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Speaker 1: I made a decision past Sunny Sun on Ahead Visions Night.

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What's up everybody?

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Speaker 2: What's up?

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Speaker 1: Fuckers? Hey, Hey, hey, it's Friday, fucker fried Ay. Remember

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when we couldn't swear on our podcast.

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Speaker 2: That was for like six months because we were doing

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dove ads yea and.

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Speaker 1: Gold gold Peak Gold Peak. Yeah. Yes, so we couldn't swear.

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That's why we start swearing now weeks what I've been doing.

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Speaker 2: And we couldn't talk about murder, oh yeahs or sucks. Right,

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We're like, well that's basically our show, yes, swearing murder

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and sucks exactly. They literally title our podcast swearing murder

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and sex. Yeah, none of those topics.

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Speaker 1: We could do rape uber what was that uber?

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Speaker 2: Rape? Uber?

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Speaker 1: Rape? And then you were trying to you would swear every.

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Speaker 2: Once in a while and I'd be like, oh my god,

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I mean Kaylan would or Gary would be like now

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I got to edit that out, and you'd be like,

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oh sorry, sorry, sorry.

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Speaker 1: Right, that's why we swear so much now because we

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feel free. Right, we were caged back then.

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Speaker 2: Right, I think that's when we started injecting what's up cunts?

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Speaker 1: Yeah exactly. Then people got mad about that, right, Well,

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not gonna please everybody.

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Speaker 2: You're not.

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Speaker 1: You're just you're not.

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Speaker 2: It's like, well, we're not calling you personally, right, We're

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just like if listen, if you're offended, maybe you're sensitive

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because you're a cunt exactly. Oops. So well, oh my god, Lynette,

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I have graduations. Yes, yeah, it's a lot. Yeah, god

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like activity you what my freaking kids are gonna wear?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 2: Sadie we just talked on Tuesday about from now. Sadie's

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going to need a dress for her graduation. Yeah, maybe

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she'll just dress like in her own style.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Did you ask her about it?

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Speaker 2: No, because she hasn't brought it up.

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Speaker 1: Well, if she's not sweating it, then you don't need

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to sweat it.

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Speaker 2: No, Ilbe bought Elbie had to buy a graduation dress. Okay,

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So this is why my anxiety really can get in

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the way. But you know what, my main anxiety about

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the two graduations is Bob, Oh, he's going to lection

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alone for very long, and a college graduation is going

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to be several hours being left in the house.

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Speaker 1: So you got Elbie's graduation, So Elbe's graduating.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So Sadie and Xanders is first and that's June eleventh, okay,

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and that's at night. That'll be I think that'll be

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easier because it's like a kind of an early evening.

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I'll have taken Bob on a long walk and whatever.

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We'll go to a graduation. It's a couple hours. The

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UCLA one is a few days a couple two days later,

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and that's a Saturday morning, and that's gonna be a

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d I think that's.

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Speaker 1: The whole thing, a whole cashaw, it's gonna be a

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whole casha. What are you gonna do, Bob?

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Speaker 2: It's yeah. I think I'm just gonna take him for

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a nice long walk in the morning and then just

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we'll just go.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, batting down the hatches before you leave. Yeah, that

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was what I had to do. He gets I'll get

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used to it. I mean, it'll be his first time

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to be alone for a long time, but he'll be okay.

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I would always leave like sports on for Phil.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll leave the TV on. The few times I've

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told you that we've left him alone, we come back

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and he's just laying on the bed.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he'll be fine. Yeah, Yeah, I would leave some

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kind of like chewy thing for Phil.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, I'll leave him a few things. Yeah,

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but he's like me at a movie with concessions. He's

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gonna he goes through him in the first five minutes, right, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, same with Phil. Yeah, and give it to him

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as I'm leaving, I come back and forget something it's gone.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. He's like, well, what's next. I'm like, well, what's

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next is you're gonna be here for six hours by yourself,

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So have fun watching ESPN.

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Speaker 2: This morning. So I bought this. It's a it's like

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a rubberish, plasticky, plasticky, rubberish green crocodile. He's got these

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grooves in it and you put yogurt. Oh yeah, and

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then you put it in the freezer. Ooh he loves it.

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licked the yoga yehead of it. And it was really

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funny because I gave it to him this morning and

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John was like, why you have mesophonia for so many

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random things, but not the sound of your dog just

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licking something like crazy right next to you. And I'm like,

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Speaker 1: Sound, because yeah, it makes you bops happy. Yes, he's yeah,

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you know, that mesaf on thing affects me.

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Speaker 2: I do know.

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Speaker 1: Like the way Nia and Danny talk on The Valley,

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those two, the way they talk, like the Danny talks

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like like something stuck in his throat, La La, mind

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your own business, you know, yeah, and then Nia talks

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like she's inhaling while she's like and the way she talks,

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she talks to him like he's six years old. You're

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just tired and you need to go to bed, like

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h The way they talk drives me nuts. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: There's been a lot of backlash against I'm not watching

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The Valley this season, but I've you're not. Last season,

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I felt bad for Danny, say, everybody is calling him

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an alcoholic. He's not even that drunk, right, other people

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are drunker than he is. Yes, And then this season

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apparently he's pretty drunk all the time.

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Speaker 1: Pretty drunk all the time, and like you know, talking

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to his wife in ways that are like not cool

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and triggered La La. And then she got in his

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face and called him out. She clocked him. She's like, dude,

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you are Danny darky, darko whatever they call him, like

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you have a drinking problem. And I'm not judging. It

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was good. Yeah, you should watch. Yeah, he got in

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a lot of trouble. I think he canceled. He was

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supposed to be on Watch What Happens Live, but he

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canceled it because I don't think he can handle the heat. Yeah,

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but then didn't he come on anyway? Just did he?

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Speaker 2: I think he did because he came on and made

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an apology.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, of course he's gonna make an apology. I

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don't know. There's something going on with those two. They're

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not They're I don't like that fakey, fake thing. You know,

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I'd rather you just like I always say this, like

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Gina Kimmel was such a bitch to everybody. She hated Adam.

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Adam would call and me like can I talk to Jimmy,

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and she'd go, she put the phone down, go Jimmy,

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Adam's on the phone, and then walk away and Adam

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would just be on the phone or you know, she

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just was like like when I was pregnant, She's like,

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I'll you know, I'll come to the hospital, you know,

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when you have your babies, But I'm not going to

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the park with you. Like I'm done with the park.

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I raise my kids. I ain't going to the park

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like like that. But when people are like trying to

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put on this like presentation that they have such a

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great marriage, like these two on the valley do, It's

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like that means you're trying to cover something. You're overcompensating, right,

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something's going on at home where you're not presenting the

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way you really are. I think that he's got old

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school values, like you're the wife, I'm the man, you know.

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I feel like he talks down to her, and I

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feel that she has We don't have to make it

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a big thing about the value, but I feel that

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she has that behavior is familiar to her, like maybe

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she had an parent that was an alcoholic. Because of

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the way she babies him and like, you know, I

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got to take your shoes off, you're just tired. Like

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I know she wants to be like a partnership and

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stick up for him. It's a little more than that.

