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Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, welcome to Pink Shade. It is TLC Tuesday.

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I'm here with Kimberly to talk about ninety day fiancee.

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Speaker 2: Hey girl, Hello, how are you good to see Mary Payne.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what that's about.

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Speaker 2: I don't either. I don't know what the voice was.

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That was weird. I was channeling someone else, but I

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don't know who.

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Speaker 1: Okay, make sure all your microphone is set correctly, because

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two weeks ago it was too loud, and then last

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week it was too soft.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think my mic I might need a new

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mic because Katie also.

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Speaker 2: Oh I'm not I right, Mike, now I am there

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we go.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's so much better.

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Speaker 2: So much better. No, I do think my mic I

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might need a new mic. So join our Patreon I

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and it's off here.

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Speaker 3: I yeah, she said that yesterday, and then we recorded

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our Patreon last night, our live stream, and everyone in

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the comments was saying I was really quiet, so I

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had to turn my volume up.

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Speaker 2: So I don't know what's happening.

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Speaker 3: Might need a new mic, might need a new box. No,

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no microphone box.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, okay, just making sure. Yeah, I have

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to tell you that At the end of this episode,

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Katie reveals that Josh's never gone down on her, to

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which I say, TLC needs a new storyline, like we cannot.

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I was like, I can't have two storylines as such.

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Speaker 2: I thought you meant my Katie. Uh oh, sometimes you come.

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Speaker 3: You start our episodes with you accosting us about something

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we said in our latest day date with dateline, and

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so that's that's what I thought you were doing. And then,

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of course Josh, I thought you met Josh Mankowitz because

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we had texted him in one of our recent episodes

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while we were recording so I could get his live

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on the air Mutton Chops, and so I just had

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a huge incestuous crossover in my mind. So I'm so

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relieved you're talking about Katie with the C and I'm fie,

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let's talk about their oral situation all day long.

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Speaker 2: Compared to my Katies. I don't want to know anything

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about that.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, especially not involving Josh manco It's wow.

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Speaker 2: No, it's like a fatherly figure to us.

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Speaker 1: That's really weird. Conversation has gone in the first two

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minutes right downhill.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, this is the the kind of lingus.

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Speaker 1: Time.

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Speaker 3: The era we are in our kind of lingus era

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of match shart productions. We haven't had too much of

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that on Love After lock Up. We did have a

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saggy balls conversation because they were deflated.

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Speaker 1: Oh right, that's true.

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Speaker 2: A lot that didn't.

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Speaker 1: I didn't want to think about. Well tlc C stands

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for cuddling us. We're just about sick of that. Well,

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let's talk about this episode. And there's a lot of

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good stuff here. I still don't know how many episodes

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do we usually have twenty, so yeah, somewhere, so we're

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still we've got a good ways to go here. We

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still haven't even gotten like the first wedding yet.

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Speaker 3: The real question is how much more hateful can Marissa

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and Katie be? Is it possible for them to go

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further down in our estimation because I defended Katie a lot.

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Speaker 2: At the beginning.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I kind of tried to defend Marissa, but I

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really tried to defend Katie. She's despicable, she's really horrible,

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she's really.

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Speaker 2: The worst person.

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Speaker 1: She really needs some help. And then this week, I guess,

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like the National Citizens for OCD or the National Council

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on OCD came out and was like, she does not

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represent us, and then she got we don't know her,

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and she got mad about that, and then Josh got

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mad about that. Yeah, they both were posting about it. Yeah,

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they were offended.

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Speaker 2: I think the issue is there's nothing wrong with her

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saying she has OCD.

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Speaker 3: It's when she blames her bad behavior on the OCD

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when clearly she is an extremely selfish, narcissistic person.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I think that's right. And so.

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Speaker 3: In a way that might be pathological of some sort

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of mental illness that I don't want to say, but.

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Speaker 2: There are several that come to mind. Yeah, right now,

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just would he say them?

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Speaker 1: Mom said you're gonna hurt somebody, and she said, like murder.

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Speaker 2: That was concerning?

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Speaker 1: That was that was that was the first thing that

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popped in her head.

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Speaker 3: So the fact that the mom said on TV, I

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think he will hopefully make you be a less selfish person,

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because that's been a character flaw of hers her entire life.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's concerning.

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Speaker 3: It's awful actually in a religious household, so you know,

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they were like beating into her charity, you know, like

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the Bible, you know, not being self selfish, and she

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is still the complete opposite and so selfish that that

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makes you think there's something chemical in her brain, some

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sort of synapses or.

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Speaker 1: It's not great. And it's not great that even with

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your grandparents don't like you because they will forgiven.

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Speaker 2: Your parents and your grandparents.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's rough, but let's don't start with them. Let's

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start with Yeah. So this is season twelve, Episode twelve,

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Seeking of God. So help Me God is the name

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of this episode. I don't know why the name of

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this episode is so helped Me God. Maybe we'll find

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it as we go through. Somebody says it. Maybe Josh.

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Speaker 2: Josh is thinking, please help.

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Speaker 1: Me God, Please help me God. I can't believe I've

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moved to be with this person. So we'll start with

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Mallory and Rasheet and it's forty two days to wed.

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I like when they tell us this. So yes, she's

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gone to look at wedding dresses and she posted today,

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so I'm like behind the scenes of it, which is

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cute with Mikayla and Katie, and she says, you know,

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I'm not like a besize zero sample girl, So I'm

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going to this place and I was happy that, you know,

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she was happy that they had things in her size

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that she could buy off the rat because a lot

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of times, you know, you got to buy something, you

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have to wait. And so she was happy about that

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and she had a lot of choices. And she doesn't

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it looks like a five dollar hore on her wedding day.

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She will save that for later. I like. She's like, also,

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because this family's going to be watching from Turkey and

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I definitely don't want them to see me looking like

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a five dollar horr. Yeah, she's really cute trying on

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the dresses. Even my daughter and her cold black Heart

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came through the room and was like, oh, she's so cute,

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look at her.

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Speaker 2: I know, I love Mallory. She's quickly writing to be

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one of my new favorites.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm, I think so. So they chat about how

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things are going. You know, you know now that he

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got over the thing with Brandon, and she says, well,

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you know how the pre nup conversation went, and you

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know that's bad enough, But to be honest, the issue

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is I need to have a heart to heart with

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him about something that I've procrastinated about. And you're right,

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of course, it's the kids, and it's uncomfortable, like so uncomfortable,

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like there might not be a wedding, that's how big

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the topic is. And their girls are like, what could

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it be? What could it be? We have no idea

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what this is. Possibly is it you mean? Like murder?

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Like murder? And she says, I'm not sure, you know

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if I ever want to have kids, and Michayla goes,

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are you serious? You know, because he would have kids

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right now? Have you talked to him about this at all?

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best friend in the world, you know that she knows this. Yes,

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And she goes, I've never been truly honest with him

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about this because I love him so much and I

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don't want that to be something that would keep us

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from being with each other. But it sounds like to

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me that maybe this is a producer driven push, because

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she's probably like, yeah, in a couple of years, I'll

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probably be ready, but we've got to just see how

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the marriage goes first, Right.

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Speaker 3: You know they have to have several conflicts and secrets

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to get cast on the show, right, you really got

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to hold something back until the person comes to America.

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These you're not conversations that can film you having over

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the phone.

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Speaker 1: Everything can't be fine now, yeah, yeah, so I'm talking toad.

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Katie goes, well, they need to talk about this immediately,

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and Michayla says he wants kids for sure, like he

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would have kids tomorrow, so this could be like make

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it or break it. I was like, Mikayla, you sure

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do know a lot about what rash Sheet wants, but

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yet stunned. But it's stunned that she has held this

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information back. Mallory goes, well, you know my family situation,

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I didn't have a good example of a mother, and

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what if I turn into her like going out and

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drinking and bringing guys home. I mean, hopefully you wouldn't

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do that if you were married. But she says, I

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would feel like a horrible person, repeating that cycle. And

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they go but that's not you. You're not that kind

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of person, and she goes, well, I didn't think my

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mother was that kind of person. And it's hard because

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I don't know what a healthy relationship with the parent

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looks like. I'm afraid I won't break the cycle. And

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they're like, this is gonna be rough. It's gonna be

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a hard conversation. I'm glad you're trying on this wedding

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dress because no man's gonna want to marry you, you

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know what I'm saying. I think this is interesting about

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Mallory because we are midway through the season and finding

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Speaker 3: Right, Well, she has said her friends are her family,

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and there's something about her dad.

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Speaker 1: That she told me, right, so.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, apparently her mom was the five dollar hooker or

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whatever that she said.

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Speaker 1: And we're talking ed she says, my parents divorced when

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I was ten. They went their separate ways and eventually

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started new families, and my sister and I felt like

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chopped liver. Then my dad kicks me out at eighteen,

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and after my car accident, he never showed up to

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visit me at the hospital, Like who does that? And

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to this day, well since she had this accident last year,

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he has not seen me.

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Speaker 2: That's crazy.

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Speaker 1: And it's his sister also. I don't know, I'd like

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to see the sister. Yeah, but she's cute too, I bet.

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Speaker 2: She I was just thinking that, I bet they're cute.

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Speaker 1: And she said, I'm envious of people with healthy relationships

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with their parents, and that's why I'm terrified because I

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don't know anything about it. You know, I wanted to

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talk to wash Sheet in person about this. I mean,

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but it could end our relationship. I don't think so.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's gonna be fine.

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Speaker 1: So they're at home and she makes them some tea,

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some Turkish tea, and they sit outside, and he's like,

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it's not good. She's like, I'm trying. He's like, you're

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gonna need to learn to make the tea. She's like,

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this is fine, it's good enough. I'm interested in the

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teacause the tea's always red. I'm interested in what the

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tea tastes like. I love a hot tea. You do

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on the porch like a sun gallow, No, don't drinking

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hot tea, that's hot, no iced tea on the porch. Well,

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you would normally drink iced tea on the porch, or

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you might have a cold cocktail, like a glass of

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wine with some ice in it, Like a.

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Speaker 2: Lady, what about a mint jew lip?

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Speaker 1: I mean, sure, but you don't need to get so

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so stereotypical. Yeah, yeah, you know of some water in

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your stanley is also just fine. Was sitting on the

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porch is a thing. So he says, so, how was

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the dress shopping? And she says, I can't tell you

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how it was. It was a surprise that He's like okay,

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and she goes, when you see me, you have to

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like ugly cry, and he goes, no, why do that.

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She was, You're gonna be like ugly crying when you

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see me, and he's like, huh, he did not unders

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and he's like, why will I be crying? And so

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then she gets serious and says she just kind of

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looks forlornly to the side, and he says, why is

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your face like a toilet right now?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, like a toilet without a bidet akaa,

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the kind of toilet I hate?

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Speaker 1: Right Like that was funny. I've never heard that. I

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was like, what could he possibly mean, like your face

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looks like shit long?

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Speaker 2: Or like oh I was thinking, like yeah, like the

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face the long.

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Speaker 1: I don't it was.

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Speaker 2: It was strange, Okay, I'm looking it up because it

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could be one of those Turkish phrases that sarper like

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we say in Turkey when your face like toilet, your

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butt and your face give out the poop. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It's all we always start off good with the Sarpers

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and then we can never bring it out.

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Speaker 2: That's what, because that's what I feel like.

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Speaker 1: He does.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I said in the second half, why your face.

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Speaker 1: Like a toilet? Right now? What are you finding? Mm hmmm,

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we're googling on air? Yeah, Mary pain, he can write

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google things face look like toilet. No, no, it's not

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a price. It's not a price. No, no, we didn't

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think it was gonna be. So she says, well, we

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have some things to discuss, and I'm afraid that this

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topic is so important that you might not want to

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marry me. He goes, what, of course, babe, I want

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to marry you. She says, but okay, what if I

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said I'm not sure if I want kids ever? And

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he goes, well, we can you know, I don't know.

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I don't know what he's like. Is that what you're saying?

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Or you say, what if I said that you know?

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And she says, as of right now, I don't want

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to have a baby because I don't know if I

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could ever be a good mother. And he goes, oh, Mallorie,

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why do you think bad all the time? And she goes,

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I'm not trying to think bad. I'm being realistic, and

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I'm worried that I do not know how to be

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a mother because of my childhood. I mean, spoiler alert,

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So the talking Eddie says, I have eight siblings and

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nineteen nieces and nephews, and I want to be a

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dad and see my parents be grandparents to the kids.

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And in two years we know everything about each other.

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And now I left Turkey and now she tells me this,

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and you know, if I would have known, maybe I

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would not have left Turkey to marry her. That's why

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she didn't tell you. And he says to her, literally,

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you make me sad. And I think your mind.

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Speaker 3: Will Your toilet seat does not have a bidet attached

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to it.

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Speaker 1: A sad toilet seat, and I think your mind will

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change in two years. And she goes, but what if

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my mind doesn't change, would you still want to be

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with me? And he goes, now, I don't want to

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talk about this, and she goes, but we have to

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talk about it, and he says, I really want to

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have a baby so much, and this is very bullshit

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and he walks off as I'm talking head, she says,

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you know, if he decides not to get married. He

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has to go back to Turkey, and I can't imagine

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my life without him. But he goes off and do

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his She shed shop. Yeah, yeah, also to be fine.

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It's totally gonna be fine.

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Speaker 3: But that she's so worried about, like being a good parent. Yeah,

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she's gonna be better than her mom.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she just worries about keeping the cycle going. You know,

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she's good.

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Speaker 3: That means she's going to break the cycle. She'll work

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hard to break the cycle.

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Speaker 1: I think, I know she's so cute. She des to

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have children. I would be more interested if she said,

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when I had that horrible accident, I found out I

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could not have kids because they had to take parts

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of me out or something. That's kind of what I

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was thinking where we were going. But no, she's got

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two feet of and testine remote. So yeah, everything everything

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else still working. Okay, Thomas and Paula, we had a

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little scene with them. Let's hear what they have to say.

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Speaker 3: Oh, man, I didn't even look at my notes for

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Mallory and rash and I had funny things written down.

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When you were saying, tell her mom, her mom, go, well,

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pretend that you're telling talking about your your Mallorie talking

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about your mom going getting in drunk, going drunk, going

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going and getting drunk all the time and going out

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late hard.

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Speaker 1: Well, you know, my mom used to go out all

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the time and get drunk and bring guys home, and

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I just don't want to do that.

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Speaker 2: Is her mom, Katie, that was it, But not your Katie. No,

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Katie with the sea, Yeah, Katie with the sea.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I do worry a little bit about the amount

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of online hate Katie is getting.

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Speaker 3: I worry for her mental health, which is why I

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tried to defend her so much.

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Speaker 1: This week was pretty bad. Let's talk about Thomas and Paula. Okay,

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mm hmm.

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Speaker 3: So they are still in the farm with mom and

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step stepmom and dad. The stepmom Renie is teaching Paula

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how to plant seeds, and Paula brings up that Rennie

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was upset about that social media video with the mom,

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and she said, I didn't want to pick sides, and

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I have empathy for everything you did for Thomas, and

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I want to bond with you, but also I kind

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of wanted to bond with the mom too.

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Speaker 1: Ye.

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Speaker 3: Rinney said, your family's so great, you don't understand how

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bad it was here. I raised Thomas when he was

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in the darkest place. So it's a dagger to my

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heart that Thomas wants to reconnect with his mom, which

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is fair, but also he's an adult and he may

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need to feel like he tried with.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's not up to her, but it's it's rough. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So Paula apologizes, and Rinnie says she knows her heart

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was going a good place and she appreciates Paula clearing

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the air.

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Speaker 2: And that's literally all that happened.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, that's not Meanwhile, Thomas tells dad Tom, there's

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a Tom and Tom and a Thomas.

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Speaker 2: It's God as Tom and usually it would be the opposite.

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I feel like or like this little Tommy, little Tommy.

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Yeah Tom tooj. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So he says, Paula wants me to repair everything with

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the family.

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Speaker 2: She wants to.

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Speaker 3: She really thinks her crystals can bring everybody together.

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Speaker 2: Miniatures will bring everybody together.

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Speaker 3: And Tom says, you know, just so you know, in

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ten years, you won't remember who's who's at your wedding.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, that's true.

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Speaker 3: For most guests, but I don't feel like that's true

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for your parents. I don't think I remember if your

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parents were at your wedding.

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Speaker 1: I think if you have like five hundred people at

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your wedding, you may not remember. But I think if

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you only have like twenty five thirty people and four

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of them were your parents, you might remember that. Yes.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So Paul Thomas says, I don't know why you

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even or Tom says, I don't know why you even

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wanted to invite your mom, and Thomas tells, you know

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the dad, I know how hard it was for you,

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and I knew that I could always count on you,

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and I really appreciate everything you did for me, and

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I want you to know that. And that's all Dad

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needed to hear that he has what he did for Tom.

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Thomas wasn't being forgotten right because he was pursuing things

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with the mom, and the dad says he appreciates. Toma

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is saying that they pack up to leave and they

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feel like they accomplish everything they wanted to on the trip,

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and Tom says, Paula, you're part of the family now,

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and she I think she understands the family better now,

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and Thomas says, okay, but Paula, you're in their talking head,

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you're still not going to try to fix it, right,

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you understand that you can't fix it. And Paula says, well,

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I still want to take a picture of everyone at

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the wedding together, all of the parents, And Thomas says,

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so you haven't learned anything, and she says, it's just

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a picture, and he says, that's literally what started the

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whole thing. He took a picture with my mom, So

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you just want to repeat that And she's like, whatever,

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it's gonna be fine.

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Speaker 1: It's interesting when I talk to her, she's said that, uh,

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the parents lived in a trailer on this farm, but

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to me, it looks like they live in a house.

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And then the trailer was like the guest space.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe their house is also a trailer, but the

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wheels were covered by you know, people cover the wheels.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it could be. But also they said on this episode,

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I'm so glad you got to see how Thomas grew up.

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I was like, did he grow up grow up on

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this farm like a new Yeah me too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Confusing.

473
00:24:33,079 --> 00:24:36,240
Speaker 3: Something's not making sense. Are they getting married at the

474
00:24:36,319 --> 00:24:37,920
Queen Mary though, that's the question.

475
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:41,119
Speaker 1: I believe that is where the wedding is planned.

476
00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:43,160
Speaker 2: Yes, did they book it? Okay?

477
00:24:43,759 --> 00:24:48,400
Speaker 1: Yes, I believe so because I told her about Katie

478
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:51,440
playing a ghost on the Queen Mary you did, yes,

479
00:24:51,519 --> 00:24:52,880
And she's like, I want to get She goes, I

480
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:54,240
want to get in touch with her and find out

481
00:24:54,279 --> 00:24:55,440
about that because I want to do it.

482
00:24:56,559 --> 00:24:57,599
Speaker 2: She would be good at it.

