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Speaker 2: The Great Love Debate. It's a Great Love Debate, The
Speaker 2: Great Love Debate.
Speaker 1: It's a Great Love Debate.
Speaker 3: Hi Enner Munch, Brian Howie, Welcome to Great Love Debate,
Speaker 3: the world's number one dating and relationship podcast. Its twenty fifteen.
Speaker 3: I'm here in the very fine studios of Pod Popular
Speaker 3: Podcasts for the People. I am at the one in
Speaker 3: bolk Raton, Florida. I'm in a in a studio within
Speaker 3: the studio called the Pop Pod. And the thing about
Speaker 3: this studio is it has three very very fancy cameras.
Speaker 2: I don't use. You got a lot of guys right like,
Speaker 2: why is there no.
Speaker 3: Video on this podcast? It's twenty twenty five, blah blah blah. Well,
Speaker 3: I have been recording for a long long time. This
Speaker 3: is episode four ninety nine, so we're almost there, and
Speaker 3: you guys are gonna like the five hundredth episode. By
Speaker 3: the way, when I started podcasting back in the day,
Speaker 3: the way that you could get people to appear on
Speaker 3: your podcast, especially women, especially famous women that I had
Speaker 3: a lot of back in my Beverly Hills podcast studio days,
Speaker 3: was they would be like, no cameras right, No cameras right, Like,
Speaker 3: that was a really big thing and I kind of
Speaker 3: got used to it.
Speaker 2: I like sort of the theater of the mind. I
Speaker 2: like all of that kind of stuff.
Speaker 3: Now it's swung the other way that most of our
Speaker 3: guests want cameras and people want video and whatever. And
Speaker 3: it's kind of unfortunate because a lot of women have
Speaker 3: been scared out of the podcast game because they don't
Speaker 3: want to play that game.
Speaker 2: They don't want to be do hair and makeup, and
Speaker 2: they don't want to have to look good and so
Speaker 2: two sides of the coin.
Speaker 3: So the reason I'm bringing this up is probably because
Speaker 3: there's some fancy neck new technology that's gonna like me
Speaker 3: really well.
Speaker 2: I'm still very cute, but maybe I'm not as cute
Speaker 2: as four hundred and nine nine episodes ago. Good lighting
Speaker 2: will help that.
Speaker 3: So there's gonna be some video element coming soon, at
Speaker 3: least for the socials. You're never gonna be able to
Speaker 3: watch the whole thing on YouTube, so sorry, you have
Speaker 3: to hit Spotify or Apple. Second thing somebody mentioned the
Speaker 3: other day, They said that you always describe every single
Speaker 3: female guest that you have on your podcast as lovely
Speaker 3: and they go, that's such an interesting why do you
Speaker 3: use that word. There's a reason why I use that word.
Speaker 3: I used to watch Letterman all the time, like my
Speaker 3: generation did. Letterman was like a god to us, and
Speaker 3: I noticed that every woman guest that he had on,
Speaker 3: he'd be like ladies and gentlemen, the lovely Julie Roberts,
Speaker 3: the lovely Sandra Bullock. And I thought it was such
Speaker 3: a complimentary but disarming adjective to describe. Who wouldn't want
Speaker 3: to be called lovely? I think there's personality and who'd
Speaker 3: use it every single time? And I always like the
Speaker 3: sound of it, so I always use it. You don't
Speaker 3: want to say, you know, the smoking hot you know,
Speaker 3: Drew Barrymore's here, like, you don't want to say that.
Speaker 3: The reason I'm bringing this up is because we have
Speaker 3: lost the ability to compliment, especially the women these days.
Speaker 2: I think it is sad. I think it is unfortunate.
Speaker 3: I think that we have to get out of thesaurus
Speaker 3: and find other words for lovely that are disarming. So
Speaker 3: I brought a couple of lovely chicks in here, and
Speaker 3: now they're going to be like, oh my god, he
Speaker 3: says that to everyone so now any guests gonna be any?
Speaker 2: Says to everyone.
Speaker 3: They both look like they're auditioning for the Wednesday Adams
Speaker 3: Hair Club. They're very jet black hair. They've been on
Speaker 3: this before, maybe once or twice each. It's sad that
Speaker 3: I don't know, but I don't think they don't know.
Speaker 3: I dragged back Julie and Jeanine. Jannine, how many times
Speaker 3: have you been on this podcast?
Speaker 1: This is episode number two for me.
Speaker 2: Oh so you've only been here once?
Speaker 4: Yeah, Julie, I believe there was one with just me
Speaker 4: and another one with me and someone else. But let
Speaker 4: me just say, I want to be introduced as smoking hot.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: Oh you do.
Speaker 3: Well, that's why you need to put that in your
Speaker 3: bio or something. And that's a really good point. I've
Speaker 3: said this on the podcast before. I stand by this
Speaker 3: one of I think the Again, if this offends you,
Speaker 3: this is probably not the podcast for you. Unfortunate trends
Speaker 3: in recent society is that people put their preferred pronouns
Speaker 3: in their work signature line.
Speaker 2: Fine, if that's what you want to be called. Fine.
Speaker 3: I think we are better off societally, especially romantically, if
Speaker 3: you put your preferred compliments in your signature life. If
Speaker 3: you put in there like pretty, beautiful, cute underneath your
Speaker 3: name in there, I will know more about how.
Speaker 2: To deal with you than I will. Do you do
Speaker 2: if it's she her or them or them?
Speaker 3: I can't If you tell me she her, all I
Speaker 3: know is you're probably a worm, well probably, But if
Speaker 3: you put in like cute, sexy, vivacious, I know more
Speaker 3: about you, and I know more how to deal with you,
Speaker 3: and we're all better off with that.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm going to update my LinkedIn profile right now.
Speaker 3: Put it on there because if people say, oh, you
Speaker 3: can tell everybody because I bring this up at my
Speaker 3: live shows. Yet every woman wants to be told she's pretty. No,
Speaker 3: they do not. Not only do some not want to
Speaker 3: be looked at physically, the ones who do don't like
Speaker 3: pretty because they think it's boring.
Speaker 1: They're like pret people identify as they No, I think a.
Speaker 3: Lot of women like pretty is lunch with your mother.
Speaker 3: Pretty is not sexy, Pretty is not They don't necessarily
Speaker 3: want that. Does that make sense? If somebody want you
Speaker 3: want to be called beautiful, pretty or.
Speaker 1: Hot, I don't care as long as you call me, oh.
