Speaker 1: Whoo. What's up, beautiful people?
Speaker 2: Is your baby mama, favorite baby Mama, Stormy Pee And
Speaker 2: this is another episode of Chocolate Chip and Sip the
Speaker 2: modern day female perspective. Damn Son back at it again,
Speaker 2: and y'all were back.
Speaker 1: In the living room.
Speaker 2: As you guys can see, same message applies. You know,
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Speaker 2: life and life and and that little hold guy hands.
Speaker 2: But you know, we here and we still getting it done,
Speaker 2: and you know the vibes and that's it. So yeah,
Speaker 2: shout out to everybody on life tapping in. Hello, I
Speaker 2: see Jersey in the building. That's what's up. That's what's up, y'all.
Speaker 2: I got a few things I want to talk to
Speaker 2: you all about today, and some of it may come
Speaker 2: as a surprise to you, others not so much.
Speaker 1: But we're family. It is what it is, right.
Speaker 2: Uh. First, I'm not gonna lie, y'all. This is my
Speaker 2: first Valentine's Day, not having a Valentine.
Speaker 1: In like three maybe four years.
Speaker 2: This is the first time I do not have a
Speaker 2: Valentine in like three maybe four years.
Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna hold you. It's not that bad.
Speaker 1: It's not that bad. I'm not gonna it's not that bad.
Speaker 2: I feel like y'all was adding a little bit of
Speaker 2: sauce on it. Okay, y'all was adding a little bit
Speaker 2: of sauce on it. Y'all made it seem like it
Speaker 2: was the end of the world.
Speaker 1: And I don't like that. I don't like that for us.
Speaker 1: I mean like I was prepared.
Speaker 2: I stocked up on my ice cream, I charged my rose, Okay,
Speaker 2: I was prepared to go to work on my rest feet.
Speaker 1: Okay, I was prepared.
Speaker 2: All right, y'all made it seem like this shit was
Speaker 2: the dumps, Like, oh, leading up to it, the commercials
Speaker 2: are gonna get you, the candy gonna get you.
Speaker 1: The retail, the shopping, everything is selling.
Speaker 2: No I I I haven't really been experiencing that. I
Speaker 2: it's still early, it's still early in the month, so
Speaker 2: maybe that's why.
Speaker 1: But honestly, I think that.
Speaker 2: Maybe because I've become so like comfortable in my solitude,
Speaker 2: I'm not really phased.
Speaker 1: By like not having a Valentine, Like it's just mum,
Speaker 1: do I want one? Guess? But am I gonna be heartbroken. No,
Speaker 1: like I'm not going on.
Speaker 2: Like I said, I prep for it like a doomsday
Speaker 2: like preparer, like I was ready.
Speaker 1: I was really ready, like I.
Speaker 2: Was prepared, like I had a fire Netflix playlist set up,
Speaker 2: like hours prepared to be locked in. Like it's just
Speaker 2: hm hm, I.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think I'm just.
Speaker 2: Uh oh on top of me being a doomsday preparer,
Speaker 2: a doomsday prepper, okay, because y'all know I'm a doomsday proper.
Speaker 1: I think it's just really not that bad. I don't know.
Speaker 1: Let me look.
Speaker 2: Blessed Bodies Fitness said, do you want to be my
Speaker 2: Valentine or not? Honestly, that's what I'm gonna do when
Speaker 2: Valentine's say, I'm just gonna go to the gym and
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna walk up to Nick.
Speaker 1: Like do you want to be with Valentime or not?
Speaker 2: And we'll see what happens. The real Goldie says, you
Speaker 2: can be alone and not be lonely. That's where growth happens.
Speaker 1: I feel that.
Speaker 2: I feel like that's where I am for sure, Like
Speaker 2: that's a good point. I think you're right, like you
Speaker 2: could be alone and not be lonely, and I think
Speaker 2: that's where I am. Monsieur Humble says, I swear that
Speaker 2: is the story of most single women. I'm just comfortable
Speaker 2: in my solitude. It is like bro y'all already know,
Speaker 2: like in the house be lit, it's free alcohol, the
Speaker 2: snacks is fire, Okay, crime rate is low. I say
Speaker 2: this all the time, and the house is lit. But
Speaker 2: I do acknowledge that we have to start going outside. People,
Speaker 2: all my house people. We have to start going outside, okay.
Speaker 2: So this isn't advocating for insightness, and I know people outside,
Speaker 2: but we do.
Speaker 1: Have to start going outside, okay. So that's that.
Speaker 2: Saint Inciner eighty nine says, in the words of the
Speaker 2: Greek kung Fu Kenny, we gonna be all right. I'm
Speaker 2: cracking up. Tie Grind says, don't electrocute yourself.
Speaker 1: Q just chillin. View says hit them with the batman?
Speaker 2: Where are they?
Speaker 1: That might be a good one. That that might be
Speaker 1: a good one.
Speaker 2: Mike Kennessey two five says, what about doing a Valentine's
Speaker 2: Day podcast? Oh, like a live or like a live show?
Speaker 2: A live show is like a little bit too late
Speaker 2: to try to put that together.
Speaker 1: For right now. But I can't go live.
Speaker 2: Y'all want to bring y'all snacks and like y'all can
Speaker 2: hop on and hop off.
Speaker 1: Maybe I will do that. That's a good idea.
Speaker 2: Mike Kennessey, I'm gonna hit you U because I'm gonna
Speaker 2: have to get you on here too.
Speaker 1: Hey, dj A cl.
Speaker 2: One, Fine Tree Boys, says VDA pressing Ninjas, the bench
Speaker 2: pressing at the gym is wild.
Speaker 1: We pressing each other. That's it. I don't see what
Speaker 1: the problem is.
Speaker 2: Kai Nyc says nothing wrong with being in solitude, work
Speaker 2: for Batman and Superman. Y'all just get on my nerves
Speaker 2: so bad. The real Goldie says, as a man Valentine,
Speaker 2: it is only worth it for me if she's my lady,
Speaker 2: not some random Yeah. Man, I hope, I hope y'all
Speaker 2: not out here getting Valentine's just random women. We're not
Speaker 2: doing that this year. We're better than that. We're better
Speaker 2: than that. Women and men. We're better than that. Okay,
Speaker 2: we're better than that. So I want to go into
Speaker 2: some of the things that are key and also might
Speaker 2: add to me not having Valentine. I know that you
Speaker 2: know the standards and the boundaries. They little sick when
Speaker 2: it comes to me. Okay, y'all know, I want to
Speaker 2: go talk to the ladies. So she told me how
Speaker 2: to enforce them hose right, she told me how to
Speaker 2: enforce them boundaries and them standards.
Speaker 1: So I wanted to talk to y'all a little bit
Speaker 1: about what I've learned. Okay, what's been keeping me single?
Speaker 1: But it's not a bad thing.
Speaker 2: It's not a bad thing. I'm laughing about it because
Speaker 2: you know, I ain't got no common sense.
Speaker 1: But it's not always a bad thing. Right. So the
Speaker 1: first thing is.
