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Speaker 1: Made a decis John of Pace sunny sumone on I

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haddasion nice night. So welcome to another episode of f

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday, guys, Happy Tuesday, Happy Mother's Day, you too.

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I want to hear about every everybody's everybody's mother's Day.

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Speaker 3: Hi.

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Speaker 2: First, let's say hi to some other some mothers. Dick Frolicker,

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Kelly Lottie Dog, Katie's rolling on the e, Nikki call

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your girls once in a while. Elizabeth Williamson with a

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lot of kids, she had a she had another day

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at half Yes, but Rita's rock and all of elizabeth

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kids and her bassiette, and Polly's making pancakes for everybody.

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And Valerie hits out of the park. And Katerina she was,

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you know, eidental with the mother's day, which is not good.

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Speaker 1: I told you that they opened the office for her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. And then Gabby and Missy I saw them on

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the Colorado River this weekend. Oh, trying to hit about

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that one flood flap between the two of them. And

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then is Sean Voshpe he had his first like enjoyed

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a mother's day. It's right with his lady and the

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new baby, and we're back on little bench so cute.

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And Kelly Brown, she's your aunt, So Alicia a Sclante

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from the city of Belle Montane, Leslie is coughing, you

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get it, And yes, Aaron's a dirty Sanchez. Jennifer, get up, Sandra,

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it's not easy being green Athena. We love your makeup.

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Stephanie's a stinker wrinker, and.

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Speaker 1: Ashley is so shake Love you guys, Thank you. So

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that was your Mother's Day?

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Speaker 2: Okay, So my Mother's Day? Oh my god. I hope

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John doesn't listen to it. We're getting old school. Okay.

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So John was. He's so sweet. I mean he literally

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opened his eyes and was like, happy Mother's Day. He's like,

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honestly a very very sweet husband. But his idea of

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like spoiling me on Mother's Day was to be like,

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what do you want for dinner? Which it's like, I

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don't what I don't want. What I don't want is

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to be thinking about dinner. When I opened my eyes

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in the morning, I'm just like I go I don't know,

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and he goes, okay, but like let me know because

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I want to get the kids to like you know.

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What It turned out he did was he texted the

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kids and was like, Hey, how about if you guys

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cook mom a meal for Mother's Day? And I guess

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Xander told me this later he was like, uh, okay, like.

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Speaker 1: Wife, so she could clean it up right.

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Speaker 2: Right, which, by the way, there are still dishes in

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the sink from two because John's always like, I got

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the kitchen, do not touch the kitchen, and I'm like.

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Speaker 1: When you at a kitchen, yeah, but then I end.

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Speaker 2: Up do I end up clean? Okay? Because oh my god,

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And I don't want to get in the weeds on

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this and I don't want to hear from you guys.

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I get it. But our dishwasher has been broken again

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for a long time now. We can't fix the dishwasher

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because we don't have the tiles for the floor, so

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we just started like doing our own dishes. That's just

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what it is. It's been that way now for I

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feel like it's been a year at this point. When

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we upgrade our kitchen, I don't know when that will

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be because we have two more kids, but that we're

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about to put through college.

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Speaker 3: But.

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Speaker 2: Maybe one of them won't go and then we'll like

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redo our kitchen. But my point is it's always like

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our kitchen sucks. But we'd either have to take out

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a loan or I don't know what, but we're like,

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that's deprioritized. So we're like, well, I guess we're just

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going to do our own dishes for right now, or

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we'd have to take tile out of our kitchen.

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Speaker 1: I get it, because the thing with the tile is

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is it is a paint, it's a nord. I mean,

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you could just put in a new dishwasher and just

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leave the tile right like huh out out right until.

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Speaker 2: So then there'll be a hole in the problem is

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the house, they'd had they'd redone the floor. The dishwasher

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is you have to it's deep, right, it goes, it's

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to cut Those times you have to cut the tiles out. Now,

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we've had to do it several times. We've lived in

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our house twenty years. Over those twenty years, we've had

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to replace the dishwasher. But for a long time, there

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were extra tiles that matched the kitchen floor. At some

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point we were down to one, so we had to.

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break one tile. We did it in order for them

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to try to fix the dishwasher. But then it broke

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again and we were like, well we don't we can't

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replace the title now, and there's no We've looked. It's

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like this old school like kind of Spanish.

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Speaker 1: Well now you guys doing your dishes.

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Speaker 2: It's a right whatever we're doing.

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Speaker 1: So what did you get for mothers? So they made

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the did they make dinner?

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Speaker 2: No? No? You know what, though, I'm gonna this is

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gonna sound crazy to some people out there, but I

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do not like I do not like to be fussed over.

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I don't want flowers. I don't want a gift for

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Mother's Day. I hate it. As you know, I'm not

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a fan of my birthday. I don't want people feeling obligated.

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I just don't like it. I don't like it. It's

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like a forced holiday where people have to like. So

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here's what happened, though, I had a great day, and

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this is what was so nice. Like, First of all,

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LB LB came home from school on Saturday, because so

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Saturday afternoon or no, so Sunday was Mother's Day. Okay. Basically, oh,

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I know, so Elbie had to work. She's a tour guide,

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so she finished her tour and then or her tour.

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She's kidding, but do you see how that doesn't make sense? Like, yeah,

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it's a tournament. Why isn't it a tur I get

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taking someone on a tour. Anyway, Elbe finished her job.

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I picked her up in the afternoon. She and I

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went to lunch. This was on Saturday, so then she

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was home on Mother's Day. But I woke up in

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the morning and I had to do I had to work.

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I had to do a book consult with somebody from

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ten to eleven. But it was nice and quiet in

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the house. And then later the kids woke up and

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they were all came in and were like happy Mother's Day.

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But then finally John wore me down with asking me

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what's what I wanted for dinner? And I said, you

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know what I want. I want to order pizza. Like

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I want to order pizza. It's I've been craving it.

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I want some pizza, and I want some diet coke,

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and I want my whole family just like hanging out together.

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So then John was like, Okay, let's all watch a movie.

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So we watched my old Ass. Have you seen that movie?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 3: Have you seen that movie?

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Speaker 2: It is so cute, it was so good. Oh my god,

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it was a perfect movie for Mother's Day.

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Speaker 1: Really, who's in it?

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Speaker 2: It's Aubrey plazas in it. And this girl I think

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her name is either Mazie Stella, right, Mazie Stella who's

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part of a singing duo of Mazie and Lennon and

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then Stella. Yeah, they and she was on she was

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in the show Nashville for years. She's adorable, this girl.

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and her friends drop some take some mushrooms and she

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meets her older self. Okay, so Aubrey Plaza plays this

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girl when she's thirty nine and she starts getting she's

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at a point in her life where she's this girl

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is eighteen and she's going to be in a couple

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of weeks she's going to be leaving for college, and

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her older self gives her some advice during this period

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before she goes to college. And I am telling you

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that I saw my kids were laughing at me. I

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was crying, like crying, and Sadie was sitting next to me, going, mom,

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are you okay? And I was like, this is very touching. Oh,

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this is very touching.

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Speaker 1: Cry in front of your kids. And then they make

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fun of you. Oh my god, and you're like, what

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are you a serial killer? Why can't you cry?

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Speaker 2: I know? But Elbie cried a little bit. Elbie's like, mom,

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I always cry at movies.

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 2: Elbie was the one that I told you was like

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a psychopath.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, so I was an Italia.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, never cried until the one time that she watched

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air Bud. Remember that story and went in air Bud

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dog go go away or whatever. And I was like

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and I look over and Elbie's just like, sob crying huh.

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Elbie's like, remember how I only cried at Airbud. Now

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I cry all the time. It's so funny. So she

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was crying. I was crying Xander and no crying John.

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to be watching a comedy. He's like, this is like

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sad and very touching.

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Speaker 1: I'm not in my feels. Oh now I want to watch.

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Speaker 3: It, and it's got It's got a ninety and eighty

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nine percent on critics and audience on Rotten Tomatoes. And

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when a movie is like that, some pot when there's

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the same score on the critics and the audience, then

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it's usually like, oh, okay, did it just come out

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last year?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Wow, it was my my old ass. You can

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get it on Amazon.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I just watch it.

