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<v Speaker 1>What's up, everybody. Welcome to Rose Pricks. It's Tuesday morning,

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<v Speaker 1>bright and early, and Cecily and I did our job

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<v Speaker 1>and we.

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<v Speaker 2>Watched The Bachelorette last night. How do macro? Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>oh yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, I got a

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<v Speaker 2>mac I got a macro for you. Okay, Spencer's turtleneck

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<v Speaker 2>is unacceptable. It is not acceptable. What about Marcus's. Neither

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<v Speaker 2>is Marcus's and they are the same, by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>one is just in a cream and one is in black.

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<v Speaker 2>I looked very closely. They're basically so they so production

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<v Speaker 2>must have gone out and just bought like a package

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<v Speaker 2>of these at like Target. We'll just get nine of

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<v Speaker 2>them in every collar right. For some reason, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know why it looks worse on Spencer than it does

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<v Speaker 2>on Marcus. It does look worse, but it is the

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<v Speaker 2>worst clothing choice I've ever seen on any reality show.

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<v Speaker 2>And that includes like flave of Flame. Wow, that is

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<v Speaker 2>strong that I know. Have strong words, y'all. I should

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<v Speaker 2>just come clean. I'm not in the best mood, so

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<v Speaker 2>just come I woke up with a spider on my

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<v Speaker 2>face and it just put me in a mood. Is

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<v Speaker 2>that a euphemis I wish. I mean, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I do wish it's just been rosy. But what if

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<v Speaker 2>I just start calling you spider face, spider spiderface instead

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<v Speaker 2>of butterface, which I always thought was mean. That was

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<v Speaker 2>very mean. That's really mean. Didn't like spider father. Did

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<v Speaker 2>it hurt you? No, it's just resting. Did it just No?

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<v Speaker 2>It was crawling and I was I was having a

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<v Speaker 2>hard time because my dog was just up all hours.

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<v Speaker 2>So I finally closed my eye. I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe I get just ten minutes and I wake I

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<v Speaker 2>feel something on my face and I wake up and

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<v Speaker 2>there's a spider just crawling across my face. Luckily Monroe

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<v Speaker 2>was not in the bed because if he were and

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<v Speaker 2>I reacted to that like like that, he goes nuts

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<v Speaker 2>and we'll try to like bite the spider. But it

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't matter where that spider is, you know what I mean? Right?

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<v Speaker 2>So he would bite your face, yes he would have,

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<v Speaker 2>but he wasn't there. So even though I've been but

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<v Speaker 2>because of that, I've been trained to be really calm

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<v Speaker 2>if there's like a bug, so I'll just be okay, okay, okay, cool, cool, cool.

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<v Speaker 2>So there's like slowly got out of bed, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>somewhere in my bed.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me ask you this, sure, how does Monroe react if, say,

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<v Speaker 1>like the towels in the bathroom are not hung completely evenly?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh well after that are not organized like, you know, neatly?

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<v Speaker 2>Does Monroe get matt like? Do you have to be

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<v Speaker 2>really careful? I feel like I know where you're headed

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<v Speaker 2>with this. But the thing is is you don't see

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<v Speaker 2>him when he's in a good mood. You only hear

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<v Speaker 2>about this stuff where he's like pissed off or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>And yes, he's particular about certain things, and yes they

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<v Speaker 2>wrote that j Lo movie about it where he had

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<v Speaker 2>to swim to shore truly, but he's not like that

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<v Speaker 2>most of the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, Okay, okay, No, I am not saying that you

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<v Speaker 1>need to break up with Monroe.

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<v Speaker 2>You're right, I don't see Monroe. I'm sure there's a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of good things. I mean, he's the love of

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<v Speaker 2>my life. He is my soulmate. That part is true,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's just it's no I understand.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh boys, You're like, sometimes when I get in like

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<v Speaker 1>an argument with somebody, Monroe doesn't take my side, which

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<v Speaker 1>is just weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Monroe will be like, well, how are you behaving? Which

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<v Speaker 2>is in this conversation. I know this is more a

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<v Speaker 2>bored thing, but maybe we should have this card, like,

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<v Speaker 2>how do you feel about that? Do you are you mad?

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<v Speaker 2>If you feel like John is not doing the teamwork?

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<v Speaker 2>You want a teammate right, like, of course, but you

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<v Speaker 2>don't want him to blindly follow your opinions.

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<v Speaker 1>Well pretty much though, I don't want him to not

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<v Speaker 1>blindly follow my opinions. I mean, what are husbands for.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like my therapist. I don't need to be challenged, right.

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<v Speaker 2>I think about this in turn, and I'm bringing it

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<v Speaker 2>back to the Bachelor Aurette today. See that's what we do.

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<v Speaker 2>I wonder when you're choosing, You've got these guys, all

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<v Speaker 2>these guys to choose from all these maga maga dudes.

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<v Speaker 2>What a joy for her? Uh huh? Like, who do

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<v Speaker 2>you choose? Do you? Like? I want the guy that

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<v Speaker 2>just kind of has my back, or I want the

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<v Speaker 2>guy that can protect me against as some sort of

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<v Speaker 2>military attack. I don't know, I don't know. I'm a

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<v Speaker 2>shrug emoji right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen, we've found out and this is this. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>if you're interested. We did a whole ask Patreon episode

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<v Speaker 1>about it last week, but we found out some very

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<v Speaker 1>problematic views that Devin has now.

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<v Speaker 2>I believe. We did talk about this on the Regular

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<v Speaker 2>Show a while ago, where it turned out that during

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<v Speaker 2>the Truth or Dare game, uh, he was asked about

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<v Speaker 2>a conspiracy theory that he believes or some worse or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't remember what he was asked, but his answer

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<v Speaker 1>was that he doesn't He thinks that nine to eleven

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<v Speaker 1>was an inside job and apparently it didn't make it

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<v Speaker 1>into the edit. So reality, Steve is the one who

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<v Speaker 1>told us that, and he told us that on the

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<v Speaker 1>episode that we did with him.

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<v Speaker 2>So sometime back, Yeah, we've known some stuff about Devin.

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<v Speaker 2>He's the one who broke the news. And then Steph

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<v Speaker 2>did a deep dive on Reddit and we we definitely

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<v Speaker 2>talked about that extensively on Patreon a week ago. By

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<v Speaker 2>the way, if you guys aren't on Rosebricks Patreon, get

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<v Speaker 2>on there because we're on.

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<v Speaker 1>So the thing is that some people thought it was

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<v Speaker 1>he was joking, you know, and I thought he was joking, right.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of people thought he was joking, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people thought like Oh, he's just being like, that's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a young thing to like make kind of

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<v Speaker 1>make a joke about, like, you know, because younger people

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<v Speaker 1>weren't directly affected by nine to eleven, most of them,

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<v Speaker 1>So sometimes I guess that could be something that they

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<v Speaker 1>it turns out not so much. He was completely serious

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<v Speaker 1>and he's super right wing and follows this really gross

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<v Speaker 1>account called the Something Liberal, which is the opposite liberal,

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<v Speaker 1>typical liberal, and there's a ton of real bad anti LGBT,

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<v Speaker 1>anti trans, anti immigrant, anti you know, just bullying, awful stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's liked a lot of these posts.

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<v Speaker 2>It's bad, right. No, he's not good. And we were

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<v Speaker 2>shocked surprised to hear it because they gave him that

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<v Speaker 2>Pete Davidson narrative for no reason, and so you're sort

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<v Speaker 2>of thinking, oh, he's like that, but he's nothing like that.

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<v Speaker 2>He's he's not great, And it's interesting to watch this

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<v Speaker 2>play out. It's really weird to watch him now because

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<v Speaker 2>he'd become one of our favorites.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, so my question is like, because we've and we've

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<v Speaker 1>talked about this a million times, this is like age

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<v Speaker 1>old question do.

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<v Speaker 2>They not discuss anything like and I don't. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>even think.

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<v Speaker 1>That this stuff is like pure politics. It's like, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>you can keep politics out of it, but these are

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<v Speaker 1>just worldviews.

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<v Speaker 2>These are just you know, are you a good person?

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<v Speaker 2>Kind of thing?

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<v Speaker 1>Like do you do you hate the LGBT community? Because

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<v Speaker 1>I can't imagine that Jen would be down with that now.

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<v Speaker 1>So if she's not down with that, you know, and listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I if two people are both sort of like and

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<v Speaker 1>this isn't about like Republicans, this is about dark, like

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<v Speaker 1>hateful views and thinking that dehumanizing a certain group of people.

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<v Speaker 1>So my question is do they completely keep all discussions

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<v Speaker 1>of that out until fantasy sweet or do they do

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<v Speaker 1>these things sneak in? And so she's making these choices

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<v Speaker 1>by keeping these people around knowing that they have these views.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I want to know. What do you I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know, that's a good question. I really I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's disturbing and it's really hard to watch knowing

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<v Speaker 2>what we know now because we typically don't get spoiled

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<v Speaker 2>on the show. I kind of don't like to know anything,

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<v Speaker 2>but this year was just impossible, you know, because stuff's

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<v Speaker 2>just coming out that it's getting better, right, and like

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<v Speaker 2>that's it's they got to do a better job at vetting.

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<v Speaker 2>But I guess there's only so much you can do.

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<v Speaker 1>But I feel like it wouldn't be that hard to

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<v Speaker 1>go look at people's social media m M.

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<v Speaker 2>And look to see although did did he unlike those posts?

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<v Speaker 2>Like was that screenshot a long time ago? But he

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<v Speaker 2>didn't unlike them? But now apparently he, you know, found

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<v Speaker 2>out that people were going crazy and finding out all

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<v Speaker 2>this stuff, So now he's liking some like Kamala Harris posts.

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<v Speaker 2>But people are like bullshit, h.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, or you would think that, like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe before you come on the show, you would go

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<v Speaker 1>check your social media. And I mean people are smart

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<v Speaker 1>enough to erase old problematic tweets.

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<v Speaker 2>Right right. I mean maybe he'll address it. But let's okay,

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<v Speaker 2>let's get into today because we got a lot to

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<v Speaker 2>get through because we start out this episode with Matt

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<v Speaker 2>Matthew the ex boyfriend. This poor dude. Okay, let me

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<v Speaker 2>just set this up. He gets, he gets he's so tired.

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<v Speaker 2>He gets on a plane. He flies to New Zealand.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't even imagine what is that twenty seven thousand

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<v Speaker 2>hours Cecily.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you understand though, that he did

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<v Speaker 1>pay his own way.

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<v Speaker 2>Jesse wants you to know, they did not Production did

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<v Speaker 2>not pay for this, paid his own way, which also sucks.

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<v Speaker 1>He wants us to know. Everybody wants us to know.

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<v Speaker 1>Jen wants us to know, like, we get it, we

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<v Speaker 1>get it. He had Miles. He's cool like.

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<v Speaker 2>That, And I told you last week that I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>see it between them. You were like, I think he's

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<v Speaker 2>so cute, which he's cute, but I was like, I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't see a spark here. This seems weird. It

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<v Speaker 2>seems like he's just out of nowhere. This seems like

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<v Speaker 2>a very forced situation, even though production saying it's not

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<v Speaker 2>like you said, how would they know? How would he

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<v Speaker 2>even know where she was? Of course, like how would

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<v Speaker 2>he know who to get in touch with?

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying, like, like any of us could

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<v Speaker 1>just dial up the Bachelor producers.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, So he comes in he has this weird, kind

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<v Speaker 2>of timid but I gave him a pass because I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>he's so tired. Oh my god, he just got off

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<v Speaker 2>like a twenty one hour plane ride. He's so tired,

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<v Speaker 2>and he.

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<v Speaker 1>Was like, guys, can I I is there any way

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<v Speaker 1>I could just like shower, you know. I went into

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<v Speaker 1>the bathroom at the airport and I kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>rinsed off my face. And they're like, look, do you

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<v Speaker 1>want to do this or not? Like we're going into

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<v Speaker 1>a rose ceremony right, You're walking right in no time.

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<v Speaker 1>So poor guy, they don't they don't give him a

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<v Speaker 1>heads up.

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<v Speaker 2>He puts on a full on tux homeboy puts on

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<v Speaker 2>a tuxedo, an old school tuxedo too, and not even

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<v Speaker 2>like a new modern one, Like no, he just has

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<v Speaker 2>a suit. Has he not seen the show? Because he

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<v Speaker 2>people wear tuxes? What the fuck? I mean, let's talk

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<v Speaker 2>about this because I know I'm in a bad mood.

