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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Bill.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to jump in here before we started tell

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you a little bit about the episode. We recorded this

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on Kevin's birthday. Kevin been here since the beginning, married guy,

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three boys, hockey dad. I'm pretty sure it means he

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spent most of his adult life cold, tired, emotionally negotiating,

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and honestly, every guy does this pretending he knows what

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he's doing right. And here's the thing nobody really tells

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you about. As you get older.

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Speaker 1: At some point you just kind of figure this out.

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You're no longer in control, not of your kids, not

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of your body, and not of the outcomes you'll work

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really hard to plan for. You're just involved. You watch

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your kids get good at something, maybe great, and suddenly

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it's not about teaching anymore. It's about stepping back and

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not fucking it all up.

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Speaker 2: Your marriage that shifts goes from passion to partnership. You

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kind of need each other to balance it all out.

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Your body sends little notifications you didn't sign up for.

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We as humans love control, we worship it, and then

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life quietly.

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Speaker 1: Digs it away.

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Speaker 2: So this episode isn't really about hockey or football, or

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bad calls or snowstorms. It's about what happens when that

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illusion breaks, and how you play the next part without panicking,

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without disappearing, without pretending you're fine. Kevin s here, it's

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his birthday. Let's talk about the part and nobody he

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prepares you for. If the new year has you saying

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I did not sign up for this, like a worker's

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comp case, social security disability, or a personal injury claim,

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don't try to.

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Speaker 1: Google lawyer your way through it. Go to Connors and Ferris.

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Speaker 2: They have offices in Buffalo, New York City, Syracuse, and Rochester,

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and they'll get back to you within twenty four hours. Yeah,

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so even when you're stress scrolling at two am, you

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can call two six to two COMP, tell them a

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little bit about what's going on in your life, and

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within twenty four hours one of their attorneys will get

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back to you.

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Speaker 1: You'll talk to real lawyers who.

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Speaker 2: Will explain things in plain English, not legal mumbo jumbo.

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Workers comp, social security disability, personal injury complicated. Absolutely something

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you should handle alone. Nope, Connors and Ferris experienced, responsive

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and committed to serving you better call two six' to TWO.

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Comp helps available right.

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Speaker 3: Now when your old career gives you, lemons throwing some,

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ice mix in some vodka and call it a podcast

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from The mac Of All Trade studio In fairport and

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driven By Victor. Kreisler dots, gee, Brahm It's bilified The

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Bill Moran.

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Speaker 4: Podcast, well hello and.

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Speaker 2: Welcome thanks for getting your pot. On thank you for

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telling a. Friend that's how we spread the word about

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the pirate. Ship slowly growing like my god after the,

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storm like moles up your. Back, yeah slowly growing like

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the voles the way. BACK i just went for a skit.

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Check how dare? You how dare?

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Speaker 1: You all the? Way? Yeah oh, yeah, yeah yeah. Yeah

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this lady's a little nicer. Lady yeah it going with

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like a half. To so you don't like embarrass? Her uh,

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NO i have WELL i have a fluffer embarrass. Her

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HOW i gonna embarrass? Her going? Flimp she might be,

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like oh hot? Anymore, no no, hot no. CHILLED i

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think younger than. ME i think this one's younger than.

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Me the other, one the other one was. Older uh.

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Speaker 2: No and and this one doesn't like the other one

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would do like a blue light. Around this one just

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lifts my underwear and looks.

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Speaker 1: The blue light like you're checking out for coming. OUT

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i don't, know. Hotel that's read pretty, MUCH i, think, yeah,

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PROBABLY i don't. KNOW i don't know what that. Is, which,

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lady you have been asked, This, oh you know what today?

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Is kevin's? Birthday, married three, sons hockey, dad, alcoholic no, drunk, yeah,

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alcoholics going to. MEETINGS i was thinking about. This you

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have been, cold, tired and emotionally confused pretty much for

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the last fifteen twenty. Years how long have you been? Married twenty?

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Two all, right so twenty. Years i'll say you might

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have been not emotionally confused the first, two but then

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the kids come along and. That you.

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Speaker 2: KNOW i was thinking about this, too because it Was kevin's.

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Birthday thank GOD i put in my fucking calendar this

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year because there would have been.

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Speaker 1: Nothing, OH i also do you also asked me like

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two weeks, ago you guessed like four, days And i'm,

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Like i've just tell you what it. Is, yeah, yeah,

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YEAH i put it in my. CALENDAR i just A

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facebook remind me when it's your. Birthday, yeah that's. FINE

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i MEAN i usually shop ahead SO i don't have

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to worry about. It, right that's a calendar pub up that.

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Day so that's WHY i did the. Thing BUT i

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was thinking about it BECAUSE i, go you, know for,

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BIRTHDAYS i don't even know how old you.

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Speaker 2: Are forty, seven, no forty, five no, three you're going

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the wrong.

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Speaker 1: Way oh you're forty. Eight, nope you're not, Fifty nope

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you're forty. Nine there you, go closest to the. Pits.

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Speaker 2: Christ it's, like, mean, YEAH i, mean it's like the

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hardest part isn't the kids and the. Diapers it's watching

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them not need you, anymore you. KNOW i, mean that

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really IS i, think honest To. God AND i know

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it sounds a little strange from guys to be talking about,

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that but it's like watching your kids become people that

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no longer ask your. Permission it's kind of been you

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don't really need.

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Speaker 1: To it's kind of been the ongoing team of the

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group chat that it was in over the weekend Because

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sam's In. Vegas yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, Yeah and then

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couldn't come. Back they got their flight delayed because of the. Storm,

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RIGHT i think it Was. Thursday, yeah they had already

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canceled it because of the, storm which really wasn't that

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big of a storm to be honest with, YOU i didn't. Think,

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yeah but he got they got. Stuck so they're coming

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back tomorrow at some. Point, okay so he got an

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extra two days In. Vegas that's what we're saying. THERE

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i guess there could be worse places to be. Straight oh, yeah,

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yeah we getting out. THERE i guess it was a

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night where they went From. Chicago they were supposed To

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chicago To. Vegas they went To chicago To denver To.

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Vegas WHY i don't. KNOW i didn't. Ask, oh maybe

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maybe that was the original flight for that plane and

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they had to cancel. It it makes no sense to,

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Me BUT i, don't you know WHAT i. Mean it's,

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LIKE i don't. Know so what does it feel like

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for you forty nine years old when you realize that

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your kids are closer to leaving than they are. Coming

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you know What i'm? Saying like the same thing for.

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Speaker 2: Me both my older guys are, gone and It jamison

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will be gone in two.

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Speaker 1: Years there's many days Where i'm, like get the fuck, out,

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GO i got plans for your. Room, GO i got

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plans for your. Room but, yeah but it is, like,

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okay all, RIGHT i Think dad's probably have a better

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easier time than that with that than. Mom's oh, Yeah

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bob's going through because his oldest just. THERE i think

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he's twenty. Four, yeah they just he just moved out

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with his, girlfriend, okay and they were going through all

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the get in the place and getting everything. RIGHT i

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think they spent two days over there getting everything put

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together and everything put up and put, away and then he. Helped. Yeah,

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YEAH i think he's he's going through a till why

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GOING i have to do that BECAUSE i think one

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of my guys is going to move in with his girlfriend,

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Too And I'M i. Don't here's the.

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Speaker 2: Problem LIKE i did live with people prior to being,

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married AND i do remember my mother BECAUSE i think

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the GIRL i was living with is like she wanted

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to wrap a present for she was going to see

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one of her naz friends and she wanted to wrap a.

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Speaker 1: Present she's, like, oh you can use the. Bedroom my

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mother wouldn't go in there out a blue. LIGHT i

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don't probably, PROBABLY i MEAN i, DON'T i don't. KNOW

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i don't. Know but like you're at all the hockey,

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games you do. ALL i was there, Yesterday, yeah in

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the FUCKING Afc championship. Game, oh, wow four. O'clock as

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soon AS i saw that we made it last, WEEK

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i immediately Texted brady's, coach who's also A patriots, fan

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you need to fix. Us and he. Couldn't he, Tried he,

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Tried he. Tried called me at two. Thirty, yeah said

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the game was. Canceled somebody told him they were shutting

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down after three. O'clock oh, okay, okay the game was. Canceled,

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yeah So i'm like walked in till Because brad didn't

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want to go. Either, yeah he wanted to watch football. Game,

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yeah SO i walked, IN i grabbed the, beer walked,

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in sat in my chair ready to kick it. Off

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phone rings it the coach's. Wife, yeah we may have

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given you bad. News we may have given you bad

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news or bad, information bad. Information, yeah the bad news

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is coming. Off first of, All, yeah we were the

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only people in MCC's At Tim. Horton's there was no other.

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Games every the ring was. Dark, yeah there was. Nothing, yeah,

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like why did they hold it the other? Day?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, uh Because brady's your youngest, yep but your

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your Son, tyler who's still in high. School and then

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you Have sam who's In vegas now coming. Back but,

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Uh tyler still in high school has got like a

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really promising future in hockey or AM i over stating?

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Speaker 1: Hopefully?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, so, like at what point as a parent

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does it become from supporting to supporting means getting out

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of the, way letting him listen to other.

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Speaker 1: People you know What.

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Speaker 2: I'm, saying BECAUSE i always, worry like you'll hear about

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and a lot of them are turned. Out, okay but

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you don't want to Be Todd meredovich's. Dad you're not

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and that's not you at. All but you played.

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Speaker 1: Hockey you understand the. Game you have a passion for.

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Speaker 2: It it's, like BUT, I i, MEAN i think it's

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fair to say your kid's better at it than You.

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Speaker 1: Tyler, Okay Well i'm not trying to be. Mean i'm

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Just i'm just SAYING i think he's one of the

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best in the. Area, yeah, yeah, definitely, YES i JUST

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i still give him my two, cents LIKE i, say,

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hey you know you did this while this well, this

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well this is something where maybe it was not your best.

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Option BUT i will always remind him when he comes

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home and tells me that one of his high school

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coaches or his travel coach says the exact same THING i,

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said like three weeks. Ago, yeah, like, oh oh well

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look at, this look at. This oh dad knows. All

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or WHEN i told him over the, SUMMER i, go you,

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know you probably need to put on about ten to

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fifteen pounds of. Muscle it'll make, you it'll take your

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game to the next. Level and they got train wrecked

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a couple weeks. Ago, man that kid just fucking murdered. Me,

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yeah maybe if you put that muscle on us to eat. McDonald's,

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there fat. Bitch they see the, kid the kid, is he's,

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wiring he's put on a. Muscle, yeah he's got a little.

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Bit he could definitely stand to fifteen. More.

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Speaker 2: Uh because that's the thing, is LIKE i never knew

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my dad was not a sports, guy so he didn't understand.

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Speaker 1: Anything he was doing crossrod puzzles WHILE i was out

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the field playing. Games and that's the, thing, is, like

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how do you know when pushing? Helps and and SOMETIMES i.

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Speaker 2: Think it's about our own. Anxiety like for some, parents

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you don't want to see the kid like do. Anything

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BUT i don't get really that vibe with.

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Speaker 1: You he got messed up a little bit against he

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got his had his bell rung against McQuaid and he

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was definitely not feeling. Great and we went To Lake

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plai and he definitely played like shit because he was,

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sick sick with he had DO i think he was

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still feeling some of the effects of getting his belt. Wrung,

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yeah he didn't have a, concussion but he definitely was.

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Not but he was also he had a nasty head,

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cold so he just he played. Awful he had no

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points in two, games which is not like. Him, yeah

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and does that what does that? Do what does that

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do for? You does that make you like a? Little

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just makes?

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Speaker 5: Me?

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Speaker 2: NO i JUST i just let him do His, YEAH i,

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mean he got to let him do his, thing and he,

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can't you, know and he. Certainly it's a weird thing

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because you, know we see all them.

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Speaker 1: And we can get to it a little bit later, Too.

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Speaker 2: But we see all the stuff with football and things like,

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that and it's always guys playing through the. Pain And

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i'm not sure if that's always good or. BAD i

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really don't. KNOW i MEAN i look at guys Like Baker.

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Mayfield would he have had a better career In cleveland

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had he not played through the?

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Speaker 1: Pain just because you, Know i'm still surprised we haven't

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heard what's been up WITH. I, honestly there really was

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nothing and he was just a bad couple of games

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For Josh. Allen but there's got to be something that he. Had,

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OH i got Some here's got to be, something shoulder like. Something,

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YEAH i, MEAN i can't. IMAGINE i can't imagine.

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Speaker 2: When you think About, tyler what scares you More tyler

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not making it Or tyler making?

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Speaker 1: It and then WHAT i don't think. Either. WHAT i

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just he needs to do his. Thing if he does his,

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thing HE'S i would prefer to go to college. ROUTE

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i don't think that's the way he wants to. GO

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i JUST i feel like if he goes to college and,

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plays he may not get a free, education but he'll

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get a good chunk of financial aid and have. Options

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with the transfer, portal you can start out In division

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three and you can go all the way To division. One.

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Yeah you go out there and you play your game

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and you prove that you're worth your. Time, yeah teams

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will find. You and that's the. Thing he wants to

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play for another team this. Year i'm, Like i'm gonna

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get more, exposure go all, right tell me all the

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kids that played in that team last, year what kind

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of exposure did they. Get then you're gonna go to

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this team and you're gonna be third. Line you're not

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gonna be the top. Guy he. Said, Well I'M i

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Just i'm, like if you're good, enough they'll find. You

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it doesn't matter if you're playing In, Alaska, Florida New,

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york they'll find you if you're good. Enough, NO i.

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Agree we've done all this, stuff with the recruiting stuff

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to help you so they can find you. Easier not a,

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yeah it it becomes, well it also becomes like a

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point of like it's just the taxi tax on your

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body of constantly fucking running to these hockey, things you,

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know after a, while right, like, god, DAMN i can't.

