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<v Speaker 1>Whoo. What's up, beautiful people?

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<v Speaker 2>Is your baby mama, favorite baby Mama, Stormy Pee And

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<v Speaker 2>this is another episode of Chocolate Chip and Sip the

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<v Speaker 2>modern day female perspective. Damn Son back at it again,

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<v Speaker 2>and y'all were back.

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<v Speaker 1>In the living room.

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<v Speaker 2>As you guys can see, same message applies. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>still keep my guys Shied and his family in your

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<v Speaker 2>prayers and shen't keep mind in there too, because the

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<v Speaker 2>life and life and and that little hold guy hands.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know, we here and we still getting it done,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know the vibes and that's it. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>shout out to everybody on life tapping in. Hello, I

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<v Speaker 2>see Jersey in the building. That's what's up. That's what's up, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>I got a few things I want to talk to

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<v Speaker 2>you all about today, and some of it may come

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<v Speaker 2>as a surprise to you, others not so much.

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<v Speaker 1>But we're family. It is what it is, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh. First, I'm not gonna lie, y'all. This is my

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<v Speaker 2>first Valentine's Day, not having a Valentine.

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<v Speaker 1>In like three maybe four years.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the first time I do not have a

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<v Speaker 2>Valentine in like three maybe four years.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not gonna hold you. It's not that bad.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not that bad. I'm not gonna it's not that bad.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like y'all was adding a little bit of

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<v Speaker 2>sauce on it. Okay, y'all was adding a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>of sauce on it. Y'all made it seem like it

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<v Speaker 2>was the end of the world.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't like that. I don't like that for us.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean like I was prepared.

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<v Speaker 2>I stocked up on my ice cream, I charged my rose, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I was prepared to go to work on my rest feet.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I was prepared.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, y'all made it seem like this shit was

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<v Speaker 2>the dumps, Like, oh, leading up to it, the commercials

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<v Speaker 2>are gonna get you, the candy gonna get you.

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<v Speaker 1>The retail, the shopping, everything is selling.

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<v Speaker 2>No I I I haven't really been experiencing that. I

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<v Speaker 2>it's still early, it's still early in the month, so

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<v Speaker 2>maybe that's why.

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<v Speaker 1>But honestly, I think that.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe because I've become so like comfortable in my solitude,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not really phased.

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<v Speaker 1>By like not having a Valentine, Like it's just mum,

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<v Speaker 1>do I want one? Guess? But am I gonna be heartbroken. No,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm not going on.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I said, I prep for it like a doomsday

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<v Speaker 2>like preparer, like I was ready.

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<v Speaker 1>I was really ready, like I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was prepared, like I had a fire Netflix playlist set up,

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<v Speaker 2>like hours prepared to be locked in. Like it's just

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<v Speaker 2>hm hm, I.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I think I'm just.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh oh on top of me being a doomsday preparer,

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<v Speaker 2>a doomsday prepper, okay, because y'all know I'm a doomsday proper.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's just really not that bad. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me look.

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<v Speaker 2>Blessed Bodies Fitness said, do you want to be my

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<v Speaker 2>Valentine or not? Honestly, that's what I'm gonna do when

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<v Speaker 2>Valentine's say, I'm just gonna go to the gym and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just gonna walk up to Nick.

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<v Speaker 1>Like do you want to be with Valentime or not?

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<v Speaker 2>And we'll see what happens. The real Goldie says, you

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<v Speaker 2>can be alone and not be lonely. That's where growth happens.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel that.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like that's where I am for sure, Like

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<v Speaker 2>that's a good point. I think you're right, like you

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<v Speaker 2>could be alone and not be lonely, and I think

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<v Speaker 2>that's where I am. Monsieur Humble says, I swear that

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<v Speaker 2>is the story of most single women. I'm just comfortable

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<v Speaker 2>in my solitude. It is like bro y'all already know,

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<v Speaker 2>like in the house be lit, it's free alcohol, the

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<v Speaker 2>snacks is fire, Okay, crime rate is low. I say

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<v Speaker 2>this all the time, and the house is lit. But

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<v Speaker 2>I do acknowledge that we have to start going outside. People,

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<v Speaker 2>all my house people. We have to start going outside, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So this isn't advocating for insightness, and I know people outside,

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<v Speaker 2>but we do.

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<v Speaker 1>Have to start going outside, okay. So that's that.

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<v Speaker 2>Saint Inciner eighty nine says, in the words of the

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<v Speaker 2>Greek kung Fu Kenny, we gonna be all right. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>cracking up. Tie Grind says, don't electrocute yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Q just chillin. View says hit them with the batman?

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<v Speaker 2>Where are they?

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<v Speaker 1>That might be a good one. That that might be

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<v Speaker 1>a good one.

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<v Speaker 2>Mike Kennessey two five says, what about doing a Valentine's

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<v Speaker 2>Day podcast? Oh, like a live or like a live show?

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<v Speaker 2>A live show is like a little bit too late

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<v Speaker 2>to try to put that together.

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<v Speaker 1>For right now. But I can't go live.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all want to bring y'all snacks and like y'all can

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<v Speaker 2>hop on and hop off.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I will do that. That's a good idea.

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<v Speaker 2>Mike Kennessey, I'm gonna hit you U because I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>have to get you on here too.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, dj A cl.

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<v Speaker 2>One, Fine Tree Boys, says VDA pressing Ninjas, the bench

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<v Speaker 2>pressing at the gym is wild.

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<v Speaker 1>We pressing each other. That's it. I don't see what

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<v Speaker 1>the problem is.

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<v Speaker 2>Kai Nyc says nothing wrong with being in solitude, work

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<v Speaker 2>for Batman and Superman. Y'all just get on my nerves

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<v Speaker 2>so bad. The real Goldie says, as a man Valentine,

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<v Speaker 2>it is only worth it for me if she's my lady,

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<v Speaker 2>not some random Yeah. Man, I hope, I hope y'all

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<v Speaker 2>not out here getting Valentine's just random women. We're not

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<v Speaker 2>doing that this year. We're better than that. We're better

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<v Speaker 2>than that. Women and men. We're better than that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>we're better than that. So I want to go into

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<v Speaker 2>some of the things that are key and also might

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<v Speaker 2>add to me not having Valentine. I know that you

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<v Speaker 2>know the standards and the boundaries. They little sick when

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<v Speaker 2>it comes to me. Okay, y'all know, I want to

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<v Speaker 2>go talk to the ladies. So she told me how

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<v Speaker 2>to enforce them hose right, she told me how to

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<v Speaker 2>enforce them boundaries and them standards.

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<v Speaker 1>So I wanted to talk to y'all a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>about what I've learned. Okay, what's been keeping me single?

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<v Speaker 1>But it's not a bad thing.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not a bad thing. I'm laughing about it because

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I ain't got no common sense.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's not always a bad thing. Right. So the

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<v Speaker 1>first thing is.

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<v Speaker 2>And this is a real big one, this is a real,

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<v Speaker 2>real big one. From the bottom of my heart, I

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<v Speaker 2>want to say, I don't match energy. I'm not her,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not her. You have some people like you start

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<v Speaker 2>acting weird, I'm gonna act weirder.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm not no, I'm not okay, And I mean

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<v Speaker 2>they're from the bottom of my heart.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't match energy. You can either meet my standards

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<v Speaker 1>or you can leave. That's it. That's it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't match energy. You can either meet my standards

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<v Speaker 2>or you can leave. Oh fit doesn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, goodbye, goodbye. That's it. That's it.

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<v Speaker 2>The real Goldie says, oh, y'are STI talking about Valentine's secon.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, man, I'm not with that.

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<v Speaker 2>Like we often hear people say, oh, sometimes you got

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<v Speaker 2>to meet people where they are and the trash because

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<v Speaker 2>I can't meet there. I can't be there, I can't

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<v Speaker 2>meet you there. You better give Oscar to Grouch my

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<v Speaker 2>condolences because maybe I'm never going. I'm never going. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>never going to the trash like just that. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to do that. I don't want to do that,

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<v Speaker 2>And the main reason is because, like bro, I'm a

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<v Speaker 2>lover girl. If I like being romantic, I like being

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<v Speaker 2>touchy feely, I like communicating with you. I like being

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<v Speaker 2>able to reciprocate and plan and pay for dates. I

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<v Speaker 2>like showing you how much I'm meant to you, how

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<v Speaker 2>much I care, like I like acting like I like you.

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<v Speaker 2>Why would I stop doing what I want to do

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<v Speaker 2>because you acting stupid?

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<v Speaker 1>Do that make sense? Use your comment sense?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that makes sense to you? Does that make sense

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<v Speaker 2>to you? Because it don't make sense to me. I

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<v Speaker 2>never understood why people wanted to match energy. He acting weird,

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<v Speaker 2>so why I'm gonna act weirder? No allowed to No,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not, I am not. I am not. Like that

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<v Speaker 2>never made sense to me. Like, I feel like matching

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<v Speaker 2>your energy shouldn't cost me my happiness, and if it does,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't make sense.

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<v Speaker 2>Why would I do that when I can find somebody

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<v Speaker 2>who's going to match my energy and meet me where

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<v Speaker 2>I am Like, that don't make sense. It don't make

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<v Speaker 2>sense at all. Ty Die Grind says, it's not a

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<v Speaker 2>lick of sense. Thomas Paying two one to five says,

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<v Speaker 2>because they're already looking to leave the real Goaldie says,

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<v Speaker 2>if she's acting, I'm leaving her alone.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the truth.

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<v Speaker 2>Nine four says that's some little kid logic, like why

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<v Speaker 2>just walk away the fuck?

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<v Speaker 1>I agree? I agree.

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<v Speaker 2>Tie that Grand says, I'm done picking up trash.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm dying pigging up trash. I know that's right.

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<v Speaker 2>You no longer work for the city, my guy. We

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<v Speaker 2>done nigging up trash? Yes, yes, hold on, y'all gotta

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<v Speaker 2>scroll back down. Mike Kennessey says, I want to be

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<v Speaker 2>as clingy as Mufasa and Scar.

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<v Speaker 1>I always wanted the brother. I'm crying. I'm crying. Yo,

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<v Speaker 1>Why are y'all like this? I am, I'm done. I'm done, but.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree, though I agree, I always wanted the brother

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<v Speaker 2>that song slap a little bit, I ain't gonna want you,

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<v Speaker 2>but no, like I just always had the mindset of, like,

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<v Speaker 2>why would I lower my frequency when I can find

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<v Speaker 2>somebody who matches my greatness? And it's not that hard.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, like they exist. It's just a matter of

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<v Speaker 2>putting your energy into the right person. And that's just

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm all all about right now. I'm the truth

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<v Speaker 2>now four says, Long Live the King. The real Goldie says,

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<v Speaker 2>when I feel like dating again, I'm coming to atl

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<v Speaker 2>and taking story p out well good luck because I

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<v Speaker 2>don't live in atl So, but that's not like uncommon.

