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<v Speaker 1>This is pod Popular Podcast for the People, The Great

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<v Speaker 1>Love Debate. It's the Great Love.

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<v Speaker 2>Debate, de Great Love Debate.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a great love to base.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi again, everyone's Brian how We welcome to the Great

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<v Speaker 2>Love Debate, the world's number one dating and relationship podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>It's twenty fifteen. I'm back here in the very fine.

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<v Speaker 2>Studios of Pod Popular Podcasts for the People. I am

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<v Speaker 2>at the one in Scottsdale, Arizona. It is not quite

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<v Speaker 2>the full Scott's Dazzle going on here yet, but it

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<v Speaker 2>is close. And if that is a hint, I know.

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<v Speaker 2>We're supposed to keep our podcast evergreen be four times

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<v Speaker 2>a year we do sort of time and season specific

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<v Speaker 2>episodes where we put out a APB on the socials

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<v Speaker 2>and the interwebs asking you guys to send emails, messages, letters,

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<v Speaker 2>whatever that are related to the particular season we are tackling.

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<v Speaker 2>We do our holiday mail bag, we do our Spring

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<v Speaker 2>Fling mail bag, we do our Summer Love.

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<v Speaker 4>And mail bag.

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<v Speaker 2>And the one that gets a little bit of the

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<v Speaker 2>short shrift, which always does, is our Autumn one, our

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<v Speaker 2>fall in Love mailbag. And if you have listened to

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<v Speaker 2>me on this podcast before, you know that. I am very,

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<v Speaker 2>very pro Autumn. I think it has a bad publicist.

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<v Speaker 2>I think spring is overrated. There's no such thing as

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<v Speaker 2>spring in most cities. It goes from pouring rain to

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<v Speaker 2>boiling hot. Spring has a really good publicist, and people

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<v Speaker 2>fall in love with rebirth and flowers, and February sucks

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<v Speaker 2>most places.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's it.

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<v Speaker 2>Fall is the time. Fall is the best season of

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<v Speaker 2>the year. I couldn't take this on myself, so I

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<v Speaker 2>have a full house in here today. I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>the last time I've had three people who are in

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<v Speaker 2>here who are going to help me do this. First

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<v Speaker 2>of all, producer extraordinaire. She's the director of operations here

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<v Speaker 2>at pod popular podcast for the people.

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<v Speaker 4>Megan, how are you hello your podcast debut?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, okay, are you nervous?

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<v Speaker 5>Nop?

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<v Speaker 4>Have you had a conversation before?

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<v Speaker 3>What's the definition of conversation?

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<v Speaker 4>You'll be fine?

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<v Speaker 2>And I brought in two heavy hitters. One you've heard

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<v Speaker 2>him on this podcast many times, but not in a while.

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<v Speaker 2>He is the host of the very very popular Secrets

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<v Speaker 2>of a Sugar Daddy podcast, which I actually just guessed on.

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<v Speaker 4>It's pretty good.

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<v Speaker 5>Marcus, welcome back, Thank you, Yeah, we had a great episode.

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<v Speaker 5>You guys need to catch Brian and Megan. You talk

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<v Speaker 5>a lot when we're here, so I have no doubt

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<v Speaker 5>you'll have plenty to say.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't try and lure her into your sugar world. Somebody

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<v Speaker 2>who has been he's making his debut here. He is

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<v Speaker 2>apparently a knee deep? Is that the term in the

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<v Speaker 2>sugar world? Jay? How are you good?

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<v Speaker 6>Good to meet you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>I asked you Argo, are you a sugar daddy? And

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<v Speaker 2>your answer said, oh yeah, oh yeah, full on, full on?

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<v Speaker 4>When did that start?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh, let's see, it's gott gradually more serious. I think

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<v Speaker 7>the more time I've spent in Phoenix, so and a

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<v Speaker 7>lot of it thinks.

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<v Speaker 6>It's like a buff right, That's what I call it.

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<v Speaker 6>It is a buffet.

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<v Speaker 2>What is the advantage of being a sugar daddy here? No,

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<v Speaker 2>the old Charlie Sheen line, you're not paying them for sex,

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<v Speaker 2>You're paying them to leave.

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<v Speaker 6>They don't seem to believe.

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<v Speaker 7>But I think just the fact that the city has

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<v Speaker 7>just millions of people, You're just gonna have an environment

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<v Speaker 7>where you're gonna have more possibilities and more chances of

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<v Speaker 7>finding somebody that is attracted to you and you're attracted

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<v Speaker 7>to them. If you're coming from a small place, a

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<v Speaker 7>small town is very very challenging just because there are

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<v Speaker 7>n't even single people around. Whereas you go to a

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<v Speaker 7>big city like here in New York Chicago, it just enables.

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<v Speaker 4>You to and where are you from?

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<v Speaker 7>Originally I lived in California for about like fifteen twenty years,

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<v Speaker 7>and then before that I was in New York, and

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<v Speaker 4>A little California's filled with big cities.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, surprisingly, I was in this smaller town along the coast,

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<v Speaker 7>and because the town was kind of like a sleepy town.

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<v Speaker 7>It's a beautiful place, but there's not many single people.

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<v Speaker 7>It was very challenging and it kind of affected my

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<v Speaker 7>psychology and kind of thinking that because I wasn't able

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<v Speaker 7>to find what I was looking for, I just thought

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<v Speaker 7>that maybe like I didn't have as much to offer

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<v Speaker 7>as a result, But it was more indicative of the

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<v Speaker 7>location I was in, Okay, and then obviously having been

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<v Speaker 7>in New York, having been in Phoenix, some of the

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<v Speaker 7>bigger places.

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<v Speaker 2>The American Express black card goes farther here exactly. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't know if I hate Satar. I

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<v Speaker 2>like to say it Scottsdale and the valley here it's

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<v Speaker 2>ground zero for the sugar sugar world.

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<v Speaker 5>We feel it is after traveling to a lot of

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<v Speaker 5>different cities. Jay has been to all over the world,

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<v Speaker 5>but the talent walking around this area is second to none.

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<v Speaker 2>It is. I don't know why that is, but it is. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>do you guys understand how we're doing this here? We've

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<v Speaker 2>got six letters, We've we've wheedled whittled it down, three

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<v Speaker 2>from the men, three from the boys, and you guys

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<v Speaker 2>are going to give your opinion on some fairly split

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<v Speaker 2>down the middle things. I don't know how I feel.

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<v Speaker 2>I did a sneak peak on these, and I haven't

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<v Speaker 2>really done that before, but I looked because I'm like, ooh,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how I feel about a lot of them.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys ready, let's do it all right. The first

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<v Speaker 2>one is from Kayla via our Facebook page. Brian lots

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<v Speaker 2>of buzz recently about the controversy surrounding having a Saturday

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<v Speaker 2>in the Fall wedding because of the conflict for a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of guys, and to be fair, women too, who

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<v Speaker 2>want to watch college football at exactly that same time.

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<v Speaker 2>I think if your actual alma mater isn't playing during

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<v Speaker 2>the ceremony or reception, it isn't a big deal.

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<v Speaker 4>But I am torn.

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<v Speaker 2>I can see both sides thoughts, And this is a

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<v Speaker 2>thing now that men people are freaking out because during

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<v Speaker 2>the reception there's a TV in the other room and

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<v Speaker 2>all of the people are watching college football, and a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of people are criticizing the couple or specifically the

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<v Speaker 2>bride for choosing a date that on a Saturday. In

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of the country, people are preoccupied. Are you

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<v Speaker 2>aware of this?

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<v Speaker 5>I am aware of this because this happened to be

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<v Speaker 5>there on a Thursday night, and I'm a big Dallas

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<v Speaker 5>Cowboys fan. Here i am with my girl and I'm

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<v Speaker 5>trying to sneak peaks on my phone of the Dallas

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<v Speaker 5>and it was really close and it was a good game.

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<v Speaker 5>So I'm just I'm a little distracted. And she noticed

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<v Speaker 5>and definitely made some comments about it, so that that

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<v Speaker 5>can be an sure though.

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<v Speaker 4>So that let's just say so this the NFL. That's

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<v Speaker 4>an NFL thing.

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<v Speaker 2>NFL schedule comes out in May, You're only talking, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>four months, so that's lead time on a wedding. If

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<v Speaker 2>you're planning a wedding a year or so in advance,

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<v Speaker 2>you are seeing that fall calendar. And if you went

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<v Speaker 2>to you know, University Georgia, Ohio State, any of these schools,

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<v Speaker 2>you know that there's probably something there that a good

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<v Speaker 2>portion of your wedding party or guests are gonna be curious.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not a big college football guy, so it doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>really affect me. But I I've been at weddings where

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<v Speaker 2>nobody's on the dance floor because it's the fourth court.

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<v Speaker 3>Megan, I, I don't. I don't think it should be

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<v Speaker 3>a problem. The way I see. It's like there's so

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<v Speaker 3>many games. And this is coming from a college girly

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<v Speaker 3>shout out to my Notre Dame. For sure, I've never

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<v Speaker 3>missed a game, But when it's your friend, you're at

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<v Speaker 3>a wedding, it's one time, well one Saturday out of

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<v Speaker 3>the whole year, and you literally don't don't RSVP to

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<v Speaker 3>the next wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I agree with you on that, but when you

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<v Speaker 2>say and I agree, I'm like, you're at the wedding whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's the most special day of hopefully both of

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<v Speaker 2>their lives, and you should be respectful of that. But

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<v Speaker 2>when you put out there it's just one game. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>in a college football season, just one game can wreck

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<v Speaker 2>or make a season. So you know, you better, you

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<v Speaker 2>better stay away from the Like if you went to

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<v Speaker 2>Michigan and you're scheduling your wedding as you see Thanksgiving

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<v Speaker 2>weekend Michigan Ohio State around on the same day as

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<v Speaker 2>the Michigan Ohio State game, and half of your your

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<v Speaker 2>party went to that school, it's a fuck up and

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<v Speaker 2>you do have to steer clear of that landmine, regardless

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<v Speaker 2>of how you feel it about it.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, yeah, or you just marry somebody that's not into sports.

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<v Speaker 2>What the guests are, Oh, the guest, that's that's the problem.

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<v Speaker 5>That is true.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I know, I know a girl from from Cleveland.

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<v Speaker 2>She didn't realize how big a fan of Ohio State

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<v Speaker 2>her husband was until their wedding day. Until they're literally

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<v Speaker 2>getting married that day and the game is on in

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<v Speaker 2>the other room and.

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<v Speaker 4>He left the head table to go watch the game.

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<v Speaker 2>She had no idea.

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<v Speaker 3>You'll already know you know those things before like you're

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<v Speaker 3>your partner again. If you're getting married one year, you

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<v Speaker 3>definitely watched to watch the Ohio game last Like you're

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<v Speaker 3>you're going to understand your partner, And I really hope

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<v Speaker 3>you would understand if you knew what game your partner's

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<v Speaker 3>like to watch before you got married.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a chance, though, so let's break that down. I

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<v Speaker 2>agree with you normally, but let's just say you're a

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<v Speaker 2>fan of of Georgia Tech football. Most years, Georgia Tech

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<v Speaker 2>is not great, they're they're okay. And so let's just

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<v Speaker 2>say you've dated your partner for two years. First year,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't really notice how big a fan they are

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<v Speaker 2>because they're three.

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<v Speaker 4>And nine and nobody cares.

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<v Speaker 2>But then suddenly during your wedding year, this is their

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<v Speaker 2>bull season. They're going all out, and then suddenly it

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<v Speaker 2>matters to them. There's a lot of fickle fandom that

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<v Speaker 2>you are really, you know, trying to not hit a

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<v Speaker 5>I just think you need to be understanding and realizing

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<v Speaker 5>so too. But that is what you've done when you

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<v Speaker 5>schedule something during the false.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree, but you also can't be that upset if

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<v Speaker 2>the guests are a little preoccupied now.