483
00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:02,039
Speaker 1: Yeah, hilarious. So she was ghost of the Week or whatever.

484
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:04,079
Speaker 2: Yeah, she got a certificate.

485
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:09,319
Speaker 1: She should hang that behind herself in a podcast studio. Okay,

486
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:16,680
Asha and Maxwell hmm okay, well Asha. We start off

487
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:21,960
the episode with her calling her prophetess Patricia PPP and

488
00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:24,960
she says, hey, listen, I got to call you right quick,

489
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:26,839
and she goes, it's one forty five in the morning.

490
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:29,200
She goes, anyway, we got to do a prayer. She

491
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:31,119
doesn't even care that it's my God.

492
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:34,559
Speaker 2: God doesn't punch a clock and neither just Asia.

493
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:40,160
Speaker 1: No, She's like, anyway, my sister is Cola and Glenn,

494
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:42,440
so it's uh, Jacola and Glenna.

495
00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:47,880
Speaker 2: And then because I thought it was just like Cola, like.

496
00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:52,799
Speaker 1: It's j O C C O L A H Jacola,

497
00:25:53,759 --> 00:25:56,720
and I would like to know where that originated from. Glenna,

498
00:25:56,799 --> 00:25:58,359
we got probably the dazz name is Glenn.

499
00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:03,240
Speaker 3: Were you named after we Cola or were you named

500
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:07,160
after like an off brand Cola like R. C.

501
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:11,759
Speaker 1: Cola with an age or Cola Scola. I mean, what

502
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:17,640
is that? Cole A Scola, Cola Scola, the actor that

503
00:26:17,799 --> 00:26:24,519
wrote Oh Mary, thank you? Okay, yeah, just the light

504
00:26:24,559 --> 00:26:26,559
went completely dim in your eyes when I said that.

505
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:27,559
Speaker 2: No, I had no idea.

506
00:26:27,799 --> 00:26:29,920
Speaker 1: Okay, sorry, that was a That was a that was

507
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:31,119
an inside Broadway joke.

508
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 2: And I haven't seen it. I would like to see

509
00:26:35,039 --> 00:26:37,319
it in New York. I want to see it. Maybe

510
00:26:37,319 --> 00:26:38,119
I should go see it.

511
00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:40,039
Speaker 1: You should go see it. It changed.

512
00:26:40,279 --> 00:26:42,279
Speaker 2: I remember how you raved about it.

513
00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:48,079
Speaker 1: Yeah, uh, anyway, that was sorry, guys. So she Cola.

514
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:50,839
She says, Cola, Glenn and Rod will be there today,

515
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:53,240
and she goes, let's do a prayer, and then she's

516
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:56,359
like hello, hello. She just in that how the devil works,

517
00:26:56,359 --> 00:26:58,480
just trying to cut me off from my prayer. The

518
00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:04,119
devil will do it so funny. Now the screen, the.

519
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:08,640
Speaker 3: God is anything good and the devil is any minor inconvenience,

520
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:13,119
like you know, if her like Wi Fi is glitchy,

521
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:16,359
if they get her drink wrong at Starbucks.

522
00:27:16,519 --> 00:27:17,680
Speaker 2: Right the devil.

523
00:27:18,599 --> 00:27:23,400
Speaker 1: The devil is working at the Starbucks. So four days

524
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:27,920
to wed, the screen tells us she calls Rod Rod's

525
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:29,920
at the She says, are you at the hotel? And

526
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:31,920
he says, yeah, we don't have the directions to the house.

527
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:34,599
She says, I'll send them to you. So she says,

528
00:27:34,599 --> 00:27:37,319
are you at the hotel and he says yes. But

529
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:41,160
then they all show up with giant rolling bags. How

530
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:43,839
many people can stay in this house because they just

531
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:46,880
added four people to this house.

532
00:27:47,279 --> 00:27:52,039
Speaker 2: Well, this was the large airbnb that they rented, right, yeah.

533
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:55,119
Speaker 1: But if they weren't planning for this to happen, why

534
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:57,400
all of a sudden do they have four extra bedrooms?

535
00:27:57,839 --> 00:28:02,839
Speaker 3: They were planning it, Okay, So I called phony baloney

536
00:28:03,559 --> 00:28:04,279
on all of this.

537
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:05,720
Speaker 2: We didn't know there was a wedding.

538
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:10,559
Speaker 1: I completely agree that there's not any way everybody had

539
00:28:10,599 --> 00:28:13,759
their bags packed within two days and went to Africa

540
00:28:13,799 --> 00:28:16,200
with their pastor. I don't even know if these days

541
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:19,279
you have to get certain shots before you go right

542
00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:23,759
to Africa and stuff. So come on now, baloney, As

543
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:27,799
Katie would say, yes, amen. So they're talking to her.

544
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:31,880
She says, today, my older sister, Jacola, my middle sister Glenna,

545
00:28:32,319 --> 00:28:36,160
my mom's friend Kathy are coming along with stepbrother Rod

546
00:28:36,759 --> 00:28:39,759
to Nigeria. And I just told them, come on, we're

547
00:28:39,759 --> 00:28:42,359
gonna have a vacation in Africa. We had things planned.

548
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:45,960
Just come on over, Come on.

549
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:51,039
Speaker 3: I don't even do that for like going to the

550
00:28:51,079 --> 00:28:54,440
west side in La like when I lived in the Valley.

551
00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:58,559
Speaker 2: That would take a week of planning at least. Yeah, yeah,

552
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,240
just hop on over to Africa.

553
00:29:01,319 --> 00:29:05,319
Speaker 1: There's just no way. There's no way, so she says,

554
00:29:06,279 --> 00:29:09,480
My sisters are usually supportive of everything I do, but

555
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:12,880
they have no idea we're getting married. I hope Rod

556
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:18,319
didn't tell them anything. So ten hours of a flight.

557
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:20,079
Speaker 2: What else are they talking about on the flight?

558
00:29:20,599 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 1: Which means you like at least fourteen hours of traveling,

559
00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:26,279
and you're saying, nowhere along the way, did either any

560
00:29:26,319 --> 00:29:28,160
of these three people go? I wonder why she wants

561
00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:31,200
us to come to Africa.

562
00:29:31,279 --> 00:29:33,319
Speaker 2: And Rod doesn't seem like the kind that can keep

563
00:29:33,359 --> 00:29:36,680
his secret. Let's be real. Oh no, he's a gossip queen.

564
00:29:37,079 --> 00:29:42,799
Speaker 3: Yes yes, so also, yes, you do need a yellow

565
00:29:42,839 --> 00:29:45,960
fever vaccination to go to Nigeria.

566
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:49,480
Speaker 1: And how far ahead in advance can you get that.

567
00:29:49,599 --> 00:29:51,599
Can you get it? Can you just call up your

568
00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:54,079
primary care and be like, you got yellow fever in stock?

569
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:57,119
I thought to get that, right, they have that at CBS,

570
00:29:57,200 --> 00:30:00,119
next to the COVID and the flu yellow fever. I

571
00:30:00,119 --> 00:30:05,000
don't think so, right, Come on t LC. So she says,

572
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:07,160
I hope Rod didn't tell them anything, but there's no

573
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:10,720
more time to keep the secrets now or never. So

574
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:13,880
all the sisters and Rod arrive at the Airbnb and

575
00:30:14,119 --> 00:30:17,960
Aunt Kathy or whoever she is, and Aunt Kathy was like,

576
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,640
I got to get in on this, like I want

577
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:24,119
to be on TV. This is my moment. So in

578
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:27,480
the talking head Jacola and Glenna, the sisters and Kathy say,

579
00:30:28,079 --> 00:30:30,279
Asha always does this. She just comes up with the

580
00:30:30,359 --> 00:30:34,920
last minute vacation and we follow her to another continent

581
00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:36,759
where you need a yellow fever vaccine.

582
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:39,799
Speaker 2: Okay, they have malaria.

583
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:43,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, and she says, you know Asia, she's just bossy

584
00:30:43,759 --> 00:30:46,400
and demanding. And my note here is so now they

585
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:48,039
just all of a sudden have space in this house

586
00:30:48,079 --> 00:30:53,000
for four more grown ups. Okay. So Rod sits down

587
00:30:53,039 --> 00:30:56,079
to talk to Asia. Everybody's going to get settled, and

588
00:30:56,119 --> 00:30:58,519
he says, you're going to need to tell everybody what's

589
00:30:58,559 --> 00:31:01,839
going on, and not just days before the wedding, it's

590
00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:05,799
four days before the wedding. And he says, there's something

591
00:31:05,839 --> 00:31:08,640
going on. You're just not telling me everything. And she goes,

592
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:12,279
you think I'm pregnant? Now that is offensive to God

593
00:31:12,799 --> 00:31:16,759
and to me. And she says to roj because you're

594
00:31:16,799 --> 00:31:19,160
just stuck. You're not being open minded. You think it

595
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:22,039
can only be one thing and it's not. And he goes,

596
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:25,680
do they practice voodoo here in Nigeria? They put did

597
00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:27,920
they put something in your drink or your food? And

598
00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:30,799
she goes and she says, they practice voodoo in America.

599
00:31:31,039 --> 00:31:35,200
Speaker 3: Shut up, Rod, Jesus. He thinks he's living in the

600
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:39,759
movie Get out? What do you think is happening here?

601
00:31:40,319 --> 00:31:42,680
Speaker 1: And talking to her, Rod goes, I worry, you know,

602
00:31:42,839 --> 00:31:44,799
you get those callers on the phone. I'm worried. Just

603
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:49,319
a scam. No callers ever get you to come fly

604
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:52,480
to another country and marry somebody when you need a.

605
00:31:52,519 --> 00:31:58,119
Speaker 3: Vaccine Nigerian prince email scam that has been a joke forever.

606
00:31:58,400 --> 00:31:59,880
Speaker 2: Is about please come and me.

607
00:32:01,119 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 1: And he kept saying robocalls. I was like, Rob, Rod, Rod,

608
00:32:04,519 --> 00:32:08,079
whatever your nam is okay. So Asha says, well, you

609
00:32:08,079 --> 00:32:10,960
can just have a conversation with Maxwell yourself, and he says, oh,

610
00:32:11,039 --> 00:32:15,400
I will. So now we see Maxwell and his parents

611
00:32:15,519 --> 00:32:19,519
and his sister Blaze sitting by this beautiful seaside restaurant

612
00:32:19,559 --> 00:32:21,279
and it's by the ocean. You can see people are

613
00:32:21,279 --> 00:32:23,759
like standing out, like looking to see what they're filming.

614
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:26,960
Because you could see there's people that are like, you know,

615
00:32:27,119 --> 00:32:29,440
making sure people don't cross the line into the recording.

616
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:33,279
I love stuff like that. If somebody keeps going by

617
00:32:33,319 --> 00:32:34,839
on a horse, I was like, that person's trying to

618
00:32:34,839 --> 00:32:37,799
get their moment and do that.

619
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:42,079
Speaker 3: On Hollywood Boulevard block people from walking into a shot.

620
00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:45,160
So I had to like herd people into the little

621
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:49,119
tourist shops, yeah, or on Holly so they wouldn't walk

622
00:32:49,119 --> 00:32:50,920
on the street because we needed the street to be

623
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:51,920
completely empty.

624
00:32:52,279 --> 00:32:53,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're so mad.

625
00:32:55,359 --> 00:32:58,519
Speaker 1: Lots of yelling and what movie was this?

626
00:32:58,519 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 2: This was for the Oscars.

627
00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:01,559
Speaker 3: It was for an opening shot that they were going

628
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:05,319
to use the Oscars of like a drone shot of

629
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:07,759
Boulevard completely empty.

630
00:33:08,039 --> 00:33:08,799
Speaker 2: For some reason.

631
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:12,519
Speaker 3: And so but if you shoot during the day at

632
00:33:12,519 --> 00:33:17,279
Hollywood Boulevard, there's thousands of people, So.

633
00:33:16,359 --> 00:33:18,079
Speaker 1: So how did you get this? So you block the

634
00:33:18,079 --> 00:33:19,440
street off on both ends.

635
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:22,759
Speaker 3: And then you say, can you just come inside and

636
00:33:22,799 --> 00:33:27,160
stay inside, stay in this hot, hot no air conditioning,

637
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:30,119
tourist place that sells shirts that say I love La

638
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:34,920
Yes for for just it's five more minutes. We just

639
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:37,119
needed the shot five more minutes and did you give

640
00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:37,720
more minutes?

641
00:33:37,759 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 1: Maybe everybody didn't get anything shirt, they were just in

642
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:44,880
the wrong place at the wrong time.

643
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, But at the other point, some were like, oh,

644
00:33:48,559 --> 00:33:52,160
we're part of a thing, like yeah, yes, and.

645
00:33:52,119 --> 00:33:55,440
Speaker 1: You were like, yes, you are, You're important.

646
00:33:55,519 --> 00:33:58,319
Speaker 2: Yes, you're basically the star of the oscars.

647
00:34:00,119 --> 00:34:05,559
Speaker 1: So Asha introduces everyone to everyone, and she stands up

648
00:34:05,599 --> 00:34:08,599
and says, well, the reason we have brought everyone together

649
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:12,280
is to introduce all of you to my fiance Maxwell,

650
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:15,320
and in a few days we'll be getting married. Speech over,

651
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:19,840
she sits down and they're all like what and Rod goes, huh,

652
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:23,920
I see you charmed her really really good, and he's like,

653
00:34:25,679 --> 00:34:29,119
so Blaze says to the sisters, how do you feel,

654
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:32,679
because she's like, oh, yes, sisters are here. Sisters sister

655
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:37,079
see each other, and they go, well, we are shocked.

656
00:34:37,199 --> 00:34:40,440
We are shocked, and she goes, well, the man at

657
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:43,119
the embassy told Maxwell that the best bet is to

658
00:34:43,159 --> 00:34:46,440
get married and reapply for the spousal visa, take that

659
00:34:46,559 --> 00:34:49,320
visa back to the United States with the marriage certificate

660
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:51,880
and reapply. And they said, so this will be faster,

661
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:54,199
and she goes, no, it could be another year, it

662
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:56,719
could be another two years. We don't know. But it

663
00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:59,400
takes time. But this is the best bet. And I

664
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:02,559
think this will work because you know, now we're really

665
00:35:02,599 --> 00:35:05,920
doing it. So talking to how the sisters go, we

666
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:08,360
are very surprised she did not tell us this. We

667
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:11,679
had no idea why we were getting yellow fever shots

668
00:35:12,119 --> 00:35:16,559
three months ago, and it is unfound was.

669
00:35:16,639 --> 00:35:20,119
Speaker 3: Right what I googled, because otherwise we're just spreading misinformation.

670
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 1: Oh, I said something so absolutely wrong on the on

671
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:28,559
the Love After lock Up podcast yesterday, I said that

672
00:35:29,199 --> 00:35:31,480
Cecily was not a part of Italy, that Sicily was

673
00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:35,559
a separate country, and that's not true. Is false, that's false.

674
00:35:35,679 --> 00:35:38,400
So yeah, I don't need twenty six more people to

675
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:43,079
tell me, because I've realized that I said it as

676
00:35:43,119 --> 00:35:45,719
if it was true. It realized now I shouldn't have

677
00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:47,719
left the internet. Tell me that because I read that somewhere,

678
00:35:48,119 --> 00:35:51,000
so no, that's just just a quick Google would have

679
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:54,679
found out that I was wrong. So yeah, we left

680
00:35:54,679 --> 00:35:54,920
it in.

681
00:35:55,199 --> 00:36:02,800
Speaker 3: So they should feel very prideful of their location as yes,

682
00:36:04,079 --> 00:36:07,639
and I think they think of themselves as slightly different

683
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:09,519
than regular Italians.

684
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:12,519
Speaker 1: I think of it as Texas. The people in Texas

685
00:36:12,559 --> 00:36:14,599
think that they're in a different country, and that's I mean,

686
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:21,519
they can have it, no shade takeisha. So the sisters say, well,

687
00:36:21,519 --> 00:36:23,480
we are just so surprised she did not tell us,

688
00:36:23,559 --> 00:36:27,199
and it's unfair because we should have known this was coming,

689
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:30,920
so we could have been more prepared. Mm hmm, that's good.

690
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:32,840
You read those lines and you're so tired. You know,

691
00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:34,880
they're so tired. They're really reading those lines.

692
00:36:35,159 --> 00:36:36,920
Speaker 3: If this was real, I feel like she would have

693
00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:39,760
gotten them drunk, because I feel like these ladies like

694
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:41,559
need a cocktail or something.

695
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:44,960
Speaker 1: And like right before they were arrived, remember it was

696
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:47,719
one forty five am where they're from, so it's like

697
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:50,400
probably four in the morning where they're from now, so

698
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:52,880
they are get some sleep first.

699
00:36:52,679 --> 00:36:57,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, theos the clock and yeah, God doesn't punch your.

700
00:36:57,079 --> 00:37:00,840
Speaker 1: Clock, no, right, So the sister said, as what will

701
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:03,679
you do if you're denied again? And she goes, I

702
00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:05,800
do not think it will happen again, because this time

703
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:08,679
God really is on my side. And the first time.

704
00:37:08,679 --> 00:37:12,400
Speaker 3: Said that before, but this time there was static on

705
00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:16,639
the line and I misinterpreted and he cut out right

706
00:37:16,679 --> 00:37:20,639
as he said I ordained this. It was like, I

707
00:37:20,679 --> 00:37:23,400
don't ordain this, but that don't was cut out because

708
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:25,360
of the static, and I got confused.

709
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:26,360
Speaker 2: But this time it's for.

710
00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:31,800
Speaker 1: Real, God said, this time it's ordained and we this time,

711
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:35,119
we will have a stronger evidence and the marriage certificate

712
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:37,400
and they will know for a fact it's legitimate because

713
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:41,320
we will not include those losers who send us our

714
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:43,840
best friends okay, whose.

715
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:47,800
Speaker 2: Faces blurred the lady but not the man, right.

716
00:37:47,679 --> 00:37:51,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, uh, I can't remember that.

717
00:37:51,199 --> 00:37:53,400
Speaker 2: I think the lady was for sure the lady. I

718
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:55,719
think the man we saw his face. I could be wrong.

719
00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 1: She's like Asha got me going over to Nigeria, getting

720
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:03,960
scammed by Jerian scammera so and talking tot as she goes.

721
00:38:04,079 --> 00:38:07,320
I could tell my sisters were speechless. And I understand

722
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:09,840
because his whole family was sitting right there. They had

723
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:12,159
to play along to get along and if they had

724
00:38:12,159 --> 00:38:14,880
an opinion, they're just gonna internalize their feelings to tell

725
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:16,280
me later, like, oh, they're gonna.

726
00:38:16,079 --> 00:38:16,559
Speaker 2: Tell you later.