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<v Speaker 2>I have been hearing that, Like people think I live

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<v Speaker 2>in Atlanta or Chicago.

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<v Speaker 1>I live in Philly. But you know, thank you, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be waiting TI do.

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<v Speaker 2>Grind says, I'll be wanting my woman in my skin,

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<v Speaker 2>like see the phil see it helf aw big dog,

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<v Speaker 2>see it's helf, how big dog see yourself?

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<v Speaker 1>See you. I'm sick of y'all. I'm sick y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>So another thing that really be like hindering me from

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<v Speaker 2>getting past, like the texting or the talking, or like

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<v Speaker 2>the first few date phases.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, I don't fuck with mixed signals. Don't fuck with

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<v Speaker 1>mixed signals. I don't. I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't entertain mixed signals because the men who want

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<v Speaker 2>you act like it. Thank you for coming to my

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<v Speaker 1>That's it. That's all it is. That's all it is.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't entertain mixed signals because the men who like

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<v Speaker 2>you act like it.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I know.

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<v Speaker 2>Such a novel concept, right, such a novel concept. And

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<v Speaker 2>don't get me wrong, there's also a difference between men

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<v Speaker 2>who like you and men who actually want to pursue you, right,

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<v Speaker 2>because a man can look at you and be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>she's attractive, she has some things going for herself. I

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<v Speaker 2>in the back of their mind, I don't have the

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<v Speaker 2>do that. So it's like, yeah, just going to make

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<v Speaker 2>start time for a little bit cool. Not mine, not mine,

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<v Speaker 2>not mine. Ty Die Ground says, one more time for

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<v Speaker 2>those in the back. Big Cat fifty says, why do

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<v Speaker 2>women say they don't like small talk, Like how am

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<v Speaker 2>good at small talk, And honestly, I'll say that period,

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<v Speaker 2>everyone isn't good at small talk. So you can be

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<v Speaker 2>a really good person to have a conversation with in person,

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<v Speaker 2>but through text, your small talk is ass and it's

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<v Speaker 2>like it's a it's a it's a talent, for sure,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a talent, for sure. The real Goldie says, attention

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't equal interest, and interest doesn't equal value. That is fire,

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<v Speaker 2>that is fire. Especially, attention doesn't equal interests for sure,

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<v Speaker 2>for sure, for sure, for sure, Like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I want clarity, not confusion.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I need. That's what I need.

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<v Speaker 2>You gotta dumb it for me. Make a clear big dog.

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<v Speaker 2>I need to be able to see right through it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't need no cloudy skies, no nothing. I need

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<v Speaker 2>clear skies all the way through, all the way through.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, I personally feel like, if you want me,

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<v Speaker 2>you'll be on my line more than them people trying

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<v Speaker 2>to extend my car warranty.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, and you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know it, you know it that that's the attention I like. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>if you want me. You need to be on my

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<v Speaker 2>line more than the people trying to extend.

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<v Speaker 1>My car warranty.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's the attention I want. That's the attention I need. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's that's how I know the interest is there?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh trying? Okay, Okay, I'm here for it. This is

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<v Speaker 1>a thing. We can do this, We can get busy

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<v Speaker 1>with this. I can work with that. But all add

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<v Speaker 1>some tiny hot and cold. One day I'm blowing you up.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I ghost you for three days. Not for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want it. Not for me. I don't want it.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't deal with that.

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<v Speaker 2>Because at the end of the day, like, if he's interested,

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<v Speaker 2>he will plan dates, he will show effort.

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<v Speaker 1>Men are simple creatures.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't need no rule book or playbook or try

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<v Speaker 2>to figure out if he likes you were not. The

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<v Speaker 2>mixed signals mean it's not what you think it is.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>Eternal.

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<v Speaker 2>Sincere, says Bill collector Energy. Yes, I need that Bill

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<v Speaker 2>collector energy. I need that Bill collector energy. Yes, ambitiously says.

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<v Speaker 1>Bring back simping.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's bring back acting like you like people, Like when

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<v Speaker 2>did that stop becoming a thing?

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<v Speaker 1>All that cortshit ain't for me. It ain't for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Just Mike Major says, dudes have too many options, especially

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<v Speaker 2>black men and Philly. You ain't never lied. I really

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<v Speaker 2>think that is the problem. Like I think that and

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<v Speaker 2>I won't say the problem. I think that the issue

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<v Speaker 2>is supply and demand, and unfortunately men have figuredured out the.

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<v Speaker 1>Supply and demand.

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<v Speaker 2>So like, you have to maintain your standards and your

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<v Speaker 2>boundaries to get what you want or else you as

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<v Speaker 2>fine as they are, as established as they are, they

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<v Speaker 2>could still be the bottom of the motherfucker barrel when

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<v Speaker 2>it comes to getting what you want. So like, you

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<v Speaker 2>really have to stick firm to your standards and boundaries.

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<v Speaker 2>Site now absolutely absolutely.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on.

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<v Speaker 2>Mike Kennessey says, I'm not simple. I'm too inquired and

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<v Speaker 2>smart to be simple. If you like a woman, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>sure you know how to express that you like a woman.

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<v Speaker 1>Very simple in that nature.

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<v Speaker 2>The Shan Gatewood said, I'm trying to get my situation

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<v Speaker 2>to act right. Tell let a hurry up because Valentine's

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<v Speaker 2>coming up. You ain't got time to play. Tell her

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<v Speaker 2>her competition is on the line, Act right, Okay, Supplying demand.

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<v Speaker 1>We just talked about this.

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<v Speaker 2>Ambitiously said like, damn, I gotta act tough for my girl.

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<v Speaker 2>That's crazy and Cordy, Yes, yes, I agree, one thousand percent, but.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean going back to what I was saying, like,

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<v Speaker 2>if he's interested, he's going to plan dates, he's going

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<v Speaker 2>to text.

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<v Speaker 1>You and genuinely act like you're the best part of

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<v Speaker 1>his day.

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<v Speaker 2>And if he isn't, you're not. And that's cool. That's

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<v Speaker 2>not enough for me, but that's cool. It's cool for somebody,

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<v Speaker 2>but not me. Damn, my clip is coming out.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, hold on, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Look, we just gonna do that right fast, because I

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<v Speaker 2>don't feel like taking that out.

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<v Speaker 1>Lord Fitness one says, I just canceled my Valentine's plans

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<v Speaker 1>because she'd be playing. I love that for you, King.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that for you, King, And I'm gonna be real.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're black and you have some goal for yourselves,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not gonna take much fun. Another one, I know,

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<v Speaker 2>I know this is bad. I know this is bad.

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<v Speaker 2>I know it's not what the wom I'm gonna want

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<v Speaker 2>to hear. But from the bottom of my heart, if

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<v Speaker 2>you like him and he acts like he likes you,

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<v Speaker 2>act right okay, because there are more options.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all I'm saying. That's all I'm saying, Malika that

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<v Speaker 1>Leah says.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been doing a lot of listening and not argument

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<v Speaker 2>in preparation for Valentine's Say.

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<v Speaker 1>This is what I want to hear. Yes, Sys, Yes, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>And I hope you get everything that you are looking

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<v Speaker 2>for on Valentine's Say, because you deserve it, that type

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<v Speaker 2>of behavior, you deserve it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, do your part.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm talking to see this woman gets it. Yes, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>and yes, I love this for you. I hope he

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<v Speaker 2>buy you a new car, syst a pony, a big

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<v Speaker 2>old Doberman, whatever you want.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I hope.

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<v Speaker 2>He gets it for you one thousand percent. So the

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<v Speaker 2>last thing I want to talk about, as far as

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<v Speaker 2>you know, the hinderance, and it kind of ties into

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<v Speaker 2>what we've been talking about so far.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really.

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<v Speaker 2>Now there's this cool thing to do with the young kids,

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<v Speaker 2>it's okay where they'll text you frequently for like, or

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<v Speaker 2>call you frequently or like engage with you frequently for

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<v Speaker 2>like two weeks and then they like could take a

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<v Speaker 2>holiday and just go like three four days without hitting

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<v Speaker 2>you up.

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<v Speaker 1>At all. What I'm confused. I'm confused.

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<v Speaker 2>We've been talking consistently for two weeks. Why is are

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<v Speaker 2>we now taking a break? You didn't even put in

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<v Speaker 2>your PTO.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm confused.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you request time off because I didn't see anything

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<v Speaker 2>in the calendar? Did you put into the app? I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't see it. I didn't see it. I didn't seek it.

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<v Speaker 2>Like thinking you can go more than three d's without

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<v Speaker 2>hitting me up?

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<v Speaker 1>Me?

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<v Speaker 2>Me, thinking you can go more than three days without

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<v Speaker 2>hitting me up?

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<v Speaker 1>Baby?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I have a very very firm ghosting policy. M h,

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<v Speaker 2>no nonsense. I have a very no nonsense ghosting dating policy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I do.

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<v Speaker 2>After three days, you get a no call, no show,

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<v Speaker 2>and you are terminated from the company.

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<v Speaker 1>Good luck on your journey. Good luck on your journey. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>three three three.

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<v Speaker 2>And the reason I say three is because if you

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<v Speaker 2>go more than three days without hit me up, that

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<v Speaker 2>means I'm not in your top three rotation.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I'm gold, but you're trying to tell me I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not even a bronze. What ain't no way, bro? But

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<v Speaker 1>ain't no way, ain't no way, ain't no way.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on one second, let me go back then, sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>happy in stormy PDMS without a three day break.

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<v Speaker 1>The boys, then Philly better get it together. I'm cracking up. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>The gold Moan says, Big Sob. Three strikes and you're out.

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<v Speaker 1>Fret strength, send your out. I agree. I agree.

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<v Speaker 2>Three days it's not gonna do it for me. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not gonna do it for me. And don't get me wrong,

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<v Speaker 2>I know we're all adults. I know we're all busy,

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<v Speaker 2>we all have our own things going on. But it

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<v Speaker 2>takes two seconds to say that. And my whole thing is,

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<v Speaker 2>if you can sit down and binge watch Night Agent

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<v Speaker 2>in one day, you can't text me and say you

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<v Speaker 2>got something going on and you're gonna hit me tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>You can.

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<v Speaker 2>You're choosing not to, okay, which is why we're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>have to let you go from the company.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna go in a different direction. Thank you, good

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<v Speaker 1>luck for your journey. That's it. That's it. Deuces Club

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<v Speaker 1>says three days no contact is very fair. I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree.

