920
Speaker 4: That what go.

704
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 5: AHEAD i actually have a client who's a PSYCH np

705
00:33:48,279 --> 00:33:51,359
professor At, fisher AND i asked her if she knew

706
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:54,079
you the other. Day she does not, know she, said

707
00:33:54,839 --> 00:33:55,319
you may know.

708
00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:56,440
Speaker 1: HER i.

709
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:00,400
Speaker 5: Don't want to say, YEAH i got.

710
00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 3: It, Yeah, NO i well there's like. Four Because i'm

711
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:06,640
in the. Graduate she may do more undergraduate.

712
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:08,480
Speaker 1: Stuff she's not.

713
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:15,079
Speaker 5: Good, no she does more than medical. Teachers, yeah but

714
00:34:15,159 --> 00:34:16,599
she gave me something to give to, you AND i

715
00:34:16,679 --> 00:34:17,760
forgot to bring it.

716
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:20,480
Speaker 1: All, Right, well next time it'll be. Fun it's a. Handjibber.

717
00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:24,159
Yeah but the THING i didn't, like AND i tried

718
00:34:24,199 --> 00:34:26,679
to say after my little, joke was but we're all, Here,

719
00:34:27,559 --> 00:34:30,239
yeah we're all. Here we're all on the same, program,

720
00:34:30,639 --> 00:34:32,920
right how you got? Here? Whatever you.

721
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:35,320
Speaker 3: Know the thing that worries me with some of this

722
00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:37,920
stuff a little bit on a on a different, side

723
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:42,960
Is i'm not saying that and they're talking about. Things

724
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,320
have you ever felt like you were being watched while

725
00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:49,360
walking through a? Store will you ever kind of questioned

726
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:51,440
why you? Were you, know somebody questioned you.

727
00:34:51,599 --> 00:34:51,920
Speaker 1: A lot of.

728
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:54,920
Speaker 3: Microaggression Shiit, NO i, said And i've said in this,

729
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:56,960
class And i've said, it AND i watched people's.

730
00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:57,519
Speaker 1: FACES i.

731
00:34:57,559 --> 00:35:01,320
Speaker 3: GO i have never felt like in my life THAT

732
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:03,960
i didn't fit in, anywhere whether it was a country

733
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:09,400
club or talking race cars with guys who work on race.

734
00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:10,199
Speaker 1: Cars you know WHAT i? MEAN.

735
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:13,599
Speaker 3: I i just never felt LIKE i didn't AND i

736
00:35:13,679 --> 00:35:17,239
never felt LIKE i couldn't talk to almost anybody about.

737
00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:20,679
Anything and a lot of that is AND i was

738
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:23,760
also brought up to believe. This this is the, oh

739
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:28,960
the total idea of. PRIVILEGE i was AND i still believe, this.

740
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:30,880
Speaker 1: Just having knowledge for the sake of.

741
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 3: Knowledge it kind of bothers me a little bit that

742
00:35:34,079 --> 00:35:38,360
we have turned college into it is a, privilege, yeah

743
00:35:38,559 --> 00:35:40,480
plain and, simple it's a. Privilege but we've turned it

744
00:35:40,519 --> 00:35:44,639
into almost like a job center in a. Sense, right

745
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:46,559
you got to go to get this, degree And i'm

746
00:35:46,559 --> 00:35:48,199
going to be a businessman And i'm going to, well

747
00:35:48,199 --> 00:35:49,119
happened to just knowing?

748
00:35:49,159 --> 00:35:52,039
Speaker 1: Shit? Well AND i like just knowing. Shit and the

749
00:35:52,079 --> 00:35:54,639
people that do just go for the sake of knowledge

750
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:55,719
usually do really well in.

751
00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:58,599
Speaker 5: Life that's the. Thing lifelong learning is so, important and

752
00:35:58,679 --> 00:36:02,039
it's you, KNOW i talk about HOW i don't really WATCH.

753
00:36:02,079 --> 00:36:03,880
TV i read a ton of, BOOKS i listened to

754
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:07,360
a ton of, podcasts LIKE i will try to educate

755
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:12,559
myself throughout AND i went To Sunni. School my degree

756
00:36:12,679 --> 00:36:15,599
has nothing to do with WHAT i did. Now but

757
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:19,800
there's nothing wrong with continuing your, education.

758
00:36:19,679 --> 00:36:21,559
Speaker 1: RIGHT i like to drink and just believe everything else,

759
00:36:21,599 --> 00:36:23,840
well and and and then and and by the, way

760
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:26,280
fuck you, privileged.

761
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:29,039
Speaker 5: Privileged enough to look.

762
00:36:29,079 --> 00:36:35,119
Speaker 1: Away come, on, man private, school, yeah hockey, programs private.

763
00:36:35,199 --> 00:36:40,760
College you're right there with. ME i didn't right there with?

764
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:44,519
Me have? You have you gotten into the stuff with your,

765
00:36:44,559 --> 00:36:47,719
thoughts like with dressing in the college shirt to get

766
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:51,400
ahead of the line at different places where you've always talked, about,

767
00:36:51,639 --> 00:36:53,159
oh we go to the, emergency but with the boys

768
00:36:53,199 --> 00:36:55,360
three times a. Week they don't know, me but they

769
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:58,920
know the guy in the college shirt pretty. Well. Uh,

770
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:02,239
Yes BUT I i didn't you make your own privilege

771
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:03,639
by by kind of ALMOST.

772
00:37:03,599 --> 00:37:07,079
Speaker 3: I BUT i you Know i've been made fun of

773
00:37:07,519 --> 00:37:11,119
for often for the WAY i dressed or. Something you

774
00:37:11,199 --> 00:37:16,679
are wearing a fucking. SCARF i threw it. On, okay

775
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:18,679
here's what happened. Today i'm not even wearing it.

776
00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:20,880
Speaker 1: Right you got you got it, backwards the tags hanging. Out,

777
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:24,519
okay well that wasn't a. Purpose uh here's the problem.

778
00:37:24,599 --> 00:37:30,960
TODAY i this is so. Embarrassing you, Left you left

779
00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:33,079
your dad's house and took NO i did.

780
00:37:33,079 --> 00:37:37,679
Speaker 3: NOT i left my garage door opener in the car

781
00:37:38,199 --> 00:37:41,599
AND i got out last night And i'm walking back

782
00:37:41,639 --> 00:37:44,280
AND i hit the thing on the wall and it

783
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:46,880
started to go down AND i jumped in and it didn't.

784
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:47,880
Speaker 1: Stop it kept just.

785
00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:50,800
Speaker 3: Coming So i'm, like, Funk i'm gonna get it's not

786
00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:53,920
stopping And i'm gonna either break it Or i'm gonna.

787
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:55,119
Speaker 1: Whatever NOW i, ran.

788
00:37:55,159 --> 00:37:56,599
Speaker 5: Was your car under the garage?

789
00:37:56,639 --> 00:37:59,159
Speaker 1: Door, no my car was in the. Garage i'm walking

790
00:37:59,159 --> 00:38:02,159
out and grade door opener.

791
00:38:02,159 --> 00:38:06,039
Speaker 3: Privileged, okay so, Yes SO i was going. Back oh,

792
00:38:06,039 --> 00:38:07,760
SHIT i forgot the garage door.

793
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:10,639
Speaker 1: OPENER i always. HAVE i only have.

794
00:38:10,679 --> 00:38:13,320
Speaker 3: One so AS i jump back, in the door's not.

795
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:16,280
Stopping it keeps, coming And i'm like AND i could

796
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:18,159
feel it's push and, pushing And i'm, like, oh this

797
00:38:18,199 --> 00:38:18,960
is going to break.

798
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:20,280
Speaker 1: SOMETHING i don't want.

799
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 3: That SO i had to call this morning SAYING i

800
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:25,599
had an after hours.

801
00:38:25,679 --> 00:38:27,280
Speaker 1: Emergency AND i.

802
00:38:27,199 --> 00:38:29,800
Speaker 3: Know that they don't, like you, know we'll probably, happy

803
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:31,920
But i'm, LIKE i got to get places. Today SO

804
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:33,639
i needed somebody to come unlock the garage.

805
00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:37,920
Speaker 1: Door so because they don't even give me, two, RIGHT

806
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:39,360
i need one in the house one of the, other. Right.

807
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:42,599
Speaker 3: Yeah so, ANYWAY i went to put on my. COAT

808
00:38:43,039 --> 00:38:44,760
i threw the scarf AND i was gonna put the coat,

809
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:45,639
on AND i never.

810
00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:48,159
Speaker 1: Put the cote. ON i just left because my head

811
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:50,039
was in a million. Places all, right are you okay with?

812
00:38:50,079 --> 00:38:53,599
That the good? PRIVILEGE i, MEAN i can make shit up.

813
00:38:53,639 --> 00:38:57,639
Speaker 5: Too that was such a bad. Story and you think

814
00:38:57,639 --> 00:38:58,119
he made that?

815
00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:00,639
Speaker 1: Up, yes. Exactly didn't say it was.

816
00:39:00,679 --> 00:39:04,599
Speaker 3: CREATIVE i wasn't like that's.

817
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:06,639
Speaker 5: Why, yeah how you know it's?

818
00:39:06,679 --> 00:39:07,000
Speaker 1: True?

819
00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:10,159
Speaker 3: Right and by the, WAY i do do my own little,

820
00:39:10,199 --> 00:39:14,320
rebellion like IF i can't be, DRINKING i have picked

821
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:16,800
up an old bad habit smoking.

822
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:22,079
Speaker 5: EW i. Know even when we pulled into the parking

823
00:39:22,079 --> 00:39:24,719
lot AND i Saw kevin, SMOKING i was, Like, god

824
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:25,920
that's fucking so.

825
00:39:26,039 --> 00:39:29,440
Speaker 1: NASTY i, know AND i KNOW i should, Quit but

826
00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:33,519
there's something about having something THAT i know is sort

827
00:39:33,519 --> 00:39:35,559
of frowned. UPON i kind of like. It AND i

828
00:39:35,599 --> 00:39:37,519
will tell, you kind of oral fixation like.

829
00:39:37,559 --> 00:39:40,119
Speaker 5: That WELL i, knew but it's gonna it makes your teeth.

830
00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:47,519
Nasty oh, god never, yeah just the smell of. You

831
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:51,280
it's so off. Putting i've never been turned off more

832
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:52,639
than knowing someone.

