Speaker 1: Hey, it's Bill.
Speaker 2: I wanted to jump in here before we started tell
you a little bit about the episode. We recorded this
on Kevin's birthday. Kevin been here since the beginning, married guy,
three boys, hockey dad. I'm pretty sure it means he
spent most of his adult life cold, tired, emotionally negotiating,
and honestly, every guy does this pretending he knows what
he's doing right. And here's the thing nobody really tells
you about. As you get older.
Speaker 1: At some point you just kind of figure this out.
You're no longer in control, not of your kids, not
of your body, and not of the outcomes you'll work
really hard to plan for. You're just involved. You watch
your kids get good at something, maybe great, and suddenly
it's not about teaching anymore. It's about stepping back and
not fucking it all up.
Speaker 2: Your marriage that shifts goes from passion to partnership. You
kind of need each other to balance it all out.
Your body sends little notifications you didn't sign up for.
We as humans love control, we worship it, and then
life quietly.
Speaker 1: Digs it away.
Speaker 2: So this episode isn't really about hockey or football, or
bad calls or snowstorms. It's about what happens when that
illusion breaks, and how you play the next part without panicking,
without disappearing, without pretending you're fine. Kevin s here, it's
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Speaker 4: Podcast, well hello and.
Speaker 2: Welcome thanks for getting your pot. On thank you for
telling a. Friend that's how we spread the word about
the pirate. Ship slowly growing like my god after the,
storm like moles up your. Back, yeah slowly growing like
the voles the way. BACK i just went for a skit.
Check how dare? You how dare?
Speaker 1: You all the? Way? Yeah oh, yeah, yeah yeah. Yeah
this lady's a little nicer. Lady yeah it going with
like a half. To so you don't like embarrass? Her uh,
NO i have WELL i have a fluffer embarrass. Her
HOW i gonna embarrass? Her going? Flimp she might be,
like oh hot? Anymore, no no, hot no. CHILLED i
think younger than. ME i think this one's younger than.
Me the other, one the other one was. Older uh.
Speaker 2: No and and this one doesn't like the other one
would do like a blue light. Around this one just
lifts my underwear and looks.
Speaker 1: The blue light like you're checking out for coming. OUT
i don't, know. Hotel that's read pretty, MUCH i, think, yeah,
PROBABLY i don't. KNOW i don't know what that. Is, which,
lady you have been asked, This, oh you know what today?
Is kevin's? Birthday, married three, sons hockey, dad, alcoholic no, drunk, yeah,
alcoholics going to. MEETINGS i was thinking about. This you
have been, cold, tired and emotionally confused pretty much for
the last fifteen twenty. Years how long have you been? Married twenty?
Two all, right so twenty. Years i'll say you might
have been not emotionally confused the first, two but then
the kids come along and. That you.
Speaker 2: KNOW i was thinking about this, too because it Was kevin's.
Birthday thank GOD i put in my fucking calendar this
year because there would have been.
Speaker 1: Nothing, OH i also do you also asked me like
two weeks, ago you guessed like four, days And i'm,
Like i've just tell you what it. Is, yeah, yeah,
YEAH i put it in my. CALENDAR i just A
facebook remind me when it's your. Birthday, yeah that's. FINE
i MEAN i usually shop ahead SO i don't have
to worry about. It, right that's a calendar pub up that.
Day so that's WHY i did the. Thing BUT i
was thinking about it BECAUSE i, go you, know for,
BIRTHDAYS i don't even know how old you.
Speaker 2: Are forty, seven, no forty, five no, three you're going
the wrong.
Speaker 1: Way oh you're forty. Eight, nope you're not, Fifty nope
you're forty. Nine there you, go closest to the. Pits.
Speaker 2: Christ it's, like, mean, YEAH i, mean it's like the
hardest part isn't the kids and the. Diapers it's watching
them not need you, anymore you. KNOW i, mean that
really IS i, think honest To. God AND i know
it sounds a little strange from guys to be talking about,
that but it's like watching your kids become people that
no longer ask your. Permission it's kind of been you
don't really need.
Speaker 1: To it's kind of been the ongoing team of the
group chat that it was in over the weekend Because
sam's In. Vegas yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, Yeah and then
couldn't come. Back they got their flight delayed because of the. Storm,
RIGHT i think it Was. Thursday, yeah they had already
canceled it because of the, storm which really wasn't that
big of a storm to be honest with, YOU i didn't. Think,
yeah but he got they got. Stuck so they're coming
back tomorrow at some. Point, okay so he got an
extra two days In. Vegas that's what we're saying. THERE
i guess there could be worse places to be. Straight oh, yeah,
yeah we getting out. THERE i guess it was a
night where they went From. Chicago they were supposed To
chicago To. Vegas they went To chicago To denver To.
Vegas WHY i don't. KNOW i didn't. Ask, oh maybe
maybe that was the original flight for that plane and
they had to cancel. It it makes no sense to,
Me BUT i, don't you know WHAT i. Mean it's,
LIKE i don't. Know so what does it feel like
for you forty nine years old when you realize that
your kids are closer to leaving than they are. Coming
you know What i'm? Saying like the same thing for.
Speaker 2: Me both my older guys are, gone and It jamison
will be gone in two.
Speaker 1: Years there's many days Where i'm, like get the fuck, out,
GO i got plans for your. Room, GO i got
plans for your. Room but, yeah but it is, like,
okay all, RIGHT i Think dad's probably have a better
easier time than that with that than. Mom's oh, Yeah
bob's going through because his oldest just. THERE i think
he's twenty. Four, yeah they just he just moved out
with his, girlfriend, okay and they were going through all
the get in the place and getting everything. RIGHT i
think they spent two days over there getting everything put
together and everything put up and put, away and then he. Helped. Yeah,
YEAH i think he's he's going through a till why
GOING i have to do that BECAUSE i think one
of my guys is going to move in with his girlfriend,
Too And I'M i. Don't here's the.
Speaker 2: Problem LIKE i did live with people prior to being,
married AND i do remember my mother BECAUSE i think
the GIRL i was living with is like she wanted
to wrap a present for she was going to see
one of her naz friends and she wanted to wrap a.
Speaker 1: Present she's, like, oh you can use the. Bedroom my
mother wouldn't go in there out a blue. LIGHT i
don't probably, PROBABLY i MEAN i, DON'T i don't. KNOW
i don't. Know but like you're at all the hockey,
games you do. ALL i was there, Yesterday, yeah in
the FUCKING Afc championship. Game, oh, wow four. O'clock as
soon AS i saw that we made it last, WEEK
i immediately Texted brady's, coach who's also A patriots, fan
you need to fix. Us and he. Couldn't he, Tried he,
Tried he. Tried called me at two. Thirty, yeah said
the game was. Canceled somebody told him they were shutting
down after three. O'clock oh, okay, okay the game was. Canceled,
yeah So i'm like walked in till Because brad didn't
want to go. Either, yeah he wanted to watch football. Game,
yeah SO i walked, IN i grabbed the, beer walked,
in sat in my chair ready to kick it. Off
phone rings it the coach's. Wife, yeah we may have
given you bad. News we may have given you bad
news or bad, information bad. Information, yeah the bad news
is coming. Off first of, All, yeah we were the
only people in MCC's At Tim. Horton's there was no other.
Games every the ring was. Dark, yeah there was. Nothing, yeah,
like why did they hold it the other? Day?
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, uh Because brady's your youngest, yep but your
your Son, tyler who's still in high. School and then
you Have sam who's In vegas now coming. Back but,
Uh tyler still in high school has got like a
really promising future in hockey or AM i over stating?
Speaker 1: Hopefully?
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, so, like at what point as a parent
does it become from supporting to supporting means getting out
of the, way letting him listen to other.
Speaker 1: People you know What.
Speaker 2: I'm, saying BECAUSE i always, worry like you'll hear about
and a lot of them are turned. Out, okay but
you don't want to Be Todd meredovich's. Dad you're not
and that's not you at. All but you played.
Speaker 1: Hockey you understand the. Game you have a passion for.
Speaker 2: It it's, like BUT, I i, MEAN i think it's
fair to say your kid's better at it than You.
Speaker 1: Tyler, Okay Well i'm not trying to be. Mean i'm
Just i'm just SAYING i think he's one of the
best in the. Area, yeah, yeah, definitely, YES i JUST
i still give him my two, cents LIKE i, say,
hey you know you did this while this well, this
well this is something where maybe it was not your best.