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<v Speaker 2>Tydee Grind says if we emotion the breaks, don't get hit.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree.

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<v Speaker 2>I see what she did there with the word play

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<v Speaker 2>in the breaks. Chavelle Cruze says, no recommendation letter. Hell no,

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<v Speaker 2>you are not getting a recommendation letter. You better hold

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<v Speaker 2>I don't go on don't datumgirl dot com or one

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<v Speaker 2>of them Facebook groups and.

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<v Speaker 1>Blast your shit. Okay, I'm just yoking. I would never

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<v Speaker 1>do that. I've never done that. I've never done that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not my stiel loot. I wouldn't do that. Hold on, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>just tray says their funds are low. After that much talking.

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<v Speaker 2>It's daytime and you know what you you don't even

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<v Speaker 2>gotta even if your funds are low, and say you

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<v Speaker 2>don't have the money to pull the trigger.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, get fucking creative. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Show me you're a provider, okay, show me that I

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<v Speaker 2>can trust you when situations get sticky. Make some shit shake, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>like damn exibits, if she want to go for some

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<v Speaker 2>ice cream, she want to go for a walk, like

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<v Speaker 2>and if you dealing with a nerdy girl like myself,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like it's very easy to make shit shake

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<v Speaker 2>at low costs, like damn nigga, take me to a museum.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>The other day I went to Dinods after dark, Like

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<v Speaker 2>you gotta know your audience, Like you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh Fat Pharaoh says, this woman is fun as fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Fat Farah. I appreciate you. I appreciate you,

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<v Speaker 1>Ray Wonder, thank you so much.

424
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<v Speaker 2>I just want to tell you you're very beautiful and I

425
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<v Speaker 2>want to full close with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Great, so happy that you said that.

427
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<v Speaker 2>I actually have about three loads upstairs that are not

428
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<v Speaker 2>done and are taking up space in my craft room.

429
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<v Speaker 2>So whenever you're a ready, big dog, just come.

430
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<v Speaker 1>Thank you.

431
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<v Speaker 2>Tied A Grim says, make a dollar out of fifteen cents.

432
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<v Speaker 2>Deuce Club says, I'm using a gym date every time.

433
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<v Speaker 2>It really don't take much. It really don't take much

434
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<v Speaker 2>for a girl like me, and don't take much. Bro

435
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<v Speaker 2>take me to a gym, like bring me some pre

436
00:22:46.279 --> 00:22:51.799
<v Speaker 2>workout or supply like the protein powder for afterwards. Like y'all, joh,

437
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<v Speaker 2>you use your common sense, y'all, don't be I feel

438
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<v Speaker 2>like another important thing for us to talk about is

439
00:22:58.079 --> 00:23:01.920
<v Speaker 2>the misuse of words, cause sometimes people say one thing

440
00:23:02.720 --> 00:23:06.359
<v Speaker 2>when they're actually another thing, trying to get points for

441
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<v Speaker 2>a completely other thing. And a question I want you

442
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<v Speaker 2>all to ask.

443
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<v Speaker 1>Right, especially you adventurous motherfuckers.

444
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<v Speaker 2>Okay, are you spontaneous or are you last minute, and

445
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<v Speaker 2>i'ma and i'm'a ask you this again.

446
00:23:24.599 --> 00:23:30.119
<v Speaker 1>I'm i'm'a ask you this again. Are you spontaneous or

447
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<v Speaker 1>are you last minute?

448
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<v Speaker 2>And and it's real cause like men will tell you

449
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<v Speaker 2>like yo, like you don't I I really be on

450
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<v Speaker 2>the move and I go with the flow. And you know,

451
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<v Speaker 2>I'm really just a spontaneous spirit. I'm a spontaneous soul.

452
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<v Speaker 2>I like to just get up and go No, you're

453
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<v Speaker 2>actually fucking last minute and you don't think nothing out. Okay,

454
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<v Speaker 2>that's what it is. That's what it actually is. That's

455
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<v Speaker 2>what it actually is. Like I have to aks men

456
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<v Speaker 2>all the time, like as soon as they hit me

457
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<v Speaker 2>with that ass word, are you or are you last minute?

458
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<v Speaker 1>Because it's a difference. It's a difference. It's a difference.

459
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<v Speaker 2>TYD that grind says booth On, I'm a hybrid uh D.

460
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<v Speaker 2>Hollywood non says hell uh The lex effect says words

461
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<v Speaker 2>mean things accurate, accurate, accurate like and don't get me wrong,

462
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<v Speaker 2>I think being spontaneous is sexy. Being last minute gives

463
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<v Speaker 2>me anxiety. Okay, I can't.

464
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<v Speaker 1>I can't.

465
00:24:31.000 --> 00:24:34.480
<v Speaker 2>I can't spontaneous like you know, yes, surprise me with

466
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<v Speaker 2>the date.

467
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<v Speaker 1>Like, Oh yeah, I wouldn't even think to go here. Cool?

468
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<v Speaker 2>Last minute is you calling me at seven pm telling

469
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<v Speaker 2>me to be ready by seven oh five? Baby, you're

470
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<v Speaker 2>doing too much. You're doing too First of all, it's

471
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<v Speaker 2>seven o five. I don't already wrap my hair up.

472
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<v Speaker 1>You know how many pens go in this? Okay, I

473
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<v Speaker 1>done took my bra off for the day. Baby. Once

474
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<v Speaker 1>that BRA's off, we are in for the night. Okay.

475
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<v Speaker 2>I'm all for being spontaneous, but it's the last minute

476
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<v Speaker 2>stuff for me.

477
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<v Speaker 1>I can't, I can I can't.

478
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<v Speaker 2>Uncle Y B says, sometimes one hundred percent focused on

479
00:25:12.839 --> 00:25:15.920
<v Speaker 2>the task is needed, and then understanding person needs to

480
00:25:16.000 --> 00:25:19.599
<v Speaker 2>respect that. Deuce Club says I can plan, but if

481
00:25:19.640 --> 00:25:21.680
<v Speaker 2>the spirit moves, I also like to make moves.

482
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<v Speaker 1>I'm not mad at that.

483
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<v Speaker 2>Dark Man seventeen says I love surprising my queen. Energy

484
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<v Speaker 2>Energy e Rough seven to seven G says most niggas

485
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<v Speaker 2>can't spell it right, and they can't.

486
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<v Speaker 1>It's okay, it's okay.

487
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<v Speaker 2>No child left behind. Chuck Taylor fifteen last minute, Oh.

488
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<v Speaker 1>Shit, let's go do this. Yeah, I can't. I can't

489
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<v Speaker 1>do that. I can't do that.

490
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<v Speaker 2>Ambitiously says let him hang Outfice says, you don't need

491
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<v Speaker 2>the titty shackle to go outside all the time. I honestly, respectfully,

492
00:26:01.279 --> 00:26:03.759
<v Speaker 2>if we're going out in public, I do, I do,

493
00:26:04.400 --> 00:26:07.119
<v Speaker 2>I do. I I cannot go outside like that. It's

494
00:26:07.200 --> 00:26:11.160
<v Speaker 2>it's it's inappropriate. It comes off as you're looking for attention,

495
00:26:11.559 --> 00:26:14.720
<v Speaker 2>like uh yah, then you know I got my staplers

496
00:26:14.759 --> 00:26:16.480
<v Speaker 2>in there, so they be poking and shit. It's it's

497
00:26:16.599 --> 00:26:19.640
<v Speaker 2>very inappropriate. If we're not going to the right place,

498
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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna have to put the titty shackles on, pull

499
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<v Speaker 2>out the titty socks. I'm gonna have to gonna have

500
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<v Speaker 2>to gonna have to.

501
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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think I think it's a di It's a

502
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<v Speaker 1>difference between spont spontaneity.

503
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<v Speaker 2>It's a difference between being spontaneous and just scrambling at

504
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<v Speaker 2>the last second cause I don't like that.

505
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<v Speaker 1>That's not the life for me. I think that.

506
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<v Speaker 2>It's also important to say it's the thought that counts too, right,

507
00:26:49.839 --> 00:26:53.240
<v Speaker 2>Like I like being spontaneous, but I also like knowing

508
00:26:53.279 --> 00:26:55.559
<v Speaker 2>I'm on your mind, And I think it's a way

509
00:26:55.599 --> 00:26:58.839
<v Speaker 2>too tie in both of them. But like when you're

510
00:26:58.880 --> 00:27:02.640
<v Speaker 2>giving too much of the last minute energy. It really

511
00:27:02.759 --> 00:27:06.400
<v Speaker 2>comes off as like you know, I'm a second thought,

512
00:27:06.519 --> 00:27:08.480
<v Speaker 2>or like you didn't plan it, like you didn't have

513
00:27:08.559 --> 00:27:10.039
<v Speaker 2>me in mind when you were thinking about this, you

514
00:27:10.039 --> 00:27:13.400
<v Speaker 2>know what I mean, Like it's just whatever, or I

515
00:27:13.400 --> 00:27:15.720
<v Speaker 2>got these ten minutes. And don't get me wrong, I

516
00:27:15.759 --> 00:27:18.400
<v Speaker 2>know some I know some people only have ten minutes.

517
00:27:18.599 --> 00:27:20.279
<v Speaker 2>But it's the difference between at the top of the

518
00:27:20.359 --> 00:27:22.920
<v Speaker 2>day you saying, hey, I'm free from this time to

519
00:27:22.960 --> 00:27:23.480
<v Speaker 2>this time.

520
00:27:23.720 --> 00:27:25.279
<v Speaker 1>I know it's not a lot, but I really would

521
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<v Speaker 1>like to see you.

522
00:27:26.000 --> 00:27:28.440
<v Speaker 2>Okay, cool, I already know what I'm getting myself into.

523
00:27:28.920 --> 00:27:31.799
<v Speaker 2>Like it's still like you're making a way for me.

524
00:27:32.079 --> 00:27:34.519
<v Speaker 2>I'm still being thought of. I'm not mad at that,

525
00:27:34.960 --> 00:27:39.319
<v Speaker 2>but like it was just randomly every time you just randomly,

526
00:27:39.440 --> 00:27:41.200
<v Speaker 2>like bro, I got five minutes for you at.

527
00:27:41.519 --> 00:27:44.440
<v Speaker 1>Home, Home Home.

528
00:27:45.799 --> 00:27:48.440
<v Speaker 2>Molotti two says, niggas are mad horny in the comment's

529
00:27:48.480 --> 00:27:51.440
<v Speaker 2>not gonna lie. It was the Staplers. I forgot. I

530
00:27:51.480 --> 00:27:52.960
<v Speaker 2>forgot who we were talking to today.

