WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.400 --> 00:00:02.520 We were just having a discussion. I'm looking at the 2 00:00:02.560 --> 00:00:06.839 building next door, and I'm pondering philosophically. Oh, and I said, 3 00:00:06.960 --> 00:00:11.599 isn't it interesting how your soulmate could be? Like wherever 4 00:00:11.640 --> 00:00:15.000 you work right now, look in the building next door. 5 00:00:15.000 --> 00:00:18.640 Think about the building next door. Your soulmate could work 6 00:00:18.679 --> 00:00:21.719 in that building right there. I mean, you could meet 7 00:00:21.719 --> 00:00:23.800 this person and be like, oh man, they're really they're 8 00:00:23.839 --> 00:00:26.679 really nice. Oh they're attractive, and oh they're funny. Oh 9 00:00:26.760 --> 00:00:29.719 and they like cats or they like you know, cribbage 10 00:00:29.760 --> 00:00:32.520 or hiking or whatever it is. And they could work 11 00:00:32.520 --> 00:00:36.600 in that building right next door. But you might never 12 00:00:36.679 --> 00:00:39.880 meet them. And isn't it interesting how we do meet 13 00:00:39.920 --> 00:00:43.039 somebody and it's usually by total coincidence. Like if you 14 00:00:43.200 --> 00:00:46.320 had not met I don't know, I know, Bradley's not 15 00:00:46.359 --> 00:00:47.799 your soulmate. How did you meet him? Again? 16 00:00:48.200 --> 00:00:49.079 Pitch a friend event? 17 00:00:49.240 --> 00:00:51.039 Okay, so if you had got gone that night, if 18 00:00:51.079 --> 00:00:53.320 you would have had like, you know, a migraine and 19 00:00:53.359 --> 00:00:58.560 you didn't go, yeah, you would have never met him. Like, 20 00:00:58.840 --> 00:01:02.000 I don't know, It's just weird how things like that work. 21 00:01:02.159 --> 00:01:04.959 Well, that's I mean, in that same vein, I feel 22 00:01:05.040 --> 00:01:07.400 like people in general, have more than one soul mat 23 00:01:07.480 --> 00:01:08.280 oh no question? 24 00:01:08.319 --> 00:01:11.200 Yeah? Absolutely yeah, or like you have one and that's no, 25 00:01:11.239 --> 00:01:12.079 you don't. 26 00:01:12.319 --> 00:01:14.359 Okay, there's a bajillion people in the world, like you 27 00:01:14.359 --> 00:01:15.480 could have way more than one. 28 00:01:15.560 --> 00:01:17.480 And I think that the thing is like the idea 29 00:01:17.519 --> 00:01:21.599 that the world would introduce you to the one. How 30 00:01:21.640 --> 00:01:24.319 do I know my soulmate doesn't live in North Korea? 31 00:01:24.519 --> 00:01:24.719 Right? 32 00:01:24.840 --> 00:01:25.400 You know what I mean? 33 00:01:25.480 --> 00:01:26.040 Very possible. 34 00:01:26.159 --> 00:01:28.760 I mean that might be the perfect one where I go. 35 00:01:28.840 --> 00:01:32.840 Wow, I good luck ever meeting them in North. 36 00:01:32.680 --> 00:01:36.599 North Right, So that's why your soulmate is usually somebody 37 00:01:36.599 --> 00:01:40.040 who's moderately convenient to you. I don't know, it's just 38 00:01:40.079 --> 00:01:42.959 really interesting. So look in that building, Okay, I'm looking 39 00:01:43.159 --> 00:01:46.000 think that somebody in that building could be your soulmate. 40 00:01:46.079 --> 00:01:49.040 Hey, talkmates on that show the four seasons? Is that 41 00:01:49.079 --> 00:01:49.640 what it's called, right? 42 00:01:49.719 --> 00:01:50.079 I believe? 43 00:01:50.079 --> 00:01:52.599 So yeah, Steve Farrell, like one of the first episodes, 44 00:01:52.640 --> 00:01:54.599 I'm still only like halfway through the season, but it 45 00:01:54.640 --> 00:01:56.760 was kind of like, come on, do we really believe 46 00:01:56.760 --> 00:01:58.439 in soulmates? So don't you think it's just two people 47 00:01:58.480 --> 00:02:01.120 who like to touch their body parts together? And then 48 00:02:01.159 --> 00:02:05.200 you realize, like other things work out like what it is. Well, 49 00:02:05.280 --> 00:02:07.120 it was kind of how they use it to some 50 00:02:07.200 --> 00:02:09.280 of them. Some of them were like, all for soulmates, 51 00:02:09.280 --> 00:02:11.159 and then the other ones were kind of like, no, 52 00:02:11.319 --> 00:02:12.280 it's not really a thing. 