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<v Speaker 1>But like, did he think he was going straight to

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<v Speaker 2>He's like, oh, well, I'm not gonna bad prose. I

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, I thought, wait, I thought, where isn't this

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<v Speaker 2>I going to prom? And they're like, even at prom,

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<v Speaker 2>you wouldn't wear a tux not like this, Not like

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<v Speaker 2>I mean maybe a funny like ironic tux, like a

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<v Speaker 2>blue ruffled tux or something that you've got at a

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<v Speaker 2>vintage saying, but like nothing about his sky screams fun

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<v Speaker 2>or ironic, has no idea what's happening. So he's so

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<v Speaker 2>Now he's in his tugs. He's like a zombie. They

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<v Speaker 2>like prop him up, push him out there, like go

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<v Speaker 2>get a Matthew.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh huh, we're rooting for you for the storyline.

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<v Speaker 2>So she has like this kind of So first Jen

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<v Speaker 2>I've never been y'all what she say, y'all, I've never

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<v Speaker 2>been told that that anyone loves me before before this Matthew.

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<v Speaker 2>First off, really okay, all right, So the guys are annoyed.

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<v Speaker 1>Except for the guy, one of the guys I forgot

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<v Speaker 1>who was Devin, who told her I'm falling in love

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<v Speaker 1>with you. And she was like, no one's ever said

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<v Speaker 1>that to me before. Okay, well now they have, so

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<v Speaker 1>I can't keep saying I know exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>And he already apparently he'd already told her before, because

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<v Speaker 2>he was like, yeah, I'm still in love with you.

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<v Speaker 2>I just I'm not buying what she's selling well. And

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<v Speaker 2>also so she's very nerve to tell them. So she's like,

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<v Speaker 2>so I'm like in the city, and it's like this

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<v Speaker 2>guy Matt is here. She's all over it. It's like

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<v Speaker 2>talking to a five year old. Yes, And then there

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<v Speaker 2>was a clown, and then the clown came with the classroom,

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<v Speaker 2>and then he popped a balloon, and then I cried,

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<v Speaker 2>and then there were cupcakes, and it's like, okay, you

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<v Speaker 2>lost me at one Bart like, why do you cry?

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<v Speaker 2>But that's what I was like, yeah, Matt, and she yes.

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<v Speaker 2>She's being so vague about it. She's like, right in

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<v Speaker 2>the city. And then Matt is here and he wants

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<v Speaker 2>to join our journey. And he flew with herself like

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<v Speaker 2>he had a lot of miles. I don't like when

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<v Speaker 2>I was with him, he didn't have a lot of miles.

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<v Speaker 2>He wasn't like a huge traveler.

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<v Speaker 1>But I guess in the meantime he's been traveling a lot,

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<v Speaker 2>But she says all this, it makes no sense. They're

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<v Speaker 2>like gets up, like gotta go, and she's got to

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<v Speaker 2>go to go talk to him. Who his tugs? This

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<v Speaker 2>poor man right right, this is gentle gentle man. So

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<v Speaker 2>they're agitated. Obviously I would be too. Actually they're like

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<v Speaker 2>what I was talking too. But h Devin was just

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<v Speaker 2>like you know what. First of all, Sam was going

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<v Speaker 2>into his like hard you know, yeah, bra, listen, you

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<v Speaker 2>best not like come into this room, y'ah or I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna like beat your ass like he's doing that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>He's like where you stay? Where you stay? What are

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<v Speaker 2>you asking me where I live? Yeah? Bro, where do

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<v Speaker 2>you stay? Don't worry about it? Sam, I don't know why? Who? What?

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<v Speaker 2>What is? What is this crop of guys is this

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<v Speaker 2>is this truly the worst group that we've ever had.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't, Yeah, I'm not. I mean I like Grant.

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<v Speaker 2>I love Grant. I like Jonathan with an Oh, yes

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<v Speaker 2>I do. I really like Jonathan. He's he's a healthy choice.

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<v Speaker 2>I liked Dylan. I like that I've reduced him to

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<v Speaker 2>like a weight watcher's meal. He's a healthy choice. You

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<v Speaker 2>like Dylan? I like Dylan. Dylan is is not problematic

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<v Speaker 2>in any way. I'm not gonna make it though, so

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<v Speaker 2>he doesn't even you know, spoiler, and I was sort

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<v Speaker 2>of giving Spencer a pass until the turtleneck. Although I

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<v Speaker 2>do have something exciting to say. I do have a

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<v Speaker 2>surprise for you. Okay, we're gonna we'll wait to the surprise.

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<v Speaker 2>But there's someone someone turned me around them themselves. But no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>We'll get to Austin. Yeah. Austin's like like this is whacked.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh yeah, and the other guys are like, yeah, this

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<v Speaker 1>is like a no go. Devin's like if this guy comes,

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<v Speaker 1>if he walks in here, that that said, I'm leaving.

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<v Speaker 2>Right Yeah, he's very adamant about that. And this is

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<v Speaker 2>whack yo yo yo yo. But none of it matters.

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<v Speaker 2>It's all for total show bys. Because she goes to

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<v Speaker 2>have a conversation with Matt, who looks ridiculous. He does

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<v Speaker 2>seem sweet. There's no spark, as I called, and she's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I don't know, I like him, but like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like d he's like eleven other guys like I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know. But she's like, I I'm really torn. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>like but she's not at all torn. And the tucks

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<v Speaker 2>did not help. Oh my god. So she's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>thanks so much for coming, bye bye bye, and he's like,

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<v Speaker 2>can I get a banana from crafty or something like anything?

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<v Speaker 2>Do I literally have to go back tonight? And she's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>not my problem, right, and production.

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<v Speaker 1>Is like listen, He's like, is there any way you

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<v Speaker 1>guys could get me a better rate? Like, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>saying that you have to pay for it. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>asking you guys to pay my way home, but is

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<v Speaker 1>there can you guy you have a travel department, can

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<v Speaker 1>you get me a better deal?

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<v Speaker 2>And they're like no, no, because you made it very

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<v Speaker 2>clear it was on your own dime. So we did

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<v Speaker 2>that we'd be lying, right. So he's like, so I

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<v Speaker 2>just have to go to a hotel or something. Could

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<v Speaker 2>you recommend one? I'll eat for it. I really honestly

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<v Speaker 2>don't feel like I wanted And they're like, yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 2>we can't do that. You have to be out of

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<v Speaker 2>the country. We signed a waiver. This this poor So

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<v Speaker 2>then okay, So she has a conversation with Matt and

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<v Speaker 2>then Matt walks in. He has like feels the need

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<v Speaker 2>to meet the guy and they're not having it no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>this is where okay, yeah, yeah. Devin's like she complained

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<v Speaker 2>about her past and now she's letting it back in.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna leave, and then I just wrote Lenny and

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<v Speaker 1>Squiggy moment Ello. Matt comes in.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he's like, hey guys, first of all, flew here

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<v Speaker 2>on my own dime. Just want to make that super clever,

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<v Speaker 2>uh huh.

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<v Speaker 1>And my money okay, by dime, by my own dime.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I paid for it. It's on my credit card. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna get.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna get.

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<v Speaker 1>Miles, do not worry about me. And Sam goes, look around, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>there's some good guys here.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, boy boy, hey boy, yeah boy, glad to hear

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<v Speaker 2>the past. Sam will stay in the past. Mud dude, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>this here is squashed. We good bra Who are you? Sam?

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<v Speaker 2>Who is any of them? And then like Matt just

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't even know what's going on because he's so hungry

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<v Speaker 2>and tired, So he's like, okay, all right, see you around.

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<v Speaker 2>So he leaves. That was just said nothing real, nothing,

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<v Speaker 2>a real nothing, So Jen all right, So then we

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<v Speaker 2>have to go straight. She's like, well, you know, based

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<v Speaker 2>on this, like I kind of know who I love,

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<v Speaker 2>I know what I want now, So we're not gonna

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<v Speaker 2>have a party going straight to this rose ceremony, right,

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<v Speaker 2>Uh No, that that's at the end of the show.

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<v Speaker 2>This is they just straight up have a rose. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>then they have a rose ceremony.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so later she gets to do her no rose

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<v Speaker 1>ceremony for you, No, no cocktail party for you, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I've made my I've already made my decision.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so let me ask you this. When she's when

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<v Speaker 2>she's naming the people. Okay, so she's naming them, so

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just gonna do it in order because I just

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<v Speaker 2>all right, so it's grant of course. Then we have

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<v Speaker 2>boring Jeremy, Jonathan, and then Spencer when she says that

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<v Speaker 2>she's like a spunser spunsera except this rose with the turtleneck.

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<v Speaker 2>Dylan Austin. I was surprised by Austin. I was not

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<v Speaker 2>surprised to see Thomas go were you Oh no, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't you were surprised her. You weren't surprised. I

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<v Speaker 2>was not surprised, right, yeah, no, he was just absurd.

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<v Speaker 2>And then John just I don't think he got enough time,

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<v Speaker 2>right right, No he didn't. Yeah, he was adorable. I

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<v Speaker 2>liked him. But okay, so now we're down to nine guys.

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<v Speaker 1>It's important that we know that here, right, and then

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna go to seven. I always like to get

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<v Speaker 1>myself excited because the big cut is for hometowns. When

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<v Speaker 1>she goes seven to four.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you think she'll cut So next week she's

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<v Speaker 2>gonna cut three.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's how I totally do it. That's the normal

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<v Speaker 1>way of things. It's the big cut.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that. Yeah, i'd be you know, maybe because because

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<v Speaker 2>well we'll get to it, someone's self eliminates. Maybe we

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<v Speaker 2>get an extra episode, you know, because somebody. She wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>supposed to get rid of that many people, but she does.

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<v Speaker 2>This episode is like, it's we're getting it down.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's because we didn't have a rose ceremony in

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<v Speaker 1>the last episode because we had to be continued. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you think about it, it's kind of split into

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<v Speaker 1>ceremony would have left last Monday.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I said this before. I have a friend

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<v Speaker 2>not currently working on the show, but someone who used to.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I said this, but you know, from past experience,

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<v Speaker 2>the person who they're going to choose. They have it

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<v Speaker 2>down to the final two on day like day two,

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<v Speaker 2>there is literally usually no question. They have two guys

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<v Speaker 2>that they're into or two women, and then the rest

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<v Speaker 2>is all filler. That's what I've been told. And sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>even really one they like really hone in on, like

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<v Speaker 2>this is the one I don't really want to do

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<v Speaker 2>the rest of us, you know, I mean not obviously

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<v Speaker 2>not exactly always that, but who is the one that chose?

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<v Speaker 2>Courtney Robertson Robinson Ben, Yeah, like that story there was

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<v Speaker 2>it was. It was always Courtney. They were you know,

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<v Speaker 2>they were even caught on camera, are caught, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>on recordings like making fun of the other girls. Basically

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<v Speaker 2>really one. Yeah, like he wasn't necessarily be but she

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<v Speaker 2>was and he was laughing and don't you remember that

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<v Speaker 2>they had all that audio. They were just hooking up

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<v Speaker 2>all the time. It having sex with him on the beach,

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<v Speaker 2>right and it was like slurpy CAUs sound. But yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 2>it was always her. There was no question. Well I

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<v Speaker 2>have heard but like Nick faiol when I used to

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<v Speaker 2>like enjoy his podcast, he would always say that you

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<v Speaker 2>definitely they know, like the Final Four at least early

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<v Speaker 2>on and then yeah, a lot of it is production

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<v Speaker 2>picks that the people they keep around, but very I

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<v Speaker 2>have definitely heard that they're usually not surprised. Nobody comes

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<v Speaker 2>from behind, you know, right, not usually. I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>sure there's been a season but or.

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<v Speaker 1>They could come behind for us, but usually the person

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<v Speaker 2>Them, right. Yeah. Now, I was going to get to

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<v Speaker 1>So basically it's the Rose ceremonies done. Jen goes and

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<v Speaker 1>talks to Jesse and it's basically business speak, but bachelor speak.

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<v Speaker 1>Bah bah blah, while's down, my husband's here, get vulnerable,

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<v Speaker 1>get to know guys better, all right, date card. Jonathan

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<v Speaker 1>gets the date card. I just got right to it,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, they go up in a helicopter. She tells

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<v Speaker 1>us that they do have chemistry, but it hasn't taken

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<v Speaker 1>off yet. You know why, Cecily, because he hasn't gotten

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<v Speaker 1>open and vulnerable yet.

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<v Speaker 2>Are his walls up? Do you think? I think they're up? Yeah,

481
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<v Speaker 2>she's got to get them to get those walls down,

482
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<v Speaker 2>get them now. I thought this was the cutest date

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<v Speaker 2>I've seen her on this entire season. And who would

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<v Speaker 2>have thunk that are a little bandage guy or guy

485
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<v Speaker 2>with the bandage or whatever he did his yeah face

486
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<v Speaker 2>bandage guy. I mean, who would have thought that he'd

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<v Speaker 2>now all of a sudden be a front runner Like

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<v Speaker 2>that just came out, And that actually came out of

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<v Speaker 2>nowhere because I didn't really see them connecting, but when

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<v Speaker 2>they're running through the vineyard. I love relationships like this.

