Speaker 1: You're watching brand new faces. I'm your host, Matt, and
I'm joined tonight by a very special guest. You find
her on Twitter and only fans. I love when the
social media matches the only fans that way, you just
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about like trying to write down those numbers like it's
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bes bes b e X b e X my guest tonight, folks,
Bex Bex. I think we've already established that, Bex. How
are you this evening?
Speaker 2: I'm doing great, thank you? How are you not bad?
Speaker 1: Not bad? Let me start with the third routest question
can ask a woman, and if you decide you don't
want to answer, I am now accepting I will not
answer that as a thing. Am I allowed to ask you?
How old you are?
Speaker 2: I'm twenty five?
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right. The first question you don't
ask is are you pregnant? The second question you don't
ask is how much do you weigh? And then third
is age and I feel comfortable doing that one. I
don't understand what female measurements are like whatsoever. I've never
understood them, no matter how many fifty cent songs I've
listened to. So I came up with my own kind
of metrics. Can I ask you what your height is?
Speaker 2: I'm five to five?
Speaker 1: What you're just judging by my eyes here? Absolutely perfect
cup size is it's thirty six D. And for my
foot guys out there, which is not necessarily my thing,
but hey, as long as you're not being destructive folks,
I have no problem with you. What is your shoe size?
Speaker 2: Seven and a half?
Speaker 1: Okay, wonderful, wonderful, wonderful. Let's start with the boring basic
question right off the bat. Tell me about how you
decided to get into the adult entertainment industry. When did
you take that leap from like if you had other
jobs prior to this, when you just went fuck it,
I'm not doing that anymore. Or was this always a
plan like you were always kind of like once I
work my way up to something like this, I'm very interested.
Talk me through your whole journey quote unquote not the
sound corny into this industry.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I started into sex work really eighteen. I was,
you know, as soon as I graduated high school, I
got on. I tried to play around with like seeking
arrangements and things like that. So I started off very
light sex work, just like selling nudes for money and stuff.
And then I became a stripper. And I was a
stripper off and on for about like four or five years.
And then I got out of stripping, and I was
bartending for a while, and then I was working at
schools and stuff, doing psychology things. And then my boyfriend
and I were having a conversation. So I only started
camming November twenty twenty five, so it's only been three
months of camming. And my boyfriend and I were having conversation,
and you know, I was making pennies at my job,
and he was like looking into you know, making more
money kind of for the both of us, and he
was talking about how he found this like AI based
job and everything. And I was telling him because I
had some friends that I knew from stripping that did
camming and were online dominatrixes and such, so I told
him I was like, you know, in a perfect world,
I would just want to be an online dominatrix and
I would want to do camming. And he was like,
why wouldn't you You would make so much money doing that,
and I was like, well, I guess the reason why
I never really started it was because I didn't know
how you would feel about it. And he was like, yeah,
I don't care. He's like, he's like, you do you,
You do whatever you want. So literally that night, I
jumped on Chatterbrate and I started streaming and he helps
me even take my pictures and things like that. And yeah,
so it just started a few months ago, but I
was basically just sick of making nothing. I also use
camming to help me pay for school and as a
way to because my major is very hour heavy, so
I needed something too that could make money to support
me through school. But that I'm also not working forty
fifty hours a week while also in school full time.
Sure it just works out.
Speaker 1: Sure, yeah, and you're not having to necessarily drive somewhere
the commute get ready exactly? That don't make sense. Don't
give me any specifics whatsoever. But I love your look,
the tats you look. I mean you look kind not
in a creepy way. You're like my wife when we
first met, just dark hair and tats. I love it.
That's always my thing. She's got a perm now and
the hair's red. So we've been together a long time.
Are you in an area or were you dancing in
an area where the tattoos were a benefit or a negative?
And again I'm not asking for personal inform me. You
don't have to tell me where exactly you were. But
I always wonder like if a girl like you walked
into like a strip club in like deep Texas where
those guys are fucking you know, have straw hanging out
of their mouth, or wherever is that gonna Are they
gonna be like, oh wow, the weird girl with the
tattoo walked in. I need to get a dance from her.