53 00:02:12.479 --> 00:02:15.319 Let us know if you believe in soulmates. I've had 54 00:02:15.360 --> 00:02:19.000 girlfriends where it's like you're my soulmate, you're my soulmate whatever, 55 00:02:19.159 --> 00:02:22.159 or you're the love of my life, which I'll think 56 00:02:22.159 --> 00:02:24.120 I'll use that one a little bit more commonly, like 57 00:02:24.159 --> 00:02:26.759 you're the love of my life, and I think that's 58 00:02:27.159 --> 00:02:30.159 a different description. Soulmate is like it was meant to be, 59 00:02:30.240 --> 00:02:33.560 there's one person whatever. But love of my life is 60 00:02:33.599 --> 00:02:35.800 like I've never loved anybody as much as I loved you, 61 00:02:35.840 --> 00:02:37.680 and I'll never love anybody as much as I love you. 62 00:02:38.639 --> 00:02:41.599 Maybe no, I no, I agree. I feel like the 63 00:02:41.639 --> 00:02:45.159 loves of my life is and we're friends of mine. 64 00:02:45.360 --> 00:02:46.759 Those are my loves of my life. 65 00:02:47.479 --> 00:02:51.599 Okay, that's interesting. Yeah, And what does come first the 66 00:02:51.680 --> 00:02:56.120 desire to touch each other naked? Or does the desire 67 00:02:56.240 --> 00:02:58.240 to touch each other naked kind of come after you 68 00:02:58.319 --> 00:03:01.639 realize what a fun person that they are. Yeah, you know, 69 00:03:01.800 --> 00:03:03.360 sometimes I think one happens. 70 00:03:03.080 --> 00:03:06.840 Sometimes, Yeah, like I definitely have met people where I 71 00:03:06.879 --> 00:03:10.000 thought of them as friends first, then it became more. 72 00:03:10.479 --> 00:03:12.599 But I've also hooked up with people and then I 73 00:03:12.639 --> 00:03:14.439 was like, oh, actually I think I like you. 74 00:03:14.520 --> 00:03:17.560 Yeah. Yeah, And that's the most wonderful thing when you 75 00:03:17.639 --> 00:03:21.639 realize that both of those click, when you realize that, oh, 76 00:03:21.639 --> 00:03:24.319 they're really fun, they're funny, they're smart, they're kind whatever. 77 00:03:24.800 --> 00:03:29.719 But also they fuck like a body. I mean, seriously, 78 00:03:29.719 --> 00:03:32.319 they fucked like a rabbit. And I use that to 79 00:03:32.360 --> 00:03:35.120 shock you back into your your you know, paying attention, 80 00:03:35.400 --> 00:03:36.800 because I'm you know, I just want to make sure 81 00:03:36.800 --> 00:03:39.319 you're there taking So when I say they fucked like 82 00:03:39.319 --> 00:03:40.120 a rabbit. 83 00:03:40.599 --> 00:03:42.360 Why did you make eye contact with me when you 84 00:03:42.360 --> 00:03:42.639 said that? 85 00:03:42.639 --> 00:03:43.520 I know it as weird. 86 00:03:43.599 --> 00:03:46.439 That's why we like do ignore you sometimes because then 87 00:03:46.479 --> 00:03:48.400 you get fucking weird and then you look at us 88 00:03:48.439 --> 00:03:49.719 and we're like what you. 89 00:03:49.599 --> 00:03:52.120 Never ever take never take that the wrong never ever 90 00:03:52.159 --> 00:03:52.960 take that the wrong way. 91 00:03:53.039 --> 00:03:54.400 They don't think of it that way. 92 00:03:54.560 --> 00:03:56.319 Think of me as like, think of me as like 93 00:03:56.360 --> 00:03:59.639 a girlfriend who is like having a like a little 94 00:03:59.639 --> 00:04:02.599 gossip sash with you. So when I say things like that, 95 00:04:02.680 --> 00:04:05.080 I never try to make you uncomfortable. If I wanted 96 00:04:05.080 --> 00:04:08.199 to make you uncomfortable. I'd say something like, okay, yeah, 97 00:04:08.719 --> 00:04:13.400 Jenny just pooped herself, or I don't know something. Okay, 98 00:04:13.439 --> 00:04:13.919 let's move on. 99 00:04:14.000 --> 00:04:14.319 Jenny. 100 00:04:14.840 --> 00:04:16.759 You make me uncomfortable when you start walking to the 101 00:04:16.800 --> 00:04:18.360 side of the studio and I know you have no 102 00:04:18.439 --> 00:04:20.600 purpose other than to try to prank me for something, 103 00:04:20.639 --> 00:04:22.160 and then you get too close and then I look 104 00:04:22.160 --> 00:04:23.839 over and Bailey's recording. 