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<v Speaker 2>I love the fun best friend feel, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>sure we all do. But like the really silly picks

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<v Speaker 2>you up, swings you around like I like that. I

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<v Speaker 2>like that for her. I think that's she likes that

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<v Speaker 2>kind of stuff. Mm hmmm. And it's not so he's

496
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<v Speaker 2>not so serious, but he can be. Although I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know if I loved his trauma dump, which we'll get to. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it was pretty basic. Well, there's a there's a couple

499
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<v Speaker 2>of things that were fine that she said. Like she's

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<v Speaker 2>there throwing grapes at She's like, look what I can do.

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<v Speaker 2>Watch what I can do with my mouth. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>that's girl. You know that's going to be a commercial.

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<v Speaker 2>Then of course they have a hot tub right there,

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<v Speaker 2>which is our joke. Hot tub is just ready to go,

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<v Speaker 2>just in the middle of nowhere. They've brought it. They

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<v Speaker 2>made Matthew bring it in. Hey, while you're coming in

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<v Speaker 2>from the States. You've actually had a hard time getting

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<v Speaker 2>a hot tub here, could you?

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have to have it assembled. He's like, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I brought this hot tub on my own dime. Nobody

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<v Speaker 1>asked me, nobody paid me. I'm not getting reimbursed.

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<v Speaker 2>This was like something I chose to do, whether you

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<v Speaker 2>use it with me or another guy Like, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>control you. It's on you. I love you, I'm in

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<v Speaker 2>love with you, and I'm falling in love with you,

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<v Speaker 2>all those things, and she's like, bye, thank you for

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<v Speaker 2>the hot tub. So they have their night date. It's

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<v Speaker 2>trauma dump time, and okay, tell me what you thought

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<v Speaker 2>of this? I didn't like you said. I know you're

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<v Speaker 2>I know what you're getting to. I know. I okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So you want to you want to start? You want me?

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<v Speaker 1>Basically, he's like, yeah, I had this ex girlfriend and

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<v Speaker 1>she was crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>She started drinking too much, she had substance abuse issues,

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<v Speaker 2>and then she accused me of being abusive, and like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, isn't that horrible, Like when women like accuse

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<v Speaker 2>you of like abusing them, like that was crazy. Wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>that such a red flag? I was like, uh oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, oh, if it's bad enough that he feels

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<v Speaker 2>the need that he has to say it on camera

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<v Speaker 2>to kind of make sure it's like, oh, yeah, you're

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<v Speaker 2>probably gonna hear you do some some slight, very light digging.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's true. Maybe his ex wasn't great and maybe

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<v Speaker 2>she I don't know, who knows, I don't know her,

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<v Speaker 2>but I didn't like that his tramadum was about her addiction.

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<v Speaker 2>That's her story. Yeah, I think that's shitty. It is really,

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't like it, and we're only hearing.

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<v Speaker 1>One side, so it's it's difficult because provided like, let's

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<v Speaker 1>just say she chooses him and he's he's it at

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<v Speaker 1>the end. Well, then what like, then does does it

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<v Speaker 1>at that point? Does she find out does she hear

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<v Speaker 1>the other side of it? Like does she have to

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<v Speaker 1>wait until like she's home to see the stuff that?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean Listen, Reddit hasn't come out with anything about this,

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<v Speaker 1>so really, but you know what I mean, it's weird

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<v Speaker 1>that they would let him say that on the trauma dump,

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<v Speaker 1>but then we have no way for her to know

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<v Speaker 1>the truth.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, I totally agree. Also, again, it's somebody else's story.

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<v Speaker 2>And when I hear yeah, my ears perked up, like yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, so she was like just drinking too much. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>to me, it sounds like maybe, but he also is

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<v Speaker 2>super controlling and super He didn't say, like he could

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<v Speaker 2>have said, you know, I got caught up in the

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<v Speaker 2>chaos as well, there's an illness there, and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>through alan On, maybe I got a little better because

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<v Speaker 2>I learned I couldn't control this other person. It's not

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<v Speaker 2>for me to do that. You know, There's a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of ways he could have gone with that, but instead

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<v Speaker 2>it was like, yeah, she was like just drinking all

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<v Speaker 2>the time and stuff, and then she told me I

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<v Speaker 2>was like controlling. It's like, well, you probably were right. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's really difficult. I mean, all the way is, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>we do like him, but we just and we don't know, right,

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<v Speaker 2>Like if we were friends with him, we could all

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<v Speaker 2>we could be like, oh my god, his ex was

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<v Speaker 2>a total nightmare. Yeah, and maybe falsely accused him of things,

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<v Speaker 2>but we how do we know if I were him?

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<v Speaker 2>If that was the case and I were him, I

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't bring that up at all. If I had a

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<v Speaker 2>crazy X like that that I didn't want to messing

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<v Speaker 2>around with my life, I just wouldn't say anything. So

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<v Speaker 2>he's dumb or he's being manipulative. Yeah, there's no good

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<v Speaker 2>answer here, because if he's that terrible that she made

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<v Speaker 2>it up, like don't say it on the Bachelor, she's

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<v Speaker 2>not going anywhere, yeah you know, yeah, And then then

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<v Speaker 2>they're just throwing out all the work toxic gaslet, emotional abyss, trauma, trauma, gaslet, toxic.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, listen, both of these people could be unreliable narrators,

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<v Speaker 1>Like how do we know we're only listening to their

580
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<v Speaker 1>side of everything. We're only listening to Jen constantly tell

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<v Speaker 1>us that her ex was toxic, but then she's so

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<v Speaker 1>quick to be like, but not that ex, that ex

583
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<v Speaker 1>that was that just flew here. He was like totally great,

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<v Speaker 1>Like he was awesome guy I was taught.

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<v Speaker 2>Meanwhile, Matthew, some were telling the story about her, like

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<v Speaker 2>she's pretty toxic. I shouldn't have gone there. She was.

587
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<v Speaker 2>She did not seem to care about me at all.

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<v Speaker 2>I really thought we had a connection. Well, and there

589
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<v Speaker 2>is a weird thing too, if you think about it,

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<v Speaker 2>with like her family is always like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>you pick these guys and like you give and give

592
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<v Speaker 2>and give of yourself, and like they don't they don't

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<v Speaker 2>really give you anything.

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<v Speaker 1>But then what about this guy? She's like, But then

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<v Speaker 1>at the same time, she's like, well, I've never really

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<v Speaker 1>been in love. And according to her, this guy matt

597
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<v Speaker 1>was super.

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<v Speaker 2>Great and they did date. It's not like she wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>attracted to him. You know, you can't account chemistry if

600
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<v Speaker 2>you're not attracted to someone, nothing you can do. But like, yeah, they.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, But her complaint was that he was like a

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<v Speaker 1>not into her enough. I guess because she's like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you weren't saying but I just think I think she's

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<v Speaker 1>an unreliable narrator, is what I'm saying like here, you

605
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<v Speaker 1>had this great guy, but you're like, yeah, my ex

606
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<v Speaker 1>was really toxic, but I wasn't ready to receive love

607
00:31:29.519 --> 00:31:33.039
<v Speaker 1>back then. I only basically her family is saying, you

608
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<v Speaker 1>only go after these guys that don't care about you, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, And you know these people, these people, but a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of like you know on the show or otherwise,

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of people are getting therapy via TikTok and

612
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<v Speaker 2>it's unhealthy. You're throwing out words like gas lit. I

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<v Speaker 2>mean that's a really heavy allegation, right, like it's a

614
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<v Speaker 2>real thing, but like, let's not. It's like narcissist. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>we're all on a spectrum, we all we are. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not possible otherwise in life for the Dalai lama, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like even then he's probably a narcissist a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably he thinks pretty highly. You have to think kind

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<v Speaker 1>of highly of yourself to do like I don't know,

620
00:32:11.359 --> 00:32:14.559
<v Speaker 1>workshops for so many people.

621
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<v Speaker 2>Like first work on your foot. That makes you the

622
00:32:16.720 --> 00:32:18.799
<v Speaker 2>Dalai lama. It's how they decide, right.

623
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<v Speaker 1>So you know, if you're the Dolli Lama and people

624
00:32:21.640 --> 00:32:24.279
<v Speaker 1>treat you a certain way, is it possible that you

625
00:32:24.359 --> 00:32:26.519
<v Speaker 1>just never you just stay completely humble.

626
00:32:27.359 --> 00:32:29.119
<v Speaker 2>I don't know if the do. Let's say the Dalai

627
00:32:29.200 --> 00:32:31.279
<v Speaker 2>Lama was on the Bachelor, do you think he'd be like,

628
00:32:31.680 --> 00:32:35.319
<v Speaker 2>walls up, walls down. My walls are back up. I'm

629
00:32:35.359 --> 00:32:36.599
<v Speaker 2>just going to meditate. Walls down.

630
00:32:36.799 --> 00:32:39.839
<v Speaker 1>Would he be like, listen, when you're the Dalai Lama

631
00:32:39.920 --> 00:32:41.680
<v Speaker 1>and you're not going to understand this because you're not

632
00:32:41.759 --> 00:32:43.880
<v Speaker 1>the Dalai Lama, because there's only one Dollari Lama and

633
00:32:43.920 --> 00:32:47.799
<v Speaker 1>that's me. But when you're the Dollai Lama, like people have,

634
00:32:48.160 --> 00:32:51.680
<v Speaker 1>they just expect you to be perfect and then it's

635
00:32:51.799 --> 00:32:52.519
<v Speaker 1>toxic on me.

636
00:32:52.640 --> 00:32:57.200
<v Speaker 2>Says that I feel gas lit, honestly by everyone, the

637
00:32:57.200 --> 00:33:02.000
<v Speaker 2>whole world. So again, these things are real things. There

638
00:33:02.039 --> 00:33:04.599
<v Speaker 2>are people, there are relationships that are toxic. But I hate,

639
00:33:04.640 --> 00:33:06.640
<v Speaker 2>as you know, is just the black and white thinking.

640
00:33:07.319 --> 00:33:10.200
<v Speaker 2>You're just saying words, you're spewing words that just are

641
00:33:10.480 --> 00:33:13.599
<v Speaker 2>just make no sense. And I say that as someone

642
00:33:13.640 --> 00:33:16.000
<v Speaker 2>who's never been accused of being toxic by a guy,

643
00:33:17.079 --> 00:33:17.720
<v Speaker 2>You're welcome.

644
00:33:18.680 --> 00:33:23.240
<v Speaker 1>The thing is that if you are so victimy that

645
00:33:23.359 --> 00:33:25.720
<v Speaker 1>the every that you're just like I was in all

646
00:33:25.720 --> 00:33:28.000
<v Speaker 1>these toxic relationships only because I didn't know how to

647
00:33:28.039 --> 00:33:30.880
<v Speaker 1>love myself because I didn't value myself. But what about

648
00:33:30.880 --> 00:33:34.799
<v Speaker 1>the relationships that weren't toxic? You know what I'm saying,

649
00:33:34.839 --> 00:33:38.519
<v Speaker 1>like is the yeah, is Matt going like she's kind

650
00:33:38.519 --> 00:33:39.119
<v Speaker 1>of toxic?

651
00:33:40.039 --> 00:33:44.039
<v Speaker 2>Right right, That's what I'm saying. It's all relative. No,

652
00:33:44.079 --> 00:33:46.920
<v Speaker 2>I'm just agreeing with you and I appreciate that. And

653
00:33:47.039 --> 00:33:48.119
<v Speaker 2>so you're being.

654
00:33:48.000 --> 00:33:51.000
<v Speaker 1>Kind of toxic right now. I'm trying to like you

655
00:33:51.119 --> 00:33:53.319
<v Speaker 1>just want to argue about who's more toxic.

