Speaker 1: Hey, Hey, Hey, I'm bad with something for you.
Speaker 2: To think about. Listen for a while.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk about someone stilling my material again, and
Speaker 1: this time it's out of California.
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Speaker 1: If you hear someone who's using my content, please reach
Speaker 1: out to me so I can report it. In this episode,
Speaker 1: I want you to think about if you don't want
Speaker 1: nothing in life, that is exactly what you're going to get.
Speaker 1: Some of you act as if something is gonna fall
Speaker 1: out the sky into your level. Some times it happens.
Speaker 1: You know, you're like what, But more than likely it won't.
Speaker 1: People don't just give you something most of the times.
Speaker 2: What I'm trying to say is.
Speaker 1: There are many people who are in the same place
Speaker 1: they've been since.
Speaker 2: They can't even remember. It's been so long, for.
Speaker 1: Years and years and years and years in the same place,
Speaker 1: and I've talked about it. You're struggling financially, you're struggling mentally,
Speaker 1: you're struggling with your weight, you're struggling with this, you're
Speaker 1: struggling with that, and you're still in the same place.
Speaker 1: Why Why are you choosing.
Speaker 2: After so many years to be in the same place.
Speaker 1: Why if you want something in life, you have to
Speaker 1: get up off of.
Speaker 2: Your do nothing to do something.
Speaker 1: You must, That's the only way you're gonna move from
Speaker 1: one point to another by doing something. But if you
Speaker 1: want of those people in life who think you're gonna
Speaker 1: get buy off of everybody else, And believe me, there are.
Speaker 2: People in this world who are that way. All they do.
Speaker 1: Is ride the coattails of others. That's all they do.
Speaker 1: Mooch much mooch, mooch, mooch, And that's how they get
Speaker 1: through life riding the coattails of other people. But that
Speaker 1: means you remain the same life will never become better
Speaker 1: because you're doing the same things the same ways. It
Speaker 1: is very unfortunate that people are so content with this
Speaker 1: type of lifestyle. You're that way for a reason. You
Speaker 1: have become so comfortable and complacent that you don't even
Speaker 1: see how much it affects your life.
Speaker 2: Some people don't care how they look. They walk out
Speaker 2: the house, look.
Speaker 1: In any kind of way, and they are perfectly okay
Speaker 1: with that. You should never be perfectly okay with looking
Speaker 1: a mess. Never you should care about how you appear,
Speaker 1: your appearance.
Speaker 2: You should care about that, but some people they don't care.
Speaker 1: They walk outside with those pajama pants, they walk outside
Speaker 1: with those big bunnets on their heads, they walk outside
Speaker 1: with their hair, their heads wrapped up, just looking any
Speaker 1: kind of way. You should not, in no shape, form
Speaker 1: or fashion bet that type of person, But unfortunately many are.
Speaker 1: You just go through life not caring, not wanting anything,
Speaker 1: in the same dead end jobs, making mediocre money when
Speaker 1: you could have been making much more by now, but
Speaker 1: you're so comfortable in content in the same dead in job,
Speaker 1: knowing you in a position that you cannot acces, you
Speaker 1: cannot progress, but you just settle for that.
Speaker 2: For years and years and years and years. People are
Speaker 2: this way.
Speaker 1: They say, oh, I do it because my family is
Speaker 1: here and I don't want all excuses excuses, and I
Speaker 1: won't even lie. At one point I was the same way,
Speaker 1: and I've always been a go getter, but I did
Speaker 1: hold myself back for a moment because I was like, well,
Speaker 1: I want to be close to the kids and this
Speaker 1: and that.
Speaker 2: Then I realized they have their own lives, doing their
Speaker 2: own things, and I'm not way up there on the list.
Speaker 2: So I gotta do me. I gotta be happy for me.
Speaker 2: My life belongs to me, no one else.
Speaker 1: I am not responsible to try to live somebody else's life.
Speaker 1: But some people tie themselves so to their to their
Speaker 1: grandchildren that they don't even get to live.
Speaker 2: That's very, very much the reality for many people.
Speaker 1: You can't live your own life because you're too busy
Speaker 1: trying to live your children and your grandchildren that you're
Speaker 1: holding yourself back, and you don't even realize it. Because
Speaker 1: people get so stagnant.
Speaker 2: Where they have always been. Some of you been struggling
Speaker 2: with money for years upon years, and you're still struggling,
Speaker 2: getting older, but mentally in the same place. Because you've
Speaker 2: made no changes in your life. You just wake up
Speaker 2: every day.
Speaker 1: Every beautiful, wonder full, glorious, blessed day you get to live.
