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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Hey, I'm bad with something for you to think about.

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<v Speaker 1>Many of you, who's listening to me right now? A

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<v Speaker 1>whole ting.

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<v Speaker 2>You're in relationships with people you just knew you wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to be with.

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<v Speaker 1>You just knew you loved. No one could tell you

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<v Speaker 1>anything different.

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<v Speaker 2>You just thought you loved the person, and you gave

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<v Speaker 2>up everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Your family, your friends, your jobs, your careers. Many of you.

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<v Speaker 2>Gave up everything for that person, only to end up

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<v Speaker 2>with nothing. Yeah, I said exactly what I meant, to

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<v Speaker 2>end up with nothing. Some of you have been bamboozled

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<v Speaker 2>out of everything, to include your mind.

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<v Speaker 1>You allowed the person to come into your life.

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<v Speaker 2>It caused you nothing but stress, and instead of walking away,

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<v Speaker 2>you tried to make them into who you wanted them

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<v Speaker 2>to be.

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<v Speaker 1>But you changed in the process for the worst.

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<v Speaker 2>I did an episode years ago, trying to love the

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<v Speaker 2>hell out of someone, only to find yourself in hell.

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<v Speaker 1>That's many of you.

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<v Speaker 2>Many of you. You gave up everything. You turned your

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<v Speaker 2>back on your family, on your friends, on your children,

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<v Speaker 2>to end up with nothing. A person who mistreats you,

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<v Speaker 2>disrespect you, abuses you. And remember, abuse is not necessarily physical, emotional.

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<v Speaker 1>And mentally and verbally is just as damaging.

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<v Speaker 2>You've ostracized everyone to include yourself, and now you're in

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<v Speaker 2>a nightmare.

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<v Speaker 1>Living it with your eyes wide open because of the

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<v Speaker 1>choices you made.

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<v Speaker 2>People tried to tell you the signs and the red

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<v Speaker 2>flags were there, but you chose to.

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<v Speaker 1>Ignore them because.

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<v Speaker 2>You just had to have your boom. And now all

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<v Speaker 2>you find yourself doing.

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<v Speaker 1>Is the boo boo owing because of your food.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I always say you must go into relationships

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<v Speaker 2>with your eyes wide.

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<v Speaker 1>Open, not wide shut.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to go into relationships with healed hearts and minds,

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<v Speaker 2>not unhealed, because when you have unhealed hearts and minds,

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<v Speaker 2>your mind and your heart are not in sync, and

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<v Speaker 2>therefore you're going to chase the wrong thing, the wrong people,

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<v Speaker 2>for the wrong reasons, and end up with nothing. Some

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<v Speaker 2>of you think, oh, they've gotten me this and that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, they bought me a house and anything I want,

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<v Speaker 1>thing will give it to me.

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<v Speaker 2>But you have no love, you have no respect, you

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<v Speaker 2>have no integrity, you lack confidence, you have no peace.

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<v Speaker 1>That means you have nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>Some of you literally have nothing because they drain you

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<v Speaker 2>up everything everything can you end up with nothing? Too

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<v Speaker 2>many people and I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Too many people.

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<v Speaker 2>Are putting themselves in these situations that they don't have

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<v Speaker 2>to be in and they shouldn't be in because you

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<v Speaker 2>thought it was love. And unfortunately many of you will

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<v Speaker 2>stay because you have nothing to call your own. So

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<v Speaker 2>you would rather stay and be degraded and be littled

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<v Speaker 2>and everything else to keep a roof over your head,

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<v Speaker 2>food on your table, clothes on your back, when all

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<v Speaker 2>you need to.

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<v Speaker 1>Do is get your own.

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<v Speaker 2>People go through too much foolishness, allowing too much drama

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<v Speaker 2>and chaos in their lives.

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<v Speaker 1>Chase of love.

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<v Speaker 2>When you shouldn't be looking anywhere but inward to heal

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<v Speaker 2>yourself first, because if you are of the right mindset,

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<v Speaker 2>you will never be in the situation you're in now.

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<v Speaker 2>You would never be looking at someone else's security for

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<v Speaker 2>your own, because like.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, you can have it all.

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<v Speaker 2>You can have everything you wish for it and be

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<v Speaker 2>miserable and inhale on earth. Many people don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>take ownership and responsibility.

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<v Speaker 1>For what they have accepted, what they have allowed, what

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<v Speaker 1>they have.

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<v Speaker 2>Signed on to, because they say, oh, I didn't sign

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<v Speaker 2>on for that. I'm you know, I didn't ask for abuse,

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't ask for disrespect, you signed on for it.

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<v Speaker 2>So if you signed on for it, that means you

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<v Speaker 2>open yourself up to it. You allowed, you accepted, because

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<v Speaker 2>a person.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't just out of nowhere began to be cruel and.

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<v Speaker 3>Mean and honery and disrespectful and all of those things

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<v Speaker 3>who they show you who they are.

