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Speaker 1: I like asking questions, and the reason why is because

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the fund begins when you start researching for answers such

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as our step parents grandparents? Plus, how is it that

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we've made foul language part of our everyday lingo? My

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name is Erro. I'm a daily writer, a silent wolf.

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I stand on the sidelines and do nothing but watch, listen, study,

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then activate. I call it the daily mess, a chronological

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walk through in everyday world. Yeah, it's my morning pages.

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As receiver of thoughts and ideas, we as people tend

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to throw it to the side and deal with it later. Well,

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when a subject arrives inside of me, I know it's

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time to dig in. It's still keeping that daily journal,

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but by doing the research, the picture becomes clearer. This

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is the daily mass, our step parents, grandparents. Do you

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have to carry the family bloodline in order to be

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called a grandparent? Absolutely not, says family relationship experts. The

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term grandparent is defined as the parent of a person's parent,

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which encompasses biological as well as adoptive relationships. Online forms

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are very clear when they say that stepparents do get

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the opportunity to step into a pair of grandparents slippers

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but but but but but but what if you didn't

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adopt your stepchildren, are their little ones looked upon as

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being your grandkids? The answer on that is no. In

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order for them to legally be seen as grandchildren, the

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original child has to be adopted. This can be a

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serious issue in the years ahead inheritance rights without adoption,

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stepchildren don't have those rights. Something to think about while

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putting together your trust and or will Without either form,

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the state controls your estate, not your stepchildren and their infants.

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It's very crucial that you name them in your legal papers. Hey,

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coming up next, why is it that it's okay to

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use foul language in public? Hey? Thanks for coming back

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to the Daily Mess. No matter where you go, oh

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these days, from restaurants to grocery stores to city parks,

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it's become amazingly clear that today's generation accepts the use

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of foul language. How is this even happening? First, I'm

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not apprude. There is no sailor on this planet that

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can outcuss me. I host a reality style podcast where

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I expect natural conversations, and they do use the F

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bom and other six dirty words that you're not supposed

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to say. But we don't curse. To curse at edit time,

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it has to come across one hundred percent in our

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street accent. This is one of the reasons why the

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show's editing sits in the can for eight weeks. Creatively,

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I have to be totally disconnected from the recorded events

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as the editor. I'm going in there as a listener.

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It's become a social normal to use the words that

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our teachers would have washed our mouths out with. Research

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shows swearing actually serves as a true connection in the

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community due to expressing our terrue emotions. Dirty words are

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flying because the doc value is gone. I mean, even

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the President of the United States dropped the F bomb

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on national TV. I'm Merril, and that's the daily mess.