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I feel like she's very codependent or something like she's

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had to deal with maybe alcoholism in her family. That's

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Speaker 2: Didn't he was the one who wanted another kid.

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Speaker 1: Right, yes, yeah, and she's like baby or did she.

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Speaker 2: Want another kid. Well, she like, if you have another kid,

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we have to move to the to the Santa Clarita.

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Speaker 1: Well, I think he wanted She just was like, I

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think he wanted another kid. And she was like, if

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we're going to have another kid, I want to do

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it now and get it out of the way, because

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she wants to be done with these kids, you know,

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five kids or four under four all over her boobs constantly.

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She's always with some kids gotta suck on her boob,

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you know whatever. I feel bad for her, but he's

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a prick. He's a prick, and you know it sucks.

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The worst part. Janet was right. I fucking hate Janet,

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but Janet was right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So that's my review of The Valley.

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Speaker 2: One of the things that pissed me off. A scene

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that I saw was where Danny they had a babysitter

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because they were all out somewhere. But then he was like, well,

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we're gonna like Sexton night or whatever. She's like, no,

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we're going back to the room. And he's like, why

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we have a babysittering right? And I was like, because

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you don't want to just leave your You're not like, oh,

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well someone's watching.

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Speaker 1: It, right, it's not a dog. That baby apparently can't

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Speaker 2: So that makes it even worse, right, So he's like,

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who cares there's a baby exactly. It's like, well I care. Yeah,

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my baby nourished. Yeah, yeah, that would be so aggravating.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. Yeah, why aren't you watching The

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Valley because they all suck?

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Speaker 2: I think because we're not covering it. So I was like, well,

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then I don't have to, but yeah, I could go

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean the recent episodes are pretty interesting. Watched

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the last two episodes where he got drunk and La

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Speaker 2: I want to see that. Yeah, you know what I

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watched that. I feel like you would like the only

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problem is you can't play games on your phone. Yeah,

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is I would just finished the whole season of Love

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Is Blind Poland I need I did you know?

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Speaker 1: I was going to say something like that, because if

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you can't, you have to watch the Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Because I have to watch the subtitles.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, was it good?

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Speaker 2: It's it's it was really good. I really enjoyed it.

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I like these international ones.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Everyone says that Japan is the best one, but it

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seems boring to me. Really needed to be a combination

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of drama, right and and some people actually finding love.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, which just check it out.

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Speaker 2: Ever, all of these couples end up divorced. I know,

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you know, here's here's the best Love is Blind for you?

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London O okay? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: UK UK?

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Speaker 2: Yeah not London UK. Two seasons both great?

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Speaker 1: Oh good? I I love Love is Blind.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so you understand what they're saying, right, you know,

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you don't have to. It's like on your phone and

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still listen. But it's still they're like better people. Yea

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more interesting funny.

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Speaker 1: Check it out. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So another thing we watched, yes, I forced you to watch.

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Should we talk about this one first? The Nightmare Upstairs?

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: People are tacolics are Hulu about it.

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Speaker 1: There's people on our page. We're talking about it. Oh

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they were. Yeah. What's it called the Nightmare Upstairs?

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Speaker 2: The Nightmare Upstairs on Hulu? Yeah, it's two episodes, three

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is it? I think it's three?

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Speaker 1: Really?

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the third episode.

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Speaker 1: Really, no, I saw the end where they went to

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court and the dad talked at the end. Yeah, yeah,

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I think it's two.

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Speaker 2: Well whatever, it's three, Okay, it's three. But anyway, let's

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not is this our last show ever? You know what?

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Speaker 1: I'm seriously going to look it up.

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Speaker 2: While we while we talk about it.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: So I was started watching it and then I was like, okay,

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I think I might be having a problematic like yahing

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about this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, because well these two kids, you know, because

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I fell asleep a lot, so I could be wrong,

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but you do the setup. Okay, while you're looking up

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if it's three or two, what I'm telling you it's too.

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Speaker 2: How many episodes? Is the Nightmare Upstairs?

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Speaker 1: You?

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Speaker 2: Oh, you're right, it's a two part series. Yeah, okay,

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So I'm going to tell you what it says about it,

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like just online. So there's these two kids, Tie and Brin,

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right and their mom. Okay, I'll just read it's oh yeah,

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it's true true story documentary. You're so, I can't believe I.

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I think I was thinking of a different I'm trying

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to save myself. I was arguing because Oh, think you

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have a different one called the knightbry Downstairs line.

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Speaker 1: Different one's when the parents lacked themselves in rooms.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So this is a two part series. It

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draws on never before seen archives, police interviews, and court

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records to chronicle the story of a Utah family pushed

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to the brink in twenty twenty three during a custody

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battle over two siblings facing a court order that would

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send them to a controversial reunification program and the prospect

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of being forced to live with their father, whom they

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allege abused them. Brother and sister, Ty and Brinley barricade

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themselves in their room and it starts a fifty four

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day standoff that the siblings they were then aged twelve

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and fifteen. They live streamed over TikTok and they created

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a social media sensation, drawing national attention to the case. Okay,

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so this woman marries this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they live in Utah, live in Utah.

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Speaker 2: So they're Mormon?

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Speaker 1: Why is it always a Mormons?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: All right? And she's just kidding, she.

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Speaker 2: Starts. She alleges that he's very controlling. They don't show a.

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Speaker 1: Lot of like, there's no like, there's no there hasn't.

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There wasn't like video of them fighting, right, it was.

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And then they don't talk to him very much. They

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talked to his mom throughout the whole thing.

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Speaker 2: So his mom is, if anybody's controlling, it's the mom. Yeah,

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she's very grandmother mom. Yeah, so now she's the grandma.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But here's the thing. They the mom does not want

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the dad to have like custody. She doesn't want them

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to see him like and he's it seemed like he

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was trying to be a good dad and I like,

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it's hard to recap the whole thing, but basically sort

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of seemingly out of nowhere, the daughter says, he puts

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cream on my.

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Speaker 1: Butthole, right, I get hot butt, hot butt. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So then she's like the mom is like, hey, are

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you hot button hot budding kids, And he's like, what no.

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Now it's a little weird because he's like, the only

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cream I've ever put on my child ever is descotin right.

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Speaker 1: And also he's remarried now to a new wife, so

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the kids, so the kids go there and spend time

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with him and his new wife, and the daughter starts

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allegingly a legend alleging alegending whatever, alleging, alleging that she's

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getting hot butt from the dad, and she's telling her

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mom this too.

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Speaker 2: So but then the story is like kind of a

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weird story, you know what. Let's let's break for an

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Speaker 2: Okay, so yes, so the hot butt thing does seem weird, right,

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and then she's sort of the girl says that he

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like puts it, put his finger in her butt maybe,

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but there's nothing else. And I'm not trying to say, well,

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that's that's it, that's all he was doing. I'm saying

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it was a wee it's a weird story.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was that.

