Speaker 1: All right, time for second date update. We're going to Newington.
Ambers on the line. Good morning, Amber, Good morning, Hey,
welcome to the show. Obviously, second date update. You've been
on a great first date and you're getting ghosted.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I one of my nightmares.
Speaker 1: Well, I hope we can get you some answers, because
it is tough when you go on a first date.
You put yourself out there, you're on the date, and
then you get ghosted. I hate that feeling. It's happened
to me too. You went out with a guy named Brady.
Tell us about this great first date.
Speaker 2: It was amazing. We went out to a Mexican restaurant
and that's my favorite truth, my favorite cuisine, and we
taught margarita. We laughed, and we had an incredible conversation.
Amazing first impressions I felt, and I really felt like
chemistry too.
Speaker 1: So you have a great time. You're on the date,
you're having Margarita's. At any point were you too drunk
on Margarita's? Did you have too many margarita's?
Speaker 3: Did he look?
Speaker 2: I don't think I had a lot, Like I had
just enough?
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, and in order like the table side guawk,
did you because sometimes with I mean, there we go,
there we go. It's a little expensive, the old table side.
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, let's let's let's put it this way,
that the guawk is the same whether they bring it
from out back or make it at your table.
Speaker 4: It's so expensive though, I know if you get the
chips and salsa.
Speaker 3: Anyway, were you ripping tequila shots? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Like why not?
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, but then let's just jump in and
call them.
Speaker 1: Because you were ripping shots, you order the table side guawk.
Speaker 3: Maybe that's the reason. And if it is, it is right.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean, somebody takes me to Mexican and they want
to do a shot at tequila, I'm all in.
Speaker 3: I mean it sounds like a great day.
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, So I'm gonna put you on hold.
We're gonna call it Brady. You're gonna be listening in
and we're just gonna ask them to be honest at
any point of if you want to jump in on
the conversation, you can, Okay, sure, Well.
Speaker 3: Hi is Brady there? Hey Brady, it's Courtney Brady. It's Walmart. Hey,
it's Savannah.
Speaker 1: We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. I have
to tell you're on the radio this morning.
Speaker 5: Oh okay, hello, good morning.
Speaker 3: Hey Hody.
Speaker 1: So you're on something called second date update. That's when
somebody goes on a first date. They have a great time,
but they get ghosted and they want answers. We try
to get some answers, and that's why we're calling you
this morning.
Speaker 4: Oh all right, okay, So.
Speaker 1: Amber called us said, you guys went out for Mexican.
It was fabulous. The food was great, the drinks were great,
good chemistry. She thought you guys had a connection. She
did say that she was doing shot at tequila with you.
She says she wasn't drunk, but for some reason she
doesn't understand why you're a ghostinger, like, how was the
date for you?
Speaker 3: Was she drunk? What happened?
Speaker 5: No? No, no, I wasn't strong. The food was great,
it was I thought that we connected. It was a
good date. So then I'll tell you what. She started
texting your eggs. She first of all just kept talking
about how toxic this past relationship was and her ex
was so toxic. And I'm like, okay, sure I could
see that. Everybody has a pass yep and she starts
she gets a text from them, and then they just
start going back and forth right then and there in
front of me. I don't need that. I can't. I can't.
I don't want toxic women in my life. That doesn't
look good in my opinion. And that's a red flag.
That's toxic, all.
Speaker 1: Right, So, brit So it's nothing to do with the
shots of the drinking. Basically, she said she was her
past relationship was toxic, and then she continued to engage
with this toxic man during your date.
Speaker 4: Exactly, Yeah, Brady, And like you said, that's a big
red flag. If the person that usually calls the other
person toxic, they're always toxic.
Speaker 3: Well, no they are. Can we just I want to
bring Amber and Amber.
Speaker 2: Hi, maybe it's Amber. I don't think I'm toxic. I
think I was trying to defend my side when my
ex was trying to talk to me, and I just
needed to get it out of my head because it
just couldn't I couldn't get over what he was saying
to me.
Speaker 1: So you couldn't wait till after the date, Like.
Speaker 2: It was just so heated that I only thought of
myself in that moment and I just had to like,
like I had to get my word in. But yeah,
he's just that toxic, you know, like he's just so
he aggravates me so easily. So I just I just
didn't even think I had to get it done in
that home.
Speaker 1: Wait, but Amber, if he's that toxic, just block him, like,
if you really want to move on.
Speaker 3: Like, just block him.
Speaker 5: I have.
Speaker 4: I have blocked him, well parently, not because you're getting
texts from.
Speaker 2: Him, so like, you know what, like and I did, I.
Speaker 3: Just hold on Amber? He hung up.
Speaker 1: Well, listen, this is the first time. This is the
most time a date has hung up on us.
Speaker 3: Amber Brady has hung up. Oh my god, Well listen.
Speaker 1: I don't think just that you're necessarily have moved on
from your toxic relationship. I feel like if you had,
you would have ignored those text messages. If you're on
such a great date.
Speaker 2: I feel like I have. I feel like I have
moved on.
Speaker 4: There are some women out there that love it, that
live for the drama, and it sounds like you're one
of those girls.
Speaker 2: I don't know, I feel like I've moved on. I
really like this guy, Brady, and I think he just
hung up on me.
Speaker 3: That's okay.
Speaker 1: He hung up, and I don't think usually at the
end I offer a second date. I'm not going to
the fact that he hung up. We're just gonna leave
it there. Yeah, he's not interested. And then I would
just suggest, this is just a suggestion, if you're on
another date, I wouldn't text anybody or answer any cause
unless it was an emergency, just out of you know,
be nice. Also, you might really want to like block
him and keep him block if you're serious about, you know,
moving on.
Speaker 2: I mean to me, that's not like an emergency, like
I just like, he just keeps triggering me. Block.
Speaker 1: I will say, Amber, one of these days, you won't
be triggered and that will happen with time. Steer clear
of your X and everything's going to work out just fine.
But thank you so much for being on a second
date update.
Speaker 2: Thanks for having me