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Speaker 2: What's up?
Speaker 3: Positive bitches? How are we doing today? If you're hearing
Speaker 3: this episode, then you are meant to be here. So
Speaker 3: keep listening on that Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we will laugh.
Speaker 3: Other times, baby Girl, we're gonna cry, but we will
Speaker 3: always walk away feeling our most empowered positive bitch self.
Speaker 3: That means Babe in true connection with herself. On this podcast,
Speaker 3: we unbecome who we are not so we can fully
Speaker 3: step into exactly who we came.
Speaker 2: Here to be. Can I get a name?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 2: Yeah, that feels really good today.
Speaker 3: This weekend, I got into a fight with a man
Speaker 3: over Jesus Christ.
Speaker 2: I had to stand for my brother Jesus. I cannot
Speaker 2: just let people run their mouth.
Speaker 3: Now. Was it a actual fight, No, But I let
Speaker 3: my light shine and I just let it shine on
Speaker 3: to this person and then I walked away as.
Speaker 2: Jesus would do.
Speaker 3: This is what I want you to understand and what
Speaker 3: I've been thinking a lot about this week. The reward
Speaker 3: for conformity is that everyone likes you except yourself. You
Speaker 3: want to have no confidence, focus on getting other people
Speaker 3: to like you. You want to have low self esteem,
Speaker 3: focus on getting everyone else to accept you. You want
Speaker 3: to erode yourself from the inside out, be miserable and
Speaker 3: feel purposeless. Focus on others loving you instead of you
Speaker 3: loving yourself. I stand up for what I believe in.
Speaker 3: I am loud and proud when I walk into a room,
Speaker 3: I am me. And the reason for that is because
Speaker 3: I spent so much time trying to shove me into
Speaker 3: a little box, into a corner of my psyche, and
Speaker 3: I realized how detrimental that was to me and also
Speaker 3: the results.
Speaker 2: I was getting out there.
Speaker 3: We are told that we should be demure, be mindful,
Speaker 3: and at first I thought this was funny and I
Speaker 3: got on that train.
Speaker 2: But no, I am so off that train. I am
Speaker 2: three planes away now in.
Speaker 3: Another country, because that is social programming. To be demure,
Speaker 3: to be mindful, to shrink ourselves.
Speaker 2: That is not how you get what it is you want.
Speaker 3: That's not how you find your purpose, You're right, people,
Speaker 3: That's not how you manifest better results. I am now
Speaker 3: starting our own little movement in the positive Bitch community,
Speaker 3: which is just be extreme, extremely loyal, extremely fierce, extremely passionate,
Speaker 3: extremely loving extreme.
Speaker 2: Whatever you are, be extreme in it and stand in it.
Speaker 2: Being middle of the.
Speaker 3: Aisle all the time is not going to get you
Speaker 3: the results that you want. And we're gonna talk more
Speaker 3: about this today because there is the argument of well,
Speaker 3: if I'm always extreme one way, aren't I gonna burn out?
Speaker 3: Isn't that going to make me feel unbalanced? There is
Speaker 3: something called the doo the middle way that we've talked
Speaker 3: about before, and that is healthy to have. But we're
Speaker 3: gonna talk about how to have the dow the middle way.
Speaker 2: And be extreme. It's not one or the other. You
Speaker 2: being extreme is what's going to unlock higher timelines, better.
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Speaker 2: Growing Up. I know this is not just a me thing,
Speaker 2: but we have been told don't.
Speaker 3: Show off, be humble, be the good girl, be the
Speaker 3: nice girl, be seen and not heard. I remember, even
Speaker 3: after Christmas, my parents would always tell me, don't show
Speaker 3: off anything you got, don't talk about it.
Speaker 2: You have it, know that you have it, and that's it.
Speaker 2: Just hide it, don't.
Speaker 3: They would literally tell me to hide stuff. I went
Speaker 3: to a Catholic school. I remember my parents consistently.
Speaker 2: Telling me this is good that way.