531
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<v Speaker 1>In my bad.

532
00:27:55.920 --> 00:28:00.720
<v Speaker 2>Hey Heartless Reaper Double seven b one Isaiah says, I'll

533
00:28:00.759 --> 00:28:03.279
<v Speaker 2>definitely throw a woman some curve balls, but nothing too crazy,

534
00:28:05.960 --> 00:28:09.359
<v Speaker 2>you know, Okay, Yep, we're just gonna scroll, Okay, scroll

535
00:28:09.400 --> 00:28:09.720
<v Speaker 2>back down.

536
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<v Speaker 1>No, it's okay, we'll we'll just pick a pick there.

537
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<v Speaker 1>Because niggas were many in the comments.

538
00:28:14.240 --> 00:28:16.680
<v Speaker 2>Just Tray says, my last minute looks like I just

539
00:28:16.720 --> 00:28:18.000
<v Speaker 2>found out by this event today.

540
00:28:18.680 --> 00:28:23.039
<v Speaker 1>Words are important and words mean things, right. So if

541
00:28:23.079 --> 00:28:25.799
<v Speaker 1>you're saying like, hey, I just found out that.

542
00:28:25.839 --> 00:28:31.519
<v Speaker 2>I have cool cool, that gives spontaneous right. But if

543
00:28:31.519 --> 00:28:33.519
<v Speaker 2>you say, yo, I want to see you on Wednesday

544
00:28:33.839 --> 00:28:38.839
<v Speaker 2>and it's now Monday, on Wednesday morning, why do you

545
00:28:38.920 --> 00:28:40.640
<v Speaker 2>still not have a plan on what we're doing or

546
00:28:40.680 --> 00:28:44.720
<v Speaker 2>what's going on. That's not spontaneous. That's last minute. It

547
00:28:44.799 --> 00:28:49.279
<v Speaker 2>comes off as last minute. Hold on, y'all, I'm trying

548
00:28:49.279 --> 00:28:52.480
<v Speaker 2>to scroll back down. Yeah, man, I'm just the last

549
00:28:52.480 --> 00:28:58.559
<v Speaker 2>minute life styling for me. Long story short, I think

550
00:28:58.599 --> 00:29:06.519
<v Speaker 2>everyone enjoys the feeling of being thought of, and I

551
00:29:06.559 --> 00:29:08.200
<v Speaker 2>think there's definitely a way for you to be the

552
00:29:08.240 --> 00:29:10.640
<v Speaker 2>spontaneous and still let me know I'm on your mind

553
00:29:10.640 --> 00:29:13.400
<v Speaker 2>as well for and it not comes off.

554
00:29:13.240 --> 00:29:14.039
<v Speaker 1>As last minute.

555
00:29:15.440 --> 00:29:17.279
<v Speaker 2>The next thing I want to talk about, it's the

556
00:29:17.359 --> 00:29:20.839
<v Speaker 2>last thing I want to dive into before we get

557
00:29:20.839 --> 00:29:28.440
<v Speaker 2>into these edibles speaking of like being thought of? Right,

558
00:29:30.119 --> 00:29:33.160
<v Speaker 2>love language, is vary, but it's the details for me.

559
00:29:34.039 --> 00:29:35.119
<v Speaker 2>It's the details.

560
00:29:35.160 --> 00:29:35.440
<v Speaker 1>For me.

561
00:29:36.039 --> 00:29:40.359
<v Speaker 2>A detail oriented man is so rare and it's so

562
00:29:40.480 --> 00:29:44.799
<v Speaker 2>bomb Like. I think it kind of ties into what

563
00:29:44.880 --> 00:29:47.160
<v Speaker 2>we're talking about, where we were just saying, bring back

564
00:29:47.200 --> 00:29:49.880
<v Speaker 2>simping and bring back niggas acting like they like you,

565
00:29:50.039 --> 00:29:52.400
<v Speaker 2>or just people period acting like they like you.

566
00:29:53.000 --> 00:29:58.079
<v Speaker 1>It's like, I like men who pay attention to details.

567
00:29:58.119 --> 00:30:01.000
<v Speaker 2>And then act on it, especially when it come to me, like,

568
00:30:01.160 --> 00:30:02.240
<v Speaker 2>especially when it comes to me.

569
00:30:02.480 --> 00:30:07.119
<v Speaker 1>I love a man who pays attention to details and acts.

570
00:30:06.839 --> 00:30:09.559
<v Speaker 2>On it, especially when it comes to me, like, bro,

571
00:30:09.680 --> 00:30:13.440
<v Speaker 2>what what's top tier?

572
00:30:14.319 --> 00:30:22.039
<v Speaker 1>Top tier? Like, I think the smallest details can be the.

573
00:30:21.960 --> 00:30:26.240
<v Speaker 2>Biggest gestures of love, right, And when you find somebody

574
00:30:26.480 --> 00:30:28.720
<v Speaker 2>who like pays attention to like the little stuff you like,

575
00:30:29.559 --> 00:30:33.000
<v Speaker 2>and then like be doing stuff with you in mind,

576
00:30:33.599 --> 00:30:34.039
<v Speaker 2>that's it.

577
00:30:34.519 --> 00:30:34.920
<v Speaker 1>That's it.

578
00:30:35.039 --> 00:30:40.000
<v Speaker 2>That's how it starts. Children, families, that's how it starts. Okay,

579
00:30:40.440 --> 00:30:41.640
<v Speaker 2>that's where it begins.

580
00:30:41.920 --> 00:30:44.839
<v Speaker 1>No lie, no lie, no lie, no lie. Because big

581
00:30:44.920 --> 00:30:48.599
<v Speaker 1>gestures of love are easy. Big gestures of love are easy.

582
00:30:48.960 --> 00:30:51.799
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you can bring her flower, you can decorate a

583
00:30:51.880 --> 00:30:55.119
<v Speaker 2>hotel room, you can get her hair and nails, done,

584
00:30:55.480 --> 00:30:59.079
<v Speaker 2>which are great, which we are very thankful for all

585
00:30:59.119 --> 00:31:02.880
<v Speaker 2>great gestures. Yes, yes, yes, but it's like you know,

586
00:31:03.000 --> 00:31:05.559
<v Speaker 2>and I collect refrigerator magnets and you bringing me one,

587
00:31:06.279 --> 00:31:08.799
<v Speaker 2>or you bringing me something that has an orca on

588
00:31:08.839 --> 00:31:11.759
<v Speaker 2>it because you know I like killer whales or like

589
00:31:12.200 --> 00:31:13.559
<v Speaker 2>something simple like that.

590
00:31:14.359 --> 00:31:18.440
<v Speaker 1>What come on, now, come on, come on? You bringing

591
00:31:18.480 --> 00:31:19.119
<v Speaker 1>me pickles?

592
00:31:19.680 --> 00:31:19.960
<v Speaker 2>You know?

593
00:31:20.000 --> 00:31:23.960
<v Speaker 1>Why fuck with pickles? What you bringing me a jar

594
00:31:24.000 --> 00:31:28.400
<v Speaker 1>of pickles? My nigga? How many kids you went?

595
00:31:30.319 --> 00:31:30.440
<v Speaker 2>Like?

596
00:31:30.519 --> 00:31:32.799
<v Speaker 1>It really beat the detail for me. It beat the

597
00:31:32.880 --> 00:31:37.119
<v Speaker 1>details for me, like big stuff is easy. But you

598
00:31:37.279 --> 00:31:41.359
<v Speaker 1>remembering how I like my coffee what you know? I

599
00:31:41.400 --> 00:31:43.480
<v Speaker 1>like it dark like my soul. What now, I'm just

600
00:31:45.880 --> 00:31:48.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying though I do like my coffee dark.

601
00:31:48.200 --> 00:31:52.079
<v Speaker 2>Though. I'm just saying though, like you remembering certain things

602
00:31:52.079 --> 00:31:58.279
<v Speaker 2>about me, it brings something else out of me, like damn,

603
00:31:58.839 --> 00:32:02.599
<v Speaker 2>he hurt me, he paid attention, he listened, he.

604
00:32:02.519 --> 00:32:03.359
<v Speaker 1>Did his big one.

605
00:32:03.720 --> 00:32:09.039
<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, Chevy Chris says, censor killer, real magnet.

606
00:32:09.119 --> 00:32:09.400
<v Speaker 1>Okay.

607
00:32:09.400 --> 00:32:12.279
<v Speaker 2>It's different though, So I collect refrigerator magnets, but I

608
00:32:12.319 --> 00:32:18.079
<v Speaker 2>collect refrigerator magnets that have places on it. So like London, Kansas,

609
00:32:18.119 --> 00:32:20.880
<v Speaker 2>like Paris, and all my friends notice. So when all

610
00:32:20.880 --> 00:32:23.319
<v Speaker 2>my friends go traveling, they always bring me back a

611
00:32:23.359 --> 00:32:26.119
<v Speaker 2>refrigerator maget from wherever they come, because like, I have

612
00:32:26.599 --> 00:32:29.839
<v Speaker 2>boxes and boxes in my garage of refrigerator magnets, and

613
00:32:29.960 --> 00:32:32.880
<v Speaker 2>my refrigerator right now is covered magnets, and like every

614
00:32:32.920 --> 00:32:34.880
<v Speaker 2>time it gets filled, I empty up and put it

615
00:32:34.880 --> 00:32:36.880
<v Speaker 2>in another box, and then I start all over again.

616
00:32:36.920 --> 00:32:38.960
<v Speaker 2>I don't know why I was worrying about my grandparents.

617
00:32:39.000 --> 00:32:42.759
<v Speaker 2>You know, Grandma had refrigerator magnets, so now so do I.

618
00:32:42.839 --> 00:32:45.640
<v Speaker 1>That's it, Hey.

619
00:32:45.480 --> 00:32:50.000
<v Speaker 2>Man Edward says, what people do with a little, they

620
00:32:50.000 --> 00:32:54.400
<v Speaker 2>will do with a lot. Charlotte Siagarweek says, given a

621
00:32:54.440 --> 00:32:58.039
<v Speaker 2>bouquet of favorite flowers instead of roses is always good.

622
00:32:58.319 --> 00:32:58.920
<v Speaker 1>Hell yeah.

623
00:32:59.279 --> 00:33:02.880
<v Speaker 2>Also fellas pro tip, do not assume that your lady

624
00:33:02.960 --> 00:33:06.759
<v Speaker 2>automatically likes roses. Women like different type of flowers, and

625
00:33:07.400 --> 00:33:10.480
<v Speaker 2>you giving me my favorite type of flowers is much

626
00:33:10.519 --> 00:33:12.640
<v Speaker 2>more than you giving me roses, for sure, for sure.