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Speaker 2: I mean we have Amazon Prime, so all right, it's

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it's freaking what a nice afternoon. And it really was perfect,

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like Mother's Day movie. It was. It was really good.

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like you know, I don't normally like like a side

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like a oh that's totally out of reality. But it

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really was such a small part the older self. They

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play it really realistically, so there's no like body switching

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or anything you got to keep track of in your mind.

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all three of the girls were going to meet their

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older selves and it was going to be a lot

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to keep track of, but it wasn't. No, it basically

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focuses on the Girl and it was it's like a

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small independent movie, but it was very good, so perfect.

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Speaker 1: It was a good night. We had pizza last night too.

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Speaker 2: I can't go back to Dominoes.

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Speaker 1: And well, scar's the problem of what happened, And I'll

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tell you the story. Yeah, a few minutes. But I

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went away this weekend kind of last minute. But it was,

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I went to Vegas with my friends, my old school

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high school friends. The guys were like, Glenn bought a

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house on the Colorado River in in Arizona, in Parker,

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and he has a boat and he has the jet

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skis all the toys, and he was, you know, telling

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us we should all come up blah blah blah. So

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the guys made a plan to go to his house

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Mother's Day weekend, but to come home early on Sunday

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to be back to the White to the family. And

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at we leave Arizona at six. Were at my house,

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you know, I don't know. Four hours later and uh,

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come in, Sonny is back from from his trip to Korea.

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both leaving today. But Sonny was asleep. Haven't heard from Natalia.

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I come on, I come in. My girlfriend Dawn has

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to ice her feet. I'm exhausted. I just want to

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a discussion about some other stuff that you guys are

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not gonna want to miss.

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Speaker 1: Yeah it was good, so yes, so yeah, so okay,

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So my girlfriend's there, she's icing her feet. Then she leaves,

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and I'm like, I'm exhausted and I haven't watched TV

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all weekend, which is fine, but I want to like

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get caught up and stuff. So I lay in bed

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for like five minutes. I'm out like a light. I'm

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sound asleep for hours and eventually Sonny comes in my

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room and he's like, oh, you're home. And I was like,

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first of all, I text you, motherfucker, like at eleven

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and said are you up yet? And you never answered?

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And I told you yesterday I'm coming home early in

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the morning because everybody's got to get back for Mother's Day.

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Now it's like six o'clock at night. And you wake

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and he wakes me up. He's like, oh, you're up.

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I wake up and he goes yeah, powers out and

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I was like, oh, for fuck sakes, why in my neighborhood?

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And I said, why is the fucking power out? Well,

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it's been extremely hot the last few days, which I

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don't know because I'm in Arizona, so yesterday wasn't that hot.

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I don't know the airs. I don't know why. But

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at the end of my street, everybody's got electricity, but

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my street is out all the way up to the mountains,

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and I'm at the bottom of the mountain, so it's

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like and then when the power goes out, your fuck.

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So then I'm texting.

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Speaker 2: Because when the power's out, the Wi Fi Wi Fi.

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Speaker 1: Everything's out, no TV, no.

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Speaker 2: And you don't get good receptions, so you can't be on.

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Speaker 1: No can't. I can't do anything. No power, no Wi Fi.

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That that means no, nothing to do, and you know

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it's starting to get dark. And now I'm like, I

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was exhausted. Why'd you have to wake me up and

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tell me the powers out?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let me sleep, Let me sleep through.

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Speaker 1: That would have been the best Mother's Day. But then

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he's like, happy Mother's Day. Did you get my gift?

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And I was like, no, where is it? And he's like,

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it's in your bathroom and I thought it was Megan

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stuff that she left in my bathroom. He's like, no,

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that's the face products she wanted from Korea, you know,

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the Korean face products. So he got me a big

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thing a face cream plus a little thing of gel.

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And he's like, well, the little thing they gave me

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is a free sample. So he goes, but I got you.

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I asked them, like, what's a good face cream for,

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like somebody like my mom, an older lady or whatever.

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Oh well, I told him I said I want something

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for like fine lines and wrinkles and stuff. So yeah,

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so he got me that and then oh, but then

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before I fell asleep in Italia called me and she's like, mom,

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welcome home. Did you have fun? Yeah, and she goes, I,

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so you're home and I said yeah. She goes, did

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you get anything yet? And I said no, and she goes, well,

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you should check right now. So I went to the

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door and she got me a big thing of flowers,

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which was really sweet. I know, so it was nice.

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And then my niece got me chocolates. Yeah, it was

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really sweet. So and then the best is when I

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hear from my nieces and nephews and their wives happy

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mother's dantela neet, Like I love that. But uh yeah,

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So then you know, I wanted to, like, I wanted

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to have a nice dinner with the two of them

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because they're both leaving Tomaunt today and I was going to, like,

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you know, either go out with me Megan and Sonny

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or I was going to go out and get something

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to eat with them. But there's no electricity in the

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garage doors shut anyway, so I was like, wanted to

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order food, can't order food because there's no Wi Fi.

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So Sonny was able to get the Dominoes app and

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he's like, I said, just let's order pizza. So we

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got pizza and then and then I had my friend

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Mike I. He was texting me about the trip, and

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then I said, hey, can you go and look up

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you know, southern California Edison and punch in my address

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and tell me you know what, because they'll give you

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an update. And it says there's an outage in my neighborhood.

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Restoration time seven point thirty and it was like seven ten,

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and I was like, oh great, you know seven eight

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o'clock comes around. So I text him again after like

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around eight thirty and he's like, oh no, I said

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what and he goes, not until uh one am, and

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I was like, oh my god. But then it flucks

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sometimes it fluctuates. So then I checked in again. I

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go check it one more time and he goes not

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till five am. Now I'm like, all right, I'm going

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to bed, good night, good night, I'm I'm going back

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to sleep. Fell right asleep like ten o'clock and woke

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up in the middle of the night and the power

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was back on. I think it came back on at

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like twelve thirty. But that was my that was my

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mother's day.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 2: So it was out all day.

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Speaker 1: All day, all I wanted to do was come home

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and watch TV and nothing, no power or anything.

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Speaker 2: That sucks.

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Speaker 1: So I'll tell you about the trip. Should we Should

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we do an ad for no?

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Speaker 2: Let's talk about Spontantango.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you guys. I've been wanting to switch Phil from

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his previous dog food, and when they sent us the

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their samples, I tried it with his dog and I

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gave it to him. He loved it, so I switched

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him to Spotantango. It's it's unkibble because he was on

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regular kibble and this is unkibble and it's forty percent

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less expensive than frozen food. And I'm so happy I

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did because now he doesn't seem as hungry all the time.

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You know, Phil wanted to eat constantly. He seems satiated

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now that I've been feeding him spottan Tango.

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Speaker 2: And I agree because you know how picky Pipo is.

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She loves it. We've tried different flavors. Now she's loved

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him both. And you know you can do that thing

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where you get them used to two different kinds of food.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I get to food.

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Speaker 2: And then you can go back and forth between them

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and she actually gets excited about it.

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Speaker 1: It smells delicious, It does smell good, and it's one

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hundred percent whole fresh ingredients, meats, fruits and veggies. And

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the other thing is there's no more guessing you can

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about how much to feed them because Spot and Tangle,

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which I love. I created a custom plan for Phil

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and based on the dog's age, weight, breed and activity level.

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It's it's custom made for him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they come. It comes with these scoopers, so you

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don't have to think about how much to serve them.

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You just do a scoop or two scoops. I do

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two scoops twice a day.

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Speaker 1: I'm so thankful they came on because Phil loves them.

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yeah boom yeah.

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Speaker 1: So had a great time on this. It was you know,

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It was a very It was a smaller group. It

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was Glenn and Mike and our other friend Craig. We

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haven't seen in years, and I had such a crush

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on him when I was younger. And he's so sweet and.

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Speaker 2: So he didn't come to the Vegas trip.

