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Speaker 1: Alex is on the line second date up date, wondering

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why he's getting ghosted after a great first date.

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Speaker 2: Good morning, Alex, Hey, yeah, you guys doing good.

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Speaker 1: Good listen, we want to know what's going on. Tell

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us about this great date.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So, I mean, I took this woman out on a date.

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We met online. I thought we had a great conversation

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when we went out and had a nice connection, enjoyed

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the date, and you know, I called her for another date.

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I left her a message and completely ghosted me, and

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I'm not sure why.

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Speaker 1: Well, listen, I respect the fact that you called and

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didn't text. I feel like when you take somebody on

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a date and you want to go on a second date,

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you make the phone call, not a text.

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Speaker 2: So I think that was awesome. Well, hold on, hold on.

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Maybe she doesn't like to talk on the phone because

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some people do not like to talk on the phone.

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Speaker 1: Perhaps, I mean, I guess, But did you feel like listen,

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I know you felt a connection, but was she like

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flirty with you?

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Speaker 2: I mean maybe she just wasn't into you. Did you

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feel like she was into you?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I caught it was a connection. That's why I wouldn't

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have called her even if I didn't think that.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I mean I.

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Speaker 4: Definitely liked her, and based off of the time we

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were having I thought she liked me too. That's why

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I'm confused that she at least didn't respond to me.

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Speaker 2: Did you pay for the date? I did? Okay, and

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you were a perfect gentleman I thought so.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, listen, producers, as a girl you took

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out was Amanda, and I just think Alex and Amanda

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flows like that's a great couple.

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Speaker 2: Name right, Yeah, it is?

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Speaker 1: All right. Well, listen, we're gonna put you on holder.

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We're going to call up Amanda. You're going to be

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listening in. We're going to ask her why she's ghosting you.

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You can feel free to chat with her at any point.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, thank you.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, we're going to find out. We're going

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to get to the bottom of it. We're going to

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put you on holder. We're going to give her a call.

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Speaker 2: Hold on. I think I wonder if he's lacking spark.

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I was just gonna say, like, if this conversation is

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anything like the date, like.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, come on, guys, Jeff, literally, yes, I'd rather

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go to.

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Speaker 2: The dentist Courty. Hello, Hi is Amanda there?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, this is she.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Amanda, it's Courtney, Amanda.

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Speaker 6: It's Walmart chef.

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Speaker 2: Hey, it's Savannah.

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Speaker 5: You're on the air.

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Speaker 2: We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. How are you.

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Nervous?

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Speaker 1: Probably what a radio station calls. Well, you're on second

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date update. So it's a future we do. If you

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go on a first date and you get ghosted and

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don't get a second date, and you want answers, they

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call us. Alex has called us, Amanda. He says he

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took you out, he had a great date with you,

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He felt a connection. He thought you had a connection

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with him. He told us he was a perfect gentleman.

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He even left you a message suggesting a second date.

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But you're ghosting him.

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Speaker 5: Yes, sure, I.

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Speaker 1: Am, okay Ooh okay, Well then why don't you tell

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us why you're ghosting him?

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Speaker 2: How was the date for you? Because according to him,

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it was fantastic?

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Speaker 5: Okay, Well, the boy's delusional. I mean I have to

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give it to him. Like we were absolutely connecting. I

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was having a great time with him until his wife

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called halfway through dinner, which like like I didn't know

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that he had a wife and he separated. I didn't

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know he had a whole ass baby, and she was

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calling because the baby was in the emergency room, so

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like six month old or something. And he just sat there,

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he finished our date, didn't get up, seemed not concerned

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that his child is sick in the hospital. Like, I'm sorry.

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That is deadbeat dad, loser like behavior, and I'm not interested.

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Speaker 1: Wow, I am literally choking on my coffee. I did

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not see this coming, Amanda. So he's married, separated, has

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a baby.

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Speaker 2: I can't.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but what is a guy to do? Though, Like

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if if he had left you on the day, it

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would have looked bad too.

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Speaker 3: So all right, wait a minute, I'm dead. Wait a minute,

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this is okay, this is it. I'm not a dead

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beat dead I told you that I was separated, okay,

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and my wife did the drama, Quean. The baby had

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a cold. He was fine, and if it was an.

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Speaker 4: Emergency I would have left.

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Speaker 3: But it was fine.

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Speaker 5: Okay. But you knew he knew he you knew he

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had a cold sitting there at dinner with me. You

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you you teleopathically? Could I feel that he was just

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a cold?

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Speaker 4: No? I didn't say I telepathically knew. I knew that

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he had a cold before I went on the date,

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and that's all that it was.

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Speaker 3: I knew that is what it was.

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Speaker 4: You again, it wasn't a serious sickness. You just had

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a little cold. Do you ever have a cold?

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Speaker 3: I don't talk about me.

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Speaker 5: We're talking about your behavior.

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Speaker 3: What am I going to do? Help the doctor?

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Speaker 2: That's a great right there, Jeff.

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Speaker 5: You show up, You show up about your family, support

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your kids.

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Speaker 1: If you're like in a serious relationship with Amanda and

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she has to go to the er, but you have

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something better to do, are you just gonna leave her there?

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Speaker 4: Depending on the severity of the issue.

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Speaker 3: I mean again, well it's the emergency.

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Speaker 2: I'm not the It's kind of okay. Room.

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Speaker 6: Hey, Alex, my man, don't don't take this the wrong way.

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You have three people without kids telling you how you

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should act when it comes to your kids.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, listen, I just I feel like it's

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not a connection. I usually offer to pay for a

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second date, but I feel like Amanda, your thoughts on

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this are so strong that even if we pay for it,

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he wouldn't go on a.

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Speaker 5: Right and he and he hid the child like I

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didn't know he had a child to that phone call.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I just think this is not going to work.

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Speaker 2: I don't, are you guys?

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Speaker 1: Okay, If Savannah Jeff we don't offer to pay for

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a second date, we're okay with them. Cool with it here, Okay,

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all right, Well, I appreciate you calling, and Amanda, I

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appreciate you being honest with us.

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Speaker 5: Man.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I suppose I should ask Alex how's your son?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 3: Fine?

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Speaker 2: Okay, right, just want to make sure excellent.

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Speaker 1: Well, Amanda and Alex, thank you so much for being

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on second date.

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Speaker 3: Update mm hmm you, I guess