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Imagine none of my guys played. Hockey SO I i don't,

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know BUT i watch. YOU i watched, uh you, know

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the backs and their kids and and they're little and,

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uh just all of. It you, KNOW i even see

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people with. Soccer it's just it's it's you gotta. Finds

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it's not always about the kids on the. Team it's

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us about the. Parents if you have shitty, parents what's

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the fun of Going oh, right, right, Yeah. Brady brady's

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team is certainly no more or no nowhere near the

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fun The tyler's team. Is, yeah the, parents. RIGHT i

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mean we've also been together for close to ten years

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as a hockey, family SO i mean that makes a

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lot different, too but. Huge we just have a. Lot

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we just have a lot more, fun. RIGHT i, Mean

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brady's team is, new and you're not going to not

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go To brady's, game, Right no things here you. Go

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you just may have, to uh behave yourself a little.

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BIT i always behave myself either. Way either, WAY i

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always behave. MYSELF i stand by myself SO i don't

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get in trouble for the when you're yelling and. STUFF

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i meant, like if you're out how hockey tournaments and,

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things drink it to the lobby through that kind Of

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oh that's the. Given, yeah WELL i did. GET i did.

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GET i Told tyler and A brady's coach, said you,

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know this is not my first rodeo with, this So

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i'm going to be judging as hell the first tournament

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we go to out of. Town, yeah he, goes all,

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right you're the official judge of parents are that's a bad,

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idea BUT i. Accept, oh so you're judging the other

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parents in their. Behavior, WELL i MEAN i get. THAT

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i get.

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Speaker 2: That Uh, no, MAN i think you've done a hell

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of a job with those. BOYS i, mean you, KNOW

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i remember someone saying to, me good good parents build

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roots and they know when to let go and not grab,

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them you, know and let them kind of find their own.

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Speaker 1: Way and it's not. Easy it's, hard you. KNOW i

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even see with like my oldest kid wanting all these you,

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know trying to get all these different, jobs and you

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want to jump in and, go why are you not

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X y and, zing and you kind of.

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Speaker 2: Can't you got to. Go it's it's their. LIFE i

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Think i'd learned that lesson from me. Personally with my middle,

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son who got into a, college said it was his first.

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Choice it Was Saint Joseph's university down In.

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Speaker 1: Philly we went. There we looked At villanova as. Well

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he got into.

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Speaker 2: Both he decided he really like that, one that, program that.

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Thing we walked around the, campus we did all this, stuff.

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Speaker 1: And i'm, like.

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Speaker 2: Awesome and then he there's a really really small college

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that he and his mom went to visit that's very

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local to us to where we, are And i'm, like

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he's not gonna like. It that's not what he's looking.

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FOR i want you to have the college, experience not

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just and especially where he, went there's not as there's

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not a college experience right in terms of, like you,

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know all the different AND.

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Speaker 1: I can't say that it's not, diverse but just in

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terms of it's not guys being guys going out getting

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maybe maybe either was it sounds like there, was or

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he made friends with other. Students but so he goes

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to this small private college because they would put him

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on the track team and he was an okay, athlete.

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Speaker 2: But they, said, yeah we'll give you some money from

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the track. Team so he was a thrower and it

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changed his whole body and. Everything, he's you, know a

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powerlifter now wants to get certified to be a trainer

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on the side of whatever else he's.

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Speaker 1: Doing it's so good for. Him but at that TIME

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i wanted to jump in and, go what are you?

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Doing why are you talking about?

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Speaker 2: That AND i remember my brother, going it's not your, life,

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right and that's and that was WHEN i, Went, OKAY

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i GOTTA i gotta back off. Here and that's the

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part that's, hard because you can you believe as the,

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parent you could see the future going this.

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Speaker 1: Way you don't really. Know but the tough part is

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when you are right and you want to be LIKE

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i fucking told you, so but you. Can't, yeah there's

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been there's been that with with my. OLDEST i wanted

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to be, like, DUDE i told YOU i saw this

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coming kind of, thing, yeah BUT i kept my mouth.

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Shut well that brings us to The, Patriots, kevin because

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nothing about this season anybody saw.

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Speaker 2: COMING i don't. Believe with The, PATRIOTS i don't EVEN

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i don't. KNOW i, mean did you think that they

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would be? HERE i didn't think they get to the Super?

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BOWL i did, Say AND i had this argument with

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people at. Work i'm, like with their schedule, again we're

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going back to the. SCHEDULE i thought they could get

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the twelve. Ones, YEAH i thought they'd make the. PLAYOFFS

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i thought they could get the twelve.

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Speaker 1: Ones, yeah, sure lower. Expectations when we went out the first,

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weekend laid a fucking egg against The, raiders And i'm,

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like what the fuck?

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Speaker 2: Right and that's why you didn't have the home game,

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yep because it came down to the same. Record what

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were they both fourteen and three The Nenver. Broncos The

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patriots lost The broncos. Twice, yeah so because you, go

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you got you Got Mike, frable who could become the

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first coach to win A Super bowl as a player

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and win A Super bowl as a head coach the

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same franchise for the same.

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Speaker 1: Franchise. Exactly, Yes AND.

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Speaker 2: I you, KNOW i, go what do The patriots know

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that the other thirty teams don't or? Forgot you know

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WHAT i?

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Speaker 1: MEAN i think it's ALWAYS i don't want to say

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it's The patriot, way Because i'm sure that every team

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is a. Team, yeah but does The patriots always just

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seem to be from? Afar Obviously i'm. Not i'm not

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in it like other people that we. Know they just

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seem to be a lot closer knit. Team everybody likes,

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everybody they all do their. THING i thought about this

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a lot BECAUSE i after The bills shit that went,

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on and then you go on social media and they'll

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see all kinds of people putting up this was considered a.

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Cutch this was not considered to cutch. It AND i

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GET i can't don't let your don't let your season

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come down to one. Play, well here's here's WHAT i was.

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Speaker 2: WATCHING i, thought you, know there were people Saying Drake

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may didn't play well in the. Playoffs he hasn't and

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he didn't really play well yet done, enough but he

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played well.

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Speaker 1: Enough he's done. Enough BUT i, thought, boy because they

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are Not they're not The, bills they're Not Josh allen.

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Driven they're team driven.

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Speaker 2: Well and they seem to be fundamentals over. Flash, yep

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you know WHAT i. Mean fundamentals over. Flash and it

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was like remembering who you, know you're one to eleventh

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of this, team and it's just.

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Speaker 1: Why miss at thirteen yards when you can hit it? Four? Yeah?

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Right three fours is still twelve? Yep and it's still

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a first, down yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah and it's like they also did something. Else they

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have adaptability and in a real sense of control of

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situations that they don't necessarily have control.

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Speaker 1: Of and What i'm referring.

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Speaker 2: To is The Jared stendham flagged play that they went

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under review and then it wasn't a it was down

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where The patriot guy got it because it was a,

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fumble not a forward. Pass or lateral or whatever it,

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was and then maybe that was a bad.

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Speaker 1: Call, well they. Blew they blew the when the ball

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hit the, ground they blew the play. Dead, yes so

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that's why they give them the.

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Speaker 2: Ball The, yes BUT i think it was kind of

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a blown, call like they they should have probably got

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the touchdown The patriots for, that so instead of allowing

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that chaos to you, know, oh they're fucking does that

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kind of, thing WHICH i think in certain situations some people.

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Could it was a close game and they. Didn't they

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went in and they scored and they did what they

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had to. Do and it's one of these things where.

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Speaker 1: It's the veteran. STAFF i, mean you've Got Josh pretendens

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has been a head coach to an offensive. Coordinator you

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Got vrabel who's been a head coach for a, while

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he's been a defensive. Coordinator, right they're just wired differently

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than Say Johnny Joe, brady WHO'S i don't want to

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Say Joe brady's not wired correctly because that's not the

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right way to say, it but, right he doesn't have

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that situational stuff that He's he's just not as. Tenured

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he doesn't have the time and he doesn't have the

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experience that A josh McDaniels would. Have, yeah, NO i

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sometimes that plays into.

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Speaker 2: It sometimes that plays great for huge because you've seen

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a lot of, stuff, right and experience is is our greatest, teacher,

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right you, know words don't, teach that's the.

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Speaker 1: Thing but sometimes being the new, guy you can be,

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like you know, what fuck, it let's. Go but they

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didn't argue the.

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Speaker 2: CHAOS i didn't see ANY i didn't see any argument

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on the k AND i, thought, wow they just adjusted to.

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It and then they went forward and he goes to,

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Me it's like how much success is, talent but also

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how you respond to the.

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Speaker 1: Situation, well they talked about it on the. Broadcast Tony

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romo was talking about it because they kept showing late

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in the fourth quarter when it was blizzarding and nobody

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could move the. Ball at one, Point New england had

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a third and like ten, yeah and basically did, it

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snapped it and threw it, away knowing they were gonna

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punt and just move the. Ball but they were showing

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McDaniels And vrabel talking back and, forth constantly talking back and,

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forth trying to figure out what's our best? Play, Here,

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yeah do we try to move the? Ball do we just,

464
00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:18,200
YEAH i mean play with the. Lead let our defense.

465
00:24:18,279 --> 00:24:21,440
Win it's a chess, game, right and you're you're trying

466
00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:23,519
to SEE i don't know BECAUSE i.

467
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:25,519
Speaker 2: Was it even reminded me WHEN i was thinking about

468
00:24:25,519 --> 00:24:27,599
all this, stuff AND i, go you, know it's how

469
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:31,240
you respond to a. SITUATION i got a call earlier

470
00:24:31,279 --> 00:24:32,400
in the week from my kids'.

471
00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:37,279
Speaker 1: School something had, happened and what he said to them

472
00:24:37,839 --> 00:24:41,319
and they wanted me to know was my knee.

473
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,920
Speaker 2: Jerk my dad always, says my knee jerk response is

474
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:47,480
usually the wrong response to, have and they said, that

475
00:24:47,599 --> 00:24:49,880
we wanted you to know he said, that AND i, said, well,

476
00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:53,319
yeah usually our first, response knee jerk is hard to.

477
00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:55,640
Speaker 1: Control it's knee, jerk, right it's knee.

478
00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:59,319
Speaker 2: Jerk it's like it's it's it's, instinctual it's it's what

479
00:24:59,319 --> 00:25:02,119
you've been trained to. Do but if you can get,

480
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:06,279
that just that moment that, beat train yourself to do,

481
00:25:06,319 --> 00:25:11,599
that it's. Better because most, PEOPLE i, think in anything they're,

482
00:25:11,599 --> 00:25:15,680
doing and you look at The, patriots they lose momentum

483
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:20,160
because something was. Unfair they just lose momentum and then

484
00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:23,839
they wind, up stop playing the, game stop doing them.

485
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:27,359
Whatever hey fuck, this this guy hurt my, feeling you

486
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:27,559
know WHAT i?

487
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 1: Mean, Right AND i really.

488
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,079
Speaker 2: DO i think in life you can look at that

489
00:25:31,519 --> 00:25:34,799
LIKE i, thought that's a great. THING i hope some football,

490
00:25:34,799 --> 00:25:38,119
COACH i hope some teacher takes that patriot thing right.

491
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:41,519
There that play and. Go they didn't overreact to. It

492
00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:42,519
they stayed.

493
00:25:42,559 --> 00:25:46,640
Speaker 1: Composed AND i, mean, look The broncos had a chance

494
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:49,720
to keep them. Out they weren't. In they didn't get the.

495
00:25:49,799 --> 00:25:53,359
Touchdown you got a chance to rest your offense a little.

496
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:58,240
Bit and many teams have we, watched you, know many

497
00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:00,680
teams do. That SO i. DON'T i don't. Know it's

498
00:26:00,759 --> 00:26:01,279
kind of like.

499
00:26:03,319 --> 00:26:08,160
Speaker 2: Life doesn't reward people who are, right even though we

500
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:09,519
want to tell our kids that all the.

501
00:26:09,559 --> 00:26:10,359
Speaker 1: Time look who's.

502
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:13,279
Speaker 2: Right it rewards who keeps playing the, game who keeps,

503
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:15,720
going who keeps? Moving how many times have you heard

504
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,599
that over and over? Again AND i, think LIKE i

505
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:22,759
think was ON espn this, morning it might have Been Rex,

506
00:26:22,839 --> 00:26:25,920
ryan who Former bills head, coach Former jets head, coach

507
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:29,440
former defensive coordinator for The Baltimore, ravens said this is

508
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:32,039
not the sexiest Super bowl he. Goes BUT i think

509
00:26:32,079 --> 00:26:32,960
it's going to be a damn good.

510
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:37,880
Speaker 1: One and you, know because you've got the, Teams like you're,

511
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:40,759
right The patriot way seems to be something that is.

512
00:26:40,799 --> 00:26:42,880
Real BUT i, mean you also Have Drake may playing

513
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:46,519
three of the top five defenses in the playoffs, too

514
00:26:46,519 --> 00:26:50,480
which didn't help his his play. EITHER i, mean you're

515
00:26:50,599 --> 00:26:54,559
you're going against play well enough he, PLAYED i say

516
00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:58,720
to my buddy a number of times ago to get

517
00:26:58,759 --> 00:27:00,720
by it enough to get.

518
00:27:00,599 --> 00:27:04,480
Speaker 2: By all, Right well we'll take him on With Greg

519
00:27:04,519 --> 00:27:07,240
connors is going to be joining us late later on as.

520
00:27:07,279 --> 00:27:10,400
Speaker 1: Well BUT i can't wait For greg to watch Another

521
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:14,359
patriots fucking Super. BOWL i may have sent him a messag.

522
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:16,960
Yesterday enjoyed the Super. Bowl it was.