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Speaker 1: He didn't get to come to get He works in

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in the he's a sound guy. He does the boom,

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he's the hoo mic guy. So he's a lot of

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times he's on location and gone. So he missed our

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Vegas trip, but he was able to go on this

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trip and just so sweet and so fun. And the

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thing is my girlfriend Dawn. You know, she's got a

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lot of health issues. She has an endema. You know,

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her legs and her ankles, everything gets swollen, her stomach

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gets swollen. You know, she's on all this medication. She's

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on blood thinner, so her arms are all like black

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and blue. In fact, I hit her arm by accident

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and it just started bleeding on the boat. I felt bad,

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but you know she's used to it. And she talked

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a lot, you know, but she's always been a talker.

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And it was just it was fun because everybody we

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all bag on each other, everybody's got their thing, you know.

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And one guy came with us that I've never met,

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but his friends with Glenn because he's got a house

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out there as well, and he's good with boats, so

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Glenn needs somebody that's gonna help him getting the boat

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in the water and you know all that shit. It's

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a lot of work, right. That guy was really cool,

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had great taste of music. Was fun. But then like,

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you know, we drove in the car. No he's married, okay,

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but we drove in the car with him for you know,

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four hours to getting there. It was great. Then we

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get there and we're like having some beers and now

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he's feeling pretty good and you know, like my friends

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can make fun of me, but not a newcomer. And

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he said something like uh, I don't know what he said,

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but he's in front of Glenn and Craig. He said, uh, yo,

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you'll be fine in the water with those things. You'll

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you have built in floaters. And Craig was like, oh,

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hell no, you're not allowed to fun. You're not allowed

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to say that. And Glenn was like, dude, knock it off,

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like don't you don't you don't fucking say that to

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her like she's our sister. You don't talk like that.

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And he's like, oh my god, I'm so sorry. I'm

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so sorry. I'm so sorry. It's like, I mean, I

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don't care. I can take it. No, that is not appropriate,

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it's not It wasn't appropriate. But I love that my

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two friends were like just jumped right in and that's

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so great protecting me. Yeah. But then after that he

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was totally fine. He was fun. But but other than that, no,

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we had we had. We had a great time. It

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was it was a lot of like I never when

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cause when we were kids, we would go on her

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friend Scott's dad had a boat, so we would go

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to have a sue and go to these places and

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Glenn and Mike would drive the boats and it was

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just so much fun and had to such a great time.

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I never thought in a million years I would ever

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be on a boat again with like Don and Craig

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and Glenn and Mike, like you know, just my old

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school of friends. So it was really so you know,

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forty years of friendship. It was great. We had such

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a great time. The first night they went to a casino,

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I went to sleep. I was too tired. They went Don,

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of course gambled, didn't win anything.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say, there's no way Don didn't go

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to of.

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Speaker 1: Course, are you kidding? We like stopped to get gassed,

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and she there's like, uh, poker in the gas station.

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She's like, where's Don. She's sitting down in the plane

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video poker in the gas station. But yeah, they went to.

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They went there the first night and then just basically

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the rest of the time. We were on the boat

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all day. It was a lot of fun, you know,

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just Glenn marinated steaks. It's just really nice. You know,

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we have our old jokes and stuff. Don was just like,

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she just doesn't stop talking. She talks over the people.

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She's just a talker. And Mike at one point go, Don, well,

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he's not afraid. He'll be like, Don, shut the fuck up,

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stop talking. And she laughs like she thinks it's you know,

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she's funny. I asked her, I said, does it bother you?

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And she's like, no, I've been hearing it my whole

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I think it's funny. I think she likes the attention

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to And at one point Mike goes, all right, Don,

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if you stop talking for twelve minutes, I will give

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you one hundred dollars bill, and she's like done, and

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he goes and don't go up, don't be coming up

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and like mouthing things. He's like, I don't want to

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hear from you. I just go sit down, just don't talk.

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Twelve minutes starting now, She's like okay. Then she goes

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in the bedroom at one point and I walk in

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and she's like, do you know where your brush is?

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And I go, oh, don and she goes, oh shit,

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I forgot I zip it. I go don. I won't

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say anything. I got your back. Go but go in

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00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:50,400
there so that they see you and know you're not talking.

469
00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:52,960
And she's like, okay, I'm gonna do it. She went

470
00:24:53,039 --> 00:24:57,240
in there, and like twelve minutes later, Mike's like, all right,

471
00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:58,880
here you go. He gets her one hundred dollars bill

472
00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:01,839
and he goes, you could start talking again. So she

473
00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:05,160
got it. But it was it was fun. We had

474
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,880
a good time. It was really it was fun to

475
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:11,400
be on the boat. No water skiing though, just you know,

476
00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:12,279
I love boat.

477
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:13,519
Speaker 2: I love boats.

478
00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:14,759
Speaker 1: It's so fun.

479
00:25:15,079 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 2: I know I've told this story before, but like a

480
00:25:20,559 --> 00:25:23,079
quick one when I was like twelve, Do you remember

481
00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:24,839
me telling you the story of when I went with

482
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:30,640
my friend and her divorced dad was like my friend Genevieve,

483
00:25:31,759 --> 00:25:34,200
I love that, you know when you're a kid, like

484
00:25:34,319 --> 00:25:38,000
you don't understand. Like I remember my friend Genevieve's she

485
00:25:38,079 --> 00:25:39,960
lived across the street from me, and I remember her

486
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:45,440
parents just fighting so like much fighting, screaming at each other.

487
00:25:46,039 --> 00:25:48,839
And my parents were like total assholes to me, but

488
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:52,480
very nice to each other. So that was like really wow,

489
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:55,839
Like people really just like scream at each other and

490
00:25:55,880 --> 00:26:00,400
it salt each other so they get divorced, and like

491
00:26:00,519 --> 00:26:03,759
the dad would was like a you know, back then

492
00:26:04,839 --> 00:26:07,119
you were like I wrote a story about this in

493
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:09,759
a book. I called it every other Sunday Dad, because

494
00:26:09,799 --> 00:26:14,720
it was not like this joint custody dads. You did

495
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:16,559
not hear from them most of the time. It was

496
00:26:16,599 --> 00:26:19,039
like maybe once a week, but most dads were like

497
00:26:19,079 --> 00:26:21,519
every other week, you know. But anyway, I remember one

498
00:26:21,559 --> 00:26:24,160
time her dad was like, I'm going to take you

499
00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:27,119
out on a boat. That's gonna be our big, our thing,

500
00:26:27,279 --> 00:26:30,559
and he took me too. We had the best time.

501
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:34,680
I mean, I remember listening to like cassette tapes, like

502
00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:37,039
we had a little tape player. We lay on the

503
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:39,799
roof of the boat and tan I mean I was

504
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:45,519
probably twelve, maybe thirteen, and then we were setting like

505
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:48,480
lobster traps. Anyway, we were out for like a week

506
00:26:48,839 --> 00:26:51,440
doing that, having the best time, and then we but

507
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:54,720
then we couldn't get home because Mount Saint Helens erupted,

508
00:26:55,079 --> 00:26:58,880
remember that, sung, I remember, So we got stuck out

509
00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:03,279
in the Puget Sound. You couldn't re We could dock

510
00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:05,960
the boat, but we couldn't get I lived in Spokane,

511
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:08,759
so we were we couldn't get back into the city.

512
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:13,240
It was like and then yeah, so but I remember

513
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:15,880
thinking it was so cool because like I was already

514
00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:17,960
having a great time. I was in no rush to

515
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:20,599
get back to class, right of course, anyway, the schools

516
00:27:20,599 --> 00:27:23,839
were closed, and then by the time we were able

517
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:26,200
to get back in there was just like everything was

518
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:29,400
covered in ash and you had to wear masks. And yeah,

519
00:27:30,039 --> 00:27:33,079
there were no people that were like, I don't believe

520
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:33,839
in masks.

521
00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 1: Everybody was wearing masks. Yeah, so how wait, how long

522
00:27:39,039 --> 00:27:39,839
were you out there?

523
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:43,119
Speaker 2: So we got stuck. I think the trip was supposed

524
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:45,319
to be like a week and we ended up not

525
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:47,960
come I think we were there for twelve days, so

526
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:50,880
it was like another like five days of not being

527
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:54,359
able to come back in so but I don't remember

528
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:57,160
it being a bad thing at all. I remember thinking like,

529
00:27:57,359 --> 00:28:00,000
oh yeah, yeah, the best thing that could have hapen.