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<v Speaker 3>Right now, something I would do is reception just because

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<v Speaker 3>the wedding. And sometimes a lot of these are the venues.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I have a lot of friends that are getting

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<v Speaker 3>married over Thanksgiving weekend because literally it's the one we

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<v Speaker 3>can no one does, it's cheaper, that's the only one

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<v Speaker 3>they could get. But you could move the venue. You're like, reception,

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<v Speaker 3>sports bar, right, a big deal? Why are we not in?

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<v Speaker 3>It's a party drinking, Let's watch the game. Like if

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<v Speaker 2>to cut the cake, it's time to throw the bouquet,

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<v Speaker 3>DVR, I don't know. And then like do the reception

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<v Speaker 6>And I was exciting there by myself.

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<v Speaker 2>Like her day.

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<v Speaker 2>They were there.

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<v Speaker 2>The man dreams of his wedding, the marriage, the marriage

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<v Speaker 2>exactly that men are fundamentally more romantic on that the

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<v Speaker 7>of just extracting yourself from a marriage is so great

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<v Speaker 7>that it's it is like I'm sure I've heard this

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<v Speaker 7>his identity, his and then literally like you become dependents

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<v Speaker 7>of the person for so many facets of your life

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<v Speaker 7>and you don't.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, so that even took like a while to figure out.

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<v Speaker 7>And not to say that I wouldn't really want to

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<v Speaker 7>a partner, but I've now seen the cost associated with

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<v Speaker 5>Part, so choose wisely, choose very nicely.

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<v Speaker 2>The cost is then.

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<v Speaker 5>It was eighty twenty split for me and she got

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<v Speaker 5>eighty percent. I got twenty.

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<v Speaker 4>That sounds about it.

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<v Speaker 2>I see. I've never been married, so I'm still hopeful.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like the happily ever after it still exists, and

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<v Speaker 2>I believe in all that. But all the divorced people

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<v Speaker 2>are like, fuck.

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<v Speaker 4>That, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>Next one, this is from Michael in Temecula. I started

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<v Speaker 2>dating this amazing woman earlier this year. We are both divorced,

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<v Speaker 2>each have two kids, love the same activities and travel destinations.

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<v Speaker 4>All is great.

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<v Speaker 2>We recently had our first big fight and it's not

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<v Speaker 2>over yet. It's about Halloween. Not only do I not

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<v Speaker 2>usually celebrate and probably haven't worn a costume since my twenties,

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<v Speaker 2>she is adamant that we do it together, a week

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<v Speaker 2>of parties, matching and complementing costumes. It's a really big

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<v Speaker 2>deal to her. I adore her, and normally I would

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<v Speaker 2>go along with whatever she liked, no big deal. But

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<v Speaker 2>this is such a big deal to her that it's alarming.

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<v Speaker 2>She's treating this like Marty Grau, where every night for

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<v Speaker 2>a week is a parade and she has like four

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<v Speaker 2>or five different costumes in mind help.

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<v Speaker 5>I know so many women that are just like this,

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<v Speaker 5>I really do. I've met them now indebted them.

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<v Speaker 2>I am somebody and people who listen to this podcast, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel this way. I'm somebody who doesn't do Halloween.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>That being said, I'm very pro Halloween because the day

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<v Speaker 2>of the year that the most people are the most

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<v Speaker 2>confident in America is Halloween. Halloween is about being liberated

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<v Speaker 2>to be anything you want to be without fear of judgment.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's good. I think that costume confidence is

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<v Speaker 2>a wonder thing to have. That being said, like, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>pretty confident. I don't like give a shit, but I

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<v Speaker 2>have never been really in a relationship where she's like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm share you're gonna be Sonny, and I'm like, what.

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<v Speaker 5>I actually like when the woman chooses my outfit. It

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<v Speaker 5>just helps solve that problem because now I'm not trying

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<v Speaker 5>to figure the w Don't you feel like a prop

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<v Speaker 5>Well you know what, Grandon Barrett, just get past it.

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<v Speaker 5>It just is what it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you ever done every like? Because that is a thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Now depending on when Halloween falls, if it falls, on

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<v Speaker 2>a Wednesday, you have the actual Halloween, and then you

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<v Speaker 2>have the Saturday before and you have it. There is

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of multiple cosplay. Culture is a really.

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<v Speaker 3>Big two weekends. Last year it was two weekends. This

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<v Speaker 3>year it's another like two weekends of just playing, like

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<v Speaker 3>all my friends are planning back, you know, the weekend before,

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<v Speaker 3>the weekend after. Because even though a Saturday I think

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<v Speaker 3>is like technically the first like we're still doing a

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<v Speaker 3>Halloween party, going to a Halloween event. So it's like

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<v Speaker 3>it's a huge thing. The amount of this woman loves Halloween.

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<v Speaker 3>It made me really debate which is worse, the Halloween

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<v Speaker 3>adult or a Disney adult.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that was Disney adults are talking about.

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<v Speaker 3>Decorating and going places. I'm like, oh, I thought they're

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<v Speaker 3>going to meet.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a lot of couples dressing up at Disney World.

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<v Speaker 4>I've seen that.

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<v Speaker 2>That being said, where do you stand on this? If

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<v Speaker 2>she's like there should be a compromise here, like we

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<v Speaker 2>do one night, I'll do one, But it doesn't sound

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<v Speaker 2>like that's okay with her.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like the compromise comes down to two words.

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<v Speaker 3>Floody costume. We especially here in scot I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>you're telling me that I can't get a sexy nurse

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<v Speaker 3>Jackie astume. You can be Hannibal lector if you want.

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<v Speaker 3>And who says that a few drinks after the party

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't lead to some fun role play afterwards. Like, I

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<v Speaker 3>think this is a win win for both if you

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<v Speaker 3>strategize properly, you know, give and take. I need you

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<v Speaker 3>to go to this party and act like a whatever

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<v Speaker 3>animal or whatever thing it is, and then you can

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<v Speaker 3>come back and do that again.

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<v Speaker 5>I know, I don't think this is Megan's first thoughts on.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I know she had a philosophy, sugar Jay, What

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<v Speaker 2>do you think?

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<v Speaker 7>I had one girlfriend that she was willy into costumes

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<v Speaker 7>and she made this elaborate Jack Sparrow costume from me.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh cool, and she like could make up on me

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<v Speaker 7>and she like did all like it was incredible, and

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<v Speaker 7>I was like a prop because she was the Mermaid.

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<v Speaker 2>I went to a Halloween party once and I wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>in much of a costume. It's like fifteen years ago,

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<v Speaker 2>and I met this girl and she was like the

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<v Speaker 2>hottest Cruela Deville, Like she was gorgeous, and I met her,

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<v Speaker 2>I talked to her, got her number asked her out,

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<v Speaker 2>went to get her on a date Thursday, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>what happened to the wig? What happened? Like she didn't

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<v Speaker 2>look anything like that? And I'm like, can we go

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<v Speaker 2>back to costume Cruela du Well? Like like she was

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<v Speaker 2>so hot at the Halloween party And I'm like, h

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<v Speaker 2>she should wear that all the time. Maybe tells more

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<v Speaker 2>about me. But I think you're right. I think you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I asked this girl last year, like what are you

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be for Halloween?

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<v Speaker 4>She goes a cop? I go what kind of cop?

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<v Speaker 4>She goes a hot cop.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, uh, sorry, I didn't that was the thing.

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<v Speaker 2>But your answer is right, Like I think Megan wrong here,

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<v Speaker 2>I wait till the end.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm probably the person that picks the night before, maybe

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<v Speaker 3>even the day of, and people are like, what do

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<v Speaker 3>you Ho's like, I don't know, slutty something like, it's

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<v Speaker 3>just like there's always something in the closet.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, don't we don't discourage that.

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<v Speaker 2>The business model of the of the Halloween the pop

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<v Speaker 2>up stores is a very smart that's like a billion

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<v Speaker 2>dollar business. They just look for vacant real estate.

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<v Speaker 5>Sen there's already one near my house.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, what are that's called spirits? Yeah, spirits. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>he's gonna sign leases. He's like, we're gonna be a

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<v Speaker 2>business for six weeks. It's like the Christmas treat thing.

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<v Speaker 5>I actually knew a couple who ran one of those,

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<v Speaker 5>and yeah, they'd make a year's salary in thirty days.

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<v Speaker 3>I was just about to say, that's like a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of these. It's big for these big strip malls, Like

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<v Speaker 3>they make a year's worth of salary, and like what

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<v Speaker 3>it would cost to have like a normal store in there.

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<v Speaker 3>That rent. They pay that rent for three months, so

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<v Speaker 3>it's like there. People love it. Like the strip mall

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<v Speaker 3>owners they love having those in there because then they

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<v Speaker 3>have that security because then they don't have to worry

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<v Speaker 3>for nine more months, like when are we going to

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<v Speaker 3>get the next big store?

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<v Speaker 2>In costume culture has become a big thing with a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of people looking to which which I do. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, if you're introverted and you want to be

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<v Speaker 2>a slutty nun or refrigerator, nobody's going to judge you,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's a way to sort of put this mask

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<v Speaker 2>on for the world. You know. I always say this,

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<v Speaker 2>like try and do that. The other three hundred and

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<v Speaker 2>sixty four days of the year. Like wear a color

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<v Speaker 2>that you would normally wear, where an access you wouldn't wear.

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<v Speaker 2>It's going to help you your dating confidence. But I

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<v Speaker 2>am a fan of the philosophy of Halloween. I just

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<v Speaker 2>I don't need it, so all right. Next one, this

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<v Speaker 2>is from MK via our Instagram. I love fall fashion.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the cutest. I can do so much with sweaters

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<v Speaker 2>and scarves and boots and all kinds of accessories. This

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<v Speaker 2>isn't about me, well a little about me, because I

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<v Speaker 2>look fantastic during the season. My issue is the guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Is a hoodie the only option? What happened to guys

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<v Speaker 2>wearing sweaters or blazers or something that makes them match?

428
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<v Speaker 2>My sharp This is the most fun fashion. I feel

429
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<v Speaker 2>like every time the guys I am with just look

430
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<v Speaker 2>like duds and it brings down my mood.

431
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<v Speaker 4>Step it up fellas well.

432
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<v Speaker 5>Bill Belichick is our.

433
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<v Speaker 2>War Uckerberg or whatever. Like, Yeah, hoodies, they're comfortable, they're functional.

434
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<v Speaker 2>I get she's right though, like.

435
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<v Speaker 3>Old dogs can learn new fashion lines.

436
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<v Speaker 2>I think so. Like when I was younger, like I

437
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<v Speaker 2>did throw on like more corduroy blazer or sweater stuff.

438
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<v Speaker 4>I don't think I do that at all.

439
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<v Speaker 5>I have more a closet full of sweaters I haven't

440
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<v Speaker 5>touched in you.

441
00:19:20.839 --> 00:19:24.000
<v Speaker 2>I haven't either. It's really full time sweatshirts and hoodies

442
00:19:24.039 --> 00:19:24.680
<v Speaker 2>like that is it.

443
00:19:24.839 --> 00:19:27.240
<v Speaker 5>But I have more hoodies now that you know. It's

444
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<v Speaker 5>just different thicknesses for different seasons. I've got so many

445
00:19:32.440 --> 00:19:34.279
<v Speaker 5>hoodies in my closet now, it's unreal.

446
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<v Speaker 2>I agree. But fall fashion, you're a girl, it's fun, right.