523
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:20,440
Speaker 2: Painful here's the part that's painful to me is that

524
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:25,240
you've got AND i feel bad, because, boy this guy

525
00:27:26,279 --> 00:27:30,960
really rose to the. Occasion talk about somebody who did

526
00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:35,359
not just like The patriots team a. Thing this individual

527
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:40,759
did not lose momentum because something was kind of. Unfair

528
00:27:41,599 --> 00:27:44,160
he was In New york At Sam. Darnold he was

529
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:47,799
in the same draft class As Baker may And Josh

530
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:51,039
allen he was picked, Third josh was picked. SEVENTH i

531
00:27:51,079 --> 00:27:57,240
think whatever what's his name was picked. Sixteenth Lamar, yeah

532
00:27:57,319 --> 00:28:00,000
And Josh rosen, too And josh.

533
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:02,599
Speaker 1: Right Josh. ROSEN i don't think who ever saw the.

534
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:03,720
FIELD i don't even know if.

535
00:28:03,599 --> 00:28:07,519
Speaker 2: He's, YEAH i don't. Know but it's, like you watch

536
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:12,920
What Sam darnold, did. Right he goes From New york

537
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:16,799
to The, panthers and then The panthers go and Get Baker,

538
00:28:16,799 --> 00:28:19,240
mayfield so they're both on the, team and he's out

539
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:22,559
To San francisco BECAUSE i think he reminded a, reporter,

540
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:24,880
Well i've won A Super bowl, before Or i've been

541
00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:26,240
on the you, Know i've been in The Super bowl.

542
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:27,799
Speaker 1: Before he didn't, play but he was on the.

543
00:28:27,839 --> 00:28:31,200
Speaker 2: Sideline then he goes from there To, minnesota has a

544
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:34,000
pretty solid, season everything's, okay Maybe wed you, know he

545
00:28:34,039 --> 00:28:35,759
found his, home and then the next thing you, know

546
00:28:35,799 --> 00:28:37,400
he's off To seattle with a new head.

547
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 1: Coach, LIKE i, think is this a rookie head. COACH

548
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:42,559
i don't know how long he's been in, there BECAUSE

549
00:28:44,119 --> 00:28:46,200
i think they Fired carol two years.

550
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:48,599
Speaker 2: Ago, okay so this is the second, season but still

551
00:28:49,039 --> 00:28:54,160
AND i, go he was great yesterday he was. THROWING i,

552
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:55,559
mean he looked really really.

553
00:28:55,599 --> 00:28:58,200
Speaker 1: Sharp it just shows what a shit show The jets

554
00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:01,240
are and what a shit show they are at developing. Players.

555
00:29:01,359 --> 00:29:02,920
Right but think about the number of.

556
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 2: GUYS i, MEAN i think a lot of people wrote

557
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:06,400
him off as a as.

558
00:29:06,279 --> 00:29:08,319
Speaker 1: A bust or. Whatever he was seeing.

559
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:11,839
Speaker 2: Ghosts that becomes like a quote that was played all the,

560
00:29:11,839 --> 00:29:14,799
time AND i, go that guy never fucking bought into

561
00:29:14,839 --> 00:29:18,119
anybody else's. Bullshit he just he knew what he had

562
00:29:18,279 --> 00:29:20,680
and he you, know and his grandfather was the marble.

563
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:23,319
Speaker 1: Man, uh he just kept.

564
00:29:23,359 --> 00:29:25,519
Speaker 2: Going AND i, go that's the ship that you want

565
00:29:25,559 --> 00:29:27,759
to teach your, kids that's the stuff you want to show.

566
00:29:27,839 --> 00:29:32,759
Speaker 1: Them but oh, man. Motherfucker all, right we'll take a

567
00:29:32,759 --> 00:29:37,000
moment and talk a little a weather BECAUSE i think

568
00:29:37,039 --> 00:29:44,640
THAT i saw an article that scared me a little. Bit, yeah,

569
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:48,000
man you got a lot going on over, there people like. Me,

570
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:52,880
okay some. People we'll get to that right after. This,

571
00:29:53,039 --> 00:29:56,720
ever look at your wall and, think, hmmm that hole.

572
00:29:56,680 --> 00:30:00,759
Speaker 2: Definitely wasn't there, Yesterday or maybe you're fawcet's got a

573
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:06,839
drip that's slowly driving you into. Madness that's when you

574
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:09,599
got to call my buddies At mac Of All trades

575
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:12,240
because it's your home and if you don't have the

576
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:15,039
skills to fix it, yourself go to the people who.

577
00:30:15,119 --> 00:30:18,799
Do and trust, me there's nobody better Than mac Of All.

578
00:30:18,839 --> 00:30:23,279
Trades they do everything leaky, fawcett they got. It drafty

579
00:30:23,319 --> 00:30:27,839
windows and doors, done electrical, plumbing carpentry, sure full kitchen

580
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:30,880
or bathroom. Model oh, yeah they'll do that, Too from

581
00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:35,039
patching the hole that someone made by definitely not slamming the,

582
00:30:35,079 --> 00:30:38,680
door to transforming your entire. Space mac Of All trades

583
00:30:38,759 --> 00:30:41,960
gets it done quickly and the right, way stop putting

584
00:30:42,039 --> 00:30:44,519
up with cold drafts and half finished to do. List

585
00:30:44,799 --> 00:30:47,000
give them a call at five eight five two zero

586
00:30:47,039 --> 00:30:51,079
two ninety two eighteen or find them online At macofolltrades dot.

587
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,720
Net get started on that to do list, Today mac

588
00:30:53,759 --> 00:30:55,880
Of All. Trades no job too.

589
00:30:55,920 --> 00:31:20,599
Speaker 1: Small you know he has child is tak you know?

590
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:28,279
It and the Fscses sammy is who sounds Like Eddie.

591
00:31:28,359 --> 00:31:31,240
Vedder it's Not, edie but is this collective?

592
00:31:31,319 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 5: Song it's not bust, me IT'S i know all the,

593
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:46,079
words you know the?

594
00:31:46,119 --> 00:31:52,359
Speaker 1: Song and he's, like, yeah but don't you Know cranberry's.

595
00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:57,440
Cover oh linger, Zombie oh. Zombie but who's singing the Bad? Wolves?

596
00:31:57,839 --> 00:32:01,960
OH i don't know the Bad. WOLVES i JUST i

597
00:32:02,079 --> 00:32:04,559
really love this. Song And i've probably got seven different

598
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:07,400
versions Of, yeah, yeah, Yeah i've got one Of Miley

599
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:08,079
cyrus doing.

600
00:32:08,119 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 5: It.

601
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:11,319
Speaker 1: Okay oh, GOD i wouldn't even have put The cranberries

602
00:32:11,359 --> 00:32:14,720
because it's. YET i knew all the, words And i'm, going, why, why,

603
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:18,759
Why i'm having this weird getting. Old that's WHY i

604
00:32:18,799 --> 00:32:24,039
have to look forward to him four. Years, yeah, man

605
00:32:24,079 --> 00:32:30,039
next year's the big, One, buddy strippers and. BLOW i

606
00:32:30,079 --> 00:32:32,079
think will be okay with? That or will you moving? Again?

607
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:35,119
OH i don't. Know we'll probably have to move after.

608
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:40,799
That i'm not really. Sure max, here it's okay If max, here, yeah, True,

609
00:32:41,079 --> 00:32:42,880
yeah he doesn't have a. Problem he's, here he can

610
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:47,279
don is the? Party, yeah so if he, blows if

611
00:32:47,279 --> 00:32:49,640
he blows the line off of strippers, ass that's gonna

612
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:52,759
wait a. Second he would never ever do. That he

613
00:32:52,799 --> 00:32:54,799
would never do. That he blows a line off your

614
00:32:54,799 --> 00:32:57,240
ass to the, party you get a little hair up there?

615
00:32:57,240 --> 00:33:01,920
Too be? TERRIBLE o my, god yeah? Gross the uh

616
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:03,279
we had that big.

617
00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:07,079
Speaker 2: STORM i don't, know like what has happened to, Me

618
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:10,400
BUT i wanted To for a, While i've been wanting

619
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:13,839
to try to make different. Things SO i made a

620
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:16,680
meat loaf And i've never made a meat loaf in my.

621
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:19,079
Life so you tried to make comedy On instagram And.

622
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:20,599
FACEBOOK i tried to make a little.

623
00:33:20,599 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 1: Comedy. YEAH i tried to do a little little funny

624
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:26,640
weather guy outside and some of it got you, know,

625
00:33:26,839 --> 00:33:28,920
people some people REALLY i don't know if they liked

626
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:29,960
it or. Not it was just quick.

627
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:34,200
Speaker 2: STUFF i think a friend of my brother's tried to friend,

628
00:33:34,279 --> 00:33:37,240
me and it's a woman who lives up the street from,

629
00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:41,079
them and she, said uh, uh you didn't have to

630
00:33:41,079 --> 00:33:43,359
accept my friend my friend. REQUEST i got the video

631
00:33:43,359 --> 00:33:45,759
from your brother OR i stole the video from. Me

632
00:33:46,039 --> 00:33:47,599
SO i don't know if she was going to redo

633
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:51,119
it like even. Funnier but here's the. Problem, probably well

634
00:33:51,119 --> 00:33:54,960
here's the. Problem SO I i knock on my kid's

635
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:56,680
door and, go, hey let me know when you got

636
00:33:57,319 --> 00:34:05,279
like ten, minutes we'll just go. Outside and, dudes, Oh.

637
00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:05,559
Speaker 1: I'm getting all kinds of crap because he's playing a

638
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:08,840
video game and he's in the, game and THEN i

639
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,159
guess something happens where now he's out of the game

640
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:13,280
and go all, right let's. Go let's go, NOW i

641
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:15,199
said to. Him and you've got you've got in your

642
00:34:15,199 --> 00:34:17,159
mind how you want to shoot. This, yes and your

643
00:34:17,159 --> 00:34:19,679
son's probably got seventeen different ways that this is gonna

644
00:34:19,679 --> 00:34:21,760
be better if he does it his. Way, well we

645
00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:23,760
didn't really talk about. IT i, Said i'm gonna stand.

646
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:25,400
Speaker 2: Over i'm not getting out in that Snow i'm not

647
00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:27,920
Doing i'm Not i'm not walking out. THERE i, go,

648
00:34:28,119 --> 00:34:31,599
OKAY i, said drumlo the.

649
00:34:31,639 --> 00:34:36,000
Speaker 1: Snowball no SHOULD i. KNOW i didn't should.

650
00:34:36,079 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 2: Have So i'm standing after her and he after of,

651
00:34:40,039 --> 00:34:44,800
course he was, like uh so he's doing. It AND i,

652
00:34:45,119 --> 00:34:47,320
go let me try one, more and he, goes, no we're.

653
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:47,760
Speaker 1: Done i'm.

654
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 2: Cold i' meant he put on no, jacket no. ANYTHING

655
00:34:51,079 --> 00:34:52,800
i said to, him play.

656
00:34:52,639 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 1: Your, game finish your. Game how long do you think

657
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:54,360
it's gonna?

658
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:56,239
Speaker 2: BE i don't, know ten ten, MINUTES i, Said i'll

659
00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:58,800
set a timer for fifteen minutes And i'll just knock

660
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:01,119
on your door. Again don't don't, rush but let's try

661
00:35:01,119 --> 00:35:02,599
to do this, now BECAUSE i don't WANT i want

662
00:35:02,639 --> 00:35:04,880
to wait OTHERWISE i really get, lost and he's, like.

663
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:07,480
Speaker 1: Oh, fine, fine we'll go, now we'll go. OUT i, go,

664
00:35:07,559 --> 00:35:10,800
Well i'm not ready, now so Now i'll try to

665
00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:12,880
get all my. Shit i'm running around and feel all

666
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:15,119
kinds of. Pressure so that's what. HAPPENED i Don't bob

667
00:35:15,199 --> 00:35:17,239
was pawing all Night friday Into saturday because there was

668
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:19,599
a bunch of. Snuff, yeah AND. I he had come

669
00:35:19,639 --> 00:35:23,320
home and he sent me a text it's like nine

670
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:27,360
thirty On saturday. MORNING i need a, drink, Buddy it's nine.

671
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:30,159
Thirty but, Okay So i'm out there waiting for. HIM

672
00:35:30,199 --> 00:35:32,199
i come in and carries, like how are you not?

673
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:35,559
Cold you were outside in a pair of sweatpants and the. Undershirt,

674
00:35:35,679 --> 00:35:38,360
YEAH i. GO i. WASN'T i was fucking, freezing and my.

675
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:42,719
NIPPLES i could tune In tokyo right, now poking the freaking. Glass.

676
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:46,760
Speaker 2: Right SO i went AND i did all the food,

677
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:49,440
shopping and you AND i talked On. SATURDAY i like

678
00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:51,639
loaded it up on all the THINGS i was gonna,

679
00:35:51,639 --> 00:35:53,559
do and it took way longer THAN i THOUGHT i

680
00:35:53,679 --> 00:35:54,039
was gonna.

681
00:35:54,039 --> 00:35:57,840
Speaker 1: Take so then YESTERDAY i get.

682
00:35:57,679 --> 00:35:59,719
Speaker 2: Up And i'm Gonna i'm doing the meat but like

683
00:36:00,039 --> 00:36:03,199
everything takes a little bit. Longer and THEN i fucked

684
00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:04,719
up the peanut. BUTTER i don't know WHY i want

685
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:05,880
to do this, Stuff LIKE i go.

686
00:36:07,119 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 1: Hormonal what's going on with?

687
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:11,079
Speaker 2: Me BUT i wanted to do. It and then TODAY

688
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:14,280
i have a slow cooked chili going. On i'm excited

689
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:15,840
for slow cooked. CHILI i like a meat.

690
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:19,119
Speaker 1: Loaf it was. Good you, know candy. Yams when you

691
00:36:19,159 --> 00:36:22,960
bought the meat, loaf, yeah all the stuff for the

692
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:25,800
meat yeah? Yeah was it more expensive to buy all

693
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:27,159
the stuff that you needed to buy for the meat

694
00:36:27,159 --> 00:36:28,760
loaf or just to buy the one that was already

695
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:30,199
set to? Go AND i just put the pen in

696
00:36:30,199 --> 00:36:31,880
the Freaking. OKAY i don't know the answer to, that

697
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:34,800
BECAUSE i had most of the ingredients, Already like it

698
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:36,760
was a lot of spices and different, Things so it

699
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:40,360
was just the meat trapping BACON i did Not, YEAH

700
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:43,280
i know somebody else did that. ONE i just came

701
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:48,159
over my. Head See see that's the thing is like

702
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:51,920
then you hear about like the snow shit that's going on, outside,

703
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:53,800
right AND i can hear the plows all the. WAY i,

704
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:55,440
mean they did a great job of keeping up with.