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Speaker 2: I there wasn't there a part of you that was like,

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did he do are you remembering something he did when

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you were like really young? I don't know, Or do

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you just not like him because of your mom? Because okay,

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it seems very clear that the mom hates his guts

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now right and wants these kids to not want to

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be determined. Yeah, so then they so then the kids

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have to see a therapist. Now the sun starts seeing

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this guy who's part of like a Biker's against Abused

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Kids against Child Abuse, which is like, okay, that's an

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interesting choice for your kids.

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Speaker 1: Why would you get that therapist for your child? Right?

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And he wasn't was he saying that he was getting

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molested at that time too?

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Speaker 2: The no, only through talking to the therapist, only through

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talking to bikers against listen. I don't want people are

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going to be like, you gotta believe kids, and I do.

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So I'm torn on this, right, But it's interesting that,

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like agree that this guy that the kid starts having

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like real you know, what do you call it, like

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suppressed memorories. It's like, I think I remember that he

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was like molesting me in the shower. So then he

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comes home and he's like, yeah, he was molesting me

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in the shower. And then they ask. Of course they

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talk to the dad and he's like what, No, that's crazy, Like, no,

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I haven't and he just seems believable.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Now I know that parents that are accused of sexual

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abuse listen. It happens all the time. It's terrible. This

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could be triggering people that are listening right now. There's

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just some things that are kind of fishy. So they

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go to court and the judge says, first the judge

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takes the kids away from the dad, but they don't

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have enough evidence to take him to like try to

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indict him, right, Yeah, So then he sues for parental

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alienation and a judge agrees, and then this is the

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part that's just kind of weird. Oh okay, So then

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the kids have now they've really built up a case

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against the dad, and they have a lot of accusations.

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Speaker 1: And I believe that this has been going on for years.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, I truly believe that this boy feels that

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he experienced abuse. I don't think he's lying.

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Speaker 1: I think that.

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Speaker 2: Am I wondering.

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Speaker 1: Though if this therapist I don't know, don't I know,

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it's very hysterious, I get it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So, anyway, the kids are supposed to go to

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this reunification thing where they're going to have to spend

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time with the dad, and they're like, oh, hell no,

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he abused us. We're not doing it right. So they bored.

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They put themselves in their room and they like put

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stuff in front of the door and they you know,

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and then the police try to get them out. But

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then the police are like, you know what, we're not

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going to We're kind of want to upset you that much. Now,

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then did you get to the part where the mom

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is like making really fucking crazy tiktoks.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's the Then I was like, wait, what's going

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on with this mom? It was very strange. Her tiktoks

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were weird. So while these kids are streaming their barricade

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and iss, they were in there for like what sixty

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days or something.

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Speaker 2: With fifty two days?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, fifty two days. So then the mom was doing

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these tiktoks.

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Speaker 2: It were like over rap songs and like she was

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so fricking thirsty.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, wasn't she's selling stuff I can't remember.

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Speaker 2: Yes, she started selling products. Yeah, I mean she was

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trying to monetize a business. And she was like, oh

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my god, buy my thing and link in the bio.

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Speaker 1: Right, what was like monetizing on this what kids were doing. Yes,

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because they got a lot of traction because they were

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streaming online.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So then and the sun was sticking up her

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and he was like what, she's just trying to get

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a business going.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, right, And the little girl was so sweet or brother.

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It was really like you could see her rubbing his

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back when they were talking to the cops, like she

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was so sweet to him.

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Speaker 2: She did a hot bud at one point yeah, I

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am sorry.

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Speaker 1: Oh it's all right. We don't have any sponsors. I

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Speaker 2: What is Dove.

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Speaker 2: They made us make it like so fake.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. That was bad times.

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Speaker 2: I know we've talked about this before, but my favorite

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underneath the hole and then you I tried. I tried.

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00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:46,839
I took a hammer to the thing.

468
00:24:47,039 --> 00:24:47,240
Speaker 2: Yeah.

469
00:24:47,279 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 1: I was like I'm I fucking threw that thing away.

470
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:52,640
Speaker 2: And then we had and we were like, we don't

471
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:53,839
want to do this, we don't even want to do

472
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:56,319
We're putting our foot down. We can't, we can't.

473
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:58,720
Speaker 1: We good. Tell producer Gary, we're not doing all this.

474
00:24:58,839 --> 00:25:01,119
Speaker 2: And he was like, sorry, you have to. Could they

475
00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:02,599
already they already paid.

476
00:25:03,839 --> 00:25:06,160
Speaker 1: So then we were like, hey, check out this new

477
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:08,920
ad for you know, your night stand.

478
00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:11,079
Speaker 2: Then we went on Facebook and we're like, don't buy

479
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:12,000
it's a piece of ship.

480
00:25:13,519 --> 00:25:15,960
Speaker 1: That was the only really one product when we were

481
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:17,279
like fuck that shit.

482
00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm trying to think if there is anything else.

483
00:25:20,039 --> 00:25:25,720
Speaker 1: Well there was Member of Friends, Oh, but Best Fiends like, oh,

484
00:25:25,759 --> 00:25:29,799
I'm on level ninety eight. Yeah, Best Fiends app downloaded today.

485
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:32,359
Speaker 2: I tried to play that at one point, Yeah, I did,

486
00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:34,279
but it was like it's not free.

487
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:36,599
Speaker 1: Everything is an in WROP like you can't.

488
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:39,279
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't understand even how this works

489
00:25:39,279 --> 00:25:40,400
and it is not fun.

490
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:42,759
Speaker 1: And we had to do that ad for like a year.

491
00:25:43,279 --> 00:25:46,079
You kept going years. Yeah, yeah, like, oh, I'm on

492
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:47,680
level ninety two. What's your level?

493
00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:50,799
Speaker 2: Kaylin would be like, okay, Lynette, you're on level fourteen.

494
00:25:50,839 --> 00:25:53,160
Ye yeah, Kaylin, I keep track of my leftef. You're

495
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:56,720
a little you're one a hot read. You guys are competing.

496
00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:59,319
Speaker 1: Right because we would never remember by week by week.

497
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:03,319
So Kaylen for kaylenic key track last week you said

498
00:26:03,319 --> 00:26:04,599
you were at level seventy nine.

499
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:08,559
Speaker 2: The other one that I didn't like, which listen, I

500
00:26:08,559 --> 00:26:11,359
didn't know people like it and who knows, maybe they'll

501
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:14,119
come back at some point. But Jenny Kine, I was like,

502
00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:16,480
where who was paying four hundred and ninety five dollars

503
00:26:16,559 --> 00:26:18,079
for a fucking boring.

504
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:21,559
Speaker 1: Boring boring and shit doesn't even it's not even flattering.

505
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:26,079
It's oversized cardigan sweaters that like Malibu moms buy.

506
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:28,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, or like a pillow that you put on your

507
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:34,200
bed that's like Mongolian whatever. Cash Yeah, yeah, but it's like, Okay,

508
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:37,759
this pillow that's super basic. Because I remember I ordered

509
00:26:37,759 --> 00:26:41,000
the pillows and then immediately like gave them away. The

510
00:26:41,079 --> 00:26:43,920
pillows are like five hundred dollars. I was like, our

511
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:45,480
listeners are not buying this.

512
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:47,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was bad too.