105 00:04:26.279 --> 00:04:29.399 We're overdue. It's been a while, all right, here we go. 106 00:04:29.519 --> 00:04:32.319 Secretary Bree writes in Good Morning Besties, wanted to reach 107 00:04:32.360 --> 00:04:34.560 out on the topic of the dad who is making 108 00:04:34.560 --> 00:04:38.759 the daughter feel bad and making threats about her playing hockey. 109 00:04:38.839 --> 00:04:40.240 Save us, because we're going to talk about this on 110 00:04:40.279 --> 00:04:41.040 the radio tomorrow. 111 00:04:41.480 --> 00:04:46.360 Okay, sure are we? We have not talked to that 112 00:04:46.480 --> 00:04:50.079 person yet, have we. That's tomorrow's group therapy, right, yes, okay, 113 00:04:50.399 --> 00:04:54.079 So we did read it on the Minnesota Goodbye and 114 00:04:54.360 --> 00:04:57.040 she said, I think that's so despicable. He's ruining their 115 00:04:57.079 --> 00:04:59.519 relationship day by day the more he pushes. Both of 116 00:04:59.560 --> 00:05:02.560 my boys play hockey and other sports, and they love it. 117 00:05:02.600 --> 00:05:04.439 But my husband and I have always said the second 118 00:05:04.480 --> 00:05:07.279 they start not loving it or not wanting to go. 119 00:05:08.000 --> 00:05:11.439 We're stopping. We're not gonna spend money. I can't imagine 120 00:05:11.480 --> 00:05:13.839 ever feeling good about forcing your child to do something 121 00:05:13.879 --> 00:05:17.199 you know they don't want to do. Also, I wanted 122 00:05:17.199 --> 00:05:19.279 to mention the show the four seasons. Oh my god, 123 00:05:19.360 --> 00:05:22.639 it is so fucking good. I binged it in like 124 00:05:22.680 --> 00:05:25.439 twelve hours. And obviously, if you're not to the end yet, 125 00:05:25.720 --> 00:05:27.759 there's a spoiler alert that I won't talk about. But 126 00:05:27.759 --> 00:05:31.000 if you're to the end, oh my god, you should 127 00:05:31.000 --> 00:05:34.120 talk about it because it's so good. And I don't 128 00:05:34.160 --> 00:05:38.040 know how Steve Carell became so attractive suddenly he has 129 00:05:38.120 --> 00:05:38.759 Oh that's. 130 00:05:38.519 --> 00:05:41.319 So interesting because I am like put off by his 131 00:05:41.439 --> 00:05:42.399 character in this show. 132 00:05:42.720 --> 00:05:45.439 Oh really, Yeah, I'm not a fan. 133 00:05:45.720 --> 00:05:47.519 Have you gotten to the red Pump scene? 134 00:05:47.879 --> 00:05:51.480 No, I'm only I think I'm only on episode five. Okay, 135 00:05:51.519 --> 00:05:53.600 there's eight, so I'm pretty I'm like halfway through. 136 00:05:53.800 --> 00:05:55.120 I'm gonna tell you when you get to the red 137 00:05:55.160 --> 00:05:58.720 Pump scene, it is. That is the defining moment of 138 00:05:58.759 --> 00:06:01.480 that show. It's like, Okay, you'll know exactly what I'm 139 00:06:01.480 --> 00:06:05.040 talking about. That's it for now. The end of this week, 140 00:06:05.120 --> 00:06:07.399 Well mark one whole month off My pain meds. I'm 141 00:06:07.439 --> 00:06:10.680 so proud of myself good. I'm so proud of you too. 142 00:06:10.759 --> 00:06:12.720 I'm doing so well. I wish I would have done 143 00:06:12.720 --> 00:06:14.639 this a long time ago. I hope you have a wonderful, 144 00:06:14.639 --> 00:06:16.920 wonderful week and a very happy Monday. Miss you, bunches. 145 00:06:17.040 --> 00:06:20.319 Love Bree. There's a new show that I'm watching called 146 00:06:20.399 --> 00:06:26.079 Bad Thoughts and it is the most fucked up comedic show. 147 00:06:26.120 --> 00:06:26.879 Have you heard of it? 148 00:06:26.959 --> 00:06:29.480 Well, I know who the main character is. 149 00:06:29.639 --> 00:06:32.000 I just have seen some of his comedies set before, 150 00:06:32.240 --> 00:06:33.519 and he's really funny. 