Speaker 2: And this is a real big one, this is a real,
Speaker 2: real big one. From the bottom of my heart, I
Speaker 2: want to say, I don't match energy. I'm not her,
Speaker 2: I'm not her. You have some people like you start
Speaker 2: acting weird, I'm gonna act weirder.
Speaker 1: No, I'm not.
Speaker 2: No, I'm not no, I'm not okay, And I mean
Speaker 2: they're from the bottom of my heart.
Speaker 1: I don't match energy. You can either meet my standards
Speaker 1: or you can leave. That's it. That's it.
Speaker 2: I don't match energy. You can either meet my standards
Speaker 2: or you can leave. Oh fit doesn't.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, goodbye, goodbye. That's it. That's it.
Speaker 2: The real Goldie says, oh, y'are STI talking about Valentine's secon.
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, I'm not with that.
Speaker 2: Like we often hear people say, oh, sometimes you got
Speaker 2: to meet people where they are and the trash because
Speaker 2: I can't meet there. I can't be there, I can't
Speaker 2: meet you there. You better give Oscar to Grouch my
Speaker 2: condolences because maybe I'm never going. I'm never going. I'm
Speaker 2: never going to the trash like just that. I don't
Speaker 2: want to do that. I don't want to do that,
Speaker 2: And the main reason is because, like bro, I'm a
Speaker 2: lover girl. If I like being romantic, I like being
Speaker 2: touchy feely, I like communicating with you. I like being
Speaker 2: able to reciprocate and plan and pay for dates. I
Speaker 2: like showing you how much I'm meant to you, how
Speaker 2: much I care, like I like acting like I like you.
Speaker 2: Why would I stop doing what I want to do
Speaker 2: because you acting stupid?
Speaker 1: Do that make sense? Use your comment sense?
Speaker 2: Okay, that makes sense to you? Does that make sense
Speaker 2: to you? Because it don't make sense to me. I
Speaker 2: never understood why people wanted to match energy. He acting weird,
Speaker 2: so why I'm gonna act weirder? No allowed to No,
Speaker 2: I'm not, I am not. I am not. Like that
Speaker 2: never made sense to me. Like, I feel like matching
Speaker 2: your energy shouldn't cost me my happiness, and if it does,
Speaker 2: I'm not going to do it.
Speaker 1: It doesn't make sense.
Speaker 2: Why would I do that when I can find somebody
Speaker 2: who's going to match my energy and meet me where
Speaker 2: I am Like, that don't make sense. It don't make
Speaker 2: sense at all. Ty Die Grind says, it's not a
Speaker 2: lick of sense. Thomas Paying two one to five says,
Speaker 2: because they're already looking to leave the real Goaldie says,
Speaker 2: if she's acting, I'm leaving her alone.
Speaker 1: I'm the truth.
Speaker 2: Nine four says that's some little kid logic, like why
Speaker 2: just walk away the fuck?
Speaker 1: I agree? I agree.
Speaker 2: Tie that Grand says, I'm done picking up trash.
Speaker 1: I'm dying pigging up trash. I know that's right.
Speaker 2: You no longer work for the city, my guy. We
Speaker 2: done nigging up trash? Yes, yes, hold on, y'all gotta
Speaker 2: scroll back down. Mike Kennessey says, I want to be
Speaker 2: as clingy as Mufasa and Scar.
Speaker 1: I always wanted the brother. I'm crying. I'm crying. Yo,
Speaker 1: Why are y'all like this? I am, I'm done. I'm done, but.
Speaker 2: I agree, though I agree, I always wanted the brother
Speaker 2: that song slap a little bit, I ain't gonna want you,
Speaker 2: but no, like I just always had the mindset of, like,
Speaker 2: why would I lower my frequency when I can find
Speaker 2: somebody who matches my greatness? And it's not that hard.
Speaker 2: I know, like they exist. It's just a matter of
Speaker 2: putting your energy into the right person. And that's just
Speaker 2: what I'm all all about right now. I'm the truth
Speaker 2: now four says, Long Live the King. The real Goldie says,
Speaker 2: when I feel like dating again, I'm coming to atl
Speaker 2: and taking story p out well good luck because I
Speaker 2: don't live in atl So, but that's not like uncommon.
Speaker 2: I have been hearing that, Like people think I live
Speaker 2: in Atlanta or Chicago.
Speaker 1: I live in Philly. But you know, thank you, I'll
Speaker 1: be waiting TI do.
Speaker 2: Grind says, I'll be wanting my woman in my skin,
Speaker 2: like see the phil see it helf aw big dog,
Speaker 2: see it's helf, how big dog see yourself?
Speaker 1: See you. I'm sick of y'all. I'm sick y'all.
Speaker 2: So another thing that really be like hindering me from
Speaker 2: getting past, like the texting or the talking, or like
Speaker 2: the first few date phases.
Speaker 1: Right, I don't fuck with mixed signals. Don't fuck with
Speaker 1: mixed signals. I don't. I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't entertain mixed signals because the men who want
Speaker 2: you act like it. Thank you for coming to my
Speaker 2: ted talk.
Speaker 1: That's it. That's all it is. That's all it is.
Speaker 2: I don't entertain mixed signals because the men who like
Speaker 2: you act like it.
Speaker 1: I know, I know.
Speaker 2: Such a novel concept, right, such a novel concept. And
Speaker 2: don't get me wrong, there's also a difference between men
Speaker 2: who like you and men who actually want to pursue you, right,
Speaker 2: because a man can look at you and be like, oh,
Speaker 2: she's attractive, she has some things going for herself. I
Speaker 2: would like to be with her. And they also know
Speaker 2: in the back of their mind, I don't have the
Speaker 2: structure of the discipline or the time and effort to
Speaker 2: do that. So it's like, yeah, just going to make
Speaker 2: start time for a little bit cool. Not mine, not mine,
Speaker 2: not mine. Ty Die Ground says, one more time for
Speaker 2: those in the back. Big Cat fifty says, why do
Speaker 2: women say they don't like small talk, Like how am
Speaker 2: I supposed to get to know you? Sometimes men aren't
Speaker 2: good at small talk, And honestly, I'll say that period,
Speaker 2: everyone isn't good at small talk. So you can be
Speaker 2: a really good person to have a conversation with in person,
Speaker 2: but through text, your small talk is ass and it's
Speaker 2: like it's a it's a it's a talent, for sure,
Speaker 2: it's a talent, for sure. The real Goldie says, attention
Speaker 2: doesn't equal interest, and interest doesn't equal value. That is fire,
Speaker 2: that is fire. Especially, attention doesn't equal interests for sure,
Speaker 2: for sure, for sure, for sure, Like I don't know,
Speaker 2: Like I want clarity, not confusion.
Speaker 1: That's what I need. That's what I need.
Speaker 2: You gotta dumb it for me. Make a clear big dog.
Speaker 2: I need to be able to see right through it.
Speaker 2: I don't need no cloudy skies, no nothing. I need
Speaker 2: clear skies all the way through, all the way through.
Speaker 2: It's like, I personally feel like, if you want me,
Speaker 2: you'll be on my line more than them people trying
Speaker 2: to extend my car warranty.
Speaker 1: Okay, and you.
