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<v Speaker 1>Here we go with a Minnesota goodbye, Let's get started,

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<v Speaker 1>and this one is from Neil, who is a regular contributor.

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<v Speaker 1>Neil lives in Atlanta, and Neil writes, I had a

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<v Speaker 1>random thought of the weekend thought i'd ask you about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking about artist writers, the things that they

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<v Speaker 1>request when they tour, and I wanted to throw this

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<v Speaker 1>out there. Do artists get billed for the items on

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<v Speaker 1>their riders? If you're not sure, maybe Carson can, Dave

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<v Speaker 1>can reach out to Carson. And that's a good question

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<v Speaker 1>because Carson is the tour manager, so proud of him.

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<v Speaker 1>For David Kushner, and they do have their writers, and

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<v Speaker 1>usually when you're at a David Kushner level, it's very simple.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like bottled water, hot tea honey, deli tray, maybe cookies, milk,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it might be, w R I T or R

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<v Speaker 1>R I d R I d E R and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't honestly know, but I think the venue provides for

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<v Speaker 1>it absolutely.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm almost positive that the venue provides either that or

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<v Speaker 2>like who over's hosting, I know, I'm pretty sure that we,

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<v Speaker 2>like katiewb bought Paul Russell stuff to have in the

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<v Speaker 2>little side room before you performed for Boobash, So it's

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<v Speaker 2>usually on whoever's hosting it. I don't think that the

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<v Speaker 2>artist pays for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'll ask Carson when he's home. He gets home today. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>are there any odd items that artists have requested who

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<v Speaker 1>Carson has worked with? I actually asked him that and

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<v Speaker 1>he said no. He basically said no that there's never been.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. The legend is that back in the day,

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<v Speaker 1>like I think van Halen wanted M and MS with

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<v Speaker 1>all the green ones removed. Yeah, And I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>know whether that's true or not.

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<v Speaker 3>Are the green ones the sexy ones?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? But I think maybe they said the brown ones.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't remember one. Yeah, And I think that van

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<v Speaker 1>Halen did that just because they wanted to prove that

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<v Speaker 1>you really really did read the concert writer. Sure, so

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<v Speaker 1>in other words, if you've removed all the brown eminems,

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<v Speaker 1>then you read the concert writer. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I know that Chris Hockey has said when they first

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<v Speaker 2>started doing whatever festival was not on Canterbury. I think

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<v Speaker 2>it was Twin City's Summer Jam that they had Aerosmith

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<v Speaker 2>there the first year, and Stephen Tyler requested that the

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<v Speaker 2>water be a certain temperature that's in his toilet, and

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<v Speaker 2>he was a super huge diva, and Chris Hockey did

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<v Speaker 2>the whole thing of like never meet your heroes with

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<v Speaker 2>him because he always loves Stephen Tyler, and then he

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<v Speaker 2>was just like a pretty big diva at that festival.

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<v Speaker 1>I can see Stephen Tyler being a big diva because

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<v Speaker 1>he's old and he's been in the business for fifty

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<v Speaker 1>something years, so it's probably like, look, if I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to go do this, I want to have exactly what

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<v Speaker 1>I want. But that seems weird.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll do just one get your toilet water to be

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<v Speaker 2>a certain temperature though.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a really good question. Finally, if you're working an

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<v Speaker 1>event like Star Party or jingle Ball, what would you

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<v Speaker 1>put on your rider? I would say charcoterie board, different cheeses, sausage,

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<v Speaker 1>some nice Deli mustard yeah, and really no, don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>coke zero.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, the diet coke kombucha, and then maybe like the

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<v Speaker 4>little Debbie nutty bars.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, very simple.

