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Speaker 1: When your old career gives you lemons throwing some ice

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mix in some vodka.

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Speaker 2: Color A podcast from the Mac of All Trade Studio

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in Fairport and driven by Victor Chrysler, Dots jeep Ram.

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Speaker 1: It's Billified, the Bill Moran Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Well, hello and welcome.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for getting your pot up, Thanks for telling

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a friend, and that's how we spread the word about

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the pirate ship. Very excited because Danny's here and I actually,

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Danny's a good one in to have uh in tonight because.

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Speaker 1: I'm always a good one to have you. Let's be honest.

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Speaker 2: No, that's true.

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Speaker 1: I'm like the number one guest Jaz, not even a

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guess Mary, like a fabric of the show. Yes, Kevin

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and I are like the fabric. You and Kevin art

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the fabric.

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Speaker 2: That is true.

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Speaker 3: You and Kevin are the fabric of the show, have

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become the fabric of my lives.

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Speaker 2: We are no in a very good way.

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Speaker 1: I would to help you move to you said.

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Speaker 2: No, I did, and I uh, nope, I didn't want to.

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Speaker 1: It's got the van for Victor Chrysler does cheap.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I'm I'm I'm aware, but that no, no, so uh,

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I don't know if it's like kind of the weather

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stuff or what, but I have been I was kind

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of I got numb today And there's a reason sort

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of why. But we've had a lot of this flash

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like these intense downpourts that we usually don't get in

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western New York as a regular occurrence. And I've noticed

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a weather pattern over the past couple of years is

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wind Like we get these wild winds in the winter

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and especially turning into spring, and then summer doesn't really

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begin here.

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Speaker 2: It just shows up. One day.

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Speaker 3: You step outside, a fuck, it's ninety degrees Outlass dance school.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So but yesterday it just downpoured right, Yes, and my

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friends very depressive doctor Rob Rice, who was it was

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not a bad day up to that point. It was

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about three third in the afternoon. Doctor Rob Brice, who

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was a h was on the podcast. And I went

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to Fisher last night to speak at something that he

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was had was hosting and put together for a graduate

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level class. And he's shown.

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Speaker 2: Me videos of his yard like he go.

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Speaker 3: He sends a message on Facebook if you find my

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pool filter in your yard, please let me know.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you got to see this.

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Speaker 3: It is and it's roaring through and it floods. It's

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that whole Rondoquoit Creek if you go through Powder Mills Park.

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Speaker 2: And these are specific destinations.

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Speaker 1: The hills at Pittsford. Yeah, a peaceful, quite little town

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except what it.

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Speaker 2: I mean it was, but this rain, I mean, Henrietta, Yeah,

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we watched that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I told my wife. So, my wife was on

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the way home from school yesterday. I go, all right,

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be careful, it's poring. She goes, it is. She works like,

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you know, along the lake, let's see. Yeah, and uh

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she gets she goes, oh my goodness, you're not joking, Like, yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it just came down and hard.

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Speaker 1: For a while, she was waiting for an arc joke,

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but I didn't give her one. You know, it's pretty

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hacked for me to deliver oh two of a remunable

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It was pooring, man, it was freaking poring, Like, yeah,

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this is how I want summer to start, I know,

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because he just had nine freaking months of winter, and

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then your winter like creeps in and sticks around like

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that unwonted neighbor or guest. Yeah all right, and then

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summer shows up like you know, just one day randomly.

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Speaker 2: Well, next June. I think Sunday it's gonna be ninety degrees.

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Speaker 1: All right, I hope so. And the people already bitching

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about the freaking heat.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I don't want to hear no, no, no, it's

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not the heat. Dam you got it.

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Speaker 3: It is, and I'm gonna tell you like today, I

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I've had a lot of sinus issues and I took

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h I washed my sinuses out, which sounds really gross,

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but I do it in the morning and at night.

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Speaker 1: Make sure you use uh special water for that.

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Speaker 2: I used distilled water with uh.

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Speaker 1: Don't use sailing and that's serious. Don't use tap on,

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use distilled water.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, get into me, bin it'll So I'm standing

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there and all of a sudden, my equilibrium went off,

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and I'm my vision is going like this where you

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just see it like an old fashioned TV. I I've

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had this happen before. Not because of that, but I've

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had it. And they call it vertigous migraines. I'm not sure.

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regain my balance for a second, and then uh it forever.

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Speaker 1: All day I'm in a chair in fair and I'm

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safe all day.

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Speaker 3: I've been sort of off and I, I haven't seen you,

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uh since the weekend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, missed you? You missed me too, Yeah, I bet?

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Speaker 2: And Uh I.

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Speaker 3: Called my dad on Father's Day and I had waited

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because mornings are My dad has Parkedson's He's now living

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in an assisted living center in Maine, in Kenny Bunk,

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and uh, I waited for a period of time to

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call him because I know mornings are kind of rough.

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But then around nine o'clock, I'm like, I should just

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give him a call. Let's see. And I put on

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the CBS Sunday Morning Show, and because I'm a little

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bit selfish, I'm like, I want to see this piece

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on Letterman because it was it was about Dave Letterman

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being co owner of the Ray Hall Letterman racing for

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Indy Car.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because he's from Indy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and uh and Dave has a huge car collection

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and stuff.

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Speaker 1: So those late night hosts they like to collect their cars.

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Speaker 2: Uh oh yeah yeah, Len Well Jay had Jay's garage.

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Speaker 1: Yeah cool, Yeah, you spent a diamond that money.

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Speaker 2: So uh, I wanted to see that anyway.

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Speaker 3: I and then at some point I just go, I

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should call him now, and I called and.

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Speaker 2: I hear hello, Oh can you hear me? And I said, yeah,

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can you hear me? Bill? Are you there? He said, yeah,

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what's a matter. I'm in a desperate situation.

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Speaker 3: And I go, okay, you're gonna you're gonna you're gonna

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hate yourself.

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Speaker 1: Because your father, like you've always talked about your father,

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is like he's he comes in with a lot of

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pomp and circumstances. Every scenario. He has to like announce

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the scenario before he gets like he's got to give

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the preface or the or the and then like a

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book has like a uh somebody that gives the opening, yeah,

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you know, and then they go into the book. Yeah, yeah, okay.

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Speaker 2: That's fair. He uh So he's going, I'm in a

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desperate situation.

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Speaker 3: I I I can't move, and I go what I

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I well, whatever happened? He locks up now and physically

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can't move, and I guess he was sort of in

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like a kneeling position alongside his bed. So he's like,

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you gotta call your brother. So I call my brother.

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desk as well and alert them. And the front desk

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is like, well, I'll have to call the person on call.

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then they go, well, because I think they need like

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a medical person. You can't just move somebody, God forbid,

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honestly because illegalities.

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Speaker 2: Something happened.

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Speaker 1: We need a union worker here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean, I know it sounds ridiculous, but if

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you like, all of a sudden tore his achilles or something,

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Speaker 1: Sorry, we had a non union nurse here.

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Speaker 3: So he and he's supposed to have this pen and

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she said, well, why didn't he hit his call button.

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I said, well, it's in the bathroom. She goes, no,

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he has one that he should be wearing, and I said, oh,

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I have no idea. I said, listen, I'm in Rochester.

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I'm facilitating this. I just happened to be the one

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that called. And I call him the next day to

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see how he's doing, and he said, not much better

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than yesterday. But you saved my life because I feel

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like I would have been I don't know, who knows

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how long I would have been there. And I'm like,

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that's not true because someone would have called the wish

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Happy Father's Day, but he couldn't reach to see the phone,

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but he could somehow answer it. I don't know what

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the circumstances were. It sounds odd, but I don't know.

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and I can hear someone going, all right, we're going to.

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Speaker 2: Get someone into help. He goes, if you can just

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get someone to put their arms underneath my armpits and

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lift me up, And they're going, well, what if we

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put you on the bottom, that'll work anything. So he's

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like really bad. And then I call him the next day.

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Speaker 3: And my dad was the kind of guy who would

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put on a suit to get.

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Speaker 2: The mail, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: I mean he was a sixth grade teacher, but he

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always wore a suit and a tie every day, sometimes

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a three piece suit.

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Speaker 1: That's like the Jordan Peterson theory. Always look good, always

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dressed for success.

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Speaker 3: So it was just the way I was raised. As

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a shirt on standby.

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Speaker 1: And crisp iron shirt for the emergency.

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Speaker 3: Roomy well, anywhere, I mean anywhere you want to have

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a little dignity.

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Speaker 2: So I'm I.

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Speaker 3: I call him the next day and he's like, yeah,

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I'm I'm how you doing.

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Speaker 2: He goes, well, I slept on the couch last night. Oh,

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couch is so cold. Forgot how great that couches.

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Speaker 3: But he wanted to be up higher, and he said, listen,

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I I have been stuck in this chair since nine o'clock.

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the end of the day. I'm thinking it had to

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be like three thirty, goes I'm in my underwear still,

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around the house in his underwear. He walked around sometimes

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in the morning with a robe, but he never walked

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around in his underwear. He didn't wear pajamas, you know,

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so you but he had a robe, which is never

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but you never saw him like I don't think I've

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ever seen I don't know that I've seen the man naked.

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like as a kid he came busting in the back.

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Speaker 2: Dad.

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Speaker 1: You know, I didn't see my father naked until about

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three weeks before his death. Yeah, so then he at

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that point did have much choice.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, and your dignity is sort of gone and

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you don't really care.

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Speaker 1: He goes, Dan, It's like a twisted pretzel, isn't it.

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Speaker 3: So he says, uh, so, my old man's like, you know,

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we're talking, and he goes, I called your brother, he's

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gonna come over after after work, and I said all right.

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He goes, yeah, he goes, listen, uh, I'm dying and

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I said, well, because he had, so they took him

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to the hospital after the incident Father's Day.

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Speaker 2: He was taken out in an ambulance.

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Speaker 3: The guy checks out with pulses, great heart is fine,

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you know, alert, but physically he's going, what is happening

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to me? And I think what happens is you start

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to realize that you don't want to live this way,

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and you've lived your life and it's sort of towards

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the end. So he said to me, look, I'm dying

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and I said well, and he's like yeah, he goes,

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but it's it's it's true. He goes, look, I'm gonna

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every day I wake up, I'm I'm glad I'm here,

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and I'm gonna take advantage of the day as best

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I can, and uh so today I so.

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Speaker 2: Then I guess. My brother called me this morning.

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Speaker 3: He was on his way to on a special camping

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trip with just his son and a bunch of guys going.

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I guess it's a bunch of rich guys from what

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I gathered. I'm only inferring that my brother didn't say that,

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but they're all moose hunters and uh.

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Speaker 2: Craft beer drinkers, probably craft beer drinking dudes.

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Speaker 1: Where our guys socks in the summer.

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Speaker 3: And they're fly fishermen. He just said to me, Yes,

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some of these guys like to go on a they

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want to on a fly fishing trip. And they flew

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into a private lake, a secluded lake, and then had

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to take like a basically.

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Speaker 1: A ferry or something.

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Speaker 3: No, they took a water taxi plane into this place

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to where they fish.

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Speaker 2: And I go, oh, yeah, I know those guys. I

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know those guys. I know a couple of guys.

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Speaker 3: Said do things like that, right, And so he's like yeah,

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and it's just fathers and sons and where And it's

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like three hours north of where he lives. So it's

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almost like the top of Vermont and New Hampshire. You're

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that high but still in Maine, and he said, listen.

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Speaker 2: I I said to Dad.

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Speaker 3: You know he's not doing well. And I said, yeah,

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I got that, and he goes. I said to him,

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are you gonna be okay with me mopping around? He goes,

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but I'm checking on him every day, like I'm showing

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up every day, and I.

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Speaker 2: Said, okay. He goes. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: He said he thinks he has two months to live,

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and he's been saying that and I would say to him,

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he got two years. He goes, but I'm starting to

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believe him. And I said, yeah, I get that. And

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then my sister calls me today and said, listen, we

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got to check in with Dad every day while Kevin's

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out of town. And he goes and his wife is

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taking their daughter somewhere and he goes. She said, just

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you know, just check in with him, and I said, yeah.

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So I get these random calls, but sometimes he butt

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dials and then hangs up quick, and I don't I

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don't know what's going on. You know, he's seventy nine,

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he's got Parkinson's. He's gonna be eighty in October if

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he makes it and oh my god. So I try calling.

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Speaker 2: Him and today and I happened to be with someone

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and I said, uh, I go, I want you to

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kind of hear this stuff, and he, uh so, I

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get all. He calls me back and he said, and.

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Speaker 3: It was probably I could have been five to seven minutes,

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maybe ten minutes from the time I called him to

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the time he called back.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: And he said to me, I was trying to put

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a quilt on the bed, and he said, I heard

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the phone ringing in the other room. And he goes,

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it took me that long to get from my bedroom

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to the phone on the kitchen table. And I mean

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we're talking a small, one bedroom place, right, So he

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goes and he goes, and I'm out of breath and

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I said, yeah, and he goes. I said, because he

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keeps saying like I'm going to go back to the gym,

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I'm getting back to the gym. And I think he's

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slowly starting to realize, and I think we probably have

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to consider a higher level of care for him, you

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know what I mean, like instead of just assisted living,

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like something else. Yes, And my brother wants to have

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that call next week. So I'm sitting there. I'm sitting there,

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and I won't reveal too much. I keep things a

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term that I learned today, pocketed, meaning like I don't

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share a lot of these things. But it was a

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friend of mine and my father has met this person

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and it's a woman. And I said, so and so

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is here, and you could hear his whole.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, hey, oh yeah, this is an opportunity.

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Speaker 3: This is an opportunity to show off a little bit,

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you know what I mean, Like you could hear it,

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and he had been. And I said to my brother earlier,

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just as a little backtrack, uh not that my dad

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never said it. He did, he would say I love you,

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but he didn't. You didn't end phone calls. It was

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usually with most of my calls over the last couple

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of years. But well, good luck with it all, Willie.

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Speaker 2: That's what it was. It's now been I.

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Speaker 3: Love you, and I said, yeah, I love you too,

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and and and even on Father's Day. The amount of love,

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the fact that you called when you did, I couldn't

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have come at a better time. I was in so

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much pain. I was in so much pain. My dad

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once fell.

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Speaker 2: This is terrible. But like I think back on things.

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But my dad, uh, they I don't know.

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Speaker 3: They weren't hoarders, but they had a lot of shit

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and they just collected. It was in the back of

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the basement. So he decided to clean out the basement

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and he got a dumpster and that got filled and

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it was like seven hundred dollars to empty the dumpster.

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So then he just started burning things in the backyard

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and he tripped and fell into the fire and burned

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both hands really really really badly. Didn't I tell you

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the story that one? Oh, I didn't tell you this.

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This is like, so I wasn't living at home, and

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I don't know where.

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Speaker 1: My brother before the house burned down.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I don't know where my brother was. But

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he goes, hey, Mom just called and said Dad fell

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into the fire and his hands are all bandaged up

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like oversize oven mittens, and she's going to get him

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pain medication.

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Speaker 2: I go, hang up, I'm gonna call I see along,

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takes some dance to the phone and we did you

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heard about like we like dicky things like that, dicky

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dicky dicky, dumb dicky dicky things.

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Speaker 3: That's like dumb, right, that's mean. But he said to me.

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That was a ten on the pain scale. Father's Day

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was an eight. By comparison, I was in that much pain. Yeah,

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I mean just think about it. Anytime you go to

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the doctor they ask in a pain scale you if

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you're being really honest, you're like, so, I feel like

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then you're you're holding the gun to my head, going

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what's the pain? And I will say a five if

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it's really a five, and that you know, but it hurts,

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A five hurts, six hurts.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm going okay. So today.

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Speaker 3: I call him and he when I say, you know,

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by the way, so and so I can hear you,

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and he's like, oh, And I said, yeah, really thinks

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you're very funny, and he is. He's very very funny

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without sometimes even realizing it.

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Speaker 2: And he goes, oh, did I tell you about the hospital?

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Speaker 3: And you gotta picture this because if I say it,

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it sounds like an old man joke. But if you

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can put it into context of the moment, what they're

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trying to do, and just what the only thing that's

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funny is the unexpected, right, The unexpected is what makes

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something funny if.

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Speaker 2: You see it coming.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes he can still be funny, like I can see

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sometimes they coming and I start laughing because I can

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see it coming.

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Speaker 2: But with these things.

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Speaker 3: So he said, you know, I have a million tests,

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and he goes in every room. They're bringing me into

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a they're putting me in the MRI machine, and they're

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asking me my name, do I know where I am?

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What day of the week is it, what is your

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date of birth? And where are you now? And he goes, so,

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I'm going through on a mansion and they can say

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where are you now? He goes, I'm in a gentleman's club, right,

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And that's what he said, because I'm at a gentleman's club.

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And he goes, and so the person laughs and then

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he says, he goes, I.

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Speaker 2: Uh, I don't know. It was dark. I don't even

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remember faces, but that that nurse remembered it. She came

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back and she said, eh, the gentleman's club.

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Speaker 3: And he goes, I said, well, you're very funny, and

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he goes, oh, and then he just said to me again.

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You know, he just goes, Look it's near the end

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of the show and he goes, it's been a great ride.

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And I gotta tell you, Dan, that kind of knocked

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the wind out of my sails. I went home, and uh,

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I started to do some work for the podcast and

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other things that I'm doing, and uh, I gotta lay

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down on like I gotta, I gotta shut it down

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for a minute. And I went and laid down for

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like forty five minutes and uh and then got up.

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Speaker 2: And I've just been the.

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Speaker 3: Kind of numb and the thing that the only thing

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I can think is like, it's very strange to mourn

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someone when they're.

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Speaker 2: Still alive and not like on life support or losing

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their marbles. He'll tell you I got dementia. I can't remember.

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Speaker 3: I think, I go, you're stressed, are so stressed right

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now because you're worried about what's next. And he will

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He has always been that kind of person. And we've

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had things, incidents over the years with him where I

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won't get into the details of it, but he would

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almost take make it feel like he was trying to

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make it easier for you, which sometimes you go, well,

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maybe that's a shitty thing. I don't know, but I

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think even in this he's trying to make it easier

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for us, Like he's just saying, like, I know it's

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the end, and he'll say I'm dying. He goes just

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just taking a while, and he's like, but he's not.

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He's lucid, he's aware, and you know, I don't know

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what to think.

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Speaker 2: I go.

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Speaker 3: At one point I thought I was gonna cry, and

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I didn't. And then I go, I'm not sure if

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I'll ever cry. I don't know what's wrong with me.

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And I'm watching this.

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Speaker 2: I go, how do you I mean, your base mourning

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someone who's still there.

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Speaker 3: And my sister's like, listen, we gotta, you know, call

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him every day. And I said, yeah, I go, I

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go listen. I'm at a and I was at a lunch.

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It was a meeting more than anything. It was more

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of a business type thing, but it was some of

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my dad knew. And I was like, Jesus Christ, and

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I don't, I don't know. I say, you're a good

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person to be here because you lost your dad. Yes,

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now you lost your dad and you were young.

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Speaker 1: I lost Wednesday of next week. It'll be eighteen years.

