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Speaker 1: I made a decision paced sunny sound on. I had

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a vision night.

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Speaker 2: What's up, everybody. Welcome to for crying out loud. I'm back,

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Hello studio. Hi Stephanie, Oh my god. Special thanks to

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John for stepping up last week. He did last step

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it up. Yeah, stepper upper. He's a stepper upper. I

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am doing much better thanks to all the you know

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well wishes.

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Speaker 1: Tell us what happened?

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Speaker 2: What happened? Well, it was really stupid. I mean I

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went to my friend Glenn had a great super Bowl party.

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It was a lot of fun.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we haven't really talked about that. Yeah, we're here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was you know, my friends were all my

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old school friends were in town. Mike Gerstein flew out. Uh,

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Dawn came and spent the night, two nights at my house.

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I don't know why two nights, but okay, she spent

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the night Saturday night and then Sunday.

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Speaker 1: But you could wake up on Sunday and pregame and

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I guess, and then go to the super Bowl and

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then she could sleep at your house that night, right

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pretty much? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so well, and also we had Saturday night, all

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of us went out to dinner, Saturday night because everybody

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was in town.

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Speaker 1: So she came for you know, spend the night. And

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then we went to the.

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Speaker 2: Super Bowl and it was a lot of fun. Our

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friend Ryan made an app. He's a genius with computers.

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Speaker 1: He made this app where we could gamble against each other,

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like a dollar on anything, like the next the next

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commercial is going to have you know, big actors in it,

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or the next commercial is going to be a computer commercial. Anything,

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just whatever, And that was fun.

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Speaker 2: I won the squares for the second yet for the

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second quarter, i went two hundred bucks cash.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. Yeah, it was a lot of fun.

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Speaker 2: There was a lot of people there and and then

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at the Okay, so Dawn has a hard time walking right,

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she's her legs are swollen.

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Speaker 1: She has a lot of health issues. We were walking

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to the car. It was pitch black on the street

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and Mike was in front of her and Mike are

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in front of me a couple feet and he was

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like holding on she was holding onto him. And then

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I'm the one that trips and falls and hits my

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head like on some you know those like built in mailbox,

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you know things they're like you know when people have

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their mailbox that's like built in around like a wall

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and then that's the mail whatever.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was, and I just my foot got stuck.

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I was walking in between the cars and I was

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walking on the curb. My foot got stuck and I

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just tripped and bam, hit this like the right top

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of my head really pretty hard.

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Speaker 1: And then I was like, did you see stars?

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Speaker 2: I don't didn't see stars because what didn't hit the

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front of my head was like the top right side.

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And then I was like, oh my god, that really hurt.

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And then they helped me up and we got in

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the car. We drove home forty five minute drive, and

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I was fine, and then but then it kept like

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like really and I could feel there was a lump,

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and then I was up for a few hours. I

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didn't go to sleep right away, and then I went.

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couple times in the middle of the night, helped Phil

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go to the bathroom and stuff. And then the next

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morning I did not feel myself, so I got up

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to come here and right like what I was leaving,

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I was like, whoa, I'm like kind of dizzy and nauseous,

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and I was like that's when I called you and

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I was like, uh, I don't think I can. I

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think I have a like probably a little concussion. And

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then I could feel that there was some blood, like

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dried blood. I didn't feel it until the next morning.

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I think I sent you a picture of my scalp. Yeah,

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so it looks like an abrasion, like a scrape. My

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scalp was scraped, so anyway, and then you know, then

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Wendy was like calling me and like you got to

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go to the hospital. You gotta make and I was like,

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I looked it up. I chat cheapyte like symptoms of

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a concussion. The only thing I had was the dizziness

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and the nas the nauseous the next day. But but

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then I didn't know if it was because I was hungry,

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because I didn't really eat anything, but I didn't feel

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like eating anyway.

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Speaker 1: I just kind of slept on and off the rest

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of the day. And then you know, I was been

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sleeping a lot this week. I have to say, like

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I've just been feeling tired, But now, like over the weekend,

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I feel much better, like back back to my normal self.

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So well, there wasn't it when I looked it up.

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It didn't say there's there's not really a protocolic at

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the hospital, right, there's not really anything they're gonna do.

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I guess maybe observe you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's the thing, Like, you know, everybody was

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talking about Natasha what's her name?

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Speaker 1: You know, uh liam E's wife, right, you know, But

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I looked her up. She felt fine, but then a

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couple hours later she did not feel good. She had

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a bad headache. I didn't have that anyway, but I

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just I and then Sunny stayed.

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Speaker 2: Sonny was in town for Super Bowl, but then he

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he emailed his teachers and he only had like two

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classes online, so he just stayed the rest of the

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week and stayed with me. And yeah, and then now

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I'm back and I'm fine. I feel better.

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Speaker 1: Yeah good. Yeah, Well John came in and we talked

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some politics. Yeah, we annoyed some of our listeners and

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others probably liked it. Yeah. I saw a lot of

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positive comments on our Facebook page. But we're here's the

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thing about us, we've been doing this. I don't know

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if people realize this, but kind of a long time,

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very long, very long time, and we've gone through phases

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where we've cared a lot, what like what our fans think,

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and and when you care a lot, people have a

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lot of opinions. Yeah, when you stop caring as much.

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Like I remember back in twenty sixteen when I was

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mortified that Trump was, you know, when he came down

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the escalator and made his announcement and it started getting

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and I was like, this is fucked up, right, like

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this is crazy, and people lost their minds. I remember,

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I think we might not have had a Facebook group yet, right,

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we might have only had a podcast page. And people

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were like, shut the fuck up, stop, I don't give

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a fuck about your opinion about politics. And I was like,

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holy oh and they're like you stupid lib tard or

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like and I was like, oh, I had no idea

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that people felt like this. And then I realized, you know,

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no offense, but I it because I never thought of

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Adam as like super political either way. I just didn't think.

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I really didn't think he was. I thought he's more.

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I thought of him as more like libertarian, yeah, which

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is annoying. Also it's to me people that are libertarian

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just have a lot of opinions and are kind of angry,

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and that's fine. Listen. I respect a lot of opinions

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in anger, and you know, a lot of libertarians are like,

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we don't want big government. You know, don't tell me

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I have to wear a seat belt. If I don't

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want to wear a seat belt, that's on me. And

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you know what, there's a part of me that kind

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of agrees with that. You know, it's like, do I

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think that we need to strap our children in? Yes,

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if you're like, I don't want to wear a seat belt, okay,

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dumb ass, Well that's fine. The only if you're just

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gonna hurt yourself, you know. If if you want to smoke,

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I guess I don't know if that would be a

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liberty like fine, but I don't want to smell the

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smoke like at star Books. So I feel like if

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Starbucks wants to say no smoking, they're allowed to do

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that too, Like, listen, can we all just get along? Yeah?

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I didn't realize though, And also, to be fair to

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my thinking, that Adam in those days apparently did have

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views like pro choice, yes, like some normal views, right. Yeah.

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So I loved him on Loveline, and you know, thought

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he was I'm just listen. We can talk on Patreon.

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But this was my point of view when I started

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working with you, right right, Yeah. My point of view

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was not, oh my god, this guy's a total douche

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and I'm going against my morals working for the company.

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My point of view was like he was the funny

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one on The Man Show too. I was like John

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and I were like, Adam is clearly the one with

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the better sense of humor, Like he gets it more.

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You know. That's what we thought, having nothing to do

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with who got more famous or who's who I But

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then over the years, I never got close to Adam

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because we weren't like, I never we never saw a

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small handful of conversations. One of the longest conversations was

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probably on the air, right when he was talking shit,

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like telling me why you were wrong about a situation,

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and I was very gently going like okay, but could

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you kind of see it this way? And he was

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like no, no. So then it's during the Trump stuff

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I started realizing, Oh, and this is not to say

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that he was being a Trumper at the time. It

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was just that I started to realize that his listeners

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seemed to have a real right wing bent to their politics,

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and then I just started to realize, oh that then,

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like the listeners of that show and the listen the

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listeners had preceded me. I wasn't going to try to

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a political show. I'm going to talk whatever. I'm going

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to say whatever I want. I was like, well, you know,

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these people are here for you. They liked Teresa kind

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of kept things Switzerland, I think, but she wasn't dealing

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with the same rash ash shit we are now. But

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might say I called it early, and I do remember

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this conversation with you before I when I was just

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kind of confused, and I was like, you're not going

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to vote for Trump, are you right? And you were like, oh,

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I'm voting for Hillary. And I was like, Okay, We're cool.