447
00:19:38.359 --> 00:19:40.680
<v Speaker 2>You don't really have it here too much in Scottsdale,

448
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<v Speaker 2>Arizona because it's still pretty warm.

449
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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, no, I moved here because I like the

450
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<v Speaker 3>warm weather. Like when the winter time for me as

451
00:19:46.759 --> 00:19:48.519
<v Speaker 3>a girl, I swear I look like the Michelin Man

452
00:19:48.559 --> 00:19:50.920
<v Speaker 3>because you're just like layers and layers of tights under

453
00:19:50.960 --> 00:19:53.119
<v Speaker 3>your pants and jackets and sweating just to like not

454
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<v Speaker 3>freeze to that's winter though.

455
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<v Speaker 2>But is there a fault where you're from Idaho? Yeah, okay,

456
00:19:57.440 --> 00:20:00.000
<v Speaker 2>there's fall, there's leaves changing.

457
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<v Speaker 3>Where I'm from, it's boots, jeans, jacket and a hoodie,

458
00:20:04.839 --> 00:20:07.559
<v Speaker 3>so I definitely get that. I feel like this also

459
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<v Speaker 3>falls into like the first question we were talking about.

460
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<v Speaker 3>You know, it's like how important something is. I'm like,

461
00:20:12.640 --> 00:20:15.559
<v Speaker 3>you should really know this bill or your partner like beforehand,

462
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<v Speaker 3>or like you're going to pick someone, like let's say

463
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<v Speaker 3>you meet them spring. They're going a man that has

464
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<v Speaker 3>a good spring wardrobe. If he dresses well in the spring,

465
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<v Speaker 3>you guys go out and he has some nice day

466
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<v Speaker 3>club clothes. In the summer, Oh, you're usually going.

467
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<v Speaker 2>To have a good So it's like you think you

468
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<v Speaker 2>can take their fashion temperature all year, und it is

469
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<v Speaker 2>what it is. They're not suddenly falling off the fashion.

470
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<v Speaker 3>I don't think they're getting dumpy, Like you're either a

471
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<v Speaker 3>metrosexual or you're not. Like, so it's like you're going

472
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<v Speaker 3>to pick them in like if that is important to you,

473
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<v Speaker 3>pick a man that that you know is already implicating that.

474
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<v Speaker 7>Sugar Jay, Well, I was thinking, unless you're a college

475
00:20:47.119 --> 00:20:50.359
<v Speaker 7>girl dating a college guy, you know, if you're dating

476
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<v Speaker 7>somebody older, there's really no excuse to not dress well. Yeah,

477
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<v Speaker 7>I mean it doesn't really cost very much. You know,

478
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<v Speaker 7>you get like a couple of Hugo Boss shirts for

479
00:20:57.640 --> 00:20:59.519
<v Speaker 7>like a couple one hundred dollars or I mean it

480
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<v Speaker 7>just kind of raises your your stature, how people see

481
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<v Speaker 7>you from a first initial look.

482
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<v Speaker 6>It's like three points.

483
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<v Speaker 7>So I don't really see a reason why people can't

484
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<v Speaker 7>just like, you know, up up the game in the

485
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<v Speaker 7>very easy way. I mean, I can't make myself taller.

486
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<v Speaker 2>Right, So that's true.

487
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<v Speaker 6>Dress like an easy one.

488
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<v Speaker 2>That's a good point. I was gonna be like, MP, MK,

489
00:21:21.039 --> 00:21:23.759
<v Speaker 2>you're the picture, he's the frame. But I see your point, Like,

490
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<v Speaker 2>if it matters to her and you and you say

491
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<v Speaker 2>it once, that's the issue.

492
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<v Speaker 4>MK.

493
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<v Speaker 2>If you're with this guy, don't say, oh my god,

494
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<v Speaker 2>you're gonna wear the hoodie again, Say I bet you

495
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<v Speaker 2>would look really sharp in the Casumere sweater. If you

496
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<v Speaker 2>say that sort of positively reinforced there's a path here

497
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<v Speaker 2>that said this. This is kind of a.

498
00:21:41.759 --> 00:21:44.559
<v Speaker 3>One man mini clothes. Or you're going shopping and you

499
00:21:44.559 --> 00:21:46.319
<v Speaker 3>have a boyfriend and you're like, oh, I was out here,

500
00:21:46.319 --> 00:21:47.559
<v Speaker 3>I bought you know, I brought this for you. It's

501
00:21:47.559 --> 00:21:48.839
<v Speaker 3>like I picked this up. I know it's your side,

502
00:21:48.880 --> 00:21:53.039
<v Speaker 3>Like you just better starts subliminally integrating their their wardrobe

503
00:21:53.079 --> 00:21:55.759
<v Speaker 3>and then you realize we're wearing everything you bought for them.

504
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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, when the girls like you would look so

505
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<v Speaker 2>good in this, I bought these for you. It's it's

506
00:22:00.480 --> 00:22:02.720
<v Speaker 2>better than Christmas, it's better than Birthday. It's oh yeah.

507
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<v Speaker 5>Numerous times my sugar baby is like, hey, I got

508
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<v Speaker 5>you this from mis warehouse, so it's gonna look perfect

509
00:22:07.160 --> 00:22:08.559
<v Speaker 5>with the dress I'm wearing tonight.

510
00:22:09.039 --> 00:22:10.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but she paid for it with your money, so.

511
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<v Speaker 5>Exactly, well, she does have my car.

512
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<v Speaker 2>Okay, there you go, so a little bit less of

513
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<v Speaker 2>a gesture.

514
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<v Speaker 4>All right, we are taking on the Fall into Love

515
00:22:19.160 --> 00:22:21.359
<v Speaker 4>mail bags. I'm here with Megan Jay Marcus.

516
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<v Speaker 2>We got to take a quick break because we got

517
00:22:22.839 --> 00:22:25.000
<v Speaker 2>to pay for Cashumer sweaters around here.

518
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<v Speaker 4>We'll be back right after this, and we are back

519
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<v Speaker 4>all right. The next one is from Ben from Old Sabrook, Connecticut.

520
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<v Speaker 4>Old Sabrook is very nice.

521
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<v Speaker 2>I am forty five and divorced, but my ex wife

522
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<v Speaker 2>and I had kids in our early twenties, so they

523
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<v Speaker 2>are all college and beyond.

524
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<v Speaker 4>Now.

525
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<v Speaker 2>I'm currently seeing a great girl. She's a few years

526
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<v Speaker 2>older than me, but her kids are significantly younger. They

527
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<v Speaker 2>are eight, ten, and thirteen. That's not the issue. I've

528
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<v Speaker 2>met the kids a couple of times and I love

529
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<v Speaker 2>watching her as a mom. The issue is their schedule.

530
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<v Speaker 2>One is in dance, one is in volleyball. One thinks

531
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<v Speaker 2>he's gonna be pro soccer player, even though I have

532
00:23:01.400 --> 00:23:03.880
<v Speaker 2>seen him play and he actually kind of sucks. Anyway,

533
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<v Speaker 2>they are back to school now, and every single weekend

534
00:23:06.279 --> 00:23:08.319
<v Speaker 2>hour is devoted to her running them to games and

535
00:23:08.319 --> 00:23:12.079
<v Speaker 2>rehearsals and practices and worst of all, tournaments. She has shared.

536
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<v Speaker 2>She has shared custody with her ex, but there are

537
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<v Speaker 2>only two of them and three kids, so they still

538
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<v Speaker 2>have to share duties on the weekend. I'm never going

539
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<v Speaker 2>to get to see her except for maybe an evening

540
00:23:20.160 --> 00:23:22.880
<v Speaker 2>here and there, but she is always exhausted from driving

541
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<v Speaker 2>around or three hours away to tournament. I'm trying to

542
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<v Speaker 2>be understanding, but I am a parent and it never

543
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<v Speaker 2>used to be like this. I am so pro been

544
00:23:32.240 --> 00:23:34.880
<v Speaker 2>on this when I was a kid, When you were kid,

545
00:23:35.400 --> 00:23:39.359
<v Speaker 2>we didn't have to go weekend long like volleyball tournaments

546
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<v Speaker 2>in Vegas.

547
00:23:40.000 --> 00:23:41.920
<v Speaker 4>We played the schools in our county.

548
00:23:42.440 --> 00:23:44.759
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, when did this change? And why did this change?

549
00:23:44.799 --> 00:23:47.079
<v Speaker 2>Other than parents want to hook up on the road.

550
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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's a good question. I we just played local towns, yeah,

551
00:23:52.839 --> 00:23:55.680
<v Speaker 5>communities around us. So in baseball, and what is we

552
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<v Speaker 5>weren't traveling.

553
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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and I understand that.

554
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<v Speaker 2>You know, during COVID here in Scottsdale, all the California

555
00:24:02.319 --> 00:24:04.039
<v Speaker 2>school you know, things were shut down. They were all

556
00:24:04.079 --> 00:24:07.000
<v Speaker 2>out here for tournaments. I've seen this where you have

557
00:24:07.119 --> 00:24:10.200
<v Speaker 2>to the parents are all secretly hoping their kids lose

558
00:24:10.240 --> 00:24:11.960
<v Speaker 2>the game on Saturday so they don't have to stay

559
00:24:12.000 --> 00:24:15.079
<v Speaker 2>till Sunday. And you are paying for hotels and whites

560
00:24:15.319 --> 00:24:16.759
<v Speaker 2>is so prohibibly expensive.

561
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<v Speaker 4>I don't know who's in favor of this.

562
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<v Speaker 2>You got one hundred high schools within twenty miles of

563
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<v Speaker 2>you play them. Yeah.

564
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<v Speaker 5>I run Airbnbs and I constantly get parents in for

565
00:24:26.240 --> 00:24:27.319
<v Speaker 5>tournament tournaments.

566
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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

567
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<v Speaker 2>And and the way this affects Ben is he's right.

568
00:24:30.920 --> 00:24:33.119
<v Speaker 2>It didn't be like, Okay, the kids are, let's go

569
00:24:33.160 --> 00:24:36.839
<v Speaker 2>do something like it is full time taxi service at

570
00:24:36.960 --> 00:24:40.039
<v Speaker 2>best now for these parents. And if they're eight, ten

571
00:24:40.039 --> 00:24:41.799
<v Speaker 2>and thirteen, he's going to have to go through this

572
00:24:41.839 --> 00:24:45.519
<v Speaker 2>from September to May for a long time.

573
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<v Speaker 7>So my cousin has that same exact situation. They live

574
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<v Speaker 7>on Fifth Avenue in New York, so they're obviously loaded

575
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<v Speaker 7>and don't have to worry about the money part, right,

576
00:24:54.960 --> 00:24:56.720
<v Speaker 7>and so they would they live in New York and

577
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<v Speaker 7>then the two kids are super into baseball and they

578
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<v Speaker 7>have to fly to North Carolina, fly to Georgia for games.

579
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<v Speaker 6>I'm like, are you pro athletes?

580
00:25:04.559 --> 00:25:04.720
<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

581
00:25:04.759 --> 00:25:06.640
<v Speaker 2>I mean if you're if your kids it's a good

582
00:25:06.680 --> 00:25:08.480
<v Speaker 2>chance to going pro or that's your scholarship things.

583
00:25:08.599 --> 00:25:10.519
<v Speaker 4>I get that, but most of these most of these

584
00:25:10.599 --> 00:25:11.359
<v Speaker 4>kids don't.

585
00:25:11.400 --> 00:25:12.400
<v Speaker 2>It's just the norm.

586
00:25:12.480 --> 00:25:13.319
<v Speaker 4>Now norm.

