WEBVTT 1 00:00:01.280 --> 00:00:18.760 Andenogy cancel the high Ecstasya Sage Cancelgema, it's not sorry, Andogy. 2 00:00:19.280 --> 00:00:19.719 What's up? 3 00:00:19.800 --> 00:00:23.079 Positive bitches? How are we doing today? If you're hearing 4 00:00:23.199 --> 00:00:25.120 this episode, then you are meant to be here. So 5 00:00:25.359 --> 00:00:29.280 keep listening on that Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we will laugh. 6 00:00:29.679 --> 00:00:32.759 Other times, baby Girl, we're gonna cry, but we will 7 00:00:32.840 --> 00:00:36.840 always walk away feeling our most empowered positive bitch self. 8 00:00:37.359 --> 00:00:43.520 That means Babe in true connection with herself. On this podcast, 9 00:00:43.719 --> 00:00:46.960 we unbecome who we are not so we can fully 10 00:00:47.119 --> 00:00:49.560 step into exactly who we came. 11 00:00:49.560 --> 00:00:51.960 Here to be. Can I get a name? 12 00:00:52.840 --> 00:00:53.000 Oh? 13 00:00:53.159 --> 00:00:54.560 Yeah, that feels really good today. 14 00:00:55.479 --> 00:00:59.240 This weekend, I got into a fight with a man 15 00:00:59.359 --> 00:01:00.479 over Jesus Christ. 16 00:01:00.920 --> 00:01:05.519 I had to stand for my brother Jesus. I cannot 17 00:01:05.599 --> 00:01:06.920 just let people run their mouth. 18 00:01:07.519 --> 00:01:13.239 Now. Was it a actual fight, No, But I let 19 00:01:13.719 --> 00:01:17.640 my light shine and I just let it shine on 20 00:01:17.719 --> 00:01:20.680 to this person and then I walked away as. 21 00:01:22.159 --> 00:01:22.840 Jesus would do. 22 00:01:24.400 --> 00:01:26.120 This is what I want you to understand and what 23 00:01:26.200 --> 00:01:30.840 I've been thinking a lot about this week. The reward 24 00:01:31.040 --> 00:01:36.400 for conformity is that everyone likes you except yourself. You 25 00:01:36.480 --> 00:01:39.640 want to have no confidence, focus on getting other people 26 00:01:39.680 --> 00:01:42.319 to like you. You want to have low self esteem, 27 00:01:42.480 --> 00:01:45.760 focus on getting everyone else to accept you. You want 28 00:01:45.840 --> 00:01:49.680 to erode yourself from the inside out, be miserable and 29 00:01:49.719 --> 00:01:54.719 feel purposeless. Focus on others loving you instead of you 30 00:01:55.079 --> 00:01:59.799 loving yourself. I stand up for what I believe in. 31 00:02:00.200 --> 00:02:02.840 I am loud and proud when I walk into a room, 32 00:02:03.159 --> 00:02:07.840 I am me. And the reason for that is because 33 00:02:08.000 --> 00:02:11.599 I spent so much time trying to shove me into 34 00:02:11.680 --> 00:02:15.039 a little box, into a corner of my psyche, and 35 00:02:15.159 --> 00:02:18.199 I realized how detrimental that was to me and also 36 00:02:18.319 --> 00:02:19.199 the results. 37 00:02:18.919 --> 00:02:20.840 I was getting out there. 38 00:02:22.039 --> 00:02:26.360 We are told that we should be demure, be mindful, 39 00:02:26.919 --> 00:02:28.879 and at first I thought this was funny and I 40 00:02:28.960 --> 00:02:29.800 got on that train. 41 00:02:29.919 --> 00:02:32.400 But no, I am so off that train. I am 42 00:02:32.960 --> 00:02:34.319 three planes away now in. 43 00:02:34.360 --> 00:02:40.199 Another country, because that is social programming. To be demure, 44 00:02:40.439 --> 00:02:42.439 to be mindful, to shrink ourselves. 