Speaker 1: We're all a little depraved and debaucherous. Here is the
Speaker 1: King of.
Speaker 2: Podcasts, happy to have a exclusive interview here on the
Speaker 2: praise then the We don't do a lot of these often,
Speaker 2: but when we do, it's when the subject hats to
Speaker 2: be very compelling and exciting and very interesting.
Speaker 1: So I get the gun speak right now with the
Speaker 1: founder of a sex tech company focused on improving men's
Speaker 1: erectile fitness. As background as an emergency medicine healthcare technology consulting,
Speaker 1: a serial healthcare entrepreneur, an acclaim expert in the sex
Speaker 1: tech and wearables industry, specializing in the intersection of sexual
Speaker 1: and cardiac health. His work has been featured in The
Speaker 1: New York Times, Seen, and in Forbes. He is doctor
Speaker 1: Elliot justin thanks for being all with me. What an
Speaker 1: important subject I think for a lot of men out
Speaker 1: there and for women also to understand for their mates
Speaker 1: and their partners that this is very compelling and crucial
Speaker 1: to the conversation.
Speaker 3: It's great to be here.
Speaker 1: Absolutely now in the actual talk about this. We're talking
Speaker 1: about specifically what you have developed and created out the
Speaker 1: firm tech erection support device. Now taking from a story
Speaker 1: from a recovering man. That it was one out of
Speaker 1: a medical research need married to innovative design thinking you
Speaker 1: originally were calling it by Utah urologists. Medical researcher asked
Speaker 1: to create a wearable device to gather research data on
Speaker 1: the unconscious erections men get while sleeping, and the data
Speaker 1: was intended to produce provide medical research and science into
Speaker 1: cardiovascular health and then also for learning from this that
Speaker 1: the frequency and firmness of the spontaneous natural maintenance body
Speaker 1: mataged erections and men provide excellent leading indicators for potential
Speaker 1: cardiovascular problems. What a fascinating point.
Speaker 3: Now.
Speaker 1: I heard you on a podcast that I produced for
Speaker 1: another network and you were going through this. I'm like, what, Wow,
Speaker 1: this is crazy. And you know, I'm thinking about when
Speaker 1: I've gone through my functions where you know, when you
Speaker 1: do get a heart on when it does happen, It's
Speaker 1: happened when I was when I'm sleeping, or when you see,
Speaker 1: you know, a woman that you are very attracted to,
Speaker 1: and that correlation between erections and cardiovascuing your health. Tell
Speaker 1: me what it was that you that automatically became a
Speaker 1: breakthrough for you when you were looking into developing firm tech.
Speaker 3: Well, I didn't even know about this four years ago.
Speaker 3: I mean, so it's been four years since doctor James Italian,
Speaker 3: University of Utah. You're all just challenge me the wave,
Speaker 3: come up, come up, come up with the wave of
Speaker 3: counting not counting nocturnal erections. And I said, what the
Speaker 3: fuck for? Why do we care? Uh? He said, Well,
Speaker 3: because they're leading indicator of man's color of vascal health.
Speaker 3: And we don't have a lot of leading indicators of medicine.
Speaker 3: We treat associations high blood pressures associated with stroke, elevated
Speaker 3: love proteins associated with laugh of athletics, crosis, but they're
Speaker 3: not predictive. You got some fluctuation in your cholesterol or
Speaker 3: your blood pressure doesn't mean that you're going to have
Speaker 3: a problem. So leading indicator means you can have a problem.
Speaker 3: So if man is average man has three to four
Speaker 3: octural rerestionss per night, and that number goes down by
Speaker 3: fifty percent, it's likely that man will have a heart
Speaker 3: attack the next two or three years. And that's that's
Speaker 3: motivating so when he's die, So that's where that's the
Speaker 3: origin of this. I was unaware that that nocturnal directions
Speaker 3: are a predictor of cardiac health, and neurologists called the penis,
Speaker 3: the canari and the coal mine quart of Ascal disease.
Speaker 1: And the thing is there's not been that much technology.
Speaker 1: I feel like it's been put out there to help
Speaker 1: for guys. I mean, listen, we hear the commercials on
Speaker 1: TV of correct all this function. And I think there's
Speaker 1: something where, you know, depending on age, if you want
Speaker 1: us to be sexually active. One of the things I
Speaker 1: always think about is the fact that I really believe
Speaker 1: there's not that much sex going on much money anymore,
Speaker 1: because right now we have modern independent women. There's the
Speaker 1: idea of sex being a commodity now more than it
Speaker 1: is just out of love, out of wanting to go
Speaker 1: and make babies together. That I feel like the culture
Speaker 1: has changed so much where there is a lot of
Speaker 1: sex going on. I think that also affects the kind
Speaker 1: of rictile issues that men have.
Speaker 3: Well, if absolutely, I mean, you know, if you're I mean,
Speaker 3: it's a it's a confidence killer. If you think you know,
Speaker 3: transactoral relations will put this way are harder. Men need
Speaker 3: to have confidence in order to perform. Uh, And you
Speaker 3: know the oh god, this is a big subject. Or hey,
Speaker 3: you know, people don't date anymore. The dating that they do,
Speaker 3: at least they don't date they did when I was young.
Speaker 3: You had to pick up a girl, you had talked
Speaker 3: to her, you had to get you got to know
Speaker 3: each other before he had sex. It wasn't like some
Speaker 3: you know HBO movie where oh my god, we're each
Speaker 3: hoalk from each other. I'm gonna throw up against the
Speaker 3: wall and banger. So people, people, I think the whole
Speaker 3: dating process in the past let people have more confidence,
Speaker 3: where today the dating process ended up itself is transactional.
