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Speaker 1: I know how this is going to sound when I
Speaker 1: say it, but I saw a post on the local
Speaker 1: reddit about somebody looking for a cuddler. A cuddler, somebody
Speaker 1: to cuddle with. Correct. Okay, I had heard of this before,
Speaker 1: didn't know that it was a legitimate thing. I knew
Speaker 1: people love like like that. But there's apparently a service
Speaker 1: you can pay for and that people pay and you cuddle.
Speaker 1: When you look at the site, they have pictures of
Speaker 1: the latest cuddling buddies. Guess what they all look great?
Speaker 3: What is this?
Speaker 6: Said?
Speaker 1: Cuddlemeat dot com. It's cuddlecomfort dot com. Now maybe there's others.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I didn't sign up because I don't
Speaker 1: want this in my search history. I don't mind. And
Speaker 1: it says that you sign up, you find a near
Speaker 1: cuddle buddy, you message them, you don't have to explain
Speaker 1: what you need, and then you meet up to cuddle,
Speaker 1: to which I say, no, exactly, that's this is a
Speaker 1: sex meetup. Yeah.
Speaker 7: Yeah, we all know what cuddling leads do, like a
Speaker 7: back rub. We all know the end result kids.
Speaker 1: So to me, I don't understand, Like, if you went
Speaker 1: to this and we're surprised, I think you would go, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: of course sex is gonna happen. Or I went diving
Speaker 1: into it to see what people's interpretation or experiences were
Speaker 1: with it, and they said a lot of them were
Speaker 1: like I really went to find a cuddling buddy and
Speaker 1: didn't find one. Now, I'm a believer that people have
Speaker 1: touched deprivation, right like you crave to be touched and
Speaker 1: cuddled and things like things like that. I can understand
Speaker 1: the desire and need for that. This does not feel
Speaker 1: like an okay way to do it. No, no, do
Speaker 1: it the old fashioned way. Go you know, find you
Speaker 1: some slug at a bar somewhere and go cuddle up
Speaker 1: with that or the library. Yeah sure, yeah, sure, there's
Speaker 1: slugs at the library too. I'm sure there are. You're
Speaker 1: just not looking in the right section. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: looking in the Home Improvements Act. Go start looking in
Speaker 1: the cooking section or the romance section. Yeah too.
Speaker 8: Sure.
Speaker 1: But there were people talking about how they went, and
Speaker 1: one had a rule that if they got excited, the cuddling.
Speaker 1: Said ended, that's not a bad rule to have if
Speaker 1: you're in one h percent intention is to only cuddle.
Speaker 1: Uh huh sure, So how I get I guess Yeah.
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, how could you tell if it's
Speaker 1: reached that point?
Speaker 7: And I guess it depends, right, It's a feeling you
Speaker 7: get right, literally, if you're a guy and you, you know,
Speaker 7: want to be the little spoon for this time, you know,
Speaker 7: the woman may never tell if I put my hand
Speaker 7: on your back and then change it to the middle finger.
Speaker 1: I feel like you would know that my hand changed.
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, you're probably right. But again, it's a big spoon,
Speaker 7: little spoon theory. Man, if you're the big spoon, you're
Speaker 7: definitely going to give yourself away.
Speaker 1: I think if you're the little spoon, you could probably
Speaker 1: get away with. It's cuddling always spooning. No, I didn't
Speaker 1: think so, Okay, what are some other forms of cuddling?
Speaker 1: Just one arm around the other? Hey, pal, how's it going?
Speaker 1: I mean, yes, in a simplistic form, I don't do
Speaker 1: the hay pal with my wife, but her legs over mine. Yeah,
Speaker 1: my head laying in her lap, vice versa. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: then you definitely be able to tell then lean leaning
Speaker 1: on each other on the couch.
Speaker 7: Okay, right, See, I've always just thought cuddling is, you know,
Speaker 7: like a spooning situation. There's an embracement there that involves
Speaker 7: two hands, because two hands make a hug. All right,
Speaker 7: But I guess in the lightest form of cuddling, you're
Speaker 7: You're probably right, those are some ways to do it.
Speaker 1: But I think for the true, for the true cuddlers
Speaker 1: out there, okay, it's going to be a spoon These
Speaker 1: are cuddling positions besides spooning. Okay, Okay. This is where
Speaker 1: instead of spooning, you face each other and legs cross
Speaker 1: over each other. Okay, yeah, that would make sense. The
Speaker 1: mirror this is just where your butts touch. Okay, but
Speaker 1: the but okay, sure, I don't consider that cuddling because
Speaker 1: you're just just butts touching. It's still touching.
Speaker 7: It's contact. It is contact. It is physical contact. Yes,
Speaker 7: but I guess I'm just stuck on the cuddle part.
Speaker 1: The pretzel. This is where one lays on their back
Speaker 1: and the other person lays on top of them that
Speaker 1: lays on their chest, legs intertwined, face to face cuddling. Okay, right,
Speaker 1: yeah that makes sense.
Speaker 7: Looking at you that, I feel like there's still some
Speaker 7: arms and yeah, I mean but I guess much like
Speaker 7: butt to butt, you can do face to face with
Speaker 7: just like knees touching and crossing over the lap, which
Speaker 7: is what we talked about when somebody's legs are over
Speaker 7: the other person.
Speaker 1: Pillow replacement is what this I've never seen. Like one
Speaker 1: person lays as the spoon and then the other person
Speaker 1: lays on their belly and then you cuddle up on
Speaker 1: over them kind of Okay, sure, h this is I
Speaker 1: would call this the koala. It's where one person's the
Speaker 1: spoon and the other person like is climbing on them
Speaker 1: kind of you know what I'm saying, O, my jungle
Speaker 1: gym ah, this is uh what this is cuddling. This
Speaker 1: is a great example of cuddling isn't just spooning, Okay,
Speaker 1: foot rubbing Okay, yeah, I never thought of it like that. Okay,
Speaker 1: but that's that's that's cuddling. It's still intimate contact and
Speaker 1: some people can still get a boner from that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: laying head and lap. There's another one. Yeah, oh this
Speaker 1: is another one. Yeah. This is where uh, like, one
Speaker 1: person sits up like with their back against the couch
Speaker 1: or whatever, legs spread apart in this, and the other
Speaker 1: person sits with their back towards them, okay, using them
Speaker 1: like a becks. Correct. Okay, yeah, okay, that makes sense.
Speaker 1: This is another one where somebody's sitting and the other
Speaker 1: person kind of get be called it the hey buddy,
Speaker 1: you put your arm, but they lean up onto onto you.
Speaker 9: Yeah, like you would in a movie theater.
Speaker 1: Maybe.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there are many ways to cuddle. I never thought
Speaker 1: there were so many different ways to cuddle that didn't
Speaker 1: involve spoons. Doesn't have to be spoony. Okay, if you
Speaker 1: found out your part, is this cheating? As long as
Speaker 1: long as it's just cuddling, right, no sex, like we
Speaker 1: all know it's going to lead to. Is it is
Speaker 1: cuddling cheating.
Speaker 10: Yeah, you should be cuddling your partner, but what if.
Speaker 1: Your partner doesn't want to cuddle. There are some people
Speaker 1: in relationships we've had the emails where they don't have
Speaker 1: any sexual contact for days, months, years.
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's because there's a problem there. Okay, And I'm
Speaker 7: with Lindsay. I think this is still a it's a
Speaker 7: form of cheating. There's still in uh and and an
Speaker 7: attention there. Yeah, or there's still some kind of emotionally intimacy. Yes,
Speaker 7: that is there, But I don't disagree, by the way.
Speaker 10: Yeah, and I don't think that if you, I feel
Speaker 10: like you wouldn't have even chosen that partner if they
Speaker 10: weren't into cuddling.
Speaker 7: Yeah, well we started off strong cuddling and then we
Speaker 7: got married and the cuddling stopped.
Speaker 1: You don't you think people get with someone because they're
Speaker 1: a good cuddler.
Speaker 10: No, I'm just saying that if you weren't a cuddler,
Speaker 10: that would be like a deal breaker, Like everything's great
Speaker 10: about them, but they're not. They don't like that type
Speaker 10: of intimacy, and I think that that is that is
Speaker 10: a deal breaker for some I don't think that they
Speaker 10: would ever work.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, except there's a classic tale of men and
Speaker 1: women where men get with a woman and they're like,
Speaker 1: this is awesome, she does this, and then they get married, right,
Speaker 1: and then it never happens again. So except for your birthday.
Speaker 1: And I'm just using that. Yeah maybe, And it's only
Speaker 1: like anybody can fake it. Yeah, So just because they
Speaker 1: cuddle in the beginning doesn't mean they're That's what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: I just don't. I think there are plenty of people
Speaker 1: that think they're with a and then or not.
Speaker 9: Yeah, and that is true to where your hormones changed. Tun.
Speaker 10: It's like I used to be a cuddler and then
Speaker 10: I get too hot. We can cuddle for a little bit,
Speaker 10: but then once it gets too warm.
Speaker 9: Get away.
Speaker 1: Yeah, stay away. I have a whole fire and hot thing.
Speaker 1: Like if you're gassy, I don't need you. We don't
Speaker 1: need a spoon, right, I don't know, it might be
Speaker 1: all right, I guess you know.
Speaker 7: I'm with you on a temperature thing, but everybody's everybody
Speaker 7: gets the gas man. And if you sure, if you
Speaker 7: vibrate my belly, then I'm fine with that, yeah.
Speaker 9: Because it doesn't stink even then.
Speaker 1: Yeah, listen, I fully accept my partner has flatulence. I
Speaker 1: got no problem with you know, a little bit of
Speaker 1: you know, love for the beans. Yeah, not on me though.
Speaker 1: I just kind of have a rule in life. Don't
Speaker 1: fart on me, right, don't come in here hot with that.
Speaker 7: That movie with Jason Bateman and Ryan Reynolds where they
Speaker 7: switch or whatever, and he's like so excited, right because
Speaker 7: he finally gets to bang you know, Jason Bateman's wife
Speaker 7: or whatever, and she just gets down ripping it up
Speaker 7: in the bathroom, and it's like, don't come in here hot.
Speaker 1: What what does that mean? No, it's so gross. Change
Speaker 1: up that chang. Yeah, I forgot the name. It's a
Speaker 1: good one where they got a urinate in the fastest
Speaker 1: good old body swap movie. Oh, good old body swap movie.