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<v Speaker 1>But you miss it when your eyes are wide shut.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean you have them open, but you can't see

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<v Speaker 2>nothing because you're blind to your feelings, to your wants,

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<v Speaker 2>to your desires, to your emotions.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything is more important than.

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<v Speaker 2>Reality until it slaps you straight in the face. And

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<v Speaker 2>even for some people when it does, they still continue

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<v Speaker 2>to settle because they have nothing to call their own.

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<v Speaker 2>They lack confidence now, belief in self so full of

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<v Speaker 2>negative talk, not only from that significant other, but the

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<v Speaker 2>other people that have been in their lives before that,

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<v Speaker 2>that have put negativity in their hands that they have

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<v Speaker 2>chose to hold on to.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you hold on to it. Now. You feel so terrible.

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<v Speaker 2>Because you feel so alone, because you've turned your back

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<v Speaker 2>on your family and friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, there are true friends and family who have love

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<v Speaker 1>for you.

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<v Speaker 2>They're gonna have love for you regardless, and they will

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<v Speaker 2>welcome you back but some of you are so embarrassed

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<v Speaker 2>because of your behaviors, because of how you treated them.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't think that they're able to love you, and

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<v Speaker 2>they do that.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't have.

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<v Speaker 2>Your mind making you think that want you separated from

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<v Speaker 2>your loved ones, and many of you fall for it

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<v Speaker 2>because you want set person so badly that you can't

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<v Speaker 2>see that they're the wrong one for you. You can't

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<v Speaker 2>see it until you're in such a dark place that

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<v Speaker 2>you begin to see a kind glimpse of light, which

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<v Speaker 2>is reality. But like I said, even then, some people

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<v Speaker 2>still will remain there.

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<v Speaker 1>You have nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>Some of you are with individuals who do nothing for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Your wives and husbands, but they do nothing for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Everything you have you have to get on your own.

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<v Speaker 2>They won't do anything for you. You think that's love.

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<v Speaker 2>You think it's love for someone to talk down to

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<v Speaker 2>you or treat you like you're a child. You think

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<v Speaker 2>it's love for someone to physically, verbally, emotionally abuse you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not love. Many of you have nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>When you have no peace, nothing else matters.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing else matters when you have no peace. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>telling you the truth.

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<v Speaker 2>You can be the most beautiful or the most handsome,

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<v Speaker 2>you can have the best looking body. None of that

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<v Speaker 2>matters when you have no peace, Because when.

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<v Speaker 1>You have no peace, things are just.

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<v Speaker 2>Constantly constantly going on inside of you, your mind constantly, constantly, negativity, constantly.

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<v Speaker 2>You have no peace. You're stressed out. But it is you,

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<v Speaker 2>my sister, my brother, my friend, my relative.

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<v Speaker 1>It is you, you who have opened yourself up to it,

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<v Speaker 1>because I've told you so many times.

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<v Speaker 2>You teach a person how to treat you, it does

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<v Speaker 2>not matter who that person is. Can be your mother,

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<v Speaker 2>your father, your sister, your brother, your kids, your significant other,

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<v Speaker 2>your husband, your.

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<v Speaker 1>Wife, your neighbor, your boss, your coworker, your pastor, it

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<v Speaker 1>don't matter who it is.

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<v Speaker 2>You teach that person how to treat you. And the

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<v Speaker 2>people that will hurt you the most are the ones

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<v Speaker 2>who say they love you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a fact. It's a fact.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why it's very important to love yourself. Love your self,

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<v Speaker 2>love your self. It's a game changer. I promise you

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<v Speaker 2>it is a game changer. When you love yourself, you're

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<v Speaker 2>not putting up with the shenanigans.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not gonna allow anyone to just talk to you

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<v Speaker 1>any kind of way or treat you any kind of way.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not gonna be coheerting influence and persuaded into doing wrong,

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<v Speaker 2>or manipulated by manipulative people.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not because you're gonna have eyes to see.

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<v Speaker 2>And besides of red flash that you missed, you will

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<v Speaker 2>be able to see. You'll walk away with nothing because

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<v Speaker 2>you came in with nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>You will have no problem walking away with nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>You'll have no problem with start to know, but if

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<v Speaker 2>you need to, when you love yourself, because you'll know

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<v Speaker 2>your words, you'll know your value, you'll know you deserve better.

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<v Speaker 1>Bottom line.

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<v Speaker 2>But the more power you give to a person, the

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<v Speaker 2>more power that person will take.

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<v Speaker 1>They will manipulate you.

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<v Speaker 2>They will trick you, deceive you, and boozle you into

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<v Speaker 2>staying in that relationship, as they say, by hook or

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<v Speaker 2>by cook, And it's just manipulation.

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<v Speaker 1>Some of you are in relationships where you're fearful. You

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<v Speaker 1>just stay too long.

