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Speaker 1: It's Billified, the Bill Moran Podcast. Hello and welcome.
Speaker 2: Thanks for getting your pun on. Thank you for telling
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Speaker 3: Well that's not Italian so but yeah, she's not. No,
not at all. This is like English and Welsh and
JOm or some stuff. Okay, yeah, that's the English one,
not an Italian menicon.
Speaker 1: Well how does she do with the Yeah, there you go, excellent. Uh.
Speaker 2: The reason there's lasagna, I I know, I gotta think
this past week deeply personal and profound for you. For Beth, Uh,
you stood a role that most of us never imagine
being in. I would think until we're in it, right,
you really almost can't imagine it till you're in there.
And for lack of a better term, and I hope
I'm not saying something incorrectly, but you were more or
less the MC for.
Speaker 3: Your father's father and law service memorial service yesterday.
Speaker 1: Is that fair to say that that way dandy or
is that wrong? Well?
Speaker 3: It was and it wasn't because like the pastor that
they brought in who to eulogize him, we all really
eulogized him. But I was kind of the MC but
that he kind of took over at the halfway point,
you know, so I kind of like kicked it off
and led it. And uh, I got like emotional like
right off the hop and people like, oh really really,
Oh but I pulled it together. Yeah, But yeah, I.
Speaker 2: Mean, or what's something let me get a little personal,
if you know, mind, since you say it, since you're
being so open, what is something that you said or
maybe didn't say that keeps echoing in your mind today?
Speaker 3: Well, I want to make sure that God gets glorified
first for anything. And as I'm praying, you know, I
got caught up in, you know, my past and my
mistakes that I've made at the same time that I'm
forgiven for idiot. So no, it's just it's just I
was just praying, praying for gratitude, you know, and so
that's and then after that I got through that, I
started making a couple of jokes and we did all right,
So it kind of went through through there and I,
you know, I eulogize my father in laws, did my
wife and her brother and uh his grandson, and then
afterwards the pastor came up and did the same thing.
So it went well. But I got more emotional than
I did for my father. My father, we knew he was.
We had three years to get ready. I I mean,
I I played this whole thing. I got to keep
it cool for everybody else. Sometimes that day with my sister,
it was a little bit more more emotional because she's
a peer. Ye like you expect to bury your parents. Unfortunately,
it's just how life goes. If life goes the way
it's supposed to, you will bury your parents. Your parents
won't bury you, and you won't bury a sibling. But
things happen, you know. And but this it was it
was weird because it got more personal with me for
some reason, you know. And it was a packed church.
And it's when I get my buddy Joe called, like
right before, hey, I'm about to go do a wake
or I'm sorry, I'm about to do a memorial service.
I thought that was weeks ago. I go, well, it
was all right, all right, give Beth my love again.
Speaker 2: I go, yeah, sure, was there a moment where you
kind of realize something about your father in law or
yourself that hadn't clicked before. Sometimes in these moments, things clicked.
Speaker 3: He was one of those people who just gave of
himself all the time, to the point where he didn't
even take care of himself. And we didn't mention this part.
It was kind of there, like the part of the
he ended up having a stroke, like fifteen years ago.
Part of the reason he had the stroke was because
he never took care of himself because he was too
busy taking care of everybody else, Like he took so
much joy and helping everybody else do everything else. And
so I think that when he had his stroke, like
his life was really taken away from him. I mean
there was. He was part of a stroke victims support
group and a lot of those people were there and
they were like fully recovered, and he never got to
experience that full recovery. I mean, there was a story
about him, like about a few weeks after his stroke,
he tried getting back on his motorcycle and going for
a ride. Right, and his uncle found him, you know,
on the side of the road kind of like lost,
I guess, and brought him home and like they'd check
him out, and he was dehydrated to kind of you
know that point. I think he realized that I can't.
I can't do this stuff anymore. And that's the hard part.
And that's why I, like you ever really kids me
about the supplements and stuff. I tried to take as
good as care of myself as possible because I don't
want to end up in that situation, nor does anybody.
But we don't know what causes half these things. It
could just come out of the blue for no reason.
Like a couple of years ago, I started having complex migraines.
I went to the hospital thinking I was having a stroke.
Half my body went numb. No, no, it's a called a
migraine with aura or what it is. Like, Oh, okay,
so I'm not like stroking out here like no.