627
00:33:15.319 --> 00:33:17.680
<v Speaker 2>Tidy Grind says, it feels like we have to ask

628
00:33:17.759 --> 00:33:20.160
<v Speaker 2>too much of the little things these days, and it's

629
00:33:20.240 --> 00:33:21.000
<v Speaker 2>making them major.

630
00:33:21.200 --> 00:33:24.640
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmmm mmm mmm. That is a bar.

631
00:33:25.240 --> 00:33:27.359
<v Speaker 2>It feels like we are having to ask too much

632
00:33:27.440 --> 00:33:28.400
<v Speaker 2>for the little things.

633
00:33:28.640 --> 00:33:31.960
<v Speaker 1>So what's making them major? I feel that. I feel that.

634
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<v Speaker 2>I feel that, ambitiously, says getting her car detailed and

635
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<v Speaker 2>filling a tank. You ain't never tell no, God, damn,

636
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<v Speaker 2>oh my god. I cannot stand doing anything with my car.

637
00:33:44.319 --> 00:33:46.039
<v Speaker 2>I cannot stand doing anything. I'm not gonna lie. I

638
00:33:46.079 --> 00:33:49.039
<v Speaker 2>need an oil change right now and some wipe or fluid.

639
00:33:49.519 --> 00:33:51.279
<v Speaker 2>And it's not that I don't have the funds.

640
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<v Speaker 1>I just hate it. I detested. It's beneath me. That's

641
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<v Speaker 1>a man's job.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I I'm gonna get my oil change tomorrow.

643
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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna get a change.

644
00:34:00.000 --> 00:34:03.359
<v Speaker 2>That's wrong, Probably not, but definitely about Thursday. Definitely about Thursday,

645
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<v Speaker 2>for sure.

646
00:34:03.720 --> 00:34:04.039
<v Speaker 1>For sure.

647
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<v Speaker 2>All right, guys, So now we're gonna get into the

648
00:34:06.079 --> 00:34:08.599
<v Speaker 2>edible portion of the show. So the edible portion is

649
00:34:08.599 --> 00:34:11.519
<v Speaker 2>when we read questions, stories, comments that you guys sit

650
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<v Speaker 2>in and on the day that we record, I usually

651
00:34:13.800 --> 00:34:17.360
<v Speaker 2>put up a prompt saying, ask me anything, and you know.

652
00:34:17.360 --> 00:34:20.079
<v Speaker 1>You do your business, you put your stuff in. Okay.

653
00:34:20.239 --> 00:34:21.800
<v Speaker 2>Now, if you have something to say on one of

654
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<v Speaker 2>the days where we don't record, you can always email

655
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<v Speaker 2>me at Inquiries at stormypea dot com or you can. Yeah, no,

656
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<v Speaker 2>don't dm me, I lied. I was about to say,

657
00:34:33.760 --> 00:34:35.679
<v Speaker 2>dm me, don't lie, don't do don't do that, don't

658
00:34:35.719 --> 00:34:37.800
<v Speaker 2>do that, but it just reminded me that I had

659
00:34:37.920 --> 00:34:40.280
<v Speaker 2>something that I did want to read and I didn't

660
00:34:40.320 --> 00:34:42.239
<v Speaker 2>write it down. So I'm gonna say that for next week.

661
00:34:42.239 --> 00:34:43.679
<v Speaker 2>And I'm pretty sure I saw your name pap up

662
00:34:43.679 --> 00:34:46.719
<v Speaker 2>one alive. We gonna do it next week.

663
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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

664
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<v Speaker 2>So this first one tickled me so bad. Y'all tickled

665
00:34:53.119 --> 00:34:56.880
<v Speaker 2>me so bad. I don't think I've last laughed this

666
00:34:57.079 --> 00:35:02.440
<v Speaker 2>hard and so long. So this person says, should you

667
00:35:02.559 --> 00:35:05.840
<v Speaker 2>cut off a chick that can't hold her liquor and

668
00:35:05.920 --> 00:35:08.800
<v Speaker 2>peel on herself when she falls asleep drunk?

669
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<v Speaker 1>Y'all?

670
00:35:10.159 --> 00:35:15.400
<v Speaker 2>When I say I laughed, I laughed, and I laughed

671
00:35:15.480 --> 00:35:20.519
<v Speaker 2>and I laughed. First of all, I'm when y'all say

672
00:35:20.559 --> 00:35:22.519
<v Speaker 2>that the dating pool got pissing it, I ain't know

673
00:35:22.559 --> 00:35:29.079
<v Speaker 2>y'all meant like this, Okay. I didn't know y'all meant

674
00:35:29.760 --> 00:35:31.000
<v Speaker 2>literal piss.

675
00:35:31.199 --> 00:35:31.599
<v Speaker 1>Okay.

676
00:35:31.760 --> 00:35:41.480
<v Speaker 2>I thought it was like, you know, a metaphor, but no, apparently,

677
00:35:42.599 --> 00:35:45.519
<v Speaker 2>apparently there's actual piss.

678
00:35:45.239 --> 00:35:49.599
<v Speaker 1>In the dating pool. Okay, y'all got on my nerds

679
00:35:50.320 --> 00:35:53.840
<v Speaker 1>Outfice says, you're in currn. I'm hollering.

680
00:35:54.960 --> 00:35:57.519
<v Speaker 2>Charlotte Sigarweek says I can't deal with a woman who

681
00:35:57.519 --> 00:36:03.480
<v Speaker 2>doesn't know her limit. I'm cracking Uh.

682
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<v Speaker 1>Whyman Jay says, I beg your pardon?

683
00:36:06.000 --> 00:36:09.320
<v Speaker 2>Yes, he says, should you cut off a chick that

684
00:36:09.440 --> 00:36:11.719
<v Speaker 2>can't hold her liquor and pee on herself when she

685
00:36:11.800 --> 00:36:16.960
<v Speaker 2>falls asleep? Drunk Chevy Chris says little Mama can't hold

686
00:36:17.039 --> 00:36:23.280
<v Speaker 2>water literally tied. Doc Grind says Petunia is uncalled for

687
00:36:26.000 --> 00:36:30.800
<v Speaker 2>our fan says we wander y'all. Y'all, y'all are killing me.

688
00:36:31.280 --> 00:36:34.280
<v Speaker 2>Y'all like killing me. Y'all are killing me, not little

689
00:36:34.320 --> 00:36:41.920
<v Speaker 2>pissy y'all. This question was so crazy that I had

690
00:36:41.960 --> 00:36:44.519
<v Speaker 2>to put it back on the stories with another prompt like, YO,

691
00:36:44.559 --> 00:36:49.119
<v Speaker 2>shitty cut her off. So I'm gonna tell you what

692
00:36:49.199 --> 00:36:55.440
<v Speaker 2>some of the people and the DM says. First one

693
00:36:55.480 --> 00:36:58.599
<v Speaker 2>person said, yes, cut her off. I'm not a home

694
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<v Speaker 2>health aid cleaning up your This is crazy, yo. It

695
00:37:04.760 --> 00:37:06.400
<v Speaker 2>was the I'm not a home health ay for me

696
00:37:06.480 --> 00:37:09.599
<v Speaker 2>because baby, I'm not. Baby, I'm not I did not

697
00:37:09.679 --> 00:37:12.599
<v Speaker 2>sign up to be a home health aid CNA none

698
00:37:12.599 --> 00:37:15.039
<v Speaker 2>of that. Why am I cleaning up piss? Why am

699
00:37:15.039 --> 00:37:18.480
<v Speaker 2>I cleaning up piss? I don't understand it. I don't

700
00:37:18.519 --> 00:37:23.280
<v Speaker 2>understand it. Next person says, I guess it depends on

701
00:37:23.360 --> 00:37:26.280
<v Speaker 2>how often she does it. One time you get a pass.

702
00:37:27.000 --> 00:37:29.519
<v Speaker 2>And this is what I was thinking. Right, y'all know

703
00:37:29.559 --> 00:37:31.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm a very forgiving person. That's what happens when you

704
00:37:31.480 --> 00:37:34.039
<v Speaker 2>go talk to the lady. You know, you forgive people.

705
00:37:34.480 --> 00:37:34.639
<v Speaker 1>Right.

706
00:37:35.559 --> 00:37:38.400
<v Speaker 2>I had to ask, I'm like, well, first, does she

707
00:37:38.480 --> 00:37:40.360
<v Speaker 2>do it all the time? Or was this a one

708
00:37:40.400 --> 00:37:41.280
<v Speaker 2>time occurrence?

709
00:37:41.920 --> 00:37:42.239
<v Speaker 1>Dog?

710
00:37:42.719 --> 00:37:46.559
<v Speaker 2>He said, she does it every time they drink, every

711
00:37:46.559 --> 00:37:50.679
<v Speaker 2>time they go out drinking, every time y'all go out drinking.

712
00:37:50.960 --> 00:37:56.119
<v Speaker 1>She peas on herself, sleep sleep sleep.

713
00:37:56.840 --> 00:38:02.320
<v Speaker 2>Crazy, crazy work, crazy works. Coffee and creamer left a

714
00:38:02.400 --> 00:38:05.280
<v Speaker 2>whole bunch of cut emojis. I'm not mad at him,

715
00:38:05.559 --> 00:38:11.280
<v Speaker 2>and dependent says if she drunk hit the tub, making

716
00:38:11.360 --> 00:38:14.599
<v Speaker 2>her sleep in the tub is crazy crazy.

717
00:38:16.000 --> 00:38:19.199
<v Speaker 1>I am cracking up, y'all. Eaven wet emojis, y'all are

718
00:38:19.280 --> 00:38:23.079
<v Speaker 1>so annoying. I am cracking up, y'all.

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00:38:24.239 --> 00:38:27.559
<v Speaker 2>Ky NYC says nope, nope, nope. Trillte says the liquor

720
00:38:27.599 --> 00:38:28.559
<v Speaker 2>is not for you, ma'am.

721
00:38:28.719 --> 00:38:31.639
<v Speaker 1>Stop it. Wyman J says, at least I know her

722
00:38:31.639 --> 00:38:33.159
<v Speaker 1>water bill paid. Please.

723
00:38:33.400 --> 00:38:36.480
<v Speaker 2>Chicago Cigar Week says after the second time she'd be

724
00:38:36.519 --> 00:38:39.400
<v Speaker 2>going Outfit says, I bet the first time he thought

725
00:38:39.519 --> 00:38:40.280
<v Speaker 2>she was a squatter.