Speaker 2: Know it, you know it that that's the attention I like. Okay,
Speaker 2: if you want me. You need to be on my
Speaker 2: line more than the people trying to extend.
Speaker 1: My car warranty.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's the attention I want. That's the attention I need. Yeah,
Speaker 2: that's that's how I know the interest is there?
Speaker 1: Oh trying? Okay, Okay, I'm here for it. This is
Speaker 1: a thing. We can do this, We can get busy
Speaker 1: with this. I can work with that. But all add
Speaker 1: some tiny hot and cold. One day I'm blowing you up.
Speaker 1: Then I ghost you for three days. Not for me.
Speaker 1: I don't want it. Not for me. I don't want it.
Speaker 1: I can't deal with that.
Speaker 2: Because at the end of the day, like, if he's interested,
Speaker 2: he will plan dates, he will show effort.
Speaker 1: Men are simple creatures.
Speaker 2: You don't need no rule book or playbook or try
Speaker 2: to figure out if he likes you were not. The
Speaker 2: mixed signals mean it's not what you think it is.
Speaker 2: It's not it's not.
Speaker 1: Eternal.
Speaker 2: Sincere, says Bill collector Energy. Yes, I need that Bill
Speaker 2: collector energy. I need that Bill collector energy. Yes, ambitiously says.
Speaker 1: Bring back simping.
Speaker 2: Let's bring back acting like you like people, Like when
Speaker 2: did that stop becoming a thing?
Speaker 1: All that cortshit ain't for me. It ain't for me.
Speaker 2: Just Mike Major says, dudes have too many options, especially
Speaker 2: black men and Philly. You ain't never lied. I really
Speaker 2: think that is the problem. Like I think that and
Speaker 2: I won't say the problem. I think that the issue
Speaker 2: is supply and demand, and unfortunately men have figuredured out the.
Speaker 1: Supply and demand.
Speaker 2: So like, you have to maintain your standards and your
Speaker 2: boundaries to get what you want or else you as
Speaker 2: fine as they are, as established as they are, they
Speaker 2: could still be the bottom of the motherfucker barrel when
Speaker 2: it comes to getting what you want. So like, you
Speaker 2: really have to stick firm to your standards and boundaries.
Speaker 2: Site now absolutely absolutely.
Speaker 1: Hold on.
Speaker 2: Mike Kennessey says, I'm not simple. I'm too inquired and
Speaker 2: smart to be simple. If you like a woman, I'm
Speaker 2: sure you know how to express that you like a woman.
Speaker 1: Very simple in that nature.
Speaker 2: The Shan Gatewood said, I'm trying to get my situation
Speaker 2: to act right. Tell let a hurry up because Valentine's
Speaker 2: coming up. You ain't got time to play. Tell her
Speaker 2: her competition is on the line, Act right, Okay, Supplying demand.
Speaker 1: We just talked about this.
Speaker 2: Ambitiously said like, damn, I gotta act tough for my girl.
Speaker 2: That's crazy and Cordy, Yes, yes, I agree, one thousand percent, but.
Speaker 1: I agree.
Speaker 2: I mean going back to what I was saying, like,
Speaker 2: if he's interested, he's going to plan dates, he's going
Speaker 2: to text.
Speaker 1: You and genuinely act like you're the best part of
Speaker 1: his day.
Speaker 2: And if he isn't, you're not. And that's cool. That's
Speaker 2: not enough for me, but that's cool. It's cool for somebody,
Speaker 2: but not me. Damn, my clip is coming out.
Speaker 1: Oh no, hold on, y'all.
Speaker 2: Look, we just gonna do that right fast, because I
Speaker 2: don't feel like taking that out.
Speaker 1: Lord Fitness one says, I just canceled my Valentine's plans
Speaker 1: because she'd be playing. I love that for you, King.
Speaker 1: I love that for you, King, And I'm gonna be real.
Speaker 2: If you're black and you have some goal for yourselves,
Speaker 2: it's not gonna take much fun. Another one, I know,
Speaker 2: I know this is bad. I know this is bad.
Speaker 2: I know it's not what the wom I'm gonna want
Speaker 2: to hear. But from the bottom of my heart, if
Speaker 2: you like him and he acts like he likes you,
Speaker 2: act right okay, because there are more options.
Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. That's all I'm saying, Malika that
Speaker 1: Leah says.
Speaker 2: I've been doing a lot of listening and not argument
Speaker 2: in preparation for Valentine's Say.
Speaker 1: This is what I want to hear. Yes, Sys, Yes, okay.
Speaker 2: And I hope you get everything that you are looking
Speaker 2: for on Valentine's Say, because you deserve it, that type
Speaker 2: of behavior, you deserve it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, do your part.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm talking to see this woman gets it. Yes, yes, yes,
Speaker 2: and yes, I love this for you. I hope he
Speaker 2: buy you a new car, syst a pony, a big
Speaker 2: old Doberman, whatever you want.
Speaker 1: Okay, I hope.
Speaker 2: He gets it for you one thousand percent. So the
Speaker 2: last thing I want to talk about, as far as
Speaker 2: you know, the hinderance, and it kind of ties into
Speaker 2: what we've been talking about so far.
Speaker 1: It's really.
Speaker 2: Now there's this cool thing to do with the young kids,
Speaker 2: it's okay where they'll text you frequently for like, or
Speaker 2: call you frequently or like engage with you frequently for
Speaker 2: like two weeks and then they like could take a
Speaker 2: holiday and just go like three four days without hitting
Speaker 2: you up.
Speaker 1: At all. What I'm confused. I'm confused.
Speaker 2: We've been talking consistently for two weeks. Why is are
Speaker 2: we now taking a break? You didn't even put in
Speaker 2: your PTO.
Speaker 1: I'm confused.
Speaker 2: Did you request time off because I didn't see anything
Speaker 2: in the calendar? Did you put into the app? I
Speaker 2: didn't see it. I didn't see it. I didn't seek it.
Speaker 2: Like thinking you can go more than three d's without
Speaker 2: hitting me up?
Speaker 1: Me?
Speaker 2: Me, thinking you can go more than three days without
Speaker 2: hitting me up?
Speaker 1: Baby?
Speaker 2: No, I have a very very firm ghosting policy. M h,
Speaker 2: no nonsense. I have a very no nonsense ghosting dating policy.
Speaker 1: Yeah I do.
Speaker 2: After three days, you get a no call, no show,
Speaker 2: and you are terminated from the company.
Speaker 1: Good luck on your journey. Good luck on your journey. Yeah,
Speaker 1: three three three.
Speaker 2: And the reason I say three is because if you
Speaker 2: go more than three days without hit me up, that
Speaker 2: means I'm not in your top three rotation.
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm gold, but you're trying to tell me I'm
Speaker 1: not even a bronze. What ain't no way, bro? But
Speaker 1: ain't no way, ain't no way, ain't no way.
Speaker 2: Hold on one second, let me go back then, sorry,
Speaker 2: happy in stormy PDMS without a three day break.
Speaker 1: The boys, then Philly better get it together. I'm cracking up. Uh.
Speaker 1: The gold Moan says, Big Sob. Three strikes and you're out.
Speaker 1: Fret strength, send your out. I agree. I agree.