Speaker 2: You live it the very same.
Speaker 1: Some people been working for years and years and years
Speaker 1: and don't even have one thousand dollars in savings, don't
Speaker 1: have ten thousand dollars in savings, and they've been working
Speaker 1: for years and year, twenty thirty forty years and don't
Speaker 1: even have a savings. Because you haven't made any change
Speaker 1: in your life, you just wake up and exist. You've
Speaker 1: done nothing to be better. Some people think, oh, because
Speaker 1: they got a new car or they got a place
Speaker 1: to stay, that that's progression. Well it's not progression if
Speaker 1: you can't pay for the car that you've gotten. Every
Speaker 1: time you look around, the car is being repossessed. That's
Speaker 1: not progression. Some people want to get something new so
Speaker 1: people can see they have something new, but then you
Speaker 1: can't even afford to pay for it.
Speaker 2: That's the mindset a lot of people have.
Speaker 1: Because you don't choose to become better, you allow your
Speaker 1: fears and your insecurities to keep you where you've always been.
Speaker 1: Some people think, oh, well I have a decent place
Speaker 1: to live and I have a car to drive, but
Speaker 1: you're still struggling.
Speaker 2: And for some people, they would rather give up one life,
Speaker 2: not understanding that it is you who's keeping you where
Speaker 2: you are.
Speaker 1: There's always a realm in the bush, a way out
Speaker 1: to become better. But people choose to struggle where they've
Speaker 1: always been.
Speaker 2: And I know that many of you who are listening,
Speaker 2: you know it's the truth.
Speaker 1: And if it's not your truth, you know it's the
Speaker 1: truth of someone that you do know, just struggling. That's
Speaker 1: because you have not chose change. You cannot get blood
Speaker 1: from a turn up. That's an old saying. You can
Speaker 1: squeeze and squeeze and squeeze a dollar bill, you'll never
Speaker 1: squeeze the green out of it.
Speaker 2: Never.
Speaker 1: You see that your life is not better, and it
Speaker 1: has not been better for years and years and years
Speaker 1: and years.
Speaker 2: You have to make another move, another move. You have
Speaker 2: to make another move, and that move must be positive.
Speaker 2: Don't be afraid to try something different.
Speaker 1: If it don't work, try and try again. Never give
Speaker 1: up on yourself. Stop looking for other people to support
Speaker 1: you and to take care of you, because they are
Speaker 1: not obligated.
Speaker 2: No one is obligated to support you in no way.
Speaker 2: No one is obligated to give you anything.
Speaker 1: But some people think because someone else has something, they're
Speaker 1: obligated to help them.
Speaker 2: No. No one is obligated to help you. No one.
Speaker 1: If they do, it's out of their own hearts. But
Speaker 1: no one is obligated. I'll tell you right now, no
Speaker 1: one has ever gave me anything in life, nothing, zilch na,
Speaker 1: nothing at all.
Speaker 2: Nothing. I worked hard for every single thing I have.
Speaker 2: I made a conscious decision that I wanted better, and
Speaker 2: you can do the same thing.
Speaker 1: I've never worked fast food never in my life. And
Speaker 1: I'm not knocking it. I'm not knocking it at all,
Speaker 1: because even in fast food, you have to have the
Speaker 1: mindset that you want to grow. And guess what, if
Speaker 1: you're in a position that you can't grow, then you
Speaker 1: need to move on to something else. You should always
Speaker 1: want to progress in your life.
Speaker 2: But if you have the mindset of not.
Speaker 1: Wanting to do nothing, nothing is what you're gonna get.
Speaker 1: You can't build your little nest egg.
Speaker 2: If you're not making any money. Because everything you do,
Speaker 2: you should want it to be positive. Anything you do.
Speaker 1: Vial negativity, it's coming back to you. So you may think, oh,
Speaker 1: you got this and you got that, but you cheated,
Speaker 1: or you lie or you stole to get it. That's
Speaker 1: coming back on you. I'm not talking about doing negativity.
Speaker 1: I'm talking strictly positive things to move forward in life.
Speaker 2: But most people are stuck because of the mindsets. They have.
Speaker 1: The mindset that causes them to have insecurity and self
Speaker 1: doubt and and lack confidence and self and fear, all
Speaker 1: of those negative things holding you back when you don't
Speaker 1: even understand it's you who are creating fear. It is
Speaker 1: you who is feeding the fear. It is you who's
Speaker 1: given power to the doubt. It's you who's empowering all
Speaker 1: the insecurities inside of you because you're choosing to remain
Speaker 1: the same.