587
00:25:13.359 --> 00:25:15.079
<v Speaker 7>It seemed like the norm. I couldn't believe it, Like

588
00:25:15.119 --> 00:25:17.119
<v Speaker 7>why can't you play like a team that's like a

589
00:25:17.119 --> 00:25:17.920
<v Speaker 7>cross town.

590
00:25:17.720 --> 00:25:20.200
<v Speaker 2>And looks like the car line? Now, since when did

591
00:25:20.240 --> 00:25:22.000
<v Speaker 2>the parents have to go and like pick up and

592
00:25:22.079 --> 00:25:24.240
<v Speaker 2>drop off? It's nuts, so we can use the car line.

593
00:25:24.240 --> 00:25:26.319
<v Speaker 3>They're all star games, they're all star teams. Like these

594
00:25:26.319 --> 00:25:28.880
<v Speaker 3>are people that pay to do these. So this is

595
00:25:28.920 --> 00:25:32.559
<v Speaker 3>basically the new like college application, Like you thought your

596
00:25:32.599 --> 00:25:35.640
<v Speaker 3>kid was in cello and piano and track, Like, oh,

597
00:25:35.640 --> 00:25:37.480
<v Speaker 3>you're on an all star team, You're an elite team.

598
00:25:37.519 --> 00:25:40.000
<v Speaker 3>These are how like this is the precursors in middle

599
00:25:40.000 --> 00:25:42.880
<v Speaker 3>school and high school to where they're actually getting footage,

600
00:25:42.880 --> 00:25:44.799
<v Speaker 3>they're actually getting their names and like they get this

601
00:25:44.960 --> 00:25:47.799
<v Speaker 3>travel experience, they're more likely to be looked at by

602
00:25:47.799 --> 00:25:48.599
<v Speaker 3>big teams like this.

603
00:25:48.880 --> 00:25:51.000
<v Speaker 2>Ninety percent of these kids aren't getting looked at at all.

604
00:25:51.359 --> 00:25:52.359
<v Speaker 2>And I think you have to.

605
00:25:52.319 --> 00:25:54.519
<v Speaker 3>Determine that's now becoming the bear requirement is to be

606
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<v Speaker 3>on these pro I get steam.

607
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<v Speaker 2>Let's look at this from Ben's perspective. What does he

608
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<v Speaker 2>do about this? Because it does you know younger, he's

609
00:26:02.880 --> 00:26:05.839
<v Speaker 2>younger than her, but the kids are all gone. He's

610
00:26:05.839 --> 00:26:07.640
<v Speaker 2>probably like, yeah, I'm a pair of two. This is great.

611
00:26:07.680 --> 00:26:09.599
<v Speaker 2>And then he suddenly like, I basically have to do

612
00:26:09.680 --> 00:26:13.319
<v Speaker 2>this all over again, worse. And I can't even share

613
00:26:13.319 --> 00:26:15.079
<v Speaker 2>a hotel room with my go because she's got an

614
00:26:15.079 --> 00:26:17.240
<v Speaker 2>eight year old in the bed with her. He's got

615
00:26:17.279 --> 00:26:19.200
<v Speaker 2>to find a new sorry woman.

616
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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I've dated a few single mothers, actually quite a few,

617
00:26:22.799 --> 00:26:27.599
<v Speaker 5>and it's an issue. Yeah, and I get very frustrated.

618
00:26:28.000 --> 00:26:30.599
<v Speaker 5>So and it hasn't worked out for me.

619
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<v Speaker 4>I don't you know.

620
00:26:31.359 --> 00:26:33.480
<v Speaker 5>I don't mind the kids. I love the kids. I

621
00:26:33.480 --> 00:26:35.119
<v Speaker 5>actually fall in love with the kids a lot of times.

622
00:26:35.160 --> 00:26:37.440
<v Speaker 5>But there's just no quality time with.

623
00:26:37.880 --> 00:26:41.039
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, I always I'm very single mom sympathetic

624
00:26:41.039 --> 00:26:43.039
<v Speaker 2>A lot of this time. She has to paint a

625
00:26:43.160 --> 00:26:45.960
<v Speaker 2>roadmap to her availability to make him feel like this

626
00:26:46.039 --> 00:26:48.880
<v Speaker 2>is this one seems tough, this one seems checkmate. Like

627
00:26:48.920 --> 00:26:51.920
<v Speaker 2>there's three kids, and you know she's already sharing it.

628
00:26:52.000 --> 00:26:53.599
<v Speaker 2>You know, he's not to the point now where he's like,

629
00:26:53.640 --> 00:26:55.000
<v Speaker 2>I can take one of the kids. But he doesn't

630
00:26:55.000 --> 00:26:56.599
<v Speaker 2>want to do that either. He wants to spend time

631
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<v Speaker 2>with her and if the weekends are shot, I mean's

632
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<v Speaker 2>a lot of week dating.

633
00:27:00.440 --> 00:27:03.319
<v Speaker 4>But this is a long way to go. The youngest

634
00:27:03.359 --> 00:27:03.759
<v Speaker 4>is eight.

635
00:27:04.400 --> 00:27:06.720
<v Speaker 3>I think it's unanimous. This is not going to work out.

636
00:27:06.759 --> 00:27:09.960
<v Speaker 3>It's never recommended. I've seen again, I have many forty

637
00:27:10.000 --> 00:27:12.440
<v Speaker 3>five real it's like a lot of forty five men.

638
00:27:12.480 --> 00:27:15.039
<v Speaker 3>They have like a kid that's like maybe a sophomore

639
00:27:15.079 --> 00:27:17.240
<v Speaker 3>or junior senior. They're like one or two more years.

640
00:27:17.319 --> 00:27:20.319
<v Speaker 3>We're almost done, like all the kids are out. Unless

641
00:27:20.359 --> 00:27:22.279
<v Speaker 3>you truly like you have to make that decision you

642
00:27:22.319 --> 00:27:24.000
<v Speaker 3>want to be a parent again, you like, really that's

643
00:27:24.039 --> 00:27:25.599
<v Speaker 3>what you love doing, and you loved going to the

644
00:27:25.599 --> 00:27:29.039
<v Speaker 3>hockey games and doing all the false stuff in the sports. Yeah,

645
00:27:29.319 --> 00:27:31.519
<v Speaker 3>you're gonna it's yeah, it's not gonna work out.

646
00:27:31.640 --> 00:27:31.880
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

647
00:27:31.920 --> 00:27:34.160
<v Speaker 2>A lot of couples stay together till the kids eighteen,

648
00:27:34.200 --> 00:27:35.960
<v Speaker 2>just so they can share the carpool duties.

649
00:27:35.880 --> 00:27:37.759
<v Speaker 3>And it sounds like this woman needs to stay and

650
00:27:37.799 --> 00:27:39.960
<v Speaker 3>like seems like she has some other responsibility to shoot.

651
00:27:40.279 --> 00:27:43.039
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I feel bad for them, but anyway, all right.

652
00:27:43.119 --> 00:27:46.960
<v Speaker 2>Next one, This is from Savannah via the Facebook page.

653
00:27:47.759 --> 00:27:49.799
<v Speaker 4>Thanksgiving is the biggest fall thing.

654
00:27:49.960 --> 00:27:52.000
<v Speaker 2>Right, for the sake of argument, let's put it ahead

655
00:27:52.000 --> 00:27:55.200
<v Speaker 2>of raking leaves in Columbus Day weekend. Anyway, my boyfriend

656
00:27:55.240 --> 00:27:57.480
<v Speaker 2>every year we've been dating for three years, has tried

657
00:27:57.519 --> 00:27:59.599
<v Speaker 2>to get me to make the full dinner for our

658
00:27:59.640 --> 00:28:02.359
<v Speaker 2>friends and his family, like the turkey, the stuffings, the sides,

659
00:28:02.400 --> 00:28:04.480
<v Speaker 2>all of it. He says, at some point in life

660
00:28:04.480 --> 00:28:07.480
<v Speaker 2>where if we are together and have a family, it's

661
00:28:07.519 --> 00:28:09.599
<v Speaker 2>something I will have to do, so let's figure it out.

662
00:28:09.640 --> 00:28:09.880
<v Speaker 4>Now.

663
00:28:10.279 --> 00:28:12.880
<v Speaker 2>That's not exactly the most romantic of proposals, but I

664
00:28:12.920 --> 00:28:13.640
<v Speaker 2>do love him.

665
00:28:13.799 --> 00:28:14.440
<v Speaker 4>What the fuck?

666
00:28:14.839 --> 00:28:16.960
<v Speaker 2>Why can't we just go out and save everybody this

667
00:28:17.079 --> 00:28:21.319
<v Speaker 2>exercise in culinary experimentation. He's definitely wrong on this, right.

668
00:28:21.400 --> 00:28:23.599
<v Speaker 2>I've asked my friends and they all say I have

669
00:28:23.680 --> 00:28:25.039
<v Speaker 2>had to do it once myself.

670
00:28:25.240 --> 00:28:29.319
<v Speaker 4>Is this a thing? Have you ever made a Thanksgiving dinner? Yes?

671
00:28:29.920 --> 00:28:33.400
<v Speaker 3>Yes, I'm a cooker, so I like, I love cooking

672
00:28:33.440 --> 00:28:35.880
<v Speaker 3>all the meals. I've even done like an entire Thanksgiving

673
00:28:35.880 --> 00:28:39.359
<v Speaker 3>dinner just on a smoker before. So I like doing that.

674
00:28:39.480 --> 00:28:42.160
<v Speaker 3>I understand someone not wanting to do that, right, Like

675
00:28:42.200 --> 00:28:44.119
<v Speaker 3>that's fair. And there's also takeout, like do you know

676
00:28:44.200 --> 00:28:47.160
<v Speaker 3>how many restaurants in grocery stores like do full like

677
00:28:47.200 --> 00:28:49.599
<v Speaker 3>they literally cook you pay for these full meals per person.

678
00:28:49.720 --> 00:28:51.880
<v Speaker 2>It's not about that. It's people wanting to know that

679
00:28:51.920 --> 00:28:53.599
<v Speaker 2>she's capable. And me and you last year, I think

680
00:28:53.640 --> 00:28:55.279
<v Speaker 2>not together, but we each went to like a Capital

681
00:28:55.319 --> 00:28:58.400
<v Speaker 2>Grill for Thanksgiving. Right, it was delightful. Yes, shout out

682
00:28:58.440 --> 00:29:01.079
<v Speaker 2>to Capitol Grill. Yeah, yeah, yeah, there are restaurants. A

683
00:29:01.119 --> 00:29:02.960
<v Speaker 2>lot more people are doing that. But this is almost

684
00:29:03.039 --> 00:29:05.039
<v Speaker 2>like a rite of passage that a woman has to

685
00:29:05.039 --> 00:29:08.000
<v Speaker 2>go through and do once. He should not ask her

686
00:29:08.039 --> 00:29:11.279
<v Speaker 2>to marry you, boyfriend, and then maybe kind of put

687
00:29:11.279 --> 00:29:13.000
<v Speaker 2>this in there, but don't be like, at some point

688
00:29:13.000 --> 00:29:15.680
<v Speaker 2>we might be together, we need this test. He's wrong.

689
00:29:17.279 --> 00:29:19.920
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, if a woman doesn't cook, there's no way she

690
00:29:19.960 --> 00:29:21.599
<v Speaker 7>can pull it together out of nowhere.

691
00:29:21.960 --> 00:29:24.599
<v Speaker 4>Right, maybe or she can cook, but Thanksgiving dinner is

692
00:29:24.640 --> 00:29:25.039
<v Speaker 4>a thing.

