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<v Speaker 1>All right, Angie's on the line in Meridan this morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Angie tell us about this great first date with a

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<v Speaker 2>guy named Adam.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like he First of all, it was a great date.

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<v Speaker 3>We had a really spectacular time.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean yeah, like we went on a date.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a really really nice dinner and drink. Oh

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<v Speaker 3>very you know, very classy, very lovely, and and I

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<v Speaker 3>thought we had a really great connection.

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<v Speaker 4>We had just like a we just had.

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<v Speaker 3>A ton in common, right, We had like a musical

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<v Speaker 3>love of wines.

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<v Speaker 4>Like he knew a lot about wines. I do, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>like kind of nerdy stuff, but like I you know,

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<v Speaker 4>he knew a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>It was awesome. And he loves to travel. I love

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<v Speaker 3>to travel, and like he likes boats. I like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like I like boats.

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<v Speaker 4>Like it was just it just you know, it felt

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<v Speaker 4>like it really worked.

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<v Speaker 1>So it felt comfortable and you had a lot in common. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely was there flirting. Did you feel like there was

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<v Speaker 1>like a flirty vibe?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, yeah, like totally like there was.

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<v Speaker 3>I just felt like the connection was really there and

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<v Speaker 3>a parent and just like super obvious.

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<v Speaker 5>You know.

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<v Speaker 4>I've sent him a text.

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<v Speaker 3>And I even called him and left the message, but like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, saying like I'd really love to see you again,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, just like that's how comfortable it felt like.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So let me say you sent him a text

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<v Speaker 2>and you left him a message yeah and no, and

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<v Speaker 2>no response to either one.

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<v Speaker 4>Nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't take this the wrong way. But you talked too much,

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<v Speaker 1>So maybe that's well I said, don't take it the

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<v Speaker 1>wrong way. Well that doesn't make it better, so great? No, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well I don't Maybe maybe you just talked a lot

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<v Speaker 1>on the date.

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<v Speaker 6>Wait, question, how long was the voicemail that you left him?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Good one?

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<v Speaker 6>Was it like a two minute voicemail? Did you like

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<v Speaker 6>pour your heart out in the voicemail?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 4>I thought it was very succinct. I mean maybe thirty seconds.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just like, hey, you know me, we had a

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<v Speaker 4>good time central text.

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<v Speaker 3>Just wanted to follow up and just see, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like let's make some plans, you know, to see each

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<v Speaker 3>other again.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think it was wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, listen, I think it sounded like it went well

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<v Speaker 2>and it was a good first date and something must

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<v Speaker 2>be going on.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna call him up and we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>find out.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you ready to get some answers as to why

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<v Speaker 2>you're getting ghosted.

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<v Speaker 4>I would love it.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So you're gonna be on hold. We're gonna call Adam.

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<v Speaker 2>But at any point if you want to jump in

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<v Speaker 2>and talk to Adam, you can. Okay, Okay, I could

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<v Speaker 2>use a glass of wine right now.

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<v Speaker 6>Sounds amazing, honestly, We'll saygaria red deep red, yes, juicy

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<v Speaker 6>steak yeah, medium, medium, rare.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, Hello is Adam.

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<v Speaker 5>There is Adam.

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<v Speaker 1>Hu Hi, Adam. This is Courtney Adam. It's Walmart chef.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey, Adam, it's Savannah.

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<v Speaker 2>We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. Okay, well, welcome,

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<v Speaker 2>you're on the radio this morning, and I'll tell you

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<v Speaker 2>why you're on something called second date Update.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So we get calls from people who go on great

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<v Speaker 2>first dates, like magical first dates, but they're getting ghosted

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<v Speaker 2>and they want some answers.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'll let you know that Angie called us.

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<v Speaker 2>She said, you guys went on you guys went on

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<v Speaker 2>a great first date. She said there was a connection,

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<v Speaker 2>there was flirting, there was wine drinking, it was a

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<v Speaker 2>nice restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>She's texted you.

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<v Speaker 2>She has also left you a message a voicemail and

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<v Speaker 2>you're ghostinger.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I didn't expect heard of three other people to call.