Or is it like I got to stay away from it,
or we're all the girls in your club like tatted
and that was kind of the style or the look.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I have danced in four different states. I
have danced in big cities, small towns. I have danced
in like backcountry areas and in nice clubs and trashy
clubs and everywhere. The tattoos and keersings have been a hit. Yeah,
Like they eat it up no matter where I am,
what I'm doing. I mean, I was even in the
service industry as a bartender, and I have bar technique
in a lot of different places as well. Anywhere they
love it, like everyone, especially because I got my tattoos,
like I got my sleep done really young, so I've
kind of almost never been in the adult you know,
like sex work industry without my more big tattoos, and
they've I feel like they've always helped me.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, I'm just I just always wonder, like
if you went up to Portland, it would be like
everyone be drooling over you and whatever. And then I
picture another thing, some small hickeish town or something where
you know, you walk in and everyone the music stops
and you heard like a record pool. Yeah, I never
know if it's a benefit or a negative.
Speaker 2: That's actually sorry to cut your ry.
Speaker 1: Oh please please, you talk too much. You keep talking
and I'll cut you off.
Speaker 2: That is actually my biggest like that's where I make
my fucking money, and that's where I'm the biggest hit
is in like the country, like the like that area
like the like small town. I think it's because maybe
it's because it's just not seen much, you know, and
also because I have some of my tattoos are not
that nice because some of them I did myself, but
some of them, most of them are really nice. And unfortunately,
in small areas like that, you don't always get people
with nice tattoos because they don't have the bigger, you know,
more state of the art kind of tattoo shocks. So
in strip clubs in more backwoods areas, I felt like, yeah,
I felt like I actually had more. I was more
loved in those parts.
Speaker 1: Wow, okay, all right, well you're in that You're you're
in a positive way and completely posit the way. You're
an oddity. You're not like everyone else there. You were original,
original is probably a nicer way of saying oddity. Sorry
for that. Your camera just gave us a beautiful pull
out and showed the rest of you and then zoom
back in. That was kind of cool. If I'm being
honest with you, it looks yeah, it looks like yeah, okay,
all right, du You grew a following pretty quickly. It
seems like on chatterbait from what I've seen. Is there
anything specific to your show that you think draws people
in there? Is it just your looking personality? Like you
don't seem like you're one of those girls who just
sits there and as soon as it starts, you know,
camera goes live, you're just kind of like on your phone,
like looking for other things. It seems like every time
I've ever secretly popped in there creepily. Uh, you have
been engaging with people and stuff. What's it like coming
into your room? And for the people who do like
doing different chat stuff and whatever chatterbait, I'm gonna put
all your links in the description as well for that
so they can follow you there as well. So what's
your room like? Talk me through it.
Speaker 2: I think what's special about my room and what draws
people is I don't shut the fuck up, Like the
entire time I'm on there, whether I'm streaming for two
hours or whether I'm streaming for six hours, I am
yap in the whole time, and I'm talking about anything.
I talk about my day, I talk about my pets,
I talk about I share crazy sex stories, I share
service industry stories. I also get to know my regulars too,
so I have. I have around like three or four
people that regularly come into my show. I would say
there's two that I count on basically every time I
go live to be there, and I remember things about
them and about their lives, you know, so I'll be like, oh, yeah,
how is that, you know, like how is your time
at the gym? Or you know, did you end up
trying and let new restaurant this weekend? And they like that,
you know, because a lot of times, what I've learned
from stripping and from camming is that it's not just
about you know, being sexy and you know, like fingering
myself on a camera. It's a lot of times it's
about connection and it's about almost that girlfriend experience. So
I feel like that's the vibe of my room is
I am doing sexy things, you know, I have goals
that work up, and I do ticket shows where I'm
coming and squirting and you know, doing all the like
you know, more intense things. But for the most part,
I'm just hanging out with them and flirting, going back
and forth, like we have inside jokes, and I think
that's what makes it stand out. And then I kind
of make a rule for myself to not be on
my phone. The most I'm on my phone is I'll
be like, all right, I got to take a selfie,
got to put it on Instagram. Let my Instagram followers
know that I'm here. Maybe I'm going to change the playlist.