Speaker 2: Three days it's not gonna do it for me. It's
Speaker 2: not gonna do it for me. And don't get me wrong,
Speaker 2: I know we're all adults. I know we're all busy,
Speaker 2: we all have our own things going on. But it
Speaker 2: takes two seconds to say that. And my whole thing is,
Speaker 2: if you can sit down and binge watch Night Agent
Speaker 2: in one day, you can't text me and say you
Speaker 2: got something going on and you're gonna hit me tomorrow.
Speaker 1: You can.
Speaker 2: You're choosing not to, okay, which is why we're gonna
Speaker 2: have to let you go from the company.
Speaker 1: We're gonna go in a different direction. Thank you, good
Speaker 1: luck for your journey. That's it. That's it. Deuces Club
Speaker 1: says three days no contact is very fair. I agree.
Speaker 1: I agree.
Speaker 2: Tydee Grind says if we emotion the breaks, don't get hit.
Speaker 1: I agree.
Speaker 2: I see what she did there with the word play
Speaker 2: in the breaks. Chavelle Cruze says, no recommendation letter. Hell no,
Speaker 2: you are not getting a recommendation letter. You better hold
Speaker 2: I don't go on don't datumgirl dot com or one
Speaker 2: of them Facebook groups and.
Speaker 1: Blast your shit. Okay, I'm just yoking. I would never
Speaker 1: do that. I've never done that. I've never done that.
Speaker 1: That's not my stiel loot. I wouldn't do that. Hold on, uh,
Speaker 1: just tray says their funds are low. After that much talking.
Speaker 2: It's daytime and you know what you you don't even
Speaker 2: gotta even if your funds are low, and say you
Speaker 2: don't have the money to pull the trigger.
Speaker 1: Right, get fucking creative. Okay.
Speaker 2: Show me you're a provider, okay, show me that I
Speaker 2: can trust you when situations get sticky. Make some shit shake, okay,
Speaker 2: like damn exibits, if she want to go for some
Speaker 2: ice cream, she want to go for a walk, like
Speaker 2: and if you dealing with a nerdy girl like myself,
Speaker 2: I feel like it's very easy to make shit shake
Speaker 2: at low costs, like damn nigga, take me to a museum.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: The other day I went to Dinods after dark, Like
Speaker 2: you gotta know your audience, Like you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Uh Fat Pharaoh says, this woman is fun as fun.
Speaker 1: Thank you, Fat Farah. I appreciate you. I appreciate you,
Speaker 1: Ray Wonder, thank you so much.
Speaker 2: I just want to tell you you're very beautiful and I
Speaker 2: want to full close with you.
Speaker 1: Great, so happy that you said that.
Speaker 2: I actually have about three loads upstairs that are not
Speaker 2: done and are taking up space in my craft room.
Speaker 2: So whenever you're a ready, big dog, just come.
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 2: Tied A Grim says, make a dollar out of fifteen cents.
Speaker 2: Deuce Club says, I'm using a gym date every time.
Speaker 2: It really don't take much. It really don't take much
Speaker 2: for a girl like me, and don't take much. Bro
Speaker 2: take me to a gym, like bring me some pre
Speaker 2: workout or supply like the protein powder for afterwards. Like y'all, joh,
Speaker 2: you use your common sense, y'all, don't be I feel
Speaker 2: like another important thing for us to talk about is
Speaker 2: the misuse of words, cause sometimes people say one thing
Speaker 2: when they're actually another thing, trying to get points for
Speaker 2: a completely other thing. And a question I want you
Speaker 2: all to ask.
Speaker 1: Right, especially you adventurous motherfuckers.
Speaker 2: Okay, are you spontaneous or are you last minute, and
Speaker 2: i'ma and i'm'a ask you this again.
Speaker 1: I'm i'm'a ask you this again. Are you spontaneous or
Speaker 1: are you last minute?
Speaker 2: And and it's real cause like men will tell you
Speaker 2: like yo, like you don't I I really be on
Speaker 2: the move and I go with the flow. And you know,
Speaker 2: I'm really just a spontaneous spirit. I'm a spontaneous soul.
Speaker 2: I like to just get up and go No, you're
Speaker 2: actually fucking last minute and you don't think nothing out. Okay,
Speaker 2: that's what it is. That's what it actually is. That's
Speaker 2: what it actually is. Like I have to aks men
Speaker 2: all the time, like as soon as they hit me
Speaker 2: with that ass word, are you or are you last minute?
Speaker 1: Because it's a difference. It's a difference. It's a difference.
Speaker 2: TYD that grind says booth On, I'm a hybrid uh D.
Speaker 2: Hollywood non says hell uh The lex effect says words
Speaker 2: mean things accurate, accurate, accurate like and don't get me wrong,
Speaker 2: I think being spontaneous is sexy. Being last minute gives
Speaker 2: me anxiety. Okay, I can't.
Speaker 1: I can't.
Speaker 2: I can't spontaneous like you know, yes, surprise me with
Speaker 2: the date.
Speaker 1: Like, Oh yeah, I wouldn't even think to go here. Cool?
Speaker 2: Last minute is you calling me at seven pm telling
Speaker 2: me to be ready by seven oh five? Baby, you're
Speaker 2: doing too much. You're doing too First of all, it's
Speaker 2: seven o five. I don't already wrap my hair up.
Speaker 1: You know how many pens go in this? Okay, I
Speaker 1: done took my bra off for the day. Baby. Once
Speaker 1: that BRA's off, we are in for the night. Okay.
Speaker 2: I'm all for being spontaneous, but it's the last minute
Speaker 2: stuff for me.
Speaker 1: I can't, I can I can't.
Speaker 2: Uncle Y B says, sometimes one hundred percent focused on
Speaker 2: the task is needed, and then understanding person needs to
Speaker 2: respect that. Deuce Club says I can plan, but if
Speaker 2: the spirit moves, I also like to make moves.
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at that.
Speaker 2: Dark Man seventeen says I love surprising my queen. Energy
Speaker 2: Energy e Rough seven to seven G says most niggas
Speaker 2: can't spell it right, and they can't.
Speaker 1: It's okay, it's okay.
Speaker 2: No child left behind. Chuck Taylor fifteen last minute, Oh.
Speaker 1: Shit, let's go do this. Yeah, I can't. I can't
Speaker 1: do that. I can't do that.
Speaker 2: Ambitiously says let him hang Outfice says, you don't need
Speaker 2: the titty shackle to go outside all the time. I honestly, respectfully,
Speaker 2: if we're going out in public, I do, I do,
Speaker 2: I do. I I cannot go outside like that. It's
Speaker 2: it's it's inappropriate. It comes off as you're looking for attention,
Speaker 2: like uh yah, then you know I got my staplers
Speaker 2: in there, so they be poking and shit. It's it's
Speaker 2: very inappropriate. If we're not going to the right place,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to put the titty shackles on, pull
Speaker 2: out the titty socks. I'm gonna have to gonna have
Speaker 2: to gonna have to.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I think it's a di It's a
Speaker 1: difference between spont spontaneity.
Speaker 2: It's a difference between being spontaneous and just scrambling at
Speaker 2: the last second cause I don't like that.
