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<v Speaker 1>KFI AM six forty. You're listening to Dean Sharp the

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<v Speaker 1>House Whisper on demand on the iHeart Radio app. Here

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<v Speaker 1>for you, like we always are here to be a mentor,

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<v Speaker 1>a design mentor for you, because design matters most an

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<v Speaker 1>advocate as you wrestle with construction issues in your home,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's your friend as you take on the noble

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<v Speaker 1>work of turning your ordinary house into an extraordinary home. Today,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to talk to you about what's going on

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<v Speaker 1>with your house. I have no agenda but to talk

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<v Speaker 1>with you. Let's talk to Judy.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a condo in Carlsbad, and I have about

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<v Speaker 2>a thirty x twenty foot area of grass, and I

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<v Speaker 2>have acquired two big dogs in the last couple of years,

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<v Speaker 2>and like my daughter said, my lawn tern in looks

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<v Speaker 2>like a cow pasture. Now they're digging, and I've got

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<v Speaker 2>straw down where they're digging because it's a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>mud and I want to replace it with another kind

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<v Speaker 2>of natural grass, but I don't know what to put in.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna I'll take a shot in the dark and

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<v Speaker 1>say bermuda.

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<v Speaker 3>Bermuda is a is a pretty.

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<v Speaker 1>Dang resilient grass and once it takes it forms a

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<v Speaker 1>good mat, and I think that's one of the things

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<v Speaker 1>that will help the most because bermuda gets spongy as

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<v Speaker 1>a mat of grass, and as a result, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>the easiest thing for them to dig through. Bermuda is

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<v Speaker 1>self healing, it's drought tolerant. It will put up pretty

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<v Speaker 1>well with dogs with pea and the other stuff and

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of rough housing. Bermuda grass is usually the

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<v Speaker 1>grass that's used on the outfield at natural grass baseball stadiums,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's a it's a sport grass, it's it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>better for rough and tumble kinds of things. But again,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not convinced that two large dogs in just a

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<v Speaker 1>twenty by thirty foot area they got a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>time on their hands and they got a lot of tools.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, well that's good. There you go.

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<v Speaker 1>So just taking them on more walks, wear them out,

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<v Speaker 1>and then pop them into the backyard. But that that's

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<v Speaker 1>probably the best off. The cuff suggestion is take a

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<v Speaker 1>look at at bermuda as as an opport. But if

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna plant there, of course you're gonna have to

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<v Speaker 1>keep them off of it for a while. Even if

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<v Speaker 1>you sawed the yard, you're gonna need Even though it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna look great on day one, you're gonna need to

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<v Speaker 1>give it a few weeks for it to really root

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<v Speaker 1>in before they get out there and start tearing it up. Judy,

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<v Speaker 1>good luck with that. I gotta go give Bermuda a shot. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, let's talk to Nick. Hey, Nick, welcome home.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, Steve, I have nineteen two storey vaulted ceiling with skylight, cementile,

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<v Speaker 4>roof and stucckel frame. So had to hold on a track.

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<v Speaker 4>And my problem is that I haven't lived in it

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<v Speaker 4>that much since I bought it. I was in the

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<v Speaker 4>Air Force, and then I also went to UCLA in

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<v Speaker 4>nineteen ninety four, came on one weekend and I developed

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<v Speaker 4>the slow leaks in the suit in the roof. I

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<v Speaker 4>saved the water and fans and I was able to

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<v Speaker 4>empty it and it was not livable after a time.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm wondering, what in the world can I do

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<v Speaker 4>and who do I find out? Whether or not, whether

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<v Speaker 4>it's a contractor whether it's a roof or whatever. What

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<v Speaker 4>can the house be saved?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>So where is so? Are we talking about the water damage?

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<v Speaker 1>Inside the house that you're concerned about or up on

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<v Speaker 1>the roof itself.

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<v Speaker 4>It's the roof that just leaks down on some of

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<v Speaker 4>the drywall and also the beam that goes across the

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<v Speaker 4>main part just short just underneath the skylight, and of

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<v Speaker 4>course that was dripping down, but it was dripping down

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<v Speaker 4>slow way I always connected it, and of course I

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<v Speaker 4>was just irresponsible with getting it fixed.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, here's the good news Nick.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, you got to get the roof fixed,

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<v Speaker 1>right because you got a leak, and we got to

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<v Speaker 1>fix the roof, so we have to fix the leak

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<v Speaker 1>in the roof.