That's also a big thing too, is the music I play.
I play a lot of Tool and Deftones and slipmot
and Limp Biscuit and like all those kinds of bands.
And I feel like the guys that are into my
look find that refreshing too, because they usually listen to
that kind of music themselves. So if they're seeing a
hot alt girl shaking her tits to a Tool song,
it's like, oh, I'm in the perfect place.
Speaker 1: I've never seen Tool live, I have seen a perfect circle,
So I get a little bit of crad. I feel like, no,
that's awesome, and I've never really I have heard it. Obviously,
I have done almost two hundred of these interviews at
this point, so I've definitely heard what you've said, but
I don't know that I've heard it summarized as perfectly
as that is. You know, Yes, we can go look
at some giant mainstream porn stars. Only fans or whatever else.
But you're not going to get that same personal attention necessarily,
you know, when you can find and I assume for
those two guys that found you, and if they found
you very early on, I bet they're looking at you
like the fucking indie band of all time. Like when
you blow up even more someday, they're gonna be like
I was on her first and then they'll probably end
up hating you if you change up anything a little bit,
you know. But No, that's very cool. That is very
cool that you're building community. Have you had any and
I won't ask you probably don't remember their names, but
I won't ask you to call anyone out by name,
But have you had anyone you've had to try and
push out of that community block? Like is anyone nasty
to you? I don't hear a ton of stories of
performers on webcam getting like really nasty stuff. It seems
like the communities are kind of together, like put together
in normal.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say, honestly for the most part, and
I found this in stripping as well, but I would
say even more so on chatter Bait. I find that
the men who come and watch my show are insanely
respectful and more respectful than the men that I encountered
as a bartender with all my clothes on, you know. Yeah.
And also my community that I built on chatter bait
is so loyal and they are so good to me
that like when somebody does try to come on my
room and say some shit, they're like, uh, that doesn't
fly here. I'm really heavy on my block list and
on silencing people, so I don't really get I have
a hearty, thick skin, so I don't really get bothered.
But I just don't need the negativity in my room, sure,
and I don't want it to bring I don't want
anybody else's focus to be on that instead of on me.
So yeah, occasionally I get you some hate and but
nothing that I even I don't even remember what they
say because it just doesn't matter.
Speaker 1: Sure, totally, I get it, and that's just someone trying
to get under your skin or troll you or whatever
it is. And it's like, why do I need this
in my life? If you need to go around and
do this to people, find someone that'll fight back against it,
because I don't give a shit fuck you. I know
you said your school is very time intensive right now,
and I totally understand that. Say you got to a point, Okay,
I only use this as an example because you talked
about that other job you had before. Kat Karma or
Gasmik is a big OnlyFans performer, and I've had her
on a few times. I got her on very early
on in her career and it was so great. I
believe she's divorced now, unfortunately, but her and her husband
sat down one day and realized they were losing money
by not spending war would have been their workday sitting
around and editing and uploading and all of this stuff.
They quit their day job started doing this and it
took off and became like a real giant career career
type of thing. Say you get to some point where
you're making so much off your only vans, off your chatterbait,
whatever it is, you look at the thing you're going
to school for and go, maybe I could put this
off for a few years. Do you think you would
ever consider that? Or is it something that you're going
to school for that you love so much and you'll
know you'll be able to get a job when you're
done with it. That No, even if the money comes,
I still want to pursue this.