Speaker 1: That's not the life for me. I think that.
Speaker 2: It's also important to say it's the thought that counts too, right,
Speaker 2: Like I like being spontaneous, but I also like knowing
Speaker 2: I'm on your mind, And I think it's a way
Speaker 2: too tie in both of them. But like when you're
Speaker 2: giving too much of the last minute energy. It really
Speaker 2: comes off as like you know, I'm a second thought,
Speaker 2: or like you didn't plan it, like you didn't have
Speaker 2: me in mind when you were thinking about this, you
Speaker 2: know what I mean, Like it's just whatever, or I
Speaker 2: got these ten minutes. And don't get me wrong, I
Speaker 2: know some I know some people only have ten minutes.
Speaker 2: But it's the difference between at the top of the
Speaker 2: day you saying, hey, I'm free from this time to
Speaker 2: this time.
Speaker 1: I know it's not a lot, but I really would
Speaker 1: like to see you.
Speaker 2: Okay, cool, I already know what I'm getting myself into.
Speaker 2: Like it's still like you're making a way for me.
Speaker 2: I'm still being thought of. I'm not mad at that,
Speaker 2: but like it was just randomly every time you just randomly,
Speaker 2: like bro, I got five minutes for you at.
Speaker 1: Home, Home Home.
Speaker 2: Molotti two says, niggas are mad horny in the comment's
Speaker 2: not gonna lie. It was the Staplers. I forgot. I
Speaker 2: forgot who we were talking to today.
Speaker 1: In my bad.
Speaker 2: Hey Heartless Reaper Double seven b one Isaiah says, I'll
Speaker 2: definitely throw a woman some curve balls, but nothing too crazy,
Speaker 2: you know, Okay, Yep, we're just gonna scroll, Okay, scroll
Speaker 2: back down.
Speaker 1: No, it's okay, we'll we'll just pick a pick there.
Speaker 1: Because niggas were many in the comments.
Speaker 2: Just Tray says, my last minute looks like I just
Speaker 2: found out by this event today.
Speaker 1: Words are important and words mean things, right. So if
Speaker 1: you're saying like, hey, I just found out that.
Speaker 2: I have cool cool, that gives spontaneous right. But if
Speaker 2: you say, yo, I want to see you on Wednesday
Speaker 2: and it's now Monday, on Wednesday morning, why do you
Speaker 2: still not have a plan on what we're doing or
Speaker 2: what's going on. That's not spontaneous. That's last minute. It
Speaker 2: comes off as last minute. Hold on, y'all, I'm trying
Speaker 2: to scroll back down. Yeah, man, I'm just the last
Speaker 2: minute life styling for me. Long story short, I think
Speaker 2: everyone enjoys the feeling of being thought of, and I
Speaker 2: think there's definitely a way for you to be the
Speaker 2: spontaneous and still let me know I'm on your mind
Speaker 2: as well for and it not comes off.
Speaker 1: As last minute.
Speaker 2: The next thing I want to talk about, it's the
Speaker 2: last thing I want to dive into before we get
Speaker 2: into these edibles speaking of like being thought of? Right,
Speaker 2: love language, is vary, but it's the details for me.
Speaker 2: It's the details.
Speaker 1: For me.
Speaker 2: A detail oriented man is so rare and it's so
Speaker 2: bomb Like. I think it kind of ties into what
Speaker 2: we're talking about, where we were just saying, bring back
Speaker 2: simping and bring back niggas acting like they like you,
Speaker 2: or just people period acting like they like you.
Speaker 1: It's like, I like men who pay attention to details.
Speaker 2: And then act on it, especially when it come to me, like,
Speaker 2: especially when it comes to me.
Speaker 1: I love a man who pays attention to details and acts.
Speaker 2: On it, especially when it comes to me, like, bro,
Speaker 2: what what's top tier?
Speaker 1: Top tier? Like, I think the smallest details can be the.
Speaker 2: Biggest gestures of love, right, And when you find somebody
Speaker 2: who like pays attention to like the little stuff you like,
Speaker 2: and then like be doing stuff with you in mind,
Speaker 2: that's it.
Speaker 1: That's it.
Speaker 2: That's how it starts. Children, families, that's how it starts. Okay,
Speaker 2: that's where it begins.
Speaker 1: No lie, no lie, no lie, no lie. Because big
Speaker 1: gestures of love are easy. Big gestures of love are easy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can bring her flower, you can decorate a
Speaker 2: hotel room, you can get her hair and nails, done,
Speaker 2: which are great, which we are very thankful for all
Speaker 2: great gestures. Yes, yes, yes, but it's like you know,
Speaker 2: and I collect refrigerator magnets and you bringing me one,
Speaker 2: or you bringing me something that has an orca on
Speaker 2: it because you know I like killer whales or like
Speaker 2: something simple like that.
Speaker 1: What come on, now, come on, come on? You bringing
Speaker 1: me pickles?
Speaker 2: You know?
Speaker 1: Why fuck with pickles? What you bringing me a jar
Speaker 1: of pickles? My nigga? How many kids you went?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 1: It really beat the detail for me. It beat the
Speaker 1: details for me, like big stuff is easy. But you
Speaker 1: remembering how I like my coffee what you know? I
Speaker 1: like it dark like my soul. What now, I'm just
Speaker 1: I'm just saying though I do like my coffee dark.
Speaker 2: Though. I'm just saying though, like you remembering certain things
Speaker 2: about me, it brings something else out of me, like damn,
Speaker 2: he hurt me, he paid attention, he listened, he.
Speaker 1: Did his big one.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, Chevy Chris says, censor killer, real magnet.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: It's different though, So I collect refrigerator magnets, but I
Speaker 2: collect refrigerator magnets that have places on it. So like London, Kansas,
Speaker 2: like Paris, and all my friends notice. So when all
Speaker 2: my friends go traveling, they always bring me back a
Speaker 2: refrigerator maget from wherever they come, because like, I have
Speaker 2: boxes and boxes in my garage of refrigerator magnets, and
Speaker 2: my refrigerator right now is covered magnets, and like every
Speaker 2: time it gets filled, I empty up and put it
Speaker 2: in another box, and then I start all over again.
Speaker 2: I don't know why I was worrying about my grandparents.
Speaker 2: You know, Grandma had refrigerator magnets, so now so do I.
Speaker 1: That's it, Hey.
Speaker 2: Man Edward says, what people do with a little, they
Speaker 2: will do with a lot. Charlotte Siagarweek says, given a
Speaker 2: bouquet of favorite flowers instead of roses is always good.
Speaker 1: Hell yeah.
Speaker 2: Also fellas pro tip, do not assume that your lady
Speaker 2: automatically likes roses. Women like different type of flowers, and
Speaker 2: you giving me my favorite type of flowers is much
Speaker 2: more than you giving me roses, for sure, for sure.
Speaker 2: Tidy Grind says, it feels like we have to ask
Speaker 2: too much of the little things these days, and it's
Speaker 2: making them major.
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm mmm mmm. That is a bar.
Speaker 2: It feels like we are having to ask too much
Speaker 2: for the little things.
Speaker 1: So what's making them major? I feel that. I feel that.
