WEBVTT 1 00:00:04.919 --> 00:00:08.279 We're all a little depraved and debaucherous. Here is the 2 00:00:08.359 --> 00:00:09.160 King of. 3 00:00:09.519 --> 00:00:14.439 Podcasts, happy to have a exclusive interview here on the 4 00:00:14.439 --> 00:00:16.440 praise then the We don't do a lot of these often, 5 00:00:16.480 --> 00:00:18.640 but when we do, it's when the subject hats to 6 00:00:18.640 --> 00:00:20.679 be very compelling and exciting and very interesting. 7 00:00:21.000 --> 00:00:24.839 So I get the gun speak right now with the 8 00:00:24.879 --> 00:00:28.559 founder of a sex tech company focused on improving men's 9 00:00:28.719 --> 00:00:33.359 erectile fitness. As background as an emergency medicine healthcare technology consulting, 10 00:00:33.880 --> 00:00:37.159 a serial healthcare entrepreneur, an acclaim expert in the sex 11 00:00:37.200 --> 00:00:40.359 tech and wearables industry, specializing in the intersection of sexual 12 00:00:40.359 --> 00:00:42.320 and cardiac health. His work has been featured in The 13 00:00:42.359 --> 00:00:45.399 New York Times, Seen, and in Forbes. He is doctor 14 00:00:45.439 --> 00:00:48.479 Elliot justin thanks for being all with me. What an 15 00:00:48.759 --> 00:00:51.039 important subject I think for a lot of men out 16 00:00:51.039 --> 00:00:53.520 there and for women also to understand for their mates 17 00:00:53.560 --> 00:00:57.280 and their partners that this is very compelling and crucial 18 00:00:57.320 --> 00:00:58.039 to the conversation. 19 00:00:58.880 --> 00:00:59.719 It's great to be here. 20 00:01:01.119 --> 00:01:04.480 Absolutely now in the actual talk about this. We're talking 21 00:01:04.519 --> 00:01:07.599 about specifically what you have developed and created out the 22 00:01:07.760 --> 00:01:11.879 firm tech erection support device. Now taking from a story 23 00:01:11.879 --> 00:01:14.359 from a recovering man. That it was one out of 24 00:01:14.400 --> 00:01:17.840 a medical research need married to innovative design thinking you 25 00:01:18.840 --> 00:01:22.519 originally were calling it by Utah urologists. Medical researcher asked 26 00:01:22.560 --> 00:01:24.599 to create a wearable device to gather research data on 27 00:01:24.640 --> 00:01:28.640 the unconscious erections men get while sleeping, and the data 28 00:01:28.760 --> 00:01:32.040 was intended to produce provide medical research and science into 29 00:01:32.079 --> 00:01:35.319 cardiovascular health and then also for learning from this that 30 00:01:35.400 --> 00:01:40.079 the frequency and firmness of the spontaneous natural maintenance body 31 00:01:40.079 --> 00:01:43.799 mataged erections and men provide excellent leading indicators for potential 32 00:01:43.879 --> 00:01:47.560 cardiovascular problems. What a fascinating point. 33 00:01:47.560 --> 00:01:47.719 Now. 34 00:01:47.760 --> 00:01:50.680 I heard you on a podcast that I produced for 35 00:01:51.280 --> 00:01:55.280 another network and you were going through this. I'm like, what, Wow, 36 00:01:55.319 --> 00:01:58.439 this is crazy. And you know, I'm thinking about when 37 00:01:58.439 --> 00:02:01.079 I've gone through my functions where you know, when you 38 00:02:01.120 --> 00:02:03.519 do get a heart on when it does happen, It's 39 00:02:03.560 --> 00:02:06.159 happened when I was when I'm sleeping, or when you see, 40 00:02:06.319 --> 00:02:08.919 you know, a woman that you are very attracted to, 41 00:02:09.639 --> 00:02:15.479 and that correlation between erections and cardiovascuing your health. Tell 42 00:02:15.520 --> 00:02:18.680 me what it was that you that automatically became a 43 00:02:18.719 --> 00:02:21.520 breakthrough for you when you were looking into developing firm tech. 44 00:02:22.280 --> 00:02:23.879 Well, I didn't even know about this four years ago. 45 00:02:23.960 --> 00:02:26.599 I mean, so it's been four years since doctor James Italian, 46 00:02:26.840 --> 00:02:29.400 University of Utah. You're all just challenge me the wave, 47 00:02:29.520 --> 00:02:31.319 come up, come up, come up with the wave of 48 00:02:32.039 --> 00:02:35.080 counting not counting nocturnal erections. And I said, what the 49 00:02:35.080 --> 00:02:37.280 fuck for? Why do we care? Uh? He said, Well, 50 00:02:37.319 --> 00:02:39.759 because they're leading indicator of man's color of vascal health. 