Option BUT i will always remind him when he comes
home and tells me that one of his high school
coaches or his travel coach says the exact same THING i,
said like three weeks. Ago, yeah, like, oh oh well
look at, this look at. This oh dad knows. All
or WHEN i told him over the, SUMMER i, go you,
know you probably need to put on about ten to
fifteen pounds of. Muscle it'll make, you it'll take your
game to the next. Level and they got train wrecked
a couple weeks. Ago, man that kid just fucking murdered. Me,
yeah maybe if you put that muscle on us to eat. McDonald's,
there fat. Bitch they see the, kid the kid, is he's,
wiring he's put on a. Muscle, yeah he's got a little.
Bit he could definitely stand to fifteen. More.
Speaker 2: Uh because that's the thing, is LIKE i never knew
my dad was not a sports, guy so he didn't understand.
Speaker 1: Anything he was doing crossrod puzzles WHILE i was out
the field playing. Games and that's the, thing, is, like
how do you know when pushing? Helps and and SOMETIMES i.
Speaker 2: Think it's about our own. Anxiety like for some, parents
you don't want to see the kid like do. Anything
BUT i don't get really that vibe with.
Speaker 1: You he got messed up a little bit against he
got his had his bell rung against McQuaid and he
was definitely not feeling. Great and we went To Lake
plai and he definitely played like shit because he was,
sick sick with he had DO i think he was
still feeling some of the effects of getting his belt. Wrung,
yeah he didn't have a, concussion but he definitely was.
Not but he was also he had a nasty head,
cold so he just he played. Awful he had no
points in two, games which is not like. Him, yeah
and does that what does that? Do what does that
do for? You does that make you like a? Little
just makes?
Speaker 5: Me?
Speaker 2: NO i JUST i just let him do His, YEAH i,
mean he got to let him do his, thing and he,
can't you, know and he. Certainly it's a weird thing
because you, know we see all them.
Speaker 1: And we can get to it a little bit later, Too.
Speaker 2: But we see all the stuff with football and things like,
that and it's always guys playing through the. Pain And
i'm not sure if that's always good or. BAD i
really don't. KNOW i MEAN i look at guys Like Baker.
Mayfield would he have had a better career In cleveland
had he not played through the?
Speaker 1: Pain just because you, Know i'm still surprised we haven't
heard what's been up WITH. I, honestly there really was
nothing and he was just a bad couple of games
For Josh. Allen but there's got to be something that he. Had,
OH i got Some here's got to be, something shoulder like. Something,
YEAH i, MEAN i can't. IMAGINE i can't imagine.
Speaker 2: When you think About, tyler what scares you More tyler
not making it Or tyler making?
Speaker 1: It and then WHAT i don't think. Either. WHAT i
just he needs to do his. Thing if he does his,
thing HE'S i would prefer to go to college. ROUTE
i don't think that's the way he wants to. GO
i JUST i feel like if he goes to college and,
plays he may not get a free, education but he'll
get a good chunk of financial aid and have. Options
with the transfer, portal you can start out In division
three and you can go all the way To division. One.
Yeah you go out there and you play your game
and you prove that you're worth your. Time, yeah teams
will find. You and that's the. Thing he wants to
play for another team this. Year i'm, Like i'm gonna
get more, exposure go all, right tell me all the
kids that played in that team last, year what kind
of exposure did they. Get then you're gonna go to
this team and you're gonna be third. Line you're not
gonna be the top. Guy he. Said, Well I'M i
Just i'm, like if you're good, enough they'll find. You
it doesn't matter if you're playing In, Alaska, Florida New,
york they'll find you if you're good. Enough, NO i.
Agree we've done all this, stuff with the recruiting stuff
to help you so they can find you. Easier not a,
yeah it it becomes, well it also becomes like a
point of like it's just the taxi tax on your
body of constantly fucking running to these hockey, things you,
know after a, while right, like, god, DAMN i can't.
Imagine none of my guys played. Hockey SO I i don't,
know BUT i watch. YOU i watched, uh you, know
the backs and their kids and and they're little and,
uh just all of. It you, KNOW i even see
people with. Soccer it's just it's it's you gotta. Finds
it's not always about the kids on the. Team it's
us about the. Parents if you have shitty, parents what's
the fun of Going oh, right, right, Yeah. Brady brady's
team is certainly no more or no nowhere near the
fun The tyler's team. Is, yeah the, parents. RIGHT i
mean we've also been together for close to ten years
as a hockey, family SO i mean that makes a
lot different, too but. Huge we just have a. Lot
we just have a lot more, fun. RIGHT i, Mean
brady's team is, new and you're not going to not
go To brady's, game, Right no things here you. Go
you just may have, to uh behave yourself a little.
BIT i always behave myself either. Way either, WAY i
always behave. MYSELF i stand by myself SO i don't
get in trouble for the when you're yelling and. STUFF
i meant, like if you're out how hockey tournaments and,
things drink it to the lobby through that kind Of
oh that's the. Given, yeah WELL i did. GET i did.
GET i Told tyler and A brady's coach, said you,
know this is not my first rodeo with, this So
i'm going to be judging as hell the first tournament
we go to out of. Town, yeah he, goes all,
right you're the official judge of parents are that's a bad,
idea BUT i. Accept, oh so you're judging the other
parents in their. Behavior, WELL i MEAN i get. THAT
i get.
Speaker 2: That Uh, no, MAN i think you've done a hell
of a job with those. BOYS i, mean you, KNOW
i remember someone saying to, me good good parents build
roots and they know when to let go and not grab,
them you, know and let them kind of find their own.
Speaker 1: Way and it's not. Easy it's, hard you. KNOW i
even see with like my oldest kid wanting all these you,
know trying to get all these different, jobs and you
want to jump in and, go why are you not
X y and, zing and you kind of.
Speaker 2: Can't you got to. Go it's it's their. LIFE i
Think i'd learned that lesson from me. Personally with my middle,
son who got into a, college said it was his first.
Choice it Was Saint Joseph's university down In.
Speaker 1: Philly we went. There we looked At villanova as. Well
he got into.
Speaker 2: Both he decided he really like that, one that, program that.
Thing we walked around the, campus we did all this, stuff.
Speaker 1: And i'm, like.
Speaker 2: Awesome and then he there's a really really small college
that he and his mom went to visit that's very
local to us to where we, are And i'm, like
he's not gonna like. It that's not what he's looking.
FOR i want you to have the college, experience not
just and especially where he, went there's not as there's
not a college experience right in terms of, like you,
know all the different AND.
Speaker 1: I can't say that it's not, diverse but just in
terms of it's not guys being guys going out getting
maybe maybe either was it sounds like there, was or
he made friends with other. Students but so he goes
to this small private college because they would put him
on the track team and he was an okay, athlete.
Speaker 2: But they, said, yeah we'll give you some money from
the track. Team so he was a thrower and it
changed his whole body and. Everything, he's you, know a
powerlifter now wants to get certified to be a trainer
on the side of whatever else he's.
Speaker 1: Doing it's so good for. Him but at that TIME
i wanted to jump in and, go what are you?
Doing why are you talking about?
Speaker 2: That AND i remember my brother, going it's not your, life,
right and that's and that was WHEN i, Went, OKAY
i GOTTA i gotta back off. Here and that's the
part that's, hard because you can you believe as the,
parent you could see the future going this.
Speaker 1: Way you don't really. Know but the tough part is
when you are right and you want to be LIKE
i fucking told you, so but you. Can't, yeah there's
been there's been that with with my. OLDEST i wanted
to be, like, DUDE i told YOU i saw this
coming kind of, thing, yeah BUT i kept my mouth.
Shut well that brings us to The, Patriots, kevin because
nothing about this season anybody saw.
Speaker 2: COMING i don't. Believe with The, PATRIOTS i don't EVEN
i don't. KNOW i, mean did you think that they
would be? HERE i didn't think they get to the Super?
BOWL i did, Say AND i had this argument with
people at. Work i'm, like with their schedule, again we're
going back to the. SCHEDULE i thought they could get
the twelve. Ones, YEAH i thought they'd make the. PLAYOFFS
i thought they could get the twelve.
Speaker 1: Ones, yeah, sure lower. Expectations when we went out the first,
weekend laid a fucking egg against The, raiders And i'm,
like what the fuck?
