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Speaker 1: I made as sunny sound. I had a vision like nice,

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what's up? Everybody, go Dodgers. God, funny story, very very quick.

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We were watching the World Series and this is I

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have a whole story about what's been going on with Penelope.

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But I had to during a heated part of the

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game towards the very end. Yeah, I think they were tied.

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Maybe it was right, maybe it it was right before

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they tied it. I had to take Penelope out. And

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while I'm out, I'm like, walk in her for a minute,

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and I just hear all this noise in the neighborhood too.

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What is going on? Like all these people so yell. Yeah.

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I heard that, and I was like, oh my god,

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what is happening. There's somebody's having a super loud party.

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And then all of a sudden, I was like, oh,

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the Dodger scored right right. Everybody in the Navy neighbor

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mine too.

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Speaker 2: It was so funny. I heard that too. It's crazy. Yeah,

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so I have a little crazy story. I was at

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Suzanne's for the for the Friday night for Halloween.

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Speaker 3: I went there.

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Speaker 2: We ate dinner, she made dinner, and we watched the

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Dodger game and then in the middle of it, she

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gets this text from It's it's some woman that we

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both used to work with years and years ago that

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she hasn't talked to in years. She's like, do you

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remember this woman, Kimberly whatever. She's asking about this other

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girl that works at ABC Disney she wants she's there

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looking for her. She went missing. She was this and

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this was like on Halloween night. So we're having a

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great time and all of a sudden, this text comes

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out of nowhere. Suzanne's like, I haven't talked to this

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woman in years, but somehow she knows that I know

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this girl from work and if I know where she

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his and I'm like, no, I haven't.

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Speaker 3: I don't really know her.

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Speaker 2: Apparently, this girl was on her way driving to her

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parents' house in Huntington Beach on Friday afternoon, was on

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the phone with her mom around two o'clock and then

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the phone cut out and then they could not find her.

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Her find my friends. She wasn't it was was it

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was off. She just went missing. Now it's like nine

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o'clock at night on Friday. Her brother like drove down

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from Huntington Beach to her house. She was the dog

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was gone, so the dog was with her in the car,

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and she was also supposed to go to a party

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to meet up with her friends. They never she never

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showed up. So she's going back and forth, like we're

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it was so eerie and creepy, and we were really

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like worried and we don't even know this girl and

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we're worried about her.

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Speaker 1: And wait, Suzanne doesn't work with her.

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Speaker 2: She worked with her, but she doesn't like she's not

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friends with her, So I don't know why this they

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reached out to her, but anyway, so they're going back

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and forth. This is going on for like two three hours.

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It started around like eight thirty nine o'clock and she'd

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been missing since since two o'clock in the afternoon. They

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called the police. There's a like on the lookout there

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looking for her car pebe yes yeah, yeah, or a

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bolo yeah see, we know. But eventually, finally apparently she

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was in a car accident and she was in the

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hospital and the dog was missing. Oh no, right, and

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the dog had an air tag on him, so at

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least they had that. But then like even before I

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left to go home, and like any word on how

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she's doing apparently she's okay in the hospital. She was

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in the hospital overnight. The dog was missing overnight. But

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then Suzanne texted me the next day that they found

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the dog and the dog was okay.

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Speaker 3: Not fucking crazy though.

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Speaker 1: That's wild.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was.

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Speaker 2: It was so eerie because it kept going on and

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it's Halloween, and it was just so like an eerie thing,

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you know, just to know that somebody went missing, and

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it's not like her. She she would have called like

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she'd last time she talked was two o'clock her phone

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when I was It was crazy story, but yeah, it's

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a little Halloween story that is really spooky.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so her phone, I wonder, So her phone

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just must have went out, like the phone. I guess

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the window. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It was a It was a pretty bad accident. But

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luckily she was okay and I don't think anybody else

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was hurt.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, pretty crazy. That was my Friday night, Halloween night.

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Speaker 1: Did she get any trick or treaters?

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Speaker 2: It's not really a couple here and there. Last year

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I didn't get any. I got one a bunch of

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teenagers at like nine, but no nobody but our street

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has right up my street. They close it off and

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it's like Chris, you know, it's like Candy Lane, Kane Lane,

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but for Halloween. So all the tricker treaters go of

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that area, so they didn't come to my house, so

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I left and went to Suzanne's.

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Speaker 3: Did you get trick or treaders?

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Speaker 1: So our neighborhood, as I've said over the years, is

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also like the candy Cane Lane of Encino, just crawling

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with kids' whole families, and I mean it was a circus. Really,

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it was a whole cash off. Oh yeah, it was

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a casino. So I bought candy at the last minute,

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and I'm I'm glad I bought kind of a lot

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of it because normally they don't. Okay, So our neighborhood

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as kind of a big through street and normally that's

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where people really decorate crazy and all the kids are there.

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But this year a lot of people were off, like

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a couple streets over on our street. And this was

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the first year. Okay, So Lilah Crocodile came over. Yeah,

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with his mom and his sister. It's just tradition, you know. Yeah,

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of course, if they're seventeen. My twins are going to

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be eighteen this month, right, you know, but they still

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had so much fun. They ran around in the neighborhood.

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Speaker 3: Did they dress up?

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Speaker 1: They dressed up. I don't know that they actually trick

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or treat. Didn't went to any doors this time, but

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they passed out candy to kids. So they took all

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our candy and they went out like in front of

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our house, and they right out candy.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's cute, that's cute. That's nice.

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Speaker 1: And then they went to a party.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's nice.

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Speaker 2: Natalia drove for nine hours to Tucson to see her

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friend at University Arizona, her best friend. Because you know,

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Santa Barbara doesn't do much for Halloween anymore. They shut

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it down, so her and her friend drove out there

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and spent the weekend out there, and then drove home

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on Sunday.

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Speaker 1: So of course I was a nervous wreck following her

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the whole way.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, nine hours, but yeah, she made it there and

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back safe. She did that sunny, dressed as a snowboarder

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and went to like a bunch of frat parties.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's so funny. He has like friends and stuff now.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, he's been watching sports Sunday football and

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going to these different parties.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, he's been out there socializing.

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Speaker 1: He's not just friends with Melissa's kid, right, made.

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Speaker 3: He's got a bunch.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Some of them are from our hometown too that are

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out there. Yeah, so yeah, he goes to this one.

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I see him all the time, this one like frat house,

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like on Sundays watching football. But yeah, they were out

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doing going to parties Friday night. Those are and of

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course you know inn Itali. He's got like three different

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costumes for each night.

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Speaker 1: So did Lilly. Yeah, and it's always like shar muta,

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you know, skimpy.

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Speaker 3: I don't even know.

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Speaker 2: She was like Katie Perry one night and then like

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a cowgirl. I don't even know, just you know, yeah,

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just a reason to get dressed up.

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Speaker 1: Albie went to a rave because of course she did

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on Friday, called Escape and yeah, I hadn't heard from

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her in like I don't know, a day or something,

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and I was trying to get information from her. I

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needed to pay her rent. Yeah, so October thirty first,

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I'm like trying to figure out every month the rent

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gets paid differently, like one girl's dad. This is so annoying.

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You've probably dealt with this too. But one girl's dad

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was going to take care of it and we were

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going to all venmo not Venmo, pay him, sell him. Yeah.

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So he's like, okay, so this is so I'm getting

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this information secondhand from LB. Here's his cell and it's

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going to come up with something. I've had to deal

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with that deal. I go to zell it. The name

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is not showing up in the search. I try it

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a bunch of different ways. I tried just searching for

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the name. I try, I try the phone number a

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couple of times. Nothing, it's not coming up. You can

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send it anyway, but it's not attached to anything, right.