Speaker 1: That's fine, it's one.
Speaker 7: It's it's it's I think it belongs on the list
Speaker 7: of least top ten body swap movies.
Speaker 1: I feel like we've done this list before. We have
Speaker 1: because it's a fantastic genre that you didn't realize was
Speaker 1: so h deep. But I don't. I can't imagine that's
Speaker 1: in the top ten. Two weeks of their role what
Speaker 1: a parent trap? Come on? Seven teen again. Uh, Zach Efron,
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, Matthew Perry Freaky Friday, of course right with
Speaker 1: uh yeah, yeah, of course that should be one thirteen
Speaker 1: going on thirty. Jennifer Garner mark, uflop. That's a good one.
Speaker 1: It's an it's not the cliche. It's a little more complicated. Yeah,
Speaker 1: down to earth with Chris Rock.
Speaker 7: I'm sure I have Chris Rock, Regina King, Wish upon
Speaker 7: a Star, The Change.
Speaker 1: Up, the Hot Chick. Oh yeah, Rub Schneider in the
Speaker 1: Hot Chick.
Speaker 3: It's me.
Speaker 1: It's just I don't know if I should ever applaud
Speaker 1: you with your ability to remember those things or be
Speaker 1: embarrassed for you. One of the best lines in that
Speaker 1: old movie is best in that movie. Don't feel like
Speaker 1: they go together. But okay, it's a boy girls thing.
Speaker 1: I don't know that movie. The Christmas Swap, sure, big,
Speaker 1: all of me being John Malkovich vice versa man, judge,
Speaker 1: Ryanhold takes Savage. That was a fantastic way back in
Speaker 1: the day. Yeah, yeah, father like Son, the More. Kirk Cameron, Huh,
Speaker 1: it's a fantastic movie. Oh if I were you. Many
Speaker 1: Freaky Fridays are on here?
Speaker 9: Of course is a dream a little dream.
Speaker 1: Dream a little dream.
Speaker 9: I think that's what it was called, dream a little
Speaker 9: dream of me?
Speaker 1: Maybe Corey Feldman and Jason Robarts and Corey Ham Ye,
Speaker 1: the Cory's. They couldn't do anything by themselves, which leads
Speaker 1: me to believe, you know, you know, they did more
Speaker 1: than just movies together. I mean they grew up together.
Speaker 1: They're close. Prelude to a kiss with Meg Ryan and
Speaker 1: Alec Baldwin. What's the one with Nicholas Cage? I know,
Speaker 1: with Nicholas Cage where it's Christmas?
Speaker 9: Oh yeah, was it? Family guy?
Speaker 1: That's the family man, family man. That's not a body swap,
Speaker 1: is it? Because it's still him? Yeah, it's still a
Speaker 1: different life.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Body swap with Nicholas Cage would have been uh, face
Speaker 1: off John Travolta. Yeah, oh that, but that's not I
Speaker 1: don't think that's body swap. They literally swamp bodies, but
Speaker 1: they cut faces. No, it's not. It's not magical like
Speaker 1: the change up. Yeah, you don't have to pee in
Speaker 1: a fountain for sure.
Speaker 7: But something did happen where they ended up swapping each
Speaker 7: other's lives.
Speaker 1: I guess you could say, did they swamp oh man?
Speaker 10: Yeah, because it was supposed to be John Travolta going undercover,
Speaker 10: but then.
Speaker 8: What was it?
Speaker 10: Nicholas Cage's body wakes up and then kills all the
Speaker 10: doctors and steals Travolta's image.
Speaker 1: This has it licensed as a science fiction action thriller
Speaker 1: FBI Agent saw Sean Archer. She vibes into acidination attempt
Speaker 1: by Castor Troy, a terrorists for hire, but the bullets
Speaker 1: kill his son. Michael. Archer then engages in an extended
Speaker 1: vendetta against Troy. It culminates six years later and his
Speaker 1: team ambushing Troy, who is with his younger brother and accomplice.
Speaker 1: Just get to it. I don't got to hear all that.
Speaker 1: That was a blockbuster.
Speaker 3: Huh.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was a big ass movie back in the day.
Speaker 1: What was that nineteen ninety seven? Yeah?
Speaker 9: Oh the nude Jumanji the nude?
Speaker 7: Okay, Yeah, that that one fits because Jack Black's character
Speaker 7: becomes well, that's is that a body swapper? That's personality
Speaker 7: swap because Jack Black is the same I guess it's
Speaker 7: all the same body swap.
Speaker 1: But isn't that like in Shrek when Donkey becomes pussing
Speaker 1: Boot like they switch like no, I don't think that counts.
Speaker 1: Yah're probably right plus not's just not give Jamanch any
Speaker 1: credit or Jack Black for anything.
Speaker 5: A right?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Uh where we go to cuddling movies, body swap,
Speaker 1: Body change up? Okay, I was trying to figure how
Speaker 1: we got cuddling to body swap movies. Fountain ping in
Speaker 1: a found Yeah, one hundred percent. All right. Listen, we
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Speaker 10: Man rescued after getting stuck inside portable toilet tank. This
Speaker 10: happened in Kansas City, where firefighters responded to an unusual
Speaker 10: rest you after a man climbed inside a porta potty
Speaker 10: and couldn't get out. The incident occurred at a World
Speaker 10: Cup watch party, and a driver for Patriot Portable Restrooms
Speaker 10: discovered the man when collecting the units after the event.
Speaker 10: After the man refused to exit, a passing motorcycle officer
Speaker 10: was flagged down and when the door was opened, no
Speaker 10: one was visible until ahead.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, would be terrifying.
Speaker 10: A firefighters cut open the unit to free the man,
Speaker 10: who was then hosed down by cruise. He said that
Speaker 10: he climbed in to retrieve a mountain dew bottle that
Speaker 10: was dropped the night before.
Speaker 1: Did it have his drugs in it?
Speaker 9: That it had?
Speaker 10: Yeah, that's the only explanation how unless there was money
Speaker 10: inside of it?
Speaker 6: Was he was?
Speaker 1: He one of the you know, tiny people from the
Speaker 1: learning channel, Like, how'd you get in there? I have
Speaker 1: no clue. They're not big openings. No, you're probably right,
Speaker 1: But maybe he's a slender guy. Maybe he's not a
Speaker 1: fast You go feed first, right, Well, I would if
Speaker 1: you go to dive. If you're going to dive headfirst
Speaker 1: into a portagohn, you've got issues but you're not diving. No,
Speaker 1: I mean, like you know, I mean if you were
Speaker 1: reaching to grab it and then you could have fell in,
Speaker 1: rather than like, hey, I need to climb in here. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's so gross.
Speaker 9: The damages around eight hundred dollars.
Speaker 1: Because I had to cut the portagean O.
Speaker 9: Yeah, you don't. You don't go in at all. No
Speaker 9: one are the drugs, the.
Speaker 1: Drugs, the money, the phone, whatever it is, leave it alone.
Speaker 1: What was a guy's name, I didn't say his name.
Speaker 1: So fast forward six months later, mister Torres, we're still
Speaker 1: trying to collect payment eight hundred dollars for you getting inside,
Speaker 1: reported Ponty. He just as the company goes it's fine,
Speaker 1: we can't afford this. But you know what, I'm not
Speaker 1: chasing this rabbit. You suffered enough. I want to forget this.
Speaker 1: You want to forget this. I wonder how long it
Speaker 1: takes to wash that off. Is like smelling the dead body.
Speaker 1: But you just never forget. I know. One time I
Speaker 1: had to replace a repair a sewer line under the
Speaker 1: house as a kid. I was sixteen.
Speaker 7: As a kid, I was sixteen, and I was the
Speaker 7: only one that could get under the crawl space.
Speaker 1: Right, Oh, get out of My dad was like, get there,
Speaker 1: dah da da.
Speaker 7: And he's at the entrance of the crawl space. It's
Speaker 7: trying to, you know, guide me through it whatever, and
Speaker 7: uh and I got that.
Speaker 1: It got on me.
Speaker 7: It got on me because you got to replace some things.
Speaker 7: There's going to be leakage, right, And I had that
Speaker 7: stench on me for three days. It didn't matter how
Speaker 7: much how many showers I took, how much soap I used.
Speaker 7: It was only yeah, so I can only imagine falling
Speaker 7: into a portagoon.
Speaker 1: God knows how many people have used it beforehand. That's
Speaker 1: so grossy. Yeah, it's pretty nasty.
Speaker 7: Wife sharpens teeth for revenge. This comes out of Russia.
Speaker 7: This comes out of Russia where a woman's been arrested.
Speaker 1: She's thirty nine years old.
Speaker 7: And see what happened was is that she had found
Speaker 7: a message on her husband's phone from another woman. And
Speaker 7: the message was simply the woman detailing a quotes erotic
Speaker 7: dream that she had had about the woman's husband. They
Speaker 7: were on the beach having the sex. So the woman,
Speaker 7: instead of confronting her old man about it in the
Speaker 7: old fashioned way of like, hey, what's this about, she
Speaker 7: goes and she files her teeth down, has them sharpened
Speaker 7: to a point, and then goes and bites the man's
Speaker 7: winger off.
Speaker 6: Sick.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so obviously she's been arrested. The medical experts say
Speaker 1: that it was.
Speaker 7: A quote guaranteed premeditated act of revenge.
Speaker 1: Simply it was an accident. Not, of course it was not.
Speaker 9: Even Loraina Bobbitt was that crazy?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah she was. I mean knife, yeah, yeah, that's crazy.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Sharpening tease a whole other thing.
Speaker 8: Right.
Speaker 1: Some people do it just for the look. They're like,
Speaker 1: oh I look cool or whatever. Do you understand the
Speaker 1: vengeance and anger? You must have to take a file
Speaker 1: to your teeth and let that vibrate through your whole body.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're just sitting there thinking this son of a
Speaker 1: bitch the whole time, getting madder and madder the whole time.
Speaker 1: What soulos do you listen to music while you do that?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 1: You gotta get in this space. I feel like it
Speaker 1: has to be like something you know, have Harry styles.