726
00:38:40.559 --> 00:38:47.840
<v Speaker 1>Surprise, surprise, y'all. I'm not gonna lie.

727
00:38:48.000 --> 00:38:50.159
<v Speaker 2>I don't know if I'm growning up for those type

728
00:38:50.159 --> 00:38:52.800
<v Speaker 2>of interactions like every time you hang out with that

729
00:38:52.800 --> 00:38:54.719
<v Speaker 2>girl and y'all get drunk, she p on herself.

730
00:38:55.320 --> 00:38:56.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't think I'm grown enough for that.

731
00:38:57.239 --> 00:38:59.880
<v Speaker 2>I don't so the last comment that I wanted to

732
00:38:59.840 --> 00:39:02.719
<v Speaker 2>reach that somebody left on the stories was hmm, is

733
00:39:02.719 --> 00:39:05.599
<v Speaker 2>she open to not drinking as much to prevent pissing?

734
00:39:06.039 --> 00:39:15.079
<v Speaker 2>If not, cut it, y'all, y'all. Dub Story podcast says

735
00:39:15.119 --> 00:39:18.519
<v Speaker 2>she got something else going on. Caveman Promo says, no,

736
00:39:18.599 --> 00:39:20.920
<v Speaker 2>she's not. She's just pissing. Again.

737
00:39:20.960 --> 00:39:22.679
<v Speaker 1>I'm not even gonna read what your roade. I'm gonna say, no,

738
00:39:22.719 --> 00:39:23.800
<v Speaker 1>she's not, She's just pissing.

739
00:39:23.880 --> 00:39:29.599
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I think that two different conversations have to be had, right,

740
00:39:30.559 --> 00:39:34.280
<v Speaker 2>So number one, I do think you should talk to

741
00:39:34.320 --> 00:39:39.760
<v Speaker 2>her and say, hey, I notice first, what do y'all

742
00:39:39.800 --> 00:39:42.360
<v Speaker 2>say in the morning, when y'all wake up, what do

743
00:39:42.440 --> 00:39:45.559
<v Speaker 2>y'all say, Like, does she tell you she was sweating

744
00:39:45.599 --> 00:39:48.119
<v Speaker 2>in her sleep? Or do like y'all have a conversation

745
00:39:48.199 --> 00:39:49.159
<v Speaker 2>of who's piss it is?

746
00:39:49.280 --> 00:39:51.840
<v Speaker 1>Like what happens? What happens?

747
00:39:52.239 --> 00:39:54.320
<v Speaker 2>But long story, shirt, I feel like two conversations you

748
00:39:54.320 --> 00:39:56.800
<v Speaker 2>be had. You need to tell her, like, Hey, I

749
00:39:56.880 --> 00:40:02.079
<v Speaker 2>enjoy hanging out with you. However we drink, it doesn't

750
00:40:02.119 --> 00:40:04.760
<v Speaker 2>go the way that it needs to as adults, So

751
00:40:04.840 --> 00:40:07.920
<v Speaker 2>I feel like maybe we should cut back, or like,

752
00:40:08.079 --> 00:40:08.920
<v Speaker 2>maybe we should.

753
00:40:10.239 --> 00:40:11.400
<v Speaker 1>It's no, maybe we should.

754
00:40:11.559 --> 00:40:13.920
<v Speaker 2>You're gonna have to calm down on a drinking because

755
00:40:13.960 --> 00:40:16.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm sick of cleaning up piss. I like you, I

756
00:40:16.519 --> 00:40:18.599
<v Speaker 2>like hanging out with you. I don't want to, but

757
00:40:18.679 --> 00:40:21.280
<v Speaker 2>I do think when we hang out, you should consider

758
00:40:21.920 --> 00:40:25.199
<v Speaker 2>lowering your alcohol intake just a little bit, just a

759
00:40:25.199 --> 00:40:28.039
<v Speaker 2>little bit, right, And at the end of the day,

760
00:40:28.400 --> 00:40:30.400
<v Speaker 2>you have to have to have a conversation with yourself

761
00:40:30.440 --> 00:40:34.639
<v Speaker 2>because she's a reflection of you. Everybody's gonna think you

762
00:40:34.679 --> 00:40:35.519
<v Speaker 2>piss on yourself too.

763
00:40:35.559 --> 00:40:38.119
<v Speaker 1>No, I'm joking. I'm joking. I'm joking on joking.

764
00:40:38.360 --> 00:40:41.119
<v Speaker 2>But if she's that way, when she's with you, what

765
00:40:41.239 --> 00:40:43.760
<v Speaker 2>is she like when she's out with other people? If

766
00:40:43.800 --> 00:40:45.360
<v Speaker 2>she happens to be around a group of men, is

767
00:40:45.360 --> 00:40:46.840
<v Speaker 2>she also going to go home with one of them

768
00:40:46.880 --> 00:40:49.719
<v Speaker 2>and piss on them? Like? And then when you go

769
00:40:49.760 --> 00:40:52.079
<v Speaker 2>out in public and you're with someone who can't handle

770
00:40:52.119 --> 00:40:56.079
<v Speaker 2>their liquor, are you prepared for whatever situation she might

771
00:40:56.119 --> 00:40:58.320
<v Speaker 2>get you in? Like if she's like that to the

772
00:40:58.360 --> 00:41:02.079
<v Speaker 2>point where she can't control or her bladder, she's gonna

773
00:41:02.079 --> 00:41:04.519
<v Speaker 2>be beligerent enough to one day say something inappropriate and

774
00:41:04.559 --> 00:41:07.480
<v Speaker 2>get you in a sticky situation like now you knuckling

775
00:41:07.599 --> 00:41:10.719
<v Speaker 2>have to bar it. Don't even gotta go like it.

776
00:41:10.719 --> 00:41:12.440
<v Speaker 2>Don't gotta be like that. It don't gotta be that

777
00:41:12.440 --> 00:41:16.400
<v Speaker 2>type of situation at all. Like, do you really want

778
00:41:16.400 --> 00:41:18.639
<v Speaker 2>to be with somebody who turns into baby alive every

779
00:41:18.639 --> 00:41:19.599
<v Speaker 2>time y'all go drinking?

780
00:41:19.880 --> 00:41:21.039
<v Speaker 1>You know what? Baby alive is?

781
00:41:21.480 --> 00:41:24.559
<v Speaker 2>Them little babies that piss on ourselves when you give

782
00:41:24.599 --> 00:41:25.559
<v Speaker 2>them a little bit of water.

783
00:41:25.679 --> 00:41:28.280
<v Speaker 1>Okay, it's a baby doll? Is that what you want?

784
00:41:28.400 --> 00:41:29.960
<v Speaker 1>Because if that's what you want, you can just go

785
00:41:29.960 --> 00:41:31.119
<v Speaker 1>to Walmart and get you one.

786
00:41:31.639 --> 00:41:34.280
<v Speaker 2>What do you really need? What's gonna be the conducive

787
00:41:34.360 --> 00:41:36.440
<v Speaker 2>for your life. When you thought of what you want

788
00:41:36.480 --> 00:41:40.719
<v Speaker 2>your perfect woman to be, was pissing on herself one

789
00:41:40.760 --> 00:41:43.800
<v Speaker 2>of the things. And if it's not, how are we

790
00:41:43.840 --> 00:41:46.840
<v Speaker 2>gonna get past this at the end of the day.

791
00:41:47.360 --> 00:41:52.960
<v Speaker 2>And I want to say, also, Sis, you have to relax.

792
00:41:53.480 --> 00:41:58.760
<v Speaker 2>Woman to woman, where's the coof where's the decorum? Everybody

793
00:41:58.760 --> 00:42:00.559
<v Speaker 2>wants to have a good time, but I want you

794
00:42:00.639 --> 00:42:02.599
<v Speaker 2>to know that you are taking it a little bit

795
00:42:02.679 --> 00:42:03.079
<v Speaker 2>too far.

796
00:42:03.159 --> 00:42:04.159
<v Speaker 1>And I say this with love.

797
00:42:04.360 --> 00:42:08.320
<v Speaker 2>Okay, whatever demons you are fighting are coming out at

798
00:42:08.400 --> 00:42:12.039
<v Speaker 2>night and you're pissing on yourself. Okay, So calm down

799
00:42:12.039 --> 00:42:15.360
<v Speaker 2>on alcohol, Maybe go seek some professional help, talk to someone,

800
00:42:15.559 --> 00:42:19.079
<v Speaker 2>whether there be AA or therapy. You need to like

801
00:42:19.679 --> 00:42:21.800
<v Speaker 2>reconsider the things that are going off right now because

802
00:42:21.840 --> 00:42:26.559
<v Speaker 2>this road is not a like, it's not a dry one.

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00:42:26.639 --> 00:42:30.320
<v Speaker 1>Number one, Okay, that's the first thing. Number two. You

804
00:42:31.119 --> 00:42:32.840
<v Speaker 1>deserve better and you can be better, and I want

805
00:42:32.840 --> 00:42:40.119
<v Speaker 1>that for you. I do hold on. Tyder Grind says,

806
00:42:40.239 --> 00:42:44.039
<v Speaker 1>leave now, Stormy because baby alive? Am I lion? I'm sorry,

807
00:42:44.360 --> 00:42:46.840
<v Speaker 1>I come back to the chat now. I'm the bad person.

808
00:42:47.360 --> 00:42:51.079
<v Speaker 1>Why are you grutting me? Am I?

809
00:42:51.199 --> 00:42:55.920
<v Speaker 2>Lion? Am I Lion Triota says, bro I used to

810
00:42:55.920 --> 00:42:58.599
<v Speaker 2>bartend and had a lady legit pe all over herself

811
00:42:58.639 --> 00:43:00.280
<v Speaker 2>and sit in it like nothing was wrong.

812
00:43:00.440 --> 00:43:03.559
<v Speaker 1>You're the smell. Oh my god.

813
00:43:03.559 --> 00:43:07.119
<v Speaker 2>Be When Isaiah says baby alive, it's crazy, I'm confused.

814
00:43:07.239 --> 00:43:10.719
<v Speaker 2>Cigars Charlotte cigar Week says, what if the situation was averse?

815
00:43:10.760 --> 00:43:11.760
<v Speaker 2>Do you want to be out with a man who

816
00:43:11.760 --> 00:43:13.400
<v Speaker 2>can't hold his liquor? I'ma be real with y'all.

817
00:43:13.800 --> 00:43:14.960
<v Speaker 1>This is a safe space.