656
00:33:55.680 --> 00:34:00.279
<v Speaker 2>I mean, look, I always get myself in these toxic relationships. Point,

657
00:34:00.799 --> 00:34:05.079
<v Speaker 2>you're gaslighting. You're a red flag, well walking red flag. Okay,

658
00:34:05.119 --> 00:34:08.280
<v Speaker 2>So the guys are sitting red flag. Okay, yeah, I've

659
00:34:08.280 --> 00:34:10.440
<v Speaker 2>been sitting for a long time. Guys are talking smack

660
00:34:10.519 --> 00:34:12.440
<v Speaker 2>back to the thing. We'll come back. They get their

661
00:34:12.519 --> 00:34:15.119
<v Speaker 2>dumb date cards, so it's everyone except Grant. So we

662
00:34:15.159 --> 00:34:17.000
<v Speaker 2>know that Grant's going to get the one on one

663
00:34:18.679 --> 00:34:24.239
<v Speaker 2>yet this point. Yes, let's see. So that's kind of exciting. Also, Oh,

664
00:34:24.480 --> 00:34:28.480
<v Speaker 2>here's something else I didn't really like both of these two,

665
00:34:28.880 --> 00:34:31.960
<v Speaker 2>Jonathan and Jen. The thing they like about each other

666
00:34:32.199 --> 00:34:34.320
<v Speaker 2>is that they make each other feel like kind of

667
00:34:34.400 --> 00:34:38.519
<v Speaker 2>heard and believed, like because John's like, wow, you have,

668
00:34:38.639 --> 00:34:43.280
<v Speaker 2>like the ability to really understand. And then she's she's

669
00:34:43.679 --> 00:34:46.079
<v Speaker 2>Then he says to camera, like she makes me feel heard.

670
00:34:46.719 --> 00:34:48.639
<v Speaker 2>I don't hate that, I have to say, I actually

671
00:34:48.800 --> 00:34:51.280
<v Speaker 2>don't hate that. I think that's a good reason to

672
00:34:51.719 --> 00:34:54.760
<v Speaker 2>like someone. You feel seen. He's saying heard, but he

673
00:34:54.760 --> 00:34:57.079
<v Speaker 2>feels seen you want. That's the thing I've picked up

674
00:34:57.079 --> 00:35:00.639
<v Speaker 2>on on their like little platefulness. They they fit each

675
00:35:00.639 --> 00:35:02.239
<v Speaker 2>other well. I think they can be their best selves

676
00:35:02.320 --> 00:35:03.679
<v Speaker 2>around each other. There's no bullshit.

677
00:35:03.920 --> 00:35:06.079
<v Speaker 1>Well I guess I don't think that it's really your

678
00:35:06.119 --> 00:35:09.719
<v Speaker 1>best self if you're spending your entire dinner bashing your

679
00:35:09.760 --> 00:35:12.320
<v Speaker 1>ex and how shitty they treated you, and you're both like,

680
00:35:12.800 --> 00:35:16.239
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I too was treated shittily by an ex.

681
00:35:16.360 --> 00:35:19.239
<v Speaker 2>I too had a toxic X that you know, trauma bonding,

682
00:35:19.679 --> 00:35:20.800
<v Speaker 2>as they say.

683
00:35:20.760 --> 00:35:22.400
<v Speaker 1>Right, but then they're both like, that's why I have

684
00:35:22.440 --> 00:35:24.239
<v Speaker 1>a hard time emoting, That's why I have a hard

685
00:35:24.280 --> 00:35:26.719
<v Speaker 1>time being myself because I was because I had such

686
00:35:26.719 --> 00:35:27.519
<v Speaker 1>a terrible X.

687
00:35:28.360 --> 00:35:30.599
<v Speaker 2>Hmm. Yeah, No, they're not taking a lot of they're

688
00:35:30.639 --> 00:35:33.079
<v Speaker 2>not they're not looking at themselves, not a lot of

689
00:35:33.079 --> 00:35:38.280
<v Speaker 2>self examination. Yet, maybe we'll get there. Okay, So at

690
00:35:38.280 --> 00:35:40.400
<v Speaker 2>this point, so Grant gets the let's let's go to

691
00:35:40.519 --> 00:35:45.440
<v Speaker 2>Grant Austin. Austin's having some feelings at this point. He's like,

692
00:35:45.440 --> 00:35:48.360
<v Speaker 2>I haven't even like spent and has even kissed her.

693
00:35:49.039 --> 00:35:51.719
<v Speaker 2>I don't think so. No, he has an interesting thing here.

694
00:35:51.960 --> 00:35:54.039
<v Speaker 2>There's a moment where he you think he's going to say, well,

695
00:35:54.039 --> 00:35:55.880
<v Speaker 2>I don't I I've got to I've got a force

696
00:35:55.920 --> 00:35:57.360
<v Speaker 2>her to like me. I've got to get in front

697
00:35:57.400 --> 00:35:59.960
<v Speaker 2>of her real fast. Instead, he says, I haven't had

698
00:36:00.119 --> 00:36:02.119
<v Speaker 2>time to figure out if I'm into her, And I

699
00:36:02.159 --> 00:36:06.159
<v Speaker 2>thought that was really insightful, because he does matter too.

700
00:36:06.199 --> 00:36:09.440
<v Speaker 2>These guys feelings and what they want matter too. It's

701
00:36:09.480 --> 00:36:11.880
<v Speaker 2>always bugged me on these shows that if someone says,

702
00:36:11.880 --> 00:36:13.239
<v Speaker 2>you know, I'm sorry, I just don't think I can

703
00:36:13.280 --> 00:36:15.559
<v Speaker 2>get there, and they get so mad, they get so crazy.

704
00:36:15.559 --> 00:36:19.159
<v Speaker 2>But you're eliminating someone every week. Well, yeah, and I

705
00:36:19.199 --> 00:36:22.199
<v Speaker 2>think that we're about to see that, which I thought

706
00:36:22.239 --> 00:36:25.400
<v Speaker 2>was I had some thoughts about that. Tell us what

707
00:36:25.440 --> 00:36:29.840
<v Speaker 2>you thought, Well, has it happened yet? It hasn't happened yet. Well,

708
00:36:29.880 --> 00:36:30.719
<v Speaker 2>we're getting to it.

709
00:36:30.920 --> 00:36:34.760
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, let's first we have you know, first, we

710
00:36:34.800 --> 00:36:36.760
<v Speaker 1>talk about Ferocious Love with John.

711
00:36:36.599 --> 00:36:39.239
<v Speaker 2>And Jen and they rose, rose Rose. Now it's time

712
00:36:39.280 --> 00:36:42.400
<v Speaker 2>for the group date. So of course it's some couple

713
00:36:42.440 --> 00:36:44.559
<v Speaker 2>that's been married for like one hundred and fifty years,

714
00:36:44.880 --> 00:36:47.400
<v Speaker 2>and it's going to teach everyone about long term commitment

715
00:36:47.480 --> 00:36:51.880
<v Speaker 2>by sheep farming sheep, sheep, sheep spend time with the

716
00:36:51.880 --> 00:36:56.639
<v Speaker 2>sheep and the beach on the beach, Louie the sheep. Yeah,

717
00:36:56.679 --> 00:36:59.639
<v Speaker 2>for some reason, And I did not like this because

718
00:36:59.679 --> 00:37:01.440
<v Speaker 2>I don't like putting animal I don't want to make

719
00:37:01.480 --> 00:37:04.360
<v Speaker 2>animals work. It probably freaks them out to have all

720
00:37:04.400 --> 00:37:07.199
<v Speaker 2>those cameras there. I let the let the sheep live

721
00:37:07.280 --> 00:37:10.599
<v Speaker 2>their lives and a bunch of guys like running chasing

722
00:37:10.599 --> 00:37:12.920
<v Speaker 2>them around. Yeah, I didn't like that at all. It

723
00:37:12.960 --> 00:37:16.280
<v Speaker 2>probably really stressed them out. Yeah. I would imagine they're

724
00:37:16.320 --> 00:37:20.360
<v Speaker 2>like jumping over each other trying to get away. Yeah.

725
00:37:20.920 --> 00:37:25.320
<v Speaker 1>So Dylan, our sweetheart, Dylan is not happy because he

726
00:37:25.559 --> 00:37:29.199
<v Speaker 1>just bought some new sneakers and he's like, are you serious?

727
00:37:29.199 --> 00:37:31.960
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm about to get eliminated from this whole show.

728
00:37:32.519 --> 00:37:34.760
<v Speaker 1>And I bought like new sneakers because I'm kind of

729
00:37:34.800 --> 00:37:37.400
<v Speaker 1>into sneakers, and now they want me to like storm

730
00:37:37.440 --> 00:37:38.280
<v Speaker 1>around through mud.

731
00:37:39.000 --> 00:37:41.119
<v Speaker 2>And he's not the guys, and that tells us he's

732
00:37:41.119 --> 00:37:42.840
<v Speaker 2>not the guy for her since she seems to love

733
00:37:42.880 --> 00:37:45.480
<v Speaker 2>all that, like he can do better, not that she's

734
00:37:45.519 --> 00:37:48.559
<v Speaker 2>not great, but he needs his own soulmate. Yeah, but

735
00:37:48.639 --> 00:37:50.960
<v Speaker 2>why does he have to ruin his sneakers first?

736
00:37:51.159 --> 00:37:54.519
<v Speaker 1>I know, I know, you know, he's like, listen, I

737
00:37:54.519 --> 00:37:57.360
<v Speaker 1>bought these sneakers on my own dime, like you know,

738
00:37:57.639 --> 00:37:57.880
<v Speaker 1>is a.

739
00:37:57.840 --> 00:38:00.880
<v Speaker 2>Total sport about it. Though he's being so everyone's being there,

740
00:38:00.920 --> 00:38:06.360
<v Speaker 2>being cute. I just didn't think it was necessary. Yeah, so, uh,

741
00:38:06.519 --> 00:38:09.440
<v Speaker 2>Devin takes her like he's like, hey, like, let me

742
00:38:09.440 --> 00:38:11.239
<v Speaker 2>get like a little bit of alone time with you,

743
00:38:11.239 --> 00:38:14.360
<v Speaker 2>you know, and the guys are so triggered immediately, and

744
00:38:14.440 --> 00:38:17.079
<v Speaker 2>Sam is like, yeah, Bra, that's like a sign of

745
00:38:17.199 --> 00:38:20.920
<v Speaker 2>great disrespect yo, Like and I don't think Jen's looking

746
00:38:20.960 --> 00:38:24.199
<v Speaker 2>for that. And a guy oh medial that being sick. Yes,

747
00:38:24.239 --> 00:38:26.840
<v Speaker 2>he says that. He starts speaking like full on nineties

748
00:38:28.239 --> 00:38:30.280
<v Speaker 2>that you be illing, like okay, we're not going to

749
00:38:30.320 --> 00:38:35.679
<v Speaker 2>bring back you be ill colborate and listen, he just

750
00:38:35.719 --> 00:38:37.760
<v Speaker 2>gets someone comes out and gives him like a vanilla

751
00:38:37.800 --> 00:38:39.760
<v Speaker 2>ice like your hair, like what do you call it?

752
00:38:39.760 --> 00:38:42.960
<v Speaker 2>A fade? Yes, I mean he's not far from it

753
00:38:43.039 --> 00:38:46.639
<v Speaker 2>at this point. No, he's not so. But I was

754
00:38:46.719 --> 00:38:49.480
<v Speaker 2>just like, so, you're saying, what you're saying.

755
00:38:49.280 --> 00:38:52.519
<v Speaker 1>Right now is that you don't think the Jen wants

756
00:38:52.559 --> 00:38:55.280
<v Speaker 1>a guy who takes her aside and like pays attention

757
00:38:55.400 --> 00:38:57.679
<v Speaker 1>to her and is trying to get to know her.

758
00:38:58.679 --> 00:39:01.679
<v Speaker 2>I'm saying that or Sam. No, Sam's saying that. That's okay.

759
00:39:01.679 --> 00:39:03.280
<v Speaker 2>Sam is like, yeah, she wouldn't like that.

760
00:39:04.119 --> 00:39:05.960
<v Speaker 1>M she doesn't want a guy who pays attention to

761
00:39:06.000 --> 00:39:07.679
<v Speaker 1>her and isn't just here to have a dick measuring

762
00:39:07.719 --> 00:39:11.280
<v Speaker 1>contest with the other guys. Yeah, you're right, You're right, Sam,

763
00:39:11.519 --> 00:39:14.000
<v Speaker 1>You you really, you really get it.

764
00:39:14.000 --> 00:39:17.079
<v Speaker 2>Devin just does Devin. Then they come back and they're

765
00:39:17.079 --> 00:39:20.079
<v Speaker 2>like I did laugh, and they're like they're not very intelligent.

766
00:39:20.679 --> 00:39:23.199
<v Speaker 2>All they had to do was open the gate. Not

767
00:39:23.400 --> 00:39:26.800
<v Speaker 2>very intelligent. But the Beast the Beast Farmer Award goes

768
00:39:26.800 --> 00:39:29.840
<v Speaker 2>to Devin because all he did was like pull her

769
00:39:29.840 --> 00:39:32.519
<v Speaker 2>aside and he didn't do anything farmer farmer.