Speaker 1: I mean yeah at Sharon chiropractor accused of secretly recording
Speaker 1: patient examinations. I gotta tell you some of those social
Speaker 1: media videos where you show people doing uh chiropractor work
Speaker 1: on hot girls and leggings. Not every girl wears leggings
Speaker 1: to those you're telling them too. And by the way,
Speaker 1: wear panties. Does that make a difference. I just can
Speaker 1: see your pass through the leggings. Yeah, it's creepy anyway.
Speaker 1: Pennsylvania chiropractor is accused of secular recording patient examinations former
Speaker 1: office snashers, as staffers say Jason Miscuzzie Colin recorded exams
Speaker 1: and office conversations about patients without having received permission to
Speaker 1: do so. He faces charges of intercepting communications and manufacturing
Speaker 1: a device to intercept communications. So at least was just
Speaker 1: recording audio not.
Speaker 7: He was like, well, it's on video right, right, so
Speaker 7: that makes it okay. He likes a lot of audio books,
Speaker 7: so he doesn't need the visuals.
Speaker 1: He's an MSR guy. Yeah, but different man. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: just love to hear people talk. No crack, not the
Speaker 1: drug cracked the bonds. All right, we got to take
Speaker 1: a break. We got tickets to Dirty Heads in three eleven,
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Speaker 1: Well colim and this says here that lettuce sample returned
Speaker 1: false positive for the cyclospora reading. The FDA says the
Speaker 1: lettuce sample from Taylor Farms that tested positive for the
Speaker 1: parasite that gives explosive diarrhea, Oh, that was a false
Speaker 1: positive to come.
Speaker 7: But he said on Friday that it was voluntarily recalling
Speaker 7: iceberg lettuce grown in Central Mako after it was linked
Speaker 7: to the current outbreak of gastro intestinal issues.
Speaker 1: The FDA said on Sunday that after further review, no
Speaker 1: samples have positive for the parasites. More than sixteen hundred
Speaker 1: people have fallen ill. How do they know it's that,
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Speaker 1: Does someone go oh, I got sick at the restaurant
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Speaker 1: how do you know that's where you got food.
Speaker 7: Poisoning right right, or even if you have food poisoning
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Speaker 1: It's time for our listeners. Are awesome. This is where
Speaker 1: we chat with a listener and they share part of
Speaker 1: their lives with us. And let's go ahead and talk
Speaker 1: to Brian. He's on the phone with us right now.
Speaker 1: Hey Brian, how are you? Man?
Speaker 6: I'm doing pretty good. Gibby, here are you?
Speaker 1: Let's not It's Gimby Corbyn and Lindsay and we're glad
Speaker 1: you were able to take some time with us. Man says,
Speaker 1: you're not. Maybe you've been engaged for two years. How
Speaker 1: did you meet your your lady?
Speaker 6: Actually? She hit me up online on Facebook?
Speaker 1: She found you.
Speaker 6: She found me?
Speaker 1: Yes, wow? And did you have to uh persuade her?
Speaker 1: Or were you like someone likes me?
Speaker 6: Uh no, sir, Actually it's kind of a messed up situation.
Speaker 6: She messages me online, hit me up. She was she
Speaker 6: was addicted to fentanyl, and uh but I knew her
Speaker 6: brothers and I messaged her back and I helped her
Speaker 6: get off of it. Wow she's got yeah, she's got
Speaker 6: a little over two years, like almost three years clean
Speaker 6: off that.
Speaker 1: No, Wow, that's crazy, man. And uh so what were
Speaker 1: you advertising? Like, Hey, if you need help getting drugs,
Speaker 1: call me hit me up.
Speaker 6: No, no, she hit me up. The first message she
Speaker 6: ever sent me, she said, hey, where the fin at?
Speaker 1: I was like what?
Speaker 6: And uh, I knew her, I knew her brother and
Speaker 6: I seen that, you know, it was a family on there,
Speaker 6: and uh so I just I told her no, but
Speaker 6: I might be able to get some hung out with her,
Speaker 6: and uh we became good friends and I just helped
Speaker 6: her get off of it. I got her into a
Speaker 6: methadone clinic, and uh I actually got a little over
Speaker 6: two and a half years clean off of it.
Speaker 1: Here's a question, how does one get fit?
Speaker 3: And all.
Speaker 6: You buy it from somebody?
Speaker 1: Like how do you? But how do you? How do
Speaker 1: you find those people?
Speaker 6: How do you?
Speaker 1: How do you?
Speaker 6: How do you?
Speaker 1: I've always been curious about this because I just would
Speaker 1: if I needed I would go to the doctor. I
Speaker 1: wouldn't know how to get it, uh the other way?
Speaker 1: So what what is? What is the secret?
Speaker 6: I just grew up in a criminal lifestyle. It's all
Speaker 6: he surround yourself with. I guess.
Speaker 1: Okay, and you know a guy who knows a guy?
Speaker 1: What a yeah?
Speaker 6: Guy?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sorry. I'm not trying to make you uncomfortable
Speaker 1: with the conversation. It's just something we've talked about on air.
Speaker 1: How that happens? So but so you says it says
Speaker 1: here you spent time in prison. How long were you
Speaker 1: in prison?
Speaker 6: I did six and a half years.
Speaker 1: Okay. How old were you when you went in?
Speaker 6: I was twenty one, twenty one?
Speaker 1: What did you do?
Speaker 6: I got arrested for two arm robberies and a ACA.
Speaker 1: What did you rob?
Speaker 6: I was? I was following people from the casinos and
Speaker 6: robbing them. Dang I robbed it? Yeah? Yeah, I was
Speaker 6: a dirt bag man.
Speaker 1: How did you know they won? Uh?
Speaker 6: At the casinos? There's this redeem ticket was you got
Speaker 6: your redeem ticket machine and when people walk up there
Speaker 6: and put the tickets in, you can it says it
Speaker 6: in numbers on it. You know what they're giving back
Speaker 6: to them. I'd find a penny machine. By one of
Speaker 6: those machines, I'd put like a twenty dollars billion and
Speaker 6: just bet one line at one penny, and you could
Speaker 6: do that for hours. And I would just wait until
Speaker 6: somebody cashed out a thousand or more and then I'd
Speaker 6: follow them.
Speaker 1: So you follow them to their car and what then
Speaker 1: you follow them in your car? Yes, what's the furthest
Speaker 1: distance you ever went?
Speaker 6: I'm actually the furthest distance I ever went was it
Speaker 6: didn't happen, it didn't ended up being a robbery. I
Speaker 6: followed these people from uh Quah Paul, Oklahoma all the way.
Speaker 6: We got to almost Springfield, and I didn't have enough
Speaker 6: gas in my car and I ended up dying on
Speaker 6: the side of the road. Now, yeah, yeah, to call
Speaker 6: my brothering we coming.
Speaker 1: Wow, dude, how many times did you do this?
Speaker 6: I got arrested for two of them.
Speaker 1: How many times did you do this allegedly?
Speaker 6: Allegedly? I think five?
Speaker 1: And so what you confront the people and you say,
Speaker 1: what give me the money?
Speaker 6: Something like that. I was a dirt bag about it.
Speaker 6: I remember I used to be heavy on drugs. I'm
Speaker 6: not this person, no more. One of them. The first
Speaker 6: robbery that Uh, went through this lady pulled on this
Speaker 6: dirt road and I knew, I knew the area. I
Speaker 6: lived around there. I sped past her. I got probably
Speaker 6: half a mile up the road, and uh, I pretended
Speaker 6: like my car was broke down, and whenever she stopped
Speaker 6: to help me, I pulled my gun out and robbed her.
Speaker 1: Damn. Did you ever ever have anybody who pushed back
Speaker 1: or they had a gun?
Speaker 6: No, if they did have a gun, they didn't. They
Speaker 6: didn't push back.
Speaker 1: So how'd you get caught?
Speaker 6: Me and my son's mom. We were we were on
Speaker 6: our way to go to do a robbery one day.
Speaker 1: And hold on say that sentence again.
Speaker 6: Me and my son's mom. She did a couple of both,
Speaker 6: both of the robberies I got caught with.
Speaker 1: She did them with me, okay, because I thought I
Speaker 1: heard you say with your son. No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: my son's mom okay.
Speaker 6: And Uh, anyway, we got pulled over and uh, this
Speaker 6: wasn't related to the robbery. I actually took a wrong
Speaker 6: turn and there was a cop sitting there and we
Speaker 6: looked at it pulled out behind me.
Speaker 1: Make sure make sure you don't swear all right, buddy?
Speaker 1: Oh sorry, that's okay, sorry, go ahead and say the
Speaker 1: cop pulls out behind you.
Speaker 6: Yep, and pulls it over. And I took off driving
Speaker 6: because I had a the mask, gun, gloves and everything
Speaker 6: in my glove box.
Speaker 1: And so they pull you over and they go through
Speaker 1: your car.
Speaker 6: Yeah, after I ended up getting I got I went
Speaker 6: on a thirty two minute high speed chase and yeah,
Speaker 6: after that we got arrested. And my son's mom, she
Speaker 6: had a purse from one of these robberies. It was
Speaker 6: a orange Chanel purse. And I didn't know those persons
Speaker 6: had like serial numbers and stuff in them and at
Speaker 6: least to the robbery. They arrested us. They scared her
Speaker 6: with the kid and we wasn't walked up for maybe
Speaker 6: two or three hours, and.
Speaker 1: She ur stately, wow, call for a Chanel purse.
Speaker 6: Man.
Speaker 9: Yeah, crazy, one hundred to five hundred dollars bag.
Speaker 6: The paper they because we had a paper of the
Speaker 6: items and like the prices, and it was like an
Speaker 6: eight eight dollars bag, but still.
Speaker 1: It was.
Speaker 6: Yeah, just a bag.
Speaker 1: So how did how did the chase end? Did you'd
Speaker 1: finally just pull over or did they uh did they
Speaker 1: put stop sticks? How it happened.
Speaker 6: They put stop sticks out, but I didn't hit him.
Speaker 6: I went through this little ravine thing. They ended up
Speaker 6: pit manoeuvering me. I was in a I was in
Speaker 6: a little silver Pete Cruiser that the transmission was messed
Speaker 6: up and I couldn't do over seventy miles an hour.
Speaker 6: Anytime I hit seventy or higher, the whole car would
Speaker 6: start shaking. So I was in a low speed shoot.