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<v Speaker 3>The good news about that you got concrete tile.

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<v Speaker 1>Then there's a really good chance that your tile doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>have to be replaced. It will have to be removed

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<v Speaker 1>in order to deal with leaks, and hopefully it's not

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<v Speaker 1>pervasive all over the roof. But the concrete tiles in

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<v Speaker 1>most cases are lifetime tiles, so they can be with

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<v Speaker 1>the right roofer. You got to get a roofer involved,

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<v Speaker 1>pull up those concrete tiles, readdress the actual waterproofing, because

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<v Speaker 1>the concrete tiles aren't the waterproofing of the roof, it's

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<v Speaker 1>the membrane underneath readdress that and any flashing, because that's

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<v Speaker 1>likely where the actual problems are with leaks. So first

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<v Speaker 1>of all, we fix the roof, the good news being

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<v Speaker 1>it's sort of a reroof or a patch and repair

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<v Speaker 1>job if it's isolated areas, but you're not going to

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<v Speaker 1>necessarily have to replace your roofing material, just patch up

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<v Speaker 1>that membring. Secondly, when it comes to the rest of

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<v Speaker 1>the house, general contractor. Now there are specialty contractors quote

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<v Speaker 1>unquote that work for insurance companies out there, mold remediation

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<v Speaker 1>contractors and that kind of thing. My first call would

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<v Speaker 1>not be in that direction because you know, in my opinion,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not such a specialized situation for you that you

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<v Speaker 1>would need that and need to pay the higher price

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<v Speaker 1>tag which generally accompanies that. But a general contractor to

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<v Speaker 1>open up the drywall in the areas where there has

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<v Speaker 1>been leaking. We got to open that up. We got

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<v Speaker 1>to expose the wood. We need to see if there's

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<v Speaker 1>any actual damage to the wood itself, dry or anything

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<v Speaker 1>like that. There probably isn't, not after just a decade

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<v Speaker 1>or so. There might be, it depends on how pervasive

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<v Speaker 1>the leaks have been. But we got to open that

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<v Speaker 1>all up. Make sure that there's no mold growing underneath

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<v Speaker 1>the drywall and back of the drywall. Once the drywall

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<v Speaker 1>has been pulled off and stud walls and ceiling rafters

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<v Speaker 1>and ceiling joysts have all been exposed, that's where we

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<v Speaker 1>can get to the mold really easily, spray it out,

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<v Speaker 1>kill it, bleach it, do whatever we need to do,

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<v Speaker 1>and then after the roof has been repaired, we rebuild

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<v Speaker 1>new drywall and whatever wood repairs are necessary. So you've

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<v Speaker 1>got some work ahead of you, but not necessarily the

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<v Speaker 1>end of your home or having to bulldoze it over

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<v Speaker 1>the key is a forensic examination of where the real

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<v Speaker 1>damage is, and for that we just need to pull

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<v Speaker 1>the drywall off in most situations, and drywall is inexpensive

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<v Speaker 1>to replace in the big scheme of things, So pull

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<v Speaker 1>it off. Let's take a look at where the damage is,

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<v Speaker 1>let's address it, and then pop the skin back on,

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<v Speaker 1>close the patient up as it were, and we should

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<v Speaker 1>be off to happiness for the rest of your ownership

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<v Speaker 1>of this home. Thanks Nick for the call. I appreciate it, buddy,

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<v Speaker 1>really good question and good luck with that. Don't worry,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not likely as extensive or crazy as you might think.

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<v Speaker 1>How about some more of your calls when we return.

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<v Speaker 1>You are listening to Home with Dean Sharp the House Whisper.

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<v Speaker 5>You're listening to Home with Dean Sharp on demand from

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<v Speaker 5>KFI AM six forty.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's talk to Lou. Lou welcome home?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes Hi?