727
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 1: Yeah. So the ant or the sister or somebody says,

728
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:22,440
so when are you gonna have babies? Because they're very

729
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:24,920
concerned about her age everybody else.

730
00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:29,440
Speaker 3: Every day we wait to impregnate you is a day

731
00:38:29,639 --> 00:38:32,599
that you are more feeble and into menopause.

732
00:38:33,039 --> 00:38:37,519
Speaker 1: Just one less egg every day. Yeah, And they say

733
00:38:37,559 --> 00:38:40,039
when will you have babies? And Maxwell says, we will

734
00:38:40,039 --> 00:38:43,840
see by the grace of God? And Clement says, who

735
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:45,880
Clement is a man? A few words except for when

736
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,079
you chimed in last week about her being in menopause.

737
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:52,760
He said, I say, I just need two boys and

738
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:55,800
two girls. And they all look at him like, do

739
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:58,159
you see how old she is? Like are you crazy?

740
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:02,360
Is she gonna have quads? And she says, let me

741
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:04,760
tell you something right now, they're gonna be two pregnancies

742
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:07,239
and whatever comes, that's it. That's what you're taking.

743
00:39:08,559 --> 00:39:11,199
Speaker 2: He's like slipping some money to the doctor.

744
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:13,800
Speaker 3: I think she should just because she could artificially inseminate

745
00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:17,840
multiple eggs. And he's gonna like slip money to the

746
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:20,039
doctor just put like twenty in there.

747
00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:22,480
Speaker 1: And to see what happens. Yes, yeah, happens.

748
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:26,679
Speaker 2: So you already freezed her eggs. Actually, she has a

749
00:39:26,679 --> 00:39:27,360
lot of money.

750
00:39:27,559 --> 00:39:30,119
Speaker 1: I know, maybe she has though maybe she's maybe she.

751
00:39:30,079 --> 00:39:31,639
Speaker 2: Has freezed her eggs. Yeah.

752
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:33,360
Speaker 3: I don't know if they'd like that though, because that

753
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:36,840
doesn't feel as God ordained. It feels more science ordained.

754
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:38,920
Speaker 1: I don't think you say freezed your eggs. I think

755
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:39,639
you say froze.

756
00:39:39,679 --> 00:39:40,159
Speaker 2: Froze.

757
00:39:40,559 --> 00:39:44,800
Speaker 1: Apologies, okay, just making sure nobody come at us. I

758
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:49,760
know this least a part of Italy. Okay. So Rod's like,

759
00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:53,000
you're already talking about babies and talking to head. Rod goes,

760
00:39:53,039 --> 00:39:55,719
it is too early to think about babies. They're not

761
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:58,880
even going to be living in the same house, the

762
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:02,639
same country, and then he says, I don't even know

763
00:40:02,639 --> 00:40:04,039
if he can afford babies.

764
00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:06,599
Speaker 2: So now he's so.

765
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:11,280
Speaker 3: Rod, I'm gonna he can't be I don't know if

766
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:12,519
he's right, he's enophobic.

767
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:13,880
Speaker 2: Let's say that.

768
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:19,280
Speaker 1: He has no idea what these people's wealth status is.

769
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:23,519
They could be like supremely wealthy, Like he has no idea.

770
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:27,920
Speaker 2: He just gets there they're poor scammers immediately because they're

771
00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:30,199
right Nigeria. Right. Yeah.

772
00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:33,239
Speaker 1: So Rod says, all right, Maxwell, what kind of business

773
00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:36,599
will you pursue in the United States? And Maxwell says,

774
00:40:36,679 --> 00:40:38,719
right now, I'm in the car business. It's like buying

775
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:42,239
and reselling. And Asia says he is in a wholesale

776
00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:47,000
auto broker, but he is considering doing electrical work and

777
00:40:47,039 --> 00:40:51,119
Maxwell says, yes, my dad, Clement is an electrical contractor. Oh,

778
00:40:51,159 --> 00:40:54,199
which does mean he has a profession that makes money.

779
00:40:54,679 --> 00:40:59,360
And Rod says, don't speak for your man, please, Uh, Maxwell,

780
00:40:59,880 --> 00:41:03,320
do you understand what American women are looking for in

781
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:07,719
a husband. Well, now he's against Americans too, Rod, He's

782
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:10,400
got a lot of negative opinions. He says. The husbands

783
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:15,320
in America work very very hard. She works very very hard.

784
00:41:16,119 --> 00:41:21,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, women hard assume he won't work very very hard.

785
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:23,920
Speaker 1: Why do we assume that the women are just now,

786
00:41:24,119 --> 00:41:26,239
now that she's got a husband, she's just gonna like he's.

787
00:41:26,079 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 2: Gonna stop working.

788
00:41:27,119 --> 00:41:29,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, he needs to work very hard, but he can't

789
00:41:29,159 --> 00:41:33,199
work hard inherently because he's Nigerian, so he's unable to

790
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:33,960
work hard.

791
00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:36,480
Speaker 1: She has a doctorate. I highly doubt she's just going

792
00:41:36,559 --> 00:41:42,199
to stop working. And Maxwell goes well, I don't think

793
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:45,880
Americans work harder than Nigerians. And Rod goes, oh, really, well,

794
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:49,239
how much you got in your bank account? And Maxwell

795
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:51,000
just looks around and goes, well, you're not going to

796
00:41:51,119 --> 00:41:55,199
compare me to you because you have all the machines there,

797
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:58,760
so you make everything easier to work. But here in Nigeria,

798
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:01,920
I use my hands to work under harsh situations. So

799
00:42:02,079 --> 00:42:05,360
I don't think you work harder than Nigerians. You're just blessed.

800
00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:09,880
Mm hmm. And I think we've heard this before. We've

801
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:11,920
heard this before on some show where they said, like,

802
00:42:12,559 --> 00:42:14,320
you think that you work hard, but you have a

803
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:17,960
lot of machines that do things for you, which you know,

804
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:21,519
I wouldn't think of being that I live here, But

805
00:42:21,639 --> 00:42:27,599
that's definitely true. So Maxwell says, Okay, look, it's normal

806
00:42:27,639 --> 00:42:29,519
to ask somebody what you do for a living, but

807
00:42:29,599 --> 00:42:31,159
to ask how much of money I have in my

808
00:42:31,199 --> 00:42:34,360
bank account is a dumb question, a very dumb question.

809
00:42:34,679 --> 00:42:37,840
And you don't ask a man such questions. Yeah, I

810
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:39,719
don't think you just don't ask anybody that question. It's

811
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:40,280
pretty rude.

812
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 2: No, it's very rude. Also, he doesn't translate what he

813
00:42:44,119 --> 00:42:47,920
writes in Nigeria. You don't know what that means in

814
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:50,039
American money, right right?

815
00:42:50,519 --> 00:42:53,320
Speaker 1: So Rod says, I am a very hard worker. And

816
00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:55,519
one thing I know about Nigerians. We get a lot

817
00:42:55,519 --> 00:42:59,280
of robo calls and scams and they all come from Africa.

818
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:02,199
Let me tell you something. The robo calls that I

819
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:04,079
get is they're all about my loan.

820
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:05,159
Speaker 2: The loan.

821
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:08,760
Speaker 1: My loan has been processed there. I'm so lucky. They

822
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:11,079
just need a few more pieces of information about my loan.

823
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:13,920
And nowhere on these robot calls that I get twenty

824
00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:16,320
a day about my loan, does it say it comes

825
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:16,880
from Africa.

826
00:43:17,559 --> 00:43:22,440
Speaker 3: All of mine are from American politicians. So I don't

827
00:43:22,519 --> 00:43:27,159
know what he's talking about. And also he just told

828
00:43:27,199 --> 00:43:29,840
you he has a job. It is with cars.

829
00:43:30,159 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 2: He is not.

830
00:43:31,159 --> 00:43:33,639
Speaker 3: You know who was sitting in a call center making

831
00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:38,199
robo calls submit in India? Yeah he was and us

832
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:41,440
think a fake photo that was clearly a catfish. So

833
00:43:41,519 --> 00:43:44,519
let's direct our xenophobia towards India.

834
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:46,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, let's don't do that. And I know, let's

835
00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:51,039
don't do that. So you know, Rod says, the robo

836
00:43:51,119 --> 00:43:54,159
calls come from Africa, and Balaze says, you're talking about scams,

837
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:56,840
but that is not my family. It is fine to

838
00:43:56,880 --> 00:43:59,920
be skeptical and have fears, but my family is far

839
00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:04,239
from the scam. And Rod says, well, I flew ten

840
00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:06,480
hours on a plane, which I've never done before, to

841
00:44:06,519 --> 00:44:10,960
be sure she's in good, good hands, and Blaize says, okay, well,

842
00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:13,199
I don't want someone around him who's going to be

843
00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:16,519
bossy and too proud and cannot submit. But you're free

844
00:44:16,519 --> 00:44:19,159
to make your observations. So Blaize is like, you're gonna

845
00:44:19,159 --> 00:44:23,079
take down my brother. I'm going to take down your sister, cousin, godsister.

846
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:26,679
And she's like, why my catching stray? It's like, I

847
00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:27,880
just what I know.

848
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:33,440
Speaker 3: Families are against the wedding for different reasons. What's funny

849
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:36,880
is Asia's mom is the only one on board, but

850
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:39,840
she doesn't seem to matter because they think she is

851
00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:43,880
the doddy old lady and the daughters don't take her seriously.

852
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:48,440
And Rod doesn't take your serious word. You fooled mom

853
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:51,679
into being bored with this. She loves Maxwell because he's

854
00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:53,960
so handsome, and I don't know.

855
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:57,840
Speaker 1: She hasn't said I think she just drunk again. She

856
00:44:57,880 --> 00:45:03,880
hadn't They give her a pill. So Maxwell says to Rod,

857
00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:06,360
my name is Maxwell and the meaning of my name

858
00:45:06,599 --> 00:45:10,159
is greatness, so you're gonna like me. I like that.

859
00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:13,199
I liked it. I was like, good, give it back

860
00:45:13,199 --> 00:45:13,559
to him.

861
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 3: He should have learned what Rod meant. And your name

862
00:45:18,079 --> 00:45:22,199
is Roderick, which you mean stupid head.

863
00:45:24,039 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 1: And they all kind of laugh and Maxwell saying that,

864
00:45:26,199 --> 00:45:30,119
And Maxwell says, you seem to have a lot of problems,

865
00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:32,199
but I'm looking forward to spending time with you and

866
00:45:32,199 --> 00:45:33,639
getting to know you. And Rod's like.

867
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:36,400
Speaker 2: Nice I would.

868
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:40,320
Speaker 3: He didn't punch him in the face, he didn't storm off.

869
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:41,960
He took it very well.

870
00:45:42,159 --> 00:45:44,760
Speaker 1: He just sort of laughed. Yeah. He didn't say why

871
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:46,440
are you coming at me so hard? And you don't

872
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:50,119
know my finances and you're disrespecting my parents by saying

873
00:45:50,119 --> 00:45:53,480
we're scammers, you know. But he was just nice about it.

874
00:45:53,519 --> 00:45:57,519
So talking to Rod, says, he says all the right things,

875
00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:01,199
but he'll slip up if he's not authentic. Asha has

876
00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:04,239
been very smart in all her decisions in business and life,

877
00:46:04,679 --> 00:46:06,880
but this is the worst decision I've ever seen.

878
00:46:08,039 --> 00:46:10,599
Speaker 3: So if she's been smart in all decisions, why do

879
00:46:10,639 --> 00:46:13,239
you assume this is such a dumb decision. I mean,

880
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:16,119
I think it is a dumb decision, But why does

881
00:46:16,159 --> 00:46:17,920
he think it's a dumb decisions?

882
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:21,400
Speaker 1: Have we seen her? Do we know that she's had

883
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:23,639
like six boyfriends that have fooled her before?

884
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:25,440
Speaker 2: Right now? I don't think so.

885
00:46:26,039 --> 00:46:29,400
Speaker 3: I think she's very picky, and that's why she hasn't

886
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:30,480
been married so far.

887
00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:37,079
Speaker 1: I think. So, Okay, let's move on to Katie and Josh.

888
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:38,800
Speaker 2: Oh God, these assholes.

889
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:41,519
Speaker 1: Okay, so not everybody here is an asshole?

890
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:45,840
Speaker 3: No, well, there's it's more than it was last week

891
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:48,159
because I've turned on somebody.

892
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:49,599
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, here we go.

893
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:53,320
Speaker 3: So Katie and Josh, they are all kissy and their

894
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:56,320
hero shot now, which is like the first time she's

895
00:46:56,360 --> 00:46:59,840
made out with him and not Ryan in this hot Man.

896
00:47:00,079 --> 00:47:02,199
Speaker 1: It is the second hero shot where she rubs her

897
00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:06,559
hand ale on his face. Weird, weird, weird.

898
00:47:07,599 --> 00:47:09,159
Speaker 2: Let me stick my tongue in your mouth.

899
00:47:10,199 --> 00:47:12,480
Speaker 3: So they go to a cake tasting for the wedding

900
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:14,360
because I guess they're having the wedding there.

901
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:17,920
Speaker 1: I guess that's why they're there. And we didn't know.

902
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:18,960
We thought they were there for Easter.

903
00:47:19,039 --> 00:47:22,639
Speaker 3: But okay, so she says, fifty people will be at

904
00:47:22,639 --> 00:47:26,000
the wedding, and she's happy her parents are coming and

905
00:47:26,039 --> 00:47:29,679
can give me some insight. I'm going in with an

906
00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:34,320
open mind. Who says that about a cake tasting, it's.

907
00:47:34,119 --> 00:47:36,440
Speaker 1: A cake tasting. And the fact that when the guy

908
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:40,679
said how many people are going to be she goes fifty.

909
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:43,639
Speaker 2: And Josh is like, okay, I had no idea.

910
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:46,920
Speaker 1: I know zero people. I didn't know that fifty people

911
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:47,639
still liked you.

912
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:50,559
Speaker 2: But okay, yeah, okay, how many of them have you

913
00:47:50,599 --> 00:47:52,159
made out with? Forty nine?

914
00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:55,880
Speaker 1: Well, let's don't count your parents, so forty eight I didn't.

915
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:58,360
Speaker 3: I counted the parents, at least one of the parents

916
00:47:58,400 --> 00:47:59,920
on purpose, because I don't know it.

917
00:48:00,119 --> 00:48:03,239
Speaker 2: She does when she's super drunk at home. She might

918
00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:05,599
have made out with her grandfather. I don't know.

919
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:08,079
Speaker 1: He doesn't like her either.

920
00:48:08,159 --> 00:48:09,599
Speaker 2: It's take out your dentures.

921
00:48:09,679 --> 00:48:11,960
Speaker 1: It's awful. No, he dies not have denterrous girl.

922
00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:17,079
Speaker 2: No, he looked pretty good, so I don't remember what

923
00:48:17,159 --> 00:48:19,800
he looks like. So he looks pretty good.

924
00:48:20,039 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 1: I'm shaking my head. The teeth weren't great, but okay.

925
00:48:23,199 --> 00:48:23,639
Speaker 2: There we go.

926
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 3: But he's also She's like, I'm going in with an

927
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:28,880
open mind, which is a very weird thing to say

928
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:32,559
about a cake tasting. And the guy asks if they

929
00:48:32,559 --> 00:48:35,800
have their wedding colors, and Josh goes, I like this

930
00:48:36,119 --> 00:48:38,400
the color of my shirt, which is like a maroon.

931
00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:41,840
And he goes, no, not for the wedding. And he goes, no,

932
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:45,719
I guess not. That's a dumb response. No, not this color.

933
00:48:46,199 --> 00:48:48,559
Speaker 1: And you know with this color, you know what she

934
00:48:48,599 --> 00:48:53,119
didn't do before she went to the cake tasting, take

935
00:48:53,119 --> 00:48:58,119
a shower, wash her hair. No, she looks like she

936
00:48:58,159 --> 00:49:00,360
stuck her head and a vat of grease and went

937
00:49:00,360 --> 00:49:01,440
to the cake tasting.

938
00:49:02,199 --> 00:49:04,920
Speaker 2: You know who has started showering a lot more Mallory.

939
00:49:05,719 --> 00:49:07,079
Speaker 1: Oh good, good, that's good.

940
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:13,320
Speaker 2: Okay, she transferred the hair grease to Katie. So Katie

941
00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:17,440
tells us I'm not gonna be a bridezilla, but maybe

942
00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:19,719
just a zilla, you know, like I am in my

943
00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:21,360
normal life.

944
00:49:21,559 --> 00:49:24,760
Speaker 1: I liked that. I liked that she was she owned it. Yeah, okay.

945
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:25,639
Speaker 2: Yeah.

946
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:29,760
Speaker 3: So they haven't planned anything for the wedding, and Josh says, well,

947
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:31,840
you're in control of everything. But when you say you're

948
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:34,519
in control, it's chaos. And I really don't want stress

949
00:49:34,519 --> 00:49:38,000
and chaos on the wedding day. That terrifies me. And

950
00:49:38,039 --> 00:49:40,880
she says, when I tell you I've got this, I

951
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:44,719
do like the apartment that I told you I got

952
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:49,239
and we instead stayed in a hotel, and like my

953
00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:50,760
mattress that is stained.

954
00:49:51,159 --> 00:49:51,800
Speaker 2: I've got this.

955
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:54,239
Speaker 1: She doesn't. She doesn't.

956
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:55,960
Speaker 2: She doesn't have anything plan.

957
00:49:56,519 --> 00:50:01,880
Speaker 3: So Josh says, Katie had said maybe we could have

958
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:05,360
the wedding at your house and the parents, and the

959
00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:10,039
parents go no, that, no, we cannot fit fifty people.

960
00:50:10,159 --> 00:50:12,880
We don't even like you, Katie, So you're not gonna

961
00:50:13,159 --> 00:50:15,559
trash our house and let people use our bathroom.

962
00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:16,960
Speaker 2: No, it's not happening.

963
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:18,280
Speaker 1: And by the way, if the wedding is like in

964
00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:20,360
thirty days and they're just like, can we have it

965
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:20,960
at your house?

966
00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:24,880
Speaker 3: Uh no no, And so the parents say we have

967
00:50:25,159 --> 00:50:28,199
We are not surprised that she has nothing planned.

968
00:50:28,519 --> 00:50:28,719
Speaker 1: Yep.

969
00:50:29,559 --> 00:50:33,159
Speaker 2: And it's six weeks away. So will they be able

970
00:50:33,199 --> 00:50:35,159
to find a venue in six weeks?

971
00:50:35,920 --> 00:50:39,440
Speaker 1: What? No? No, that she was counting her marriage to

972
00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:40,719
be like, sure, you can have it at our house.

973
00:50:41,159 --> 00:50:43,559
We saw that backyard. That backyard can't fit fifty people.