45 00:02:43.360 --> 00:02:45.960 That is not how you get what it is you want. 46 00:02:46.080 --> 00:02:48.199 That's not how you find your purpose, You're right, people, 47 00:02:48.280 --> 00:02:51.879 That's not how you manifest better results. I am now 48 00:02:52.120 --> 00:02:55.199 starting our own little movement in the positive Bitch community, 49 00:02:55.479 --> 00:03:01.240 which is just be extreme, extremely loyal, extremely fierce, extremely passionate, 50 00:03:01.400 --> 00:03:04.080 extremely loving extreme. 51 00:03:04.360 --> 00:03:07.280 Whatever you are, be extreme in it and stand in it. 52 00:03:08.120 --> 00:03:09.080 Being middle of the. 53 00:03:09.120 --> 00:03:11.639 Aisle all the time is not going to get you 54 00:03:12.080 --> 00:03:16.479 the results that you want. And we're gonna talk more 55 00:03:16.520 --> 00:03:21.759 about this today because there is the argument of well, 56 00:03:21.879 --> 00:03:26.960 if I'm always extreme one way, aren't I gonna burn out? 57 00:03:27.520 --> 00:03:31.599 Isn't that going to make me feel unbalanced? There is 58 00:03:31.719 --> 00:03:34.599 something called the doo the middle way that we've talked 59 00:03:34.599 --> 00:03:37.719 about before, and that is healthy to have. But we're 60 00:03:37.759 --> 00:03:40.360 gonna talk about how to have the dow the middle way. 61 00:03:40.639 --> 00:03:44.240 And be extreme. It's not one or the other. You 62 00:03:44.800 --> 00:03:49.120 being extreme is what's going to unlock higher timelines, better. 63 00:03:49.039 --> 00:03:53.120 People, better relationships, better opportunities, and more happiness and joy. 64 00:03:53.919 --> 00:03:58.159 Before we get into today's podcast, you are gonna love 65 00:03:58.280 --> 00:04:00.439 me for this one. If you do. 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I remember, even 119 00:07:00.199 --> 00:07:04.120 after Christmas, my parents would always tell me, don't show 120 00:07:04.199 --> 00:07:06.519 off anything you got, don't talk about it. 121 00:07:07.040 --> 00:07:09.680 You have it, know that you have it, and that's it. 122 00:07:10.600 --> 00:07:11.920 Just hide it, don't. 123 00:07:12.000 --> 00:07:14.560 They would literally tell me to hide stuff. I went 124 00:07:14.600 --> 00:07:19.240 to a Catholic school. I remember my parents consistently. 125 00:07:18.720 --> 00:07:20.040 Telling me this is good that way. 126 00:07:20.120 --> 00:07:23.399 No one knows what each other has, and it's more 127 00:07:23.519 --> 00:07:25.959 even that way, and there is something to that. I 128 00:07:26.079 --> 00:07:30.879 do understand that it can make people feel like it's 129 00:07:30.920 --> 00:07:35.600 a more even playing field. I even remember at one 130 00:07:36.079 --> 00:07:40.040 graduation ceremony when I say I won every single award 131 00:07:40.120 --> 00:07:44.600 I'm not kidding, math, Science, English, everything, And I remember 132 00:07:44.680 --> 00:07:48.199 turning around to my teacher and I go, this is embarrassing, 133 00:07:48.439 --> 00:07:49.240 this is embarrassing. 134 00:07:49.319 --> 00:07:50.279 I was so mad. 135 00:07:51.319 --> 00:07:54.240 I literally I remember telling them, how did you not 136 00:07:54.720 --> 00:07:57.000 convene among yourselves of who was winning? 137 00:07:57.160 --> 00:07:57.199 What? 138 00:07:57.519 --> 00:08:00.040 Why would you give me all of these things? We 139 00:08:00.120 --> 00:08:01.000 have to keep getting up. 140 00:08:01.079 --> 00:08:03.279 All these parents are staring at me. I feel like 141 00:08:03.439 --> 00:08:07.079 I stole awards from other kids. This is embarrassing. 