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And we actually have a young cousin who was born

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a week after or two weeks after my father died,

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who is now graduating from high school. We haven't talked

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to him in years. But my uncle, who this child

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is his grandfather. He goes, I see my grandson. I

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think your father, it's been that long. He marks the

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time now. And it was weird because my father did

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not want me, my brothers, or my younger sister to

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know that he had cancer. And I got it out

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of my older sister. She was married to a doctor,

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she was a doctor herself, and basically I got it

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out of her that something was wrong with that. I go,

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he's got gall bladders. And I kept like asking questions,

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not realizing Dan, he's got cancer. And she finally like

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started like looking at my brother in law looking back

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at her. Should we tell him? And I knew as

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soon as she said should we tell him? He had cancer?

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And this is the same guy who said once, man,

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if you ever we're watching TV, man, if I ever

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end up with that, you might as well just put

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a gun to my head and pull the trigger. So

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I'm immediately thinking this he could have just like do

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away with himself, just I'll save you all on a trip.

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I'm done. Yeah, Because I could see my father doing

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something like that. He didn't do that. He went through it,

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and the hard part was that he actually got really

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really good, and then halfway through the bottom fell out.

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And then for the last eighteen months we were getting

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ready for like you were saying, the end. Only he

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was fifty eight. He wasn't in your father's case, nine, right,

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So it was I think your father and my father

470
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about our close in age then, so he would have

471
00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:03,920
been seventy six this year. But they're from that generation

472
00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:07,119
and they got My father calls it the Vietnam or

473
00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:10,519
the Vietnam generation. Yeah, if you serve in Vietnam, you know,

474
00:23:10,759 --> 00:23:13,079
I don't the way they pronounce it, and you know

475
00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:14,799
there's there's no way to prepare for it.

476
00:23:15,559 --> 00:23:16,079
Speaker 2: There isn't.

477
00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:19,279
Speaker 1: There just isn't. And the hard part with you, I've

478
00:23:19,279 --> 00:23:21,799
actually thought about this with you. You know, your parents

479
00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:24,519
are still here, your siblings are still here.

480
00:23:25,079 --> 00:23:25,279
Speaker 2: You know.

481
00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:27,640
Speaker 1: I lost my father at twenty seven, and I was

482
00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:29,880
unemployed at the time we had dad. This is what

483
00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:32,119
you paid for. This is the way to see me out.

484
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:33,839
I'm sorry. I wish they could have done better for you.

485
00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:37,640
And then I lost my sister about five years ago,

486
00:23:37,759 --> 00:23:39,359
so I know what it's like to get, you know,

487
00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:42,440
hit in the mouth by life a couple of times,

488
00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:45,440
and you know, I feel in a different way for

489
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:47,119
people like you or I have some cousins who have

490
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:49,720
never lost anybody who were like, when that day comes,

491
00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:51,599
how are they going to react because they've never had

492
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:52,640
to experience that.

493
00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:56,799
Speaker 2: But the thing is, so they experienced, right, that's what.

494
00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:58,880
Speaker 1: And so yeah, I mean at least you know you're

495
00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:02,359
older now and so that way you can like you

496
00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:06,039
have the wisdom now to live with something like that.

497
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:08,759
But I'm glad that your father's telling you this so

498
00:24:08,799 --> 00:24:10,359
it doesn't come as like a total surprise.

499
00:24:10,599 --> 00:24:13,640
Speaker 2: No, I mean, I I can tell, I can hear, like,

500
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:16,319
you know, he sounds weak, as my friend said, he

501
00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:18,200
sounded weak in the beginning, but he perked up, and

502
00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:20,279
I go, hey, perked up. Gad I had an audience.

503
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:23,039
Yeah right, you know, I didn't know I was going

504
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:24,519
to be here because your.

505
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:26,519
Speaker 1: Father's always one of those guys like I only had

506
00:24:26,559 --> 00:24:28,799
one conversation with it. But the stories like you've told

507
00:24:28,839 --> 00:24:30,279
over the years, I feel like I've known him my

508
00:24:30,319 --> 00:24:33,599
whole life. Yeah, he's just so Dowkin's your doorway this

509
00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:38,720
week and lollapalooza, please send him back to Pine Pa.

510
00:24:38,839 --> 00:24:41,440
Speaker 2: Say, I will say this in a limo bus as

511
00:24:41,519 --> 00:24:45,039
much as as he and I had our moments over

512
00:24:45,079 --> 00:24:45,559
the years.

513
00:24:48,279 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 3: He was a very proud and private person, but was

514
00:24:51,039 --> 00:24:55,559
also extremely funny and could be extremely dirty but funny,

515
00:24:56,279 --> 00:24:57,440
but like funny, not.

516
00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:01,759
Speaker 1: You've been funny on this show. Hey they sell markets. Yeah,

517
00:25:01,839 --> 00:25:03,119
so Amazon.

518
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:10,400
Speaker 3: Uh he's he's uh. But I I was thinking, like

519
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:16,720
you appreciate all that a little bit more? Yes, you know,

520
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:20,960
and even the the When I say appreciate, I mean

521
00:25:21,599 --> 00:25:23,839
even the writing the letters to not let me into

522
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:26,480
a party that was serving alcohol when I was like

523
00:25:26,559 --> 00:25:31,559
sixteen seventeen in perfect penmanship. Yes, out, but also always

524
00:25:31,599 --> 00:25:35,839
had your back, like I was known in my town.

525
00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:37,440
Speaker 1: Is where's the party?

526
00:25:37,559 --> 00:25:38,319
Speaker 2: Yeah?

527
00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:42,759
Speaker 3: And the cops showed up because property got destroyed at

528
00:25:42,759 --> 00:25:47,599
a at somebody's summer rental or summer home up by

529
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:49,960
us and kids went back because it was step back

530
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:52,640
off the road and there was a party, and the

531
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:55,240
cops showed up and said, come on, man.

532
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 2: You know who was there.

533
00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 3: Just give me some names because people's I think windows

534
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:00,920
got broken in someone's How shitty would that be?

535
00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:04,079
Speaker 2: Right? You come back and the windows broken, and how.

536
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:06,759
Speaker 1: Crappy is that? You're the person who's got to roll

537
00:26:06,799 --> 00:26:10,039
over on everybody. Well, this is the target, you're the expected.

538
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:12,359
Speaker 2: But I go, man, I wasn't even there. He goes,

539
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:12,599
I know.

540
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:14,319
Speaker 3: I go, I was home watching my brother and sister.

541
00:26:14,319 --> 00:26:17,160
He goes, I know, but I've been told that you

542
00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:19,799
probably yes, how.

543
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:22,079
Speaker 2: Does that happen? Like the state's trooper do?

544
00:26:22,799 --> 00:26:27,400
Speaker 3: So my father says, uh, makes him come in sit

545
00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:30,240
in the living room and he says he and he's

546
00:26:30,279 --> 00:26:31,119
like uh.

547
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:33,039
Speaker 2: He goes, come on, Bill just and he goes, you

548
00:26:33,039 --> 00:26:37,759
will address him as William and like, I didn't say anything,

549
00:26:38,279 --> 00:26:41,200
and my father was like, absolutely not. Your father is

550
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:41,640
not dead.

551
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:45,359
Speaker 3: He always had your back, whether it was in his

552
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:46,359
best interest or not.

553
00:26:46,519 --> 00:26:50,480
Speaker 2: I can remember another time being on the I just

554
00:26:50,519 --> 00:26:53,119
caught myself on camera. I'm like, oh, puffy and swollen today.

555
00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:54,880
I really was numb.

556
00:26:54,960 --> 00:27:00,039
Speaker 3: After this, he went, We're at the Jersey shore and

557
00:27:00,519 --> 00:27:04,960
I said to him, I go, can't find a pail

558
00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:05,519
or something.

559
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:09,519
Speaker 2: I might have been like eleven or playing. So my

560
00:27:09,559 --> 00:27:13,720
brother had to be still three. He's about three or four.

561
00:27:14,319 --> 00:27:17,000
And I go, I think, and I go, oh, that

562
00:27:17,079 --> 00:27:19,759
family down there took it. Those kids took it. My

563
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:21,599
father takes off down the beach.

564
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:26,440
Speaker 1: Jogging castle, hassle off, yeah, cassle hog yeah, yeah.

565
00:27:26,319 --> 00:27:31,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, big guy yeah hell yes.

566
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:34,039
Speaker 3: But he would go up and down and wait, got

567
00:27:34,079 --> 00:27:37,440
way up and wait, and then really lost it. And

568
00:27:37,559 --> 00:27:40,559
uh oh I love to drink, but hasn't had a

569
00:27:40,599 --> 00:27:42,839
drink in eighteen years.

570
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:46,440
Speaker 2: Oh wow, yeah, yep, okay, so two thousand and seven

571
00:27:46,839 --> 00:27:47,559
is my father. Yeah.

572
00:27:47,599 --> 00:27:50,319
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, well, maybe it's time to stop.

573
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:54,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, well there was a reason, but uh, he's jogging

574
00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:56,640
down and then he comes back. While he's gone, I

575
00:27:56,680 --> 00:28:01,720
find it, and I remember being like, oh my god,

576
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:05,480
but it's weird. And I'll end it on this note.

577
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:10,400
And I don't I guess all my life behind a

578
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:14,039
microphone of some sort. I found it helpful for me,

579
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:20,200
and I hope it doesn't bore or sound too sappy

580
00:28:20,319 --> 00:28:22,000
or sad for too many people.

581
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:25,839
Speaker 2: But I think it's it's a relatable thing. He said

582
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:28,079
to me again at the end, he goes, look, it's

583
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:31,519
near the end. I'm dying. And I said, where you

584
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:34,119
used to not know what to say, I will say

585
00:28:34,839 --> 00:28:38,359
as an adult or an older person. Now I.

586
00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 3: Think that I like to say back in those situations

587
00:28:43,559 --> 00:28:45,759
I don't know what to say to that. You know,

588
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:48,920
I don't like hearing it. And he said to me,

589
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:52,200
I don't like saying it, but I'm gonna be happy.

590
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:56,039
I'm here every day I'm here, and you know, so yeah,

591
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:57,359
I would.

592
00:28:57,640 --> 00:29:01,359
Speaker 1: I don't know, you know by you know the song

593
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:04,559
of the Gambler by Kenny Rodgers Danny Boy. This song

594
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:08,799
is a metaphor for life. What's a metaphor? Oh just listen? Yeah, yeah,

595
00:29:08,839 --> 00:29:11,920
And you know in this final you know, the Gambler

596
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:13,880
broke even in his final words, I found an ace

597
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:15,920
that I could keep. And you got to remember that

598
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:18,240
your father, like taught you so many lessons and the

599
00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:19,880
best thing to hope four is that he goes in

600
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:20,400
his sleep.

601
00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that no more pain.

602
00:29:23,039 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 1: And I'm not I'm not trying to bury him now, No,

603
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:26,960
I'm just saying, like I remember my father like it

604
00:29:27,039 --> 00:29:29,960
was like three. It was like months of just watching

605
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:33,559
him deteriorate, right, you know. And in your father's case,

606
00:29:33,599 --> 00:29:35,160
I mean like he was a guy who worked out

607
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:37,119
the last ten years of his life. Yes, I mean

608
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:39,519
what I mean, Like there's people like doctor at said,

609
00:29:39,519 --> 00:29:41,079
you got to you gotta work out prepared for the

610
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:42,839
last ten years. You're like, I don't think it works

611
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:45,200
that way. I think life has a way of just saying, no,

612
00:29:45,319 --> 00:29:47,880
screw you, we're catching up. Marv Leeve. He's walking with

613
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:50,559
the walker. This guy was running wind sprints three years ago.

614
00:29:50,599 --> 00:29:52,839
He's been he's almost one hundred years old.

615
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:55,079
Speaker 2: Right, but had he not run the wind sprints, he

616
00:29:55,079 --> 00:29:57,200
wouldn't be right exactly.

617
00:29:57,279 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 1: So you finally like work out.

618
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:03,799
Speaker 3: My father though, at an instant at the gym when

619
00:30:03,799 --> 00:30:08,119
he was living in Jersey where he he he probably

620
00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:11,000
became and I don't know, but I always picture in

621
00:30:11,039 --> 00:30:13,200
my mind and I always joke with my brother he's

622
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:14,039
that guy at the gym.

623
00:30:14,079 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 2: Eh, that was his social club.

624
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:21,119
Speaker 3: So he got I think someone I feel like someone

625
00:30:21,279 --> 00:30:24,039
was ignoring him, Like they had headphones in and they're

626
00:30:24,079 --> 00:30:25,720
on and they're just focused and he's trying to get

627
00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:28,279
their attention and they're not paying attention. So he climbs

628
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,759
onto a piece of equipment next to them and like

629
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:34,480
leans over to get their thing attention, and then he

630
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:35,319
can't get.

631
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:38,359
Speaker 2: Off of it, Like he locked up to the point

632
00:30:38,359 --> 00:30:42,000
where someone had to get him on their back and

633
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:46,240
get him to get them off the equipment. Like Okay,

634
00:30:46,279 --> 00:30:48,000
that's where we're at.

635
00:30:48,119 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 3: Like slowly, and I think that I don't know why.

636
00:30:51,519 --> 00:30:55,880
I will tell you that I do believe that we

637
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:58,559
all have the power within us. But we're not meant

638
00:30:58,599 --> 00:31:01,319
to live forever. We're not meant to be here forever.

639
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:05,359
It doesn't mean that that this is the end. Remember,

640
00:31:06,119 --> 00:31:08,559
Danny and I may have slightly different views on this,

641
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:10,480
but I think we are energy and we will go

642
00:31:10,559 --> 00:31:13,119
on eternally. And I think that you are more than

643
00:31:13,119 --> 00:31:19,240
the physical body you are now. But that aside, I

644
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:22,720
I I don't know where I was going to see

645
00:31:22,759 --> 00:31:26,680
now I'm losing my mind. That aside, I think that.

646
00:31:29,119 --> 00:31:32,519
Speaker 1: It's hard to hear your father say that on Father's Day. Well,

647
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:33,279
it all kind of.

648
00:31:33,279 --> 00:31:36,559
Speaker 2: Becomes on Father's Day. He said it, like today today, but.

649
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:39,279
Speaker 1: Like leading up to this, yeah, you've had like, you know,

650
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:40,519
Father's Day and then.

651
00:31:40,519 --> 00:31:44,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, this, so it's just been a it's just been

652
00:31:44,839 --> 00:31:47,359
kind of kind of weird. And then you also want

653
00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:52,559
to go, how do you keep them safe without sacrificing

654
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:55,079
too much of his dignity either, because this is going

655
00:31:55,119 --> 00:31:58,079
to be complete strangers when you're in a higher level

656
00:31:58,079 --> 00:32:00,599
of care checking on you every day, coming in.

657
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:02,799
Speaker 2: Maybe stretching me out a little bit, you know that

658
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:03,359
sort of thing.

659
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 3: And this is someone who's very private, doesn't like to

660
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:07,680
be touched, you know what I mean.

661
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:10,079
Speaker 1: Very very private, very specific.

662
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:13,319
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, like you know, it's like not a uh

663
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:16,319
you know, that's it. I would never walk barefoot because

664
00:32:17,359 --> 00:32:20,960
you know, all this ship. So that was yeah, that

665
00:32:21,079 --> 00:32:23,279
that'll be different. And that's it becomes like how do

666
00:32:23,319 --> 00:32:25,279
you balance you feel for him because you don't want

667
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:27,519
him to lose any dignity of his own, but I

668
00:32:27,519 --> 00:32:32,000
think it he'll at this point he's gone, what am

669
00:32:32,039 --> 00:32:32,480
I gonna do?

670
00:32:32,799 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 1: No, right, it's it's it's yeah, it's it's a tough situation.

671
00:32:35,559 --> 00:32:37,680
I feel for you. I've been there. My wife's recently

672
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:39,720
been there. Yes, I mean you know yeah, And and in

673
00:32:39,799 --> 00:32:42,039
both of our cases, we kind of saw for years

674
00:32:42,079 --> 00:32:45,559
the uh, the inevitable. You know, your father's case. I

675
00:32:45,559 --> 00:32:47,680
mean we just a year ago, like around this time

676
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:49,160
a year he was in here in the studio.

677
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:52,160
Speaker 2: Yeah he was and then uh he looked fine, yep.

678
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:55,359
And he was having a little bit of trouble moving

679
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:58,000
around the stuff, but he was getting around. He had

680
00:32:58,079 --> 00:33:01,079
driven here, but he did still.

681
00:33:01,599 --> 00:33:04,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, he did stay a day or two because he

682
00:33:04,599 --> 00:33:10,440
was really tired and that, and look, it's a progressive disease, right,

683
00:33:10,519 --> 00:33:14,359
you know. And I think, like, so he when he

684
00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:19,240
works out, he's better. But I think now, well he

685
00:33:19,279 --> 00:33:22,480
can't even work out, he can't even really leave his place. Yeah,

686
00:33:22,799 --> 00:33:24,440
he's like I think he said, I haven't left this

687
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:27,759
place in three days, you know. And I will tell

688
00:33:27,759 --> 00:33:31,039
you like when we started the podcast, we were doing

689
00:33:31,039 --> 00:33:33,279
it from my dining room table. I'm like, I get

690
00:33:33,319 --> 00:33:35,960
the fuck out of here, lose in my mind. I'm

691
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:38,240
still in my now, I have no problem being in

692
00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:41,920
my underwear walking around. I'm sitting doing videos, writing stuff.

693
00:33:42,039 --> 00:33:43,920
And I realized it's two o'clock in the afternoon, I'm

694
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:45,960
still in my underwear, and I go, this is I

695
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,319
can't do this. I cannot live this way. And we

696
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:50,839
got a studio and everything went move forward. But it's

697
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:54,000
like I can't imagine for him what that's like, and

698
00:33:54,039 --> 00:33:57,119
that that that's the stuff that's just sort of tough, right,

699
00:33:57,160 --> 00:34:02,160
because let's be honest, your dad was your yeah, and so.

700
00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:04,359
Speaker 1: My dad could beat up your dad. It's the oldest

701
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:05,799
argument in the history of mankind.

702
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:08,199
Speaker 2: You got it. Uh, We'll take a moment. We'll go

703
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:11,039
to something a little lighter, A little lighter. I don't

704
00:34:11,079 --> 00:34:13,639
know why this is happening, but it feels like we're

705
00:34:13,639 --> 00:34:16,000
having more and more of it happening.

706
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:17,639
Speaker 1: Is this teacher student again?

707
00:34:18,559 --> 00:34:21,360
Speaker 2: No, well, it seems like a week there was there

708
00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:25,280
is a local. There is a locally there's some kid.

709
00:34:25,159 --> 00:34:28,199
Speaker 3: Who was reported missing from I think like a teen

710
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:30,719
detention center. I don't know if it's a detention center.

711
00:34:30,559 --> 00:34:31,440
Speaker 2: Or a home or whatever.

712
00:34:32,039 --> 00:34:34,840
Speaker 3: Found with one of the counselors who's now been charged

713
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:37,079
with kidnapping and rape. And I don't even know how

714
00:34:37,119 --> 00:34:39,599
old the kid is. I have no idea, and it's

715
00:34:39,639 --> 00:34:42,199
I think it's in a neighboring county to where we are.