Speaker 3: You look at someone's picture and and then you swipe,
Speaker 3: or the women might want to find out about how
Speaker 3: much it's some sense, how much money you make, and
Speaker 3: then and then they swipe, and that's the confidence killing
Speaker 3: I think for a lot of people. Also this, I
Speaker 3: think people have an expectation that they're going to perform
Speaker 3: right away, and the reality is for most men that
Speaker 3: isn't the case, and that these guys are kind of
Speaker 3: afraid because one women, women have have more sexual experience,
Speaker 3: and they're also you know, people want to talk about
Speaker 3: the dangers of porn to men. They don't talk about
Speaker 3: dangers of porn to women. I mean, pork creates unrealistic
Speaker 3: expectations for both sides. So you know, you know, advertising
Speaker 3: has people telling them that these that there's great pills
Speaker 3: out there. Direction pills. Well, they don't produce erections. They
Speaker 3: just put a little bit of blood in the penis.
Speaker 3: Of Pfizer's seven original papers to the FDA for approval
Speaker 3: of sedanical Viagara, two of the papers showed no more
Speaker 3: benefit of the placebo. So one paper showed a lot
Speaker 3: of benefit, but that was in men with prostate disease.
Speaker 3: Most men don't have prostate disease. And most of the
Speaker 3: other the other the other three of what papers showed
Speaker 3: just a little bit more better, a little bit more
Speaker 3: benefit than placebo on the subjective scoring system. Well, so
Speaker 3: there aren't these bills out there that are great for
Speaker 3: men and most men's problems in dating situations or well,
Speaker 3: let's back up a second. Most men don't have ed
Speaker 3: ed is war with that phrase. Most men are not dysfunctional, right,
Speaker 3: so men men have we have all these shaming words
Speaker 3: dumped on us, erect all dysfunction, toxic masculinity, porn, addiction, death, grip,
Speaker 3: These words don't apply to most men. Here's here's the
Speaker 3: Reality's this we've documented I know one hundred and ten
Speaker 3: hundred and fifteen thousand directions right now. The data is
Speaker 3: showing that most men get hard and then they lose it. Right, No,
Speaker 3: that's right.
Speaker 1: I think here's a psychological component. That's really what mores.
Speaker 1: If they're going to say it's erect on the function,
Speaker 1: it's a psychological point because I believe that unless you're
Speaker 1: in a set relationship where you are with an active partner,
Speaker 1: they're patient with you, they enjoy, you know, the sexual
Speaker 1: pleasure you give to them. Otherwise you're dating somebody and
Speaker 1: you're gonna have sex with them for the first time,
Speaker 1: and there's the expectations, Well, he needs to get me
Speaker 1: off so many times, he needs to hurry up and
Speaker 1: do it like I need to go ahead and get
Speaker 1: pleasured right away. And you know I also, but at
Speaker 1: the same time, I can't go too fast. And the
Speaker 1: same thing goes if you are doing something transaction, Okay,
Speaker 1: let's go into the praise and the bodra's route. Okay,
Speaker 1: if you are looking to find a girl that you'll
Speaker 1: pay for sex or you go to a massage, parler
Speaker 1: for a happy ending. They're not waiting for you to
Speaker 1: go ahead and get done. They want you to be
Speaker 1: done because even if you are, you know, paying for services,
Speaker 1: they expect you to go and hurry up. That's just
Speaker 1: the normal motor top around. I woman to go that route.
Speaker 1: So that also is a buzzkill and psychologically well hurt
Speaker 1: a guy from getting hard and staying hard and be
Speaker 1: able to go in climax.
Speaker 3: Well let's let's so let's talk about this function. Yeah,
Speaker 3: the man who struggles to get an erection or can
Speaker 3: attain erection, that's dysfunction. But that's not most men. That's
Speaker 3: the ten twelve ten twelve percent of men who have
Speaker 3: the problem on what we doctors called left side of
Speaker 3: the circulation. He got the pump, the hearts of pump.
Speaker 3: Guys got angina, congest of heart failures, had heart attacks,
Speaker 3: he has a weak pump, or he has a problem
Speaker 3: where the pipes coming out of the heart. The arteries
Speaker 3: he's got he's got fully controlled diabetes or hypertension. Those
Speaker 3: arteries are narrow, they're not get of blood into it
Speaker 3: into his dick. But that's not most men. That's like
Speaker 3: ten twelve percent of men and those gods dysfunction and
Speaker 3: they need the help of a doctor in order to
Speaker 3: sort things out. And some of these men, tragically the
Speaker 3: disease is so advanced they need an implant. Was just
Speaker 3: not going to happen, or they might be from shockway
Speaker 3: therapy too. But that's only ten to twelve percent of men.
Speaker 3: The majority of men report having ed get an erection
Speaker 3: and lose it. Well, that's not dysfunction. That's the problem.
Speaker 3: Think about it. Mechanically, You got an erection and then
Speaker 3: you lose it. Let's think of it. Could be the
Speaker 3: causes could be anything. It could be, Hey, why's cheating
Speaker 3: on you? You've had three cocktails? Uh, you came into
Speaker 3: this massage poll to get jacked off. And you know what,
Speaker 3: they switch women on you. When the woman who now
Speaker 3: and is now doing you, she doesn't turn you on
Speaker 3: at all. It doesn't don't enough. You should have smoked
Speaker 3: an a tire joint. We doctors have put you on
Speaker 3: medications beta blockers or anti hypertensis that are interfeerwing with
Speaker 3: your ability to stay in direction. We fuck guys up
Speaker 3: as well too. There's a baby cry in the next room.
Speaker 3: You're worried about paying the mortgage, whatever it is you
Speaker 3: got the direction you're getting. Blood in the pill is
Speaker 3: not the answer, and you're not dysfunctional, you're losing it.
Speaker 3: If you put a ring on, of course, is the best.