51 00:02:39.800 --> 00:02:42.400 And we don't have a lot of leading indicators of medicine. 52 00:02:42.400 --> 00:02:47.199 We treat associations high blood pressures associated with stroke, elevated 53 00:02:47.240 --> 00:02:50.120 love proteins associated with laugh of athletics, crosis, but they're 54 00:02:50.159 --> 00:02:53.159 not predictive. You got some fluctuation in your cholesterol or 55 00:02:53.719 --> 00:02:56.159 your blood pressure doesn't mean that you're going to have 56 00:02:56.199 --> 00:02:59.120 a problem. So leading indicator means you can have a problem. 57 00:02:59.159 --> 00:03:02.400 So if man is average man has three to four 58 00:03:02.400 --> 00:03:04.919 octural rerestionss per night, and that number goes down by 59 00:03:04.960 --> 00:03:08.039 fifty percent, it's likely that man will have a heart 60 00:03:08.039 --> 00:03:11.960 attack the next two or three years. And that's that's 61 00:03:12.479 --> 00:03:16.280 motivating so when he's die, So that's where that's the 62 00:03:16.319 --> 00:03:20.439 origin of this. I was unaware that that nocturnal directions 63 00:03:21.000 --> 00:03:24.080 are a predictor of cardiac health, and neurologists called the penis, 64 00:03:24.120 --> 00:03:26.759 the canari and the coal mine quart of Ascal disease. 65 00:03:28.800 --> 00:03:31.240 And the thing is there's not been that much technology. 66 00:03:31.240 --> 00:03:33.120 I feel like it's been put out there to help 67 00:03:33.120 --> 00:03:35.080 for guys. I mean, listen, we hear the commercials on 68 00:03:35.080 --> 00:03:37.159 TV of correct all this function. And I think there's 69 00:03:37.199 --> 00:03:40.000 something where, you know, depending on age, if you want 70 00:03:40.080 --> 00:03:41.560 us to be sexually active. One of the things I 71 00:03:41.560 --> 00:03:44.680 always think about is the fact that I really believe 72 00:03:44.680 --> 00:03:46.840 there's not that much sex going on much money anymore, 73 00:03:46.840 --> 00:03:49.360 because right now we have modern independent women. There's the 74 00:03:49.400 --> 00:03:52.159 idea of sex being a commodity now more than it 75 00:03:52.199 --> 00:03:54.599 is just out of love, out of wanting to go 76 00:03:54.639 --> 00:03:57.599 and make babies together. That I feel like the culture 77 00:03:57.639 --> 00:04:00.000 has changed so much where there is a lot of 78 00:04:00.280 --> 00:04:02.879 sex going on. I think that also affects the kind 79 00:04:02.879 --> 00:04:04.599 of rictile issues that men have. 80 00:04:06.360 --> 00:04:12.000 Well, if absolutely, I mean, you know, if you're I mean, 81 00:04:12.159 --> 00:04:17.279 it's a it's a confidence killer. If you think you know, 82 00:04:17.319 --> 00:04:20.800 transactoral relations will put this way are harder. Men need 83 00:04:20.800 --> 00:04:25.560 to have confidence in order to perform. Uh, And you 84 00:04:25.600 --> 00:04:28.800 know the oh god, this is a big subject. Or hey, 85 00:04:29.240 --> 00:04:32.759 you know, people don't date anymore. The dating that they do, 86 00:04:32.759 --> 00:04:34.639 at least they don't date they did when I was young. 87 00:04:34.800 --> 00:04:36.279 You had to pick up a girl, you had talked 88 00:04:36.279 --> 00:04:37.680 to her, you had to get you got to know 89 00:04:37.759 --> 00:04:41.519 each other before he had sex. It wasn't like some 90 00:04:41.720 --> 00:04:44.560 you know HBO movie where oh my god, we're each 91 00:04:44.600 --> 00:04:46.000 hoalk from each other. I'm gonna throw up against the 92 00:04:46.000 --> 00:04:50.079 wall and banger. So people, people, I think the whole 93 00:04:50.160 --> 00:04:53.639 dating process in the past let people have more confidence, 94 00:04:53.800 --> 00:04:56.920 where today the dating process ended up itself is transactional. 