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Speaker 1: You're watching brand new faces. I'm your host, Matt, and

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I'm joined tonight by a very special guest. You find

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her on Twitter and only fans. I love when the

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social media matches the only fans that way, you just

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always know where to go at bes bex nine four

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five eight seven nine. Now that's b e X b

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e X nine four five eight seven four. Links are

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going to be in the episode description, So don't worry

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about like trying to write down those numbers like it's

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a fucking Da Vinci code you're trying to figure out

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on Instagram if you want to follow her, it's just

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bes bes b e X b e X my guest tonight, folks,

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Bex Bex. I think we've already established that, Bex. How

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are you this evening?

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Speaker 2: I'm doing great, thank you? How are you not bad?

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Speaker 1: Not bad? Let me start with the third routest question

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can ask a woman, and if you decide you don't

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want to answer, I am now accepting I will not

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answer that as a thing. Am I allowed to ask you?

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How old you are?

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Speaker 2: I'm twenty five?

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right. The first question you don't

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ask is are you pregnant? The second question you don't

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ask is how much do you weigh? And then third

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is age and I feel comfortable doing that one. I

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don't understand what female measurements are like whatsoever. I've never

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understood them, no matter how many fifty cent songs I've

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listened to. So I came up with my own kind

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of metrics. Can I ask you what your height is?

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Speaker 2: I'm five to five?

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Speaker 1: What you're just judging by my eyes here? Absolutely perfect

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cup size is it's thirty six D. And for my

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foot guys out there, which is not necessarily my thing,

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but hey, as long as you're not being destructive folks,

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I have no problem with you. What is your shoe size?

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Speaker 2: Seven and a half?

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Speaker 1: Okay, wonderful, wonderful, wonderful. Let's start with the boring basic

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question right off the bat. Tell me about how you

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decided to get into the adult entertainment industry. When did

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you take that leap from like if you had other

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jobs prior to this, when you just went fuck it,

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I'm not doing that anymore. Or was this always a

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plan like you were always kind of like once I

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work my way up to something like this, I'm very interested.

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Talk me through your whole journey quote unquote not the

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sound corny into this industry.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So I started into sex work really eighteen. I was,

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you know, as soon as I graduated high school, I

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got on. I tried to play around with like seeking

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arrangements and things like that. So I started off very

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light sex work, just like selling nudes for money and stuff.

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And then I became a stripper. And I was a

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stripper off and on for about like four or five years.

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And then I got out of stripping, and I was

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bartending for a while, and then I was working at

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schools and stuff, doing psychology things. And then my boyfriend

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and I were having a conversation. So I only started

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camming November twenty twenty five, so it's only been three

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months of camming. And my boyfriend and I were having conversation,

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and you know, I was making pennies at my job,

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and he was like looking into you know, making more

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money kind of for the both of us, and he

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was talking about how he found this like AI based

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job and everything. And I was telling him because I

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had some friends that I knew from stripping that did

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camming and were online dominatrixes and such, so I told

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him I was like, you know, in a perfect world,

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I would just want to be an online dominatrix and

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I would want to do camming. And he was like,

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why wouldn't you You would make so much money doing that,

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and I was like, well, I guess the reason why

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I never really started it was because I didn't know

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how you would feel about it. And he was like, yeah,

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I don't care. He's like, he's like, you do you,

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You do whatever you want. So literally that night, I

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jumped on Chatterbrate and I started streaming and he helps

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me even take my pictures and things like that. And yeah,

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so it just started a few months ago, but I

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was basically just sick of making nothing. I also use

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camming to help me pay for school and as a

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way to because my major is very hour heavy, so

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I needed something too that could make money to support

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me through school. But that I'm also not working forty

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fifty hours a week while also in school full time.

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Sure it just works out.

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Speaker 1: Sure, yeah, and you're not having to necessarily drive somewhere

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the commute get ready exactly? That don't make sense. Don't

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give me any specifics whatsoever. But I love your look,

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the tats you look. I mean you look kind not

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in a creepy way. You're like my wife when we

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first met, just dark hair and tats. I love it.

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the hair's red. So we've been together a long time.

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Are you in an area or were you dancing in

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an area where the tattoos were a benefit or a negative?

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And again I'm not asking for personal inform me. You

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don't have to tell me where exactly you were. But

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into like a strip club in like deep Texas where

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those guys are fucking you know, have straw hanging out

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of their mouth, or wherever is that gonna Are they

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gonna be like, oh wow, the weird girl with the

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tattoo walked in. I need to get a dance from her.