Speaker 1: And so it finally is with what you you? You
Speaker 1: just stop?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 6: They pit maneuvered me, like, yeah, well I couldn't drive
Speaker 6: no more cars messing up. And I got out and
Speaker 6: I was gonna run, but they had cops everywhere, and
Speaker 6: I've seen one pull his taser out. Don't take me, yep,
Speaker 6: he was one of them. Came up behind me, grabbed
Speaker 6: me by my hair and like slam me so hard
Speaker 6: on my face. My face hit the ground before my
Speaker 6: body did.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 6: And so.
Speaker 1: They get you. How long does that whole process take
Speaker 1: when they get you yoked up and then sit you
Speaker 1: in the back? Like, how long.
Speaker 6: Wait after they get me off the ground and into
Speaker 6: the car. Yeah, probably did a few minutes, three to
Speaker 6: five minutes, and.
Speaker 1: Then you sit in a squad car for a while.
Speaker 6: Yeah. Why they clear out my car and made sure
Speaker 6: I guess everything, They got everything they needed.
Speaker 1: Man, that feels so intense. Man, that would have been
Speaker 1: enough for me. So you go to how long are
Speaker 1: you in jail for that? Six and a half years? Right?
Speaker 6: Correct?
Speaker 1: And then is that what made you get want to
Speaker 1: get clean and straight? Uh?
Speaker 6: No, I had a I was using my first like year,
Speaker 6: year and a half still in there, and I had
Speaker 6: a visit from my son's mom. Actually, and my son
Speaker 6: she didn't get no charges for telling me she got
Speaker 6: out of everything. But I had a random visit from him.
Speaker 6: It was on his birthday and I didn't know they
Speaker 6: were coming, and I was high whenever they called me
Speaker 6: up to the visiting room, and like four hours it went,
Speaker 6: and I just remember feeling like an inch tall. Whenever
Speaker 6: I got back there, I set my cell and cried
Speaker 6: for a little bit, and it just had I had enough.
Speaker 6: I was done with it, and I ain't since this
Speaker 6: September twenty eighth, I'll have nine years off of it.
Speaker 1: Good for you, man, I'm sure every day is a
Speaker 1: new challenge with that. So good for you, It says
Speaker 1: here to ask you about you got stabbed, you got stabbed,
Speaker 1: or you saw someone get stabbed.
Speaker 6: I saw somebody get stabbed. I didn't get stabbed.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that was my second day in prison. I was
Speaker 6: at breakfast and all I hear is a dude's screaming
Speaker 6: and I look over and he's got an orange sport
Speaker 6: somebody had made into a knife, just like dangling out
Speaker 6: of his cheek while the dude's beating on his head,
Speaker 6: and the cops came up and started spraying him. And
Speaker 6: when that mace hit him, I'd never heard an octave
Speaker 6: so high come out of a man like sure.
Speaker 1: And and that was your second day. Did you go
Speaker 1: okay like that?
Speaker 6: Yeah? Yeah, that was wild.
Speaker 1: Were you like I got this is not this is crazy?
Speaker 6: At first, I was just looking at it like what
Speaker 6: the hell. And my buddies at the table they were like, hey, man,
Speaker 6: let's go. And we had just sat down, we haven't
Speaker 6: even really started eating yet. I was like, we're gonna eat.
Speaker 6: They're like, you're not gonna be able to in a
Speaker 6: couple seconds later, the fumes from the mace hit me
Speaker 6: in a literally breasthtaking.
Speaker 1: Yeah, just too much? Right?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Wow? When you were in for six and a half years.
Speaker 1: Did you make any friendships that you needed to make?
Speaker 6: H yeah, yeah?
Speaker 1: How do you how do you figure that out? How
Speaker 1: do you decide who you were going to, what group
Speaker 1: you were going to be a part of.
Speaker 6: In prison? Really it's all politics. And I just found
Speaker 6: a group of well, I'm I found a group of
Speaker 6: people in the same race as me. Some of them
Speaker 6: I like, and I just started kicking with them.
Speaker 1: And I'm I'm assuming while in prison for that long
Speaker 1: you had to do some things you were like, oh yeah, yeah.
Speaker 6: I mean, you've got to stand up for yourself. As
Speaker 6: long as you stand up for yourself, and they're if
Speaker 6: they know you'll fight, because no one's trying to really
Speaker 6: go setting in the hole, right, I mean, they know
Speaker 6: you'll stand up for yourself usually pretty good. Got no
Speaker 6: messed up cases like uh, sex cases or anything like that.
Speaker 1: Sure, I'm gonna make a guess that this doesn't have
Speaker 1: a connection. But hot baby oil.
Speaker 6: Yeah, there was an instance with hot baby oil and
Speaker 6: I was at a poker table. This was probably the
Speaker 6: worst thing I had seen in there. I was playing
Speaker 6: poker and there was a full table. There was eight
Speaker 6: of us, and uh, the guy was sitting right next
Speaker 6: to me. He was an older He was an older
Speaker 6: black guy. He has real long dreads. And some dude
Speaker 6: walks up with a cup of it looked like a
Speaker 6: cup of coffee he just pulled out of the microwave,
Speaker 6: but it wasn't his baby oil, and he threw it
Speaker 6: in this guy's face, and uh, that was disgusting. The
Speaker 6: literally made me physically sick whenever he hit this guy
Speaker 6: with this baby oil. A guy stood up and went
Speaker 6: to wipe his face and like a bunch of skin
Speaker 6: and a whole handful of dreads just fell and hit
Speaker 6: the ground, and the smell was disgusting. I went and
Speaker 6: tuked in my cell and just shut my door and
Speaker 6: pressed my bunk for the rest of the day.
Speaker 1: I'm bad. I'm bet dude. That's that's crazy. Man. It
Speaker 1: says you have a kid. How old your kid?
Speaker 6: He's back to be fourteen?
Speaker 1: WHOA? I did not expect to hear you say fourteen? Man.
Speaker 1: Uh that's how's that feel? Does that feel weird to
Speaker 1: have a kid that's uh fourteen?
Speaker 8: Uh?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I really ain't got to see him in like
Speaker 6: the past year. Me and his mom. We got an
Speaker 6: argument one day and she cut off all contact to him.
Speaker 1: Man, And have you have you tried to navi a
Speaker 1: get that with like a lawyer or anything.
Speaker 6: Well, I'm so broke right now. If somebody broke into
Speaker 6: my house, they would leave money.
Speaker 1: Okay, Wow, dude, you're only thirty two and you've had
Speaker 1: a life that I'm terrified of, and you still got
Speaker 1: so much more to life to live.
Speaker 6: That really wasn't a life, man, that there's no way
Speaker 6: to live. But yeah, I'm doing better now and I
Speaker 6: can't wait to see what the future holds.
Speaker 1: Do you reflect on that a lot? Do you reflect
Speaker 1: on that chapter of your life? And what feeling do
Speaker 1: you carry?
Speaker 6: Honestly, when I think about it, man, it kind of
Speaker 6: makes me a shamed, like.
Speaker 1: A shame because of the people that you interacted with.
Speaker 6: No, just the bad stuff I did, Like I was
Speaker 6: making mes when I was sixteen, and the people I
Speaker 6: robed like. I tried justifying it by saying, you know,
Speaker 6: nobody got physically hurt. And it took me almost two
Speaker 6: years of sitting in prison before it really sunk in
Speaker 6: that what I did was terrible.
Speaker 1: Have you ever got to talk to the people that
Speaker 1: you did this to? No, I'm not allowed to do that,
Speaker 1: not even to apologize or anything.
Speaker 6: Yeah, no, not even to apologize. I asked. I aintlowed
Speaker 6: to have no contact with them whatsoever.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's probably a good thing, yeah for them, right,
Speaker 1: like they may stir something up on them.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Wow, if you could say anything to them right now,
Speaker 1: what would you say?
Speaker 6: Well, I just tell them I'm sorry you and I
Speaker 6: don't want to use drugs as an excuse, but I
Speaker 6: just I was a different person at that time. They
Speaker 6: didn't deserve that.
Speaker 1: Alright on, man, well listen, but Brian, it's been really
Speaker 1: interesting talking to you, brother. H keep fighting a good fight,
Speaker 1: and uh hopefully we'll talk again soon.
Speaker 6: All right, I appreciate you guys.
Speaker 1: Absolutely, Thanks Brian, that's our listeners are awesome. We're gonna
Speaker 1: take a break and we'll be back. They again passed
Speaker 1: for daylight savings. Time to not change anymore, right, Okay,
Speaker 1: one side, it's got to go through the Senate now, right.
Speaker 1: I personally think this is silly, This is not worth
Speaker 1: our time.
Speaker 7: Silly that they're actually debating it, or silly that we
Speaker 7: actually have it. The latter probably is true, but it's
Speaker 7: not a good use of current time.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, We've got other issues to worry about
Speaker 1: to be debating it. I feel like there are other
Speaker 1: important issues that need to be addressed that I kind
Speaker 1: of elected you. Now. With that being said, I don't
Speaker 1: know how excited I am about the sun just now
Speaker 1: coming up under daylight saving with no change, I'm not
Speaker 1: just right right, that's a whole other thing man to
Speaker 1: get you would have to get used to it.
Speaker 3: Now.
Speaker 1: I know some cities do it and then we're around
Speaker 1: it just fine, right, But it's still a change, And
Speaker 1: maybe it's just one change. I just don't find daylight
Speaker 1: saving time, the clock change all that big of an
Speaker 1: inconvenience for me.
Speaker 10: It's really not, and you would think it would be
Speaker 10: for us who get up, you know, before the sun.
Speaker 10: My problem with it is schools that start at seven
Speaker 10: o'clock in the morning, and those kids that are on
Speaker 10: buses are going to be at the bus stop in
Speaker 10: the dark.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's fine. There's not a lot of rapes and
Speaker 1: murders that happen at six o'clock in the morning a.
Speaker 7: Bus because the sun's up, exactly. I'm just saying, we
Speaker 7: all did the same thing growing up, did we not?
Speaker 7: We all had to sit at a bus stop. Nope, nope,
Speaker 7: okay I did. It's not good for you, all good
Speaker 7: for both of you.
Speaker 1: I had a water The bus stop line was like
Speaker 1: right at the edge of my property, so I didn't
Speaker 1: get to ride the bus. Yeah.
Speaker 7: There's been plenty of times when I'm sitting in the
Speaker 7: dark and it's fine. Didn't bother me any, made me stronger.