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So then I tell Ilbie like, this is not coming

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up with anything. So she's she tells me okay. He says,

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are you sure, like try again or whatever, and I'm like,

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it's not coming up. I'm not sending it to this number.

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That's not coming up. So she says, okay. He try

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his wife's phone number, so I do that one comes

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up right away, so I send it. Oh. But meanwhile

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I texted him and said the guy, because I had

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the phone number, I was like, this is your phone number, right,

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this is so and So's dad. I'm trying to sell

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you and it's not coming up, and he says, well,

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that's weird. The other the other parents they paved, fine,

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what the fuck? Well it turns out they didn't, of course,

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like okay, well I guess what, my phone's broken. My

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what do you like to do with that kind of information?

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I was like, I was a little bit annoyed, but

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I was like, whatever, he's doing me a favor, doing

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all of us a favor. So fine, okay. So then

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the next month, well maybe it's only been a couple

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of months. September had to pay for no September October,

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and now we're paying for November. Anyway, point, being as

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I was having to, I have to track down my

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child to go, who am I sending bell to this month?

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Is it the same that woman? The next month it

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was her roommate and this this thing. She goes, No,

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it's going to be this other person, and she gives

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me that and then she goes By the way, it

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turned out that the zell was broke. It wasn't working.

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The other parents didn't it didn't go through. So Jesus

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that wasn't really true. So I'm like, okay, whatever. So

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I'm trying to track my own kid down. She doesn't

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bother to tell me, Hey, we just so you know,

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here's who we're paying. Yes, I talked to her and

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she's like, I'm on my way to a rave. I'm

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on my way to escape in Sam Bernardino on Halloween,

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and I was like, okay, just let me know, like yeah,

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because as of tomorrow, your runt's going to.

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Speaker 2: Be like right right right. She was like okay, I'll

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find out, and she did. But yeah, so annoying. I

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have had the same issues before, like pay this one roommate,

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then the next months like this, now pay her dad.

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 2: I mean I'm the venmo and the zelle worked, but

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still it's like, you know, but it is.

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Speaker 1: There's another thing that LB does where she which I

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didn't know was happening before. But I was getting these

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random bills at for UCLA that was like you're this

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is overdue and I'm like, no, it's not overdue. Like

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I paid her tuition and then the bill was for

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like sixteen dollars maybe even less, for like some short

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term parking it went on her ruin card. Right, So

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then like this has happened three times now, like this morning,

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it's like your bill is overdue, like you don't want

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to hold put on your account, and I'm like, what bill?

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And I look it up and there's just all these

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little like it's like one hundred and sixty one dollars

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because you know, one hundred dollars for this, ten dollars

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for this, fine dollars, seven dollars for this, and I'm

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just like.

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Speaker 3: Night, all right, let's see kids in college.

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Speaker 1: And then her bank account. I also get the notices

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your bank account is low, and it's always Albie, right,

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it's always different for one hundred bucks, Like she's the

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most consistent worker out there. Yeah, I mean yeah, right,

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How are Sadie and Xander who have no jobs not

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running out of money? But Helby is constantly Isn't that funny?

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so low maintenance. I don't even know where he gets

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his money to do state.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's his gambling. I don't know what he's doing.

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He does gamble on sports.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, So I have I totally forgot to

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tell you this last week, but I have some exciting

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news on the LB being scrappy front. Yes, So what

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part of this did I tell you? So? I told

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you that my friend was trying to set her up

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with an internship at a music publishing company, which got

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her a little bit inspired. She direct messaged in Instagram

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account for this company. I won't say the name of

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the company, but suffice it to say it's a company

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that puts on live events, that rave events like. It's

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exactly her thing that her dream job basically is to

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work at one of these companies. They do like artists

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support for these DJs. They discover people and then they

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put on a lot of shows showcase the artists. Yeah,

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and they also oftentimes have artists at these big festivals

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and stuff. So LB messaged the Instagram account for the company.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 1: And she only told me after the Oh. She was like,

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do you think I should message them? And I was like, fuck, yes,

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what do you have to exactly? What's the downside, right,

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wouldn't you? It's the new way to do it.

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Speaker 2: Yes, for us back in the day, we had to

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walk in there and go, hey, I'm looking for a job.

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Speaker 1: Here's my resume, and I told you that. LB showed

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me a meme that was it was a kid. It

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was what my mom thinks will happen if I walk

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in somewhere in person and hand them my resume. And

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then it was a thing of all these people giving

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a standing epation and like reception. That's funny because she

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was like, it's not a thing. People don't do that, right,

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So good for her for realizing what the modern way is.

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All you listeners out there tell your kids, because this

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story has a happy ending. So she's like, oh my god,

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I'm so nervous to do it. And I was like why.

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It's because like the Instagram is like a hatched to

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my account, so like if if they don't read it,

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or if I get rejected, it's like personal, you know. Yeah,

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So she wrote them and she she read me the

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message she sent them, and it was so cute. It

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was like, Hi, Like, I'm a senior at UCLA and

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I've been following your account and your your company or whatever,

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and you have turned me on to some of my

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favorite DJs, and like, you know.

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Speaker 3: Blah blah blah.

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Speaker 1: She said the same, and she was like, I would

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love to somehow. I don't know if you guys are

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looking for interns or but even volunteer, like I've have

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to be like, see if there's something for me to

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do as part of your organization.

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Speaker 3: Something like that was really that's amazing.

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Speaker 1: So she like the next day she was like, oh

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my god, Mom. They wrote back. So they wrote her

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back and they were like, hey, send us an email.

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And then they she'd been looking for the email account

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would have emailed them, but there was she couldn't find it, right,

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So they sent her the email. They're like, send us

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your resume or any prior experience.

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Speaker 1: She was like, Mom, I don't have any prior experience.

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And I was like, yeah, you do. You've had jobs.

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You've had more jobs than most people. You're age right.

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They don't mean music, exact business experience you're twenty years old,

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of course, not just tell them related stuff. Make your

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job at So I helped her with her resume over

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the phone, and we went through all her things and

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just just adjusted it to sound a little bit like

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experience customer service and throwing events a little bit with

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her job at Ultrazone that she have right anyway, So

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she sends in her resume, gets an email back and

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they're like, you sound really great. We'd love to talk

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to you. I would love to set up an interview,

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but it's just totally informal. It's not for a specific position,

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but we'd like to just we'd like to talk to

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you for it. So that was like two fridays ago.

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I just forgot to tell you on the show. Right.

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So she was hella nervous freaking out about it. She

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was like, oh my god, I said LB, She's gonna

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be perfect, like just a vibe check. It's gonna be fine.

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They're just gonna chit chat with you. Right. So she

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had the meeting. They loved her. Three of the guys

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out of four that she was on with three people

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that like founded this company. Wow. Three out of the

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four went to UCLA.

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Speaker 3: Oh.

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Speaker 1: They were like, I gotta be honest with you. We

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love that you go to UCLA. Like we're all lucy

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Ucla alumni. Yes, And then they gossiped about UCLA and

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then LB told them about she's very knowledgeable with this

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kind of music. It's like, Uh, this certain guy that

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does this graphic art. She goes, I met him at

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a rave and I was and you know he does merchandise.

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And they're like, oh, yeah, of course that guy. We

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love that guy. And she's like, you know what, I

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had this great conversation and they said, unfortunately we don't

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have anything. It gets really slow between Halloween and the

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end of the year, but we'd love to use you

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in the new year. So she was super excited. Literally

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a week later, they're like, hey, are you available November

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and it's this weekend. Basically, really up she has, she's

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working two shows.