716
00:34:42,519 --> 00:34:43,679
Speaker 2: So this shit happens.

717
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:47,719
Speaker 3: It's just like you know, hey, love has no boundaries, Dan,

718
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:50,280
I don't know if you know that love has no boundaries.

719
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 2: Take a moment.

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Speaker 1: I guess not.

721
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Speaker 1: Busted flat and Ben Rouge waiting for train.

763
00:37:21,679 --> 00:37:28,760
Speaker 2: When I speel the news faded as margin, Bobby thumed

764
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:31,440
diesel down. Just as far.

765
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:37,119
Speaker 1: The road a song went Newing.

766
00:37:39,119 --> 00:37:46,119
Speaker 3: I played this because it was playing soft Body single.

767
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:47,199
Speaker 2: Hi.

768
00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:49,440
Speaker 3: I play this because it was one of my wit

769
00:37:49,559 --> 00:37:56,639
That's favorites. He had that stupid little Fierro and he

770
00:37:57,159 --> 00:38:01,440
had the Janus Joplin Greatest Hits set and he fucking

771
00:38:01,559 --> 00:38:04,280
cranked it till the window shook, like you couldn't even

772
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:05,039
have a conversation.

773
00:38:05,679 --> 00:38:08,639
Speaker 2: He loved it. And it was later in life, and

774
00:38:08,679 --> 00:38:13,079
I'm like, what is this like you No, because I

775
00:38:13,119 --> 00:38:14,000
love this song.

776
00:38:14,599 --> 00:38:17,559
Speaker 3: Maybe if that's why, but I just I just love it.

777
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:20,639
I love the story tells it's such a great story.

778
00:38:20,679 --> 00:38:21,920
Speaker 1: Did she write her own songs?

779
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:25,440
Speaker 2: She just I'm not sure. This one was written by

780
00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:28,639
Chris Kersoffers, Yes, the late.

781
00:38:28,599 --> 00:38:32,119
Speaker 1: Chris Kersoffers, Right, he just died. Yeah, you know how

782
00:38:32,159 --> 00:38:36,039
he you know he finally got its like songwriting deal. No, well,

783
00:38:36,079 --> 00:38:37,559
he was a pilot in the Air Force.

784
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, and he could drive it. Rhodes scholar too.

785
00:38:40,119 --> 00:38:42,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, smart dude. Helicopter. So he shows up at like

786
00:38:43,039 --> 00:38:46,159
Johnny Cash's house in a helicopter with a couple of beers.

787
00:38:46,639 --> 00:38:49,760
Johnny Cash wasn't home, but his family said, hey, dad,

788
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:51,519
some guy just showed up at a helicopter. He's got

789
00:38:51,519 --> 00:38:53,679
a song he wrote for you. And that's how they

790
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:55,719
became friends and that's how he got into the hole.

791
00:38:56,360 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 2: Man. Sometimes you have to just take bold movie if

792
00:39:00,519 --> 00:39:02,480
you believe you.

793
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:04,760
Speaker 3: Have that, you know, I mean that that that's the

794
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:07,719
thing you gotta believe. I think that's that's part of

795
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:11,519
it with my Like, I'm I worry, my mind's all

796
00:39:11,559 --> 00:39:14,440
over the place. But I worry that my siblings will

797
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:18,239
get upset that I talk about this stuff because they're a.

798
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:19,679
Speaker 2: Little more private. They're a little more private.

799
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:21,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I get that. My my family was the same

800
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:23,079
way when I talk about stuff on the break. Yeah,

801
00:39:25,159 --> 00:39:26,519
I got so much crap.

802
00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 2: So I I I feel like that may be part

803
00:39:29,519 --> 00:39:33,079
of uh. But but either way, I I it's just

804
00:39:33,119 --> 00:39:33,519
what I do.

805
00:39:33,599 --> 00:39:35,920
Speaker 1: And I mean no malice, but the good the good

806
00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:39,280
news is even like the deliverance of bad news. Now

807
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:42,599
you know there's a shot clock, so now you know. Okay, Well,

808
00:39:42,639 --> 00:39:44,880
I'm gonna take every moment to let my father know

809
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:46,320
how much he means to me.

810
00:39:46,639 --> 00:39:49,800
Speaker 3: I have to, uh, I said, I said to my brother, listen,

811
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:53,000
I want I gotta get up there to see him.

812
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:56,360
And he said, yeah, I go. I I said, I can.

813
00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:59,519
You know, I'll get a hotel. Note feel like you

814
00:39:59,559 --> 00:40:02,119
gotta put me. I mean they get the kids and

815
00:40:02,119 --> 00:40:04,440
and he's like, no, no, no, we'll figure out. I said,

816
00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:06,840
But then I'm going, I don't know when you know,

817
00:40:08,639 --> 00:40:10,079
I got jury duty next week?

818
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:13,719
Speaker 2: Okay, you know what I mean? And I guess I

819
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:15,400
could put it off and go, hey, my dad's I

820
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:17,079
guess I could. I don't know. I don't want to

821
00:40:17,119 --> 00:40:18,719
use him as an excuse and then watch him live

822
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:22,760
another year, you know what I mean, Like whoa uh.

823
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:24,880
Speaker 3: And I've already put it off because it was interfering

824
00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:27,000
with the project I was doing. And so now I

825
00:40:27,599 --> 00:40:28,800
put it till now, and I'm.

826
00:40:28,599 --> 00:40:29,719
Speaker 2: Like, I gotta, I gotta go.

827
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:32,679
Speaker 3: So it's it's not like I'm going to run up there.

828
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:36,719
And but Jamison's done with school, He's got a one

829
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:39,760
more regents and then uh, that'll be tomorrow.

830
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:41,800
Speaker 1: It's got to be a way to get out of

831
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:43,840
jury duty. I think there's the whole show about it.

832
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:45,880
Could we have a Netflix show called jury Duty or

833
00:40:46,519 --> 00:40:47,159
on Prime show?

834
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:48,800
Speaker 2: Probably, I don't know.

835
00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:51,280
Speaker 1: Then there's people who like want to serve on every jury,

836
00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:55,119
they want to like to side people's face. We could

837
00:40:55,159 --> 00:40:57,679
just find those people to do our do our jury

838
00:40:57,760 --> 00:40:59,719
duty for us. Those those Americans.

839
00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:02,760
Speaker 2: Citisen like to Uh, I'd like to go on the

840
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:03,920
well anyway, it.

841
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 1: Would be a great experience.

842
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:06,920
Speaker 2: I would like to go on your duty, just to

843
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:09,559
see the process of it all. But at the same time,

844
00:41:09,599 --> 00:41:10,360
I don't want to.

845
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:11,719
Speaker 1: What it might being on a jury. It's not that

846
00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:14,599
I don't want to do it, Yeah, because you have

847
00:41:14,679 --> 00:41:16,360
to work. Like if you're in sales like I am,

848
00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:19,920
or you you you don't make any money when you're

849
00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:21,000
serving aking country.

850
00:41:21,039 --> 00:41:23,639
Speaker 2: I'm sitting down. I got podcast to do. I got things.

851
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:24,800
Speaker 1: I got things to do.

852
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, like I I go, how here's where

853
00:41:29,519 --> 00:41:30,320
my brain goes? Now?

854
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:35,159
Speaker 3: How can I turn trips in the summer into podcasts?

855
00:41:35,679 --> 00:41:36,480
Speaker 2: Like? How do I go?

856
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 3: My mom lives near Jeffrey Dean Morgan who was on

857
00:41:39,559 --> 00:41:43,800
The Walking Dead and his wife Hillary Burton was on

858
00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:46,840
One Tree Hill. How do I parlay a visit to

859
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:49,320
my mom and sit down with them?

860
00:41:49,639 --> 00:41:49,760
Speaker 2: Uh?

861
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 3: The who was the founder of Rolling Stone was somebody

862
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:59,400
was his son owns a brewery by my mom. How

863
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:01,920
do I get that guy to sit down with me

864
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:04,320
for an hour? And then you know what I mean?

865
00:42:04,639 --> 00:42:08,480
Speaker 1: You know you're into helicopter and you show up with

866
00:42:08,559 --> 00:42:10,599
the guy's front lawn with a couple of his own beers.

867
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:14,400
Speaker 3: They're interesting, They're they're interesting people, and I think they

868
00:42:14,519 --> 00:42:15,519
make great podcasts.

869
00:42:15,519 --> 00:42:19,599
Speaker 2: But I go, yeah, I go, is that selfish for me? Yes?

870
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:21,320
So what? Well, I guess.

871
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:23,519
Speaker 3: But I'm like, I'm gonna be down there and these

872
00:42:23,519 --> 00:42:25,639
are interesting people and I'd like to.

873
00:42:25,679 --> 00:42:28,320
Speaker 1: Dude, they'll talk to you. My buddy Mike Ham Yeah,

874
00:42:28,519 --> 00:42:30,480
like okay, so I went. So he uh. He was

875
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:32,679
a pitching coach at Saint je Fisher. He and I

876
00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:35,119
lived together after my divorce. I lived with three other dudes.

877
00:42:35,159 --> 00:42:36,480
He was one of them. He and I became really

878
00:42:36,519 --> 00:42:38,760
good friends. He was like ten years younger than I am.

879
00:42:39,079 --> 00:42:41,360
And he started this podcast. You can look it up.

880
00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:45,239
It's like it's like New Jersey related podcast. Everything's New Jersey.

881
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:47,119
Like they got their own hats, now, they got their

882
00:42:47,159 --> 00:42:49,719
own gear. They have Jersey Fest. Now, they have a

883
00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:52,960
radio station that only plays artists from New Jersey. He

884
00:42:53,079 --> 00:42:55,360
started all this stuff and he's just going to people

885
00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:57,599
who are from New Jersey and they just pitch whatever

886
00:42:57,639 --> 00:43:00,199
they have. Yeah, and they love it because they're just

887
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:03,360
getting an hour of free a free commercial. Yeah, talking

888
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:05,960
about these people will talk to you. I'll talk to you.

889
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:08,159
So maybe not the guys from The Walking Dead, but

890
00:43:08,159 --> 00:43:08,960
but the brewery.

891
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:11,440
Speaker 3: Dude, well, I think jeffreydy Morerian May he owns a

892
00:43:11,599 --> 00:43:15,440
chocolate chop with Paul Rudd in the village.

893
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:19,559
Speaker 2: So we'll see. Let's get onto something lighter. That's been

894
00:43:19,559 --> 00:43:21,880
making headlines. I don't know. I'm sure you saw this.

895
00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 1: You you are find out.

896
00:43:24,119 --> 00:43:26,360
Speaker 2: You're all over social media. It's been that's that's from

897
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:27,360
on Twitter and Instagram.

898
00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:29,280
Speaker 1: I'm not anywhere else though, So you're.

899
00:43:29,079 --> 00:43:32,440
Speaker 2: On yes, so uh, you probably a lot.

900
00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:35,519
Speaker 1: Of threads about health. The algorithm's got Maybe.

901
00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:38,800
Speaker 2: Wow, Danny, Danny, you have become the supplement guy.

902
00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:41,559
Speaker 3: I mean that's that's that is true. A New York

903
00:43:41,559 --> 00:43:46,039
City based artist. Her name is Leanna Perry. She's thirty

904
00:43:46,039 --> 00:43:49,440
two years old. She's known for working with brands like Maybeleine.

905
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:55,400
Maybe it's maybe Lene. She's making megapart ah, I don't know, okay,

906
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:57,719
but she was one of their top designers.

907
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:00,440
Speaker 2: She may she may have to change it single to

908
00:44:01,199 --> 00:44:04,079
maybe you need a lawyer. She was.

909
00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:08,079
Speaker 3: She worked for Adidas, Steve Madden, Steve Madden shoes and stuff.

910
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:12,760
She went viral. Uh, for all the wrong reasons. She

911
00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:13,559
went viral.

912
00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:19,320
Speaker 2: Okay, it was a text I apologized.

913
00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:22,559
Speaker 3: I've been having my phone on do not disturb, but

914
00:44:22,599 --> 00:44:25,400
because my dad will call at random times, I don't

915
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:27,519
want it on do not disturb because I don't hear it.

916
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:29,480
But when I'm doing the podcast, it put it on

917
00:44:29,559 --> 00:44:32,639
do not disturb when I'm in certain situations. Anyway, So

918
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:36,159
a text came in from somebody on the podcast making

919
00:44:36,199 --> 00:44:37,440
some ridiculous comment.

920
00:44:37,320 --> 00:44:38,760
Speaker 2: Not about the show that we're doing.

921
00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:43,880
Speaker 3: Uh So this woman went viral after a drunken violent

922
00:44:44,039 --> 00:44:49,639
meltdown on Southwest Airlines and here his said, melt down.

923
00:44:49,679 --> 00:44:51,519
Speaker 2: Let me see if I have the right thing.

924
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:55,199
Speaker 1: Don't tell it.

925
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:59,320
Speaker 3: Okay, So this woman comes on the plane and apparently

926
00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:04,400
we refuses to sit next to someone on Southwest because

927
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:07,559
they're too fat. And the woman doesn't look that fat.

928
00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:10,119
I mean, she really didn't hard to tell.

929
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:11,840
Speaker 1: She could just be big boned.

930
00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:13,239
Speaker 2: She doesn't look.

931
00:45:13,159 --> 00:45:15,599
Speaker 3: Fat, but it's hard to tell. From the camera angle.

932
00:45:15,679 --> 00:45:18,119
This is being filmed from behind the fat woman. This

933
00:45:18,159 --> 00:45:21,920
woman is now over her seat and the alleged I

934
00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:26,920
will say alleged fat woman has a mask on, like

935
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:30,400
a COVID mask. Or the masks that we wore. Like

936
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:35,239
over there, I'm seeing a lot more people wearing those. Yeah, yeah,

937
00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:38,079
me too, I am and which okay, I you know,

938
00:45:38,159 --> 00:45:39,800
I don't get it, but all right, you do you

939
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:41,320
if it gets you, hey, if.

940
00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:43,239
Speaker 1: You feel better, because I know anxiety is a thing.

941
00:45:43,639 --> 00:45:45,079
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I agree.

942
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:46,840
Speaker 1: I'll tell my wife. Yeah, I'm with you. But you

943
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:48,519
know what, my wife says the same thing about But

944
00:45:48,519 --> 00:45:49,800
at the end of the day, if they have anxiety,

945
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:51,440
it makes them feel better, you know what.

946
00:45:51,599 --> 00:45:52,920
Speaker 2: And maybe it keeps them healthier.

947
00:45:53,199 --> 00:45:55,039
Speaker 3: I didn't get a cold that time, and I've had

948
00:45:55,039 --> 00:45:56,159
a cold now for a little while.

949
00:45:56,199 --> 00:45:57,360
Speaker 2: All right, here we go.

950
00:45:57,480 --> 00:46:00,800
Speaker 3: Here's a lady on the plane, thirty two year old

951
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:05,719
Leanna Perry. They're trying to tell her not to touch

952
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:06,880
the fat lady.

953
00:46:07,079 --> 00:46:09,840
Speaker 2: Who alleged fat lady. Let me say that again. Who

954
00:46:10,119 --> 00:46:11,559
is she's?

955
00:46:12,039 --> 00:46:16,639
Speaker 3: This woman is kneeling on her seat, leaning over Okay,

956
00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:21,119
and in the face of the alleged fat woman with

957
00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:28,000
now several three or four US Yeah Southwest workers.

958
00:46:27,639 --> 00:46:30,079
Speaker 1: And even a few baggage handlers.

959
00:46:30,199 --> 00:46:35,280
Speaker 3: No, no, no, just passengers don't.

960
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:44,519
Speaker 2: Look at her. Yeah, she grabs the hair, grabs her

961
00:46:44,599 --> 00:46:46,639
by the hair. What the alleged fat woman.

962
00:46:50,079 --> 00:46:51,039
Speaker 1: She's got her hair like.

963
00:46:51,079 --> 00:46:57,480
Speaker 2: I mean, she's got and I'm not even touching her hair, bitch.

964
00:47:00,159 --> 00:47:09,719
Not able. This woman is like up against her head something.

965
00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:12,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sorry, I didn't want to say next to

966
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:17,880
fat lady over here. You guys are already passed.

967
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:20,039
Speaker 3: You're already passed.

968
00:47:23,639 --> 00:47:28,320
Speaker 2: That's so priamos. Y'all see me, do you know what's

969
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:31,239
going says about her face? Put me on the ground.

970
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:35,119
Speaker 1: All right, look at this fat lady.

971
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:37,639
Speaker 2: Look at as fat ass bitch. She can't even look.

972
00:47:37,679 --> 00:47:38,800
You can't even your stomach.

973
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:39,840
Speaker 1: That's horrible.

974
00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:40,360
Speaker 2: Look at her.

975
00:47:42,119 --> 00:47:45,880
Speaker 1: Bit hilarious. You can't even show your mouth because you're embarrassed.

976
00:47:46,599 --> 00:47:48,480
Got the mask because you're embarrassed.

977
00:47:48,599 --> 00:47:53,639
Speaker 2: Shut the fuck up. Sorry, I can't hear you.

978
00:47:54,039 --> 00:47:55,880
Speaker 1: I can't hear you, ugly ass dude.

979
00:47:56,159 --> 00:48:00,880
Speaker 2: He's never had a lay it again. She also a

980
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:01,559
black guy.

981
00:48:02,119 --> 00:48:06,480
Speaker 1: My boyfriends, My boyfriend's sucking a black guy. My boyfriend's

982
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:07,679
a black, My boyfriend's black.

983
00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:13,880
Speaker 2: My boyfriends a fucking black guy. All right, as.

984
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:22,239
Speaker 3: She's now spitting on the woman.

985
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:25,039
Speaker 2: Shut the shut I'm gonna shut the shut the up.

986
00:48:25,079 --> 00:48:28,559
I can't breathe Yeah, they got her on the ground.

987
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:31,039
Speaker 1: That's George Floyd cout all right.

988
00:48:31,159 --> 00:48:35,280
Speaker 2: So this woman has just completely lost her ship. And

989
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:37,960
I don' she got on the plane drunk. I don't

990
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:39,039
know what drug she was on.

991
00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:41,519
Speaker 3: That's why I said she may be going from maybe

992
00:48:41,559 --> 00:48:43,320
it's maybe lean to maybe I need a lawyer.

993
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:47,320
Speaker 1: H we guessed the apology? Yeah, sure, Like if I

994
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:49,880
were Steve Sircu, how would I craft this defense letter?

995
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:55,679
Speaker 3: But you're seeing what seems like more and more extreme

996
00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:59,960
behavior in planes, and we see everything now, we are

997
00:49:00,559 --> 00:49:05,000
so hyper connected, we see every there you go back,

998
00:49:05,119 --> 00:49:11,119
I'm gonna say, I feel like fifteen years ago, our

999
00:49:11,159 --> 00:49:14,599
technology wasn't where I could go live from the plane.

1000
00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:16,840
And you know what I mean, I mean somebody probably

1001
00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:19,280
did or film it and upload it instantly.

1002
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:21,159
Speaker 2: I mean this has been everywhere.