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know what side here, I know where you are, I

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know where your heart is. Blah blah blah. Yeah. Then

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I had a freaking kid becoming who he was, and

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more sensitive to the views of the right versus the left,

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of like who people are allowed to be. And then

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we get to a point where almost all of Adam's

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views are pretty fucking hard right wing. Yeah crazy right now.

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I feel that you got out early before things went

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completely off the road. Yeah you say, I would say so, yeah, right.

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just it just became like politics. It made you. It

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was no bad, no, but it was like anger. There

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was a lot of anger, yes, bumbling, and it was like,

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where is all this coming from? Yeah? So, and where

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was it coming from? I don't know. I don't not

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have left therapy, I don't know not you know, dealing

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with his child. I have no idea, But I wish

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that everybody could get some of the tools from twelve

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step programs because it really helps, Like even if you're

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not an alcoholic, I feel like things that you learn

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and it's basically therapy can sometimes be a therapist just

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kissing your ass. This is what I find the difference

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between like addiction programs and straight up therapy. Every therapist

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I've ever had has been like, oh my god, you

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poor thing, like that sucks, like your mom sucks, God sucked.

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You really had a lot of trauma, you know. And

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that's nice, But it doesn't it doesn't get the tools

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right right because to really start to have a more

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serene life, you have to be able to look at yourself.

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It's hard. I don't love being criticized. I don't like

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reading shitty things about myself online. I don't like you know,

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of course, yeah mean stuff, but for my own personal life,

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like for personal relations, getting along with my husband, getting

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to be able to, like look at myself. And I

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feel like your ex husband did not get the benefit

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by ever being able to go, Hey, maybe I have

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a part in why not getting along with my wife? Yeah,

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it's not just let me force her into behaving the

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way that makes me feel comfortable and abiding by what

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I want and go how can I find some compromise

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and appreciate her? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: And I know we went to therapy and everything, but

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we got to therapy really late in the game. I

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tried very much early on to go to therapy years

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and years and years, and it was always met with now,

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I don't need we don't need to, I'm smarter than

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the therapist and blah blah blah blah blah. And then

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when the writing was on the wall, then it was like, okay,

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let's go to therapy, and you know, and that was

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it was too late.

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Speaker 1: That was it, you know, it was it. Yeah, yeah,

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we might have a little more to say about that

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on Patreon. But the only reason I went that far

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afield was to say that back in those days it

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wasn't as important. I didn't think it wasn't like I

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was trying to make it a political show. So when

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people were like, can you not like, could this be

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a place where we just have fun, yeah, I was like, yeah,

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of course, totally. All right, we'll talk about like true

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crime exactly, murder exactly, and listen. I spend a lot

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of time listening to news and being informed about what's

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going on on my own time, and I also kind

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of don't want to have this time be like just

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talking about how awful. It is what's going on. So

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that's fair. But at the same time, we've been doing

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this long enough that I just don't give a fuck anymore.

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I'm going to say what I'm going to say. I

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have the opinions I have. And if remember back in

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the day when I was like, if you don't like

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it that I don't like Trump but I'm speaking out,

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then don't listen. And then remember that one guy was like,

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I'm going to tell Adam that you said that. I'm

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going to report you. And I was like, you're telling

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people not to listen to your show. That's bad business.

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He's going to be so mad at you. And I

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was like, okay, good luck with that. He doesn't care. No,

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he didn't care. Now, No, he didn't care now. Yeah.

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So when John was like bringing up politics, I was like,

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you know what this is going to some of the

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people that listen to the show are going to be like, no,

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thank you, but fast forward.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, fine, that's fine. You know, it's funny. I was

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thinking about John. Do you remember then when he and

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I were going to do a project together. Yes, on

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my Middle Eastern side of the family, yeah, my nephews

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and there is Wendy's sister and her husband, Wendy's sister's husband,

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where she was Christian and he was is a Muslim,

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and they had like eight kids, but mostly boys, and

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they all they owned, They owned the body shop, strip clubs,

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and then they owned they opened up the pot shop,

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and we were going to do like a documentary style

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series on the family.

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Speaker 1: I remembered so well. And the reason that it didn't

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work was, which is so funny, was at the time

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that content was like too racy, right, yeah, at the

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time a show in a strip club, that's right. Especially,

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I wasn't it an all nude strip club body shop?

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The body shop was, yeah. But and also pot stuff

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was not like it was very new at the time.

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I think it was still illegal, it was, yes, So

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John was like, it's not selo that going, yeah, even

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though it's a great he was so excited.

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Speaker 2: Right, And I just remember, like one of the stories

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I think he and I were laughing about was the

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fact that the boys, the sons, worked at the strip

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clubs and they would bring home strippers on Sunday for

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dinner and they would the mom would make them eat outside.

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She would not let them in the house and so

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they would have to like go sit outside and eat

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their dinner because she wow, because she was so against

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the stripping and the pot store, which made it an

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interesting story, very interesting.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, that's fun. Back then though, Do they still

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own it? No? No, no, what happened?

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Speaker 2: They all they sold their businesses and now like they're

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doing regular restaurants or something like that.

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Speaker 1: I don't know their still exists though, doesn't it. I

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think they sold it to somebody else. Okay, yeah they're not.

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They don't own it. But anyway, Yeah, interesting. Yeah, well

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So what's happening? Okay, last I am First of all,

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it's annoying when people say this, but I've I'm so tired.

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I'm okay right this minute. I did not sleep at

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all last night. Really have not been sleeping. Everybody probably

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knows I got a dog. Here's how it went down.

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You know, John and I have been looking for dogs.

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I've been talking about it on and on, and I've

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been waiting for John to say like, yeah, Well, Thursday morning,

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I woke up in the morning and a picture came

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up on my Instagram of this woman named Rita May

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Something does photography and she does a lot of shooting

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for the different shelters in the area. Some of them

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are not quite in the area, a lot of them

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are in like land Caster and Palmdale and these and

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then nine times out of ten you see that a

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rescue sees the post, and a rescue goes and gets

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the dog or she also does shooting for the rescues.

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So that's pretty cool. So it's some of her posts

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that have made me like go and inquire with the rescue.

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I've done applications for three different rescues at this point

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and been vetted, and you know, like that dog Sissy

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was very, very cute. John just wasn't sold and was like,

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I don't know if this dog is going to be

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destructive when we're not home, blah blah blah. Okay, So

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here's what happened. Thursday morning. I'm just scrolling on my phone,

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and I see this photograph that I posted of this

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dog that was named Adam. It's now named Bobba Loo.

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Sob for sure, or LB says Lou or the kids say, Bobby,

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we'll see what happened. Yeah, yeah, okay. So I see

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this picture and I knew this was John's type of

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dog something, and I think it's because probably he looks

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a lot like Penelope does, even more so in person.

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But I see the picture, I go, oh, my god,

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I think this is our dog. And I go John,

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I'm not kidding. This is not a trill. I think

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this is our dog. I show him the picture and

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he goes, oh, that is a really cute looking dog.

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That dog looks really sweet, And I was like, yeah,

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here's the problem. It's at the shelter and these dogs

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that are that cute that are not pipules, because the

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pit bulls are no offense. You know, I love me

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a panic. Yeah yeah, and this dog might have some

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pit in her in him. Whoa gendered my new dog. Okay.

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But I was like this suddenly became a rush operation

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because I was like, this post already has like thousands

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of likes, right, and somebody's going to go to that

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and I'm looking in the comments and people are like,

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I want to go get this dog, and I was like,

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the fuck you are, I'm gonna go get this dog.

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So I say to John, oh my god, well you

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have to understand that this is if we like this

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dog and it's at the shelter, we have to go

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get it like today, like this morning. And he's like

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he had something else. Shocking because John doesn't usually have

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a lot of business outside of the house, happened to

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be the one day that he was supposed to be

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doing something with his YouTube partner. So I was like, well,

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is this shelter close by? No, it was in Palmdale.