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or we're all the girls in your club like tatted

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and that was kind of the style or the look.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So I have danced in four different states. I

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have danced in big cities, small towns. I have danced

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in like backcountry areas and in nice clubs and trashy

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clubs and everywhere. The tattoos and keersings have been a hit. Yeah,

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Like they eat it up no matter where I am,

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what I'm doing. I mean, I was even in the

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service industry as a bartender, and I have bar technique

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in a lot of different places as well. Anywhere they

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love it, like everyone, especially because I got my tattoos,

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like I got my sleep done really young, so I've

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kind of almost never been in the adult you know,

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like sex work industry without my more big tattoos, and

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they've I feel like they've always helped me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, I'm just I just always wonder, like

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if you went up to Portland, it would be like

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everyone be drooling over you and whatever. And then I

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picture another thing, some small hickeish town or something where

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you know, you walk in and everyone the music stops

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and you heard like a record pool. Yeah, I never

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know if it's a benefit or a negative.

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Speaker 2: That's actually sorry to cut your ry.

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Speaker 1: Oh please please, you talk too much. You keep talking

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and I'll cut you off.

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Speaker 2: That is actually my biggest like that's where I make

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my fucking money, and that's where I'm the biggest hit

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is in like the country, like the like that area

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like the like small town. I think it's because maybe

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it's because it's just not seen much, you know, and

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also because I have some of my tattoos are not

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that nice because some of them I did myself, but

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some of them, most of them are really nice. And unfortunately,

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in small areas like that, you don't always get people

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with nice tattoos because they don't have the bigger, you know,

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more state of the art kind of tattoo shocks. So

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in strip clubs in more backwoods areas, I felt like, yeah,

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I felt like I actually had more. I was more

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loved in those parts.

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Speaker 1: Wow, okay, all right, well you're in that You're you're

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in a positive way and completely posit the way. You're

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an oddity. You're not like everyone else there. You were original,

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original is probably a nicer way of saying oddity. Sorry

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for that. Your camera just gave us a beautiful pull

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out and showed the rest of you and then zoom

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back in. That was kind of cool. If I'm being

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honest with you, it looks yeah, it looks like yeah, okay,

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all right, du You grew a following pretty quickly. It

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seems like on chatterbait from what I've seen. Is there

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anything specific to your show that you think draws people

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in there? Is it just your looking personality? Like you

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don't seem like you're one of those girls who just

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sits there and as soon as it starts, you know,

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camera goes live, you're just kind of like on your phone,

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like looking for other things. It seems like every time

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I've ever secretly popped in there creepily. Uh, you have

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been engaging with people and stuff. What's it like coming

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into your room? And for the people who do like

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doing different chat stuff and whatever chatterbait, I'm gonna put

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all your links in the description as well for that

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so they can follow you there as well. So what's

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your room like? Talk me through it.

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Speaker 2: I think what's special about my room and what draws

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people is I don't shut the fuck up, Like the

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entire time I'm on there, whether I'm streaming for two

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hours or whether I'm streaming for six hours, I am

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yap in the whole time, and I'm talking about anything.

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I talk about my day, I talk about my pets,

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I talk about I share crazy sex stories, I share

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service industry stories. I also get to know my regulars too,

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so I have. I have around like three or four

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people that regularly come into my show. I would say

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there's two that I count on basically every time I

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go live to be there, and I remember things about

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them and about their lives, you know, so I'll be like, oh, yeah,

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how is that, you know, like how is your time

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at the gym? Or you know, did you end up

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trying and let new restaurant this weekend? And they like that,

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you know, because a lot of times, what I've learned

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from stripping and from camming is that it's not just

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about you know, being sexy and you know, like fingering

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myself on a camera. It's a lot of times it's

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about connection and it's about almost that girlfriend experience. So

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I feel like that's the vibe of my room is

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I am doing sexy things, you know, I have goals

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that work up, and I do ticket shows where I'm

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coming and squirting and you know, doing all the like

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you know, more intense things. But for the most part,

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I'm just hanging out with them and flirting, going back

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and forth, like we have inside jokes, and I think

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that's what makes it stand out. And then I kind

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of make a rule for myself to not be on

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my phone. The most I'm on my phone is I'll

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be like, all right, I got to take a selfie,

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got to put it on Instagram. Let my Instagram followers

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know that I'm here. Maybe I'm going to change the playlist.