Speaker 3: But put a ring on. It's gonna keep you It's
Speaker 3: gonna keep you hard. Not I'm granted that. You know,
Speaker 3: if someone's holding a gun at you, you're not going
Speaker 3: to keep it hard. But uh, it's gonna. I if
Speaker 3: you got aroused and you're in the mood and you
Speaker 3: put a ring on, you're more likely to stay hard,
Speaker 3: have and sustain that erection with a ring. And if
Speaker 3: you told me four years ago, I was gonna be
Speaker 3: talking about erection rings like we shouldn't call them cock
Speaker 3: rings because that puts in the kind of the realm,
Speaker 3: like this sex toys and novelty thing. Call it an
Speaker 3: erection ring. It sustains erections. Put a ring on it
Speaker 3: if you want to, if you want to have the
Speaker 3: best performance as a man, put a ring on it. Wait,
Speaker 3: you heavy, D don't have you D put a ring
Speaker 3: on it. So we did two studies of D two
Speaker 3: messene DC messens the time it takes direction to go
Speaker 3: down at the climax more the longer that time, the
Speaker 3: longer you stay hard, the more blood you've kept in
Speaker 3: your penis nothing. Get how rock hard? Do nothing? Twenty
Speaker 3: five to thirty five seconds. Get rock hard. Put a
Speaker 3: ring on it, Stay hard for over two minutes, sometimes
Speaker 3: close to three minutes. Put a ring, get hard. Take
Speaker 3: a pill for about two minutes. Do both with the
Speaker 3: ring and the pill together, and you're gonna be hard
Speaker 3: after climax for almost four minutes. Average man, Well, what
Speaker 3: what's what does this tell? Guys? Put a ring on
Speaker 3: it if you want to often watch a performance, if
Speaker 3: you don't need a pill, or if you want maximum performance,
Speaker 3: take use music pill as well too. Guys need to
Speaker 3: get over there. This mindset that rings are for guys
Speaker 3: who have bad dysfunction, or guys are guys who are gay.
Speaker 3: It's not. It's somebody for everyone, just the way vibrators
Speaker 3: are for all women.
Speaker 1: Well for the firm tech ring, but I don't I'll
Speaker 1: be I'm gonna completely stupid here because I've heard about
Speaker 1: the wearable. But it's not like it's very easy to
Speaker 1: go ahead and see what because you know obviously with
Speaker 1: what you can do, like with what what images that
Speaker 1: you put out there and show exactly what it looks like.
Speaker 1: I mean you weard on your member, correct, yes, right?
Speaker 1: And you know the comfort level the size of the
Speaker 1: penis that you have to have. I mean, how adjustable
Speaker 1: is it?
Speaker 2: Give me that?
Speaker 3: Well, it has a hook luke design, so it's it's adjustable.
Speaker 3: It sails with men who are extremely large. So guys
Speaker 3: who are more this is the ninety five percentile, guys
Speaker 3: who are more than say six and a half inches
Speaker 3: in girth.
Speaker 1: That's a big dick, didn't go, Yeah, pretty much?
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's probably you.
Speaker 1: But so yeah, very average.
Speaker 3: Well that's the point. Most guys are average. The curve
Speaker 3: for penis size is actually narrow and granted at one
Speaker 3: end mostly black men, at the other end mostly Japanese men.
Speaker 3: But it's pretty it's still pretty narrow. It's you know,
Speaker 3: it's so and so the device will guys who are small.
Speaker 3: The guys who are really big, the device is less
Speaker 3: effective you know, for them. So we have we have
Speaker 3: two different products. We have a tech ring that gives
Speaker 3: the data about your sexual and cardivascar health and functions
Speaker 3: as an a rection ring. It's more expensive, and then
Speaker 3: we make we have two things that are for men
Speaker 3: who don't have the technology, but just for men who
Speaker 3: want to optimize their performance on It's called the maximum
Speaker 3: Performance ring. It was specifically designed to produce some more
Speaker 3: intense orgasm. Hey, hy, hey, you want more intense orgasm? Sure?
Speaker 1: I mean, well, I think that's actually you know what,
Speaker 1: I'll be honest, I feel like you're getting very good
Speaker 1: orgasm right now for what I have. It is just
Speaker 1: my problem is just is hey, well, along with you,
Speaker 1: I have out had sex and at least a decade
Speaker 1: and don't you want.
Speaker 3: To don't you want to go from good to great? Though?
Speaker 1: Sure?
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. So Look look, I you know, half the
Speaker 3: sex I have is probably with myself the other half
Speaker 3: of my wife right at this point in my life.
Speaker 3: You know, we we guys, we think we're conn as
Speaker 3: source of our own of our orgasms because we start
Speaker 3: jerking off when we're like twelve years old. Well, I
Speaker 3: never used a ring until now four years ago. My
Speaker 3: attitude towards the rection rings were hey, like you say, hey,
Speaker 3: my orgasms are great, and I don't I don't need one.
Speaker 3: Now I understand it's not about need, it's about want.
Speaker 3: So for here here are five questions every guy should
Speaker 3: ask themselves. I'll ask you, harrd. Just pretend you're sure
Speaker 3: I'm getting your patient. Uh, and you're your average straight
Speaker 3: patient too, like, hey, I don't need a ring everything
Speaker 3: you'm col Uh okay, ho, Hey you want a rock harder?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, so because with our ring, my growth increases by
Speaker 3: four millimeters. No one's gonna walk by and say fucking
Speaker 3: Poe and Star. But that's more blood than I can
Speaker 3: get hold of my dick with a vagina, a mouth,
Speaker 3: or or a hand.
Speaker 1: Think about a duck, Yulia. The thing is if you're
Speaker 1: going to put a condom on, because you want to
Speaker 1: be safe, you don't want the thing to fall off
Speaker 1: in the middle because the heart one doesn't stay up.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, So you want to rock hard? Or hey,
Speaker 3: that's one second question. You want to laugh longer? Yes?
Speaker 1: For this for the sake of the partner, I would
Speaker 1: to think that would be good, right.
Speaker 3: Or for yourself. Hey, you've had a couple of drinks.