693
00:29:24.960 --> 00:29:27.920
<v Speaker 2>That's a high pressure situation, and I don't believe anybody

694
00:29:28.000 --> 00:29:31.000
<v Speaker 2>like if we liked turkey as a society, they would

695
00:29:31.039 --> 00:29:34.519
<v Speaker 2>serve it in restaurants. Normally, we don't like turkey, we

696
00:29:34.640 --> 00:29:36.799
<v Speaker 2>like the other shit that goes along with it, So

697
00:29:36.960 --> 00:29:38.440
<v Speaker 2>just make the other shit right.

698
00:29:39.039 --> 00:29:40.599
<v Speaker 5>I like the dark needed turkey.

699
00:29:42.400 --> 00:29:44.400
<v Speaker 2>If you go to a restaurant, you're not like, do

700
00:29:44.440 --> 00:29:46.039
<v Speaker 2>you have any dark meat turkey on the man?

701
00:29:46.160 --> 00:29:48.319
<v Speaker 4>Any specials? There's no specials of turkey.

702
00:29:48.559 --> 00:29:50.680
<v Speaker 2>Maybe at Denny's they have it all year round, but

703
00:29:50.880 --> 00:29:53.279
<v Speaker 2>generally speaking, we don't like turkey. We like turkey sandwiches.

704
00:29:53.880 --> 00:29:57.279
<v Speaker 2>It's about all the other stuff. This is an unfair thing,

705
00:29:57.319 --> 00:29:59.839
<v Speaker 2>is She's just like, I don't need to jump through

706
00:30:00.039 --> 00:30:01.839
<v Speaker 2>hoops to show you that I'm capable of doing this,

707
00:30:01.880 --> 00:30:03.400
<v Speaker 2>and I'm never gonna do this if we're married.

708
00:30:03.960 --> 00:30:05.119
<v Speaker 4>Screw it right.

709
00:30:05.519 --> 00:30:09.279
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I enjoy going out, Like you said, somebody else

710
00:30:09.319 --> 00:30:12.000
<v Speaker 5>can cook and clean and you used to get enjoy

711
00:30:12.039 --> 00:30:13.440
<v Speaker 5>the dinner in the atmosphere.

712
00:30:13.799 --> 00:30:17.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And if they're nice about family, then hang out

713
00:30:17.480 --> 00:30:20.039
<v Speaker 2>after dinner or like you said, cater it or go

714
00:30:20.119 --> 00:30:22.599
<v Speaker 2>to a grocery store that just heat stuff up. But

715
00:30:22.640 --> 00:30:25.759
<v Speaker 2>if she's sticking there with her fist up the ass

716
00:30:25.799 --> 00:30:28.200
<v Speaker 2>of a turkey just to prove that she's capable for

717
00:30:28.240 --> 00:30:30.119
<v Speaker 2>your friends and family. That's not wrong, but it doesn't

718
00:30:30.160 --> 00:30:32.680
<v Speaker 2>sound like her friends are all saying apparently like yeah,

719
00:30:32.680 --> 00:30:34.799
<v Speaker 2>I've had to do it too, Like that seems all.

720
00:30:34.960 --> 00:30:38.440
<v Speaker 3>I don't fall for ultimatums. If there's an ultimatum, I'm out.

721
00:30:38.599 --> 00:30:40.519
<v Speaker 3>Maybe that makes me petty, but it's like, don't quote

722
00:30:40.720 --> 00:30:43.559
<v Speaker 3>position away that. But usually there's learning, like if you're

723
00:30:43.559 --> 00:30:45.359
<v Speaker 3>getting to know when you're dating this person.

724
00:30:45.359 --> 00:30:47.720
<v Speaker 4>They said three years, three years, this is she said,

725
00:30:47.720 --> 00:30:48.559
<v Speaker 4>this is three years of this.

726
00:30:49.279 --> 00:30:52.519
<v Speaker 3>Maybe his mom is like a really intense Italian and

727
00:30:52.519 --> 00:30:55.119
<v Speaker 3>like their thanksgivings are like maybe maybe it's not as

728
00:30:55.200 --> 00:30:57.880
<v Speaker 3>like a normal cranberries and stuffing kind of thing, and

729
00:30:57.880 --> 00:30:59.200
<v Speaker 3>like she's intimidated by it.

730
00:30:59.440 --> 00:31:01.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but he's like, I'm going to make you do this,

731
00:31:01.799 --> 00:31:04.039
<v Speaker 2>and she doesn't want, she's stressed out by and it's exhausting.

732
00:31:04.079 --> 00:31:05.960
<v Speaker 2>Don't make her do this. We'll make her wear the

733
00:31:06.000 --> 00:31:07.160
<v Speaker 2>slutty Halloween costume.

734
00:31:07.200 --> 00:31:08.240
<v Speaker 4>Don't make her make the turkey.

735
00:31:08.359 --> 00:31:08.759
<v Speaker 5>There you go.

736
00:31:08.839 --> 00:31:10.799
<v Speaker 7>Well, I do kind of think that if if you're

737
00:31:10.960 --> 00:31:13.119
<v Speaker 7>a guy dating and you have a lot of options,

738
00:31:13.519 --> 00:31:16.759
<v Speaker 7>a woman that can cook and can bring something like

739
00:31:16.799 --> 00:31:19.119
<v Speaker 7>that of value. It does make that woman look a

740
00:31:19.160 --> 00:31:20.119
<v Speaker 7>lot more attractive.

741
00:31:20.640 --> 00:31:22.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm right, But that would be a woman other than

742
00:31:22.200 --> 00:31:24.759
<v Speaker 2>her who's like, I'm excited to show off my cooking skills.

743
00:31:24.799 --> 00:31:27.599
<v Speaker 7>Exactly, somebody that can cook, somebody that is already excited

744
00:31:27.599 --> 00:31:29.400
<v Speaker 7>to cook, not somebody that forced the cook. I mean,

745
00:31:29.680 --> 00:31:31.319
<v Speaker 7>if somebody can't do it, I don't want to do it.

746
00:31:31.440 --> 00:31:33.559
<v Speaker 7>You're not going to get a good turnout I got.

747
00:31:33.680 --> 00:31:36.079
<v Speaker 2>I got asked by a girlfriend once I was at

748
00:31:36.119 --> 00:31:39.680
<v Speaker 2>her family's house and she was like, oh, Brian, can

749
00:31:39.720 --> 00:31:41.559
<v Speaker 2>help carve the turkey? And I'm like, oh my god,

750
00:31:41.559 --> 00:31:44.640
<v Speaker 2>I've never done this. I turned it shredded wheat, like

751
00:31:44.680 --> 00:31:46.759
<v Speaker 2>I had no idea how to carve a turkey. It

752
00:31:46.839 --> 00:31:49.200
<v Speaker 2>looked like chicken salad by the time I was found it.

753
00:31:49.200 --> 00:31:51.039
<v Speaker 2>It's a bad idea. People are like, let me just

754
00:31:51.160 --> 00:31:51.759
<v Speaker 2>help you with that.

755
00:31:51.880 --> 00:31:52.559
<v Speaker 4>It was awful.

756
00:31:53.119 --> 00:31:55.440
<v Speaker 3>Seems like she needs to ask a deeper question on

757
00:31:55.599 --> 00:31:57.839
<v Speaker 3>like why is this so important? A lot of times

758
00:31:57.839 --> 00:32:00.240
<v Speaker 3>when it comes to like Thanksgiving, Christmas, it's more about

759
00:32:00.319 --> 00:32:02.720
<v Speaker 3>the family and the football. It's like it's the camaraderie,

760
00:32:02.759 --> 00:32:04.920
<v Speaker 3>it's the thing. So it's like maybe she is just

761
00:32:05.079 --> 00:32:07.920
<v Speaker 3>not a cook. Maybe she just burns toast, But like,

762
00:32:08.039 --> 00:32:12.039
<v Speaker 3>can she host? Is she empathetic of your family? She gathered?

763
00:32:12.039 --> 00:32:14.200
<v Speaker 3>Can you put your work together? Does she enjoy the

764
00:32:14.400 --> 00:32:16.880
<v Speaker 3>you know, having fifteen people in her house like with

765
00:32:17.000 --> 00:32:19.680
<v Speaker 3>family and get nice cultory? Like maybe the food is

766
00:32:19.720 --> 00:32:22.000
<v Speaker 3>just the one thing. But it's like, does she hate

767
00:32:22.039 --> 00:32:24.640
<v Speaker 3>Thanksgiving and the thought of hosting to worry being a

768
00:32:24.640 --> 00:32:26.920
<v Speaker 3>part of the family or does she just hate cooking?

769
00:32:26.960 --> 00:32:29.839
<v Speaker 4>Two words, Savannah slutty pilgrim, you go with that and

770
00:32:29.839 --> 00:32:30.799
<v Speaker 4>never very like you anyway.

771
00:32:30.839 --> 00:32:32.839
<v Speaker 5>Ooh, all right, I like the visual.

772
00:32:33.119 --> 00:32:35.480
<v Speaker 4>I know, all right, next one.

773
00:32:36.480 --> 00:32:39.240
<v Speaker 2>Since this mail bag is about a particular season, I

774
00:32:39.240 --> 00:32:41.119
<v Speaker 2>think weather is a part of a season, and for

775
00:32:41.160 --> 00:32:44.920
<v Speaker 2>that matter, temperature. Why is every girl I date chronically cold?

776
00:32:45.200 --> 00:32:47.519
<v Speaker 2>There's nothing worse than coming in with an extra layer

777
00:32:47.599 --> 00:32:49.920
<v Speaker 2>of clothing on during October or November and have the

778
00:32:49.960 --> 00:32:52.720
<v Speaker 2>heat beyond eighty five because she has a circulation issue

779
00:32:52.839 --> 00:32:55.839
<v Speaker 2>or weighs one hundred pounds. It's abnormal. I constantly tell

780
00:32:55.880 --> 00:32:57.640
<v Speaker 2>these women that it's a lot easier to add a

781
00:32:57.680 --> 00:33:00.599
<v Speaker 2>layer to keep warm than take awful layer to cool off.

782
00:33:00.839 --> 00:33:02.880
<v Speaker 2>You want me to just walk around naked, that's fine,

783
00:33:02.880 --> 00:33:04.720
<v Speaker 2>But I'm still gonna be hot, and not the kind

784
00:33:04.759 --> 00:33:05.160
<v Speaker 2>you want.

785
00:33:05.480 --> 00:33:06.839
<v Speaker 4>What is the compromise on this?

786
00:33:07.039 --> 00:33:10.200
<v Speaker 2>People wait all year round to enjoy the outdoors when

787
00:33:10.200 --> 00:33:12.839
<v Speaker 2>the weather gets in the sixties. Can't we all enjoy

788
00:33:12.880 --> 00:33:16.240
<v Speaker 2>the indoors at the same set temperature. That's from Mark

789
00:33:16.240 --> 00:33:22.039
<v Speaker 2>at the North Pole. He's right, Agel love being outside

790
00:33:22.079 --> 00:33:24.400
<v Speaker 2>in sixty eight degrees. Why can't it be sixty eight

791
00:33:24.440 --> 00:33:26.640
<v Speaker 2>degrees inside? And you can just leave a sweater on,

792
00:33:26.880 --> 00:33:27.680
<v Speaker 2>borrow my hoodie.

793
00:33:29.079 --> 00:33:29.279
<v Speaker 3>I know.

794
00:33:29.559 --> 00:33:32.359
<v Speaker 2>Megan's like, no, turn it to seventy eight. What does

795
00:33:32.359 --> 00:33:33.759
<v Speaker 2>your boyfriend prefer the temperature?

796
00:33:33.759 --> 00:33:40.680
<v Speaker 3>Ap He is a poor, poor he's very hairy man warm.