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and Limp Biscuit and like all those kinds of bands.

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And I feel like the guys that are into my

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look find that refreshing too, because they usually listen to

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that kind of music themselves. So if they're seeing a

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hot alt girl shaking her tits to a Tool song,

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it's like, oh, I'm in the perfect place.

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Speaker 1: I've never seen Tool live, I have seen a perfect circle,

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So I get a little bit of crad. I feel like, no,

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that's awesome, and I've never really I have heard it. Obviously,

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I have done almost two hundred of these interviews at

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this point, so I've definitely heard what you've said, but

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I don't know that I've heard it summarized as perfectly

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as that is. You know, Yes, we can go look

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at some giant mainstream porn stars. Only fans or whatever else.

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But you're not going to get that same personal attention necessarily,

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you know, when you can find and I assume for

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those two guys that found you, and if they found

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you very early on, I bet they're looking at you

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like the fucking indie band of all time. Like when

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you blow up even more someday, they're gonna be like

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I was on her first and then they'll probably end

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up hating you if you change up anything a little bit,

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you know. But No, that's very cool. That is very

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cool that you're building community. Have you had any and

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I won't ask you probably don't remember their names, but

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I won't ask you to call anyone out by name,

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But have you had anyone you've had to try and

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push out of that community block? Like is anyone nasty

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to you? I don't hear a ton of stories of

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performers on webcam getting like really nasty stuff. It seems

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like the communities are kind of together, like put together

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say, honestly for the most part, and

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I found this in stripping as well, but I would

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say even more so on chatter Bait. I find that

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the men who come and watch my show are insanely

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respectful and more respectful than the men that I encountered

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as a bartender with all my clothes on, you know. Yeah.

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And also my community that I built on chatter bait

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is so loyal and they are so good to me

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that like when somebody does try to come on my

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room and say some shit, they're like, uh, that doesn't

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fly here. I'm really heavy on my block list and

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on silencing people, so I don't really get I have

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a hearty, thick skin, so I don't really get bothered.

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But I just don't need the negativity in my room, sure,

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and I don't want it to bring I don't want

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anybody else's focus to be on that instead of on me.

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So yeah, occasionally I get you some hate and but

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nothing that I even I don't even remember what they

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say because it just doesn't matter.

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Speaker 1: Sure, totally, I get it, and that's just someone trying

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to get under your skin or troll you or whatever

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it is. And it's like, why do I need this

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in my life? If you need to go around and

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do this to people, find someone that'll fight back against it,

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because I don't give a shit fuck you. I know

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you said your school is very time intensive right now,

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and I totally understand that. Say you got to a point, Okay,

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I only use this as an example because you talked

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about that other job you had before. Kat Karma or

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Gasmik is a big OnlyFans performer, and I've had her

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on a few times. I got her on very early

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on in her career and it was so great. I

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believe she's divorced now, unfortunately, but her and her husband

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sat down one day and realized they were losing money

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by not spending war would have been their workday sitting

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around and editing and uploading and all of this stuff.

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They quit their day job started doing this and it

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took off and became like a real giant career career

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type of thing. Say you get to some point where

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you're making so much off your only vans, off your chatterbait,

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whatever it is, you look at the thing you're going

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to school for and go, maybe I could put this

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off for a few years. Do you think you would

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ever consider that? Or is it something that you're going

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to school for that you love so much and you'll

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know you'll be able to get a job when you're

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done with it. That No, even if the money comes,

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I still want to pursue this.

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Speaker 2: I think about it all the time. I go back

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and forth. So what I'm going to school for is

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definitely more of a survival career choice because I was

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so broke most of my life, huh, that I was like,

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all right, I gotta it's time to either shit or

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get off the plane. So I'm going to go to

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school for something I know we'll make money and that

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there's a high demand for. And so I started going

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to school for it. I have gone part time since

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doing this, and I also camming and OnlyFans is my

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only jobs right now because they do it. Yeah. I

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reached that point pretty quickly where I was sitting at

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my you know, civilian job of vanilla job, and I

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was like, I could be sitting at home on my

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couch talking, you know, just hanging out with my boobs

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out making four times as much as I'm making right now,

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sure being used and abused by my bosses. So yeah,

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I go back and forth on it all the time.