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<v Speaker 4>Can you hear me?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, Dean, I can. You've been helping me a lot

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<v Speaker 6>doing a remodel of a condo I have, and I

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<v Speaker 6>just have a simple It seems to me like a

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<v Speaker 6>stupid question. The person who's doing it, who's not a

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<v Speaker 6>registered general contract or anything like that, but he's honest

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<v Speaker 6>and he's good. We want to there's a toilet in

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<v Speaker 6>one of the bedrooms that he's suggesting that we replace.

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<v Speaker 6>The inside mechanism needs certainly needs replacing, but the outside

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<v Speaker 6>looks high. My wife says it's old fashioned because it's

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<v Speaker 6>a low I don't know, a lowrider.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, yeah, that's yeah, low seat toilet. Yeah, gotcha.

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<v Speaker 6>He's saying that it's going to cost just as much

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<v Speaker 6>to replace the toilet as it is to just replace

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<v Speaker 6>the mechanism. And this guy's honest, so I don't think

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<v Speaker 6>he's trying to get extra money. Out of me.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So very simple answer to your very and

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<v Speaker 1>it's not a stupid question at all now unless there

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<v Speaker 1>is some bizarre configuration going on. I mean, if this

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<v Speaker 1>is an ancient toilet, like it's a sometimes we run

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<v Speaker 1>into toilets that, you know, because we do restoration stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes we'll use a toilet that literally is one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>years old and because of the configuration it, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we have to do special things inside and we can't

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<v Speaker 1>just use the standard replacement stuff on the inside. It

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't sound like that, like that's the case here. If

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<v Speaker 1>this is a twenty year old toilets, if it's a

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<v Speaker 1>thirty year old toilet, anything in that range there, then

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<v Speaker 1>then no the guts, the flapper ball, the overflow, the

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<v Speaker 1>water supply, the valve, the float, all of that stuff

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<v Speaker 1>that goes inside a toilet. I mean we're talking maybe

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<v Speaker 1>twenty thirty dollars to change that out. And so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>people ask all the time, Hey, this toilet's really really old,

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<v Speaker 1>so probably it's not going to work right anymore. And

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<v Speaker 1>my point is there are two really dividing line parts

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<v Speaker 1>or sections of parts in a toilet. One is the

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<v Speaker 1>shell itself, a porcelain toilet is just that, and you

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<v Speaker 1>know it could last for three hundred years. And then

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<v Speaker 1>there's the mechanics on the inside, and most of the

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<v Speaker 1>time the stuff that you can buy at the hardware

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<v Speaker 1>store will pop right in and make the interior brand new.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like keeping the great old body of a car

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<v Speaker 1>and putting a new engine inside. And no, that's not

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<v Speaker 1>going to cost you one hundred or two hundred dollars

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<v Speaker 1>to do. It should cost you thirty or forty bucks

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why. I mean, he's an honest guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe he hasn't taken a look at the cost of

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<v Speaker 1>those replacement parts yet, or ask him, is there something

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<v Speaker 1>bizarre going inside that don't that will preclude using the

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<v Speaker 1>standard replacement parts. So I don't want to impugne him,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm just telling you, ninety nine times out of

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred, we can replace the guts of a toilet

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<v Speaker 1>for like thirty bucks and boom, it's brand new and

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<v Speaker 1>ready to go. Lou, thanks for your question, buddy, really

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<v Speaker 1>really good question.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, let's talk to Anna.

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<v Speaker 8>Welcome home, Anna Hidan, Thank you so much for taking

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<v Speaker 8>my call. I had a question about tiles. I have

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<v Speaker 8>these beautiful. I think they're called Turkish tiles, and they

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<v Speaker 8>have these lovely crevices and dents and just little talk

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<v Speaker 8>marks and holes in them, and I love the look,

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<v Speaker 8>but I'm thinking of putting it in the kitchen, and

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<v Speaker 8>I don't want my food and everything else getting stuck

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<v Speaker 8>in those holes. And I don't know what to do.

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<v Speaker 1>So when you say Turkish tile, were we just talking

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<v Speaker 1>about the shape of the tile?

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<v Speaker 8>I was looking them up online. I think another name

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<v Speaker 8>is travertine.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, okay, so they're made out of travertine. Okay, so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a pit and you were thinking about using

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<v Speaker 1>them on the countertop.