818
00:43:16.280 --> 00:43:18.280
<v Speaker 2>When I come to y'all, and I have these conversations

819
00:43:18.519 --> 00:43:21.800
<v Speaker 2>a lot of times because I'm coming and I'm talking

820
00:43:21.840 --> 00:43:25.840
<v Speaker 2>from experience. Okay, I did it this guy and he

821
00:43:25.960 --> 00:43:29.000
<v Speaker 2>was very a very successful man. He was a very

822
00:43:29.159 --> 00:43:31.000
<v Speaker 2>very very successful man.

823
00:43:31.519 --> 00:43:32.599
<v Speaker 1>And we would go out when.

824
00:43:32.480 --> 00:43:36.679
<v Speaker 2>We would get drunk and he would feel himself. He

825
00:43:36.679 --> 00:43:40.719
<v Speaker 2>would feel himself, and i'm'a be real with y'all. I

826
00:43:40.840 --> 00:43:43.239
<v Speaker 2>was a young adult. I won't say young adult cause

827
00:43:43.239 --> 00:43:45.719
<v Speaker 2>that sounds like some Mark Kelly shit. I was a

828
00:43:45.760 --> 00:43:47.719
<v Speaker 2>grown up, but I was like a baby grown up.

829
00:43:47.760 --> 00:43:51.039
<v Speaker 2>Like I wasn't like a real grown up yet. I

830
00:43:51.039 --> 00:43:53.119
<v Speaker 2>ain't like really go through shit yet. Like I was

831
00:43:53.119 --> 00:43:58.760
<v Speaker 2>like a baby grown up, right, And Doug. The first time,

832
00:43:58.880 --> 00:44:03.440
<v Speaker 2>I like woke up and I was like, I think

833
00:44:03.480 --> 00:44:10.559
<v Speaker 2>this nigga paed to bed right hm. Second time, I know,

834
00:44:10.639 --> 00:44:12.079
<v Speaker 2>cause it was more than one times, Like damn, bitch,

835
00:44:12.119 --> 00:44:14.360
<v Speaker 2>get out, Like, uh, the caller is coming from in

836
00:44:14.400 --> 00:44:19.159
<v Speaker 2>the house, I know, right, he was like sleep walking

837
00:44:19.199 --> 00:44:20.920
<v Speaker 2>with it. Two So one time he's just peed in

838
00:44:20.960 --> 00:44:23.159
<v Speaker 2>the corner. But it was always at his house, So

839
00:44:23.159 --> 00:44:25.320
<v Speaker 2>I didn't really give a fuck. Not my sheets, right,

840
00:44:25.920 --> 00:44:29.360
<v Speaker 2>but I had to, you know, stop talking to that man.

841
00:44:30.000 --> 00:44:31.159
<v Speaker 1>But like, if I can go back in.

842
00:44:31.119 --> 00:44:33.719
<v Speaker 2>Time with like the confidence and the knowledge and the

843
00:44:33.719 --> 00:44:38.920
<v Speaker 2>wisdom that I have now, different conversations would have been had.

844
00:44:39.119 --> 00:44:41.960
<v Speaker 1>For sure, for sure, for sure, for sure, for sure,

845
00:44:42.400 --> 00:44:44.559
<v Speaker 1>Yeah for sure. Alright, y'all.

846
00:44:45.400 --> 00:44:52.440
<v Speaker 2>Next question, Uh, y'all sending some bullshit this week. Okay,

847
00:44:54.199 --> 00:44:57.119
<v Speaker 2>a person cheats and you take them back, does it

848
00:44:57.199 --> 00:44:59.239
<v Speaker 2>mean that you must accept.

849
00:44:58.840 --> 00:44:59.559
<v Speaker 1>The get back?

850
00:45:02.519 --> 00:45:05.880
<v Speaker 2>And I'm gonna repeat that, a person cheats and you

851
00:45:05.960 --> 00:45:08.920
<v Speaker 2>take them back, does that mean you must accept the

852
00:45:09.000 --> 00:45:09.519
<v Speaker 2>get back?

853
00:45:09.920 --> 00:45:14.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm assuming you're saying if you cheat on her and

854
00:45:15.840 --> 00:45:16.639
<v Speaker 1>she decides to.

855
00:45:16.599 --> 00:45:20.599
<v Speaker 2>Take you back, do you have to accept that she's

856
00:45:20.639 --> 00:45:22.880
<v Speaker 2>gonna cheat on you at some point down the line,

857
00:45:22.960 --> 00:45:25.760
<v Speaker 2>do you have to accept the get back?

858
00:45:26.199 --> 00:45:26.400
<v Speaker 1>Right?

859
00:45:28.639 --> 00:45:33.840
<v Speaker 2>And I have never heard a more clear example of

860
00:45:34.559 --> 00:45:36.400
<v Speaker 2>it's cool when they do it, when I do it,

861
00:45:36.400 --> 00:45:37.119
<v Speaker 2>it's a problem.

862
00:45:37.280 --> 00:45:39.280
<v Speaker 1>Huh huh huh.

863
00:45:39.760 --> 00:45:42.960
<v Speaker 2>It was all fine when you was swinging your deck

864
00:45:43.039 --> 00:45:43.920
<v Speaker 2>halfway through the city.

865
00:45:43.920 --> 00:45:45.920
<v Speaker 1>That was cool, that was cool.

866
00:45:46.360 --> 00:45:50.079
<v Speaker 2>But now you can't even fathom the thought of her

867
00:45:50.119 --> 00:45:53.440
<v Speaker 2>attempting to get a get back, which I'm not saying

868
00:45:53.599 --> 00:45:56.639
<v Speaker 2>is fair. Okay, cause I do wanna say, do you

869
00:45:56.719 --> 00:46:00.599
<v Speaker 2>have to accept them getting a get back or cheating

870
00:46:00.599 --> 00:46:01.079
<v Speaker 2>on you back?

871
00:46:01.280 --> 00:46:03.559
<v Speaker 1>No? No, because I'm gonna be real with you.

872
00:46:04.440 --> 00:46:06.800
<v Speaker 2>If I cheat on you and I take you back

873
00:46:07.239 --> 00:46:09.360
<v Speaker 2>and you cheat on me, I'm leaving.

874
00:46:13.440 --> 00:46:15.360
<v Speaker 1>Hear me out. Hear me out.

875
00:46:15.639 --> 00:46:20.800
<v Speaker 2>Hear me out, hear me out, hear me out. If

876
00:46:20.800 --> 00:46:24.280
<v Speaker 2>you cheat on me, or if I cheat on you. Rather,

877
00:46:24.840 --> 00:46:27.639
<v Speaker 2>if I cheat on you and you take me back

878
00:46:29.519 --> 00:46:32.320
<v Speaker 2>and then you try to cheat on me, I'm leaving.

879
00:46:33.519 --> 00:46:37.239
<v Speaker 1>I am leaving. I don't care. I don't care. I

880
00:46:37.239 --> 00:46:37.679
<v Speaker 1>don't care.

881
00:46:38.159 --> 00:46:41.719
<v Speaker 2>Number one, just because you don't have no standards don't

882
00:46:41.719 --> 00:46:44.920
<v Speaker 2>mean I don't. Okay, that's the first thing. That's the

883
00:46:44.920 --> 00:46:45.960
<v Speaker 2>first thing, all right.

884
00:46:46.480 --> 00:46:47.480
<v Speaker 1>Second thing is.

885
00:46:49.039 --> 00:46:54.480
<v Speaker 2>I know you saw what emotional damage took place with

886
00:46:54.679 --> 00:46:58.320
<v Speaker 2>us having a fight through an infidelity scandal, So for

887
00:46:58.360 --> 00:47:02.320
<v Speaker 2>you to put us through another one, I think it's selfish, okay,

888
00:47:02.840 --> 00:47:06.679
<v Speaker 2>And to me, I feel like at that point it's

889
00:47:06.719 --> 00:47:10.199
<v Speaker 2>a decision. One time is a mistake, second time is

890
00:47:10.239 --> 00:47:13.000
<v Speaker 2>a decision. And I know you might not have did

891
00:47:13.079 --> 00:47:15.119
<v Speaker 2>the first time, but baby, he was part of it.

892
00:47:15.400 --> 00:47:17.440
<v Speaker 2>You were accomplished, whether you wanted to be or not.

893
00:47:17.840 --> 00:47:20.519
<v Speaker 2>So at this point, you're choosing to hurt me.

894
00:47:21.480 --> 00:47:27.559
<v Speaker 1>And they say, ooh, what Stormy, you chose to hurt him.

895
00:47:27.679 --> 00:47:29.559
<v Speaker 1>We just gotta do with me. See now, how am

896
00:47:29.599 --> 00:47:30.039
<v Speaker 1>I getting this?

897
00:47:30.079 --> 00:47:34.559
<v Speaker 2>We're talking about him, were talking about him, talking about him.

898
00:47:34.960 --> 00:47:38.360
<v Speaker 2>Ki n YC says, you have to expect and accept

899
00:47:38.400 --> 00:47:43.719
<v Speaker 2>that for sure. Independence says, don't have to accept, but

900
00:47:43.880 --> 00:47:48.760
<v Speaker 2>better expect. Ki n Yc says, because if you thought they.

901
00:47:48.679 --> 00:47:52.360
<v Speaker 1>Wouldn't think again, Batman, I'm gragging up.

902
00:47:53.239 --> 00:47:57.840
<v Speaker 2>Kai n Yc says, not, Stormy can't take the heat.

903
00:47:58.039 --> 00:48:00.760
<v Speaker 2>T Salius eighty says, who as I say?

904
00:48:01.000 --> 00:48:01.800
<v Speaker 1>Not as I do?

905
00:48:02.199 --> 00:48:05.199
<v Speaker 2>Okay, And I thought that in my chest tight I

906
00:48:05.239 --> 00:48:08.679
<v Speaker 2>got grind says no, because I'm taking your pillow on

907
00:48:08.760 --> 00:48:15.199
<v Speaker 2>the couch, faces back I'm cracking up. Chevy Chris says

908
00:48:15.320 --> 00:48:16.400
<v Speaker 2>cheating back is dirty.

909
00:48:16.599 --> 00:48:18.800
<v Speaker 1>Just leave? How was that toxic?

910
00:48:20.280 --> 00:48:22.960
<v Speaker 2>The gold Digger More says, because a motherfucker didn't have

911
00:48:23.039 --> 00:48:23.719
<v Speaker 2>to take me back.

912
00:48:23.840 --> 00:48:27.920
<v Speaker 1>Exactly exactly, you did not have to take me back.

913
00:48:28.280 --> 00:48:29.000
<v Speaker 1>You chose to.

914
00:48:29.480 --> 00:48:31.400
<v Speaker 2>Now, if you chose to take me back just to

915
00:48:31.400 --> 00:48:34.599
<v Speaker 2>get your look back, you're gonna be highly disappointed.