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<v Speaker 2>I would definitely get like some nice coffee in there.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd probably ask for us some Starbucks, some like go

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<v Speaker 2>to iced coffee, and then I you know, if I'm performing,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to get all bloated, so I probably

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't eat anything super unhealthy. I'd probably be annoying and

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<v Speaker 2>ask for like a veggie tree, but not because that's

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<v Speaker 2>what I want, just because I want to look good

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<v Speaker 2>on stage.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I get that. You know what's fun. I've seen

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<v Speaker 1>some videos on Instagram lately and it must be in

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<v Speaker 1>my algorithm of artists getting ready to go on stage.

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<v Speaker 1>So they're backstage, they're walking through the tunnels and then

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<v Speaker 1>they're like, oh, here we go. And I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>really interesting because how would you feel if you've been

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<v Speaker 1>doing it for a long time? Like I think the

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<v Speaker 1>last one I saw was def Leopard, and they're all

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<v Speaker 1>about to go on stage. They've been doing this for

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<v Speaker 1>forty something years, and so maybe they're a little bit nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>But you open up the curtains and you see like

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<v Speaker 1>forty thousand fans out there, and I just thought that's

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<v Speaker 1>really interesting. When you see Taylor Swifty backstage about to

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<v Speaker 1>go on stage, it's like, that's really cool. Yeah, how

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<v Speaker 1>do you feel have in that moment?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I do wonder if they're nervous or if they've

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<v Speaker 4>done it so many times that it just doesn't FaZe

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<v Speaker 4>them anymore. And it's kind of like clockwork almost. But

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<v Speaker 4>I mean if it was me, I'd be like pooping

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<v Speaker 4>my pants over it.

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<v Speaker 1>Nervous, absolutely. I see what else we got here? A

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<v Speaker 1>quick question or heard y'all on cool When I wait? Sunday?

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<v Speaker 1>Was that prerecorded or live? That was pre recorded? We

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<v Speaker 1>did that on Thursday because they don't want us to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we don't want to come in on a

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<v Speaker 1>Sunday too.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I was saying, we don't want to mess it up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we don't want to mess it up. This is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of interesting. I guess you can listen to the

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<v Speaker 1>entire Straight Out of Coon Rapids Best of the Dave

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan Show CD on YouTube. So Morgan provided us a

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<v Speaker 1>link and you if you don't, I mean, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>buy the CD anymore obviously, but if you wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>listen to it, it's on YouTube. Just search for Straight

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<v Speaker 1>Out a Coon Rapids on YouTube. Let's see what else

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<v Speaker 1>we got here? All right, Hello, my friends. I Friday

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<v Speaker 1>night found myself treating me to Happy Hour and dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>I was sitting at the bar, one stool between myself

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<v Speaker 1>and another regular couple. So picture this. So they're at

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<v Speaker 1>the bar, there's a stool. Then another regular couple, a

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<v Speaker 1>woman came over and asked if the stool was available.

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<v Speaker 1>We both looked at her and said yeah. So she

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<v Speaker 1>proceeded to pull the stool out and move it to

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<v Speaker 1>another area of the bar, and then ask five people

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<v Speaker 1>to move down. These are people, including myself, that have

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<v Speaker 1>drinks and meals we are enjoining. I semi snapped, and

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<v Speaker 1>I looked up and I said, no, I'm enjoying my

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<v Speaker 1>meal as others are, and if you're looking to squeeze in,

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<v Speaker 1>there are other areas that'll be less disruptive, as I

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<v Speaker 1>pointed across the bar to people with just drinks. After

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<v Speaker 1>the interaction, I kind of felt like a bitch, But

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<v Speaker 1>I also felt like she was a bitch asking for

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<v Speaker 1>numerous people to accommodate her needs until her table was ready. Bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>please stand around the fire with your drink. Don't disrupt

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<v Speaker 1>my wine and dinner with your necessity to sit. Make

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<v Speaker 1>a reservation next time. I'm the single celebrate celebrate, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>the single celibate bath house flight attendant. Yes, and now

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<v Speaker 1>I can add to the list. Bitch, what does that.

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<v Speaker 3>Mean she emailed in you might have been gone, but

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<v Speaker 3>Sani was here. We're here. Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, then she's a single lady that went to a

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<v Speaker 4>bathhouse once and wanted.