142 00:08:07.399 --> 00:08:08.480 I don't want to go up again. 143 00:08:10.000 --> 00:08:13.519 And now looking back, I realize I felt that way 144 00:08:13.680 --> 00:08:18.160 because I was trained to hide my strengths, to hide 145 00:08:18.199 --> 00:08:21.000 my personality, to hide my brain, to hide what I 146 00:08:21.079 --> 00:08:24.279 can offer. What do you think happens to your psyche 147 00:08:24.959 --> 00:08:28.000 when you are consistently told to be humble, to shut 148 00:08:28.040 --> 00:08:32.120 down your light, and to shrink. You create a cap 149 00:08:32.639 --> 00:08:35.840 for how much joy, how much magic, how much abundance, 150 00:08:35.879 --> 00:08:37.600 how much love you are. 151 00:08:37.559 --> 00:08:39.080 Going to allow in your life. 152 00:08:39.600 --> 00:08:41.320 Well, I can't have that much abundance because I know 153 00:08:41.360 --> 00:08:43.039 other people are gonna see it and then I'm gonna 154 00:08:43.080 --> 00:08:44.120 be overshadowing them and. 155 00:08:44.120 --> 00:08:46.159 That's not okay. Well i can't have that much love 156 00:08:46.200 --> 00:08:48.279 because then I'm gonna make other people feel bad. Well, 157 00:08:48.279 --> 00:08:50.080 I have to be the good girl. I can't show off. 158 00:08:50.159 --> 00:08:52.840 No, no, no, no, I'm not going to take this opportunity, 159 00:08:52.960 --> 00:08:55.039 even though it's exactly what I want. 160 00:08:55.279 --> 00:08:56.279 I don't want to show off. 161 00:08:56.679 --> 00:08:59.639 We will shrink ourselves because we think we're being loyal 162 00:08:59.679 --> 00:09:02.159 to fail family and friends, when really we're just effing 163 00:09:02.200 --> 00:09:06.960 ourselves over in every single possible way. 164 00:09:08.159 --> 00:09:09.639 When you have this. 165 00:09:10.559 --> 00:09:14.240 Underlying program that is like elevator music in the back 166 00:09:14.279 --> 00:09:17.759 of your psyche for the rest of your life, you 167 00:09:17.960 --> 00:09:22.679 create an upper limit, and you block your blessings. How 168 00:09:22.759 --> 00:09:25.559 can you reach your potential when you're capping how much 169 00:09:25.600 --> 00:09:29.639 you're willing to allow yourself to enjoy. Being quiet and 170 00:09:30.000 --> 00:09:35.039 reserved and being demure holds us back from getting what 171 00:09:35.159 --> 00:09:40.039 it is we actually want and deserve. People pleasing is 172 00:09:40.080 --> 00:09:43.120 a great distraction. If I was the devil, I would 173 00:09:43.159 --> 00:09:45.840 convince everyone to people please, because then they would ignore 174 00:09:45.879 --> 00:09:49.679 their potential. They would completely be distracted all the time. 175 00:09:50.039 --> 00:09:53.159 They would always feel as if they were not doing enough, 176 00:09:53.519 --> 00:09:56.879 not pretty enough, not fulfilling other people's cups enough. 177 00:09:57.120 --> 00:09:58.919 They would feel like a chicken without a head. 178 00:09:59.159 --> 00:10:01.519 They would have k else in their body every single day, 179 00:10:01.720 --> 00:10:04.720 sympathetic nervous system activated. If I was a devil, that's 180 00:10:04.720 --> 00:10:06.840 exactly what I would tell people to do. That is 181 00:10:06.879 --> 00:10:09.360 the biggest sin of all is focusing so much on 182 00:10:09.440 --> 00:10:11.360 another that you forget about yourself. 