Speaker 2: I feel that, ambitiously, says getting her car detailed and
Speaker 2: filling a tank. You ain't never tell no, God, damn,
Speaker 2: oh my god. I cannot stand doing anything with my car.
Speaker 2: I cannot stand doing anything. I'm not gonna lie. I
Speaker 2: need an oil change right now and some wipe or fluid.
Speaker 2: And it's not that I don't have the funds.
Speaker 1: I just hate it. I detested. It's beneath me. That's
Speaker 1: a man's job.
Speaker 2: Okay, I I'm gonna get my oil change tomorrow.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get a change.
Speaker 2: That's wrong, Probably not, but definitely about Thursday. Definitely about Thursday,
Speaker 2: for sure.
Speaker 1: For sure.
Speaker 2: All right, guys, So now we're gonna get into the
Speaker 2: edible portion of the show. So the edible portion is
Speaker 2: when we read questions, stories, comments that you guys sit
Speaker 2: in and on the day that we record, I usually
Speaker 2: put up a prompt saying, ask me anything, and you know.
Speaker 1: You do your business, you put your stuff in. Okay.
Speaker 2: Now, if you have something to say on one of
Speaker 2: the days where we don't record, you can always email
Speaker 2: me at Inquiries at stormypea dot com or you can. Yeah, no,
Speaker 2: don't dm me, I lied. I was about to say,
Speaker 2: dm me, don't lie, don't do don't do that, don't
Speaker 2: do that, but it just reminded me that I had
Speaker 2: something that I did want to read and I didn't
Speaker 2: write it down. So I'm gonna say that for next week.
Speaker 2: And I'm pretty sure I saw your name pap up
Speaker 2: one alive. We gonna do it next week.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: So this first one tickled me so bad. Y'all tickled
Speaker 2: me so bad. I don't think I've last laughed this
Speaker 2: hard and so long. So this person says, should you
Speaker 2: cut off a chick that can't hold her liquor and
Speaker 2: peel on herself when she falls asleep drunk?
Speaker 1: Y'all?
Speaker 2: When I say I laughed, I laughed, and I laughed
Speaker 2: and I laughed. First of all, I'm when y'all say
Speaker 2: that the dating pool got pissing it, I ain't know
Speaker 2: y'all meant like this, Okay. I didn't know y'all meant
Speaker 2: literal piss.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: I thought it was like, you know, a metaphor, but no, apparently,
Speaker 2: apparently there's actual piss.
Speaker 1: In the dating pool. Okay, y'all got on my nerds
Speaker 1: Outfice says, you're in currn. I'm hollering.
Speaker 2: Charlotte Sigarweek says I can't deal with a woman who
Speaker 2: doesn't know her limit. I'm cracking Uh.
Speaker 1: Whyman Jay says, I beg your pardon?
Speaker 2: Yes, he says, should you cut off a chick that
Speaker 2: can't hold her liquor and pee on herself when she
Speaker 2: falls asleep? Drunk Chevy Chris says little Mama can't hold
Speaker 2: water literally tied. Doc Grind says Petunia is uncalled for
Speaker 2: our fan says we wander y'all. Y'all, y'all are killing me.
Speaker 2: Y'all like killing me. Y'all are killing me, not little
Speaker 2: pissy y'all. This question was so crazy that I had
Speaker 2: to put it back on the stories with another prompt like, YO,
Speaker 2: shitty cut her off. So I'm gonna tell you what
Speaker 2: some of the people and the DM says. First one
Speaker 2: person said, yes, cut her off. I'm not a home
Speaker 2: health aid cleaning up your This is crazy, yo. It
Speaker 2: was the I'm not a home health ay for me
Speaker 2: because baby, I'm not. Baby, I'm not I did not
Speaker 2: sign up to be a home health aid CNA none
Speaker 2: of that. Why am I cleaning up piss? Why am
Speaker 2: I cleaning up piss? I don't understand it. I don't
Speaker 2: understand it. Next person says, I guess it depends on
Speaker 2: how often she does it. One time you get a pass.
Speaker 2: And this is what I was thinking. Right, y'all know
Speaker 2: I'm a very forgiving person. That's what happens when you
Speaker 2: go talk to the lady. You know, you forgive people.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 2: I had to ask, I'm like, well, first, does she
Speaker 2: do it all the time? Or was this a one
Speaker 2: time occurrence?
Speaker 1: Dog?
Speaker 2: He said, she does it every time they drink, every
Speaker 2: time they go out drinking, every time y'all go out drinking.
Speaker 1: She peas on herself, sleep sleep sleep.
Speaker 2: Crazy, crazy work, crazy works. Coffee and creamer left a
Speaker 2: whole bunch of cut emojis. I'm not mad at him,
Speaker 2: and dependent says if she drunk hit the tub, making
Speaker 2: her sleep in the tub is crazy crazy.
Speaker 1: I am cracking up, y'all. Eaven wet emojis, y'all are
Speaker 1: so annoying. I am cracking up, y'all.
Speaker 2: Ky NYC says nope, nope, nope. Trillte says the liquor
Speaker 2: is not for you, ma'am.
Speaker 1: Stop it. Wyman J says, at least I know her
Speaker 1: water bill paid. Please.
Speaker 2: Chicago Cigar Week says after the second time she'd be
Speaker 2: going Outfit says, I bet the first time he thought
Speaker 2: she was a squatter.
Speaker 1: Surprise, surprise, y'all. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm growning up for those type
Speaker 2: of interactions like every time you hang out with that
Speaker 2: girl and y'all get drunk, she p on herself.
Speaker 1: I don't think I'm grown enough for that.
Speaker 2: I don't so the last comment that I wanted to
Speaker 2: reach that somebody left on the stories was hmm, is
Speaker 2: she open to not drinking as much to prevent pissing?
Speaker 2: If not, cut it, y'all, y'all. Dub Story podcast says
Speaker 2: she got something else going on. Caveman Promo says, no,
Speaker 2: she's not. She's just pissing. Again.
Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna read what your roade. I'm gonna say, no,
Speaker 1: she's not, She's just pissing.
Speaker 2: Okay, I think that two different conversations have to be had, right,
Speaker 2: So number one, I do think you should talk to
Speaker 2: her and say, hey, I notice first, what do y'all
Speaker 2: say in the morning, when y'all wake up, what do
Speaker 2: y'all say, Like, does she tell you she was sweating
Speaker 2: in her sleep? Or do like y'all have a conversation
Speaker 2: of who's piss it is?
Speaker 1: Like what happens? What happens?
Speaker 2: But long story, shirt, I feel like two conversations you
Speaker 2: be had. You need to tell her, like, Hey, I
Speaker 2: enjoy hanging out with you. However we drink, it doesn't
Speaker 2: go the way that it needs to as adults, So
Speaker 2: I feel like maybe we should cut back, or like,
Speaker 2: maybe we should.
Speaker 1: It's no, maybe we should.