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<v Speaker 2>And we asked her clarification on it, and she's single.

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<v Speaker 2>I think she lives with her kid or something, so

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<v Speaker 2>does know how to get it on or do anything

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<v Speaker 2>when her kid's like living in the house.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, gotcha. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. It is a weird kind of a thing

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<v Speaker 1>when you go to a bar, like there's a restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>in Chan that we go to just be called Axles.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what's called anymore. And if there's somebody

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<v Speaker 1>at the bar, you always put a bar stool between

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<v Speaker 1>you and a stranger. And so sometimes there will be

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<v Speaker 1>another bar stools for a couple, but they're not next

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<v Speaker 1>to each other. Yeah, so then can you ask the

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<v Speaker 1>person to slide down? I don't know. I sometimes people

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<v Speaker 1>look at you and go, oh, let me slide down, right.

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<v Speaker 1>That happens a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>I would hope that they would offer themselves. I so

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<v Speaker 4>before I worked here, before COVID, I worked at a

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<v Speaker 4>theater and I was the box office manager. So I

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<v Speaker 4>sold tickets to plays and we would often sell out,

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<v Speaker 4>like our Christmas show, or there would be like two

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<v Speaker 4>seats in the back row, and like this bar situation,

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<v Speaker 4>they would be far away from each other and someone

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<v Speaker 4>there would always be a person to call in and

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<v Speaker 4>they'd be like, yeah, I'd like to bring me and

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<v Speaker 4>me and my husband want to come see this show.

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<v Speaker 4>And we see that there are two tickets available. Can

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<v Speaker 4>you have everyone else move down? Can you like move

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<v Speaker 4>everyone's seats? And I was like, no, I cannot. They'd

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<v Speaker 4>get so mad at me for not moving these people's seats,

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<v Speaker 4>the seats that they paid for and like have every

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<v Speaker 4>right to sit in. And I said, you know what,

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<v Speaker 4>on the day of you can test your luck, show up,

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<v Speaker 4>ask the people to move down, see if they will.

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<v Speaker 3>But like, I'm not forcing anybody. They don't down now,

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<v Speaker 3>they don't have to.

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<v Speaker 4>So I feel like I would like maybe they would

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<v Speaker 4>offer it to move down at the bar on their own,

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<v Speaker 4>but like, they don't have to move down.

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<v Speaker 3>So no, I don't think you're a bitch. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>think that you have to.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think that is it really that big of

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<v Speaker 2>a deal that you have to move your food.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I've always been I've always been the one who will

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<v Speaker 2>ask someone to move if they don't offer it up,

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<v Speaker 2>because we want a spot at the bar. Like, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know, that's me And maybe you might think that's rude,

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<v Speaker 2>but I just don't see, Like the bar tenders want

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<v Speaker 2>the business, the restaurant should want the business, so like,

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<v Speaker 2>I think it makes sense to move over a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit to accommodate someone who's just trying to like sit down.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess she maybe her point was she was asking

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<v Speaker 1>five people to slide down, yeah, which I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really know. I guess if I was, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if I came into a bar with you know, Susan,

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<v Speaker 1>and there was a person and a stool, and then

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<v Speaker 1>two people in a stool and a person in a stool,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think I would feel maybe okay with like saying, hey, right,

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<v Speaker 1>would you mind sliding down?

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<v Speaker 3>Just like one person sliding one seat versus five.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>If I saw there were two seats available and I

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<v Speaker 4>had two me and somebody else, and there were two

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<v Speaker 4>seats super far away from each other, I would just think, well,

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<v Speaker 4>there's no room at the bar.

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<v Speaker 3>Period.

