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Speaker 1: I made a decision.

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Speaker 2: I'm faced sunny sound.

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Speaker 1: I had a vision.

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Speaker 3: To reach Hey, everybody, welcome to for crying out loud.

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We have a special guest in studio, not Stephanie.

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Speaker 4: I'm trying to not mustay right now myself after the

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Patreon we just recorded.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I have trying to. I'm trying to reregulate my heartbeat.

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I wish Joe could have heard that.

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Speaker 1: That was insane. Hi, joke away, Hi.

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Speaker 2: I wish I would have heard it. Yeah, what was it?

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Speaker 3: Well, we do it on our Patreon show, so not

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everybody can hear.

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Speaker 4: Just to people that they're okay because it's private. Yeah,

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but I read it. I read an insane email that

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I received from a parent.

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Speaker 2: Uh huh.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's for Patreon. That's for Patrion.

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Speaker 4: By the way, if you like our show and you

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like Joe Coy's show The Coy Pond, you're also going

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to like The First Degree with Jack Vannock and Alexis

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link Letter.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: They host.

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Speaker 4: The host of Lady Gang Oh teams up with her

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best friend true crime TV producer to explore stories of

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the Cuckoo's crimes, colts, and conspiracies. Imaginable well, I like

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that with renowned crime journalists Billy Jensen, and they talk

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to the once ordinary people who are one degree away

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from these stories, and who knows, you may even end

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up being their next guest.

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Speaker 6: Like that.

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Speaker 1: Love that's true, talk them out.

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Speaker 4: They're called the first Degree every Wednesday from podcast one.

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Speaker 7: Okay, I know for a fact, yes, and this is me. Yes,

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Dateline and all that stuff, that's that's that's women. Women

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say that it's ninety percent women are the ones that

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watch that.

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Speaker 2: That's the viewers. Yes, hands down.

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Speaker 7: Well, every girl I ever dated it's a dateline marathon,

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like on a Wednesday night for sure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they like to watch it. I used to live

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on the Oprah network. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I used to love watching Dayline with Adam and I

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when we were dating, we would watch Dateline twenty twenty

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and that's how we bonded.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but then he was faking it. It was football. Yeah,

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and like we fake I mean.

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Speaker 4: I love the yeah, true crime totally in Yeah, I'm like, oh,

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I love the Giants.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm really interested in who's commishing them this

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year and.

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Speaker 2: They aren't bigger than all the other teams.

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Speaker 7: You're right though, Stephanie I fake it too, you do

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you don't like sports?

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Speaker 2: No, No, that's good.

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Speaker 1: One, that's good, thank you.

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Speaker 7: I will say this though, I did enjoy it. When

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we first started dating Amy and I, I noticed that

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every girl loves watching Dateline. It's always on the Oprah network.

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 7: And then I found myself like, it's too negative. Yes,

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it's too it's too much for your soul.

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Speaker 2: Man, heavy.

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Speaker 1: Have you noticed that women like to complain? Yeah? But

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is like complaining like a huge version of just complaining?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, with a solution, but not a good solution.

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Speaker 1: Now it always ends up bad.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: There's a true crime show about rich people, by the way,

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it's called.

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Speaker 1: Rich Crime something. Yeah. Yeah, so just running out of Oh.

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Speaker 4: But you know what, Yeah, actually, I don't know if

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I'm supposed to say this, I won't say it.

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Speaker 1: But but unrelated, well, you can't.

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Speaker 7: Okay, you can't do that, all right, you can't say

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I don't know if I'm supposed to say this.

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Speaker 2: You know what I noticed there?

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Speaker 4: But yeah, somebody that we know is going to be profiled. Well,

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their story is going to be on forty eight hours.

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Speaker 2: That's good.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, let's stop calling that person a friend.

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Speaker 3: Our story was profiled on forty eight hours.

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Speaker 1: I know Henery guy that shot and killed himself.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's right, I remember that.

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Speaker 1: Yes, now you're all ears now yeah, now back in.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm tuned in again.

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Speaker 4: You know, Oxygen used to just be about like you know,

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abused women and you know women in peril, and now

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it's only a true crime that's I don't know it's

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a true crime channel because they're like, well, we already

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have the women watching us, let's just give them what

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Speaker 7: I told Amy that you know you are we consume, right,

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So consumption could be anything. It could be food, it

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could be drink, it could be what you watch.

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Speaker 2: It's consumption. You you, whatever you take in you become.

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Speaker 7: And I always said it's like when you watch a

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bunch of datelines and you watch a bunch of true crimes,

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you slowly become that that thought.

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Speaker 2: Process that happened to you. And it's not healthy.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I told her we got a limit. She said, get

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the fuck out of the house. And she said, she

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said trolling mom.

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Speaker 7: Yeah no, she agreed. So we it's not like we

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used to. We used to watch it five days a week. Honestly,

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it was easy to put on and now.

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Speaker 2: It's like, to be honest, I don't remember us watching it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we just I binge on it, you know, I

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save them. I get a bunch of date lines and

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then I just go through them all and get it

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all out of my sister.

