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Speaker 1: Almost time for a second date.

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Speaker 2: Up date. You guys were going to Weathersfield this morning

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and NICKI went on a great first date.

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Speaker 1: Nicki is getting ghosted and wants to know why.

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Speaker 3: Good morning, Nikki, good morning, Thanks for having me.

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Speaker 1: No, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Hopefully we can get some answers for you. Tell us

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about this great first date you went on.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so we went and we played mini golf, and

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then we went to a brewery and we like we

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sat outside and we had a few beers and we

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just like talked for like a long time. I mean

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there was instant attraction on Like I thought he was

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like super cute, Okay, immediately all right, and you know,

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like I really want to see him again. And then

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you know, after the date, I've texted him and I've

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reached out, like trying to schedule something to get together again,

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but he's not responding at all, and like now I'm like,

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now I want to know why, because like I think

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that it was an amazing date okay, and I'm like,

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what happened?

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Speaker 2: So, Nikki, it sounds like a great day. So mini golf,

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you go to a brewery. Conversation, flows did you feel

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like it was flirty. You felt like a connection. You

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guys were flirting back and forth.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely, like definitely felt like good chemistry. Yeah, you

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guys felt like really good.

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Speaker 4: Did you guys hook up in the parking lot or

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anything like that?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 4: Okay, no, I mean you don't have to have sex

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in the parking lot, but I mean like a kiss

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or anything else.

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Speaker 1: Just ignore him. Don't even answer that. Okay.

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Speaker 2: You know a lot of times so we always ask

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if you if you go out for drinks or you

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go to a brewery.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, do you feel like you drank too much?

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Speaker 3: Definitely? Not like I had two beers like it's a paper. Yeah. Yeah,

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I kept it very good.

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Speaker 1: I was very lucky.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, you know we're gonna do. We're gonna

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call him up. I mean, it sounds like a great

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day to me. I can't you know, I don't know

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what would have gone wrong and why you're getting ghosted

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like this.

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Speaker 1: So we're gonna call him up.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna ask Luke just to be honest about the

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date and tell us how it went.

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Speaker 1: Are you ready to get some answers?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: And my thought is hopefully he just didn't get your

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text message. That you sent, you know, thanking him for

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a date. Like hopefully he thinks you're blowing him off

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and it's a miscommunication.

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Speaker 1: So hold on and we're gonna call Luke.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 2: Well, we're in Weathersfield. It is Second Date Update. Nicky's

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on the line, and Nikki told us about a great

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first date she went on with Luke. Uh. You guys

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went to minigolf, then you went to the brewery and

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you felt a total connection. You've reached out to him

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and you're getting ghosted. Is that the gist of it, NICKI, Yeah,

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we're gonna call him up right now and find out

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why you're getting ghosted.

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Speaker 1: You'll be listening in if you want to talk to him.

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Feel free. Okay, okay, okay, okay, hold on. I don't

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know what this could be. Maybe maybe he didn't like

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the way she played minigolf.

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Speaker 5: Hello, Hi is Luke there?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this is he.

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Speaker 1: Hey Luke, it's Courtney.

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Speaker 4: Hey, it's Walmart chef.

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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Savannah And you're on the radio this morning.

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You're on Kiss ninety five to seven.

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you're on Second Date Update. Hopefully you're familiar with it,

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but if you're not.

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Speaker 2: If you go on a first date, you have a

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great time, make a connection, get ghosted, you call us

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and we get the answers, and that's why we're calling

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you this morning, Luke.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, So Nicki called us.

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Speaker 2: Nicki said she had a great first date with you. You guys,

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went to play mini golf, went to a brewery. Conversation

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was great. You're a great guy. There was flirting. She's

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attracted to you and she'd love to see you again. Yeah, okay,

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Well she said she reached out to you when you're

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ghosting her, and we just want to know why are

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you ghosting Nikki?

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Speaker 1: Like what's going on?

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Speaker 5: I mean, honestly, yes.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I want you to be honest honestly, yes, honestly.

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Speaker 5: Like her online picture, like we met online, she's like

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nice long hair, and she showed up and like has

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like a like short like a men's hair cut, like

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a short hair, like men's haircut. Okay, So and I'm

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just like that's like a deal breaker for me, Like

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I'm like, I mean, long hair. I mean it's just wait, wait.

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Speaker 1: It's a deal breaker. She cut her hair and it's

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a deal breaker. I feel like that's aggressive.

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Speaker 3: Wait, I'm sorry you're not going out on a date

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with me because I cut my hair.

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Speaker 1: There you go, Nicky's on the line. That's exactly what

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he said. Nikki.

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Speaker 3: Yes, that is the movie insane thing I have ever heard, Like,

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I'm sorry, that's my hair. That gross is shorter than

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in the pictures you saw of me originally. It's not

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like I lied about my height or my weight.

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Speaker 1: Or it's fair.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was just trying something different. I really like

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the way it looks, and you're telling me that that

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is just the reason I haven't heard from me that

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that is actually insane. And it's like you're not going

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to look the same forever, buddy, Like come on, yeah,

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you're cute now, but like please, what if you gain weight,

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what if you lose your hair? I'm supposed to just

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like leave, Like that's ridiculous. That is I cannot believe

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that somebody would would stop talking to somebody over or fair.

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Speaker 4: So if I could say something on Luke's behalf here

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the reasons why men don't like women, I I will though,

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this is the reason why men don't like women with

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short hair. One do like women with short hair? One

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You guys always want to speak to the manager. And two,

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if we make out with you, it's like we're making

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out with our best friend.

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Speaker 2: Wait a minute, how would you know what make it

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out with your best friend because.

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Speaker 4: She has a guy haircut, right, think you because there's

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no you can't there's no hair to touch.

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Speaker 1: It's like and women with short hair. When I talk

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to the manager.

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Speaker 4: They are all karens.

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Speaker 1: You guys are all like, oh boy, okay, there's a

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big difference between a short haircut and a Karen haircut.

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Speaker 3: You're sitting app you're not helping. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Hair has nothing to do with any of them, both

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of you. The Karen, the not karens.

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Speaker 1: Oh, come on, there is a Karen haircut. It's not

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there isn't. It's a personality trait. Nikki.

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Speaker 2: I am sorry, Luke, you just sound like you are

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so superficial.

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Speaker 3: I honestly, I'm very happy that we figured out what

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the situation was because anyway, I am too.

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Speaker 1: I'm so glad we found out.

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Speaker 3: Luke.

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Speaker 2: I listen, I appreciate you being honest and not being

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a liar. At least you're not a liar, but you

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could have at least instead of like you could have

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been a liar, oh lutely, but honestly, Luke, I'm sorry.

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It's very it is very shallow.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so shallow.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely insane to me.

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Speaker 5: Yeah no, I mean, you know sure, Hair and Girls

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is ugly. I'm just being honest.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, you know what you could have stopped? Well,

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you like you not to continue?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's not. It doesn't sound that bright either. All right,

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so listen, you got your answers, You got your answers.

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Thank you so much for calling us.

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Speaker 2: Nikky, and please keep us posted on all the dating

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Okay

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Speaker 3: Thank you, yes, definitely, thank you for helping me out