513
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:50,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then they get mad and be like, we're

514
00:26:50,559 --> 00:26:53,000
not getting enough sales on this. I'm like, well, tried

515
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:55,880
spending a try charging less than five hundred dollars for

516
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:57,559
sacking pillow. Yeah.

517
00:26:57,799 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 1: And then we had Hello, tushy the toilet seat that's

518
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:08,200
sported like just attach it to your your toilet seat,

519
00:27:08,279 --> 00:27:11,160
no plumbing needed. Yeah, yeah, she.

520
00:27:11,559 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 2: That was That was one. Oh my god. Yeah. There

521
00:27:15,039 --> 00:27:17,920
have been a couple over the years, so I'm like, yeah,

522
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:21,000
we have to think about it. But yeah, listen, I

523
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:24,000
I think I've refused an ad or two, but not many, no,

524
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:26,720
I know. I mean I think that Jenny Kane I

525
00:27:26,799 --> 00:27:29,079
was like, we'll take it, but no one's gonna buy it,

526
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:32,400
you know, right. But then sometimes we have ones that

527
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:36,160
I'm like, oh my god, I genuinely like like laundry sauce, Yeah,

528
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:40,240
should we do an Yeah, we could do. We could

529
00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:43,880
do this one, which which we love, which would genuinely. Well,

530
00:27:44,039 --> 00:27:46,720
I am not as experienced with it, but John is

531
00:27:46,839 --> 00:27:50,039
totally into it. He bought more on his own. Yeah, fuel,

532
00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:51,079
that is what we're talking about.

533
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:54,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, Hewell, Natalia loves it too, She I have all stocked.

534
00:27:55,079 --> 00:27:57,480
She loves the ready to drink, the peanut butter one,

535
00:27:57,519 --> 00:27:58,519
the one that John likes.

536
00:27:59,599 --> 00:28:00,240
Speaker 2: She loves.

537
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:03,279
Speaker 1: Her roommates love the Greens. The Greens once they put

538
00:28:03,279 --> 00:28:06,359
it in the freezer and get it really frosty Greens,

539
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:08,440
which is ready to drink, which is really good.

540
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:10,039
Speaker 2: Yeah, the Daily Greens.

541
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:14,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it got forty two vitems, vitamins and minerals

542
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and superfoods. It's all ready to drink.

543
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Speaker 2: They're only twenty five calories. And the Green drink has

544
00:28:20,839 --> 00:28:23,039
four grams of fiber, which is kind of a lot

545
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because I've been into my fiber intake lately.

546
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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's good.

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555
00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:58,000
this documentary was like I couldn't understand. I was like,

556
00:28:58,359 --> 00:29:02,920
is she the bad one or is he innocent? I

557
00:29:03,079 --> 00:29:04,480
was very.

558
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:06,960
Speaker 2: Much not on her side when I saw her TikTok, right,

559
00:29:07,079 --> 00:29:07,960
she seems crazy.

560
00:29:08,039 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 1: That's when I was like, oh, is this taking a turn.

561
00:29:10,079 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 2: But on the other hand, I came away with it

562
00:29:12,519 --> 00:29:16,079
feeling like the best is that the kids are away

563
00:29:16,079 --> 00:29:19,480
from They didn't they what whether it happened or not.

564
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:22,279
They believed that he abused them and they shouldn't be

565
00:29:22,559 --> 00:29:25,680
They shouldn't be forced to be with their dad right now?

566
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:29,920
Did she work really hard to But but then again

567
00:29:30,079 --> 00:29:33,119
he okay, so he was remarried and then that woman

568
00:29:33,319 --> 00:29:35,960
also divorced him and was like, I believe the kids.

569
00:29:36,279 --> 00:29:38,559
Speaker 1: Yeah that was weird too, but she didn't.

570
00:29:38,359 --> 00:29:40,799
Speaker 2: Have any proof of it. She just also didn't like

571
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:42,400
him controlling, right.

572
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 1: I think he was probably a prick and controlling, and

573
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:49,200
that's why these ex wives hated him, and maybe this

574
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:52,240
first wife kind of. I I don't think.

575
00:29:52,079 --> 00:29:54,039
Speaker 2: He abused his kids, though, I'm just gonna say that

576
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:57,400
John watched it with me he was like, He's like,

577
00:29:57,480 --> 00:29:59,720
the guy's not great at all, But I don't I

578
00:29:59,759 --> 00:30:02,519
don't think he did that. I agree, And John was

579
00:30:02,559 --> 00:30:05,880
really weirded out by the Bikers against child abuse guy

580
00:30:06,039 --> 00:30:08,720
that was kind she picked him, Yeah, then she picked

581
00:30:08,759 --> 00:30:11,599
another one and he got like really weirdly.

582
00:30:11,279 --> 00:30:15,039
Speaker 1: Close to that guy, right, yeah, yeah, yeah, I agree.

583
00:30:16,079 --> 00:30:19,079
I mean it was a good document a documentary. Yeah,

584
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:21,640
I feel well, we were going to talk about the

585
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:27,759
Mackenzie Shrilla, yes, Sharilla, the killer stuff, and people loving

586
00:30:27,759 --> 00:30:32,720
this documentary still talking about the crash on Netflix. My

587
00:30:32,799 --> 00:30:36,359
boy Turtle Boy is now talking about it. Basically, you know,

588
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:40,519
parents are bad. The mom has gone on a podcast

589
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:43,880
that Turtle Boy was watching and breaking down when I

590
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:46,640
came in. I'm gonna finish listening to it. But she's,

591
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:50,519
you know, she's just very like she's innocent and we're

592
00:30:50,519 --> 00:30:53,119
going to prove that she's innocent. And also she's was

593
00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:55,920
very much like her lawyer didn't do enough to try

594
00:30:55,960 --> 00:31:01,759
and keep her in juvenile court, and Turtleboy's she turned

595
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:05,839
she was seventeen when that accident happened. She turned eighteen

596
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:08,559
two days later after the accident. Of course she's going

597
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:10,799
to be tried in adult court, but her mom was

598
00:31:10,839 --> 00:31:15,079
still like, they didn't do enough and we need better lawyers.

599
00:31:15,839 --> 00:31:19,000
And now you get all these like phone calls that

600
00:31:19,039 --> 00:31:20,599
are there would be an at that are out there

601
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:24,160
of her in jail talking to her mom. The parents

602
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:27,279
are just like the worst. They're just so I have

603
00:31:27,359 --> 00:31:28,079
this article.

604
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 2: It's about Kim Kardashian responds to Mackenzie Shirrilla after she

605
00:31:33,519 --> 00:31:36,640
asked for The Reality Start to be her lawyer. There's

606
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:39,119
just a couple of funny things in this, okay, so

607
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:43,680
it says, as previously reported, Sharrilla, oh this is making noise.

608
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:47,039
I'll turn it down was sentenced to fifteen years to

609
00:31:47,119 --> 00:31:50,599
life in prison after her Toyota Camray slammed into a

610
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:53,039
brick wall at more than one hundred miles per hour,

611
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:57,880
killing her boyfriend, twenty year old dom Dominic Russo and

612
00:31:58,279 --> 00:32:02,680
nineteen year old Davion Flanaget. Okay, so blah blah blah Okay.