151 00:06:33.600 --> 00:06:34.639 So I want to watch that. 152 00:06:34.639 --> 00:06:37.879 Show, Jenny. It is the most bizarre. They're like little 153 00:06:38.120 --> 00:06:43.680 ten minutes skits. Yeah, And I thought I watched it 154 00:06:43.759 --> 00:06:46.720 by chance because it came up in my recommendations on Netflix. 155 00:06:46.759 --> 00:06:50.439 It's called Bad Thoughts and I watched about three episodes 156 00:06:50.439 --> 00:06:53.680 in summer, about twenty minutes long, summer seventeen minutes long. Whatever. 157 00:06:53.920 --> 00:06:55.800 So then I went upstairs. I was on the treadmill. 158 00:06:56.079 --> 00:06:58.800 I went upstairs. I said, Susan watch one episode with me, 159 00:06:58.839 --> 00:07:01.639 see if you like it. And she did not think 160 00:07:01.680 --> 00:07:05.000 it was funny at all, but it is. It is 161 00:07:05.079 --> 00:07:11.360 the most fucked up humor ever. So I would hate it, probably, 162 00:07:11.480 --> 00:07:17.560 but you're a funny person. But it's not. It's cruel, sure, 163 00:07:18.199 --> 00:07:22.680 but it's also just so pushes the envelope. I would 164 00:07:22.720 --> 00:07:25.439 try to explain one scene, but it would never ever 165 00:07:25.639 --> 00:07:27.639 come off if I try to explain it. But if 166 00:07:27.680 --> 00:07:31.839 you really like twisted fucking humor, watch one episode of 167 00:07:31.959 --> 00:07:35.839 Bad Thoughts. But the funniest episode is episode number five 168 00:07:36.360 --> 00:07:40.240 when he's on the airplane and the reason why he 169 00:07:40.399 --> 00:07:41.920 has to land the airplane. 170 00:07:43.240 --> 00:07:48.120 It's just so intes each episode about that. 171 00:07:48.240 --> 00:07:50.040 Yeah, okay, because I was like, dang, you're already on 172 00:07:50.079 --> 00:07:50.639 episode five. 173 00:07:50.720 --> 00:07:54.120 Okay, yeah, well each episode is like several skits in 174 00:07:54.160 --> 00:07:56.800 each one. All right, enough of that, let's move on. 175 00:07:57.759 --> 00:08:00.720 See what else we got here? Hello, friends from Michelle. 176 00:08:01.279 --> 00:08:02.920 I want to thank Jenny and Bailey for getting me 177 00:08:02.959 --> 00:08:04.759 my sticker. I got it in the mail. My husband says, 178 00:08:04.759 --> 00:08:07.959 what's that I handed to him? And he goes, oh boy, 179 00:08:08.439 --> 00:08:11.639 he just doesn't understand that you four are my friends. 180 00:08:12.319 --> 00:08:14.839 The first four hours of my day. I'm so glad 181 00:08:14.879 --> 00:08:17.959 everybody is back. Have a great week. That's from Michelle. 182 00:08:17.959 --> 00:08:20.279 Thank you, Michelle, and thank you Bree for sending out 183 00:08:20.279 --> 00:08:20.800 the stickers. 184 00:08:20.920 --> 00:08:24.079 Yeah, thank you. Bree appreciate that one. Wendy writes in 185 00:08:25.000 --> 00:08:28.319 it was so nice meeting you at Cub Foods in 186 00:08:28.360 --> 00:08:30.839 Burnsville on Friday. Jenny and I were both down there. 187 00:08:31.199 --> 00:08:33.759 You were so focused and friendly to the person or 188 00:08:33.840 --> 00:08:37.840 group in front of you while other people waited behind them. 189 00:08:38.840 --> 00:08:41.440 I watched as Dave held the baby and that child 190 00:08:41.559 --> 00:08:45.000 loved him, touching his face and smiling. If you want 191 00:08:45.000 --> 00:08:47.879 to see that picture, it's on My Weekend in five photos. 192 00:08:47.919 --> 00:08:51.600 That's on either Dave Ryan's show on Instagram or Dave 193 00:08:51.679 --> 00:08:55.279 ryanshow dot com. Thanks for brightening our little piece of 194 00:08:55.279 --> 00:08:58.559 the world in the morning. Wendy the meat lady, Yes me. 195 00:08:58.759 --> 00:09:01.519 Lady Wendy to her for quite a while, she works 196 00:09:01.600 --> 00:09:05.879 overnights where she lifts like he's yes, okay, packages of 197 00:09:05.919 --> 00:09:07.720 meat and stuff and she yeah. 198 00:09:07.799 --> 00:09:10.039 She says that lots of turnaround. 199 00:09:10.679 --> 00:09:11.519 Is that the right turnover? 