Speaker 3: That makes it hard for the guy I mean, right,
Speaker 3: but he doesn't know that either. Love I mean the
Speaker 3: only one that i've I've sort of has unanimous approval
Speaker 3: across the board. I've never never met a woman who
Speaker 3: doesn't want to be called a stone cold fox.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, everybody wants to be a fucking guy.
Speaker 4: Lovely is like a ninety eight year old grandmother, which
Speaker 4: is exactly.
Speaker 2: It's complimentary, but it's not sexual.
Speaker 1: Correct.
Speaker 3: If somebody goes, here's my girlfriend, Julie, she's lovely, probably
Speaker 3: wouldn't like it.
Speaker 1: Probably not going to sleep with them that night.
Speaker 3: Correct, right, So it's a non sexual compliment, more about
Speaker 3: their like presence and their personality. You can't go into
Speaker 3: a workplace anymore in America and your colleague be like,
Speaker 3: oh my god, your hair, you look amazing. You can't
Speaker 3: even say amazing to somebody at your colleague.
Speaker 2: That's an hr violation.
Speaker 1: That's try for men, that is very true.
Speaker 2: So they say nothing.
Speaker 3: And most of what we're used to to talking about,
Speaker 3: at least early on, is we just want to flatter
Speaker 3: you and compliment you until you're smoking fucking hot.
Speaker 1: Think I'll be working for you, because otherwise it'd be.
Speaker 2: Drinking at eleven o'clock in the mouth.
Speaker 1: They are drinking, drinking.
Speaker 2: And ye.
Speaker 3: Right, you know, I think you should go to be
Speaker 3: able to you know, the only ones who really mind
Speaker 3: are the hot ones.
Speaker 1: Generally, because they're most insecure.
Speaker 3: No kidding, and they're like, I know I'm hot, tell
Speaker 3: me I'm smart, tell me I'm funny.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 3: Krista Allen. Yeah, google Christa Allen. When I first met
Speaker 3: Krista Allen was probably twenty years ago. She was dating
Speaker 3: George Clooney. She might have been. She was as as
Speaker 3: as they say about Tiger Woods. She was playing in
Speaker 3: a game that we are not familiar with. That like,
Speaker 3: I'd never seen anybody's who looked like that in real life.
Speaker 1: I need to.
Speaker 2: Google her, okay, and uh and probably do her.
Speaker 3: But I said to her, I asked her, I go,
Speaker 3: are you able to be complimented like or is it
Speaker 3: just like no shit? Because even if she didn't think
Speaker 3: she's hot, she's hears it every single day of her
Speaker 3: life for our ex single person and she goes, I
Speaker 3: like something specific, your hair, your smile, your clothes, something
Speaker 3: that shows a little bit more than I hits. Yeah,
Speaker 3: maybe that's a good point though, Yeah, she brought up.
Speaker 2: She goes, I need to see you looking at me
Speaker 2: then more than.
Speaker 3: A painting, more than a picture, more than I wanted
Speaker 3: to be the three D in a two D. And
Speaker 3: I always kind of remembered that if you tell me
Speaker 3: about oh my god, you look radiant or luminous, I said,
Speaker 3: get off thesaurus, it's gonna go a long time than
Speaker 3: oh my god, you're fucking hot.
Speaker 1: It's a really good.
Speaker 4: But I do think beautiful when said in the right setting,
Speaker 4: like if we're like about to whatever and you were
Speaker 4: like sitting on the couch and he's like, you are.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't even know who. I don't
Speaker 1: know who I'm talking about.
Speaker 4: But if they're like, you're so beautiful, like if they
Speaker 4: say it sincerely, it's it's it's then you feel it
Speaker 4: in the heart.
Speaker 2: That are related. Beautiful and gorgeous are similar.
Speaker 4: Gorgeous is physical, Yeah, yeah, correct, right, Yeah.
Speaker 3: You rarely anybody not anybody, You rarely hear the word gorgeous.
Speaker 3: That is the highest level of compliment. I think it
Speaker 3: is right.
Speaker 2: You might say somebody beautiful one hundred times in a year. Yeah,
Speaker 2: gorgeous is reserved. For the very best, right.
Speaker 1: I think I've ever been referred to as.
Speaker 3: Gorge maybe not to your face, because people aren't allowed
Speaker 3: to say it to you anymore.
Speaker 1: I want them to say it to me.
Speaker 2: Have you ever said it? You've seen a woman like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, they're gorgeous. Yeah?
Speaker 3: Right, And that is that is a compliment that is
Speaker 3: higher up. I don't think anybody wouldn't want to hear that.
Speaker 3: That is the ultimately, if someone is like, oh my god,
Speaker 3: you look gorgeous. Yeah, women can say that to other women.
Speaker 3: And I think a man could say that, because that's
Speaker 3: kind of word that usually a gay man would say.
Speaker 3: And it's disarming. It's such a high compliment that it's
Speaker 3: not sexual.
Speaker 1: Fabulous I think that's or stunning.
Speaker 3: I say fantastical, and I'm like, oh my god, you
Speaker 3: look fantastic.
Speaker 1: Stunning. You use stunning. I love the words.
Speaker 2: Stunning is a good word.
Speaker 3: That's why, you know, kind of you have to think
Speaker 3: about what you're saying.
Speaker 2: But it sucks that we can't just.
Speaker 3: Spend like like the old fashion, we have nothing to say,
Speaker 3: and we're just going to tell you that we think
Speaker 3: you're so hot. I think that's fine, and the reason
Speaker 3: why those I'm a man and we don't hear it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's an ick. If someone said, oh, you're hot,
Speaker 1: I'd be like, you're not. Goodbye, right.
Speaker 3: But if I asked one hundred women, thirty would like hot,
Speaker 3: thirty would want pretty.
Speaker 2: And that's why it's hard for the guys.
Speaker 3: Unless you put it in your signature line, we don't
Speaker 3: know how to even approach you. Must let's compliment you.
Speaker 3: And if you came out to if I picked you
Speaker 3: up to go out to dinner and he's like, oh
Speaker 3: my god, you look so hot. He's rolling the dice
Speaker 3: that you like that. If he said it to Julie,
Speaker 3: you would like it.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: See, we don't know.
Speaker 1: It depends, though it depends.
Speaker 3: But I also think that so what the different creepy
Speaker 3: to compliment is who's given it.
Speaker 1: That's a good quote, that's a good quote.
Speaker 2: It's truck quote. No but.
Speaker 1: Hot, And he said I look hot, I'd be like, yeah.
Speaker 3: If Tatum sells you're hot, he says hi to me,
Speaker 3: I'll do what everyone.
Speaker 2: But the guy doesn't know how you perceive him.