Speaker 2: I think about it all the time. I go back
and forth. So what I'm going to school for is
definitely more of a survival career choice because I was
so broke most of my life, huh, that I was like,
all right, I gotta it's time to either shit or
get off the plane. So I'm going to go to
school for something I know we'll make money and that
there's a high demand for. And so I started going
to school for it. I have gone part time since
doing this, and I also camming and OnlyFans is my
only jobs right now because they do it. Yeah. I
reached that point pretty quickly where I was sitting at
my you know, civilian job of vanilla job, and I
was like, I could be sitting at home on my
couch talking, you know, just hanging out with my boobs
out making four times as much as I'm making right now,
sure being used and abused by my bosses. So yeah,
I go back and forth on it all the time.
I I am. I do have a lot of you know,
I'm definitely a future tripper. I have. And then also
because I have lived in such financial insecurity in the past,
you know, and I've had nothing. I am just the
type of person that I'm like, I'm gonna do whatever
it takes to never be there again. Sure, so I
think that I will probably finish school just in case,
just in case I log on one day and nobody
wants to watch, you know, just in case I you know,
post on OnlyFans or send out a PPV and no
one wants to pay for it. I don't think it
will happen anytime soon, because things have been only getting better,
but there just is always that possibility. I have though
thought about changing what I'm going to school for. I
have that about maybe changing it to my actual passion
and something that I would actually like to do, just
because I'm like, well, I could you know, with the
money from chatterby and OnlyFans, I'm like, well, I could
use this for investments and stocks and properties and stuff
and make more passive income that way, and that way
I could do a job that I really want to do.
But yeah, so I go back and forth about it
all the time.
Speaker 1: No, it makes sense. Let me okay, all right, this
is going to be a weird line of questioning To
get to where I want to go to did you
always grow up as gorgeous as you are now? Or
were you like, I please, don't take anything. I'm an idiot.
Were you ever like ugly duckling who like hit a
spot and you're like, oh wow, Bex is so hot.
Now I'm because I wonder this. You are gorgeous. You
seem like you understand the professionality of this and what
it takes to do this right. But I love there's
a little bit of I don't know if it's just
paranoia insecurity that it's not going to hold up, or
is there any imposter syndrome in there where you're like,
what if I show up one day and no one
fin and wants to see me ever again? And blah blah.
I get that too. People always listen, they tune in,
they click, they do whatever, And every time I turn
on the mic, I go no one wants to hear
what you're fucking saying. Shut up, you are stupid, don't
do this anymore? Did you do you? Have you always
been a confident person or has this been a confidence
boost for you?
Speaker 2: This has been a huge confidence boost for me. Honestly,
when I got into sex work, you know, at eighteen,
started stripping, and then you know, when I became a
bartender and like was dealing with you know, the drunk public,
the drunken, very honest public. That even became a confidence
booster too. But yeah, I would say I definitely did not.
I was always pretty, you know, I always had a
pretty face, I always had pretty hair. But I was
really weird. I still am weird. I'm still a weird adult,
but I was, to paint the picture as a teenager,
I wore the same doctor who extra large hoodie every
single day of high school with a giant tartis on it,
with my hair up and a bun and my like
ratty converse. I wrote fan fiction, I've played video games.
Speaker 1: I mean, you're just you would have been the hottest
girl in my friend group, I feel like in high school. Yeah,
it's what it would have been. Yeah, where no one
really picked on us, but no one really gave a
shit about us either. Right, you're just kind of there.
There was that group over there, okay.
Speaker 2: Yeah. And now as an adult, that's become my superpower
is being really pretty but also being you know, having
the like awkward and weird and nerdy side of me
and also like a darker side and just kind of
having more of a niche. I feel like has been
my superpower. But I still definitely do have a lot
of imposter syndrome. And my boyfriend, My boyfriend's my number
one fanning he tells me all the time. I'm like,
cause we're talking about moving into different apartments and we're like, well,
we can afford something a little nicer now. And I
was like, well, I don't want to, you know, get
locked into something that I'm not going to be able
to afford because nobody wants to watch me anymore. And
he was like, you're too hot for people to just
stop watching you. And I guess I just don't think
that way. I don't know, I don't know what it is,
but he's getting better.