833
00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:55,840
Speaker 1: Smokes, well how many points DID i just?

834
00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:58,400
Speaker 5: DROP i want to touch you with a ten foot.

835
00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:02,400
Pole it's literally it's like one of those things that

836
00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:03,679
makes me, GAY i.

837
00:40:03,599 --> 00:40:06,159
Speaker 1: Know but see for, me one of the, things it's this.

838
00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:09,119
THING i also think that smoking helps with like when

839
00:40:09,119 --> 00:40:12,400
they tell people breathe, right you don't breathe you're.

840
00:40:12,199 --> 00:40:14,760
Speaker 3: Taking in a pretty big. Bag it calms people. Down

841
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:17,000
i'm not saying it's the right way to do.

842
00:40:17,039 --> 00:40:21,559
Speaker 5: It breathe without got cancer stick in your, mouth, idiot.

843
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:24,840
Speaker 1: It's just aud here's my we're gonna be. Judges small

844
00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:29,760
acts of defiance are a pressure valve. Release it's just

845
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:31,159
a little. Bit look at.

846
00:40:31,159 --> 00:40:33,519
Speaker 5: Me i'm gonna get you candy, cigarettes.

847
00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:33,559
Speaker 4: Okay.

848
00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:41,840
Speaker 1: Cough mm, hm, Well i'm sorry THAT i grossed you.

849
00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:42,280
Out it's.

850
00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:45,360
Speaker 5: Okay, well Actually kevin grossed me out first WHEN i

851
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:46,679
pulled them in the parking. Lot and now that you

852
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:47,320
guys both.

853
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:58,639
Speaker 1: Pulled my pants, UP i. Know AND I molly's the

854
00:40:58,679 --> 00:41:00,719
hell of a, drug that's.

855
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:07,119
Speaker 3: Right just call Me. Sasqua Sas squatch does he do

856
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:08,599
backstage passes.

857
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:09,559
Speaker 1: Or anything for people to go back?

858
00:41:09,559 --> 00:41:11,159
Speaker 4: There and you know the friends that was, with they

859
00:41:11,159 --> 00:41:14,199
did a hundred dollars meet and greet they did after the, show.

860
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:15,519
Speaker 5: One hundred or eight hundred.

861
00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:19,199
Speaker 4: Hundred, okay you talk about it. Afterwards that probably would

862
00:41:19,199 --> 00:41:19,360
have been.

863
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:22,480
Speaker 1: FUN i gotta wonder how many suits he, has because

864
00:41:22,519 --> 00:41:25,719
you're on. Stage the one gotta be hot.

865
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:26,079
Speaker 4: Though.

866
00:41:26,559 --> 00:41:28,159
Speaker 3: Yeah BUT i mean you go to a meet and

867
00:41:28,159 --> 00:41:30,239
greet after, it and you don't hop in a shower

868
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:32,960
quick and change out to an after show sasquatch.

869
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:34,800
Speaker 1: Outfit just a.

870
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:36,559
Speaker 5: Stink maybe the smell is part of.

871
00:41:36,559 --> 00:41:39,119
Speaker 1: It oh, wow you smell.

872
00:41:39,199 --> 00:41:41,360
Speaker 5: Peramones, yeah, Oh.

873
00:41:41,079 --> 00:41:43,960
Speaker 1: Laura look at. That. Yeah do you believe in? Pheromones

874
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:44,760
do they really? Work?

875
00:41:45,079 --> 00:41:45,599
Speaker 5: OH i think?

876
00:41:45,639 --> 00:41:49,679
Speaker 1: So? Yeah? Yeah really just the scent you've been drawn to?

877
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:50,760
Speaker 5: Somebody oh yeah.

878
00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:54,880
Speaker 1: Wow how about? Cologne good, thing bad?

879
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:58,719
Speaker 5: THING i don't mind. IT i don't think it does

880
00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:01,679
anything like for. Me it's not going to turn me

881
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:02,400
on or turn me.

882
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:06,639
Speaker 1: Off WHEN i picked you up for the for the,

883
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:09,360
colonoscopy WHEN i sat, down the broad Said i'd smelled.

884
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:13,679
Nice the lady, Did, YEAH i MEAN i.

885
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:17,480
Speaker 5: CAN i can smell it when somebody has it. On i'm, like,

886
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:19,920
oh they smell, Good but it. Doesn't it's not like

887
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:21,119
a sexual thing for.

888
00:42:21,159 --> 00:42:24,599
Speaker 1: Me. Yeah but the pheromone, thing like you get a you,

889
00:42:24,639 --> 00:42:27,119
know you're in the Gym pheromone's makermon.

890
00:42:29,039 --> 00:42:31,320
Speaker 3: Look at look at the grin on her face, Too my,

891
00:42:31,559 --> 00:42:32,880
god look at.

892
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:35,119
Speaker 1: This Hello, joe.

893
00:42:37,679 --> 00:42:40,960
Speaker 5: He's a lucky. Man yeah, yeah i'd say.

894
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:44,440
Speaker 3: So, really why why do you say? That what makes

895
00:42:44,519 --> 00:42:48,519
you say that he's a lucky? Man is this Your,

896
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:49,719
no that's not what she's.

897
00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:54,760
Speaker 5: Say, NO i well it's not that. Me it's THAT

898
00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:57,280
i am sexually.

899
00:42:57,360 --> 00:43:00,360
Speaker 1: AGGRESSIVE i paw.

900
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:05,679
Speaker 5: Him i'm constantly like come, on you, know, yeah. Wow

901
00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:10,519
last time we were talking about it because we went

902
00:43:10,559 --> 00:43:14,360
to The nighthawks game and then we went out with

903
00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:22,079
one of the other couples that. Went we fucking got

904
00:43:22,119 --> 00:43:24,559
there and they're, like it's Red wings night and we're

905
00:43:24,599 --> 00:43:28,519
like and like a couple of my other. Girlfriends there

906
00:43:28,599 --> 00:43:31,400
was like five couples that. Went we're like looking, Around they're,

907
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:33,679
like do you think he's. Here i'm, like, no he

908
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:38,119
won't be. Here but then later, on like at the,

909
00:43:38,159 --> 00:43:41,280
bar LIKE i just am always like Grabbing joe and

910
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:45,440
he was, like it would be odd if you stopped

911
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:48,880
being so touchy with, me because that's right.

912
00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:51,719
Speaker 1: There, yeah even if you're mad at, him you're still doing. This.

913
00:43:52,559 --> 00:44:01,119
Speaker 5: No, then but we still we don't like fight or you,

914
00:44:01,159 --> 00:44:03,960
know And i'm still gonna we're a perfect.

915
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:07,480
Speaker 7: Couple oh, no not that some people, say like the

916
00:44:07,559 --> 00:44:11,920
disagreements and things Are i've heard women say this that

917
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:15,360
they don't want somebody that they can kind of walk all.

918
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:16,920
Speaker 1: Over. Absolutely.

919
00:44:17,039 --> 00:44:18,840
Speaker 5: NO i love that he puts me in my place

920
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:21,400
and he like will stand on his.

921
00:44:21,639 --> 00:44:24,840
Speaker 3: OWN i just that's the whole dom thing she talked.

922
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:26,800
About but is it does that turn you on a

923
00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:28,480
little bit or is? It what do you MEAN i

924
00:44:28,559 --> 00:44:30,440
put you in your? Place because that's a pretty strong.

925
00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 5: No but like if he if we have a, disagreement

926
00:44:36,119 --> 00:44:40,840
he's not afraid to like back down in his. Stance

927
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:43,679
like it's not like we're screaming there yelling at each.

928
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:46,880
Other but he like just Will he makes me think

929
00:44:47,159 --> 00:44:50,000
from his point of view at. Times AND i think

930
00:44:50,039 --> 00:44:52,880
that healthy disagreements are so.

931
00:44:53,079 --> 00:44:56,679
Speaker 3: Good you, know can, you without like revealing too, much

932
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:59,599
just bring up something you may have disagreed, upon and

933
00:45:00,199 --> 00:45:02,480
something if it's small or even, BIG i don't know

934
00:45:02,519 --> 00:45:03,400
if there's a.

935
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:06,559
Speaker 5: LOT i, mean everyone knows That i'm big into politics

936
00:45:06,559 --> 00:45:09,880
AND i have strong views one, way and he makes

937
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:13,440
me think he'll definitely bring up because of his growing

938
00:45:13,519 --> 00:45:19,000
up what he does with. Work sometimes he, actually as

939
00:45:19,079 --> 00:45:22,199
a white man working for The city Of rochester has

940
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:26,519
like reverse discrimination against, Him like he has not gotten

941
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:33,079
promotions because he's, white and they're, like we don't want

942
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:38,599
to white staff in this one, building you, Know and

943
00:45:38,639 --> 00:45:40,960
so he'll be, like, yeah but how is it right

944
00:45:41,159 --> 00:45:43,239
for me to get passed? Up even Though i've been

945
00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:47,400
in this position for eight years have so you, know

946
00:45:47,679 --> 00:45:50,440
sometimes he does he makes me think about, that, well.

947
00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:53,039
Speaker 3: And what would you think about with, that, like because

948
00:45:53,039 --> 00:45:55,039
you're originally used To, YEAH i get.

949
00:45:55,079 --> 00:45:55,960
Speaker 4: IT i get it.

950
00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:06,239
Speaker 5: Because i'm so much you, know what anyone non white

951
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:08,800
has had to go through to get to where they're at,

952
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:14,559
now you, know. SEGREGATION i bring up a lot, AGAIN

953
00:46:14,679 --> 00:46:20,320
i read a lot about diversity and policing and. Everything

954
00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:25,239
but he's, like BUT i grew up white but, poor

955
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:29,239
and so what he's had to overcome, to you, know

956
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:33,559
let me it's just it's. Tough AND i don't want

957
00:46:33,599 --> 00:46:36,320
to like talk too much about his personal. Life, sure

958
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:42,920
But doe went through a lot of, shit AND i

959
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:47,079
think what he come, from he's the most amazing, person you.

960
00:46:47,079 --> 00:46:48,960
KNOW i admire a lot.

961
00:46:49,079 --> 00:46:51,199
Speaker 1: About that's a wonderful thing to. SAY i, mean it

962
00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:51,599
really is.