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Speaker 2: You just purge.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I love it that urge or binge wellege in

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a way I get. I purge my I purge my

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DVR of them, and I binge consumption wise.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Joe, you're a dad, You're a parent.

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Speaker 1: Don't forget up. How's your son?

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Speaker 2: You're you?

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Speaker 1: He's amazing, and he's in which grade he's in?

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Speaker 2: He's tenth now? Tenth? Yeah, Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: That's really gone fast for me. It's too fast right now.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 7: You know what makes me even sadder is, you know

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I I purposely went out of my way to make

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sure that he is best friends with all of his cousins.

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But I die. This family is going to be so

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damn strong and is because of me.

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Speaker 1: Take all that credit.

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Speaker 7: I will because my my like all my cousins, and

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our family separated all of us, because all of them

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are feuding within the family and that was slowly happening again,

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and it was like, my man is not talking to

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Duncan because my aunt's not talking to my cousin. And

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then my mom's not talking to my aunt, so I'm

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not talking to this and I was like, I'm not

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doing this anymore, Like I don't even know.

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Speaker 2: Why we're mad at them, Like what is this?

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Speaker 7: This is stupid and I and when I started making money,

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I literally I literally took them on vacation every year.

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I would fly nine of them to Hawaii, they know,

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and we would just hang out and they would just

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be locked up in their rooms, or I'd give them

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money and they'd just go the beach or whatever. But

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they now, they are inseparable. They are the bestest of friends,

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and I'm glad I did it. When I did it, it

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was like when they were like ten eleven, you know

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what I mean, Like they're trying to find their identity

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and they're slowly becoming teens, and you know, that's when

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you pick and choose what path you want to be on.

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Speaker 2: And man, they are.

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Speaker 7: It's fun to watch because I get jealous a little

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inside because I don't have I have one cousin.

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Speaker 2: I'm very close to Mona.

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Speaker 7: But like the other ones, I don't know, you know,

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because because of my mom and my aunts, because of

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their feuding.

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Speaker 2: You know, it's just so icky.

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Speaker 1: It is, I it is. But do they live close

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by each other?

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Speaker 7: They the ones in Vegas do? It's my son and

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the other cousin lives in Bakersfield.

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Speaker 2: But man, they are. They're always on a group chat,

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They're always on a group snap. There. It's like they're

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their brothers and you know that.

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Speaker 1: And they're all in close in age.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, they're all boys. No, we have one girl, yeah, Amanda.

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Speaker 1: How many are there?

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Speaker 2: There's like nine of them. Man that I went out

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of my way. I really did. I really really cool.

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Speaker 4: We talk about that a lot on our podcast, just

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the whole how you know, in our generation, nobody went

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out of their way to like help move your friendships

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along or you're you know, you have to do that.

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Speaker 1: You're like left on your own. You start the first

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day of junior high and it's like good luck out there. Yeah,

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I know. Now we're like, oh, who do.

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Speaker 2: You want to have a play day with?

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Speaker 4: Oh, let me, let me try get the roster Let

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me find the parent's name and number. Let me text

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him and say, hey, there's.

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Speaker 1: A pool that so did you want to end We

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all meet there maybe a beach day, and you're like,

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and then the kid moves on to I don't like

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that person anymore. I want to be friends with this person.

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Speaker 2: Okay, let me meet the parents.

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Speaker 1: Exactly, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 2: That's exactly how it is. It was way different when

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we were kids.

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Speaker 1: No, nobody cared about our friendships.

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Speaker 7: My mom didn't care about the weekend. She had no

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interest on what I was doing in the weekend. She

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knew that was her time to sleep.

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Speaker 1: And you are the only child or.

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Speaker 2: No, No, I got three.

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Speaker 1: You got three, and I got.

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Speaker 2: A brother and two sisters.

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Speaker 1: All right, and you're close with them.

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Speaker 2: It's so crazy, my my. You know a lot of

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feuding in the family. So sisters. I did this.

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Speaker 7: I did this joke on my special about how my

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mom and my sisters always fought and my sisters moved

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out at like seventeen eighteen, right, And you know, when

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you watch it, it's funny, but it's so deep. It's

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such a deeply there's a lot of pain behind that

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joke because it's so true. It's like I lost my

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relationship with my sisters because my mom fought and I

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was four years younger.

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Speaker 2: So it's like, right, I didn't.

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Speaker 7: Get that bond until after I got out of high school,

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and it was weird. But yeah, now I'm like super

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duper close to Gemma, who's my she's adopted. She runs

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all of Joe Coy Entertainment. That's that's her baby. Man

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and I got a restaurant.

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Speaker 1: And she's the she's running the restaurant.

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Speaker 2: Heart owner and manager of that one.

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Speaker 1: Baby. Thank you.

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Speaker 7: That's the first thing she said to me. She goes,

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just give me a percent so I can be an owner.

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I gave her a percentage of it. But she's amazing.

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She's my everything.

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Speaker 3: She's great. That's so nice. That's so special. I hope

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my kids stay together.

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Speaker 2: Oh they will, I hope.