613
00:32:02,799 --> 00:32:07,039
Srilla was seventeen at the time, and she's sort of okay,

614
00:32:07,079 --> 00:32:10,279
we already know all. This hold on the case has

615
00:32:10,279 --> 00:32:13,960
continued to divide opinion, with some people convinced the crash

616
00:32:14,079 --> 00:32:17,039
was intentional, while others believe it was a tragic accident.

617
00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:20,200
The thing is, though she was convicted of it being

618
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:23,039
on purpose, so it doesn't really matter, right, like what

619
00:32:23,079 --> 00:32:23,680
people think?

620
00:32:23,799 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 1: Those are just our dumb friends.

621
00:32:25,279 --> 00:32:27,759
Speaker 2: I think after finding out she could spend the rest

622
00:32:27,759 --> 00:32:31,599
of her life behind bars, Shririlla reportedly hoped that Kardashian

623
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:35,640
might be able to help her case. The reality star

624
00:32:35,759 --> 00:32:39,519
turned criminal justice reform advocate has helped several people who

625
00:32:39,519 --> 00:32:43,640
are wrongfully convicted have their sentences lessened by using her

626
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:46,039
profile as well as her recent training in law.

627
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,039
Speaker 1: But she did not pass the by I think she

628
00:32:49,119 --> 00:32:51,440
failed like three times. Kind of put it on the

629
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:52,079
back burner.

630
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:55,799
Speaker 2: According to reports, The Ohio inmate was heard discussing the

631
00:32:55,839 --> 00:32:59,039
prospect in a phone call from jail, telling the person

632
00:32:59,079 --> 00:33:01,559
on the other end of the believed to be her mother,

633
00:33:02,279 --> 00:33:06,440
it was to please inform Kardashian that she quote buys

634
00:33:06,519 --> 00:33:08,599
all her skims and only wear a skim.

635
00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:10,599
Speaker 1: You heard that? You heard that part? Yes?

636
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:13,839
Speaker 2: I laughed out loud when I read that. Shriilla, who's

637
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:18,119
currently serving time at the Ohio Reformatory for Women, was

638
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:22,640
jailed by Judge Nancy Russo in twenty twenty three. So

639
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:26,079
she was sentenced to two concurrent sentences of fifteen years

640
00:33:26,119 --> 00:33:29,519
to life. So she only has fifteen years, which you

641
00:33:29,559 --> 00:33:31,279
can probably get out much earlier.

642
00:33:31,319 --> 00:33:32,599
Speaker 1: Okay, So she.

643
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:36,079
Speaker 2: Says, there's not a moment that doesn't pass where I

644
00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:40,319
don't think about Russo and Flanagan. There's not a moment

645
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:44,119
that doesn't pass. Should say there's not a moment that passes.

646
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:47,599
That's a double negative. Keenzie Shriilla said in the call

647
00:33:48,559 --> 00:33:52,960
per People Magazine quote, well, maybe Kim Kardashian's scene, to

648
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:56,279
which the person on the other end of the call responded, yeah,

649
00:33:56,480 --> 00:34:00,400
maybe Kim will now that it's like all over. I

650
00:34:00,519 --> 00:34:02,759
was like, I mean, that's the only thing that might

651
00:34:02,799 --> 00:34:05,440
be good about the whole media thing. Maybe Kim will

652
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:09,679
see it. Shirrilla then said, I don't know. You have

653
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,280
to figure out because I'm real nervous and I want

654
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:15,119
Kim Kardashian to be my lawyer. So you know, the

655
00:34:15,159 --> 00:34:18,159
parents are like, oh my god, our baby wants Kim Kardashian.

656
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:19,039
Speaker 1: Let's get her Kim.

657
00:34:19,199 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 2: The other person then replied, we're going to have her

658
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:26,239
get you out, to which Shirrilla said, tell her, I

659
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:29,960
buy all her skims I only wear skims. However, it

660
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:33,719
seems that Sharilla may be disappointed, as sources close to

661
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,880
The Star seem to rule out the possibility of the

662
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:41,519
Star getting involved in the case. They told TMZ. Kim

663
00:34:41,639 --> 00:34:46,000
advocates for criminal justice reform by supporting individuals she believes

664
00:34:46,039 --> 00:34:49,440
were wrongfully convicted, as well as people within the prison

665
00:34:49,519 --> 00:34:54,639
system who have demonstrated rehabilitation and deserve a fair second chance.

666
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:58,480
This case does not fall within her focus. In another

667
00:34:58,559 --> 00:35:01,719
of her jail calls, Rolla was heard calling herself the

668
00:35:02,079 --> 00:35:05,599
third victim, unbelievable of the crash.

669
00:35:06,039 --> 00:35:13,679
Speaker 1: Yeah and bo yeah, no, she she's guilty. She's guilty.

670
00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:16,079
She was on that road like a couple of days

671
00:35:16,079 --> 00:35:20,719
before the accident, like scoping it out. She's fucking like,

672
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:25,760
she is so ratchet and so awful, and it's I mean,

673
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:28,440
she's now being exposed for who she is. She's not

674
00:35:28,519 --> 00:35:32,159
getting out, I don't think in order to get out.

675
00:35:32,639 --> 00:35:36,880
She's got fifteen to life. She can appeal, but it's

676
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:40,400
tough those appeals. You have to really show that you're

677
00:35:40,599 --> 00:35:45,840
changed and that you would you come clean basically, and

678
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:49,159
she's not doing that because her parents are egging her

679
00:35:49,199 --> 00:35:51,239
on her parents like, we're going to get you out.

680
00:35:51,519 --> 00:35:54,119
This is ridiculous. This was a mistake. By the way,

681
00:35:54,639 --> 00:35:59,280
there's this horrible video online of the cops telling Dominic's

682
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:04,119
mom that he's deceased. It's the most gut righting thing.

683
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:07,480
I wish I didn't really see it. It was so sad.

684
00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:10,840
I mean, she was screaming on the floor like bang

685
00:36:11,119 --> 00:36:13,639
now my son, like she and one of the things

686
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:15,920
right out of her mouth was something she said something

687
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:18,079
like she did it. I knew she was going to

688
00:36:18,159 --> 00:36:21,360
do it. She said that, wow, because she knew, like

689
00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:24,840
two weeks earlier, she was driving erratically and her son

690
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:28,840
was like help, right, so come on, like.

691
00:36:29,079 --> 00:36:34,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's threatening to kill them. Yeah, yeah, I know,

692
00:36:35,039 --> 00:36:39,119
really awful. Yeah, I feel like there was some another Oh,

693
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:44,920
were you going to tell me about Natalia's.

694
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:47,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, told me that she has a job working for

695
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:51,760
her dad. I guess, like, what's she going to do?

696
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:53,440
I don't know. She said she's going to have a

697
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:57,199
meeting with him. We'll see, but yeah, she's like, it'd

698
00:36:57,239 --> 00:36:58,960
be great if I had a job there for the

699
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:02,840
summer doing something like I don't know, maybe with the

700
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:06,840
documentaries or maybe social media. I don't know, I don't know,

701
00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:08,400
cutting clips something like that.