Speaker 1: It has to you when a girl like you, who
again you say you're a little bit weird. My wife
and I for the last twelve years, do you want
to know our only vacation we take it? Every year?
We spend a week and we go up to Salem,
Massachusetts for Halloween. Yes, every year we've gone, last twelve.
I think it is so we're we're weirdos too, Okay, Like,
you know, just accept this is who we are. That's
so great to hear though, that like he's pushing you
and giving you confidence, and you know, does he ever
join you on your streams or is he out entirely?
Speaker 2: He is out. We have done one video for my
only fans. It was it's a blow drop video for
my only fans, and uh, I don't know if I'll
ever have him on stream. I think that it would
go fine. I I just don't know about I guess
crossing that line totally.
Speaker 1: A lot of people don't. Yeah. Yeah, it's two different methods.
Some people are like, I'm fully tied in with this person,
but that's more when that person wants to be a performer,
not just will perform with you, but wants to like
I want my own account, even I want this, And
if you guys eventually make so much money, maybe he
just goes fuck it. I'll just start showing my dick
who cares. But you got to respect it until he does.
And I totally get that too. Yeah. Let me okay,
I have not asked any of the sexu related questions
on my list because you're just an interesting person and
you're fun to talk to. Let me bang through some
of these. Are you into women at all or no?
Speaker 2: Rh yes, definitely okay.
Speaker 1: All right? To be fair, I interviewed a girl one
time she referred to herself as aggressively heterosexual, and then
I just had her on for a follow up and
she's like, so, I'm like, I have this girlfriend on
the side now, and I go, oh, aggressively heterosexual. A
if you were to balance it, what do you think
it is like percentage wise? Like if I dropped I
think my wife likes eighty percent women, twenty percent men.
If I drop dead, she would go find a girlfriend.
Not that I insist on it or anything like that.
Where do you think you sit? Are you mostly into
dudes and like you'll lean into women or is it
like I'm really into chicks too?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say I'm I'm right around that. I
would say probably a sixty percent into women, forty percent
into men. I naturally am just drawn to women more.
Most of my friends are women. Most of my partners
have been women too. I do really enjoy you know,
a good guy though, Like there's nothing like having like
a really good guy as your boyfriend is an awesome feeling.
But yeah, so I'm like almost fifty to fifty. But
I would say that I just I think that my
instinct just leans towards courting women more than I court men.
Speaker 1: Totally makes sense, Uh, all right? Rank these three for me? Facial, swallowing,
cream pie?
Speaker 2: Okay, cream pie first, and then swallowing, and then facial.
Speaker 1: Can I pause you before you give any explanation because
I've heard this too many goddamn times and you women
are driving me nuts with this? Is it because cream
pie is an easy cleanup?
Speaker 2: I mean it a little bit?
Speaker 1: Okay? Yeah, I was just gonna say because every time
mainstream girl, new girl coming in, it doesn't matter. I
ask and they go facial last night and go why
facial unless they don't swallow? And they go why. I
don't want it to mess up my makeup. It's like sweetye,
it's the end of the night here. I don't know
how many you think I got left in me. Okay,
let's just paint the pretty picture and move on with it.
But I don't put on makeup, so I don't understand it. Okay,
go ahead, Why why do you think I mean that order? Then?
Speaker 2: So it sounds okay? Just come holley, honesty, I am
the type of person. And I guess anybody who's, you know,
not familiar with sex workers maybe wouldn't believe me when
I say this, But you're familiar with sex workers, so
you know it's I'm probably not the first one to
say this, but I am a very emotional person when
it comes to having sex, Like I can't I can't
handle one night stands or things like that. So like
for me, I guess I like being I like that
almost connection that I feel, and then I do think
it's hot too. There's something that's just a turn on about,
you know, a guy being like it's almost like saying
like you're mine. True in a way, I like swallowing
because I feel hot when I do it, and I
have I definitely have a praise kink, like a good
girl thing going on. So like, I just feel like
I'm the shit when I swallow for some reason. And
I would rank facial last, but I do think facials
are fun because it makes me feel like I'm performing.