Speaker 4: But then once the guy says, I think that talks
Speaker 4: to compatibility. Once the guy says it. And if you
Speaker 4: are like, oh god, I'm offended by hot ter, I'm
Speaker 4: offended by stunning room, offended by whatever, that might not
Speaker 4: be the guy for you, and that might not be
Speaker 4: the girl for you if.
Speaker 2: You can't handle that.
Speaker 3: I would want a guy to think I'm hot. I
Speaker 3: just would, and I want him to say it. But
Speaker 3: I'm a guy, and even though I'm still probably in
Speaker 3: the you know, thirty percent good look, and still because
Speaker 3: I have a full head of air, Yeah you really do,
Speaker 3: I don't hear it ten times in a year.
Speaker 2: I might not hear it a hundred times in.
Speaker 3: My life because a man is not as defined necessarily,
Speaker 3: unfortunately by his appearance. You go out with a guy
Speaker 3: and your friend say, what does he do? I go
Speaker 3: out with a girl, And are you still dating that blonde?
Speaker 3: Are you still dating that attorney? It's just the way
Speaker 3: it is. You might qualify it. Oh my god, he's
Speaker 3: dating some doctor and she's smoking hot. Yeah he's he's
Speaker 3: stating a really cute guy and he's a financial analyst.
Speaker 3: Like it's second.
Speaker 1: It's true. However, I'm a total sapio sexual. So for me,
Speaker 1: I love the person I want to be wowed by
Speaker 1: the beauty of the inner, of the inner self.
Speaker 2: And that absolutely not.
Speaker 3: I hear that all the time, Like I'm turned on
Speaker 3: by the mind if the guy's gross the guys I'm.
Speaker 1: Telling you, I if you look at the lineup of
Speaker 1: the men I've dated in my lifetime, You're like, there's
Speaker 1: no fucking stated or they like hot and depends. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So what I'm saying is physically they might just be
Speaker 1: absolutely appalling to you, but mentally they're right.
Speaker 2: Here's the issue.
Speaker 3: You won't know them well enough for them to get
Speaker 3: a chance. So there's a lot of guys that you
Speaker 3: If you're saying looks don't matter, then you're saying every
Speaker 3: guy has a chance with you if they can connect
Speaker 3: with you intellectually. That means you have to give every
Speaker 3: guy a chance to have that, and that might take
Speaker 3: some time.
Speaker 2: So how do you weed that out?
Speaker 1: You know or you don't.
Speaker 3: How do you know somebody's intellectually stimulating to you in
Speaker 3: thirty seconds?
Speaker 1: Haven't you met? Because haven't you met? You've wrote a
Speaker 1: book on how.
Speaker 2: To find love in sixty seconds? That is difference.
Speaker 3: That is about a spark and a moment might not
Speaker 3: be because somebody could be intellectually stimulating. You might not
Speaker 3: find that out to the third date because they're nervous.
Speaker 3: You might not know that right away. I'm saying, if
Speaker 3: you're saying that matters to you the most, if you've
Speaker 3: got to that's not sabio sexual, sabiosexual or sapio sexual Tomato.
Speaker 3: Tomato is about I am turned on by their intelligence,
Speaker 3: by their intellect.
Speaker 1: Find that out in the first date with someone. If
Speaker 1: you're turned on by their intelligo.
Speaker 3: Because I think they're nerving, nervous and they're sucking down
Speaker 3: artichoke dip like I don't know.
Speaker 2: If you can, but.
Speaker 4: I agree like for me, like honestly, like four places
Speaker 4: sometimes is a deep conversation round I'm like, oh my god, Yeah, the.
Speaker 3: Smartest person I know, the smartest girl I know. She
Speaker 3: is a big boob California blonde. And I had no
Speaker 3: idea she was smart because she.
Speaker 1: Was a big boobyed Calibornia blonde.
Speaker 3: So that was enough. She can go a long way
Speaker 3: with that. And the fact that she was is that
Speaker 3: offensive to you?
Speaker 2: If somebody's like, you're a big boobyed California.
Speaker 1: It's a fact.
Speaker 2: Yes, California is descriptive.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: None of those can be denied if it's someone right now.
Speaker 1: I mean you introduced this as Alvira and Wednsday Adams
Speaker 1: say Elvira.
Speaker 4: You brought up elvira, You said thea orticia whatever, that's descriptive.
Speaker 2: It's a hair collor true different.
Speaker 1: Well, no, we could be like Latina and be spicy
Speaker 1: in tan.
Speaker 2: But I know you're Jewish and Italian.
Speaker 1: So we are both fair skinned and dark haired.
Speaker 3: And drinking at eleven o'clock in the morning. I'm here
Speaker 3: with Jeanie and Julie. We're trying to figure out what
Speaker 3: we can say to compliment each other.
Speaker 2: Uh.
Speaker 3: I gotta take a quick break because we have to
Speaker 3: pay for wine at eleven o'clock in the morning and
Speaker 3: we will be back right after this. And we are
Speaker 3: back when you compliment, And so I brought up the
Speaker 3: guy thing.
Speaker 2: You know that you don't compliment men. You might say
Speaker 2: you look.
Speaker 3: Great, but you're not going to be like I think
Speaker 3: you're like, you don't say.
Speaker 4: Oh, except sometimes they want it, like not to we
Speaker 4: always want it get in bed, They're like, tell me
Speaker 4: this is that?
Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh, well what about before you get there?
Speaker 3: Like you You might go a year without telling a guy,
Speaker 3: a man, to his face, that you find him attractive.
Speaker 1: Do you know why I don't. Who does that?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Nobody? That's my point.
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't Why wouldn't you tell the person you're No,
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about the person in your relationship with.
Speaker 3: I'm talking a random like I might meet some of
Speaker 3: the office and say, like, you know, you're beautiful, you're amazing.
Speaker 3: Somebody might come in this podcast studio, Oh my god,
Speaker 3: you tell men that.
Speaker 2: What do you say? What is the adjective you use?
Speaker 1: Your beautiful soul?
Speaker 2: That is?
Speaker 3: I would be so insulted at that. That would be
Speaker 3: like saying you have a great personality.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're saying they're nice.
Speaker 2: I don't want to hear that.
Speaker 3: Give me a physic You ever give a physical compliment
Speaker 3: to a man?
Speaker 1: No, because I'm in a relationship and it's completely That
Speaker 1: is different appropriate to do that, is it? What?
Speaker 2: Why?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Hey, I just think you're super handsome. You can't say
Speaker 2: that to somebody.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, But.
Speaker 3: I could tell a woman, I think relationship or not,
Speaker 3: I could be like, you, you look fantastic, you look amazing.
Speaker 2: I think you can without hitting on her like.