Speaker 3: No one knows what each other has, and it's more
Speaker 3: even that way, and there is something to that. I
Speaker 3: do understand that it can make people feel like it's
Speaker 3: a more even playing field. I even remember at one
Speaker 3: graduation ceremony when I say I won every single award
Speaker 3: I'm not kidding, math, Science, English, everything, And I remember
Speaker 3: turning around to my teacher and I go, this is embarrassing,
Speaker 3: this is embarrassing.
Speaker 2: I was so mad.
Speaker 3: I literally I remember telling them, how did you not
Speaker 3: convene among yourselves of who was winning?
Speaker 1: What?
Speaker 2: Why would you give me all of these things? We
Speaker 2: have to keep getting up.
Speaker 3: All these parents are staring at me. I feel like
Speaker 3: I stole awards from other kids. This is embarrassing.
Speaker 2: I don't want to go up again.
Speaker 3: And now looking back, I realize I felt that way
Speaker 3: because I was trained to hide my strengths, to hide
Speaker 3: my personality, to hide my brain, to hide what I
Speaker 3: can offer. What do you think happens to your psyche
Speaker 3: when you are consistently told to be humble, to shut
Speaker 3: down your light, and to shrink. You create a cap
Speaker 3: for how much joy, how much magic, how much abundance,
Speaker 3: how much love you are.
Speaker 2: Going to allow in your life.
Speaker 3: Well, I can't have that much abundance because I know
Speaker 3: other people are gonna see it and then I'm gonna
Speaker 3: be overshadowing them and.
Speaker 2: That's not okay. Well i can't have that much love
Speaker 2: because then I'm gonna make other people feel bad. Well,
Speaker 2: I have to be the good girl. I can't show off.
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, I'm not going to take this opportunity,
Speaker 3: even though it's exactly what I want.
Speaker 2: I don't want to show off.
Speaker 3: We will shrink ourselves because we think we're being loyal
Speaker 3: to fail family and friends, when really we're just effing
Speaker 3: ourselves over in every single possible way.
Speaker 2: When you have this.
Speaker 3: Underlying program that is like elevator music in the back
Speaker 3: of your psyche for the rest of your life, you
Speaker 3: create an upper limit, and you block your blessings. How
Speaker 3: can you reach your potential when you're capping how much
Speaker 3: you're willing to allow yourself to enjoy. Being quiet and
Speaker 3: reserved and being demure holds us back from getting what
Speaker 3: it is we actually want and deserve. People pleasing is
Speaker 3: a great distraction. If I was the devil, I would
Speaker 3: convince everyone to people please, because then they would ignore
Speaker 3: their potential. They would completely be distracted all the time.
Speaker 3: They would always feel as if they were not doing enough,
Speaker 3: not pretty enough, not fulfilling other people's cups enough.
Speaker 2: They would feel like a chicken without a head.
Speaker 3: They would have k else in their body every single day,
Speaker 3: sympathetic nervous system activated. If I was a devil, that's
Speaker 3: exactly what I would tell people to do. That is
Speaker 3: the biggest sin of all is focusing so much on
Speaker 3: another that you forget about yourself.
Speaker 2: Hmmm.
Speaker 3: People pleasing distracts you from personal goals. It distracts you
Speaker 3: from finding what's meant for you. How can you align
Speaker 3: what's meant for you when you're focused on someone's vibration
Speaker 3: more than your own. What if we stop being demure
Speaker 3: so conscientious of what's everyone else doing and started focusing
Speaker 3: on putting ourselves on the pedestal.
Speaker 2: What would your life look like if you started to
Speaker 2: do that.
Speaker 3: Becoming consumed pleasing others is not the path that's going
Speaker 3: to garner success.
Speaker 2: The pedestal path is what garners success.
Speaker 3: That's actually one of my courses that will teach you
Speaker 3: how to put yourself back on the pedestal. If you
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Speaker 3: the show notes. What I find so interesting is that
Speaker 3: there's this narrative to be demure, yet every super successful
Speaker 3: person I know is extreme. When I think about the
Speaker 3: multi multi millionaires that I know conversate.
Speaker 2: With, they are extreme people. You think they're demure, No,
Speaker 2: they're not.