Speaker 2: I don't mean the laugh, but I get it. And
I've been so stressed myself. I'm sitting here now, I
can feel it like in my shoulders and things, and
I know it's not good for me. Oh yeah, yeah,
it's not good. And it worries me a little bit,
but you know.
Speaker 3: Well, okay, so this morning, you know, we're a fitbit.
We've talked about it and discovered a fib a couple
of years ago, and fitbit could play games on you, right, Like,
I've been doing my like exercises, like hardcourt, like high
intensity interval training exercises five six days a week, and
I don't know if the fit bit adjust for that
and says, okay, you've been under training and need to
train more, which is ridiculous because I'm I'm burning it
out right, But the last few days. Today was the
first day it said, hey, you mayn't need to take
it easy for a while. And I have an exercise
in three days. And I think the stress of the
memorial service and the fact that, you know, my grandmother's situation.
I think it all just came, you know, came to
into effect last last night. And yes, and I think
the watch is telling me, all right, today I wants
you to take a day off. I'm like, well, I
have an exercise in two days. So maybe I really
was really like stressed yesterday if my body needed to recover,
because I didn't. Apparently I didn't sleep well. I mean
I didn't wake up or nothing, but I didn't sleep
incredibly well either. Wow.
Speaker 1: Do we do it wrong with these things? Should we
be doing living tributes?
Speaker 2: You know how like at the Oscars they give a
Lifetime Achievement award, get like that.
Speaker 3: Throw the flowers to the living. Yes, we do it wrong. Yeah,
I'm at my funeral done before I die. Yeah, like
you ever seen like Welcome to America too or Coming to
America too? Should they are going to die? And so
he's in the casket watching his funeral and then James
earld Joes Okay, then he dies? Yeah, we do it wrong?
You're right?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just you know, like I think it would
be awkward and uncomfortable, and if it's someone who's dying,
you know, But I guess I guess you could call
it like somebody's birthday party in their later years, Yes,
eighty something birthday party and celebrate because.
Speaker 1: I guess it would be like we say.
Speaker 2: Things after they're gone, things we probably should say now.
And I don't know what would be something small and
meaningful that would kind of prove that or or what
would that be that that you could express love now,
like to somebody.
Speaker 3: I think, you know, maybe at a fiftieth birthday party,
or maybe at a seventy fifth birthday party, or maybe
at an anniversary, or maybe at one of those milestone moments,
so that it doesn't come off as this is a
funeral for a living person. But we we take those moments.
Speaker 2: That's the thing is, Like, I think it would be
creepy to do a living memorial to somebody.
Speaker 3: You want to honor Bill before he goes the thing,
but when he will no longer be laughing with the phone,
you could be You could do that at like at
a roast, yes, right, and yeah, say almost that at
a roast.
Speaker 1: Well, we know people.
Speaker 3: Who threw themselves roast because they wanted to feel appreciated. Remember, yeah,
a comic kind of looks like Peter Griffin in town.
Uh okay, that's a joke about Dominos. Guys. Uh used
to come on our show once in a while. Yeah yeah, yeah,
and he threw himself a roast. I didn't know that.
Oh yeah you did. We made funny, Yeah we did.
Yeah yeah, oh okay, Because why did he throw himself
a roast? Because he wanted to feel roasted? He wanted
to feel appreciated. He wanted to feel loved. Yeah, so
he threw himself. Well, see the roast, that's just did.
Speaker 2: Like I always think that we pick on the ones
we love, and I go, there's a great living memorial,
a roast of someone, or like a big birthday party
where you're celebrating the person, and we often save the
best things to say after. My grandfather used to say, yah,
at once he dies, everybody's a saint. He was a
pain here what he was a saint?
Speaker 3: A holes don't die, right, that's the expression.
Speaker 2: And so you think that they're gone on. What's something
you could say now to someone that you love. Got
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Do you ever do anything like really bad while drunk?
Did you really?
Speaker 3: Wait? You did? Just? In general?
Speaker 2: I mean just I just become kind of dumb and yeah,
I get too close to people's persons, are hugging people,
They're saying.
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Speaker 2: The problem now, I think with some people is as
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Speaker 3: The horses when you're drunken on medication.
Speaker 1: I was just going on, Okay, how did you know?
Speaker 3: Yeah, because like a year that was the no.