1003
00:49:21,199 --> 00:49:23,760
Speaker 3: Every newscast has had it then, and so it just

1004
00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:27,199
got picked up. But I mean I'm seeing the raw stuff.

1005
00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:31,639
I think at some point in the video or one video,

1006
00:49:31,679 --> 00:49:34,840
she yells at the woman, I'm sorry that your husband

1007
00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:38,599
has a two inch dick or whatever. But I'm going,

1008
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:42,960
how does nobody and I go this? There must be

1009
00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:45,760
something wrong with me because I always think if your

1010
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:49,039
first instinct is to hit, there's something wrong with you.

1011
00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:55,840
But if she had my girlfriend, wife, partner, whatever, buy

1012
00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:59,400
the hair, and she's pulling it and she's not letting go,

1013
00:50:00,039 --> 00:50:02,960
I am punching that woman square in the fucking face,

1014
00:50:03,079 --> 00:50:05,559
and I'm hitting to knock her out. I'm not hitting

1015
00:50:05,599 --> 00:50:07,840
to just be like hey, like a little slap on

1016
00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:10,320
the face. No, I'm fucking getting up and I am

1017
00:50:10,119 --> 00:50:13,280
I'm going. I mean if I need to come with

1018
00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:16,440
an upper cut to just knock your jaw off, and

1019
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:20,960
I'm like, nobody does that, Nobody does it, And I

1020
00:50:21,039 --> 00:50:24,719
go in the end, it's probably the right thing to do. Yes,

1021
00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:27,400
I mean, she's got her by the head. You gotta

1022
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:29,559
it's insanity.

1023
00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:31,800
Speaker 1: Because y'alls just because she didn't want to sit next

1024
00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:34,239
to allegedly allegedly a fat woman.

1025
00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:36,519
Speaker 3: Yes, and that woman didn't. I mean she didn't even

1026
00:50:36,559 --> 00:50:38,800
look she didn't look plump. I don't know.

1027
00:50:40,199 --> 00:50:42,039
Speaker 1: I don't know what to say to this. I just

1028
00:50:42,679 --> 00:50:44,400
I mean, we we I mean we we see this

1029
00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:46,639
because they make the news now, right. I don't think

1030
00:50:46,679 --> 00:50:49,599
these things happens often. They just happened, and we remember

1031
00:50:49,639 --> 00:50:51,639
the last time it happened. And it feels like yesterday.

1032
00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:54,679
Speaker 2: Right, Well, there was just a like you go on there,

1033
00:50:55,119 --> 00:50:57,559
type in go on. You can just type in.

1034
00:50:57,320 --> 00:51:00,559
Speaker 3: In Google and you're right, they're playing no. Just I

1035
00:51:00,599 --> 00:51:03,719
put in Southwest meltdown. I guess some guy must sit

1036
00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:07,039
down over somebody's baby videos of the Southwest.

1037
00:51:07,039 --> 00:51:09,480
Speaker 1: Okay, so their spirit then there's Southwest's gonna give you

1038
00:51:09,599 --> 00:51:12,000
right now? Okay, A are you gonna rank the airlines

1039
00:51:12,079 --> 00:51:13,239
that most likely.

1040
00:51:13,159 --> 00:51:15,599
Speaker 2: This is gonna happen. I'm telling you those are the ones.

1041
00:51:15,800 --> 00:51:18,840
Speaker 1: It's like people of Walmart. It is people of passengers of.

1042
00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:22,920
Speaker 3: Southwest starting to think if you want incident free flights,

1043
00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:24,360
saying they can't happen on.

1044
00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:25,559
Speaker 1: Other flights, you got to go to Delta.

1045
00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:28,119
Speaker 2: You've got to know, you've got to go first class.

1046
00:51:29,039 --> 00:51:30,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that doesn't mean it's somebody in the back's

1047
00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:32,920
not going to start a problem and the's not gonna

1048
00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:33,159
get off.

1049
00:51:33,199 --> 00:51:35,440
Speaker 3: I don't see it. I don't see why is that?

1050
00:51:35,800 --> 00:51:38,559
Why do people who are like paying a little bit

1051
00:51:38,639 --> 00:51:41,400
more aren't fucked up.

1052
00:51:42,199 --> 00:51:44,400
Speaker 1: Because they know much they know how much it's worth.

1053
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:47,559
I don't know, really Southwest at least last time, so

1054
00:51:47,599 --> 00:51:49,480
the first time I've ever got in a plane, was

1055
00:51:49,639 --> 00:51:52,840
with Tom Ulay and you I was twenty nine. Okay,

1056
00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:55,559
how was it even? And your wife at the time

1057
00:51:55,639 --> 00:51:58,039
explained to me Southwest is a cattle call, so you

1058
00:51:58,119 --> 00:51:59,960
have to check in and then you get whatever seat

1059
00:52:00,079 --> 00:52:01,840
you get based on when you're called up to go

1060
00:52:01,960 --> 00:52:04,239
in the line. There's no assigned seats. It's just you

1061
00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:06,559
just go and just pick your seat or whatever. So

1062
00:52:06,880 --> 00:52:08,920
a lot of people just like sit down and the

1063
00:52:09,079 --> 00:52:11,119
people whoever who are left have to sit next to

1064
00:52:11,199 --> 00:52:14,000
somebody because there's always like everyone wants their own space, right,

1065
00:52:14,360 --> 00:52:16,320
so you're gonna be stuck sitting next to somebody you

1066
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:18,000
probably wouldn't choose normally.

1067
00:52:18,159 --> 00:52:18,719
Speaker 2: I'll tell you this.

1068
00:52:18,880 --> 00:52:22,920
Speaker 3: If I'm flying alone, I'm going like probably the cheapest

1069
00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:25,760
and a lot of times what I'll do is I

1070
00:52:25,880 --> 00:52:30,360
will not Like most of my recent flights were to

1071
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:33,480
see Jamison when he was in Alabama, and I would

1072
00:52:33,519 --> 00:52:36,639
always try to fly into Huntsville instead of Nashville. Southwest

1073
00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:40,000
is a Nashville is a hub in Nashville. Nashville's a

1074
00:52:40,039 --> 00:52:43,800
hub for Southwestern, Yes, Huntsville, I would I would always

1075
00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:46,440
go like American to Charlotte and over.

1076
00:52:46,599 --> 00:52:48,880
Speaker 2: I never had an issue. But I can tell you

1077
00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:53,079
the Southwest flights they're not that much cheaper. No, they're

1078
00:52:53,119 --> 00:52:53,440
really not.

1079
00:52:54,079 --> 00:52:56,559
Speaker 1: The bags don't fly for you anymore, No, they don't.

1080
00:52:56,760 --> 00:52:59,800
Speaker 3: And so, and I'm not saying Southwest is a bad airline.

1081
00:53:00,079 --> 00:53:03,719
Couldn't be around as long as they have become the

1082
00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:09,000
brand Spirit and Southwest more is that though, And I

1083
00:53:09,199 --> 00:53:12,880
swear to God, there is something I don't I don't

1084
00:53:12,880 --> 00:53:13,159
get it.

1085
00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:15,719
Speaker 1: I think you got. I hate saying this, but I

1086
00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:18,239
would fly Southwest. I have no problems with it because

1087
00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:21,280
a lot of they're like direct flights, like Buffalo to Vegas. Oh, yeah,

1088
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:23,960
I'll do that. You'll stop, please, I think I'll do that.

1089
00:53:24,039 --> 00:53:26,480
I think it's probably the best of the rest, if

1090
00:53:26,519 --> 00:53:29,000
that makes sense. Southwest it's not a bad airline at all,

1091
00:53:29,039 --> 00:53:33,280
but you're going to get that level of insophistication in

1092
00:53:33,599 --> 00:53:38,559
your passenger versus a Delta or United. I'm an American Airlines.

1093
00:53:40,639 --> 00:53:46,280
Speaker 3: I'll say this, if what airline are you more likely

1094
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:48,360
to see people in pajamas and slippers on?

1095
00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:51,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, Southwest it's like the Walmart Airlines.

1096
00:53:51,760 --> 00:53:55,199
Speaker 2: Southwestern Spirit our Frontier right.

1097
00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:58,519
Speaker 1: Looks like okay, Gen like Target everything. Oh, the Tar

1098
00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:01,320
they have so much cool stuff. My sister, when we

1099
00:54:01,440 --> 00:54:03,239
lived together, she would buy a lot of her furniture

1100
00:54:03,599 --> 00:54:06,039
from Target. And he did a study and they found

1101
00:54:06,079 --> 00:54:08,719
out that while people think it's cheek to shop at Target,

1102
00:54:09,039 --> 00:54:12,960
their stuff breaks, whereas Walmart stuff doesn't break as often.

1103
00:54:13,119 --> 00:54:15,880
It actually is sturdier. And this was fifteen years ago,

1104
00:54:16,199 --> 00:54:19,199
sturdier and better. But because it was targeted, it was

1105
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:21,679
very sophisticated. But if you go to Walmart or a Target,

1106
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:24,239
you're seeing the same client tele no matter what, especially

1107
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:27,239
the cash register. Okay, it's the same look.

1108
00:54:27,519 --> 00:54:34,400
Speaker 2: Look, I don't say I'm judging and I'm being mean

1109
00:54:34,679 --> 00:54:35,039
and all this.

1110
00:54:35,559 --> 00:54:38,000
Speaker 1: But this is I'm not saying, it's people saying people

1111
00:54:38,039 --> 00:54:39,320
will choose to do that.

1112
00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:42,519
Speaker 2: I'm judging. I'm judging. I'm judging if I see a

1113
00:54:42,559 --> 00:54:44,000
lot of pajamas. I'll tell you what.

1114
00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 3: I can tell a lot about the neighborhood by the

1115
00:54:47,199 --> 00:54:50,119
number of self checkouts that are open in the Walmart.

1116
00:54:50,559 --> 00:54:52,840
When I go to certain parts of where we live,

1117
00:54:53,880 --> 00:54:55,880
they don't they to self checkout.

1118
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:59,360
Speaker 2: Out. Yeah, everybody was stealing. Yes, that's all I'll say.

1119
00:54:59,760 --> 00:55:01,760
And I can tell and I know it sounds shitty

1120
00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:05,039
and you're gonna going no, it's a fact. It's a fact.

1121
00:55:05,079 --> 00:55:07,840
Speaker 1: It's a fact that he's a gentleman. Stereotypes exists for

1122
00:55:07,880 --> 00:55:09,639
a reason. It doesn't mean they're always right.

1123
00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:13,599
Speaker 3: Sometimes sometimes I can go a little bit of shame

1124
00:55:14,519 --> 00:55:18,480
goes a far away. I will ask you this, and

1125
00:55:18,840 --> 00:55:23,760
in a real almost philosophical way, this is feeds our

1126
00:55:24,039 --> 00:55:28,679
need for shaming. This woman can't deny what she did,

1127
00:55:29,079 --> 00:55:32,039
or she may not. She may be in such a state,

1128
00:55:32,199 --> 00:55:35,920
and who knows if she's on prescription meds and drinking

1129
00:55:36,119 --> 00:55:37,280
and that really fucked her up.

1130
00:55:37,360 --> 00:55:41,039
Speaker 2: Who knows. Let's say she didn't even do that.

1131
00:55:41,159 --> 00:55:43,480
Speaker 1: But she's like, this is gonna be her response.

1132
00:55:43,639 --> 00:55:47,840
Speaker 3: But she she can't deny what she did, and she

1133
00:55:48,119 --> 00:55:52,119
has to see it herself. And everybody she knows has

1134
00:55:52,159 --> 00:55:54,880
seen it, everybody she works with, everybody she's related to,

1135
00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:59,840
everybody has seen this. Her family has gotten calls about this, right,

1136
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:03,239
I mean, it's bad. And I go, what happens when

1137
00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:07,559
someone's worst moment becomes their most famous moment and that's

1138
00:56:07,599 --> 00:56:10,159
all they're sort of remembered for. And I go, I'm

1139
00:56:10,199 --> 00:56:13,199
not sure that that's entirely fair, because every one of

1140
00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:19,360
us have had made mistakes, and I did something about

1141
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:23,000
a year ago, almost exactly a year ago a little

1142
00:56:23,079 --> 00:56:27,360
past where I got in someone's face and I pretty

1143
00:56:27,440 --> 00:56:31,559
much ruined a relationship of friendship that not not a relationship,

1144
00:56:31,559 --> 00:56:35,400
but a friendship. And if that were caught on viral video,

1145
00:56:35,599 --> 00:56:38,719
I would look like a complete asshole. And I the

1146
00:56:38,800 --> 00:56:42,599
person was very upset, emotional, and I used the C

1147
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:45,960
word and everything, So I'm not all I'm saying is

1148
00:56:46,559 --> 00:56:50,360
my worst moment. I apologize for it. Things have sort

1149
00:56:50,400 --> 00:56:54,679
of come around, But could you imagine if that was

1150
00:56:54,679 --> 00:56:57,039
out there, that would be every day like that?

1151
00:56:57,239 --> 00:57:00,320
Speaker 1: Look like that actual experience that once on Twitter about

1152
00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:02,480
five years ago. I made a comment and I ended

1153
00:57:02,519 --> 00:57:04,679
up becoming true. But at the time it was run

1154
00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:07,480
by a bunch of wokesters and I got attacked and

1155
00:57:07,599 --> 00:57:10,840
I had like like retweeted like hat ESPN people were

1156
00:57:10,920 --> 00:57:13,679
going at me, barstool people were going at me. Come

1157
00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:15,960
to find out I was right. They don't admit that

1158
00:57:16,039 --> 00:57:17,440
part though. I mean I was getting people in my

1159
00:57:17,519 --> 00:57:20,119
inbox trying to I will educate you on how this works,

1160
00:57:20,559 --> 00:57:22,159
and I mean it was just it was awful. And

1161
00:57:22,199 --> 00:57:24,000
then they end up doing like a whole Family Guy

1162
00:57:24,079 --> 00:57:26,239
episode about it, people like, hey, Dan, is this you

1163
00:57:26,639 --> 00:57:28,840
where like Brian gets canceled for a joke he made.

1164
00:57:29,199 --> 00:57:31,440
But the point is is like, yeah, when it's out there,

1165
00:57:31,519 --> 00:57:34,320
it sucks for a while, but then people hopefully eventually

1166
00:57:34,400 --> 00:57:35,960
will get over it go on to something else.

1167
00:57:36,039 --> 00:57:37,480
Speaker 3: But something that's going to go to the other thing.

1168
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And I think most people are somewhat rational, but we

1169
00:57:40,000 --> 00:57:45,000
seem this is this woman's worst moment. Everybody just think

1170
00:57:45,039 --> 00:57:47,440
about this for a second. And I know, like, hey,

1171
00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:49,079
what about the woman who had her hair pulled?

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00:57:49,079 --> 00:57:49,119
Speaker 1: What?

1173
00:57:49,440 --> 00:57:51,840
Speaker 3: Yes, I agree, I would have. I said to you,

1174
00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:54,760
I would probably punch this woman to knock her out

1175
00:57:55,000 --> 00:57:56,000
or really hurt.

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00:57:55,880 --> 00:57:57,920
Speaker 1: Her, and then you would be the person.

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00:57:57,920 --> 00:58:00,480
Speaker 2: I would But at the end of the day that's

1178
00:58:00,800 --> 00:58:03,079
on video. I go, maybe I got a little bit

1179
00:58:03,119 --> 00:58:04,039
of a lenience here.

1180
00:58:04,159 --> 00:58:06,440
Speaker 1: I think people would defend you, yes, but but that

1181
00:58:06,559 --> 00:58:07,039
doesn't matter.

1182
00:58:07,119 --> 00:58:10,000
Speaker 3: The court of law is not going Salt's assault. Yeah,

1183
00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:13,320
you know, and what do we always say, too bad.

1184
00:58:13,239 --> 00:58:16,039
Speaker 1: Too still right, we can't have vigil AMPTI justice.

1185
00:58:16,199 --> 00:58:19,679
Speaker 3: So I would have been wrong, But that's that person's

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00:58:19,760 --> 00:58:23,480
worst moment, and they're never I mean shit, if I'm

1187
00:58:23,519 --> 00:58:24,239
a close friend.

1188
00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:27,599
Speaker 2: That's my Christmas card? Is you having her by the

1189
00:58:27,679 --> 00:58:29,480
hair and a real scal on your face and go

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Twenty twenty.

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00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:34,719
Speaker 3: Five was interesting, you know what I'm saying, Like, that's

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00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:38,320
what I would do. But I I I wonder if

1193
00:58:38,519 --> 00:58:42,119
if all of this is too much, you know what

1194
00:58:42,159 --> 00:58:42,920
I mean, it's too.

1195
00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:43,760
Speaker 2: Much, it's too much.

1196
00:58:43,880 --> 00:58:45,800
Speaker 1: I tell people the best time in my life, and

1197
00:58:45,840 --> 00:58:48,159
I'm talking about my my personal life, but the best

1198
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:50,920
time in America I think, if you take out Rodney King,

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was ninety one to ninety four, because I think we

1200
00:58:53,000 --> 00:58:56,000
had just enough technology. Yeah, everything was like you know,

1201
00:58:56,280 --> 00:58:58,000
yeah you could get not that you want to get

1202
00:58:58,039 --> 00:59:00,239
away with anything. But it's like it was like, no,

1203
00:59:00,519 --> 00:59:03,440
not everything was a big deal. America was doing well.

1204
00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:06,039
We weren't each other's business. We didn't know each other's

1205
00:59:06,119 --> 00:59:08,679
private thoughts. We just saw each other at work or

1206
00:59:08,719 --> 00:59:11,360
at school and we went home. And life didn't follow

1207
00:59:11,440 --> 00:59:14,159
you around. Now life follows you everywhere. You got an

1208
00:59:14,159 --> 00:59:14,800
audience no.

1209
00:59:14,880 --> 00:59:20,400
Speaker 3: Matter where you go, right, it sucks anyway, interesting, and

1210
00:59:20,519 --> 00:59:23,320
I don't know why. I think we see more of

1211
00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:26,599
it because maybe it's happening a little bit more. Maybe

1212
00:59:26,679 --> 00:59:28,960
prescription meds and alcohol, and people are mixing things and

1213
00:59:29,039 --> 00:59:31,960
getting fucked up more than they think they will. People

1214
00:59:32,079 --> 00:59:34,920
have cameras. You I mean, if you glance real quick

1215
00:59:35,039 --> 00:59:37,639
in the video, you see at least three people filming this.

1216
00:59:37,960 --> 00:59:41,079
At least three, so you know what's the deal there.

1217
00:59:41,559 --> 00:59:46,960
And the other thing I would say is that you

1218
00:59:47,079 --> 00:59:52,280
know those airlines, cheap airlines. I'm kissed off. She flies

1219
00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:54,559
to lay you fucked up. I mean, I don't know, dude,

1220
00:59:54,599 --> 00:59:55,360
nobody likes to fly.

1221
00:59:55,639 --> 00:59:57,760
Speaker 2: I'm just saying I don't know.

1222
00:59:58,039 --> 00:59:59,960
Speaker 1: No, no, I like to fly. Nobody wants to fly. Pup,

1223
01:00:00,159 --> 01:00:01,840
what do you call it? People only want to fly

1224
01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:07,039
private if they nobody wants because airline security, I mean,

1225
01:00:07,079 --> 01:00:09,679
the whole thing sucks. It's just it's just no fun.