Speaker 1: Yeah. But see, here's the thing. You also probably believe
Speaker 1: that grown crawling under your house at sixteen to fix
Speaker 1: a pipe and having Dodo drop on you is fine,
Speaker 1: so everyone else should experience They should.
Speaker 9: Built this immune system.
Speaker 1: Absolutely did. Whether it did or didn't, it is not
Speaker 1: the argument no, no, no, no, But it's it's fine.
Speaker 7: What do we say all the time, it'll be all right, right,
Speaker 7: no matter what, your kids are going to be fine
Speaker 7: at the at the bus stop.
Speaker 1: But that you can't just then throw concern and cause
Speaker 1: out the window. Okay, with that philosophy, right, the idea
Speaker 1: that things all right isn't so you don't have cause concern.
Speaker 1: The philosophy of is all right, so when life kicks
Speaker 1: you in the balls, you know it will be okay.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I think the philosophy behind it's all right is
Speaker 7: don't get so worked up about it, because no matter what,
Speaker 7: like you just said, it's going to work out.
Speaker 1: Whether you have to be standing at the.
Speaker 7: Bus stop for what fifteen minutes, twenty minutes for the
Speaker 7: bus to get there.
Speaker 1: Okay, the bus pulls up, you get on the bus,
Speaker 1: you're okay. It's all right. So no matter what it is,
Speaker 1: and at the end of the day, it gonna be
Speaker 1: all right.
Speaker 10: On the flip side, I do like the fact that
Speaker 10: it will be lighter at night because seasonal depression is
Speaker 10: a real thing.
Speaker 1: But that just chansfers to the morning. Right, there's the
Speaker 1: amount of darkness we will experience will be the same. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's just in a different part of the day.
Speaker 10: Right, but it won't be in the night. I like
Speaker 10: it being lighter later.
Speaker 1: I love the tradition that comes along with it getting darker.
Speaker 9: Because it feels more weird.
Speaker 1: It feels like winning, right, and for it to feel
Speaker 1: like summer is going to be bizarre.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Plus, this is my biggest argument on why we shouldn't
Speaker 1: change daylight savings time. Okay, Christmas lights, ok, you have
Speaker 1: to go out later? Yes, yes, yeah, Christmas lights are awesome,
Speaker 1: and now we gotta You won't get to experience him
Speaker 1: til much later nine o'clock, as opposed to before you
Speaker 1: go got to do an event at school. You get
Speaker 1: out of the event, it's like six o'clock Christmas. Yes,
Speaker 1: Now you come home and it's eight o'clock and Christmas
Speaker 1: lights aren't on. No, because the sun's up, you don't
Speaker 1: get to see him. You gotta eat dinner and go
Speaker 1: to bed. It feels like every other part of the day,
Speaker 1: every part of the year, right, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: just think there's something awesome about the glow on the
Speaker 1: street of Christmas lights. Yeah, and don't forget Halloween too,
Speaker 1: because people go all out for Halloween decorations. No, you're right,
Speaker 1: and it's the same thing. You know, you can't see.
Speaker 7: You can see you have giant twenty foot skeleton out there,
Speaker 7: but they really get that with the lights and the
Speaker 7: falls and the this and the that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, same thing. No, I think you're making a great argument.
Speaker 1: Trick or treating when the sun up has a different feel.
Speaker 9: Right, it's safer.
Speaker 1: Right, You can't well listen, You can't have the argument
Speaker 1: of it's dangerous for the kids at in the morning
Speaker 1: for the bus and then also be like, but it's
Speaker 1: fine at night because you wanted to be dark with
Speaker 1: trigger treating. Yeah, trigger treating, trick or treating is pretty safe.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: The myth of it being really dangerous is not a
Speaker 1: real thing. I've never heard of children getting hurt trick
Speaker 1: or treating or drugged or anything like that, unless you
Speaker 1: know the school bullies picking on you. Right, maybe a
Speaker 1: neighborhood kid takes you know what. No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I've never seen or heard. There's too many adults around
Speaker 1: right right now, you see my tea kids running and
Speaker 1: being a little crazy. But it's not mayhem house may
Speaker 1: get TP that's about it. Not when there's ton people
Speaker 1: on the street right after.
Speaker 10: It closes, after your shirt closer, after you shut your.
Speaker 1: Legs, that doesn't matter. Yeah, you booger pickers still ring
Speaker 1: the doorbell.
Speaker 3: Huh.
Speaker 1: But we'll see if it happens. And again, if it happens, okay,
Speaker 1: it's fine, we'll figure it out. But it's just gonna
Speaker 1: be weird. Why do we got to move? You can't
Speaker 1: have the argument of why messing stop messing with things?
Speaker 1: But this you're okay with messing with leave it the
Speaker 1: way it is, it ain't broken. Yeah, that's how to
Speaker 1: live my life. Focus on other problems that need to
Speaker 1: be addressed, like making sure Christmas lights are on. Yeah, yes,
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Speaker 1: us from Hensley Associates. You need help with divorce or
Speaker 1: custody or guardianship or name change or any of those
Speaker 1: things that go along with family law, Jeff is here
Speaker 1: to answer those questions. We had somebody on earlier today
Speaker 1: and they had a situation where he had a falling
Speaker 1: out with the mother of his child and she took
Speaker 1: away the chance to see him, just vanished.
Speaker 8: What do you do in that scenario, Well, I mean,
Speaker 8: first of all, just if my wife is listening, the
Speaker 8: screens are turned away, I can't see anything. So let's
Speaker 8: just make that clear. You know, it's a very common scenario.
Speaker 8: I mean a lot of times people will break up
Speaker 8: and the woman will get mad at the dad and say, well,
Speaker 8: you're not going to see your kid again. They just
Speaker 8: block them out in some way. I mean step one comes,
Speaker 8: you need to call us. I mean, obviously we need
Speaker 8: to make sure that you get a chance to see
Speaker 8: your kid, and we need to get something locked in
Speaker 8: because since November first of twenty eleven, the law has
Speaker 8: been in Oklahoma, so you know, for the last almost
Speaker 8: fifteen years, guys, the law has been that dads who
Speaker 8: have children out of wedlock have zero rights to their children.
Speaker 8: So what does that mean. That means in those scenarios,
Speaker 8: moms can play games. Mom can cut you off, even
Speaker 8: though even if you're paying child support, even if you're
Speaker 8: giving her money for stuff, even if you've done, you know,
Speaker 8: all these things in the past, she can do that
Speaker 8: because there's no order that says you get visitation and
Speaker 8: that you have custody in some form. So step one
Speaker 8: is always to call us and tell us what's going
Speaker 8: on so we can come up with a plan to
Speaker 8: help you and be able to get you your kid back,
Speaker 8: because the last thing you want is them traveling, especially
Speaker 8: across state lines, because if they're the problem runs that
Speaker 8: if someone moves out of state, all right, if they're
Speaker 8: more if they're there more than six months, that new
Speaker 8: state now has jurisdiction. So if you're if you wait
Speaker 8: more than six months after she's moved, that new state
Speaker 8: has jurisdiction, which means you're gonna have to hire somebody
Speaker 8: in that state wherever it is. So let's say it's Alaska.
Speaker 8: That means you're gonna have to go to Alaska to
Speaker 8: deal with any and all visitation and custody issues. So
Speaker 8: you know, that's why we want to lock it in.
Speaker 8: As soon as something that happens, give us a call
Speaker 8: so we can get something filed locks them in and
Speaker 8: we can make sure that the child is taking care
Speaker 8: of in you or taking care of I.
Speaker 1: Forget the Latin word that goes along with it. But
Speaker 1: do you have to prove the why now situation? Why
Speaker 1: are you changing things now with the cord? Do you
Speaker 1: have to uh, what's changed?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 8: I mean if there's no existing order. No, you don't
Speaker 8: have to prove anything in regards to what now. Because
Speaker 8: once you file and we have you adjudicator or legally
Speaker 8: found to be dad, then you have the same rights
Speaker 8: as any other father has a kid during marriage. So
Speaker 8: what that means is is that you're entitled to some
Speaker 8: sort of custody, You're entitled to some sort of visitation.
Speaker 8: So you know, again, we want to lock that in
Speaker 8: because what's going to happen a lot of times we
Speaker 8: see is that, you know, they either move away or
Speaker 8: they block visitation indefinitely and you don't get to your kid.
Speaker 8: Next thing you know, you're it's eighteen years later and
Speaker 8: they're graduated and you don't know who they are and
Speaker 8: they don't know who you are.
Speaker 1: Jeff Hensley from Hensley and Associates is with us. You
Speaker 1: got a question about family law, he can answer it
Speaker 1: a couple of ways to get your question to us
Speaker 1: eight three three four six ozho kmod. You can email
Speaker 1: show at kmode dot com or text bmms and whatever
Speaker 1: your question is to eight two nine four five. My
Speaker 1: ex and I broke up six months ago and things
Speaker 1: were fine with our daughter. But now he's saying he
Speaker 1: wants to take her every week and two nights a week.
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm losing time with her. I don't
Speaker 1: know what's fair or what I'm even entitled to.
Speaker 8: So first of all, you need to get an order
Speaker 8: in place, and that's one thing I want to stress
Speaker 8: over and over and over, and Corwyn, you've talked about
Speaker 8: this all the time. Is that it's great until it's not.
Speaker 8: So you've got in this case, it sounds like it
Speaker 8: was great and now it's not because now somebody is
Speaker 8: demanding more than what they've had and there's confusion. But
Speaker 8: it sounds definitely like there's no actual order. Step one
Speaker 8: is to always get an order in plans. It's signed
Speaker 8: by a judge, so we know exactly what's going on
Speaker 8: as far as your time is concerned. I mean that
Speaker 8: has a lot of different factors wrapped up into it.
Speaker 8: But whoever this is, please give our office a call
Speaker 8: we'd love to walk through it with you and come
Speaker 8: up with the plan so that we know exactly how
Speaker 8: we're going to proceed to make sure that you're taking
Speaker 8: care of and you're not losing time with your kid.
Speaker 1: And it sounds like that it's almost the mother that
Speaker 1: is losing time.