974
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:44,280
It's tiny.

975
00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:46,559
Speaker 2: What is happening where is the Is it gonna be

976
00:50:46,559 --> 00:50:50,760
at the like community center, even those places are booked. Yeah,

977
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:53,559
you get have to get married on like a tubesday morning.

978
00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:56,000
Well that's what they're gonna have to do, is get

979
00:50:56,079 --> 00:50:58,559
married on a Tuesday morning so that they can find

980
00:50:58,599 --> 00:51:04,000
a place or at three in the morning. I don't

981
00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:06,079
give me do it in you're off hours.

982
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:08,559
Speaker 1: She'll be drunk by trying to make out with the priests,

983
00:51:08,599 --> 00:51:09,320
so now I know.

984
00:51:10,119 --> 00:51:12,840
Speaker 3: So then it gets so much worse. And this scene

985
00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:17,719
I actually found quite infuriating. I was so stressed so

986
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:21,159
at the cake tasting. Still, Katie gets a notification on

987
00:51:21,199 --> 00:51:23,320
her smart watch, which is so funny that she has

988
00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:26,159
a smart watch, because I feel like those are supposed

989
00:51:26,159 --> 00:51:28,079
to help people manage their lives better.

990
00:51:28,519 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 1: And I noticed that when she was looking at her watch,

991
00:51:31,039 --> 00:51:33,400
She's like, you're not gonna like this. I was like,

992
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:34,559
what time? It is?

993
00:51:34,639 --> 00:51:37,519
Speaker 3: Like, you have access to all the technology to help

994
00:51:37,559 --> 00:51:39,960
you get your act together and you still can't do it.

995
00:51:40,440 --> 00:51:42,320
I'm sure there's an app on there that helps you,

996
00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:44,480
like count how many drinks you've had, so you don't

997
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:50,880
make that. So she says, the delivery company is giving

998
00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:53,559
me the window of when your possessions from the UK

999
00:51:53,679 --> 00:51:57,760
a arriving, and he says, what, why are they contacting you?

1000
00:51:58,079 --> 00:52:02,199
And she says, well, they've been contact I told you

1001
00:52:02,559 --> 00:52:06,800
and he says, no, you didn't, and the parents get

1002
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:07,800
so tense.

1003
00:52:08,079 --> 00:52:10,519
Speaker 2: They're just like, this is so bad.

1004
00:52:10,599 --> 00:52:12,920
Speaker 1: Kimberly didn't make you so stressed to think like that

1005
00:52:13,159 --> 00:52:14,320
was all his stuff.

1006
00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:18,199
Speaker 3: I was so when we get more of the story,

1007
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:20,039
I was just more and more infuriated.

1008
00:52:20,159 --> 00:52:22,639
Speaker 2: And the parents are just sitting there, just like not.

1009
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:26,599
Speaker 3: Eating the cake, just like Katie fucked up something else,

1010
00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:29,800
and she gave a total bitch to Josh. So she

1011
00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:33,960
explains that his stuff has been stuck at customs since

1012
00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:38,719
he got to America and now his possessions are finally

1013
00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:43,599
arriving in Portland, but they are not in Portland now

1014
00:52:43,599 --> 00:52:48,119
they are in California. And she says, I feel like

1015
00:52:48,199 --> 00:52:49,800
he's being a little dramatic.

1016
00:52:51,599 --> 00:52:55,599
Speaker 2: What fuck fuck you, Katie.

1017
00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:59,039
Speaker 3: I have you with every fiber of my being right now.

1018
00:53:00,760 --> 00:53:03,119
There's something so selfish about her.

1019
00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:07,079
Speaker 1: It's really bad. This is really bad because he's you

1020
00:53:07,119 --> 00:53:11,079
could you could see the non acting sheer panic, like

1021
00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:13,719
we're not just doing this scene that producers told us

1022
00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:16,840
to do. You could see the real like panic in

1023
00:53:16,920 --> 00:53:17,840
him that was there.

1024
00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:21,480
Speaker 3: This is everything I own and we are not there.

1025
00:53:21,519 --> 00:53:23,400
They're going to drop it off and no one is

1026
00:53:23,480 --> 00:53:25,760
going to be in the hallway of our apartment building

1027
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:27,639
for anyone to take what's gonna happen.

1028
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:28,519
Speaker 1: We've got to call.

1029
00:53:29,039 --> 00:53:32,199
Speaker 3: He's gonna go back, get sent back to England because

1030
00:53:32,199 --> 00:53:34,599
no one's there to sign for its nightmare.

1031
00:53:35,119 --> 00:53:36,039
Speaker 2: This is a nightmare.

1032
00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:39,800
Speaker 3: And instead of problem solving, she's like, I think he's

1033
00:53:39,880 --> 00:53:49,360
being a little dramatic. I oh, there's so many diagnoses

1034
00:53:49,599 --> 00:53:51,679
I think I can think about the top of my head.

1035
00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:56,360
Speaker 2: But basically, just bitch. She just she's being a bitch.

1036
00:53:56,800 --> 00:54:01,440
Speaker 3: So he says he She goes, so he's being dramatic,

1037
00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:03,880
And Josh says, I've been trying to get these things

1038
00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:06,840
for weeks and you haven't told me anything, and they've

1039
00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:11,239
been contacting you, and this is this level of importance

1040
00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:14,119
to me up here, and you're treating it all the

1041
00:54:14,199 --> 00:54:17,800
way down here. Yeah, And she says, well, I was

1042
00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:20,760
on my run when they called, and I texted you

1043
00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:24,440
about it and you never asked, so I didn't bring

1044
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:24,760
it up.

1045
00:54:25,639 --> 00:54:28,039
Speaker 1: She probably sent him a text that said, hey, remind

1046
00:54:28,039 --> 00:54:29,360
me to tell you something later.

1047
00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:31,519
Speaker 2: Right exactly, and he didn't.

1048
00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:32,039
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1049
00:54:32,199 --> 00:54:32,639
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1050
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:37,039
Speaker 3: So he apologizes to the parents. He's like, I'm sorry

1051
00:54:37,119 --> 00:54:39,119
that we're having this discussion in front of you at

1052
00:54:39,119 --> 00:54:42,719
this cake tasting. And they say, no, it's important. It's

1053
00:54:43,079 --> 00:54:45,920
all of your belongings and our daughters being a huge

1054
00:54:46,199 --> 00:54:47,239
see you next Tuesday.

1055
00:54:47,320 --> 00:54:49,880
Speaker 2: Right now. We're sorry for our daughter, is what they

1056
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:50,559
should have said.

1057
00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:53,599
Speaker 3: So Josh says, if it was all of her storage

1058
00:54:53,679 --> 00:54:59,599
unit possessions, like that weird bin that had like loose

1059
00:54:59,679 --> 00:55:05,639
bean in it and things like that a plate, yeah,

1060
00:55:05,679 --> 00:55:08,800
she would be concerned too. And she says, well, there's

1061
00:55:08,840 --> 00:55:11,199
nothing you can do but just hope it gets there

1062
00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:12,239
when we're there.

1063
00:55:13,360 --> 00:55:16,039
Speaker 1: No, there's something you can do, which is schedule it

1064
00:55:16,079 --> 00:55:17,960
for when you're home, or get a friend to go.

1065
00:55:18,239 --> 00:55:21,320
Speaker 3: Get a friend to go and wait and contact the

1066
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:23,599
company and make sure it's okay for someone else to

1067
00:55:23,639 --> 00:55:27,199
sign give him your authorization, like you need to start

1068
00:55:27,199 --> 00:55:30,559
making calls right now. And he said, I would just

1069
00:55:30,599 --> 00:55:33,239
appreciate you taking this more seriously. These are all of

1070
00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:36,000
the possessions that I have in this world, right and

1071
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:40,199
so they he's upset, and I would be upset to

1072
00:55:40,440 --> 00:55:43,440
and so they go back to her. On another day,

1073
00:55:43,440 --> 00:55:45,639
they're at the parents' house. They look at the chickens

1074
00:55:45,639 --> 00:55:48,199
in the backyard. She's trying to catch one and it's

1075
00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:51,039
running away from her, and he says, this looks like

1076
00:55:51,119 --> 00:55:53,599
you on a night out trying to catch an innocent

1077
00:55:53,639 --> 00:55:55,800
guy to make up with it and make out with him.

1078
00:55:55,960 --> 00:56:00,199
We'll call the chicken Ryan, And I was like, so

1079
00:56:00,239 --> 00:56:05,760
now we're joking about her trying to essentially s a

1080
00:56:06,159 --> 00:56:08,239
people who don't want it.

1081
00:56:08,239 --> 00:56:11,159
Speaker 1: It's uh, it's he's just laughing, like he's made the

1082
00:56:11,280 --> 00:56:13,440
joke of the century, and like, this is a girl

1083
00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:17,280
you're supposed to be marrying, and you're making jokes about

1084
00:56:17,280 --> 00:56:19,320
how she's trying to make.

1085
00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:23,480
Speaker 3: Out with force herself for herself on there pushing her away.

1086
00:56:25,599 --> 00:56:29,559
So he says, it's good that you know, we're happy

1087
00:56:29,599 --> 00:56:32,280
and having fun after our fight yesterday and we had

1088
00:56:32,320 --> 00:56:36,760
a great night shagging. So happy Easter. So they just

1089
00:56:36,920 --> 00:56:40,159
they just go swing from fights to makeup.

1090
00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:42,320
Speaker 1: Sex, Like is this stuff that's what I need to know?

1091
00:56:42,559 --> 00:56:45,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, We're not even going to get a follow up.

1092
00:56:45,679 --> 00:56:47,000
I bet on the stuff.

1093
00:56:47,519 --> 00:56:50,639
Speaker 3: So the dad leads them in an Easter egg hunt

1094
00:56:50,679 --> 00:56:51,480
and that was fun.

1095
00:56:51,480 --> 00:56:54,400
Speaker 2: They're both actually very into it. They're both being really competitive,

1096
00:56:54,599 --> 00:56:57,559
and he's like, this is intense and they can't find

1097
00:56:57,639 --> 00:57:00,639
the eggs anywhere, and like there's like a golden egg

1098
00:57:00,760 --> 00:57:04,039
and they're like take no prisoners, and they're like both

1099
00:57:04,119 --> 00:57:05,480
going for it. It was cute.

1100
00:57:05,519 --> 00:57:07,599
Speaker 3: But then they're in their talking head and he says,

1101
00:57:07,639 --> 00:57:10,199
I would like to tone down the competition when we do

1102
00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:16,000
this with our children, and she says no, and he says, okay,

1103
00:57:16,039 --> 00:57:19,159
so you can organize the egg hunt and I'll organize

1104
00:57:19,199 --> 00:57:21,480
the therapy that they'll need because.

1105
00:57:21,199 --> 00:57:22,320
Speaker 2: Of the egg hunt.

1106
00:57:22,760 --> 00:57:26,000
Speaker 3: And so Josh finds the golden egg, which has two

1107
00:57:26,039 --> 00:57:31,039
dollars in it. Yes, Katie takes one of them and haha,

1108
00:57:31,119 --> 00:57:33,400
it's so fun. So the grandparents come over for an

1109
00:57:33,400 --> 00:57:38,639
Easter meal, the grandparents, who also hate Katie and Edward.

1110
00:57:38,719 --> 00:57:43,039
The grandpa says, Katie is very opinionated and.

1111
00:57:43,480 --> 00:57:48,079
Speaker 2: Pushy, but she's a good person, you know. I just

1112
00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:55,840
good luck Josh. It's good luck, Josh. You grandpa says.

1113
00:57:56,039 --> 00:57:59,480
Speaker 1: Grandpa's had a couple of mid afternoon Easter wines and

1114
00:57:59,519 --> 00:58:02,239
he's telling it all loose lips.

1115
00:58:02,400 --> 00:58:04,119
Speaker 2: Everyone in this family hates her.

1116
00:58:04,360 --> 00:58:04,679
Speaker 1: Yes.

1117
00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:08,800
Speaker 3: So at the meal, Katie starts drinking. She's like secretly

1118
00:58:08,800 --> 00:58:11,280
pouring more wine for herself and Josh.

1119
00:58:11,400 --> 00:58:14,400
Speaker 1: Josh gets up to get the sausage rolls and she's likelgooloo.

1120
00:58:14,639 --> 00:58:15,519
Speaker 2: Well he's not looking.

1121
00:58:15,679 --> 00:58:15,920
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1122
00:58:16,039 --> 00:58:19,239
Speaker 3: So the mom asked if Josh celebrated Easter and he

1123
00:58:19,320 --> 00:58:21,159
says kind of. When I was a kid, it was

1124
00:58:21,199 --> 00:58:24,920
more about chocolate. I'm not very religious, and he says,

1125
00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:28,920
what does the religion mean to you? And mom says, well,

1126
00:58:29,119 --> 00:58:31,960
you're gonna have to have your children baptized and raised

1127
00:58:31,960 --> 00:58:35,559
in the church. And I think she says to us,

1128
00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:40,239
I think religion gives people good morals, Like it's done

1129
00:58:40,320 --> 00:58:41,800
with my daughter Katie.

1130
00:58:42,320 --> 00:58:45,519
Speaker 1: Clearly my daughter has turned her face away from the church.

1131
00:58:46,119 --> 00:58:53,039
Speaker 3: Because if ever there was a face for religion, Katie

1132
00:58:53,079 --> 00:58:56,199
is not. That she's like on a billboard warning people

1133
00:58:56,239 --> 00:58:58,320
against forcing religion on children.

1134
00:58:58,679 --> 00:59:02,320
Speaker 1: I wonder though, if the mom the reason she seems

1135
00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:05,320
so like calm and okay with the whole not okay,

1136
00:59:05,360 --> 00:59:08,159
but like not as bothered by Katie as any regular

1137
00:59:08,239 --> 00:59:11,920
person in her presence would be, is because she's so religious.

1138
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:13,960
She has really just prayed a lot to come to

1139
00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:18,840
peace with it because she has a piece about her yeah,

1140
00:59:18,960 --> 00:59:21,519
where she's obviously very upset about her daughter, but she's

1141
00:59:21,639 --> 00:59:23,800
yet also thrilled that she doesn't live with her.

1142
00:59:25,119 --> 00:59:27,960
Speaker 2: That's where so I think there are other siblings.

1143
00:59:28,559 --> 00:59:30,360
Speaker 1: I think there are two, yeah.

1144
00:59:30,159 --> 00:59:33,960
Speaker 3: And I think they are good. And I think the

1145
00:59:34,039 --> 00:59:37,880
mom a long time ago has written off Katie as

1146
00:59:38,039 --> 00:59:41,679
like a wild cousin in the family that comes around

1147
00:59:41,719 --> 00:59:45,119
occasionally for the holidays, and they're fun for a while,

1148
00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:49,199
but you don't let yourself get stressed over what's happening

1149
00:59:49,199 --> 00:59:52,800
in their life because you stare at times a year.

1150
00:59:53,119 --> 00:59:55,519
It's a lot of therapy and praying, and she's like,

1151
00:59:55,639 --> 00:59:59,880
I'm focused on my good children, and I Katie, I'm

1152
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:01,719
I have to bail her out of jail one day,

1153
01:00:02,239 --> 01:00:05,239
but like, as long as she's not in jail. It's

1154
01:00:05,480 --> 01:00:08,480
because of murder, but it's fine as long as she's

1155
01:00:08,519 --> 01:00:11,480
not in jail, And I don't let she's like emotionally

1156
01:00:11,519 --> 01:00:15,199
detached herself. It's like you have a boss that is

1157
01:00:15,280 --> 01:00:20,280
kind of mercurial with their emotions, and you found that

1158
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:23,400
like sometimes they're really excited about things, but then sometimes

1159
01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:25,119
they're really mad about things.

1160
01:00:25,159 --> 01:00:26,280
Speaker 2: And you found it's.

1161
01:00:26,159 --> 01:00:29,320
Speaker 3: Healthier for your mental health to just be like neutral,

1162
01:00:29,719 --> 01:00:31,920
so you don't get excited when they get excited, you

1163
01:00:32,079 --> 01:00:35,000
don't get sad when they get sad, and you just

1164
01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:38,119
detach and that's better for you. And I feel like

1165
01:00:38,119 --> 01:00:40,039
the mom has done that and have put all of

1166
01:00:40,039 --> 01:00:43,000
her focus on her other kids, and if Katie comes

1167
01:00:43,039 --> 01:00:44,599
around once in a while, that's great.

1168
01:00:45,280 --> 01:00:47,880
Speaker 1: I think that's right because I think that the way

1169
01:00:47,920 --> 01:00:49,960
her mother I've really been thinking about this a lot,

1170
01:00:50,679 --> 01:00:52,480
the way that her.

1171
01:00:52,760 --> 01:00:56,159
Speaker 3: Fascinating you guys, we've never had like a case study

1172
01:00:56,440 --> 01:00:57,199
like Katie.

1173
01:00:57,920 --> 01:01:01,280
Speaker 1: I think her mother's saying when she said, yeah, I

1174
01:01:01,400 --> 01:01:04,480
was bad on my birthday. I was bad. I kissed

1175
01:01:04,519 --> 01:01:08,480
everyone like it's funny or it's like I was I was,

1176
01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:12,280
I was bad. I accidentally like took too many pennies

1177
01:01:12,320 --> 01:01:15,760
at the CBS. It said, just take one, like she

1178
01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:17,280
kind of the way she's like, I was bad on

1179
01:01:17,360 --> 01:01:19,679
my birthday, and the mom just says that makes me sad.

1180
01:01:20,199 --> 01:01:21,800
It leads me to believe she's had a lot of

1181
01:01:21,840 --> 01:01:25,679
therapy coaching on how to approach Katie, how to respond

1182
01:01:25,760 --> 01:01:28,360
when Katie does things, and for her to say one

1183
01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:31,920
day you're going to hurt somebody. I feel like the

1184
01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:34,039
mom has had a I'd love to know how much

1185
01:01:34,079 --> 01:01:36,199
therapy her mothers have because dad is sort of like,

1186
01:01:36,679 --> 01:01:39,119
I don't know. She does therapy and then tells me

1187
01:01:39,199 --> 01:01:41,400
and I just say, okay, that's how we deal with Katie.

1188
01:01:41,440 --> 01:01:44,440
When does she leaves me?

1189
01:01:44,679 --> 01:01:49,559
Speaker 3: It might be church therapy like pailing with the reactious leader.

1190
01:01:51,000 --> 01:01:55,280
And they have tried to pray the drunk away with Katie,

1191
01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:58,599
which is like a different kind of pray the gay away,

1192
01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:03,840
to pray the take out away, but they have been unsuccessful.