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I I am. I do have a lot of you know,

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I'm definitely a future tripper. I have. And then also

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because I have lived in such financial insecurity in the past,

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you know, and I've had nothing. I am just the

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type of person that I'm like, I'm gonna do whatever

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it takes to never be there again. Sure, so I

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think that I will probably finish school just in case,

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just in case I log on one day and nobody

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wants to watch, you know, just in case I you know,

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post on OnlyFans or send out a PPV and no

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one wants to pay for it. I don't think it

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will happen anytime soon, because things have been only getting better,

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but there just is always that possibility. I have though

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thought about changing what I'm going to school for. I

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have that about maybe changing it to my actual passion

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and something that I would actually like to do, just

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because I'm like, well, I could you know, with the

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money from chatterby and OnlyFans, I'm like, well, I could

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use this for investments and stocks and properties and stuff

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and make more passive income that way, and that way

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I could do a job that I really want to do.

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But yeah, so I go back and forth about it

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all the time.

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Speaker 1: No, it makes sense. Let me okay, all right, this

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is going to be a weird line of questioning To

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get to where I want to go to did you

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always grow up as gorgeous as you are now? Or

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were you like, I please, don't take anything. I'm an idiot.

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Were you ever like ugly duckling who like hit a

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spot and you're like, oh wow, Bex is so hot.

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Now I'm because I wonder this. You are gorgeous. You

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seem like you understand the professionality of this and what

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it takes to do this right. But I love there's

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a little bit of I don't know if it's just

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paranoia insecurity that it's not going to hold up, or

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is there any imposter syndrome in there where you're like,

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what if I show up one day and no one

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fin and wants to see me ever again? And blah blah.

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I get that too. People always listen, they tune in,

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they click, they do whatever, And every time I turn

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on the mic, I go no one wants to hear

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what you're fucking saying. Shut up, you are stupid, don't

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do this anymore? Did you do you? Have you always

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been a confident person or has this been a confidence

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boost for you?

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Speaker 2: This has been a huge confidence boost for me. Honestly,

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when I got into sex work, you know, at eighteen,

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started stripping, and then you know, when I became a

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bartender and like was dealing with you know, the drunk public,

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the drunken, very honest public. That even became a confidence

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booster too. But yeah, I would say I definitely did not.

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I was always pretty, you know, I always had a

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pretty face, I always had pretty hair. But I was

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really weird. I still am weird. I'm still a weird adult,

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but I was, to paint the picture as a teenager,

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I wore the same doctor who extra large hoodie every

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single day of high school with a giant tartis on it,

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with my hair up and a bun and my like

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ratty converse. I wrote fan fiction, I've played video games.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you're just you would have been the hottest

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girl in my friend group, I feel like in high school. Yeah,

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it's what it would have been. Yeah, where no one

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really picked on us, but no one really gave a

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shit about us either. Right, you're just kind of there.

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There was that group over there, okay.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. And now as an adult, that's become my superpower

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is being really pretty but also being you know, having

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the like awkward and weird and nerdy side of me

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and also like a darker side and just kind of

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having more of a niche. I feel like has been

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my superpower. But I still definitely do have a lot

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of imposter syndrome. And my boyfriend, My boyfriend's my number

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one fanning he tells me all the time. I'm like,

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cause we're talking about moving into different apartments and we're like, well,

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we can afford something a little nicer now. And I

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was like, well, I don't want to, you know, get

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locked into something that I'm not going to be able

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to afford because nobody wants to watch me anymore. And

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he was like, you're too hot for people to just

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stop watching you. And I guess I just don't think

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that way. I don't know, I don't know what it is,

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but he's getting better.

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Speaker 1: It has to you when a girl like you, who

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again you say you're a little bit weird. My wife

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and I for the last twelve years, do you want

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to know our only vacation we take it? Every year?

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We spend a week and we go up to Salem,

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Massachusetts for Halloween. Yes, every year we've gone, last twelve.

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I think it is so we're we're weirdos too, Okay, Like,

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you know, just accept this is who we are. That's

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so great to hear though, that like he's pushing you

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and giving you confidence, and you know, does he ever

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join you on your streams or is he out entirely?

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Speaker 2: He is out. We have done one video for my

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only fans. It was it's a blow drop video for

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my only fans, and uh, I don't know if I'll

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ever have him on stream. I think that it would

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go fine. I I just don't know about I guess

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crossing that line totally.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people don't. Yeah. Yeah, it's two different methods.