183 00:10:12.120 --> 00:10:12.440 Hmmm. 184 00:10:13.240 --> 00:10:17.039 People pleasing distracts you from personal goals. It distracts you 185 00:10:17.200 --> 00:10:20.120 from finding what's meant for you. How can you align 186 00:10:20.200 --> 00:10:22.360 what's meant for you when you're focused on someone's vibration 187 00:10:22.480 --> 00:10:27.240 more than your own. What if we stop being demure 188 00:10:27.840 --> 00:10:31.600 so conscientious of what's everyone else doing and started focusing 189 00:10:31.720 --> 00:10:33.600 on putting ourselves on the pedestal. 190 00:10:35.440 --> 00:10:38.600 What would your life look like if you started to 191 00:10:38.679 --> 00:10:38.960 do that. 192 00:10:39.519 --> 00:10:44.440 Becoming consumed pleasing others is not the path that's going 193 00:10:44.519 --> 00:10:45.759 to garner success. 194 00:10:46.919 --> 00:10:49.679 The pedestal path is what garners success. 195 00:10:50.440 --> 00:10:53.519 That's actually one of my courses that will teach you 196 00:10:53.679 --> 00:10:56.399 how to put yourself back on the pedestal. If you 197 00:10:56.480 --> 00:10:59.879 want over four hours of video content and to work 198 00:11:00.320 --> 00:11:02.679 on that, you can join now. Link will be in 199 00:11:02.720 --> 00:11:06.240 the show notes. What I find so interesting is that 200 00:11:06.960 --> 00:11:13.440 there's this narrative to be demure, yet every super successful 201 00:11:13.600 --> 00:11:18.279 person I know is extreme. When I think about the 202 00:11:18.399 --> 00:11:23.840 multi multi millionaires that I know conversate. 203 00:11:23.279 --> 00:11:27.600 With, they are extreme people. You think they're demure, No, 204 00:11:27.679 --> 00:11:27.919 they're not. 205 00:11:28.399 --> 00:11:31.759 They're extreme in their work ethic, how they think, what 206 00:11:31.919 --> 00:11:35.480 they believe, their decision makings. They're quick, and they are 207 00:11:35.720 --> 00:11:39.159 sure and certain about it. And even when they were 208 00:11:39.320 --> 00:11:41.600 certain and it didn't go how they expected it to go, 209 00:11:42.039 --> 00:11:45.600 they then make another quick decision on what they're going 210 00:11:45.679 --> 00:11:48.240 to do next. They can see a situation for what 211 00:11:48.399 --> 00:11:51.159 it is and then expand it to a higher perception, 212 00:11:51.399 --> 00:11:55.639 transmute it. They are extreme though when you talk to them, 213 00:11:55.960 --> 00:11:57.840 they're not mellow. 214 00:11:58.200 --> 00:11:58.759 Hahahaha. 215 00:11:59.200 --> 00:12:01.879 No, they know what they know what they know because 216 00:12:01.919 --> 00:12:08.080 they know it, whether you're successful materially in the business 217 00:12:08.159 --> 00:12:09.720 world or spiritually. 218 00:12:10.200 --> 00:12:11.080 Because I know. 219 00:12:13.200 --> 00:12:17.759 Masters of the spiritual realm, master healers, connected to every 220 00:12:17.840 --> 00:12:20.480 ascended master kashak records. 221 00:12:20.120 --> 00:12:24.519 Other realms. Guess what. They're also very extreme. 222 00:12:26.080 --> 00:12:31.960 I think that there is some concept that spiritual people are. 223 00:12:32.000 --> 00:12:38.600 All mellow, just follow the path every extremely extremely tapped in, 224 00:12:38.720 --> 00:12:41.879 tuned in person. I know they are not like that. 225 00:12:42.200 --> 00:12:43.440 They are quite extreme. 226 00:12:43.679 --> 00:12:47.799 Extreme in their beliefs, extreme in how they convey their message. 