770
00:39:32.159 --> 00:39:36.719
<v Speaker 3>Related, right, right, right, right, So that kind of made

771
00:39:36.719 --> 00:39:39.320
<v Speaker 3>me laugh. I just like, I just not very intelligent.

772
00:39:40.639 --> 00:39:42.960
<v Speaker 3>So I Misflight of the Concord so much.

773
00:39:44.840 --> 00:39:47.639
<v Speaker 2>Did you watch that? I did? Yeah, yeah, yeah, we

774
00:39:47.679 --> 00:39:50.039
<v Speaker 2>need we needed them. That's what you do for the episode.

775
00:39:50.079 --> 00:39:52.480
<v Speaker 2>If I'm producing this episode, you bring them in something

776
00:39:52.559 --> 00:39:55.079
<v Speaker 2>cool and fun like that. Yeah. Yeah, they're a New Zealand.

777
00:39:55.199 --> 00:39:56.960
<v Speaker 2>Let's make it a New Zealand thing. That's fine. Yeah,

778
00:39:57.000 --> 00:39:58.239
<v Speaker 2>and plug them. That's great.

779
00:39:58.679 --> 00:40:01.519
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So now it's TI for this must be the

780
00:40:01.639 --> 00:40:05.760
<v Speaker 1>night portion and j Jeremy, our finance bro, gets them

781
00:40:05.760 --> 00:40:08.880
<v Speaker 1>alone time with her and he's like, yeah, bruh, like

782
00:40:08.920 --> 00:40:10.480
<v Speaker 1>I used to be fat and whatnot.

783
00:40:11.079 --> 00:40:13.880
<v Speaker 2>And she's like, what are you sure And he's like yeah,

784
00:40:14.079 --> 00:40:20.039
<v Speaker 2>like not open but just like fat, fat brow, which

785
00:40:20.119 --> 00:40:23.039
<v Speaker 2>does I guess I can track. I kind of see that. Yeah,

786
00:40:23.079 --> 00:40:27.880
<v Speaker 2>he's kind of doesn't have the most confidence. Mm hmm. Okay.

787
00:40:27.920 --> 00:40:29.719
<v Speaker 2>But here's what I loved. Here's where this is a

788
00:40:29.719 --> 00:40:32.800
<v Speaker 2>big surprise. Jeremy has been boring me. I don't like him.

789
00:40:32.800 --> 00:40:34.639
<v Speaker 2>I would never choose him. He's just not the guy

790
00:40:34.679 --> 00:40:37.639
<v Speaker 2>for us. But I did love when she's like great

791
00:40:37.639 --> 00:40:40.360
<v Speaker 2>in a fat he was an a pie, which I love.

792
00:40:40.440 --> 00:40:43.960
<v Speaker 2>I loved the pies. Oh really, they're the dorky guys.

793
00:40:44.000 --> 00:40:47.239
<v Speaker 2>It's a Jewish fraternity. You're the kind of dorky Jews.

794
00:40:47.400 --> 00:40:49.679
<v Speaker 2>I was. I came from a Sammy house. If there

795
00:40:49.679 --> 00:40:52.559
<v Speaker 2>are Sammy's out there listening, I see you. My dad

796
00:40:52.599 --> 00:40:55.559
<v Speaker 2>was a Sammy. All my boyfriends were Sammy's. Really, babe,

797
00:40:56.480 --> 00:40:59.159
<v Speaker 2>the A Pie is like they're little most schools, I

798
00:40:59.159 --> 00:41:01.639
<v Speaker 2>guess it's different, but I was an eighty five, so

799
00:41:01.679 --> 00:41:04.320
<v Speaker 2>I was in the Jewish sorority. So they were our

800
00:41:04.400 --> 00:41:08.159
<v Speaker 2>like brothers. Oh. I know, it's so stupid, but it had.

801
00:41:08.360 --> 00:41:10.400
<v Speaker 2>It's the dumbest thing where you're just like, oh, I

802
00:41:10.440 --> 00:41:13.039
<v Speaker 2>feel a little connected to you. So he's not like

803
00:41:13.079 --> 00:41:15.639
<v Speaker 2>super frat boyish, then he doesn't seem to be. I

804
00:41:15.679 --> 00:41:17.719
<v Speaker 2>mean he is. He was in a frat, but he

805
00:41:17.760 --> 00:41:20.880
<v Speaker 2>wasn't in like yeah, like stigmatallity. He wasn't in Beta

806
00:41:20.920 --> 00:41:22.679
<v Speaker 2>Theta Pie, like one of the ones you think of

807
00:41:23.639 --> 00:41:25.679
<v Speaker 2>that maybe sam would be in. And I'm not putting

808
00:41:25.679 --> 00:41:28.400
<v Speaker 2>those down, but Apie is like a nerdy Jewish fraternity

809
00:41:28.400 --> 00:41:30.280
<v Speaker 2>and I like it. Okay, I like that too. Then

810
00:41:30.679 --> 00:41:32.480
<v Speaker 2>I liked it and I was like, Okay, now he's

811
00:41:32.519 --> 00:41:34.599
<v Speaker 2>really cute because you imagine that guy, he probably did

812
00:41:34.639 --> 00:41:40.039
<v Speaker 2>pretty well. Yeah, So Jeremy, if you're listening, if you

813
00:41:40.079 --> 00:41:42.760
<v Speaker 2>want to go to like a formal or something. He

814
00:41:42.840 --> 00:41:44.440
<v Speaker 2>could go with me, We could go to a formal

815
00:41:44.559 --> 00:41:46.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't see why not. Oh, crush party. I'm going

816
00:41:46.880 --> 00:41:48.960
<v Speaker 2>to send you a little crush party invite. Well, he

817
00:41:49.000 --> 00:41:51.719
<v Speaker 2>could be he could be married to or engaged to

818
00:41:51.800 --> 00:41:54.519
<v Speaker 2>Jen right now, though you don't know. I feel like

819
00:41:54.559 --> 00:41:56.719
<v Speaker 2>I do know. I don't know. It hasn't been spoiled.

820
00:41:56.719 --> 00:41:58.920
<v Speaker 2>But I just do not see him as a I

821
00:41:58.920 --> 00:42:02.360
<v Speaker 2>don't even see hometown for him. I'd like to see them,

822
00:42:02.679 --> 00:42:05.960
<v Speaker 2>I mean, that'd be great. But then he then he

823
00:42:06.039 --> 00:42:08.159
<v Speaker 2>bores me again because he's like, yeah, you know, like

824
00:42:08.199 --> 00:42:12.119
<v Speaker 2>I'm low key, like afraid of like loneliness. That made

825
00:42:12.119 --> 00:42:15.239
<v Speaker 2>me cringe real hard, every part of that sentence. He's

826
00:42:15.320 --> 00:42:20.840
<v Speaker 2>low key has a fear of loneliness. And then they

827
00:42:20.840 --> 00:42:23.800
<v Speaker 2>have a whole conversation about who's a bigger giver. Yeah,

828
00:42:23.840 --> 00:42:25.840
<v Speaker 2>I just give. I give too much. That's just like

829
00:42:25.880 --> 00:42:28.400
<v Speaker 2>that if I were like one flaw, it's just I

830
00:42:28.599 --> 00:42:31.199
<v Speaker 2>just give. This happened before this.

831
00:42:31.159 --> 00:42:34.719
<v Speaker 1>Happened on another a different season where it was just

832
00:42:34.760 --> 00:42:37.320
<v Speaker 1>a constant like, oh my god, I'm just like.

833
00:42:37.960 --> 00:42:40.960
<v Speaker 2>So good to people. It's just like me with Charity,

834
00:42:41.039 --> 00:42:45.159
<v Speaker 2>It's like who was it was it? Charity? It might

835
00:42:45.199 --> 00:42:50.000
<v Speaker 2>have been charity. I don't give charity. Oh God. And

836
00:42:50.079 --> 00:42:52.360
<v Speaker 2>then okay, by the way, Jeremy's petting her this whole time,

837
00:42:52.360 --> 00:42:53.800
<v Speaker 2>which it was kind of cute that she's like, why

838
00:42:53.840 --> 00:42:57.119
<v Speaker 2>are you doing that? Stop getting me? It was weird.

839
00:42:57.159 --> 00:42:59.480
<v Speaker 2>It was like he didn't even that was cute. They

840
00:42:59.480 --> 00:42:59.880
<v Speaker 2>had a moment.

841
00:43:00.440 --> 00:43:02.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they did have a moment. But now it's time

842
00:43:02.840 --> 00:43:07.199
<v Speaker 1>for Austin. So this has been brewing. As we said,

843
00:43:07.320 --> 00:43:10.239
<v Speaker 1>Austin's just been slowly going like.

844
00:43:10.440 --> 00:43:12.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, man, I don't know may He's not

845
00:43:12.960 --> 00:43:14.519
<v Speaker 2>like I didn't get one. I haven't had a one

846
00:43:14.519 --> 00:43:14.920
<v Speaker 2>on one.

847
00:43:15.159 --> 00:43:17.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm not seeing myself getting a one on one, so

848
00:43:18.679 --> 00:43:20.440
<v Speaker 1>like I need to go talk to her.

849
00:43:20.880 --> 00:43:23.280
<v Speaker 2>He was not wrong to do that. He wasn't feeling her.

850
00:43:23.480 --> 00:43:26.480
<v Speaker 2>He just wasn't. Also, one of my biggest pet peeves

851
00:43:26.519 --> 00:43:29.639
<v Speaker 2>on reality shows is when people use the term chopping block.

852
00:43:30.039 --> 00:43:32.000
<v Speaker 2>I hate it. I don't know why. I've hated it

853
00:43:32.039 --> 00:43:36.000
<v Speaker 2>since like MTV challenge like Bananas was like, I'm on

854
00:43:36.039 --> 00:43:38.559
<v Speaker 2>the chopping block. God to give myself off the chopping

855
00:43:38.599 --> 00:43:42.239
<v Speaker 2>It's just a gross word, two words, and the guys

856
00:43:42.320 --> 00:43:44.119
<v Speaker 2>keep saying it. One of them said it so now

857
00:43:44.119 --> 00:43:46.400
<v Speaker 2>they're all saying it. So while they're all are they

858
00:43:46.519 --> 00:43:50.440
<v Speaker 2>at the chopping block? Sorry if I just don't want

859
00:43:50.440 --> 00:43:52.800
<v Speaker 2>to use that phrase, but are they? Are they on

860
00:43:52.960 --> 00:43:53.800
<v Speaker 2>the edge.

861
00:43:54.360 --> 00:43:56.199
<v Speaker 1>If they haven't had a one on one? Do we

862
00:43:56.199 --> 00:43:58.880
<v Speaker 1>think this is what they're kind of referring to. Probably,

863
00:43:59.039 --> 00:44:01.079
<v Speaker 1>and Austin is one of those. But he's like, wait

864
00:44:01.079 --> 00:44:03.000
<v Speaker 1>a minute. I thought about it, and I don't really

865
00:44:03.079 --> 00:44:05.519
<v Speaker 1>even like her. I like her as a human, I'm

866
00:44:05.559 --> 00:44:08.599
<v Speaker 1>just not like feeling it, so let me let her go. Also,

867
00:44:08.760 --> 00:44:11.360
<v Speaker 1>nobody's had like a second one on one yet, so

868
00:44:12.039 --> 00:44:14.599
<v Speaker 1>it's she can only have. There's only so much space

869
00:44:14.639 --> 00:44:18.039
<v Speaker 1>for one on one, so you know, you got to like,

870
00:44:18.199 --> 00:44:21.440
<v Speaker 1>if you like the person, you gotta if if somebody

871
00:44:21.480 --> 00:44:23.519
<v Speaker 1>gets a second one on one and you haven't had one,

872
00:44:23.559 --> 00:44:27.119
<v Speaker 1>then I can totally understand being like, Okay, well this

873
00:44:27.199 --> 00:44:27.519
<v Speaker 1>is done.

874
00:44:27.679 --> 00:44:29.639
<v Speaker 2>Not. I just wasn't into her though here because I

875
00:44:29.679 --> 00:44:32.360
<v Speaker 2>thought about that because the conversation was so short and

876
00:44:32.480 --> 00:44:33.920
<v Speaker 2>it could have been like, hey, I just want to

877
00:44:34.000 --> 00:44:35.719
<v Speaker 2>kiss you. I don't haven't had any time alone, like

878
00:44:35.719 --> 00:44:37.599
<v Speaker 2>you could have tried to woo her or something, m

879
00:44:38.159 --> 00:44:40.199
<v Speaker 2>and like have a nice moment and see if there's

880
00:44:40.280 --> 00:44:43.000
<v Speaker 2>a spark, but he wasn't even into that. He wasn't.

881
00:44:43.360 --> 00:44:44.719
<v Speaker 2>I don't think he cared about the one on one.