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<v Speaker 2>Now you're fearful, you're afraid to stay, you're afraid to go,

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<v Speaker 2>and you gave of everything to gain nothing. And I

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<v Speaker 2>feel in my spirit that people are saying, well, how

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<v Speaker 2>do you get out of these situations? The same way

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<v Speaker 2>you went into them? You walked in it, right, you

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<v Speaker 2>can walk out of it. It's better to walk out

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<v Speaker 2>than to be carried out. It's better to walk out

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<v Speaker 2>then to.

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<v Speaker 1>Walk away.

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<v Speaker 2>So broken, lost your mind because of stress, full of

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<v Speaker 2>mental issues because of stress. But see, people have to

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<v Speaker 2>wake up for themselves. You have to wake up for yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>No one can do it for you. All I can

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<v Speaker 2>tell you is it's not love. Anytime someone try to

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<v Speaker 2>ostracize you from your family and friends, or you feel

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<v Speaker 2>that you have to give this person every single part

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<v Speaker 2>of you, every single.

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<v Speaker 1>Part, something is wrong with the situation and with you.

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<v Speaker 1>For sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Any time you're with someone and they're trying to control you,

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<v Speaker 2>or they're possessive and obsessive over you, you better run, run, run, run,

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<v Speaker 2>because that's not love. That's a sign. That's a big

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<v Speaker 2>red flag. Don't think it's cute all.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a killed all. No, No, that is a sign.

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<v Speaker 2>Just because you give it a relationship does not mean

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<v Speaker 2>you have to turn your back on your friends and family,

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<v Speaker 2>but so many people do because they think that is

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<v Speaker 2>the proper way to love.

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<v Speaker 1>Never give up your friends and family for no one.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, I'm not saying let your friends and family, ruin

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<v Speaker 2>and take over your relationship, you know, barging in and

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<v Speaker 2>unannounced and staying and forever and moving it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying that, but what I am saying is

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<v Speaker 1>never allow a man or a woman to cause you.

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<v Speaker 2>To block your relationship with your family and your friends.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to have.

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<v Speaker 2>Boundaries, for sure, you have to have boundaries, but to

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<v Speaker 2>isolate yourself or ostracize yourself, you should never do it.

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<v Speaker 2>And you should never, ever, ever, ever, under any circumstances.

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<v Speaker 1>Give all of you to whoever.

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<v Speaker 2>You're will you just give them ammunition to use you,

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<v Speaker 2>to take advantage of you when you do that, because

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<v Speaker 2>they know they can do anything, say anything, and you

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<v Speaker 2>will take it because you show your vulnerability, you show

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<v Speaker 2>them how they can just take advantage. Because when you

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<v Speaker 2>do that, you relinquish your power. When you give your power,

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<v Speaker 2>they're going to take it, trust and believe they are

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<v Speaker 2>going to take it. And you should never give your

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<v Speaker 2>power to no one. I don't care who they are,

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<v Speaker 2>what they have, how they look, None of that matters

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<v Speaker 2>because when you lose your power, you also lose control,

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<v Speaker 2>and you should never put your power in control in

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<v Speaker 2>the hands of another being. So like I said, many

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<v Speaker 2>of you give up everything, everything, You give up your careers.

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<v Speaker 1>Know you wanted to go to school and do this,

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<v Speaker 1>and that you gave it up.

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<v Speaker 2>You knew you wanted to take that job somewhere, you

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<v Speaker 2>gave it up. You had dreams, you had hopes, you

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<v Speaker 2>had goals. You gave them all up for the person

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<v Speaker 2>you wanted to be with, built them up, and then

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<v Speaker 2>they left you.

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<v Speaker 1>You have nothing. Spend all your money on them. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>people do this.

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<v Speaker 2>Foolishness every day to end up with nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're with someone who don't love you the way

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<v Speaker 1>you love them.

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<v Speaker 2>If they can't love you back, you have nothing. If

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<v Speaker 2>it's one sided, which most relationships are, you have nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>You think it's something just because you're under the same roof,

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<v Speaker 2>but living separately, that's nothing. I mean, I could talk

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<v Speaker 2>about it all day, obviously.

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<v Speaker 1>But I won't wake up. You deserve better.

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<v Speaker 2>No one on the face of the earth should never

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<v Speaker 2>ever accept being in a relationship. Were you stressed out

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<v Speaker 2>where you're wondering if the person loves you? When you're

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<v Speaker 2>treated badly and disrespected.

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<v Speaker 1>No one, no one, no one, no one.

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<v Speaker 2>Wants so many except one side of relationships. What you

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<v Speaker 2>get is what you open yourself up to.

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<v Speaker 1>That's it.

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<v Speaker 4>That's all I'm saying. I'm leaving it right there. Thank

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<v Speaker 4>you for listening, Please share this episode. Much love to you, you,

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<v Speaker 4>you and you. If it's your first time, thank you

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<v Speaker 4>for coming. Please come again. Those of you who listen

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<v Speaker 4>to me on a regular.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate you much love. When you want.

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<v Speaker 2>In every episode the same and I hope you do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank on it