Speaker 1: No, you're working so hard to not be on medication.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I remember, like it was back when we were
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cannot drink alcohol on this, no problem. I don't really
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the usage is anxiety is an off label usage, so
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Yeah exactly. So now, yeah, yeah, it was it was
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Speaker 1: Bill.
Speaker 3: So now about these two medications and drinking alcoholic? Dude,
you don't remember this last night? No, I don't remember
at all.
Speaker 2: Well, there's a guy named James Rondeau. James rondo is
the director of the Art Institute of Chicago. Okay, makes
about a million dollars a year as the art director.
He was detained in Germany last month for being nude. Well,
he drunkenly stripped naked during a United Airlines flight from
Chicago to.
Speaker 3: Munich Okay, Well that'll do it.
Speaker 1: He allegedly caught.
Speaker 2: This was caused by a mix of alcohol and prescription meds,
that's what they're saying. He voluntarily took a leave of
absence while the museum launched an independent investigation.
Speaker 3: What are you going to find? Like?
Speaker 2: Honestly, despite the embarrassment, the investigation concluded with a green
light for Rondo to return his director. He'll resume his post,
continuing a twenty seven year career at the museum, where
he earns over a million bucks annually.
Speaker 3: Can you imagine the statement they've read, Well, we have
conducted a turtle turtle they get they get the paper, right,
they get this that the pr lady gets the sheet
and they're reading off the sheet, which is always like
a dead giveaway that they that you know, a lawyer
crafted this dead giveaway. Yeahad giveaway. Uh, we have this
company has conducted an internal investigation and we have found
that while some disciplinary measures have been taken, wholesale changes
do not need to be made, and our friend, the
director of the museum, will return to work as scheduled. Danny,
upon completing his therapy, he.
Speaker 1: Was just simply creating new art.
Speaker 2: Flight of the nude, right, reclining man with.
Speaker 3: Cocktail, being fitted for wings.
Speaker 2: Yes, being fitted for wings, A turbulent soul, yes, right,
all these things that could have been it, that have
been perfect. But it's like, where do you draw the
line between personal mistakes and professional consequences? And I understand
that you don't like So the world of social media,
many companies now say don't post that or what you
post could get you fired.
Speaker 3: It could. It depends on whom or what is in power? Oh,
what do you mean? In other words, what is the
sentiment of the offended? Oh? In other words, if enough
people are offended and your boss is weak, you'll probably
get fired. Or if your boss is so powerful, screwed.
I don't care what people think. If be strong enough
to do that, then you know you might have to
have some internal consequences, but nothing really major. Okay, it
all depends, like okay, when I'll use both sides. Presidents
Clinton and Trump have both had their issues with women,
public issues, but their sides have always said, so what,
he does a hell of a job. I don't care
who he screws, right, But if we don't like the guy,
or if the economy's going in the crap, or like
imagine if George W. Bush had an affair, Oh god, dude,
he would be right, right because the media lean's left.
Speaker 2: Well, look, even prior to that, I mean, you had
a guy who I think would have been President of
the United States.
Speaker 3: I think Gary Gerryhart would have won. He probably would
have become President of the United.
Speaker 2: Stately believed that, and it may have been a solid president.
I have no idea, we'll never know, but an affair
brought that down. Then there was another guy who had
an affair, and I think people would have looked the
other way, except his wife was undergoing treatment for breast
cancer while he had these John Edwards, John Edwards.
Speaker 3: And man because ladies loved John Edwards.
Speaker 1: Ladies loved John. He was a good looking dude.
Speaker 3: But he was a VP candidate under Jack. Carry this guy,
this guy, because where they're rumoring Dick, they're rumoring Dick
f Hart, Dick Gefhart to be the VP. Like, yeah,
that's kind of a tired choice. And then they bringing
this young, good looking mid forties with a tan, Southern charm.
This is the next Bill Clinton. Yeah, he was a lawyer,
he was smooth, and his wife has cancer.
Speaker 1: All that family so relatable.
Speaker 3: True. And then all of a sudden he's playing games
a real hunter. Yeah, now we know who real hunter is? Yeah,
real hunter. Yes. And then she goes out and tell
her story from this People magazine. Yeah, and she's like, all,
I don't want to use this term like derogatorily.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well you already are just kind of sluted out.