963
00:46:51,679 --> 00:46:54,360
Speaker 3: Nice BUT i would Ask i'll ask you this BECAUSE

964
00:46:54,719 --> 00:46:57,719
dei is always like in the news, now, right AND

965
00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:03,719
i WAS i was, thinking maybe we need to restructure.

966
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:06,360
It and here's Why i'm thinking that they did a

967
00:47:07,039 --> 00:47:09,920
thing IN i think nineteen sixty eight in all of.

968
00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:13,199
Speaker 1: The Ivy league there were about twelve.

969
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:19,119
Speaker 3: Minority, students, which, okay we need to make a change for.

970
00:47:19,199 --> 00:47:25,039
That NOW i think majority of students At harvard identify

971
00:47:25,199 --> 00:47:26,239
something other than.

972
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:26,920
Speaker 1: White, yeah not.

973
00:47:27,039 --> 00:47:32,599
Speaker 3: White and my thinking, is what if we changed THE

974
00:47:32,639 --> 00:47:36,000
dei based on income.

975
00:47:35,719 --> 00:47:36,280
Speaker 4: Level.

976
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:41,559
Speaker 1: That we could help poor people who have a big.

977
00:47:41,599 --> 00:47:44,679
Speaker 3: Brain and there's been many over the years that have

978
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:48,039
come out Of, appalachia for, example and went on to

979
00:47:48,039 --> 00:47:50,960
Win Nobel prizes and Got Ivy league educations and things

980
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:54,239
that just somehow got out of there right and by the,

981
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:56,719
way same thing in urban areas urban settings as.

982
00:47:56,760 --> 00:47:59,119
Speaker 1: Well but what if we changed it that? Way would

983
00:47:59,159 --> 00:47:59,840
that make it more?

984
00:48:00,079 --> 00:48:03,519
Speaker 3: Equal so it's not based on the color of my

985
00:48:03,599 --> 00:48:06,199
skin or HOW i, present but more of Where i'm

986
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:07,159
truly coming.

987
00:48:07,159 --> 00:48:09,920
Speaker 1: From IT'S i, MEAN i don't.

988
00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:12,440
Speaker 5: KNOW i guess because that is something that we talk

989
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:16,639
a lot. About and Like keV here wearing His. Aquinas,

990
00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:23,719
Yeah joe did go To, aquinas but his parents that

991
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:27,400
was their only thing that they could. Afford So joe

992
00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:30,760
didn't Get christmas, like he didn't never Got christmas, Gifts

993
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:33,559
he never got anything because all of his, parents all

994
00:48:33,599 --> 00:48:36,840
their money went to sending him and a sister To

995
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:42,159
aquinas just because of where they. Lived they weren't comfortable

996
00:48:42,199 --> 00:48:43,519
sending them to the public.

997
00:48:43,559 --> 00:48:46,800
Speaker 3: School, okay so, yeah and there's work study and things

998
00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:48,559
like that too At, aquinas like you can get the

999
00:48:48,639 --> 00:48:50,280
kids can get jobs and things like.

1000
00:48:50,320 --> 00:48:52,320
Speaker 5: THAT i don't know if there, Was maybe there is

1001
00:48:52,559 --> 00:48:55,199
twenty five years, ago but, yeah, yeah.

1002
00:48:55,159 --> 00:48:57,719
Speaker 3: Yeah BECAUSE i know somebody who sent like all their

1003
00:48:57,800 --> 00:48:59,960
kids Through, aquinas and there's a lot of.

1004
00:49:00,079 --> 00:49:02,079
Speaker 4: Them they did, that.

1005
00:49:02,159 --> 00:49:08,840
Speaker 1: All, Right, well ah they got. It. YEAH i don't.

1006
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:11,119
Know it's just an interesting. Thought BUT i like. THAT

1007
00:49:11,199 --> 00:49:13,920
i like that you, Say joe makes you think it?

1008
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:21,480
Speaker 3: Does, yeah stimulates more than just, you. Buddy we'll take

1009
00:49:21,519 --> 00:49:23,639
a moment and be right.

1010
00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:25,239
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1011
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1012
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1013
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1022
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1026
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:32,239
what country festivals do you've, Lined up laura?

1027
00:50:32,679 --> 00:50:36,400
Speaker 5: This year we actually don't have any. Festivals planned we're

1028
00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:40,079
Not doing barefoot this year because my nephew's graduation is.

1029
00:50:40,119 --> 00:50:43,519
That weekend, but uh, so far we are Going To

1030
00:50:43,679 --> 00:50:47,960
teddy Swims And. Jelly roll, oh, So yeah i'm surprising.

1031
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:48,360
Speaker 1: The Kids.

1032
00:50:48,679 --> 00:50:55,800
Speaker 5: Jelly Roll he's Syracuse and june, twenty third so it's

1033
00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:58,440
the kid's last day. Of school they, love him and

1034
00:50:58,519 --> 00:50:59,719
so we'll all pick them up.

1035
00:50:59,679 --> 00:51:02,559
Speaker 1: And them, and wow look. At You so i'm.

1036
00:51:02,599 --> 00:51:05,360
Speaker 5: Super excited lucas is pissed because when we saw him,

1037
00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:08,239
last year we did not. Take him yeah he's great,

1038
00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:09,480
IN concert i.

1039
00:51:09,519 --> 00:51:12,480
Speaker 3: Bet yeah and now he's lost all that weight, And

1040
00:51:13,159 --> 00:51:14,079
oh i'm.

1041
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:16,559
Speaker 1: Not sure not. THAT why i.

1042
00:51:16,559 --> 00:51:21,039
Speaker 5: Don't know it's like your, try Hard don't you didn't

1043
00:51:21,079 --> 00:51:23,960
need to lose two hundred pounds. He could i'm glad

1044
00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:27,599
he lost the weight. Health reasons, but yeah keep, that,

1045
00:51:27,760 --> 00:51:32,199
big burly. Masculine, energy wow look.

1046
00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:34,239
Speaker 1: At this he. Liked that that's like.

1047
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:38,039
Speaker 3: His, personality yeah that's pretty cool that you're doing that for.

1048
00:51:38,119 --> 00:51:39,679
Speaker 1: Your kids last day. Of school i'm.

1049
00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:42,760
Speaker 5: So. Excited yeah tickets went on Sale, on friday and

1050
00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:45,679
it was hell to buy. THEM that i was trying

1051
00:51:45,679 --> 00:51:47,840
to get Them in for, SOME reason i was not

1052
00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:50,000
able to. Get THEM so i had To call joe and,

1053
00:51:50,039 --> 00:51:53,119
be like you got to figure this out because they sold.

1054
00:51:53,119 --> 00:51:55,159
Out immediately so how.

1055
00:51:55,079 --> 00:51:56,480
Speaker 1: Did you get him if they? Sold us there's no.

1056
00:51:56,519 --> 00:51:57,960
Speaker 4: SUCH thing i. Sold out by, THE way.

1057
00:51:57,840 --> 00:52:01,400
Speaker 5: I know you've told me that HE has, t mobile

1058
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:04,079
so we had LIKE the t mobile. Early, access oh

1059
00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:05,400
look at.

1060
00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:10,840
Speaker 3: This, privilege, yeah, yeah NO but i always thinking about that,

1061
00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:13,119
because like what are you modeling for for your kids

1062
00:52:13,159 --> 00:52:14,800
in terms? Of BEHAVIOR and i think that those are

1063
00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:16,840
things that they're going to love and REMEMBER.

1064
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:21,639
Speaker 5: That's, i love, YOU know i love doing experiences with. The,

1065
00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:25,440
kids yes how are we? Are THAT when i think

1066
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:28,239
we're going to Go to Denver in may for a

1067
00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:31,079
long weekend and we were looking up Concerts At red

1068
00:52:31,159 --> 00:52:33,400
ROCKS and i don't know who's going to be, there

1069
00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:36,000
too like no, name people not, no name BUT people i.

1070
00:52:36,039 --> 00:52:38,360
Don't KNOW but i, was, like well no, MATTER what

1071
00:52:39,239 --> 00:52:41,280
i want to GO and i want to bring the

1072
00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:43,920
kids so that they can see a Concert At red

1073
00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:44,760
rocks because it's.

1074
00:52:44,840 --> 00:52:47,440
Speaker 1: Just amazing you could just Go To. Red rocks you

1075
00:52:47,480 --> 00:52:48,800
don't have to go to. A concert It's, ALL.

1076
00:52:48,679 --> 00:52:54,960
Speaker 5: Oh, I KNOW oh, i know What's, the yeah, an experience.

1077
00:52:54,639 --> 00:52:59,519
Speaker 1: What's the What's? In denver my Aunt and sharon oh.

1078
00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:04,519
Speaker 5: And, Chairing yeah so, we're, like oh if we go

1079
00:53:04,639 --> 00:53:06,840
for a weekend and just go and do some hikes

1080
00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:10,760
And a rockies game and a CONCERT and i, don't

1081
00:53:10,760 --> 00:53:12,679
know JUST because i don't like to stay here for

1082
00:53:12,679 --> 00:53:14,880
Too Long, ROCKY stadium i have to have a flight

1083
00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:15,519
at least every.

1084
00:53:15,559 --> 00:53:18,599
Speaker 3: Other Month the rockies games are. Really, cool, Yeah yeah

1085
00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:20,559
i've been. To, ONE yeah i was at one many.

1086
00:53:20,639 --> 00:53:23,760
Years ago liked that stadium was cool almost forty, years

1087
00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:26,360
ago but it was at the time they didn't even

1088
00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:29,199
have the stadium they were playing Where the.

1089
00:53:29,199 --> 00:53:32,079
Speaker 1: Broncos play you just gotta be Careful, in, denver though

1090
00:53:32,079 --> 00:53:34,280
because if you, start drinking the altitude.

1091
00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:36,280
Speaker 5: Get, YOU oh I mean I'VE got i got.

1092
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 1: OUT there i got out there and we were At

1093
00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:40,440
an airbnb for my sister in, law's wedding and my

1094
00:53:40,519 --> 00:53:42,159
mother in law and my wife pissed. Me Off so,

1095
00:53:42,159 --> 00:53:44,719
I'M like i gotta go pick up my suit and

1096
00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:46,320
it was right next to a buffalo while ON because

1097
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:47,719
i WENT and i had. THREE beers i walked OUT

1098
00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:53,960
like i am hammered, right now. THREE beers i need

1099
00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:54,559
to point.