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Oh boy, it was an hour Okay. So I called

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my friend Tamra who did who basically did the same thing,

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and she had gotten a dog at the shelter, and

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I was like, what do I do? And she goes

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call the shelter and see if they'll take a hold

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or find out if somebody's you know, find out what

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the deal is with the dog. So also, Thursday morning

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is when I go feed the day laborers, right, So

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I first before I could do anything, I had to

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go to Costco pick up my giant pizza order, bring

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it over to the guys, feed the guys come home.

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Now I'm like, oh, meanwhile, I've called the shelter and

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they're like, yeah, sorry, we don't put holds on dogs,

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so it's first come, first served, and we open at eleven. Okay,

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at this point it's eleven. So I'm like, well, is

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the dog still available? And then she looks it up

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and she goes, oh, blah blah blah. Adam was the

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name of the She goes, Yep, he's still here, but

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keep in mind they just opened. Yeah. So I'm like,

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do you think the dog's still going to be there,

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like if it takes me an hour to get there.

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She's like maybe yes, is it worth a try? She

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goes honestly, ma'am like, I don't know. I'm not in.

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I'm not there. I go Okay, So I go home,

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which is like five minutes the other way. John is

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trying to rearrange his errand but he I can't get

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a hold of his friend. Okay, Now this is how

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I know John kind of was into this dog though.

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Finally John just goes, do you want to just drive

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out to the shelter and I'll take the other car

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and go meet my friend. And huh. I was like really,

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and he goes, yeah, I trust you. He goes, but

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make sure, like we have to make sure this is

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a well behaved dog. But there was a video on there,

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and in the video you can see this dog was

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very subdued, okay, like very sweet. So he's like, I

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trust you. Go out there. Okay. So I raise out

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to Palmdale and I'm like nervous the whole time because

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now I'm feeling like this is a super big competition, right,

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I want to beat out these people that I know

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want this dog. Right. I pull up and it's all

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on you too, with the nobody else with you, You're

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by yourself, all on me. Yeah. I run in there.

471
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I get to the desk, I'm like, oh my god,

472
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:04,640
hi is Adam still here? Here's the number of the dog?

473
00:26:04,759 --> 00:26:06,519
And they look it up and they're like, yep, he's

474
00:26:06,519 --> 00:26:10,920
still here. And I'm like, oh my god, Okay, what's

475
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,319
the deal? Sign? Can I meet him? Can I? You know?

476
00:26:14,279 --> 00:26:18,319
So then she goes, so this is where this is. Okay?

477
00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:21,559
So she does really look at his records. Yeah, So

478
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:24,920
she starts looking through his medical records, and this is

479
00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:33,559
what I hear, autoimmune disorder, ginger vitis, infection, possible lymphoma.

480
00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:40,599
Oh no, So I'm like wait, whoa wait, wait what Also? Now,

481
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:44,680
think about this though, if a dog was possibly had lymphoma,

482
00:26:45,799 --> 00:26:47,960
do you think they would be like, hey, this dog's

483
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:51,279
ready to go home today, right? Probably not. But so

484
00:26:51,519 --> 00:26:55,880
I'm already like that doesn't seem right, you know. So

485
00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:59,599
I'm asking questions and it's a little bit like the DMV.

486
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:02,319
This woman that I'm dealing with, yeh, does not know

487
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,960
what's going on. It's like, I, yeah, I don't know.

488
00:27:05,279 --> 00:27:08,240
I'm like, read me, what does it say on the records?

489
00:27:08,279 --> 00:27:12,680
And she says, well, the dog has an infection, could

490
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:15,839
have been from its teeth. It's a stray dog. It

491
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:18,720
was found in a field. Nobody knows anything about it.

492
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:22,480
It was not neutered, it had no chip. Nobody came

493
00:27:22,519 --> 00:27:25,920
to claim this dog. Now, if your dog gets loose

494
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:29,599
in Palmdale, there's one shelter in Palmdale, so that's where

495
00:27:29,599 --> 00:27:31,720
you're going to go. So obviously this dog was not

496
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:37,880
wanted or hadn't had owners, had no collar, nothing. So

497
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:42,480
they do like a check on the dog and it did.

498
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:45,039
It had an In fact, oh, I know, it's lymph

499
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:48,400
nodes were enlarged. That's where they were saying that could

500
00:27:48,559 --> 00:27:54,160
be the sign of like lymphoma. Although okay, So I'm like, okay,

501
00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:57,680
is the dog on medication? And then she goes yeah,

502
00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:02,880
says they're on medication, and I go okay. Oh, she says,

503
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:05,119
but they sent out for they did blood work, but

504
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:07,519
they sent it out but it's not back yet, so

505
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:10,920
we don't know. So I'm like, well, I can't adopt

506
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:13,880
a dog that might have lymphoma, Like that's crazy. I

507
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:17,319
wouldn't be able to, Like, yeah, so how do I know?

508
00:28:17,599 --> 00:28:21,079
Like if I, let's say I fostered the dog, then

509
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:23,400
could get could that be pending the results of the

510
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:26,839
blood test? And she's like, yeah, no, if you take

511
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:29,039
the dog out of here, they're just gonna ki. First

512
00:28:29,079 --> 00:28:31,599
of all, none of this was absolutely was correct. So

513
00:28:32,319 --> 00:28:34,319
I'm like, let me meet. Let me meet this dog

514
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:38,039
that I just drove an hour to meet. I get

515
00:28:38,079 --> 00:28:43,920
to meet the dog. He's so sweet. So he's with

516
00:28:44,119 --> 00:28:47,119
the volunteer and she walks him out and he just

517
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,200
sits in front of her and stares in her face

518
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:51,720
and like puts his paw on her lap and holds

519
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:54,640
pawn her lap, and I was like, have you been

520
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:57,119
caring for this dog for a while and she goes, no,

521
00:28:57,319 --> 00:29:01,640
just today. I was like, so this dog fast with

522
00:29:01,759 --> 00:29:05,839
its person. She's like yeah. So then she then she

523
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:08,480
told me that he just got neutered the day before,

524
00:29:10,039 --> 00:29:13,319
and I was like, okay, so he couldn't be that

525
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:15,960
sick or I don't think you have like neutered him.

526
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:20,440
And then so then she goes, you know what you

527
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:22,759
should do because I said, I was like, I'm so

528
00:29:23,039 --> 00:29:25,599
sad because I'm like already a little bit in love

529
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:28,079
with this dog, but it might have lymphoma. And she goes,

530
00:29:29,039 --> 00:29:31,039
I don't know. She goes a lot of times, that's

531
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:34,480
just not correct information. She goes, you should go over

532
00:29:34,599 --> 00:29:36,359
their head and ask to speak to a vet tech.

533
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:40,279
There you go, okay, So I go to the desk,

534
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:42,480
I go, can I talk to a vet tech? So

535
00:29:42,599 --> 00:29:44,519
they get me a vet tech and he comes out

536
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:47,799
and he goes over the information and he goes, no,

537
00:29:48,079 --> 00:29:51,359
they don't they don't think. Basically, the blood work did

538
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:55,000
come back the dog had enlarged lymph nodes, it had

539
00:29:55,039 --> 00:29:58,200
an infection. They treated it with antibiotics. The lymph nodes

540
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:01,960
are back down, totally back down. He's like the teeth.

541
00:30:02,319 --> 00:30:05,519
They might this dog might need treatment for its teeth.

542
00:30:05,799 --> 00:30:08,839
I'm like, okay, but they I was like, but did

543
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:11,240
they rule out He's like, but they don't think that

544
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:15,519
it has lymphoma. They don't think he does. They can't

545
00:30:15,759 --> 00:30:18,680
rule it out one hundred percent because the blood test

546
00:30:18,759 --> 00:30:22,400
doesn't tell you positive or negative for a lymphoma, but

547
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:25,279
it doesn't the other markers that would mean that are

548
00:30:25,359 --> 00:30:29,559
not there, so it's probable that that's not the issue. Also,

549
00:30:29,599 --> 00:30:32,519
the lymph nodes went back down, so that's a good sign.