530
00:28:00,519 --> 00:28:02,400
Like I never wanted to come back. I was having

531
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:03,400
so much fun.

532
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:06,720
Speaker 1: Right, I love dads that would take us on vacations

533
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:09,640
and stuff, like my next door neighbor would go camping.

534
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:13,039
I wasn't allowed. My mom wouldn't let me go. But

535
00:28:13,079 --> 00:28:16,079
then as I got older, I went one time and

536
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:18,039
I had so much fun. It was it was the

537
00:28:18,039 --> 00:28:20,039
one time I went camping when I was a kid,

538
00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:22,960
and the best time. And then when we got when

539
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,240
I got older, like in my nineteen twenties, we would

540
00:28:26,279 --> 00:28:28,279
go camping. I would go camping with these guys. We

541
00:28:28,319 --> 00:28:32,160
would go to Millerton Lake or have Asou or whatever,

542
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:35,640
and you know, no money back then. Now like Glenn's

543
00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:38,640
boats got all the speakers, He's got place, you know,

544
00:28:38,839 --> 00:28:41,880
yacht rock. We called it rape rock at one point

545
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:47,880
because she's only seventeen, like, oh god, you know, but

546
00:28:48,839 --> 00:28:51,400
has the music and everything and just it was just

547
00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:54,359
like so great, you know. Then we floated. Then we

548
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:57,279
stopped in a cove, and I was really proud of

549
00:28:57,319 --> 00:29:00,680
Mike because Mike would always jump off off the rocks,

550
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,039
like do the rock. But that morning we went and

551
00:29:03,079 --> 00:29:06,319
got coffee. He was telling me that his friend jumped,

552
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:11,240
horrible jumped from a rock in La Asu and landed

553
00:29:11,279 --> 00:29:15,200
in such a way on his aorda vein and it

554
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:20,640
just basically broke, like snapped, and he came up from

555
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:25,039
water and was talking and then just went down under yeah,

556
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:29,359
and died. And they thought and then they found out

557
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,839
that he had a weak a orda. He just didn't

558
00:29:31,839 --> 00:29:34,640
know it, and eventually something would have happened where he

559
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:38,759
would have died. But that did it. And then Glenn

560
00:29:38,759 --> 00:29:40,839
had a friend or somebody was talking about another guy

561
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:44,200
did it and was coughing up like broke a long

562
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:47,720
punctured as long. It was coughing up blood. And Mike

563
00:29:47,839 --> 00:29:49,680
was like, yeah, I'm not gonna I'm i gonna jump

564
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:52,240
off them and we were like, you know, good, don't

565
00:29:52,359 --> 00:29:54,960
and he was like, nah, I'm too old for that. Shit.

566
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:58,880
Speaker 2: That is just how I feel about a lot of things.

567
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,920
I'm too old for that. All going to do that.

568
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,559
Speaker 1: That's why nobody wanted a water ski we're just having fun,

569
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:07,519
just you know, driving the boat, going to a cove.

570
00:30:07,799 --> 00:30:10,559
And then and then if Glenn's got all the floaties.

571
00:30:10,799 --> 00:30:13,319
You know, he's got three daughters and a son. You know,

572
00:30:13,359 --> 00:30:16,960
they're in their teenagers, you know, and so in fact

573
00:30:17,039 --> 00:30:19,400
he's going speaking of dad's you know, he's taken his

574
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:22,920
daughters and they're friends in a trip, like in a

575
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:25,240
couple of weeks to the house, you know where he's

576
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:28,599
just taking them for the weekends. So sweet. And we

577
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:30,759
talked a little bit out on my Patreon about that.

578
00:30:31,119 --> 00:30:34,000
But I just love seeing these guys that I grew

579
00:30:34,079 --> 00:30:37,720
up with who were assholes to girls when they were young,

580
00:30:38,279 --> 00:30:41,000
and now it's like Karma's a bitch because they're all

581
00:30:41,119 --> 00:30:45,039
dads with girls, like with daughters and guys that want

582
00:30:45,079 --> 00:30:49,119
to date their daughter, you know, and like just being

583
00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:53,680
great dads, you know, just so so great, so proud

584
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:53,839
of you.

585
00:30:54,839 --> 00:30:58,079
Speaker 2: And I I could be wrong because I'm not exposed

586
00:30:58,119 --> 00:31:02,559
to everything, but I feel like these days boys.

587
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:06,480
Speaker 1: Girls you were talking about that, really, Yes, my friend

588
00:31:06,559 --> 00:31:10,839
Craig's got a son so cute. He's gonna be graduating

589
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:15,119
high school. He's eighteen, and he does acting. He does

590
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:17,839
he's gotten some gigs like for Disney and stuff like that,

591
00:31:18,319 --> 00:31:22,119
and he's just very respectful. Because Craig was like, when

592
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:25,319
you go on a date, ask them questions about themselves.

593
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,279
People like to talk about themselves. Which was funny because

594
00:31:29,039 --> 00:31:31,599
Natalia got asked out on a date and this guy

595
00:31:32,079 --> 00:31:34,319
she thought he was really cute. He's a basketball player

596
00:31:34,319 --> 00:31:36,720
and he took her out on a date and she's like,

597
00:31:37,079 --> 00:31:39,839
he's so quiet. I had to do all the talking.

598
00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:42,160
And I was telling that to Craig and he was like, yeah,

599
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:45,319
I teach my son like don't don't do that, like whatnot,

600
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:48,680
you know, and be very gentleman. You know. Yeah, the

601
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:52,759
boys these days are different. I think there are at

602
00:31:52,839 --> 00:31:56,519
least the boys that Sunny Natalia hang out with, they're

603
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:58,799
you know, very respectful.

604
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:04,200
Speaker 2: So sweet to his girlfriend. Yes see, she treats her

605
00:32:04,279 --> 00:32:07,920
like gold. I'm always like, wow, you're like a really

606
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:08,839
sweet boyfriend.

607
00:32:09,039 --> 00:32:09,720
Speaker 1: I love that.

608
00:32:10,039 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 2: I know, it's so cute to see.

609
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's great.

610
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:17,960
Speaker 2: The only ones that aren't sweet is in my estimation.

611
00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:21,440
And like, maybe I'll piss off some some listeners who

612
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:24,599
have sons who are in frats, but these frat boys

613
00:32:24,599 --> 00:32:25,640
are not getting better.

614
00:32:25,839 --> 00:32:28,559
Speaker 1: That's the things I talked to Natalia a lot about

615
00:32:28,599 --> 00:32:31,799
these frat boys, and she that's why she doesn't want

616
00:32:31,839 --> 00:32:36,599
to go to a uh a frat house drunk or

617
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:40,240
anything like that, because she's seen firsthand, like you know,

618
00:32:40,279 --> 00:32:43,200
how girls get treated and stuff, and she doesn't like it.

619
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:46,039
And she only is like her now, she has really

620
00:32:46,079 --> 00:32:50,119
good guy friends that she's I've heard many stories how

621
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:53,480
they treat Natalia and I like that, like they look

622
00:32:53,519 --> 00:32:55,960
out for her and stuff like that. I I'm they're

623
00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:58,279
like her mic and Glens, you know what I mean.

624
00:32:58,319 --> 00:33:01,359
And so I love that, and you know, she just

625
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:03,680
you have to be careful. But yeah, some of the

626
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:06,480
frat guys can be when you hear these stories about

627
00:33:06,519 --> 00:33:08,400
the hazing and stuff, just douchebags.

628
00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah.

629
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:12,240
Speaker 1: And that's another thing, Like Sonny doesn't like to go

630
00:33:12,319 --> 00:33:15,400
visit Natalia because he's like, you know, Natalia wants to

631
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:17,720
introduce me to all her friends, and I just don't.

632
00:33:17,759 --> 00:33:20,599
I don't like guys like that. It's just not my thing.

633
00:33:21,359 --> 00:33:22,920
Like I get it, I get it, you know.

634
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:27,640
Speaker 2: Yeah. So so she went on a date and Natalia,

635
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:29,160
but he didn't do a lot of talking.