Speaker 1: That doesn't nessary if you're not in a relationship, But
Speaker 1: if you're in a relationship with someone and you say
Speaker 1: that to another woman, your woman is going to feel complete.
Speaker 3: I think it depends on the woman's secure though, because
Speaker 3: that woman that I'm in a relationship with, she's going
Speaker 3: to hear it every day of her life.
Speaker 2: And so if you're letting her know that, you're a problem.
Speaker 1: If you tell a woman every day of her life
Speaker 1: and then you sell another woman, you're not telling you
Speaker 1: that one is going to cheapen.
Speaker 3: The I think it's got to be a different compliment.
Speaker 3: Just like now anyone who comes on here is going
Speaker 3: to hear the love lady.
Speaker 2: I mean, now you're just I ruined it. I want
Speaker 2: to know. I like the word like oh, that means
Speaker 2: you think of a good personality.
Speaker 4: But I also think I don't necessarily compliment men, at
Speaker 4: least not early on, because I don't want to inflate
Speaker 4: theor ego. I don't want them to leave me for
Speaker 4: someone hotter because I just now said, God, you're so hot,
Speaker 4: are you have this or that?
Speaker 1: Whatever? Like I've clearly insecurity issue.
Speaker 2: There's a lot of women. The thing they do not
Speaker 2: want to hear. They do not want to hear cute.
Speaker 2: They don't like cute.
Speaker 1: I was cute when I was fifty pounds heavier. Then
Speaker 1: I was cute and bubbly, and h is cute.
Speaker 3: Is cute is more personality driven. Cute is almost a
Speaker 3: consolation prize. Yeah, there's an old casting.
Speaker 1: My vagina would totally dry up if you called me cute.
Speaker 1: It would just be done.
Speaker 2: There's an old a casting director. One time.
Speaker 3: She used to say she was looking for a blue lobster.
Speaker 3: You know what a blue lobster. There's one out of
Speaker 3: every million.
Speaker 1: But I know what a blue waffle is, and you
Speaker 1: do not want to look that up right now.
Speaker 3: While here, okay, there's a blue lobster. So one out
Speaker 3: of every million lobsters is born blue. It's like a
Speaker 3: genetic freak lobster. In the in Hollywood, in the casting world,
Speaker 3: a blue lobstre meant that, depending on either what she
Speaker 3: was going for or depending on perceiving she could be
Speaker 3: looked at, is cute, pretty, or hot, And almost no
Speaker 3: woman is all three. They're usually two out of three.
Speaker 3: The rare one is somebody like Peak Britney. Oh God,
Speaker 3: she's all three, yeah, or.
Speaker 2: Two out of three.
Speaker 3: You know, maybe Jennifer Aniston is all three, but give
Speaker 3: me like Angelina and Joelee, there's no cute and Angelina
Speaker 3: she's hot and she's pretty not cute.
Speaker 1: Right, I'm very turned off by Angelina.
Speaker 2: I get that.
Speaker 3: That's a different conversation, but very rare. And if you're
Speaker 3: one out of three, you're doing pretty good. Two out
Speaker 3: of three is great. But it's such a rare thing
Speaker 3: to find somebody who has all three. Wow, And that's
Speaker 3: not a good personality thing because Britney's a lunatic, so
Speaker 3: we're not judging on it.
Speaker 2: It's just her looks. It's cute, it's pretty. There's not
Speaker 2: that many.
Speaker 1: I don't the thing I cute I agree with.
Speaker 4: I don't mind if I'm like, just had woken up
Speaker 4: and I'm kind of like, you know, BedHead and whatever,
Speaker 4: and if they say, like I look adorable at that moment,
Speaker 4: I don't mind.
Speaker 3: Adorable If adorable is great too. Sweet Taylor Swift cute
Speaker 3: and pretty not hot.
Speaker 2: I don't even not hot. He's a poster in a
Speaker 2: dorm room of Taylor Swift.
Speaker 1: No adorable, No, I adore you.
Speaker 2: That mean that's all different. That is not a compliment.
Speaker 3: That is my physical We're into the physical compliments here.
Speaker 3: So I adore you is a feeling.
Speaker 1: This is about the I'm a sapeo sexual, so that's
Speaker 1: why I like the feeling.
Speaker 2: Brian, How what if he said, I adore you? Are
Speaker 2: you look adorable? Not interested? Do you dry up?
Speaker 1: I mean, it depends on if I'm again, it depends
Speaker 1: on if I'm in a relationship with them or if
Speaker 1: they just see me in the You're.
Speaker 3: Adorable because you hear these things as women a lot.
Speaker 2: As a man, many don't say that to me.
Speaker 1: I never get you're pretty, you're.
Speaker 2: Hot, You're get it from your man.
Speaker 1: I do because I'm in a relationship. But but he
Speaker 1: had to say it before. He says it every day.
Speaker 3: As a man, like I hear I'm smart a lot,
Speaker 3: I hear I'm an asshole a lot.
Speaker 2: I hearny a lot.
Speaker 1: Well, you're kind of an asshole, but I love you.
Speaker 2: I don't hear you're a good looking man like you
Speaker 2: know you're.
Speaker 3: Because I tell myself that. No, I'm aware that, but
Speaker 3: you don't hear it. You're not gonna hear it. You
Speaker 3: can wow somebody a long long time, and you just don't.
Speaker 3: It's just not something that men get. So maybe we
Speaker 3: think because we need the commodity. You know, I say
Speaker 3: I love you a lot quicker because I didn't hear
Speaker 3: I love you very quick in my life there same thing.
Speaker 3: Maybe the men give the compliments because we want to
Speaker 3: get this out in the open and hope we get
Speaker 3: the ball hit back to us.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm sincere. Listen, if you're in love
Speaker 1: with someone, they're going to shower you in their own way,
Speaker 1: not necessarily in the hold on, in their own way,
Speaker 1: their acts of service gives, whatever their love languages, they're
Speaker 1: they're going to do it. But for me, it's words
Speaker 1: of affirmation one hundred percent.
Speaker 3: But a lot of women do what I call fishing
Speaker 3: for insults, which means you'd be like, oh my god,
Speaker 3: you're so hot. No, I'm not usual to see my sister.
Speaker 3: Oh I don't look good today. I just have my
Speaker 3: hair done.
Speaker 1: That that we're we isn't got to turn off like
Speaker 1: that's gross.
Speaker 3: If I were a dude, it would be like, I'm
Speaker 3: not saying it's not I'm saying they do do that,
Speaker 3: and so that's it's going to be like, listen, no
Speaker 3: matter what I say, And you can be in a
Speaker 3: relationship and say that, oh, don't even look at me
Speaker 3: right now, like we yea. It's not always received with
Speaker 3: open arms. Relationship or not workplace or not stranger or not.