200 00:09:11.639 --> 00:09:14.960 Turnover, that's turnover and her job. But she's worked there 201 00:09:14.960 --> 00:09:17.639 for a while and they basically are a loss without her. 202 00:09:17.679 --> 00:09:18.879 If she ever takes days off. 203 00:09:18.720 --> 00:09:22.720 She's I get it. The baby was probably my favorite 204 00:09:22.759 --> 00:09:23.600 moment of. 205 00:09:23.759 --> 00:09:27.799 It was so cute. Was the baby's name, Miles. Am 206 00:09:27.799 --> 00:09:28.480 I making that up. 207 00:09:28.559 --> 00:09:30.799 I tried to remember himber I don't want. 208 00:09:30.639 --> 00:09:32.519 To say it's Miles, but I might be miss speaking. 209 00:09:32.600 --> 00:09:34.759 But that baby looked at Dave and I both and 210 00:09:35.080 --> 00:09:38.080 immediately started smiling. He was such a happy baby. Then 211 00:09:38.320 --> 00:09:41.879 Dave held him, and he was enamored by Dave, like 212 00:09:42.000 --> 00:09:44.519 just like putting his hands on his face like hello, and. 213 00:09:44.480 --> 00:09:46.799 Then he giggled and it was just like ah, he 214 00:09:46.919 --> 00:09:48.879 was so sweet. I love babies, and I really think 215 00:09:48.919 --> 00:09:53.000 babies and dogs are the same way. If you love them, 216 00:09:53.639 --> 00:09:57.159 they know. They can tell if you're a little skittish 217 00:09:57.159 --> 00:09:59.679 about holding a baby, or you're a little bit afraid 218 00:09:59.679 --> 00:10:01.200 of dog dogs where you don't like them. I think 219 00:10:01.240 --> 00:10:04.879 they can sense that. Yeah, all right, regular listener here, 220 00:10:04.960 --> 00:10:08.600 says Cassie, big fan of each and every one of you. 221 00:10:09.159 --> 00:10:11.799 I feel like such creeper being such a dedicated listener 222 00:10:11.840 --> 00:10:13.799 but not actually knowing any of you in real life. 223 00:10:13.799 --> 00:10:16.799 But anyway, I am procrastinating getting stuff done, and I 224 00:10:16.840 --> 00:10:18.840 thought I would write in. So she talks a little 225 00:10:18.840 --> 00:10:22.480 bit about your kitchen drawer and gives you some advice. 226 00:10:22.600 --> 00:10:27.559 A silicone spray Jenny called blaster silicone lubricant, and they 227 00:10:27.559 --> 00:10:32.480 are attaching a picture for your reference, so blaster silicone lubricant. 228 00:10:34.480 --> 00:10:38.360 Let's see random af But a while ago you were 229 00:10:38.639 --> 00:10:41.440 chatting about not remembering names and faces and having trouble 230 00:10:41.679 --> 00:10:45.159 recalling people after meeting them. I think Bailey said how 231 00:10:45.200 --> 00:10:48.200 you wished everybody just wore a name tag in real life? 232 00:10:48.720 --> 00:10:52.440 And I couldn't agree more. I hate my poor facial 233 00:10:52.799 --> 00:10:54.960 how poor my facial recognition is, and how bad I 234 00:10:55.000 --> 00:10:57.720 amn't remember names? Like why are we like this? And 235 00:10:57.759 --> 00:11:01.440 then she tells a story. It's a pretty funny story, 236 00:11:01.480 --> 00:11:04.840 so I'll tell the entirety. Out all day with one 237 00:11:04.879 --> 00:11:07.519 of my best friends, her fiance, and all of their 238 00:11:07.639 --> 00:11:11.919 friends celebrating a bachelor party at Valley Fair. Bachelor bachelorette. 239 00:11:12.080 --> 00:11:15.159 We went on a bunch of rides, had some beers, 240 00:11:15.279 --> 00:11:17.720 a bunch of us, we all had lunch together. Remember 241 00:11:17.759 --> 00:11:20.840 it's their friends, not her friends. And after a long, 242 00:11:20.879 --> 00:11:22.320 warm day in the sun, we go back to my 243 00:11:22.360 --> 00:11:24.279 friend's house to throw them a party. We all got 244 00:11:24.360 --> 00:11:26.720 changed from her day clothes and dressed up for the night. 