95 00:04:57.120 --> 00:05:00.800 You look at someone's picture and and then you swipe, 96 00:05:01.240 --> 00:05:03.000 or the women might want to find out about how 97 00:05:03.040 --> 00:05:05.079 much it's some sense, how much money you make, and 98 00:05:05.120 --> 00:05:11.160 then and then they swipe, and that's the confidence killing 99 00:05:11.360 --> 00:05:13.120 I think for a lot of people. Also this, I 100 00:05:13.120 --> 00:05:18.000 think people have an expectation that they're going to perform 101 00:05:18.079 --> 00:05:20.199 right away, and the reality is for most men that 102 00:05:20.319 --> 00:05:22.680 isn't the case, and that these guys are kind of 103 00:05:22.680 --> 00:05:27.480 afraid because one women, women have have more sexual experience, 104 00:05:27.480 --> 00:05:29.360 and they're also you know, people want to talk about 105 00:05:29.360 --> 00:05:31.720 the dangers of porn to men. They don't talk about 106 00:05:31.759 --> 00:05:35.319 dangers of porn to women. I mean, pork creates unrealistic 107 00:05:35.439 --> 00:05:40.920 expectations for both sides. So you know, you know, advertising 108 00:05:40.920 --> 00:05:43.480 has people telling them that these that there's great pills 109 00:05:43.519 --> 00:05:46.199 out there. Direction pills. Well, they don't produce erections. They 110 00:05:46.199 --> 00:05:49.879 just put a little bit of blood in the penis. 111 00:05:49.600 --> 00:05:54.600 Of Pfizer's seven original papers to the FDA for approval 112 00:05:54.600 --> 00:05:57.639 of sedanical Viagara, two of the papers showed no more 113 00:05:57.680 --> 00:06:02.319 benefit of the placebo. So one paper showed a lot 114 00:06:02.319 --> 00:06:04.360 of benefit, but that was in men with prostate disease. 115 00:06:04.560 --> 00:06:07.120 Most men don't have prostate disease. And most of the 116 00:06:06.920 --> 00:06:08.680 other the other the other three of what papers showed 117 00:06:08.720 --> 00:06:10.519 just a little bit more better, a little bit more 118 00:06:10.600 --> 00:06:15.680 benefit than placebo on the subjective scoring system. Well, so 119 00:06:15.720 --> 00:06:17.319 there aren't these bills out there that are great for 120 00:06:17.399 --> 00:06:21.279 men and most men's problems in dating situations or well, 121 00:06:21.399 --> 00:06:23.839 let's back up a second. Most men don't have ed 122 00:06:24.879 --> 00:06:32.639 ed is war with that phrase. Most men are not dysfunctional, right, 123 00:06:32.720 --> 00:06:35.439 so men men have we have all these shaming words 124 00:06:35.519 --> 00:06:40.920 dumped on us, erect all dysfunction, toxic masculinity, porn, addiction, death, grip, 125 00:06:41.600 --> 00:06:44.639 These words don't apply to most men. Here's here's the 126 00:06:44.639 --> 00:06:48.600 Reality's this we've documented I know one hundred and ten 127 00:06:49.079 --> 00:06:52.120 hundred and fifteen thousand directions right now. The data is 128 00:06:52.160 --> 00:06:59.279 showing that most men get hard and then they lose it. Right, No, 129 00:06:59.319 --> 00:06:59.680 that's right. 130 00:06:59.720 --> 00:07:02.839 I think here's a psychological component. That's really what mores. 131 00:07:03.040 --> 00:07:04.759 If they're going to say it's erect on the function, 132 00:07:05.000 --> 00:07:09.240 it's a psychological point because I believe that unless you're 133 00:07:09.240 --> 00:07:11.879 in a set relationship where you are with an active partner, 134 00:07:12.240 --> 00:07:15.079 they're patient with you, they enjoy, you know, the sexual 135 00:07:15.079 --> 00:07:19.160 pleasure you give to them. Otherwise you're dating somebody and 136 00:07:19.160 --> 00:07:20.720 you're gonna have sex with them for the first time, 137 00:07:21.040 --> 00:07:24.040 and there's the expectations, Well, he needs to get me 138 00:07:24.079 --> 00:07:26.279 off so many times, he needs to hurry up and 139 00:07:26.279 --> 00:07:27.560 do it like I need to go ahead and get 140 00:07:27.560 --> 00:07:29.839 pleasured right away. And you know I also, but at 141 00:07:29.879 --> 00:07:32.560 the same time, I can't go too fast. And the 142 00:07:32.600 --> 00:07:34.920 same thing goes if you are doing something transaction, Okay, 143 00:07:35.240 --> 00:07:37.800 let's go into the praise and the bodra's route. Okay, 144 00:07:37.879 --> 00:07:39.680 if you are looking to find a girl that you'll 145 00:07:39.720 --> 00:07:42.040 pay for sex or you go to a massage, parler 146 00:07:42.120 --> 00:07:44.399 for a happy ending. They're not waiting for you to 147 00:07:44.399 --> 00:07:46.079 go ahead and get done. They want you to be 148 00:07:46.199 --> 00:07:49.720 done because even if you are, you know, paying for services, 149 00:07:49.920 --> 00:07:51.720 they expect you to go and hurry up. That's just 150 00:07:51.759 --> 00:07:55.040 the normal motor top around. I woman to go that route. 