Speaker 3: You want to last longer when you're drinking off? I
Speaker 3: do I want less the right amount? Top it that way,
Speaker 3: five minutes enough gets over an hour? Gottle things do
Speaker 3: in my life. But anyway you want to say you
Speaker 3: want to last longer. Do you want a more intense orgasm? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Do you want to do you want to be more confident? Yes,
Speaker 3: whether you're with a woman, massage parlor, or you know
Speaker 3: you canise promising yourself. You're don't have a great session
Speaker 3: with yourself tonight, but you've had you shouldn't smoked that
Speaker 3: entire joint and now kind of you're wondering whether it's
Speaker 3: going to happen. Okay, But you want more confident, right,
Speaker 3: and you want your partner to be more confident. So
Speaker 3: it's not about need, it's about want. If a man
Speaker 3: wants to rock harder, lasts longer, have more intense orgasm,
Speaker 3: be more confident regardless of circumstances, and have their partner
Speaker 3: be more confident, put a ring on her.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 3: But you should also get your data. Why should you
Speaker 3: get your data? Because your data If you're ovated to
Speaker 3: forty five or fifty, you want to be minoring your
Speaker 3: heart health. You go to a doctor. If the doctor
Speaker 3: doesn't check your blood pressure, get little proteins, get a lunch,
Speaker 3: a cartogram, you think, oh, what is this nineteen hundred?
Speaker 3: If I expect some tests. Well, here's a way of
Speaker 3: monitoring your CARDIVASCAR health at home. Kind of a fun
Speaker 3: way to a minor a minor your health. Plus it
Speaker 3: will also tell you about your sexual health and the
Speaker 3: impact of medications and drugs and alcohol upon your sexual health.
Speaker 1: So one of the other areas I think about is
Speaker 1: I mean, I want to get into the part of
Speaker 1: hard health and how important is that because I'll tell
Speaker 1: you for myself, I was four hundred and sixteen pounds
Speaker 1: of my heaviest in twenty sixteen. I've dropped down to
Speaker 1: just around three hundred pounds now. And the difference between
Speaker 1: masturbating before and then much easier, much more comfortable to do.
Speaker 1: But more than anything, you know, the orgasms are now
Speaker 1: even much more potent than ever and sustaining. I think
Speaker 1: that for me now, I'm at the point where, like
Speaker 1: if I was gonna, you know, it was always having
Speaker 1: sex pretty regularly, the hard one'll be fine, But like
Speaker 1: I think, the orgasm at the end of it is
Speaker 1: pleasurable and lasts a while. That's the part I really
Speaker 1: want to enjoy. But I need the heart on the
Speaker 1: stay long enough to get to that point and get
Speaker 1: that full climax and really enjoy it for a while,
Speaker 1: and that heart on stays on for a while after that.
Speaker 1: But the one thing is it was important for me
Speaker 1: to go and have to drop the weight. So I
Speaker 1: was diabetic and I don't want to have And the
Speaker 1: idea is that I think where guys that are not
Speaker 1: sexually active you said the confidence part. I think there's
Speaker 1: something about your physical health and how you take care
Speaker 1: of yourself that allows that blood flow to go through
Speaker 1: that makes sure that you're not at the point where
Speaker 1: if you're not if you are kind of you know,
Speaker 1: like I was so long ago, you know, fast slob,
Speaker 1: not taking care of myself, who's going to be interested
Speaker 1: in me? It's all, you know, relative to each other.
Speaker 3: Yeah. No, that well, where I'm emphasizing the value of
Speaker 3: a ring helping them sexual performance, I don't want to
Speaker 3: take away from fact that hey you wind it after
Speaker 3: couple thrust it's embarrassing. Uh. The So it's important for
Speaker 3: men to have picked to be in good cardiovascal health.
Speaker 3: It's important for men who are diabetic that mostly a diabetic.
Speaker 3: I'm really phrase that many men today who are diabetic
Speaker 3: or pre diabetic are like you. They simply weigh too much.
Speaker 3: If they would look, if they would lose the weight,
Speaker 3: they don't need the medication anymore.
Speaker 1: Uh.
Speaker 3: They their their performances, sexual performances among other problems are
Speaker 3: going to improve. Their self esteem is going to going
Speaker 3: to you know, is going to improve. So same thing
Speaker 3: with smoking and alcohol. Hey, I I understand, you know,
Speaker 3: I get why people smoke. I'm not addicted to Nicotine's
Speaker 3: never been my drug, but my wife used to be
Speaker 3: my wife drug. It's really really hard to stop. But
Speaker 3: when people men stop smoking regularly, the sexual performance improves.
Speaker 3: And I've experienced that that that briefly, oh maybe probably
Speaker 3: about ten years ago. I started smoking. I went for
Speaker 3: maybe like a cigar a month, two oh one a week,
Speaker 3: and now it's two weeks, and hey now it's one
Speaker 3: a day, and now I'm having three a day. Well,
Speaker 3: it did have an impact upon my on my sexual performance,
Speaker 3: and and of course since since I prioritize sexual it's
Speaker 3: just so it was so obvious to me right away.
Speaker 3: It's like, hey, well I'm not doing this what. Uh.
Speaker 3: I had a guy the other day contact with me.
Speaker 3: He wants to know he had He's got his forties,
Speaker 3: so he had wrecked all the songs for the first time,
Speaker 3: We'll talking to the guy. Uh, well, he's he's doing
Speaker 3: coke on dates because it makes him feel more confident.
Speaker 3: Well yeah, but dude, but coke is also a basic
Speaker 3: constrictor it's a it's a dick killer. I mean, so
Speaker 3: he just anyway, you get the point, you know.
Speaker 1: But the other part two is that if it's any vices,
Speaker 1: any alcohol or like you said, if if it's kind
Speaker 1: of drugs or whatever it is, also do anything goes.
Speaker 1: The other thing to always to think about the fact
Speaker 1: is that to make sure you have to be in
Speaker 1: such a sexual your health is so good because how
Speaker 1: many women do we have that are modern independent and
Speaker 1: also feel like, well they're not submissive anymore. They're not
Speaker 1: the ones who are like they're going to just go
Speaker 1: ahead and be into the sexual thraw. Now the guy
Speaker 1: has to make sal you know. I mean, how many
Speaker 1: times you have a girl that you're with that wants
Speaker 1: a fly flat on the bed. You do the work.