Speaker 3: I think that I should be able to go up
Speaker 3: to a woman in Whole Foods and say you have
Speaker 3: the most beautiful smile, not you're the most beautiful woman,
Speaker 3: like something specific, something specific.
Speaker 2: Yeah, your eyes are such a pretty color.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you won't get punched.
Speaker 3: You won't get punched. If I just said you're really hot. Yeah, no,
Speaker 3: it's not going to work out, but I would love
Speaker 3: to hear it. As a man, it can come.
Speaker 1: I will tell you this is a true story.
Speaker 4: And I don't take compliments while and I'm not trying
Speaker 4: to be I was in seven eleven. That's where I
Speaker 4: get my die cookes these days, because they're cheaper than McDonald's.
Speaker 1: Anyway.
Speaker 2: I have a die cooked day. Fact. Yeah nine, me too.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love every day multiple anyway.
Speaker 4: So I'm in seven eleven and this man who like
Speaker 4: not to he looked a little like, oh my god,
Speaker 4: is a homeless man coming up to minory. He was like,
Speaker 4: I just want to tell you, like you you look
Speaker 4: really really like happy and pretty see like comin things.
Speaker 4: I don't know if it's my eyes or whatever. And
Speaker 4: I'm like at first, I'm like, you're so fucking creepy,
Speaker 4: and then I'm like that was that made my day?
Speaker 4: This random man who literally was like you, there's something
Speaker 4: about you and whatever, and he was like more specific
Speaker 4: than that, I'm like, thank you so much.
Speaker 2: And sometimes you just need to hear it. Oh, we
Speaker 2: don't know. You need to hear it. You should wear
Speaker 2: a little stick compliment.
Speaker 3: Yeah, wear a little button complimently the eye voteen Devil's Advocate.
Speaker 1: There are times, even in sixteen years of being in
Speaker 1: a relationship with the same person on and off. That
Speaker 1: was the first podcast one, So there are times when
Speaker 1: I'm like, I need to hear I need to be cuddled,
Speaker 1: I need it, But I have to communicate that I
Speaker 1: need to I need you to shower me with compliments
Speaker 1: right now, because there's.
Speaker 3: Too many times when you don't need it or you're
Speaker 3: not receiving it. So he doesn't know when you need it.
Speaker 1: Correct, But I'm vocal about it. That's called community. Like
Speaker 1: if you're if you're in a I need compliments? What
Speaker 1: in my signature line?
Speaker 2: I like compliments. I like hugs. I'm like you. It's
Speaker 2: always a weird interaction when they're like, are you a hugger?
Speaker 2: It's so weird, like I think you.
Speaker 1: Wasn't it a thing that people were putting their love
Speaker 1: language as in their in their dating profiles, like I
Speaker 1: like of affirmation.
Speaker 3: Well, the problem with that, and I've talked about this
Speaker 3: on the podcast before. Eighty five percent of men have
Speaker 3: the same love language, and it's words of affirmation.
Speaker 2: I don't say physical touch.
Speaker 3: That's what all women think. They're wrong. They need the
Speaker 3: touch because they're not getting the words. If we got
Speaker 3: the words, we wouldn't need as much touch. Touch is
Speaker 3: the words for us. Oh she's touching me, she must
Speaker 3: like me. Almost all men it's words across.
Speaker 1: Like I want to feel like they're appreciated. Thank you, honey, dishes,
Speaker 1: thank you honey for doing the laundry.
Speaker 2: I like it.
Speaker 3: You can you know we take you out, we compliment.
Speaker 3: We know all we get back is thank you for dinner.
Speaker 1: Physical touch men are like men are.
Speaker 3: If we got the words, we would need far less
Speaker 3: physical touch. The touch are the words, the touches. How
Speaker 3: you communicating us? If we can't touch you, it says ick,
Speaker 3: that's a bad word. So the men are wildly insecure
Speaker 3: because we don't we need the words because we don't
Speaker 3: get them. We don't get the compliments. We don't we
Speaker 3: pick you up for a date. Oh my god, you
Speaker 3: look amazing, Oh my god, this blah blah blah. We
Speaker 3: might hear back like cool, what do you do?
Speaker 2: Thanks? Like all that.
Speaker 3: So we need the words. And so the women always think, well,
Speaker 3: the touch is the thing. You can do a lot
Speaker 3: less touch, and if you.
Speaker 2: Gave the words, touching is fun too. I agree with you.
Speaker 2: Women are more likely to say physical touch than men are. See.
Speaker 1: I love giving the physical touch because I know if
Speaker 1: I give that.
Speaker 2: Up, you're gonna get it.
Speaker 1: I get everything.
Speaker 2: I agree with you, you might get it if you
Speaker 2: gave it.
Speaker 1: Got litter yep, absolutely got the try. Absolutely, But if
Speaker 1: you said.
Speaker 2: The words, you might not have to touch.
Speaker 1: But what if you want to touch.
Speaker 2: Again, that's a different thing.
Speaker 3: But the women are like, he needs I have to
Speaker 3: touch him to show him that I like him. Yeah,
Speaker 3: the words are harder. It's easier to touch because it's
Speaker 3: harder to know the words. That's kind of what I'm
Speaker 3: getting at. It's harder to know that I find you
Speaker 3: physically attractive, desirable, or I just think you're good to
Speaker 3: look at.
Speaker 1: You know you're intellectually stimulating. A lot of men are not.
Speaker 1: And it's me, Dick, you Jene cave men mentality where
Speaker 1: it's like, hey, tild down the pants.
Speaker 3: I mean they're not intellectually. I think they've not been
Speaker 3: trained properly by the women. I think the men are
Speaker 3: capable of more. All we know is what the last
Speaker 3: girl like, and we probably found that out too late.
Speaker 3: You need to train us in what you need, like want.
Speaker 3: We have no idea. You're all different snowflakes. The men
Speaker 3: are essentially the same. But if you don't, if we don't,
Speaker 3: if we and a lot of times the challenge for
Speaker 3: the woman is you don't know what makes you happy.
Speaker 3: You know what makes you unhappy because you spend a
Speaker 3: lot more time thinking about it. And so you've expressed
Speaker 3: that I don't like this, I don't want that. Don't
Speaker 3: do that act of.
Speaker 1: Self awareness, and you should go to therapy.
Speaker 3: We all have I get that, but a small percentage
Speaker 3: of people goes to therapy, because therapy is fucking expensive.