Speaker 1: Fair enough, fair enough. What's your current working relationship with anal?
Are we friends with it or are we terrified of it?
Speaker 2: I am pretty scared?
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right? Is that something is it. Is
it a untested fear or you're scared of it because
you've tested and you understand why to be scared of it.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I've tested it recently, just once, okay, and
I mean like it felt good, but yeah, I it
is scary because yeah, it's just it's just terrifying.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you that I only have a couple
more questions left here for you, but let me ask
have there been any kinks or fetishes that you have
learned that you like from either when you were a
dancer or doing chat or bait, whatever it is. Has
there been anything that someone brought up to you and
maybe you looked into it more and you were like, oh,
that is kind of a turn on for me, or
maybe it was something that you never knew what it
was and it was finally labeled for you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I definitely really like, you know, I I
would definitely classify myself as sexually very submissive, and but
I have found specifically what I like. And I actually
had somebody in my chatroom explain to me, like the
different types of doms and he explained to me, like
what a pleasure dom is, and I was like, oh,
I would be so down with that pleasure torture stuff
like make you come a billion times, you know, like
need to say forward for it that I have learned
about and that I think is hot. And then also
on the flip side too, I do get a lot
of guys wanting me to dom them and wanting me
to humiliate them and degrade them. And at first I
felt bad and I felt awkward and I didn't want
to be mean, and then they were like, no, like
be mean, that's what I want from you. And they're like,
I'll let you know if you've crossed a line, but
like go for it. And I've actually found that to
be a turn on, like being more dominating. And I
don't know, it is just fun. I don't know. I
don't think it's I think it's fun and a turn
on because it's not what comes natural to me. So
it feels like exploratory and new and exciting.
Speaker 1: Sure you're playing a role in a sense, but someone
is getting pleasure out of the role you're playing. Like
imagine if every actor found out everyone in the audience
is coming for you right now, just so you know,
because they enjoy your acting so much, And you go,
that's pretty nice. I guess it's gross, but it's nice.
So last question here, let me ask this actually two
questions because this will be an interesting one for you
as well. But do you have any interest in doing
anything mainstream? Mainstream? Like if someone came to you and
I'm not positive if your relationship is monogamous or open,
or it sounds like it's monogamous, let's just put it
that way unless you correct me. They come to you
and go, hey, we're brassers, we're bang bros, we're somebody.
We want you to film a scene with us. Will
let you decide what type of scene it is, whether
it's a solo or just with a girl or whatever
it is. Would you ever be interested in taking an
offer like that if it was really laid out and
it was in a way where you had all the
bases covered that you were comfortable.
Speaker 2: With, Yeah, I would totally be interested. I actually my
dream as a small as a growing girl when I
was high school was to be a porn star. That
was plan a. I used to read like porn star
memoirs and stuff as a teenager. So if yeah, doing
mainstream porn, you know, now, being in a monogamous relationship
does kind of like, you know, I'd have to like
work out the details with him, you know, what would
be okay, what wouldn't be okay? Yeah, but I would
I would love to do mainstream porn.
Speaker 1: My college film teacher, because I have a degree in film,
let me know, he would watch my stuff. He would
go and just shake his head no, like that's wrong
the whole time. No, And I would say, what do
you think of it? And he'd go, well, you're good
enough to be a porn director. And now, having done
this type of thing for a while, I don't think
I could direct. I don't think I have the ability
to do it. So We've all had dreams for a
long time, and I'm glad we're both reaching them. So
I have an interesting question for to end this, and
I ask it to the mainstream girls as well, and
their answer is very surprising. You might be a little different,
though there are people who were in the same situation
as you who gave the same answer as them. What
should the age for women be to be able to
get into sex work? Because you got in now, stripping's
a different thing to me because it's not necessarily permanently online.
So let's take that out of the equation because I
didn't specify with them, you know what would count for that?