Speaker 2: Right and that's why you didn't have the home game,
yep because it came down to the same. Record what
were they both fourteen and three The Nenver. Broncos The
patriots lost The broncos. Twice, yeah so because you, go
you got you Got Mike, frable who could become the
first coach to win A Super bowl as a player
and win A Super bowl as a head coach the
same franchise for the same.
Speaker 1: Franchise. Exactly, Yes AND.
Speaker 2: I you, KNOW i, go what do The patriots know
that the other thirty teams don't or? Forgot you know
WHAT i?
Speaker 1: MEAN i think it's ALWAYS i don't want to say
it's The patriot, way Because i'm sure that every team
is a. Team, yeah but does The patriots always just
seem to be from? Afar Obviously i'm. Not i'm not
in it like other people that we. Know they just
seem to be a lot closer knit. Team everybody likes,
everybody they all do their. THING i thought about this
a lot BECAUSE i after The bills shit that went,
on and then you go on social media and they'll
see all kinds of people putting up this was considered a.
Cutch this was not considered to cutch. It AND i
GET i can't don't let your don't let your season
come down to one. Play, well here's here's WHAT i was.
Speaker 2: WATCHING i, thought you, know there were people Saying Drake
may didn't play well in the. Playoffs he hasn't and
he didn't really play well yet done, enough but he
played well.
Speaker 1: Enough he's done. Enough BUT i, thought, boy because they
are Not they're not The, bills they're Not Josh allen.
Driven they're team driven.
Speaker 2: Well and they seem to be fundamentals over. Flash, yep
you know WHAT i. Mean fundamentals over. Flash and it
was like remembering who you, know you're one to eleventh
of this, team and it's just.
Speaker 1: Why miss at thirteen yards when you can hit it? Four? Yeah?
Right three fours is still twelve? Yep and it's still
a first, down yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah and it's like they also did something. Else they
have adaptability and in a real sense of control of
situations that they don't necessarily have control.
Speaker 1: Of and What i'm referring.
Speaker 2: To is The Jared stendham flagged play that they went
under review and then it wasn't a it was down
where The patriot guy got it because it was a,
fumble not a forward. Pass or lateral or whatever it,
was and then maybe that was a bad.
Speaker 1: Call, well they. Blew they blew the when the ball
hit the, ground they blew the play. Dead, yes so
that's why they give them the.
Speaker 2: Ball The, yes BUT i think it was kind of
a blown, call like they they should have probably got
the touchdown The patriots for, that so instead of allowing
that chaos to you, know, oh they're fucking does that
kind of, thing WHICH i think in certain situations some people.
Could it was a close game and they. Didn't they
went in and they scored and they did what they
had to. Do and it's one of these things where.
Speaker 1: It's the veteran. STAFF i, mean you've Got Josh pretendens
has been a head coach to an offensive. Coordinator you
Got vrabel who's been a head coach for a, while
he's been a defensive. Coordinator, right they're just wired differently
than Say Johnny Joe, brady WHO'S i don't want to
Say Joe brady's not wired correctly because that's not the
right way to say, it but, right he doesn't have
that situational stuff that He's he's just not as. Tenured
he doesn't have the time and he doesn't have the
experience that A josh McDaniels would. Have, yeah, NO i
sometimes that plays into.
Speaker 2: It sometimes that plays great for huge because you've seen
a lot of, stuff, right and experience is is our greatest, teacher,
right you, know words don't, teach that's the.
Speaker 1: Thing but sometimes being the new, guy you can be,
like you know, what fuck, it let's. Go but they
didn't argue the.
Speaker 2: CHAOS i didn't see ANY i didn't see any argument
on the k AND i, thought, wow they just adjusted to.
It and then they went forward and he goes to,
Me it's like how much success is, talent but also
how you respond to the.
Speaker 1: Situation, well they talked about it on the. Broadcast Tony
romo was talking about it because they kept showing late
in the fourth quarter when it was blizzarding and nobody
could move the. Ball at one, Point New england had
a third and like ten, yeah and basically did, it
snapped it and threw it, away knowing they were gonna
punt and just move the. Ball but they were showing
McDaniels And vrabel talking back and, forth constantly talking back and,
forth trying to figure out what's our best? Play, Here,
yeah do we try to move the? Ball do we just,
YEAH i mean play with the. Lead let our defense.
Win it's a chess, game, right and you're you're trying
to SEE i don't know BECAUSE i.
Speaker 2: Was it even reminded me WHEN i was thinking about
all this, stuff AND i, go you, know it's how
you respond to a. SITUATION i got a call earlier
in the week from my kids'.
Speaker 1: School something had, happened and what he said to them
and they wanted me to know was my knee.
Speaker 2: Jerk my dad always, says my knee jerk response is
usually the wrong response to, have and they said, that
we wanted you to know he said, that AND i, said, well,
yeah usually our first, response knee jerk is hard to.
Speaker 1: Control it's knee, jerk, right it's knee.
Speaker 2: Jerk it's like it's it's it's, instinctual it's it's what
you've been trained to. Do but if you can get,
that just that moment that, beat train yourself to do,
that it's. Better because most, PEOPLE i, think in anything they're,
doing and you look at The, patriots they lose momentum
because something was. Unfair they just lose momentum and then
they wind, up stop playing the, game stop doing them.
Whatever hey fuck, this this guy hurt my, feeling you
know WHAT i?
Speaker 1: Mean, Right AND i really.
Speaker 2: DO i think in life you can look at that
LIKE i, thought that's a great. THING i hope some football,
COACH i hope some teacher takes that patriot thing right.
There that play and. Go they didn't overreact to. It
they stayed.
Speaker 1: Composed AND i, mean, look The broncos had a chance
to keep them. Out they weren't. In they didn't get the.
Touchdown you got a chance to rest your offense a little.
Bit and many teams have we, watched you, know many
teams do. That SO i. DON'T i don't. Know it's
kind of like.
Speaker 2: Life doesn't reward people who are, right even though we
want to tell our kids that all the.
Speaker 1: Time look who's.
Speaker 2: Right it rewards who keeps playing the, game who keeps,
going who keeps? Moving how many times have you heard
that over and over? Again AND i, think LIKE i
think was ON espn this, morning it might have Been Rex,
ryan who Former bills head, coach Former jets head, coach
former defensive coordinator for The Baltimore, ravens said this is
not the sexiest Super bowl he. Goes BUT i think
it's going to be a damn good.
Speaker 1: One and you, know because you've got the, Teams like you're,
right The patriot way seems to be something that is.
Real BUT i, mean you also Have Drake may playing
three of the top five defenses in the playoffs, too
which didn't help his his play. EITHER i, mean you're
you're going against play well enough he, PLAYED i say
to my buddy a number of times ago to get
by it enough to get.
Speaker 2: By all, Right well we'll take him on With Greg
connors is going to be joining us late later on as.
Speaker 1: Well BUT i can't wait For greg to watch Another
patriots fucking Super. BOWL i may have sent him a messag.
Yesterday enjoyed the Super. Bowl it was.
Speaker 2: Painful here's the part that's painful to me is that
you've got AND i feel bad, because, boy this guy
really rose to the. Occasion talk about somebody who did
not just like The patriots team a. Thing this individual
did not lose momentum because something was kind of. Unfair
he was In New york At Sam. Darnold he was
in the same draft class As Baker may And Josh
allen he was picked, Third josh was picked. SEVENTH i
think whatever what's his name was picked. Sixteenth Lamar, yeah
And Josh rosen, too And josh.
Speaker 1: Right Josh. ROSEN i don't think who ever saw the.
FIELD i don't even know if.
Speaker 2: He's, YEAH i don't. Know but it's, like you watch
What Sam darnold, did. Right he goes From New york
to The, panthers and then The panthers go and Get Baker,
mayfield so they're both on the, team and he's out
To San francisco BECAUSE i think he reminded a, reporter,
Well i've won A Super bowl, before Or i've been
on the you, Know i've been in The Super bowl.
Speaker 1: Before he didn't, play but he was on the.
Speaker 2: Sideline then he goes from there To, minnesota has a
pretty solid, season everything's, okay Maybe wed you, know he
found his, home and then the next thing you, know
he's off To seattle with a new head.
Speaker 1: Coach, LIKE i, think is this a rookie head. COACH
i don't know how long he's been in, there BECAUSE
i think they Fired carol two years.