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Some people are like, I'm fully tied in with this person,

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but that's more when that person wants to be a performer,

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not just will perform with you, but wants to like

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I want my own account, even I want this, And

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if you guys eventually make so much money, maybe he

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just goes fuck it. I'll just start showing my dick

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who cares. But you got to respect it until he does.

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And I totally get that too. Yeah. Let me okay,

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I have not asked any of the sexu related questions

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on my list because you're just an interesting person and

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you're fun to talk to. Let me bang through some

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of these. Are you into women at all or no?

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Speaker 2: Rh yes, definitely okay.

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Speaker 1: All right? To be fair, I interviewed a girl one

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time she referred to herself as aggressively heterosexual, and then

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I just had her on for a follow up and

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she's like, so, I'm like, I have this girlfriend on

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the side now, and I go, oh, aggressively heterosexual. A

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if you were to balance it, what do you think

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it is like percentage wise? Like if I dropped I

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think my wife likes eighty percent women, twenty percent men.

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If I drop dead, she would go find a girlfriend.

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Not that I insist on it or anything like that.

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Where do you think you sit? Are you mostly into

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dudes and like you'll lean into women or is it

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like I'm really into chicks too?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say I'm I'm right around that. I

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would say probably a sixty percent into women, forty percent

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into men. I naturally am just drawn to women more.

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Most of my friends are women. Most of my partners

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have been women too. I do really enjoy you know,

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a good guy though, Like there's nothing like having like

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a really good guy as your boyfriend is an awesome feeling.

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But yeah, so I'm like almost fifty to fifty. But

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I would say that I just I think that my

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instinct just leans towards courting women more than I court men.

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Speaker 1: Totally makes sense, Uh, all right? Rank these three for me? Facial, swallowing,

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cream pie?

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Speaker 2: Okay, cream pie first, and then swallowing, and then facial.

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Speaker 1: Can I pause you before you give any explanation because

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I've heard this too many goddamn times and you women

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are driving me nuts with this? Is it because cream

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pie is an easy cleanup?

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Speaker 2: I mean it a little bit?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Yeah, I was just gonna say because every time

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mainstream girl, new girl coming in, it doesn't matter. I

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ask and they go facial last night and go why

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facial unless they don't swallow? And they go why. I

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don't want it to mess up my makeup. It's like sweetye,

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it's the end of the night here. I don't know

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how many you think I got left in me. Okay,

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let's just paint the pretty picture and move on with it.

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But I don't put on makeup, so I don't understand it. Okay,

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go ahead, Why why do you think I mean that order? Then?

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Speaker 2: So it sounds okay? Just come holley, honesty, I am

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the type of person. And I guess anybody who's, you know,

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not familiar with sex workers maybe wouldn't believe me when

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I say this, But you're familiar with sex workers, so

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you know it's I'm probably not the first one to

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say this, but I am a very emotional person when

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it comes to having sex, Like I can't I can't

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handle one night stands or things like that. So like

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for me, I guess I like being I like that

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almost connection that I feel, and then I do think

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it's hot too. There's something that's just a turn on about,

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you know, a guy being like it's almost like saying

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like you're mine. True in a way, I like swallowing

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because I feel hot when I do it, and I

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have I definitely have a praise kink, like a good

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girl thing going on. So like, I just feel like

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I'm the shit when I swallow for some reason. And

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I would rank facial last, but I do think facials

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are fun because it makes me feel like I'm performing.

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Speaker 1: Fair enough, fair enough. What's your current working relationship with anal?

475
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:14,359
Are we friends with it or are we terrified of it?

476
00:27:16,039 --> 00:27:18,599
Speaker 2: I am pretty scared?

477
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:24,400
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right? Is that something is it. Is

478
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:27,759
it a untested fear or you're scared of it because

479
00:27:27,839 --> 00:27:30,359
you've tested and you understand why to be scared of it.

480
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:36,400
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I've tested it recently, just once, okay, and

481
00:27:36,799 --> 00:27:42,079
I mean like it felt good, but yeah, I it

482
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:48,319
is scary because yeah, it's just it's just terrifying.

483
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:52,279
Speaker 1: Let me ask you that I only have a couple

484
00:27:52,319 --> 00:27:53,920
more questions left here for you, but let me ask

485
00:27:54,039 --> 00:27:56,960
have there been any kinks or fetishes that you have

486
00:27:57,319 --> 00:28:02,160
learned that you like from either when you were a

487
00:28:02,319 --> 00:28:06,160
dancer or doing chat or bait, whatever it is. Has

488
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:08,279
there been anything that someone brought up to you and

489
00:28:08,319 --> 00:28:10,400
maybe you looked into it more and you were like, oh,

490
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:12,519
that is kind of a turn on for me, or

491
00:28:12,519 --> 00:28:14,519
maybe it was something that you never knew what it

492
00:28:14,599 --> 00:28:16,519
was and it was finally labeled for you.