702
00:37:09,159 --> 00:37:11,519
Speaker 2: She can't go back to Kimmel now.

703
00:37:11,679 --> 00:37:14,920
Speaker 1: That she tried, they're not hiring. They had a hiring freeze.

704
00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:19,280
Oh yeah, yeah, that sucks. I know she wanted. That's

705
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:22,119
what she really wanted. So it was that or the

706
00:37:22,159 --> 00:37:24,800
place that she was hostessing at. She was going to

707
00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:27,199
do that. But then she's like, with my dad, I

708
00:37:27,199 --> 00:37:28,960
can like take time off when I want to.

709
00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:36,559
Speaker 2: It's like, okay, I don't know. Interesting, Yeah, so I'll

710
00:37:36,639 --> 00:37:42,639
keep you updated. Yeah about that. So yeah, so I

711
00:37:42,679 --> 00:37:46,920
was saying, my kids are graduating, yeah, and this is

712
00:37:49,159 --> 00:37:53,599
this is just kind of a little complaint. I almost

713
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:59,119
was going to say this on Patreon, but you'll understand. Yeah,

714
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:02,559
you know it like I'm kind of glad that everything's

715
00:38:02,599 --> 00:38:04,239
wrapping up because.

716
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:08,559
Speaker 1: Now I know I used to complain a lot early on.

717
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:11,119
Speaker 2: About how much stuff I do for the school, but

718
00:38:11,199 --> 00:38:14,039
I was just realizing that and I got kind of

719
00:38:14,119 --> 00:38:16,840
used to it. You know, doing our the end of

720
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:21,679
the year music show. I'm in charge of that, kind

721
00:38:21,679 --> 00:38:23,480
of have that down to a science, not like a

722
00:38:23,599 --> 00:38:30,639
huge deal. But the thing that bugs me is I'm

723
00:38:30,679 --> 00:38:34,599
not loving the way the school is being run like

724
00:38:36,119 --> 00:38:40,039
maybe the past year. It's not. And it's not the people.

725
00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:42,239
It's not the parents that are in charge of stuff.

726
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:45,239
It's like the some of the administration. They don't they

727
00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:48,960
don't really care about the right things. Yeah, they're really

728
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:52,440
worried about the wrong thing. They're really really focused on

729
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:55,800
attendance so much to the detriment of just.

730
00:38:57,599 --> 00:39:02,800
Speaker 1: I can't explain it. Of the programs at the school.

731
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:04,800
Speaker 2: And the importance of some of these programs, they just

732
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:07,079
don't really care. So we were going to have this

733
00:39:07,199 --> 00:39:09,239
end of the year showcase for one of the things

734
00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:13,880
that my kids involved in, and nobody was going to come.

735
00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:18,320
None of the parents really seemed to care. Four of

736
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:21,039
the parents of the kids canceled for their kids the

737
00:39:21,119 --> 00:39:23,639
day of, and Xander was going to be in it,

738
00:39:23,639 --> 00:39:25,840
and he was like really looking forward to it, And

739
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:28,239
then the teacher was messaging me and she was just like,

740
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:31,519
I don't know, but like I'm getting no support from

741
00:39:31,559 --> 00:39:34,360
the school and the parents don't really seem to care.

742
00:39:35,599 --> 00:39:37,760
Speaker 1: So they scrapped it.

743
00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:42,599
Speaker 2: They scrapped it the day of the afternoon of which whatever.

744
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:45,719
So I was trying to get the parents to chip

745
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:47,880
in money for an end of the year gift for

746
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:53,079
this teacher who, let's just say, goes so above and

747
00:39:53,119 --> 00:39:54,719
beyond for these kids.

748
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:55,159
Speaker 1: Yes.

749
00:39:56,519 --> 00:39:59,079
Speaker 2: Now, I know that most people think I hate teachers,

750
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:05,280
you know, but there's but I actually love so many

751
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:06,679
teachers at my kids' school.

752
00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:09,920
Speaker 1: There's always that one teacher you remember at the end

753
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:12,840
of the year. Yeah, it goes above and beyond. Yeah,

754
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:13,800
and you want to do someone.

755
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:16,880
Speaker 2: I have several of them this year, several teachers that

756
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:22,440
have been so instrumental in my kids' lives. By far,

757
00:40:23,119 --> 00:40:28,199
these teachers do so much more than I mean, not

758
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:30,760
just than some other teachers. But there are certain teachers

759
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:34,199
that run certain programs and they don't get compensated well

760
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:37,519
at all, and they work so many extra hours. They

761
00:40:37,559 --> 00:40:40,719
make themselves available to the kids, They travel with the

762
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:44,760
kids for things, and I know for a fact what

763
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:47,159
they get compensated for that, and it is not what

764
00:40:47,199 --> 00:40:47,679
you would think.

765
00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:48,800
Speaker 1: It's not much.

766
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:52,320
Speaker 2: They're doing it because they whatever love kids. And guess what,

767
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:55,960
we keep losing teachers for that reason because it's not appreciated.

768
00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:56,559
Speaker 1: Yeah.

769
00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:59,760
Speaker 2: And then I tried to get like parents to chip in,

770
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:03,039
and there are the certain parents, a couple of parents

771
00:41:03,039 --> 00:41:05,320
who are like the first ones every time you do it,

772
00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:08,280
they're like, let me venmo you. And then there's others

773
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:10,679
they're just like don't care. They don't even write back

774
00:41:10,679 --> 00:41:13,440
and say like, hey, I can't contribute, but thanks for

775
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:17,039
doing it. Just nothing. And then I had this one

776
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:21,519
who responded to everyone like I'm going to give you

777
00:41:21,519 --> 00:41:24,320
one hundred dollars. I'm sending it with my kid or whatever.

778
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:27,920
She didn't want to venmo me, but she wanted everyone

779
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:30,320
to know that she was bringing in a lot of money.

780
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:33,679
And I wrote back and I was like, that's fantastic, great,

781
00:41:34,159 --> 00:41:38,079
And then I was being super transparent, like every time

782
00:41:38,119 --> 00:41:40,440
someone I sent an accounting of what I took in.

783
00:41:40,519 --> 00:41:42,280
Then I took a picture of the cash and the

784
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:45,679
card that I had made. So then it got but

785
00:41:45,679 --> 00:41:49,239
then it got canceled. I had sent like a warning, Hey,

786
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:52,199
the thing is tonight if you want if you want

787
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:55,039
to contribute, you have to venmo me, like now that

788
00:41:55,079 --> 00:41:56,559
I can go to the bank and get the cash

789
00:41:56,599 --> 00:41:58,480
and then put it in the card. So this lady

790
00:41:58,559 --> 00:42:01,000
was like, I'm sending the money with my kid. So

791
00:42:01,039 --> 00:42:02,920
then I wrote to everybody. I was like, hey, so

792
00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:08,039
it got canceled, So I'm going to send Xander with

793
00:42:08,159 --> 00:42:09,559
the card with our cashion it.

794
00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:10,079
Speaker 1: Yeah.