1193
01:02:03,920 --> 01:02:06,599
So they are teaching her to like focus on her

1194
01:02:06,639 --> 01:02:10,360
own emotions and the good children. But what's interesting about

1195
01:02:10,360 --> 01:02:13,360
that scene is why did Katie confess that she was

1196
01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:16,599
bad on her birthday? Does she have like a confessional

1197
01:02:16,639 --> 01:02:20,440
relationship with her mom, like she confesses her sins to her?

1198
01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:23,239
Why does she tell her mom all of this stuff

1199
01:02:23,280 --> 01:02:26,760
that she does when she knows it will be against

1200
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:29,840
what her mom believes? Is she trying to get attention

1201
01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:34,440
from her parents by doing this sort of behavior, right,

1202
01:02:35,079 --> 01:02:38,960
It's very strange. It is it could justice easily not

1203
01:02:39,039 --> 01:02:41,960
have said anything because she doesn't live there.

1204
01:02:42,320 --> 01:02:46,559
Speaker 1: How her mom know, right, yeah, I'm with you. Okay,

1205
01:02:46,639 --> 01:02:50,239
continue on. I'm sorry I could. I'm nastly fascinated by

1206
01:02:50,280 --> 01:02:50,880
the situation.

1207
01:02:51,480 --> 01:02:51,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1208
01:02:52,239 --> 01:02:55,760
Speaker 3: So they're talking about church, and you know, the mom

1209
01:02:55,800 --> 01:02:59,599
says religion gives people good morals, unlike Katie, and the

1210
01:02:59,719 --> 01:03:03,320
dad to ask if Josh would ever convert, and Josh says, oh,

1211
01:03:03,440 --> 01:03:06,800
God goodness, that's a big question. Oh my cheerio, that's

1212
01:03:06,840 --> 01:03:09,960
a good question. That's a big question. No, I don't

1213
01:03:10,000 --> 01:03:13,559
know enough about your religion. And Katie says, well, what

1214
01:03:13,599 --> 01:03:16,199
if I took you to church, which again was interesting

1215
01:03:16,239 --> 01:03:18,760
because she's not lying to the parents and saying, we

1216
01:03:18,800 --> 01:03:22,039
go to church all the time, right, you know, Yeah,

1217
01:03:22,079 --> 01:03:24,880
so we go in Portland. We totally have a regular

1218
01:03:25,000 --> 01:03:29,400
church are The pastor's name is George Glass.

1219
01:03:29,639 --> 01:03:31,000
Speaker 2: We totally go all the time.

1220
01:03:32,119 --> 01:03:35,400
Speaker 1: I I think they've given up with her trying to

1221
01:03:35,400 --> 01:03:35,920
go to church.

1222
01:03:36,239 --> 01:03:36,880
Speaker 2: Uh huh.

1223
01:03:36,920 --> 01:03:38,760
Speaker 1: But I think their whole thing is if you get married,

1224
01:03:38,880 --> 01:03:41,920
if you have children, God forbid, then we need those

1225
01:03:42,000 --> 01:03:42,719
children to go.

1226
01:03:42,639 --> 01:03:45,800
Speaker 2: To church, right, because it's too late for you.

1227
01:03:46,559 --> 01:03:49,519
Speaker 3: But the kids are innocent and we could still mold

1228
01:03:49,559 --> 01:03:50,960
them into who we want them to be.

1229
01:03:51,239 --> 01:03:53,559
Speaker 1: They will still be our grandchildren. Right.

1230
01:03:53,760 --> 01:03:54,440
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1231
01:03:54,519 --> 01:03:56,800
Speaker 3: So Katie's like, what if I took you to church?

1232
01:03:56,840 --> 01:03:59,239
And he says, I'd be open to it, you know,

1233
01:03:59,400 --> 01:04:02,519
i' mcna. So that's sort of like you don't you

1234
01:04:02,559 --> 01:04:08,400
don't know, you know, kind of you're open. And Katie says,

1235
01:04:08,880 --> 01:04:12,239
Mom asked her mom, if Josh doesn't believe in God,

1236
01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:12,639
will he.

1237
01:04:12,679 --> 01:04:14,320
Speaker 2: Go to hell and I'll go to heaven?

1238
01:04:14,960 --> 01:04:17,400
Speaker 3: And Mom says, well, I don't know what's in his

1239
01:04:17,519 --> 01:04:21,119
soul and what God is looking for, which is kind

1240
01:04:21,119 --> 01:04:24,480
of bs because isn't all of her studies isn't that

1241
01:04:24,519 --> 01:04:27,079
tell you what God is looking for to go to heaven?

1242
01:04:27,400 --> 01:04:29,800
Speaker 1: It was interesting the way she said to her mom,

1243
01:04:30,079 --> 01:04:34,320
mom my book, It's like, Mom, well Josh go to heaven. Yeah,

1244
01:04:34,440 --> 01:04:36,119
looks like she was like a four year old at

1245
01:04:36,159 --> 01:04:38,840
like Sunday School, Like, you know, it was strange.

1246
01:04:39,199 --> 01:04:43,400
Speaker 3: Everything is strange, strange, everything is strange. Also, you can

1247
01:04:43,440 --> 01:04:47,079
see the thoughts start going and now Katie is like O.

1248
01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:47,519
Speaker 1: C D.

1249
01:04:47,760 --> 01:04:52,280
Speaker 2: Spiraling Yes, right, the after life. She's now spiling spiraling

1250
01:04:52,320 --> 01:04:54,880
about that. So Katie's like, well, if he doesn't go

1251
01:04:54,960 --> 01:04:58,119
to heaven, how can I be happy if he's in heaven?

1252
01:04:58,239 --> 01:05:00,519
And or if he's in Hell and I'm in Heaven.

1253
01:05:00,679 --> 01:05:02,719
If I was Josh, I would have gotten ever walked away.

1254
01:05:02,760 --> 01:05:05,639
Speaker 3: I would be like, we're having an Easter dinner conversation

1255
01:05:05,840 --> 01:05:07,679
and everyone's just assuming that I'm going.

1256
01:05:07,559 --> 01:05:11,480
Speaker 2: To Hell, like I'm leaving.

1257
01:05:12,440 --> 01:05:15,400
Speaker 1: Well, She's like, Mommy, tell me where do the bad

1258
01:05:15,400 --> 01:05:15,880
people go?

1259
01:05:16,519 --> 01:05:16,800
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1260
01:05:17,400 --> 01:05:22,400
Speaker 1: Like Darling, your bestrothed is going to Hell? Oh no, mommy, Yeah,

1261
01:05:22,440 --> 01:05:23,000
it's crazy.

1262
01:05:23,079 --> 01:05:27,119
Speaker 3: So mom says, I don't know Katie because she's instead

1263
01:05:27,159 --> 01:05:29,719
of like going along with the OCD, you know, she

1264
01:05:29,719 --> 01:05:31,840
she just needs an answer. She could have just lied

1265
01:05:31,880 --> 01:05:34,320
to her, but instead she's like, I don't know Katie,

1266
01:05:34,360 --> 01:05:37,159
and she's kind of annoyed. I feel like like they're

1267
01:05:37,199 --> 01:05:40,440
incessant questions. I'm sure Katie asked a lot of questions

1268
01:05:40,480 --> 01:05:43,360
because of her mind's going, and she's like.

1269
01:05:43,239 --> 01:05:43,800
Speaker 2: What about this?

1270
01:05:43,920 --> 01:05:44,119
Speaker 1: Mom?

1271
01:05:44,159 --> 01:05:47,239
Speaker 2: What about this? Do ducks go to heaven? What about geese?

1272
01:05:47,280 --> 01:05:48,239
Speaker 1: Do geese go to heaven?

1273
01:05:48,360 --> 01:05:50,159
Speaker 2: What about that geese that bit me? Did he go

1274
01:05:50,239 --> 01:05:52,519
to heaven? What about this? Do the ants go to heaven?

1275
01:05:52,719 --> 01:06:00,719
Katie fucking I don't know? Ask God? Like everyone hates her.

1276
01:06:00,440 --> 01:06:02,599
Speaker 1: And they're like, maybe she should have some more wine.

1277
01:06:03,199 --> 01:06:05,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, she had her drunks, so she'll pass out. Stop

1278
01:06:05,719 --> 01:06:09,320
talking to us, so Mom says in their in their

1279
01:06:09,360 --> 01:06:12,440
talking head, Katie tells Josh, you know our kids need

1280
01:06:12,480 --> 01:06:15,440
to be baptized, and he says, well, this is starting

1281
01:06:15,440 --> 01:06:18,679
to feel like an ultimatum, like it's again your way

1282
01:06:18,960 --> 01:06:22,079
or it's nothing. And she says, I feel like I've

1283
01:06:22,079 --> 01:06:26,199
told you I'm Lutheran, so it shouldn't blind blindside you.

1284
01:06:26,760 --> 01:06:30,320
And he says, and I've told you that I'm agnostic,

1285
01:06:30,760 --> 01:06:34,000
so that shouldn't blindside you. You can't have it both ways,

1286
01:06:34,079 --> 01:06:38,519
like I've been very clear about my religion and or

1287
01:06:38,679 --> 01:06:43,880
lack of religion. And Mom tells them to get into heaven,

1288
01:06:44,079 --> 01:06:47,320
you need to accept Jesus Christ as your savior. And

1289
01:06:47,360 --> 01:06:52,199
I was like, okay, you lost me, Mom. You had

1290
01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:55,159
you had me with I hate my daughter, but you

1291
01:06:55,280 --> 01:06:58,079
lost me with telling me that I'm going to hell.

1292
01:06:58,400 --> 01:07:01,000
Speaker 1: She got real, reallys real quick.

1293
01:07:01,719 --> 01:07:03,079
Speaker 2: Real religious, real quick.

1294
01:07:03,119 --> 01:07:06,280
Speaker 3: And again I ask like, what if Josh was Jewish

1295
01:07:06,639 --> 01:07:09,920
or something else and not agnostic.

1296
01:07:09,599 --> 01:07:12,519
Speaker 2: Would she also say that she would feel like.

1297
01:07:14,440 --> 01:07:14,639
Speaker 1: Hell?

1298
01:07:15,599 --> 01:07:18,079
Speaker 3: Or is she one of the Christians that's like, oh,

1299
01:07:18,119 --> 01:07:19,440
she's one of the chosen people.

1300
01:07:20,440 --> 01:07:23,599
Speaker 1: We don't mess. I don't know. I kind of feel

1301
01:07:23,599 --> 01:07:26,000
like she's like, you're a Lutheran or you're nothing.

1302
01:07:26,559 --> 01:07:30,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly exactly, that's what feels like. Yeah.

1303
01:07:30,119 --> 01:07:32,360
Speaker 3: And Katie says, well, I don't know, is it like

1304
01:07:32,480 --> 01:07:35,000
so black or white? And the mom says, I think it.

1305
01:07:34,880 --> 01:07:38,239
Speaker 2: Is, which is weird because five seconds ago she said,

1306
01:07:38,239 --> 01:07:39,800
I don't know what's in his heart. I don't know

1307
01:07:39,840 --> 01:07:40,920
what God is looking for.

1308
01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:45,119
Speaker 1: And it doesn't seem very Christian to be like it's

1309
01:07:45,119 --> 01:07:46,280
black and white, You're going to.

1310
01:07:46,239 --> 01:07:49,599
Speaker 2: Hell, You're going to hell. It's no, no one judges

1311
01:07:49,760 --> 01:07:50,639
like a good Christian.

1312
01:07:50,719 --> 01:07:56,199
Speaker 1: That's right, real, that's right. Wow. And also she's sick

1313
01:07:56,199 --> 01:07:58,440
of Katie. She's been there one day. She doesn't want

1314
01:07:58,440 --> 01:08:00,679
to eat sausage rolls. She looked at her glass. It

1315
01:08:00,760 --> 01:08:03,280
was empty. Two minutes ago it was full. Katie drank

1316
01:08:03,280 --> 01:08:06,320
her wine. Yeah, she's gonna have to drive grandma and

1317
01:08:06,320 --> 01:08:08,400
grandma back to the nursing home. She's in a mood.

1318
01:08:08,679 --> 01:08:10,800
She's in a mood. She's had it, she's had it.

1319
01:08:10,760 --> 01:08:11,159
Speaker 2: Had it.

1320
01:08:11,440 --> 01:08:18,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's not a very patient Christian lady. Okaye, she's

1321
01:08:18,399 --> 01:08:22,119
trying to Maybe she's realized because of the packages that

1322
01:08:22,159 --> 01:08:26,159
got lost in customs, Josh. Really, she needs to save

1323
01:08:26,239 --> 01:08:29,800
this young man, even though he is agnostic. She needs

1324
01:08:29,840 --> 01:08:32,119
to save him and get him away from her daughter.

1325
01:08:32,239 --> 01:08:34,600
So she is going to be as horrible as possible,

1326
01:08:34,920 --> 01:08:37,479
telling him he's going to hell so that he'll run

1327
01:08:38,840 --> 01:08:39,960
get away from my daughter.

1328
01:08:40,000 --> 01:08:42,159
Speaker 1: She wants somebody to take care of her so bad.

1329
01:08:42,840 --> 01:08:45,039
Speaker 3: I know she wants him to save her, even though

1330
01:08:45,039 --> 01:08:46,600
he's getting nothing out of the deal.

1331
01:08:47,439 --> 01:08:50,479
Speaker 1: No, and I don't know if he's surprised either. Honestly, No,

1332
01:08:50,800 --> 01:08:51,159
he's not.

1333
01:08:51,319 --> 01:08:54,000
Speaker 3: There has to be something that is not right or

1334
01:08:54,039 --> 01:08:56,760
he just wants to be in America to be an influencer.

1335
01:08:56,840 --> 01:08:58,960
Speaker 2: He seems to really want to be on social media.

1336
01:08:59,319 --> 01:09:04,600
Speaker 1: He said, forty year old influencer. Okay, let's talk about

1337
01:09:04,600 --> 01:09:14,680
Debbie and is he he is in back thirty? Wow? Wow,

1338
01:09:15,680 --> 01:09:20,840
sorry apologies. Okay, let's talk about Debbie and Meadow. Okay, Wow,

1339
01:09:20,920 --> 01:09:23,760
that was okay. Debbie and Meadow. Okay, you know, with

1340
01:09:23,800 --> 01:09:27,439
all the conversation about my banks, tell me the truth,

1341
01:09:27,439 --> 01:09:30,279
do my banks look like Debbie? Because now I'm concerned

1342
01:09:30,279 --> 01:09:31,960
that my banks look like Debbie's banks.

1343
01:09:32,479 --> 01:09:36,920
Speaker 3: No, and I actually wrote, even though she's going through

1344
01:09:36,960 --> 01:09:40,079
torture right now and sobbing on the sidewalk. Her hair

1345
01:09:40,119 --> 01:09:42,840
looks good, and I don't know how she gets it

1346
01:09:42,840 --> 01:09:47,119
to be so unfrizzy in that New Orleans. That New

1347
01:09:47,279 --> 01:09:51,279
Orleans humidity is a killer. So how what products is

1348
01:09:51,319 --> 01:09:51,880
she using?

1349
01:09:52,279 --> 01:09:56,960
Speaker 1: I wonder if she's got a no, what do you

1350
01:09:56,960 --> 01:10:01,239
do when you get it straight resilient blowout? Because it's

1351
01:10:01,239 --> 01:10:05,319
bored straight, it's board straight, right, and yeah.

1352
01:10:05,159 --> 01:10:06,079
Speaker 2: I've gotten that too.

1353
01:10:06,479 --> 01:10:09,000
Speaker 3: It kills you because the formal dide and it's bad,

1354
01:10:09,279 --> 01:10:12,039
but you're you're ingesting all of that for me.

1355
01:10:12,119 --> 01:10:15,119
Speaker 2: Oh, you have to wear a mask like you, guys,

1356
01:10:15,359 --> 01:10:18,399
eyes like, just profusely, guys.

1357
01:10:18,399 --> 01:10:20,560
Speaker 1: It's not it's not worth it bad.

1358
01:10:20,960 --> 01:10:25,439
Speaker 3: But the humidity, the other hand, the friz, Wow, we

1359
01:10:25,479 --> 01:10:28,399
don't like the friz. No, she's but no, your hair

1360
01:10:28,439 --> 01:10:29,640
doesn't look like Tibby's.

1361
01:10:29,960 --> 01:10:35,479
Speaker 1: Okay, thank you, I'm concerned. Okay. So twenty five days

1362
01:10:35,520 --> 01:10:38,520
to wed so we opened with her ball and crying

1363
01:10:38,560 --> 01:10:43,800
on the street of New Orleans. Just can't just a

1364
01:10:43,840 --> 01:10:47,039
shell of herself and her white jeans because he's sitting

1365
01:10:47,079 --> 01:10:50,680
on throw up. If she's on the streets and New Orleans,

1366
01:10:50,680 --> 01:10:52,640
it looks like more like the garden. It looked a

1367
01:10:52,680 --> 01:10:53,239
little nicer.

1368
01:10:53,560 --> 01:10:55,079
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's very cute street.

1369
01:10:55,119 --> 01:10:59,079
Speaker 3: I shouldn't be so there's probably not like drunk like

1370
01:10:59,159 --> 01:11:00,680
alcohol on the ground.

1371
01:11:00,760 --> 01:11:03,239
Speaker 1: It looks like a nice place. But I still just

1372
01:11:03,279 --> 01:11:05,800
don't get on the ground in your white pants anywhere. Yeah. So,

1373
01:11:06,199 --> 01:11:08,439
because he told her he's going back to Egypt and

1374
01:11:09,359 --> 01:11:11,399
he comes down, he goes a d D look at me,

1375
01:11:11,760 --> 01:11:14,159
a d D. Look at me, Debbie, Debbie, look at me,

1376
01:11:14,359 --> 01:11:19,760
look at me, and she's like no, And he gets

1377
01:11:20,520 --> 01:11:23,000
out of ring and places it on the ground and

1378
01:11:23,119 --> 01:11:26,760
kneels and he's like a divvy look at me, look

1379
01:11:26,800 --> 01:11:27,039
at me?

1380
01:11:27,880 --> 01:11:28,920
Speaker 2: Or were you shocked?

1381
01:11:29,680 --> 01:11:31,359
Speaker 1: I was furious.

1382
01:11:31,800 --> 01:11:35,079
Speaker 2: I was I was furious and I was shocked too.

1383
01:11:35,399 --> 01:11:37,399
Speaker 1: I was shocked. And I'm gonna tell you what else

1384
01:11:38,600 --> 01:11:43,079
today or yesterday, ninety day fiance like official Instagram posted

1385
01:11:43,680 --> 01:11:45,600
you know a little video of this moment. I wrote back,

1386
01:11:45,840 --> 01:11:49,640
total dick move. Yeah, and we don't love her and

1387
01:11:49,680 --> 01:11:53,159
we definitely don't love him. This is a dick power move.