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<v Speaker 3>No, on the floor, Oh, on the floor of the kitchen. Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Travertine is a gorgeous material. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Travertine is kind of a stone, that is it is, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to get all crazy scientific. Travertine is

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<v Speaker 1>fossilization in travertine. It's what gives its its it's attractive nature,

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<v Speaker 1>It is a very highly textured surface, as you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So you only have a couple of choices when it

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<v Speaker 3>You either a.

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<v Speaker 1>Purchase a travertine in which the pitting has been filled

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<v Speaker 1>with resins epoxy resins, so that there really isn't any pitting,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's not really common with travertine, and it's not

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<v Speaker 1>the easiest thing to do in your case. Your choice

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<v Speaker 1>is this A you just keep that floor sealed like crazy. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>ceiling is going to keep stains from developing, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>because that's just called gravity and that's just going to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>The other option you've got, though with travertine is that

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<v Speaker 1>when you actually have your tile set or set it,

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<v Speaker 1>they can not only grout the joints in between the ale,

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<v Speaker 1>but they can do a swash of grout across the

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<v Speaker 3>That will at least like.

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<v Speaker 8>Level the pits the look.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So that's the thing. If you like the holes

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<v Speaker 1>and you like the pits, and that's the that's the

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<v Speaker 1>paradox of travertine. You're gonna have to put up with

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<v Speaker 1>That's all there is to it. If you're gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>pitted areas in your floor tile, you keep it vacuumed,

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<v Speaker 1>going to require some more maintenance. And you know that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's not me discouraging you from using it. Because Tina

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<v Speaker 1>and I quite often we will explain thoroughly to a client. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>we would love for you to use this material, but

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<v Speaker 1>this is going to require more maintenance than not. That's

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<v Speaker 1>not a deal breaker. It should never be a deal breaker.

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<v Speaker 1>It should simply be something that you go into with

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want people to put in artificial turf to

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<v Speaker 1>replace their front lawn or their backyard. I don't mind

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<v Speaker 1>artificial turf you have, like a little putting green or

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<v Speaker 1>a sport cord or something, but not to replace your lawn. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>I get it. Artificial turf requires zero maintenance. It's also

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<v Speaker 1>look okay, I'm not gonna comment anymore on artificial turf,

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<v Speaker 1>so I want you to have grass there instead, But

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<v Speaker 1>grass needs watering and fertilizing and weeding and mowing. Is

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<v Speaker 1>it worth it to me? Absolutely, no question whatsoever. So

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<v Speaker 1>are there hard scape materials that we put inside the

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<v Speaker 3>Yes? Is the beauty and the look and the effect

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<v Speaker 8>Absolutely And I can't use an epoxy myself. Can I

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<v Speaker 8>use the epoxy like you mentioned, if I already bought

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<v Speaker 8>the tiles with the holes, can I use epoxy to

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<v Speaker 8>fill the holes?

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<v Speaker 3>You can.

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<v Speaker 1>You've got to do it super carefully, though, because anybody

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<v Speaker 1>epoxy residue that you get on the surface of the

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<v Speaker 1>travertine is going to mar the finish of the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of the travertine. But it sounds like to me when

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<v Speaker 1>I even suggested you filling it up with grout, which

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<v Speaker 1>is the easier way to do it, to fill up

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<v Speaker 1>those holes with grout, If you're going to fill up

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<v Speaker 1>the holes with epoxy, you're still filling up the holes,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're losing that pitting effect that you want so much.

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<v Speaker 1>So the main issue I think, Anna is that is

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<v Speaker 1>that you're going to have to decide do you want

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<v Speaker 1>the look and is it worth the maintenance to deal

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<v Speaker 1>with the pitting or do you just not so whether

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<v Speaker 1>you fill it with epoxy resin or whether you fill

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<v Speaker 1>it with grout. Either way you're going to fill up

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<v Speaker 1>the holes. That's going to change the appearance of the tile.

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<v Speaker 1>How about some more of your calls when we return.

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<v Speaker 1>You are listening to Home with Dean Sharp the house Whisper.

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<v Speaker 5>You're listening to Home with Dean Sharp on demand from

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<v Speaker 5>KFI AM six forty.

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<v Speaker 3>Brent, welcome home.

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<v Speaker 9>Hey, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>Dan?

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<v Speaker 3>Good good?