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Speaker 2: She's going to be working at the eventing events. Yes,

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that's amazing. Oh wow, what an inspirational story. I know,

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that's great.

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Speaker 1: She's like over the moon about it. I love that.

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Speaker 2: I am so happy for congratulations that he'll be what

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A like A good Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you just have to tell my kids or just

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have to try.

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Speaker 2: I can't wait to tell the thing you really want

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right right, find a way, right, That's what I did.

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You know back in the day, I'm on to work

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in TV, and that you just got to go start,

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just make just reach out. That's amazing, that's what I

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told her.

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Speaker 1: I was like, if this is the place you want

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to work, why would you not, Like she was like

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about the Instagram messaging them. I was like, but this

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is literally the place you want to work. Why would

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you not at least.

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Speaker 3: Try you had nothing to lose.

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Speaker 1: I know. That's so happy for Elvie. I can't wait

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to hear how she does this weekend. I know she

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was very and she's gotten very good at like following up.

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And I told her like, as soon as you know,

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when you finish, you got to write them and say, hey,

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thank you so much for taking the time, Like yeah,

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I you know, yes, love talking to you guys. Look

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forward to anything you have coming up in the new

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year or whatever. So she did that, and then that's

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so great. What a good that's I mean, that's a

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good learning lesson. I can't wait to tell Sonny and

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Italia to do that, Like just find companies you want

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to work for and start reaching out to them.

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Speaker 3: That's great. Oh, I'm so happy for her.

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Speaker 1: Well, Elbie, she's all grows up.

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Speaker 2: She's a little scrappy Elvie, just like her mama.

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Speaker 1: Getting there. Yeah she is. Oh that's so I love that.

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Funny to see the girls though. I won't put Xander

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and Sonny in this category, maybe not even sadie yet,

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but it is funny to see how different they've you know,

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they didn't grow up like we did. So I do

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not think that my kids are spoiled in any way,

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shape or form, like legitimately spoiled, Like, no, you know what,

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they're spoiled. They're just not entitled right at all, exactly,

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But it is funny to see the things they do

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not worry about that I worried about. Like, they do

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not sweat money. I know there's more coming, exactly, you know,

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it all goes. I was so broke I literally couldn't

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buy like a CD. I could go buy myself a sandwich.

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I was legitimately buying top ramen. I was like a

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cliche yet baloney, peanut butter, stuff that would fill me.

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Speaker 3: But last I mean I was poor top ramen. I

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mean all that stuff.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just can't imagine. I mean I told you

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that I'll be like ordered for delivery the whole foods. Right.

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She saw a recipe on TikTok she wanted to make. Right,

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John was like, the hell, I'm like she thinks she can.

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Speaker 2: Yes, there's something sort of heartwarming about the guide, right right,

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I'm going to see Natalia tomorrow. Yeah, we're going to

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the bank and getting her situated with her checking account,

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her savings account. And she's been applying for jobs out

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there in Santa Barbara, so hopefully, you know, she starts

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getting some work because she's gonna start working, and then

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I'm gonna go see Sonny in like two weeks. There's

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a big Oregon game that he wants me to come to.

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Oh yeah, Melissa was gonna try and go with me

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because Archie's out there too, but she can't. It's like

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Jimmy's birthday that weekend, so it's like some family thing.

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But so I'm gonna go. And you know, I love

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going to the games with him out there.

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Speaker 3: It's fun.

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Speaker 1: And the fact that he wanted me to come, I

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love that. I love that so much. I know.

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an lax but not from Burbank. Oh but so what

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a Vello, and they do fly direct, but they have

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471
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472
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Speaker 1: Oh, So just an update because people have been asking

473
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:25,440
for it. Everybody wants to hear about my journey. Yes,

474
00:25:26,559 --> 00:25:30,759
it's going really well. You seem like you're doing well. Yeah,

475
00:25:30,799 --> 00:25:33,079
so that first week was a little tough with the

476
00:25:33,279 --> 00:25:37,279
two milligrams. I'm just a delicate flower and body can

477
00:25:37,319 --> 00:25:41,599
only take one millogram. Apparently, sometimes people have gotten in

478
00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:46,559
my DMS and they're like two milligrams. That's crazy, that's

479
00:25:46,599 --> 00:25:48,599
too high, And I'm like, no, you're thinking of a

480
00:25:48,599 --> 00:25:53,680
different medication, truzepetide, which is what I'm taking right. Brand

481
00:25:53,759 --> 00:26:00,599
name is u zep bound or Edmunjaro. Oh okay, that's truzeppatite. Okay,

482
00:26:00,799 --> 00:26:07,759
ozempic is something else. Anyway, the zeppetide, the normal starting

483
00:26:07,759 --> 00:26:10,599
dose is two point five, but I only took two.

484
00:26:11,319 --> 00:26:14,599
That was too much, So I am basically microdosing it

485
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:17,839
because the second week, so I did it on whatever

486
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:20,599
the day was, I can't remember. Then I waited all

487
00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:25,359
the way till Sunday night. I think the night before

488
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:32,880
we came here. Yeah, okay, so then anyway, I can't remember,

489
00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:35,720
maybe it was Saturday. But then I took one milligram

490
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:38,519
so when I was in here, I felt better when

491
00:26:38,519 --> 00:26:42,039
I was on one, and it totally did the thing

492
00:26:42,079 --> 00:26:45,119
that I was hoping it would do, which is makes

493
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:49,160
me not that hungry and between meal it makes it

494
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,880
it's hard to explain it took. I don't have that

495
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:55,279
food aversion thing anymore. I can totally eat food still

496
00:26:55,319 --> 00:26:57,720
tastes good, but like I'll eat a half of what

497
00:26:57,759 --> 00:27:01,200
I would normally eat and then be like okay, full wow,

498
00:27:01,559 --> 00:27:03,960
Like my brain doesn't go like, oh my god, that

499
00:27:04,079 --> 00:27:06,000
tasted good. Now I want to eat like five more.

500
00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:07,599
I didn't need any Halloween.

501
00:27:07,759 --> 00:27:09,359
Speaker 3: I was just gonna ask, you know, if.

502
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:11,119
Speaker 1: I didn't touch anything. Wow.

503
00:27:11,279 --> 00:27:14,039
Speaker 2: I didn't even really think about it that much. That's

504
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:15,400
really incredible.

505
00:27:15,519 --> 00:27:18,279
Speaker 1: Had a couple of moments just because it was everywhere

506
00:27:18,279 --> 00:27:20,680
in my house because we bought all this candy, and

507
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,759
then I was like I'm fine. And then the next

508
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:27,240
day I did have to like put it all away. Yeah,

509
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:30,039
But normally I would put the candy in a cabinet

510
00:27:30,519 --> 00:27:33,000
and then it would speak to me, yeah, and I

511
00:27:33,039 --> 00:27:38,240
would think about it. I don't stop talking to me.

512
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,359
I don't want you to be like, just come here

513
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:42,680
for one checond, just look at me.

514
00:27:43,799 --> 00:27:44,640
Speaker 3: I'm lemonheads.

515
00:27:46,559 --> 00:27:48,839
Speaker 1: And it was it was like skittles. It was stuff

516
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:51,319
I like, Yeah, but it didn't bother me.

517
00:27:51,799 --> 00:27:55,720
Speaker 2: That's that's really incredible. So it is working doing what

518
00:27:55,759 --> 00:27:56,599
you wanted it to do.