Speaker 2: You're gonna have to calm down on a drinking because
Speaker 2: I'm sick of cleaning up piss. I like you, I
Speaker 2: like hanging out with you. I don't want to, but
Speaker 2: I do think when we hang out, you should consider
Speaker 2: lowering your alcohol intake just a little bit, just a
Speaker 2: little bit, right, And at the end of the day,
Speaker 2: you have to have to have a conversation with yourself
Speaker 2: because she's a reflection of you. Everybody's gonna think you
Speaker 2: piss on yourself too.
Speaker 1: No, I'm joking. I'm joking. I'm joking on joking.
Speaker 2: But if she's that way, when she's with you, what
Speaker 2: is she like when she's out with other people? If
Speaker 2: she happens to be around a group of men, is
Speaker 2: she also going to go home with one of them
Speaker 2: and piss on them? Like? And then when you go
Speaker 2: out in public and you're with someone who can't handle
Speaker 2: their liquor, are you prepared for whatever situation she might
Speaker 2: get you in? Like if she's like that to the
Speaker 2: point where she can't control or her bladder, she's gonna
Speaker 2: be beligerent enough to one day say something inappropriate and
Speaker 2: get you in a sticky situation like now you knuckling
Speaker 2: have to bar it. Don't even gotta go like it.
Speaker 2: Don't gotta be like that. It don't gotta be that
Speaker 2: type of situation at all. Like, do you really want
Speaker 2: to be with somebody who turns into baby alive every
Speaker 2: time y'all go drinking?
Speaker 1: You know what? Baby alive is?
Speaker 2: Them little babies that piss on ourselves when you give
Speaker 2: them a little bit of water.
Speaker 1: Okay, it's a baby doll? Is that what you want?
Speaker 1: Because if that's what you want, you can just go
Speaker 1: to Walmart and get you one.
Speaker 2: What do you really need? What's gonna be the conducive
Speaker 2: for your life. When you thought of what you want
Speaker 2: your perfect woman to be, was pissing on herself one
Speaker 2: of the things. And if it's not, how are we
Speaker 2: gonna get past this at the end of the day.
Speaker 2: And I want to say, also, Sis, you have to relax.
Speaker 2: Woman to woman, where's the coof where's the decorum? Everybody
Speaker 2: wants to have a good time, but I want you
Speaker 2: to know that you are taking it a little bit
Speaker 2: too far.
Speaker 1: And I say this with love.
Speaker 2: Okay, whatever demons you are fighting are coming out at
Speaker 2: night and you're pissing on yourself. Okay, So calm down
Speaker 2: on alcohol, Maybe go seek some professional help, talk to someone,
Speaker 2: whether there be AA or therapy. You need to like
Speaker 2: reconsider the things that are going off right now because
Speaker 2: this road is not a like, it's not a dry one.
Speaker 1: Number one, Okay, that's the first thing. Number two. You
Speaker 1: deserve better and you can be better, and I want
Speaker 1: that for you. I do hold on. Tyder Grind says,
Speaker 1: leave now, Stormy because baby alive? Am I lion? I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: I come back to the chat now. I'm the bad person.
Speaker 1: Why are you grutting me? Am I?
Speaker 2: Lion? Am I Lion Triota says, bro I used to
Speaker 2: bartend and had a lady legit pe all over herself
Speaker 2: and sit in it like nothing was wrong.
Speaker 1: You're the smell. Oh my god.
Speaker 2: Be When Isaiah says baby alive, it's crazy, I'm confused.
Speaker 2: Cigars Charlotte cigar Week says, what if the situation was averse?
Speaker 2: Do you want to be out with a man who
Speaker 2: can't hold his liquor? I'ma be real with y'all.
Speaker 1: This is a safe space.
Speaker 2: When I come to y'all, and I have these conversations
Speaker 2: a lot of times because I'm coming and I'm talking
Speaker 2: from experience. Okay, I did it this guy and he
Speaker 2: was very a very successful man. He was a very
Speaker 2: very very successful man.
Speaker 1: And we would go out when.
Speaker 2: We would get drunk and he would feel himself. He
Speaker 2: would feel himself, and i'm'a be real with y'all. I
Speaker 2: was a young adult. I won't say young adult cause
Speaker 2: that sounds like some Mark Kelly shit. I was a
Speaker 2: grown up, but I was like a baby grown up.
Speaker 2: Like I wasn't like a real grown up yet. I
Speaker 2: ain't like really go through shit yet. Like I was
Speaker 2: like a baby grown up, right, And Doug. The first time,
Speaker 2: I like woke up and I was like, I think
Speaker 2: this nigga paed to bed right hm. Second time, I know,
Speaker 2: cause it was more than one times, Like damn, bitch,
Speaker 2: get out, Like, uh, the caller is coming from in
Speaker 2: the house, I know, right, he was like sleep walking
Speaker 2: with it. Two So one time he's just peed in
Speaker 2: the corner. But it was always at his house, So
Speaker 2: I didn't really give a fuck. Not my sheets, right,
Speaker 2: but I had to, you know, stop talking to that man.
Speaker 1: But like, if I can go back in.
Speaker 2: Time with like the confidence and the knowledge and the
Speaker 2: wisdom that I have now, different conversations would have been had.
Speaker 1: For sure, for sure, for sure, for sure, for sure,
Speaker 1: Yeah for sure. Alright, y'all.
Speaker 2: Next question, Uh, y'all sending some bullshit this week. Okay,
Speaker 2: a person cheats and you take them back, does it
Speaker 2: mean that you must accept.
Speaker 1: The get back?
Speaker 2: And I'm gonna repeat that, a person cheats and you
Speaker 2: take them back, does that mean you must accept the
Speaker 2: get back?
Speaker 1: I'm assuming you're saying if you cheat on her and
Speaker 1: she decides to.
Speaker 2: Take you back, do you have to accept that she's
Speaker 2: gonna cheat on you at some point down the line,
Speaker 2: do you have to accept the get back?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 2: And I have never heard a more clear example of
Speaker 2: it's cool when they do it, when I do it,
Speaker 2: it's a problem.
Speaker 1: Huh huh huh.
Speaker 2: It was all fine when you was swinging your deck
Speaker 2: halfway through the city.
Speaker 1: That was cool, that was cool.
Speaker 2: But now you can't even fathom the thought of her
Speaker 2: attempting to get a get back, which I'm not saying
Speaker 2: is fair. Okay, cause I do wanna say, do you
Speaker 2: have to accept them getting a get back or cheating
Speaker 2: on you back?
Speaker 1: No? No, because I'm gonna be real with you.
Speaker 2: If I cheat on you and I take you back
Speaker 2: and you cheat on me, I'm leaving.
Speaker 1: Hear me out. Hear me out.
Speaker 2: Hear me out, hear me out, hear me out. If
Speaker 2: you cheat on me, or if I cheat on you. Rather,
Speaker 2: if I cheat on you and you take me back
Speaker 2: and then you try to cheat on me, I'm leaving.
Speaker 1: I am leaving. I don't care. I don't care. I
Speaker 1: don't care.
Speaker 2: Number one, just because you don't have no standards don't
Speaker 2: mean I don't. Okay, that's the first thing. That's the
Speaker 2: first thing, all right.
Speaker 1: Second thing is.