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<v Speaker 2>She really wants to see you again, and sometimes it

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<v Speaker 2>takes like a village to get a second date.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I guess, or I mean, yeah, she's the cool girl.

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<v Speaker 5>I did have a connection and I feel like a

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<v Speaker 5>lot of things in common. But there's a reason, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I haven't entered her calls.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so we just wanted to be honest. What's the

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<v Speaker 2>reason you are ghosting, Ajie?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean she's materialistic. If I have to give a reason.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well you said she's materialistic.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, listen, like I I work really hard. I

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<v Speaker 5>love treating people who i'm into, like first date guys,

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<v Speaker 5>she ordered the most expensive bottle on the menu of

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<v Speaker 5>why so.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry, I'm so sorry. This is this is Adam.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't understand, like what that makes me materialistic?

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<v Speaker 4>Because I did. First of all, I didn't order the

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<v Speaker 4>most expensive bottle. I suggested it.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, Angie's on the line.

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<v Speaker 2>I should let you know she was listening and go ahead, Angie, Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Like that's I don't understand. How does that make me materialistic?

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<v Speaker 4>You said we both like wine?

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<v Speaker 5>Like I suggest, you suggested it, and of course I

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<v Speaker 5>bought it. Like on a first date, if you suggest

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<v Speaker 5>something like it puts me in a bind. I wanted

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<v Speaker 5>you to have a good time. I wasn't just gonna

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<v Speaker 5>shoot you down.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not horrible. Her order like expensive wind is not horrible.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I okay, well, and if you want me to

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<v Speaker 5>like this, I would rather not air this out. But

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<v Speaker 5>like if we're gonna, I mean you guys, Angie asked

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<v Speaker 5>me to basically expense She was trying to get me

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<v Speaker 5>to pay for her hair appointment she got for the

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<v Speaker 5>date because I kind of done.

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<v Speaker 4>I got it done for you.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, it's not that's not how dates work. I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>you looked amazing, Angie, but no, I wasn't together yet.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know asking me to pay for that again,

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<v Speaker 5>it's like putting me in a spot where if I say, no,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm this like cheap jerk. You can't know I'm paying

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<v Speaker 5>for your hair that we went for days.

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<v Speaker 4>I did my nails. I also got like that dress,

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<v Speaker 4>and I didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Ask you to pay for those.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Like that's I can't believe.

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<v Speaker 1>That's yeah, But you know what that's just normal woman

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<v Speaker 1>upkeep that shouldn't fall on us normal.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, that's first of whate that's ridiculous, Like.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, Adam, are you even into like travel or boats

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<v Speaker 3>or any of this or is this like big why?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, like I love traveling, I love boats. I

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<v Speaker 5>have friends that have boats. I can't go on. Then

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<v Speaker 5>whatever I want, the boats that I can afford are

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<v Speaker 5>definitely not going to be the ones that are going

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<v Speaker 5>to make you happy. I'm guessing like everyone loves those things.

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<v Speaker 2>This is what we usually do, but I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>if we can afford Angie, probably not. If we pay,

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<v Speaker 2>I would have I would have offered to pay for

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<v Speaker 2>another date if you guys want to try it again,

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<v Speaker 2>But if you're if you're not interested or you think

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<v Speaker 2>if there wasn't like a match match.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like I've been. I've been. This is like

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<v Speaker 4>a rude.

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<v Speaker 3>Like he has like tried to pretend to somebody he's not.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh you know, I actually don't. I am not actually

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<v Speaker 4>interested in seeing Adam again. Okay, that was pretty up.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you, thank you, yeah, thank you networks. And also

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<v Speaker 5>I think she's doing you guys a favorite because I'm

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<v Speaker 5>not sure you would be able to pay for the

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<v Speaker 5>next five days if you paid for one.

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<v Speaker 1>Adam, you sound like a great guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Angie, Angie, you know what you want and it's just

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<v Speaker 2>not it's not Adam, It's not all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Guys, Well listen, thank.

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<v Speaker 2>You both for being honest and open and being on

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<v Speaker 2>second day and update.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, thank you guys again, and have a good life.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I hope to not see you. I hope to

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<v Speaker 4>not see you.