245 00:11:26.759 --> 00:11:29.120 People started trickling in and it was a small group 246 00:11:29.159 --> 00:11:31.039 of us chatting around the living room. I noticed a 247 00:11:31.120 --> 00:11:33.759 quiet guy sitting on the couch who didn't seem to 248 00:11:33.799 --> 00:11:35.679 be having much fun. I felt bad for this guy 249 00:11:35.720 --> 00:11:38.120 all alone, who clearly to me felt awkward and out 250 00:11:38.159 --> 00:11:41.360 of place. So me, being outgoing and warm and friendly, 251 00:11:41.840 --> 00:11:44.000 I decided to jump up in front of everybody and 252 00:11:44.039 --> 00:11:47.679 offer my hand out to say Hi, I'm Cassie. Who 253 00:11:47.720 --> 00:11:50.879 are you? You know, to make him feel welcome. Hey you, 254 00:11:51.120 --> 00:11:55.440 how's it going? I announced? Lol. Immediately after, I felt 255 00:11:55.480 --> 00:11:58.279 the room cave in on me and someone shouted out, girl, 256 00:11:58.360 --> 00:11:59.840 he's been with us all day. 257 00:12:00.159 --> 00:12:02.279 Oh gosh. 258 00:12:02.320 --> 00:12:06.679 The room got awkwardly quiet, and I heard nervous laughter 259 00:12:06.759 --> 00:12:09.639 behind me. Full of embarrassment and regret. I laughed it off, like, 260 00:12:09.720 --> 00:12:14.600 oh what, I'm sorry, I have really bad eyes. The 261 00:12:14.720 --> 00:12:17.960 man must have had a head to toe total costume change. 262 00:12:18.000 --> 00:12:21.080 Because I was certain I had never met this man 263 00:12:21.120 --> 00:12:24.919 before in my life. Little did I know that we 264 00:12:24.960 --> 00:12:28.159 had had lunch together just a few short hours prior. 265 00:12:28.720 --> 00:12:31.279 Oh No, needless to say, I certainly could have used 266 00:12:31.279 --> 00:12:34.159 a name tag on that day. That was the last 267 00:12:34.159 --> 00:12:35.919 time I ever went out of way way to introduce 268 00:12:35.960 --> 00:12:38.919 myself to anybody like that ever. Again, do any of 269 00:12:38.919 --> 00:12:42.399 you have any similarly embarrassing stories? If not, no worries. 270 00:12:42.679 --> 00:12:44.919 Just thought i'd relinquish one of my most cringe moments 271 00:12:44.919 --> 00:12:47.440 for the hell of it. Thanks and love y'all from Cassie. 272 00:12:48.480 --> 00:12:54.320 I don't introduce myselves to almost anybody anymore because turns 273 00:12:54.320 --> 00:12:56.279 out that I've met them and then they feel like 274 00:12:56.360 --> 00:13:00.200 shit that I don't remember. Yeah, And I just really 275 00:13:00.240 --> 00:13:02.320 am very careful. I mean, if I meet somebody who's 276 00:13:02.360 --> 00:13:04.840 like out at cub Foods and I know I haven't 277 00:13:04.840 --> 00:13:07.080 met them, or they might say, oh, no, we met 278 00:13:07.559 --> 00:13:09.879 at the State Fair last year, well, then they're going 279 00:13:09.960 --> 00:13:12.440 to be understanding that I don't remember them. But I'm 280 00:13:12.519 --> 00:13:16.679 very careful about introducing myself to anybody around here because 281 00:13:16.799 --> 00:13:19.919 I've probably met them, and then they think I don't remember, 282 00:13:20.279 --> 00:13:21.879 and then I feel like shit and they feel like shit. 283 00:13:21.919 --> 00:13:24.639 I usually repeat my name for them so that they 284 00:13:24.679 --> 00:13:27.120 don't have to ask. So I was at a concert 285 00:13:27.240 --> 00:13:30.519 on Wednesday and this woman standing in front of me. 286 00:13:30.639 --> 00:13:33.679 I knew her from high school. She was like friends 287 00:13:33.679 --> 00:13:36.360 with my friends, and so I probably haven't seen her 288 00:13:36.360 --> 00:13:38.519 since then. But I was like Jenna, and she turns around, 289 00:13:38.519 --> 00:13:39.759 she looks at me, and I can tell in her 290 00:13:39.759 --> 00:13:42.360 face she's like, who is this and I go, it's Bailey, 291 00:13:42.759 --> 00:13:44.320 and then she goes, oh my gosh. 292 00:13:44.440 --> 00:13:44.639 Hi. 293 00:13:44.879 --> 00:13:48.120 So I always tell them my name, but I also 294 00:13:48.840 --> 00:13:52.679 imagine that nobody remembers me ever, so I rarely like, 295 00:13:52.759 --> 00:13:54.639 even if I've met you, and I know I've met 296 00:13:54.679 --> 00:13:57.200 you and we've talked maybe once or twice, if I 297 00:13:57.240 --> 00:13:59.679 see you in a month or something at another thing, 298 00:14:00.080 --> 00:14:01.840 I'll be like, oh, well, they probably don't remember me, 299 00:14:01.919 --> 00:14:02.799 so I won't say anything. 