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, Like I didn't know they were gonna
do that. Oh when you put the dresses on started
like doing these like weird poses. You didn't fake the
people magazine was gonna like try to quote Slutch you
up a little bit to this article. I'm a victim.
Speaker 2: Well see, okay, people moral choices that people make, and
there are and sometimes you have to you wind up.
Sometimes you wind up in a situation something went too far,
and maybe it's alcohol induced or even with prescription meds
and alcohol. But you get to a point where it's like, oh,
this could really damage. It's not what I want right, right,
I really like, I'm sure I would love to be
with that person, but no one, I'm not available, They're
not available. It's not what I want, right And you
got to kind of step back, and it is. But
I sometimes wonder liked, well, I wonder think yeah, and
I wonder sometimes too how much are should the bedroom
play into people's perception? Now there are people that will
tell you that it gives you a side legend. Well yeah,
but I mean it gives you kind of a look
into the moral consciousness of that person, right, you know,
what what are they willing to put up with not
put it by or who are they? Secretive? Dirty, shady
kind of thing. It's very hard when you've got a
lot of power and people are sort of throwing themselves
at you. You've got to be a very disciplined individual.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's why the Bibles just got to kill
your flesh. You have to kill it, kill it so
because because like, let's put it this way, I mean,
I'll make everything biblic But King David, King Solomon, and Samson,
who was a judge, most one of the strongest men,
all were brought down because of one thing.
Speaker 1: Sorry I had to put it bluntly, but yes, yes.
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Speaker 1: It's a fairy tale off season for a Buffalo guy.
Speaker 2: Well we say Buffalo, I would say Buffalo right, fair
saying can we call him that?
Speaker 3: So I thought, yes, an MVP, he is our adopted son. Yes. Yes.
By the way, Tim Graham brought up a great point
in The Athletic I think he put it on Twitter.
Tim Grahm's the athletic writer. We've had him. I think
we tried to have him on the show. We've had him,
We've had him out. Okay, So Tim Graham is probably
the best investigative sports reporter in Western New York media,
maybe in America. He's really really talented, very good. He
pulls no punches. This guy's picked fights, not intentionally picked fights,
but he's drawn fights. I guess with everybody, and he's
been right every single time. And he put up a
point and it made me think of what you had
to say last week about that's my wedding week, honey.
But I gotta go to work, Yes, you said.
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, it's the most stressful time.
Speaker 3: I know what I got work to do, honey. You
take care of the weather, You.
Speaker 1: Do what you want to do with your friend's babe.
I'll pay the whatever you want.
Speaker 3: You want to go to the spot take everybody. I
sign the big contract. Baby. That's it, girl, I gotta
go to work. If you want this money to keep
rolling out of it. I got to be an NFL quarterback,
you got it. So he wrote how three years ago
he blew off the first OTAs and nobody cared. He
went to go play golf with Aaron Rodgers and Tom
Brady and Patrick Mahomes. He had a rookie offensive coordinator
that year, and I'm like, oh my gosh, I didn't
even think of that. He's you know, and so he's
more mature now. But I immediately went to your line of thinking, oh,
it's my wedding week. I gotta avoid my wife at
all costs.
Speaker 1: That could that could be. I mean, yeah, it's not
even avoid your wife.
Speaker 3: Right. It sounds hard like growing up.
Speaker 1: I think it's to me.
Speaker 2: And that's so funny that you say that he went
and played golf. He was but that was the match
or something, right, Yeah, something like that. It was the match.
Speaker 3: It was on TV.
Speaker 2: It was a big deals it actually, I think in
terms of pr I think every coach would go, oh, you,
you got to go do that, right.
Speaker 3: It helps the lead doesn't have to worry about practice.
We're talking about practice.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't know.
Speaker 2: Look, he's fresh off signing a three hundred and thirty
million dollar contracts. He's an Oscar nominee at one point.
Speaker 3: And she's a singer too, right, and a singer.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and he does credit Haley for not only supporting
him off the field, but playing a key role in
his MVP season.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have to evaporated milk.
Speaker 2: I saw the article. I saw the pictures. It looks
like everything's so intrusive. They was in California. I think
it was very private and you didn't see any pictures
from the ground. It was all like aerial shots. Oh sure,
you know what drones Star Wars movie up in the sky.