Speaker 8: That's what it sounded like to me. I wasn't quite sure,
Speaker 8: but that's what it sounded like to me. And you know, again,
Speaker 8: in a situation where there is no order and it's
Speaker 8: not a marriage, then that means mom kind of controls
Speaker 8: at this point until court kind of controls what happens
Speaker 8: is Sara's visitation. So while someone can demand demand, demand, demand, demand,
Speaker 8: she that control with this particular juncture. So you know,
Speaker 8: if she feels like she's losing time because the other
Speaker 8: side is demanding, she doesn't have to grant that technically
Speaker 8: under the law as well, because she's got she's got
Speaker 8: custody until he files something in court.
Speaker 1: Even if it's a scenario where he took the child
Speaker 1: because he thought it was safer because of whatever her lifestyle.
Speaker 8: Well, I mean that may or may not be a
Speaker 8: little different. I mean, if you've got but he.
Speaker 1: Would still need protective custody.
Speaker 8: Yeah, correct, he would. He would need some sort of
Speaker 8: emergency custody or something of that nature if the child
Speaker 8: is in some sort of immediate irreparable harm. Okay, so
Speaker 8: that's called when you're talking about the standard of immediate
Speaker 8: irreparable harm, you're talking about getting an emergency custody order.
Speaker 8: And that typically ties to things like, you know, the
Speaker 8: child is being abused in some way, whether it be
Speaker 8: physically or sexually or whatever it may be. Or someone's
Speaker 8: driving drunk with the kids in the car, or someone
Speaker 8: is using drugs around the kids. And I don't mean marijuana,
Speaker 8: I'm talking about you know, other drugs, cocaine, methamphetamine, whatever
Speaker 8: it may be. You know those situations where the children,
Speaker 8: if they're not pulled out of that situation, they will
Speaker 8: definitely be an immediate irreparable harm of some sort under
Speaker 8: the law.
Speaker 1: Jeffinsley's joining us Hensley and Associates eight three three four
Speaker 1: six oh kmo D. This one deals with something a
Speaker 1: little bit different than custody. I've got a younger sister
Speaker 1: who is mentally disabled. She has to be watched constantly.
Speaker 1: She's been watched by my grandmother until my grandmother passed away,
Speaker 1: and after that she became bolatile and now she has
Speaker 1: to be monitored twenty four to seven because she's threatened
Speaker 1: to kill people and harm herself. We have talked about
Speaker 1: putting her in a home for adults with mental disabilities,
Speaker 1: but she said that she doesn't want to go. Does
Speaker 1: she have the same rights as regular people because of
Speaker 1: her condition or what does what her legal guardian say go?
Speaker 8: Well, I mean, if there is a legal guardian place,
Speaker 8: and a guardian that has been assigned as the person
Speaker 8: who is to take care of them in their physical
Speaker 8: you know, anything dealing with them physically or medically or financially,
Speaker 8: there is an actual assigned guardian, Okay, the guardian has
Speaker 8: the right to say what's going on and where they
Speaker 8: go and all that kind of stuff. So the guardian
Speaker 8: has the control of that. Now. Obviously, if there is
Speaker 8: a guardian in place for an adult disabled individual okay,
Speaker 8: which it sounds like what this is, there has been
Speaker 8: some sort of ruling from the court and finding that
Speaker 8: the person is unable to make their own decisions is
Speaker 8: typically what that means, unless unless that adult disabled person
Speaker 8: nominated them as a guardian. I mean, that's why these
Speaker 8: That's why every case is different. That's why we need
Speaker 8: you to call her office so we can get these
Speaker 8: fine details to kind of fine tune the plan. But
Speaker 8: the basic gist of it is is that you know,
Speaker 8: if someone is unable to take care of themselves and
Speaker 8: there's an actual guardian in place, then the guardian's word
Speaker 8: is what is being taken into account. It needs to
Speaker 8: be followed. I don't know the extent of this individual's
Speaker 8: mental state or what their disability is or something like that.
Speaker 8: So that's why we need those facts, and you want
Speaker 8: to call us who can answer this question?
Speaker 1: In those scenarios, does the court always need to establish
Speaker 1: in some capacity the person's mental state or do they
Speaker 1: just take it for like.
Speaker 8: Eyes on, Well you have no, it's not just eyes on.
Speaker 8: I mean you have to have a doctor testify or
Speaker 8: an affidavit or something that this person is not able
Speaker 8: to make their own decisions, that they are, you know,
Speaker 8: in such a state that they can't make their own
Speaker 8: financial decisions things like that. I mean, you can't just
Speaker 8: walk in and say, well, I've got a sister that's
Speaker 8: an adult disabled person, and I think I need to
Speaker 8: be over all their finances. I mean, you have to
Speaker 8: prove it to the court that they are in fact
Speaker 8: what you say they are. Okay, you can't just walk
Speaker 8: in and make that claim. And it's not just eyes
Speaker 8: on because there are people when we all know this,
Speaker 8: there are people that look very normal. I mean and
Speaker 8: I don't mean normal, but.
Speaker 1: You know, just there might be a couple in this
Speaker 1: room that look normal.
Speaker 6: That.
Speaker 8: Look like they don't have any disabilities, but in fact
Speaker 8: they do, right, So it's not just eyes on, is
Speaker 8: what I'm getting at. Yeah, the judge doesn't. The judge
Speaker 8: is not a doctor, Okay. That's why we need doctor affidavit.
Speaker 8: It's in testimony and things like that, because an attorney
Speaker 8: slash judge is not We're not medical doctors, okay. So
Speaker 8: that's why we have to have that those things from
Speaker 8: the medical providers to show that the individual has those issues.
Speaker 1: As Jeff just pointed out, these things can get kind
Speaker 1: of complicated. That's why we have him on the air
Speaker 1: each week to talk about the scenarios of family law
Speaker 1: and how to navigate them. If you have help, need
Speaker 1: help with something eight three three four six, oh kmod,
Speaker 1: you can text BMMS and whatever the question is. Eight
Speaker 1: two nine four five, and it looks like Mark is
Speaker 1: on hold. Mark, what's your question for Jeff Hensley of
Speaker 1: Hensley and Associates. O, It was kind.
Speaker 5: Of pertaining to what are you talking about earlier with
Speaker 5: them saying you know out of wedlock, you know, having
Speaker 5: a child out of wedlock.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Sure, I've looked at up a number of times, you know,
Speaker 5: online also as well as going down to the postal
Speaker 5: library and doings like that, and it says, I what
Speaker 5: I found is a Senate that passed.
Speaker 6: That past it.
Speaker 5: You don't have to you know, you don't have to,
Speaker 5: like if you get an ALP signed that the data
Speaker 5: birth and everything on the borough certificate that you're right.
Speaker 8: But no, that's absolutely one thousand percent wrong. That's not
Speaker 8: just one hundred percent run. That's one thousand percent wrong.
Speaker 8: In the state of Oklahoma, in the state listen listen.
Speaker 8: In the state of Oklahoma sins November first of twenty eleven,
Speaker 8: the law has been even if you have signed these
Speaker 8: birth certificate, even if you have an aop on record,
Speaker 8: that only gives you a presumption that you were dad
Speaker 8: in this state. That's been the law for the last
Speaker 8: fifteen years. And so it wasn't like that before, and
Speaker 8: it's not like that in other states. But in the
Speaker 8: state of Oklahoma, the law has been okay that you
Speaker 8: only have a presumption of paternity and that's why you
Speaker 8: have to file paternity action so that you are officially
Speaker 8: adjudicated by a judge or legally found to be dad
Speaker 8: by a judge, so that you have the same rights.
Speaker 8: So whatever you've been researching, I applaud you for, you know,
Speaker 8: looking out and going out and find it, trying to
Speaker 8: find it. But I can tell you, having done this
Speaker 8: twenty year, that's absolutely incorrect.
Speaker 6: Okay, I'll pill you.
Speaker 1: It's just curious, right on, brother, Thanks so much. That's
Speaker 1: a good example of you can make that mistake easy.
Speaker 1: Reading it that way. It does look like but the
Speaker 1: presumption part is super important because there's difference between presuming
Speaker 1: you're the father and what that means to actually get
Speaker 1: rights right.
Speaker 8: And you know the thing is is it's Title ten,
Speaker 8: sub section seventy seven hundred. Few were to go to
Speaker 8: the very last statute, and I paraphrase, I've said this before,
Speaker 8: I paraphrase, but it says mom's got soul custody until
Speaker 8: dad gets off his butt and files something in court.
Speaker 8: That's what it says in paraphrase. So that's the way
Speaker 8: the law has been. You know, I've always wondered why
Speaker 8: no one has challenged it with the Supreme Court over
Speaker 8: the last fifteen years. But it hasn't been challenged. And
Speaker 8: that's the law that we've been living in. And that's
Speaker 8: the hell that fathers that have kids out of wedlock
Speaker 8: that have been living in. So if you've got that issue,
Speaker 8: call us. We would love to represent you and help
Speaker 8: you get your kid taken care of.
Speaker 1: How would one challenge that? What needs to be in
Speaker 1: place for you to challenge it?
Speaker 8: You would have to have some sort of final order
Speaker 8: from the court where you have challenged it along the
Speaker 8: way and the court has denied your motions, and then
Speaker 8: you would appeal it to the Supreme Court at that
Speaker 8: point or the Court of Civil Appeals. So you know,
Speaker 8: it would have to be a very specific scenario. But
Speaker 8: my point in even bringing that up is is that
Speaker 8: prior to that law changing in November first, twenty eleven,
Speaker 8: the law was fifty to fifty for moms and dads
Speaker 8: for kids out of wedlock. So it was a huge
Speaker 8: change that came about on November first to twenty eleven.
Speaker 8: So you know this is just me postulating. Okay, this
Speaker 8: is just me kind of thinking about it. But you
Speaker 8: know that's the unfortunate side that dads have been living
Speaker 8: in because even if you're on the birth certificate, even
Speaker 8: if you've signed that aop sense for acknowledgment of paternity.
Speaker 8: So the two documents you would sign at the at
Speaker 8: the hospital, that only gives a presumption that doesn't give
Speaker 8: you any rights. That doesn't give you the right to
Speaker 8: enroll them in school, That doesn't give you the right
Speaker 8: to take them to school, That doesn't give you or
Speaker 8: enroll them in school or whatever. That doesn't give you
Speaker 8: any rights in the state of Oklahoma. That gives a
Speaker 8: presumption only.