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<v Speaker 9>I have a question about the safety handrails in bathrooms. Okay,

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<v Speaker 9>I've noticed at the home depot and stuff that they

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<v Speaker 9>don't come in sixteen in intervals, like the studs.

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<v Speaker 6>In the wall.

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<v Speaker 9>Yes, how would I attach those to the wall without

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<v Speaker 9>breaking them off if I fall?

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<v Speaker 1>That's a really good question. Yeah, questions. Yeah, you've got

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<v Speaker 1>two choices here. Number One, whenever we rig out a

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<v Speaker 1>bathroom for potential handrail safety rails, whether present or future,

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<v Speaker 1>safety rails will when we frame the bathroom out, we

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<v Speaker 1>will locate where we want those rails and we put

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<v Speaker 1>solid blocking in between the studs at the height and

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<v Speaker 1>at the width of where we want those future rails

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<v Speaker 1>to be. That way, we don't have to depend on

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<v Speaker 1>the studs all by themselves. Uh and uh, and we

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<v Speaker 1>simply uh, we've got all wood there, so a flat

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<v Speaker 1>two by block in between studs all the way across. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're really serious about mounting your rails appropriately there

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<v Speaker 1>wherever you want to mount them, than what you want

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<v Speaker 1>to do is you're going to want to remove a

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<v Speaker 1>little dry wall and uh and actually put in that

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<v Speaker 1>solid blocking so that you can screw those rails in

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<v Speaker 1>exactly where they need to go. The other option is,

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<v Speaker 1>and sometimes this works, sometimes it doesn't, is you can

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<v Speaker 1>put a you know, a sloped angle on a grab bar.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes it's actually convenient if there's one adjacent to a

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<v Speaker 1>toilet or adjacent to a shower, to actually put a

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<v Speaker 1>little slope on it. In some ways it's easier to access,

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<v Speaker 1>especially if the angle is kind of facing you, and

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<v Speaker 1>by by putting a little bit of angle on the

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<v Speaker 1>grab bar. Now understand when I say this that that

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<v Speaker 1>that this is a This is not the recommended American

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<v Speaker 1>Disabilities Act methodology for doing this, but there is no

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<v Speaker 1>direct requirement in a residential bathroom for ADA compliance to

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<v Speaker 1>grab bars. So the point is you're free to put

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<v Speaker 1>the grab bars anywhere you want, because you're not talking

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<v Speaker 1>about a commercial bathroom. There are the recommendations horizontal in

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<v Speaker 1>certain locations, but if you need to angle it that way,

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<v Speaker 1>you can actually get a grab bar sometimes that is

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<v Speaker 1>longer than a stud a couple of stud bays to

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<v Speaker 1>actually hit the stud left and right, because by angling

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<v Speaker 1>it you're shortening the overall width of the of the

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<v Speaker 1>bar application. But the primary method for doing it is

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<v Speaker 1>to solid block the wall.

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<v Speaker 9>Well, I don't really want to tear apart my bathroom, right,

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<v Speaker 9>but I thought about using the angles, but I wasn't

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<v Speaker 9>quite sure of that. Now can the bars themselves be

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<v Speaker 9>cut to fit?

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<v Speaker 3>Some bars can?

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<v Speaker 1>And yet another good point here there are some bars

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<v Speaker 1>that you can find, whether or not they're available at

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<v Speaker 1>your local hardware store. You can find some bars who's

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<v Speaker 1>radius right at the end is actually an insert, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>into the main tube. They have to be careful. These

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<v Speaker 1>can't just be any cheap old towel bar situation. But

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<v Speaker 1>there are bars ADA approved that have reinforced ends inserts,

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<v Speaker 1>and that means that the actual curve back or return

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<v Speaker 1>to the wall is separate than the main tube, and

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<v Speaker 1>that way you could take that main tube, cut it

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<v Speaker 1>to size as necessary to fit your stud bay, and

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<v Speaker 1>get at least a couple of those main anchoring screws

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<v Speaker 1>right into the studs. But you got to find those online.

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<v Speaker 1>Do a little searching around, but they're there.

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<v Speaker 9>Okay, Well, I thank you so much for helping me.

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<v Speaker 1>You are so very welcome, sir, and have yourself a

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<v Speaker 1>great Sunday.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's talk to Gary. Hey, Gary, welcome home.