797
00:33:40.839 --> 00:33:44.160
<v Speaker 3>He's just hot all the time. And I sympathize. So

798
00:33:44.200 --> 00:33:48.519
<v Speaker 3>the house is set to like seventy sixty nine seventy

799
00:33:48.880 --> 00:33:50.599
<v Speaker 3>I can't even feel my fingers with toast just sitting

800
00:33:50.599 --> 00:33:53.880
<v Speaker 3>in here. I'm cold all the time. I'm miserable. I

801
00:33:53.960 --> 00:33:57.319
<v Speaker 3>have gotten used to the sweaters and wearing the leggings,

802
00:33:57.359 --> 00:33:58.960
<v Speaker 3>and I like have fuzzy socks when I have to

803
00:33:59.000 --> 00:34:00.720
<v Speaker 3>just be in my house. So it's just the way

804
00:34:00.720 --> 00:34:00.880
<v Speaker 3>it is.

805
00:34:00.960 --> 00:34:05.000
<v Speaker 2>Airplane movie theater, You're you're bundling movie theater.

806
00:34:05.200 --> 00:34:09.280
<v Speaker 3>Yes, oh, bring a sweater literally every single time. But

807
00:34:10.119 --> 00:34:12.239
<v Speaker 3>I mean there are I tell them that there are

808
00:34:12.360 --> 00:34:15.559
<v Speaker 3>downsides to not keeping One, I'm usually a little bit crankier,

809
00:34:15.599 --> 00:34:19.000
<v Speaker 3>but two, it's like if he keeps the room a

810
00:34:19.000 --> 00:34:21.920
<v Speaker 3>little bit warmer, closed little yeah, it gets He's like,

811
00:34:22.480 --> 00:34:24.679
<v Speaker 3>why can't like he wants to lay and tries to

812
00:34:24.960 --> 00:34:26.599
<v Speaker 3>feel up and do all the things, And I'm like,

813
00:34:26.760 --> 00:34:28.840
<v Speaker 3>got a T shirt and a sweater and socks, and

814
00:34:28.880 --> 00:34:32.320
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, yeah, warmer in here. I would probably be

815
00:34:32.519 --> 00:34:35.199
<v Speaker 3>wearing less clothes to bed, but I'm literally shivering for

816
00:34:35.280 --> 00:34:37.800
<v Speaker 3>survival a lot with the fan and the air conditioner

817
00:34:37.840 --> 00:34:39.320
<v Speaker 3>blowing on me in the cold sheets.

818
00:34:39.320 --> 00:34:41.679
<v Speaker 2>And there's a lot of women think it's sexist that

819
00:34:41.679 --> 00:34:44.159
<v Speaker 2>a lot of offices are colder, but colder makes people

820
00:34:44.159 --> 00:34:44.639
<v Speaker 2>more alert.

821
00:34:44.639 --> 00:34:46.000
<v Speaker 4>It's actually a better work environment.

822
00:34:46.960 --> 00:34:49.920
<v Speaker 2>So theaters comedy clubs are a little colder because they

823
00:34:49.960 --> 00:34:50.760
<v Speaker 2>want people to be alert.

824
00:34:50.920 --> 00:34:53.360
<v Speaker 4>Thoughts, are you a hot temperature cold temperature? You don't

825
00:34:53.360 --> 00:34:53.760
<v Speaker 4>give a shit?

826
00:34:53.920 --> 00:34:57.000
<v Speaker 7>Well, I've definitely noticed that women do run a lot

827
00:34:57.079 --> 00:35:00.000
<v Speaker 7>colder by default, because like I've known so many women

828
00:35:00.119 --> 00:35:04.199
<v Speaker 7>that love Sauna's hot tubs. I'll go in to support,

829
00:35:04.199 --> 00:35:07.639
<v Speaker 7>but I'm like, literally roasting like a turkey. So and

830
00:35:07.679 --> 00:35:09.559
<v Speaker 7>I don't really I mean, here it's hot too, but

831
00:35:09.599 --> 00:35:13.719
<v Speaker 7>it's it's uh, it does seem like women's temperature, like

832
00:35:13.719 --> 00:35:16.320
<v Speaker 7>the homeostasis is like a little bit a little bit

833
00:35:16.360 --> 00:35:17.159
<v Speaker 7>lower than men's.

834
00:35:17.519 --> 00:35:20.519
<v Speaker 5>It's a constant problem. It's almost like you're dating somebody

835
00:35:20.559 --> 00:35:22.679
<v Speaker 5>with a different political view. You're just gonna have to

836
00:35:22.719 --> 00:35:26.559
<v Speaker 5>agree to disagree because there is no solution. I battle

837
00:35:26.639 --> 00:35:30.880
<v Speaker 5>this every single day with my girlfriend. She loves to

838
00:35:31.159 --> 00:35:33.440
<v Speaker 5>turn on the fan and then get under covers and

839
00:35:33.480 --> 00:35:36.280
<v Speaker 5>put her cold damn feet right on my back or something,

840
00:35:36.320 --> 00:35:37.920
<v Speaker 5>and it just drives me crazy.

841
00:35:38.039 --> 00:35:40.159
<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm like, do you want me to cuddle you,

842
00:35:40.280 --> 00:35:44.039
<v Speaker 2>then let's make it colder, like yeah, that's better than

843
00:35:44.199 --> 00:35:47.519
<v Speaker 2>we're hot and whatever. Like I'm the same thing. I

844
00:35:47.800 --> 00:35:51.079
<v Speaker 2>I want it like fifty five and then I'll put

845
00:35:51.119 --> 00:35:53.480
<v Speaker 2>on like more clothing. Then there's a point where and

846
00:35:53.519 --> 00:35:55.800
<v Speaker 2>it's just you know, we're here in Scottsdale where it

847
00:35:55.840 --> 00:35:58.280
<v Speaker 2>can be you know, one hundred and twenty it's brutal,

848
00:35:58.760 --> 00:36:03.599
<v Speaker 2>but in like, let's just you know, sixty eight should

849
00:36:03.679 --> 00:36:04.280
<v Speaker 2>be fine.

850
00:36:05.159 --> 00:36:07.159
<v Speaker 3>I think it's a compromise. That's what we have. Like

851
00:36:07.639 --> 00:36:09.400
<v Speaker 3>in the morning, Like he gets up before me and

852
00:36:09.400 --> 00:36:11.360
<v Speaker 3>goes to the gym, So when he wakes up, he'll

853
00:36:11.360 --> 00:36:14.159
<v Speaker 3>turn the AC up to like seventy three seventy four,

854
00:36:14.239 --> 00:36:16.199
<v Speaker 3>so when I wake up and do stuff, it's like warmer.

855
00:36:16.480 --> 00:36:17.840
<v Speaker 3>And then he works from home, so he turns it

856
00:36:17.880 --> 00:36:19.519
<v Speaker 3>back down during the day, and then we have a

857
00:36:19.519 --> 00:36:21.400
<v Speaker 3>brief few hours in the afternoon when I come home.

858
00:36:21.440 --> 00:36:22.679
<v Speaker 3>So when I walk in the door, the house is

859
00:36:22.760 --> 00:36:25.199
<v Speaker 3>nice and warm, but then I'm also courteous before before

860
00:36:25.360 --> 00:36:26.760
<v Speaker 3>we go to bed, if I know like we're starting

861
00:36:26.760 --> 00:36:29.079
<v Speaker 3>to wind down, I'll crank it down to seventy so

862
00:36:29.159 --> 00:36:30.840
<v Speaker 3>I'll put on my sweater so I know he can

863
00:36:30.880 --> 00:36:32.719
<v Speaker 3>sleep like it's it's.

864
00:36:32.639 --> 00:36:34.760
<v Speaker 2>Just it's healthier to sleep in the call.

865
00:36:35.239 --> 00:36:36.199
<v Speaker 4>It's healthier. It's good.

866
00:36:36.280 --> 00:36:38.960
<v Speaker 2>John Stamos slips like fifty eight degrees. Look at how

867
00:36:39.000 --> 00:36:41.800
<v Speaker 2>good he looks. It's a better sleep. The sweets.

868
00:36:41.840 --> 00:36:43.119
<v Speaker 5>That's scientifically proven.

869
00:36:43.239 --> 00:36:46.119
<v Speaker 2>Yes, that you're supposed to your body if you'll have

870
00:36:46.159 --> 00:36:49.159
<v Speaker 2>a better sleep. Yeah, And your body's able to warm

871
00:36:49.199 --> 00:36:50.920
<v Speaker 2>you down to quite a few times. If you sleep

872
00:36:50.960 --> 00:36:52.480
<v Speaker 2>like sixty two sixty four, you're gonna have a better

873
00:36:52.480 --> 00:36:53.519
<v Speaker 2>sleep and you're gonna be healthier.

874
00:36:53.679 --> 00:36:54.119
<v Speaker 4>Ladies.

875
00:36:54.679 --> 00:36:56.880
<v Speaker 2>Interesting, you know you want me be cold and then

876
00:36:56.960 --> 00:36:58.480
<v Speaker 2>let me cuddle you and a lot of women, I

877
00:36:58.480 --> 00:36:59.280
<v Speaker 2>don't want to be cuddled.

878
00:36:59.320 --> 00:37:01.000
<v Speaker 4>Get away from me. I want my sleep thing.

879
00:37:01.239 --> 00:37:05.159
<v Speaker 2>So all right, in the interest of time, here, this

880
00:37:05.239 --> 00:37:06.960
<v Speaker 2>is the first time you've been on this podcast where

881
00:37:06.960 --> 00:37:08.920
<v Speaker 2>you can still play. This is your guys first time

882
00:37:08.960 --> 00:37:11.039
<v Speaker 2>on the podcast. Here the Great Love Debate. We play

883
00:37:11.079 --> 00:37:14.639
<v Speaker 2>something called worst date or first date, which means you

884
00:37:14.679 --> 00:37:16.679
<v Speaker 2>actually you have to give us either the worst date

885
00:37:16.679 --> 00:37:20.039
<v Speaker 2>you've ever been on or the greatest first date you've been.

886
00:37:19.920 --> 00:37:23.719
<v Speaker 4>On, your choice. Maggot first, think back to your swinging

887
00:37:23.760 --> 00:37:24.360
<v Speaker 4>single days.

888
00:37:25.159 --> 00:37:34.079
<v Speaker 3>Oh my goodness. Uh, greatest first date or worst date?

889
00:37:34.400 --> 00:37:35.840
<v Speaker 4>Your choice?

890
00:37:37.119 --> 00:37:38.400
<v Speaker 3>I think a really great first date.

891
00:37:38.440 --> 00:37:40.920
<v Speaker 4>Good for you. That's very hopeful. Share please.

892
00:37:42.920 --> 00:37:48.880
<v Speaker 3>Uh greatest first date was I was a lot more

893
00:37:48.880 --> 00:37:50.079
<v Speaker 3>free spirited.

894
00:37:49.920 --> 00:37:52.199
<v Speaker 2>And sluddy pilgrim.

895
00:37:52.280 --> 00:37:52.440
<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

896
00:37:52.440 --> 00:37:54.199
<v Speaker 3>I was much more like luster in the wind and

897
00:37:54.320 --> 00:37:58.199
<v Speaker 3>was not worried about caution. And I met someone and

898
00:37:58.519 --> 00:37:59.960
<v Speaker 3>I literally met them for a drink.

899
00:38:00.519 --> 00:38:00.599
<v Speaker 2>Uh.

900
00:38:01.039 --> 00:38:03.639
<v Speaker 3>They invited Like I met like on a dating site

901
00:38:03.719 --> 00:38:06.199
<v Speaker 3>or something forever ago, and they asked me to go

902
00:38:06.239 --> 00:38:08.039
<v Speaker 3>on a drink. We met on a drink and he's like,

903
00:38:08.119 --> 00:38:09.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm going on a trip tomorrow. Would you like to come?