705
00:36:55,519 --> 00:36:56,320
THIS i don't even.

706
00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 2: Know how many answers do you think you, Got i'd

707
00:36:59,039 --> 00:37:02,239
say we got almost a, Yeah i'm saying maybe ten

708
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:06,559
twelve here. Too and you, KNOW i did read this

709
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:07,880
article on one of the news.

710
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:13,960
Speaker 1: Sites local news sites basically, said don't pretend you're twenty

711
00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:17,840
five with a shovel out. There people have heart. Attacks

712
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:21,639
but it was the, light fluffy. Stuff it wasn't the heavy. Stuff, yeah,

713
00:37:22,599 --> 00:37:26,519
yeah who, knows, BUDDY i can't. Tell it's fucking, cold

714
00:37:26,679 --> 00:37:30,239
AND i always, go, yeah but everybody goes out and

715
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:32,400
they start to, shovel and you start to sweat because

716
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:34,360
you're all bundled, up and now your body's heating them

717
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:38,199
because you're basically doing cardiovascular. Work and then you, know

718
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:41,119
you're huffing and, puffing and somebody, goes are you, Okay i'm,

719
00:37:41,119 --> 00:37:44,960
Fine i'm, Fine AND i don't. KNOW i, mean LIKE i,

720
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:47,880
think to be a man by, definition in a, way

721
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:49,880
you got to push through the, pain got to ignore.

722
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:50,039
Speaker 5: It.

723
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:52,239
Speaker 1: Right we talked all about it with the football, Players

724
00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:55,599
SO i, GO i can totally see how a heart

725
00:37:55,639 --> 00:37:59,519
attack can fucking happen with. SOMEBODY i got out there

726
00:37:59,559 --> 00:38:03,440
and did. It you didn't have your kids do it they.

727
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:05,960
Would it's like your, Kid i'm playing a video. Game

728
00:38:06,079 --> 00:38:08,840
it's like you. CAN'T i can't get LIKE. I i

729
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:11,039
gets annoyed at me the other day BECAUSE i, go,

730
00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:14,760
BUDDY i asked you to take out the garbage and

731
00:38:15,559 --> 00:38:17,719
do it. NOW i bet you ten dollars you had

732
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:20,800
said you wanted to go To chipotle instead of that

733
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:23,079
game would have been turned off for about six. Seconds

734
00:38:25,559 --> 00:38:27,440
it is, weird, Man it's it's so.

735
00:38:27,599 --> 00:38:31,400
Speaker 2: Weird BUT i because, like think of the things we

736
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:34,199
tell our, kids, right especially when they're out speak. Up

737
00:38:34,519 --> 00:38:37,079
we're all hearing, now AND i think it's a your

738
00:38:37,119 --> 00:38:42,159
start to see like PSAs and things for, uh speaking

739
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:45,039
up if we see something that isn't, Right and we

740
00:38:45,079 --> 00:38:47,360
kind of tell our kids to speak. Up but then as,

741
00:38:47,519 --> 00:38:49,800
DUDES i always figure we don't really model that because

742
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:51,519
when it comes to our health and, shit we're fucking.

743
00:38:51,559 --> 00:38:55,440
Silent i'll be, Fine i'll be, fine you, Know and

744
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:58,800
we treat like maintenance like it's it's it's weakness or.

745
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:01,679
Speaker 1: Something AND i, go that's not exactly healthy or smart.

746
00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:05,519
EITHER i should speak. Up you should stop. Drinking. Boy

747
00:39:05,559 --> 00:39:08,639
i've cut way, back ALTHOUGH i did finish throughout the

748
00:39:08,679 --> 00:39:10,440
day YESTERDAY i did finish off a bottle of. Wine,

749
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:11,800
well it's a. Storm you had to.

750
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:14,239
Speaker 2: Prepare it was all all. Day it was just like

751
00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:16,400
throughout the. Day, NOW i can't say throughout the. DAY

752
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:18,480
i THINK i. HAD i poured the first wine at

753
00:39:18,559 --> 00:39:18,760
like three.

754
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:20,760
Speaker 1: Thirty were you drinking out of glass or just right

755
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:23,360
out the? Bottle out of a, glass, buddy all class over,

756
00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:24,119
here out of.

757
00:39:24,159 --> 00:39:28,000
Speaker 2: A wine, glass, stemless short wine, glass that's. What AND

758
00:39:28,079 --> 00:39:30,239
i have stemmed as, well BUT i have not had the.

759
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:32,880
Stem maybe, today maybe TODAY i have a stemp.

760
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:36,199
Speaker 1: RhD awake because red's good for the. HEART i Had

761
00:39:36,679 --> 00:39:41,079
pinot noir. RED i have two calves at. HOME i

762
00:39:41,119 --> 00:39:43,760
have some. Rosees are they good cabs or are they are?

763
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:47,199
They are They katie good? Caves or are They Bill

764
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:49,559
moran good? Cabs they're Probably Bill moran good. CALVES i

765
00:39:49,599 --> 00:39:50,760
think they're like the number.

766
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:53,599
Speaker 2: Eight they get a couple of points in the wine,

767
00:39:53,599 --> 00:39:56,679
spectator but they're not. ANYTHING i really like The josh

768
00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:57,239
your sister.

769
00:39:57,079 --> 00:39:59,719
Speaker 1: Would use it for. Mimoses Oh Jesus, CHRIST i, forgot you,

770
00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:05,000
know meant With, KATIE i felt so, dumb like they

771
00:40:05,039 --> 00:40:07,880
had really expensive champagne AND i come in with the you,

772
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:18,320
know sixty dollar. Bottles, hey so. TERRIBLE i don't, know it's. Terrible, well,

773
00:40:18,679 --> 00:40:20,960
UH i THINK i might drink wines to night now?

774
00:40:21,039 --> 00:40:23,239
Too and now that you why why? NOT i got

775
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:26,800
a nice bottle of? Gratzki oh, wow it's your? Birthday

776
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:30,360
what's the big? Plan the family doing? SOMETHING i don't.

777
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:32,679
Know what do you mean you don't? KNOW i don't.

778
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:36,280
Know out back, Steakhouse texas? Roadhouse what are we?

779
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:43,920
Speaker 6: Doing what are we your West side Raised? Randy they

780
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:46,920
got cloth. Napkins i'm just, saying but they got clothe

781
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:47,639
dapkins at these?

782
00:40:47,639 --> 00:40:50,559
Speaker 1: Places Uh, no is there a? PLAN i have no

783
00:40:50,599 --> 00:40:52,840
idea find out WHEN i get. Home do you care

784
00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:54,679
as you get? LIKE i don't THINK i give a

785
00:40:54,679 --> 00:40:59,280
ship anymore about any of the. Holidays, yeah but even,

786
00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:02,320
there it's. Not it's nice if the kids would say.

787
00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:06,400
Something uh, yeah it's fifty to fifty on that, too

788
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:08,920
that they will or they, won't, right and or it's

789
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:11,440
nice if they recognize. It BUT i. DON'T i don't

790
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:16,199
expect it. ANYMORE i don't expect, anything, RIGHT i. DON'T

791
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:19,199
i don't expect. Anything But i'm also not even really

792
00:41:19,199 --> 00:41:25,760
in a. Relationship you're at like, Seven you're in a

793
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:30,880
relationship With, guinness your relationship With, josh your relationship With,

794
00:41:31,119 --> 00:41:35,400
jamison not your. SON i am not that this is So,

795
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:39,599
god that sounds so. BAD i uh, no But i'm not.

796
00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:43,599
Speaker 2: Well last year for my, BIRTHDAY i did get a

797
00:41:43,679 --> 00:41:46,199
nice gift from, somebody AND i need to uh it

798
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:49,119
was their. Birthday, Recently i've been trying to, reconnect BUT

799
00:41:49,199 --> 00:41:50,960
i fucked it. Up that's WHAT i.

800
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 1: Do wait to be mental. Health well it as you,

801
00:41:57,079 --> 00:41:58,920
do as you, say not as you. Do i'll tell

802
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:02,599
you honestly that that's where the whole alcohol podcast came.

803
00:42:02,639 --> 00:42:07,039
From AND i got a nasty note from somebody On facebook, saying,

804
00:42:08,639 --> 00:42:11,920
uh they're, like now the group texts can go. Off

805
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:15,599
how do you silence your? iPad? Uh turn the volume? Down,

806
00:42:16,039 --> 00:42:20,800
Okay Well i'll have to figure that. Out volume button

807
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:21,559
right in the top. There.

808
00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:27,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, wait let's turning it. Up let me go this, way,

809
00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:32,800
Okay because now my mother's bragging because she got the

810
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:37,280
most amount of snow out of, anybody.

811
00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:40,880
Speaker 1: Twenty two, inches and she's setting pictures to. Everybody my sister's.

812
00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:45,039
Repiling oh my, god and your mom got twenty two. Inches.

813
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:50,599
Why but here's Here's Peter north. Came here's the Bad

814
00:42:51,079 --> 00:42:53,920
here's the bad. Part it's like everybody can relate to

815
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:57,199
that because everybody gets on these family group texts AND

816
00:42:57,360 --> 00:43:00,480
i don't KNOW i must. HAVE i don't BECAUSE i

817
00:43:00,519 --> 00:43:02,320
tell my, wife do not put me in group. CHOCKS

818
00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:07,039
i will not, well, right and and you have you

819
00:43:07,119 --> 00:43:08,960
and your kids and, SUCH i will not respond AND

820
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:09,800
i will throw shit at.

821
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:12,639
Speaker 2: You, Well i'm in the family group. Text so it's my,

822
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:15,719
kids my niece is in, there my brother his, wife

823
00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:19,880
my sister her. HUSBAND i don't know, that my sister's

824
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:22,400
kids are in, there and my dad was in. THERE

825
00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:23,559
i think my dad's still on.

826
00:43:23,679 --> 00:43:27,159
Speaker 1: THERE i don't. Know And, march so is he still judging?

827
00:43:27,199 --> 00:43:29,039
Too So jordan's on? There you?

828
00:43:29,039 --> 00:43:33,000
Speaker 2: Know so, everyway, yeah she probably. Is so everybody will

829
00:43:33,079 --> 00:43:35,119
send these things and then sometimes LIKE i.

830
00:43:35,079 --> 00:43:37,000
Speaker 1: Gotta be, honest If kevin just turned his phone out

831
00:43:37,039 --> 00:43:40,679
and started typing your dad's responses to, Ship i'd be.

832
00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:46,559
HILARIOUS i think he has his phone, too that would

833
00:43:46,559 --> 00:43:50,719
be if he just there just wait wait wait, wait

834
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:53,440
your dad say wait wait wait wait wait wait wait

835
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:55,039
wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait.

836
00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:58,519
Speaker 2: Wait So i'm pretty sure he had it turned. Off

837
00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:02,320
but when my dad was an, iPhone, yeah.

838
00:44:02,159 --> 00:44:06,119
Speaker 1: He could STILL i. MESSAGE i think the number and

839
00:44:06,159 --> 00:44:08,199
everything was given. Back you don't need a number for ie,

840
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:12,880
message That's. Apple oh, well so we have to have

841
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:16,360
a conversation with your. Brother so my brother were leaving

842
00:44:16,599 --> 00:44:19,360
AND i had like because he grabbed dad's phone or,

843
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:23,360
whatever and he's, like, Uh and we had talked to

844
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:28,440
my mom and told her and all we were all

845
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:30,000
in there laughing and stuff like. That but the.

846
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:36,559
Speaker 2: He as we're driving, somewhere he sends a message to

847
00:44:36,639 --> 00:44:41,199
my mom from my dad's, phone knowing that she's. Dead

848
00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:43,920
AND i think it was something like he would say to.

849
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 1: Her hot down. Here he didn't say.

850
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:49,599
Speaker 2: That it was something that he would say TO i

851
00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:53,960
don't even. Remember and then we called her and she's,

852
00:44:54,039 --> 00:44:56,559
like oh my. God she, goes you're such.

853
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:59,360
Speaker 1: An, Asshole, kevin because he had sent the. Thing but

854
00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:02,119
it would freak, Out it would freak you. OUT i

855
00:45:02,199 --> 00:45:05,440
was gonna Have Kevin collin to the numbers on your

856
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:09,679
dad's phone as your dad from the. Beyond, yeah for

857
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:12,440
like it Was. HALLOWEEN i was gonna have to do.

858
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:18,000
It uh did he say, no he said he would do.

859
00:45:18,039 --> 00:45:20,159
It we never got we never never.

860
00:45:20,199 --> 00:45:25,880
Speaker 2: Connected that's so. Funny he, uh that's really. Funny but

861
00:45:26,639 --> 00:45:28,920
where WAS i? Going, yeah just the group, Text So

862
00:45:29,199 --> 00:45:30,599
i'll drive you crazy.

863
00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:33,079
Speaker 1: With that kind of. Stuff, well it's it's not it's

864
00:45:33,119 --> 00:45:35,440
just like. Always so then NOW i have something on

865
00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:38,239
my phone because it's always Somebody Bill miranda doesn't participate

866
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:44,519
in the group, text, yes because SOMETIMES i just because, Everybody,

867
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:47,440
hey here's why DO i have to say? IT i

868
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:48,119
GUESS i have to.

869
00:45:48,159 --> 00:45:50,840
Speaker 2: Now sometimes in the group text when it's so like

870
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:54,719
the podcast, people, right and they're texting, everybody and it's

871
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:57,639
more The monday night crew or that that that crew

872
00:45:57,679 --> 00:46:00,960
that we usually have earlier in the. WEEK i it

873
00:46:01,039 --> 00:46:04,400
becomes like a one upsmanship on, stuff And i'm just,

874
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:05,760
LIKE i just don't have the time for.