1226
01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:12,679
Once you get past the gate, you're typically okay until

1227
01:00:12,679 --> 01:00:14,920
you get on the plane right and then if the

1228
01:00:14,960 --> 01:00:16,960
flight work goes smooth and go smoothly, but man, you

1229
01:00:17,079 --> 01:00:20,320
gotta you're holding your breath. And if you're in New York, man,

1230
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:25,280
I'll tell you what. LaGuardia and JF was. Okay, Kansas City, Okay,

1231
01:00:25,320 --> 01:00:28,280
So LaGuardia is a dump, Okay, JFK is a little

1232
01:00:28,280 --> 01:00:31,000
bit better. But the thing is, though, is that the

1233
01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:34,360
I think it's like the furthest point from New York

1234
01:00:34,400 --> 01:00:37,440
from civilization, these two airports. So the ride to the

1235
01:00:37,599 --> 01:00:40,159
airport is actually worse than the flight you're about to

1236
01:00:40,199 --> 01:00:42,039
get out. Yeah, it's awful.

1237
01:00:42,639 --> 01:00:45,199
Speaker 3: And it's like they used to rip you off hard,

1238
01:00:45,280 --> 01:00:46,840
and then they made a law that that had to

1239
01:00:46,880 --> 01:00:50,360
be a flat rate. So all the tax taxis at

1240
01:00:50,360 --> 01:00:50,760
the time.

1241
01:00:50,679 --> 01:00:54,679
Speaker 1: Taxis uber lifts. I mean, it's yeah, kind of the

1242
01:00:54,760 --> 01:00:56,679
same right in and right out. But holy cow man,

1243
01:00:56,719 --> 01:00:58,880
it sucks. The ride sucks to the airport.

1244
01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:02,440
Speaker 2: All right, Well, take a moment. I wanted to tell

1245
01:01:02,480 --> 01:01:04,199
you about bt B because I got a hold of

1246
01:01:04,239 --> 01:01:05,360
their summer menu.

1247
01:01:05,599 --> 01:01:07,480
Speaker 1: Oh dude, summer brunch.

1248
01:01:07,880 --> 01:01:09,280
Speaker 2: Well, we are going to do the brunch.

1249
01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:11,440
Speaker 1: Summer brunch makes me, which.

1250
01:01:11,280 --> 01:01:14,800
Speaker 2: Is your great idea to do?

1251
01:01:14,920 --> 01:01:20,480
Speaker 1: The had another big taco. I don't know, I'm trying

1252
01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:21,079
to rhyme the song.

1253
01:01:22,119 --> 01:01:26,119
Speaker 3: No, but they uh so, you've got they do great

1254
01:01:26,159 --> 01:01:29,039
cocktails to match the season. So they're gonna they have

1255
01:01:29,159 --> 01:01:31,039
the Ocean Breeze bucket.

1256
01:01:31,280 --> 01:01:33,119
Speaker 1: Ocean Breeze bucket.

1257
01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:38,760
Speaker 2: This is great. It's a blue chair, Coconut rum, Loganberry vodka.

1258
01:01:38,559 --> 01:01:41,519
Speaker 1: Oh Buffalo blue is it? Logan Berry's made in Buffalo?

1259
01:01:41,800 --> 01:01:42,280
Speaker 2: Did not know?

1260
01:01:42,519 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Buffalo is known for three foods, wings weck

1261
01:01:45,519 --> 01:01:46,639
and loganberry.

1262
01:01:47,159 --> 01:01:54,480
Speaker 3: Uh, loganberry, blueberry syrup, pineapple juice and starry. Oh refill

1263
01:01:54,519 --> 01:01:59,840
the same day discount and starry it says Ocean breeze bucket. Oh,

1264
01:02:00,079 --> 01:02:02,480
the picnic juice bucket. So I wonder if they come

1265
01:02:02,519 --> 01:02:04,800
in like little buckets. Oh yeah, probably.

1266
01:02:05,039 --> 01:02:08,039
Speaker 2: Oh God, great summer melon they've got these? Sound great?

1267
01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:09,960
And then martiniz of the season.

1268
01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:13,480
Speaker 1: We have got to the food yet No, well, I

1269
01:02:13,760 --> 01:02:16,039
had this shadow.

1270
01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:16,840
Speaker 2: Let me tell you.

1271
01:02:16,920 --> 01:02:21,320
Speaker 3: The street corn chicken bowl sounds amazing. It's black and

1272
01:02:21,440 --> 01:02:25,639
chicken ooh, and it has a kick Mexican street corn,

1273
01:02:26,519 --> 01:02:31,519
sliced avocado over rice and creamy Jlipano cream.

1274
01:02:31,360 --> 01:02:34,760
Speaker 2: Drizzle, which sounds just amazing to me. I love that

1275
01:02:34,880 --> 01:02:35,400
kind of stuff.

1276
01:02:36,400 --> 01:02:39,400
Speaker 3: The Texas potato which I've had, Oh, it is a

1277
01:02:39,639 --> 01:02:43,320
huge potato and I'm talking to the size of your head. Uh,

1278
01:02:43,599 --> 01:02:47,920
stuffed with cheese, bacon, smoked pulled pork, and the sour

1279
01:02:47,960 --> 01:02:51,599
cream drizzle. It is so damn good, so damn good.

1280
01:02:51,880 --> 01:02:54,920
Go to bTB roc dot com. They'll have the menu

1281
01:02:55,000 --> 01:02:59,159
there beginning of August, or actually the middle of August,

1282
01:02:59,159 --> 01:03:01,960
they are gonna have that consort with them Eights and

1283
01:03:02,119 --> 01:03:05,639
the Zach Bryant Tribute Band, and it's just going to

1284
01:03:05,679 --> 01:03:07,599
be a hell of a lot of fun. And they

1285
01:03:07,679 --> 01:03:09,519
do it right out there, they just do. It's a

1286
01:03:09,559 --> 01:03:13,199
great atmosphere. That brunch is off the chain. And we

1287
01:03:13,239 --> 01:03:15,480
will let you know when we were doing brunch cast,

1288
01:03:15,559 --> 01:03:18,599
but we plan to do two this summer on a Sunday.

1289
01:03:18,679 --> 01:03:20,239
Speaker 1: Cool brunch casts, awesome.

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Speaker 2: Cock think gov su confutions.

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Speaker 3: I always thought she could really sing, like there's some

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really good you know that that pop stuff was kind

1332
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of shitty.

1333
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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how her verse stuff was.

1334
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Speaker 1: Now she's doing medication commercials.

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Speaker 2: Is she a song? Yeah? Yeah, you picked me.

1336
01:06:16,559 --> 01:06:23,639
Speaker 1: I'm buck to fun. She was huge for like what

1337
01:06:23,840 --> 01:06:24,920
eighty four or eighty five?

1338
01:06:25,480 --> 01:06:36,280
Speaker 2: What you said? Then you say, so said?

1339
01:06:36,440 --> 01:06:39,000
Speaker 1: Good dumb? Why he's yelling off?

1340
01:06:40,639 --> 01:06:43,519
Speaker 3: Well, I always tell I don't know why I found

1341
01:06:43,559 --> 01:06:46,519
this song to be beautiful in a way it is.

1342
01:06:46,719 --> 01:06:50,079
Speaker 2: I really like it. I like the message. I'll be waiting.

1343
01:06:50,320 --> 01:06:53,559
Speaker 3: I'm there time after time, and I don't know, maybe

1344
01:06:53,599 --> 01:06:56,960
I'm being nostalgic tonight and then thinking about my dad

1345
01:06:57,039 --> 01:06:57,400
and stuff.

1346
01:06:57,440 --> 01:07:00,679
Speaker 2: But I have thought recently and I even now with him.

1347
01:07:01,280 --> 01:07:06,280
I go on average, I got about twenty four years left.

1348
01:07:06,320 --> 01:07:06,880
What am I doing?

1349
01:07:07,280 --> 01:07:10,800
Speaker 3: I gotta, I gotta, I gotta get the pedal to

1350
01:07:10,880 --> 01:07:14,480
the metal, Danny, the pedal to the metal in in

1351
01:07:14,559 --> 01:07:18,440
certain ways, you know. I keep trying to think, like

1352
01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:22,639
because I somebody's brought up something about a midlife crisis

1353
01:07:22,679 --> 01:07:25,159
and they were talking about a friend of ours and.

1354
01:07:25,239 --> 01:07:27,119
Speaker 2: They think the person has a midlife No.

1355
01:07:27,239 --> 01:07:33,079
Speaker 1: Nice, Okay, do I know this friend?

1356
01:07:33,480 --> 01:07:36,880
Speaker 2: Yeah? Maybe living on the podcast? Yeah all right? But

1357
01:07:37,000 --> 01:07:40,159
I go, what does a midlife crisis look like?

1358
01:07:40,360 --> 01:07:42,760
Speaker 1: In the age if you've always had a chrysis? No?

1359
01:07:42,920 --> 01:07:47,039
But I go in the age of remote Mark Killman resident.

1360
01:07:48,320 --> 01:07:51,159
Speaker 2: But I go remote work and wellness apps? What what

1361
01:07:51,639 --> 01:07:54,519
does a midlife crisis look like? You know what I'm saying?

1362
01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:55,440
Like you could?

1363
01:07:55,559 --> 01:07:59,280
Speaker 1: I got if we're always anxious, then like, did you

1364
01:07:59,400 --> 01:07:59,960
know any different?

1365
01:08:01,320 --> 01:08:03,800
Speaker 2: Like I mean, is it the wellness trends? Is it? Is? It?

1366
01:08:04,119 --> 01:08:07,639
Is it cold plunges and pickleball and celery juice? I

1367
01:08:07,719 --> 01:08:08,000
don't know.

1368
01:08:08,559 --> 01:08:12,719
Speaker 1: I don't know either because my generation was the MTV

1369
01:08:12,880 --> 01:08:16,640
slash Toys r US generation. Right, I'm a Toys r

1370
01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:21,000
US kid, and this nostalgia has never stopped because my generation,

1371
01:08:21,319 --> 01:08:24,479
apparently except for me, has never stopped playing with its toys.

1372
01:08:24,920 --> 01:08:26,800
So I don't know what a bidlife crisis looks like

1373
01:08:26,880 --> 01:08:27,640
for somebody like that.

1374
01:08:28,039 --> 01:08:30,199
Speaker 2: I think you're still playing with a few toys once

1375
01:08:30,199 --> 01:08:30,520
in a while.

1376
01:08:30,680 --> 01:08:33,479
Speaker 1: What guitar doesn't count. That's an instrument, all right, it

1377
01:08:33,600 --> 01:08:36,800
was a toy toys. I don't play video games. I

1378
01:08:36,840 --> 01:08:39,399
don't play with like like little Action.

1379
01:08:39,840 --> 01:08:41,520
Speaker 2: Have any action figures anywhere?

1380
01:08:42,399 --> 01:08:45,479
Speaker 3: Zero wife putting a puppet show on Penis puppet show

1381
01:08:45,520 --> 01:08:51,439
for your wife. I don't know nothing. I do shadow puppets, yeah, no,

1382
01:08:51,840 --> 01:08:54,600
but no movie wrestling. Still get into wrestling a little bit.

1383
01:08:54,560 --> 01:08:57,479
Speaker 1: You know, Wrustley's been so bad. I haven't don't.

1384
01:08:57,520 --> 01:08:59,760
Speaker 2: I don't know the products. I don't know. I was

1385
01:08:59,800 --> 01:09:02,720
never or I was aware not but never won.

1386
01:09:02,840 --> 01:09:05,039
Speaker 1: But the thing is, though, it's like Hulk Hogan, like

1387
01:09:05,159 --> 01:09:07,239
was recently in the hospital. They thought he was near death. Yeah,

1388
01:09:07,439 --> 01:09:09,680
that wasn't true. TMC said, No, that's not that's not true.

1389
01:09:09,720 --> 01:09:11,359
He's had a lot of back issues and he's going

1390
01:09:11,439 --> 01:09:13,239
back in and for a while, like, oh my gosh, now,

1391
01:09:13,319 --> 01:09:16,399
Hulk Cogan. That's as close as I get to nostalgia

1392
01:09:16,680 --> 01:09:18,359
as far as that, and then the bills and stuff.

1393
01:09:18,399 --> 01:09:21,800
But they're they're grown men, like watching grown men do

1394
01:09:21,920 --> 01:09:24,720
follow sports. I'm talking about toy type stuff, and some

1395
01:09:24,800 --> 01:09:26,479
of these guys like, you know, it's like I can't

1396
01:09:26,640 --> 01:09:29,840
believe my childhood is over. It's like, are you serious

1397
01:09:29,960 --> 01:09:30,319
right now?

1398
01:09:30,479 --> 01:09:34,000
Speaker 2: Well I I I will say it's a it's.

1399
01:09:33,920 --> 01:09:37,039
Speaker 1: An awful great luxury to have a midlife crisis. There

1400
01:09:37,079 --> 01:09:40,680
is nothing more American than having a having the luxury

1401
01:09:40,720 --> 01:09:42,039
to have a midlife alight.

1402
01:09:42,199 --> 01:09:44,199
Speaker 3: That's a that's a really good statement, I think. I

1403
01:09:44,279 --> 01:09:46,159
think it's a really really good statement.

1404
01:09:46,199 --> 01:09:47,680
Speaker 1: The rest of the world like looks up at us

1405
01:09:47,720 --> 01:09:48,439
and goes, I just want.

1406
01:09:48,359 --> 01:09:48,760
Speaker 2: A piece of that.

1407
01:09:49,079 --> 01:09:52,800
Speaker 3: Like I was thinking about different things, like you know,

1408
01:09:53,720 --> 01:09:56,119
there's a lot in the world, right, There's a lot,

1409
01:09:56,960 --> 01:10:00,520
and you're seeing uh different things. I don't know that

1410
01:10:00,600 --> 01:10:03,039
we get all the right information all the time.

1411
01:10:03,359 --> 01:10:07,159
Speaker 2: I think that we.

1412
01:10:08,680 --> 01:10:10,800
Speaker 3: Like the lady we just played, I think that's the

1413
01:10:10,840 --> 01:10:14,279
closest thing to the real information we'll get because somebody

1414
01:10:14,359 --> 01:10:16,239
just stuck a camera and filmed an incident.

1415
01:10:16,439 --> 01:10:19,439
Speaker 2: Then we got to see roth to go out.

1416
01:10:20,079 --> 01:10:21,640
Speaker 1: Well, I just thought I was festively.

1417
01:10:21,960 --> 01:10:24,279
Speaker 3: Wouldn't be funny if that lady fucking does it like

1418
01:10:24,439 --> 01:10:27,079
a hole before and after and you know, change my

1419
01:10:27,239 --> 01:10:27,880
life forever.

1420
01:10:28,600 --> 01:10:31,680
Speaker 2: And now she's yeah and look at it, Yeah she's so.

1421
01:10:33,079 --> 01:10:38,359
But I I do wonder when you see people like

1422
01:10:39,119 --> 01:10:46,479
taking stances on things, and how do I say this

1423
01:10:46,560 --> 01:10:50,199
with that sound like a complete oh man dick go on.

1424
01:10:50,600 --> 01:10:53,239
But but when I see people who are in their

1425
01:10:53,560 --> 01:11:00,319
thirties who still are carrying backpacks in a skateboard, I

1426
01:11:00,640 --> 01:11:03,079
sometimes go, I don't know how seriously I can take you.

1427
01:11:03,199 --> 01:11:05,159
And that's me judging and being an asshole.

1428
01:11:05,239 --> 01:11:08,359
Speaker 3: But I see this in your like, you know, you've

1429
01:11:08,399 --> 01:11:12,640
got things to say, you have opinions, you're you're entitled

1430
01:11:12,680 --> 01:11:15,239
to that. I may not agree, or maybe I do agree,

1431
01:11:15,319 --> 01:11:17,479
or maybe you could persuade me, but you sort of

1432
01:11:17,560 --> 01:11:20,760
lose me at the skateboard under your arm, in the

1433
01:11:20,840 --> 01:11:26,560
backpack on. And only because I associate that with juvenile,

1434
01:11:27,640 --> 01:11:31,159
with what would be legally called juveniles. I'm not calling them,

1435
01:11:31,239 --> 01:11:33,760
do it. I'm saying legally we would say that's a juvenile.

1436
01:11:33,800 --> 01:11:37,560
Someone under seventeen eighteen years old to see an adult

1437
01:11:37,640 --> 01:11:41,479
like that. But there are many adults that still carry backpacks.

1438
01:11:42,199 --> 01:11:43,159
Speaker 2: I don't.

1439
01:11:43,239 --> 01:11:46,760
Speaker 3: I carry a like a briefcase, well like an antichee. Yeah,

1440
01:11:46,880 --> 01:11:49,560
it's a nice leather bag. The thing broke on it.

1441
01:11:49,680 --> 01:11:51,399
I you normally just have it on a strap.

1442
01:11:52,720 --> 01:11:53,279
Speaker 2: But that's me.

1443
01:11:53,640 --> 01:11:56,359
Speaker 3: That doesn't mean it's everybody else. But when I see

1444
01:11:56,479 --> 01:11:59,319
that and I go, boy, maybe I'm just an old

1445
01:11:59,359 --> 01:12:01,039
man now and I just see this shit and I go,

1446
01:12:01,159 --> 01:12:04,279
I can't necessarily take you all that seriously.

1447
01:12:04,520 --> 01:12:06,319
Speaker 1: Oh, I think you have self awareness. And I think

1448
01:12:06,520 --> 01:12:09,520
my generation and the general especially the next two generations

1449
01:12:09,560 --> 01:12:11,159
called up, have zero self awareness.

1450
01:12:11,520 --> 01:12:16,439
Speaker 3: Well, there was a statement that my father used to say,

1451
01:12:16,560 --> 01:12:20,399
is like your your generation will be the first generation

1452
01:12:21,039 --> 01:12:24,439
to not do better than their parents, right, okay, And

1453
01:12:25,159 --> 01:12:29,760
sometimes I equated to now, like when we had the

1454
01:12:29,920 --> 01:12:32,520
debate when you were on last and I said, I

1455
01:12:32,720 --> 01:12:36,359
think air conditioning and cheap flat screen TVs and free

1456
01:12:37,000 --> 01:12:39,520
TV apps. I can watch anything and not really have

1457
01:12:39,600 --> 01:12:42,600
to pay any money other than maybe live.

1458
01:12:42,479 --> 01:12:43,199
Speaker 2: Sports and stuff.

1459
01:12:43,600 --> 01:12:46,560
Speaker 3: I can pretty much see everything and be entertained and

1460
01:12:46,640 --> 01:12:48,880
not have to get off my fucking couch to do anything,

1461
01:12:49,239 --> 01:12:53,479
which then becomes its own disease in terms of my

1462
01:12:53,920 --> 01:12:57,119
disease of comfort, and I go, have we gotten too comfortable?

1463
01:12:57,159 --> 01:13:00,680
Have we gotten so spoiled? And look, Tony Hawk is

1464
01:13:00,880 --> 01:13:03,079
sixty something year or sothing. You brought him up and

1465
01:13:03,159 --> 01:13:04,319
he's still out there doing it.