904
00:38:10.039 --> 00:38:11.719
<v Speaker 3>And I was like, sure, first thing I did, very

905
00:38:11.719 --> 00:38:13.719
<v Speaker 3>first thing in the morning. He like, that night, send

906
00:38:13.719 --> 00:38:17.679
<v Speaker 3>me a ticket. We went to California. We stayed in

907
00:38:17.719 --> 00:38:19.400
<v Speaker 3>Malibu for like five days.

908
00:38:19.639 --> 00:38:22.639
<v Speaker 6>I'm for you, you felt comfortable with him, like just

909
00:38:22.679 --> 00:38:23.519
<v Speaker 6>the first day.

910
00:38:23.760 --> 00:38:26.639
<v Speaker 2>Listen to you, sugar dad. That's like half your dating stories.

911
00:38:27.760 --> 00:38:29.960
<v Speaker 3>Just like when I was like tomorrow, like you'll be ready,

912
00:38:30.039 --> 00:38:31.840
<v Speaker 3>like only I was like, I am either going by myself

913
00:38:31.880 --> 00:38:33.280
<v Speaker 3>or he was like, yeah, sure, I'm down, And I

914
00:38:33.320 --> 00:38:36.719
<v Speaker 3>was like, I think that audacity and like confidence. I

915
00:38:36.719 --> 00:38:37.559
<v Speaker 3>think that's what falls with.

916
00:38:37.719 --> 00:38:41.440
<v Speaker 2>A lot of like what happened after? Oh we were

917
00:38:42.519 --> 00:38:43.199
<v Speaker 2>so you dated?

918
00:38:43.599 --> 00:38:47.800
<v Speaker 3>We dated for We dated Everyone say in a relationship,

919
00:38:47.840 --> 00:38:49.679
<v Speaker 3>but we definitely dated for a while and then we

920
00:38:49.840 --> 00:38:52.320
<v Speaker 3>ended up. I think just in our personal lives just

921
00:38:52.320 --> 00:38:54.239
<v Speaker 3>beaking friends. Like we were super close. We were best

922
00:38:54.239 --> 00:38:55.960
<v Speaker 3>friends from about like two and a half three years.

923
00:38:56.199 --> 00:38:57.840
<v Speaker 3>So then he got into a serr spaceship that we

924
00:38:58.079 --> 00:38:59.679
<v Speaker 3>good for you, but we yeat.

925
00:39:00.000 --> 00:39:01.400
<v Speaker 2>The problem with those is first dates and I'm just

926
00:39:01.480 --> 00:39:03.480
<v Speaker 2>saying they're not is it's a little tough to sustain

927
00:39:03.559 --> 00:39:06.000
<v Speaker 2>that excitement. It's like, oh, we're just gonna go get

928
00:39:06.000 --> 00:39:07.639
<v Speaker 2>some ice cream. Now, last week we went to Malibu,

929
00:39:07.920 --> 00:39:10.280
<v Speaker 2>like you almost have, Like that's a pretty high bar

930
00:39:10.360 --> 00:39:12.039
<v Speaker 2>to top, but good for you. That is a good

931
00:39:12.039 --> 00:39:12.480
<v Speaker 2>first date.

932
00:39:12.760 --> 00:39:15.159
<v Speaker 3>Second best day was going to I went as an

933
00:39:15.159 --> 00:39:17.960
<v Speaker 3>anime character. I was at one of the conventions and

934
00:39:18.719 --> 00:39:20.360
<v Speaker 3>I didn't have time to go back and change out

935
00:39:20.400 --> 00:39:24.000
<v Speaker 3>of my little sexy whatever anime. I'm a con costume

936
00:39:24.039 --> 00:39:26.119
<v Speaker 3>and I literally came out on a date and a wig.

937
00:39:26.960 --> 00:39:30.280
<v Speaker 2>So wow, cruel Deville, there you go. Good for you,

938
00:39:30.800 --> 00:39:34.639
<v Speaker 2>all right, sugar Jay. First date, worst date or first date.

939
00:39:35.519 --> 00:39:37.599
<v Speaker 2>So this might not be a first first date, but

940
00:39:37.840 --> 00:39:41.400
<v Speaker 2>pretty close. I took a girl to BAMF in Canada

941
00:39:41.880 --> 00:39:43.760
<v Speaker 2>and we had a great day hiking, we spent I

942
00:39:43.880 --> 00:39:45.920
<v Speaker 2>felt really close to her and I felt like we

943
00:39:46.039 --> 00:39:48.679
<v Speaker 2>really bonded. And one of the last things we did

944
00:39:48.800 --> 00:39:49.559
<v Speaker 2>was went to a bar.

945
00:39:50.360 --> 00:39:52.800
<v Speaker 7>Some guy just random go at the bar, walks up

946
00:39:52.880 --> 00:39:56.000
<v Speaker 7>to probably her, not me, and says, you want to

947
00:39:56.039 --> 00:39:58.400
<v Speaker 7>come to a party, And she wanted to go to

948
00:39:58.480 --> 00:39:59.079
<v Speaker 7>the party.

949
00:39:59.079 --> 00:40:01.760
<v Speaker 6>And I wanted to go to bed and you know,

950
00:40:01.960 --> 00:40:02.960
<v Speaker 6>bed and other stuff, you know what.

951
00:40:03.639 --> 00:40:07.280
<v Speaker 7>So therefore I kind of just wanted to just not

952
00:40:07.559 --> 00:40:10.039
<v Speaker 7>go to this party, you know, and then it became

953
00:40:10.159 --> 00:40:14.199
<v Speaker 7>this big fight, and we went back to the hotel,

954
00:40:15.280 --> 00:40:18.840
<v Speaker 7>and after I went to sleep, she went out again.

955
00:40:19.679 --> 00:40:22.159
<v Speaker 7>And the only reason I found out was the next

956
00:40:22.320 --> 00:40:25.920
<v Speaker 7>day she left a sweater at either the guy's house

957
00:40:26.000 --> 00:40:28.800
<v Speaker 7>or the party or whatever. The guy brought it back,

958
00:40:29.360 --> 00:40:33.159
<v Speaker 7>left his number, and the concierge says like, oh, a

959
00:40:33.239 --> 00:40:36.159
<v Speaker 7>young man brought this, and and he left his number

960
00:40:36.280 --> 00:40:37.440
<v Speaker 7>for you in front of me.

961
00:40:38.440 --> 00:40:41.239
<v Speaker 2>To that, first of all, you must be a sound sleeper.

962
00:40:41.960 --> 00:40:44.159
<v Speaker 7>Well, we actually know. What happened was that we had

963
00:40:44.280 --> 00:40:47.159
<v Speaker 7>really bad sleep the first night together. We were both

964
00:40:47.199 --> 00:40:49.039
<v Speaker 7>tossing and turning. So I was like, you know what,

965
00:40:49.119 --> 00:40:50.400
<v Speaker 7>I'm just going to get a separate room, so we're

966
00:40:50.400 --> 00:40:52.039
<v Speaker 7>gonna both get a good night's sleep. So I went

967
00:40:52.079 --> 00:40:55.079
<v Speaker 7>to my room and so therefore I didn't know, you know,

968
00:40:55.119 --> 00:40:57.599
<v Speaker 7>it was so she never came into your room, No, no,

969
00:40:57.719 --> 00:40:59.920
<v Speaker 7>I Yeah. So yeah, we just bamped.

970
00:41:00.400 --> 00:41:02.960
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I like banff until then.

971
00:41:03.119 --> 00:41:05.039
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well the two rooms that'll cost you?

972
00:41:05.480 --> 00:41:07.880
<v Speaker 6>That did cost me if like four hundred dollars a night.

973
00:41:08.039 --> 00:41:10.480
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so no two rooms with Megan s male body.

974
00:41:10.639 --> 00:41:13.840
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, but yeah, but that was that was that really

975
00:41:13.960 --> 00:41:15.400
<v Speaker 6>stun just because.

976
00:41:16.119 --> 00:41:17.840
<v Speaker 4>She wasn't that tired from the night before.

977
00:41:18.360 --> 00:41:21.880
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, exactly exactly. She had ry I know, you pooped out.

978
00:41:21.960 --> 00:41:24.280
<v Speaker 2>I can't really blame her on her side on this one.

979
00:41:24.880 --> 00:41:28.639
<v Speaker 5>The crazy thing is this just happened. Yeah, this is fresh,

980
00:41:28.800 --> 00:41:30.599
<v Speaker 5>and here she is, Oh.

981
00:41:30.559 --> 00:41:31.519
<v Speaker 2>This just happened.

982
00:41:31.760 --> 00:41:33.039
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it kind of stings.

983
00:41:33.079 --> 00:41:37.079
<v Speaker 4>But I mean, was she a sugar yeah, oh yeah yeah?

984
00:41:37.159 --> 00:41:37.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

985
00:41:37.559 --> 00:41:40.719
<v Speaker 7>So she was paid you paid for for no, I mean,

986
00:41:40.760 --> 00:41:43.519
<v Speaker 7>I I covered her costs and I don't know that

987
00:41:43.960 --> 00:41:46.280
<v Speaker 7>we didn't have anything worked out specifically for the trip.

988
00:41:47.000 --> 00:41:48.800
<v Speaker 7>So but there were a lot of like long term

989
00:41:48.960 --> 00:41:50.480
<v Speaker 7>kind of potential promises.

990
00:41:50.239 --> 00:41:52.840
<v Speaker 2>So there's no expectations on the trip. There's no negotiation

991
00:41:53.480 --> 00:41:55.039
<v Speaker 2>like you will sleep in my room for an extra

992
00:41:55.159 --> 00:41:57.400
<v Speaker 2>five hundred Is that a thing?

993
00:41:57.559 --> 00:41:59.880
<v Speaker 5>Or that he had already given her like a monthly allow?

994
00:42:00.360 --> 00:42:01.400
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, exactly.

995
00:42:01.760 --> 00:42:04.199
<v Speaker 7>She she I felt she was pretty much taken care

996
00:42:04.239 --> 00:42:06.239
<v Speaker 7>of in a big way, you know. I mean I

997
00:42:06.280 --> 00:42:08.440
<v Speaker 7>think I think that you know, she just didn't really

998
00:42:08.679 --> 00:42:10.159
<v Speaker 7>understand how it all worked.

999
00:42:10.159 --> 00:42:13.480
<v Speaker 4>I guess, so in some sense you needed to find

1000
00:42:13.519 --> 00:42:14.360
<v Speaker 4>print in the brochure.

1001
00:42:14.880 --> 00:42:17.960
<v Speaker 5>So ask him what the age gap? Well, on this one,

1002
00:42:18.119 --> 00:42:19.039
<v Speaker 5>was was the age gap?

1003
00:42:19.199 --> 00:42:19.840
<v Speaker 4>I don't know how old.

1004
00:42:20.039 --> 00:42:22.760
<v Speaker 5>I got to do the math here twenty two versus

1005
00:42:22.960 --> 00:42:24.679
<v Speaker 5>fifty fifty.

1006
00:42:24.400 --> 00:42:28.719
<v Speaker 6>Two, thirty thirty years about thirty?

1007
00:42:28.880 --> 00:42:30.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what are you doing?

1008
00:42:31.480 --> 00:42:32.519
<v Speaker 3>What you do?

1009
00:42:33.400 --> 00:42:35.360
<v Speaker 2>You could find somebody just like her who is really

1010
00:42:35.440 --> 00:42:37.119
<v Speaker 2>cute forty y cute.