Speaker 3: They're extreme in their work ethic, how they think, what
Speaker 3: they believe, their decision makings. They're quick, and they are
Speaker 3: sure and certain about it. And even when they were
Speaker 3: certain and it didn't go how they expected it to go,
Speaker 3: they then make another quick decision on what they're going
Speaker 3: to do next. They can see a situation for what
Speaker 3: it is and then expand it to a higher perception,
Speaker 3: transmute it. They are extreme though when you talk to them,
Speaker 3: they're not mellow.
Speaker 2: Hahahaha.
Speaker 3: No, they know what they know what they know because
Speaker 3: they know it, whether you're successful materially in the business
Speaker 3: world or spiritually.
Speaker 2: Because I know.
Speaker 3: Masters of the spiritual realm, master healers, connected to every
Speaker 3: ascended master kashak records.
Speaker 2: Other realms. Guess what. They're also very extreme.
Speaker 3: I think that there is some concept that spiritual people are.
Speaker 2: All mellow, just follow the path every extremely extremely tapped in,
Speaker 2: tuned in person. I know they are not like that.
Speaker 2: They are quite extreme.
Speaker 3: Extreme in their beliefs, extreme in how they convey their message.
Speaker 3: They will tell me, what do you want me to
Speaker 3: lie to you? They'll say the harshest thing and then say,
Speaker 3: well is what it is, and I'm like, damn okay, period,
Speaker 3: Like I guess.
Speaker 2: You're right, but that's the thing, it is what it is.
Speaker 3: They are extreme in having their meditation practice and connecting
Speaker 3: with the divine, in what they put into their body,
Speaker 3: in their system, and how they live their life, just
Speaker 3: as a business person is extreme in maybe different ways.
Speaker 2: Either way.
Speaker 3: When you want to be successful in something, hanging out
Speaker 3: and being mediocre in the middle, that's not going to
Speaker 3: get you there.
Speaker 2: You do have to be extreme in one way or another.
Speaker 2: Think about.
Speaker 3: Someone who's really successful that maybe is a celebrity. I
Speaker 3: always think Elon Musk, that man is extreme. I remember
Speaker 3: hearing a story about him where his employees were saying
Speaker 3: that there was some problem in one of the factories,
Speaker 3: and he was asking, well, how do we fix it?
Speaker 3: And they didn't know, So he turns around his jet
Speaker 3: and they go to the factory and they fix it
Speaker 3: within an hour or that day. People who are successful
Speaker 3: are successful not because they'rere, but because they are extreme.
Speaker 2: How do we start to step out of this? I
Speaker 2: have to shrink myself. I have to be demure.
Speaker 3: Let me tell you, that's why you're here. If you
Speaker 3: want to actually like yourself, get to know God. I
Speaker 3: was out and this man asked me, why are you
Speaker 3: so confident? And I told him I know that God
Speaker 3: put me onto this planet, and I'm here because God
Speaker 3: wanted me to walk through these doors. I do walk
Speaker 3: into every room like God sent me because I believe
Speaker 3: that he did. I have spent so much time with
Speaker 3: myself and with the Divine that I've gotten to know myself,
Speaker 3: and therefore I like myself. How do you get to
Speaker 3: know someone, you have to hang out with them. If
Speaker 3: you're distracted by people pleasing, trying to shrink yourself in
Speaker 3: a group that you're tolerated and not celebrated, hanging around
Speaker 3: in relationships that aren't serving you, no wonder. You don't
Speaker 3: like yourself, you don't even know who you are, and
Speaker 3: you hang around with people who make you feel terrible
Speaker 3: because they don't know who they are. It's a game
Speaker 3: of projection and it's miserable. God will do this funny
Speaker 3: thing that does not feel funny at all, but he
Speaker 3: separates us and creates these isolation seasons to allow us
Speaker 3: to build ourselves.
Speaker 2: Up, chosen ones.
Speaker 3: Always having a season of isolation, usually multiple. It's not one,
Speaker 3: it's many. And it's during these times that you can
Speaker 3: refine yourself, that you can learn who am I, What
Speaker 3: do I want? What brings me joy, what does not
Speaker 3: bring me joy? What do I want to invite more
Speaker 3: into my life? And what do I want to expel?