Speaker 1: They don't want to do it, You do it. So
Speaker 1: you have to be able to perform. Yeah, yeah, and
Speaker 1: you can't and you can't land on top of the girl,
Speaker 1: mount on her if you want to just to go
Speaker 1: missionary and break her because you're too much weight on her.
Speaker 1: Can't do that either.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, again, it's important people to be in good
Speaker 3: physical condition. And and one of my hopes with developing
Speaker 3: the tech ring and the data was that it would
Speaker 3: motivate men men and more motivated by sex and almost
Speaker 3: anything else. Men men should care about the sexual data
Speaker 3: more than they do about you know, fum some some
Speaker 3: fluctuations of blood pressure or some other some you know,
Speaker 3: the sleep pattern on on unawearable. I hope that when
Speaker 3: men's you know, we now sold like twenty four thousand products.
Speaker 3: I'm hoping that as this type of technology becomes more
Speaker 3: popular that men will will inspire men to take yours
Speaker 3: on your blood pressure medications, comply with the diabetes regimen,
Speaker 3: being good cardiovasct nditions, so ideally you won't even need
Speaker 3: you won't even need those two things. I hope that
Speaker 3: men will will, you know, improve the physical condition and
Speaker 3: be motivated by the data.
Speaker 1: Now, you talked a while back to the Beyond Bill
Speaker 1: Hacking Brothers podcast, and that was a show actually produced
Speaker 1: over on our network Cameras Cannabis Radio. And when you
Speaker 1: talked to Rudy and Miguil and Carlos on that show.
Speaker 1: You mentioned about the dosages, about what people were using
Speaker 1: in terms of what they were using to try to
Speaker 1: go ahead and get their diet their hearts out, whether
Speaker 1: it's Sadana Hill or whatever there was, and you mentioned
Speaker 1: about quote, you know people that complain about doctors. We
Speaker 1: treat everyone as if there's one size fits all. Everyone
Speaker 1: gets the same dose of medication, regardless of their weight.
Speaker 1: There be and either gender. My accument when I learned
Speaker 1: about finasteride, which wasn't until I started working with this company.
Speaker 1: I knew it was a risk, but I wasn't aware
Speaker 1: since the risk and I take it every two to
Speaker 1: three days now don't take it every day? And am
Speaker 1: I helping themself to that protecting myself? I don't know.
Speaker 1: But farmers should be able to tell me that, and
Speaker 1: they don't. The thing is, there's the idea of we
Speaker 1: don't know what we're putting in our bodies and what
Speaker 1: is causing our bodies to go ahead and not take
Speaker 1: care of anything right there and the core at the
Speaker 1: center of our member and we need to go and
Speaker 1: figure out what we're putting into ourselves and how we're
Speaker 1: treating ourselves physically. If there's not a reason for a
Speaker 1: guy to go and lose weight and not be fat anymore,
Speaker 1: I had to learn that. So that's the first part
Speaker 1: before we get anything else done, is that you got
Speaker 1: to be able to go and get your sexual fitness
Speaker 1: together by your physical fitness.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you're alone out there. You can't count on
Speaker 3: your doctor to products prioritize your sexual health. Something's not
Speaker 3: a priority of the government.
Speaker 1: Right, No, and not to mention, I don't know what
Speaker 1: the gop ones do right now when you're affecting your
Speaker 1: sex and performance. But I know for many years I
Speaker 1: took enterme to help me with weight loss, so you know,
Speaker 1: appetize and present right, And I can tell you that's
Speaker 1: affecting your sexual health because for me, if I wanted
Speaker 1: to go ahead and be with a girl, or if
Speaker 1: I wanted to go ahead and master rate, it's hard.
Speaker 1: But you know it's like that's and the thing is,
Speaker 1: I don't know if you would say about this, but
Speaker 1: you know the fact that you're using this the firm
Speaker 1: tech wearable ring to help yourself, you know, maintain and
Speaker 1: monitor your performance and your erections. The other thing too,
Speaker 1: is that where you're getting it from. I mean, for
Speaker 1: some guys, you know, how important is it to go
Speaker 1: ahead and continue to do something, whether it's not with
Speaker 1: another person, that you least try to get yourself off
Speaker 1: and you know, let the juices flow, get do something
Speaker 1: that is some use sexually performing, whether it's by yourself
Speaker 1: or some of that. How important is it to do
Speaker 1: that kind of maintenance on a regular basis?
Speaker 3: Just use it or lose it? Right? So you can't
Speaker 3: you can't just Yes, you can go to the gym
Speaker 3: and you can improve your cardiovasket performance, and that's important.
Speaker 3: But the actual muscles that are involved in arousal and
Speaker 3: ejaculation are smooth muscles. The only way you can't work
Speaker 3: those out in the gym, obviously not the gym might
Speaker 3: go to uh and the only way to work those
Speaker 3: out is by having orgasms. Now, I can't tell you
Speaker 3: right now what's the minimum requirement you know, for for orgasms,
Speaker 3: but I would say that it's it's probably it's probably
Speaker 3: you know, four or five six times a week in
Speaker 3: order to be healthy, in order to maintain your confidence
Speaker 3: as well too. Men who don't go without, Men who
Speaker 3: go without sex for a long, long period of time
Speaker 3: and then want zoom relations. It's harder for them if
Speaker 3: they haven't been masturbated, because it's it's a confidence, it's
Speaker 3: a conference issue. They don't know, they don't know that
Speaker 3: they can. Uh. And and one of the positive things
Speaker 3: about here's his match with data just encouraged me. There's
Speaker 3: a big study out of the United Kingdom showing that
Speaker 3: men over age seventy who have sex two or three
Speaker 3: times a week versus men who have sex less than
Speaker 3: twice a month, they cut their risk of kryoasket death
Speaker 3: by almost fifty percent. Right, So clearly that you know
Speaker 3: there are significant health benefits to having regular sex. We
Speaker 3: know that women'spaly true from men as well too. Who
Speaker 3: has sex have an orgasm every mean study has sex
Speaker 3: an orgasm every day for six weeks, their corsal levels
Speaker 3: went down by fifty percent. That's the stressful moment. So
Speaker 3: I think, you know, I think that I think the
Speaker 3: regular sex is important. I like to joke about how
Speaker 3: an orgasm a day keeps the doctor away, but why
Speaker 3: not have an orgasm a day?