227 00:12:49.080 --> 00:12:51.559 They will tell me, what do you want me to 228 00:12:51.639 --> 00:12:55.200 lie to you? They'll say the harshest thing and then say, 229 00:12:55.320 --> 00:12:58.600 well is what it is, and I'm like, damn okay, period, 230 00:12:59.120 --> 00:13:00.519 Like I guess. 231 00:13:00.360 --> 00:13:03.440 You're right, but that's the thing, it is what it is. 232 00:13:04.279 --> 00:13:08.639 They are extreme in having their meditation practice and connecting 233 00:13:08.720 --> 00:13:11.200 with the divine, in what they put into their body, 234 00:13:11.360 --> 00:13:14.440 in their system, and how they live their life, just 235 00:13:14.720 --> 00:13:18.759 as a business person is extreme in maybe different ways. 236 00:13:19.120 --> 00:13:19.720 Either way. 237 00:13:20.679 --> 00:13:24.879 When you want to be successful in something, hanging out 238 00:13:24.919 --> 00:13:27.720 and being mediocre in the middle, that's not going to 239 00:13:27.759 --> 00:13:28.200 get you there. 240 00:13:28.360 --> 00:13:31.759 You do have to be extreme in one way or another. 241 00:13:32.440 --> 00:13:33.240 Think about. 242 00:13:34.519 --> 00:13:37.639 Someone who's really successful that maybe is a celebrity. I 243 00:13:37.720 --> 00:13:41.639 always think Elon Musk, that man is extreme. I remember 244 00:13:41.720 --> 00:13:44.279 hearing a story about him where his employees were saying 245 00:13:44.320 --> 00:13:46.519 that there was some problem in one of the factories, 246 00:13:46.919 --> 00:13:48.799 and he was asking, well, how do we fix it? 247 00:13:49.000 --> 00:13:51.519 And they didn't know, So he turns around his jet 248 00:13:51.600 --> 00:13:53.200 and they go to the factory and they fix it 249 00:13:53.720 --> 00:13:58.000 within an hour or that day. People who are successful 250 00:13:58.240 --> 00:14:03.320 are successful not because they'rere, but because they are extreme. 251 00:14:04.679 --> 00:14:07.000 How do we start to step out of this? I 252 00:14:07.120 --> 00:14:09.080 have to shrink myself. I have to be demure. 253 00:14:10.279 --> 00:14:13.639 Let me tell you, that's why you're here. If you 254 00:14:13.720 --> 00:14:17.399 want to actually like yourself, get to know God. I 255 00:14:17.679 --> 00:14:20.600 was out and this man asked me, why are you 256 00:14:20.840 --> 00:14:24.320 so confident? And I told him I know that God 257 00:14:24.399 --> 00:14:27.360 put me onto this planet, and I'm here because God 258 00:14:27.440 --> 00:14:30.320 wanted me to walk through these doors. I do walk 259 00:14:30.399 --> 00:14:32.759 into every room like God sent me because I believe 260 00:14:32.840 --> 00:14:38.120 that he did. I have spent so much time with 261 00:14:38.320 --> 00:14:42.360 myself and with the Divine that I've gotten to know myself, 262 00:14:42.480 --> 00:14:44.960 and therefore I like myself. How do you get to 263 00:14:45.039 --> 00:14:46.960 know someone, you have to hang out with them. If 264 00:14:47.000 --> 00:14:51.279 you're distracted by people pleasing, trying to shrink yourself in 265 00:14:51.360 --> 00:14:54.799 a group that you're tolerated and not celebrated, hanging around 266 00:14:54.879 --> 00:14:58.080 in relationships that aren't serving you, no wonder. You don't 267 00:14:58.200 --> 00:15:00.360 like yourself, you don't even know who you are, and 268 00:15:00.440 --> 00:15:02.559 you hang around with people who make you feel terrible 269 00:15:02.799 --> 00:15:05.919 because they don't know who they are. It's a game 270 00:15:06.000 --> 00:15:11.399 of projection and it's miserable. God will do this funny 271 00:15:11.720 --> 00:15:14.320 thing that does not feel funny at all, but he 272 00:15:14.720 --> 00:15:21.000 separates us and creates these isolation seasons to allow us 273 00:15:21.159 --> 00:15:22.639 to build ourselves. 