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<v Speaker 10>Moved into a new house, and my dryer is not

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<v Speaker 10>drying the clothes.

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<v Speaker 3>Check it out.

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<v Speaker 9>That's all fine.

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<v Speaker 10>It goes through the wall, forty five goes up eight feet,

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<v Speaker 10>another forty five goes out ten feet, so that puts

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<v Speaker 10>me at about twenty eight feet, and I've read that

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<v Speaker 10>it should be at thirty five feet. But it's just

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<v Speaker 10>not getting enough.

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<v Speaker 9>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 10>I've run a camera the garden blower through their vacuum cleaner,

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<v Speaker 10>so it's clean. What are your ideas other than put

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<v Speaker 10>it in a booster fan.

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<v Speaker 1>I have no ideas other than putting in a booster fan,

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<v Speaker 1>because putting in a booster fan is what you should

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<v Speaker 1>do when they give you ratings about how far a

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<v Speaker 1>dryer vent can go. You know, you take that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>with a grain of salt, because a dryer is not

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<v Speaker 1>a high pressure air blowing scenario. And you got to

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<v Speaker 1>think you got all that humidity, all that moist air

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<v Speaker 1>in there, and now we're asking it not only to

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<v Speaker 1>travel twenty plus feet away from the dryer, which is

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<v Speaker 1>enough on some dryers to just shut down their effectiveness

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<v Speaker 1>right there, even if it was purely horizontal, but in

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<v Speaker 1>addition to that, you're asking it to turn a couple

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<v Speaker 1>the same time. In my opinion, it is absolutely too

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<v Speaker 1>far to ask that moist are to go on the

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<v Speaker 1>part of the dryer. But the good news is, as

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<v Speaker 1>you are already aware, there are these things that when

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<v Speaker 1>we run an extra long dryer vent out of necessity

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<v Speaker 1>from design or the access in a laundry room and

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<v Speaker 1>or a garage area, there are dryer vent booster fans,

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<v Speaker 1>and they are air activated or switch activated along with

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<v Speaker 1>the dryer. They turn on when the dryer's on, they

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<v Speaker 1>turn on when the dryer's off. And yeah, so what

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<v Speaker 1>you need is a mechanical boost to the air flowing

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<v Speaker 1>so that you get the moisture out of the dryer.

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<v Speaker 1>Bottom line, booster fan is the way to go. Unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the only proper solution in that situation. But fortunately,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they don't necessarily break the bank to install them,

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<v Speaker 10>I just didn't want to climb up in the attic biletricity.

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<v Speaker 10>I was hoping I could find one that I could

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<v Speaker 10>just put right at the bottom of the dryer.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Their best, Yeah, no, they're they're actually best, you know. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you remember hot wheels. You know, I had a

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<v Speaker 1>hot wheel set when I was a kid, and they

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<v Speaker 1>in order to in order to keep your hot wheels

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<v Speaker 1>going on the track, there used to be this little

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<v Speaker 1>booster station, which are these two little discs that spin

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<v Speaker 1>and they grab the car right as it's starting to

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<v Speaker 1>kind of poop out on the energy, and that throws

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<v Speaker 1>it forward and you can just keep your hot wheels

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<v Speaker 1>going in the loop all day long. The booster fan

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<v Speaker 1>is not best at the dryer. It's it's best somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>along the way, like at the halfway point or maybe

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<v Speaker 1>a little further along, right as it's all starting to

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<v Speaker 1>you know, to lose its momentum. That's where the fan

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<v Speaker 1>is going to be most effective. You're going to have

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<v Speaker 1>to get up in the attic and put that birthister

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<v Speaker 1>fan up there. Thanks for your call, Gary, I appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>your spirit. And yeah, booster fan on the dryer vent.

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<v Speaker 1>Do not run your dryer event a half mile away

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<v Speaker 1>from your dryer and expect it to expect the air,

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<v Speaker 1>which is just passive air coming out of the dryer

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<v Speaker 1>to blow all the lint and the moisture out. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not going to work. You are listening to Home with

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<v Speaker 1>Dean Sharp, the house Whisper.

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<v Speaker 5>You're listening to Home with Dean Sharp on demand from

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<v Speaker 5>KFI Am six forty.