519
00:27:56,720 --> 00:28:00,400
Speaker 1: Yeah. And then last night it had totally worn off

520
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:04,680
and I ate like probably more yesterday than I normally eat.

521
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:07,079
But I also went to the gym and I wasn't

522
00:28:07,319 --> 00:28:11,440
thinking about it. I wasn't doing that compulsive like, Okay,

523
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:14,799
I ate this, so now I have to eat less tomorrow.

524
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:18,279
I was like chill, yeah, okay, whatever. I enjoyed some

525
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:21,000
dinner and now I'm going to take another. So I

526
00:28:21,079 --> 00:28:23,920
did another dose last night, just the one.

527
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:28,200
Speaker 2: Okay, that's great. I'm so glad that you're doing well. Yeah,

528
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:29,279
you look right.

529
00:28:29,319 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 1: They look good.

530
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:32,039
Speaker 3: Awesome weight already, that's awesome.

531
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:35,400
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna do it. I think I'm gonna do it,

532
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:41,319
like through this month, if I've through the holidays. Maybe

533
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:45,400
through the holidays and then I've done Yeah, okay, oh

534
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:47,960
I love it, or maybe not, like maybe only until

535
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:49,480
the end of November. I'll see.

536
00:28:49,559 --> 00:28:51,119
Speaker 2: And look, you did it all on your own, with

537
00:28:51,119 --> 00:28:54,640
your research. You didn't need doctor knock around. I'm proud

538
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:54,799
of you.

539
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:58,279
Speaker 1: I just it's you know, it worked for you. A

540
00:28:58,319 --> 00:29:01,720
lot of people out there swear by it. I don't

541
00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:05,599
want to trigger anybody to think anybody needs to lose weight.

542
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:10,519
It's all about like comfort, yeat in your body. I

543
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:13,640
do believe that if it has to do with just

544
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:16,920
being compulsive and just wanting to be like creating number

545
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:19,119
on the scale, that's not great. Like for me it

546
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:23,200
was just ever since COVID the menopause weight, Like I

547
00:29:23,279 --> 00:29:25,559
just don't love the feeling of not fitting into any

548
00:29:25,559 --> 00:29:28,079
of my clothes. Yeah all right, it's not like I

549
00:29:28,119 --> 00:29:29,680
think I'm not.

550
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:33,519
Speaker 2: A worthwhile person right now. Maybe I should try it.

551
00:29:35,119 --> 00:29:41,119
Speaker 1: It could just try meth first. I can see you

552
00:29:41,359 --> 00:29:44,279
meth and cigarettes. Yeah, all right, I'll try that.

553
00:29:45,119 --> 00:29:49,039
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm going to go find somebody that sells it

554
00:29:49,279 --> 00:29:54,640
out in the at the you know MacArthur Park. Yes, yeah,

555
00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:57,920
and then I'll get somebody that's doling it out and

556
00:29:57,920 --> 00:29:59,119
then I'll give you guys the name.

557
00:29:59,599 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 1: Just walk around down there and just be like, God,

558
00:30:03,279 --> 00:30:05,359
I wish I could use some energy. I could use

559
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:11,200
like a boost. Anybody got anything you want to get high?

560
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:15,000
Oh my god. I had this friend. We've all had

561
00:30:15,039 --> 00:30:18,039
this friend, right who was such a goody goody. And

562
00:30:18,079 --> 00:30:20,640
then I remember her telling me like I knew her

563
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:22,839
only as a goody goody. And then she told me

564
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:26,200
that she'd been like a total meth addict for a

565
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:29,319
period of time in the twenties. What you would never

566
00:30:30,359 --> 00:30:33,799
like a goodie like uptight. And I was like wow,

567
00:30:34,279 --> 00:30:37,119
and she's like yeah. It was kind of around college

568
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:41,400
and like studying, and and then she would she really

569
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:44,200
liked Yeah. Then she would clean her house and you know,

570
00:30:44,279 --> 00:30:44,720
oh my.

571
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:49,119
Speaker 2: Gosh, I've never met anybody that didn't meth. Same, that's crazy.

572
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 1: She had all her teeth.

573
00:30:52,759 --> 00:30:55,759
Speaker 2: Speaking of teeth, well, speaking of ears, even though we're

574
00:30:55,799 --> 00:30:59,559
not talking about ears, I I was so when I

575
00:30:59,599 --> 00:31:03,480
was in Florida, Wendy was telling me that it's hereditary.

576
00:31:03,519 --> 00:31:04,480
Speaker 3: In the Paradise family.

577
00:31:04,559 --> 00:31:09,759
Speaker 2: My brother and my nephews all get their ears like

578
00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:11,480
blockage with wax.

579
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:14,119
Speaker 1: And I was saying, I can't my TV.

580
00:31:14,279 --> 00:31:15,960
Speaker 2: I have to turn my TV all the way up

581
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:19,359
at home because I can't hear, like I'm having trouble,

582
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:21,680
like when I'm laying on one side, I can't hear

583
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:23,920
out of this ear. She's like, you got to get

584
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:27,160
your ears clean. So I went on ZocDoc and I

585
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:30,119
found a doctor near me that an ear doctor that

586
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:32,599
cleaned it. And I got my I was one hundred

587
00:31:32,599 --> 00:31:36,440
percent blocked on the right side and like ninety percent

588
00:31:36,519 --> 00:31:40,839
on the left. What yeah, of blockage of wax. I know,

589
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:41,640
it's kind of gross.

590
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:43,960
Speaker 1: So did oh my God, tell me everything? Did they

591
00:31:44,039 --> 00:31:46,039
first look in there and oh, yeah, you're blocked.

592
00:31:46,119 --> 00:31:47,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, he looked in there and he goes, yeah, no,

593
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:50,559
wonder why you can't hear anything. And so he's like,

594
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:52,720
I've and I've never done this before, and I goes,

595
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:54,480
it gonna hurt, and he goes, it's just a little

596
00:31:54,559 --> 00:31:57,559
weird feeling, maybe a little pressure. And he takes this

597
00:31:57,720 --> 00:32:02,319
like just I hold this bucket underneath my ear, and

598
00:32:02,359 --> 00:32:06,039
then he takes this like it's like a cone with

599
00:32:06,119 --> 00:32:08,960
like water in it, kind of like when you put

600
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:11,839
pastry on a cake kind of thing. But it's just

601
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:14,720
water and I don't know whatever. And he's like, I'm

602
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:16,839
gonna try and loosen it up. You might have to

603
00:32:17,079 --> 00:32:20,160
just take home ear drops and finish it at home.

604
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:21,960
He goes, but if I if I can get if

605
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:24,359
I can't, get it all out. So he did get

606
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:26,319
it all out. So he did my right ear where

607
00:32:26,319 --> 00:32:29,079
I was one hundred percent block and just chunks of

608
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:31,920
wax came out. And then all of a sudden, I'm like,

609
00:32:32,119 --> 00:32:34,960
oh my god, I can I could hear so much clearer.

610
00:32:35,519 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, And then like, am

611
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:39,079
I talking too loud?

612
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:39,279
Speaker 1: Like?

613
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:43,839
Speaker 2: Then he did the other ear, same and then he

614
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:46,440
said that at first you got to let it settle in.