795
00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:14,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I was very petty and I wrote just

796
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:17,480
the names of the people who contributed, ah, because I

797
00:42:17,559 --> 00:42:19,639
was like, fuck it. If you can't even take the

798
00:42:19,679 --> 00:42:21,840
time to write me back and say thank you for

799
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:24,880
doing it, you don't get she doesn't this teacher doesn't

800
00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:26,760
get to think that like you had anything to do

801
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:30,800
with it, right. I put the parents that contributed, not

802
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:33,440
the amount, but I just put the parents that contributed.

803
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:38,000
And then then this lady starts emailing me. She's like,

804
00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:43,760
excuse me, like my daughter, like whatever, she had the

805
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:47,480
money yesterday, but what was she supposed to do with it?

806
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:50,559
And then she goes and then today this was like

807
00:42:50,599 --> 00:42:52,840
the next day, she goes today she didn't even bring

808
00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:55,360
it with her, So what's the plan? What are we doing?

809
00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:58,679
And I was like, well, maybe you didn't see my

810
00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:02,119
previous like three e about it, right, I said, well,

811
00:43:03,159 --> 00:43:06,360
and that was really nice about it, but I was annoyed. Yeah,

812
00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:09,920
but I was like, hey, uh, I'm so sorry. Maybe

813
00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:13,280
you didn't see any of my previous emails, but I

814
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:16,400
clearly said I was putting the cash in a card

815
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:19,840
and giving it to the teacher. Right, so it's up

816
00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:22,000
to you. Yeah, you're on your own.

817
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:22,719
Speaker 1: Yes.

818
00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:25,599
Speaker 2: I think it's so nice that you're doing this. I go,

819
00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:28,599
I would suggest like make getting a separate card and get.

820
00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:32,599
Speaker 1: Me ski you do it? Yeah, what the fuck? Like

821
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:35,119
this is the thing, like why am I in charge?

822
00:43:35,159 --> 00:43:38,360
Speaker 2: And then I have another one and it's again same

823
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:42,679
thing for the for the music teacher. I understand. Listen,

824
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:46,000
the economy sucks right now. Yeah, people are struggling. I

825
00:43:46,079 --> 00:43:48,760
get it, but just like, yeah, get back to you

826
00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:51,599
or see like five dollars or ten dollars. This guy

827
00:43:51,679 --> 00:43:55,079
works so hard. He does so many shows, he works

828
00:43:55,119 --> 00:43:57,039
so many hours of overtime for nothing.

829
00:43:57,320 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, that's nice that you're doing that for them.

830
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:02,320
Speaker 2: I know it's optional and you don't have to, I know,

831
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:05,840
but it's nice that you're recognizing these teachers.

832
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 1: That's great, that's sweet. You know, they made an impact

833
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:10,000
on your kids's lives.

834
00:44:10,159 --> 00:44:14,679
Speaker 2: Right, But it is always twenty percent of the parents

835
00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:16,679
do eighty percent of the work, right, and the rest

836
00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:19,599
of them are just like my name is Paula Tom y'all,

837
00:44:20,199 --> 00:44:22,800
I don't care, right, and I'm kind of glad for

838
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:23,440
it to be done.

839
00:44:23,679 --> 00:44:26,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my god, you know more, no more angry

840
00:44:26,599 --> 00:44:32,840
emails to any teachers anymore, at least for now. I know.

841
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:34,960
Speaker 2: It's it's gonna be interesting.

842
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:44,159
Speaker 1: It's a big transition testing interesting per se, interesting per se.

843
00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:47,440
It's gonna be weird that I don't have like that.

844
00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:49,840
Speaker 2: I'm not like over involved in my children's lives.

845
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:54,079
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it'll be a different it'll be different whole

846
00:44:54,119 --> 00:44:56,840
new ball game. After that, it will be the good

847
00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:58,719
stuff it is. It's always good.

848
00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:02,199
Speaker 2: I mean, look, I haven't obviously, I well, I've only

849
00:45:02,199 --> 00:45:07,119
written a few strongly worded emails to Elbe's UCLA professors. Right,

850
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:12,079
can you imagine? Yeah, this teacher that has like this

851
00:45:12,199 --> 00:45:14,119
professor that has four hundred students.

852
00:45:14,119 --> 00:45:16,559
Speaker 1: I'm like, my name is Stephanie. I'm the parent of

853
00:45:16,599 --> 00:45:18,320
Elbie Tailor. You need to know.

854
00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:22,360
Speaker 2: She's been working really hard, but she's very tired and

855
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:23,639
cannot finish this project.

856
00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:23,880
Speaker 1: Right.

857
00:45:24,639 --> 00:45:28,559
Speaker 2: No, Like, I feel like my relationship with Elbe College

858
00:45:28,639 --> 00:45:30,639
alb is just it's just different.

859
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:35,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, listen, we survive the toddler years. We do better

860
00:45:35,239 --> 00:45:37,880
with older kids, and the older they get, the better

861
00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:40,679
they get. Yes for us, Yeah, and that's okay.

862
00:45:41,079 --> 00:45:44,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, Now I can parent Walls doom scrolling on my

863
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:47,360
phone right and like only have to pay half attention

864
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:49,800
because I'm not making sure she doesn't like, you know,

865
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:52,480
kill herself on the kitchen.

866
00:45:52,639 --> 00:45:54,159
Speaker 1: On supervised making a bagel.

867
00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, Well who's making a bagel? I was making

868
00:45:57,480 --> 00:45:58,079
all the bagels.

869
00:45:58,119 --> 00:46:01,280
Speaker 1: Now I'm making wreckfast for an Italia every morning. Can

870
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:05,000
you make me the tomato and eggs? Oh my god.

871
00:46:05,039 --> 00:46:08,360
Speaker 2: I was on the phone with my friend Cecily, not

872
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:12,559
Cecily podcast partner, my other friend Cecily and her daughter

873
00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:16,519
comes in. Her daughter's Elbie's age twenty one, comes into

874
00:46:16,559 --> 00:46:18,679
the room and she's like, Mom, when are you going

875
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:19,360
to make dinner?

876
00:46:22,159 --> 00:46:23,679
Speaker 1: I was like, are you kidding me?

877
00:46:24,079 --> 00:46:26,320
Speaker 2: I go she's home. She just got home for the summer.

878
00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:28,239
Is that going to be your summer mom?

879
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:30,119
Speaker 1: I want dinner. I'm hungry now, and.

880
00:46:30,119 --> 00:46:34,480
Speaker 2: Yes, Cecily goes, well, no, she oftentimes helps. She was like,

881
00:46:34,519 --> 00:46:36,400
it's just that I promised I was going to make

882
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:38,679
something special. That's such as now she's hungry.

883
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:41,440
Speaker 1: I have the same exact thing with Italian. Most of

884
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:44,119
the time she makes her own stuff, but she loves

885
00:46:44,159 --> 00:46:45,800
my tomato and eggs for breakfast.

886
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:48,199
Speaker 2: Is that this it's Wendy.