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<v Speaker 1>We are taking your calls, which I love. I love

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<v Speaker 1>talking to you about whatever's going on with your home today,

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<v Speaker 1>whether it's a DIY question, construction issue, a design question.

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<v Speaker 1>I love design questions. So anyway, I would love to help.

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<v Speaker 1>So why don't we just dive back in. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>let's talk to Paul. Hey, Paul, welcome home.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, good morning, Dean.

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<v Speaker 7>Thanks for getting my call.

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<v Speaker 3>Props.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm building a fire.

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<v Speaker 7>Pit in the backyard and I'd like to run the

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<v Speaker 7>gas line before I have a concrete pad port over it.

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<v Speaker 7>So my question is what diameter pipe do I need

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<v Speaker 7>to use.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good question. It really all depends on how

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<v Speaker 1>big the fire pit is. It's just kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>standard little twenty four thirty six diameter fire pit. Then

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<v Speaker 1>you could get away with a half inch line, but

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<v Speaker 1>since it's all new, I prefer to run a three

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<v Speaker 1>quarter inch line. I've got a three quarter inch line

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<v Speaker 1>running to my fire pit. Of course, my fire pit,

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<v Speaker 1>the rock itself is about eight and a half feet long,

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<v Speaker 1>and the actual burners are two four foot a pair

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<v Speaker 1>of two four foot linear burners, so there's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of fire there line of fire. But as a general rule,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I like fire pits to be warm. I

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<v Speaker 1>like fire at my fire pit because the whole point

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<v Speaker 1>of a fire pit is not just to sit next

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<v Speaker 1>to one when it's eighty degrees outside in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of summer, but to be able to enjoy it when

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<v Speaker 1>it's cold outside. And when it's cold outside, you need

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<v Speaker 1>more than just a little trickle of flame coming out.

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<v Speaker 1>So I would say run the three quarter inch line.

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<v Speaker 1>But and here's the important qualifier to that, you run

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<v Speaker 1>a three quarter inch line. You're not gonna want to

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<v Speaker 1>run it most of the time at full bore. And

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<v Speaker 1>so the key, the gas key that you're turning your

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<v Speaker 1>firepit on and off with, you shouldn't use that to

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<v Speaker 1>choke down the gas because if you do, it's so

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<v Speaker 1>close to where the gas comes out of the actual

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<v Speaker 1>burner that you're gonna get a hiss or a whistling

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<v Speaker 1>sound because of gas cavitation in the line. So pick

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<v Speaker 1>you know, wherever the gas line is coming out of

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<v Speaker 1>the house, away from the house, or you know, take

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<v Speaker 1>twenty thirty feet away from the fire pit, run a

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<v Speaker 1>three quarter inch line, and then put a linear valve

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<v Speaker 1>right there. Then you can control the flow of the

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<v Speaker 1>line and then use your key at the fire pit

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<v Speaker 1>to just full on, full off. If you put a valve,

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<v Speaker 1>a flow control valve a twenty feet plus away, then

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<v Speaker 1>the cavitation by the time it reaches the fire pit

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<v Speaker 1>has settled down and you can set it to any

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<v Speaker 1>intensity you want from the very faintest of flame all

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<v Speaker 1>the way to the bonfire and you'll get no change

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<v Speaker 1>in sound whatsoever. So my suggestion, yeah, I run the

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<v Speaker 1>three quarter inch line and give yourself some options. Paul

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for your call, buddy. All Right, man, three hours

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<v Speaker 1>just blazes by, doesn't it. What a great time on

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<v Speaker 1>the program today. Thanks for all of our callers, thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for our crew here, and again, just hope you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have a fantastic rest of your afternoon. I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>leave you with this thought today. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>you've noticed, but the world can be an emotionally hazardous place. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>which is why one of the greatest treasures of my

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<v Speaker 1>life is the precious handful of relationships in which I

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<v Speaker 1>know it is safe to be fully myself, fully honest,

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<v Speaker 1>without fear of rejection. When we think about our tribe,

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<v Speaker 1>the people to whom we belong, I think we often

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<v Speaker 1>miss the point of tribe. Tribe is so often understood

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<v Speaker 1>as a function of family of origin, or lifestyle or

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<v Speaker 1>belief system. But what I have learned about finding my

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<v Speaker 1>tribe is that none of those traditional categories hold up

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<v Speaker 1>under real pressure. Just because somebody grew up in the

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<v Speaker 1>same home with you does not make them your people.