882
00:44:44.760 --> 00:44:46.320
<v Speaker 2>I think he was just like, I just don't think

883
00:44:46.440 --> 00:44:49.159
<v Speaker 2>I'm into you. And she was okay about it. She

884
00:44:49.199 --> 00:44:52.559
<v Speaker 2>didn't love it. She'd love the conversation, but she's like

885
00:44:53.239 --> 00:44:55.280
<v Speaker 2>it starts the whole like am I not enough? It's like, well,

886
00:44:55.280 --> 00:44:57.719
<v Speaker 2>you're already enough for eight other guys? Is that not

887
00:44:57.960 --> 00:44:59.119
<v Speaker 2>enough for you? Oh my god?

888
00:44:59.159 --> 00:45:03.760
<v Speaker 1>So one rejection, I knew this is where I started

889
00:45:03.800 --> 00:45:05.800
<v Speaker 1>to have the thing of like this is giving me

890
00:45:05.880 --> 00:45:10.480
<v Speaker 1>those Rachel Rekia vibes where it's like I have to

891
00:45:10.519 --> 00:45:12.960
<v Speaker 1>be the princess. It has to be all about me

892
00:45:13.239 --> 00:45:15.880
<v Speaker 1>all of these guys like I deserve, I want my

893
00:45:16.480 --> 00:45:19.280
<v Speaker 1>princess moment, Like they all need to be in love with.

894
00:45:19.199 --> 00:45:24.920
<v Speaker 2>Me or I'm not worthy, right, And it's exactly I

895
00:45:24.960 --> 00:45:27.719
<v Speaker 2>was like, you reject guys every day, that's the nature

896
00:45:27.719 --> 00:45:30.440
<v Speaker 2>of the show. But they get a say, they get

897
00:45:30.440 --> 00:45:32.679
<v Speaker 2>to say if they want to be there right then

898
00:45:32.679 --> 00:45:33.159
<v Speaker 2>She's like.

899
00:45:33.559 --> 00:45:36.760
<v Speaker 1>She turned it into a thing where which Rachel did,

900
00:45:36.840 --> 00:45:39.880
<v Speaker 1>which is when I kind of turned on Rachel. Where

901
00:45:40.079 --> 00:45:42.199
<v Speaker 1>it's time for them all to have to spend all

902
00:45:42.239 --> 00:45:45.079
<v Speaker 1>their time comforting her now yes, and telling her she's

903
00:45:45.239 --> 00:45:47.920
<v Speaker 1>enough and telling her like and I think that the

904
00:45:47.960 --> 00:45:51.519
<v Speaker 1>guys probably got irritated about it at some point, like okay, yeah,

905
00:45:51.559 --> 00:45:52.599
<v Speaker 1>one guy left, but.

906
00:45:52.559 --> 00:45:54.639
<v Speaker 2>The rest of us are all here, like vying for

907
00:45:54.679 --> 00:45:59.000
<v Speaker 2>your affections, right, she needs validation, She's saying. The producer

908
00:45:59.079 --> 00:46:01.760
<v Speaker 2>kind of you heard this women women's voice, and she's like,

909
00:46:01.840 --> 00:46:04.480
<v Speaker 2>do you think the other guys know? So they're trying

910
00:46:04.480 --> 00:46:06.559
<v Speaker 2>to tell get Jen to be like, hey, guys, I

911
00:46:06.559 --> 00:46:10.599
<v Speaker 2>need to tell you that I'm really insecure. Okay, yes,

912
00:46:10.840 --> 00:46:14.440
<v Speaker 2>I mean it's not much of a because one guy

913
00:46:14.519 --> 00:46:19.119
<v Speaker 2>left out of this many you just sent like twenty

914
00:46:19.119 --> 00:46:21.800
<v Speaker 2>guys home, you know from the beginning, thirty guys home.

915
00:46:22.079 --> 00:46:23.920
<v Speaker 2>Now you've got all these guys that are super into you.

916
00:46:24.119 --> 00:46:26.760
<v Speaker 2>Then they have to have the stupid dumb walls up conversation.

917
00:46:26.880 --> 00:46:29.679
<v Speaker 2>Oh and then tell her how britt you're so brave Jen,

918
00:46:30.320 --> 00:46:33.159
<v Speaker 2>You're so brave for even being here and doing this, Yeah.

919
00:46:33.039 --> 00:46:35.360
<v Speaker 1>Putting yourself on the line like that, Like you know,

920
00:46:36.039 --> 00:46:38.039
<v Speaker 1>we're the ones who could go home at any moment,

921
00:46:38.119 --> 00:46:39.440
<v Speaker 1>but like look at you go.

922
00:46:40.039 --> 00:46:43.599
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, look at it. And then Sam m speak some wisdom.

923
00:46:43.960 --> 00:46:45.760
<v Speaker 2>I was shocked, were you shocked by? He kind of

924
00:46:45.800 --> 00:46:48.559
<v Speaker 2>flipped the script and he said, you know you're saying this,

925
00:46:49.079 --> 00:46:51.440
<v Speaker 2>but would you love me if if I what I

926
00:46:51.480 --> 00:46:53.960
<v Speaker 2>wrote because he was saying, like if I let first down? First?

927
00:46:54.039 --> 00:46:56.159
<v Speaker 2>I thought it was really gross what she says to

928
00:46:56.239 --> 00:46:59.440
<v Speaker 2>start it off, because she's like, do you feel differently

929
00:46:59.480 --> 00:47:02.679
<v Speaker 2>about me? Right? Like knowing someone left? Like what a

930
00:47:02.719 --> 00:47:05.639
<v Speaker 2>weird fricking thing to say. Well, then he flips it

931
00:47:05.679 --> 00:47:07.440
<v Speaker 2>and I wrote that he said, could you love me

932
00:47:07.480 --> 00:47:09.679
<v Speaker 2>if I took off my KKK robe? I mean, I'm

933
00:47:09.719 --> 00:47:11.679
<v Speaker 2>so sorry, my walls down, let my go down? Sorry,

934
00:47:11.679 --> 00:47:14.400
<v Speaker 2>I shouldn't have said the rogue part. Would you love

935
00:47:14.400 --> 00:47:16.079
<v Speaker 2>me if you saw the real me? You know? And

936
00:47:16.159 --> 00:47:20.039
<v Speaker 2>he just takes off a mask? I mean yeah, but

937
00:47:20.119 --> 00:47:22.559
<v Speaker 2>he wasn't wrong. I mean I don't like Sam m

938
00:47:22.559 --> 00:47:26.320
<v Speaker 2>but he wasn't wrong, correct, He said with you to

939
00:47:26.360 --> 00:47:30.400
<v Speaker 2>say yeah? Because she was so caught up in like,

940
00:47:30.920 --> 00:47:32.679
<v Speaker 2>oh my god, what does this say about me? What

941
00:47:32.719 --> 00:47:35.159
<v Speaker 2>does this say about me that somebody decided not to

942
00:47:35.199 --> 00:47:38.400
<v Speaker 2>compete for me? If you were guessing right now who

943
00:47:38.400 --> 00:47:40.199
<v Speaker 2>the front runners are? Because I wrote this down here

944
00:47:40.239 --> 00:47:44.000
<v Speaker 2>after that conversation who are your who's going to hometowns?

945
00:47:46.840 --> 00:47:49.679
<v Speaker 2>I've got it, I'll tell you mine. Okay, Jonathan, I

946
00:47:49.679 --> 00:47:53.119
<v Speaker 2>do think he was going home? Jonathan, Okay, damn unless

947
00:47:53.239 --> 00:47:55.760
<v Speaker 2>something happens, uh huh, lest you know, you might know

948
00:47:55.800 --> 00:47:58.599
<v Speaker 2>otherwise I don't know. I think Devin because she doesn't know.

949
00:47:58.840 --> 00:48:02.840
<v Speaker 2>And Marcus. Oh, but maybe Grant. I'm not feeling a

950
00:48:02.920 --> 00:48:07.119
<v Speaker 2>huge spark with Grant. Weirdly, I like him, but I don't.

951
00:48:07.239 --> 00:48:10.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm not feeling it. I like him a lot. I

952
00:48:10.440 --> 00:48:17.079
<v Speaker 2>mean I would choose him, I know, I'm not sure. Yeah,

953
00:48:17.159 --> 00:48:19.719
<v Speaker 2>Grants the wild card there. Maybe not Marcus because he's

954
00:48:20.239 --> 00:48:22.320
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, she has a whole thing with him. Okay,

955
00:48:22.320 --> 00:48:24.440
<v Speaker 2>So this is where now she's in a good mood

956
00:48:24.440 --> 00:48:26.079
<v Speaker 2>because they all tell her how great she is, and

957
00:48:26.119 --> 00:48:27.880
<v Speaker 2>she's like, hey, we don't need a rose ceremony. No

958
00:48:27.880 --> 00:48:31.320
<v Speaker 2>one else gets to talk to me. Sorry. Oops. Oh.

959
00:48:31.400 --> 00:48:35.679
<v Speaker 1>Also, also Devin says, which I just thought was kind

960
00:48:35.719 --> 00:48:38.719
<v Speaker 1>of funny. Devon's like, yeah, you know, like I don't

961
00:48:38.719 --> 00:48:40.440
<v Speaker 1>know what you've been through in your life to make

962
00:48:40.480 --> 00:48:43.679
<v Speaker 1>you feel like not worthy of being chosen. But like

963
00:48:43.800 --> 00:48:46.199
<v Speaker 1>even if I don't choose you, like some guy's gonna choose.

964
00:48:46.239 --> 00:48:50.440
<v Speaker 2>You say, this is not the Rose Herman part. No Rose,

965
00:48:50.480 --> 00:48:51.920
<v Speaker 2>as far as there was supposed to be a group

966
00:48:52.000 --> 00:48:54.440
<v Speaker 2>day rose. That's what I meant, no, because nobody really

967
00:48:54.480 --> 00:48:57.599
<v Speaker 2>deserves a rose because she's not feeling like chosen right now,

968
00:48:59.400 --> 00:49:03.719
<v Speaker 2>somebody when like, I'm not feeling chosen. Okay, So now

969
00:49:03.719 --> 00:49:06.239
<v Speaker 2>we have our date with grand They go horseback riding,

970
00:49:06.280 --> 00:49:09.559
<v Speaker 2>which was beautiful. They are beautifully shot. I mean, this

971
00:49:09.639 --> 00:49:12.360
<v Speaker 2>is a if you're looking at it from like a cinematic,

972
00:49:14.119 --> 00:49:17.800
<v Speaker 2>you know, point of view, it's gorgeous. This year, she

973
00:49:17.880 --> 00:49:23.400
<v Speaker 2>looks really cute. They look cute together. They are very cozy, and.

974
00:49:23.480 --> 00:49:28.280
<v Speaker 1>He's absolutely stunning. I think he's so cute. He's so

975
00:49:28.559 --> 00:49:36.119
<v Speaker 1>easy on the eyes. The beautiful brown ice, beautiful brown ice.

976
00:49:36.440 --> 00:49:40.800
<v Speaker 1>I've never seen brown eyes so beautiful. I don't care

977
00:49:40.840 --> 00:49:43.960
<v Speaker 1>that he's a spam donut. Okay, we are talking about

978
00:49:44.039 --> 00:49:47.480
<v Speaker 1>ninety day Piance some other one other show.

979
00:49:47.599 --> 00:49:52.159
<v Speaker 2>What was it, Love and Paradise? Yes, sorry, he's love

980
00:49:52.199 --> 00:49:53.760
<v Speaker 2>beautiful brown eyes on the whole.

981
00:49:55.320 --> 00:49:58.000
<v Speaker 1>She's like, this is like a movie. This is like

982
00:49:58.039 --> 00:50:02.280
<v Speaker 1>a movie. It is very cute. They they drink champagne

983
00:50:02.400 --> 00:50:04.719
<v Speaker 1>under an umbrella because it starts to rain.

984
00:50:04.800 --> 00:50:07.440
<v Speaker 2>And he's all cozy. He has he's holding the umbrella

985
00:50:07.480 --> 00:50:12.320
<v Speaker 2>and he has her in his arms. Yeah they're adorable. Yeah, yeah,

986
00:50:12.760 --> 00:50:13.360
<v Speaker 2>he has.

987
00:50:13.199 --> 00:50:17.719
<v Speaker 1>A real by the way, Okay, yeah was this uh

988
00:50:17.800 --> 00:50:20.559
<v Speaker 1>oh nighttime portion? Get right to the night portion if you.