274 00:15:22.519 --> 00:15:24.960 Up, chosen ones. 275 00:15:25.600 --> 00:15:29.879 Always having a season of isolation, usually multiple. It's not one, 276 00:15:30.039 --> 00:15:32.960 it's many. And it's during these times that you can 277 00:15:33.120 --> 00:15:37.200 refine yourself, that you can learn who am I, What 278 00:15:37.360 --> 00:15:39.919 do I want? What brings me joy, what does not 279 00:15:40.039 --> 00:15:42.600 bring me joy? What do I want to invite more 280 00:15:42.639 --> 00:15:44.600 into my life? And what do I want to expel? 281 00:15:44.879 --> 00:15:50.000 Seasons of isolation are not always emotionally the easiest, but 282 00:15:50.159 --> 00:15:51.879 they are what is going. 283 00:15:51.799 --> 00:15:55.480 To build you to be the person that you want 284 00:15:55.600 --> 00:15:55.799 to be. 285 00:15:56.399 --> 00:15:58.799 If I didn't have seasons of isolation where I was 286 00:15:59.000 --> 00:16:01.399 reading and re searching and learning how to use my 287 00:16:01.519 --> 00:16:05.480 own energy, learning yoga, understanding what I wanted to. 288 00:16:05.519 --> 00:16:06.240 Do with my life. 289 00:16:06.559 --> 00:16:09.559 Then I couldn't get here if I allowed myself to 290 00:16:09.600 --> 00:16:12.559 be distracted by friends who were actually not nice to me, 291 00:16:13.519 --> 00:16:15.840 I wouldn't be here. If I allowed myself to stay 292 00:16:15.879 --> 00:16:18.480 in a relationship that wasn't serving me, I wouldn't be 293 00:16:18.639 --> 00:16:21.519 here Because those people in your life. 294 00:16:21.399 --> 00:16:22.480 They do distract you. 295 00:16:23.000 --> 00:16:26.120 You're so consumed with are they happy? Are they enjoying 296 00:16:26.159 --> 00:16:27.000 me in their life? 297 00:16:27.080 --> 00:16:29.320 How are they feeling? What are they doing that you 298 00:16:29.519 --> 00:16:33.600 do ignore your own process, progress and purpose. 299 00:16:34.360 --> 00:16:37.679 In the isolation season, it allowed me to be extreme. 300 00:16:38.159 --> 00:16:42.080 I had all of this time to just learn, to 301 00:16:42.240 --> 00:16:44.720 read all of the books, to listen to all the podcasts, 302 00:16:44.759 --> 00:16:47.240 to do all the meditations. I'll always be learning, always 303 00:16:47.279 --> 00:16:49.759 be growing. That's not to discount that, but it is 304 00:16:49.879 --> 00:16:53.720 to say that season afforded me time and space to 305 00:16:53.919 --> 00:16:57.480 be extreme, to get extreme results. When I walk into 306 00:16:57.559 --> 00:17:01.519 a room, I'm able to be confident because I know myself. 307 00:17:02.080 --> 00:17:04.240 I know what I believe about politics, I know what 308 00:17:04.319 --> 00:17:07.599 I believe about religion, I know what I believe about spirituality. 309 00:17:07.680 --> 00:17:12.039 The universe, energetic law, myself, others, projections, programs. 310 00:17:12.359 --> 00:17:15.200 I know exactly what I believe, I know what I think, 311 00:17:15.279 --> 00:17:16.279 and I have an opinion. 