1100
00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:58,519
Speaker 3: Something out here, Right, now laura her whole business is

1101
00:53:58,599 --> 00:54:03,440
creating order and your whole life. Is disrupting do you

1102
00:54:03,519 --> 00:54:04,480
realize that.

1103
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:07,320
Speaker 1: You go opposite Away. In wegmans you just talked about

1104
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:11,039
how they pissed. You, Off seat, she go, Fuck this. I'm,

1105
00:54:11,079 --> 00:54:15,000
drinking gee my whole life sounds like somebody else at.

1106
00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:18,519
This table, let me let me look at which what

1107
00:54:18,559 --> 00:54:18,760
are you?

1108
00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:21,760
Speaker 3: Talking about how many times did you get pissed off

1109
00:54:21,800 --> 00:54:23,639
and get drunk in your marriage in?

1110
00:54:23,679 --> 00:54:24,280
Speaker 1: TWENTY years.

1111
00:54:24,519 --> 00:54:28,960
Speaker 3: I DIDN'T when i get, PISSED off i usually. DON'T

1112
00:54:29,079 --> 00:54:33,199
drink I would i would eat, bad FOOD like i

1113
00:54:33,199 --> 00:54:33,599
would eat.

1114
00:54:33,599 --> 00:54:35,000
Speaker 1: Shitty food that was more.

1115
00:54:35,079 --> 00:54:38,480
Speaker 3: My Thing then i'm not SAYING That i and then.

1116
00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:41,159
You're RIGHT when i do, DRINK there i like.

1117
00:54:41,480 --> 00:54:49,000
Speaker 1: A slowly it gives you more access to feelings and you.

1118
00:54:49,079 --> 00:54:52,559
Express them the floodgates can.

1119
00:54:52,639 --> 00:54:52,719
Speaker 6: Just.

1120
00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:56,639
Speaker 5: OPEN see i love, to DRINK so i just try

1121
00:54:56,679 --> 00:55:03,960
to not binge drink at TIMES like, I really i

1122
00:55:04,039 --> 00:55:08,119
won't have more than like three drinks and. A night

1123
00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:10,239
LIKE if i open a bottle Of wine i'll have.

1124
00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:12,599
Speaker 1: It'll last three or. Four.

1125
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:15,159
Speaker 3: Days yeah i'm the same way. At, home yeah but

1126
00:55:15,199 --> 00:55:17,239
Not when. I'm out and that's. THE problem i went.

1127
00:55:17,159 --> 00:55:19,599
Speaker 5: Out let so like, LAST night i had two drinks

1128
00:55:19,599 --> 00:55:22,920
At the nighthawks game and then. One afterwards on.

1129
00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:26,280
Speaker 1: THE opposite i don't drink a. LOT out i don't.

1130
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:27,679
WANT to i don't want to deal with the D

1131
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:32,320
w i s. And stuff i'll just. Pound, away, well

1132
00:55:32,559 --> 00:55:35,159
okay so what what do your kids think?

1133
00:55:35,159 --> 00:55:37,599
Speaker 3: Of THAT because i remember my father saying, TO me

1134
00:55:37,719 --> 00:55:41,440
i feel like we have glorified meaning he and my

1135
00:55:41,519 --> 00:55:46,119
mother alcohol, too MUCH and i love.

1136
00:55:46,159 --> 00:55:50,199
Speaker 5: To drink, BUT see i think it's also again giving,

1137
00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:52,880
your kids showing them like my KIDS know i. Drink,

1138
00:55:52,920 --> 00:55:55,320
WINE yeah i don't think they've ever seen.

1139
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:58,599
Speaker 1: Me drunk my kids have, Seen me i'll tell you.

1140
00:55:58,679 --> 00:56:02,320
My Kids mostly brady'll just come out and start taking

1141
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:07,000
shots like bust. Some, Balls okay they'll start making Fun

1142
00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:09,400
of keith. Or something they'll start making fun. Of me

1143
00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:13,679
you'll start making Fun. Of, bob Yeah he's he's just

1144
00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:15,280
that's how. He is the other two don't give. A.

1145
00:56:15,199 --> 00:56:18,840
Speaker 3: SHIP well i mean, they're OLDER but i do wonder

1146
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:21,559
because it is like you start thinking about the behaviors

1147
00:56:21,559 --> 00:56:22,239
of your model for.

1148
00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:22,920
Speaker 1: Your Kids.

1149
00:56:24,239 --> 00:56:26,760
Speaker 5: Think i'm going to take BACK what i. Just said

1150
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:30,519
my kids have definitely seen, me drunk just. Not often

1151
00:56:30,639 --> 00:56:32,920
i'm thinking like my birthday party This, past yeah but,

1152
00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:35,760
YOU know i think they're seeing.

1153
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:37,320
Speaker 1: Me and keith for, so long and Me and bob

1154
00:56:37,320 --> 00:56:39,840
and all my all my friends. THAT drink i think

1155
00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:42,360
it's had the opposite Effect. On sam he doesn't he'll

1156
00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:44,960
drink but he doesn't drink. A LOT like i was

1157
00:56:45,000 --> 00:56:46,320
sitting in the graduate of the night because it was

1158
00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:48,719
it was decent out and JUST. Watching, tv hey, come

1159
00:56:48,719 --> 00:56:51,400
down have. A drink i don't, want to, all right

1160
00:56:53,679 --> 00:56:56,119
just he doesn't really want. To, DRINK well i had

1161
00:56:56,159 --> 00:56:59,159
somebody say to me, because like of course my older.

1162
00:56:59,159 --> 00:57:02,199
Boys do, oh yeah and they and they saw a lot.

1163
00:57:02,280 --> 00:57:04,719
Speaker 3: Of it and there, WERE times, I mean i can

1164
00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:08,840
remember when they, were little we Would do friday nights

1165
00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:13,519
at different, neighbors right and there was really three, houses involved,

1166
00:57:13,519 --> 00:57:16,000
sometimes four but, definitely three the people across the street

1167
00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:16,559
and the people right.

1168
00:57:16,559 --> 00:57:19,360
Speaker 1: Next door and the people right next door Were.

1169
00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:23,679
Speaker 3: From Finland, and switzerland and they had three daughters and

1170
00:57:24,119 --> 00:57:25,360
another daughter that they.

1171
00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:26,960
Speaker 1: Had adopted and.

1172
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:32,039
Speaker 3: He loved all the, imports music so like The remix

1173
00:57:32,159 --> 00:57:35,320
madonna And the remix like he. Would do he would

1174
00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:36,920
be playing all this shit and then he would make

1175
00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:41,679
the strongest. FUCKING drinks i left their house and literally

1176
00:57:42,000 --> 00:57:43,519
had to be pointed how to.

1177
00:57:43,559 --> 00:57:47,960
Speaker 1: Get back we've, done that the bob AND and. I

1178
00:57:48,000 --> 00:57:50,960
go those were things my kids definitely, did SEE but

1179
00:57:51,079 --> 00:57:52,840
i don't know if they were conscious of it.

1180
00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:55,159
Speaker 5: Or not, but well and there's also different types. Of

1181
00:57:55,239 --> 00:57:59,280
drunks are you a? Mean drunk? Are you And that's

1182
00:57:59,320 --> 00:58:02,840
i'm like a, Love DRUNK like i. Hug everybody i'm.

1183
00:58:02,880 --> 00:58:06,599
Speaker 1: Just, happy yeah you know RIGHT what I and i.

1184
00:58:06,760 --> 00:58:09,960
Speaker 5: Best friends with every. Single Person right, I'm drinking and.

1185
00:58:09,880 --> 00:58:11,960
Speaker 3: The thing IS like i know all the SHIT that,

1186
00:58:12,119 --> 00:58:16,960
i DID and i don't want them to sometimes do

1187
00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:18,480
those things because.

1188
00:58:18,159 --> 00:58:21,960
Speaker 1: The laws have changed and the risks.

1189
00:58:21,639 --> 00:58:25,199
Speaker 3: Are too high even for injury and death and all,

1190
00:58:25,239 --> 00:58:27,320
that stuff and there shouldn't be anymore because we have

1191
00:58:27,800 --> 00:58:30,400
ride share services and things that are so easy. To

1192
00:58:30,440 --> 00:58:33,199
get but still sometimes you think you're better than.

1193
00:58:33,239 --> 00:58:36,400
Speaker 1: You are, you know a. FINE man i stopped an.

1194
00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:38,760
HOUR ago i mean we were looking we were looking

1195
00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:40,480
at the extended weather and they were talking about how

1196
00:58:40,480 --> 00:58:42,800
it's supposed to be like sixty five Seventy, next sunday

1197
00:58:42,960 --> 00:58:46,039
yes weekend what and we were talking about getting outside

1198
00:58:46,079 --> 00:58:50,039
and drinking in. A circle Cnn, it oh is it

1199
00:58:50,079 --> 00:58:51,000
supposed to be? That warm?

1200
00:58:52,280 --> 00:58:57,239
Speaker 5: Holy shit what seventy Three? Next SATURDAY but i think

1201
00:58:57,280 --> 00:58:59,679
it's supposed. To rain but yeah that's, the DAY Am

1202
00:58:59,719 --> 00:59:01,400
i but that'll, be, no no.

1203
00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:07,800
Speaker 3: That's, uh yeah that's when We're celebrating jamis in sixteenth seventy.

1204
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:10,039
Speaker 1: THREE seventy i was Kind of i'm kind of BUMM

1205
00:59:10,079 --> 00:59:11,760
because i wanted. To go something.

1206
00:59:11,840 --> 00:59:13,760
Speaker 3: Happened yesterday we were going to go skiing in, the

1207
00:59:13,800 --> 00:59:16,440
afternoon and then he had an incident with a friend

1208
00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:19,519
that he wanted, to go uh check on the person

1209
00:59:19,519 --> 00:59:20,360
and make sure they were.

1210
00:59:20,239 --> 00:59:23,000
Speaker 1: All right and all. This, stuff, so uh we, didn't

1211
00:59:23,039 --> 00:59:25,559
Go and, I'M like i want. YOU to i.

1212
00:59:25,599 --> 00:59:27,480
Speaker 3: DON'T know i just wanted them to keep it up a.

1213
00:59:27,519 --> 00:59:30,559
Little bit And now, I'M like i don't know when

1214
00:59:30,559 --> 00:59:30,960
we're going to.

1215
00:59:30,960 --> 00:59:35,039
Speaker 1: Get the weather back to. DO it, i, mean yeah it.