615
00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:48,440
It's gonna feel like you have water in your ear

616
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:51,079
like you went swimming, which it did, because the left

617
00:32:51,079 --> 00:32:52,680
ear felt like I had water in it, he goes,

618
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:54,799
But it's not, he goes, it's just that feeling. You're

619
00:32:54,799 --> 00:32:57,319
gonna full feeling, but it goes away. It's gonna dry

620
00:32:57,400 --> 00:32:59,599
up and then you're gonna And it did, and oh

621
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:01,640
my god. Now I got Mike doing I got all

622
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:04,119
my friends going to ear doctors getting their ears cleaned.

623
00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 1: But did it have to do with like did they

624
00:33:06,759 --> 00:33:08,519
light a flame or anything like?

625
00:33:08,599 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 3: No, those candle wax things are not good.

626
00:33:11,079 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 1: No.

627
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:13,839
Speaker 3: And then he says, do you use uh, do you

628
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:14,960
use Q tips?

629
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:17,240
Speaker 2: And I said no, not really and he said, good,

630
00:33:17,359 --> 00:33:20,920
don't because I guess we just I have wax build

631
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:22,680
up easy. And he said you should come in every

632
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:25,440
six months. And then he gave me a prescription of

633
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:28,720
eardrops to just keep putting it into so it softens

634
00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:30,920
and go and drains on its own.

635
00:33:31,119 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 3: So I couldn't believe it.

636
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:36,279
Speaker 2: Oh, I thought, like, because our friend Craig wears ear

637
00:33:37,279 --> 00:33:40,559
hearing aids hearing aids, you know, and he's he's pretty young,

638
00:33:40,559 --> 00:33:42,680
but he was a drummer and a musician and everything.

639
00:33:43,079 --> 00:33:44,640
And I was talking to him like I think I

640
00:33:44,759 --> 00:33:47,759
might need hearing aids. But no, he was like, no,

641
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:50,799
you're just you're you're like all blocked up. Yeah, it

642
00:33:50,839 --> 00:33:51,720
was a great feeling.

643
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 1: So did he do that? And then did he test

644
00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:54,119
your hearing?

645
00:33:54,759 --> 00:33:58,599
Speaker 2: No? I only paid for just thirty five bucks to

646
00:33:58,640 --> 00:33:59,440
get my ears clean.

647
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:00,079
Speaker 1: Oh.

648
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:02,039
Speaker 2: I could go back and have him test my hearing.

649
00:34:02,079 --> 00:34:04,920
But but if you're not now I feel hearing. No,

650
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:07,279
now I could have the TV on normal, like I

651
00:34:07,279 --> 00:34:09,960
don't have to blast it and Italia yelling at me

652
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:10,639
from the other room.

653
00:34:10,679 --> 00:34:15,079
Speaker 1: It's too loud. I can't sleep. Not so good. Yeah,

654
00:34:15,159 --> 00:34:18,960
it's pretty amazing. So that's my little PSA, all right,

655
00:34:20,599 --> 00:34:24,239
so I have a little this was this was well.

656
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:28,280
I had a hard week with Penelope, so we had

657
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:32,400
given her trasodone as I was all excited about it

658
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:37,039
because we compared that Sunny and Yuppy are both on trasidone, right,

659
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:43,400
but the like for sleep. Yeah, but I had given her.

660
00:34:43,599 --> 00:34:47,639
She gets really anxious, like around five o'clock and just

661
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:50,119
barks and barks and barks and barks, and it's not

662
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:54,039
tolerable because I teach and then John has to go

663
00:34:54,119 --> 00:34:59,960
get Xander from school. It's a whole thing because usual

664
00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,480
as soon as he leaves, she just starts barking at

665
00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:04,599
me and I'm trying to teach a class and it's

666
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:08,119
really abruptive, and then I have to Then I try

667
00:35:08,159 --> 00:35:12,000
to text Sadie please come in the room and get Penelope,

668
00:35:12,079 --> 00:35:14,719
but she won't go with Sadie, right. She just looks

669
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:17,239
at Sadie like, yeah, what do you want an A

670
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:19,800
to B conversation see your way out?

671
00:35:20,039 --> 00:35:25,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's hilarious.

672
00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:29,639
Speaker 1: So Sadie'll just be like like she gives me the

673
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:32,400
like I can't tell you, and it's like, no, you

674
00:35:32,559 --> 00:35:35,119
have hard me, you know, Yeah that's hard, and I

675
00:35:35,159 --> 00:35:37,199
have to be like, sorry, guys, hold on a second,

676
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:38,840
and then I have to try to drag her out

677
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:44,559
of my anyway. So we gave her trasidone a little

678
00:35:44,559 --> 00:35:46,840
bitson is supposed to get her to go to sleep

679
00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:48,480
or test it. So we gave it to her a

680
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:51,159
little bit earlier, a half and then she can have

681
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:55,199
one hundred milligrams. I'd given her fifty and then like

682
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:58,079
closer to bedtime, we gave her another fifty. And then

683
00:35:58,119 --> 00:36:03,800
she proceeded to bark and cry and whine and pace

684
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:09,880
until one o'clock in the morning. And we were beside ourselves.

685
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:12,360
We were just like, no, oh my god, is this

686
00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:15,400
our new normal? Like this is so bad? This is

687
00:36:15,559 --> 00:36:19,079
she can't live like this, you know. So the next

688
00:36:19,159 --> 00:36:22,800
day called the vet in the morning, I was like this,

689
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:26,920
my dog is like really, it's really bad, Like she

690
00:36:27,079 --> 00:36:29,480
just she's crying all night. And that's with the trasa

691
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:35,880
doan right. So took her into the VET. They told me,

692
00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:37,400
I asked if I could have a car. I didn't

693
00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:39,079
want to put her in the car and bring her

694
00:36:39,079 --> 00:36:42,800
to the vet. It's stressful, but basically our option was

695
00:36:43,159 --> 00:36:45,880
wait twenty four to forty eight hours for the doctor

696
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:50,400
to call or bring her in right then. So we

697
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:56,000
brought her in and the vet was like, this is

698
00:36:56,440 --> 00:37:01,119
not going to get better, like and it was. Let

699
00:37:01,119 --> 00:37:04,280
me just tell you, I was crying the whole morning.

700
00:37:04,639 --> 00:37:06,840
I was crying at night. I was crying in the morning.

701
00:37:07,159 --> 00:37:09,079
I cried through the whole appointment. And it was that

702
00:37:09,199 --> 00:37:12,519
kind of crying where like you can't like I was

703
00:37:12,559 --> 00:37:14,599
trying so hard not you know when you're a kid

704
00:37:14,639 --> 00:37:16,440
and you're like you don't want your parents to yet

705
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:19,119
or whatever, so you're trying. I was trying so hard

706
00:37:19,199 --> 00:37:21,119
not to, but I was just like crying. Now that

707
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:25,000
he's we have the sweetest that yeah best I love

708
00:37:25,079 --> 00:37:29,320
him so much. But he was like, it's it's really

709
00:37:31,079 --> 00:37:33,159
like we can try to buy you a little bit

710
00:37:33,159 --> 00:37:35,800
of time, but you know, it comes down to, as

711
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:40,800
you know, quality of life, like is she having good moments?

712
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:43,639
She doesn't have like a lot of good moments, you know.

713
00:37:44,079 --> 00:37:45,840
But he's like, there's one more thing we can try,

714
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:49,639
and that's Gabba petin, which is a different drug. Right,

715
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:53,000
And because I was like, is there any possibility that

716
00:37:53,079 --> 00:37:57,599
traza doone have like a effect? Right, That's what he said,

717
00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:02,719
Probably not, but like it's possible, like I've seen it,

718
00:38:04,559 --> 00:38:06,760
but he said, it's it would be interesting that you

719
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:09,079
didn't have that reaction the first couple of times she

720
00:38:09,159 --> 00:38:12,440
took it, but it is possible, so we could try

721
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:16,199
Gaba petin. So gave her a Gaba pentin that night.