312 00:17:16.920 --> 00:17:19.960 I am a formed individual because I've taken the time 313 00:17:20.039 --> 00:17:23.880 to form and mold myself. I'm a formed individual because 314 00:17:23.880 --> 00:17:26.400 I don't rely on mere mortals to give me validation 315 00:17:26.599 --> 00:17:27.680 or hope or security. 316 00:17:28.160 --> 00:17:30.920 I plug into God, Divinity. 317 00:17:31.599 --> 00:17:36.559 That's my bank, that is my source, not human beings. 318 00:17:36.400 --> 00:17:37.160 On planet Earth. 319 00:17:37.640 --> 00:17:41.079 I've taken the time to shift my belief system, to 320 00:17:41.359 --> 00:17:44.839 shift where I am energetically. And I know that I've 321 00:17:44.920 --> 00:17:48.160 been through seasons of isolation. I know how depressed I've been. 322 00:17:48.279 --> 00:17:50.599 I know how anxious I've been, and I know I 323 00:17:50.680 --> 00:17:52.680 can get myself out of there, because if I got 324 00:17:52.759 --> 00:17:55.759 myself there, I also have the power to remove myself 325 00:17:55.799 --> 00:17:56.160 from there. 326 00:17:57.599 --> 00:17:59.400 These seasons build you. 327 00:17:59.640 --> 00:18:02.519 What's breaking you is allowing you to build a new 328 00:18:02.680 --> 00:18:05.519 version of you. The worst things come to place so 329 00:18:05.559 --> 00:18:07.559 you can build the highest version of yourself. 330 00:18:08.279 --> 00:18:12.400 These are how the energetic laws work for you. 331 00:18:14.160 --> 00:18:20.079 Being extreme not only allows for extremely successful results, but 332 00:18:20.480 --> 00:18:21.799 it allows. 333 00:18:21.359 --> 00:18:23.359 You to get to know you. 334 00:18:25.119 --> 00:18:29.799 Being extreme opens up that upper limit problem that we 335 00:18:29.839 --> 00:18:34.000 were talking about before you no longer cap yourself well, 336 00:18:34.960 --> 00:18:36.759 I don't want to trigger anyone. 337 00:18:37.319 --> 00:18:38.319 I hope I trigger you. 338 00:18:38.720 --> 00:18:38.960 Good. 339 00:18:39.440 --> 00:18:40.559 Good, Let the light in. 340 00:18:40.799 --> 00:18:43.640 Learn something about yourself, heal that wound. What are you 341 00:18:43.720 --> 00:18:47.200 doing walking around with a million energetic wounds on you? 342 00:18:47.559 --> 00:18:53.359 Heal them? Taking time to build yourself up, to be extreme, 343 00:18:53.559 --> 00:18:55.400 to not just dabble. 344 00:18:55.079 --> 00:18:57.880 In yoga or reading or writings, but to really go 345 00:18:58.119 --> 00:19:02.000 in research, learn, read textbook that allows you. 346 00:19:02.480 --> 00:19:03.920 To attract greatness. 347 00:19:05.279 --> 00:19:08.359 The more extreme you are, the more extreme results you're 348 00:19:08.400 --> 00:19:11.160 going to get. If you're not getting extreme results out there, 349 00:19:11.240 --> 00:19:14.079 you're not getting the abundance you want, the opportunities you want, 350 00:19:14.119 --> 00:19:17.799 the people you want. Law of correspondence as above, so below. 351 00:19:18.039 --> 00:19:21.680 Your external world is always going to be a reflection 352 00:19:21.839 --> 00:19:27.160 of your internal one. Dig your heels in, go harder, 353 00:19:27.279 --> 00:19:30.799 go deeper, learn more, get smarter, get wiser, get hotter, 354 00:19:30.880 --> 00:19:33.720 get wealthier, get healthier. Whatever it is you want, But 355 00:19:33.920 --> 00:19:37.400 go into it and don't have this feeling of oh 356 00:19:37.480 --> 00:19:38.079 I might fail. 357 00:19:38.119 --> 00:19:39.480 Who cares? Do it again? 