Speaker 2: Ago, okay so this is the second, season but still
AND i, go he was great yesterday he was. THROWING i,
mean he looked really really.
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are and what a shit show they are at developing. Players.
Right but think about the number of.
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time AND i, go that guy never fucking bought into
anybody else's. Bullshit he just he knew what he had
and he you, know and his grandfather was the marble.
Speaker 1: Man, uh he just kept.
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to teach your, kids that's the stuff you want to show.
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It and the Fscses sammy is who sounds Like Eddie.
Vedder it's Not, edie but is this collective?
Speaker 5: Song it's not bust, me IT'S i know all the,
words you know the?
Speaker 1: Song and he's, like, yeah but don't you Know cranberry's.
Cover oh linger, Zombie oh. Zombie but who's singing the Bad? Wolves?
OH i don't know the Bad. WOLVES i JUST i
really love this. Song And i've probably got seven different
versions Of, yeah, yeah, Yeah i've got one Of Miley
cyrus doing.
Speaker 5: It.
Speaker 1: Okay oh, GOD i wouldn't even have put The cranberries
because it's. YET i knew all the, words And i'm, going, why, why,
Why i'm having this weird getting. Old that's WHY i
have to look forward to him four. Years, yeah, man
next year's the big, One, buddy strippers and. BLOW i
think will be okay with? That or will you moving? Again?
OH i don't. Know we'll probably have to move after.
That i'm not really. Sure max, here it's okay If max, here, yeah, True,
yeah he doesn't have a. Problem he's, here he can
don is the? Party, yeah so if he, blows if
he blows the line off of strippers, ass that's gonna
wait a. Second he would never ever do. That he
would never do. That he blows a line off your
ass to the, party you get a little hair up there?
Too be? TERRIBLE o my, god yeah? Gross the uh
we had that big.
Speaker 2: STORM i don't, know like what has happened to, Me
BUT i wanted To for a, While i've been wanting
to try to make different. Things SO i made a
meat loaf And i've never made a meat loaf in my.
Life so you tried to make comedy On instagram And.
FACEBOOK i tried to make a little.
Speaker 1: Comedy. YEAH i tried to do a little little funny
weather guy outside and some of it got you, know,
people some people REALLY i don't know if they liked
it or. Not it was just quick.
Speaker 2: STUFF i think a friend of my brother's tried to friend,
me and it's a woman who lives up the street from,
them and she, said uh, uh you didn't have to
accept my friend my friend. REQUEST i got the video
from your brother OR i stole the video from. Me
SO i don't know if she was going to redo
it like even. Funnier but here's the. Problem, probably well
here's the. Problem SO I i knock on my kid's
door and, go, hey let me know when you got
like ten, minutes we'll just go. Outside and, dudes, Oh.
Speaker 1: I'm getting all kinds of crap because he's playing a
video game and he's in the, game and THEN i
guess something happens where now he's out of the game
and go all, right let's. Go let's go, NOW i
said to. Him and you've got you've got in your
mind how you want to shoot. This, yes and your
son's probably got seventeen different ways that this is gonna
be better if he does it his. Way, well we
didn't really talk about. IT i, Said i'm gonna stand.
Speaker 2: Over i'm not getting out in that Snow i'm not
Doing i'm Not i'm not walking out. THERE i, go,
OKAY i, said drumlo the.
Speaker 1: Snowball no SHOULD i. KNOW i didn't should.
Speaker 2: Have So i'm standing after her and he after of,
course he was, like uh so he's doing. It AND i,
go let me try one, more and he, goes, no we're.
Speaker 1: Done i'm.
Speaker 2: Cold i' meant he put on no, jacket no. ANYTHING
i said to, him play.
Speaker 1: Your, game finish your. Game how long do you think
it's gonna?
Speaker 2: BE i don't, know ten ten, MINUTES i, Said i'll
set a timer for fifteen minutes And i'll just knock
on your door. Again don't don't, rush but let's try
to do this, now BECAUSE i don't WANT i want
to wait OTHERWISE i really get, lost and he's, like.
Speaker 1: Oh, fine, fine we'll go, now we'll go. OUT i, go,
Well i'm not ready, now so Now i'll try to
get all my. Shit i'm running around and feel all
kinds of. Pressure so that's what. HAPPENED i Don't bob
was pawing all Night friday Into saturday because there was
a bunch of. Snuff, yeah AND. I he had come
home and he sent me a text it's like nine
thirty On saturday. MORNING i need a, drink, Buddy it's nine.
Thirty but, Okay So i'm out there waiting for. HIM
i come in and carries, like how are you not?
Cold you were outside in a pair of sweatpants and the. Undershirt,
YEAH i. GO i. WASN'T i was fucking, freezing and my.
NIPPLES i could tune In tokyo right, now poking the freaking. Glass.
Speaker 2: Right SO i went AND i did all the food,
shopping and you AND i talked On. SATURDAY i like
loaded it up on all the THINGS i was gonna,
do and it took way longer THAN i THOUGHT i
was gonna.
Speaker 1: Take so then YESTERDAY i get.
Speaker 2: Up And i'm Gonna i'm doing the meat but like
everything takes a little bit. Longer and THEN i fucked
up the peanut. BUTTER i don't know WHY i want
to do this, Stuff LIKE i go.
Speaker 1: Hormonal what's going on with?
Speaker 2: Me BUT i wanted to do. It and then TODAY
i have a slow cooked chili going. On i'm excited
for slow cooked. CHILI i like a meat.
Speaker 1: Loaf it was. Good you, know candy. Yams when you
bought the meat, loaf, yeah all the stuff for the
meat yeah? Yeah was it more expensive to buy all
the stuff that you needed to buy for the meat
loaf or just to buy the one that was already
set to? Go AND i just put the pen in
the Freaking. OKAY i don't know the answer to, that
BECAUSE i had most of the ingredients, Already like it
was a lot of spices and different, Things so it
was just the meat trapping BACON i did Not, YEAH
i know somebody else did that. ONE i just came
over my. Head See see that's the thing is like
then you hear about like the snow shit that's going on, outside,
right AND i can hear the plows all the. WAY i,
mean they did a great job of keeping up with.
THIS i don't even.
Speaker 2: Know how many answers do you think you, Got i'd
say we got almost a, Yeah i'm saying maybe ten
twelve here. Too and you, KNOW i did read this
article on one of the news.
Speaker 1: Sites local news sites basically, said don't pretend you're twenty
five with a shovel out. There people have heart. Attacks
but it was the, light fluffy. Stuff it wasn't the heavy. Stuff, yeah,
yeah who, knows, BUDDY i can't. Tell it's fucking, cold
AND i always, go, yeah but everybody goes out and
they start to, shovel and you start to sweat because
you're all bundled, up and now your body's heating them
because you're basically doing cardiovascular. Work and then you, know
you're huffing and, puffing and somebody, goes are you, Okay i'm,
Fine i'm, Fine AND i don't. KNOW i, mean LIKE i,
think to be a man by, definition in a, way
you got to push through the, pain got to ignore.
Speaker 5: It.
Speaker 1: Right we talked all about it with the football, Players
SO i, GO i can totally see how a heart
attack can fucking happen with. SOMEBODY i got out there
and did. It you didn't have your kids do it they.
Would it's like your, Kid i'm playing a video. Game
it's like you. CAN'T i can't get LIKE. I i
gets annoyed at me the other day BECAUSE i, go,
BUDDY i asked you to take out the garbage and
do it. NOW i bet you ten dollars you had
said you wanted to go To chipotle instead of that
game would have been turned off for about six. Seconds
it is, weird, Man it's it's so.
Speaker 2: Weird BUT i because, like think of the things we
tell our, kids, right especially when they're out speak. Up
we're all hearing, now AND i think it's a your
start to see like PSAs and things for, uh speaking
up if we see something that isn't, Right and we
kind of tell our kids to speak. Up but then as,
DUDES i always figure we don't really model that because
when it comes to our health and, shit we're fucking.
Silent i'll be, Fine i'll be, fine you, Know and
we treat like maintenance like it's it's it's weakness or.
Speaker 1: Something AND i, go that's not exactly healthy or smart.
EITHER i should speak. Up you should stop. Drinking. Boy
i've cut way, back ALTHOUGH i did finish throughout the
day YESTERDAY i did finish off a bottle of. Wine,
well it's a. Storm you had to.