722
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:20,280
She did much better, She had a I mean, she's

723
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:22,159
still The thing was is, I was like, I don't

724
00:38:22,199 --> 00:38:24,320
want to drug her at four o'clock so she's not

725
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:27,719
barking at five because then she's gonna just be passed

726
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:33,360
out and not out right right. But basically we gave

727
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:37,440
her the medication and then we realized that she also

728
00:38:37,599 --> 00:38:40,880
has this anxiety in the morning now, so she wakes

729
00:38:41,039 --> 00:38:43,679
up and she can't get settled, Like you take her

730
00:38:43,679 --> 00:38:45,519
for a walk, you feed her all the stuff, and

731
00:38:45,559 --> 00:38:47,719
she comes back and she's just like kind of pacing

732
00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:51,119
around and barking. So it's not great. But then we

733
00:38:51,199 --> 00:38:53,440
decided to try to give her Gaba petin also in

734
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:57,360
the morning, right okay, which has really helped. And then

735
00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:04,639
yesterday for anxiety, yes okay, because she has senility and

736
00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:07,760
she's sundowning at night. But now it's kind of like

737
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:12,199
just anxiety all day, right because hot on she doesn't

738
00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:14,960
like I think, she doesn't always know where she is.

739
00:39:15,079 --> 00:39:17,440
She can't get settled. It's just like, you know, so

740
00:39:18,199 --> 00:39:21,800
I don't want to like weekend at Bernie's her, you know.

741
00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:26,400
But at the same time, yesterday we gave her Gaba

742
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:28,119
Pettin in the morning and then we gave it to

743
00:39:28,119 --> 00:39:30,599
her in the evening, and she was like so much

744
00:39:30,599 --> 00:39:33,119
happier and she not I'm not. I don't want to

745
00:39:33,119 --> 00:39:35,719
make it sound like she was great. But she went

746
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:37,800
for a walk all the way to the park, which

747
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:42,880
she never does, wow anymore, And she was like trotting

748
00:39:43,639 --> 00:39:46,599
and like saying hi to other dogs and being like

749
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:47,719
her old self.

750
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:52,039
Speaker 2: So you don't, right, put a dog down that's like, yeah, exactly,

751
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:54,679
has a great day. Well, it seems like the Gaba

752
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:58,880
Pettin is what needed what she needed to work, because

753
00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:01,480
it maybe she just you just had to like, you know,

754
00:40:02,079 --> 00:40:04,800
test things here and there and then that you know.

755
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:07,199
Speaker 1: He said, if the gabapatin works, that's great, he goes,

756
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:10,320
but there's gonna come a point where it's not gonna work,

757
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:16,280
and then there's really nothing else, like right, oh, Stony,

758
00:40:17,039 --> 00:40:21,440
it's I've never been through this as an adult, right.

759
00:40:22,159 --> 00:40:25,039
Speaker 2: I have a few times, I know, and it's it's

760
00:40:25,079 --> 00:40:28,719
it's hard. It's hard to know when the right time is,

761
00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:34,199
you know, and like impossible right, well, especially with what

762
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:35,519
Penelope is going through.

763
00:40:35,559 --> 00:40:40,039
Speaker 1: Like for Mollie our blonde lab, I mean, it.

764
00:40:40,079 --> 00:40:44,159
Speaker 2: Was obvious she she she was she was diabetic, she

765
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:48,079
had cancer, mass cell tumors all over her body. She

766
00:40:48,119 --> 00:40:50,880
had her ear removed, she went blind and I got

767
00:40:51,119 --> 00:40:53,599
vision back in the one eye. She had surgery for that.

768
00:40:53,679 --> 00:40:57,159
She had her ear taken off, her her her whole

769
00:40:57,800 --> 00:41:01,119
flap ear taken off because that was had cancer. And

770
00:41:01,159 --> 00:41:03,320
then she just tired getting all these mass sell tumors

771
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:06,159
all over her body. And then she just couldn't walk.

772
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:09,440
There was just one day she just couldn't. But during

773
00:41:09,519 --> 00:41:13,679
that time, before she could walk, she would have she

774
00:41:13,679 --> 00:41:16,440
would be okay, but she was constant. I had to

775
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:19,320
constantly give her medication for this and that, and the

776
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:22,039
tumors were like bleeding and stuff, and then you had

777
00:41:22,039 --> 00:41:24,719
to take care of that. But then she also but

778
00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:26,880
she still had even though that was going on on

779
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:30,280
her outside of her body, she still had signed, you know,

780
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:34,320
like her being herself. It was just that one day,

781
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:37,119
all of a sudden, she just couldn't walk. And she

782
00:41:37,199 --> 00:41:39,559
was thirteen, and it was like the first day of

783
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:42,440
fourth grade for the kids. And I was like, take

784
00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:44,360
a picture with Mollie because I knew I was taking

785
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:46,920
her to get put down. And I was like, take

786
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:51,440
take a picture, you know, with Mollie, and they were no.

787
00:41:51,559 --> 00:41:53,079
Tally was like, oh, we gotta go, we gotta go,

788
00:41:53,159 --> 00:41:55,039
and then I but I do have pictures.

789
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 3: And then Natali was like, I'm so.

790
00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:58,760
Speaker 2: Glad you made me take pictures with her when she

791
00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:02,519
found out she died. So it's sad. It's Adam to

792
00:42:02,639 --> 00:42:05,440
go with you. He was actually out of town. He

793
00:42:05,599 --> 00:42:09,159
left with Sonny that day to go to Monterey. Oh,

794
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:11,880
so I had to do it myself, and I had

795
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:14,119
to do myself with our family dog. When I was

796
00:42:14,119 --> 00:42:16,760
like in my twenties, my mom called me, it's like

797
00:42:17,039 --> 00:42:19,320
it was our dog Snoopy that I grew up with.

798
00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:22,800
I was like early twenties and she called me snoopies

799
00:42:23,559 --> 00:42:25,920
walking around in a circle and I had a seizure

800
00:42:26,039 --> 00:42:28,440
or something, and he had a seizure and I took

801
00:42:28,519 --> 00:42:30,199
him and to the vet and I had to have

802
00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:33,119
him put down, picked him up, took him to the vet.

803
00:42:33,159 --> 00:42:37,880
So I've done it twice and it's it's not fun,

804
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:41,199
it's really sad. And now it's like I wish I

805
00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:43,360
had somebody come to the home and do it. You know,

806
00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:46,000
they can do that now, but it's.

807
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:46,800
Speaker 1: Called lap of love.

808
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:51,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, when yeah, so I'm hoping that that you know,

809
00:42:51,599 --> 00:42:54,039
she's comfortable and she's okay for now.

810
00:42:55,079 --> 00:42:58,679
Speaker 3: Just sounds like yeah. I mean it was a hard.

811
00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:02,639
Speaker 1: That was a hard. I mean I think I've cried

812
00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:08,440
like that in I mean like a couple of years.