Speaker 2: You're not being mindful and aware of how you think
Speaker 2: you're not.
Speaker 1: People look outward. You look at other people to tell
Speaker 1: you how you supposed to look, how you're supposed to dress.
Speaker 2: This, and that you look outward.
Speaker 1: And so many people struggle so much mentally because they're
Speaker 1: looking at.
Speaker 2: What other people say that they should look.
Speaker 1: Like and carry on in life, and they try to
Speaker 1: do all of those things without that in a healing
Speaker 1: taking place. So now you're moving in life based on
Speaker 1: what society says. When society is full of broken people,
Speaker 1: it's just so many people would unhealed inside of them
Speaker 1: that causes them that mindset, no goals, no ambition, no
Speaker 1: willingness to become better, just stuck in a life long
Speaker 1: what just wading where they've always watered. And like I say,
Speaker 1: some people think it's progression because they got a new
Speaker 1: car or they got a place to say, no, that's
Speaker 1: not progression when you got the same mindset and you're
Speaker 1: still struggling. People are living paycheck to paycheck, and they
Speaker 1: have lived that way all of their lives.
Speaker 2: That's not progression. That's not progression.
Speaker 1: And I hope no one takes this in a negative
Speaker 1: way because it's not meant for negative.
Speaker 2: It's meant for positive. So you can see the cycles
Speaker 2: that only you can change.
Speaker 1: Don't look at other people and say, oh, God, I
Speaker 1: wish I had what she have or what he have,
Speaker 1: because a.
Speaker 2: Lot of times you don't know how they got what
Speaker 2: they have.
Speaker 1: They could have rob Peter to pay Paul, they could have.
Speaker 2: Stolen I mean, you just don't know. And then a
Speaker 2: lot of times.
Speaker 1: What you see it looks so great, it looks so good,
Speaker 1: but those people are miserable because they're in debt.
Speaker 2: They have tons of debt. It looks like they've accomplished
Speaker 2: so much, but they're struggling because they're in debt.
Speaker 1: What you see is rarely what it really is, but
Speaker 1: people cannot see it because they're blind to what's in
Speaker 1: front of them. They can't see beyond that, Oh it
Speaker 1: looks good, it must be good. No, something that look
Speaker 1: good could literally kill you.
Speaker 2: So if you have no.
Speaker 1: About yourself to move forward in life.
Speaker 2: You're gonna remain where you are.
Speaker 1: There are some men and some women that have been
Speaker 1: so coddled in their life even as adults, that they
Speaker 1: have nothing, and all they do is try.
Speaker 2: To find men and women who.
Speaker 1: Will take care of them. And those men and women
Speaker 1: who get these people, they become so full.
Speaker 2: Of regret because and resent because they've.
Speaker 1: Opened themselves up to these people who have brained them
Speaker 1: in every way.
Speaker 2: But you have to look at yourself. Why did you
Speaker 2: open yourself up to someone like that? You saw exactly
Speaker 2: who they were.
Speaker 1: When you think you can save, fix or change someone,
Speaker 1: something is wrong with you that you need to change.
Speaker 2: You'll never progress in life mentally if you do not
Speaker 2: do something.
Speaker 1: To move towards progression, remaining the same just won't get
Speaker 1: it because if you remain the same mental life, you're
Speaker 1: gonna always struggle in life. You're gonna always struggle, and.
Speaker 2: You're gonna have a hard time whether in.
Speaker 1: Your storms as they come, and they're coming, because when
Speaker 1: you don't change mentally, it affects your life in.
Speaker 2: Many many ways, many many ways.
Speaker 1: And although in my title I say if you don't
Speaker 1: want nothing, you won't get nothing.
Speaker 2: I want you to understand that that means any part
Speaker 2: of your life because everything comes from that mindset. And
Speaker 2: most people are.
Speaker 1: Mature age wise and in their bodies, but not men
Speaker 1: because they're stuck where they've always been.
Speaker 2: There's no.
Speaker 1: Urgency for change because they're comfortable and complacent where they've
Speaker 1: always been.
Speaker 2: And that's why they still have the same struggles they've.
Speaker 1: Always had in relationships, money, their physical bodies, mentally, because
Speaker 1: there's no change. Change is up to you, not to
Speaker 1: someone else, not to something but you, and it's possible.
Speaker 1: You just have to want it. That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I'm leaving it right there. Thank you for listening. Much
Speaker 1: love to each and every.
Speaker 2: One of you.
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Speaker 1: episode the same and I hope.
Speaker 2: You do it. Do it, do it, Think on it.