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<v Speaker 1>Just because somebody looks like you, lives like you, is

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<v Speaker 1>at the same financial level as you, believes like you,

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<v Speaker 1>or votes like you, doesn't make them your people. Your

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<v Speaker 1>people are the people with whom you can, for lack

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<v Speaker 1>of a better term, be naked and unafraid with. Your

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<v Speaker 1>people are the people who accept you and get you

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<v Speaker 1>and truly value you. Regardless of whether those other factors

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<v Speaker 1>are in play. The only creed they need to confess,

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<v Speaker 1>The only litmus test is you. Those people are your people. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you find those people well? To be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>I am not exactly sure letting go of the false

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<v Speaker 1>concepts of tribe would be a good start, but I

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<v Speaker 1>think it also starts with being one of those people yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>and most of all, nurturing a relationship with that one

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<v Speaker 1>person at the top of the list from whom you

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<v Speaker 1>need the most honesty and the most unconditional acceptance.

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<v Speaker 3>And of course I'm talking about you.

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<v Speaker 1>Self loathing, self condemnation, self doubt, self shaming, and endlessly

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<v Speaker 1>rehearsing the long list of reasons why you are a fraud,

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<v Speaker 1>why you don't measure up, why you aren't worth it,

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<v Speaker 1>why you don't deserve it, why you need to do

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<v Speaker 1>such and such or be more like so and so

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<v Speaker 1>in order to prove your worth. It's exhausting, and we

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<v Speaker 1>all do it, but Strangely, not liking or accepting yourself

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<v Speaker 1>somehow feels like wisdom and tough love. But the truth is,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, the real truth. None of it has ever helped,

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<v Speaker 1>has it not ever?

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<v Speaker 3>Not once? Why?

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<v Speaker 1>Because it's not wisdom or keen insight or honesty or

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<v Speaker 1>tough love. It's actually self abuse. Now, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>why it takes so long for most of us, me included,

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<v Speaker 1>to truly become our own best friends. All I know

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<v Speaker 1>is the day that that begins to happen, and is

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<v Speaker 1>the day life truly begins. That is the day that

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<v Speaker 1>you're ready to recognize your tribe. Perhaps they're not here yet,

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<v Speaker 1>perhaps they've been here all along. Fortunately, you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to be the first person in your life to love

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<v Speaker 1>and accept you. You weren't actually, But you do have

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<v Speaker 1>to be the first member of your own fan club

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<v Speaker 1>before others are allowed to join in. Is that selfish? No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's self care. It's what every lifeguard, first responder, and

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<v Speaker 1>flight attendant knows about how to save others. In case

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<v Speaker 1>of cabin depressurization, oxygen masks will drop from the compartment above.

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<v Speaker 1>Please fix your own mask first before helping those next

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<v Speaker 1>to you, because you know what, if you're chasing someone

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<v Speaker 1>else's misplaced belief of what it means to be a hero,

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<v Speaker 1>it may kill you both. Honestly, the greatest gift you

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<v Speaker 1>can ever give yourself is your own friendship, a friendship

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<v Speaker 1>filled with regular day time for you to be with you,

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<v Speaker 1>time for self reflection, wrapped up in complete and utter honesty,

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<v Speaker 1>but without judgment. That is not always easy, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>always healthy. Everything meaningful in life must learn to survive honesty.

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<v Speaker 1>Your tribe will survive your honesty. You will survive your honesty.

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<v Speaker 1>Honesty and acceptance. Or how you build a great relationship

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<v Speaker 1>honesty and acceptance, or how you build a whole safety

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<v Speaker 1>net of relationships honesty with an acceptance of yourself, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that is how you build yourself a beautiful life. Everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy the rest of today, and we'll see you right

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<v Speaker 1>back here next week. This has been Home with Dean Sharp,

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<v Speaker 1>the House Whisper. Tune into the live broadcast on KFI

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<v Speaker 1>Am six forty every Saturday morning from six to eight

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<v Speaker 1>Pacific time, and every Sunday morning from nine to noon

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