But I love reading the comments to the articles. And
I'll just share two comments, maybe three with you. A
comment from Margie McZee. That's her name on the commenting thing, Margie.
Speaker 3: How old do you think she is? Her name is Margie.
Speaker 2: Her name is Margie. My mother's name is Margie, and
his friend of mine's mom. So I'm gonna say seventy something.
Speaker 3: Oka, I'm gonna say fifty five is the floor?
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I have no idea, but I don't know
how to find that out.
Speaker 3: But here's what. Let's say. Let's judge.
Speaker 2: So good to see normal heterosexual people get married, and
we're right.
Speaker 1: I hope they have I hope they have many children.
Speaker 2: So good to see normal heosexual people get married.
Speaker 1: I go, boy, this is gonna be a bad month
for Margie mcce right, isn't it?
Speaker 3: You know? Oh yeah, right, isn't funny. I'll pride about
this logger than black history mom.
Speaker 2: No, but still I just and then somebody else says
she'll bang a co star.
Speaker 3: In the future.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, and so there you go.
Speaker 3: Those are the kind you watch you, watch you will
she'll leave him. But you know, let me ask you.
I'm not saying that I'm making fun of somebody who'ld
say that you're married.
Speaker 2: Relationships really boost your career success, and I think, yeah, yeah,
of course.
Speaker 1: I think when you feel very settled in parts.
Speaker 2: Of your life, yeah, and things are going well or whatever,
or that end is there and you've got that person,
you know, you can rely on it, you can kind
of focus.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you have somebody to balance you. People live longer
when they're with somebody than without somebody, you know, like
we start knowing, like I know that, like you you
were married, you know, maybe someday again you may be
who knows. But I mean, like I think we know
some people who as they get older and more single,
they start to get a little weird. Yeah, you know,
you start to get a little out there. They don't
have somebody there to check them right, right, Like when
I between marriages for me or relationship, I was kind
of out there too, Yeah, you know, but I have
my wife now who keeps me balanced. You Oh, like okay, no, honey, no, no,
It's like when we're walking through the streets of Austin.
I was like, I was like the untrained dog. No, no,
don't cross now, No, no, traffic's coming traffic. No, okay,
now cross see now we cross. Uh.
Speaker 2: But it is interesting, right, you do you feel like
you're a little more settled, and if it's somebody who
does support your career, you can talk about your career,
you can bounce things off of. I mean, the saying
of behind every great man, there's a great woman seems
sort of diminishing to women who could probably do the
man's job. But when you look even.
Speaker 1: Back through history, there were strong women in some of
our historical leaders.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Andrew Wilson's wife basically was president. Yeah when
he was here. And I'm not saying he was a
good president of bad president, but I don't know. He
was running the free world while World War One was
going on. I think it was kind of a part,
right it was, Yeah, it was so Josh, That's just
one example.
Speaker 1: Ota is still going on right now.
Speaker 3: They are. Yeah, they think there's like several weeks of them. Yeah,
so and then they wrap up. I think then there's
then there's mandatory mini camp and then they go away for
like a few weeks or about a month and then
they come back to training camp and then it is
all business.
Speaker 2: Well, so I see reports on OTAs and I don't
think you can take seven on seven with no sacking
the quarterback or anything. It's kind of I mean, it's
like glorified flag football.
Speaker 3: It is. That's exactly what right I mean. But these
guys compete though, No they're going hard, but yeah, you're right.
They don't want you it getting hurt. No, of course not.
Speaker 2: And and as I'm thinking about that, I go, I'm
reading about Shador Sanders and he had a great seven
on seven. I may be the only one person in
America right now that actually has a feel bad for
Shador Sanders. I feel like Shador Sanders because of his
dad and because and and maybe himself as well. But
having that opulent expression of life, right, and it's opulent,
and the millions of dollars in nil deals and things,
and you know, I I the ideal nil deals, name, image,
likeness or seemed to be so much out of control
that I think Cooper Flagg, who's going to come out
and possibly be the number one.
Speaker 3: Overall pop the umber one overall pick to the.
Speaker 2: Mavericks is probably going to sign a deal that will
make him significantly less than he made last year with
nil deals. Now not to say that you know he
won't continue on to make more, but I mean.
Speaker 3: THEBA has got a rookie cap, so does all sports team.