Speaker 2: Prepare it was all all. Day it was just like
throughout the. Day, NOW i can't say throughout the. DAY
i THINK i. HAD i poured the first wine at
like three.
Speaker 1: Thirty were you drinking out of glass or just right
out the? Bottle out of a, glass, buddy all class over,
here out of.
Speaker 2: A wine, glass, stemless short wine, glass that's. What AND
i have stemmed as, well BUT i have not had the.
Stem maybe, today maybe TODAY i have a stemp.
Speaker 1: RhD awake because red's good for the. HEART i Had
pinot noir. RED i have two calves at. HOME i
have some. Rosees are they good cabs or are they are?
They are They katie good? Caves or are They Bill
moran good? Cabs they're Probably Bill moran good. CALVES i
think they're like the number.
Speaker 2: Eight they get a couple of points in the wine,
spectator but they're not. ANYTHING i really like The josh
your sister.
Speaker 1: Would use it for. Mimoses Oh Jesus, CHRIST i, forgot you,
know meant With, KATIE i felt so, dumb like they
had really expensive champagne AND i come in with the you,
know sixty dollar. Bottles, hey so. TERRIBLE i don't, know it's. Terrible, well,
UH i THINK i might drink wines to night now?
Too and now that you why why? NOT i got
a nice bottle of? Gratzki oh, wow it's your? Birthday
what's the big? Plan the family doing? SOMETHING i don't.
Know what do you mean you don't? KNOW i don't.
Know out back, Steakhouse texas? Roadhouse what are we?
Speaker 6: Doing what are we your West side Raised? Randy they
got cloth. Napkins i'm just, saying but they got clothe
dapkins at these?
Speaker 1: Places Uh, no is there a? PLAN i have no
idea find out WHEN i get. Home do you care
as you get? LIKE i don't THINK i give a
ship anymore about any of the. Holidays, yeah but even,
there it's. Not it's nice if the kids would say.
Something uh, yeah it's fifty to fifty on that, too
that they will or they, won't, right and or it's
nice if they recognize. It BUT i. DON'T i don't
expect it. ANYMORE i don't expect, anything, RIGHT i. DON'T
i don't expect. Anything But i'm also not even really
in a. Relationship you're at like, Seven you're in a
relationship With, guinness your relationship With, josh your relationship With,
jamison not your. SON i am not that this is So,
god that sounds so. BAD i uh, no But i'm not.
Speaker 2: Well last year for my, BIRTHDAY i did get a
nice gift from, somebody AND i need to uh it
was their. Birthday, Recently i've been trying to, reconnect BUT
i fucked it. Up that's WHAT i.
Speaker 1: Do wait to be mental. Health well it as you,
do as you, say not as you. Do i'll tell
you honestly that that's where the whole alcohol podcast came.
From AND i got a nasty note from somebody On facebook, saying,
uh they're, like now the group texts can go. Off
how do you silence your? iPad? Uh turn the volume? Down,
Okay Well i'll have to figure that. Out volume button
right in the top. There.
Speaker 2: Yeah, wait let's turning it. Up let me go this, way,
Okay because now my mother's bragging because she got the
most amount of snow out of, anybody.
Speaker 1: Twenty two, inches and she's setting pictures to. Everybody my sister's.
Repiling oh my, god and your mom got twenty two. Inches.
Why but here's Here's Peter north. Came here's the Bad
here's the bad. Part it's like everybody can relate to
that because everybody gets on these family group texts AND
i don't KNOW i must. HAVE i don't BECAUSE i
tell my, wife do not put me in group. CHOCKS
i will not, well, right and and you have you
and your kids and, SUCH i will not respond AND
i will throw shit at.
Speaker 2: You, Well i'm in the family group. Text so it's my,
kids my niece is in, there my brother his, wife
my sister her. HUSBAND i don't know, that my sister's
kids are in, there and my dad was in. THERE
i think my dad's still on.
Speaker 1: THERE i don't. Know And, march so is he still judging?
Too So jordan's on? There you?
Speaker 2: Know so, everyway, yeah she probably. Is so everybody will
send these things and then sometimes LIKE i.
Speaker 1: Gotta be, honest If kevin just turned his phone out
and started typing your dad's responses to, Ship i'd be.
HILARIOUS i think he has his phone, too that would
be if he just there just wait wait wait, wait
your dad say wait wait wait wait wait wait wait
wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait.
Speaker 2: Wait So i'm pretty sure he had it turned. Off
but when my dad was an, iPhone, yeah.
Speaker 1: He could STILL i. MESSAGE i think the number and
everything was given. Back you don't need a number for ie,
message That's. Apple oh, well so we have to have
a conversation with your. Brother so my brother were leaving
AND i had like because he grabbed dad's phone or,
whatever and he's, like, Uh and we had talked to
my mom and told her and all we were all
in there laughing and stuff like. That but the.
Speaker 2: He as we're driving, somewhere he sends a message to
my mom from my dad's, phone knowing that she's. Dead
AND i think it was something like he would say to.
Speaker 1: Her hot down. Here he didn't say.
Speaker 2: That it was something that he would say TO i
don't even. Remember and then we called her and she's,
like oh my. God she, goes you're such.
Speaker 1: An, Asshole, kevin because he had sent the. Thing but
it would freak, Out it would freak you. OUT i
was gonna Have Kevin collin to the numbers on your
dad's phone as your dad from the. Beyond, yeah for
like it Was. HALLOWEEN i was gonna have to do.
It uh did he say, no he said he would do.
It we never got we never never.
Speaker 2: Connected that's so. Funny he, uh that's really. Funny but
where WAS i? Going, yeah just the group, Text So
i'll drive you crazy.
Speaker 1: With that kind of. Stuff, well it's it's not it's
just like. Always so then NOW i have something on
my phone because it's always Somebody Bill miranda doesn't participate
in the group, text, yes because SOMETIMES i just because, Everybody,
hey here's why DO i have to say? IT i
GUESS i have to.
Speaker 2: Now sometimes in the group text when it's so like
the podcast, people, right and they're texting, everybody and it's
more The monday night crew or that that that crew
that we usually have earlier in the. WEEK i it
becomes like a one upsmanship on, stuff And i'm just,
LIKE i just don't have the time for.
Speaker 1: THIS i don't have the time for.
Speaker 2: IT i got. IT i gotta move. On sometimes they.
Laugh sometimes they'll get in. THERE i don't mean to
be rude AND i And i'm seeing why that scene is,
rude BUT i don't mean to be.
Speaker 1: Rude it's just THAT i Don't i'm, like, Okay i'm
just busting your balls because ninety percent of. People you
don't respond to me it. Text, No i've been forging
forgetting movies and they don't. HAVEN'T i GUESS i tried
to say it was getting, better BUT i don't THINK
i have gotten. Better how many to open right? Now
how many? Texts how many open text on your? Phone right?
Now where's my? PHONE i don't, KNOW i don't. Know,
oh my phone's right. Here hang, On i'm gonna Go
i'm Gonna i'm gonna set the over. Under you're gonna
be at one hundred and. Thirteen i'm gonna go, under
And i'm gonna go under at like forty. Eight you're
gonna say forty, eight forty, eight twenty all, right twenty,
yeah because uh oh there was a storm this speak
and you. Didn't did you get to do? Much? Yeah?
Uh why are cameras go? Down the hell is going?
On oh your? Dad it could. Be it totally could.
BE i forgot that one of the, Chargers, uh because
like everything is taken of? Mine oh, no, yeah there it.
Is everything is taken of. Mine oh, YEAH i bought
two chargers On amazon like three weeks, ago and Neither,
okay so it's not just that BUT i can find.
THEM i now mark okay on the ship THAT i. Buy,
yeah so that WHEN i find it in somebody else's,
room well that's. Mine uh, no, no it. Isn't it's
it's a fucking it's the frat. House it is with.
BOYS i don't know what it's like having, girls but
that's what they. Do And jamison is, like, uh like he,
was he's sleeping most of today BECAUSE i don't even
know what time he was up to playing the game and,
talking and THAT i had to go at one o'clock
in the, morning go you've got to lower your fucking. Mouth,
yeah you. GOTTA i THINK i said a condor with.
That MAYBE i, didn't but you got to lower. IT
i get up this morning.