151 00:07:55.160 --> 00:07:58.759 So that also is a buzzkill and psychologically well hurt 152 00:07:58.800 --> 00:08:01.040 a guy from getting hard and staying hard and be 153 00:08:01.040 --> 00:08:02.199 able to go in climax. 154 00:08:03.120 --> 00:08:07.160 Well let's let's so let's talk about this function. Yeah, 155 00:08:07.680 --> 00:08:10.600 the man who struggles to get an erection or can 156 00:08:10.680 --> 00:08:15.319 attain erection, that's dysfunction. But that's not most men. That's 157 00:08:15.319 --> 00:08:17.279 the ten twelve ten twelve percent of men who have 158 00:08:18.839 --> 00:08:20.879 the problem on what we doctors called left side of 159 00:08:20.879 --> 00:08:23.079 the circulation. He got the pump, the hearts of pump. 160 00:08:23.319 --> 00:08:26.040 Guys got angina, congest of heart failures, had heart attacks, 161 00:08:26.120 --> 00:08:28.399 he has a weak pump, or he has a problem 162 00:08:28.399 --> 00:08:30.480 where the pipes coming out of the heart. The arteries 163 00:08:31.160 --> 00:08:34.600 he's got he's got fully controlled diabetes or hypertension. Those 164 00:08:34.720 --> 00:08:36.559 arteries are narrow, they're not get of blood into it 165 00:08:36.559 --> 00:08:39.440 into his dick. But that's not most men. That's like 166 00:08:39.480 --> 00:08:41.759 ten twelve percent of men and those gods dysfunction and 167 00:08:41.799 --> 00:08:44.480 they need the help of a doctor in order to 168 00:08:44.519 --> 00:08:46.600 sort things out. And some of these men, tragically the 169 00:08:46.679 --> 00:08:49.480 disease is so advanced they need an implant. Was just 170 00:08:49.720 --> 00:08:52.840 not going to happen, or they might be from shockway 171 00:08:52.879 --> 00:08:56.320 therapy too. But that's only ten to twelve percent of men. 172 00:08:56.519 --> 00:09:00.840 The majority of men report having ed get an erection 173 00:09:00.879 --> 00:09:03.480 and lose it. Well, that's not dysfunction. That's the problem. 174 00:09:03.879 --> 00:09:06.559 Think about it. Mechanically, You got an erection and then 175 00:09:06.600 --> 00:09:08.600 you lose it. Let's think of it. Could be the 176 00:09:08.679 --> 00:09:11.440 causes could be anything. It could be, Hey, why's cheating 177 00:09:11.480 --> 00:09:15.200 on you? You've had three cocktails? Uh, you came into 178 00:09:15.240 --> 00:09:17.200 this massage poll to get jacked off. And you know what, 179 00:09:17.240 --> 00:09:19.000 they switch women on you. When the woman who now 180 00:09:19.080 --> 00:09:22.480 and is now doing you, she doesn't turn you on 181 00:09:22.519 --> 00:09:26.200 at all. It doesn't don't enough. You should have smoked 182 00:09:26.200 --> 00:09:28.720 an a tire joint. We doctors have put you on 183 00:09:28.799 --> 00:09:32.000 medications beta blockers or anti hypertensis that are interfeerwing with 184 00:09:32.320 --> 00:09:35.240 your ability to stay in direction. We fuck guys up 185 00:09:35.639 --> 00:09:38.639 as well too. There's a baby cry in the next room. 186 00:09:38.639 --> 00:09:40.879 You're worried about paying the mortgage, whatever it is you 187 00:09:40.960 --> 00:09:43.200 got the direction you're getting. Blood in the pill is 188 00:09:43.240 --> 00:09:45.360 not the answer, and you're not dysfunctional, you're losing it. 189 00:09:46.600 --> 00:09:49.799 If you put a ring on, of course, is the best. 190 00:09:49.960 --> 00:09:52.559 But put a ring on. It's gonna keep you It's 191 00:09:52.559 --> 00:09:56.320 gonna keep you hard. Not I'm granted that. You know, 192 00:09:56.360 --> 00:09:57.679 if someone's holding a gun at you, you're not going 193 00:09:57.720 --> 00:10:00.960 to keep it hard. But uh, it's gonna. I if 194 00:10:00.960 --> 00:10:02.799 you got aroused and you're in the mood and you 195 00:10:02.840 --> 00:10:04.720 put a ring on, you're more likely to stay hard, 196 00:10:04.840 --> 00:10:07.399 have and sustain that erection with a