Speaker 1: People are willing to put botox in their face for
Speaker 1: four hundred dollars a pop, but they can't go to
Speaker 1: a shrink and their issue.
Speaker 2: I don't do it every week.
Speaker 1: How much of Starbucks? That's a that's a.
Speaker 2: Car payment priority. I agree to you.
Speaker 3: Do you remember getting a physical compliment one time either,
Speaker 3: except for the seven eleven incident, like from a man
Speaker 3: that was like, they said that to me in a
Speaker 3: way that I'd never heard before, and I loved it.
Speaker 3: Is there something specific that you'd heard, like, oh my god,
Speaker 3: I just want to jump your bones right now, Like,
Speaker 3: is there something that you've remembered somebody saying that You're like,
Speaker 3: that's an interesting way to put it. I told a
Speaker 3: woman once that I thought her face was exquisite. Most
Speaker 3: people would like that. She said, what am I fine?
Speaker 2: China? She just shot it down. She didn't like it.
Speaker 2: I put my fasaurus away, like I never said it before.
Speaker 2: Most but some don't. That's my point. We are throwing
Speaker 2: shit at the wall. You know what that means? You
Speaker 2: have no idea.
Speaker 1: She's not cultured and she's intellectually dumb. Because any woman,
Speaker 1: most yeah, any woman in the right mind would be like,
Speaker 1: that is an amazing That is the nicest thing anyone's
Speaker 1: ever said to me.
Speaker 3: Picked the wrong and I never said it again, Picked
Speaker 3: the wrong girl, pick the wrong person to say it
Speaker 3: to people.
Speaker 2: Aren's drop.
Speaker 3: So I will, I will, I will tell her because
Speaker 3: she put it in her book. I think she's been
Speaker 3: on the podcast for it. So Brandy, Brandy Glanville, sheusewives.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she she's on the Great Love Debate too.
Speaker 3: That's why I said, she's done the show a million times.
Speaker 3: She told me, and I think she said in her books.
Speaker 3: I think it's a public story that she went into
Speaker 3: a modeling agency one time and they told her that
Speaker 3: she was a body girl.
Speaker 2: Her face was never get good enough.
Speaker 3: So by any reasonable standard, for most of her life,
Speaker 3: Brandy Glables had a beautiful face. When you talk to her,
Speaker 3: she will cover her face, she will pick it her
Speaker 3: face plastic surgery. I know that's different, and no offense
Speaker 3: to Brandy I'm talking about. You know, most of her
Speaker 3: life her face has been as pretty as anybody. But
Speaker 3: because one person said the wrong thing at the wrong time,
Speaker 3: it changed it forever. A compliment should work the same
Speaker 3: way one person in a moment, when you're feeling a
Speaker 3: certain way, tell you that, my god, you are gorgeous.
Speaker 3: It can change everything. Why can't we say it more?
Speaker 3: It's more like I agree, like let's bring more gorgeous back,
Speaker 3: let's bring more radio.
Speaker 1: But I question the motive are you? Are you saying
Speaker 1: that I'm gorgeous because you want to get in my
Speaker 1: pass a ship?
Speaker 2: Don't question the motive I do. That's the problem.
Speaker 1: It's insincerity.
Speaker 2: Who cares? But what if he's your gorgeous pancial?
Speaker 1: Things are fucking ugly? What if I have some random
Speaker 1: homeless person walk up to you are gorgeous, I'm supposed.
Speaker 2: To do nothing. Thank you? Thank you should be the response.
Speaker 1: Insincere?
Speaker 2: Who gives a shit with their motives? Are lots of
Speaker 2: people say lots of shit? You don't know their motives?
Speaker 2: What is that shirt? I don't know?
Speaker 1: Why should I appreciate that? If you're a random homeless person,
Speaker 1: he's probably on talking tell me that I'm gorgeous.
Speaker 3: If he thinks you're If he's telling you're gorgeous because
Speaker 3: he wants to have sex with you, he probably thinks
Speaker 3: you're gorgeous, or he wouldn't want to have sex with you.
Speaker 1: Or he's high.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, the high.
Speaker 3: Version of him thinks you're gorgeous showered, the unshowered version
Speaker 3: of him like you. Again, you're judging the messenger. Why
Speaker 3: can't we folks on the message somebody in a vacuum.
Speaker 3: Pretend that same person was a podcaster and the voice
Speaker 3: in your head said, I would love to hear this.
Speaker 2: You're taking it. You're like, what is their intent? Why
Speaker 2: are they saying it? This is why we.
Speaker 3: Can't do this anymore. This is why we can't give compliments.
Speaker 3: This is a problem.
Speaker 2: Who gives a shit?
Speaker 3: Why if somebody tells me I'm cute and they just
Speaker 3: because I went through this, I was in Hollywood, I
Speaker 3: was a director. I know people would kiss my ass
Speaker 3: because they wanted to work with me. Still felt good,
Speaker 3: still liked it.
Speaker 1: Of course, it gives you a boot.
Speaker 3: I didn't give a shit if they want if they
Speaker 3: think that, you know, I'm not. You know, I'm sure
Speaker 3: some girl told Harvey Weinstein he was gorgeous at some
Speaker 3: point because they wanted to part was ever no, but
Speaker 3: I'm sure they wanted something out of him.
Speaker 4: I don't care to me, Why why do you think
Speaker 4: the twenty two year old is dating Bill Belichick or
Speaker 4: whatever whoever is that is, and she's beautiful.
Speaker 3: She is because she's probably has some issues. But I
Speaker 3: guarantee you the fact that you know, I would never
Speaker 3: date a twenty two year old because I wouldn't want
Speaker 3: her or her friends to be like ew. Once you
Speaker 3: hear you and George Clooney hears ew like, you don't
Speaker 3: want to hear it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know it's gross to me. I have a
Speaker 1: step so on that's in a story.
Speaker 2: Okay, but that's their thing.
Speaker 3: But he he definitely we know why he's with her.
Speaker 3: I guarantee you he tells her she's pretty.
Speaker 2: And she likes it. And you think they have sex.
Speaker 2: I know they have sex. I'm sure they're also in
Speaker 2: his trust fund and yours.
Speaker 3: You know, I mean if she you know, I know
Speaker 3: a lot of the girls who had sex with Half
Speaker 3: in the later later days, they're like, I bounced on
Speaker 3: it for ten grand a month four times, and a
Speaker 3: lot of women be like, I'd probably do that too.
Speaker 3: We've all done that. My point, my point, I.
Speaker 2: Have not done that.
Speaker 3: The opportunity I would bounce on Half for ten thousand
Speaker 3: a month, but my point, you're like, see you judge,
Speaker 3: So you think that the homeless man compliment has less
Speaker 3: value to you?