875
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 1: THIS i don't have the time for.

876
00:46:07,079 --> 00:46:09,320
Speaker 2: IT i got. IT i gotta move. On sometimes they.

877
00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:11,360
Laugh sometimes they'll get in. THERE i don't mean to

878
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:14,119
be rude AND i And i'm seeing why that scene is,

879
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:15,679
rude BUT i don't mean to be.

880
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:19,199
Speaker 1: Rude it's just THAT i Don't i'm, like, Okay i'm

881
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:21,079
just busting your balls because ninety percent of. People you

882
00:46:21,119 --> 00:46:23,280
don't respond to me it. Text, No i've been forging

883
00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:26,920
forgetting movies and they don't. HAVEN'T i GUESS i tried

884
00:46:26,960 --> 00:46:28,440
to say it was getting, better BUT i don't THINK

885
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:30,480
i have gotten. Better how many to open right? Now

886
00:46:32,079 --> 00:46:34,440
how many? Texts how many open text on your? Phone right?

887
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:37,800
Now where's my? PHONE i don't, KNOW i don't. Know,

888
00:46:38,119 --> 00:46:40,719
oh my phone's right. Here hang, On i'm gonna Go

889
00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:43,840
i'm Gonna i'm gonna set the over. Under you're gonna

890
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:45,840
be at one hundred and. Thirteen i'm gonna go, under

891
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:49,760
And i'm gonna go under at like forty. Eight you're

892
00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:53,800
gonna say forty, eight forty, eight twenty all, right twenty,

893
00:46:54,119 --> 00:46:56,719
yeah because uh oh there was a storm this speak

894
00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:59,159
and you. Didn't did you get to do? Much? Yeah?

895
00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:05,159
Uh why are cameras go? Down the hell is going?

896
00:47:05,159 --> 00:47:11,199
On oh your? Dad it could. Be it totally could.

897
00:47:11,199 --> 00:47:15,119
BE i forgot that one of the, Chargers, uh because

898
00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:19,440
like everything is taken of? Mine oh, no, yeah there it.

899
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:22,199
Is everything is taken of. Mine oh, YEAH i bought

900
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:25,639
two chargers On amazon like three weeks, ago and Neither,

901
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:28,679
okay so it's not just that BUT i can find.

902
00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:33,639
THEM i now mark okay on the ship THAT i. Buy,

903
00:47:33,800 --> 00:47:35,599
yeah so that WHEN i find it in somebody else's,

904
00:47:35,639 --> 00:47:39,480
room well that's. Mine uh, no, no it. Isn't it's

905
00:47:39,559 --> 00:47:42,239
it's a fucking it's the frat. House it is with.

906
00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:44,000
BOYS i don't know what it's like having, girls but

907
00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:49,559
that's what they. Do And jamison is, like, uh like he,

908
00:47:49,679 --> 00:47:51,880
was he's sleeping most of today BECAUSE i don't even

909
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:54,880
know what time he was up to playing the game and,

910
00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:57,280
talking and THAT i had to go at one o'clock

911
00:47:57,320 --> 00:48:00,000
in the, morning go you've got to lower your fucking. Mouth,

912
00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:02,360
yeah you. GOTTA i THINK i said a condor with.

913
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:05,239
That MAYBE i, didn't but you got to lower. IT

914
00:48:05,599 --> 00:48:06,960
i get up this morning.

915
00:48:07,119 --> 00:48:11,840
Speaker 2: And the dishwasher had, finished, right so but not. Empty

916
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:15,400
there's a hot chocolate. Thing and THEN i buy little,

917
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:18,400
snacks these little they can get them At. Aldi they're

918
00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:21,280
like little protein. THINGS i gots cheese or crackers or meats.

919
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:23,639
WHATEVER i love those. THINGS i love the one with

920
00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:26,719
the crazins in which people make fun of me, for

921
00:48:27,039 --> 00:48:28,360
and the, almonds and they have some.

922
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:31,639
Speaker 1: Cheese that's my favorite. One all of, them, so all

923
00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:34,440
six of them are are, gone AND i, GO i,

924
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:36,599
BOUGHT i, go, BUDDY i bought those for. SCHOOL i.

925
00:48:36,639 --> 00:48:38,599
Go there was meat loaf left. Over there's peanut. BUTTER i,

926
00:48:38,639 --> 00:48:40,960
GO i don't like the. Peanter BUT i don't like peanut. Butter,

927
00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:42,840
OKAY i know it's not mainly don't Like, peter BUT i, go,

928
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:44,679
well who told you that was mainly to like peanut?

929
00:48:44,679 --> 00:48:47,719
BUTTER i know it, Amazing, yeah it's. Fine, OKAY i

930
00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:50,239
mean too So i'm, like don't you don't have to eat.

931
00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:52,360
It but there's the meat, loaf there's, this there's all,

932
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:55,760
kinds there's, candy there's. Shit i'm, like what the. Fuck he's, like,

933
00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:57,880
oh you're not even going to school this?

934
00:48:57,960 --> 00:49:01,559
Speaker 2: Week AND i, GO i actually only have one in

935
00:49:01,599 --> 00:49:04,760
person class this. Week you're, Right But i'm, LIKE i

936
00:49:06,119 --> 00:49:09,199
buy shivery other fucking thing for. YOU i buy shit

937
00:49:09,239 --> 00:49:13,519
AND i hide. It, look, okay here's. One this is

938
00:49:13,599 --> 00:49:15,800
one that pissed me off the other. Day then we'll

939
00:49:15,800 --> 00:49:21,480
take a short. BREAK i couldn't sounds so. DUMB i

940
00:49:21,559 --> 00:49:22,280
couldn't find my.

941
00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:25,079
Speaker 1: COMB i have a, long just.

942
00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:28,119
Speaker 2: Comb it's just a regular, comb not, fancy not. Anything

943
00:49:28,599 --> 00:49:30,920
probably been around too. LONG i probably have to find

944
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:31,239
a way to.

945
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:33,400
Speaker 1: Clean it because there's little like gookie stuff in. THERE i,

946
00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:35,760
GUESS i don't, know or just you, know spend ninety

947
00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:37,280
sevens Aut, okay get.

948
00:49:37,159 --> 00:49:40,400
Speaker 2: Comb, okay, okay, okay hang, on but this is a big.

949
00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:42,760
Comb it's got the wider, teeth it's got the, good.

950
00:49:42,639 --> 00:49:48,159
Speaker 1: It's, calm it's dollar twenty. SEVEN i get up AND

951
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:50,320
i have someplace to, be And i'm, like where the

952
00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:52,239
fuck's my? Comb and THEN i feel Like i'm losing

953
00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:54,400
my mind AND i can't find. IT i can't find.

954
00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:55,000
IT i can't find.

955
00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:58,480
Speaker 2: It so WHEN i go, SHOPPING i make a trip

956
00:49:58,559 --> 00:50:02,559
to ANOTHER i went To wegmans to buy. Combs they

957
00:50:02,599 --> 00:50:05,519
don't really have combs At. Wegmans it's A walmart, Thing.

958
00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:08,559
Okay so Then i'm, LIKE i should have just ordered An.

959
00:50:08,599 --> 00:50:12,760
Amazon so they don't really have combs at or not

960
00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:15,519
the Ones i'm looking. For SO i buy these two.

961
00:50:15,639 --> 00:50:19,800
Speaker 1: Combs they're like little chintzy combs. Afro that's all they really,

962
00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:23,119
have is they have they? Do they have things for

963
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:27,239
people with hair not like? Mine, yeah women's hair more, probably,

964
00:50:27,519 --> 00:50:30,400
yes and and SOME i think some other other hair,

965
00:50:30,519 --> 00:50:33,039
yeah some other, Yes i'm just trying to say it more.

966
00:50:33,079 --> 00:50:34,960
Delicately but why, hair, well why?

967
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:39,239
Speaker 2: SO I so NOW i buy these shitty. COMBS i

968
00:50:39,519 --> 00:50:42,960
go home next, Day i'm, like just. Whatever and you're a.

969
00:50:43,039 --> 00:50:44,079
Guy that's the other.

970
00:50:44,119 --> 00:50:47,840
Speaker 1: Thing i've got to cough my. Head, WELL I I

971
00:50:48,199 --> 00:50:51,000
i like to try to present myself as best AS

972
00:50:51,039 --> 00:50:53,159
i possibly. CAN i you, KNOW i am an older,

973
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:56,679
guy and you can't look like. Shit so here's the

974
00:50:56,760 --> 00:50:58,559
bottom line with. This and this is what pisses me.

975
00:50:58,599 --> 00:51:00,559
Off and it's not about the. Comb it's about the other.

976
00:51:00,639 --> 00:51:03,000
Thing it's about the denial of.

977
00:51:03,039 --> 00:51:08,199
Speaker 2: Stuff so somehow we're leaving or something And i'm running

978
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:11,159
around AND i all of a SUDDEN i come into

979
00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:13,440
my room AND i have a bathroom, there and the

980
00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:15,800
bathroom door opens sort of startles me a little. Bit

981
00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:19,239
i'm like, Whoa and he's, like, UH i have found your?

982
00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:23,079
Comb AND i, said, oh all, right where was it

983
00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:25,599
behind the? TOILET i go the fuck it?

984
00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:27,320
Speaker 5: Was it was.

985
00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:29,760
Speaker 2: NOT i, go, BUDDY i have cleaned this entire. Bathroom

986
00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:31,480
there is no it would HAVE i would have found.

987
00:51:31,519 --> 00:51:34,800
It oh, FINE i took. IT i was, like just

988
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:37,400
just say, it just fucking say.

989
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:39,880
Speaker 1: It i'm not gonna. YELL i don't. Care just tell

990
00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:41,280
me where it. IS i don't want to feel Like

991
00:51:41,280 --> 00:51:44,199
i'm losing my fucking. Mind AND i just put it

992
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:47,800
back when you're done using, it exactly. EXACTLY i go to,

993
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:53,159
cologne it's. GONE i got like now, Clippers, yes they're

994
00:51:53,199 --> 00:51:55,480
not they're always. Messing, YES i always find them on

995
00:51:55,639 --> 00:51:59,360
one of two kids dressers a little. Cuticle SO i

996
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:02,079
Cut brady snails with because he's a little bit and

997
00:52:02,159 --> 00:52:05,360
they're always. MESSING i always find him in the same

998
00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:07,320
spot and nowhere to.

999
00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:11,079
Speaker 2: Look all, right we'll take a. Moment is greg joining

1000
00:52:11,159 --> 00:52:16,199
us now or what is he? Doing sud him a? Text,

1001
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:17,599
WELL i know he may be in.

1002
00:52:17,679 --> 00:52:20,559
Speaker 1: PAIN i think he's he said he will let us

1003
00:52:20,639 --> 00:52:25,320
know when he's done with The all, Right, well maybe

1004
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:28,079
we'll hang, out have a drink and have a birthday

1005
00:52:28,159 --> 00:52:32,800
drink and then we'll wait For. Gregory, WELL i had

1006
00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:35,920
a dick to me For. Gregory do you need a?

1007
00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:37,760
Charger do you need to go to the drunk in a? Charger?

1008
00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:38,360
NO i.

1009
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:43,519
Speaker 2: DON'T i need figure out what's. Happening sometimes electorally.

1010
00:52:43,159 --> 00:52:48,719
Speaker 1: In the new, studio electorally with the, electricity because there

1011
00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:51,119
are cameras that are, charged and cameras are indicating they're not,

1012
00:52:51,280 --> 00:52:55,400
charged but they should be to the. Landlord, yeah they're

1013
00:52:55,440 --> 00:52:56,480
in someplace warmer right.

1014
00:52:56,519 --> 00:53:00,039
Speaker 2: Now but we, will uh well check in With greg and,

1015
00:53:00,159 --> 00:53:03,079
see you, know there's the coaching. STUFF i also like

1016
00:53:03,360 --> 00:53:05,559
talking a little bit about that teachable. MOMENT i think

1017
00:53:05,599 --> 00:53:08,360
with The patriots to me and we'll see Who greg

1018
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:12,320
thinks leads the coaching could be The Buffalo, phills uh

1019
00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:14,400
With Philip.

1020
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:17,199
Speaker 1: Ripe SO i kind of do. TOO i gotta be

1021
00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:19,320
honest with. YOU i don't hate that, idea and Maybe

1022
00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:23,440
i'm in the. Minority love. IT i love it. All

1023
00:53:23,519 --> 00:53:25,760
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1024
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after this new, year the same nervous system doing parkour

1025
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1026
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Speaker 2: There if stress has set up permanent residence in your

1027
00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:45,599
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1028
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Speaker 1: Cave and unless that's what you're, into no. Judgment so

1037
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1043
00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:42,280
Speaker 7: Bak may drink and drag bake by ready tocord him

1044
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:45,000
back back head And drake drag Mate, babe he's, Drinking

1045
00:54:45,119 --> 00:54:47,239
drake makee may Drink drake Maye.

1046
00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:51,960
Speaker 1: BABE i just took a thing of water when he

1047
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:54,719
started playing that office the way that.

1048
00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:56,920
Speaker 7: Boy if you play and need the mate to, pay

1049
00:54:57,000 --> 00:54:59,519
you bin say much that they can't say till pot

1050
00:54:59,599 --> 00:55:02,440
bakes hay. Place and we had number seven to The

1051
00:55:02,559 --> 00:55:04,239
patriots ran case.

1052
00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:06,320
Speaker 1: From you weren't Safe and now he's up in that

1053
00:55:06,480 --> 00:55:07,400
Name i'm just took.

1054
00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:10,719
Speaker 7: TO AFCs like it was M b d Pure n

1055
00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:14,280
M b Hen New jersey who got the HIGHEST.

1056
00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:16,039
Speaker 1: Qb y'all, boy he's laid in the.