1011
00:42:37.119 --> 00:42:38.559
<v Speaker 6>Okay, he's really fair enough.

1012
00:42:38.639 --> 00:42:40.559
<v Speaker 7>And I guess the other guy thought so well, I

1013
00:42:40.599 --> 00:42:43.000
<v Speaker 7>got you know, I learned my lesson too, so it's

1014
00:42:43.280 --> 00:42:45.840
<v Speaker 7>maybe it's not a good idea to to date somebody

1015
00:42:45.920 --> 00:42:46.719
<v Speaker 7>is super young, you know.

1016
00:42:47.519 --> 00:42:49.079
<v Speaker 1>But that was that.

1017
00:42:49.239 --> 00:42:51.239
<v Speaker 7>I mean, that was definitely one of the worst, just

1018
00:42:51.320 --> 00:42:55.440
<v Speaker 7>because I felt that I had done everything to bring

1019
00:42:55.480 --> 00:42:59.079
<v Speaker 7>her here, given her a really nice experience, and then

1020
00:42:59.159 --> 00:43:01.280
<v Speaker 7>she felt that she needed to like just.

1021
00:43:03.519 --> 00:43:05.719
<v Speaker 2>She's twenty two. She doesn't need to sleep like you,

1022
00:43:05.800 --> 00:43:08.199
<v Speaker 2>old man. Apparently, Nah, you got to know your demo?

1023
00:43:08.400 --> 00:43:09.679
<v Speaker 2>All right, Marcus, what do you got?

1024
00:43:10.760 --> 00:43:13.199
<v Speaker 5>Let's see, I've told this a couple of times, so

1025
00:43:13.280 --> 00:43:15.599
<v Speaker 5>I'll get you a new one. This one's pretty crazy.

1026
00:43:15.840 --> 00:43:20.280
<v Speaker 5>I met a girl on the dating site Sugar dating site.

1027
00:43:20.719 --> 00:43:24.039
<v Speaker 5>We had sushi. She's like, yeah, I want to go

1028
00:43:24.119 --> 00:43:27.000
<v Speaker 5>back to your place. I'm like, abs so fucking loly.

1029
00:43:27.880 --> 00:43:29.480
<v Speaker 2>So we go and.

1030
00:43:30.960 --> 00:43:34.400
<v Speaker 5>We're we has a few more drinks, and we started

1031
00:43:34.480 --> 00:43:37.960
<v Speaker 5>kind of messing around, and her phone rings and she says,

1032
00:43:38.119 --> 00:43:40.920
<v Speaker 5>oh my god, my driver is out front and he

1033
00:43:41.000 --> 00:43:42.440
<v Speaker 5>needs to go to the restroom. Can he come in

1034
00:43:42.559 --> 00:43:45.039
<v Speaker 5>and use the restroom? Like your driver?

1035
00:43:45.880 --> 00:43:45.920
<v Speaker 1>What?

1036
00:43:46.280 --> 00:43:49.159
<v Speaker 5>How does he even know where you are? She oh,

1037
00:43:49.239 --> 00:43:51.679
<v Speaker 5>he has my location all times, and don't worry. He's

1038
00:43:51.719 --> 00:43:56.159
<v Speaker 5>my gay best friend. Okay, come on it. So he

1039
00:43:56.280 --> 00:43:58.920
<v Speaker 5>came in used the restauran. We're in the master bedroom

1040
00:43:59.039 --> 00:44:01.639
<v Speaker 5>and he used the restroom in there. And She's get

1041
00:44:01.760 --> 00:44:05.199
<v Speaker 5>pretty inebriated at this point, and so he comes out

1042
00:44:05.239 --> 00:44:07.880
<v Speaker 5>and he's not. He's feeling awkward already. She tries pulling

1043
00:44:07.960 --> 00:44:11.880
<v Speaker 5>him in bed with us. Oh, I'm like, oh, well wait, wait, wait,

1044
00:44:12.199 --> 00:44:14.960
<v Speaker 5>hold on, you know it's it's fine.

1045
00:44:15.000 --> 00:44:15.440
<v Speaker 2>I just don't.

1046
00:44:15.480 --> 00:44:17.920
<v Speaker 5>I don't. I'm not ready for this, right. So anyway,

1047
00:44:18.400 --> 00:44:21.440
<v Speaker 5>they start talking, they get up, they go in the garage.

1048
00:44:21.519 --> 00:44:23.440
<v Speaker 5>They goes, hey, can I smoke a cigarette? I'm like, well,

1049
00:44:23.719 --> 00:44:25.440
<v Speaker 5>just go in the garage. So they're in there for

1050
00:44:25.559 --> 00:44:28.239
<v Speaker 5>like twenty minutes. I'm laying in bed, going all right,

1051
00:44:28.320 --> 00:44:30.800
<v Speaker 5>this is not sexy. I'm not around. I just this

1052
00:44:31.000 --> 00:44:34.400
<v Speaker 5>is not going well. So she comes back in he

1053
00:44:34.599 --> 00:44:38.440
<v Speaker 5>sits out in the living room. She starts trying to

1054
00:44:38.440 --> 00:44:40.199
<v Speaker 5>get into it. I'm not into it. She gets all

1055
00:44:40.280 --> 00:44:43.159
<v Speaker 5>mad and leaves in a huff and a puff, and

1056
00:44:43.239 --> 00:44:46.280
<v Speaker 5>she leaves her Jimmy Chew shoes there. I didn't know

1057
00:44:46.559 --> 00:44:49.840
<v Speaker 5>how much they were worth, but anyway, apparently those were

1058
00:44:50.159 --> 00:44:53.039
<v Speaker 5>quite expensive, and she asked if she could come get

1059
00:44:53.079 --> 00:44:56.360
<v Speaker 5>them back, and I said, yeah, I already walked around him.

1060
00:44:56.360 --> 00:44:58.320
<v Speaker 5>They're not my size, so I gave them back to her.

1061
00:44:59.119 --> 00:45:00.920
<v Speaker 2>Uh, but yeah, that sucks.

1062
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<v Speaker 5>That was a little interesting. So yeah, come on, guys,

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<v Speaker 5>get together crazy anyway, I've got crazy stories, but some

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<v Speaker 5>of them I don't know they'd be appropriate for this show.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Well, where can people find your inappropriate show?

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<v Speaker 5>Secrets of a Sugar Daddy. Uh, we're on all the

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<v Speaker 5>all the podcast players and uh, you can find us

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<v Speaker 5>a Secrets of a Sugar Daddy dot com. We've got

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<v Speaker 5>a big party coming up you might even want to attend.

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<v Speaker 5>We call it Sugarpalooza. And Brian knows about those and

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<v Speaker 5>they are a lot of fun. He thinks they're swinger

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<v Speaker 5>p loosers, but that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Not what they are.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what they are.

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<v Speaker 5>Sugar sugar Daddy Jay over here. Has been quite a

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<v Speaker 5>few there. They're actually quite almost life changing. People have

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<v Speaker 5>great experiences and it's just like minded people coming together

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<v Speaker 5>to celebrate a fun weekend. So you're interested in finding

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<v Speaker 5>out more about that, go to our website.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, you need to register sugar Daddy Jay dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>There you go. If somebody wants you use their sugar

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00:45:57.760 --> 00:45:59.880
<v Speaker 2>daddy where they find you just Google.

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<v Speaker 5>They could contact me exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>Reach out to Marcus.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'll pass on his number. Actually, I've had quite

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<v Speaker 5>a few people because sugar Daddy Jay is. He's generous,

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00:46:10.719 --> 00:46:12.880
<v Speaker 5>he's fun to be around. He's just a super nice guy.

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<v Speaker 7>Here you go, and I've met some really great both

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00:46:16.159 --> 00:46:18.719
<v Speaker 7>women as well as good friends because.

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<v Speaker 6>Of Marcus, and I really appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we have a fun little community. It's it's actually

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<v Speaker 5>unlike anything you would think it would be. It's it's

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<v Speaker 5>super close and friendly and honest, and everybody really enjoys

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<v Speaker 5>each other.

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<v Speaker 2>So I cash on the nightstand.

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<v Speaker 1>Well.

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<v Speaker 7>Also the fact that, like, because this particular segment of

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<v Speaker 7>dating is so tabooed, you know, many of us don't

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<v Speaker 7>feel comfortable telling even our family about it. So but

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<v Speaker 7>when you find other people that are also on the

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<v Speaker 7>same path, with the same struggles and the same kind

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<v Speaker 7>of like you know, issues, and then you have this

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00:46:56.719 --> 00:47:00.360
<v Speaker 7>community you really bondt to them because they're there are

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00:47:00.400 --> 00:47:03.039
<v Speaker 7>people that you can actually trust, that you can actually

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<v Speaker 7>be feel that you can express yourself without feeling judged

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<v Speaker 7>about it.

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<v Speaker 6>And and I think that's how like really like halloweens,

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<v Speaker 6>you know it is.

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<v Speaker 2>No, there are people looking for alternative paths to happiness

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<v Speaker 2>relationships all the time. I'm a little bit probably too

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<v Speaker 2>old fashioned for you guys, but hey, you asked me

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<v Speaker 2>one times, like you have a.

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<v Speaker 4>Girlfriend and I go, yeah, and you're like, she costs

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of money. I go sometimes and you're like,

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<v Speaker 4>you're a sugar daddy.

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<v Speaker 3>Isn't that the saying now? Or you see it all

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00:47:30.199 --> 00:47:32.519
<v Speaker 3>over the internet. It's like all women are expensive. Just

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<v Speaker 3>pick one in your tax bracket.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yes, I think you're right, Megan.

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<v Speaker 4>You got a podcast starting up soon, I hear.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, oh really, yes, we'll be starting the new podcast

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<v Speaker 3>Hot or Not here at the pod Populace Hot or Not,

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<v Speaker 3>Hot or Not. Yes, you'll be on Marcus.

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<v Speaker 5>Really yes, Well you have to come on my show

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<v Speaker 5>and tell us all about it for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we'll be talking about all the hot topics and

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00:47:54.480 --> 00:47:57.239
<v Speaker 3>anything interesting going on and things not so hot or

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00:47:57.360 --> 00:47:59.760
<v Speaker 3>like that. We need to bring some more awareness to

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<v Speaker 3>so good.

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<v Speaker 4>I like that, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh, you guys were great as far as us and

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<v Speaker 2>the letters, we got a whole bunch. Fall is sort

1133
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<v Speaker 2>of a looked at us, sort of a dead season,

1134
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<v Speaker 2>but you guys were able to hit the bullseye on

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<v Speaker 2>that as far as us like share, follow, Please review

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<v Speaker 2>Seekers of a Sugar Daddy as well as this podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>After five hundred episodes of this your podcast, your reviews

1138
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<v Speaker 2>still mean a lot in the podcasting ecosystem. Shoot me

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<v Speaker 2>an email Great Love Debate at gmail dot com if

1140
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<v Speaker 2>you've got something to say. And I was teasing you

1141
00:48:28.360 --> 00:48:30.039
<v Speaker 2>guys a couple weeks ago thinking that I've got the

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<v Speaker 2>itch health permitting if you listen to that podcast to

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<v Speaker 2>do some live shows again and some venues are calling

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<v Speaker 2>to me, I'm thinking about it.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll just say I'm thinking about it because so go.

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<v Speaker 2>To Great Love Debate dot com and if I think

1147
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<v Speaker 2>about it harder, you'll see tour dates on there. Because,

1148
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<v Speaker 2>as always at the Great Love Debate.

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<v Speaker 4>We never stopped making love to see you next time.

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<v Speaker 1>The Great Love Debate. If the Great Love Debate the

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<v Speaker 3>Gring loved be, it's the gring loved to be