Speaker 1: Most of the time they're in psychosis.
Speaker 2: So what we're all in psychosis? You're drinking wine at
Speaker 2: eleven am Like.
Speaker 1: Seriously, I am in We need some more work, okay, seriously?
Speaker 2: Like like, who cares why they say it?
Speaker 3: That's why if somebody tells you you're physically attractive to them,
Speaker 3: I get as a woman, it could come off it's threatening.
Speaker 3: It could and you're trying to be taken seriously in
Speaker 3: a business meeting. I get there's a lot of qualifiers.
Speaker 3: I get that some women would be like I only
Speaker 3: want to be saying this.
Speaker 2: So you're looking at the compliment.
Speaker 1: What if someone randomly walked up to you and said,
Speaker 1: Brian Howard, you're a fucking asshole.
Speaker 2: Oh what, I guess you? I guess my reputation proceeded.
Speaker 1: The point is are you supposed to react or are
Speaker 1: you supposed to go?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 2: I mean no, that's.
Speaker 1: To the positive rather than the negative.
Speaker 3: I didn't say you wouldn't react. I would react to
Speaker 3: the negative. I'd be like, what are you talking about?
Speaker 3: I would react to both.
Speaker 1: But that's but that's what I'm saying. If why do
Speaker 1: I have to react to anything that I don't feel
Speaker 1: as sincere.
Speaker 3: Is my You're guessing the sincerity and that's a dangerous
Speaker 3: game you're.
Speaker 1: I asked him, Oh, jul are you sincere about your compliment?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Why do that? Why do not you say thank you?
Speaker 1: I will tell you.
Speaker 3: And the odds of it being sincere, don't you think
Speaker 3: are much higher than the some people that's I don't know, But.
Speaker 4: Times I do not know if I send that, And
Speaker 4: I think that's part of the problem that, like we
Speaker 4: all have had our shit to like, it becomes a
Speaker 4: problem in the next relationship and whatever. I don't think
Speaker 4: the seven to eleven man was homeless. He might have
Speaker 4: been partially homeless.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 4: It did feel good, though, I will say I told,
Speaker 4: like all my friends at TIM like this was a
Speaker 4: really special moment.
Speaker 3: In a moment when you need it at your worst
Speaker 3: and you want to and you're crying and your hair
Speaker 3: is a mess, and somebody thinks that.
Speaker 2: That's such a pretty smile. It will change your fucking day.
Speaker 1: I mean, if I wake up no makeup, hair a mess,
Speaker 1: and someone's like the.
Speaker 3: Most yeah, time that a woman is at her most radiant,
Speaker 3: which is another good word, is in that sleepy half
Speaker 3: light of the morning, with her face a mess and
Speaker 3: her hair all over the place.
Speaker 2: We love that, do they? Yes?
Speaker 3: You?
Speaker 2: Is her at her best? The makeup on the pillar
Speaker 2: that we love that.
Speaker 1: That's a sincere compliment. Not a homeless guy going.
Speaker 2: Well, he would give you that if he was in
Speaker 2: the bed with you.
Speaker 1: Anything to get a warm meal.
Speaker 3: Again, this is why, this is why society's breaking down.
Speaker 3: But I think that, look, the most beautiful thing I've
Speaker 3: ever seen is that six forty am did alarm go off?
Speaker 3: I agree, but most men think I'm not the only
Speaker 3: man who thinks this way. We love that you can
Speaker 3: look all dolled up for ball and you're going to
Speaker 3: look one kind of beautiful. But this is like you
Speaker 3: as you and that sun kind of coming in and
Speaker 3: we see that at least me again, And I'm no dummy.
Speaker 2: I look at that as the painting r.
Speaker 3: Are you well, I'm just saying that men are not
Speaker 3: encouraged to express that because you're most likely to hear like,
Speaker 3: oh my god, don't look at it, don't look at me.
Speaker 2: I'm ugly. No I'm not.
Speaker 1: You just want to sex with me again, So why
Speaker 1: would you want to date someone of that caliber when
Speaker 1: you're intellectually intelligent?
Speaker 3: Whati what caliber are we talking about? The ability to
Speaker 3: give a compliment should be from any We're all the same.
Speaker 1: But it's insincere if you don't. I would never if
Speaker 1: a man looked gorgeous to me, if he looked dropped
Speaker 1: dead gorgeous, I still wouldn't give him a compliment because
Speaker 1: I don't know who he is on the inside, And
Speaker 1: for me to give someone a compliment for me, I
Speaker 1: have to know who they are on the inside until
Speaker 1: actually right, Like.
Speaker 2: That's fine, Yeah, I mean I hand him out.
Speaker 1: Like I feel it's a sincere if they say it
Speaker 1: to me because they don't know me.
Speaker 3: No, I know, I would rather say it than not.
Speaker 3: I'd rather err on the side. I think what you
Speaker 3: don't want to be is the only one in the
Speaker 3: room not complimented.
Speaker 2: That would suck. Oh my god, you look amazing around
Speaker 2: high that you gotta be careful about that too. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm I'm but.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say it if you didn't mean it, Like
Speaker 1: if you give him all like ticks ex.
Speaker 3: If you find a different compliment of somebody who you
Speaker 3: don't normally find attractive look good in a particular moment
Speaker 3: or day.
Speaker 2: You have to say, oh my god, you look great today.
Speaker 2: Is there anything wrong with that? You look great today? No?
Speaker 1: Well today?
Speaker 2: Right? Okay?
Speaker 1: Great today?
Speaker 4: Is like that means she doesn't look good normally.
Speaker 1: It is mine from That's what I'm That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Who is it coming from the homeless dude or.
Speaker 2: You're a coworker or ship. I don't care.
Speaker 1: I give a ship.
Speaker 3: Well, that happened to me the other day, and you're right,
Speaker 3: I rarely had accomplished and somebody goes, your hair looks good,
Speaker 3: and I go, doesn't it always.
Speaker 2: Like I shot it down. I did the exact same thing.
Speaker 1: That was not the way to respect because it was
Speaker 1: insincere and your o.
Speaker 2: It was sincere.
Speaker 3: I was not prepared to accept it, so I went
Speaker 3: to an insecure place the other The only choices for
Speaker 3: me were to shoot it down or say no.
Speaker 2: Shit, those are my choices.
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't say thank you because I'm an asshole, but
Speaker 3: I would have been like, no fucking shit, I have
Speaker 3: great hair.
Speaker 1: I think you're an asshole. Anymore.
Speaker 2: Okay, right, Okay, we.