1466
01:13:04,399 --> 01:13:05,560
Speaker 1: But because he can't.

1467
01:13:05,840 --> 01:13:08,760
Speaker 2: Yes, But but he was the brand. Yes he was.

1468
01:13:08,840 --> 01:13:12,840
Speaker 1: He was the the name a second skateboarder. You can't

1469
01:13:13,319 --> 01:13:16,000
not because Tony Hawk, he had.

1470
01:13:15,880 --> 01:13:17,840
Speaker 2: His own video games, he was on MTV.

1471
01:13:18,520 --> 01:13:19,680
Speaker 1: He made it mainstream.

1472
01:13:19,840 --> 01:13:20,920
Speaker 2: It used to be like it was.

1473
01:13:21,159 --> 01:13:23,399
Speaker 1: It was a very very uh like like if you

1474
01:13:23,479 --> 01:13:25,159
had a skateboard when I was going to school, you're

1475
01:13:25,199 --> 01:13:27,239
considered a geek or something like that most people did,

1476
01:13:27,399 --> 01:13:30,319
or you were a Punkah okay, It.

1477
01:13:30,439 --> 01:13:34,399
Speaker 3: Wasn't like cool was its own culture, need culture, right, yeah,

1478
01:13:34,920 --> 01:13:36,920
right in a sentence. But then he made it like,

1479
01:13:37,079 --> 01:13:39,479
oh no, it's cool mainstream and you're doing all these

1480
01:13:39,520 --> 01:13:41,359
cool tricks. And even if you couldn't do the tricks,

1481
01:13:41,680 --> 01:13:43,600
you were like trying to do the tricks, yeah, until

1482
01:13:43,600 --> 01:13:44,720
you got hurt, Like oh that's enough.

1483
01:13:44,560 --> 01:13:45,720
Speaker 2: But I'd like to watch somebody else do it.

1484
01:13:45,800 --> 01:13:48,640
Speaker 3: But there are kids that were doing that, like doing

1485
01:13:48,760 --> 01:13:52,479
wild tricks. Tony still comments on what kids are doing

1486
01:13:52,560 --> 01:13:55,680
on skateboards and things and even the snowboarding, like I

1487
01:13:56,039 --> 01:13:58,920
it's not that's fine. And hey, if you're a forty

1488
01:13:59,000 --> 01:14:00,720
year old guy and you can still get out and

1489
01:14:01,560 --> 01:14:04,000
do more than an allie on a skateboard and maybe

1490
01:14:04,039 --> 01:14:06,199
go to the skate park with your kid who maybe

1491
01:14:06,560 --> 01:14:09,680
seven or eight, and you can spend that time, great,

1492
01:14:09,800 --> 01:14:12,720
good for you. You probably also have a job and

1493
01:14:13,119 --> 01:14:15,600
are doing things in the skateboard is just something you're

1494
01:14:15,600 --> 01:14:17,680
doing with your kid. You probably normally wouldn't pull it

1495
01:14:17,720 --> 01:14:18,880
out because none of your friends.

1496
01:14:18,640 --> 01:14:21,640
Speaker 2: Are doing it. But I go sometimes there just seems

1497
01:14:21,760 --> 01:14:24,880
to be I can't take you that seriously when I

1498
01:14:24,960 --> 01:14:29,520
look at you and I go not sure, and I

1499
01:14:29,880 --> 01:14:33,079
think that people will go that's judgment, that's this. Yeah,

1500
01:14:33,399 --> 01:14:33,640
it is.

1501
01:14:35,600 --> 01:14:35,760
Speaker 1: Of this.

1502
01:14:36,319 --> 01:14:39,560
Speaker 2: I mean, look, I still google how to boil an egg.

1503
01:14:39,800 --> 01:14:40,239
I get it.

1504
01:14:41,239 --> 01:14:43,720
Speaker 3: There are certain adulting things that I should know, right,

1505
01:14:44,199 --> 01:14:47,039
But I change a tire, yeah, and I can do that,

1506
01:14:47,239 --> 01:14:50,039
but people still look that up. Shit, I got to

1507
01:14:50,079 --> 01:14:53,279
make a meal from scratch. I wound up buying Jamison

1508
01:14:53,359 --> 01:14:59,439
a new uh, a new futon on Father's Day. He

1509
01:14:59,560 --> 01:15:01,319
had a fo Tutan that I had, and it was

1510
01:15:01,359 --> 01:15:04,720
a metal frame. Worst thing ever, because he's just complained

1511
01:15:04,720 --> 01:15:08,479
about it, complained about it. We move, his brother allegedly

1512
01:15:08,600 --> 01:15:12,640
helps him put it together. The whole thing collapses. I go, all, right,

1513
01:15:12,720 --> 01:15:15,039
fuck this, we're just getting rid of this. So I

1514
01:15:15,239 --> 01:15:20,520
go on marketplace only because I'm like any brand new frame,

1515
01:15:20,880 --> 01:15:22,960
I don't feel like having a Let's just see what

1516
01:15:22,960 --> 01:15:23,359
we can give on.

1517
01:15:24,159 --> 01:15:29,239
Speaker 2: So this lady and I go back and forth, said

1518
01:15:29,279 --> 01:15:30,720
someone's coming to look at it, but we need to

1519
01:15:30,760 --> 01:15:32,399
get this out of here. We show up.

1520
01:15:32,840 --> 01:15:35,399
Speaker 3: It's at a nice condo and a nice part of town,

1521
01:15:36,239 --> 01:15:39,920
and I think this move. This lady's downsizing. And we

1522
01:15:40,079 --> 01:15:43,600
get there and it's her older woman and her friend,

1523
01:15:44,760 --> 01:15:46,960
and the friend is the one kind of directing the show.

1524
01:15:47,000 --> 01:15:48,600
The other woman is just sitting there like she's just

1525
01:15:48,720 --> 01:15:50,560
kind of like had just fucking had it right. She

1526
01:15:50,800 --> 01:15:54,960
apparently run this sale all weekend. They go half of

1527
01:15:55,079 --> 01:15:57,840
what we were asking for. It's upstairs. So I go

1528
01:15:57,960 --> 01:15:59,960
upstairs and I go, I didn't bring my tools because

1529
01:16:00,000 --> 01:16:02,119
I didn't think i'd have to write, so I got

1530
01:16:02,239 --> 01:16:04,359
to take it downstairs. And then they're like, hey, there's

1531
01:16:04,399 --> 01:16:06,560
a chair up. So I called Jordan. I go, buddy,

1532
01:16:06,760 --> 01:16:08,159
I don't know if you have somebody with a truck

1533
01:16:08,279 --> 01:16:10,239
or whatever. He goes like, don't, but I'll meet you.

1534
01:16:10,680 --> 01:16:13,840
So he's over and they go, hey, there's a chair

1535
01:16:13,880 --> 01:16:15,640
up there. It's a recliner. Can you just bring that

1536
01:16:15,760 --> 01:16:19,439
down for us? Like we became fast friends with these people,

1537
01:16:20,000 --> 01:16:23,000
and so I wind up taking this thing apart and

1538
01:16:23,920 --> 01:16:26,199
we were so dumb, like we couldn't get it back together.

1539
01:16:26,239 --> 01:16:28,359
And I finally watched a video. Yes, I go, you

1540
01:16:28,439 --> 01:16:32,199
can figure anything out now, Yes, And that's where I go.

1541
01:16:32,439 --> 01:16:34,560
I will sometimes go, what is the best way? I

1542
01:16:34,600 --> 01:16:38,319
think it's eight minutes in boiling water with a little

1543
01:16:38,319 --> 01:16:42,039
bit of oil and then take them out, put them

1544
01:16:42,039 --> 01:16:45,720
in an ice bath right away, and then that's the

1545
01:16:45,800 --> 01:16:46,560
best boiled egg.

1546
01:16:47,039 --> 01:16:50,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think, but I had to google that. Jamison

1547
01:16:50,680 --> 01:16:51,800
used to make fun of me because I was like,

1548
01:16:51,840 --> 01:16:53,920
how do your baked chicken? Well?

1549
01:16:53,960 --> 01:16:56,399
Speaker 1: You know what though, But at the end of the day, well,

1550
01:16:56,560 --> 01:16:57,039
I'm trying.

1551
01:16:57,079 --> 01:16:59,119
Speaker 2: I'm doing it on my own. Yeah, right, I'm there.

1552
01:16:59,399 --> 01:17:01,840
I'm trying, but it's just it's just funny.

1553
01:17:02,079 --> 01:17:04,000
Speaker 1: Robin Williams a missus doubtfire. We need to learn how

1554
01:17:04,000 --> 01:17:05,560
to do everything on his own. He's taking notes.

1555
01:17:05,720 --> 01:17:07,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I mean, and I know it sounds dumb,

1556
01:17:07,960 --> 01:17:10,600
but there are certain things. My point is, like everybody

1557
01:17:10,720 --> 01:17:12,840
needs a little bit of help with things we should

1558
01:17:13,000 --> 01:17:14,520
know as adults, right, And.

1559
01:17:14,800 --> 01:17:17,239
Speaker 3: I don't just because you have a skateboard doesn't mean

1560
01:17:17,359 --> 01:17:19,760
that you're an idiot and I shouldn't listen to you.

1561
01:17:20,159 --> 01:17:22,399
But when you got a skateboard and a backpack and

1562
01:17:22,479 --> 01:17:26,000
that's your main transportation, I guess at a certain age,

1563
01:17:26,840 --> 01:17:29,359
if you're over sixty and you're doing it, people go,

1564
01:17:29,520 --> 01:17:32,279
fuck man, you see him ripping around town. I would go,

1565
01:17:32,399 --> 01:17:34,600
that's kind of cool if you could do it. Yeah,

1566
01:17:34,680 --> 01:17:36,399
when you're thirty and you're doing it, I can go,

1567
01:17:36,800 --> 01:17:37,600
what do you hold him on to?

1568
01:17:37,920 --> 01:17:38,680
Speaker 2: Right? Yeah?

1569
01:17:39,000 --> 01:17:41,800
Speaker 1: I think like I think the word we use last

1570
01:17:41,840 --> 01:17:44,640
show that we take was arrested development phrase. I think

1571
01:17:44,680 --> 01:17:47,000
there's a lot more of that. And I think a

1572
01:17:47,039 --> 01:17:51,319
lot of it is because you know, your father's generation,

1573
01:17:51,479 --> 01:17:54,039
my father's generation, the boomers, they kind of they you know,

1574
01:17:54,560 --> 01:17:57,000
they had steady jobs. There were more opportunity, I want

1575
01:17:57,000 --> 01:17:58,720
to say more opportunities, but there are opportunities if you

1576
01:17:58,720 --> 01:18:00,920
were in high school, college, whatever, to go work, and

1577
01:18:01,000 --> 01:18:03,319
they made a comfortable lives. They made comfortable lives for

1578
01:18:03,479 --> 01:18:06,680
us because their parents generation was the World War two

1579
01:18:06,920 --> 01:18:10,520
slash Great, the pressure generation. Everything sucked, everything was hard.

1580
01:18:10,640 --> 01:18:13,000
They came home, they were pissed off, they had PTSD,

1581
01:18:13,359 --> 01:18:15,640
they did not how to deal with this all the time,

1582
01:18:16,119 --> 01:18:18,520
and then like made things harder. So then that every

1583
01:18:18,600 --> 01:18:24,239
generation has been proportionately more forgiving, more understanding, and then

1584
01:18:24,479 --> 01:18:27,439
we've gotten to a point now where we're soft. We're

1585
01:18:27,520 --> 01:18:31,680
just soft, and we long for yesterday instead of trying

1586
01:18:31,720 --> 01:18:32,800
to focus on progress.

1587
01:18:33,079 --> 01:18:33,279
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1588
01:18:34,159 --> 01:18:37,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I don't look at myself as a

1589
01:18:37,399 --> 01:18:39,319
forty five year old man, I really don't. I just

1590
01:18:39,359 --> 01:18:40,800
look at myself as hey, I'm just going to try

1591
01:18:40,840 --> 01:18:42,319
to do better today than I did yesterday.

1592
01:18:42,439 --> 01:18:43,920
Speaker 2: Well sometimes until I die.

1593
01:18:44,159 --> 01:18:50,800
Speaker 3: I think that we underestimate the power of discipline, We

1594
01:18:51,000 --> 01:18:58,319
underestimate the power of structure, and sometimes when we don't

1595
01:18:58,359 --> 01:19:02,600
have structure, came ass kind of breaks out and we

1596
01:19:02,800 --> 01:19:05,439
go all over the place and we let our emotions

1597
01:19:05,520 --> 01:19:07,920
run wild, and then somebody comes in and kind of

1598
01:19:08,439 --> 01:19:11,159
kicks our kicks us our ass or does something or

1599
01:19:11,239 --> 01:19:12,920
tightens us up, and we don't like it at first,

1600
01:19:13,000 --> 01:19:15,319
but it's sort of what we're craving. And it's almost

1601
01:19:15,359 --> 01:19:17,199
like if you go back and you read you talk

1602
01:19:17,239 --> 01:19:21,439
to psychologist and things, kids need structure. Kids crave structure.

1603
01:19:21,479 --> 01:19:24,920
They like that stuff. I know, I'm better when I

1604
01:19:25,119 --> 01:19:28,079
have to be accountable to somebody than I am when

1605
01:19:28,119 --> 01:19:30,920
I'm just kind of freeballing it, right.

1606
01:19:31,119 --> 01:19:31,279
Speaker 2: You know.

1607
01:19:32,079 --> 01:19:34,920
Speaker 3: I like to freeball as well. I think Jamison freeball

1608
01:19:34,960 --> 01:19:36,000
the other day and then told me you had a

1609
01:19:36,079 --> 01:19:41,960
real chafing Why are you walking like? I got the walls,

1610
01:19:42,039 --> 01:19:43,520
but there was no clean under it.

1611
01:19:43,600 --> 01:19:47,199
Speaker 2: I go, you gotta fucking laundry right there to do it. Yeah, Jesus,

1612
01:19:48,079 --> 01:19:49,199
you know anyway?

1613
01:19:49,520 --> 01:19:56,439
Speaker 1: Couple, Yeah, couple, but yeah, yeah, I get it. I

1614
01:19:57,000 --> 01:19:57,600
totally get it.

1615
01:19:57,680 --> 01:20:02,520
Speaker 2: That's all, you know. I just the Danny's become supplement

1616
01:20:02,560 --> 01:20:05,720
people in middle aged not a bad thing.

1617
01:20:06,640 --> 01:20:10,199
Speaker 1: I'm really become skeptical over the last month about things

1618
01:20:10,439 --> 01:20:11,920
about what about everything?

1619
01:20:12,439 --> 01:20:13,000
Speaker 2: Like what now?

1620
01:20:14,680 --> 01:20:17,239
Speaker 1: After the last podcast we taped, I'm I walked away going,

1621
01:20:17,359 --> 01:20:19,279
do I really think all this stuff? Know what I'm

1622
01:20:19,279 --> 01:20:19,720
talking about?

1623
01:20:19,720 --> 01:20:23,399
Speaker 3: You said things that I I I won't say it here,

1624
01:20:23,479 --> 01:20:26,720
but I have a theory on it. I have a

1625
01:20:26,800 --> 01:20:29,279
theory on some stuff with you go on, you want

1626
01:20:29,319 --> 01:20:30,279
to hear it for real?

1627
01:20:30,399 --> 01:20:31,000
Speaker 1: Yeah? Is it bad?

1628
01:20:31,680 --> 01:20:34,439
Speaker 2: Not necessarily? Okay? I think you said things like this.

1629
01:20:34,640 --> 01:20:35,600
Speaker 1: If it is bad, go ahead.

1630
01:20:35,720 --> 01:20:37,800
Speaker 2: I think you said things like the stephen A. Smith thing.

1631
01:20:37,880 --> 01:20:43,000
And you're like, when did when the midday talk show becomes.

1632
01:20:42,840 --> 01:20:45,560
Speaker 1: When the midday talk when the midday audience dictates the

1633
01:20:45,680 --> 01:20:47,319
national conversation, we have a problem.

1634
01:20:47,359 --> 01:20:49,119
Speaker 3: But here was my thing is I want to go

1635
01:20:49,680 --> 01:20:53,399
But it's not. It's not the midday audience anymore. And

1636
01:20:53,520 --> 01:20:56,159
don't forget. You've got a lot of people who still

1637
01:20:56,199 --> 01:20:59,720
work remotely and you still so they have TVs on.

1638
01:20:59,880 --> 01:21:03,239
I remember walking into offices of gms and stuff and

1639
01:21:03,319 --> 01:21:07,079
they had ESPN on all the time. But now, just

1640
01:21:07,199 --> 01:21:10,039
like with our podcast, clips get out there and so

1641
01:21:10,159 --> 01:21:12,640
people see it and it's on your phone, and so

1642
01:21:12,720 --> 01:21:14,279
I get a lunch break and I go and I

1643
01:21:14,359 --> 01:21:17,279
watch it. And I don't think it's the people that

1644
01:21:17,359 --> 01:21:20,279
you're describing, as we'll call them, the Southwest people.

1645
01:21:20,399 --> 01:21:25,760
Speaker 2: Maybe order, but I don't think it's necessarily a lot

1646
01:21:25,840 --> 01:21:29,159
of those. And I know what you mean.

1647
01:21:29,840 --> 01:21:32,279
Speaker 3: You're not wrong, but I think you're wrong for our

1648
01:21:32,439 --> 01:21:35,560
time today. I don't think that is the case, and

1649
01:21:35,680 --> 01:21:39,000
that guy transcends that. He's also on the NBA stuff,

1650
01:21:39,439 --> 01:21:42,640
He's on the Howard Stern Show, He's written a book recently,

1651
01:21:42,840 --> 01:21:46,039
he's gotten a lot of press, so it transcends just

1652
01:21:46,319 --> 01:21:49,800
that thing. And I don't think he's necessarily digging. Because

1653
01:21:49,800 --> 01:21:51,399
I started thinking about it, I go, if I went

1654
01:21:51,479 --> 01:21:53,560
out on the street and asked twenty five people, who

1655
01:21:53,680 --> 01:21:54,159
is Stephen A.

1656
01:21:54,279 --> 01:21:54,600
Speaker 2: Smith?

1657
01:21:55,039 --> 01:21:57,560
Speaker 3: Just random people, I mean, all walks to life, I

1658
01:21:57,680 --> 01:22:00,279
think I would get more often than not. I don't know,

1659
01:22:00,560 --> 01:22:02,159
or isn't he that guy who?

1660
01:22:03,079 --> 01:22:04,000
Speaker 2: And that's it?

1661
01:22:04,399 --> 01:22:07,520
Speaker 3: But I don't know that people are all that locked

1662
01:22:07,600 --> 01:22:11,760
in as you are. And I think that you get

1663
01:22:11,800 --> 01:22:19,079
angry at these guys because you believe you're as good

1664
01:22:19,319 --> 01:22:21,920
and didn't get your chance. And I think that that's

1665
01:22:22,039 --> 01:22:24,399
a fair thing to say. I think I think this

1666
01:22:24,479 --> 01:22:28,279
stuff you write for the Times Wayne County is excellent.