636
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:32,839
Speaker 1: He didn't do a lot of talking, super cute black

637
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:36,839
really like he was a gentleman to her, because that's

638
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:40,440
how she met her friends, like threw her over the

639
00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:43,400
fence at a frat party to get into the party.

640
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:46,200
She knew they were who they were, but they were

641
00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:48,359
all like a group of them going. They threw her

642
00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:52,880
over and she fell and this guy like six foot

643
00:33:53,039 --> 00:33:56,000
something really tall, like helped her up and he's like,

644
00:33:56,039 --> 00:33:58,200
are you okay? Are you okay? And she you know,

645
00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:00,759
scraped her knee and everything, and he told like helped

646
00:34:00,759 --> 00:34:03,559
her and you know, got her something some water and

647
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:06,799
helped her with her knee and then exchange numbers and

648
00:34:06,839 --> 00:34:08,599
she's like, I totally. She sent me a picture. He's

649
00:34:08,639 --> 00:34:11,760
really cute. And she's like we've been talking back and

650
00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:14,400
forth on text and she's like, I don't want a boyfriend.

651
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:16,400
I told him that, but I like to date, you know.

652
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:19,840
And she's like, we're gonna go on our date. He's gonna,

653
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:21,400
I don't know. They took her. He took her to

654
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:23,719
an Italian restaurant and she's like, I said, how was

655
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:27,039
it all? He didn't talk like I had to do

656
00:34:27,079 --> 00:34:29,760
all the talking. It was like and it was like

657
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:34,119
small talk and for her that's torturous. Like she loves

658
00:34:34,679 --> 00:34:38,039
guys that are, you know, outgoing, have a personality. She

659
00:34:38,039 --> 00:34:41,239
wants to marry somebody like Phil Dunfie from Modern Family,

660
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:43,559
Like she had a poster of him when she was

661
00:34:43,559 --> 00:34:46,840
a teenager. She's like, that's that's what I want. But

662
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:51,039
she's like super nice. But I told him like, you know, uh,

663
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:53,480
and I said he didn't ghost him, did you? And

664
00:34:53,519 --> 00:34:56,440
she's like, I kind of did. But but then I

665
00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:58,719
was like, you know, he asked. I think he asked

666
00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:02,519
her and send her another text. She was like, you know, thanks,

667
00:35:02,519 --> 00:35:04,400
but no, thanks kind of in a nice way.

668
00:35:05,159 --> 00:35:08,079
Speaker 2: Well that's good that she was straightforward. I don't know.

669
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:11,639
I can't decide about ghosting.

670
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 1: If like I know, sometimes I feel like it's.

671
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:17,440
Speaker 2: The kinder way. I think a lot of people really

672
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:21,559
don't like being ghosted. I feel like, God, just the

673
00:35:21,639 --> 00:35:27,199
whole like, yeah, I'm just not interested. That's almost worse

674
00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:30,079
than just imagining that maybe something heavy fell on them

675
00:35:30,519 --> 00:35:36,599
right get to you, maybe they died. I don't know,

676
00:35:37,199 --> 00:35:40,719
I would just but I mean, yes, okay, if you've

677
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:44,079
been on like a few dates, then that's I guess

678
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:47,480
ghosting isn't appropriate even though I think I might still

679
00:35:47,599 --> 00:35:51,599
rather be ghosted, but and I just rather ghost. It's

680
00:35:51,679 --> 00:35:52,360
just so hard.

681
00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:54,800
Speaker 1: Everybody I think would rather ghost. Yeah.

682
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:59,320
Speaker 2: I was telling LB recently, should we do Let's do

683
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:01,400
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684
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:06,320
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685
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:08,800
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686
00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:13,199
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687
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:16,400
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688
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:20,079
for myself all the time because that's my mascara. It's

689
00:36:20,119 --> 00:36:24,320
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690
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:26,920
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691
00:36:27,159 --> 00:36:29,400
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692
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:32,159
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693
00:36:32,199 --> 00:36:35,039
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694
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Speaker 2: I remember before we started doing ads for them, I

695
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I get it now, and I haven't used anything else since.

698
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:47,920
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699
00:36:48,199 --> 00:36:52,880
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and she has a whole list. She goes, she went,

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do lists. You just click it and it's done. It

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makes it really really simple, you know.

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742
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c O L. Yeah, I was going to tell you

743
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:39,840
that I was that. I was having a conversation with

744
00:39:40,079 --> 00:39:45,239
LB about go literally about ghosting, about how uncomfortable it

745
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:47,519
is to like tell somebody that you don't want to

746
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:53,800
state them right, because she had a guy send her

747
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:57,960
like paragraph after paragraph about like that she nothing had

748
00:39:58,000 --> 00:40:02,039
really happened between them but then and basically she had

749
00:40:02,079 --> 00:40:05,280
to say, I am sorry, I just want to be friends,

750
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:06,960
like I'm not interested, and she was like it was

751
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:09,400
so hard, and I said I had so much trouble

752
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:11,400
with that when I was young, when I was like

753
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:15,480
in my early twenties living in LA had moved to LA,

754
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:19,000
that I dated this guy a couple couple of times

755
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:22,039
and he just kept calling and kept calling, and I

756
00:40:22,079 --> 00:40:24,920
was like what am I going to do? And my

757
00:40:25,159 --> 00:40:27,280
roommate at the time was like, do you want me

758
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:29,800
to tell him? Like I'll just pretend to be you.

759
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:33,880
So she called him Dan. He did not know the

760
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:37,360
difference the different voice. She called him and was like, Hey,

761
00:40:37,519 --> 00:40:41,239
it's Stephanie. And then she was like listen, like I'm

762
00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:43,840
was like not feeling it right now and like I

763
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:46,719
just would rather be friends. And I was just sitting

764
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:50,440
there going wow, like and that's the way to go.

765
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:53,800
And she said she just she just let him down easy.

766
00:40:54,519 --> 00:40:58,559
And I was like, wow, thank you so much to her.

767
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:01,519
And I was just like, how did he take it?

768
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:04,320
You know? She told me he never said like this

769
00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:07,199
isn't Stephanie never crazy.

770
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:10,880
Speaker 1: Well there you go. You know, he doesn't know the

771
00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:13,599
difference in your voice and he's not worth having around

772
00:41:13,639 --> 00:41:14,440
anymore anyway.

773
00:41:15,599 --> 00:41:16,679
Speaker 2: No, I guess not.

774
00:41:17,119 --> 00:41:19,519
Speaker 1: But that's what That's what these kids, that's what Elbie

775
00:41:19,519 --> 00:41:19,880
should do.

776
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:22,239
Speaker 2: Have a have a friend do it. I know I

777
00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:23,079
have somebody.

778
00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:25,119
Speaker 1: Else do it. The thing nobody calls and talks to

779
00:41:25,159 --> 00:41:26,719
people anymore, it's all they don't.

780
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:30,239
Speaker 2: They all do text. Yeah. But the thing that used

781
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:33,119
to be upsetting to me when I was younger was

782
00:41:33,519 --> 00:41:35,599
when you would date somebody. You'd go on a date,

783
00:41:36,119 --> 00:41:39,480
and my method of getting rid of them was always

784
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:41,280
to just try to be a huge bitch and like

785
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:43,559
hope that they didn't want to see me again. But

786
00:41:43,679 --> 00:41:46,480
some of these guys, they don't care like you go

787
00:41:46,519 --> 00:41:48,760
out with them. They decide they like you. Even though

788
00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:52,239
I didn't have a good time, then you somehow, maybe

789
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:55,000
you go out a second time. Or whatever, and then

790
00:41:55,039 --> 00:41:57,039
you or I'd start being a bitch on the phone

791
00:41:57,159 --> 00:42:00,519
or whatever. But when I was really young and could

792
00:42:00,559 --> 00:42:03,360
afford to be a bit because I was cute, yeah, yeah,

793
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:05,280
and they would put up with it, right, But you

794
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:07,480
would hope that they'd be like, well, god, this girl

795
00:42:07,559 --> 00:42:10,559
is not interested, she's cut, But no, they wouldn't. And

796
00:42:10,599 --> 00:42:12,880
then let's say you went on another date and you're like,

797
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:16,079
I'm just gonna be really distant and bitching the whole time,

798
00:42:16,559 --> 00:42:18,159
and then like you get flowers.