Speaker 1: No, I think and I honestly believe the ideas of it.
Speaker 1: Got and gals can have a regular feeling of that,
Speaker 1: and I think also sometimes taking a little bit of
Speaker 1: a break so that when you get back into it
Speaker 1: as fresh and then you get a real good rush
Speaker 1: and really enjoy it, you know, after a little bit
Speaker 1: of a rest, but a couple of days of it,
Speaker 1: let's say like that. And that's my personal opinion.
Speaker 3: Yeah for me. For me, it's twenty four hours this point.
Speaker 3: But you know, that's that's who I am, and I
Speaker 3: think it's it's easier. I'll put this way. I think
Speaker 3: I've had an orgasm a day, either with someone or
Speaker 3: myself since I was probably thirteen or fourteen years old. Yeah. Why,
Speaker 3: it's one of the most pleasurable ways to feel a
Speaker 3: passing the time. I don't really get people. I think
Speaker 3: people who don't approach sex as something that's a psychological
Speaker 3: and as well as health then but that they're missing out.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Now, the other thing too, I think about is
Speaker 1: what you need to go and do to keep yourself
Speaker 1: stimulated when you are looking to go and be getting
Speaker 1: a right to having sex. And I think that's the
Speaker 1: part when you get older, you know, you talk about
Speaker 1: the fact that there is a bit of a mix
Speaker 1: of you take care of yourself and then you're with
Speaker 1: a partner because you know when you get older in age, yes,
Speaker 1: it's not gonna be easy to go ahead and continue
Speaker 1: to say, okay, let's go back to that. If you
Speaker 1: are in a relationship and you have children, you know,
Speaker 1: just the opportunities that are there are not as much.
Speaker 1: So when you look at that, I mean, how important
Speaker 1: you think it is about stimulation and saying Okay, I
Speaker 1: need something else to keep myself fresh, to get me,
Speaker 1: something else to kind of get me, you know, into
Speaker 1: the mood. And it's not just my wife, not just
Speaker 1: my girlfriend. If I got to go to a massage probabct,
Speaker 1: if I go to somebody else or just see something
Speaker 1: else that's in you know, online or you know something
Speaker 1: else's visual that gives me motivated. Again, tell me about
Speaker 1: that part where you think it's im important to have
Speaker 1: some always some new stimulation.
Speaker 3: And it's really important, I don't you know. That's that's
Speaker 3: where the current hostility to porn really bothers me. Most
Speaker 3: men are not porn addicted. They enjoy porn. Most men
Speaker 3: who watch who watch porn, uh bring the the it
Speaker 3: finds to be positive, positive, it gives him fresh ideas
Speaker 3: because the partner's fresh ideas. It's uh, you know, addiction
Speaker 3: to my mind is when is when some someone's life
Speaker 3: is being crippled. As an example, I mean, some of
Speaker 3: someone's not having sex with their partner, but it's just
Speaker 3: watching porn. Well, is that because their partners made it boring?
Speaker 3: Why is it not the guy? You know, it's it's
Speaker 3: I don't if you know, if if a man wants
Speaker 3: to have relationships with with safe, stay with a woman
Speaker 3: but can't because he can't get out of the fucking basement,
Speaker 3: it can't turn turn off the porn. Well, not that
Speaker 3: you know that's a problem, but that's not most men.
Speaker 3: This is the example where I think that where the
Speaker 3: psychologists and neurologists are projecting from the people who are
Speaker 3: truly addicted on the gent on the general population, uh
Speaker 3: so other population, to the point where you have wives
Speaker 3: or girlfriends telling their husbands of boyfriends you can't watch porn. Well,
Speaker 3: that's tyranny, you know, it's that. You know, I've had
Speaker 3: men who contact me saying, you know, they told me
Speaker 3: I'm porn addicted. Well, I watched porn about fifteen to
Speaker 3: twenty minutes a day, and my wife thinks that's the
Speaker 3: reason why I'm turned off. It's actually her problem, so
Speaker 3: not his, not his problem, and I don't. I think
Speaker 3: the point addiction is really rare, and people represent people
Speaker 3: are making it into something that's that's complace because of
Speaker 3: their personal hostility to port pornography.
Speaker 1: But now porn has also changed a lot. We're just
Speaker 1: starting to see. I actually just an episode on the
Speaker 1: fact that looks are the porn industry is starting to
Speaker 1: make their way back because right now only fans has
Speaker 1: definitely gone towards an adult angle with a lot of
Speaker 1: things that are going on. Certain models are now definitely
Speaker 1: going into you know, trying to go into the gaming
Speaker 1: that go in and have multiple partners, thousands of men
Speaker 1: and say twelve hours that's what Bonnie Blue did. The
Speaker 1: Philip's doing something with one hundred guys and like, you know,
Speaker 1: a couple of hours, things like that. So it's starting
Speaker 1: to be encouraged to that part. And then we have
Speaker 1: now AI does come in AI girlfriends, Dream Girlfriends. I
Speaker 1: talked to you know, some of different companies that have
Speaker 1: been doing AI and using it to go and create
Speaker 1: the dream girl. But at the same time, they're using
Speaker 1: it for creating the kind of girl that you want
Speaker 1: to go ahead and get off to. So now I
Speaker 1: feel like in today's age, there is a lot of
Speaker 1: porn and it is trying to get to the gear.
Speaker 1: And even like when you watch certain you know they
Speaker 1: take the Japanese animation right, there's a lot of the
Speaker 1: sexualization that's over there too. There are a lot of
Speaker 1: guys that are in the basement watching on the computer.