887
00:46:49,039 --> 00:46:51,280
Speaker 1: It's like a yeah. It's like you just chop up

888
00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:53,280
rama tomatoes and then you put a lot of salt

889
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:55,719
and olive oil and butter and let them simmer, and

890
00:46:55,760 --> 00:46:58,719
then you crack the egg over the tomatoes and you

891
00:46:58,800 --> 00:47:01,000
kind of cover it a little bit gets cooked, but

892
00:47:01,039 --> 00:47:03,039
you want the eggs runny. It's the trick.

893
00:47:03,679 --> 00:47:06,239
Speaker 2: And then now we got it's like a soft boiled egg.

894
00:47:06,519 --> 00:47:08,840
Speaker 1: It's kind of soft boil or a soft sunny side up.

895
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:11,639
He eats sunny side up. It doesn't really get crispy

896
00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:15,000
around the edges, but it's like cooked, but it's the

897
00:47:15,119 --> 00:47:16,440
yolk is still yoky.

898
00:47:16,639 --> 00:47:19,480
Speaker 2: Can Okay? So it's not scrambled. No, No, it's not scrambled.

899
00:47:19,519 --> 00:47:21,599
Speaker 1: No. And you get the tomatoes and the juice from

900
00:47:21,639 --> 00:47:24,239
the olive and the butter underneath, and then you have

901
00:47:24,320 --> 00:47:27,239
it with Glenn's fresh sour dough bread that his daughter

902
00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:31,039
sent me, and it's chef's kiss. Oh yeah. So she

903
00:47:31,079 --> 00:47:33,000
wakes up craving that everyone, like, are we gonna do

904
00:47:33,039 --> 00:47:35,719
this every more? I'm out of tomatoes. I gotta go

905
00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:36,599
to the grocery store.

906
00:47:36,960 --> 00:47:40,239
Speaker 2: So roma tomatoes? Yeah, how many would you say?

907
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:41,079
Speaker 1: I put it?

908
00:47:41,119 --> 00:47:43,559
Speaker 2: In a little bit old. Do you make several eggs

909
00:47:43,559 --> 00:47:44,639
at once or do you do one? No?

910
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:47,440
Speaker 1: I start with the tomatoes. I cut up like two

911
00:47:47,559 --> 00:47:51,679
or three and cubes. Salt them really good, because the salt.

912
00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:56,039
Speaker 2: In little pieces or like bigger chunks, like mediums, like

913
00:47:56,079 --> 00:47:59,760
the size of a uh lego.

914
00:48:00,199 --> 00:48:03,159
Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay, so good. Yeah, it just doesn't

915
00:48:03,159 --> 00:48:05,280
really matter. Just like you chop them up, you salt

916
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:07,679
them really good. Put the butter and the olive oil

917
00:48:07,679 --> 00:48:09,599
in the pan. You let them simmer for a while.

918
00:48:09,679 --> 00:48:12,280
When you see that the juice is like clear, and

919
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:15,559
it's time to crack the egg over on top of

920
00:48:15,599 --> 00:48:18,400
the tomatoes. And then you let it cook for a while,

921
00:48:18,599 --> 00:48:19,960
and then you can cover it for a little bit

922
00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:24,079
so it gets more cooked the white. And then that's

923
00:48:24,119 --> 00:48:26,440
it and you serve it and you dip your toast

924
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:26,679
in it.

925
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:28,119
Speaker 2: Oh that sounds really good.

926
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:29,039
Speaker 1: It's really good.

927
00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:30,800
Speaker 2: I might need to make that for my kids.

928
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:31,840
Speaker 1: You'll love it, it's yeah.

929
00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:32,880
Speaker 2: Can I make it for dinner?

930
00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:35,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a good, good feast. I've made it for

931
00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:39,599
her for lunches. Yeah, she loves it. She's waiting for

932
00:48:39,599 --> 00:48:42,559
me to bring home tomatoes. Oh really, Yeah.

933
00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:45,000
Speaker 2: That's so funny. I go to Trader Joe's so much.

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I know, me too, but the prices, man, I can't

935
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I go to Trader Joe's. I never spend less than

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one hundred bucks.

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Speaker 1: I know, isn't that crazy? Yeah? I go to Rause too.

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I go to there across the street from each other.

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Yeah for long, I know, I know.

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Speaker 2: Okay, why wish you luck?

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Speaker 1: Thank God?

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, let's say a shout out to our friends,

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you know what, let me do the business. We have

944
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our friend Leilani Armstrong, speaking of like buying a house.

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If you're in Sacramento or East Bay area, you can

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reach out to Leilani Armstrong at five three zero four

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hundred three three three four.

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Speaker 1: She's a real.

949
00:49:24,079 --> 00:49:27,199
Speaker 2: Estate whether you're a first time buyer or upgrading to

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your dream home. Her DRE number is zero two two

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00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:37,159
five four zero four zero. Also Jacob acl Yes, oh

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00:49:37,199 --> 00:49:40,039
my gosh, his son just had a birthday. We both

953
00:49:40,079 --> 00:49:45,320
comment know Lex he's so cute, so cute, Oh my god.

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00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:49,199
Gratulations Jacob, good looking kid. He's come a long way, yeah,

955
00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:53,760
through some stuff. Yes, Jacob's been a great dad. Very yeah,

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so happy to give money the ACLU. Christine Black is

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00:49:57,639 --> 00:50:01,119
with Waves and Wonder travel you've heard about through the years.

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00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:05,599
Her instagram is Travel with Christine b. Also, if you're

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on the island of Kawhi and that's in Hawaii, go

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to Sugar Skull. That's our friend Maren's place and they

961
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do cakes and desserts and gifts and their instagram is

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at Sugar Skull eighth eight. And then Becky Becky Barris

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is Becky just Basic Becky dot com. She's got shirts, mugs,

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all kinds of funny stuff, really great and gilty, and

965
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she'll give you fifteen percent off if you tell her

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you're with us. And then Adam's got a car.

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Speaker 1: Adam's got a car.

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Speaker 2: No, you get it.

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00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:41,760
Speaker 1: We get cars. You get a car from Adam call

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00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:43,000
him yeah. Oh.

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Speaker 2: And then our people Dick Folloley Yeah, and Nikki call

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your girl. And Elizabeth Williamson's got one hundred children, hard

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to believe, to believe, Rita rocks them all in our bossier. Holly,

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we love your pancakes. Valerie hits it out of the park.

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Katerina and Gabby, Oh, Katerina, we look check that molar girl.

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I love your molar.

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Speaker 1: We love your molar, Missy and Gabby. We love your

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00:51:05,639 --> 00:51:17,840
flip flop, your ask Yeah, Rebecca Root, Kelly Brandt, Che'ez

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your aunt, She'll gass it up.

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Speaker 2: Yep.

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Speaker 1: Alicia's golante from the city of Mona Clarita, Leslie, stop

982
00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:25,840
stop it.

983
00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:29,639
Speaker 2: Aaron's a dirty Sanchez, Sandra not easy being green, Christa

984
00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:31,880
get strapped, and Katie's.

985
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Speaker 1: Rolling on albody.

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Speaker 2: All right, We love you guys.

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Speaker 1: You're a parent now, don't f it up that