799
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:21,320
Speaker 1: This is a I did the same.

800
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:21,599
Speaker 3: Oh.

801
00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:26,599
Speaker 1: I had this guy Rob and he was he was

802
00:42:26,639 --> 00:42:29,079
really cute back in the day, and we were young,

803
00:42:29,119 --> 00:42:32,920
and Suzanne had a crush on him, but he had

804
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:36,239
a crush on me, and I didn't want anything to

805
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:38,760
so I pretended like I didn't have it. I was like, yeah,

806
00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:41,159
I don't know what. But then he kept hitting on me,

807
00:42:41,519 --> 00:42:45,519
and so eventually, uh, I guess I can't remember. I

808
00:42:45,599 --> 00:42:47,679
must have told Suzanne like I think I'm gonna go on.

809
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:49,440
I think I'm gonna go out with him. So I

810
00:42:49,519 --> 00:42:51,079
went on a date with him and he was such

811
00:42:51,119 --> 00:42:56,119
a dud, same thing, no personality, but really into me,

812
00:42:56,559 --> 00:42:59,519
Like you could tell like showed up at Pierce College

813
00:43:00,079 --> 00:43:03,280
when he knew I had class and was like, meet

814
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:06,280
me outside by my car, and I would be like,

815
00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:08,760
I do you know? Yeah, it's good to say and

816
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:11,960
super nice and everything nothing wrong. Cute guy, but just

817
00:43:12,519 --> 00:43:16,199
no personality, not for me at all. And then eventually

818
00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:19,519
he kept calling and I'd say, like, my mom's home,

819
00:43:19,559 --> 00:43:21,840
I can't talk and then hang up. And then he

820
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:24,519
knew when my mom was at home, so I eventually

821
00:43:24,519 --> 00:43:26,320
I got mad at him and I started being a

822
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:29,159
bitch to him, and then if he came on stronger

823
00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:30,960
and then kept calling, and then finally got to the

824
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:33,199
point where I just go watch this. My friend would

825
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:35,320
be over and I go answer the phone. He go,

826
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:37,400
hey click. I just hang up on him and you

827
00:43:37,519 --> 00:43:41,079
ring again. He'd say, hey click, I I don't want

828
00:43:41,079 --> 00:43:43,880
to talk, click click, and then I just let it ring.

829
00:43:44,079 --> 00:43:47,480
And then eventually I just unplugged the phone, like he

830
00:43:47,679 --> 00:43:50,199
just the more I was mean, the more he came

831
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:54,320
on to me. Right it was yes, So I guess

832
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:59,480
that's old school way of ghosting.

833
00:43:59,679 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 2: Get this going not interested.

834
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:05,599
Speaker 1: I know that you can't go back, then now you

835
00:44:05,679 --> 00:44:06,880
know you can't.

836
00:44:07,559 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 2: But I remember getting flowers and the guy writing on

837
00:44:11,039 --> 00:44:13,480
the note or whatever, like I had such an amazing

838
00:44:13,519 --> 00:44:14,559
time last night, and I.

839
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:16,519
Speaker 1: Was like, how is that possible?

840
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:18,159
Speaker 2: What date were you on?

841
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:19,079
Speaker 3: No?

842
00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:21,239
Speaker 2: Not the same date that I was on, where I

843
00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:23,960
was just being totally quiet and like kind of rude,

844
00:44:25,159 --> 00:44:27,239
like right, And then it makes you like them even

845
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:29,880
less because you're like, well, if you can't, you're not

846
00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:32,159
even in tune with how I'm feeling at all.

847
00:44:32,199 --> 00:44:35,800
Speaker 1: Right exactly, of course, Yeah, and then you start losing

848
00:44:35,840 --> 00:44:37,079
a little respect for them.

849
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:39,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, it would be better if they had said, like, wow,

850
00:44:40,039 --> 00:44:42,920
you were kind of distant, like if you're not into this,

851
00:44:43,119 --> 00:44:45,559
just tell me. Then I might be like, oh maybe

852
00:44:45,599 --> 00:44:47,239
I'm a little bit interested. I don't know. You kind

853
00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:49,199
of noticed, how, But yeah.

854
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:52,719
Speaker 1: I remember Don and Don and Glenn dated and Glenn

855
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:56,519
such an asshole eventually to her, and she, well, she

856
00:44:56,679 --> 00:44:58,679
was psycho and she'll admit it too. She would. She

857
00:44:58,679 --> 00:45:01,840
would be totally psycho and do crazy things, like she'd

858
00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:05,519
show up at his house and like like spy on him,

859
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:07,760
and like he'd be with a girl and a girl go,

860
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:10,639
why are there red boots sticking out of your bushes?

861
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:14,800
And he'd be like down, get out, of here, and

862
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:17,079
I'd go with her too to like drive by and

863
00:45:17,159 --> 00:45:19,480
like spy. We would do all that because we lived

864
00:45:19,519 --> 00:45:22,079
in the same neighborhood. And at one point, I remember

865
00:45:22,119 --> 00:45:24,119
he would go he would call her Psycho. He go,

866
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:26,159
he'd answer the phone and go, what did you put

867
00:45:26,199 --> 00:45:29,199
in my teen Norman? Like he would, you know, like

868
00:45:29,559 --> 00:45:30,360
she was the psycho.

869
00:45:30,559 --> 00:45:30,719
Speaker 2: You know.

870
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:33,639
Speaker 1: He just kept hanging up on her too, and she

871
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:37,159
just she was just a glutton for punishment. But yeah,

872
00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:39,880
you just grow out of it. And now he's got

873
00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:40,599
four daughters.

874
00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:46,280
Speaker 2: Okay, one more. I remember I was I was kind

875
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:49,559
of dating this guy, and I had this friend who

876
00:45:49,639 --> 00:45:50,480
was kind of psycho.

877
00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:51,639
Speaker 1: Uh huh.

878
00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:55,519
Speaker 2: So I liked this guy little. Okay, Oh my god,

879
00:45:55,559 --> 00:45:57,760
this is like a this is kind of a crazy story.

880
00:45:58,039 --> 00:46:00,719
So I had this friend who was not a good friend,

881
00:46:01,079 --> 00:46:05,280
but at the time I thought she was. Okay, She's

882
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:08,559
the kind of girl that never really got the guy,

883
00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:10,719
and you kind of felt sorry, you kind of felt

884
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:14,000
bad for her. But there was there was a guy.

885
00:46:14,119 --> 00:46:18,400
We were young comedians, and I met this guy. Oh

886
00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:23,880
my god, okay, who was let's just say this. He

887
00:46:24,079 --> 00:46:28,039
was the cousin of somebody very famous at the time. Okay,

888
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:32,280
so when we met him, we were like, oh, like

889
00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:35,199
he anyway, but he was brand new in town and

890
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:37,039
we sort of like took him in and we were

891
00:46:37,039 --> 00:46:39,320
like hanging out with him, and then he liked me

892
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:43,199
and he was really cute, so I kind of liked

893
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:46,320
him back, and we were kind of dating. But I

894
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:48,679
wasn't like, oh, I want this guy to be my boyfriend.

895
00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:51,840
Little did I know that the other friend, the other

896
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:56,639
girl was like in love with him, had just decided

897
00:46:56,679 --> 00:46:59,159
like she was in love with him, right, so she

898
00:46:59,199 --> 00:47:01,760
would pay like a little too much attention to him.