550
00:30:32,599 --> 00:30:34,720
It's a good sign. Yeah. I was like, so do

551
00:30:34,759 --> 00:30:36,680
you think I should do you think this dog could

552
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:42,359
be healthy? Well? It also had a cold, so he's

553
00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:45,759
like I think so you know, And I'm like, good, fine,

554
00:30:46,079 --> 00:30:48,759
Right then I had to do a medical waiver though

555
00:30:48,839 --> 00:30:51,880
to take the dog. Okay, and how old is the dog?

556
00:30:52,039 --> 00:30:57,039
Two years old too? He's two years old. So but

557
00:30:57,359 --> 00:31:01,400
the biggest thing to me was that he was super sweet,

558
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:05,319
like not like not like my situation with Clyde, where

559
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:08,240
he was like he just did not he didn't bark,

560
00:31:08,279 --> 00:31:10,200
he didn't make a sound. He was just he's a

561
00:31:10,279 --> 00:31:16,160
little submissive. So but you could just tell his personality

562
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:19,920
is really sweet. Right, So I'm like, fuck it, I'm

563
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,759
doing it. I fill out the paperwork, I put him

564
00:31:22,799 --> 00:31:25,759
in my car. We go home. He's so quiet in

565
00:31:25,839 --> 00:31:27,880
the car. He just sits on the back seat, he

566
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:31,920
looks out the window, you know. Uh so sweet. So

567
00:31:32,039 --> 00:31:37,839
we get home and this dog is like not moving

568
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:42,160
from my side, just wanting to like be pawing at

569
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,759
me and pawing at me. And at first it was

570
00:31:44,839 --> 00:31:47,359
pretty cute, you know, because I'm like, oh my gosh,

571
00:31:48,279 --> 00:31:51,640
he's already bonding with ye, he loves me. And then

572
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:55,079
fairly quickly I was like, this is not good. I

573
00:31:55,519 --> 00:31:58,440
can't like he has to be on me at all

574
00:31:58,559 --> 00:32:01,839
times and he's a big boy. Yeah, so I tried.

575
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:04,039
I was like, let me take him for a walk.

576
00:32:04,319 --> 00:32:06,359
Let me let's go around the neighborhood. We went for

577
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:12,160
a walk. I've already established like some routine like a

578
00:32:12,279 --> 00:32:14,119
walk first thing in the morning, and then like a

579
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:17,559
walk at noon, a walk at four and then a

580
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:21,680
walk right before bed. Yeah that's nice, yeah, just to

581
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:27,599
because because okay, So day two. Okay, so the first night.

582
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:30,960
Here's here's where here's where things go off a cliff.

583
00:32:31,079 --> 00:32:37,319
Oh gosh. Now, so night one, this dog I don't

584
00:32:37,319 --> 00:32:40,559
think has ever lived in a house, even though he's

585
00:32:40,759 --> 00:32:43,680
really smart and I feel like he learned to sit

586
00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:47,039
very quickly. I kind of taught him sit. Yeah, is

587
00:32:47,119 --> 00:32:50,720
it possible he'd already learned to sit maybe in the shelter, possibly,

588
00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:57,440
but he picks up things pretty quickly. Anyway. Night one,

589
00:32:58,799 --> 00:33:01,960
he we don't have a we didn't a way to

590
00:33:02,079 --> 00:33:05,440
train him yet, right, I didn't even have a dog

591
00:33:05,559 --> 00:33:07,799
bed for him except for Penelope's old bed that we

592
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:10,039
still had, and he wanted nothing to do with that bed.

593
00:33:10,079 --> 00:33:12,880
I'm sure it smells a lot like yeah, Albee. So

594
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:16,279
he hopped up on the bed and we had to

595
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:18,519
like let him stay on the bed. I know that

596
00:33:18,599 --> 00:33:20,839
people are going to be like, that was your first mistake,

597
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:23,799
but I needed to sleep. Yeah, it had been a

598
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:26,000
really long day and now it was like late at

599
00:33:26,079 --> 00:33:29,599
night and he wasn't going to sleep, Like he wouldn't

600
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:32,960
sleep on penelopees beds, So like he wants. He probably

601
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:36,839
was been you know, alone and scared, and he just

602
00:33:37,039 --> 00:33:41,720
wants somebody wanted closeness. Yes, But so the first night

603
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:45,599
he was like on top of me and he wouldn't

604
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:47,880
and he's a little bit scared of John, and I

605
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:50,720
had to keep pushing him off of me, pushing him

606
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:52,640
off of me, and I was like, this is not good.

607
00:33:53,839 --> 00:33:57,400
So the next the next day, we established the routine

608
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:02,240
and I was so tired I barely slept night one. Right,

609
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:06,359
so Thursday night, So Friday, I'm super tired and getting cranky,

610
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:12,400
and this dog just on me like glue and having

611
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:14,679
to be touching me, and we were starting to get

612
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:19,559
freaked out. So John puts it into chat GPT and

613
00:34:19,639 --> 00:34:21,760
they basically say, like, what do you do? This dog

614
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:23,880
is super clinging and only wants one person in the

615
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:27,320
house right chat GPT was like, here's what's going on.

616
00:34:28,039 --> 00:34:32,880
Your dog is panic bonding. Also, we found out that

617
00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:35,320
the dog had been neutered the day before, so we

618
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:38,360
put that information into and they're like, your dog is

619
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:42,000
in shock right now. This dog was astray, it lost

620
00:34:42,119 --> 00:34:47,039
everything it knows. It's desperately clinging to what it likes,

621
00:34:47,119 --> 00:34:50,400
this safety, and it doesn't want to be It's not

622
00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:52,320
going to want to be left alone right now. And

623
00:34:53,199 --> 00:34:56,480
it's okay, that's we're gonna here's what we're gonna do.

624
00:34:57,039 --> 00:35:01,079
We're gonna get a crate. We're gonna freight trained the dog,

625
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:03,320
and that's going to be a safe space and blah

626
00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:06,639
blah blah. So we're like, okay, we're going to get

627
00:35:06,639 --> 00:35:11,400
a crate. So my friend Tamra had a crate. I'm

628
00:35:11,519 --> 00:35:15,159
thinking this is the next day. How much is the dogwigh?

629
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:19,679
He weighs like sixty seven pounds, like almost seventy pounds.

630
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:23,440
He's a big boy. Yeah, he's big. He's tall. Andy's

631
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:25,039
kind of thin right now, so he's going to be

632
00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:31,480
even bigger. It's strong. Okay, So night two, we now

633
00:35:31,559 --> 00:35:34,440
that Chatchypte has talked me off a ledge. Right, this

634
00:35:34,559 --> 00:35:36,360
dog is not always going to be this way, but

635
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:40,480
this is like an adjustment period. Also, if you're out

636
00:35:40,519 --> 00:35:42,280
there and you're like the rule of three three three,

637
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:44,280
I know, I know it's going to take three days.

638
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:48,960
That's why I'm like, we're going to be patient. Night too.

639
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:53,679
I'm like Bob, I put oh night. By day two,

640
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:55,599
I had ordered a bed and it had come, so

641
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:57,679
I had put it next to my on my side

642
00:35:57,679 --> 00:36:01,119
of the bed. The chatchypet said, if if you can't

643
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:04,599
do a crate right away, put the dog bed on

644
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:06,719
next to the person that the dog is the most

645
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:09,400
bonded with, and let the dog sleep in a bed

646
00:36:09,519 --> 00:36:14,760
in their bed next to you. Right, Okay, Well he

647
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:16,840
just kept jumping up onto the tab next to me,

648
00:36:17,159 --> 00:36:19,239
and then I'd be like no, and I'd tupped it.