493
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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I definitely really like, you know, I I

494
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:34,240
would definitely classify myself as sexually very submissive, and but

495
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:38,200
I have found specifically what I like. And I actually

496
00:28:38,319 --> 00:28:40,960
had somebody in my chatroom explain to me, like the

497
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:44,440
different types of doms and he explained to me, like

498
00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:47,200
what a pleasure dom is, and I was like, oh,

499
00:28:47,359 --> 00:28:52,920
I would be so down with that pleasure torture stuff

500
00:28:53,279 --> 00:28:57,640
like make you come a billion times, you know, like

501
00:28:57,839 --> 00:29:01,480
need to say forward for it that I have learned

502
00:29:01,519 --> 00:29:04,279
about and that I think is hot. And then also

503
00:29:04,519 --> 00:29:07,279
on the flip side too, I do get a lot

504
00:29:07,279 --> 00:29:10,480
of guys wanting me to dom them and wanting me

505
00:29:10,599 --> 00:29:14,039
to humiliate them and degrade them. And at first I

506
00:29:14,079 --> 00:29:16,839
felt bad and I felt awkward and I didn't want

507
00:29:16,839 --> 00:29:19,279
to be mean, and then they were like, no, like

508
00:29:19,519 --> 00:29:23,519
be mean, that's what I want from you. And they're like,

509
00:29:23,599 --> 00:29:25,799
I'll let you know if you've crossed a line, but

510
00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:29,319
like go for it. And I've actually found that to

511
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:35,240
be a turn on, like being more dominating. And I

512
00:29:35,279 --> 00:29:38,440
don't know, it is just fun. I don't know. I

513
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:40,279
don't think it's I think it's fun and a turn

514
00:29:40,319 --> 00:29:43,160
on because it's not what comes natural to me. So

515
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:48,359
it feels like exploratory and new and exciting.

516
00:29:48,559 --> 00:29:51,599
Speaker 1: Sure you're playing a role in a sense, but someone

517
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:53,839
is getting pleasure out of the role you're playing. Like

518
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:56,880
imagine if every actor found out everyone in the audience

519
00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:58,960
is coming for you right now, just so you know,

520
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,160
because they enjoy your acting so much, And you go,

521
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:04,000
that's pretty nice. I guess it's gross, but it's nice.

522
00:30:05,839 --> 00:30:09,279
So last question here, let me ask this actually two

523
00:30:09,319 --> 00:30:11,200
questions because this will be an interesting one for you

524
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:14,440
as well. But do you have any interest in doing

525
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:18,680
anything mainstream? Mainstream? Like if someone came to you and

526
00:30:18,839 --> 00:30:22,720
I'm not positive if your relationship is monogamous or open,

527
00:30:22,839 --> 00:30:25,000
or it sounds like it's monogamous, let's just put it

528
00:30:25,039 --> 00:30:27,400
that way unless you correct me. They come to you

529
00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:31,279
and go, hey, we're brassers, we're bang bros, we're somebody.

530
00:30:31,319 --> 00:30:34,039
We want you to film a scene with us. Will

531
00:30:34,119 --> 00:30:37,200
let you decide what type of scene it is, whether

532
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:40,079
it's a solo or just with a girl or whatever

533
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:43,240
it is. Would you ever be interested in taking an

534
00:30:43,279 --> 00:30:45,519
offer like that if it was really laid out and

535
00:30:45,559 --> 00:30:48,599
it was in a way where you had all the

536
00:30:48,599 --> 00:30:50,759
bases covered that you were comfortable.

537
00:30:50,319 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 2: With, Yeah, I would totally be interested. I actually my

538
00:30:57,799 --> 00:31:03,039
dream as a small as a growing girl when I

539
00:31:03,039 --> 00:31:05,039
was high school was to be a porn star. That

540
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:08,400
was plan a. I used to read like porn star

541
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:13,200
memoirs and stuff as a teenager. So if yeah, doing

542
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:18,000
mainstream porn, you know, now, being in a monogamous relationship

543
00:31:18,039 --> 00:31:21,160
does kind of like, you know, I'd have to like

544
00:31:21,319 --> 00:31:23,880
work out the details with him, you know, what would

545
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:27,160
be okay, what wouldn't be okay? Yeah, but I would

546
00:31:27,279 --> 00:31:29,559
I would love to do mainstream porn.