Speaker 2: And the dishwasher had, finished, right so but not. Empty
there's a hot chocolate. Thing and THEN i buy little,
snacks these little they can get them At. Aldi they're
like little protein. THINGS i gots cheese or crackers or meats.
WHATEVER i love those. THINGS i love the one with
the crazins in which people make fun of me, for
and the, almonds and they have some.
Speaker 1: Cheese that's my favorite. One all of, them, so all
six of them are are, gone AND i, GO i,
BOUGHT i, go, BUDDY i bought those for. SCHOOL i.
Go there was meat loaf left. Over there's peanut. BUTTER i,
GO i don't like the. Peanter BUT i don't like peanut. Butter,
OKAY i know it's not mainly don't Like, peter BUT i, go,
well who told you that was mainly to like peanut?
BUTTER i know it, Amazing, yeah it's. Fine, OKAY i
mean too So i'm, like don't you don't have to eat.
It but there's the meat, loaf there's, this there's all,
kinds there's, candy there's. Shit i'm, like what the. Fuck he's, like,
oh you're not even going to school this?
Speaker 2: Week AND i, GO i actually only have one in
person class this. Week you're, Right But i'm, LIKE i
buy shivery other fucking thing for. YOU i buy shit
AND i hide. It, look, okay here's. One this is
one that pissed me off the other. Day then we'll
take a short. BREAK i couldn't sounds so. DUMB i
couldn't find my.
Speaker 1: COMB i have a, long just.
Speaker 2: Comb it's just a regular, comb not, fancy not. Anything
probably been around too. LONG i probably have to find
a way to.
Speaker 1: Clean it because there's little like gookie stuff in. THERE i,
GUESS i don't, know or just you, know spend ninety
sevens Aut, okay get.
Speaker 2: Comb, okay, okay, okay hang, on but this is a big.
Comb it's got the wider, teeth it's got the, good.
Speaker 1: It's, calm it's dollar twenty. SEVEN i get up AND
i have someplace to, be And i'm, like where the
fuck's my? Comb and THEN i feel Like i'm losing
my mind AND i can't find. IT i can't find.
IT i can't find.
Speaker 2: It so WHEN i go, SHOPPING i make a trip
to ANOTHER i went To wegmans to buy. Combs they
don't really have combs At. Wegmans it's A walmart, Thing.
Okay so Then i'm, LIKE i should have just ordered An.
Amazon so they don't really have combs at or not
the Ones i'm looking. For SO i buy these two.
Speaker 1: Combs they're like little chintzy combs. Afro that's all they really,
have is they have they? Do they have things for
people with hair not like? Mine, yeah women's hair more, probably,
yes and and SOME i think some other other hair,
yeah some other, Yes i'm just trying to say it more.
Delicately but why, hair, well why?
Speaker 2: SO I so NOW i buy these shitty. COMBS i
go home next, Day i'm, like just. Whatever and you're a.
Guy that's the other.
Speaker 1: Thing i've got to cough my. Head, WELL I I
i like to try to present myself as best AS
i possibly. CAN i you, KNOW i am an older,
guy and you can't look like. Shit so here's the
bottom line with. This and this is what pisses me.
Off and it's not about the. Comb it's about the other.
Thing it's about the denial of.
Speaker 2: Stuff so somehow we're leaving or something And i'm running
around AND i all of a SUDDEN i come into
my room AND i have a bathroom, there and the
bathroom door opens sort of startles me a little. Bit
i'm like, Whoa and he's, like, UH i have found your?
Comb AND i, said, oh all, right where was it
behind the? TOILET i go the fuck it?
Speaker 5: Was it was.
Speaker 2: NOT i, go, BUDDY i have cleaned this entire. Bathroom
there is no it would HAVE i would have found.
It oh, FINE i took. IT i was, like just
just say, it just fucking say.
Speaker 1: It i'm not gonna. YELL i don't. Care just tell
me where it. IS i don't want to feel Like
i'm losing my fucking. Mind AND i just put it
back when you're done using, it exactly. EXACTLY i go to,
cologne it's. GONE i got like now, Clippers, yes they're
not they're always. Messing, YES i always find them on
one of two kids dressers a little. Cuticle SO i
Cut brady snails with because he's a little bit and
they're always. MESSING i always find him in the same
spot and nowhere to.
Speaker 2: Look all, right we'll take a. Moment is greg joining
us now or what is he? Doing sud him a? Text,
WELL i know he may be in.
Speaker 1: PAIN i think he's he said he will let us
know when he's done with The all, Right, well maybe
we'll hang, out have a drink and have a birthday
drink and then we'll wait For. Gregory, WELL i had
a dick to me For. Gregory do you need a?
Charger do you need to go to the drunk in a? Charger?
NO i.
Speaker 2: DON'T i need figure out what's. Happening sometimes electorally.
Speaker 1: In the new, studio electorally with the, electricity because there
are cameras that are, charged and cameras are indicating they're not,
charged but they should be to the. Landlord, yeah they're
in someplace warmer right.
Speaker 2: Now but we, will uh well check in With greg and,
see you, know there's the coaching. STUFF i also like
talking a little bit about that teachable. MOMENT i think
with The patriots to me and we'll see Who greg
thinks leads the coaching could be The Buffalo, phills uh
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blessed them in a past that he's missing its history.
Speaker 1: And the may king And brady had his. Timing now
we Crowned. Drake makee, damn He's. Drek make. Listen came
in from A Jamison. Moran you know we did this.
Speaker 2: Episode, Uh stephanie had referenced it, earlier but the feedback
from this episode is fucking.
Speaker 1: Flown did you just do the fucking? Drink i'll do another.
One god damn. IT i was gonna wish you toast
your happy birthdave it the. Bottle oh, yeah.
Speaker 5: This Is.
Speaker 1: That's what happens When kevin gets away from his family
or When i'm with my. FAMILY i don't.
Speaker 2: Discriminate it's, AMAZING i think if you haven't checked out the,
episode it's called two hundred and Fifty comments and Still,
single and there's a subtitle to it which is escaping
me at the. Moment but it may be something for
you or someone you know who may want to listen to.
It there's no real advice in. This it's just talking
about kind of. Stuff But i'm getting Text i'm getting
text to my phone from women and, stuff and one
of them is, GOING i have so much to say about.
Speaker 1: THIS i have so much to.
Speaker 2: Say and you know, What stephanie said some things in.
There i'll give you one and you tell me how
people may or may not take. This she, said there's
a lot for people in the middle in terms of
looks and income and all.
Speaker 1: That there's a lot of options for people in the.
Middle a's as she. Said she, Goes i'm not here
to hook up the plumber with THE it specialists or
something to that. Effect to that, effect and.
Speaker 2: She's, Like i'm talking about really strong independent women who
run businesses and and do. Things you, know where's the,
guy the single guy with the? Jet AND i wonder
if that turns some people. OFF i don't, know because
that's that was the PART i was getting texted about.
Speaker 1: Now BUT i had a. Guy but a lot of
times that the plumber is what that chick. Needs he
does he doesn't a sneaking du you, know just kind
of almost keeps them grounded a little. Bit, YEAH i.
Speaker 2: GUESS i mean if you're used, to no one should have.
To you, know it's like it's the the prints of
the pauper type, thing. Right no one wants to change their.
Lifestyle and so if that's what you're used, to and
then that's what you're gonna be looking, for continue to.
DO i don't know that there are those people that are.
AVAILABLE i think most people get number, one a divorce
or is an expensive thing number, One and a lot
of times the guy is the one that not Always
i'm not saying this is always the, case please understand,
that BUT i do think majority of men are the
ones that end up paying and don't have custody to
the kids and r you, know and so there's a
lot of a lot of emotional, baggage let alone cost
and so that you, know there goes my private.
Speaker 1: Jet and so what AM i gonna? Do, wait this
text just said who are these? Women she's talking them
up like they are hang, on it just disappeared, off,
uh like they are beyond gorgeous. Celebrities.
Speaker 2: NOW i but the crux of it is it does
talk about like relationships working on. Yourself you know how
people say they're doing. That why people end up with
the same type of. People they may look different on the,
outside but they're kind of the same type of person
they were with. Before and there's some good stuff in the,
episode AND i certainly enjoyed. It And stephanie is you Know,
Stephanie stephanie Steph. Yeah and THEN i think.
Speaker 1: Her post On facebook got like close to what ten
thousand views.