ring. And if 197 00:10:07.440 --> 00:10:09.679 you told me four years ago, I was gonna be 198 00:10:09.759 --> 00:10:12.639 talking about erection rings like we shouldn't call them cock 199 00:10:12.720 --> 00:10:14.679 rings because that puts in the kind of the realm, 200 00:10:14.799 --> 00:10:17.159 like this sex toys and novelty thing. Call it an 201 00:10:17.159 --> 00:10:21.200 erection ring. It sustains erections. Put a ring on it 202 00:10:21.200 --> 00:10:22.759 if you want to, if you want to have the 203 00:10:22.799 --> 00:10:25.960 best performance as a man, put a ring on it. Wait, 204 00:10:25.960 --> 00:10:28.320 you heavy, D don't have you D put a ring 205 00:10:28.360 --> 00:10:33.240 on it. So we did two studies of D two 206 00:10:33.279 --> 00:10:35.799 messene DC messens the time it takes direction to go 207 00:10:35.879 --> 00:10:39.960 down at the climax more the longer that time, the 208 00:10:40.399 --> 00:10:43.240 longer you stay hard, the more blood you've kept in 209 00:10:43.240 --> 00:10:46.840 your penis nothing. Get how rock hard? Do nothing? Twenty 210 00:10:46.879 --> 00:10:50.559 five to thirty five seconds. Get rock hard. Put a 211 00:10:50.600 --> 00:10:54.279 ring on it, Stay hard for over two minutes, sometimes 212 00:10:54.279 --> 00:10:57.159 close to three minutes. Put a ring, get hard. Take 213 00:10:57.159 --> 00:11:00.200 a pill for about two minutes. Do both with the 214 00:11:00.320 --> 00:11:02.279 ring and the pill together, and you're gonna be hard 215 00:11:02.440 --> 00:11:06.240 after climax for almost four minutes. Average man, Well, what 216 00:11:06.240 --> 00:11:09.399 what's what does this tell? Guys? Put a ring on 217 00:11:09.440 --> 00:11:11.399 it if you want to often watch a performance, if 218 00:11:11.440 --> 00:11:14.440 you don't need a pill, or if you want maximum performance, 219 00:11:14.559 --> 00:11:17.879 take use music pill as well too. Guys need to 220 00:11:17.879 --> 00:11:22.559 get over there. This mindset that rings are for guys 221 00:11:22.600 --> 00:11:25.879 who have bad dysfunction, or guys are guys who are gay. 222 00:11:26.279 --> 00:11:29.159 It's not. It's somebody for everyone, just the way vibrators 223 00:11:29.200 --> 00:11:30.000 are for all women. 224 00:11:30.399 --> 00:11:33.399 Well for the firm tech ring, but I don't I'll 225 00:11:33.440 --> 00:11:36.399 be I'm gonna completely stupid here because I've heard about 226 00:11:36.399 --> 00:11:38.720 the wearable. But it's not like it's very easy to 227 00:11:38.759 --> 00:11:41.360 go ahead and see what because you know obviously with 228 00:11:41.399 --> 00:11:43.000 what you can do, like with what what images that 229 00:11:43.039 --> 00:11:45.559 you put out there and show exactly what it looks like. 230 00:11:46.480 --> 00:11:50.919 I mean you weard on your member, correct, yes, right? 231 00:11:51.759 --> 00:11:54.559 And you know the comfort level the size of the 232 00:11:54.600 --> 00:11:57.279 penis that you have to have. I mean, how adjustable 233 00:11:57.360 --> 00:11:57.759 is it? 234 00:11:57.799 --> 00:11:58.159 Give me that? 235 00:11:58.919 --> 00:12:02.120 Well, it has a hook luke design, so it's it's adjustable. 236 00:12:03.399 --> 00:12:10.159 It sails with men who are extremely large. So guys 237 00:12:10.159 --> 00:12:12.639 who are more this is the ninety five percentile, guys 238 00:12:12.639 --> 00:12:14.600 who are more than say six and a half inches 239 00:12:14.679 --> 00:12:15.080 in girth. 240 00:12:15.840 --> 00:12:18.639 That's a big dick, didn't go, Yeah, pretty much? 241 00:12:18.679 --> 00:12:19.720 Yeah, yeah, it's probably you. 242 00:12:20.159 --> 00:12:22.799 But so yeah, very average. 243 00:12:23.240 --> 00:12:26.679 Well that's the point. Most guys are average. The curve 244 00:12:27.080 --> 00:12:32.919 for penis size is actually narrow and granted at one 245 00:12:33.000 --> 00:12:37.080 end mostly black men, at the other end mostly Japanese men. 246 00:12:37.399 --> 00:12:40.360 But it's pretty it's still pretty narrow. It's you know, 247 00:12:40.559 --> 00:12:43.879 it's so and so the device will guys who are small. 