Speaker 2: So it's funny. But I'm watching the Chador Sanders thing
and I go, boy, how hard is this? It's almost
like you were climbing up the side of a cliff
and you got close and somebody kicked some rocks in
your face and you just slid down, holding onto your
rope and now you've got to climb back. He he
may be the fourth string guy. The mentality it takes
to go from fourth string to the starting job is,
you know, unbelievable. And while he looks good, he's not
going against the first I don't think he's gotten any
snaps with the first team for Cleveland. Okay, yeah, his starters.
I don't think he's gotten any.
Speaker 3: So I don't believe he would. I mean, I think
he the pick was forced by the owner because if
you remember when he was drafted or he was kind
of like they show all the draft rooms and these
guys got their cues. It's a television show all right,
show excitement three two, and they're all like, well, I
mean because like the general manager of the head coach
did not want to make this pick. They already took
a quarterback two rounds early, who was one of I
think the second most prolific quarterback in college football history.
And now folks were those like Tim Tebow was considered
the greatest college football player ever. College is different, like,
don't go you can't go by stats, you can't go
by any of that stuff. It's about winning national championships
and stats don't mean. It doesn't mean you're going to
translate to the NFL. I think that I will say this,
Shador has probably the easiest pathway to a starting job
in the NFL because Joe Flacco, the starter, has been
around since O six, but he's ancient at this point,
and they're gonna want to he eventually he's gonna.
Speaker 1: Have to turn it over Kenny Pickett.
Speaker 3: Kenny Pickett who is pretty much flamed out at Pittsburgh.
Speaker 1: And I remember the big thing on Kenny Pickett was
his hands or.
Speaker 3: Too sands or too small. But I don't think that
he just he's just not an NFL quarterback, and then
you've got uh Dylan Gabriel who was drafted. Yeah, I
think there's another quarterback in the mix too, But there's
like five quarterbacks on the roster. Oh well, the other
one would be uh Deshaun Watson who they expected deshawe
we forgot about sehan Wat.
Speaker 2: Shawn Watson is done. He's done, but he just I
think is just got engaged. And she has a two
million dollar rock in her hand. Oh good, how do
you walk?
Speaker 3: We got tow hundred thirty two million dollars guaranteed. Fuck,
you know for all those handy dandies. He's got to
pay out a lot of people. But I think, like
so North Sanders came out and said, I think ninetynine
percent of the problem was my dad. In some ways,
he's right, but it also doesn't help when you walk
into the giants really like this kid and he took
completely like pissed them off in the meetings.
Speaker 1: Can you can he escape the shadow of prime?
Speaker 3: Yeah? You can escape it. Play well? Yeah, yeah, that's
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Speaker 1: Would you do if you? Weren't AFRAID and i don't,
mean like, you know jumping out.
Speaker 2: An airplane i'm not talking about things that would would risk,
your life but things that would literally take you out
of your. Comfort zone you could fall on, your face
you could.
Speaker 3: Do whatever what? Is IT and i have been.
Speaker 1: Spending the past couple of days.
Speaker 3: Doing some.
Speaker 2: Real nutty it sounds nut even like deep reflection to
go what is it inside of Me that i'm starting to?
Think this i'm starting to think that life is a
mirror and, everything you everything that you're, dealing with is
some part. Of you if someone's pushing buttons inside, of
you if they're always a, certain way what is?
Speaker 3: It in what is?
Speaker 2: That representing what is that reflecting back? In yourself they
need to fix, YOU know.
Speaker 3: I mean and. It's weird and we teach people how to, treat,
us huh we teach people how to Treat SURE and, i,
go man what? Is? Fear really it's a.
Speaker 2: BIOLOGICAL thing, i mean people will tell you like it's
a great we need to pay attention.
Speaker 3: To fear, but, procrastination.
Speaker 2: OVERTHINKING perfectionism i know you've dealt, with it you KNOW what?
Speaker 3: I MEAN and, i go it's like. The chihuahua, come
on we. Gotta go, come, on no you can't. Do that, Come,
on no you can't. Do, this no, stay away, stay
away don't do don't.
Speaker 2: Do THAT and. I, go man you think, about people
what fear has done. For people it's, missed opportunities, it's relationships,
it's promotions it's, life changes it's all.
Speaker 3: This stuff it's on. Your, head yeah it's all on.