Speaker 3: Evolve, but anyway, so we agree though that the highest compliment.
Speaker 2: For a woman is gorgeous and stunning. Stunning is good too.
Speaker 1: There's something that's stunning you.
Speaker 2: Let would you take either one of those from your
Speaker 2: man and be happy?
Speaker 1: Stunning? Beautiful, radiant?
Speaker 2: Beautiful is okay?
Speaker 1: And it's your man loves you?
Speaker 2: Yeah, goddamn Fox, Oh.
Speaker 1: I would never. That's where that's a little range.
Speaker 2: I'd fucking love that, Fox. Fox.
Speaker 1: That's because you were born in the sixties.
Speaker 2: Yes, I was.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, maybe that was an term of endearment back
Speaker 1: in the seventies or something.
Speaker 2: I think it's I think it's timeless.
Speaker 4: Bottom line, like compliments, if they're sincere, I love them.
Speaker 1: Tell me every day that.
Speaker 2: She's a babe. Is that okay? You're such a babe?
Speaker 2: Is that okay?
Speaker 1: I don't know what it mean. Are you twenty two?
Speaker 2: Maybe?
Speaker 3: What if a twenty two is a compliment different from
Speaker 3: a twenty two year old than a sixty two year old?
Speaker 1: I think it does.
Speaker 2: You're not quite on the contract.
Speaker 1: If I'm a If I'm in a relationship and my
Speaker 1: other partner says to me, after you know I want
Speaker 1: you to be my little whore today in the bedroom,
Speaker 1: I'd be like fuck yeah.
Speaker 2: Or is about action not appearance?
Speaker 4: Yeah, but whore in the streets is like very I
Speaker 4: do not call me in the bedroom like yes.
Speaker 3: Like okay, but nobody's gonna walk up and call you
Speaker 3: a whore in the streets. Maybe the homeless guy, maybe
Speaker 3: seven eleve. What do you want a compliment? I said
Speaker 3: this on a podcast recently, that a compliment from a
Speaker 3: from a gay man meant more to me. I said
Speaker 3: that a compliment, Yeah, I said that. So would a
Speaker 3: compliment for your thirty nine? Would a compliment from a
Speaker 3: twenty five year old mean more to.
Speaker 2: You than a fifty five year old? Yes?
Speaker 3: Yeah, matters Sorry, like I still got it boys exactly
Speaker 3: me too? Yes, yeah, me too, Because I think if
Speaker 3: you still a good to twenty six year old, eyes right,
Speaker 3: and you're not looked through that Barbara Walters filter, Like
Speaker 3: it's the same thing.
Speaker 1: Walters was like seventy like really.
Speaker 3: You know secret, she's fucking hot, hot body, Barbara Walters,
Speaker 3: the underrated older woman hots that I've been around.
Speaker 2: Joan Rivers. Yeah, Barbara Walters, Yeah.
Speaker 3: And this is gonna be a weird one to break
Speaker 3: out Princess Grace and she died a long time ago.
Speaker 1: You even knew Princess Grace.
Speaker 2: I used to go to church with Princess Grace and
Speaker 2: Harris and Jewish.
Speaker 1: You are, oh, I.
Speaker 3: Should qualify that I have a Jewish grandmother, So I
Speaker 3: guess that's like being a little and he gets along
Speaker 3: with you.
Speaker 2: I'm very neurotic. I speak the language.
Speaker 1: And when he's in Boca, do you identify with my
Speaker 1: crucifix around my now?
Speaker 2: No, I identify as agnostic, which we all are anyway.
Speaker 1: And that's another podcast, another podcast.
Speaker 3: I've said that before, I pissed people off, and agnostic
Speaker 3: means I'm not sure, that's fine, fair enough.
Speaker 2: I don't like atheists. They're too sure that there's nothing.
Speaker 1: No atheists is like no atheists.
Speaker 2: I know there's nothing.
Speaker 3: We're all agnostics. We just don't like to admit it.
Speaker 3: That's another podcast. That's the only that's the third rail
Speaker 3: around here, the the the really religious people get mad
Speaker 3: when I say that that we're all the same. If
Speaker 3: you laid out, if you didn't know anything about any
Speaker 3: religions and you landed here and you read the Book
Speaker 3: of Mormon, you read the Church of Scientology, and you
Speaker 3: read the Bible.
Speaker 2: They all seem equally insane.
Speaker 1: Probably. I mean, I'm not that religious, so I can't.
Speaker 2: But you're all kind of the same moments, but they're
Speaker 2: all kind of.
Speaker 1: It means like I have comments. So we'll wait last night.
Speaker 3: Tell everybody if you want them to where they can
Speaker 3: find you and tell you're pretty.
Speaker 1: You can find me at Jane and Stella on Instagram
Speaker 1: and Dan tell me tell me I'm pretty, And I
Speaker 1: promise I will.
Speaker 2: You'll take the DM compliment.
Speaker 1: I will promise to to.
Speaker 2: Is it dick pick a compliment?
Speaker 1: It is atrocious?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I will say that's that should be a podcast
Speaker 4: for you because that is something else.
Speaker 2: You think we have done that podcast?
Speaker 4: All right, Julie, I'm everywhere by Julie Lauren. I would
Speaker 4: absolutely appreciate a sincere compliment in my DMS any day
Speaker 4: of the week. I do a podcast Life Unscripted, but
Speaker 4: I haven't done it in a while. It used to
Speaker 4: be hashtag noo filter.
Speaker 2: That's all that sucks. We're back to podcast. I know.
Speaker 1: I know it's been a hot I've been going through shit, all.
Speaker 3: Right, Okay, that's when you should podcast as far as
Speaker 3: us like, share, follow, Please review this podcast after four
Speaker 3: hundred and ninety nine episodes. By the way, yes podcast,
Speaker 3: your reviews still mean a lot on the podcasting ecosystem.
Speaker 2: Is a defensive that you were four ninety hundred.
Speaker 3: Or are you like, oh, I'm close enough to greatness?
Speaker 1: Why why didn't we make the cut for five hundred?
Speaker 2: You'll have to listen?
Speaker 1: That's bullshit.
Speaker 3: Shoot us an email Great Loved Debate at gmail dot com.
Speaker 3: If you want a compliment for me, send us your pictures.
Speaker 2: We'll compliment you.
Speaker 3: Or if you have questions, comments, or you think Fox
Speaker 3: is the greatest compliment ever because as always at the
Speaker 3: Great Love Debate, we never stopped making love.
Speaker 2: See next time the Great Love Debate. It's the Great
Speaker 2: Love Debate, degree
Speaker 1: Love debate, It's agreed love Debate.