Speaker 1: Eight through three four. So kmod you can also text
Speaker 1: BMMS and whatever your question is to eight two nine
Speaker 1: four five. This is a very simple text that came in.
Speaker 1: Can they garnish his check for contempt for not paying bills?
Speaker 8: For not paying bills we need? Are we talking child support?
Speaker 8: Not paying bills? Are we talking alimony? Are we talking
Speaker 8: utility company? Went to court small claims court and got
Speaker 8: a judge. So I'll break it into two ways Let's
Speaker 8: say it's a small claims court by a utility company
Speaker 8: for unpaid bills, okay, and they go to small claims
Speaker 8: and they want a judgment against you. Can they garnish
Speaker 8: it absolutely? Let's take it from a child support side.
Speaker 8: Let's say you were ordered to pay something specific medical
Speaker 8: bill or something like that and you don't pay it
Speaker 8: and they get a judgment against you. Can they garnish
Speaker 8: it absolutely? So, I mean garnishment Sy's pretty easy as
Speaker 8: long as they have a judgment from the court. Absolutely
Speaker 8: they can. They can actually under a garnishment take up
Speaker 8: to sixty five percent per paycheck and wow, until you're
Speaker 8: you're caught up on whatever you owe.
Speaker 1: So be aware, guys, it's important to get out in
Speaker 1: front of that. Don't wait.
Speaker 8: Absolutely, don't make it for you, yeah, because we you
Speaker 8: may wake up one day, because I mean, that's the
Speaker 8: thing is is if you have notice on a court
Speaker 8: hearing from somebody you owe money to, all right, a
Speaker 8: company or whatever, go don't just say well, I'm not
Speaker 8: going to deal with it. Don't do that because they
Speaker 8: will get a default judgment against you. And the next
Speaker 8: step if they don't do an asset here and the
Speaker 8: next step is going to get a garnishment from you.
Speaker 8: And if you work and they are going to take it.
Speaker 8: It's just that simple. So don't miss court. And if
Speaker 8: you have small claims issues and you've got a court
Speaker 8: day coming up, give us a call. We deal with
Speaker 8: those two with our other office. We have people that
Speaker 8: can go and help you on those small claims actions
Speaker 8: as well, So please don't ignore it.
Speaker 1: Jeff Finsley from Hensley and Associates has join us eight
Speaker 1: three three four six oh kmod VICKI is on the line.
Speaker 1: Go ahead, Vicky. What's your question for Jeff Finsley?
Speaker 11: My question is how does someone that went to court
Speaker 11: and ordered by the judge and the lawyer and he
Speaker 11: gets right to see his kids every other weekend and stuff.
Speaker 6: And that goes on for a while, and.
Speaker 11: She's cordered to do that, and every time she's been
Speaker 11: done core do that. She turns around later on and
Speaker 11: runs with the kids and moves and she's done that
Speaker 11: three or four times and she still don't learn to
Speaker 11: the kids. Okay, he doesn't have them made to hire
Speaker 11: another lawyer.
Speaker 8: Okay, So if they're if she is violating court orders,
Speaker 8: there are contemptations motions to enforce. There's all sorts of things.
Speaker 8: We can do a motion to modify custody because obviously
Speaker 8: she's violating orders willfully. She is doing her best to
Speaker 8: alienate to try. I mean, you have options. Well, you
Speaker 8: said he didn't have any money to hire an attorney,
Speaker 8: so I mean that's it's kind of like Corbyn has
Speaker 8: said numerous times on the air before. You can't afford
Speaker 8: not to hire an attorney. I mean you may say
Speaker 8: that you don't have the money, but at the same
Speaker 8: time too, you can't afford not to because you've got
Speaker 8: something going. Did he have an attorney before when she
Speaker 8: was doing all this stuff?
Speaker 11: H yeah, and then it was cool ordered and everything
Speaker 11: that she'd take care of that she's let him to
Speaker 11: the kids and all this and that, and she moved
Speaker 11: again and she didn't lead me to the kids.
Speaker 8: Was anything? Was anything filed at that point?
Speaker 5: Yes?
Speaker 8: Okay?
Speaker 11: And they now you don't have a lawyer again, because
Speaker 11: you know that was back about a year ago. And
Speaker 11: she does this every time.
Speaker 8: She's going to be held in contempt every single time
Speaker 8: she does it.
Speaker 1: But but I think what the what the caller is
Speaker 1: trying to get to is that she can put pressure
Speaker 1: and have him make him have to get another lawyer
Speaker 1: and take up on cost to enforce the order.
Speaker 8: Right, and at some point and again at some point
Speaker 8: there should have been a motion. In my this is
Speaker 8: just my opinion. I don't know more than what you're
Speaker 8: telling me. So it's not like I got the the
Speaker 8: docket she told.
Speaker 11: What we're talking about. You're saying is that that this time,
Speaker 11: like I tell him, you get a lawyer to go
Speaker 11: to court and say if she tries to vow at
Speaker 11: at this time, she would go to jail because they
Speaker 11: were in it before that.
Speaker 8: Let's listen, okay, just a second. Nobody in the state
Speaker 8: of Oklahoma is going to go to jail because of
Speaker 8: denying visitation. That's not going to happen. I've done this
Speaker 8: twenty years. I will tell you there's not one judge
Speaker 8: in this entire state that will throw somebody in jail
Speaker 8: or a visitation issue. But they can't. Listen. They can
Speaker 8: change custody to him if she keeps violating the orders.
Speaker 6: Right.
Speaker 8: The judge does have that power, and I have seen
Speaker 8: judges do that even if they threaten her with jail.
Speaker 8: What county was this in by the way Pittsburgh County,
Speaker 8: so they do things a little different down there. So
Speaker 8: maybe there was a judge that threatened her with that,
Speaker 8: But I would be very, very very surprised if anyone
Speaker 8: actually throws her in jail for visitation issues. Never seen
Speaker 8: it done in all my years, and I've practiced in Pittsburgh.
Speaker 11: So with that, will I'm to say that the lawyer
Speaker 11: to tell my grandson that she was held and from him.
Speaker 6: They caught her in.
Speaker 11: Lion set and they had recordings and they call it
Speaker 11: a line and they told her you don't be lying
Speaker 11: or you can go to jail for that.
Speaker 8: Well, that that's called perjury. That's a different situation. That's
Speaker 8: called perjury. So you know what you need to do
Speaker 8: is if you would give your name and number to Gimpie,
Speaker 8: I will have somebody from my office give you guys
Speaker 8: a call and we'll see what we can do to
Speaker 8: help out. Okay, I love that.
Speaker 6: I'll give you my grandson's all right, Gimpy can.
Speaker 8: Get that from you.
Speaker 1: Lie. I think she's also getting wrapped up, which a
Speaker 1: lot of people do on the TV version of contempt.
Speaker 8: Right, it's not the same. I mean, not everybody goes
Speaker 8: to jail for contempt. I mean, is there a provision
Speaker 8: in the law about jail for contempts?
Speaker 9: Absolutely?
Speaker 8: Okay, people will and this is what I've seen in
Speaker 8: my practice. People will go to jail for unpaid child support.
Speaker 8: People will go to jail for unpaid alimony. People will
Speaker 8: go to jail for unpaid medicals and things like that. Okay,
Speaker 8: I've seen that, But I've never ever seen anybody go
Speaker 8: to jail over visitation issues. Okay, for denial of visitation.
Speaker 8: It's just not done. We don't throw people in jail
Speaker 8: for that kind of stuff. We have the ability, we
Speaker 8: have the option to do so. But I will tell
Speaker 8: you an actual real life practice. I've never ever seen
Speaker 8: that in any county in this state that I've practiced in.
Speaker 1: Does it exist where a judge goes contempt and you
Speaker 1: go straight to jail? So where is there a process
Speaker 1: that has to go.
Speaker 8: So, I mean, you have to have a hearing and
Speaker 8: the judge has to find them in willful contempt. In
Speaker 8: other words, here's an example. So let's say you owe
Speaker 8: child support, and let's say that you've been trying to pay.
Speaker 8: You've been trying to pay, you haven't been just doing
Speaker 8: a fat guse egg right, a big zero, all right,
Speaker 8: and you've been trying to pay, you filed the motion
Speaker 8: to modify, You've done all the things you're supposed to
Speaker 8: do to try and get that taken care of, but
Speaker 8: you're still falling behind. Okay. That's not willful. Okay. Or
Speaker 8: let's say, for example, you have been paying your child
Speaker 8: support perfect all this time, and they say, you know,
Speaker 8: you know, you're in a car wreck and you're incapacitated
Speaker 8: and you can't work anymore and you're working on getting
Speaker 8: Social Security disability. That's not wilful. Willful is screw you.
Speaker 8: I'm not going to give you a dime. Willful is
Speaker 8: you can go to hell because I'm not gonna You
Speaker 8: don't let me see my kids, so I'm not going
Speaker 8: to pay. That's wilful. If someone is found in willful content,
Speaker 8: meaning they cognitively choose not to do it, and the
Speaker 8: judge finds that that's what happened, they have that option
Speaker 8: to go to jail under the law.
Speaker 1: And if I'm a guessing person someone who tries to
Speaker 1: represent themselves in that situation, that would the lawyer is
Speaker 1: going to try and not get you to be in that.
Speaker 8: Spot right, right, So you want to make sure you
Speaker 8: give us a call if you've got to contempt issue,
Speaker 8: whether you've got one against you or when we need
Speaker 8: to file. We would love to help you with that.
Speaker 8: It's complicated. Give us a call.
Speaker 1: Last one. Aleah's on the line. She has a question
Speaker 1: for Jeff Hensley of Heinsley and Associates. Aleah, go ahead,
Speaker 1: you can do it. Yeah, go ahead and turn your
Speaker 1: radio down. What's your question for Jeff Hensley of Hensley Associates.
Speaker 12: So, I've been fighting CPS for two years and jumping
Speaker 12: through all their hoops, doing everything that they asked me of, right,
Speaker 12: and they're not trying to take my right from my daughter.
Speaker 1: So have you been?
Speaker 8: I assume you have an ISP and individual service Plan.
Speaker 12: Yeah, I've done all of it.
Speaker 6: You've done that, I've done.
Speaker 8: Okay, So you've done everything in your ISP. First of all,
Speaker 8: what county is this in? Pain Payne County?