989
00:50:20.480 --> 00:50:22.360
<v Speaker 2>Don't they So we do all this, We go to

990
00:50:22.440 --> 00:50:24.440
<v Speaker 2>the nighttime and then he does have something he wants

991
00:50:24.519 --> 00:50:27.760
<v Speaker 2>to talk about and Grant. It's so interesting that they

992
00:50:27.800 --> 00:50:31.679
<v Speaker 2>have similar He and Jonathan had similar traumas to discuss,

993
00:50:32.079 --> 00:50:35.760
<v Speaker 2>but Grant does it in such a mature way. He

994
00:50:35.920 --> 00:50:38.119
<v Speaker 2>tells how he feels, but he also is like really

995
00:50:38.159 --> 00:50:41.199
<v Speaker 2>working on his relationship with his dad. He's talking about

996
00:50:41.199 --> 00:50:44.039
<v Speaker 2>his dad. Mm hmmm. I thought that was great. He's like,

997
00:50:44.079 --> 00:50:45.559
<v Speaker 2>you know, I just sort of didn't know what was

998
00:50:45.559 --> 00:50:47.679
<v Speaker 2>going on. I didn't really know my dad was an alcoholic,

999
00:50:47.719 --> 00:50:50.440
<v Speaker 2>but now he's he's really One day I got the

1000
00:50:50.440 --> 00:50:54.079
<v Speaker 2>call that he's going to rehab and he's two months sober,

1001
00:50:54.079 --> 00:50:56.679
<v Speaker 2>which you know isn't that much, but Grant felt hopeful

1002
00:50:56.719 --> 00:50:59.239
<v Speaker 2>and like cares about him and he wasn't just like

1003
00:50:59.280 --> 00:51:01.760
<v Speaker 2>saying my life is I mean, because Grant has been

1004
00:51:01.760 --> 00:51:04.159
<v Speaker 2>a superstar in his life. Yeah, So there's nothing. He's

1005
00:51:04.199 --> 00:51:06.559
<v Speaker 2>not pointing at anything going. This held me back. No,

1006
00:51:06.719 --> 00:51:10.480
<v Speaker 2>He's like, no, this happened and we're working on it. Yeah.

1007
00:51:10.559 --> 00:51:14.760
<v Speaker 2>I absolutely love that, and I loved I will say

1008
00:51:14.920 --> 00:51:18.719
<v Speaker 2>I really liked her response to it, because he says,

1009
00:51:18.760 --> 00:51:21.880
<v Speaker 2>he's like, you know, my dad got fired from his

1010
00:51:22.000 --> 00:51:24.039
<v Speaker 2>job and he was blaming everyone, you know, the way

1011
00:51:24.079 --> 00:51:26.119
<v Speaker 2>addicts do, don't take responsibility.

1012
00:51:26.519 --> 00:51:28.559
<v Speaker 1>And I finally spoke up and I was like, I

1013
00:51:28.559 --> 00:51:31.559
<v Speaker 1>don't care. And that led to him checking into rehab

1014
00:51:31.679 --> 00:51:34.280
<v Speaker 1>or whatever. And then Jen's response is like, yeah, you know,

1015
00:51:34.400 --> 00:51:38.000
<v Speaker 1>working in an er, I've seen a lot of addiction

1016
00:51:38.840 --> 00:51:40.679
<v Speaker 1>and it's a disease.

1017
00:51:41.159 --> 00:51:45.039
<v Speaker 2>You know. I really believe that, you know. And I

1018
00:51:45.079 --> 00:51:48.360
<v Speaker 2>thought that was cool of her, but then she basically

1019
00:51:48.519 --> 00:51:52.400
<v Speaker 2>stole turned the conversation to talk about her growing up

1020
00:51:52.400 --> 00:51:56.079
<v Speaker 2>without a dad, and I, on the one hand, I

1021
00:51:56.239 --> 00:51:58.679
<v Speaker 2>do understand what she was like. I get that she

1022
00:51:58.719 --> 00:52:01.960
<v Speaker 2>was trying to relate to him, but I don't know,

1023
00:52:02.400 --> 00:52:04.199
<v Speaker 2>was there any part of you that was like, we know,

1024
00:52:04.440 --> 00:52:06.639
<v Speaker 2>we heard about your dad like a lot of times already.

1025
00:52:06.800 --> 00:52:08.960
<v Speaker 2>And also I'm confused about the dad. I guess it

1026
00:52:09.000 --> 00:52:11.199
<v Speaker 2>was different than what I thought. Originally I thought Originally

1027
00:52:11.239 --> 00:52:13.679
<v Speaker 2>he just like slept on some weird couch and was cold.

1028
00:52:14.239 --> 00:52:16.559
<v Speaker 2>But then she's like, no, he moved out and had

1029
00:52:16.599 --> 00:52:20.079
<v Speaker 2>nothing to do with her. I'm confused about which is

1030
00:52:20.159 --> 00:52:22.079
<v Speaker 2>the right. I don't know. She didn't have a good

1031
00:52:22.119 --> 00:52:25.159
<v Speaker 2>relationship with him, and I guess it's important that she

1032
00:52:25.400 --> 00:52:28.000
<v Speaker 2>talked about it didn't bother me in this case, because

1033
00:52:28.000 --> 00:52:29.840
<v Speaker 2>I think she was just saying I totally hear you,

1034
00:52:29.880 --> 00:52:30.519
<v Speaker 2>I can relate.

1035
00:52:31.920 --> 00:52:35.239
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, which obviously worked on him because he's like, whoa,

1036
00:52:35.320 --> 00:52:36.519
<v Speaker 1>I'm now falling in love with her?

1037
00:52:36.920 --> 00:52:38.400
<v Speaker 2>He is, and I think he is. Okay, yeah, he'll

1038
00:52:38.400 --> 00:52:40.840
<v Speaker 2>probably go to hometowns. So obviously he gets a rose.

1039
00:52:40.880 --> 00:52:45.119
<v Speaker 2>They're connecting. Meanwhile, back at the house, so great, Yeah,

1040
00:52:45.119 --> 00:52:46.840
<v Speaker 2>Grant says he's falling in love. Oh my god, I

1041
00:52:46.840 --> 00:52:51.360
<v Speaker 2>can't believe that this experiment works. Saw that Dylan's concerned.

1042
00:52:51.400 --> 00:52:56.800
<v Speaker 2>Everybody's a little bit nervous. Devin's nervous, feels so this

1043
00:52:56.960 --> 00:52:59.480
<v Speaker 2>is finally where she's ready to go. No cocktail party, okay,

1044
00:52:59.519 --> 00:53:01.559
<v Speaker 2>this is it.

1045
00:53:00.719 --> 00:53:04.199
<v Speaker 1>Which with no real explanation because there are a lot

1046
00:53:04.239 --> 00:53:07.800
<v Speaker 1>of guys that haven't had one on ones that are like, okay, well,

1047
00:53:07.840 --> 00:53:10.119
<v Speaker 1>it's the cocktail parties the time that I'm really gonna

1048
00:53:10.159 --> 00:53:12.719
<v Speaker 1>like have some time with her because I haven't had

1049
00:53:12.719 --> 00:53:15.880
<v Speaker 1>a one on one, like what's his name who We

1050
00:53:15.920 --> 00:53:18.960
<v Speaker 1>were just finished talking about Jeremy. Jeremy's like, you know,

1051
00:53:19.000 --> 00:53:22.360
<v Speaker 1>I really can only shine during these times, like during

1052
00:53:22.360 --> 00:53:26.280
<v Speaker 1>the cocktail parties, right, So then she's like, yeah, no

1053
00:53:26.679 --> 00:53:28.440
<v Speaker 1>need for a cocktail party.

1054
00:53:28.599 --> 00:53:30.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. That was although they did get some time. They

1055
00:53:30.960 --> 00:53:33.559
<v Speaker 2>made out and everything like which kind of kind of cutely,

1056
00:53:33.679 --> 00:53:35.559
<v Speaker 2>kind of hot. Maybe because I found out he was API.

1057
00:53:35.679 --> 00:53:37.840
<v Speaker 2>I was like, I'd make up with Jeremy.

1058
00:53:38.400 --> 00:53:41.280
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, making good use of his time. He's not just

1059
00:53:41.280 --> 00:53:43.840
<v Speaker 1>sitting around bitching about not having a one on one.

1060
00:53:44.199 --> 00:53:46.599
<v Speaker 2>The guys are having reactions Devin. Have you noticed every

1061
00:53:46.639 --> 00:53:49.199
<v Speaker 2>time he's like, well, I need a drink. I'm starting

1062
00:53:49.239 --> 00:53:51.000
<v Speaker 2>to think Devin might have a little bit of an issue.

1063
00:53:51.119 --> 00:53:53.840
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I don't see them drink that much outside

1064
00:53:53.840 --> 00:53:56.719
<v Speaker 2>of drinking wine or whatever on a at a dinner

1065
00:53:57.039 --> 00:53:59.639
<v Speaker 2>or whatever. He's constantly like getting shots.

1066
00:54:00.800 --> 00:54:03.519
<v Speaker 1>Do you ever think about the fact too, which we

1067
00:54:03.719 --> 00:54:06.840
<v Speaker 1>I thought it was interesting on the date with Grant

1068
00:54:07.000 --> 00:54:09.480
<v Speaker 1>where they're talking about the fact that like the dad

1069
00:54:09.719 --> 00:54:14.679
<v Speaker 1>was an alcoholic and Meanwhile, they drink constantly through their dates.

1070
00:54:14.719 --> 00:54:17.360
<v Speaker 2>They drink in the afternoon, they're having champagne. Then they

1071
00:54:17.360 --> 00:54:18.119
<v Speaker 2>go out and they drink.

1072
00:54:18.400 --> 00:54:21.880
<v Speaker 1>Like if she's drinking twice a day every day, that's

1073
00:54:21.920 --> 00:54:23.039
<v Speaker 1>a lot of alcoholics.

1074
00:54:23.239 --> 00:54:25.840
<v Speaker 2>Little she's little, So I don't know where that's going

1075
00:54:26.199 --> 00:54:27.000
<v Speaker 2>or does she is.

1076
00:54:27.039 --> 00:54:29.000
<v Speaker 1>She just have to be really in control of her

1077
00:54:29.039 --> 00:54:30.840
<v Speaker 1>drinking and go like I'm going to have like a

1078
00:54:30.880 --> 00:54:33.480
<v Speaker 1>few SIPs of champagne and that's it. And then she'd

1079
00:54:33.559 --> 00:54:35.119
<v Speaker 1>have to be a glass of wine with dinner and

1080
00:54:35.159 --> 00:54:35.519
<v Speaker 1>that's it.

1081
00:54:36.000 --> 00:54:38.519
<v Speaker 2>I mean, honestly, I couldn't do it like I have.

1082
00:54:38.800 --> 00:54:42.800
<v Speaker 2>I'm drunk on one drink. I was watching a show.

1083
00:54:42.840 --> 00:54:45.760
<v Speaker 2>I don't remember what the show was, but like, uh no,

1084
00:54:46.000 --> 00:54:49.599
<v Speaker 2>Sex and the City of course. Sorry, like I pretend

1085
00:54:49.639 --> 00:54:51.639
<v Speaker 2>for a second, I don't know what the show it was,

1086
00:54:52.280 --> 00:54:54.519
<v Speaker 2>not sure, but there's an episode where Miranda goes on

1087
00:54:54.559 --> 00:54:59.199
<v Speaker 2>a date and then the line is Julian Miranda, well,

1088
00:54:59.199 --> 00:55:03.159
<v Speaker 2>I love you, Marie Into and she has says she

1089
00:55:03.199 --> 00:55:07.079
<v Speaker 2>has six martinis. Now one martini. I am done. I

1090
00:55:07.079 --> 00:55:10.559
<v Speaker 2>mean I'm wasted drunk, So six martini's okay. That was

1091
00:55:10.559 --> 00:55:12.719
<v Speaker 2>the writers. That was stupid, but even like two, I'd

1092
00:55:12.760 --> 00:55:15.239
<v Speaker 2>be falling down. And I'm small. I'm a little like her,

1093
00:55:15.480 --> 00:55:18.360
<v Speaker 2>like you know, like I don't know, I don't know.

1094
00:55:18.760 --> 00:55:21.679
<v Speaker 2>It's hard to drink that much when you don't have

1095
00:55:21.760 --> 00:55:25.440
<v Speaker 2>that much body weight. Agree, And I'm just saying, yeah,

1096
00:55:25.480 --> 00:55:30.800
<v Speaker 2>you're right. All that to say, Marianda, Marianda, I can't

1097
00:55:30.840 --> 00:55:39.119
<v Speaker 2>hear what you will love meaning more, Miranda, you love

1098
00:55:39.159 --> 00:55:43.239
<v Speaker 2>this lady who I missed that show so much. That

1099
00:55:43.400 --> 00:55:46.480
<v Speaker 2>was our favorite, I have to say, aside from Bachelor obviously,

1100
00:55:47.039 --> 00:55:49.480
<v Speaker 2>and just like that was our favorite show to recap.