649
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:21,280
But I'm so tired. I'm like on the verge of

650
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:24,760
tears the whole time. But I finally get him to

651
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:27,800
sleep in his bed, and I'm like, oh my god,

652
00:36:28,639 --> 00:36:31,480
thank you God. Oh, let's talk about Let's take a

653
00:36:31,599 --> 00:36:33,719
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654
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655
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658
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659
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660
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661
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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, okay. So I get this dog to successfully

680
00:38:14,599 --> 00:38:17,400
sleep in his bed. He ends up falling asleep in

681
00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:20,199
there and sleeps through the night there in the morning

682
00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:24,440
black I got up to thank him for a walk

683
00:38:24,599 --> 00:38:26,719
in the morning, and then he climbed up into the

684
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:29,800
bed and because I was I'm still so tired. I

685
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:32,719
don't sleep well even though he's in his bed. I

686
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:35,679
just keep waking up and is he is he still

687
00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:40,199
in his bed? Like it's anxiety provoking. Yeah. Then he

688
00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:42,159
gets in the bed and sort of has a little

689
00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:45,159
nap there. But he's better, and he's a little bit

690
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:48,559
that day. He was a little bit less on me

691
00:38:48,679 --> 00:38:50,960
the whole time, and I kept making little errands and

692
00:38:51,079 --> 00:38:55,639
leaving the house and then coming back. Okay, then not

693
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:59,119
last night, but the night before, it's going to be

694
00:38:59,159 --> 00:39:02,119
the next night. And I'm like, okay, we're doing this.

695
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:04,679
He's going to sleep in his bed. You know, maybe

696
00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:06,719
we're good. Maybe we don't even need to crate train

697
00:39:07,119 --> 00:39:11,920
for all. Oh, because John drives out to my friend

698
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:14,360
Tamer's house and gets a dog. Create for a large dog.

699
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:18,559
It's not big enough. It's one size too small soul,

700
00:39:18,679 --> 00:39:21,159
it's not big enough for his whole length of his body.

701
00:39:21,599 --> 00:39:23,519
So we have we know we need a create the

702
00:39:23,599 --> 00:39:27,039
next size up. So I start going on Facebook marketplace

703
00:39:27,119 --> 00:39:29,119
and I'm like, I don't want to buy a crate

704
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:35,119
for like seven dollars. Have it not work? Right? But okay,

705
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:38,760
So I'm like, well we successfully got into sleep in

706
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:41,840
bed the night before. Okay, so this is not last night,

707
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:44,519
but the night before whatever that is sad Is He like,

708
00:39:45,079 --> 00:39:47,199
you know, when he has to go to the bathroom

709
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:51,199
and stuff. Did so night the next the second day

710
00:39:52,639 --> 00:39:54,920
he peed in the house a little bit the first day,

711
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:59,079
but he also peed and pooped on his walk. Okay.

712
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:02,679
The next day he did not poop all day. And

713
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:08,320
then I left the house and John was in the bedroom.

714
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:11,760
I left the house and Xander, oh, we went to bed.

715
00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:15,960
Whatever it was. Xander texts me late at night and

716
00:40:16,039 --> 00:40:20,119
he goes, hey, is Bob housebroken? And I was like, uh,

717
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:22,199
why do you ask? And he goes, well, he pooped

718
00:40:22,199 --> 00:40:26,239
on Sadie's bed. On Sadie's bed. I was like, oh no,

719
00:40:28,039 --> 00:40:31,280
on her bed and pooped all day. He pooped on

720
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:34,360
her bed. Turned out he pooped on a sweatshirt. Oh

721
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:37,159
my god. So they just threw the sweatshirt away. Yeah,

722
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:42,880
and it was fine. The next day he pooped three

723
00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:45,760
times on three different walks and had no accidents in

724
00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:49,039
the house. He loves a ball yard, righting, we have

725
00:40:49,159 --> 00:40:51,679
a backyard, but he doesn't know what to do with it.

726
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:54,440
He doesn't want to be away from me for one second.

727
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:57,119
So if I go in the backyard with him, he

728
00:40:57,320 --> 00:41:00,599
just stands by my legs have to be on a

729
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:05,760
walk for him to like relax, play the bathroom. What

730
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:07,639
if you will train that out of them? What if

731
00:41:07,679 --> 00:41:10,760
you take him on his leash out into the backyard

732
00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:12,599
and tell him go putty. I try to do that.

733
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:17,000
Yesterday I was just like all about establishing routine. So

734
00:41:17,159 --> 00:41:19,599
I was like, let's just do these regimented walks so

735
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:21,559
he knows when you're on your walk, that's when you

736
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:25,079
go to the bathroom. Right, Okay, So this is on Saturday,

737
00:41:25,199 --> 00:41:30,039
so Saturday night, So Friday night is when he pooped Saturday.

738
00:41:30,079 --> 00:41:34,000
We have routine, routine, routine. All day. Things are going well,

739
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:37,920
He's getting a little bit less, a little bit less clingy.

740
00:41:39,119 --> 00:41:42,880
Does Jean take him for walks? Yeah, John's taking him

741
00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:49,280
for walks too. Okay. Also, I think because i'd gotten

742
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:52,159
a little bit more sleep, I was feeling I was

743
00:41:52,199 --> 00:41:56,039
starting to feel slightly better. Almost cocky, if you will.

744
00:41:57,360 --> 00:42:00,639
I think this is gonna work out. Because day one,

745
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:03,159
after he'd slept in the bed the first night and

746
00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:05,559
just wouldn't not get off of me, I was already

747
00:42:05,639 --> 00:42:09,960
having regret. So I wanted this dog so bad that

748
00:42:10,119 --> 00:42:13,119
I drove all the way. I'm just telling our audience

749
00:42:14,199 --> 00:42:18,039
I'm not. I was having major regrets, and John was

750
00:42:18,119 --> 00:42:20,480
really stressed because he hadn't slept at all, And then

751
00:42:20,559 --> 00:42:23,920
I was feeling guilty, like, what have I done. I've

752
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:27,559
invited a dog into our home that might have health issues,

753
00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:31,440
might have behavior issues, Like I don't know what the

754
00:42:31,519 --> 00:42:34,760
fuck I was thinking. You know, this is why you

755
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:37,920
get it from a foster. Now. I know some people

756
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:40,519
are like, this is why you foster first. I don't

757
00:42:40,559 --> 00:42:43,840
think that's the point. The point is a dog that's

758
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:45,440
been living in a home and then you kind of

759
00:42:45,559 --> 00:42:50,639
know how they are, right right. On the other hand, Penelope,

760
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:56,000
apparently Penelope was the same way little Velcrow dog with

761
00:42:56,480 --> 00:43:01,159
the person who was fostering. Right, So I might reach

762
00:43:01,199 --> 00:43:03,800
out to her and ask for some advice. Okay, So

763
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:07,679
that day I'm feeling a little bit better. I'm like,

764
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:12,480
oh my god, I feel like this is still a

765
00:43:12,519 --> 00:43:16,000
couple days ago. Yeah, we're still early in this. I'm like, Okay,

766
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:18,719
maybe we don't even need a create, Maybe we don't

767
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:21,400
need to spend that money. Maybe we'll see maybe he's

768
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:23,880
going to sleep next to me in his bed. Yeah,

769
00:43:25,119 --> 00:43:30,639
that's so Sunday, Saturday night, get in bed at the

770
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:33,480
end of the day, point to his bed. Get in

771
00:43:33,559 --> 00:43:37,039
your bed. Yeah, and he's like, m no, climbs up

772
00:43:37,079 --> 00:43:41,239
on the bed. I'm like, Bob, I get out of bed.

773
00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:43,599
I'm like, no, I'm going to mean business. I'm going

774
00:43:43,679 --> 00:43:46,119
to be like a good doctor, right, I have boundaries.

775
00:43:46,519 --> 00:43:48,719
And I was like, nope, I get out of bed now.

776
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,039
Mind you. I hadn't slept the night before, so I'm

777
00:43:51,119 --> 00:43:55,920
so tired, yes and emotional, and I'm like I stand up.

778
00:43:56,159 --> 00:43:59,199
I'm like, nope, we're going to establish good habits. You're

779
00:43:59,199 --> 00:44:01,079
going to sleep in your bed. I point to the bed.

780
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:03,960
He gets in it for one second. Then he hops

781
00:44:04,039 --> 00:44:07,119
up to the foot of the bed and jumps up

782
00:44:07,159 --> 00:44:09,880
on the bed again. I'm trying everything, Lynette, I am like,

783
00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:14,039
off off by offering a treat, I'm putting a treat

784
00:44:14,079 --> 00:44:17,159
on the bed. We do this like probably ten times.

785
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:20,480
Oh my gosh. And then I was like fuck it,

786
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:24,239
I I can't sleep in the fucking bed.