1388
01:11:53,359 --> 01:11:56,720
And I hated it. Hated it.

1389
01:11:59,520 --> 01:12:02,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm I'm mad at the show. I'm mad at him.

1390
01:12:03,039 --> 01:12:04,479
I'm mad at because.

1391
01:12:04,319 --> 01:12:07,680
Speaker 3: I had started to let myself believe that those reports

1392
01:12:07,680 --> 01:12:10,920
that they got married were false and that perhaps he does.

1393
01:12:10,760 --> 01:12:12,319
Speaker 2: Go back to Egypt and she is.

1394
01:12:12,319 --> 01:12:16,439
Speaker 3: Saved from this man, right, And I had my hopes

1395
01:12:16,479 --> 01:12:17,920
of they were dashed again.

1396
01:12:18,359 --> 01:12:21,199
Speaker 2: And also, this is the worst thing you could do

1397
01:12:21,239 --> 01:12:21,720
to someone.

1398
01:12:22,000 --> 01:12:26,760
Speaker 3: This is like those those prank DJs on the radio

1399
01:12:27,199 --> 01:12:30,600
who call up somebody and are like, I have bad news.

1400
01:12:30,680 --> 01:12:32,439
I'm the police and your son died.

1401
01:12:33,119 --> 01:12:39,800
Speaker 2: Just kidding. You want tickets to the Rihanna concert? Like, yes, haha, Like.

1402
01:12:40,239 --> 01:12:42,439
Speaker 1: This was a I didn't like this prank. I don't

1403
01:12:42,439 --> 01:12:45,000
think it's funny. I think it tells you everything you

1404
01:12:45,039 --> 01:12:47,399
need to know about his controlling character.

1405
01:12:48,319 --> 01:12:51,319
Speaker 3: This is he took what he did when he pretended

1406
01:12:51,359 --> 01:12:53,399
he wasn't getting on the plane and he was already

1407
01:12:53,399 --> 01:12:57,079
at the airport in the first episode, and that hold

1408
01:12:57,079 --> 01:13:01,239
my beer, I'm gonna out asshole myself, yes, and do

1409
01:13:01,359 --> 01:13:02,600
an even worse prank.

1410
01:13:03,079 --> 01:13:04,720
Speaker 1: Yes, it's not funny.

1411
01:13:05,479 --> 01:13:09,319
Speaker 3: I'm going to crush this woman's spirit and her soul

1412
01:13:09,640 --> 01:13:11,920
and then give her the happiest moment of her life.

1413
01:13:12,479 --> 01:13:18,920
Speaker 1: I don't understand what kind of we've definitely diagnosed Katie.

1414
01:13:17,359 --> 01:13:20,920
Speaker 2: But yeah, the psychopath, there's something.

1415
01:13:21,000 --> 01:13:23,960
Speaker 1: Something is there that is completely wrong for anybody to

1416
01:13:24,000 --> 01:13:25,199
think this is the right thing to do.

1417
01:13:26,600 --> 01:13:30,119
Speaker 2: So if a guy does this to you, don't marry them.

1418
01:13:30,800 --> 01:13:31,600
Don't marry them.

1419
01:13:31,720 --> 01:13:32,840
Speaker 1: Marry them.

1420
01:13:33,279 --> 01:13:35,159
Speaker 3: And she's the type that where she would be like,

1421
01:13:35,399 --> 01:13:37,960
do not put cake in my face at our wedding.

1422
01:13:38,159 --> 01:13:39,399
Speaker 1: Absolutely not.

1423
01:13:39,880 --> 01:13:42,600
Speaker 3: I'm getting my makeup done. It's the happiest day. I

1424
01:13:42,640 --> 01:13:44,640
think it's gross when people do it. It will be

1425
01:13:44,760 --> 01:13:47,279
very upsetting to me if you do that. And he

1426
01:13:47,319 --> 01:13:49,960
does it anyways, yes, and encourages the crowd to cheer

1427
01:13:49,960 --> 01:13:50,319
for him.

1428
01:13:50,560 --> 01:13:53,600
Speaker 1: Yes, Yes, you're so right. So she won't turn around,

1429
01:13:53,800 --> 01:13:56,439
so he goes and like hugs her behind her, which

1430
01:13:56,520 --> 01:13:58,159
it really is like one of the first times we've

1431
01:13:58,159 --> 01:14:00,880
seen him touch her, and he.

1432
01:14:00,880 --> 01:14:01,800
Speaker 2: Was gonna strangle her.

1433
01:14:02,399 --> 01:14:05,079
Speaker 1: She's ball she's balling, crying and he's smiling like as

1434
01:14:05,079 --> 01:14:07,560
he's like in her like look at me.

1435
01:14:08,439 --> 01:14:10,680
Speaker 2: And then moment television gold.

1436
01:14:11,479 --> 01:14:13,760
Speaker 1: And then she turns around and he gets on the

1437
01:14:13,800 --> 01:14:15,520
ground with the ring and he goes, I got you.

1438
01:14:16,920 --> 01:14:19,119
She falls to the ground crying even more and it's

1439
01:14:19,159 --> 01:14:21,560
like I'm gonna kill you. I'm gonna kill you. But

1440
01:14:21,600 --> 01:14:23,239
then she hugs him and then she hits him and

1441
01:14:23,279 --> 01:14:25,159
then he's laughing and he goes like, I got you,

1442
01:14:25,720 --> 01:14:28,439
I got you DD. It's not funny.

1443
01:14:29,159 --> 01:14:29,800
Speaker 2: It's not funny.

1444
01:14:29,840 --> 01:14:31,159
Speaker 3: And I don't feel like he would have done this

1445
01:14:31,239 --> 01:14:33,359
at all if he wasn't on TV.

1446
01:14:33,840 --> 01:14:37,640
Speaker 2: I think he's trying to create like gotcha teaching.

1447
01:14:37,399 --> 01:14:40,279
Speaker 1: Show show is acting too like to show that he

1448
01:14:40,359 --> 01:14:42,800
was like I will go back to jumped.

1449
01:14:43,119 --> 01:14:46,560
Speaker 3: One thousand percent and to be the most memorable character

1450
01:14:46,600 --> 01:14:49,279
on this season. And he wouldn't have even put in

1451
01:14:49,359 --> 01:14:52,319
the effort to do a prank to her if he

1452
01:14:52,439 --> 01:14:55,199
wasn't on TV. But this is how he's putting in

1453
01:14:55,239 --> 01:14:57,479
the effort not to say I love you.

1454
01:14:58,119 --> 01:14:59,720
Speaker 1: So he answered the ring which seems to have a

1455
01:14:59,720 --> 01:15:02,560
price on it. Oh my god, it seemed to have

1456
01:15:02,560 --> 01:15:05,319
a sticker on it. That was the price tag. But

1457
01:15:05,439 --> 01:15:07,479
maybe it was the size, but he says, I don't

1458
01:15:07,479 --> 01:15:10,520
know the size or something hurt, but there is a

1459
01:15:10,560 --> 01:15:14,399
sticker on it. And he kisses her forehead while he

1460
01:15:14,439 --> 01:15:15,159
looks outward.

1461
01:15:15,600 --> 01:15:17,880
Speaker 2: Forehead, fore forehead, kiss.

1462
01:15:17,880 --> 01:15:21,159
Speaker 1: Forehead, and he laughs and goes, it's not easy to

1463
01:15:21,199 --> 01:15:22,159
be with Mito.

1464
01:15:23,680 --> 01:15:28,199
Speaker 3: And with his eyes open, yeah, looking he can't even

1465
01:15:28,239 --> 01:15:29,880
close his eyes when he kisses her.

1466
01:15:30,760 --> 01:15:32,840
Speaker 1: Talking Todd, he goes, I was carrying this ring around.

1467
01:15:32,880 --> 01:15:35,119
I was waiting for the right moment, and so she

1468
01:15:35,239 --> 01:15:37,279
surprised me. So I surprised her.

1469
01:15:38,920 --> 01:15:41,560
Speaker 2: So it's like a revenge thing. Yes, fuck is wrong

1470
01:15:41,600 --> 01:15:41,960
with you?

1471
01:15:42,159 --> 01:15:44,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, she surprised me by showing me this chapel. So

1472
01:15:44,680 --> 01:15:46,920
I said, I'll surprise you by saying no, but then

1473
01:15:46,920 --> 01:15:50,439
I'll surprise you again by saying I mean So, he says,

1474
01:15:50,479 --> 01:15:52,239
We've had our ups and downs, but it just helped

1475
01:15:52,279 --> 01:15:54,640
us to understand more things about each other. And now

1476
01:15:55,319 --> 01:15:57,840
I know that she's a good person and has a

1477
01:15:57,880 --> 01:16:00,520
good heart. And I think before we met each other

1478
01:16:00,800 --> 01:16:04,359
she was missing well, we was missing something in our lives.

1479
01:16:04,399 --> 01:16:09,720
And now I complete her and she completes me. Everything

1480
01:16:09,880 --> 01:16:11,880
is everything is so narcissistic.

1481
01:16:12,000 --> 01:16:14,880
Speaker 2: And what do you mean you were waiting for her

1482
01:16:14,880 --> 01:16:16,279
to show she's a good person?

1483
01:16:16,760 --> 01:16:19,399
Speaker 1: Now now I know. Now I know she's not a

1484
01:16:19,439 --> 01:16:25,920
good person. So I will say this that the ring

1485
01:16:26,039 --> 01:16:29,159
he gave her seemed to be sort of a small

1486
01:16:29,239 --> 01:16:31,199
ring that again had the price tag on it. But

1487
01:16:31,239 --> 01:16:35,039
then when she's hugging him, because then she shows it

1488
01:16:35,079 --> 01:16:37,399
like we're engaged, it seems to be like a smallish ring.

1489
01:16:37,840 --> 01:16:40,399
Then when she's hugging him, you see the smallest ring

1490
01:16:40,479 --> 01:16:44,399
with the band under it, and then there's a different

1491
01:16:44,479 --> 01:16:47,279
ring that's like a big square, like green or something.

1492
01:16:47,319 --> 01:16:49,479
On the other hand, Anyway, I'm gonna have my eye

1493
01:16:49,520 --> 01:16:52,880
on this because I feel like maybe it's reenactment and

1494
01:16:52,920 --> 01:16:53,560
I don't like that.

1495
01:16:54,119 --> 01:16:58,720
Speaker 2: And they're already married. Trust anything on this show.

1496
01:17:00,319 --> 01:17:02,279
Speaker 1: You know who we can't trust, and that's Marissa. So

1497
01:17:02,319 --> 01:17:04,800
that's who we end with. It's Marissa and Edward, and

1498
01:17:04,960 --> 01:17:06,960
boy oh boy, have I really been wanting to root

1499
01:17:07,000 --> 01:17:07,520
for her, But.

1500
01:17:09,880 --> 01:17:13,960
Speaker 3: She's too She is a member of MENSA and a

1501
01:17:14,039 --> 01:17:16,960
genius and an intellectual sophisticate.

1502
01:17:17,239 --> 01:17:18,199
Speaker 2: I don't know if you knew that.

1503
01:17:18,960 --> 01:17:21,479
Speaker 3: She is the smartest person and she needs someone to

1504
01:17:21,479 --> 01:17:24,239
match her intellectually. I'm not sure if you were aware

1505
01:17:24,279 --> 01:17:28,000
of that. She knows that Cecily is part of Italy.

1506
01:17:30,640 --> 01:17:32,960
Speaker 1: Okay, she sells wedding.

1507
01:17:32,760 --> 01:17:35,079
Speaker 3: Dresses for a living, which I'm sure she has a

1508
01:17:35,199 --> 01:17:37,079
nice she has. She has a good job, and I'm

1509
01:17:37,359 --> 01:17:40,239
she has a good business mind and things like that,

1510
01:17:40,520 --> 01:17:44,520
But she freaking talks like she is securing cancer and

1511
01:17:44,840 --> 01:17:49,760
he's a dumb dumb who is like intellectually handicapped.

1512
01:17:50,479 --> 01:17:52,920
Speaker 1: Did you hear that she was fired from Kleinfeld for

1513
01:17:52,960 --> 01:17:56,000
showing his dick pics to her coworkers.

1514
01:17:56,319 --> 01:18:00,239
Speaker 3: I did hear that. I don't is that true? We

1515
01:18:00,279 --> 01:18:01,640
know if that is factual?

1516
01:18:02,399 --> 01:18:05,760
Speaker 1: I asked another ninety Day fiance member who said they

1517
01:18:05,800 --> 01:18:08,039
had also heard that, but they did not know if

1518
01:18:08,039 --> 01:18:09,239
it was factual.

1519
01:18:09,600 --> 01:18:15,600
Speaker 2: Because on the show, she told them about the circumcision. Right,

1520
01:18:15,680 --> 01:18:18,960
I told Dorothy and a couple other people about the circumcision.

1521
01:18:18,960 --> 01:18:22,399
But I don't believe we saw her show picture picture.

1522
01:18:22,520 --> 01:18:23,600
Speaker 1: But maybe she did.

1523
01:18:23,520 --> 01:18:26,880
Speaker 3: The show and they cut it out. But then how

1524
01:18:26,920 --> 01:18:29,439
would Kleinfeld know unless someone told him.

1525
01:18:29,520 --> 01:18:31,600
Speaker 1: Somebody told on her. That's what I think.

1526
01:18:31,880 --> 01:18:34,239
Speaker 3: They don't like her, even though she's the most beloved

1527
01:18:34,319 --> 01:18:36,960
coworker they've ever had there besides Randy.

1528
01:18:37,199 --> 01:18:39,640
Speaker 1: M Yeah, I think that somebody told her. Like I

1529
01:18:39,640 --> 01:18:41,560
was very uncomfortable. She showed me a picture of her

1530
01:18:41,840 --> 01:18:43,840
husband's dick and I did not want to see it.

1531
01:18:44,600 --> 01:18:45,279
Speaker 2: Jesus.

1532
01:18:45,680 --> 01:18:48,079
Speaker 1: Now, we don't know. That's all alleged, so we don't know.

1533
01:18:48,199 --> 01:18:51,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, okay, so she's doing fine now, she started

1534
01:18:51,880 --> 01:18:52,760
a bar studio.

1535
01:18:52,960 --> 01:18:53,680
Speaker 2: She's fine.

1536
01:18:54,000 --> 01:18:57,239
Speaker 3: So She has come alone to New York because she

1537
01:18:57,319 --> 01:19:02,640
needs space, and they are majorly connected, as any good

1538
01:19:02,760 --> 01:19:06,439
intellectual will say, I'm majorly disconnected right now?

1539
01:19:06,880 --> 01:19:09,039
Speaker 1: Did she say she's in mensa? Are you just saying that?

1540
01:19:09,680 --> 01:19:11,000
Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm just joking.

1541
01:19:11,199 --> 01:19:13,600
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, she as, I was like, did I

1542
01:19:13,680 --> 01:19:16,079
miss that that? She said that? Okay, all right. No.

1543
01:19:17,760 --> 01:19:21,239
Speaker 2: So her friend from the party, one of the judge ladies,

1544
01:19:21,600 --> 01:19:24,800
he has met her to at Kleinfeld to see her

1545
01:19:24,880 --> 01:19:28,640
dress fitting, and she says, I'm surrounded by happy brides

1546
01:19:28,640 --> 01:19:32,279
all the time, and it really sucks that, like I

1547
01:19:32,319 --> 01:19:36,760
don't have those excited feelings right now. And again she's

1548
01:19:36,960 --> 01:19:37,960
so intellectual.

1549
01:19:38,079 --> 01:19:41,199
Speaker 1: Guys like what, Like, it really.

1550
01:19:41,199 --> 01:19:44,399
Speaker 3: Sucks that, like I don't have these She sounds like

1551
01:19:44,439 --> 01:19:50,760
Emma and she is deep intellectual. Also, Dorothy, her work wife,

1552
01:19:51,199 --> 01:19:55,319
is there, and Dorothy and the friend gossip immediately. When

1553
01:19:55,439 --> 01:19:57,319
Marissa goes to try in the dress, It's like, oh

1554
01:19:57,319 --> 01:19:58,399
my god, nice to meet you.

1555
01:19:58,479 --> 01:20:00,479
Speaker 2: What do you think about Edward? He's a d me right,

1556
01:20:00,560 --> 01:20:01,560
he's not good enough for her?

1557
01:20:01,880 --> 01:20:03,399
Speaker 1: Have you seen have you seen that dick?

1558
01:20:03,680 --> 01:20:07,319
Speaker 2: Have you seen thee So they are worried.

1559
01:20:07,399 --> 01:20:08,960
Speaker 3: They're not sure if she's going to go through at

1560
01:20:09,000 --> 01:20:12,199
the wedding, and Dorothy keeps trying to get the friend

1561
01:20:12,239 --> 01:20:14,840
to say that she's against it, like but you're what

1562
01:20:14,880 --> 01:20:16,760
do you really think? Like do you do you think

1563
01:20:16,840 --> 01:20:18,880
she should do it? And the friend keeps trying to

1564
01:20:18,920 --> 01:20:22,680
be very diplomatic and like feel Dorothy out. They're each

1565
01:20:22,680 --> 01:20:25,439
trying to feel each other out, like do we hate him?

1566
01:20:25,520 --> 01:20:25,680
Speaker 1: Right?

1567
01:20:25,720 --> 01:20:28,079
Speaker 2: We hate him right? Because he's not good enough for Marissa.

1568
01:20:28,159 --> 01:20:30,680
Speaker 1: Right, it's like on three say it one, yes, exactly,

1569
01:20:31,880 --> 01:20:34,239
I'll say it if you say it on three. Yeah.

1570
01:20:35,800 --> 01:20:38,840
Speaker 3: So she comes out in this dress that she says,

1571
01:20:38,960 --> 01:20:43,000
it's just like me. It's sexy and sophisticated.

1572
01:20:42,640 --> 01:20:48,000
Speaker 2: And okay, it's.

1573
01:20:46,760 --> 01:20:50,039
Speaker 3: Sort of a Grecian style to me, she looks like

1574
01:20:50,079 --> 01:20:51,800
a pillar, a Grecian pillar.

1575
01:20:52,159 --> 01:20:54,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's good.

1576
01:20:54,760 --> 01:20:57,359
Speaker 3: So the friend says, well, you made the right decision

1577
01:20:58,239 --> 01:21:03,399
with the dress. Maris is like, what what do you mean?

1578
01:21:03,880 --> 01:21:06,560
And Dorothy goes, well, I just hope you love Edward

1579
01:21:06,600 --> 01:21:09,239
for the right reason. And Marissa goes, what do I

1580
01:21:09,319 --> 01:21:15,840
love him for his money? He's a poor Well, of

1581
01:21:15,880 --> 01:21:17,840
course I don't love him for his money. Did you

1582
01:21:17,880 --> 01:21:19,000
hear that joke that I just.