899
00:47:02,079 --> 00:47:04,599
And by the way I was dating him, like I started,

900
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:07,639
I was sleeping with him, like it was like beyond

901
00:47:08,079 --> 00:47:09,800
like we just went on a date and we're hanging

902
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:14,599
out like we were dating. But she was always finding

903
00:47:14,639 --> 00:47:17,559
an excuse to like come with us places, you know,

904
00:47:18,079 --> 00:47:20,400
and I'm not gonna make it. We weren't like boyfriend

905
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:22,599
and girlfriend for a long time, but we let's say

906
00:47:22,639 --> 00:47:25,960
this was like six weeks going on. So one night,

907
00:47:27,079 --> 00:47:32,159
this girl goes out tells me, oh, there was somehow

908
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:34,679
I had to work. There were some we were all going

909
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:36,079
to go out, but I had to work, and she

910
00:47:36,199 --> 00:47:39,679
was like, well, I'm gonna take him out. I'll take

911
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:42,559
him out. Oh, And she wasn't like that much of

912
00:47:42,599 --> 00:47:46,719
a threat, so I was like, okay, you know, but

913
00:47:47,679 --> 00:47:51,679
they disappeared. They totally disappeared. And so he was supposed

914
00:47:51,719 --> 00:47:53,400
to call me as soon as he got back, and

915
00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:54,920
they were just going to go hang out at this

916
00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:57,559
like bar that we all hung out at. Never heard

917
00:47:57,559 --> 00:48:00,039
from them. It's like two in the morning. Still I

918
00:48:00,159 --> 00:48:02,400
never heard from him. Oh, because he was supposed to

919
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:06,280
meet me. He was supposed to meet me after work. Well,

920
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:09,039
it turned out this girl was so psycho that she

921
00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:14,599
pretended to run at a gas or pretended that a

922
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:16,840
car broke down. I can't remember, it was one or

923
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:20,280
the other. Out somewhere like in the middle. They they'd

924
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:23,119
gone on a drive. Listen. I don't know who was

925
00:48:23,159 --> 00:48:26,199
the worst asshole in this situation, but I think it

926
00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:31,000
was perfect right and then, and they never told me.

927
00:48:31,199 --> 00:48:34,239
It turned out that they did start sleeping together, but

928
00:48:34,639 --> 00:48:37,559
at that time I didn't know. I was steaming mad.

929
00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:41,119
So he ends up calling me later. There weren't cell

930
00:48:41,159 --> 00:48:45,079
phones at the time. So he finally gets home, but

931
00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:47,840
like it's like three in the morning and calls me,

932
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:51,039
and he's like, I'm so sorry. Oh, I had to

933
00:48:51,079 --> 00:48:53,199
work and they were supposed to come to my This

934
00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:54,960
is what it was. I was working at a bar.

935
00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:57,039
They were gonna they were going to go out and

936
00:48:57,079 --> 00:48:58,960
hang out and then come to the bar where I

937
00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:01,559
was working, and then never showed up. So then I

938
00:49:01,639 --> 00:49:04,880
was getting upset. Then I went home, didn't hear from him.

939
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:07,679
He never came over. Then like at three or four

940
00:49:07,679 --> 00:49:10,719
o'clock in the morning, he calls me, I'm so sorry,

941
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this is what happened. But so I was really mad,

942
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and I didn't find out untill later that she had

943
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been totally after him and was like having sex with him.

944
00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:23,119
But at one point I remember, and this just reminded

945
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me of what you said, that he had come over

946
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to my house and she came over and then she

947
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:32,280
went and we were like hanging out. I lived in

948
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a townhouse, so there were stairs, so she'd gone upstairs.

949
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She was like, I have to go to the bathroom whatever,

950
00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:39,679
and she went up upstairs and then she didn't realize

951
00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:43,639
that she was wearing these boots and she had was

952
00:49:43,679 --> 00:49:47,400
sitting at the top of the stairs like spying on us.

953
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But the way my vantage point was I could see

954
00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:55,079
her boots on the stairs, like she was sitting on

955
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the stairs and you could just see these two boots,

956
00:49:57,119 --> 00:49:59,320
and I was like, dude, what the fuck?

957
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Speaker 1: And that's so Dawn.

958
00:50:02,079 --> 00:50:04,920
Speaker 2: I would call her like Tanya. I was like, so

959
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me and the guy whose name was Matt, I was like, Matt, look,

960
00:50:10,039 --> 00:50:13,719
I pointed the boots and she's just sitting ohh. And

961
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I was so weird it out. But then, of course

962
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I find out later that she had totally started sleeping

963
00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:22,519
with him wow, which was, by the way, fine because

964
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I didn't really like him that much. He was kind

965
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of a dud. So I was done with him and

966
00:50:26,079 --> 00:50:28,360
I was like, good, you can have it. But I

967
00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:32,800
was really mad, right right. Of course, she pretended that

968
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her freaking car broke down or that she ran out

969
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of gas.

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Speaker 1: That's see, that's the kind of psycho shit Don would do.

971
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But it was fun because when Glenn would get a

972
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new girlfriend, we'd be born and Don go like, let's

973
00:50:45,599 --> 00:50:47,840
go spy on them, let's go key her car, which

974
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:50,000
we never did, but like that kind of stuff, like

975
00:50:50,199 --> 00:50:52,880
like fuck with Glenn kind of thing, you know, and

976
00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:56,280
they would fight Allan's dream now, like Glenn loves down

977
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and it's.

978
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Speaker 2: Like a totally right, it's not even was it's Emily.

979
00:51:00,119 --> 00:51:02,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like family. It's so funny.

980
00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:06,920
Speaker 2: Now before we wrap, Kaylin, how is Amy's Mother's Day?

981
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Speaker 3: Yes, it was nice. It was you know, we live

982
00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:13,239
with you know, her parents, so it was kind of

983
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:14,719
like a joint mother's day thing.

984
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:16,119
Speaker 2: So how is Amy's mom's mother?

985
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:20,159
Speaker 3: Yeah, Amy's brother came over and cooked on the grill

986
00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:22,559
and you know, we had dinner, and you know, I

987
00:51:22,599 --> 00:51:24,800
took the girls out. The girls had made her things

988
00:51:24,840 --> 00:51:27,559
at school and then I took them out. She slept

989
00:51:27,599 --> 00:51:29,239
in and I took the girls out to the store

990
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:32,079
and got some flowers and stuff, and uh yeah, the

991
00:51:32,079 --> 00:51:34,199
girls just kind of played outside most of the day.

992
00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:38,280
And yeah, they we have one of those like kiddie pool,

993
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:40,920
of those big kiddie pools, and I have a boogie board,

994
00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:42,599
and I put the boogiey board in the kiddie pool

995
00:51:42,639 --> 00:51:46,320
and Ilo just hours and hours and hours she was

996
00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:49,679
playing on that billyboard like yeah, like pretending to surf.

997
00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:51,679
Speaker 1: Kids love that kind of stuff.

998
00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:54,639
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, that's getting into a good age.

999
00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:55,480
Speaker 1: M h.

1000
00:51:56,800 --> 00:52:01,039
Speaker 2: Although they're they're five, turning six and turning five.

1001
00:52:01,119 --> 00:52:02,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you're getting there, Kaylin.

1002
00:52:04,079 --> 00:52:07,559
Speaker 2: Once there's six and five, I feel like things will

1003
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be even better.

1004
00:52:09,199 --> 00:52:12,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's pretty it's pretty good now, it's it's yeah,

1005
00:52:12,559 --> 00:52:15,519
it's you know, you can take places and just let

1006
00:52:15,559 --> 00:52:17,039
them go do what they want to do. You don't

1007
00:52:17,039 --> 00:52:18,679
have to be hovering over them all the time. Although

1008
00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:21,840
Blake insists I come with her for everything.

1009
00:52:22,159 --> 00:52:23,960
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's ITALI.

1010
00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:26,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, but uh yeah, no, it's good. It's good now.

1011
00:52:26,679 --> 00:52:29,119
Speaker 2: Is there is there still a lot of like watch me?

1012
00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:32,719
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, watch me? Yeah, that phrase was said over

1013
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:36,239
one hundred times while I was I'm sitting outside looking

1014
00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:38,280
at the kiddie pool with the board in it, and

1015
00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:40,679
she's like, watch me watching I'm like, I'm what do

1016
00:52:40,679 --> 00:52:42,480
you What do you think I'm doing? That's what I'm

1017
00:52:42,599 --> 00:52:45,800
I'm sitting here looking at you. It's like. And then

1018
00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:47,800
they start fighting over it, and Blake would have to

1019
00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:50,559
go inside and then cool off and then come back

1020
00:52:50,599 --> 00:52:51,079
out again.

