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Speaker 1: All right, time for second date update. We're going to Newington.

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Ambers on the line. Good morning, Amber, Good morning, Hey,

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welcome to the show. Obviously, second date update. You've been

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on a great first date and you're getting ghosted.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I one of my nightmares.

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Speaker 1: Well, I hope we can get you some answers, because

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it is tough when you go on a first date.

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You put yourself out there, you're on the date, and

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then you get ghosted. I hate that feeling. It's happened

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to me too. You went out with a guy named Brady.

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Tell us about this great first date.

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Speaker 2: It was amazing. We went out to a Mexican restaurant

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and that's my favorite truth, my favorite cuisine, and we

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taught margarita. We laughed, and we had an incredible conversation.

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Amazing first impressions I felt, and I really felt like

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chemistry too.

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Speaker 1: So you have a great time. You're on the date,

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you're having Margarita's. At any point were you too drunk

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on Margarita's? Did you have too many margarita's?

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Speaker 3: Did he look?

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Speaker 2: I don't think I had a lot, Like I had

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just enough?

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, and in order like the table side guawk,

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did you because sometimes with I mean, there we go,

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there we go. It's a little expensive, the old table side.

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying, let's let's let's put it this way,

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that the guawk is the same whether they bring it

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from out back or make it at your table.

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Speaker 4: It's so expensive though, I know if you get the

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chips and salsa.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, were you ripping tequila shots? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Like why not?

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, but then let's just jump in and

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call them.

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Speaker 1: Because you were ripping shots, you order the table side guawk.

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Speaker 3: Maybe that's the reason. And if it is, it is right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean, somebody takes me to Mexican and they want

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to do a shot at tequila, I'm all in.

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Speaker 3: I mean it sounds like a great day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, So I'm gonna put you on hold.

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We're gonna call it Brady. You're gonna be listening in

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and we're just gonna ask them to be honest at

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any point of if you want to jump in on

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the conversation, you can, Okay, sure, Well.

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Speaker 3: Hi is Brady there? Hey Brady, it's Courtney Brady. It's Walmart. Hey,

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it's Savannah.

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Speaker 1: We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. I have

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to tell you're on the radio this morning.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, hello, good morning.

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Speaker 3: Hey Hody.

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Speaker 1: So you're on something called second date update. That's when

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somebody goes on a first date. They have a great time,

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but they get ghosted and they want answers. We try

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to get some answers, and that's why we're calling you

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this morning.

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Speaker 4: Oh all right, okay, So.

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Speaker 1: Amber called us said, you guys went out for Mexican.

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It was fabulous. The food was great, the drinks were great,

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good chemistry. She thought you guys had a connection. She

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did say that she was doing shot at tequila with you.

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She says she wasn't drunk, but for some reason she

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doesn't understand why you're a ghostinger, like, how was the

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date for you?

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Speaker 3: Was she drunk? What happened?

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Speaker 5: No? No, no, I wasn't strong. The food was great,

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it was I thought that we connected. It was a

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good date. So then I'll tell you what. She started

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texting your eggs. She first of all just kept talking

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about how toxic this past relationship was and her ex

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was so toxic. And I'm like, okay, sure I could

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see that. Everybody has a pass yep and she starts

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she gets a text from them, and then they just

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start going back and forth right then and there in

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front of me. I don't need that. I can't. I can't.

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I don't want toxic women in my life. That doesn't

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look good in my opinion. And that's a red flag.

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That's toxic, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, So, brit So it's nothing to do with the

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shots of the drinking. Basically, she said she was her

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past relationship was toxic, and then she continued to engage

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with this toxic man during your date.

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Speaker 4: Exactly, Yeah, Brady, And like you said, that's a big

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red flag. If the person that usually calls the other

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person toxic, they're always toxic.

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Speaker 3: Well, no they are. Can we just I want to

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bring Amber and Amber.

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Speaker 2: Hi, maybe it's Amber. I don't think I'm toxic. I

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think I was trying to defend my side when my

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ex was trying to talk to me, and I just

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needed to get it out of my head because it

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just couldn't I couldn't get over what he was saying

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to me.

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Speaker 1: So you couldn't wait till after the date, Like.

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Speaker 2: It was just so heated that I only thought of

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myself in that moment and I just had to like,

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like I had to get my word in. But yeah,

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he's just that toxic, you know, like he's just so

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he aggravates me so easily. So I just I just

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didn't even think I had to get it done in

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that home.

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Speaker 1: Wait, but Amber, if he's that toxic, just block him, like,

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if you really want to move on.

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Speaker 3: Like, just block him.

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Speaker 5: I have.

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Speaker 4: I have blocked him, well parently, not because you're getting

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texts from.

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Speaker 2: Him, so like, you know what, like and I did, I.

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Speaker 3: Just hold on Amber? He hung up.

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Speaker 1: Well, listen, this is the first time. This is the

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most time a date has hung up on us.

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Speaker 3: Amber Brady has hung up. Oh my god, Well listen.

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Speaker 1: I don't think just that you're necessarily have moved on

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from your toxic relationship. I feel like if you had,

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you would have ignored those text messages. If you're on

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such a great date.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I have. I feel like I have

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moved on.

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Speaker 4: There are some women out there that love it, that

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live for the drama, and it sounds like you're one

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of those girls.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I feel like I've moved on. I

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really like this guy, Brady, and I think he just

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hung up on me.

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Speaker 3: That's okay.

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Speaker 1: He hung up, and I don't think usually at the

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end I offer a second date. I'm not going to

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the fact that he hung up. We're just gonna leave

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it there. Yeah, he's not interested. And then I would

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just suggest, this is just a suggestion, if you're on

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another date, I wouldn't text anybody or answer any cause

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unless it was an emergency, just out of you know,

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be nice. Also, you might really want to like block

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him and keep him block if you're serious about, you know,

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moving on.

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Speaker 2: I mean to me, that's not like an emergency, like

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I just like, he just keeps triggering me. Block.

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Speaker 1: I will say, Amber, one of these days, you won't

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be triggered and that will happen with time. Steer clear

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of your X and everything's going to work out just fine.

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But thank you so much for being on a second

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date update.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for having me