787
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:24,559
Speaker 2: All right.

788
00:44:24,679 --> 00:44:27,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, so he sleeps in the bed and does he

789
00:44:27,639 --> 00:44:31,400
sleep on your legs and stuff? Well, this time he

790
00:44:31,559 --> 00:44:34,199
was a little bit better, and he kind of went

791
00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:35,960
to the a little bit more in the middle of

792
00:44:36,039 --> 00:44:38,400
the bed, but he's yes, he has to be touching

793
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:42,519
me at all times, and I don't it's too much.

794
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:44,079
It's really not good.

795
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:47,119
Speaker 2: But I don't think it's gonna last. I think it's

796
00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:48,719
just he's getting acclimated.

797
00:44:50,039 --> 00:44:54,000
Speaker 1: Well, okay, So then last night we were like okay,

798
00:44:54,039 --> 00:44:55,639
So now we were like, we got to get a

799
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:57,400
we got to get a crate. We got to figure

800
00:44:57,480 --> 00:44:59,639
something out. And I'm not saying that we're going to

801
00:44:59,639 --> 00:45:02,079
put him the crate and lock the door like night one.

802
00:45:02,159 --> 00:45:04,000
We're gonna have to figure out what to do, right.

803
00:45:04,119 --> 00:45:08,760
Also that, So yesterday I go to Petco. I sign

804
00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:12,559
up for obedience classes. Not right away because he's sick

805
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:15,960
in We're going to start in like two weeks. Oh

806
00:45:16,039 --> 00:45:18,679
that's good. I'm going to do six sessions of classes

807
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:26,239
and you know, get him like socialized. We're gonna have routine. Yeah. Stuff. Meanwhile,

808
00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:29,760
he has a really bad cold. Have you ever dealt

809
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:32,639
with a dog with a cold. I can't, I think so.

810
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:36,280
I think so it's bad. It's I think Phil had

811
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:40,400
pneumonia or something. Oh remember that? Yeah, yes, and he

812
00:45:40,519 --> 00:45:44,519
was coughing and stuff. Yes, this is Bob. He's coughing

813
00:45:44,599 --> 00:45:48,239
a little sneezing, but also he can't he's his nasal.

814
00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:51,840
He's super stuffy, so he's having to like breathe through

815
00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:55,320
his mouth, and he's like panting and like, oh, poor guy,

816
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:59,199
like snorting, and it sounds like you're sleeping next to

817
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:02,480
a very overweight person. Yes, I know, that's what it

818
00:46:02,599 --> 00:46:06,719
sounds like. And it's wet sounding. So then last night,

819
00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:11,559
I mean, I was like, I tried. We didn't have

820
00:46:11,639 --> 00:46:13,679
the crate yet. Okay, so I find a crate on

821
00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:19,800
Facebook marketplace, make a deal forty bucks cash big crate,

822
00:46:20,119 --> 00:46:22,920
but it's not I couldn't get it till this morning. Okay.

823
00:46:23,199 --> 00:46:25,679
So I'm like, I don't know what to do. But

824
00:46:26,199 --> 00:46:29,360
I'm now I'm so tired, right, it's like having a

825
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:34,360
new board. Is I'm gonna sleeping. I have no emotional resources, Like,

826
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:36,760
I don't fucking care. It's going to have to sleep

827
00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:39,679
in the bed one more night because I can't with

828
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:41,719
the with the fighting. I don't know what to do.

829
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:43,360
I don't know if I'm making it worse. I don't

830
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:46,400
know if I'm making it better. I read different things online.

831
00:46:46,559 --> 00:46:48,559
Some things are saying like, it's okay for your dog

832
00:46:48,679 --> 00:46:52,159
to sleep, but they're they're scared. They like it's pack behavior,

833
00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:56,360
it helps them feel more secure, but other people are like, no,

834
00:46:57,119 --> 00:47:00,920
it will reinforce separation anxiety. My head is like going

835
00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:03,760
to explite now, and I'm like, I don't know what

836
00:47:04,119 --> 00:47:06,800
to do. So I just get in bed. Last night

837
00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:10,400
and the and Bob gets in bed with me. I

838
00:47:10,639 --> 00:47:13,360
literally did not sleep for one hour last night. Are

839
00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:19,119
you serious that he was on me, snorting, panting. I

840
00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:22,920
was like, my brain was at such high alert. I

841
00:47:23,199 --> 00:47:25,400
couldn't so I would like listen to a podcast and

842
00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:28,400
I'd play a game on my phone and then I'd go, Okay,

843
00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:31,440
I'm gonna fall asleep right now. And then he'd be

844
00:47:31,639 --> 00:47:33,519
like kind of on me and I'd have to push

845
00:47:33,599 --> 00:47:37,840
him off of me, and I just never slept. Oh

846
00:47:37,960 --> 00:47:44,199
my gosh. So I'm so anyway, So this morning, yeah,

847
00:47:44,639 --> 00:47:48,880
we get the crate. Here's the good news. He's not

848
00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:52,000
not going into the crate. He will go in the crate.

849
00:47:52,079 --> 00:47:54,519
He actually went in the crate and laid down, oh

850
00:47:54,639 --> 00:47:59,039
nice briefly, and then came right back out. Okay now uh.

851
00:47:59,159 --> 00:48:02,360
And then John took him out to pee Also it's

852
00:48:02,519 --> 00:48:07,280
tough because today is pouring rain. Yes, so already he's off,

853
00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:09,800
like I took him out just to pee, right, And

854
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:11,760
John said he took him out to pee right after

855
00:48:11,840 --> 00:48:14,320
I left, and then did he laid down in the

856
00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:18,559
crate with a treat for one second, but then left,

857
00:48:18,679 --> 00:48:20,719
then get out, got out. So I don't know that

858
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:22,280
I'm going to be able to make him sleep in

859
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:24,960
the crate tonight. Well what do people do? I don't,

860
00:48:25,159 --> 00:48:27,679
I don't, I can't remember. I think we did have

861
00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:31,719
a crate for Phil. We did, but I think that

862
00:48:32,039 --> 00:48:35,360
was just for when he we were he was left

863
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:38,800
alone when he was a puppy, right, yeah, But for

864
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:41,760
the most part, Phil just slept well. When he was

865
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:44,239
a puppy, he would sleep with the kids, so he

866
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:46,679
got used to sleeping on the beds, and now he

867
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:49,199
sleeps on the bed all the time. I wish I

868
00:48:49,239 --> 00:48:52,960
could get him off my bed, but really, yeah, but

869
00:48:53,119 --> 00:48:55,599
he I tried that too. I get the bed next

870
00:48:55,639 --> 00:48:58,360
to the thing. He doesn't. He wants to be next

871
00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:01,000
to me all the time, and so he sleeps with

872
00:49:01,119 --> 00:49:05,199
me and he makes a mess. Like Penelope slept with us.

873
00:49:05,679 --> 00:49:10,239
Penelope slept in her bed because I was really rigid

874
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:13,159
about it at the beginning. Then like six months in,

875
00:49:14,199 --> 00:49:16,599
John was like, should we just let her sleep in

876
00:49:16,639 --> 00:49:18,480
the bed? And I was like, all right, but she's

877
00:49:18,519 --> 00:49:20,159
never going to not be in the bed after this,

878
00:49:20,639 --> 00:49:24,079
and it was fine, right right, And she's a velcrow

879
00:49:24,199 --> 00:49:28,920
dog too, but she I don't know, but she slept

880
00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:30,639
in the bed and that was it. And I think

881
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:31,360
he needs to.

882
00:49:31,639 --> 00:49:34,960
Speaker 2: I think he's still he's not feeling well and he's

883
00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:38,760
probably traumatized, and he is trying to bond and he's

884
00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:39,679
going to chill out.

885
00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:41,800
Speaker 1: Though I don't think he's going to always be this way.