Speaker 3: Seasons of isolation are not always emotionally the easiest, but
Speaker 3: they are what is going.
Speaker 2: To build you to be the person that you want
Speaker 2: to be.
Speaker 3: If I didn't have seasons of isolation where I was
Speaker 3: reading and re searching and learning how to use my
Speaker 3: own energy, learning yoga, understanding what I wanted to.
Speaker 2: Do with my life.
Speaker 3: Then I couldn't get here if I allowed myself to
Speaker 3: be distracted by friends who were actually not nice to me,
Speaker 3: I wouldn't be here. If I allowed myself to stay
Speaker 3: in a relationship that wasn't serving me, I wouldn't be
Speaker 3: here Because those people in your life.
Speaker 2: They do distract you.
Speaker 3: You're so consumed with are they happy? Are they enjoying
Speaker 3: me in their life?
Speaker 2: How are they feeling? What are they doing that you
Speaker 2: do ignore your own process, progress and purpose.
Speaker 3: In the isolation season, it allowed me to be extreme.
Speaker 3: I had all of this time to just learn, to
Speaker 3: read all of the books, to listen to all the podcasts,
Speaker 3: to do all the meditations. I'll always be learning, always
Speaker 3: be growing. That's not to discount that, but it is
Speaker 3: to say that season afforded me time and space to
Speaker 3: be extreme, to get extreme results. When I walk into
Speaker 3: a room, I'm able to be confident because I know myself.
Speaker 3: I know what I believe about politics, I know what
Speaker 3: I believe about religion, I know what I believe about spirituality.
Speaker 3: The universe, energetic law, myself, others, projections, programs.
Speaker 2: I know exactly what I believe, I know what I think,
Speaker 2: and I have an opinion.
Speaker 3: I am a formed individual because I've taken the time
Speaker 3: to form and mold myself. I'm a formed individual because
Speaker 3: I don't rely on mere mortals to give me validation
Speaker 3: or hope or security.
Speaker 2: I plug into God, Divinity.
Speaker 3: That's my bank, that is my source, not human beings.
Speaker 2: On planet Earth.
Speaker 3: I've taken the time to shift my belief system, to
Speaker 3: shift where I am energetically. And I know that I've
Speaker 3: been through seasons of isolation. I know how depressed I've been.
Speaker 3: I know how anxious I've been, and I know I
Speaker 3: can get myself out of there, because if I got
Speaker 3: myself there, I also have the power to remove myself
Speaker 3: from there.
Speaker 2: These seasons build you.
Speaker 3: What's breaking you is allowing you to build a new
Speaker 3: version of you. The worst things come to place so
Speaker 3: you can build the highest version of yourself.
Speaker 2: These are how the energetic laws work for you.
Speaker 3: Being extreme not only allows for extremely successful results, but
Speaker 3: it allows.
Speaker 2: You to get to know you.
Speaker 3: Being extreme opens up that upper limit problem that we
Speaker 3: were talking about before you no longer cap yourself well,
Speaker 3: I don't want to trigger anyone.
Speaker 2: I hope I trigger you.
Speaker 4: Good.
Speaker 2: Good, Let the light in.
Speaker 3: Learn something about yourself, heal that wound. What are you
Speaker 3: doing walking around with a million energetic wounds on you?
Speaker 2: Heal them? Taking time to build yourself up, to be extreme,
Speaker 2: to not just dabble.
Speaker 3: In yoga or reading or writings, but to really go
Speaker 3: in research, learn, read textbook that allows you.
Speaker 2: To attract greatness.
Speaker 3: The more extreme you are, the more extreme results you're
Speaker 3: going to get. If you're not getting extreme results out there,
Speaker 3: you're not getting the abundance you want, the opportunities you want,
Speaker 3: the people you want. Law of correspondence as above, so below.
Speaker 3: Your external world is always going to be a reflection
Speaker 3: of your internal one. Dig your heels in, go harder,
Speaker 3: go deeper, learn more, get smarter, get wiser, get hotter,
Speaker 3: get wealthier, get healthier. Whatever it is you want, But
Speaker 3: go into it and don't have this feeling of oh
Speaker 3: I might fail.