Speaker 2: I know you saw what emotional damage took place with
Speaker 2: us having a fight through an infidelity scandal, So for
Speaker 2: you to put us through another one, I think it's selfish, okay,
Speaker 2: And to me, I feel like at that point it's
Speaker 2: a decision. One time is a mistake, second time is
Speaker 2: a decision. And I know you might not have did
Speaker 2: the first time, but baby, he was part of it.
Speaker 2: You were accomplished, whether you wanted to be or not.
Speaker 2: So at this point, you're choosing to hurt me.
Speaker 1: And they say, ooh, what Stormy, you chose to hurt him.
Speaker 1: We just gotta do with me. See now, how am
Speaker 1: I getting this?
Speaker 2: We're talking about him, were talking about him, talking about him.
Speaker 2: Ki n YC says, you have to expect and accept
Speaker 2: that for sure. Independence says, don't have to accept, but
Speaker 2: better expect. Ki n Yc says, because if you thought they.
Speaker 1: Wouldn't think again, Batman, I'm gragging up.
Speaker 2: Kai n Yc says, not, Stormy can't take the heat.
Speaker 2: T Salius eighty says, who as I say?
Speaker 1: Not as I do?
Speaker 2: Okay, And I thought that in my chest tight I
Speaker 2: got grind says no, because I'm taking your pillow on
Speaker 2: the couch, faces back I'm cracking up. Chevy Chris says
Speaker 2: cheating back is dirty.
Speaker 1: Just leave? How was that toxic?
Speaker 2: The gold Digger More says, because a motherfucker didn't have
Speaker 2: to take me back.
Speaker 1: Exactly exactly, you did not have to take me back.
Speaker 1: You chose to.
Speaker 2: Now, if you chose to take me back just to
Speaker 2: get your look back, you're gonna be highly disappointed.
Speaker 1: Because, Baby, I'm leaving. I'm leaving.
Speaker 2: I'm leaving because you didn't have to take me back.
Speaker 2: You didn't have to take me back. Outfit says, I'm
Speaker 2: doing what you didn't have the courage to do.
Speaker 1: If that shit and I'm out.
Speaker 2: Exactly, I'm doing what you didn't have the courage to do.
Speaker 1: Baby, I'm leaving. I am, I am. Cigar Charlotte Cigar
Speaker 1: Week says you didn't. You didn't even sleep and fall
Speaker 1: on a dingling. I'm sick of you. I am truly
Speaker 1: truly sick of you. I am I am.
Speaker 2: Tryll said says Yo, why should there be a get back?
Speaker 2: I agree me personally, I don't think there should be
Speaker 2: a get back if your partner cheats on you and
Speaker 2: you feel like you need to take them back just
Speaker 2: so you can get a get back. You don't need
Speaker 2: to be with your partner. You don't need to be
Speaker 2: with that person period. Like you can't genuinely love them.
Speaker 2: You can't say you're loving them. You can't say you
Speaker 2: love them when you're planning.
Speaker 1: To hurt them. That doesn't make sense.
Speaker 2: And or your thought process for hurting them is I
Speaker 2: can get away with it because they did it to me,
Speaker 2: Like that's the howest goes. That's not how love goes.
Speaker 2: That's not what Jennet Jackson's saying about in that song.
Speaker 2: She never said that, and that's the way love goes.
Speaker 2: She never said that any of that. Ki and YC says,
Speaker 2: if you have the urge to cheat, just leave. If
Speaker 2: you have the urge to cheat, why did you take
Speaker 2: me back? You can go do whatever you want to
Speaker 2: do without me and have zero consequences and be fine.
Speaker 2: You chose to take me back, means you chose to
Speaker 2: be in this relationship.
Speaker 1: So why are you trying to choose to cheat? You corny?
Speaker 1: You are corny?
Speaker 2: Ty Do Grind says that's the only reason they take
Speaker 2: you back is to get back.
Speaker 1: That's true, that's true. That is true.
Speaker 2: Independence says, look backs be diabolical. Sometimes it's diabolula. A
Speaker 2: look back is diabolical, but it's temporary. That feeling doesn't
Speaker 2: erase the emotions that you had that caused you to
Speaker 2: want to have that get back.
Speaker 1: It's not long standing. It's dumb.
Speaker 2: And now you're gonna be even more hurt when I
Speaker 2: throw your shit outside and all the neighbors looking at
Speaker 2: your dirty ass straws on the porch. You could avoid
Speaker 2: it all us and just left me alone. Outfit says,
Speaker 2: I got cheated on by the girl I was cheating
Speaker 2: on her with. That was the coldest thing ever since then,
Speaker 2: there's always a conversation before it gets that far.
Speaker 1: Quay the lyrics, It says, that's childish, not the way
Speaker 1: love goes. You ain't never lied? Uh Tydy Grond says, well, sign.
Speaker 2: You didn't need them was when they slipped and please
Speaker 2: dart Man's seventeen says, hurt people, hurt people?
Speaker 1: Oh yes, oh yes.
Speaker 2: So last question was, so what happens when Stormy finally
Speaker 2: falls in love? Is her podcast going to change? Will
Speaker 2: she still make love jokes? Why don't think that if
Speaker 2: I get a boyfriend at Nickgang gonna get these jokes too? Like,
Speaker 2: I think that the content is still gonna be the same,
Speaker 2: the advice is still gonna be the same, because obviously
Speaker 2: it fucking worked, right, But it would just be more
Speaker 2: relationship content at that point. But it's still dating, it's
Speaker 2: still relatable. It's still like, you know, fuck these niggas
Speaker 2: if they ain't treating you right. It's still fuck these
Speaker 2: bitches if they just gonna use you for they money.
Speaker 2: Like that message is never gonna change regardless of what
Speaker 2: my relationship said.
Speaker 1: This is so there's that, I mean, hmm, one fine.
Speaker 2: Trinny Boy says he got cheating, he got cheating algebra
Speaker 2: solving X.
Speaker 1: I'm cracking up. Chevy Chris says, you're gonna be in
Speaker 1: a relationship jail. Low Key, y'all think i'ma be in
Speaker 1: relationship jail y'all think.
Speaker 2: When I get in a relationship, I'm being a relationship Joe.
Speaker 2: I low key want to I low key hope I
Speaker 2: get with somebody who like, don't really like social media.
Speaker 2: It's like, oh, yeah, that's you and that's how you
Speaker 2: make your money. But I'm fine just being over here
Speaker 2: and just use me as a prop for like videos
Speaker 2: and jokes every once in a while, like that's that's
Speaker 2: what I want, you know what I mean? All right, guys,
Speaker 2: So you know, we learned so many things today and
Speaker 2: I'm just so grateful to have you all here with me.
Speaker 2: And I hope you all have a great week. I
Speaker 2: hope you all have a great Black history mom. I
Speaker 2: mean I say it like, damn, I'm not gonna see
Speaker 2: 'all next week because I am. But yeah, learn something,
Speaker 2: niggas learn from this. My message is always gonna be
Speaker 2: the same. Follow me on a gram ass Stormy p
Speaker 2: p e a at chocolate Chip and Zip. And if
Speaker 2: you don't remember anything else, please remember oh fie Zen.
Speaker 1: I love you, guys, and I see you next week. Peace.