Speaker 1: If they're not gaming, they're not getting high or something else.
Speaker 1: They're not getting on having sex. They're getting turned on
Speaker 1: what they see on a screen and that's all they
Speaker 1: feel like they can get into. So that's another part
Speaker 1: where porn has definitely changed a lot, where it is
Speaker 1: much more engaging to keep people in the basement or
Speaker 1: on their phone, locked in to never want to go
Speaker 1: after something real.
Speaker 3: Okay, but the majority of men watch porn, uh huh
Speaker 3: I I can't verify, but the majority of men who
Speaker 3: watch porn also have success relations with their wives and
Speaker 3: the partners. And uh, the point of the point is
Speaker 3: either complimentary or the woman doesn't want sex every day,
Speaker 3: So the guy masturbates half you know, half of the
Speaker 3: time that's that. That's pretty much. That's the norm for
Speaker 3: my talking to customers and patients is Hey, in a
Speaker 3: successful sex relationship, my wife and I have sex three
Speaker 3: four times a week or might be twoty times a week,
Speaker 3: and the rest of the time I masturbate. Well, I
Speaker 3: got pointed, that's that's not point different by the way,
Speaker 3: I'm really afraid of the future. I think the I
Speaker 3: think in the future uh Ai and robots and we'll
Speaker 3: have are dangerous to the human race. That people, the
Speaker 3: people will engage with it with this at an earlier,
Speaker 3: earlier age. And you know that. I've recently spoken a
Speaker 3: conference called Love, Sex and Robots in Montreal, and the
Speaker 3: point of my talk was that your computer is is
Speaker 3: not only your ultimate sexual health companion, it's your ultimate
Speaker 3: it's also an ultimate health companion. It's your ultimate companion
Speaker 3: knows everything. It knows your taste and food, your tastes
Speaker 3: in movies, your taste and your interest in politics. It
Speaker 3: knows more than you do about what you want as
Speaker 3: it learns about you. And I think that's going to
Speaker 3: be that's going to make it human relations really impossible,
Speaker 3: because it's the very, very difficult people to compete with that,
Speaker 3: especially people who never experienced human contact, because they're going
Speaker 3: to be involved. They've been involved machine since the three, four, five,
Speaker 3: six years old.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Also, the other thing I think about is and
Speaker 1: I'm also wanted to focus with more on the younger audience.
Speaker 1: So it's quite a younger audience listening to this program.
Speaker 1: And one of the things I think about, you know,
Speaker 1: for me growing up, if I would have just had
Speaker 1: it where Okay, if I'm not necessarily sexually active yet
Speaker 1: and I've already know I haven't really gotten to any
Speaker 1: sexual partners, and I've taken a while a version if
Speaker 1: you are into your late teens, twenties, even maybe into
Speaker 1: your thirties, that one of the things I think about
Speaker 1: is that to kind of just break the barrier and
Speaker 1: at least get something sexual being done. That's where the
Speaker 1: idea of like going to a massage, probably because you
Speaker 1: go for the easiest thing you can go for is
Speaker 1: go for a hand job. And if you just had
Speaker 1: another a partner that you were attracted to that would
Speaker 1: just go get your hand on it and get you
Speaker 1: off and jackie off. I think that would be better
Speaker 1: for everybody. I always think about the South Park episode
Speaker 1: where they had the shake weight and the guy is like,
Speaker 1: you know the wife stand Martin's of wife right, and
Speaker 1: he's like, uh uh, I forget a stamach is the
Speaker 1: kid forgett that? Randy There's right? And then the wife
Speaker 1: starts talking about the shakewaight and then realizes that the
Speaker 1: shakewaight telling her to know how to jack off better.
Speaker 1: And then she started doing that with the husband and
Speaker 1: it was like, you know, it wasn't sex, but like, okay,
Speaker 1: it's pleasure. Well I enjoyed that. That's an old fashion
Speaker 1: they called it, and I was like, great, that should
Speaker 1: be more common out there. I think for women if
Speaker 1: they even just felt like, all right, you know what,
Speaker 1: you don't have to go and get on top, you know,
Speaker 1: you know, put your mouth on it. You don't want
Speaker 1: to go through the trouble, then just get a hand
Speaker 1: on it and just just jrick away. I think a
Speaker 1: lot of guys will be satisfied if it could just
Speaker 1: have the least a bare minimum of that as a
Speaker 1: sexual you know, maintenance on a regular basis, if more,
Speaker 1: even even older partners, I would think if they just
Speaker 1: had the enjoyment of that.
Speaker 3: But that is you know, encumbered. The doctors think and
Speaker 3: the media also gets people thinking that it's about penetrative sex.
Speaker 3: So that's not what most people, especially older people, are doing,
Speaker 3: for most, for most, for most people, established relationships, penetrators,
Speaker 3: older people talking about forty five, fifty six years of
Speaker 3: age panetray of sexes is might be just like four play.
Speaker 3: It's part of them. It's part of the play, but
Speaker 3: it's not the end all and be all. Uh and
Speaker 3: one of the most you just touched on the most
Speaker 3: common male complaints and this is typical patient of mine. Right,
Speaker 3: guys fifty five years five, fifty five years old, married
Speaker 3: fifty years, got a bunch of kids, you know, happy,
Speaker 3: happily best, happily married her? What what but he has
Speaker 3: he did? What? Will they ask him? What? What is it?
Speaker 3: What do you mean you have? You did? When does
Speaker 3: it happen? I get home, wife, and I go to bed.
Speaker 3: I get hard. I go down her because that's how
Speaker 3: she comes, right. And when I'm going down to her,
Speaker 3: I lose my erection. And then afterwards she doesn't want
Speaker 3: She just wants me to penetrate her. But I kind
Speaker 3: of lost my direction. I really want I want more attention,
Speaker 3: more attention from her. Well, that's the situation that that
Speaker 3: you're talking about. So you know, women who understand men
Speaker 3: and aren't being misled by corner of the immediate like
Speaker 3: the guy gets immediate hard on or realize that that
Speaker 3: guy that men like hand jobs, that's what men like.