Your head it could be your greatest ally or your,
biggest enemy, pick, One.
Speaker 2: RIGHT and i Think Like jack canfield is a, motivational
SPEAKER and i think it's the guy behind the Job.
Speaker 1: Chicken soup for the soul chicken those the yeah about.
Speaker 2: Thirty years everything you want is on the other side.
Of fear everything you want is on the other side.
Of fear and, you get but you regret. Not, trying
yeah you KNOW what. I mean and it usually the
pain of failing back of all the things.
Speaker 1: That you wish.
Speaker 3: You'd, DONE man i could have, Done, there well stop.
DO it i go through it. EVERY day i know
exactly what do? You mean you go through it? Every day,
Oh GOSH like. I don't i don't want To, GET
like i don't know who might, Hear this but there's
some Things that i'm working on right Now that i'm
afraid to pull the trigger, on necessarily but eventually the
pain to not change has to be greater than the
pain to stay, the same.
Speaker 2: Only unwillingness to, Not, right yeah to, stay there. Right,
Exactly oh i'm curious as to what these.
Speaker 3: THINGS are i don't want to. Say now i'll tell you.
After way there's, nothing major something we. All do it's
just like at some point you got to, Feel, like
OKAY if I if i DONE all i, can here
is it time to? Move? On, yeah right? RIGHT right
i got a great wife. At home does she? Deserve
Better and i'm not talking about me like more if that?
Makes sense you know you deserve better? Than, ME yeah
i want you to date My friend Bill. And, stiff
no that's NOT what. I, Mean yeah because it's.
Speaker 2: Usually the regret outweighs. The PAIN and i have a
lot of THINGS that i FEEL like i have held
back from Doing because i'm afraid. And are one of
them is like just different aspects, Of THINGS and i
still can't get. Over THAT and i started to go
BACK and i remember why there's REASONS why i don't,
Do it like there's things that have been said to me,
many many many years AGO when i was, a KID
that i have held on too and made a belief
and it's probably, not, true right it's, Probably bullshit and
you just got, to go. That's BULLSHIT and i could
do that so well with so many things, like this,
EXCEPT this i, get IT and i don't KNOW why i.
Get it And now i'm faced with, this THING and,
i go this could be like life changing if you
did it and, it works it could be, life changing
it could. Be amazing but if you don't, do it you.
Speaker 3: Never know you'll never. Find out and that's been ten years.
From now you'll be in the same boat that you are.
Right now you like being in.
Speaker 2: That, boat no that's. The THING and I and i
it's FUNNY because i see guys who just. Do things
they just, do it and IT'S a i find that
to be an. Amazing TRAIT and i, Don't know like when,
you're younger it's almost like you don't understand what the consequences.
Could be so you're just that being naive is a
gift and you just go and do whatever.
Speaker 3: It is and then you get older and, you, GO
oh i can't.
Speaker 1: Do that this one, will happen and this, will HAPPEN
and i watch other Guys and, i'm like.
Speaker 3: Oh fuck they're just they're just out there.
Speaker 1: Doing it they don't they don't care if it, doesn't
work it, doesn't work and they move.
Speaker 3: On whatever it's hard it is because why what the
fuck did we do as? Human?
Speaker 1: BEINGS danny i, don't KNOW because i really truly believe
there's no meaning to anything other than the meaning you apply.
Speaker 3: To it you gotta start applying pain. To fear that's.
That's interesting use pain to. Your, Advantage, YEAH like i don't,
want to like you don't want to be. THERE again
i don't want to go back LIKE like i remember
what it was like to be broke. IN radio i
don't want to go back to. That. Again never THAT'S
why i work. SO hard i work, three JOBS plus
i do this Podcast.
Speaker 1: With Billy, all right we will close.
Speaker 3: It out it's a pretty deep episode.
Speaker 1: Of, THAT well i mean it gets a.
Speaker 2: Little, deep, nudity dude well, nudity, quarterbacks quarterback that kind.
Speaker 3: Of Thing, all right what do we? Learned? Today, oh
yeah we learned. A lot we learned. A lot uh,
with fear push. Through, it yeah find. A way what
you want is on the. Other side. REWARD you i
need to, Say that reward yourself for overcoming fear and you'll. Like,
it yeah well not, With alcohol, yeah okay cool with
the ice cream and the Ice For.
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