1057
00:55:16,199 --> 00:55:17,840
Speaker 4: Limp he said he Going.

1058
00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:19,360
Speaker 1: Frey wear a.

1059
00:55:19,440 --> 00:55:22,639
Speaker 7: Pick that boy can scramble, like doesn't crack when the

1060
00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:25,760
blessed them in a past that he's missing its history.

1061
00:55:25,599 --> 00:55:28,239
Speaker 1: And the may king And brady had his. Timing now

1062
00:55:28,280 --> 00:55:34,920
we Crowned. Drake makee, damn He's. Drek make. Listen came

1063
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:40,679
in from A Jamison. Moran you know we did this.

1064
00:55:40,920 --> 00:55:45,920
Speaker 2: Episode, Uh stephanie had referenced it, earlier but the feedback

1065
00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:47,960
from this episode is fucking.

1066
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:50,719
Speaker 1: Flown did you just do the fucking? Drink i'll do another.

1067
00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:52,679
One god damn. IT i was gonna wish you toast

1068
00:55:52,679 --> 00:55:54,719
your happy birthdave it the. Bottle oh, yeah.

1069
00:55:57,840 --> 00:55:58,159
Speaker 5: This Is.

1070
00:56:00,320 --> 00:56:02,280
Speaker 1: That's what happens When kevin gets away from his family

1071
00:56:04,480 --> 00:56:08,480
or When i'm with my. FAMILY i don't.

1072
00:56:08,519 --> 00:56:13,800
Speaker 2: Discriminate it's, AMAZING i think if you haven't checked out the,

1073
00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:16,599
episode it's called two hundred and Fifty comments and Still,

1074
00:56:16,639 --> 00:56:19,599
single and there's a subtitle to it which is escaping

1075
00:56:19,639 --> 00:56:21,719
me at the. Moment but it may be something for

1076
00:56:22,559 --> 00:56:26,159
you or someone you know who may want to listen to.

1077
00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:28,960
It there's no real advice in. This it's just talking

1078
00:56:29,039 --> 00:56:32,960
about kind of. Stuff But i'm getting Text i'm getting

1079
00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:37,000
text to my phone from women and, stuff and one

1080
00:56:37,039 --> 00:56:39,519
of them is, GOING i have so much to say about.

1081
00:56:39,519 --> 00:56:40,199
Speaker 1: THIS i have so much to.

1082
00:56:40,239 --> 00:56:43,440
Speaker 2: Say and you know, What stephanie said some things in.

1083
00:56:43,559 --> 00:56:48,079
There i'll give you one and you tell me how

1084
00:56:48,159 --> 00:56:51,159
people may or may not take. This she, said there's

1085
00:56:51,239 --> 00:56:54,920
a lot for people in the middle in terms of

1086
00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:56,199
looks and income and all.

1087
00:56:56,280 --> 00:56:57,960
Speaker 1: That there's a lot of options for people in the.

1088
00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:01,320
Middle a's as she. Said she, Goes i'm not here

1089
00:57:01,440 --> 00:57:05,960
to hook up the plumber with THE it specialists or

1090
00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:08,039
something to that. Effect to that, effect and.

1091
00:57:08,119 --> 00:57:12,400
Speaker 2: She's, Like i'm talking about really strong independent women who

1092
00:57:12,599 --> 00:57:15,960
run businesses and and do. Things you, know where's the,

1093
00:57:16,039 --> 00:57:20,000
guy the single guy with the? Jet AND i wonder

1094
00:57:20,079 --> 00:57:22,599
if that turns some people. OFF i don't, know because

1095
00:57:22,639 --> 00:57:24,639
that's that was the PART i was getting texted about.

1096
00:57:24,679 --> 00:57:26,559
Speaker 1: Now BUT i had a. Guy but a lot of

1097
00:57:26,639 --> 00:57:30,920
times that the plumber is what that chick. Needs he

1098
00:57:31,199 --> 00:57:36,719
does he doesn't a sneaking du you, know just kind

1099
00:57:36,760 --> 00:57:41,880
of almost keeps them grounded a little. Bit, YEAH i.

1100
00:57:42,280 --> 00:57:45,360
Speaker 2: GUESS i mean if you're used, to no one should have.

1101
00:57:45,519 --> 00:57:49,880
To you, know it's like it's the the prints of

1102
00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:54,719
the pauper type, thing. Right no one wants to change their.

1103
00:57:54,800 --> 00:57:58,400
Lifestyle and so if that's what you're used, to and

1104
00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:01,639
then that's what you're gonna be looking, for continue to.

1105
00:58:01,760 --> 00:58:06,280
DO i don't know that there are those people that are.

1106
00:58:06,320 --> 00:58:09,039
AVAILABLE i think most people get number, one a divorce

1107
00:58:09,119 --> 00:58:12,519
or is an expensive thing number, One and a lot

1108
00:58:12,559 --> 00:58:15,840
of times the guy is the one that not Always

1109
00:58:16,119 --> 00:58:18,480
i'm not saying this is always the, case please understand,

1110
00:58:18,559 --> 00:58:21,519
that BUT i do think majority of men are the

1111
00:58:21,599 --> 00:58:23,679
ones that end up paying and don't have custody to

1112
00:58:23,679 --> 00:58:25,679
the kids and r you, know and so there's a

1113
00:58:25,719 --> 00:58:29,280
lot of a lot of emotional, baggage let alone cost

1114
00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:31,440
and so that you, know there goes my private.

1115
00:58:31,559 --> 00:58:35,639
Speaker 1: Jet and so what AM i gonna? Do, wait this

1116
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:38,400
text just said who are these? Women she's talking them

1117
00:58:38,480 --> 00:58:41,000
up like they are hang, on it just disappeared, off,

1118
00:58:41,519 --> 00:58:44,199
uh like they are beyond gorgeous. Celebrities.

1119
00:58:48,039 --> 00:58:51,400
Speaker 2: NOW i but the crux of it is it does

1120
00:58:51,559 --> 00:58:55,920
talk about like relationships working on. Yourself you know how

1121
00:58:56,000 --> 00:58:58,400
people say they're doing. That why people end up with

1122
00:58:58,440 --> 00:59:00,440
the same type of. People they may look different on the,

1123
00:59:00,519 --> 00:59:02,840
outside but they're kind of the same type of person

1124
00:59:02,920 --> 00:59:05,559
they were with. Before and there's some good stuff in the,

1125
00:59:05,639 --> 00:59:10,079
episode AND i certainly enjoyed. It And stephanie is you Know,

1126
00:59:10,199 --> 00:59:12,679
Stephanie stephanie Steph. Yeah and THEN i think.

1127
00:59:12,519 --> 00:59:15,280
Speaker 1: Her post On facebook got like close to what ten

1128
00:59:15,360 --> 00:59:16,239
thousand views.

1129
00:59:16,119 --> 00:59:21,559
Speaker 2: On nineteen thousand views and two hundred and fifty, comments

1130
00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:23,880
and that's with a lot of. People then also comments

1131
00:59:23,960 --> 00:59:26,119
coming to HER. Dms that's crazy For.

1132
00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:30,000
Speaker 1: STEPHANIE i mean just. Here, YEAH i, MEAN i know

1133
00:59:30,119 --> 00:59:32,760
she's got a good following with. People, yeah people know

1134
00:59:32,840 --> 00:59:35,800
who she. Is but and the shit she does with

1135
00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:38,760
her real estate stuffs Stef, yes it's. Unbelievable some of

1136
00:59:38,800 --> 00:59:42,239
the SHIT i die laughing. At, yeah she had one

1137
00:59:42,280 --> 00:59:45,639
house that SHE i messaged her because she had one

1138
00:59:45,679 --> 00:59:48,559
house and she started out the video with it was

1139
00:59:48,599 --> 00:59:51,679
an ass house and the first room she focused on

1140
00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:55,639
was the room with the stripper POL i remember, that

1141
00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:59,360
And i'm LIKE i remember, that And i'm, like, Really she's,

1142
00:59:59,400 --> 01:00:02,199
like it's going to sell the.

1143
01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:04,679
Speaker 2: House, well you know what's interesting is like she's not

1144
01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:08,880
afraid to take the. Chances, Now i'm gonna brag on

1145
01:00:09,039 --> 01:00:12,320
her for just a. Minute she's been pretty successful with

1146
01:00:12,639 --> 01:00:16,480
taking the. Chances, well, yes and and it goes back

1147
01:00:16,519 --> 01:00:20,440
to what we were talking about. Earlier you, know, life

1148
01:00:20,639 --> 01:00:24,079
what is life? Reward and life rewards the person that keeps,

1149
01:00:24,159 --> 01:00:29,159
GOING i will, say AND i know her a little more, Privately,

1150
01:00:29,880 --> 01:00:34,440
uh that is a person who has had a lot of, downs,

1151
01:00:34,920 --> 01:00:36,719
Right and when we call ups and, down she's had

1152
01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:40,199
a lot of tough. TIMES i said to her in the,

1153
01:00:40,280 --> 01:00:44,440
podcast what is it about you that keeps like that?

1154
01:00:44,679 --> 01:00:47,360
Whole your mentality is so?

1155
01:00:47,559 --> 01:00:48,039
Speaker 1: Positive?

1156
01:00:48,199 --> 01:00:50,559
Speaker 2: Right and we know some stuff that she had just gone,

1157
01:00:50,599 --> 01:00:54,320
through you, know and she was married to someone who's

1158
01:00:54,320 --> 01:00:56,360
still in the public eye and their, divorced and and

1159
01:00:57,440 --> 01:01:01,000
that that, alone, right just a divorce. Alone it's it's a,

1160
01:01:01,079 --> 01:01:05,280
heavy heavy. Situation so she she, Said i'm not the

1161
01:01:05,360 --> 01:01:07,840
type of person to get. MAD i think if like

1162
01:01:08,039 --> 01:01:10,360
my flight is canceled AND i really need to get

1163
01:01:10,440 --> 01:01:13,719
home And i'm flying out Of, chicago Say i'm not

1164
01:01:13,840 --> 01:01:15,840
the one screaming and YELLING i gotta get out of,

1165
01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:17,760
here And i'm frantically trying to.

1166
01:01:17,960 --> 01:01:20,719
Speaker 1: Rebook i'm the person who, SAYS i GUESS i was

1167
01:01:20,760 --> 01:01:22,400
supposed to Explore chicago.

1168
01:01:22,519 --> 01:01:24,800
Speaker 2: Today AND i think that if you can go with that,

1169
01:01:24,880 --> 01:01:27,679
attitude not always, easy AND i certainly think that one

1170
01:01:27,679 --> 01:01:29,360
of the worst things we can say to somebody's you

1171
01:01:29,440 --> 01:01:29,840
gotta think.

1172
01:01:29,880 --> 01:01:33,400
Speaker 1: Positively, okay, GREAT i, YES i just said that today

1173
01:01:33,760 --> 01:01:36,800
to my. Aunt what did you, say think? Positively? Yeah,

1174
01:01:37,039 --> 01:01:43,199
WELL i, mean, yeah BUT i always think positive thoughts

1175
01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:44,840
to bring positive energy in MIND.

1176
01:01:44,679 --> 01:01:51,119
Speaker 2: A hundred THOUGHTS a hundred are absolutely you couldn't be more.

1177
01:01:51,199 --> 01:01:54,000
CORRECT i just think when someone's down a negative. Road

1178
01:01:54,480 --> 01:01:57,440
one of the THINGS i and it's totally Because i'm

1179
01:01:57,480 --> 01:02:00,400
old And i've seen, it IS i don't want to

1180
01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:04,320
say things like, RELAX i think. POSITIVELY i just want

1181
01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:06,559
To it's almost at that POINT i, go, YEAH i get.

1182
01:02:06,599 --> 01:02:10,519
Speaker 1: IT i get. IT i hear, you, man And i'll

1183
01:02:10,559 --> 01:02:13,800
tell you what you're. Down maybe make any when you've

1184
01:02:13,800 --> 01:02:16,360
got it and start stacking. It, yeah go to bed and.

1185
01:02:16,519 --> 01:02:20,440
Start if you get up in the, morning count that

1186
01:02:20,519 --> 01:02:24,480
as your first. Wind started stacking. It where does who's

1187
01:02:24,559 --> 01:02:26,880
this guy that's talking over? Here where did this come?

1188
01:02:26,960 --> 01:02:27,079
Speaker 7: From?

1189
01:02:30,480 --> 01:02:33,159
Speaker 1: Yeah but usually you become a bigger. Dick that's not

1190
01:02:33,280 --> 01:02:37,599
the case that's going on with, you Wiser, OKAY i

1191
01:02:37,679 --> 01:02:39,199
GOT i got, IT i see.

1192
01:02:39,239 --> 01:02:42,039
Speaker 2: It it's uh, no You're you're absolutely. Right but the

1193
01:02:42,079 --> 01:02:45,559
thing With stephanie's like that's her. Mentality And stephanie was

1194
01:02:45,679 --> 01:02:47,679
also has worked very.

1195
01:02:47,760 --> 01:02:49,880
Speaker 1: Hard she sold a five.

1196
01:02:49,719 --> 01:02:53,119
Speaker 2: Point two million dollar home On Canadigua. Lake now this

1197
01:02:53,360 --> 01:02:56,639
happened a while, ago and she was afraid to say

1198
01:02:56,679 --> 01:02:59,639
anything because she didn't want to turn into like one

1199
01:02:59,679 --> 01:03:02,800
of the. Peace But i'm just gonna SAY i am

1200
01:03:03,119 --> 01:03:06,599
terrible at, math, Terrible BUT i think three percent is

1201
01:03:06,719 --> 01:03:08,800
usually what real estate agents. Get i'm gonna say that's

1202
01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:11,000
about one hundred and fifty six one hundred and fifty

1203
01:03:11,159 --> 01:03:14,920
five thousand. Dollars, like, now don't, forget you're gonna get

1204
01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:16,840
taxed on. That so But i'm just saying that three

1205
01:03:16,880 --> 01:03:20,360
percent is. That so there are people who just do

1206
01:03:20,519 --> 01:03:21,920
one or two of those a year and they.