1216
00:59:35,719 --> 00:59:38,519
Speaker 5: Said about this week is still going to, be cold but.

1217
00:59:38,760 --> 00:59:40,559
Speaker 1: You'll get the you'll get The, mid March.

1218
00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:45,239
Speaker 3: Late, march oh we can get Buried, around wait so that's,

1219
00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:49,519
Parade weekend no parade, weeks, yeah.

1220
00:59:49,119 --> 00:59:51,960
Speaker 1: Oh that's two. Weeks out. All right we've been lucky

1221
00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:53,920
With the praye the last couple. Of years last year.

1222
00:59:54,039 --> 00:59:56,920
Speaker 3: Was gorgeous LAST year i was able to make the

1223
00:59:57,039 --> 00:59:58,800
entire parade without having to stop At the Port of

1224
00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:00,079
john because you.

1225
01:00:00,119 --> 01:00:03,159
Speaker 1: Can't, drink no. We don't we drank a lot before

1226
01:00:03,199 --> 01:00:07,920
you even. Got there see See what, i'm SAYING like.

1227
01:00:08,239 --> 01:00:09,320
I go i don't KNOW what.

1228
01:00:09,440 --> 01:00:13,559
Speaker 3: I was i, don't UNDERSTAND but, i, mean, like well

1229
01:00:13,599 --> 01:00:16,119
we tell you eleven and it's you show up at like.

1230
01:00:16,320 --> 01:00:21,679
One thirty okay at. The, parade yeah parade starts. At

1231
01:00:21,679 --> 01:00:24,079
twelve we usually GET down i usually get. Down there,

1232
01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:26,480
we don't but we were not to run off until,

1233
01:00:26,599 --> 01:00:29,039
like late and so it's.

1234
01:00:28,840 --> 01:00:32,079
Speaker 1: Always, like, yeah right But The saint patrick's dy used. To,

1235
01:00:32,119 --> 01:00:33,360
Be see.

1236
01:00:33,559 --> 01:00:35,800
Speaker 3: I'll park i'll park at the end of the PARADE

1237
01:00:35,840 --> 01:00:36,960
so i don't have to walk all the way.

1238
01:00:37,280 --> 01:00:38,440
Speaker 1: Back afterwards so we'll.

1239
01:00:38,480 --> 01:00:41,400
Speaker 3: Park it we'll walk Up and filgers is right there

1240
01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:43,400
and they don't charge a cover until like eleven, Eleven

1241
01:00:43,480 --> 01:00:45,119
thirty so we just Go into filgers and.

1242
01:00:45,159 --> 01:00:47,840
Speaker 5: Start drinking joe is pissed that we can't go out

1243
01:00:47,840 --> 01:00:50,320
this Year because lucas is in his school play.

1244
01:00:50,360 --> 01:00:56,239
Speaker 3: That Day oh joe is getting his first Taste.

1245
01:00:55,880 --> 01:01:00,599
Speaker 5: Of parenthood's show at. Seven pm, he's wait.

1246
01:01:00,480 --> 01:01:03,039
Speaker 1: So doesn't have to Do, can't yeah that's true joke.

1247
01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:05,480
Speaker 5: COMING up, i KNOW maybe i will send him with,

1248
01:01:05,519 --> 01:01:07,760
you guys because he does not want to go to both.

1249
01:01:08,320 --> 01:01:08,719
Speaker 4: Go to what?

1250
01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:11,360
Speaker 1: Both, plays, oh well he'll go to one and he'll

1251
01:01:11,400 --> 01:01:12,480
go to. The seven but he'll be a.

1252
01:01:12,519 --> 01:01:18,199
Speaker 6: Little, COCKED yeah I mean i don't even want, to

1253
01:01:18,199 --> 01:01:19,159
go of.

1254
01:01:19,280 --> 01:01:22,760
Speaker 1: COURSE not i mean it will be pleasantly buzzed for

1255
01:01:22,840 --> 01:01:28,280
a middle. SCHOOL play i want to there's A shirt

1256
01:01:28,320 --> 01:01:29,320
i want to Get For. Saint.

1257
01:01:29,360 --> 01:01:32,599
Speaker 3: Patrick say It's a guinness shirt, That Says, hello darkness my.

1258
01:01:32,679 --> 01:01:34,679
Old friend he's got A glass aguinness.

1259
01:01:34,679 --> 01:01:37,079
Speaker 1: ON there i really. WANT that i want. THAT bathlete

1260
01:01:37,079 --> 01:01:38,920
i gotta go. GET it i. Still laughed the first

1261
01:01:38,960 --> 01:01:41,079
ship we Did the Prade and greg was on the

1262
01:01:41,119 --> 01:01:44,599
podcast was, no drinking, no drinking. No drinking end rolls

1263
01:01:44,679 --> 01:01:46,599
up with a Handle of tito's and. Handle it, JAMIS

1264
01:01:46,599 --> 01:01:47,719
says i was.

1265
01:01:47,760 --> 01:01:51,400
Speaker 3: Just, KIDDING well i think, he's probably, you know nice

1266
01:01:51,400 --> 01:01:51,679
to blow.

1267
01:01:51,719 --> 01:01:52,239
Speaker 1: His, cover.

1268
01:01:55,159 --> 01:01:57,760
Speaker 3: Well look the, WHOLE thing, I, Mean Greg, greg ferris,

1269
01:01:57,760 --> 01:01:59,239
that is but the whole.

1270
01:01:59,559 --> 01:02:02,159
Speaker 1: The whole Thing Behind saint patrick's day is to.

1271
01:02:02,159 --> 01:02:04,920
Speaker 3: Get drunk like when you look At the irish culture

1272
01:02:04,960 --> 01:02:07,519
and by the way they. SAVED civilization i want you

1273
01:02:07,599 --> 01:02:13,079
to know That the irish saved civilization Because when europe

1274
01:02:13,159 --> 01:02:16,519
was being plundered and, taken over they were burning all, the.

1275
01:02:16,480 --> 01:02:18,719
Speaker 1: Records they were burning all. The books they were tearing

1276
01:02:18,719 --> 01:02:21,079
down everything and it was all preserved.

1277
01:02:20,639 --> 01:02:25,159
Speaker 3: On this little Island. Called ireland and that's how poetry

1278
01:02:25,239 --> 01:02:27,360
and all, this stuff all the classics were.

1279
01:02:27,239 --> 01:02:32,119
Speaker 1: Saved there Ridicular redug and now we're just known, as

1280
01:02:32,199 --> 01:02:36,440
drugs The, fighting, IRISH right i mean there's even like

1281
01:02:36,519 --> 01:02:37,079
because when.

1282
01:02:36,960 --> 01:02:40,760
Speaker 5: You Go, to ireland that's all, you, do okay drink.

1283
01:02:40,760 --> 01:02:44,159
And Fight no like WHEN when, I went i had

1284
01:02:44,199 --> 01:02:47,639
all these plans AND then i got? What happened wept

1285
01:02:47,719 --> 01:02:49,400
up in the. Pub, culture YES well i.

1286
01:02:49,440 --> 01:02:51,800
Speaker 1: DID that I would i. Did That In quincy market

1287
01:02:51,800 --> 01:02:52,760
there was An old.

1288
01:02:52,880 --> 01:02:54,840
Speaker 3: Irish pub it was like one of The oldest irish

1289
01:02:54,840 --> 01:02:58,719
Pubs in america or BOSS and i. Sat down, I'm

1290
01:02:58,760 --> 01:03:01,000
like i'm gonna Have a guinness and then they had

1291
01:03:01,039 --> 01:03:03,559
the beer of the day special was Two Dollars Miller

1292
01:03:03,599 --> 01:03:06,920
high life bottles and CARES like i want to.

1293
01:03:06,920 --> 01:03:10,280
Speaker 1: Go Shopping go i'm. On vacation i'll be sitting. Right

1294
01:03:10,280 --> 01:03:15,039
here that's how you make a. Marriage Work but boston does.

1295
01:03:15,039 --> 01:03:16,800
It right they have a Lot on they have a

1296
01:03:16,840 --> 01:03:21,079
Lot Of port Johns Between quincy market area and. All

1297
01:03:21,119 --> 01:03:24,239
around so if you're drinking there out, the, day yeah

1298
01:03:24,320 --> 01:03:26,840
you can always find a spot On Like New york

1299
01:03:26,840 --> 01:03:28,400
city where you just have to go on a freaking

1300
01:03:29,360 --> 01:03:31,840
what what Happened? In ireland know that you were like

1301
01:03:31,960 --> 01:03:33,559
swept up in the. Pub culture what do?

1302
01:03:33,639 --> 01:03:37,599
Speaker 5: You, mean oh JUST when I went RENEE and i

1303
01:03:37,639 --> 01:03:39,559
went for, a week and we had planned to do

1304
01:03:39,679 --> 01:03:44,280
hikes and go and do, these tours and we would

1305
01:03:44,320 --> 01:03:48,519
like oversleep every single morning and miss our planned activity

1306
01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:52,519
because we were out drinking until four am the. Night before.

1307
01:03:54,960 --> 01:03:56,920
Speaker 1: That's all you Saw in ireland was the bottom of a.

1308
01:03:56,960 --> 01:04:00,920
Glass traveling just like the.

1309
01:04:00,960 --> 01:04:05,559
Speaker 5: FIRST night i remember at, nine o'clock, We're, like god we're.

1310
01:04:05,599 --> 01:04:09,760
So tired we had just flown in that day and and,

1311
01:04:09,840 --> 01:04:13,280
we're like, all right we Are. In dublin we have

1312
01:04:13,360 --> 01:04:16,519
to Go To temple bar just For one AND then

1313
01:04:16,920 --> 01:04:19,000
i think we both ended up making out With random.

1314
01:04:19,079 --> 01:04:21,440
Speaker 3: Irish dudes you realized this is going to be your

1315
01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:22,119
Trip to.

1316
01:04:22,280 --> 01:04:25,760
Speaker 1: Europe too he loves to hike and these all these

1317
01:04:26,199 --> 01:04:30,159
mountains and he'll camp in the. Tent recold he's gonna

1318
01:04:30,159 --> 01:04:32,079
Get to amsterdam and he's just gonna Be like i'm

1319
01:04:32,079 --> 01:04:34,199
gonna go. Hike, Here nope i'm gonna be. Over here it.