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 8: So there's a lot going on in Paine County right
Speaker 8: now in regards to the judicial system over there. I
Speaker 8: don't know if you've read any of the news or
Speaker 8: send anything like that, but there's a lot going on.
Speaker 8: With that being said, it is all tied to their
Speaker 8: child protective services and the cases that are happening over
Speaker 8: there as well. So if you'll give your name and
Speaker 8: number to Gimpee I and give us a call, we
Speaker 8: can give you some information about the people that are
Speaker 8: handling those issues that are going on over there that
Speaker 8: you might be a part of based upon what you're
Speaker 8: telling me, I mean typically it. The idea is that
Speaker 8: just so you know, when someone does an ISP and
Speaker 8: ay finish it. And if everything has been done and
Speaker 8: you know the reason that you lost your kids has
Speaker 8: been has been taken care of, then at that point
Speaker 8: the law has to terminate the case because you've done
Speaker 8: everything that the quarter has asked you to do. But again,
Speaker 8: there's some issues going on over there, and I don't
Speaker 8: want to talk about them on the radio per se,
Speaker 8: other than to tell people to read the news. But
Speaker 8: with that being said, if you'll give you nim gimpe,
Speaker 8: we can give you a call and give you some
Speaker 8: information on who to contact over there for those issues
Speaker 8: that they're currently challenging.
Speaker 1: Those issues right hang on the line. We should point
Speaker 1: that out too. We always talk about founding law on
Speaker 1: how you guys can help with divorces and custodies and
Speaker 1: guardianships and name changes and all that. But if you
Speaker 1: also find yourself in a situation with CHOB Protective Services whoever, you,
Speaker 1: guys can help navigate that too. As you communicate with
Speaker 1: these people often.
Speaker 8: Yeah, absolutely, and we stay on top of you know,
Speaker 8: what's involved in what's going on and things like that,
Speaker 8: So always give us a call. I mean, navigating the system, Yeah,
Speaker 8: the system can be very complicated. It looks simple, it's not.
Speaker 8: There's a lot of ins and outs, and depending upon
Speaker 8: what county you're in, it can be even more confusing
Speaker 8: and more difficult. Even though they're all supposed to be
Speaker 8: the same, it doesn't work that way in actual practical
Speaker 8: practice out there. So please, if you've got any issues
Speaker 8: or any questions, what's whoever, call us. We're happy to
Speaker 8: help in any way, and if we can't help you,
Speaker 8: we can help direct you to somebody that can. But
Speaker 8: you know, if you've got something outside of family law,
Speaker 8: we have another office that we use with other attorneys.
Speaker 8: It's our office. We own it. We just didn't change
Speaker 8: the name from who had it before because they've been
Speaker 8: there forever, their firm had been there forever. But we
Speaker 8: can help you with that. So anything outside of family law,
Speaker 8: we can help you with criminal law or probates, wills, trust,
Speaker 8: if you've got CPS issues, anything like that, we can
Speaker 8: help you with that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's important to get help to navigate to navigate
Speaker 1: these especially when you're someone like Aleah who's climbed the mountain,
Speaker 1: done the work and feels like she's still not getting
Speaker 1: anywhere with their situation. And that's why you need representation
Speaker 1: and the folks that Hensley Associates can help out. Night
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Speaker 1: get that help. Talk to one of the folks at
Speaker 1: Hinsley Associates over the phone, tell them a little bit
Speaker 1: about your case and they'll give you some guidance. And
Speaker 1: as Jeff mentioned, you can get help in other areas
Speaker 1: of law.
Speaker 8: Tooh absolutely so with them again, anything in addition to
Speaker 8: famiel off, you've got something as mundane as a dui
Speaker 8: all the way up to murder and everything between. On
Speaker 8: the criminal side, if you've got a will or a
Speaker 8: trust that needs to be drafted, if you need a prenup,
Speaker 8: if you've got a probate issue. Someone has passed away
Speaker 8: and now their will or their trust is being probated.
Speaker 8: If you've got a contract issue, if you're selling a
Speaker 8: piece of land and you've got questions about the sale contract,
Speaker 8: I mean literally anything. In addition to famiul Off, you
Speaker 8: give Leah a call up at our office in.
Speaker 1: Pahuska different Alya than we just had on.
Speaker 8: Her name is Lee l Eah, So if you give
Speaker 8: Leah a call up there, she's our attorney. She does
Speaker 8: a great job. Everyone loves her. They are well known
Speaker 8: up there in Osage County. Please don't worry about where
Speaker 8: the location is. We go all over the state. That's
Speaker 8: just where she's physically located. We do zoom meeting with
Speaker 8: clients and all sorts of stuff all the time up there,
Speaker 8: So please please give her a call so that she
Speaker 8: can help you out.
Speaker 1: Nine two for Hensley Associates. Jeff, thanks for joining us.
Speaker 8: Have a great day.
Speaker 1: We'll be back. If you're listening to the big Man morting,
Speaker 1: I don't know why any woman would want to have
Speaker 1: a baby, And I'm going to give you two reasons.
Speaker 1: Why forget the it's it's a miracle all that other stuff. Right. Yeah, One,
Speaker 1: Lego hands do you know about this? Lego hands is
Speaker 1: a nickname that women for something women get when they're pregnant, swollen, stiff, numb,
Speaker 1: tingling hands. And it happens during pregnancy. Apparently, all the
Speaker 1: extra flu in the body produce that gets produced collects
Speaker 1: in the hands and can compress nerves around the wrist,
Speaker 1: causing pregnancy related carpal tunnel syndromes. And it often starts
Speaker 1: occurring after twenty eight weeks and only in the mornings.
Speaker 9: Interesting, never had that.
Speaker 1: And you're supposed to wear like wrist splints to like
Speaker 1: help write. That's on top of hemorrhoids, by the way, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you have a lot of experience that did. Yes.
Speaker 10: Uh?
Speaker 1: I again, why a woman would want to go through
Speaker 1: this is just beyond me, because a man I don't
Speaker 1: think would make it past the first day? Is that
Speaker 1: hold down?
Speaker 6: Uh?
Speaker 1: The other thing I have never heard of this lightning crotch.
Speaker 1: It's electrified.
Speaker 9: I've heard that's a good thing.
Speaker 1: Apparently this is a sudden, sharp, stabbing electric shock like
Speaker 1: pain in the vagina cervix, rectum or lower pelvis. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I do recall that. Actually you had lightning cross.
Speaker 10: Yeah, it's like a sharp it's essentially like a cramp,
Speaker 10: but yeah, very sharp pain.
Speaker 1: That happens in the third trimester when the baby presses
Speaker 1: against the cervix or nearby nerves. Why do they use
Speaker 1: such a gentle word presses, yeah, mashes, stomps. It's an
Speaker 1: elevator button. Right, It's a human being in there kicking ass.
Speaker 1: Lasts for a few seconds and is not, by itself
Speaker 1: a sign that labor has begun.
Speaker 10: So when I was thirty two weeks pregnant with Marcus,
Speaker 10: he was breech and I did not want to see section,
Speaker 10: and that was my option at the time, and the
Speaker 10: doctor said, well, if he doesn't turn, we'll most.
Speaker 9: Likely have to give you a C section.
Speaker 10: So I went online and I googled everything possible, like
Speaker 10: how to get a baby to become unbreached. And he
Speaker 10: was born in July, so it was summertime, and there
Speaker 10: was a thing on there that said headstands or handstands
Speaker 10: would help a baby become unbreached. Right, So I got
Speaker 10: into the pool and I did seventeen of those emms and.
Speaker 9: Handstands in the pool.
Speaker 10: And later that night, I was laying on my side
Speaker 10: on our couch in the living room and our dog
Speaker 10: at the time was was cuddling with me, and he
Speaker 10: was the little spoon, if you will, and I felt
Speaker 10: that electric pain and the lightning bolt whatever they call it,
Speaker 10: because the baby was turning and you could see it,
Speaker 10: and that dog jumped off the couch and started staring
Speaker 10: at my stomach and I let out this the hugest scream.
Speaker 9: I was in so much pain because you could see
Speaker 9: him turning. He was big baby. And Kevin runs out
Speaker 9: of the bedroom.
Speaker 10: He's like, is it time, He's got the bags ready
Speaker 10: to go, And I said, no, I don't think he's
Speaker 10: breach anymore. And three days later we did have a
Speaker 10: doctor's appointment and sure enough he was no longer breach.
Speaker 10: He for sure turned. So, if you know any pregnant
Speaker 10: women whose babies are breached, headstands.
Speaker 1: Work, What do you think is worse? And during I'm
Speaker 1: gonna name some things during pregnancy. You tell me which
Speaker 1: ones are like the absolute worst. So immediately we should
Speaker 1: have a number one ranking. We'll see if it gets unseated. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: morning sickness or heartburn heartburn that's worse, Yes, okay heartburn
Speaker 1: or sciatica.
Speaker 10: Pain sciatic pain, ssiatic pain.
Speaker 1: Yeah, sciatica pain or leg cramps sciatica, UH Sciatica, or
Speaker 1: frequent urination sciatica sciatica, or insomnia sciatica, UH Sciatica or
Speaker 1: losing your hair sciatica. These are all things that happened
Speaker 1: by the way sciatica. Or nose bleeds or bleeding gums.
Speaker 1: I think that's pretty extreme one.
Speaker 9: But Siatica.
Speaker 1: I did have bleeding gums, okay, sciatica or Varico's veins.
Speaker 9: Sciatica.
Speaker 1: I have varicos veins sciatica, or excess salivaiatica, moist Sciatica,
Speaker 1: or heightened sense of smell sciatica sciatica, or food aversions
Speaker 1: Siatica sciatica, or hot flashes or constant constant sweating Siatica sciatica,
Speaker 1: or lightning crotch sciatica sciatica, or heymorrhoids.
Speaker 9: Mm hmmm, that's a tie.
Speaker 1: No, there's gonna be one winter. I'm gonna go with
Speaker 1: sciatica sciatica or constipation.
Speaker 9: Oh, they're both awful.
Speaker 1: It's a no.
Speaker 3: No, the birth of.
Speaker 1: Child's a beautiful thig yes Sciantica. Anybody who wants to
Speaker 1: have a kid, they should go. All right, here's the list.
Speaker 1: Look good man, I gotta take a break with the
Speaker 1: back