Speaker 2: Who cares? Do it again?
Speaker 3: And try again, and try again and try again. I
Speaker 3: don't even believe in failure. It's not even real. Who
Speaker 3: cares what it looks like?
Speaker 1: Just do it?
Speaker 2: There is something that we need to talk about.
Speaker 3: When you're extreme, as I said, you're going to attract extreme.
Speaker 2: We can't forget about the law polarity though.
Speaker 3: So as much of love that you're going to attract,
Speaker 3: as much fans as you're going to attract lovers, you're.
Speaker 2: Also going to attract the stalkers and the haters of
Speaker 2: the world.
Speaker 3: The brighter your light, the brighter individuals you will attract,
Speaker 3: but also the darker, shadowy people you're going to attract too.
Speaker 3: Because all the laws are not only playing around with
Speaker 3: your energy, they have an interplay with one another. The
Speaker 3: law of vibration states that you're going to attract like
Speaker 3: vibrational people, things, opportunities because like vibrational energies go towards
Speaker 3: one another.
Speaker 2: But you can't forget to also integrate.
Speaker 3: The law polarity, which is that, yes, you will attract
Speaker 3: like vibration, and you're also going to attract the exact opposite.
Speaker 3: The lighter you become, you will attract lighter people, places, opportunities,
Speaker 3: you're also going to attract lower Now what do you
Speaker 3: do when that happens? You set boundaries, You say no,
Speaker 3: you walk away. When I was out and about this weekend.
Speaker 3: This individual would not stop poking me about Jesus, religion,
Speaker 3: all of that stuff, and I blatantly said exactly what
Speaker 3: I believed. I'm not here to convince anyone. I wasn't
Speaker 3: trying to convince him. I was just responding exactly how
Speaker 3: I would respond. I saw the situation for what it was.
Speaker 3: I know that this is someone who is just in
Speaker 3: a dark, shadowy place, who's starving for my light. And
Speaker 3: really Jesus is light and the divines love, and they
Speaker 3: saw me as a channel for that. I know that
Speaker 3: another person who is let's just call them normal or demure,
Speaker 3: is not going to attract that conversation or that person.
Speaker 2: I do though.
Speaker 3: I was in an airport a couple of weeks ago,
Speaker 3: and of course I lock eyes with a man who
Speaker 3: I could tell he was obviously upset about something, and
Speaker 3: my mouthed.
Speaker 2: To him, are you okay? And he starts hysterically crying.
Speaker 2: So I walk over.
Speaker 3: There's a death in his family, and we had a
Speaker 3: conversation and I told him about some books that he
Speaker 3: should look into, and we talked about energy.
Speaker 2: And then I went on my plane. I know that
Speaker 2: me being extreme and loud and proud and powerful.
Speaker 3: I'm going to attract amazing, powerful, beautiful light beings on
Speaker 3: this planet. I'm also going to attract the darker energies.
Speaker 3: It's not really about that. It's up to me to
Speaker 3: respond in accordance with my light and not get sucked
Speaker 3: into lower vibrational energy. Just as positive energy wants to expand,
Speaker 3: so does lower vibrational energy. It is only at the bottom,
Speaker 3: not at the top. And that's why misery loves company,
Speaker 3: and those people will try to pull you down. All
Speaker 3: you need to do is say no, have a boundary,
Speaker 3: and walk away when it becomes too much. This weekend,
Speaker 3: when I was out, I walked away. I said, I'm
Speaker 3: not doing this anymore because we're not getting anywhere, and
Speaker 3: I don't feel like convincing you because that's not what
Speaker 3: I was put on this planet to do.
Speaker 2: So I walked away. That's it.
Speaker 3: Being attacked, whether it's by the mean girl at school
Speaker 3: or spiritually, is a sign that you are important enough,
Speaker 3: powerful enough to be a target. It's a good sign
Speaker 3: there's something about you that is catching other people's attention.