1667
01:22:28,800 --> 01:22:31,199
I think when you're talking like the bills even here,

1668
01:22:31,760 --> 01:22:33,840
sometimes I wish you'd take a fucking breath, you're like

1669
01:22:33,880 --> 01:22:37,039
a freight train going through. But your stuff is all

1670
01:22:37,479 --> 01:22:40,840
well thought out, really really, I mean it's really good.

1671
01:22:40,960 --> 01:22:42,960
It is, and I'm not just blowing smoke up your

1672
01:22:42,960 --> 01:22:45,399
grass and people go, you're just kissing. No, I'm no

1673
01:22:45,520 --> 01:22:47,119
reason to, I have no reason to none.

1674
01:22:47,239 --> 01:22:49,840
Speaker 2: But the point is, like it is really good.

1675
01:22:49,960 --> 01:22:51,920
Speaker 3: And I think that you get pissed when you see

1676
01:22:51,960 --> 01:22:55,119
these other guys because you got kind of boned along

1677
01:22:55,199 --> 01:22:55,640
the way.

1678
01:22:57,119 --> 01:22:59,800
Speaker 1: Or or whatever, or you got caught up back.

1679
01:23:00,039 --> 01:23:03,439
Speaker 2: It's not but it's that that I think held you back.

1680
01:23:03,840 --> 01:23:05,439
Speaker 1: I think that's part of it. I mean, let's put

1681
01:23:05,479 --> 01:23:08,319
it this way. I was playing a band. I had

1682
01:23:08,359 --> 01:23:11,319
a drummer named Ian. Ian is a guy who is

1683
01:23:11,439 --> 01:23:14,079
easily the most talented drummer in Rochester. There's nobody even close.

1684
01:23:14,439 --> 01:23:16,920
Nobody even close. Yeah, And I know, and I know

1685
01:23:17,039 --> 01:23:18,760
that there's people in town who will like hate me

1686
01:23:18,840 --> 01:23:21,479
for saying that. No, just just drum against him. If

1687
01:23:21,520 --> 01:23:23,880
he's sober or even if he's in the bag. He

1688
01:23:23,920 --> 01:23:26,479
could play anything like rush like you name it. Every

1689
01:23:26,520 --> 01:23:29,399
beat Neil Peart can play, he could play. And I

1690
01:23:29,479 --> 01:23:31,640
think along the line in Los Angeles he missed a

1691
01:23:31,720 --> 01:23:33,960
turn somewhere and ended up just working as a cover

1692
01:23:34,079 --> 01:23:36,680
band drummer and just you know, end up here because

1693
01:23:36,680 --> 01:23:39,960
of family reasons or whatever. The guy's phenomenal. I think

1694
01:23:40,079 --> 01:23:42,520
somewhere along the line, I had an opportunity I didn't

1695
01:23:42,520 --> 01:23:45,159
take and I missed a turn somewhere, and I wish

1696
01:23:45,239 --> 01:23:46,920
I had taken it, but I didn't take it out

1697
01:23:46,960 --> 01:23:48,800
of fear. And it wasn't because I was afraid that

1698
01:23:48,840 --> 01:23:53,359
I couldn't perform. I was afraid of logistics in a situation,

1699
01:23:53,399 --> 01:23:55,800
a living situation with my sister and travel, and I

1700
01:23:55,920 --> 01:23:58,880
was broke, and I let my fears overtake it, and

1701
01:23:58,960 --> 01:24:02,800
then I that dragon ever since, or told myself, you know,

1702
01:24:02,800 --> 01:24:05,279
would rather do this instead, which was the break crew.

1703
01:24:05,760 --> 01:24:09,520
Rather it was but when you when you but like

1704
01:24:09,840 --> 01:24:12,920
when you're in your thirties and you're getting paid a

1705
01:24:13,000 --> 01:24:15,159
producer's salary, which isn't much guys.

1706
01:24:15,600 --> 01:24:20,239
Speaker 2: Uh, it was and I didn't know what it was.

1707
01:24:20,319 --> 01:24:24,479
Speaker 1: Eighteen to twenty four thousand dollars a year, Okay. I

1708
01:24:24,560 --> 01:24:27,720
started at eighteen, mind you, at twenty eight years old,

1709
01:24:29,840 --> 01:24:32,399
as an established who already worked at another radio station

1710
01:24:32,600 --> 01:24:34,960
that did well other a couple of them. Yeah, I

1711
01:24:35,039 --> 01:24:37,520
mean that that that's pover and stricken type of stuff.

1712
01:24:37,920 --> 01:24:40,279
Like Tommy used to call me the working poor, remember,

1713
01:24:40,840 --> 01:24:44,680
and it killed relationships, It drove me into and I

1714
01:24:45,680 --> 01:24:47,399
own all the choices I made. Okay, I want to

1715
01:24:47,399 --> 01:24:49,800
be perfectly clear about that, and I don't blame anybody

1716
01:24:49,880 --> 01:24:52,560
else for anything. It's just it's this was all Dan.

1717
01:24:53,199 --> 01:24:55,720
But yeah, I do get frustrated because I watched these

1718
01:24:55,760 --> 01:24:57,600
guys and by the way, Steven A. Smith is more

1719
01:24:57,640 --> 01:24:59,720
talented than I am. There, No, that's not what I mean, Okay,

1720
01:24:59,800 --> 01:25:01,399
but I watched their opinions. I'm like, do you do

1721
01:25:01,479 --> 01:25:05,000
your homework? And then I watched local guys and listen

1722
01:25:05,039 --> 01:25:07,279
to local guys, and I'm not talking just Rochester, I'm

1723
01:25:07,279 --> 01:25:07,920
talking Buffalo.

1724
01:25:08,640 --> 01:25:09,840
Speaker 2: What the F I know?

1725
01:25:10,960 --> 01:25:12,600
Speaker 1: Do you know how to ask a question at a

1726
01:25:12,680 --> 01:25:17,199
press conference? My favorite moment in my career, well, I

1727
01:25:17,319 --> 01:25:21,119
do this as far as sports goes. I loved working

1728
01:25:21,159 --> 01:25:23,319
with Brad Davies. I love doing sports at CMF. I

1729
01:25:23,359 --> 01:25:26,439
love doing a talk show. But my favorite moment Tiger

1730
01:25:26,479 --> 01:25:28,960
Woods is in town for the PGA Championship and you

1731
01:25:29,079 --> 01:25:32,520
and I are credentialed. Peter Montemurno is sitting next to us.

1732
01:25:32,600 --> 01:25:35,840
We're in the press room, Tiger's about to speak, and

1733
01:25:36,000 --> 01:25:38,399
the station that had, you know, laid me off was

1734
01:25:38,479 --> 01:25:41,000
right behind this whim and they had ten guys there,

1735
01:25:41,039 --> 01:25:45,000
including the guys from Channel thirteen, and the MIC's going

1736
01:25:45,039 --> 01:25:47,359
around and all these national reporters are asking questions, and

1737
01:25:47,399 --> 01:25:49,199
I put my hand up. I want to ask Tiger

1738
01:25:49,239 --> 01:25:52,800
a question. And I can hear a little that's good,

1739
01:25:53,000 --> 01:25:53,439
is yeah?

1740
01:25:53,560 --> 01:25:53,640
Speaker 2: Right?

1741
01:25:54,279 --> 01:25:56,720
Speaker 1: I grabbed the mic and I go, hey, Tiger. Michael

1742
01:25:56,800 --> 01:25:59,960
Jordan always said that he felt bad for his children

1743
01:26:00,199 --> 01:26:02,840
because they're always expected to live up to him. Do

1744
01:26:02,880 --> 01:26:05,119
you have any advice for your son Charlie if he's

1745
01:26:05,159 --> 01:26:06,800
going to go into golf? And what advice would that be?

1746
01:26:07,039 --> 01:26:08,640
And he gave a two and a half minute answer

1747
01:26:09,000 --> 01:26:12,600
that went viral before viral became a thing. And I

1748
01:26:12,680 --> 01:26:14,479
wanted to look back at those guys and then you

1749
01:26:14,760 --> 01:26:17,479
said the sports Leader, not a single one of you,

1750
01:26:17,560 --> 01:26:19,039
mother effors asked a single.

1751
01:26:18,960 --> 01:26:24,199
Speaker 2: Question because I will fight for the I know the

1752
01:26:24,279 --> 01:26:28,079
people that But I was like, but I had no business.

1753
01:26:29,520 --> 01:26:30,359
I had no business.

1754
01:26:30,640 --> 01:26:32,359
Speaker 1: No, but I'm glad you said it because I wanted

1755
01:26:32,399 --> 01:26:33,600
to say it, and I just didn't say it.

1756
01:26:33,720 --> 01:26:38,640
Speaker 2: I know, but I had no business projecting defending, like

1757
01:26:38,800 --> 01:26:39,399
fighting your.

1758
01:26:39,359 --> 01:26:42,760
Speaker 1: Battle, and I didn't care though I actually enjoyed that.

1759
01:26:42,920 --> 01:26:46,920
Speaker 3: Well, I would get mad because I thought you when

1760
01:26:46,960 --> 01:26:49,000
it came to the sports stuff was good. I think

1761
01:26:49,079 --> 01:26:51,560
sometimes you run away, and I think sometimes you're The

1762
01:26:52,279 --> 01:26:55,880
bitterness you feel, the anger about this stuff is red hot.

1763
01:26:56,079 --> 01:26:56,680
Speaker 2: I do think that.

1764
01:26:57,159 --> 01:26:58,960
Speaker 3: I think if you were able to touch it, it's

1765
01:26:59,000 --> 01:27:01,399
like volcanic level red hot. I know what that's like,

1766
01:27:01,680 --> 01:27:04,359
trust me, yes, and I can see it. And I

1767
01:27:04,399 --> 01:27:10,359
think sometimes that stuff, that frustration was what other people

1768
01:27:10,399 --> 01:27:13,000
saw and saw as well. He just kind of flies off.

1769
01:27:13,079 --> 01:27:14,640
He doesn't he's not, you know, and.

1770
01:27:15,279 --> 01:27:17,119
Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, I got it. I got a reputation for it.

1771
01:27:17,279 --> 01:27:19,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think that that's the problem. That's why

1772
01:27:19,920 --> 01:27:23,720
I keep saying to you, do whatever you want. I'll

1773
01:27:23,760 --> 01:27:24,319
help you do it.

1774
01:27:24,359 --> 01:27:26,119
Speaker 3: I mean not that I'm gonna be able to help you,

1775
01:27:26,479 --> 01:27:29,800
but you're here. I love having you on. If you

1776
01:27:29,840 --> 01:27:31,479
wanted to do your own thing and you wanted to

1777
01:27:31,560 --> 01:27:33,039
do it through here, you can. If you don't want

1778
01:27:33,079 --> 01:27:33,880
to do through here, you don't have it.

1779
01:27:34,079 --> 01:27:35,920
Speaker 1: I've been thinking about that leading up the football season.

1780
01:27:36,239 --> 01:27:38,119
It's finding the time and the ability to do it.

1781
01:27:38,279 --> 01:27:42,439
Speaker 3: Even if you did a fifteen minute podcast. Believe me, people,

1782
01:27:42,600 --> 01:27:44,840
I mean ours is long. When I talk to people,

1783
01:27:44,920 --> 01:27:45,880
go that's a long time.

1784
01:27:46,199 --> 01:27:48,159
Speaker 2: It is, And I get it. I got a lot

1785
01:27:48,199 --> 01:27:49,840
of stupid things I say, but.

1786
01:27:51,600 --> 01:27:53,760
Speaker 3: Just I mean, if you were able to condense it

1787
01:27:53,840 --> 01:27:56,159
down and keep it to that tight thing you know,

1788
01:27:56,319 --> 01:27:59,239
inside Dan's head or whatever, Yeah, I think it could go.

1789
01:27:59,520 --> 01:28:02,600
I think could really blow up, especially if it was

1790
01:28:03,159 --> 01:28:04,079
done the right way.

1791
01:28:04,199 --> 01:28:06,119
Speaker 2: And it's just the thought.

1792
01:28:06,279 --> 01:28:06,479
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1793
01:28:06,560 --> 01:28:09,479
Speaker 3: No, I'm telling you, I think there's a way to

1794
01:28:09,560 --> 01:28:10,600
do that, the writing stuff.

1795
01:28:10,640 --> 01:28:12,840
Speaker 2: And I'm not the only one who was recognized that,

1796
01:28:13,119 --> 01:28:15,279
no kidding, No, Well other people have told you that.

1797
01:28:15,439 --> 01:28:17,000
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I mean I thought you might know so

1798
01:28:17,039 --> 01:28:18,760
many other people like I know that like your old

1799
01:28:19,159 --> 01:28:22,800
brother brother Weasy, he of mine apparently, which I really appreciate.

1800
01:28:22,880 --> 01:28:24,560
That means a lot to me. It really does. When

1801
01:28:24,600 --> 01:28:27,520
he's reading my article like on the air, word for word,

1802
01:28:27,840 --> 01:28:29,479
I'm like, wow, because that was long.

1803
01:28:30,079 --> 01:28:31,079
Speaker 2: That's a very nice thing.

1804
01:28:31,159 --> 01:28:33,239
Speaker 1: It is a great thing. It's encouraging, you know.

1805
01:28:33,439 --> 01:28:37,239
Speaker 2: Yes, And that's why I'm saying, all right, So I

1806
01:28:37,319 --> 01:28:39,039
think we need to just kind of wrap it up,

1807
01:28:39,039 --> 01:28:39,399
do you mind?

1808
01:28:39,439 --> 01:28:41,079
Speaker 1: Well, I thought there's other stuff you want to talk about.

1809
01:28:41,319 --> 01:28:44,359
Speaker 2: Uh, yeah, what do you want to talk about?

1810
01:28:44,520 --> 01:28:46,560
Speaker 1: Wasn't there somebody who had an issue with something else

1811
01:28:46,600 --> 01:28:48,479
I said last week about medicaid or something.

1812
01:28:49,159 --> 01:28:51,039
Speaker 2: Oh, I don't know. I yeah, I sent you.

1813
01:28:51,399 --> 01:28:52,760
Speaker 1: Well, the reason the reason I wanted to bring that

1814
01:28:52,880 --> 01:28:56,680
up is this because I want feel I wasn't walking

1815
01:28:56,720 --> 01:28:58,479
out of here on Saturday thinking about the Stephen A.

1816
01:28:58,560 --> 01:29:01,840
Smith stuff. My sports opinion, you pretty much can go. Right.

1817
01:29:01,880 --> 01:29:07,319
So we're talking about we're talking about Rachel Barnhardt and

1818
01:29:07,439 --> 01:29:10,840
holding up a sign with Joe Morelli, Adam Bellow and

1819
01:29:10,960 --> 01:29:14,159
Sheriff Baxter saying how they all either didn't speak about

1820
01:29:14,159 --> 01:29:17,119
ICE or support ICE. And I said, look, the first

1821
01:29:17,199 --> 01:29:22,079
two whatever, But Baxter, dude, that guy is the best

1822
01:29:22,119 --> 01:29:24,960
thing that's happened to Monroe County in a long time. Okay,

1823
01:29:25,039 --> 01:29:26,760
And I don't think the criticism is fair. And my

1824
01:29:26,840 --> 01:29:29,600
whole point was if people are here illegally, it would

1825
01:29:29,600 --> 01:29:31,720
be like somebody going into your house, say I'm staying here. Well,

1826
01:29:31,800 --> 01:29:32,840
you don't have permission to do that.

1827
01:29:33,039 --> 01:29:33,520
Speaker 2: What do you call?

1828
01:29:33,760 --> 01:29:35,840
Speaker 1: You call the police? And ICE are kind of like

1829
01:29:35,920 --> 01:29:40,279
the National police for illegals. But I walked away going hmm,

1830
01:29:40,800 --> 01:29:43,319
is there more nuance to this than just black and white?

1831
01:29:43,359 --> 01:29:45,199
And of course there is. And I did a little

1832
01:29:45,239 --> 01:29:48,960
homework on it and realized, Okay, the government more often

1833
01:29:49,039 --> 01:29:51,319
than not. Dan, and you should know this likes to

1834
01:29:51,479 --> 01:29:55,279
squash gnats with sledge hammers. And that's where we're at

1835
01:29:55,359 --> 01:29:57,680
right now. And that's where we're at with Iran and

1836
01:29:57,840 --> 01:30:00,199
Israel right now. And that's where where I with a

1837
01:30:00,239 --> 01:30:00,680
lot of things.

1838
01:30:00,760 --> 01:30:00,840
Speaker 2: Now.

1839
01:30:00,880 --> 01:30:03,159
Speaker 1: I want President Trump to succeed. I've never been a

1840
01:30:03,239 --> 01:30:05,840
Trump guy, but I'm like, he's the president, and I

1841
01:30:05,880 --> 01:30:07,880
thought he was the better of two options, so I

1842
01:30:07,960 --> 01:30:09,359
went with him. This is the only time I ever

1843
01:30:09,439 --> 01:30:15,680
voted for the dude, only time. But it's okay, okay, fine, whatever.

1844
01:30:15,600 --> 01:30:18,159
Speaker 3: No I hate Look, I've said this, I have said

1845
01:30:18,520 --> 01:30:21,600
all along, just as interject here for it's like that

1846
01:30:21,920 --> 01:30:24,119
I want him to be successful. Yes, because because it

1847
01:30:24,199 --> 01:30:28,199
will be successful, and the majority of spoken, that's what

1848
01:30:28,319 --> 01:30:30,840
this is all about. I have you know, from that angle,

1849
01:30:30,920 --> 01:30:32,000
I have no problem.

1850
01:30:32,039 --> 01:30:34,039
Speaker 1: But there was somebody who actually may have been hurt

1851
01:30:34,119 --> 01:30:36,000
by what I said about Medicaid. All I said was

1852
01:30:36,079 --> 01:30:37,359
like I've been on it, I know what it's like,

1853
01:30:38,119 --> 01:30:40,720
and I don't want people's benefits to be stripped from them.

1854
01:30:40,800 --> 01:30:42,840
Cause I said the titlement programs when I met was

1855
01:30:42,880 --> 01:30:46,199
people free loading, like like people who come here to

1856
01:30:46,239 --> 01:30:48,840
this country, used to cause problems and pillage and take

1857
01:30:48,960 --> 01:30:51,680
what's not theirs. I'm not talking about people who've lived

1858
01:30:51,720 --> 01:30:53,880
here and sweated their ass off and like, hey, I'm

1859
01:30:53,920 --> 01:30:56,800
going through a tough time right now. Because I do believe,

1860
01:30:56,960 --> 01:30:58,880
in a weird sense, and even though I wasn't a

1861
01:30:58,960 --> 01:31:02,640
fan of Lbj's the great society, that we can take

1862
01:31:02,720 --> 01:31:04,960
care of each other, We can help each other out,

1863
01:31:05,000 --> 01:31:06,960
and I don't want to see people lose their benefits

1864
01:31:07,039 --> 01:31:08,920
all that stuff, But I do think we have to

1865
01:31:09,000 --> 01:31:10,479
look at it objectively.