547
00:31:31,279 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 1: My college film teacher, because I have a degree in film,

548
00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:38,039
let me know, he would watch my stuff. He would

549
00:31:38,079 --> 00:31:40,640
go and just shake his head no, like that's wrong

550
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:43,240
the whole time. No, And I would say, what do

551
00:31:43,279 --> 00:31:45,000
you think of it? And he'd go, well, you're good

552
00:31:45,079 --> 00:31:48,240
enough to be a porn director. And now, having done

553
00:31:48,279 --> 00:31:50,759
this type of thing for a while, I don't think

554
00:31:50,799 --> 00:31:53,279
I could direct. I don't think I have the ability

555
00:31:53,319 --> 00:31:55,720
to do it. So We've all had dreams for a

556
00:31:55,759 --> 00:31:58,759
long time, and I'm glad we're both reaching them. So

557
00:31:58,799 --> 00:32:01,920
I have an interesting question for to end this, and

558
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:04,559
I ask it to the mainstream girls as well, and

559
00:32:04,599 --> 00:32:10,039
their answer is very surprising. You might be a little different,

560
00:32:10,079 --> 00:32:12,319
though there are people who were in the same situation

561
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:14,960
as you who gave the same answer as them. What

562
00:32:15,079 --> 00:32:19,440
should the age for women be to be able to

563
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:24,319
get into sex work? Because you got in now, stripping's

564
00:32:24,319 --> 00:32:29,720
a different thing to me because it's not necessarily permanently online.

565
00:32:30,119 --> 00:32:33,279
So let's take that out of the equation because I

566
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:36,960
didn't specify with them, you know what would count for that?

567
00:32:37,119 --> 00:32:43,279
But say online sex work, porn, you know, only fans chat,

568
00:32:43,319 --> 00:32:46,200
whatever it is. What do you think the age should be,

569
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:49,599
because there's two arguments, obviously, one the maturity issue. I

570
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:52,039
heard a terrible horror story from a girl I interviewed

571
00:32:52,039 --> 00:32:55,400
one time. It wasn't graphic in a horrible way. It's

572
00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:58,599
just horrible the way somebody got tricked like this eighteen

573
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:01,440
year old girl flew across the country to shoot a scene.

574
00:33:01,519 --> 00:33:04,759
Book the hotel room because you'll be reimbursed for it,

575
00:33:04,799 --> 00:33:10,599
Book the flight because you'll be reimbursed for it. Gets there, Hello, hello, calls, calls,

576
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:11,759
no one ever picks.

577
00:33:11,559 --> 00:33:13,319
Speaker 2: Up, Oh my god, and you go.

578
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,799
Speaker 1: Maybe if she was thirty, she wouldn't have gotten tricked

579
00:33:15,839 --> 00:33:19,039
like that. Maybe she might have. You know, do you

580
00:33:19,119 --> 00:33:22,759
have an opinion on that in terms of online sex work,

581
00:33:23,039 --> 00:33:28,599
when a female performer should be able to start working in.

582
00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:34,359
Speaker 2: That, yeah, okay, So it definitely can differ from person

583
00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:38,480
to person. I know of girls in the industry who

584
00:33:38,519 --> 00:33:42,160
did start at eighteen and they're doing just fine, and

585
00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:47,599
good for them. I myself every day I'm like, thank

586
00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:51,880
god I started this at twenty five, because if I

587
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:56,119
had started even just two years ago, especially at eighteen,

588
00:33:57,079 --> 00:34:01,319
I would have been I would have done anything. I

589
00:34:01,319 --> 00:34:04,079
would have been like, oh, you want me to, you know,

590
00:34:04,319 --> 00:34:07,359
flash my pussy for you, and you're gonna pay me

591
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:11,119
five hundred dollars to do it? Okay, Like su I

592
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:15,880
was such a gullible person, and I feel like, yo,

593
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,800
I feel like when you're young, you're so gullible, you're

594
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:23,239
so trusting. It's also really difficult to manage your emotions

595
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:27,119
and your emotional connection to people too, and to establish

596
00:34:27,199 --> 00:34:32,480
boundaries and self respect. So I honestly feel like twenty

597
00:34:32,519 --> 00:34:37,760
five might be the perfect age for women to get

598
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:41,119
into sex work. Like I think that you're still you know,

599
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:45,519
there's you know, societal expectations and stuff tell us that

600
00:34:45,599 --> 00:34:49,639
women are old at twenty five or whatever, but we're not.