1320
01:04:34,280 --> 01:04:36,079
Speaker 5: Was great the ONLY night i did not get drunk

1321
01:04:36,159 --> 01:04:38,199
was the night that we went To See dermot KENNEDY

1322
01:04:38,280 --> 01:04:40,079
because i, WAS like i want to be so present.

1323
01:04:40,159 --> 01:04:43,239
Speaker 3: For, that okay so do you think how did you feel?

1324
01:04:43,400 --> 01:04:45,760
After that did you think drinking ruined?

1325
01:04:45,760 --> 01:04:50,360
Speaker 1: Your trip enhances? Your? Trip we do you? Have?

1326
01:04:50,440 --> 01:04:54,800
Speaker 5: REGRET yeah i definitely think that we didn't get to

1327
01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:58,559
do some of the hikes that we. Wanted, TO yeah

1328
01:04:58,679 --> 01:05:01,719
i mean it, was fun it. Was memorable.

1329
01:05:03,159 --> 01:05:05,280
Speaker 1: Was It because kevin doesn't remember calling me? Last night

1330
01:05:05,559 --> 01:05:06,159
they did probably?

1331
01:05:06,199 --> 01:05:13,960
Speaker 5: Drink, It NO like, i MEAN but i definitely WISH

1332
01:05:14,440 --> 01:05:16,440
maybe i wish that we would have. Extended it but

1333
01:05:16,519 --> 01:05:18,239
we took like our ten day trip and then we

1334
01:05:18,280 --> 01:05:20,920
split It between Ireland. And iceland so then when we

1335
01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:24,400
flew Over to iceland for the, second half we had

1336
01:05:24,480 --> 01:05:26,880
one glass of wine like the entire time we. Were,

1337
01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:28,360
there okay we were sick.

1338
01:05:28,400 --> 01:05:29,280
Speaker 1: Of drink they're Lame.

1339
01:05:29,280 --> 01:05:32,360
Speaker 5: In, iceland no it was so expensive to Drink in

1340
01:05:32,440 --> 01:05:34,519
iceland that we ordered a glass of wine each and

1341
01:05:34,639 --> 01:05:35,760
it was thirty five dollars.

1342
01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:40,519
Speaker 1: Per, glass yeah that was. A lot they don't have

1343
01:05:40,599 --> 01:05:41,559
any like any.

1344
01:05:41,559 --> 01:05:45,079
Speaker 3: Other, option, well well she was using her WHITE privilege

1345
01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:45,920
i think they.

1346
01:05:45,800 --> 01:05:47,840
Speaker 5: Were, like oh do you want this wine or? This

1347
01:05:47,920 --> 01:05:49,840
wine and we chose the better wine and then we

1348
01:05:49,880 --> 01:05:52,719
didn't realize that for two glasses, of wine our bill

1349
01:05:52,800 --> 01:05:55,960
was going to be. Seventy. Dollars yeah so because they

1350
01:05:55,960 --> 01:05:58,280
have to, import, everything well, that's yeah that's.

1351
01:05:58,360 --> 01:06:01,960
Speaker 3: Just, it yeah Like the caribbean and the other things

1352
01:06:01,960 --> 01:06:03,360
are a little bit more expensive when you go.

1353
01:06:03,400 --> 01:06:03,840
Speaker 1: Down there.

1354
01:06:04,000 --> 01:06:09,480
Speaker 3: That's, Uh yeah i'm starting to realize ALL the i

1355
01:06:10,639 --> 01:06:14,760
sort of, get concerned like as you, get older what

1356
01:06:14,800 --> 01:06:20,079
are the long term effects of the over drinking for

1357
01:06:20,159 --> 01:06:22,559
a really long period. OF time I mean i'm talking,

1358
01:06:22,639 --> 01:06:24,079
like college.

1359
01:06:23,639 --> 01:06:26,400
Speaker 1: You start going the wrong Way and wegmans for? FUCKING fun,

1360
01:06:30,039 --> 01:06:30,360
i know.

1361
01:06:30,519 --> 01:06:35,159
Speaker 3: Like even you think about like The sex, squatch guy he,

1362
01:06:35,239 --> 01:06:37,079
Creates joy kevin.

1363
01:06:37,480 --> 01:06:39,320
Speaker 1: Just irritation that's like.

1364
01:06:39,760 --> 01:06:42,559
Speaker 5: You choose to be friends? With him what have you ever.

1365
01:06:42,480 --> 01:06:45,159
Speaker 1: Had a bad time at my? Fucking? House ever?

1366
01:06:45,320 --> 01:06:47,519
Speaker 4: Always, fun yea we do. Have fun we have a

1367
01:06:47,880 --> 01:06:50,880
bass when he's out causing Chaos. And wegmans i'm having

1368
01:06:50,880 --> 01:06:53,920
fun At. Sex. SQUATCH yeah.

1369
01:06:54,000 --> 01:06:57,559
Speaker 6: I would i would rather go With, YOUR yeah i

1370
01:06:57,559 --> 01:06:57,960
would too.

1371
01:06:58,239 --> 01:07:01,239
Speaker 3: Your HOBBIES but i have seen like where there are

1372
01:07:01,280 --> 01:07:04,239
times where it's fun in, the moment but then, it's,

1373
01:07:04,280 --> 01:07:06,199
LIKE yeah i wasted.

1374
01:07:06,239 --> 01:07:08,119
Speaker 1: A day i'm hung over the.

1375
01:07:08,159 --> 01:07:12,119
Speaker 5: NEXT day i remember when when we Were, IN galway

1376
01:07:12,239 --> 01:07:15,199
i really wanted to do one of the Hikes and

1377
01:07:15,320 --> 01:07:18,000
renee just could not wake up the, next morning. You,

1378
01:07:18,039 --> 01:07:21,679
know so and it just, sucks because especially when you're.

1379
01:07:21,719 --> 01:07:25,800
Going OVERSEAS am i going to get? Back here? You

1380
01:07:25,880 --> 01:07:29,400
know SO if i Go to boston and get DRUNK

1381
01:07:29,400 --> 01:07:32,360
and i don't do something that's, planned whatever that's a six,

1382
01:07:32,400 --> 01:07:34,960
hour drive it's not a six hour flight and a

1383
01:07:35,320 --> 01:07:36,559
couple thousand, dollars trip.

1384
01:07:36,719 --> 01:07:39,039
Speaker 3: Right exactly, so yeah so it is like you want

1385
01:07:39,039 --> 01:07:40,840
to keep it on the rails a. Little, bit yeah

1386
01:07:40,880 --> 01:07:44,199
and you have the discipline to. Do, THAT yeah i.

1387
01:07:44,239 --> 01:07:46,360
Speaker 1: DON'T always i get.

1388
01:07:46,239 --> 01:07:48,519
Speaker 3: To, a, POINT man i can. FEEL it i can.

1389
01:07:48,639 --> 01:07:52,800
Feel IT if i don't leave, Right now i'll be home.

1390
01:07:52,840 --> 01:07:53,760
Speaker 1: At midnight well.

1391
01:07:54,480 --> 01:07:54,880
Speaker 5: LAST night.

1392
01:07:54,960 --> 01:07:57,599
Speaker 1: I know i know what my, kryptonite IS and i

1393
01:07:57,679 --> 01:08:01,039
still don't give. A shit it Is. Your CHRISTMAS if

1394
01:08:01,079 --> 01:08:04,119
i can, DRINK beer i can drink wine. All night

1395
01:08:04,719 --> 01:08:06,639
BUT if i start, doing shots that's where it goes off.

1396
01:08:06,679 --> 01:08:09,000
Speaker 5: THE road i can't, Do shots and that's what.

1397
01:08:08,880 --> 01:08:10,800
Speaker 1: We love to do is. WE loved i love doing

1398
01:08:10,800 --> 01:08:15,280
Shots With bob Keith. Chain as this is a good.

1399
01:08:15,280 --> 01:08:17,319
ASS time, i mean who would want to buy a

1400
01:08:17,319 --> 01:08:20,399
seventy dollars keg of fucking fireball? Besides me because it's

1401
01:08:20,399 --> 01:08:23,279
FUCKING awesome a twenty four year old. COLLEGE kid i,

1402
01:08:23,319 --> 01:08:28,520
don't know maybe we're. Twenty two. That's awesome so and

1403
01:08:28,600 --> 01:08:31,079
it's so funny that it sounds like your oldest kid

1404
01:08:31,159 --> 01:08:32,600
is more mature than. You Are.

1405
01:08:35,119 --> 01:08:38,560
Speaker 3: Job sam to, the opposite don't DO what, i do

1406
01:08:38,680 --> 01:08:40,359
to the opposite OF what. I, do.

1407
01:08:40,960 --> 01:08:43,159
Speaker 1: Well he's just seen me. AROUND somebody i don't want

1408
01:08:43,199 --> 01:08:44,880
to call them, dirt bags but. Dirt bags but we.

1409
01:08:45,000 --> 01:08:49,279
Just drink and the, Hockey, parents keith, the neighbors we

1410
01:08:49,359 --> 01:08:49,720
all just.

1411
01:08:49,840 --> 01:08:52,680
Speaker 5: WE drink i THINK that i have seen that even

1412
01:08:52,720 --> 01:08:56,720
as an outsider for my friends whose kids, do hockey because,

1413
01:08:56,920 --> 01:08:59,359
you're traveling you're at hotels all, the time.

1414
01:08:59,720 --> 01:09:03,359
Speaker 1: You know, And well kelsey was saying that Our friend kelsey,

1415
01:09:03,359 --> 01:09:04,800
out here she was saying that they went to a

1416
01:09:04,840 --> 01:09:08,840
tournament and they came down with all these different drinks

1417
01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:10,359
and stuff for to hang out in, the lobby and

1418
01:09:10,439 --> 01:09:14,359
all the parents are drinking like Non alcoholic michelobal ultra light.

1419
01:09:14,680 --> 01:09:19,640
An alcoholics, she's like what's wrong with? You people the

1420
01:09:19,720 --> 01:09:22,279
kids are not going anywhere but running around.

1421
01:09:22,439 --> 01:09:26,039
Speaker 3: Going down nowadays it is, going down and like not in.

1422
01:09:26,079 --> 01:09:30,039
Speaker 5: My house the amount. Of, nas yeah. It's insane, it's,

1423
01:09:30,079 --> 01:09:34,159
like oh you can get a BLUE moon na now and, you, know.