1866
01:31:10,760 --> 01:31:17,199
Speaker 3: Sometimes I think the private sector is better at handling things, yes,

1867
01:31:17,760 --> 01:31:23,159
than the government space Love him or hate him with

1868
01:31:23,319 --> 01:31:28,840
Elon Foss, He's really pushed space forward for NASA and

1869
01:31:28,960 --> 01:31:31,760
everybody more than I've ever seen.

1870
01:31:31,840 --> 01:31:33,640
Speaker 1: He's raised the bar. So now we got to catch up.

1871
01:31:34,039 --> 01:31:39,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, And so I sometimes wonder if and I believe

1872
01:31:40,079 --> 01:31:43,359
that most people will tell you that they don't want

1873
01:31:43,399 --> 01:31:46,319
to see human suffering. I really believe that, no matter

1874
01:31:46,399 --> 01:31:49,800
where they stand politically, but what they don't want to

1875
01:31:49,840 --> 01:31:54,119
see is wasteful things. I'm paying into something for somebody

1876
01:31:54,159 --> 01:31:59,439
who doesn't who doesn't work, And I often think when

1877
01:31:59,479 --> 01:32:01,399
it comes to taxes and stuff, I don't know where

1878
01:32:01,439 --> 01:32:05,079
my money goes. I have absolutely no idea, right, so, love,

1879
01:32:05,159 --> 01:32:08,640
I want my tax dollars. And my stupid answer back is,

1880
01:32:08,680 --> 01:32:10,079
I don't know where my tax dollars go.

1881
01:32:10,319 --> 01:32:10,720
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1882
01:32:11,239 --> 01:32:14,760
Speaker 3: I elected people I voted. Hopefully they're doing the right stuff.

1883
01:32:15,239 --> 01:32:16,960
If they're not, then we need to get them out.

1884
01:32:17,439 --> 01:32:20,000
But I don't even have the time to really dig

1885
01:32:20,079 --> 01:32:22,439
into it, and I don't think most people do. And

1886
01:32:23,319 --> 01:32:26,239
so when it comes to this sort of stuff, I

1887
01:32:27,319 --> 01:32:35,640
often think could private sector better handle taking care of people?

1888
01:32:36,239 --> 01:32:38,119
Could we have, you know, like when you have these

1889
01:32:38,199 --> 01:32:41,039
private food pantries and these private things, Like there's a

1890
01:32:41,079 --> 01:32:43,760
lot of ways that people I don't know. I don't

1891
01:32:43,800 --> 01:32:47,039
know when it comes to healthcare. But here's the thing

1892
01:32:47,079 --> 01:32:50,279
that you know, all of us need to realize. Anybody

1893
01:32:50,319 --> 01:32:52,479
shows up in an emergency room for any reason at all,

1894
01:32:53,319 --> 01:32:54,640
they must be seen and taken care of.

1895
01:32:55,479 --> 01:32:56,279
Speaker 2: Is that a bad thing?

1896
01:32:56,479 --> 01:33:00,079
Speaker 3: Not necessarily, but if they can't pay, then and it

1897
01:33:00,239 --> 01:33:02,079
falls back on us. And that's why a lot of

1898
01:33:02,119 --> 01:33:06,640
times hospitals do try to raise private funds again to

1899
01:33:06,920 --> 01:33:09,000
have buckets that they.

1900
01:33:09,000 --> 01:33:10,560
Speaker 2: Can go, all right, we're gonna pay for that. With

1901
01:33:10,680 --> 01:33:13,239
this right, we're gonna cover that with this. They budget

1902
01:33:13,279 --> 01:33:13,439
for it.

1903
01:33:14,359 --> 01:33:17,239
Speaker 3: And I was trying to say a lot of times,

1904
01:33:18,000 --> 01:33:22,000
we need people to come into this country, much like

1905
01:33:22,600 --> 01:33:24,399
your relatives, my relatives.

1906
01:33:24,439 --> 01:33:26,439
Speaker 2: I had a great grandmother that came over at nine,

1907
01:33:26,520 --> 01:33:29,479
and I don't know that she was necessarily an indentured servant,

1908
01:33:29,600 --> 01:33:32,520
but she needed to wash clothes, and at least that's

1909
01:33:32,560 --> 01:33:33,159
what I was told.

1910
01:33:33,239 --> 01:33:35,600
Speaker 3: Maybe the story gets greater later. I don't know, but

1911
01:33:35,720 --> 01:33:38,039
she was nine and not with her family. That's a

1912
01:33:38,079 --> 01:33:40,840
pretty traumatic thing in a country that she's not familiar with,

1913
01:33:41,039 --> 01:33:44,199
with customs that are a little bit new. And you know,

1914
01:33:45,000 --> 01:33:49,199
I think the same thing for people coming here who

1915
01:33:49,279 --> 01:33:52,640
are maybe trying to pick onions in Alba or apples

1916
01:33:52,720 --> 01:33:55,560
and Wayne County or whatever. It is just trying to

1917
01:33:55,600 --> 01:34:00,199
make a better life and there isn't an easy way

1918
01:34:00,239 --> 01:34:03,520
to do it legally. There just isn't. And that needs

1919
01:34:03,560 --> 01:34:05,560
to be fixed. And I'm not smart enough to fix that.

1920
01:34:06,159 --> 01:34:08,600
And I don't know about the visa stuff and all

1921
01:34:08,640 --> 01:34:10,600
this thing, but I think your analogy of you know,

1922
01:34:10,640 --> 01:34:13,920
a sledgehammer with nats again, I go back to it.

1923
01:34:14,399 --> 01:34:16,640
It's just like in the school, right, and when you

1924
01:34:16,680 --> 01:34:18,960
were a kid. You're gonna ruin it for everybody if

1925
01:34:19,000 --> 01:34:21,560
you don't shut your mouth. You brought that up, and

1926
01:34:21,640 --> 01:34:24,439
I feel like it's the small amount, But all I

1927
01:34:24,520 --> 01:34:27,239
need is one to murder my loved one.

1928
01:34:27,399 --> 01:34:29,159
Speaker 2: And how am I going to feel? How am I

1929
01:34:29,199 --> 01:34:29,880
going to feel about that?

1930
01:34:30,000 --> 01:34:31,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like hard, you know, it's like the hard

1931
01:34:31,840 --> 01:34:32,239
cases that.

1932
01:34:33,039 --> 01:34:36,760
Speaker 3: But then when I go, oh, it's it's easy for

1933
01:34:36,880 --> 01:34:39,840
me to say, it's one guy. It wasn't my wife

1934
01:34:39,920 --> 01:34:43,119
that may have been physically harmed, or my child that

1935
01:34:43,279 --> 01:34:47,279
was taken or murdered or whatever. So that's the stuff

1936
01:34:47,279 --> 01:34:49,600
where I always go, boy, you're right, there's a lot

1937
01:34:49,640 --> 01:34:51,000
of nuance.

1938
01:34:50,720 --> 01:34:54,439
Speaker 1: And and I just I just I hope that they

1939
01:34:54,600 --> 01:34:55,960
eventually get to the bottom because there's a lot of

1940
01:34:55,960 --> 01:34:59,159
slippery slopes. And one thing about politicians are very clever

1941
01:34:59,279 --> 01:35:03,399
about being able to link unnecessary things to necessary. If

1942
01:35:03,439 --> 01:35:06,199
you take away yeah right, so if you take away

1943
01:35:06,199 --> 01:35:08,039
the unnecessary, O, wait a minute, but we need that

1944
01:35:08,159 --> 01:35:12,319
stop And yeah, no kidding, it's it's it's frustrating, but

1945
01:35:12,359 --> 01:35:13,600
I just didn't want people to think I was this

1946
01:35:13,720 --> 01:35:19,359
heartless jerk, wrote.

1947
01:35:17,760 --> 01:35:21,760
Speaker 2: In And I waited a couple of days and then

1948
01:35:21,800 --> 01:35:22,239
I sent.

1949
01:35:22,279 --> 01:35:23,800
Speaker 1: Which is fine. You just send me whatever you want.

1950
01:35:24,359 --> 01:35:25,079
Speaker 2: I want people to tell me.

1951
01:35:25,159 --> 01:35:27,199
Speaker 1: I want people to I want I want feedback on

1952
01:35:27,239 --> 01:35:27,520
the show.

1953
01:35:27,640 --> 01:35:29,880
Speaker 2: Sometimes I get things like, oh, dating ze, run it

1954
01:35:29,880 --> 01:35:32,000
all over, but I don't tell you because I don't.

1955
01:35:32,000 --> 01:35:34,239
Speaker 1: Okay, then I do, and I shouldn't. I got to

1956
01:35:34,279 --> 01:35:34,960
be better about that.

1957
01:35:35,079 --> 01:35:38,159
Speaker 2: But then I thought, well, I'll send them this one

1958
01:35:38,239 --> 01:35:39,800
because I don't know.

1959
01:35:40,000 --> 01:35:42,439
Speaker 1: That's fine, just send it, send it all.

1960
01:35:43,119 --> 01:35:45,520
Speaker 2: I'm not sending it at all. Filter things.

1961
01:35:45,640 --> 01:35:47,439
Speaker 1: The one thing I was worried about because I've been

1962
01:35:47,479 --> 01:35:49,439
friends with you, and I have been friends with Rachel

1963
01:35:49,439 --> 01:35:51,279
Barnard for years. I don't anybody think that I say

1964
01:35:51,279 --> 01:35:52,920
anything bad about her. It was Mark all the way,

1965
01:35:53,520 --> 01:35:55,920
and he admits that. But people hear things, they go, hey,

1966
01:35:55,920 --> 01:35:57,920
do you know what dance? No, I didn't say anything that.

1967
01:35:58,680 --> 01:36:01,720
Speaker 2: Don't worry. It's like my whole life has been that. Right.

1968
01:36:01,760 --> 01:36:03,640
Remember I got yelled at by the district attorney.

1969
01:36:04,239 --> 01:36:07,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, right for something Tommy said, like, I didn't say that,

1970
01:36:07,800 --> 01:36:09,520
I did. I gotta yelled at one.

1971
01:36:09,560 --> 01:36:10,920
Speaker 2: I had to listen. I just had to listen.

1972
01:36:11,000 --> 01:36:15,560
Speaker 1: I got ye on my birthday by Nikki Rudd for

1973
01:36:15,720 --> 01:36:18,640
something Tommy and you joked around about on the show,

1974
01:36:18,640 --> 01:36:20,199
and I'm like, I have nothing to do with that.

1975
01:36:20,279 --> 01:36:22,760
When we're at the show, I'm like, I can't dump everything.

1976
01:36:23,079 --> 01:36:25,840
We would have a show. It will be four hours of.

1977
01:36:27,479 --> 01:36:28,319
Speaker 2: I'm not babe.

1978
01:36:28,960 --> 01:36:30,359
Speaker 3: I gotta tell you right now, I am going to

1979
01:36:30,399 --> 01:36:32,560
stay away from any comment on that story.

1980
01:36:32,800 --> 01:36:34,039
Speaker 2: As old as it is.

1981
01:36:34,159 --> 01:36:35,359
Speaker 1: I don't even remember what the story was.

1982
01:36:35,479 --> 01:36:37,880
Speaker 3: I can tell you off air as old as that

1983
01:36:38,079 --> 01:36:44,279
story is. And we are talking fifteen years yes, right,

1984
01:36:44,600 --> 01:36:45,640
well we're twenty.

1985
01:36:45,680 --> 01:36:49,399
Speaker 1: It's twenty ten. Okay, so sixteen years ago.

1986
01:36:49,520 --> 01:36:49,720
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1987
01:36:50,640 --> 01:36:54,359
Speaker 3: I bringing it up because those kind of things come

1988
01:36:54,640 --> 01:36:57,640
haunting back. And again I didn't say it either, but

1989
01:36:57,960 --> 01:36:59,000
I know I got a.

1990
01:36:59,000 --> 01:37:00,399
Speaker 1: Lot of shit for it, did you?

1991
01:37:00,920 --> 01:37:01,159
Speaker 2: Yes?

1992
01:37:01,760 --> 01:37:03,880
Speaker 1: Yes, I did make it. Yeah, yes, you're You're the

1993
01:37:03,920 --> 01:37:06,359
line of defense. We had no defense in that comment,

1994
01:37:06,520 --> 01:37:06,720
was you.

1995
01:37:07,159 --> 01:37:10,680
Speaker 2: I got all kinds of you and me Facebook messages.

1996
01:37:10,199 --> 01:37:12,199
Speaker 1: And one time time he goes, bro, who in a

1997
01:37:12,319 --> 01:37:15,479
thought in the history of this show that the only

1998
01:37:15,560 --> 01:37:17,680
guy to KNA get suspended would be made?

1999
01:37:18,800 --> 01:37:21,720
Speaker 2: Remember you?

2000
01:37:21,800 --> 01:37:24,199
Speaker 3: And I got suspected because I said, it's a fucking

2001
01:37:24,279 --> 01:37:25,520
wrap song, and I hit.

2002
01:37:25,399 --> 01:37:27,720
Speaker 1: The dump button, hit the dumb button didn't work.

2003
01:37:27,760 --> 01:37:28,319
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter.

2004
01:37:28,439 --> 01:37:30,760
Speaker 3: I was pissed at Tommy and I said that I

2005
01:37:31,000 --> 01:37:34,000
was mad at him. So I and instead of saying

2006
01:37:34,640 --> 01:37:36,680
I'm pissed at you, I just said it's a fucking

2007
01:37:36,720 --> 01:37:39,800
wrap that there was no point to it. That's a

2008
01:37:39,840 --> 01:37:43,439
healthy My My agent fucking chewed my ass out.

2009
01:37:43,479 --> 01:37:44,039
Speaker 1: What did he really?

2010
01:37:44,319 --> 01:37:50,800
Speaker 2: Yeah? But he worked for you, Uh yeah, and he

2011
01:37:51,039 --> 01:37:53,279
was his idea was protected. He goes, it's the dumbest

2012
01:37:53,319 --> 01:37:56,039
thing in the world. Why would you say a swear

2013
01:37:56,239 --> 01:37:58,840
a cursed word in front of a live microphone? Ever?

2014
01:37:59,039 --> 01:38:01,159
Speaker 3: At any point in your life? Have you heard the

2015
01:38:01,239 --> 01:38:04,079
show he did? And he goes, I don't understand why,

2016
01:38:04,119 --> 01:38:05,159
at any point.

2017
01:38:04,960 --> 01:38:07,199
Speaker 1: I'd have to hit the button at least sixteen times

2018
01:38:07,279 --> 01:38:09,880
an episode. Yeah, but still, I did a pretty good

2019
01:38:09,920 --> 01:38:12,880
track record up until what time I hit it. I

2020
01:38:13,039 --> 01:38:15,479
just did work, good old days.

2021
01:38:15,600 --> 01:38:18,279
Speaker 2: That's all right, that's all right, we're gonna wrap it up.

2022
01:38:18,279 --> 01:38:23,119
I'm sorry. I just for Dann Burrell.

2023
01:38:23,199 --> 01:38:24,600
Speaker 1: Oh, pray for your dad, Billy.

2024
01:38:25,000 --> 01:38:27,600
Speaker 2: I appreciate you, guys. I don't know what to pray for.

2025
01:38:28,399 --> 01:38:31,039
Do you understand what I'm saying? Piece, I just go

2026
01:38:31,840 --> 01:38:32,760
I just pray.

2027
01:38:33,039 --> 01:38:36,159
Speaker 1: I guess that the ability for him to handle every day.

2028
01:38:36,199 --> 01:38:37,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it. That's all.

2029
01:38:37,600 --> 01:38:39,399
Speaker 1: Give him a strength to handle each day until you

2030
01:38:39,520 --> 01:38:42,960
call him home. I My thing would be, I know

2031
01:38:43,039 --> 01:38:44,720
people were praying for death for their loved ones, and

2032
01:38:44,760 --> 01:38:45,359
I'm not joking.

2033
01:38:45,520 --> 01:38:48,640
Speaker 3: No, I understand because sometimes it's the best option. Yes, Uh,

2034
01:38:50,520 --> 01:38:55,159
my thing would be, I pray for that keep I would.

2035
01:38:55,600 --> 01:38:59,199
I want him to keep his dignity. He's a yeah,

2036
01:38:59,359 --> 01:39:04,399
a proud he is a true gentleman. I've had people

2037
01:39:04,479 --> 01:39:07,479
say to me that, you know, there are things that

2038
01:39:07,600 --> 01:39:09,640
I do that I don't even instinctly go away, You're

2039
01:39:09,680 --> 01:39:11,760
really a gentleman. And I was like, well, that's how

2040
01:39:11,800 --> 01:39:13,880
you were raised, That's how I was raised. I tried

2041
01:39:13,920 --> 01:39:15,600
to raise my boys that way. I'm not sure that

2042
01:39:15,640 --> 01:39:16,319
I did a good job.

2043
01:39:16,880 --> 01:39:20,479
Speaker 2: But he is a true, true gentleman, like an old

2044
01:39:20,680 --> 01:39:23,439
school gentleman, and like.

2045
01:39:23,680 --> 01:39:26,760
Speaker 3: I remember even going to grandparents' day at one of

2046
01:39:26,760 --> 01:39:29,279
the kids' schools when they were teenagers.

2047
01:39:30,199 --> 01:39:32,479
Speaker 2: Three piece suit, tweet, three piece suit.

2048
01:39:32,960 --> 01:39:35,520
Speaker 3: You know, I mean the guy and he was a

2049
01:39:36,359 --> 01:39:39,439
new mismanners guide to perfect etiquette and would make jokes

2050
01:39:39,479 --> 01:39:40,760
about it but knew it.

2051
01:39:41,399 --> 01:39:45,600
Speaker 2: And I mean he was, and so I go in

2052
01:39:45,720 --> 01:39:49,560
the end. May he please be able to preserve the

2053
01:39:49,640 --> 01:39:50,439
dignity all the way.

2054
01:39:50,479 --> 01:39:52,840
Speaker 1: Sana says, You're not supposed to wait for everybody get served.

2055
01:39:52,880 --> 01:39:53,399
You just eat.

2056
01:39:53,600 --> 01:39:56,720
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, oh yeah, that was the other thing, like,

2057
01:39:56,880 --> 01:39:58,279
oh yeah, yeah, I was a lot.

2058
01:39:58,399 --> 01:39:59,960
Speaker 1: I'm hungry, give me my skull.

2059
01:40:00,439 --> 01:40:03,079
Speaker 2: And he's still here. So yeah, I'm talking like he's gone.

2060
01:40:03,199 --> 01:40:04,279
He's not. He's still here.

2061
01:40:04,880 --> 01:40:07,079
Speaker 1: Uh should we do living funerals? Should it be our

2062
01:40:07,159 --> 01:40:07,520
next bitch?

2063
01:40:07,680 --> 01:40:10,119
Speaker 2: We did? Remember we did? Didn't we do? Oh no,

2064
01:40:10,199 --> 01:40:14,640
we did obituaries, but bituary for Dan Barilla. I'm Bill Moran.

2065
01:40:14,880 --> 01:40:20,800
We'll see you Monday. I was never paying nothing, but anyway,

2066
01:40:21,039 --> 01:40:23,359
weren't there. They didn't do this, Frands