1021
00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:56,559
Speaker 2: And yeah, is Blake more feisty than Isla or opposite?

1022
00:52:56,920 --> 00:53:01,199
Speaker 3: Uh yeah, she will. She'll blow up quicker, and she'll

1023
00:53:01,239 --> 00:53:03,800
be more explosive all of a sudden, you know what

1024
00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:10,920
I mean. So yeah, I love push Blake down and

1025
00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:13,599
then at another point Blake hit her in the face.

1026
00:53:14,079 --> 00:53:16,639
So I think they had enough of each other by

1027
00:53:16,639 --> 00:53:24,679
the end of the day's.

1028
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:27,440
Speaker 2: Day pow pow. We had pizza, both of us. Yeah,

1029
00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:28,880
would you guys? Oh so you grilled?

1030
00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:32,199
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was just chips and guac and salsa to start,

1031
00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:36,880
and then it was like, uh, karaokee chicken and beef

1032
00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:41,880
with rice and yeah, you know the Blackstone grills. Do

1033
00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:44,480
you know what those grills are? It's like a flat

1034
00:53:44,519 --> 00:53:48,079
top instead of a grill. So yeah, so Ammy's dad

1035
00:53:48,079 --> 00:53:49,800
had gotten one of those a few months ago, so

1036
00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:51,239
we've been using that thing.

1037
00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:53,039
Speaker 1: But you can still use it for a grill too.

1038
00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:55,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I don't know if you can cook

1039
00:53:56,079 --> 00:53:59,039
everything on it, then you would like on a grill.

1040
00:53:59,159 --> 00:54:01,880
Like I definitely googled, like how to make chicken wings

1041
00:54:01,880 --> 00:54:03,760
on the Blackstone and they're like, no, it doesn't really,

1042
00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:05,400
it doesn't really do chicken wings very well.

1043
00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:05,960
Speaker 2: Oh really.

1044
00:54:06,039 --> 00:54:07,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, you can't cook like everything, but you can cook

1045
00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:10,760
a lot of stuff. It's really good for, like you know,

1046
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:12,840
if you have if you're making like fried rice or something,

1047
00:54:12,920 --> 00:54:15,639
and it's like a Benny Hanna table almost and you're right. Yeah,

1048
00:54:16,039 --> 00:54:18,039
it's good if you're making like a or like a

1049
00:54:18,039 --> 00:54:20,199
breakfast brito and you're putting all the eggs and stuff

1050
00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:22,239
in it, and so that's what it's really good for.

1051
00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:25,039
But yeah, you can make most things that grill can.

1052
00:54:25,119 --> 00:54:25,880
Speaker 1: That's awesome.

1053
00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:27,480
Speaker 2: What about like burgers.

1054
00:54:27,719 --> 00:54:29,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, we do burgers and hot dogs on it.

1055
00:54:30,519 --> 00:54:33,039
Speaker 2: I have an electric girl is that kind of the

1056
00:54:33,039 --> 00:54:36,440
same thing. It's like that. It's like a flat grill

1057
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:38,639
and you plug it in. It's like a Foreman but

1058
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:41,039
without a cap, like it doesn't have a lid.

1059
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:44,599
Speaker 3: Yeah. No, this one's like a full on gas grill,

1060
00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:46,599
big outside.

1061
00:54:46,519 --> 00:54:46,880
Speaker 2: Got it.

1062
00:54:46,960 --> 00:54:49,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, I should get one of those for the summer.

1063
00:54:50,159 --> 00:54:52,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, I should start. I should really start just making

1064
00:54:52,639 --> 00:54:55,079
fried rice, like just do bit full Benny Hanna meals

1065
00:54:55,480 --> 00:54:57,639
since Benny Hanna has gotten very expensive.

1066
00:54:58,519 --> 00:55:01,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, we have a Benny Hanna stock aisle like Benny

1067
00:55:01,519 --> 00:55:07,039
Hanna near us, And yeah, we we would take them.

1068
00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:09,360
The kids they're like, oh, this is fun, look at

1069
00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:11,119
them doing the things. And then like the third or

1070
00:55:11,119 --> 00:55:12,920
fourth time we take them, it's like me and Amy

1071
00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:16,199
couldn't eat because there's so many like Okay, here's your rice,

1072
00:55:16,239 --> 00:55:18,559
here's your salad, here's your soup, here's they're cooking this

1073
00:55:19,119 --> 00:55:23,119
the whole meal? Is us just taking plates away from

1074
00:55:23,159 --> 00:55:25,440
them and managing our little spaces that we were like,

1075
00:55:25,519 --> 00:55:28,679
I don't think this is worth it. It's like three

1076
00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:31,800
hundred dollars bill, we barely eat. They're not an air

1077
00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:34,480
with it anymore, like right, yeah.

1078
00:55:35,159 --> 00:55:37,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was better for me, BENI Hannah was better

1079
00:55:37,880 --> 00:55:40,000
for me when the kids were at an age where

1080
00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:42,480
they could eat off the kids menu but still be

1081
00:55:42,559 --> 00:55:45,360
self contained, like, but they didn't need that much food.

1082
00:55:45,760 --> 00:55:49,559
But now that everybody's an adult and eating grown up portions,

1083
00:55:49,679 --> 00:55:52,039
it's like, wow, is that expensive?

1084
00:55:52,079 --> 00:55:54,800
Speaker 1: And is it really that worth it for the visuals? Really?

1085
00:55:54,880 --> 00:55:57,199
And I don't like sitting at a table at strangers either.

1086
00:56:00,119 --> 00:56:03,519
Speaker 2: He always put John near the strangers because he will

1087
00:56:03,559 --> 00:56:05,559
like that's the time where he sort of comes alive

1088
00:56:05,639 --> 00:56:06,639
and like makes friends.

1089
00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:10,920
Speaker 1: That's good. You always need that person, Yeah yeah.

1090
00:56:10,639 --> 00:56:12,679
Speaker 2: But I'm always like I'm just gonna sit over here

1091
00:56:12,679 --> 00:56:14,679
with LB and then we end up gossiping, and then

1092
00:56:14,679 --> 00:56:17,800
Sadie and Xander get annoyed. Oh how we get hurt?

1093
00:56:18,119 --> 00:56:20,239
I'm known to talk to and then John's like beating

1094
00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:21,280
friends with the randos.

1095
00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:21,639
Speaker 1: Good.

1096
00:56:21,880 --> 00:56:25,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then everybody brings up the story that Tory

1097
00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:28,440
Spelling fell at that Beny Hannah, that's the way, well

1098
00:56:28,639 --> 00:56:31,280
she know and like hurt herself. Remember she like got

1099
00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:34,000
burned or something. I was like, remember when Tory Spelling

1100
00:56:34,159 --> 00:56:38,119
like fell here? And then anytime there's strangers, did you

1101
00:56:38,119 --> 00:56:38,960
guys remember that.

1102
00:56:41,039 --> 00:56:46,519
Speaker 1: It's a good starting conversation started out anyway?

1103
00:56:46,719 --> 00:56:49,440
Speaker 2: All right, well, let's let's give a little shout out

1104
00:56:49,480 --> 00:56:54,440
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1110
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1148
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rest of them on Friday. Please go to our Patreon

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real real Yeah yeah, yes, good and drunkish and drunken

1153
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check out drunken. Oh my gosh, thank you for finding

1154
01:00:00,440 --> 01:00:06,199
me because tomorrow I have Kay Hanley, who so I

1155
01:00:06,239 --> 01:00:08,599
don't know if i'd interviewed her last week when I

1156
01:00:08,639 --> 01:00:12,760
was promoting this episode, but like, wow, her story is

1157
01:00:13,000 --> 01:00:17,639
really sad but ultimately hopeful and she's one of the

1158
01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:21,159
musicians who is sings our theme song. She's from Letters

1159
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to Cleo, the band out of Boston. Anyway, it's a

1160
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great episode. I would I hope you guys go and

1161
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listen to Drunkish and give me a good rating. Yep,

1162
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that's it's great, all right, Thanks everybody. Thanks Kaylen.

1163
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Speaker 1: You're a parent now, don't ever in us

1164
01:00:36,440 --> 01:00:39,880
Speaker 3: It's letting