Speaker 2: On nineteen thousand views and two hundred and fifty, comments
and that's with a lot of. People then also comments
coming to HER. Dms that's crazy For.
Speaker 1: STEPHANIE i mean just. Here, YEAH i, MEAN i know
she's got a good following with. People, yeah people know
who she. Is but and the shit she does with
her real estate stuffs Stef, yes it's. Unbelievable some of
the SHIT i die laughing. At, yeah she had one
house that SHE i messaged her because she had one
house and she started out the video with it was
an ass house and the first room she focused on
was the room with the stripper POL i remember, that
And i'm LIKE i remember, that And i'm, like, Really she's,
like it's going to sell the.
Speaker 2: House, well you know what's interesting is like she's not
afraid to take the. Chances, Now i'm gonna brag on
her for just a. Minute she's been pretty successful with
taking the. Chances, well, yes and and it goes back
to what we were talking about. Earlier you, know, life
what is life? Reward and life rewards the person that keeps,
GOING i will, say AND i know her a little more, Privately,
uh that is a person who has had a lot of, downs,
Right and when we call ups and, down she's had
a lot of tough. TIMES i said to her in the,
podcast what is it about you that keeps like that?
Whole your mentality is so?
Speaker 1: Positive?
Speaker 2: Right and we know some stuff that she had just gone,
through you, know and she was married to someone who's
still in the public eye and their, divorced and and
that that, alone, right just a divorce. Alone it's it's a,
heavy heavy. Situation so she she, Said i'm not the
type of person to get. MAD i think if like
my flight is canceled AND i really need to get
home And i'm flying out Of, chicago Say i'm not
the one screaming and YELLING i gotta get out of,
here And i'm frantically trying to.
Speaker 1: Rebook i'm the person who, SAYS i GUESS i was
supposed to Explore chicago.
Speaker 2: Today AND i think that if you can go with that,
attitude not always, easy AND i certainly think that one
of the worst things we can say to somebody's you
gotta think.
Speaker 1: Positively, okay, GREAT i, YES i just said that today
to my. Aunt what did you, say think? Positively? Yeah,
WELL i, mean, yeah BUT i always think positive thoughts
to bring positive energy in MIND.
Speaker 2: A hundred THOUGHTS a hundred are absolutely you couldn't be more.
CORRECT i just think when someone's down a negative. Road
one of the THINGS i and it's totally Because i'm
old And i've seen, it IS i don't want to
say things like, RELAX i think. POSITIVELY i just want
To it's almost at that POINT i, go, YEAH i get.
Speaker 1: IT i get. IT i hear, you, man And i'll
tell you what you're. Down maybe make any when you've
got it and start stacking. It, yeah go to bed and.
Start if you get up in the, morning count that
as your first. Wind started stacking. It where does who's
this guy that's talking over? Here where did this come?
Speaker 7: From?
Speaker 1: Yeah but usually you become a bigger. Dick that's not
the case that's going on with, you Wiser, OKAY i
GOT i got, IT i see.
Speaker 2: It it's uh, no You're you're absolutely. Right but the
thing With stephanie's like that's her. Mentality And stephanie was
also has worked very.
Speaker 1: Hard she sold a five.
Speaker 2: Point two million dollar home On Canadigua. Lake now this
happened a while, ago and she was afraid to say
anything because she didn't want to turn into like one
of the. Peace But i'm just gonna SAY i am
terrible at, math, Terrible BUT i think three percent is
usually what real estate agents. Get i'm gonna say that's
about one hundred and fifty six one hundred and fifty
five thousand. Dollars, like, now don't, forget you're gonna get
taxed on. That so But i'm just saying that three
percent is. That so there are people who just do
one or two of those a year and they.
Speaker 1: Call it a.
Speaker 2: Year stephanie's a. Hustler she's out there trying to build an.
Empire she wants to be the, best and she's willing
to take the. Risks and even with, this she was,
LIKE i didn't want to say anything about. IT i
recently put it on My facebook page THAT i sold
this house BECAUSE i want people to know it doesn't
matter if your house is one hundred and seventy five
thousand dollars or your house is five.
Speaker 1: Point two million. Dollars i'm going to give you my
best no matter. What AND i. CAN i can attest
to that because she. Did she sold my mother's. House,
yeah and my mother's house is far from five point two,
million but she put in just as much work on
my mother's house as she does on any other. House. Yeap,
YEAH i mean that that's just who she's was a
little sad THAT i didn't get a video because that
when she was first starting to do the, VIDEOS i
wanted something. Sweet but there's something, sweet like what. Anything she's.
Creative she's, very very. CREATIVE i stand by. That she
like you, said she will take chances mm. Hmm BUT
i think she also creates her own. Wins we can,
yeah because you're doing, that and that's a really smart
way to look at. It, Yeah i'll take the, chance
But i'm Gonna i'm gonna win taking the. Chance i'm
not gonna, lose, Right and that that's more of a mental.
ATTITUDE i know somebody who used to have that mental.
Attitude YOU i still. Do i'm fucking taking chances all
the time Now i'm with The nott. Whining rubber is
not a, chance the pullout game is not a chance
you want to take with. People and it's not, TRUE i,
know not. True they. Know, hello that was the funniest
thing this. Week AND i THINK i called you and
told you THAT i was walking through the parking lot
now that here's your voice blaring out a podcast AND
i hears me here, hello and ALL i could do is. Laugh,
YEAH i. Know all, Right, kevin you're forty nine. Today
what have you? Learned you think about? Life and like
you really just gave some great advice and talk very.
Highly i'm trying to start to take a more positive
look on things Because i've always been a negative. Person me,
too almost my Natural english, well because everything was always my.
UPBRINGING i was just it was we don't talk about,
this we don't talk about, this, Right i've been talking
about my aunt with my aunt about, it And i'm,
Like i'm not sure my mother and father even liked,
me and they. Did, Yes, yes there's just things that
in the past And i'm, like fucking does that, Right
and it's just like it's, Weird but at the time
it felt very normal and it's like the same. Thing
But i've seen over the last few years myself going
down that same. Role it's how you were. Conditioned that's
how you're, conditioned And i'm trying to do things. Differently,
yeah it's not always. Positive it doesn't always work. Out
i'm not stacking all the, winds.
Speaker 2: No but a little bit is a lot more than you, have,
right you. Know that's, boy that's interesting BECAUSE i always say,
too like we are so. Conditioned my old man was
always like a discreet sense of paranoia goes a long,
way so you were always like looking, around like who's
Gonna who's gonna knife me in the? Back so to, speak,
right you, know figuratively, speaking and then you start to, go,
well why why AM i?
Speaker 1: What that's, Insane but at the time it was that was.
Speaker 2: It OR i remember my friend fucking burst out laughing
in my, face like just lost it BECAUSE i said.
Speaker 1: To, Him he's, like, hey, man we get, together come
over my house this. Weekend And i'm, LIKE i.
Speaker 2: Can't and my father had been yelling at me THAT
i can't academically afford to do anything other than my
school work.
Speaker 1: Or something like, that and SO i said that my
friend just lost. It but you took these things as,
gospel at LEAST i. Did when my old man, SPOKE
i took it as. Gospel and then when WHEN i look,
BACK i, go what was going on with? Him? That
he was, like you, know a discreet sense of paranoia
goes a long. Way trust no. One you, know why
is it so drastically changed in Your for? ME i
know why in? Mine but for? You why do you
treat your children differently than?
Speaker 2: That BECAUSE i hated it, Exactly, YEAH i MEAN i hated,
it AND i also see where it didn't. Work it didn't.
Work and it was also one of these things, where you,
know we hear a lot about the gentle, parenting, right
people say the gentle. Parenting it doesn't work with gentle parent,
Right but does screaming in your kid's, face slamming the,
door asking them should they should you send them to
have their head?
Speaker 1: Examined is that? Working does that fucking? WORK i. DON'T i.
Speaker 2: Don't that to me doesn't. Work, NOW i don't know
the results necessarily of the other. Side BUT i would
think that you're better off trying To i'm not saying
be your kid's. FRIEND i always say to my, boys you,
Know i'm not your, Buddy i'm your. Dad but it
is different with. You and you, know because you have three,
sons you're gonna be joking around with them and stuff
as they get.
Speaker 1: Older it just is what.
Speaker 2: Happens but at the same, time you gotta have those.