1583
01:21:19,000 --> 01:21:22,079
Speaker 1: Made he's a poor okay.

1584
01:21:22,680 --> 01:21:26,119
Speaker 2: So Dorothy goes, well, like sex, do you love him

1585
01:21:26,159 --> 01:21:26,760
for sex?

1586
01:21:27,239 --> 01:21:30,119
Speaker 3: And Maris is like, I don't know what I'm doing.

1587
01:21:30,199 --> 01:21:32,760
I'm not one hundred percent sure about the wedding. I'm

1588
01:21:32,800 --> 01:21:33,800
like seventy five.

1589
01:21:33,640 --> 01:21:37,239
Speaker 2: Percent sure, and Dorothy says, first for me, seventy five

1590
01:21:37,319 --> 01:21:39,239
might as well be zero, like you have to be

1591
01:21:39,319 --> 01:21:39,760
all in.

1592
01:21:40,239 --> 01:21:42,800
Speaker 1: And you know what's interesting? This week on Love After

1593
01:21:42,880 --> 01:21:47,199
lock Up, Corey said about Kirsten and Brady, she said,

1594
01:21:47,319 --> 01:21:50,199
I give a seventy five percent chance, and we were like,

1595
01:21:50,319 --> 01:21:53,479
that's good. That's good for Love after lock Up? He

1596
01:21:53,560 --> 01:21:54,079
saw people.

1597
01:21:54,439 --> 01:21:59,720
Speaker 2: Yes, good, Yeah, I mean even as in like seventy

1598
01:21:59,720 --> 01:22:03,600
five percent of no, fifty percent of Nicole she is

1599
01:22:03,720 --> 01:22:09,600
like fifty percent good for me, Chris, Yes, seventy five

1600
01:22:09,800 --> 01:22:13,159
was I think how Michael Michael felt about Angela when

1601
01:22:13,159 --> 01:22:14,439
they I think it was no there was.

1602
01:22:14,399 --> 01:22:16,960
Speaker 1: Baby Girl Lisa, it was so Ja boy and baby Girl.

1603
01:22:17,199 --> 01:22:18,800
Speaker 2: It was baby Girl Lisa. Yeah.

1604
01:22:18,960 --> 01:22:23,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, so uh, Dorothy's like it might as well be zero,

1605
01:22:23,520 --> 01:22:26,239
and Marissa says, so I can't be sure in forty

1606
01:22:26,279 --> 01:22:29,399
five days, like I just can't get to be one

1607
01:22:29,479 --> 01:22:32,520
hundred in forty five days, and the friend's like, but

1608
01:22:32,640 --> 01:22:35,399
it's been two and a half years that you've known him,

1609
01:22:35,840 --> 01:22:37,560
and Marisa says, I know.

1610
01:22:37,600 --> 01:22:39,479
Speaker 2: It's just now that we're living together.

1611
01:22:39,239 --> 01:22:42,720
Speaker 3: I'm assessing our new dynamic where I've realized he's stupid

1612
01:22:43,159 --> 01:22:47,199
and it's basically like marrying someone who has.

1613
01:22:47,079 --> 01:22:50,600
Speaker 2: An intellectual disability, the way I have to speak down

1614
01:22:50,600 --> 01:22:54,640
to him. So the friend says he was happy, go

1615
01:22:54,760 --> 01:22:58,600
lucky and his personality has changed because he can only

1616
01:22:58,680 --> 01:23:03,359
take so much of your bitchiness. And Marissa says, yeah,

1617
01:23:03,399 --> 01:23:07,880
because he feels beaten down by me. Yes, but I

1618
01:23:08,039 --> 01:23:11,479
want him to feel confident and be independent of me.

1619
01:23:12,000 --> 01:23:14,720
And she's like, last night I wanted alone time in

1620
01:23:14,800 --> 01:23:17,640
the city and I didn't contact him, and at ten

1621
01:23:17,760 --> 01:23:20,640
thirty at night, he texted me like have a good night.

1622
01:23:21,199 --> 01:23:23,720
Like I felt like there was attitude with the text,

1623
01:23:23,880 --> 01:23:26,800
and she says, I'm busy. I don't want to.

1624
01:23:26,760 --> 01:23:30,399
Speaker 3: Text nine thousand times a day. Well, you're engaged to

1625
01:23:30,479 --> 01:23:31,239
him and.

1626
01:23:32,039 --> 01:23:32,840
Speaker 1: You just check in.

1627
01:23:32,960 --> 01:23:37,680
Speaker 3: You're helping to raise your children, so you should text occasionally.

1628
01:23:38,159 --> 01:23:41,880
He's not asking nine thousand, he's asking for one. And

1629
01:23:42,319 --> 01:23:45,319
she says he's miserable and he's afraid of messing up

1630
01:23:45,359 --> 01:23:48,319
because I'm not being nice to him, because I'm not

1631
01:23:48,479 --> 01:23:52,039
happy because of him. It's all his fault that he's

1632
01:23:52,079 --> 01:23:55,520
making me act like such a bitch. And Dorothy says,

1633
01:23:55,560 --> 01:23:58,640
if you're not certain, you shouldn't get married. And Marisa says,

1634
01:23:58,800 --> 01:24:01,760
I shouldn't be settling but the city because she thinks

1635
01:24:01,800 --> 01:24:04,359
she's so much better than him. But the situation is

1636
01:24:04,399 --> 01:24:07,359
more complicated than my friends realize. And I was like,

1637
01:24:07,840 --> 01:24:10,199
what is there something we don't know?

1638
01:24:10,600 --> 01:24:14,479
Speaker 1: Yeah? Is pregnant? Yeah, exactly. Yeah.

1639
01:24:14,560 --> 01:24:17,800
Speaker 2: So then she texts Edward, she said. She says, Edward

1640
01:24:17,840 --> 01:24:20,720
texts her that she he needs to talk to her

1641
01:24:20,720 --> 01:24:23,399
about something important, and he's coming to the city to

1642
01:24:23,439 --> 01:24:25,920
meet her. And she's like, oh my god, he is

1643
01:24:26,039 --> 01:24:28,800
going to travel into the city alone. No one with

1644
01:24:28,880 --> 01:24:32,079
his low IQ should be allowed on the streets without

1645
01:24:32,199 --> 01:24:33,800
a supervisor.

1646
01:24:34,279 --> 01:24:36,279
Speaker 1: It is three hours away, so you do wonder, like

1647
01:24:36,319 --> 01:24:37,800
is he driving? Is there a train?

1648
01:24:37,880 --> 01:24:40,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, there's a train, I'm sure, but like he's

1649
01:24:40,920 --> 01:24:43,079
going to navigate the trains by himself.

1650
01:24:43,800 --> 01:24:45,800
Speaker 1: Gosh in a language that he reads.

1651
01:24:46,199 --> 01:24:50,159
Speaker 2: Wow, yeah, if money that he has and wow, she

1652
01:24:50,439 --> 01:24:51,680
I mean she thinks.

1653
01:24:51,439 --> 01:24:53,600
Speaker 3: She needs to have him on a leash like a

1654
01:24:53,600 --> 01:24:56,239
little kid. You'd have like a backpack leash.

1655
01:24:56,399 --> 01:24:57,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, God bless.

1656
01:24:58,159 --> 01:25:01,039
Speaker 3: So my brother had one of those because he was

1657
01:25:01,079 --> 01:25:06,560
always running off. So she's so they meet up and

1658
01:25:06,640 --> 01:25:09,119
he tells us, you know, she barely said goodbye to

1659
01:25:09,159 --> 01:25:10,880
me when she went on this trip for a few

1660
01:25:10,920 --> 01:25:13,479
days to New York. She didn't even hug me. She's

1661
01:25:13,520 --> 01:25:16,119
being very cold and not loving to me. And I'm

1662
01:25:16,119 --> 01:25:18,319
doing everything I can to make her happy and she's

1663
01:25:18,319 --> 01:25:19,199
not giving it back.

1664
01:25:19,600 --> 01:25:22,079
Speaker 2: We're a couple. It's not just her.

1665
01:25:22,560 --> 01:25:24,880
Speaker 1: And I was like, finally, yeah, I like he's standing

1666
01:25:24,960 --> 01:25:25,800
up to her. I like it.

1667
01:25:26,319 --> 01:25:28,760
Speaker 3: Finally it's not all about her and what she wants.

1668
01:25:29,039 --> 01:25:31,079
And he says, I need more because I know my

1669
01:25:31,199 --> 01:25:34,640
value as a person. And so he meets with her.

1670
01:25:34,760 --> 01:25:37,119
He brings her a coffee, which I thought was nice,

1671
01:25:37,399 --> 01:25:40,880
and she says she's nervous, like this has to be

1672
01:25:40,920 --> 01:25:43,399
important for you to come all this way by yourself

1673
01:25:43,680 --> 01:25:47,479
without your adult human like to be.

1674
01:25:47,840 --> 01:25:49,359
Speaker 1: What if he walked up and he had one of

1675
01:25:49,439 --> 01:25:52,239
those huge badges around his neck that they make the kids,

1676
01:25:52,279 --> 01:25:56,039
but like their airline piction, Yes, that says an accompany

1677
01:25:56,039 --> 01:25:59,880
of minor. You know that's what I'm Yes, yes, all right.

1678
01:26:00,079 --> 01:26:02,880
Speaker 3: He's like going to reenact home alone too, lost in

1679
01:26:02,960 --> 01:26:06,039
New York again, like with a backpack on, and he's

1680
01:26:06,079 --> 01:26:08,000
gonna like and people will come up to him.

1681
01:26:08,119 --> 01:26:09,800
Speaker 2: Do you know where your mom and dad are?

1682
01:26:10,399 --> 01:26:10,640
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1683
01:26:10,720 --> 01:26:15,119
Speaker 2: Right, I can't find them. Let me get an officer

1684
01:26:15,239 --> 01:26:19,479
to help you. So he says, I don't feel good

1685
01:26:19,520 --> 01:26:20,239
with you.

1686
01:26:19,720 --> 01:26:22,760
Speaker 3: You just left for four or five days and you

1687
01:26:22,840 --> 01:26:25,039
didn't even give me a hug. You know that I

1688
01:26:25,159 --> 01:26:27,680
like those things, and you're just so cold. I'm begging

1689
01:26:27,720 --> 01:26:30,680
for love and it's not acceptable for me. And she

1690
01:26:30,840 --> 01:26:33,079
kind of rolls her eyes, which.

1691
01:26:32,840 --> 01:26:36,000
Speaker 1: He really was able to, like really express exactly what

1692
01:26:36,039 --> 01:26:37,479
he was upset about, you know.

1693
01:26:37,520 --> 01:26:40,359
Speaker 2: Which is all she's wanted. She says, this is what

1694
01:26:40,399 --> 01:26:41,079
she's wanted.

1695
01:26:41,279 --> 01:26:43,359
Speaker 3: She's like, I want him to stand up for himself

1696
01:26:43,399 --> 01:26:46,119
and get mad at me back, like when I'm being

1697
01:26:46,159 --> 01:26:46,640
a bitch.

1698
01:26:47,039 --> 01:26:49,680
Speaker 2: I want him to be a man. And he's now telling.

1699
01:26:49,399 --> 01:26:52,399
Speaker 3: Her, yeah, good good, and she's like rolling her eyes,

1700
01:26:52,840 --> 01:26:54,640
and he says, I need affection.

1701
01:26:54,800 --> 01:26:58,039
Speaker 2: You were never like this at the beginning, like you've changed, and.

1702
01:26:58,000 --> 01:27:00,880
Speaker 3: She says, I'm not affectionate as you you are in general,

1703
01:27:00,920 --> 01:27:03,159
and I'm just not in a headspace to be that

1704
01:27:03,199 --> 01:27:07,079
way right now. And you're quiet, and I feel like

1705
01:27:07,119 --> 01:27:10,560
there's nothing for us to talk about. There's no stimulation.

1706
01:27:15,399 --> 01:27:19,439
Speaker 2: Were you having like book club meetings in the dr

1707
01:27:19,960 --> 01:27:22,600
when you were first dating? Is this what you're missing?

1708
01:27:22,800 --> 01:27:28,000
Like you would download like thesis papers on the internet

1709
01:27:28,119 --> 01:27:30,119
and then discuss them exactly.

1710
01:27:30,199 --> 01:27:30,560
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1711
01:27:30,640 --> 01:27:32,760
Speaker 3: You want to do like a mock trial where you

1712
01:27:32,760 --> 01:27:36,279
would debate each other about like political issues.

1713
01:27:36,520 --> 01:27:37,399
Speaker 2: Do you exactly?

1714
01:27:37,720 --> 01:27:39,920
Speaker 1: She got the ck because he's like playing so much

1715
01:27:39,920 --> 01:27:42,920
with the kids that she's like, that's annoying, but she

1716
01:27:43,159 --> 01:27:46,359
wants him to do that. But then she want I

1717
01:27:46,359 --> 01:27:47,279
don't know what she wants.

1718
01:27:47,439 --> 01:27:50,560
Speaker 3: She didn't like it when they were wrestling upstairs because

1719
01:27:50,600 --> 01:27:52,439
she's like, it's now like I have three kids.

1720
01:27:52,439 --> 01:27:54,920
Speaker 2: It was really loud and I didn't like it.

1721
01:27:55,119 --> 01:27:57,239
Speaker 1: You mess up on the bed, yeah, and.

1722
01:27:57,720 --> 01:28:03,319
Speaker 3: Mm hmm, it's all about the pillows, and so she

1723
01:28:03,319 --> 01:28:05,960
she's like, there's no stimulation. He says, I give you

1724
01:28:06,039 --> 01:28:09,640
exactly what you want, and then you complain and she says,

1725
01:28:09,800 --> 01:28:12,720
you haven't. You promised to give me space on this trip,

1726
01:28:12,760 --> 01:28:14,520
and then you got mad at me, and then she

1727
01:28:14,680 --> 01:28:18,119
like smirks like she's got one up on him, and

1728
01:28:19,000 --> 01:28:20,600
don't try to tell me you didn't.

1729
01:28:20,840 --> 01:28:22,840
Speaker 2: You got mad at me and you know, and but

1730
01:28:23,199 --> 01:28:26,880
that happened after you gave him a cold goodbye that

1731
01:28:27,039 --> 01:28:30,359
was on this trip, so your point doesn't hold.

1732
01:28:30,520 --> 01:28:33,640
Speaker 1: So Also I think he's like, okay, wait, so she's

1733
01:28:33,640 --> 01:28:35,640
going to work in the city. She's gonna this is

1734
01:28:35,640 --> 01:28:37,520
how it's going to be. Whenever she gets annoyed, she's

1735
01:28:37,560 --> 01:28:39,640
just going to flee to her other apartment.

1736
01:28:39,840 --> 01:28:41,720
Speaker 2: Right, and now talk to me for days?

1737
01:28:41,920 --> 01:28:42,600
Speaker 1: Yeah? Right?

1738
01:28:42,680 --> 01:28:44,479
Speaker 2: So he says this is new for me.

1739
01:28:44,840 --> 01:28:48,000
Speaker 3: You weren't like this before, and she says, I'm not

1740
01:28:48,079 --> 01:28:50,279
okay with my life and I can't hug you when

1741
01:28:50,319 --> 01:28:53,960
I feel so unsure of things. I am questioning things,

1742
01:28:54,079 --> 01:28:56,680
and he says, like, what are you questioning? And she

1743
01:28:56,800 --> 01:28:59,840
says our compatibility and if we're even the right fit

1744
01:28:59,880 --> 01:29:03,760
to get married, and he tells us this is bullshit.

1745
01:29:03,840 --> 01:29:05,600
I can't believe she has the balls to say that

1746
01:29:05,720 --> 01:29:08,520
to me, and she tells him every time I put

1747
01:29:08,560 --> 01:29:09,960
down a deposit.

1748
01:29:10,960 --> 01:29:14,039
Speaker 2: Or book something for the wedding with my money.

1749
01:29:14,920 --> 01:29:18,359
Speaker 3: I think, like, is this wedding even going to happen

1750
01:29:18,960 --> 01:29:23,399
and she he thinks for her this is just about money.

1751
01:29:23,520 --> 01:29:26,119
But for me, I left my entire life to be here.

1752
01:29:26,520 --> 01:29:29,159
And why didn't she tell me that she was questioning

1753
01:29:29,199 --> 01:29:31,840
all this before? I think she has tried to tell

1754
01:29:31,920 --> 01:29:34,920
him several times, like in the park, she told him

1755
01:29:34,920 --> 01:29:38,279
she was questioning things. Yeah, but she never had these

1756
01:29:38,359 --> 01:29:41,880
questions or told him before he came that she was

1757
01:29:41,920 --> 01:29:42,840
having these doubts.

1758
01:29:43,000 --> 01:29:45,399
Speaker 1: By the way, why didn't she He's got there plan

1759
01:29:45,520 --> 01:29:48,000
all this beforehand, like all the wedding stuff. She should

1760
01:29:48,079 --> 01:29:51,319
just had it all planned before they knew they were anyway,

1761
01:29:51,359 --> 01:29:53,159
that's neither here or there. But that's annoying to me, doo,

1762
01:29:53,199 --> 01:29:55,880
and like, why are you planning it? I'm sixty days out,

1763
01:29:55,960 --> 01:29:57,640
Like you should have already done all that. Yeah.

1764
01:29:57,840 --> 01:30:04,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, So their showdown in New York showdown continues.

1765
01:30:05,319 --> 01:30:08,800
Speaker 1: Well next time on Katie and her friends, it looks

1766
01:30:08,800 --> 01:30:11,039
like they're doing like a hin do you know, like

1767
01:30:11,039 --> 01:30:14,000
a hindoo instead of like a because he's British, because

1768
01:30:14,039 --> 01:30:17,199
they have on fascinators and they're like it was in

1769
01:30:17,239 --> 01:30:19,319
the middle of the day, like they're doing tea yea,

1770
01:30:19,319 --> 01:30:22,960
And she goes, you know, drunken like, let's play a

1771
01:30:22,960 --> 01:30:25,279
game and never have I ever, never ever has Josh

1772
01:30:25,279 --> 01:30:28,359
gone down on me. And they're like, okay, never ever

1773
01:30:28,399 --> 01:30:30,560
has Josh gone down on me either, Like that's not

1774
01:30:30,600 --> 01:30:32,800
how you play the game, dummy.

1775
01:30:32,520 --> 01:30:36,920
Speaker 2: You just wanted to humiliate him and he's not even there.

1776
01:30:37,520 --> 01:30:40,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, And then in her talking head she goes, if

1777
01:30:40,359 --> 01:30:42,079
I have to have sex with the only Josh for

1778
01:30:42,159 --> 01:30:44,239
the rest of my life, it's going to be boring.