But say online sex work, porn, you know, only fans chat,
whatever it is. What do you think the age should be,
because there's two arguments, obviously, one the maturity issue. I
heard a terrible horror story from a girl I interviewed
one time. It wasn't graphic in a horrible way. It's
just horrible the way somebody got tricked like this eighteen
year old girl flew across the country to shoot a scene.
Book the hotel room because you'll be reimbursed for it,
Book the flight because you'll be reimbursed for it. Gets there, Hello, hello, calls, calls,
no one ever picks.
Speaker 2: Up, Oh my god, and you go.
Speaker 1: Maybe if she was thirty, she wouldn't have gotten tricked
like that. Maybe she might have. You know, do you
have an opinion on that in terms of online sex work,
when a female performer should be able to start working in.
Speaker 2: That, yeah, okay, So it definitely can differ from person
to person. I know of girls in the industry who
did start at eighteen and they're doing just fine, and
good for them. I myself every day I'm like, thank
god I started this at twenty five, because if I
had started even just two years ago, especially at eighteen,
I would have been I would have done anything. I
would have been like, oh, you want me to, you know,
flash my pussy for you, and you're gonna pay me
five hundred dollars to do it? Okay, Like su I
was such a gullible person, and I feel like, yo,
I feel like when you're young, you're so gullible, you're
so trusting. It's also really difficult to manage your emotions
and your emotional connection to people too, and to establish
boundaries and self respect. So I honestly feel like twenty
five might be the perfect age for women to get
into sex work. Like I think that you're still you know,
there's you know, societal expectations and stuff tell us that
women are old at twenty five or whatever, but we're not.
We're not old at twenty five. We're still young. You're
still young, You're still hot, like you know, you're probably
I know I'm hotter at twenty five than I was
at twenty one.
Speaker 1: Most definitely sure I was. I didn't want to do it,
and not to sound creepy, you know how to use
it better to your sexiness, right, you know, every year
you kind of learn a little more. See the mainstream
girls and some of the new girls. Kinda we came
to a consensus. A lot of the mainstream girls, some
of them who started at eighteen, were like, twenty one,
twenty one, do it twenty one. We kind of came
to this consensus. What if from eighteen to twenty one,
you could not do any boy girl content, You could
do solo OnlyFans only. You can't shoot for any major websites,
onlyfan or whatever, any of the competitors, whatever it is.
And then at twenty one, once you've learned the business,
learned the social media aspect, because if you spend five
years or three years doing it and you have like
sixty five followers, you either know you're not cut out
for it or you're not doing something right. And then
at twenty one you can start only because I would
say twenty one as well. And you were right too
about maturity. There's eighteen year old who know what the
fuck they're doing and understand how to get shit done
in the world, and there's forty year olds who have
no fucking clue what they're doing. So it's not it's
not a number. It's tough, but you know, I don't
want to hurt the girl who's sixteen, who got kicked
out of her house at you know, sixteen. Two years
later she's eighteen, she wants to start this and we go, no, sorry,
go work at a wa wall for a little while,
three more years until you can start shooting porn. So
it's I don't know, it's a balancing act. And as
a man, it's probably not even my place to say it,
but I always like getting what performers think in their
opinion on this. My guest today bes Bes. You can
find her on Twitter and OnlyFans at bes bes nine
four five eight seven four, on Instagram at Bex bes
b Ex. B Ex links to all that are in
the episode description. You know what we say, at the
bare minimum, if you have no money in your account,
you have to at least follow these folks on social media.
Pump those numbers up that way, it'll create other opportunities
for them. Then payday rolls around. Uh oh, got a
little cash in my account. Your kid's like, I gotta
make a payment on my braces. You tell them fucking
go eat pudding. I don't know what you want. I
got to go sign up for this. Only fans over
here Bec's Beck's nine four five eight seven four Bex,
thanks so much for coming on with me tonight.
Speaker 2: Thank you so much. I appreciate you very much. I've
had so much fun.
Speaker 1: I've had fun having you on. I wish you nothing
but the best going forward.
Speaker 2: Thank you,