248 00:12:44.399 --> 00:12:46.759 The guys who are really big, the device is less 249 00:12:46.759 --> 00:12:49.600 effective you know, for them. So we have we have 250 00:12:49.639 --> 00:12:51.720 two different products. We have a tech ring that gives 251 00:12:51.799 --> 00:12:55.679 the data about your sexual and cardivascar health and functions 252 00:12:55.720 --> 00:12:58.480 as an a rection ring. It's more expensive, and then 253 00:12:58.480 --> 00:13:01.440 we make we have two things that are for men 254 00:13:01.519 --> 00:13:04.240 who don't have the technology, but just for men who 255 00:13:04.279 --> 00:13:07.799 want to optimize their performance on It's called the maximum 256 00:13:07.799 --> 00:13:10.519 Performance ring. It was specifically designed to produce some more 257 00:13:10.519 --> 00:13:14.480 intense orgasm. Hey, hy, hey, you want more intense orgasm? Sure? 258 00:13:14.720 --> 00:13:16.360 I mean, well, I think that's actually you know what, 259 00:13:16.559 --> 00:13:18.360 I'll be honest, I feel like you're getting very good 260 00:13:18.399 --> 00:13:19.840 orgasm right now for what I have. It is just 261 00:13:19.840 --> 00:13:24.519 my problem is just is hey, well, along with you, 262 00:13:24.919 --> 00:13:28.279 I have out had sex and at least a decade 263 00:13:28.679 --> 00:13:29.559 and don't you want. 264 00:13:29.480 --> 00:13:31.360 To don't you want to go from good to great? Though? 265 00:13:32.000 --> 00:13:32.399 Sure? 266 00:13:32.879 --> 00:13:35.799 Yeah, exactly. So Look look, I you know, half the 267 00:13:35.840 --> 00:13:38.159 sex I have is probably with myself the other half 268 00:13:38.240 --> 00:13:41.519 of my wife right at this point in my life. 269 00:13:43.000 --> 00:13:44.759 You know, we we guys, we think we're conn as 270 00:13:44.799 --> 00:13:47.360 source of our own of our orgasms because we start 271 00:13:47.519 --> 00:13:51.759 jerking off when we're like twelve years old. Well, I 272 00:13:51.799 --> 00:13:55.200 never used a ring until now four years ago. My 273 00:13:55.200 --> 00:13:57.879 attitude towards the rection rings were hey, like you say, hey, 274 00:13:58.080 --> 00:14:00.559 my orgasms are great, and I don't I don't need one. 275 00:14:00.840 --> 00:14:04.080 Now I understand it's not about need, it's about want. 276 00:14:04.960 --> 00:14:07.440 So for here here are five questions every guy should 277 00:14:07.480 --> 00:14:10.480 ask themselves. I'll ask you, harrd. Just pretend you're sure 278 00:14:10.600 --> 00:14:14.080 I'm getting your patient. Uh, and you're your average straight 279 00:14:14.200 --> 00:14:16.639 patient too, like, hey, I don't need a ring everything 280 00:14:16.759 --> 00:14:20.279 you'm col Uh okay, ho, Hey you want a rock harder? 281 00:14:21.279 --> 00:14:22.000 Yeah? 282 00:14:22.080 --> 00:14:26.320 Yeah, so because with our ring, my growth increases by 283 00:14:26.360 --> 00:14:29.360 four millimeters. No one's gonna walk by and say fucking 284 00:14:29.360 --> 00:14:31.480 Poe and Star. But that's more blood than I can 285 00:14:31.600 --> 00:14:33.759 get hold of my dick with a vagina, a mouth, 286 00:14:33.879 --> 00:14:34.639 or or a hand. 287 00:14:34.799 --> 00:14:36.320 Think about a duck, Yulia. The thing is if you're 288 00:14:36.320 --> 00:14:37.679 going to put a condom on, because you want to 289 00:14:37.720 --> 00:14:39.480 be safe, you don't want the thing to fall off 290 00:14:39.480 --> 00:14:41.360 in the middle because the heart one doesn't stay up. 291 00:14:42.440 --> 00:14:44.360 Yeah, okay, So you want to rock hard? Or hey, 292 00:14:44.480 --> 00:14:48.200 that's one second question. You want to laugh longer? Yes? 293 00:14:48.679 --> 00:14:50.440 For this for the sake of the partner, I would 294 00:14:50.440 --> 00:14:51.759 to think that would be good, right. 295 00:14:52.240 --> 00:14:54.120 Or for yourself. Hey, you've had a couple of drinks. 