601
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,280
We're not old at twenty five. We're still young. You're

602
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:56,119
still young, You're still hot, like you know, you're probably

603
00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:58,599
I know I'm hotter at twenty five than I was

604
00:34:58,639 --> 00:34:59,320
at twenty one.

605
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:03,360
Speaker 1: Most definitely sure I was. I didn't want to do it,

606
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:05,840
and not to sound creepy, you know how to use

607
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:09,360
it better to your sexiness, right, you know, every year

608
00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:11,599
you kind of learn a little more. See the mainstream

609
00:35:11,639 --> 00:35:14,119
girls and some of the new girls. Kinda we came

610
00:35:14,159 --> 00:35:16,400
to a consensus. A lot of the mainstream girls, some

611
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:19,360
of them who started at eighteen, were like, twenty one,

612
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:23,119
twenty one, do it twenty one. We kind of came

613
00:35:23,159 --> 00:35:26,039
to this consensus. What if from eighteen to twenty one,

614
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:30,320
you could not do any boy girl content, You could

615
00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:34,679
do solo OnlyFans only. You can't shoot for any major websites,

616
00:35:35,039 --> 00:35:37,639
onlyfan or whatever, any of the competitors, whatever it is.

617
00:35:38,079 --> 00:35:40,840
And then at twenty one, once you've learned the business,

618
00:35:41,199 --> 00:35:44,920
learned the social media aspect, because if you spend five

619
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:47,199
years or three years doing it and you have like

620
00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:50,719
sixty five followers, you either know you're not cut out

621
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:53,280
for it or you're not doing something right. And then

622
00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:56,000
at twenty one you can start only because I would

623
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:58,119
say twenty one as well. And you were right too

624
00:35:58,199 --> 00:36:00,800
about maturity. There's eighteen year old who know what the

625
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:03,719
fuck they're doing and understand how to get shit done

626
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:05,599
in the world, and there's forty year olds who have

627
00:36:05,639 --> 00:36:08,559
no fucking clue what they're doing. So it's not it's

628
00:36:08,599 --> 00:36:13,559
not a number. It's tough, but you know, I don't

629
00:36:13,599 --> 00:36:16,559
want to hurt the girl who's sixteen, who got kicked

630
00:36:16,599 --> 00:36:19,360
out of her house at you know, sixteen. Two years

631
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:22,760
later she's eighteen, she wants to start this and we go, no, sorry,

632
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:24,800
go work at a wa wall for a little while,

633
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:27,559
three more years until you can start shooting porn. So

634
00:36:27,599 --> 00:36:30,239
it's I don't know, it's a balancing act. And as

635
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:32,280
a man, it's probably not even my place to say it,

636
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:35,159
but I always like getting what performers think in their

637
00:36:35,199 --> 00:36:40,239
opinion on this. My guest today bes Bes. You can

638
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find her on Twitter and OnlyFans at bes bes nine

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the episode description. You know what we say, at the

642
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bare minimum, if you have no money in your account,

643
00:36:57,519 --> 00:36:59,760
you have to at least follow these folks on social media.

644
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:03,559
Pump those numbers up that way, it'll create other opportunities

645
00:37:03,599 --> 00:37:07,079
for them. Then payday rolls around. Uh oh, got a

646
00:37:07,079 --> 00:37:09,159
little cash in my account. Your kid's like, I gotta

647
00:37:09,199 --> 00:37:11,679
make a payment on my braces. You tell them fucking

648
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:13,679
go eat pudding. I don't know what you want. I

649
00:37:13,679 --> 00:37:15,440
got to go sign up for this. Only fans over

650
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here Bec's Beck's nine four five eight seven four Bex,

651
00:37:19,559 --> 00:37:21,000
thanks so much for coming on with me tonight.

652
00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:24,079
Speaker 2: Thank you so much. I appreciate you very much. I've

653
00:37:24,119 --> 00:37:25,199
had so much fun.

654
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:27,639
Speaker 1: I've had fun having you on. I wish you nothing

655
00:37:27,679 --> 00:37:28,719
but the best going forward.

656
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:30,400
Speaker 2: Thank you,