886
00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:47,199
I really don't. The problem that could happen is if

887
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:49,760
we let him sleep in the bed and he feels

888
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:52,800
that the only real way he feels comfort is when

889
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:56,159
he's in contact with me. The problem with that is

890
00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:59,719
that he's then going to be really insecure and have

891
00:50:00,119 --> 00:50:03,079
bad abandoned, like like we won't be able to leave

892
00:50:03,079 --> 00:50:05,199
the house, like he'll cry, you can cry and get

893
00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:09,440
destructive if I'm not home or if if no one's home, right,

894
00:50:10,199 --> 00:50:13,760
And the other which filled is that he becomes he

895
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:17,000
feels that I'm his property, like he's in charge of

896
00:50:17,119 --> 00:50:20,320
me yeah, I'm his right, I'm his person and nobody

897
00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:23,159
is allowed to like get near me or like you

898
00:50:23,199 --> 00:50:25,880
don't even has he acted out like that? No, but

899
00:50:26,039 --> 00:50:28,280
he's been with us four days, you know, five days. Yeah,

900
00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:30,360
I don't think he's got that. It doesn't sound like

901
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:33,519
he'd made you know, some dogs maybe have that personality.

902
00:50:33,599 --> 00:50:37,360
It doesn't sound like this dog has that kind of personality. Yeah.

903
00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:40,559
Probably you would have probably seen anxiety thinking, yeah, no,

904
00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:42,719
making me crazy. No, I don't think you have to

905
00:50:42,760 --> 00:50:43,320
worry about that.

906
00:50:43,679 --> 00:50:48,559
Speaker 2: I just think he's traumatized and he's bonding and he's

907
00:50:48,639 --> 00:50:49,559
getting acclimated.

908
00:50:49,599 --> 00:50:50,559
Speaker 1: He doesn't feel good.

909
00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:52,679
Speaker 2: I think once he figures out that this is his

910
00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:55,280
home and he gets and he's happy, and he's used

911
00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:56,920
to being with John when you're not there, and he

912
00:50:57,039 --> 00:50:58,599
used to be with the kids and you're you know,

913
00:50:58,719 --> 00:50:59,719
and he gets used to it.

914
00:51:00,079 --> 00:51:03,079
Speaker 1: He's not used to it yet. Probably's like where am I?

915
00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:05,880
I don't think he's always going to be this way?

916
00:51:07,440 --> 00:51:10,920
I guess not. But what do I do about the sleeping?

917
00:51:11,119 --> 00:51:16,199
The sleeping thing? Sleep? He okay? In case anybody's wondering,

918
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:19,239
he does have a vet appointment, of course, but it's

919
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:22,000
not till tomorrow morning. So that was the earliest we

920
00:51:22,079 --> 00:51:23,920
could get because by the time I was trying to

921
00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:26,599
get the appointment, it was the weekend, and then today

922
00:51:26,679 --> 00:51:28,599
is a holiday. So they were like, we can see

923
00:51:28,599 --> 00:51:32,599
you first thing Tuesday morning, and then we'll do blood work,

924
00:51:32,760 --> 00:51:34,679
our own blood work. You have to do all that

925
00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:37,960
to get insurance. Okay, yeah, yeah, and then if he

926
00:51:38,039 --> 00:51:40,760
has a cold. I tried. I went in the shower

927
00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:43,400
this morning, I put the all the hot water on

928
00:51:43,559 --> 00:51:44,920
and I brought him in the bathroom with me and

929
00:51:44,960 --> 00:51:47,599
I shut the door. So that's nice steam and mu steam.

930
00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:50,000
But I don't know if it did anything. They didn't

931
00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:52,760
give you any medicine for his cold. No, And he

932
00:51:53,159 --> 00:51:57,039
just finished around of antibiotics like he'd taken his last

933
00:51:57,159 --> 00:51:59,920
one the day before I got him, and he just

934
00:52:00,079 --> 00:52:03,800
said surgery. Yes, yeah, he's going through a lot right now.

935
00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:06,000
It is he is. I think you just have to

936
00:52:06,039 --> 00:52:09,079
give him time. He's gonna be okay, Okay.

937
00:52:09,280 --> 00:52:11,679
Speaker 2: I always I know, Phil was like a nut job

938
00:52:11,760 --> 00:52:13,199
and like, is he always going to be this way?

939
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:16,159
Is every time we left, he punished us for leaving

940
00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:19,599
the chew shit up, you know, swallowing socks and stuff

941
00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:21,760
like is he always going to be in and he

942
00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:24,159
got he was a puppy still too though, like we

943
00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:26,719
got him he was four months. But he grew, you know,

944
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:29,159
he grows out of it and then they chill out

945
00:52:29,199 --> 00:52:31,840
and they figure out who's who around the house and

946
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:34,320
you know what they can get away with, who they

947
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:37,800
can get away with stuff, you know, and he needs

948
00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:39,639
to get accom It's only been a couple of days.

949
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:43,199
Speaker 1: I know what it feels like a lot. It's so

950
00:52:43,440 --> 00:52:46,360
you need sleep. I'm not phase though of just like

951
00:52:46,599 --> 00:52:49,800
this is not fun, this is nothing but hard. I'm

952
00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:53,199
not seeing it's like when And I really was reminded

953
00:52:53,239 --> 00:52:55,639
of when I had a baby. And if I'm being

954
00:52:55,760 --> 00:52:58,599
completely honest, which I am and which we have been,

955
00:52:59,039 --> 00:53:02,559
I didn't not like having a baby. I really felt

956
00:53:02,599 --> 00:53:05,639
like I fucked up and I had I was like

957
00:53:05,840 --> 00:53:09,320
I understand why people like abandon their like why people

958
00:53:09,360 --> 00:53:12,199
are like, yeah, it's sorry, it's right for me. I've

959
00:53:12,239 --> 00:53:15,280
had all these thoughts of like I can't do it,

960
00:53:15,599 --> 00:53:20,679
Yeah I cannot. I will not survive sleep deprivation. I can't.

961
00:53:20,760 --> 00:53:23,639
I felt that I say, don't love this baby, like

962
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:26,800
I will protect her and I'm worried, but it was

963
00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:30,119
all I felt was anxiety. And that's what I'm feeling

964
00:53:30,199 --> 00:53:32,559
with the dog. Like I'm not feeling the bonding feeling.

965
00:53:32,599 --> 00:53:36,199
I'm feeling like I'm feeling suffocated, like, oh my god,

966
00:53:36,280 --> 00:53:39,000
this is twenty four to seven. And when I'm home,

967
00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:43,119
it's relentless, Like he is relentless with me, like if

968
00:53:43,159 --> 00:53:46,119
I'm sitting at my desk, his paws or on my

969
00:53:46,320 --> 00:53:49,000
lap and like he's pawing at you, yeah, pawing at me,

970
00:53:49,079 --> 00:53:51,280
and I have to keep going off, like and taking

971
00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:53,280
his legs and putting him on the floor and I'm

972
00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:59,039
just like, m pawing at me gently. Yeah yeah, but

973
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:02,199
like it's sweet, but it's not feeling. I'm not feeling

974
00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:03,679
like my heart is not melting.

975
00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:08,039
Speaker 2: I'm feeling like, oh my god, right, give me a minute. Yeah,

976
00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:12,639
I think it's gonna be. I think he just needs

977
00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:17,119
to acclimate. And maybe the more you're away from the

978
00:54:17,239 --> 00:54:20,159
house and he gets to see that you do come

979
00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:23,000
back and stuff and he bonds with other like John

980
00:54:23,039 --> 00:54:25,119
and the kids and stuff, that might help too.

981
00:54:25,599 --> 00:54:27,760
Speaker 1: Oh you don't think I was so excited to come

982
00:54:27,800 --> 00:54:30,639
here today. I was like, yes, three hours out of

983
00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:36,800
my fucking house. Yes, please, good luck? Yeah right right, yeah, yeah,

984
00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:38,599
I think he's got it. He's just got to get

985
00:54:38,679 --> 00:54:40,800
used to it. And and he's not feeling good. He's

986
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:43,400
got to get his medication. I know, he's probably not

987
00:54:43,519 --> 00:54:46,920
feeling good. I know. And when they make like dog

988
00:54:47,079 --> 00:54:50,159
cold medicine though, I know, I mean, you will put

989
00:54:50,199 --> 00:54:53,960
him on another antibiotic. Maybe I know that they can

990
00:54:54,159 --> 00:55:00,480
they can take benadryl and stuff. Yeah, that's true. Yeah,

991
00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:04,000
I can just see what the vet says first, seeing

992
00:55:04,039 --> 00:55:06,480
a really good vet. It's going to cost a lot

993
00:55:06,519 --> 00:55:09,840
of money, but it's kind of she's kind of a

994
00:55:09,920 --> 00:55:12,639
famous vet. And remember I told you that our vet

995
00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:17,079
doctor Swan, who I'm obsessed with, we got because we

996
00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:20,199
went to this clinic because because I looked up clinics.