813
00:43:08,519 --> 00:43:10,559
I mean I was just like that kind of like

814
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:15,360
just I could not stop crying. And you know the

815
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:19,599
thing is, I mean she's had a great life, like

816
00:43:19,679 --> 00:43:22,400
she really has. I mean, we took her, we got

817
00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:27,639
her from like a bad situation, and you know these

818
00:43:27,679 --> 00:43:31,760
people that just abandoned her at the at the shelter

819
00:43:33,159 --> 00:43:36,280
owner surrender just didn't want her. I don't think she'd

820
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:39,159
ever been inside someone's house before. You know. Then she

821
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:42,599
was with the rescue that took her in for six weeks,

822
00:43:42,599 --> 00:43:45,719
and then we gave her like a deal life. So

823
00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:50,199
I mean, that dog is very spoiled, but she's also

824
00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:54,039
like such a good girl. You know, she has just

825
00:43:54,119 --> 00:43:57,800
been such a kind of a dream dog. Besides her

826
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:00,719
crazy prey drive that she had at the beginning, right,

827
00:44:01,199 --> 00:44:05,440
she's been she's just such so so good. Yeah, I know,

828
00:44:05,679 --> 00:44:09,239
she's lived. I mean she is like fourteen and a half, right, right,

829
00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:10,840
that's the sad thing.

830
00:44:11,079 --> 00:44:16,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we're all praying for her. Thank you that happened.

831
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:19,159
I have one more thing that's just kind of funny

832
00:44:19,599 --> 00:44:21,719
that I was going to tell you. Oh, save some

833
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:22,679
stuff for next week.

834
00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:25,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, real quick.

835
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:26,920
Speaker 2: For next week, I'm going to talk I'm going to

836
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:31,239
talk about the documentary. Don't Date Brandon is the documentary

837
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:34,320
and it's on Paramount Plus but apparently it's also on

838
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:38,639
Amazon Prime and YouTube and it's Don't Date Brandon, So

839
00:44:39,039 --> 00:44:41,480
you guys watch it because I'll talk about it on

840
00:44:41,639 --> 00:44:42,320
Friday Show.

841
00:44:42,639 --> 00:44:45,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then I'm going to talk about something having

842
00:44:45,639 --> 00:44:48,840
to do with it on Friday Show too. But this

843
00:44:49,039 --> 00:44:55,119
is just so stupid. Okay, I get this email. Now,

844
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:57,800
I get a lot of spam email. When you have

845
00:44:57,840 --> 00:45:01,480
a podcast, you get a lot of email that are like, hey,

846
00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:05,039
do you want help increasing your download numbers? Yeah, yes,

847
00:45:05,159 --> 00:45:09,360
we can help you organically reach you know, fifty thousand

848
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:12,840
more listeners a month. But you know, okay, but I

849
00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:17,760
also get them for books, huh sometimes. But I get

850
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:21,719
this one yesterday that was so stupid, and it was like,

851
00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:26,159
but I can't find the original email, but just know

852
00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:33,400
that it was it was like, hi Stephanie, with my

853
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:35,119
name spell drong right with it?

854
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:37,920
Speaker 2: With they never listened to the show. They're all like,

855
00:45:38,039 --> 00:45:42,480
I get pitched guests. Yeah, right right, So imagine that.

856
00:45:42,559 --> 00:45:46,760
Speaker 1: But with a book where they mentioned the woman says hi,

857
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:51,960
I had the chance to read or come across. And

858
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:53,880
then it was one of my old books. It was like,

859
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:56,239
I want to say the third it was maybe it's

860
00:45:56,280 --> 00:45:58,280
not you, it's me or I'm kind of a big

861
00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:00,599
deal something that I wrote like ten years ago, yeah,

862
00:46:00,679 --> 00:46:04,199
twelve years ago, at least at this point thirteen years ago,

863
00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:09,079
and blah blah blah, and it says it's it's a

864
00:46:09,079 --> 00:46:14,159
person whose business is Okay, that doesn't matter I get

865
00:46:14,199 --> 00:46:19,320
this whole clearly chat GPT written yes email, which I ignore.

866
00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:22,280
Then like five minutes later I get another one and

867
00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:26,760
it says this, Hi, Stephanie was with an I I

868
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:30,239
owe you a quick apology. In my previous message, I

869
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:34,719
accidentally mentioned another author's book that was entirely my mistake

870
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:39,320
M dash. So I am a person who does use

871
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:41,960
M dashes that have a long like dash in the

872
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:45,519
middle of your sentence, but apparently I've found out that

873
00:46:45,599 --> 00:46:49,480
it's real big with Chatchpt. Okay, so somebody put a

874
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:52,800
thing on threads that was like, sorry to all the

875
00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:55,800
people that you have always used M dashes. You know

876
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:59,159
before chat Gept it seemed like you're using chatchept. But

877
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:03,519
this is so clearly this wording that was entirely my mistake.

878
00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:07,400
That is such a chat Gypt thing. Chatchypt is always

879
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:12,159
fucking apologizing and like kinancing you death right. Oh my bad,

880
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:13,320
that's my mistake.

881
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 3: That's on me.

882
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:18,400
Speaker 1: Okay, So right away I'm like, okay, chat GPT, I

883
00:47:18,519 --> 00:47:20,920
mixed up my notes while reaching out, and I want

884
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:23,280
to make sure I give your work the proper attention

885
00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:26,320
it deserves. God I've since had the chance to read

886
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:32,239
about tipped Z Ranch box Set? What right? And I

887
00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:37,880
have to say it sounds absolutely delightful. So okay, obviously

888
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:41,360
I've never written a book called tipped Z Ranch box Set.

889
00:47:41,599 --> 00:47:45,360
But another thing that chat gpt does is instead of

890
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:48,320
saying like just the name of it, like Tipz, it'll

891
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:51,599
say the whole no hold title, right, like would I

892
00:47:51,639 --> 00:47:53,960
get them for the podcast for like rose Pricks, it

893
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:56,239
won't just say rose Pricks. It'll say rose Pricks a

894
00:47:56,280 --> 00:48:00,199
bachelor roast, you know, which Nobody would say that if

895
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:03,280
you are actually a person saying like, listen, I love

896
00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:06,719
rose Pricks, I have an idea for you know, Okay, okay.

897
00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:12,039
And also this person is saying that they read about

898
00:48:12,559 --> 00:48:14,840
the book at the book right, and I have to

899
00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:18,559
say it sounds absolutely delightful. I'm drawn to stories that

900
00:48:18,679 --> 00:48:22,440
capture heart, warmth and authenticity. Now, by the way, this

901
00:48:22,559 --> 00:48:25,119
is also the wording that she used in the first email,

902
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:27,559
huh having to do with a book that I wrote

903
00:48:27,599 --> 00:48:31,079
thirteen years ago? Okay, and your series seems to offer

904
00:48:31,159 --> 00:48:35,559
exactly that genuine emotion, real ranch life and the kind

905
00:48:35,559 --> 00:48:39,199
of sweet romance that leaves readers smiling long after they've

906
00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:45,800
finished Super chatchypet, right please. Yeah, the Arizona setting and

907
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:48,559
your background with horses and your story is such a

908
00:48:48,679 --> 00:48:51,599
rich sense of place and that makes them feel beautifully

909
00:48:51,599 --> 00:48:56,239
grounded and real. Cure, chatchy Pet. I always take the

910
00:48:56,280 --> 00:49:00,880
time to write thoughtful, honest reviews m dash, never rushed

911
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:04,840
or generic okay and gosh, because I believe books like

912
00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:07,679
yours deserve to be appreciated for the heart and care

913
00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:10,920
that go into them. Thank you for your understanding about

914
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,440
the earlier mix up and for sharing your stories with

915
00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:16,159
the world. I'd be honored to read and review your

916
00:49:16,199 --> 00:49:20,960
work the way it truly deserves. So. Then, underneath her name,

917
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:25,199
she writes, it's so chat gpt, like if chat chip

918
00:49:25,599 --> 00:49:29,440
because I use it for drunkish for descriptions. Yes, and

919
00:49:29,599 --> 00:49:31,440
I always try to change it up so it doesn't

920
00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:34,639
sound so painful chat ChiPT. But you know, if you

921
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:39,199
ask chat gpt, it'll give you like the even the emoji,

922
00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:44,960
so it's like emoji passionate reader and honest reviewer, then

923
00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:48,800
a coffee cup fueled by caffeine, curiosity and great storytelling,

924
00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:53,000
and then a little star supporting authors through real reviews,

925
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:57,559
not algorithms or empty promises. This is a service where

926
00:49:57,599 --> 00:50:00,920
you pay her honey to go. Oh, I guess review

927
00:50:01,519 --> 00:50:08,639
your books in different places with a non generic, real review,

928
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:11,559
not an algorithm or empty promise. So I got so

929
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:12,639
fucking pissed.