1779
01:30:45,920 --> 01:30:49,039
And uh, she says to her friends. Once I say

1780
01:30:49,079 --> 01:30:51,319
I do, I don't like want it Josh to be

1781
01:30:51,359 --> 01:30:53,600
like the only person for the rest of my life

1782
01:30:53,600 --> 01:30:56,079
that I can make out with, So I want to

1783
01:30:56,119 --> 01:30:58,760
talk to him about it, like like an open relationship.

1784
01:31:01,279 --> 01:31:04,039
The whole thing that her whole personality is making out

1785
01:31:04,279 --> 01:31:06,640
is just beyond what.

1786
01:31:06,840 --> 01:31:10,840
Speaker 3: It is, like a mental illness of something. It's like

1787
01:31:11,199 --> 01:31:15,520
it's behavior like this, like sexual like everly sexual behavior

1788
01:31:15,880 --> 01:31:20,319
is can be part of like being bipolar or being

1789
01:31:20,520 --> 01:31:24,399
you know some I'm again not going to speculate, but

1790
01:31:24,520 --> 01:31:27,760
it is like a part of that. But again, she's

1791
01:31:27,800 --> 01:31:31,520
brought someone into this and she's not working on herself.

1792
01:31:31,720 --> 01:31:34,079
And if he's not down with this sort of thing,

1793
01:31:34,359 --> 01:31:37,560
also foisting yourself on people who do not want you

1794
01:31:37,640 --> 01:31:42,039
to make out with them is not part of any

1795
01:31:42,079 --> 01:31:43,039
that is being.

1796
01:31:43,000 --> 01:31:47,680
Speaker 2: A sexual assaulter. So you are. It's it's not even

1797
01:31:47,840 --> 01:31:48,520
the same thing.

1798
01:31:48,840 --> 01:31:52,319
Speaker 1: It's also surprising that something bad has not happened to

1799
01:31:52,399 --> 01:31:56,880
her with that kind of aggressive behavior you could run across.

1800
01:31:56,880 --> 01:31:59,720
A guy who's not doesn't just want to make out

1801
01:31:59,840 --> 01:32:02,039
is not going to turn out well for you. You know,

1802
01:32:02,720 --> 01:32:10,760
he's surprising. So Thomas says to Paula, he says, I

1803
01:32:10,800 --> 01:32:14,560
need my apartment to be a safe space from invasive smells.

1804
01:32:15,239 --> 01:32:17,279
And she says, you know, I'm so sorry you were

1805
01:32:17,319 --> 01:32:22,960
born like this because it's so sad. And he says,

1806
01:32:23,119 --> 01:32:25,159
can you handle this? This is who I am and

1807
01:32:25,199 --> 01:32:27,840
what I need. And in the talking she goes, I

1808
01:32:27,880 --> 01:32:28,199
don't know.

1809
01:32:28,279 --> 01:32:30,640
Speaker 2: And he's fine on the farm, like.

1810
01:32:30,720 --> 01:32:32,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a lot of smells there.

1811
01:32:32,800 --> 01:32:36,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, but he's fine the hay, the horses, the cows,

1812
01:32:36,319 --> 01:32:38,359
like none of it bothers his galeries.

1813
01:32:38,760 --> 01:32:40,920
Speaker 2: She says, chemical allergies.

1814
01:32:41,319 --> 01:32:43,359
Speaker 1: She's not sure she can handle this for the rest

1815
01:32:43,359 --> 01:32:49,199
of her life. Rod and Maxwell talk and Rod says

1816
01:32:49,199 --> 01:32:52,319
to Maxwell, you're not established and I look at you

1817
01:32:52,479 --> 01:32:56,079
moving to the United States as a newborn baby, and

1818
01:32:56,359 --> 01:32:58,359
Maxwell says, okay, So if you don't trust me, you

1819
01:32:58,359 --> 01:33:00,960
should trust Asia because she's a very smart person. And

1820
01:33:01,079 --> 01:33:05,439
Rod says, well she was smart before now a ride.

1821
01:33:05,479 --> 01:33:08,279
You just hate her by the way I looked it

1822
01:33:08,359 --> 01:33:11,159
up while we were talking. And you do have to

1823
01:33:11,199 --> 01:33:13,680
have a yellow fever vaccination ten days to four weeks

1824
01:33:13,680 --> 01:33:18,079
before you go to Nigeria, yes, days at least. So

1825
01:33:19,439 --> 01:33:22,199
suck at Matt Sharp so just kiddy, not mattch Sharp,

1826
01:33:22,560 --> 01:33:28,199
just Matt Sharp productions. So Raschid says, if you don't

1827
01:33:28,199 --> 01:33:30,600
want a baby, I will have to cut this relationship.

1828
01:33:31,279 --> 01:33:33,760
And the talking head, she says, seeing him have no empathy,

1829
01:33:33,840 --> 01:33:35,439
maybe I should be the one to say we can

1830
01:33:35,479 --> 01:33:39,000
stop right here, buddy, go back to Turkey. She won't

1831
01:33:39,000 --> 01:33:42,560
do that. Shaye says to annabel Now I don't like

1832
01:33:42,600 --> 01:33:46,640
how things ended with Alison, and Annabelle says Alison is

1833
01:33:46,680 --> 01:33:49,720
a spoiled brat. Shaye and his talking head says, I

1834
01:33:49,760 --> 01:33:53,560
think they're literally both wrong. And we see them in

1835
01:33:53,600 --> 01:33:56,520
the car together, and Shae says to Alison, who's baby

1836
01:33:56,560 --> 01:33:59,279
sister in the back. Shaye says, to Alison, you got

1837
01:33:59,279 --> 01:34:02,039
a problem with the Annabel or something, and she goes, duh,

1838
01:34:02,199 --> 01:34:05,920
that's obvious she's a bitch, and Jay says, well, we're

1839
01:34:05,960 --> 01:34:08,399
getting married, so you guys have to work this out.

1840
01:34:08,840 --> 01:34:11,800
Talking to Annabelle says, fuck her. I can't believe she

1841
01:34:11,840 --> 01:34:12,560
caught me a bitch.

1842
01:34:13,119 --> 01:34:15,399
Speaker 2: I didn't know if she calls you a bitch either.

1843
01:34:15,640 --> 01:34:15,960
Speaker 1: Wow.

1844
01:34:16,039 --> 01:34:19,279
Speaker 3: Usually Allison does the snide comments like behind her back,

1845
01:34:19,359 --> 01:34:21,119
but now she's she's over that.

1846
01:34:21,319 --> 01:34:22,439
Speaker 2: It's right to her face.

1847
01:34:22,640 --> 01:34:25,079
Speaker 1: She made fun of my church and I will not

1848
01:34:25,359 --> 01:34:26,079
tolerate it.

1849
01:34:27,600 --> 01:34:30,039
Speaker 2: Well, also, Shay, you raised this.

1850
01:34:30,359 --> 01:34:33,399
Speaker 1: Girl right, we're the other daughter. The other daughter was

1851
01:34:33,399 --> 01:34:34,039
only for one of them.

1852
01:34:34,840 --> 01:34:38,159
Speaker 3: Nice so like, but they even say Alison's the bitchy

1853
01:34:38,199 --> 01:34:40,520
one yea, Like why is everyone okay with that?

1854
01:34:41,760 --> 01:34:45,439
Speaker 1: I don't know, because she's pretty. I don't know. Everarda

1855
01:34:45,560 --> 01:34:52,439
Marissa talk there by the waterfront and he says, we're halfway.

1856
01:34:52,600 --> 01:34:54,720
We're on the halfway point to the ninety days now,

1857
01:34:54,800 --> 01:34:56,319
so we need to know if we're going to move

1858
01:34:56,319 --> 01:34:58,600
forward or not, and she goes, can't you give me

1859
01:34:58,640 --> 01:35:01,439
a chance to just think about it? And he goes, no,

1860
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I can't and walks off.

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Speaker 2: So, yeah, you should know by now.

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Speaker 1: We know they're gonna get married, so it's gonna work out.

1863
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All she needed was them to just stand up to

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her one.

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Speaker 3: That's when the dynamic flipped and he had the upper

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hand and that's what she needed.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and they're going to bang it out. Do we

1868
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have time for a quick Kimberly's Corner?

1869
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Speaker 3: Well, I watched part of Diaries. Do you want me

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to do part of it? Or should I do it

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next week?

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Speaker 1: Why don't we do it next week? Why don't we

1873
01:35:32,640 --> 01:35:35,560
do it next week? And who was on though I

1874
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didn't even.

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Speaker 3: See Evelyn and Corey, Oh god, fleeing and we found

1876
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out what was happening with the fleeing the apartment situation.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Emma, Emma who banged Rob? And yeah, it's not

1878
01:35:52,840 --> 01:35:55,800
being nice to me and she's getting a Brazilian wax

1879
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with her twin sister. Yeah, a lot going on with Emma,

1880
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except not really. And then Vea and the dog sitter

1881
01:36:09,399 --> 01:36:12,680
mm hmm. She almost died because she had a benign

1882
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brain tumor.

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Speaker 1: And again got real culty and religious on the internet

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talk speaking.

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Speaker 2: Because sometimes people go back, like on Plattville.

1886
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Speaker 1: Can you remind me how Veya is spelled? Is it V.

1887
01:36:31,359 --> 01:36:43,680
Speaker 3: Why sh No, there was a j in there somewhere.

1888
01:36:41,079 --> 01:36:45,199
Speaker 1: Because I know, because I feel like was it? It

1889
01:36:45,279 --> 01:36:48,079
was it? Because it's like one of your kind of sisters.

1890
01:36:48,119 --> 01:36:52,840
I feel like it's because the e a h theya

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01:36:53,760 --> 01:36:59,760
name in the Bible. It doesn't appear in the Bible,

1892
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but it is short for navea heaven spelled backwards. Nailed it.

1893
01:37:04,159 --> 01:37:06,960
There we go, There we go, There we go. Because

1894
01:37:06,960 --> 01:37:08,960
she was raised in the religious cult kind of Amish

1895
01:37:09,000 --> 01:37:11,920
as well. Yeah what does She and ch Kina were

1896
01:37:11,920 --> 01:37:15,119
to see others like, hey girl, familiar.

1897
01:37:16,239 --> 01:37:20,560
Speaker 2: Wow sisters, cult sisters, high five, former cults.

1898
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Speaker 1: Are you guys covering on dateline? The dateline that was

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on Friday?

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Speaker 2: Uh? Yes we are because mystery.

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01:37:28,760 --> 01:37:33,039
Speaker 1: It was Blaine, Yes, and uh yeah I watched it.

1902
01:37:33,600 --> 01:37:36,000
Speaker 2: There was lots of mushrooms and I really hate mushrooms.

1903
01:37:36,079 --> 01:37:39,520
Speaker 1: I do too. I powered through and there was a

1904
01:37:39,560 --> 01:37:44,439
lady with a pretty severe tan, pretty severe tan going on.

1905
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Speaker 2: Yeah, we talked about it, but in a nice way,

1906
01:37:47,279 --> 01:37:48,239
because she have to.

1907
01:37:48,840 --> 01:37:51,359
Speaker 1: I'm not past. I'm sure that you do, but I

1908
01:37:51,399 --> 01:37:54,399
will tell you right now. I was concerned about her melanoma.

1909
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I know me too.

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Speaker 2: I did, I did say, get get your moles checked.

1911
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, wow, Okay, everybody, make sure you are following

1912
01:38:03,880 --> 01:38:06,680
Kimberly and Katie at day Dayline, and that you're following

1913
01:38:06,680 --> 01:38:08,800
them over on YouTube, which is a date with K

1914
01:38:08,880 --> 01:38:12,239
and K. And you can also watch this video over

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there as well on YouTube. We are there. That is

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01:38:16,399 --> 01:38:20,159
Pink Shade Bunkies this week, I got Keisha tomorrow and

1917
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do and welcome to the platform. Rewatch on Pink Shade

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Prime and so good. I can't wait. I haven't watched

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01:38:26,720 --> 01:38:28,439
that episode yet. Gotta do that.

1920
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Speaker 2: Wellbo a little bone to pick.

1921
01:38:30,840 --> 01:38:32,560
Speaker 3: I did hear you say to Keisha that it was

1922
01:38:32,560 --> 01:38:35,000
the highlight of your week recording with her?

1923
01:38:36,319 --> 01:38:39,800
Speaker 1: Here's the problem. Keisha doesn't listen, and you do. And

1924
01:38:39,840 --> 01:38:42,800
I don't like that you talk about me on Dayline

1925
01:38:42,840 --> 01:38:47,279
all the time, and not always nicely. So don't wait

1926
01:38:47,319 --> 01:38:50,479
me start pulling some footage. You know why it's the

1927
01:38:50,560 --> 01:38:52,960
highlight of my week because it's so easy to do

1928
01:38:53,039 --> 01:38:56,199
the notes. Yeah, and because I've already watched it. It's

1929
01:38:56,239 --> 01:38:59,399
always gives me a little thrill to remember, Oh yeah,

1930
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this is terrible.

1931
01:39:01,119 --> 01:39:03,039
Speaker 2: And I know it's your favorite show on TV.

1932
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Speaker 1: It's my favorite show. And also Keisha doesn't know what's

1933
01:39:05,760 --> 01:39:07,479
going to happen, and I do, and I sort of.

1934
01:39:07,520 --> 01:39:11,720
Speaker 2: Like that, yeah, and I get it, and she's delightful.

1935
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You get it.

1936
01:39:13,239 --> 01:39:18,880
Speaker 1: Keisha still doesn't know about Kimberly, I mean about Kimberly, sorry,

1937
01:39:18,960 --> 01:39:21,840
Kim and Olivia and why they initially had that fight

1938
01:39:21,920 --> 01:39:24,600
over the MLM money. She still doesn't know about that.

1939
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It's coming.

1940
01:39:25,199 --> 01:39:26,800
Speaker 2: I'm so excited.

1941
01:39:26,840 --> 01:39:27,479
Speaker 1: I'm so excited.

1942
01:39:27,600 --> 01:39:31,199
Speaker 3: Already hates Kim a proper amount for where she is

1943
01:39:31,239 --> 01:39:35,319
in the show, and she can't imagine hating her anymore.

1944
01:39:35,760 --> 01:39:36,720
Speaker 2: Right, it's gonna happen.

1945
01:39:37,039 --> 01:39:38,720
Speaker 1: I told her. I was like, you just don't. You can't.

1946
01:39:38,880 --> 01:39:40,680
You can't imagine the heights you can go to with

1947
01:39:40,720 --> 01:39:44,279
this woman. Wait till Lydia's wedding. You won't believe it.

1948
01:39:44,439 --> 01:39:47,399
You won't believe it. So anyway, that's on Wednesdays, everybody.

1949
01:39:47,399 --> 01:39:50,319
Speaker 3: And you said Ethan is racheful, and she was like, what,

1950
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you have no idea.

1951
01:39:53,319 --> 01:39:55,920
Speaker 1: She could help. She's like, he gets more angry. I go,

1952
01:39:56,039 --> 01:40:01,760
oh my god, he's not even angry. Oh, we're gonna change.

1953
01:40:01,840 --> 01:40:04,439
I'm going to change the name. The five dollars level

1954
01:40:04,640 --> 01:40:08,479
of Pink Shade Prime from Andrea's Rage to Ethan's.

1955
01:40:08,079 --> 01:40:10,720
Speaker 2: Rage because we need Andre.

1956
01:40:11,039 --> 01:40:13,560
Speaker 1: Get out of here. God, get out of here, Andre.

1957
01:40:13,520 --> 01:40:16,319
Speaker 3: And don't flatter them. They'll take that as like, oh,

1958
01:40:16,359 --> 01:40:19,279
they're talking about us. They want to bs, that's why

1959
01:40:19,279 --> 01:40:20,239
they talk about us.

1960
01:40:20,479 --> 01:40:22,039
Speaker 1: When I met him, I told him about it and

1961
01:40:22,079 --> 01:40:27,000
he was like, what Andrea's rage, that's so funny. He

1962
01:40:27,039 --> 01:40:28,920
didn't get it. He didn't get I was making fun

1963
01:40:28,960 --> 01:40:31,720
of him to his face. He didn't get it. That's

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01:40:31,760 --> 01:40:34,479
our show, everybody. We will see you later this week

1965
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and again these new shows Age Inappropriate and Double Lives

1966
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and subir and Wives, all these shows we will be covering.

1967
01:40:40,920 --> 01:40:43,840
Things are switching around a little bit. Also, Hey, I

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01:40:43,880 --> 01:40:46,039
forgot to say this week Thursday. If you're on Pink

1969
01:40:46,079 --> 01:40:51,520
Shade Prime, it's Thursday Night Live, Pink Shade Live on Thursday.

1970
01:40:52,000 --> 01:40:56,039
That'll be at eight pm Eastern time. So I gotta

1971
01:40:57,640 --> 01:40:59,159
let's see. I gotta look.

1972
01:40:59,159 --> 01:41:01,279
Speaker 2: I'll put the log I don't have jury duty.

1973
01:41:02,079 --> 01:41:03,000
Speaker 1: When are you finding out?

1974
01:41:04,279 --> 01:41:04,800
Speaker 2: I got it.

1975
01:41:04,840 --> 01:41:07,359
Speaker 3: I'm on standby, so I have to call Monday. I

1976
01:41:07,399 --> 01:41:09,920
called on Friday. They said, you're on standby. You don't

1977
01:41:09,960 --> 01:41:11,880
have to come in on Monday. I have to call

1978
01:41:11,960 --> 01:41:14,479
Monday night. They're probably gonna say, you don't have to

1979
01:41:14,520 --> 01:41:15,239
come on Tuesday.

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01:41:15,279 --> 01:41:16,159
Speaker 1: Call Tuesday night.

1981
01:41:16,239 --> 01:41:19,680
Speaker 2: But every night I'm gonna have to call this.

1982
01:41:19,720 --> 01:41:21,800
Speaker 1: Current week that we're in, or you talk about next week,

1983
01:41:22,479 --> 01:41:23,039
next week.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I call Friday, but pink Thursday this week.

1985
01:41:28,159 --> 01:41:31,600
Speaker 3: Sorry I forgot, we're on We're in Monday now this

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current week.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, Well if you can't be there.

1988
01:41:36,079 --> 01:41:39,439
Speaker 2: But I have to call tonight to find out about tomorrow,

1989
01:41:39,600 --> 01:41:42,760
and then each night at five pm.

1990
01:41:42,960 --> 01:41:46,359
Speaker 1: Okay, if if you can't make it on Thursday Night Live,

1991
01:41:46,399 --> 01:41:48,119
we will switch it to another night. Because the point

1992
01:41:48,119 --> 01:41:49,119
is staff, the three of us.

1993
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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, let make sure, okay, everybody by the month

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time