Speaker 1: Where'll they go on a second date or will must
be the last time they ever talked?
Speaker 2: And kiss?
Speaker 3: In the morning Second Date Update, I'm kiss ninety seven.
Speaker 4: All right, Well it is time for second date Update
and we're going to South Windsor this morning. Brittany's on
the line and apparently is getting ghosted after a first date.
Speaker 3: Good morning, Brittany, Hey, good morning. Oh, welcome to the show.
Speaker 4: I hope you can get some answers, but obviously you
need to tell us about this first date you had
with a guy named Bobby.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we went out for a happy hour and it
was awesome. Okay, I feel like we had a ton
of chemistry and I don't know, just a lot in common.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 5: He even asked, like at the end of the date
if I wanted to go back to his place for cocktails,
But like I I really liked this guy and I
didn't want to, you know, go like home with him
the first date, so I said no, and yeah, and
then I said on the hexts like the next day,
thanking him for a great date and kind of hinting
it getting together again.
Speaker 3: And you're getting ghost no response.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So yeah, it actually sounds like you guys had
a lot of chemistry. I mean for the date to
go that well, and then he said, come on back
to my place. We'll have more drinks and hang out
and chat. Sounds like you guys had a lot of chemistry.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: Do you usually avoid sex on a first date? Jef?
What I mean? Why else would a guy invite a
girl back to his place? Courtney? Let's be honest.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, all right, but especially not if I really
like him?
Speaker 1: Gotcha?
Speaker 4: Okay, right, Like you could see it, you could see
like second date and a third date, and like you can't.
Speaker 3: Just Jeff like rush into it like that. All right,
And I'm going to ask because I just want to
get the obvious out.
Speaker 5: Of the way.
Speaker 3: Nobody drank too much, nobody got a little too tipsy. No, okay,
I'm just gonna ask because you know, sometimes things over all, right,
So I'm gonna put you on hold.
Speaker 4: You're going to be listening in at any point if
you want to jump in, jump in, okay, Okay, all right,
let's call Bobby.
Speaker 3: Invited her back to his place?
Speaker 1: Seriously? What nothing? If you can't figure it out, I
shouldn't have to tell you.
Speaker 2: Hi.
Speaker 3: Is Bobby there? Hey Bobby, it's Courtney.
Speaker 1: Bobby, it's Walmart. Jeff.
Speaker 3: Hey, it's Savannah. We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven.
Speaker 4: You're on the radio this morning, Bobby.
Speaker 3: Hey, good morning, Rise, Rise and shine.
Speaker 4: Listen, Bobby, you are on something we do called second
date Update. If somebody goes on a first date, they
think it's fantastic, but then they get ghosted after that
and they want answers, they call us, and so that's
why you're on the radio this morning.
Speaker 2: Oh all right, Oh okay, Well, in.
Speaker 4: The event that you go on lots of first dates,
I'm going to exactly let's see. Her name's Brittany. She
called us. I'll refresh your memory. You guys went out
for cocktails. Apparently the chemistry was through the roof. You
guys have a lot in common. She's reached out to
you to suggest maybe a second date, and you're completely
ghosting her. Do you remember this date?
Speaker 3: Bobby?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, So why are you ghosting her?
Speaker 3: What what's happening?
Speaker 2: Chemists through the Rif the date was I mean to
be honest with you, the date was average and I
ended up spending more money than I wanted to.
Speaker 4: Well, okay, wait a minute, so spending more money on
like cocktails, like I don't understand it was average and
was it a very expensive place or you just weren't
going to spend money.
Speaker 2: I mean, I just wasn't there to spend money. I mean, like, okay,
we we met on Tinder, Like the purpose of that
is not to you know, and go out and spend money.
It's it's the hook up. And uh and she didn't
even want to come back to my house. I mean
we met on Tinder and she declined, you know, going
to my crib. I mean, I can.
Speaker 1: See how that could be bothersome. Yeah, no I can't.
Speaker 3: Bobby.
Speaker 4: Wait, Bobby, you're telling me you're ghosting her because you
met on Tinder. And Tinder's a place, you think where
you just meet people to hook up, and she wouldn't
hook up with you.
Speaker 3: Is that what you're saying?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Yeah, not what Tinder is for anymore. I mean it's
for dates. Like maybe at one point it was for hookups,
but you should have been really clear about that. And
I thought this was a date. And now what we
had cocktails and it was too much money for.
Speaker 2: You, you know, I'm just I was just there for
then on tender for a minute, it's been all hookups.
I mean it's everywhere I've been understood the.
Speaker 5: Start of the date, because we had a whole date,
and then just because you're invited me to your house,
like I thought that was you know, like I don't know.
I didn't think it would be a deal breaker if
I turned you down.
Speaker 3: So at no point did you, guys ever discuss like
what are you looking for? Like you want this to
be casual? Like are you looking for? Like I feel
like that's a conversation you're supposed to have.
Speaker 2: I mean, I have a tender profile. It says that
it should just automatically. It's the implication.
Speaker 1: I get you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I sure, okay. Just because you think Tinder
is only for hookups, a lot of people are on
there for something more serious. I know a couple who
got married and they met on Tinder. So I told
you that I was looking for a serious relationship at
some point.
Speaker 2: I can't imagine getting married off some off a tender hookup.
I mean, first off, that's just wild. But yeah, at
no point we even we discussed relationship for a future
is about tonight. Man.
Speaker 3: So I'm guessing. So, Bobby, you are just wanting hookups.
Speaker 4: I'm guessing even if I offer to pay for it,
I'm not even gonna offer to pay for a second
day because I don't even want Brittany to go out
with you, Bobby, because you just want.
Speaker 3: A hook up.
Speaker 2: Don't swipe right if you're not going to go to
the crab man.
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, listen, I think you've got your answer, Brittany.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I'm just I'm embarrassed andn't see it.
Speaker 3: That's all right.
Speaker 4: I don't think Tinders just for hookups, like Bobby says,
But if in the event it is, then maybe try
try try a different try a different dating app. I
don't know, Bobby. Listen, I just at least at least
you were honest today with us.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I mean that's been the answer the whole time.
All right.
Speaker 4: Well, good luck with those hookups on Tinder, and Brittany
keep us posted, okay.
Speaker 5: Yeah,