Speaker 3: And think about the word attention. It's at tension. The
Speaker 3: most famous people attract polarities of lovers and haters, think
Speaker 3: Kim Kardashian. They attract the polarities of energies. They're having
Speaker 3: so much attention because they create at tension. Break apart
Speaker 3: the word attention at tension. The more powerful you become energetically,
Speaker 3: the more polarity you will attract, and the more attention
Speaker 3: attention you're going to receive. This is a sign of
Speaker 3: spiritual growth and significance on the physical plane and the
Speaker 3: spiritual plane. I had someone the other day comment on
Speaker 3: one of my videos, I'm not going to believe anything
Speaker 3: you say spiritually because of how you look.
Speaker 2: Oh my bad.
Speaker 3: I didn't know I how to look like a hag
Speaker 3: in the woods. For you to take what I said seriously,
Speaker 3: I'll remember that next time.
Speaker 2: Not this is what I like to look like. Maybe
Speaker 2: it's extreme to you. I love being extreme.
Speaker 3: What I say might be extreme to you. Well, that's
Speaker 3: what's being channeled, So that's what will be stated. That
Speaker 3: sentiment of I'm not going to believe you because.
Speaker 2: Of what you look like.
Speaker 3: Look at how that creates attention attention, she commpted. She engaged,
Speaker 3: because I'm not afraid to be extreme in what I
Speaker 3: look like because this is how I like to present myself,
Speaker 3: and I'm not afraid to be extreme in what I say.
Speaker 3: That's why it grabs people by the ear, because it's
Speaker 3: resonating with them because it's real.
Speaker 2: It's just real.
Speaker 3: Authenticity is the highest vibration, along with love and gratitude
Speaker 3: that you can exist within. Being authentic is extreme in
Speaker 3: a society that teaches you to be demure. I want
Speaker 3: to introduce the belief system of Pronoia. It's the opposite
Speaker 3: of paranoid. Paranoid you're always looking over your shoulder, what's
Speaker 3: going to go wrong. Pronoia is a belief that the
Speaker 3: universe is always conspiring in your favor. I don't want
Speaker 3: you to just be extreme in what you read, or
Speaker 3: how much time you spend in meditation or your workout,
Speaker 3: or what you put into your vessel. I also want
Speaker 3: you to be extreme in what you allow and what
Speaker 3: you ask for. The higher your standard, the less bs
Speaker 3: you have to accept from others, The more you ask
Speaker 3: for from the electromagnetic field we reside in, the more
Speaker 3: you're going to get. The squeaky wheel gets the grease,
Speaker 3: push past the limited experiences you've had previously, and instead
Speaker 3: ask yourself, what's my ideal life look like? Okay, universe,
Speaker 3: give it to me. Electromagnetic field, activate timeline.
Speaker 2: Open up to me. Be extreme, ask for more. What's
Speaker 2: the worst that can happen?
Speaker 3: You?
Speaker 2: Get it or something better?
Speaker 3: Wow, it's almost like the universe is conspiring in your favor.
Speaker 3: Would you look at that? Hmm?
Speaker 2: Interesting? Weird? Ask for more.
Speaker 3: Be extreme in what you allow, only allowing the best,
Speaker 3: and be extreme in what you ask for. This really
Speaker 3: is an energetic game, and those willing to be risky
Speaker 3: enough to ask for more get more. I know we've
Speaker 3: been talking about extremes, and I feel that a natural
Speaker 3: response would be well. Balance is a huge thing, and
Speaker 3: I'm in my soft girl era and the doo the
Speaker 3: middle way. You can work with polarity and the Tao
Speaker 3: even when being extreme. I do extreme reading, extreme workouts.
Speaker 3: I'm extremely picky about the food I put into my vessel.
Speaker 3: I'm extremely picky about the people I allow myself to
Speaker 3: be around. I'm extremely hard working, I also extremely rest
Speaker 3: If you go really far in one direction, you also
Speaker 3: have to go far in the opposite.
Speaker 2: So if I am extremely.
Speaker 3: Hard working making a podcast, making another book, creating another course,
Speaker 3: having clients, I also have to make sure I'm carving
Speaker 3: out time for extreme rest.
Speaker 2: This will allow you to get more results and have
Speaker 2: balance and have the daw Well. I don't like mediocrity.