916
00:48:34.639 --> 00:48:37.239
<v Speaker 1>Because, Baby, I'm leaving. I'm leaving.

917
00:48:37.760 --> 00:48:40.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm leaving because you didn't have to take me back.

918
00:48:40.800 --> 00:48:44.519
<v Speaker 2>You didn't have to take me back. Outfit says, I'm

919
00:48:44.559 --> 00:48:46.360
<v Speaker 2>doing what you didn't have the courage to do.

920
00:48:46.559 --> 00:48:47.639
<v Speaker 1>If that shit and I'm out.

921
00:48:47.800 --> 00:48:51.559
<v Speaker 2>Exactly, I'm doing what you didn't have the courage to do.

922
00:48:51.920 --> 00:48:58.800
<v Speaker 1>Baby, I'm leaving. I am, I am. Cigar Charlotte Cigar

923
00:48:58.840 --> 00:49:03.320
<v Speaker 1>Week says you didn't. You didn't even sleep and fall

924
00:49:03.440 --> 00:49:07.280
<v Speaker 1>on a dingling. I'm sick of you. I am truly

925
00:49:07.360 --> 00:49:10.000
<v Speaker 1>truly sick of you. I am I am.

926
00:49:10.320 --> 00:49:13.920
<v Speaker 2>Tryll said says Yo, why should there be a get back?

927
00:49:14.159 --> 00:49:16.800
<v Speaker 2>I agree me personally, I don't think there should be

928
00:49:16.880 --> 00:49:19.000
<v Speaker 2>a get back if your partner cheats on you and

929
00:49:19.039 --> 00:49:21.159
<v Speaker 2>you feel like you need to take them back just

930
00:49:21.159 --> 00:49:23.400
<v Speaker 2>so you can get a get back. You don't need

931
00:49:23.440 --> 00:49:25.119
<v Speaker 2>to be with your partner. You don't need to be

932
00:49:25.159 --> 00:49:28.000
<v Speaker 2>with that person period. Like you can't genuinely love them.

933
00:49:28.159 --> 00:49:30.960
<v Speaker 2>You can't say you're loving them. You can't say you

934
00:49:31.039 --> 00:49:33.039
<v Speaker 2>love them when you're planning.

935
00:49:32.679 --> 00:49:34.880
<v Speaker 1>To hurt them. That doesn't make sense.

936
00:49:36.000 --> 00:49:38.280
<v Speaker 2>And or your thought process for hurting them is I

937
00:49:38.280 --> 00:49:39.800
<v Speaker 2>can get away with it because they did it to me,

938
00:49:40.360 --> 00:49:44.119
<v Speaker 2>Like that's the howest goes. That's not how love goes.

939
00:49:44.320 --> 00:49:47.000
<v Speaker 2>That's not what Jennet Jackson's saying about in that song.

940
00:49:47.159 --> 00:49:49.480
<v Speaker 2>She never said that, and that's the way love goes.

941
00:49:49.800 --> 00:49:54.599
<v Speaker 2>She never said that any of that. Ki and YC says,

942
00:49:54.639 --> 00:49:56.679
<v Speaker 2>if you have the urge to cheat, just leave. If

943
00:49:56.679 --> 00:49:59.559
<v Speaker 2>you have the urge to cheat, why did you take

944
00:49:59.599 --> 00:50:01.800
<v Speaker 2>me back? You can go do whatever you want to

945
00:50:01.800 --> 00:50:04.840
<v Speaker 2>do without me and have zero consequences and be fine.

946
00:50:05.400 --> 00:50:07.400
<v Speaker 2>You chose to take me back, means you chose to

947
00:50:07.400 --> 00:50:08.400
<v Speaker 2>be in this relationship.

948
00:50:08.559 --> 00:50:12.320
<v Speaker 1>So why are you trying to choose to cheat? You corny?

949
00:50:12.639 --> 00:50:13.320
<v Speaker 1>You are corny?

950
00:50:14.760 --> 00:50:16.920
<v Speaker 2>Ty Do Grind says that's the only reason they take

951
00:50:16.960 --> 00:50:18.199
<v Speaker 2>you back is to get back.

952
00:50:18.320 --> 00:50:21.119
<v Speaker 1>That's true, that's true. That is true.

953
00:50:21.519 --> 00:50:26.079
<v Speaker 2>Independence says, look backs be diabolical. Sometimes it's diabolula. A

954
00:50:26.119 --> 00:50:30.639
<v Speaker 2>look back is diabolical, but it's temporary. That feeling doesn't

955
00:50:30.639 --> 00:50:33.679
<v Speaker 2>erase the emotions that you had that caused you to

956
00:50:33.719 --> 00:50:34.880
<v Speaker 2>want to have that get back.

957
00:50:35.440 --> 00:50:37.840
<v Speaker 1>It's not long standing. It's dumb.

958
00:50:38.119 --> 00:50:40.039
<v Speaker 2>And now you're gonna be even more hurt when I

959
00:50:40.039 --> 00:50:42.079
<v Speaker 2>throw your shit outside and all the neighbors looking at

960
00:50:42.079 --> 00:50:46.079
<v Speaker 2>your dirty ass straws on the porch. You could avoid

961
00:50:46.119 --> 00:50:49.519
<v Speaker 2>it all us and just left me alone. Outfit says,

962
00:50:49.559 --> 00:50:51.440
<v Speaker 2>I got cheated on by the girl I was cheating

963
00:50:51.480 --> 00:50:54.760
<v Speaker 2>on her with. That was the coldest thing ever since then,

964
00:50:54.920 --> 00:50:57.920
<v Speaker 2>there's always a conversation before it gets that far.

965
00:50:59.320 --> 00:51:01.960
<v Speaker 1>Quay the lyrics, It says, that's childish, not the way

966
00:51:02.000 --> 00:51:07.199
<v Speaker 1>love goes. You ain't never lied? Uh Tydy Grond says, well, sign.

967
00:51:07.039 --> 00:51:11.360
<v Speaker 2>You didn't need them was when they slipped and please

968
00:51:12.519 --> 00:51:15.199
<v Speaker 2>dart Man's seventeen says, hurt people, hurt people?

969
00:51:15.800 --> 00:51:17.239
<v Speaker 1>Oh yes, oh yes.

970
00:51:19.440 --> 00:51:24.360
<v Speaker 2>So last question was, so what happens when Stormy finally

971
00:51:24.400 --> 00:51:27.519
<v Speaker 2>falls in love? Is her podcast going to change? Will

972
00:51:27.599 --> 00:51:30.199
<v Speaker 2>she still make love jokes? Why don't think that if

973
00:51:30.199 --> 00:51:33.280
<v Speaker 2>I get a boyfriend at Nickgang gonna get these jokes too? Like,

974
00:51:34.039 --> 00:51:36.760
<v Speaker 2>I think that the content is still gonna be the same,

975
00:51:36.840 --> 00:51:39.440
<v Speaker 2>the advice is still gonna be the same, because obviously

976
00:51:39.440 --> 00:51:42.400
<v Speaker 2>it fucking worked, right, But it would just be more

977
00:51:42.519 --> 00:51:45.559
<v Speaker 2>relationship content at that point. But it's still dating, it's

978
00:51:45.559 --> 00:51:50.039
<v Speaker 2>still relatable. It's still like, you know, fuck these niggas

979
00:51:50.039 --> 00:51:52.639
<v Speaker 2>if they ain't treating you right. It's still fuck these

980
00:51:52.679 --> 00:51:54.400
<v Speaker 2>bitches if they just gonna use you for they money.

981
00:51:54.440 --> 00:51:57.039
<v Speaker 2>Like that message is never gonna change regardless of what

982
00:51:57.079 --> 00:51:58.039
<v Speaker 2>my relationship said.

983
00:51:58.039 --> 00:52:02.840
<v Speaker 1>This is so there's that, I mean, hmm, one fine.

984
00:52:03.000 --> 00:52:06.679
<v Speaker 2>Trinny Boy says he got cheating, he got cheating algebra

985
00:52:06.800 --> 00:52:07.440
<v Speaker 2>solving X.

986
00:52:07.480 --> 00:52:10.079
<v Speaker 1>I'm cracking up. Chevy Chris says, you're gonna be in

987
00:52:10.119 --> 00:52:13.119
<v Speaker 1>a relationship jail. Low Key, y'all think i'ma be in

988
00:52:13.239 --> 00:52:16.000
<v Speaker 1>relationship jail y'all think.

989
00:52:15.760 --> 00:52:18.679
<v Speaker 2>When I get in a relationship, I'm being a relationship Joe.

990
00:52:18.679 --> 00:52:21.320
<v Speaker 2>I low key want to I low key hope I

991
00:52:21.320 --> 00:52:23.480
<v Speaker 2>get with somebody who like, don't really like social media.

992
00:52:23.880 --> 00:52:26.199
<v Speaker 2>It's like, oh, yeah, that's you and that's how you

993
00:52:26.239 --> 00:52:28.599
<v Speaker 2>make your money. But I'm fine just being over here

994
00:52:28.599 --> 00:52:30.719
<v Speaker 2>and just use me as a prop for like videos

995
00:52:30.719 --> 00:52:33.239
<v Speaker 2>and jokes every once in a while, like that's that's

996
00:52:33.280 --> 00:52:36.159
<v Speaker 2>what I want, you know what I mean? All right, guys,

997
00:52:36.280 --> 00:52:41.599
<v Speaker 2>So you know, we learned so many things today and

998
00:52:41.719 --> 00:52:43.679
<v Speaker 2>I'm just so grateful to have you all here with me.

999
00:52:44.280 --> 00:52:46.119
<v Speaker 2>And I hope you all have a great week. I

1000
00:52:46.159 --> 00:52:49.840
<v Speaker 2>hope you all have a great Black history mom. I

1001
00:52:49.840 --> 00:52:51.199
<v Speaker 2>mean I say it like, damn, I'm not gonna see

1002
00:52:51.239 --> 00:52:54.320
<v Speaker 2>'all next week because I am. But yeah, learn something,

1003
00:52:54.400 --> 00:52:58.199
<v Speaker 2>niggas learn from this. My message is always gonna be

1004
00:52:58.199 --> 00:52:59.880
<v Speaker 2>the same. Follow me on a gram ass Stormy p

1005
00:53:00.159 --> 00:53:02.440
<v Speaker 2>p e a at chocolate Chip and Zip. And if

1006
00:53:02.440 --> 00:53:06.400
<v Speaker 2>you don't remember anything else, please remember oh fie Zen.

1007
00:53:06.599 --> 00:53:08.239
<v Speaker 1>I love you, guys, and I see you next week. Peace.