300 00:14:02.799 --> 00:14:06.679 That's a that's a kind assumption. In other words, you 301 00:14:06.799 --> 00:14:10.000 save them the embarrassment of the guessing game. Yeah, and 302 00:14:10.039 --> 00:14:14.399 I really hate the guessing game, Like, Hi, we've met before? Really, 303 00:14:14.440 --> 00:14:17.960 where was that? Don't you remember? No, bitch, I really 304 00:14:18.000 --> 00:14:20.240 don't like the guessing game. And most people don't do that. 305 00:14:20.679 --> 00:14:24.360 But I mean, I I don't know. I wish I 306 00:14:24.399 --> 00:14:26.120 had a like everybody. 307 00:14:25.759 --> 00:14:27.519 Named tangy name hikes please. 308 00:14:27.720 --> 00:14:30.639 Random question from Sarah, do any of you have songs 309 00:14:30.639 --> 00:14:32.879 that remind you of another member of the show. I'll 310 00:14:32.879 --> 00:14:37.240 go first. Misindependent always makes me think of Dave. It's 311 00:14:37.279 --> 00:14:40.200 also one of my favorite running songs. Of course, that 312 00:14:40.240 --> 00:14:43.320 annoying Backstreet Boys song also makes me think of Dave. 313 00:14:43.399 --> 00:14:46.159 Once an INN syncer always an inn syncer. Yeah, if 314 00:14:46.159 --> 00:14:47.679 you don't have a song that reminds you of somebody 315 00:14:47.720 --> 00:14:49.399 on the show, maybe one for a parent, partner or 316 00:14:49.440 --> 00:14:52.799 ex child friend. Thanks for humoring me, Love you all. Sarah. 317 00:14:53.159 --> 00:14:57.159 Thunder by Imagine Dragons reminds me of Fallon Thunder Fear 318 00:14:57.240 --> 00:15:02.559 the Thunder, Thunder Thunder for the thund Thunder Thunder thunder Thunder, 319 00:15:03.440 --> 00:15:05.279 because she was the one who first told me what 320 00:15:05.320 --> 00:15:09.000 a great song it was, So it will always remind 321 00:15:09.039 --> 00:15:12.480 me of Fallon. Any song remind you of anyone changing, Yes. 322 00:15:13.120 --> 00:15:16.000 Your song with Alison, isn't it I Love you Always 323 00:15:16.000 --> 00:15:16.440 and forever? 324 00:15:16.720 --> 00:15:17.039 Is that it? 325 00:15:17.240 --> 00:15:20.440 Yes, I love you always, forever and year and far. 326 00:15:20.639 --> 00:15:21.759 We used to sing that to each. 327 00:15:21.559 --> 00:15:24.919 Other, no one only because I had picked it for 328 00:15:24.960 --> 00:15:27.480 a mixtape game choice one time. But I think it 329 00:15:27.519 --> 00:15:30.519 was in like a sexual reference. And then Steve and 330 00:15:30.559 --> 00:15:33.000 Fowner are both like a bad choice because you were 331 00:15:33.039 --> 00:15:36.000 the judge. They're like, that's his song with Alison. It 332 00:15:36.039 --> 00:15:39.000 doesn't work that way, so and I kind of knew that, 333 00:15:39.080 --> 00:15:40.679 but I forgot about it when I picked it for 334 00:15:40.759 --> 00:15:41.360 mixtape game. 335 00:15:41.440 --> 00:15:43.320 So now I always think of you when I hear 336 00:15:43.360 --> 00:15:43.799 that song. 337 00:15:44.120 --> 00:15:47.159 Yeah, there's a little bit of a sexual bent to 338 00:15:47.240 --> 00:15:51.639 that song, like as we lay here under a clear 339 00:15:51.679 --> 00:15:55.320 sky of pure white stars. Well, i'd never talk about 340 00:15:55.399 --> 00:15:58.200 lane in the on the Ground with Alison Bailey. 341 00:15:58.240 --> 00:16:00.960 Any songs, I mean, not necessarcessarily that remind me of 342 00:16:00.960 --> 00:16:04.360 any of you. The this is going to be a 343 00:16:04.399 --> 00:16:09.519 deep cut, but the song knock three times if you want. 344 00:16:09.440 --> 00:16:11.080 Me, it reminds me of my mom. 345 00:16:11.200 --> 00:16:14.480 Oh yeah, because she not, because that has nothing to 346 00:16:14.519 --> 00:16:17.840 do with mom daughter whatever. But my mom loves like 347 00:16:18.399 --> 00:16:22.320 contemporary hits of the nineteen seventies, and that is probably 348 00:16:22.320 --> 00:16:24.279 one of my favorite ones. So I made like a 349 00:16:24.360 --> 00:16:27.759 huge playlist of songs that reminded me of my mom, 350 00:16:27.759 --> 00:16:30.840 and I just call them Mama songs. And I told 351 00:16:30.840 --> 00:16:32.639 her about it, and now every time I see her, 352 00:16:32.679 --> 00:16:35.240 she gives me a post it note full of more 353 00:16:35.279 --> 00:16:37.799 songs that I can add to it, add to the playlist. 