Speaker 2: I don't think I came all the way down to
Speaker 2: planet Earth to just have a mediocre life. What that
Speaker 2: sounds literally disgusting.
Speaker 3: There are some people who they do just want that
Speaker 3: because that's what they incarnated onto planet Earth for I'm
Speaker 3: not talking to those people. If you've aligned with this podcast,
Speaker 3: it's because you need to hear these words.
Speaker 2: You're not that person. You want more, And if you
Speaker 2: don't know that yet, it's.
Speaker 3: Because there's fears that are keeping you veiled from your
Speaker 3: true power. How can we embrace our extremes? We cannot
Speaker 3: fall prey to body bouncing. Body bouncing is something I
Speaker 3: talk about in my book Show Up as Her. When
Speaker 3: we are so hyper vigilant on how other people are
Speaker 3: perceiving us, that is our soul, our spirit, if you will,
Speaker 3: our perception, our awareness, jumping out of our body and
Speaker 3: going into theirs. Not only do we become really stressed
Speaker 3: out in our sympathetic nervous system, worrying about.
Speaker 2: How are they perceiving me. Do they like me? Do
Speaker 2: they think I'm hot?
Speaker 3: Whatever it may be, we are shrinking our org field,
Speaker 3: which makes us repellent and less attractive energetically. I want you,
Speaker 3: when you're out to practice deprogramming body bouncing. When you're out,
Speaker 3: you're gonna work with your divine feminine energy to recenter.
Speaker 3: And I want you to ask yourself grounding questions, questions
Speaker 3: that are gonna take your spirit out of that other
Speaker 3: person's body and put it back into yours. And what
Speaker 3: you're gonna ask yourself is questions that have to do
Speaker 3: with your senses. Your senses will ground your spirit back
Speaker 3: in your own body. Whenever you hear a loud noise,
Speaker 3: there's a reason we jump like this.
Speaker 2: That is our spirit jumping back into our body. Ohoh,
Speaker 2: I'm in the present moment again. Where was i?
Speaker 1: Ah?
Speaker 3: Ask yourself questions. What am I sensing right now? Who
Speaker 3: am I talking to? Am I enjoying myself? What do
Speaker 3: I feel right now? What am I touching? What am
Speaker 3: I tasting?
Speaker 2: What am I hearing? What am I seeing?
Speaker 3: Take a second to take a sip of your drink?
Speaker 3: How does this feel on my body right now? Recenter
Speaker 3: through your senses. You can't be extremely you when you're
Speaker 3: extremely focused on how other people are perceiving you. One
Speaker 3: of my favorite ways to get back into my own
Speaker 3: body is something again I talk about this and show
Speaker 3: up as her so you can get the book in
Speaker 3: the show notes. I like to activate something I call
Speaker 3: messy makeup mode. I noticed that when I would go
Speaker 3: out and just dance my psychotic butt off, that.
Speaker 2: Is when the most people would come up to me.
Speaker 2: I did not look my best. That is not me
Speaker 2: hating on myself, but my mascour was dripping. I looked
Speaker 2: like I walked out of a shower. I was sweating.
Speaker 2: I with messy, Hello, MESSI makeup mode, the makeup is everywhere, foundation,
Speaker 2: Who is she? Do we even know her anymore?
Speaker 3: Just melted off me like a candle. That is when
Speaker 3: the most people would come up to me. And I
Speaker 3: reverse engineered this, and I understand why. When I'm in
Speaker 3: messy makeup mode, just dancing my butt off, I'm so
Speaker 3: in my own body. I don't care what it looks
Speaker 3: like because my real intention is just for me to
Speaker 3: enjoy myself. My intention is to have fun in my
Speaker 3: own skin. My intention is I am going to enjoy
Speaker 3: my life because my fun is my responsibility. When you
Speaker 3: dance for yourself, your or fields expands big aura energy
Speaker 3: and it pulls people in. You magnetize yourself when you
Speaker 3: focus on you having fun and messy makeup mode is
Speaker 3: how I have fun. I don't care about what Brad
Speaker 3: or Brittany is saying, because I'm enjoying my own life.