296 00:14:54.120 --> 00:14:55.840 You want to last longer when you're drinking off? I 297 00:14:55.919 --> 00:14:59.039 do I want less the right amount? Top it that way, 298 00:14:59.120 --> 00:15:03.279 five minutes enough gets over an hour? Gottle things do 299 00:15:03.360 --> 00:15:05.240 in my life. But anyway you want to say you 300 00:15:05.240 --> 00:15:09.000 want to last longer. Do you want a more intense orgasm? Yeah? 301 00:15:09.200 --> 00:15:13.720 Do you want to do you want to be more confident? Yes, 302 00:15:13.799 --> 00:15:18.519 whether you're with a woman, massage parlor, or you know 303 00:15:18.799 --> 00:15:21.480 you canise promising yourself. You're don't have a great session 304 00:15:21.480 --> 00:15:24.840 with yourself tonight, but you've had you shouldn't smoked that 305 00:15:25.000 --> 00:15:27.120 entire joint and now kind of you're wondering whether it's 306 00:15:27.120 --> 00:15:29.000 going to happen. Okay, But you want more confident, right, 307 00:15:29.080 --> 00:15:31.240 and you want your partner to be more confident. So 308 00:15:31.840 --> 00:15:33.840 it's not about need, it's about want. If a man 309 00:15:33.879 --> 00:15:37.600 wants to rock harder, lasts longer, have more intense orgasm, 310 00:15:38.120 --> 00:15:43.039 be more confident regardless of circumstances, and have their partner 311 00:15:43.080 --> 00:15:46.080 be more confident, put a ring on her. 312 00:15:46.240 --> 00:15:46.480 Right. 313 00:15:47.080 --> 00:15:49.120 But you should also get your data. Why should you 314 00:15:49.159 --> 00:15:52.600 get your data? Because your data If you're ovated to 315 00:15:52.639 --> 00:15:56.399 forty five or fifty, you want to be minoring your 316 00:15:56.440 --> 00:15:58.799 heart health. You go to a doctor. If the doctor 317 00:15:58.799 --> 00:16:01.320 doesn't check your blood pressure, get little proteins, get a lunch, 318 00:16:01.320 --> 00:16:04.679 a cartogram, you think, oh, what is this nineteen hundred? 319 00:16:04.679 --> 00:16:07.960 If I expect some tests. Well, here's a way of 320 00:16:08.000 --> 00:16:11.120 monitoring your CARDIVASCAR health at home. Kind of a fun 321 00:16:11.159 --> 00:16:14.039 way to a minor a minor your health. Plus it 322 00:16:14.039 --> 00:16:15.840 will also tell you about your sexual health and the 323 00:16:15.879 --> 00:16:21.639 impact of medications and drugs and alcohol upon your sexual health. 324 00:16:23.639 --> 00:16:25.559 So one of the other areas I think about is 325 00:16:26.320 --> 00:16:27.480 I mean, I want to get into the part of 326 00:16:27.480 --> 00:16:29.679 hard health and how important is that because I'll tell 327 00:16:29.679 --> 00:16:33.080 you for myself, I was four hundred and sixteen pounds 328 00:16:33.080 --> 00:16:36.120 of my heaviest in twenty sixteen. I've dropped down to 329 00:16:37.000 --> 00:16:40.279 just around three hundred pounds now. And the difference between 330 00:16:40.519 --> 00:16:44.120 masturbating before and then much easier, much more comfortable to do. 331 00:16:44.559 --> 00:16:46.840 But more than anything, you know, the orgasms are now 332 00:16:46.919 --> 00:16:50.039 even much more potent than ever and sustaining. I think 333 00:16:50.080 --> 00:16:51.960 that for me now, I'm at the point where, like 334 00:16:52.000 --> 00:16:53.960 if I was gonna, you know, it was always having 335 00:16:54.000 --> 00:16:56.759 sex pretty regularly, the hard one'll be fine, But like 336 00:16:56.799 --> 00:16:58.919 I think, the orgasm at the end of it is 337 00:16:59.399 --> 00:17:02.759 pleasurable and lasts a while. That's the part I really 338 00:17:02.759 --> 00:17:04.400 want to enjoy. But I need the heart on the 339 00:17:04.400 --> 00:17:06.480 stay long enough to get to that point and get 340 00:17:06.480 --> 00:17:08.759 that full climax and really enjoy it for a while, 341 00:17:09.519 --> 00:17:11.640 and that heart on stays on for a while after that. 342 00:17:12.160 --> 00:17:14.000 But the one thing is it was important for me 343 00:17:14.039 --> 00:17:16.640 to go and have to drop the weight. So I 344 00:17:16.799 --> 00:17:19.240 was diabetic and I don't want to have And the 345 00:17:19.519 --> 00:17:22.000 idea is that I think where guys that are not 346 00:17:22.079 --> 00:17:25.119 sexually active you said the confidence part. I think there's 347 00:17:25.119 --> 00:17:28.119 something about your physical health and how you take care 348 00:17:28.119 --> 00:17:31.000 of yourself that allows that blood flow to go through 349 00:17:31.200 --> 00:17:33.759 that makes sure that you're not at the point where 350 00:17:34.160 --> 00:17:36.319 if you're not if you are kind of you know, 351 00:17:36.480 --> 00:17:38.960 like I was so long ago, you know, fast slob, 352 00:17:39.440 --> 00:17:41.720 not taking care of myself, who's going to be interested 353 00:17:41.759 --> 00:17:44.680 in me? It's all, you know, relative to each other. 