1207
01:03:21,880 --> 01:03:22,159
Speaker 1: Call it a.

1208
01:03:22,280 --> 01:03:25,440
Speaker 2: Year stephanie's a. Hustler she's out there trying to build an.

1209
01:03:25,480 --> 01:03:28,920
Empire she wants to be the, best and she's willing

1210
01:03:29,000 --> 01:03:31,440
to take the. Risks and even with, this she was,

1211
01:03:31,480 --> 01:03:33,159
LIKE i didn't want to say anything about. IT i

1212
01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:35,360
recently put it on My facebook page THAT i sold

1213
01:03:35,400 --> 01:03:37,880
this house BECAUSE i want people to know it doesn't

1214
01:03:37,880 --> 01:03:39,719
matter if your house is one hundred and seventy five

1215
01:03:39,760 --> 01:03:41,760
thousand dollars or your house is five.

1216
01:03:41,639 --> 01:03:44,239
Speaker 1: Point two million. Dollars i'm going to give you my

1217
01:03:44,440 --> 01:03:47,079
best no matter. What AND i. CAN i can attest

1218
01:03:47,119 --> 01:03:49,679
to that because she. Did she sold my mother's. House,

1219
01:03:49,800 --> 01:03:53,559
yeah and my mother's house is far from five point two,

1220
01:03:53,599 --> 01:03:56,519
million but she put in just as much work on

1221
01:03:56,599 --> 01:03:59,039
my mother's house as she does on any other. House. Yeap,

1222
01:03:59,440 --> 01:04:01,280
YEAH i mean that that's just who she's was a

1223
01:04:01,280 --> 01:04:02,760
little sad THAT i didn't get a video because that

1224
01:04:02,760 --> 01:04:05,239
when she was first starting to do the, VIDEOS i

1225
01:04:05,360 --> 01:04:12,639
wanted something. Sweet but there's something, sweet like what. Anything she's.

1226
01:04:12,800 --> 01:04:16,360
Creative she's, very very. CREATIVE i stand by. That she

1227
01:04:17,440 --> 01:04:20,920
like you, said she will take chances mm. Hmm BUT

1228
01:04:21,039 --> 01:04:24,199
i think she also creates her own. Wins we can,

1229
01:04:24,960 --> 01:04:27,199
yeah because you're doing, that and that's a really smart

1230
01:04:27,239 --> 01:04:30,480
way to look at. It, Yeah i'll take the, chance

1231
01:04:30,519 --> 01:04:32,599
But i'm Gonna i'm gonna win taking the. Chance i'm

1232
01:04:32,639 --> 01:04:35,360
not gonna, lose, Right and that that's more of a mental.

1233
01:04:35,360 --> 01:04:37,760
ATTITUDE i know somebody who used to have that mental.

1234
01:04:37,800 --> 01:04:42,199
Attitude YOU i still. Do i'm fucking taking chances all

1235
01:04:42,280 --> 01:04:44,840
the time Now i'm with The nott. Whining rubber is

1236
01:04:44,880 --> 01:04:52,360
not a, chance the pullout game is not a chance

1237
01:04:52,800 --> 01:04:56,199
you want to take with. People and it's not, TRUE i,

1238
01:04:56,400 --> 01:05:02,960
know not. True they. Know, hello that was the funniest

1239
01:05:03,000 --> 01:05:04,400
thing this. Week AND i THINK i called you and

1240
01:05:04,480 --> 01:05:06,360
told you THAT i was walking through the parking lot

1241
01:05:06,480 --> 01:05:09,000
now that here's your voice blaring out a podcast AND

1242
01:05:09,079 --> 01:05:14,000
i hears me here, hello and ALL i could do is. Laugh,

1243
01:05:14,199 --> 01:05:18,239
YEAH i. Know all, Right, kevin you're forty nine. Today

1244
01:05:19,639 --> 01:05:22,199
what have you? Learned you think about? Life and like

1245
01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:25,239
you really just gave some great advice and talk very.

1246
01:05:25,320 --> 01:05:29,920
Highly i'm trying to start to take a more positive

1247
01:05:29,920 --> 01:05:34,159
look on things Because i've always been a negative. Person me,

1248
01:05:34,320 --> 01:05:37,599
too almost my Natural english, well because everything was always my.

1249
01:05:37,760 --> 01:05:42,239
UPBRINGING i was just it was we don't talk about,

1250
01:05:42,280 --> 01:05:44,519
this we don't talk about, this, Right i've been talking

1251
01:05:44,519 --> 01:05:46,000
about my aunt with my aunt about, it And i'm,

1252
01:05:46,039 --> 01:05:48,800
Like i'm not sure my mother and father even liked,

1253
01:05:48,880 --> 01:05:52,800
me and they. Did, Yes, yes there's just things that

1254
01:05:53,000 --> 01:05:57,039
in the past And i'm, like fucking does that, Right

1255
01:05:57,360 --> 01:06:00,639
and it's just like it's, Weird but at the time

1256
01:06:00,719 --> 01:06:03,039
it felt very normal and it's like the same. Thing

1257
01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:06,760
But i've seen over the last few years myself going

1258
01:06:06,880 --> 01:06:10,440
down that same. Role it's how you were. Conditioned that's

1259
01:06:10,480 --> 01:06:13,639
how you're, conditioned And i'm trying to do things. Differently,

1260
01:06:13,800 --> 01:06:17,000
yeah it's not always. Positive it doesn't always work. Out

1261
01:06:17,039 --> 01:06:18,719
i'm not stacking all the, winds.

1262
01:06:18,840 --> 01:06:21,079
Speaker 2: No but a little bit is a lot more than you, have,

1263
01:06:21,280 --> 01:06:25,320
right you. Know that's, boy that's interesting BECAUSE i always say,

1264
01:06:25,360 --> 01:06:28,360
too like we are so. Conditioned my old man was

1265
01:06:28,400 --> 01:06:32,079
always like a discreet sense of paranoia goes a long,

1266
01:06:32,159 --> 01:06:34,519
way so you were always like looking, around like who's

1267
01:06:34,559 --> 01:06:36,599
Gonna who's gonna knife me in the? Back so to, speak,

1268
01:06:36,679 --> 01:06:40,280
right you, know figuratively, speaking and then you start to, go,

1269
01:06:40,599 --> 01:06:41,920
well why why AM i?

1270
01:06:42,280 --> 01:06:45,639
Speaker 1: What that's, Insane but at the time it was that was.

1271
01:06:45,679 --> 01:06:49,679
Speaker 2: It OR i remember my friend fucking burst out laughing

1272
01:06:49,960 --> 01:06:53,519
in my, face like just lost it BECAUSE i said.

1273
01:06:53,360 --> 01:06:55,840
Speaker 1: To, Him he's, like, hey, man we get, together come

1274
01:06:55,840 --> 01:06:57,159
over my house this. Weekend And i'm, LIKE i.

1275
01:06:57,239 --> 01:06:59,840
Speaker 2: Can't and my father had been yelling at me THAT

1276
01:06:59,880 --> 01:07:04,400
i can't academically afford to do anything other than my

1277
01:07:04,480 --> 01:07:05,199
school work.

1278
01:07:05,079 --> 01:07:07,119
Speaker 1: Or something like, that and SO i said that my

1279
01:07:07,280 --> 01:07:09,639
friend just lost. It but you took these things as,

1280
01:07:09,760 --> 01:07:12,320
gospel at LEAST i. Did when my old man, SPOKE

1281
01:07:12,400 --> 01:07:14,159
i took it as. Gospel and then when WHEN i look,

1282
01:07:14,239 --> 01:07:17,000
BACK i, go what was going on with? Him? That

1283
01:07:17,119 --> 01:07:20,320
he was, like you, know a discreet sense of paranoia

1284
01:07:20,400 --> 01:07:24,320
goes a long. Way trust no. One you, know why

1285
01:07:24,400 --> 01:07:27,679
is it so drastically changed in Your for? ME i

1286
01:07:27,760 --> 01:07:30,440
know why in? Mine but for? You why do you

1287
01:07:30,559 --> 01:07:32,480
treat your children differently than?

1288
01:07:32,559 --> 01:07:36,000
Speaker 2: That BECAUSE i hated it, Exactly, YEAH i MEAN i hated,

1289
01:07:36,039 --> 01:07:39,519
it AND i also see where it didn't. Work it didn't.

1290
01:07:39,559 --> 01:07:46,000
Work and it was also one of these things, where you,

1291
01:07:46,119 --> 01:07:50,079
know we hear a lot about the gentle, parenting, right

1292
01:07:50,559 --> 01:07:53,039
people say the gentle. Parenting it doesn't work with gentle parent,

1293
01:07:54,719 --> 01:07:58,000
Right but does screaming in your kid's, face slamming the,

1294
01:07:58,079 --> 01:08:02,719
door asking them should they should you send them to

1295
01:08:02,800 --> 01:08:03,320
have their head?

1296
01:08:03,360 --> 01:08:07,280
Speaker 1: Examined is that? Working does that fucking? WORK i. DON'T i.

1297
01:08:07,360 --> 01:08:10,480
Speaker 2: Don't that to me doesn't. Work, NOW i don't know

1298
01:08:10,679 --> 01:08:14,079
the results necessarily of the other. Side BUT i would

1299
01:08:14,119 --> 01:08:17,520
think that you're better off trying To i'm not saying

1300
01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:20,239
be your kid's. FRIEND i always say to my, boys you,

1301
01:08:20,319 --> 01:08:23,680
Know i'm not your, Buddy i'm your. Dad but it

1302
01:08:23,840 --> 01:08:26,079
is different with. You and you, know because you have three,

1303
01:08:26,119 --> 01:08:28,359
sons you're gonna be joking around with them and stuff

1304
01:08:28,359 --> 01:08:28,760
as they get.

1305
01:08:28,760 --> 01:08:29,640
Speaker 1: Older it just is what.

1306
01:08:29,840 --> 01:08:32,960
Speaker 2: Happens but at the same, time you gotta have those.

1307
01:08:33,079 --> 01:08:36,239
Boundaries but you, KNOW i always used to say that

1308
01:08:36,399 --> 01:08:39,279
there's a difference between kind and. Nice in my, opinion

1309
01:08:39,479 --> 01:08:42,720
nice gets walked. On kind can draw boundaries and GO

1310
01:08:43,159 --> 01:08:44,760
i don't need to tell you what an ASSHOLE i

1311
01:08:44,840 --> 01:08:47,319
think you. ARE i just need To i'm not gonna

1312
01:08:48,199 --> 01:08:51,159
chime in or, whatever, Right AND i think that that's

1313
01:08:51,479 --> 01:08:55,079
the thing with the. Kids and it's hard to do sometimes,

1314
01:08:55,199 --> 01:08:58,399
because like, YOU i have been conditioned to where you

1315
01:08:58,439 --> 01:09:01,000
would get yelled at or you would kind of like

1316
01:09:01,239 --> 01:09:04,079
my parents would even needle me or the passive aggressive,

1317
01:09:04,079 --> 01:09:04,920
ship AND i have.

1318
01:09:08,079 --> 01:09:10,479
Speaker 1: That. WAY i could be the most passive aggressive AND

1319
01:09:10,600 --> 01:09:11,800
i AND i see.

1320
01:09:11,880 --> 01:09:14,600
Speaker 2: It AND i had somebody once call me on, it

1321
01:09:15,239 --> 01:09:16,840
AND i, went, oh, YEAH i don't want to be

1322
01:09:17,000 --> 01:09:20,199
that way AND i try really hard not. To it

1323
01:09:20,319 --> 01:09:22,479
was like it was AFTER i was, married And i'm,

1324
01:09:22,560 --> 01:09:24,600
like you, know these are the things like we can

1325
01:09:24,680 --> 01:09:28,319
all go when when when a breakup. Happens, uh when

1326
01:09:28,399 --> 01:09:30,520
you hear that People i'm in campson and so, On

1327
01:09:30,640 --> 01:09:34,359
i'm in camp. Zone so, uh it's two. People they

1328
01:09:34,439 --> 01:09:36,840
both brought their own ship to. It and you, know

1329
01:09:37,000 --> 01:09:40,319
the more you're carrying something, around the more weight it.

1330
01:09:40,520 --> 01:09:43,520
Carries and when it when it gets pushed or, TRIGGERED

1331
01:09:43,560 --> 01:09:48,479
i think is the WORD i think that you have To,

1332
01:09:48,800 --> 01:09:52,479
UH i just got to think saying Bilmram productions dot

1333
01:09:52,560 --> 01:09:53,359
COM i forgot.

1334
01:09:55,640 --> 01:09:56,399
Speaker 1: Really my.

1335
01:09:56,520 --> 01:10:01,159
Speaker 2: FAVORITE i think that's when it comes. Out it comes

1336
01:10:01,199 --> 01:10:04,359
out with such. Force sometimes the person in front of

1337
01:10:04,399 --> 01:10:07,560
you isn't necessarily the reason, why but all that weight

1338
01:10:07,640 --> 01:10:10,039
you're caring for so, long it, comes it's, heavier and

1339
01:10:10,159 --> 01:10:10,479
it comes.

1340
01:10:10,560 --> 01:10:12,359
Speaker 1: Fast that's WHAT i hate, doing IS i HATE i

1341
01:10:13,039 --> 01:10:15,560
always would build, it build, it build, it build, it build,

1342
01:10:15,600 --> 01:10:19,359
it and then somebody would trigger and it would just

1343
01:10:19,439 --> 01:10:22,960
get fucking eight months and just regurgitated. Ship.

1344
01:10:23,199 --> 01:10:25,840
Speaker 2: YEAH i did the same. THING i thought a fucking

1345
01:10:25,840 --> 01:10:29,600
a billion bucks. Better, Yeah and then do you ever do.

1346
01:10:29,720 --> 01:10:31,640
This did you ever walk around after you did something like?