Speaker 3: Uh And that's that's that's a big part of it.
Speaker 3: So also one of the things that that men older
Speaker 3: than that is not young guys don't want to complain
Speaker 3: about their wives and the partner says, hey, we've been
Speaker 3: we've been married twenty five years, you've had five kids.
Speaker 3: I don't get the friction. Well then that I did
Speaker 3: when I because because your vagina, the vagiant changes the
Speaker 3: giant I gets loose with age. I don't get the
Speaker 3: friction idea when I No guy once tells his wife, hey,
Speaker 3: well girlfriend, hey, you're fifty years old. Her pussies two loose.
Speaker 3: That's kind of a buzzkill for women. Uh So.
Speaker 1: And then in the same way, I mean for a
Speaker 1: guy to get a hand up, they can do the
Speaker 1: same thing and help play with a girl and get
Speaker 1: her off in the same way. So it's reciprocal. The
Speaker 1: thing is an easier way to go if we can
Speaker 1: just get back to square one and say okay, let's
Speaker 1: just get back to that and then progress, because like
Speaker 1: you said, I think for me, I enjoy four play
Speaker 1: and I do like the diddling, you know, And I
Speaker 1: don't worry about the penetration. That's just that's just the
Speaker 1: means of completion. But otherwise why not enjoy it? And
Speaker 1: I think if more guys and gals could really just
Speaker 1: feel like, Okay, don't put the pressure on yourself of
Speaker 1: being okay, we got to go and do penetration, We
Speaker 1: got to go and have section right on, No, have
Speaker 1: a little four play, have some fun with it. I mean,
Speaker 1: enjoy the experience. This doesn't have to be quick and go.
Speaker 3: Yeah that's right. Well, yeah, it's all concerned with the
Speaker 3: death grip that men guys who washing porn get to
Speaker 3: use their hand from masturbation. Well, there's a there's an
Speaker 3: advanceag to a handover vagina vagina vagina does the hand
Speaker 3: has a brain attached to it that can and the
Speaker 3: hand can do all sorts of wonderful things. Right, Giana
Speaker 3: has a brain attached to it, but it can deliver
Speaker 3: the stimulation that the mouth that our mouth or handcan
Speaker 3: that's just the way it.
Speaker 1: Is the social experience I've had. I've done better with
Speaker 1: my fingers and I have it on my dick. I'm
Speaker 1: not even kidding about that. It's just the fact of
Speaker 1: where it is. I've had to give them a girl
Speaker 1: more pleasure when I've gone and used my fingers to
Speaker 1: the walking than it is my member because they can
Speaker 1: only do so much and there's only going to get
Speaker 1: one shot right now. I have to wait to go
Speaker 1: and load up again.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well again, that's you know part that's like I said,
Speaker 3: The typical situation that men find themselves in is that
Speaker 3: they the partner gets off on oral sex and then
Speaker 3: expects them to be told thrilled by something that isn't
Speaker 3: necessarily the most the most satisfying thing for them. The
Speaker 3: next thing, you know, they're the both both persons. Confidence
Speaker 3: is kind of is getting is lower, uh, and people
Speaker 3: start putting off having people start putting off doing something
Speaker 3: because they're going to fail.
Speaker 1: And the thing is, I don't get where women want
Speaker 1: to go and ask a guy to go down when
Speaker 1: they think that, you know, a guy is going to
Speaker 1: do the same thing as a pocket rocket or some
Speaker 1: kind of vibrator is going to do the same thing.
Speaker 1: We can't come on the guys that say that they
Speaker 1: really enjoy it. I don't know how you can say that,
Speaker 1: but you know, to each his own, Okay, I'm talking
Speaker 1: about strokers exactly.
Speaker 3: The problem. The problem with strokers is is and they've
Speaker 3: never really caught on the market. They they you know, look,
Speaker 3: they're to call it on like vibrators, because they they're
Speaker 3: not as good as vibrators. I mean, when I was
Speaker 3: you know, when vibrates start to be popularized in the
Speaker 3: late seventies in the early eighties, there was this concern
Speaker 3: about women. They're going to be vibrated, adicted, They're not
Speaker 3: going to need men anymore. It's the end. It's the
Speaker 3: end the American family. Uh uh. And and now vibers
Speaker 3: are are normal, they're than norm and and I think
Speaker 3: the guys need to think about a restaurants the same way.
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Speaker 3: Sure, well, we talk a lot about work life balance.
Speaker 3: I'm intent on work life sex balance. I want everyone
Speaker 3: to have a longer not just health span, but a
Speaker 3: longer sex span. So how can you do that? Two ways. One,
Speaker 3: you need data about your sexual and cardiovasc health that
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Speaker 1: And also on the website, so there's a lot of
Speaker 1: other areas to go look at blog is in there
Speaker 1: a lot of great information about health, sex and everything
Speaker 1: in between and so much more do you go and
Speaker 1: get into it, and obviously also regularly posting on there
Speaker 1: as well, a lot of good information to get in there.
Speaker 1: And so again for the purpose of this program, we're
Speaker 1: saying you got to have more sex. There has to
Speaker 1: be a way to go together there for more people
Speaker 1: to be sexually pleasured and sexually satisfied, because that makes
Speaker 1: a better world. Let's just be clear. I think that
Speaker 1: would solve a lot of the world's problems if people
Speaker 1: had more sex.
Speaker 3: Totally agree. I think it allgasmia day keeps the doctor away,
Speaker 3: keeps you happy to agree.
Speaker 1: And also when you're in the right fitness and you're
Speaker 1: enjoying the sex and you can do you're not having
Speaker 1: any issues in your sexual performance, tells you you're doing
Speaker 1: something good about your health. Doctor Elliott Justin, the founder
Speaker 1: of and CEO of firm Tech, thank you for being
Speaker 1: on with me on the print of the Rodge so
Speaker 1: I really appreciate it. This was a great conversation.
Speaker 3: Thanks. That was fun.