Speaker 3: I'm embracing my body, my sexuality, my divine feminine energy,
Speaker 3: and I'm letting the energy move through me. I'm enjoying
Speaker 3: the music, enjoying my life. And when you have that
Speaker 3: real joy within yourself and your extreme and you're dancing
Speaker 3: your bolds, you don't care. That attracts people towards you.
Speaker 3: You being extremely authentic, whether it's dancing however you want,
Speaker 3: saying what it is that's true to you, showing up
Speaker 3: how you wish, showing up as her Hello, that is
Speaker 3: what attracts people to you. Instead of you focusing out
Speaker 3: there and your oric fields completely constricting, You're focusing on yourself,
Speaker 3: which has the opposite effect on the.
Speaker 2: Aura and it expands it.
Speaker 3: Big aura energy is so magnetic because it's extreme.
Speaker 2: It's extreme.
Speaker 3: You're extremely focused on you extremely passionate, having extreme fun,
Speaker 3: and you're extremely present in the moment, extreme presence and
Speaker 3: having extreme responsibility. That your fun is your responsibility. Oof,
Speaker 3: prepare for everyone.
Speaker 2: To be obsessed with you, because they will. You being
Speaker 2: extreme in how you live your life, You're going to
Speaker 2: get extreme results. Elon Musk knows this. Kim Kardashian knows this.
Speaker 3: All of these people who are highly successful are all
Speaker 3: highly extreme.
Speaker 2: Do not let these people convince you that being demure
Speaker 2: and being in the middle is going to get you
Speaker 2: the results that you want. It won't.
Speaker 3: I used to think that me not being balanced was
Speaker 3: a weakness, but I now see it as my strength.
Speaker 3: Me being extreme has allowed me to build my own business,
Speaker 3: has allowed me to channel great content, has allowed me
Speaker 3: to get a book deal, allowed me to attract my
Speaker 3: tribe on the internet. I know a lot of people
Speaker 3: who started out with me and who aren't doing what
Speaker 3: they were doing when we started together because.
Speaker 2: They're not extreme individuals. They're just not.
Speaker 3: Their north star was keeping this balanced mentality, and mine
Speaker 3: was I'm gonna do everything I have to do in
Speaker 3: order to get what it is I want, which is
Speaker 3: an extreme personality type. And I used to think that
Speaker 3: would be my weakness. But I've now learned that balance
Speaker 3: comes in many different shapes and forms. I'm not balanced
Speaker 3: in the way these other people are balanced. They will
Speaker 3: when it hits a certain time put their computer away.
Speaker 3: I'll stay up till four am. However, I learned a
Speaker 3: new definition of balance, and that is, if I'm extreme
Speaker 3: in my working, I have to be extreme in my
Speaker 3: rest If I'm extreme in my beliefs, I have to
Speaker 3: also understand I'm going to attract extreme results in people,
Speaker 3: extreme responses. If I'm extreme in how I show up,
Speaker 3: it's going to attract extreme polarities. People are gonna love
Speaker 3: it and people are going to hate it. I thought
Speaker 3: that balance was, oh it's five pm, put things away.
Speaker 2: Da da da da da da. That is not how
Speaker 2: I balance.
Speaker 3: My balance is I'm going all the way this way,
Speaker 3: and the pendulum will swing in the opposite, equal direction.
Speaker 3: And now I'm going all the way that way, and
Speaker 3: that's what works for me, and I believe it's brought
Speaker 3: me the success that I've had thus far.
Speaker 2: And we're only going to keep going.
Speaker 3: So if you want to join along and stay for
Speaker 3: the ride and learn with me, then keep listening.
Speaker 2: To that pitch is positive. I love you so much.
Speaker 3: If you're enjoying this podcast, be sure to leave a
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Speaker 3: to learn more about body bouncing and Messy Makeup Mode,
Speaker 3: different ways to activate magnetic energy, get your copy of
Speaker 3: Show Up as Her, and if you want a one
Speaker 3: on one session with me, dm me on Instagram at
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Speaker 4: I love you so much, energy, kids asked me.
Speaker 1: Kids as me, mhm