1347
01:10:31,680 --> 01:10:36,439
Speaker 1: That and what's your? Problem? Why? Why why are you all? Quiet?

1348
01:10:37,840 --> 01:10:40,439
No not that big of a, Day, like what's what's going?

1349
01:10:40,479 --> 01:10:43,479
ON i was just blowing off. Steam what do you

1350
01:10:43,560 --> 01:10:46,439
want me to? Do i've learned. It drinking is the.

1351
01:10:46,479 --> 01:10:49,680
Speaker 2: Way, yeah but even that would like sometimes bring out

1352
01:10:49,680 --> 01:10:51,560
the worst in, me because here's.

1353
01:10:51,640 --> 01:10:54,359
Speaker 1: Why and and this was thank, you you brought me.

1354
01:10:54,439 --> 01:10:56,439
Back you've got to drink till you pass out so

1355
01:10:56,520 --> 01:10:58,479
you don't have the. Worst you brought me back to a.

1356
01:10:58,560 --> 01:11:02,800
Speaker 2: POINT i want to see what the NAME i had

1357
01:11:03,000 --> 01:11:07,680
for the alcohol Episode escaping my fat head right, Now

1358
01:11:08,800 --> 01:11:13,760
but somebody wrote kind of a nasty comment On facebook to,

1359
01:11:13,840 --> 01:11:16,399
it BUT i think it was it was an.

1360
01:11:16,439 --> 01:11:18,600
Speaker 1: Episode it was when.

1361
01:11:21,800 --> 01:11:25,159
Speaker 2: That's the, buffalo when alcohol becomes, Permission when alcohol becomes.

1362
01:11:25,239 --> 01:11:28,000
Permission and somebody, SAID i listened to, that and it

1363
01:11:28,039 --> 01:11:30,039
sounds like he's just blaming all his stuff on, That

1364
01:11:30,159 --> 01:11:31,239
AND i was, going.

1365
01:11:31,119 --> 01:11:32,079
Speaker 1: That wasn't the point of the.

1366
01:11:32,159 --> 01:11:34,720
Speaker 2: Episode the point of the episode was to, go alcohol

1367
01:11:34,920 --> 01:11:38,880
does not make you behave. Badly alcohol just takes your

1368
01:11:38,920 --> 01:11:42,199
break system. Away you're in, ambitions and it also doesn't

1369
01:11:42,680 --> 01:11:45,720
it also isn't a truth. Serum maybe people.

1370
01:11:45,520 --> 01:11:48,640
Speaker 1: Are a little more, HONEST i, guess but when they're really,

1371
01:11:48,720 --> 01:11:50,880
hammered they're not even.

1372
01:11:50,920 --> 01:11:55,560
Speaker 2: Aware AND i don't think. That but you can't use

1373
01:11:55,640 --> 01:11:58,399
that as an, excuse was my. Point you can't because

1374
01:11:58,399 --> 01:12:00,640
a lot of times what's happening and what's making you

1375
01:12:01,279 --> 01:12:03,520
react emotionally is not the person in front of. You

1376
01:12:03,720 --> 01:12:06,520
it's the ship from the past that you've been carrying,

1377
01:12:06,560 --> 01:12:09,560
around and it just comes harder and. Faster it's like

1378
01:12:09,600 --> 01:12:11,760
a river that's just picked up steam, steam, steam and

1379
01:12:11,880 --> 01:12:14,000
now we're over the edge and It's Niagara falls and it's,

1380
01:12:14,079 --> 01:12:18,279
powerful AND i you, know SO i, KNOW i don't

1381
01:12:18,319 --> 01:12:20,760
think drinking is a is an.

1382
01:12:20,760 --> 01:12:23,079
Speaker 1: EXCUSE i don't think any kind of alter stays. Iscuse

1383
01:12:23,159 --> 01:12:25,000
you've got to own your. Shit you got to own

1384
01:12:25,079 --> 01:12:27,840
it's that's the part drink pass out or can't be.

1385
01:12:27,920 --> 01:12:31,199
Speaker 2: Comprehended, well you, Know, LIKE i think one of the

1386
01:12:31,279 --> 01:12:33,520
things THAT i have seen over the many years That

1387
01:12:33,600 --> 01:12:36,079
i've been on the planet is that when we say

1388
01:12:36,199 --> 01:12:39,039
things like you have to be accountable for your, actions

1389
01:12:39,439 --> 01:12:45,000
it was never said in a. Colmway it was always

1390
01:12:45,039 --> 01:12:47,239
said as though you're in trouble, Right AND i still

1391
01:12:47,279 --> 01:12:50,359
think so many adults take accountability as being in, trouble

1392
01:12:50,640 --> 01:12:53,039
so they don't want to say anything or that's where

1393
01:12:53,119 --> 01:12:56,640
we kind of it's not like we're ignoring. It we

1394
01:12:56,760 --> 01:12:58,800
know it's, there but we don't know what to do

1395
01:12:59,000 --> 01:13:01,039
because it's it means we're. TROUBLE i don't think it's the.

1396
01:13:01,159 --> 01:13:03,640
Speaker 1: TROUBLE i think it's more the backlash from, it or

1397
01:13:03,680 --> 01:13:07,359
what's going to happen IF i IF i take accountability

1398
01:13:07,479 --> 01:13:09,800
for painting the wall blue when you wanted it fucking,

1399
01:13:09,840 --> 01:13:14,039
gray And i'm, like fucking blue looks, Better yeah you

1400
01:13:14,119 --> 01:13:18,000
wanted it? Gray, Yeah, well it depends on what's gonna

1401
01:13:18,000 --> 01:13:20,399
happen in? Relationship AM i? AM? I? AM i out of?

1402
01:13:20,439 --> 01:13:25,279
Here AM i? Hired? OH i just you know that's

1403
01:13:25,439 --> 01:13:28,039
probably a bad. Example, NO i was. Singing it's just

1404
01:13:28,159 --> 01:13:30,720
the what what's what's going to come back at? Me

1405
01:13:31,000 --> 01:13:35,319
IF i take, Accountability i'm, like to, me blue looks.

1406
01:13:35,359 --> 01:13:38,039
Better you think gray looks? BETTER i think blue looks.

1407
01:13:38,079 --> 01:13:41,920
Better either you're gonna come in and be like, fuck he's, right,

1408
01:13:42,199 --> 01:13:46,880
yeah or what the? Fuck? Yeah And i'm not paying

1409
01:13:46,920 --> 01:13:47,880
for you should repaint the?

1410
01:13:47,960 --> 01:13:51,600
Speaker 2: Wall YEAH i was gonna say it's that, EXAMPLE i, go,

1411
01:13:51,720 --> 01:13:53,800
well the, GUY i guess it depends on the. Relationship

1412
01:13:54,119 --> 01:13:57,039
If i'm married or living with somebody and they, say,

1413
01:13:57,079 --> 01:13:59,199
hey we should paint that gray AND i go, eh

1414
01:13:59,359 --> 01:14:01,600
AND i just go do, it then MAYBE i can

1415
01:14:01,680 --> 01:14:03,760
smooth through. It If i'm paying you and you didn't

1416
01:14:03,800 --> 01:14:06,239
paint it, Gray i'm, pissed right unless it looks.

1417
01:14:06,279 --> 01:14:09,720
Speaker 1: Good but, yeah you're but, yeah a lot of people

1418
01:14:09,800 --> 01:14:13,399
just don't want the fallout from the. Accountability it's the

1419
01:14:13,439 --> 01:14:15,880
thing is and it sounds like a scary, word whether

1420
01:14:15,920 --> 01:14:18,840
it's you're in trouble or. Whatever it's a loaded word for.

1421
01:14:18,920 --> 01:14:24,119
Sure AND i don't think that that's how DID i

1422
01:14:24,279 --> 01:14:29,000
just got an email From. Match don't look at. Me

1423
01:14:29,520 --> 01:14:32,439
some of these dumb ass dick. Friends somebody did it

1424
01:14:33,079 --> 01:14:36,840
BECAUSE I i don't. GO i WISH i. Could we'll open.

1425
01:14:36,880 --> 01:14:40,479
IT i just said A, match are you are we camera?

1426
01:14:40,640 --> 01:14:43,119
Ready And i'm, like it might just be a promotionally.

1427
01:14:43,159 --> 01:14:46,279
Mail why WOULD i get? It why WOULD i don't?

1428
01:14:46,359 --> 01:14:49,079
KNOW i think somebody signed me. Up that's What i'm going.

1429
01:14:49,119 --> 01:14:51,359
With i'm blaming. THAT i don't think anybody's like you

1430
01:14:51,560 --> 01:14:53,520
enough to pay the amount for me WHEN i was

1431
01:14:53,560 --> 01:14:55,359
in WHEN i was in, COLLEGE i would get all

1432
01:14:55,439 --> 01:15:04,640
this mail from the Uh, tourett's from like people who would,

1433
01:15:04,680 --> 01:15:07,079
go you, KNOW i was, like do you have you,

1434
01:15:07,119 --> 01:15:08,319
know we're raising. MONEY i don't.

1435
01:15:08,319 --> 01:15:11,279
Speaker 2: Remember they just flooded my. Mailbox At, FISHER i would

1436
01:15:11,279 --> 01:15:13,359
get all his. MAIL i think it was The tourett,

1437
01:15:13,399 --> 01:15:16,520
syndrome because it WAS i we had done some kind

1438
01:15:16,560 --> 01:15:18,920
of joke, about you, know some guy who's trying to

1439
01:15:18,960 --> 01:15:21,399
control his language and he would say bad, things and we,

1440
01:15:21,520 --> 01:15:23,520
go you, KNOW i.

1441
01:15:23,560 --> 01:15:25,079
Speaker 1: Gotta tell you. Something let me tell you so The

1442
01:15:25,359 --> 01:15:28,359
nichols dimes quarters two dollars and that was the. Joke

1443
01:15:29,079 --> 01:15:31,159
and because we know what the guy was gonna, say

1444
01:15:31,199 --> 01:15:32,279
but other.

1445
01:15:32,399 --> 01:15:34,560
Speaker 2: Words and so BECAUSE i did, THAT i think it

1446
01:15:34,640 --> 01:15:36,039
might have been somebody who was mad at me and

1447
01:15:36,079 --> 01:15:40,279
they just started flooding my mailbox with The touretts and, OH.

1448
01:15:40,199 --> 01:15:41,760
Speaker 1: I know Was i'm gonna go home On facebook, Later

1449
01:15:41,800 --> 01:15:44,760
i'm gonna have none to match dot com advertisements And tourett's.

1450
01:15:44,760 --> 01:15:52,640
Advertisements OH i can read The tourett's. Ones, yeah, well

1451
01:15:52,720 --> 01:15:56,439
every once in a, while any other thoughts for the?

1452
01:15:56,479 --> 01:15:58,520
Birthday you still don't know what you're? Doing, HUH i.

1453
01:15:58,600 --> 01:16:01,800
Speaker 2: Don't all, RIGHT i better get, Fed that's ALL i.

1454
01:16:01,880 --> 01:16:04,840
Asked here's the thing THAT i think you should remember your.

1455
01:16:04,840 --> 01:16:09,680
Birthday it's, uh it's not about losing strength as we get.

1456
01:16:09,760 --> 01:16:15,039
Older it's about learning where to apply that. Strength like

1457
01:16:15,880 --> 01:16:18,479
just what you said, earlier like all that, shit learning

1458
01:16:18,520 --> 01:16:21,760
where to apply that? Knowledge not too, MUCH i black thought.

1459
01:16:21,760 --> 01:16:22,359
Speaker 1: Earlier what DID i?

1460
01:16:22,479 --> 01:16:28,039
Speaker 2: Say All, right we're gonna we're gonna close. Out, Well

1461
01:16:28,039 --> 01:16:30,920
i'll have to catch up With greg another. Time my

1462
01:16:31,279 --> 01:16:34,079
chili's almost. Done it's been about a million hours. Now so,

1463
01:16:36,359 --> 01:16:40,159
uh happy, birthday thank. You, yeah stretch before you. Shovel

1464
01:16:40,239 --> 01:16:42,000
that's ALL i would. Say and in that in that,

1465
01:16:42,119 --> 01:16:47,000
arena uh For Kevin muyork celebrating his forty nine next

1466
01:16:47,079 --> 01:16:47,600
year is gonna be.

1467
01:16:47,640 --> 01:16:50,279
Speaker 1: Big oh you got it right this. Time i'll tell

1468
01:16:50,319 --> 01:16:52,720
you one, shot we do we GET i. DID i

1469
01:16:52,880 --> 01:16:55,920
really didn't think you were that. Old i'm not that that's,

1470
01:16:56,079 --> 01:16:58,600
old but Because i'm all my, younger but fifty still

1471
01:16:58,640 --> 01:17:01,359
sounds old to me And i'm way past. That BUT

1472
01:17:01,560 --> 01:17:04,560
i just, YEAH i don't see you that. Way if

1473
01:17:04,600 --> 01:17:07,199
you TELL i thought maybe BECAUSE i always Think danny's

1474
01:17:07,199 --> 01:17:08,279
older than. Me WHEN i don't think he.

1475
01:17:08,399 --> 01:17:08,800
Speaker 5: Is he's.

1476
01:17:08,880 --> 01:17:12,600
Speaker 1: NOT i think he's like four or five years. Younger he.

1477
01:17:12,800 --> 01:17:17,079
Is he looks like he's seven years. Old, well, look

1478
01:17:18,279 --> 01:17:20,800
everybody's body is. Different But i'll tell you what that.

1479
01:17:21,039 --> 01:17:24,920
Is that is carried around a lot of. Baggage that's

1480
01:17:25,000 --> 01:17:27,279
carried around a lot of. Bags, no it's carrying the. Cross,

1481
01:17:27,479 --> 01:17:31,079
no it's not startrying the cross For Kevin muir and his.

1482
01:17:31,239 --> 01:17:34,479
Birthday I'm Bill. Murran will see you. Tomorrow