1424
01:09:34,279 --> 01:09:36,199
Speaker 1: Yeah well they're trying to stay in, business too but

1425
01:09:36,239 --> 01:09:38,319
what the hell is the point of DRINKING? An na just?

1426
01:09:38,479 --> 01:09:41,720
Speaker 3: Drink, water well that's always, been like That's how. I've

1427
01:09:41,720 --> 01:09:44,760
been i've, BEEN saying i think one of the worst

1428
01:09:44,800 --> 01:09:46,880
thing used to come out of the pandemic was the work.

1429
01:09:46,920 --> 01:09:51,560
From home and also like we're losing. That, connection actually

1430
01:09:52,279 --> 01:09:55,760
on a, RECENT podcast i accidentally stumbled on through a

1431
01:09:55,840 --> 01:09:59,479
link an Article In. Psychology today actually think you'll, like

1432
01:09:59,520 --> 01:10:03,000
this AND it's i didn't REALIZE The Us surgeon general

1433
01:10:03,079 --> 01:10:07,319
has made loneliness a. Chronic Illness now i'm pretty sure it's.

1434
01:10:07,359 --> 01:10:10,800
Chronic illness and it just talks about how lonely people

1435
01:10:10,840 --> 01:10:11,600
are and how.

1436
01:10:11,520 --> 01:10:14,840
Speaker 1: It leads to cardiovascular disease and. All this how many

1437
01:10:14,880 --> 01:10:17,239
cats do you have to have to be. Considered lonely.

1438
01:10:18,880 --> 01:10:19,159
Speaker 4: It's a.

1439
01:10:19,159 --> 01:10:24,520
Speaker 3: Great, question uh maybe we should do a study of that.

1440
01:10:24,800 --> 01:10:24,880
Speaker 1: To you.

1441
01:10:25,039 --> 01:10:30,000
Speaker 4: By yourself, oh yeah there once.

1442
01:10:30,039 --> 01:10:33,840
Speaker 3: A week but so in the article that she, started

1443
01:10:33,920 --> 01:10:38,479
out you ready doing a study on, BAD s, m,

1444
01:10:38,600 --> 01:10:46,159
groups bondage, disappoint, Attention right but what she what she

1445
01:10:46,319 --> 01:10:51,000
found out was the people involved in that had better

1446
01:10:51,279 --> 01:10:55,880
and healthier connections than people outside of these kind of,

1447
01:10:57,039 --> 01:11:00,319
well maybe but she was taking it to things like

1448
01:11:01,239 --> 01:11:04,680
you have a mechanical issue with, your car someone would

1449
01:11:04,720 --> 01:11:09,199
come help give you, a ride you may. Job recommendations

1450
01:11:09,680 --> 01:11:12,680
they just had a better connection and not everything. Was

1451
01:11:12,760 --> 01:11:15,079
kink and those people who were in the kink thing

1452
01:11:15,279 --> 01:11:17,800
also had outside. Hobby groups and the point of the

1453
01:11:17,880 --> 01:11:21,079
article was like the third party system where you would

1454
01:11:21,159 --> 01:11:28,079
go and meet, somebody, bowling, leagues. Churches, Bars right it's

1455
01:11:28,239 --> 01:11:30,720
like we just don't have as many anymore of the

1456
01:11:30,760 --> 01:11:32,479
third party systems unless.

1457
01:11:32,479 --> 01:11:32,680
Speaker 1: They're.

1458
01:11:32,720 --> 01:11:35,920
Speaker 3: Bars right but, over time when you think about like

1459
01:11:36,000 --> 01:11:38,239
who you've become, friends with like You and keith became

1460
01:11:38,279 --> 01:11:41,880
friends through hockey work and, then, hockey right and you

1461
01:11:41,880 --> 01:11:44,960
don't make an instant friend, with somebody you just see

1462
01:11:45,000 --> 01:11:47,960
them frequently at the. Same place you start to reveal

1463
01:11:48,039 --> 01:11:50,359
a little more. About yourself they reveal a little bit

1464
01:11:50,359 --> 01:11:53,760
more about themselves and you got kind of a friendship

1465
01:11:53,800 --> 01:11:55,840
going and maybe that goes outside there.

1466
01:11:55,680 --> 01:11:59,199
Speaker 1: And we're, not friends we're just ACQUAINTANCES who i want to.

1467
01:11:59,199 --> 01:12:01,479
Be associated do you Know what?

1468
01:12:01,520 --> 01:12:04,600
Speaker 5: I'm SAYING where i have met all my, adult friends

1469
01:12:05,319 --> 01:12:10,199
well besides, my kids is? My, Gym yeah LIKE if

1470
01:12:10,239 --> 01:12:13,439
i didn't go to, a, GYM right i want to

1471
01:12:13,439 --> 01:12:14,319
have such a core group.

1472
01:12:14,399 --> 01:12:16,319
Speaker 1: Right there and there's a. Third thing and what they're

1473
01:12:16,359 --> 01:12:19,399
saying is like most people, will, say, uh well join

1474
01:12:19,439 --> 01:12:22,079
a gym and. Do more but what this article is

1475
01:12:22,079 --> 01:12:26,319
about the architecture of the third party system or the third.

1476
01:12:26,520 --> 01:12:29,239
Speaker 3: Thing where you would go to isn't there as? Much

1477
01:12:29,239 --> 01:12:32,279
anymore and when you think, about it like most people

1478
01:12:32,399 --> 01:12:35,439
find a group online and. That's it and you, also

1479
01:12:35,520 --> 01:12:39,199
know at a certain point in your life you're so

1480
01:12:39,319 --> 01:12:41,920
wrapped up in the kids and things that sometimes the

1481
01:12:41,960 --> 01:12:44,439
other parents become your friends and so that becomes sort of.

1482
01:12:44,479 --> 01:12:48,319
Your circle and then, they, graduate yeah and, the circle

1483
01:12:48,439 --> 01:12:50,840
that circle sort of. Goes away and this isn't address in.

1484
01:12:50,880 --> 01:12:54,199
The article i'm just talking from my. Own experience but

1485
01:12:54,279 --> 01:12:57,159
you find, new PEOPLE and i think having a strong

1486
01:12:57,279 --> 01:13:00,640
network is really IMPORTANT and i want it with my

1487
01:13:01,039 --> 01:13:04,079
DAD and i watched it with. My Mom and i'm

1488
01:13:04,119 --> 01:13:09,000
not Saying that parkinson's wasn't would, be, delayed BABY but

1489
01:13:09,119 --> 01:13:11,680
i can't say it wouldn't if you just had a.

1490
01:13:11,720 --> 01:13:15,359
Healthier thing like, my dad his whole social circle was,

1491
01:13:15,439 --> 01:13:18,680
the gym but he didn't do anything outside the gym with.

1492
01:13:18,720 --> 01:13:20,600
Speaker 1: These people he would just be the annoying old guy

1493
01:13:21,239 --> 01:13:25,239
like getting UP like i, there's this this is A terrible, I'm,

1494
01:13:25,560 --> 01:13:26,680
strong yes you are.

1495
01:13:26,840 --> 01:13:29,119
Speaker 3: So weird but there was a terrible story where he

1496
01:13:29,199 --> 01:13:31,159
was trying to get somebody's attention that was on a

1497
01:13:31,159 --> 01:13:33,039
treadmill as, He's leaving so he climbs up on the

1498
01:13:33,039 --> 01:13:35,960
treadmill next to the guy and it's like, leaning, over

1499
01:13:36,000 --> 01:13:39,119
waving and the, guy's like, oh hey and they started

1500
01:13:39,119 --> 01:13:41,479
talking and then he can't get off. The treadmill they

1501
01:13:41,520 --> 01:13:44,279
had to piggyback him off because he just didn't. Right

1502
01:13:44,920 --> 01:13:47,079
right But what, i'm saying BUT when i went to,

1503
01:13:47,159 --> 01:13:51,560
visit him, but Really before parkinson's really kind of, took

1504
01:13:51,600 --> 01:13:52,720
over he.

1505
01:13:52,840 --> 01:13:55,560
Speaker 1: Did nothing it was like literally.

1506
01:13:55,600 --> 01:13:57,840
Speaker 3: Watching paytrip he would, read books fall asleep in the

1507
01:13:57,880 --> 01:13:59,560
middle of. THE day i think we went to the

1508
01:13:59,600 --> 01:14:01,640
diner three days. A WEEK if i have to, COOK

1509
01:14:01,680 --> 01:14:04,119
anything i don't. DO it i eat salads because it's.

1510
01:14:04,199 --> 01:14:06,560
Just easy it's draw and and.

1511
01:14:06,680 --> 01:14:08,720
Speaker 1: Like he would brag because all his blood work.

1512
01:14:08,520 --> 01:14:11,560
Speaker 3: Everything was great and so there were no additional health

1513
01:14:11,600 --> 01:14:15,840
problems and he died from falling, basically right but. No

1514
01:14:16,000 --> 01:14:19,439
sucture and Then there's March and marge is teaching Classes

1515
01:14:19,439 --> 01:14:21,439
At bard college and goes to a coffee group of.

1516
01:14:21,560 --> 01:14:26,199
Meditation groups she's got, Other Stuff and i'm, just, saying

1517
01:14:26,199 --> 01:14:29,800
like you can SEE where i just didn't realize it

1518
01:14:29,840 --> 01:14:33,319
was such a problem In The united states THAT and

1519
01:14:33,359 --> 01:14:35,520
i part, OF it i guess is. SOCIAL media i,

1520
01:14:35,520 --> 01:14:37,199
DON'T know i don't want to this or we just.

1521
01:14:37,199 --> 01:14:39,159
Don't talk and THAT'S where i go the work. From,

1522
01:14:39,159 --> 01:14:40,800
home yeah, it's convenient you don't have to deal.

1523
01:14:40,840 --> 01:14:41,399
Speaker 1: WITH traffic i.

1524
01:14:41,439 --> 01:14:44,840
Speaker 3: Get it but on the, other side all, those friendships all,

1525
01:14:44,880 --> 01:14:47,840
those mentors all that you're. Missing out you're missing out

1526
01:14:47,880 --> 01:14:50,399
and you're young enough that your liver is gonna.

1527
01:14:50,399 --> 01:14:52,840
Speaker 1: Be fine go have a drink and. Meet somebody do

1528
01:14:52,840 --> 01:14:53,960
you feel like you're missing out working?