354 00:16:37.960 --> 00:16:39.240 So then I get. 355 00:16:39.320 --> 00:16:40.759 Then I get in my head, I'm like, well, when 356 00:16:40.799 --> 00:16:43.440 she dies, I'm going to have this playlist that we 357 00:16:43.600 --> 00:16:44.840 made together. 358 00:16:44.600 --> 00:16:46.320 But I'm not going to think about those. That was fine. 359 00:16:46.440 --> 00:16:48.080 You know, I heard a song the other day that 360 00:16:48.120 --> 00:16:49.919 I want played at my funeral, And now I can't 361 00:16:49.919 --> 00:16:50.759 remember what it was. 362 00:16:52.279 --> 00:16:56.320 Fuck crazy train, no crazy train. 363 00:16:56.720 --> 00:17:00.320 No good guess though I can't remember, and I'm like, oh, 364 00:17:00.720 --> 00:17:01.519 was it like a party? 365 00:17:01.639 --> 00:17:03.639 Viber like, oh no. 366 00:17:03.000 --> 00:17:08.759 No, it's not sad. No, these are all great guesses. 367 00:17:08.920 --> 00:17:10.880 I can't remember, but I heard it. I thought, you 368 00:17:10.920 --> 00:17:13.480 know what, I gotta tell Alison. That's the song I 369 00:17:13.480 --> 00:17:14.480 want played at my funeral. 370 00:17:14.599 --> 00:17:15.200 That's the one. 371 00:17:15.519 --> 00:17:17.720 Yeah, Okay. 372 00:17:17.960 --> 00:17:20.960 Can I say for someone who has a dad that's well, 373 00:17:21.000 --> 00:17:23.680 he's older than you, but you know, he started to 374 00:17:23.680 --> 00:17:26.519 make the references to like his death and stuff, you know, 375 00:17:26.599 --> 00:17:30.240 as jokes as a child. I don't want to hear 376 00:17:30.279 --> 00:17:33.559 that shit. It makes me very sad. I don't be 377 00:17:34.000 --> 00:17:36.759 texting Allison like I want this at my funeral. It's 378 00:17:36.799 --> 00:17:39.559 gonna make her sad. I know everyone's different, but I 379 00:17:39.640 --> 00:17:41.720 just I feel like my dad just makes so many jokes. 380 00:17:41.720 --> 00:17:43.000 He's like, well, I'm not going to be around that 381 00:17:43.079 --> 00:17:45.519 much longer anyways, or like yeah, if I make it 382 00:17:45.559 --> 00:17:47.799 another ten years, and it's like, don't say that. I 383 00:17:47.799 --> 00:17:50.519 don't want those ideas in my head. Like my grandmother, 384 00:17:50.880 --> 00:17:51.799 she's so sad. 385 00:17:51.920 --> 00:17:53.559 She says I could go at any time, and she 386 00:17:53.599 --> 00:17:55.680 could go at any time for the last like twenty years, 387 00:17:55.920 --> 00:17:58.279 Like okay, well you're really bringing down the room. 388 00:17:58.480 --> 00:17:59.559 Yeah for twenty years. 389 00:17:59.559 --> 00:18:03.240 Well yeah, go at any time, girl, please, So I 390 00:18:03.279 --> 00:18:04.359 feel you, Jenny. 391 00:18:04.119 --> 00:18:06.960 Yeah, yeah, okay, it's good reminder, Jenny, I will try 392 00:18:07.000 --> 00:18:11.039 to remember not to burn. And Allison with with that. 393 00:18:11.559 --> 00:18:13.720 Well there's that song and I listened to it the 394 00:18:13.759 --> 00:18:17.319 other day and it's by Fun and it's like carry on, 395 00:18:17.400 --> 00:18:21.519 carry on we are yeh, it's a different one. 396 00:18:21.640 --> 00:18:23.640 Oh what about it? No, I know what you're talking. 397 00:18:23.680 --> 00:18:28.759 When the lock of stone carry on, which I love 398 00:18:28.839 --> 00:18:32.480 the message, when the lost in a low and sink 399 00:18:32.519 --> 00:18:35.079 and lack of stone carry on, And I think the 400 00:18:35.079 --> 00:18:38.119 message is good, but there's one part where it goes 401 00:18:38.359 --> 00:18:40.960