1101
00:55:50.400 --> 00:55:53.599
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, it's coming back, yeah, but it's just

1102
00:55:53.639 --> 00:55:56.760
<v Speaker 2>not soon enough. So meanwhile, Dylan's upset to this poor guy,

1103
00:55:56.840 --> 00:55:59.480
<v Speaker 2>we love him so much. He's kind of crying. He's like,

1104
00:55:59.519 --> 00:56:02.239
<v Speaker 2>it's sweet. I thought he was being Oh, I thought

1105
00:56:02.239 --> 00:56:04.840
<v Speaker 2>you were saying Devon. I was like, Dylan, I don't

1106
00:56:04.920 --> 00:56:07.320
<v Speaker 2>know how much I love him anymore. But okay, yeah,

1107
00:56:07.320 --> 00:56:10.440
<v Speaker 2>poor Dylan. Yeah, So Dylan doesn't get a rose, So

1108
00:56:10.519 --> 00:56:15.840
<v Speaker 2>Austin eliminated himself and so and Dylan didn't get a rose.

1109
00:56:15.840 --> 00:56:18.280
<v Speaker 2>And then on the last episode, like three people. So

1110
00:56:18.320 --> 00:56:22.119
<v Speaker 2>we've lost like five five men, right right, so we're

1111
00:56:22.159 --> 00:56:27.920
<v Speaker 2>down to seven so we have Sam m Devon, Marcus, Jeremy, Spencer, Grant,

1112
00:56:27.960 --> 00:56:30.719
<v Speaker 2>and Jonathan Dylan gets at home. I just wrote that's

1113
00:56:30.760 --> 00:56:33.159
<v Speaker 2>really dumb. I mean, I don't know what they're you know,

1114
00:56:33.199 --> 00:56:35.880
<v Speaker 2>you can't account for chemistry. Maybe he's not maybe they

1115
00:56:35.920 --> 00:56:39.199
<v Speaker 2>don't kiss well together or something that we can't see, right,

1116
00:56:39.480 --> 00:56:41.840
<v Speaker 2>I mean, he's just so adore. I just think that's

1117
00:56:41.880 --> 00:56:45.360
<v Speaker 2>a mistake. But oh god, you're gonna keep Spencer with

1118
00:56:45.400 --> 00:56:48.360
<v Speaker 2>a turtleneck that doesn't bother her like she's not.

1119
00:56:49.960 --> 00:56:53.199
<v Speaker 1>I don't Okay, I'm gonna call it. I don't think

1120
00:56:53.239 --> 00:56:56.039
<v Speaker 1>Spencer's I'm gonna go backwards. I'm going to eliminate who

1121
00:56:56.079 --> 00:56:58.679
<v Speaker 1>I think won't get a hometown. Okay, Spencer for sure

1122
00:56:58.719 --> 00:56:59.320
<v Speaker 1>will not get.

1123
00:56:59.159 --> 00:57:01.559
<v Speaker 2>A Spencer's knock getting a home. He can't, which too

1124
00:57:01.599 --> 00:57:03.440
<v Speaker 2>bad because it was Dallas. I always like to see

1125
00:57:03.719 --> 00:57:05.760
<v Speaker 2>one of my homes. I just don't see him.

1126
00:57:05.840 --> 00:57:08.199
<v Speaker 1>I think he's fallen behind and I don't see him

1127
00:57:08.400 --> 00:57:09.000
<v Speaker 1>catching up.

1128
00:57:09.199 --> 00:57:13.679
<v Speaker 2>There's nothing to him. He's just nothing. Sorry, Spenser, I'm

1129
00:57:13.679 --> 00:57:16.239
<v Speaker 2>sure he's something, just he hasn't shown it. I feel

1130
00:57:16.239 --> 00:57:19.159
<v Speaker 2>like Grant is going to get a hometown. Grant's going

1131
00:57:19.239 --> 00:57:23.199
<v Speaker 2>to get a hometown. I think it's going to be Grant, Sam, Devon,

1132
00:57:23.239 --> 00:57:26.199
<v Speaker 2>and Marcus. She's going to get rid of Jeremy and Spencer,

1133
00:57:26.199 --> 00:57:29.079
<v Speaker 2>who are like interchangeable by the way, exactly the same.

1134
00:57:29.159 --> 00:57:31.960
<v Speaker 2>She has to get rid of one more. M h

1135
00:57:32.639 --> 00:57:36.280
<v Speaker 2>I don't. Oh oh oh, Jonathan, shit, Jonathan, you're right,

1136
00:57:36.639 --> 00:57:36.960
<v Speaker 2>I don't.

1137
00:57:37.000 --> 00:57:39.519
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm going to say this. I don't think Sam's

1138
00:57:40.000 --> 00:57:42.079
<v Speaker 1>because they've been teasing, like a fight that she gets

1139
00:57:42.079 --> 00:57:45.639
<v Speaker 1>into with Sam at the very beginning of the season.

1140
00:57:45.719 --> 00:57:49.360
<v Speaker 1>Remember they showed her kind of saying there was something

1141
00:57:49.400 --> 00:57:51.719
<v Speaker 1>where she's like, you know, you're not here for the

1142
00:57:51.800 --> 00:57:55.000
<v Speaker 1>right reasons. She gets in some argument with him. So

1143
00:57:55.280 --> 00:57:58.880
<v Speaker 1>I feel like something's going to happen and she's going

1144
00:57:58.920 --> 00:58:02.000
<v Speaker 1>to amaze authentic, and I think he's not going to

1145
00:58:02.039 --> 00:58:02.679
<v Speaker 1>get a hometown.

1146
00:58:02.960 --> 00:58:07.199
<v Speaker 2>Okay, So Jonathan, Devin, Marcus and Grant is who we think?

1147
00:58:07.360 --> 00:58:11.559
<v Speaker 2>M hm hm that's what I'm thinking. Jeremy. What if

1148
00:58:11.599 --> 00:58:13.239
<v Speaker 2>it's Jeremy and he does take her home and it's

1149
00:58:13.280 --> 00:58:15.880
<v Speaker 2>just like the like a Jewish like the craziest is

1150
00:58:15.920 --> 00:58:18.840
<v Speaker 2>like you named me, like just constantly yelling at her

1151
00:58:18.840 --> 00:58:24.360
<v Speaker 2>and saying slightly inappropriate things. Uh huh, yeah, I don't

1152
00:58:24.400 --> 00:58:26.920
<v Speaker 2>know what that would be, just like you're what they

1153
00:58:26.960 --> 00:58:30.039
<v Speaker 2>call a spinner. What, Oh, I can't call her a spinner.

1154
00:58:31.320 --> 00:58:34.360
<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh, please, let's not this was a mistake.

1155
00:58:35.280 --> 00:58:36.800
<v Speaker 2>I would have liked to see that. But I don't

1156
00:58:36.840 --> 00:58:39.079
<v Speaker 2>see him making the Cutag's just he's just not exciting

1157
00:58:39.199 --> 00:58:42.119
<v Speaker 2>enough to her, right. But we could very much be wrong.

1158
00:58:42.239 --> 00:58:44.159
<v Speaker 2>We don't know. We know a lot of you do know.

1159
00:58:44.400 --> 00:58:46.679
<v Speaker 2>I don't even know anymore who I call, like who

1160
00:58:46.760 --> 00:58:49.519
<v Speaker 2>I predicted at the beginning of this anymore. Mine was

1161
00:58:49.559 --> 00:58:53.760
<v Speaker 2>Grant always. We did like Grant from the very beginning.

1162
00:58:53.840 --> 00:58:56.519
<v Speaker 2>And but we also, I think didn't we sort of

1163
00:58:56.599 --> 00:59:01.079
<v Speaker 2>call sam m as going really far? Yes?

1164
00:59:02.400 --> 00:59:07.760
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I called Aaron early on. So that's that's sort

1165
00:59:07.800 --> 00:59:08.599
<v Speaker 1>of where I'm at.

1166
00:59:09.159 --> 00:59:11.400
<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's just a big share. Now, what if

1167
00:59:11.400 --> 00:59:13.400
<v Speaker 2>it's Spencer in the end. What if all this time

1168
00:59:13.400 --> 00:59:16.840
<v Speaker 2>they're just keeping us from how much she loved him?

1169
00:59:17.599 --> 00:59:20.119
<v Speaker 1>I just you're right, because even though I would have

1170
00:59:20.639 --> 00:59:24.679
<v Speaker 1>called on Devin to be gone so much earlier, I

1171
00:59:24.840 --> 00:59:27.760
<v Speaker 1>just don't know, Like he's got to go to hometown's

1172
00:59:27.800 --> 00:59:30.440
<v Speaker 1>because how's he unless she gets in a big fight

1173
00:59:30.480 --> 00:59:33.159
<v Speaker 1>with him, which I don't see happening.

1174
00:59:34.960 --> 00:59:37.639
<v Speaker 2>I am excited to see Jonathan really crept up on me.

1175
00:59:38.039 --> 00:59:40.559
<v Speaker 2>I am excited to see where that goes. Same. I

1176
00:59:40.599 --> 00:59:42.480
<v Speaker 2>hope that he Yeah, I hope he gets hometown. I

1177
00:59:42.519 --> 00:59:44.519
<v Speaker 2>didn't like his there was definitely a red flag. But

1178
00:59:44.559 --> 00:59:46.719
<v Speaker 2>the date itself, in their chemistry is I think the

1179
00:59:46.760 --> 00:59:47.800
<v Speaker 2>best out of all of them.

1180
00:59:49.360 --> 00:59:52.119
<v Speaker 1>Maybe we'll maybe he'll get a hometown and the X

1181
00:59:52.159 --> 00:59:55.440
<v Speaker 1>will come like confront them and be like, he's the one,

1182
00:59:55.519 --> 00:59:58.920
<v Speaker 1>He's the toxic one. Maybe the one of their dates

1183
00:59:58.920 --> 01:00:02.039
<v Speaker 1>on their hometown will be like visiting a therapist with

1184
01:00:02.400 --> 01:00:08.079
<v Speaker 1>jen the X, Jonathan's X and Jonathan Let's hope and

1185
01:00:08.119 --> 01:00:11.320
<v Speaker 1>his parents. They all have to have like a group

1186
01:00:11.360 --> 01:00:12.400
<v Speaker 1>therapy together.

1187
01:00:12.119 --> 01:00:15.440
<v Speaker 2>And for some reason, Thomas and Devin they have to

1188
01:00:15.480 --> 01:00:18.679
<v Speaker 2>be there. It's just in the writer. For some they don't.

1189
01:00:18.719 --> 01:00:22.360
<v Speaker 2>No one knows why. Really, let's do Let's get to

1190
01:00:22.400 --> 01:00:26.199
<v Speaker 2>our shouts, shall we do it? Yes? All right? I

1191
01:00:26.199 --> 01:00:29.079
<v Speaker 2>think you should do the shouts as Steve from Sex

1192
01:00:29.119 --> 01:00:31.119
<v Speaker 2>and the City. I don't know if I can do it.

1193
01:00:31.159 --> 01:00:34.519
<v Speaker 2>I mean, Mirianda don Lee's here and Sarah Baker and

1194
01:00:34.559 --> 01:00:38.519
<v Speaker 2>Jenny Harden, that's kind of Boston. He's not Boston Day,

1195
01:00:38.599 --> 01:00:41.599
<v Speaker 2>mcmurrayon and Yarborough. Shall we glaviate? I don't know what

1196
01:00:41.719 --> 01:00:44.719
<v Speaker 2>to tell you, Marianda. I don't know what to tell you, Marianda.

1197
01:00:46.000 --> 01:00:49.920
<v Speaker 2>I mean, you know and you like, you know you

1198
01:00:50.079 --> 01:00:52.840
<v Speaker 2>cheated with this leader and the professor. I know I

1199
01:00:52.960 --> 01:00:57.039
<v Speaker 2>cheated for us, Marianda. We're not perfect. Sharry Singer and

1200
01:00:57.119 --> 01:01:02.679
<v Speaker 2>Tamma Adams and Paul Sullivan when you yeah, Stephanie Rinker

1201
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<v Speaker 2>and Sid Weldon in Lauren Bonds, listen, do you like

1202
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<v Speaker 2>the Rotary Club? Maybe you're in your mind, You're like what,

1203
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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. The Rotary Isn't that like a bunch

1204
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<v Speaker 2>of old guys in suits?

1205
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<v Speaker 1>Not anymore, Marianza, it's Brady.

1206
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1215
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