930
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:14,960
Speaker 3: Please tell you called her out.

931
00:50:15,199 --> 00:50:18,440
Speaker 1: I wrote her back, and I wrote, I normally wouldn't

932
00:50:18,480 --> 00:50:21,880
respond to something like this that chat GPT wrote. I

933
00:50:22,039 --> 00:50:24,719
have to make an exception. First of all, I didn't

934
00:50:24,719 --> 00:50:27,639
write a book called tipped Z. You were correct the

935
00:50:27,679 --> 00:50:29,760
first time when you thought I wrote a different book,

936
00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:32,360
which I did, only it was about fifteen years ago,

937
00:50:32,639 --> 00:50:35,840
so I wouldn't really need help with that. I love

938
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:39,280
that you write this super generic line quote. I always

939
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:42,559
take the time to write thoughtful, honest reviews. Never rushed

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her generic because I believe books like yours deserve to

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be appreciated for the heart and care that go into them.

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Heart and I wrote to say you won't be generic,

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but didn't even know what book I wrote or when. Also,

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my name is not spelled Stephanie, ending with an I

945
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it's Stephanie. That would have taken one more second for

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you to double check before just mindlessly sending something out

947
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that wouldn't get a response. Good luck, Stephanie, so chat

948
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GPT wrote me back, no way, It's the most Chatgypt

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I was dying. Hi, Stephanie, time with me. I want

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to sincerely apologize for the confusion in my earlier message.

951
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You're absolutely right, and I truly appreciate you taking the

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time to point it out. This is how chat Gypt

953
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talks to me all the time. Truly, I've seen it

954
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every day. The note you received was meant to be

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personal and thoughtful, and I completely understand how frustrating it

956
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must have felt to see your name misspelled and a

957
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book that wasn't yours mentioned instead. That was my mistake,

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and I take full responsibility for it, and then it

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just goes on and on. Thank you for catching that

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and for your honesty. It's a good reminder that good

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intentions only matter when paired with attention to detail. Are

962
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you kidding me? I just do people ever work anymore

963
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these days? Like?

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Speaker 2: No, what's happening in the world? Does everything that is

965
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Death's nuts? Come on, lady, what the fun?

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Speaker 1: Annoying? She should have been so embarrassed and like wrote

967
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a real I mean, come on, I think I don't

968
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know if they figured it out a way for it

969
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literally for Chatchpt to just respond.

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Speaker 3: Just to Red.

971
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Speaker 1: Is that what's going on? I don't know, but I'm like,

972
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Jesus my God, who is responding and going like, oh

973
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my god, you're gonna write like a genuine heartfelt review

974
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on my books for how much money right people pay?

975
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I'm sure that's whatever.

976
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Speaker 3: What a racket.

977
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Speaker 1: I know, that's hilarious. Normally, I mean, usually all these

978
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things just go I just trash them all, all right,

979
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But I was like, I'm gonna write, this is back.

980
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I love that. I love that you responded. Okay, let's

981
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say hello to some people that are real, probably running. Yes,

982
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real people like Christas Stroop She's back, and yeah, Stephanie's

983
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a stinker wrinker, Sandra, it's not easy being green, Jennifer,

984
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get up. Aaron's a Jerny Sanchez, Leslie with the coffing

985
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co on girl, get a coffee. Lante's City of l Monte,

986
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Kelly Brandt, she will.

987
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Speaker 3: Give take you to pen Lamparadod. Rebecca Lowan is so cute.

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What a daddy Zaddi?

989
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Speaker 2: Yeah, Zaddy, Gabby and Missy Oh those two I know.

990
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Speaker 1: Katerina, check your molar. Valerie hits it out of the

991
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park POLLI we love pancakes and just I've been corresponding

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with Patty Polly a little bit. Ye's super nice, Rita,

993
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we love your Bessinette, That rock's Elizabeth Williamson's grown ass kids.

994
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Sorry you're still doing that, Nikki, call your girl. And

995
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Dick is frolicking. And then we have some people to

996
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shout out their businesses, like our friend Courtney Moore with

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I E Embroidery. Check her out on face book. They

998
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do a lot of cool stuff. Kaylee Pettis she's the

999
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marriage and family therapist in Seattle, but she can see

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clients virtually all across Washington State. A lot of people

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in Washington State that need therapy. Yes, I used to

1002
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be from Washington. And she specializes in high achieving women

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who feel confident in every area except their love lives.

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So check out her website Emerald Bloomtherapy dot com. Also

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very good friend of the show has a column on

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medium called Unbecoming Stories. Go read some of her a

1007
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lot of She has a lot of stories on there.

1008
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Check her out. Family Skepticals a podcast about raising kids

1009
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without religion. Wilmanfrida is a very nice diary establishment in

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Palm Springs and another in Palm Desert. Yeah, good bunch.

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Becky Baris she's just basic Beecky dot com or basic

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Becky on Facebook. She can make you a T shirt,

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a mouse pati Christmas, Christmas shopping, Yes, Rhonkah shopping. Marin

1014
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has a small bakery and gift shop on the island

1015
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of Kawaii with her husband and they do wedding cakes

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everything you need. If you're vacationing there, check them out

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or you can follow their Instagram page at sugar Skull

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eight oh eight. Also, if you want to go to Hawaii,

1019
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why not use our friend Christine Black with Waves and

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Wonder Travel. Okay, look that up on Facebook. She's Christine

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Concierge travel planner. Jacob Crowley is doing the Lord's work,

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you clu baby. Yes we need you more than ever.

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Speaker 3: Yes we do.

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Speaker 1: Today is Tuesday, so let's all say a little prayer too.

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The prop fifty passes. If you're against that, go fuck yourself. Also,

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every every episode we are doing through November Holder Wide

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Foundation because this is their big month. In November, around

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the anniversary of the Borderline shooting. They do fundraising for

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this organization that helps people who have been in injured, yes,

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paralyzed in an off roading accident, and they give them

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money so they can retrofit their homes. It's very nice thing.

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Thank you to Heather Hoyit and her daughter and then

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Adam Lerner Adam's got a car. I'm still absolutely loving

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my ID four and all you all who tried to

1035
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talk me out of it. You were wrong. I love

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that car. Adam got it for me. Adam's Got a

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Car dot com. And one more Ferncandle one more from

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She makes great smelling soy candles. They last a long time,

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they smell delicious. Go to Ferncandle dot com. And also

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if you need plumbing.

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Speaker 2: If you have plumbing issues, go see Mike at drain

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jinsaz dot com. All his informations there mention f C

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O L and he'll give you a nice discount.

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Speaker 3: So check him out.

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Speaker 1: Hi, everybody, you're a parent, now, don't f it up.

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Let angle