358 00:19:39.759 --> 00:19:41.480 And try again, and try again and try again. I 359 00:19:41.519 --> 00:19:43.920 don't even believe in failure. It's not even real. Who 360 00:19:44.000 --> 00:19:44.799 cares what it looks like? 361 00:19:45.160 --> 00:19:45.559 Just do it? 362 00:19:47.519 --> 00:19:49.359 There is something that we need to talk about. 363 00:19:50.720 --> 00:19:55.640 When you're extreme, as I said, you're going to attract extreme. 364 00:19:56.880 --> 00:19:59.240 We can't forget about the law polarity though. 365 00:20:00.279 --> 00:20:06.000 So as much of love that you're going to attract, 366 00:20:07.759 --> 00:20:14.519 as much fans as you're going to attract lovers, you're. 367 00:20:14.400 --> 00:20:17.039 Also going to attract the stalkers and the haters of 368 00:20:17.119 --> 00:20:17.519 the world. 369 00:20:18.160 --> 00:20:22.720 The brighter your light, the brighter individuals you will attract, 370 00:20:22.759 --> 00:20:27.319 but also the darker, shadowy people you're going to attract too. 371 00:20:27.799 --> 00:20:32.279 Because all the laws are not only playing around with 372 00:20:32.400 --> 00:20:36.559 your energy, they have an interplay with one another. The 373 00:20:36.720 --> 00:20:40.319 law of vibration states that you're going to attract like 374 00:20:40.519 --> 00:20:44.920 vibrational people, things, opportunities because like vibrational energies go towards 375 00:20:44.960 --> 00:20:45.359 one another. 376 00:20:45.839 --> 00:20:48.319 But you can't forget to also integrate. 377 00:20:47.960 --> 00:20:51.440 The law polarity, which is that, yes, you will attract 378 00:20:51.519 --> 00:20:54.440 like vibration, and you're also going to attract the exact opposite. 379 00:20:56.240 --> 00:21:01.839 The lighter you become, you will attract lighter people, places, opportunities, 380 00:21:01.920 --> 00:21:06.079 you're also going to attract lower Now what do you 381 00:21:06.200 --> 00:21:09.279 do when that happens? You set boundaries, You say no, 382 00:21:09.680 --> 00:21:12.119 you walk away. When I was out and about this weekend. 383 00:21:13.039 --> 00:21:18.200 This individual would not stop poking me about Jesus, religion, 384 00:21:18.599 --> 00:21:21.440 all of that stuff, and I blatantly said exactly what 385 00:21:21.519 --> 00:21:24.440 I believed. I'm not here to convince anyone. I wasn't 386 00:21:24.480 --> 00:21:27.640 trying to convince him. I was just responding exactly how 387 00:21:27.720 --> 00:21:30.839 I would respond. I saw the situation for what it was. 388 00:21:31.079 --> 00:21:33.799 I know that this is someone who is just in 389 00:21:33.839 --> 00:21:36.839 a dark, shadowy place, who's starving for my light. And 390 00:21:36.960 --> 00:21:40.839 really Jesus is light and the divines love, and they 391 00:21:40.960 --> 00:21:44.160 saw me as a channel for that. I know that 392 00:21:45.240 --> 00:21:49.400 another person who is let's just call them normal or demure, 393 00:21:49.759 --> 00:21:52.119 is not going to attract that conversation or that person. 394 00:21:52.680 --> 00:21:53.240 I do though. 395 00:21:53.480 --> 00:21:56.200 I was in an airport a couple of weeks ago, 396 00:21:56.880 --> 00:21:59.559 and of course I lock eyes with a man who 397 00:22:00.240 --> 00:22:03.759 I could tell he was obviously upset about something, and 398 00:22:03.920 --> 00:22:04.839 my mouthed. 399 00:22:04.599 --> 00:22:08.119 To him, are you okay? And he starts hysterically crying. 400 00:22:08.160 --> 00:22:09.000 So I walk over. 401 00:22:09.400 --> 00:22:11.519