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<v Speaker 2>Also a lot of times when it's really busy, a

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<v Speaker 2>bartender will like make the situation happen for them too,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I've been to I don't know Park Tavern or

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<v Speaker 2>something in Saint Louis Park, and they will The bartenders

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<v Speaker 2>want the business, so they'll be like, hey, you guys,

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<v Speaker 2>mind moving down. Let's get these guys in here now.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just kind of saying maybe a good bartender would

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<v Speaker 1>do that. Yeah, yeah, I mean Buffalo wild Wings definitely,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's freaking buffalo wild wings. But in a nicer bar,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you'd feel a little bit funny about somebody's got

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<v Speaker 1>like his seventy five dollars, you know, Philet Mignon with

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<v Speaker 1>We always eat at the bar. We when we walk

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<v Speaker 1>Might number one because we get to watch TV.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you don't have to talk to each other, but

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<v Speaker 1>Mick writes in Mick says, Dave, I'll hit you with

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<v Speaker 1>Uh. Through all this time, I've never quoted you, not

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<v Speaker 1>The other day, my wife's side put some wall spackling

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<v Speaker 1>I had no way to respond to that, Dave, how

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<v Speaker 1>as I draft this email, the spackle is still on

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<v Speaker 3>How dare you arm my wife?

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<v Speaker 1>That's funny, It's true, though, don't put it down, put

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's me and all my socks. I'll just take

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<v Speaker 4>my socks off for comfort while I'm like sitting watching TV,

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<v Speaker 4>I have to, you know, like go through and clean everything. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>just my clothes, just pepper around my apartment.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys, I don't think I could live with either of you.

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<v Speaker 2>I am so strict with Andrew because he always puts

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<v Speaker 1>And I'll be like, all.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, here you go, we're gonna put this away now,

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<v Speaker 2>and I just pile things up and I give it

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. No, I do that, and I remind myself it

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<v Speaker 1>Let me ask you a question. While you're cooking, do

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<v Speaker 1>you clean up as you're cooking or do you clean

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<v Speaker 3>The cooking at the end if not days later?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, really, Jenny, I clean up.

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<v Speaker 2>As I'm cooking, but then I almost always leave like

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<v Speaker 4>Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually, yeah, it's got a soak, you know, before

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<v Speaker 1>I enjoy the whole process. I made a crockpot meal

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm constantly putting things into the sink as I'm cooking,

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<v Speaker 1>the cabinet. I really enjoy that. And I don't know why,

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<v Speaker 4>I think the kitchen and is the least my least

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<v Speaker 3>I do hate dishes too.

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<v Speaker 4>I wish I had a dishwasher. I've never once had

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'll credit Andrew. He definitely does more of the dishes.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I put everything away in the dishwasher as often

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<v Speaker 2>Andrew always like gets up in the morning and does dishes.

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<v Speaker 2>If there's dishes in the same.

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<v Speaker 1>It really doesn't Okay. Let me ask you this one.

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<v Speaker 1>When you come home from a trip, do you unpack

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<v Speaker 1>immediately or do you unpack over the next few days?

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<v Speaker 2>Jenny, ninety percent of the time, Yes, it depends on

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<v Speaker 2>long day, then I'm probably not doing it right away.

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<v Speaker 2>But most of the time, yes, I unpack right away.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Bailey, No, I wait and wait and wait and wait.

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<v Speaker 4>So or if I do laundry or something, I bring

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<v Speaker 4>everything I take, it takes me forever to put it away.

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<v Speaker 1>Really really for about you, Dave, first thing I do

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<v Speaker 1>before I can do anything, before I can relax, before

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<v Speaker 1>I can sit down, before I can do anything I

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely unpack. I bring the suit case in. I unpack

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<v Speaker 1>my Nintendo switch, and then I put that all away.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I do the suitcase. I put it on the

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<v Speaker 1>take the shoes to the shoe place, and then I

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, not me.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, do you make your bed?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't either. I don't. I don't make my bed.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't. It's just one side.

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<v Speaker 3>So if I needed to make it, I just go

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. All right. That is it for the Minnesota goodbye.

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<v Speaker 1>Send your emails to I in Show at KDIWB dot

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