354 00:17:45.880 --> 00:17:51.599 Yeah. No, that well, where I'm emphasizing the value of 355 00:17:51.599 --> 00:17:54.880 a ring helping them sexual performance, I don't want to 356 00:17:54.880 --> 00:17:58.480 take away from fact that hey you wind it after 357 00:17:58.519 --> 00:18:02.720 couple thrust it's embarrassing. Uh. The So it's important for 358 00:18:02.720 --> 00:18:04.839 men to have picked to be in good cardiovascal health. 359 00:18:04.880 --> 00:18:08.400 It's important for men who are diabetic that mostly a diabetic. 360 00:18:08.759 --> 00:18:11.640 I'm really phrase that many men today who are diabetic 361 00:18:11.880 --> 00:18:16.240 or pre diabetic are like you. They simply weigh too much. 362 00:18:16.400 --> 00:18:18.680 If they would look, if they would lose the weight, 363 00:18:19.759 --> 00:18:21.680 they don't need the medication anymore. 364 00:18:21.960 --> 00:18:22.240 Uh. 365 00:18:22.279 --> 00:18:25.400 They their their performances, sexual performances among other problems are 366 00:18:25.400 --> 00:18:27.279 going to improve. Their self esteem is going to going 367 00:18:27.319 --> 00:18:30.519 to you know, is going to improve. So same thing 368 00:18:30.559 --> 00:18:34.079 with smoking and alcohol. Hey, I I understand, you know, 369 00:18:34.240 --> 00:18:38.519 I get why people smoke. I'm not addicted to Nicotine's 370 00:18:38.559 --> 00:18:40.839 never been my drug, but my wife used to be 371 00:18:40.839 --> 00:18:45.839 my wife drug. It's really really hard to stop. But 372 00:18:45.839 --> 00:18:50.759 when people men stop smoking regularly, the sexual performance improves. 373 00:18:50.799 --> 00:18:56.319 And I've experienced that that that briefly, oh maybe probably 374 00:18:56.319 --> 00:19:00.559 about ten years ago. I started smoking. I went for 375 00:19:00.640 --> 00:19:04.240 maybe like a cigar a month, two oh one a week, 376 00:19:04.279 --> 00:19:05.759 and now it's two weeks, and hey now it's one 377 00:19:05.759 --> 00:19:08.079 a day, and now I'm having three a day. Well, 378 00:19:08.200 --> 00:19:11.000 it did have an impact upon my on my sexual performance, 379 00:19:11.440 --> 00:19:14.920 and and of course since since I prioritize sexual it's 380 00:19:14.960 --> 00:19:16.279 just so it was so obvious to me right away. 381 00:19:16.319 --> 00:19:19.519 It's like, hey, well I'm not doing this what. Uh. 382 00:19:19.759 --> 00:19:21.440 I had a guy the other day contact with me. 383 00:19:21.559 --> 00:19:25.240 He wants to know he had He's got his forties, 384 00:19:25.559 --> 00:19:27.680 so he had wrecked all the songs for the first time, 385 00:19:28.160 --> 00:19:32.960 We'll talking to the guy. Uh, well, he's he's doing 386 00:19:33.039 --> 00:19:36.720 coke on dates because it makes him feel more confident. 387 00:19:36.799 --> 00:19:39.599 Well yeah, but dude, but coke is also a basic 388 00:19:39.680 --> 00:19:42.519 constrictor it's a it's a dick killer. I mean, so 389 00:19:42.559 --> 00:19:46.200 he just anyway, you get the point, you know. 390 00:19:47.400 --> 00:19:49.960 But the other part two is that if it's any vices, 391 00:19:50.039 --> 00:19:52.799 any alcohol or like you said, if if it's kind 392 00:19:52.799 --> 00:19:55.119 of drugs or whatever it is, also do anything goes. 393 00:19:55.279 --> 00:19:56.799 The other thing to always to think about the fact 394 00:19:56.839 --> 00:19:59.440 is that to make sure you have to be in 395 00:19:59.559 --> 00:20:03.519 such a sexual your health is so good because how 396 00:20:03.519 --> 00:20:05.319 many women do we have that are modern independent and 397 00:20:05.359 --> 00:20:07.759 also feel like, well they're not submissive anymore. They're not 398 00:20:07.799 --> 00:20:09.000 the ones who are like they're going to just go 399 00:20:09.000 --> 00:20:11.920 ahead and be into the sexual thraw. Now the guy 400 00:20:11.960 --> 00:20:13.440 has to make sal you know. I mean, how many 401 00:20:13.440 --> 00:20:15.720