997
00:55:20,280 --> 00:55:24,119
This was with Penelope, that we're taking dogs in the

998
00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:29,400
office post COVID because all these veteran veterinarian clinics were like, oh,

999
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:35,159
still COVID. No, it's not I it's twenty twenty two. Yeah,

1000
00:55:35,280 --> 00:55:37,760
relax right, like and they're like, oh, yeah, you can't

1001
00:55:37,760 --> 00:55:39,920
come in the office. It's a COVID. I'm like, oh,

1002
00:55:40,079 --> 00:55:42,199
is that it or is it just fucking easier for you.

1003
00:55:42,880 --> 00:55:45,199
We're parked in our stupid cars in the right waiting,

1004
00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:49,920
I know. And Penelope did not like the vet shocking,

1005
00:55:50,199 --> 00:55:53,480
you know, but wouldn't walk with anybody, so I would

1006
00:55:53,559 --> 00:55:57,280
have to walk with her her into the vet, and

1007
00:55:57,400 --> 00:55:59,559
I was like, why isn't there a vet that you

1008
00:55:59,599 --> 00:56:02,159
can be in the room with them? I understand you're

1009
00:56:02,159 --> 00:56:03,960
not going to be in the room when they're doing treatment,

1010
00:56:04,199 --> 00:56:07,360
but you know the office, you see the vet. So

1011
00:56:07,519 --> 00:56:10,079
I found this place, Charziana Pet Clinic, and they were

1012
00:56:10,199 --> 00:56:14,280
like I called them and they're like yeah. I'm like,

1013
00:56:14,559 --> 00:56:18,920
but wait, you can come inside and really the vet

1014
00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:21,440
and they're like yep. And I was like, okay, you

1015
00:56:21,559 --> 00:56:23,639
do realize a lot of places won't do it because

1016
00:56:23,639 --> 00:56:26,000
of COVID and they're like yeah, they're trying to save money,

1017
00:56:26,199 --> 00:56:30,199
right right. Anyway, So I found this vet, but the

1018
00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:35,559
famous vet at that clinic was like was not available.

1019
00:56:35,639 --> 00:56:38,000
So they put me with somebody who's not listed in

1020
00:56:38,039 --> 00:56:41,400
a lot of the reviews and he was the best. Yeah,

1021
00:56:41,519 --> 00:56:44,079
and now we're obsessed with him, but he's out of

1022
00:56:44,159 --> 00:56:48,039
town at like some conference like learning a good vet,

1023
00:56:50,280 --> 00:56:53,079
continuing his education like a dumb mouse.

1024
00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:56,840
Speaker 2: You're already a VET, right, I relax, Yeah, can't you

1025
00:56:57,000 --> 00:56:58,480
use CHEPT for that shit?

1026
00:57:00,519 --> 00:57:05,679
Speaker 1: Totally best practices on. You're good, fine, you're doing fine,

1027
00:57:06,400 --> 00:57:08,920
stay in town. But they're like, oh, you're going to

1028
00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:14,039
see this other VET named doctor doctor Goasmer. And I'm like, oh,

1029
00:57:14,400 --> 00:57:17,079
she's famous, that's great, that's cool. Nice.

1030
00:57:17,960 --> 00:57:19,880
Speaker 2: Well, I think you'll get a lot of answers to

1031
00:57:20,079 --> 00:57:23,960
tomorrow from the VET. But so you got the crate,

1032
00:57:24,559 --> 00:57:27,960
you do need to get sleep and what if I

1033
00:57:28,039 --> 00:57:30,480
don't know what they how they do the crate thing?

1034
00:57:30,760 --> 00:57:32,880
Are you supposed to close it at night and have

1035
00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:33,639
them just sleep?

1036
00:57:33,679 --> 00:57:37,480
Speaker 1: So here's the thing. You're not supposed to do the

1037
00:57:37,599 --> 00:57:40,199
crate right away where you close the door, because they're

1038
00:57:40,239 --> 00:57:43,519
supposed to make a positive association. So what you don't

1039
00:57:43,559 --> 00:57:45,519
want to do is be like, I know, you make

1040
00:57:45,599 --> 00:57:47,159
you sleep on the bed, but now you're locked in

1041
00:57:47,199 --> 00:57:51,239
the crate and then have them trying to get out,

1042
00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:56,119
and you're supposed to lock close the door, but only

1043
00:57:56,199 --> 00:57:58,039
for like a few seconds. If they feel like they

1044
00:57:58,079 --> 00:57:59,880
want to come out, you open the door right away

1045
00:58:00,039 --> 00:58:02,400
so that they know this is their own free will.

1046
00:58:02,440 --> 00:58:04,719
You want that to feel like a safe space. But

1047
00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:07,480
I don't know how that's supposed to work. If the

1048
00:58:07,599 --> 00:58:09,679
dog wants to sleep on the bed, how does that

1049
00:58:10,159 --> 00:58:13,000
kind of to picture this dog going like, you know what,

1050
00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:16,639
it's great, it's so pimped out. I love it so much.

1051
00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:18,719
It's like I thought I wanted to sleep in bed

1052
00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:21,400
with you, But now that you've shown me this cage

1053
00:58:21,880 --> 00:58:24,559
with some blankets in it, I'll take that. Yeah, now,

1054
00:58:25,840 --> 00:58:29,480
I know, I know, I think though you have to

1055
00:58:29,599 --> 00:58:32,159
keep I don't what do I know, I'm not I

1056
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:35,159
know it, I know, but right at least put the

1057
00:58:35,239 --> 00:58:36,360
bed back next to me.

1058
00:58:36,679 --> 00:58:39,280
Speaker 2: Try out again, keep up with the bed, just keep

1059
00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:42,079
up and maybe during the day, like get on the bed.

1060
00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:44,599
And then if he gets up on the bed, no no, no, no,

1061
00:58:44,840 --> 00:58:48,199
go back down, like teach him like he's not supposed

1062
00:58:48,239 --> 00:58:50,239
to come up on the bed, Like I'm on the

1063
00:58:50,280 --> 00:58:52,679
bed right now, but Bob, you've got to be down

1064
00:58:52,719 --> 00:58:53,079
here right.

1065
00:58:53,280 --> 00:58:55,639
Speaker 1: So far, what I've done is just confuse the fuck

1066
00:58:55,679 --> 00:58:58,440
out of him, yeah, and not have any boundaries.

1067
00:58:58,039 --> 00:59:00,840
Speaker 2: And go like, no, you're not on the bed, all right, right,

1068
00:59:01,039 --> 00:59:03,800
That's what happened to Phil. Phil went even went to

1069
00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:06,960
obedient class as soon as he got back. Everybody told

1070
00:59:07,039 --> 00:59:09,400
him different things. So he's like, I'm just gonna do

1071
00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:13,280
whatever I want. I'm gonna tell you a little call

1072
00:59:13,320 --> 00:59:15,119
um be right, and then do whatever the.

1073
00:59:15,119 --> 00:59:20,119
Speaker 1: Funk I want exactly exactly and then have callum c Basically, yeah,

1074
00:59:20,400 --> 00:59:23,159
I want the shrimp cham Mayne. That's like, I know,

1075
00:59:23,239 --> 00:59:28,320
it costs extra care, exact Phil. You can have beef,

1076
00:59:29,599 --> 00:59:35,960
you can have chicken. Have a combo. Right, Okay, let's

1077
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:38,880
say hi to our friends. We have a good Patreon

1078
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1079
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talk about. Let's say to our friends, Dick Frolicker and

1081
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1083
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your mouth. Check it. Gabby and Missy, oh my god,

1088
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I saw them at Palmdale about how you did. Yeah.

1089
01:00:17,480 --> 01:00:20,880
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1090
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They're floating.

1091
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