1529
01:14:54,000 --> 01:14:56,840
Speaker 4: At home not, at ALL because i do also Have,

1530
01:14:56,960 --> 01:14:57,680
other yeah but.

1531
01:14:57,760 --> 01:15:00,920
Speaker 1: He's got other eight m crew.

1532
01:15:01,039 --> 01:15:03,279
Speaker 4: THOSE freaks I mean, friday night, YOU know i went

1533
01:15:03,319 --> 01:15:05,840
out to See sex squatch and then yesterday went on

1534
01:15:05,920 --> 01:15:07,720
a group hike with a group. Of people, you know

1535
01:15:07,840 --> 01:15:10,279
love that with a group. Of people so are you

1536
01:15:10,319 --> 01:15:12,119
part of like a hiking group. Or something there's a

1537
01:15:12,119 --> 01:15:13,760
lot of different groups that are part of and then

1538
01:15:13,840 --> 01:15:15,960
you know they get together and. Go out so, you

1539
01:15:15,960 --> 01:15:18,319
know you go from a concert one night and next

1540
01:15:18,359 --> 01:15:20,239
day hang out with a group of people and spend

1541
01:15:20,279 --> 01:15:22,680
the day outside and go for a hike and then

1542
01:15:23,279 --> 01:15:25,560
end up in your you know friend's garage. At night

1543
01:15:25,920 --> 01:15:27,960
so it is, you know you Have to i've always.

1544
01:15:27,680 --> 01:15:29,920
Speaker 1: Been hesitant to, join those like those.

1545
01:15:30,239 --> 01:15:33,279
Speaker 5: Hiking groups my mom has been in a Group called.

1546
01:15:33,680 --> 01:15:36,520
Speaker 1: Dick you'd be freaking out there doing. A, SET no i.

1547
01:15:36,600 --> 01:15:38,760
WOULD not i want to say it's.

1548
01:15:38,800 --> 01:15:43,319
Speaker 5: Like huggers it's for, Like, actors, yeah active like. Older

1549
01:15:43,399 --> 01:15:46,640
generation my mom has probably been in it for, thirty

1550
01:15:46,720 --> 01:15:47,359
years out.

1551
01:15:47,279 --> 01:15:51,239
Speaker 1: And daughter so, many, Friends.

1552
01:15:50,640 --> 01:15:54,159
Speaker 5: Guys my mom is probably not just like swinging your.

1553
01:15:54,199 --> 01:15:56,039
Four yearism i've never asked.

1554
01:15:57,680 --> 01:15:57,880
Speaker 1: Where.

1555
01:15:58,800 --> 01:16:01,239
Speaker 5: CAME from, i mean my dad couldn't keep.

1556
01:16:01,239 --> 01:16:04,720
Speaker 1: It, up secondly she said what, she said what? For husbands?

1557
01:16:05,319 --> 01:16:05,399
Speaker 3: My?

1558
01:16:05,479 --> 01:16:09,239
Speaker 5: Mom, Yeah, no no my mom was. My stepdad my

1559
01:16:09,840 --> 01:16:13,680
dad changes. Every time my mom was with my stepdad

1560
01:16:13,720 --> 01:16:17,199
for twenty years. He passed but my mom was. Always

1561
01:16:17,279 --> 01:16:20,119
active she goes skiing with, this group she, plays youkr

1562
01:16:20,199 --> 01:16:24,680
she goes, on hikes she goes she is. Always going

1563
01:16:24,720 --> 01:16:27,920
and my stepdad was never interested in any. Of it

1564
01:16:28,079 --> 01:16:30,760
so it's like she had her friends that kept her

1565
01:16:30,880 --> 01:16:33,479
active and healthy and out and, about.

1566
01:16:33,399 --> 01:16:36,399
Speaker 1: Yeah out and. About yeah let me tell you something just.

1567
01:16:36,800 --> 01:16:41,760
Speaker 3: Around me, My, father uh so he wanted to, travel

1568
01:16:41,800 --> 01:16:44,000
more but he had nobody was.

1569
01:16:44,039 --> 01:16:47,000
Speaker 1: Going with so he took a solo Trip.

1570
01:16:47,039 --> 01:16:49,760
Speaker 3: To ireland this might have been right before nine to

1571
01:16:49,800 --> 01:16:53,359
eleven because he, came back he got back in and then.

1572
01:16:53,479 --> 01:16:55,399
Speaker 1: Everything, happened yeah.

1573
01:16:54,880 --> 01:16:58,079
Speaker 3: And he was going to go on a hike and

1574
01:16:58,119 --> 01:17:01,239
it was the hike was either Out and about group

1575
01:17:01,439 --> 01:17:04,520
or outward bound or something. Like that so he's all

1576
01:17:04,920 --> 01:17:08,479
set to go AND then i don't know how it tipped,

1577
01:17:08,520 --> 01:17:09,079
him off.

1578
01:17:08,920 --> 01:17:09,840
Speaker 1: But it Was a.

1579
01:17:12,520 --> 01:17:15,479
Speaker 3: It sounds terrible because it's that that big, a deal

1580
01:17:15,880 --> 01:17:19,439
but it was a. Gay, group yeah and so, he's like,

1581
01:17:19,840 --> 01:17:23,000
you know, HE'S like i don't know what it.

1582
01:17:23,079 --> 01:17:25,920
Speaker 1: Really. WAS yeah i think.

1583
01:17:25,760 --> 01:17:27,720
Speaker 3: My BROTHER and i or maybe he went on the

1584
01:17:27,800 --> 01:17:30,119
hike and didn't realize until all of a sudden he's

1585
01:17:30,159 --> 01:17:31,199
looking around and, it's.

1586
01:17:31,119 --> 01:17:36,680
Speaker 1: Like, you know maybe THAT was, I remember i have To.

1587
01:17:36,720 --> 01:17:40,520
Speaker 3: Ask kevin, but yeah but and SO and i don't

1588
01:17:40,560 --> 01:17:43,119
know that you're on, a hike, you know and maybe

1589
01:17:43,159 --> 01:17:44,000
it was a way to.

1590
01:17:44,039 --> 01:17:47,479
Speaker 1: Meet people, you know you're like minded people who kind of.

1591
01:17:47,560 --> 01:17:48,319
Aren't you i'm not going to.

1592
01:17:48,359 --> 01:17:50,880
Speaker 3: Feel judged i'm not going to feel whatever because of,

1593
01:17:50,920 --> 01:17:52,760
my Orientation and i'm more comfortable.

1594
01:17:52,760 --> 01:17:55,680
Speaker 1: THAT way i have, no idea but it was funny

1595
01:17:55,760 --> 01:17:56,600
to talking.

1596
01:17:56,600 --> 01:17:57,199
Speaker 4: About it it's.

1597
01:17:57,239 --> 01:18:00,640
Speaker 3: Really good, all right we'll close it out for a

1598
01:18:00,680 --> 01:18:01,600
beautiful day.

1599
01:18:01,720 --> 01:18:06,039
Speaker 1: Seventy three degrees and two in. Next, Week, yeah sunday

1600
01:18:06,279 --> 01:18:10,640
and the garage is gonna be. Creaking, garagio yeah the garagio.

1601
01:18:11,159 --> 01:18:12,600
Very good we'll have to turn the. Heat down we'll

1602
01:18:12,600 --> 01:18:13,560
just have to be out seven.

1603
01:18:13,880 --> 01:18:13,960
Speaker 3: Or.

1604
01:18:14,000 --> 01:18:15,199
Speaker 4: Open yeah?

1605
01:18:16,199 --> 01:18:18,600
Speaker 1: This ready? You, Ready oh.

1606
01:18:18,640 --> 01:18:20,520
Speaker 5: I'm ready she's ready.

1607
01:18:20,520 --> 01:18:22,640
Speaker 1: To, SKIP no, I said i have a.

1608
01:18:22,600 --> 01:18:25,319
Speaker 5: Gallon, next SATURDAY so i can't have my.

1609
01:18:25,439 --> 01:18:30,399
Speaker 1: Chocolate. Ball yeah i'll invite her and she. Won't come what's?

1610
01:18:30,439 --> 01:18:33,439
Speaker 5: My call tommy is one of the best judges.

1611
01:18:33,479 --> 01:18:38,439
Speaker 1: This Year Tommy fordet, Oh, cool oh. THAT'S awesome I

1612
01:18:38,479 --> 01:18:41,960
love tommy. For that the iron smoke. And uh and

1613
01:18:42,000 --> 01:18:42,600
they've done a hell of.

1614
01:18:42,640 --> 01:18:44,760
Speaker 3: A job they were the first one in that cannery now,

1615
01:18:45,239 --> 01:18:46,640
and yeah they showed it.

1616
01:18:46,680 --> 01:18:50,520
Speaker 1: Could work now you can't, PARK no I just.

1617
01:18:50,960 --> 01:18:53,800
Speaker 3: I'm driving through last Night and I've got i've dropping

1618
01:18:53,880 --> 01:18:56,399
One of jamison's buddies OFF and.

1619
01:18:57,359 --> 01:18:58,560
Speaker 1: I think there was a girl in the.

1620
01:18:58,600 --> 01:19:02,359
Speaker 3: Car too so we're Driving through FAIRPORT and i noticed

1621
01:19:02,399 --> 01:19:03,800
cars on the side of the ROAD and.

1622
01:19:03,720 --> 01:19:06,239
Speaker 1: I, go oh and they, did parking and. He goes

1623
01:19:07,159 --> 01:19:09,479
he just starts laughing because you see the most. Random

1624
01:19:09,520 --> 01:19:12,680
SHIT and, i go wait. A second, i, Said yeah.

1625
01:19:12,680 --> 01:19:15,720
I'm old i'm glad there's parking like people like to.

1626
01:19:15,760 --> 01:19:18,359
Go out it was good they built more parking spaces

1627
01:19:18,359 --> 01:19:21,560
when they widened. The bridge so there, you go all Right,

1628
01:19:22,399 --> 01:19:26,920
For laura They for Keith, And sacks Squatch for kevin

1629
01:19:26,920 --> 01:19:29,880
and loves To. Disrupt, wegmans, Hell Yeah I'm bill murray

1630
01:19:29,920 --> 01:19:33,439
and we'll see you. Next time see what you want

1631
01:19:33,399 --> 01:19:35,880
to Knock With tennessee evening