Boundaries but you, KNOW i always used to say that
there's a difference between kind and. Nice in my, opinion
nice gets walked. On kind can draw boundaries and GO
i don't need to tell you what an ASSHOLE i
think you. ARE i just need To i'm not gonna
chime in or, whatever, Right AND i think that that's
the thing with the. Kids and it's hard to do sometimes,
because like, YOU i have been conditioned to where you
would get yelled at or you would kind of like
my parents would even needle me or the passive aggressive,
ship AND i have.
Speaker 1: That. WAY i could be the most passive aggressive AND
i AND i see.
Speaker 2: It AND i had somebody once call me on, it
AND i, went, oh, YEAH i don't want to be
that way AND i try really hard not. To it
was like it was AFTER i was, married And i'm,
like you, know these are the things like we can
all go when when when a breakup. Happens, uh when
you hear that People i'm in campson and so, On
i'm in camp. Zone so, uh it's two. People they
both brought their own ship to. It and you, know
the more you're carrying something, around the more weight it.
Carries and when it when it gets pushed or, TRIGGERED
i think is the WORD i think that you have To,
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Speaker 1: Really my.
Speaker 2: FAVORITE i think that's when it comes. Out it comes
out with such. Force sometimes the person in front of
you isn't necessarily the reason, why but all that weight
you're caring for so, long it, comes it's, heavier and
it comes.
Speaker 1: Fast that's WHAT i hate, doing IS i HATE i
always would build, it build, it build, it build, it build,
it and then somebody would trigger and it would just
get fucking eight months and just regurgitated. Ship.
Speaker 2: YEAH i did the same. THING i thought a fucking
a billion bucks. Better, Yeah and then do you ever do.
This did you ever walk around after you did something like?
Speaker 1: That and what's your? Problem? Why? Why why are you all? Quiet?
No not that big of a, Day, like what's what's going?
ON i was just blowing off. Steam what do you
want me to? Do i've learned. It drinking is the.
Speaker 2: Way, yeah but even that would like sometimes bring out
the worst in, me because here's.
Speaker 1: Why and and this was thank, you you brought me.
Back you've got to drink till you pass out so
you don't have the. Worst you brought me back to a.
Speaker 2: POINT i want to see what the NAME i had
for the alcohol Episode escaping my fat head right, Now
but somebody wrote kind of a nasty comment On facebook to,
it BUT i think it was it was an.
Speaker 1: Episode it was when.
Speaker 2: That's the, buffalo when alcohol becomes, Permission when alcohol becomes.
Permission and somebody, SAID i listened to, that and it
sounds like he's just blaming all his stuff on, That
AND i was, going.
Speaker 1: That wasn't the point of the.
Speaker 2: Episode the point of the episode was to, go alcohol
does not make you behave. Badly alcohol just takes your
break system. Away you're in, ambitions and it also doesn't
it also isn't a truth. Serum maybe people.
Speaker 1: Are a little more, HONEST i, guess but when they're really,
hammered they're not even.
Speaker 2: Aware AND i don't think. That but you can't use
that as an, excuse was my. Point you can't because
a lot of times what's happening and what's making you
react emotionally is not the person in front of. You
it's the ship from the past that you've been carrying,
around and it just comes harder and. Faster it's like
a river that's just picked up steam, steam, steam and
now we're over the edge and It's Niagara falls and it's,
powerful AND i you, know SO i, KNOW i don't
think drinking is a is an.
Speaker 1: EXCUSE i don't think any kind of alter stays. Iscuse
you've got to own your. Shit you got to own
it's that's the part drink pass out or can't be.
Speaker 2: Comprehended, well you, Know, LIKE i think one of the
things THAT i have seen over the many years That
i've been on the planet is that when we say
things like you have to be accountable for your, actions
it was never said in a. Colmway it was always
said as though you're in trouble, Right AND i still
think so many adults take accountability as being in, trouble
so they don't want to say anything or that's where
we kind of it's not like we're ignoring. It we
know it's, there but we don't know what to do
because it's it means we're. TROUBLE i don't think it's the.
Speaker 1: TROUBLE i think it's more the backlash from, it or
what's going to happen IF i IF i take accountability
for painting the wall blue when you wanted it fucking,
gray And i'm, like fucking blue looks, Better yeah you
wanted it? Gray, Yeah, well it depends on what's gonna
happen in? Relationship AM i? AM? I? AM i out of?
Here AM i? Hired? OH i just you know that's
probably a bad. Example, NO i was. Singing it's just
the what what's what's going to come back at? Me
IF i take, Accountability i'm, like to, me blue looks.
Better you think gray looks? BETTER i think blue looks.
Better either you're gonna come in and be like, fuck he's, right,
yeah or what the? Fuck? Yeah And i'm not paying
for you should repaint the?
Speaker 2: Wall YEAH i was gonna say it's that, EXAMPLE i, go,
well the, GUY i guess it depends on the. Relationship
If i'm married or living with somebody and they, say,
hey we should paint that gray AND i go, eh
AND i just go do, it then MAYBE i can
smooth through. It If i'm paying you and you didn't
paint it, Gray i'm, pissed right unless it looks.
Speaker 1: Good but, yeah you're but, yeah a lot of people
just don't want the fallout from the. Accountability it's the
thing is and it sounds like a scary, word whether
it's you're in trouble or. Whatever it's a loaded word for.
Sure AND i don't think that that's how DID i
just got an email From. Match don't look at. Me
some of these dumb ass dick. Friends somebody did it
BECAUSE I i don't. GO i WISH i. Could we'll open.
IT i just said A, match are you are we camera?
Ready And i'm, like it might just be a promotionally.
Mail why WOULD i get? It why WOULD i don't?
KNOW i think somebody signed me. Up that's What i'm going.
With i'm blaming. THAT i don't think anybody's like you
enough to pay the amount for me WHEN i was
in WHEN i was in, COLLEGE i would get all
this mail from the Uh, tourett's from like people who would,
go you, KNOW i was, like do you have you,
know we're raising. MONEY i don't.
Speaker 2: Remember they just flooded my. Mailbox At, FISHER i would
get all his. MAIL i think it was The tourett,
syndrome because it WAS i we had done some kind
of joke, about you, know some guy who's trying to
control his language and he would say bad, things and we,
go you, KNOW i.
Speaker 1: Gotta tell you. Something let me tell you so The
nichols dimes quarters two dollars and that was the. Joke
and because we know what the guy was gonna, say
but other.
Speaker 2: Words and so BECAUSE i did, THAT i think it
might have been somebody who was mad at me and
they just started flooding my mailbox with The touretts and, OH.
Speaker 1: I know Was i'm gonna go home On facebook, Later
i'm gonna have none to match dot com advertisements And tourett's.
Advertisements OH i can read The tourett's. Ones, yeah, well
every once in a, while any other thoughts for the?
Birthday you still don't know what you're? Doing, HUH i.
Speaker 2: Don't all, RIGHT i better get, Fed that's ALL i.
Asked here's the thing THAT i think you should remember your.
Birthday it's, uh it's not about losing strength as we get.
Older it's about learning where to apply that. Strength like
just what you said, earlier like all that, shit learning
where to apply that? Knowledge not too, MUCH i black thought.
Speaker 1: Earlier what DID i?
Speaker 2: Say All, right we're gonna we're gonna close. Out, Well
i'll have to catch up With greg another. Time my
chili's almost. Done it's been about a million hours. Now so,
uh happy, birthday thank. You, yeah stretch before you. Shovel
that's ALL i would. Say and in that in that,
arena uh For Kevin muyork celebrating his forty nine next
year is gonna be.
Speaker 1: Big oh you got it right this. Time i'll tell
you one, shot we do we GET i. DID i
really didn't think you were that. Old i'm not that that's,
old but Because i'm all my, younger but fifty still
sounds old to me And i'm way past. That BUT
i just, YEAH i don't see you that. Way if
you TELL i thought maybe BECAUSE i always Think danny's
older than. Me WHEN i don't think he.
Speaker 5: Is he's.
Speaker 1: NOT i think he's like four or five years. Younger he.
Is he looks like he's seven years. Old, well, look
everybody's body is. Different But i'll tell you what that.
Is that is carried around a lot of. Baggage that's
carried around a lot of. Bags, no it's carrying the. Cross,
no it's not startrying the cross For Kevin muir and his.
Birthday I'm Bill. Murran will see you. Tomorrow