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Speaker 1: And they don't have But we talked about this because

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we don't.

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Speaker 3: We don't our parents. We're not close with our well,

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my parents are gone, but like, there's not. My kids

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don't have a lot of cousins that they get to see.

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they have kids, they're married with kids. Yeah, so it's

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kind of hard, but they love. They get so sad

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when they have to leave each other. Oh really, Oh yeah,

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they my kids have they make it barely cry, but

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they cry when they get home. And why are you

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guys crying? Because I'm miss not gonna see them, like

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you're not gonna you know. And so I try to

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make it a point to get them together at least

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do I see here, Yeah, like at Christmas time and

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then July, but like summertime. But it is, it's good,

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it's it's I wish I could take them all to Hawaii. Yeah,

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that would be great, take them anywhere.

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Speaker 7: I know, I man, I just I love the fact

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how closely are I get? I really do get jealous,

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my face because I'm yes, that's what I want.

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Speaker 2: Is not everything I wanted, you know why? And you

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know what, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 7: You know what else I did because a lot of

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kids always like, yes, mother, yes you're met at the family.

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Speaker 2: I will whatever you say. I approve.

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Speaker 7: And then that that that minute when I was just

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like mom, I'm done, you know what I mean, Like

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I'm having Christmas at my house and whoever comes comes.

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I'm not going to sit here and tell you who's

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coming and then you know, set up times because when

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when's she going to leave? And then all come over.

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It's like, I'm not doing that. It's Christmas family food.

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If you come, you come. If you don't come, that's

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your fault, right, I invited you. I'm not I'm not

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in a fight with you. So if you don't want

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to come, don't be. Yeah, I'm not going to sit

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here and worry about who you don't like. And maybe

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I shouldn't call my mom right now because blah blah

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b h's here.

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Speaker 1: Right and I'm with the trauma. We don't know it.

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Speaker 7: Just like all of us just look at each other

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like what's going on? Like why is she mad? Like

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why are they mad at each other? We don't know.

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Speaker 3: I have a lot of that in my family, the

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Middle Eastern side of my family. They got tempers.

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Speaker 2: And grudges and grudges, grudges. Man, it stays longer than

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luggage mass.

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Speaker 1: It does. It does.

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Speaker 3: And we we had a.

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Speaker 1: Joes aer like that too.

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Speaker 4: Don't be me out, Okay, the Jews are into Yeah,

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you know how much luggage.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I had the same, the same.

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Speaker 4: The ship went down over Thanksgiving, over over them not

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wanting to come to my house for Thanksgiving. When I

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was like, because so this person was going to be there,

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and I was like, I can't.

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Speaker 1: What I was called selfish?

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Speaker 4: How dare you not respect like the elders to have

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Thanksgiving at their house because they don't want to come

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to my house because my.

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Speaker 2: Brother, like, you know what you do? Know what else?

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I'm done with. I'm done with this one right here.

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Speaker 7: I'm tired of the elders need a little extra respect.

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My respect is on every level. It doesn't matter if

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you're nine years old or seventy nine.

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Speaker 2: You're a dick. You're a dick.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: You don't get respect. No, you know, my my, my drop,

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it's the truth.

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Speaker 7: Because my my, my, my grandmother, my lo Latina, who

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I love so much, she remarried and and I just

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felt like there was no respect between him and I.

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Her husband, you know, he was my grandfather. It was

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her husband. And I feel bad because it's my favorite aunt,

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my at the Evilent, I mean, my Ati Belle, it's

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her dad.

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Speaker 2: I love my aunt de Belle.

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Speaker 7: But he was such a dick to me, and I

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felt like, like, you know, and they were like, you

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should respect him, and I'm like, but he doesn't respect me,

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Like that's not cool. You can't treat me like that.

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I feel like an outsider. Every time I come over,

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he pretends he doesn't know my name.

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Speaker 2: But you know what I mean.

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Speaker 7: He acts like when I knock on the door, he

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doesn't answer, He'll open the door and slam it on me.

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Speaker 1: It's like like as an adult twenty.

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Speaker 7: I was like, nineteen twenty eighteen, nineteen twenty is when

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you know I was around him.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I don't know. I don't know why I

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brought that up, but inspect your elders. Yeah, I'm just

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like and everyone was always like, oh, you need it.

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He's just old. It's like, no, man, you know what

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you're doing?

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Speaker 7: No, right, I see, I was communicating with other people's

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he's normal.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what's old got to do with him? Hating that?

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Speaker 1: I agree, that's old got to do you got to

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do with it. You gotta have some respect.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is the best and this pot ever.

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Speaker 1: And you said that when you walked in. Why why

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do you think we're not hip?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? You are first of all you have. Listen, I

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love I love, I love.

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Speaker 7: I love it when a woman wears uh T shirts

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and and like when my when my, when my girl,

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when Amy wears sweats and a tea, it's over with,

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we can go anywhere. Yeah, I love it when she

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and I also love it because it's what I love. No, listen,

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I know, but you look good, you look hot. But

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but what's cool is when she throws it on. It's

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like it's like you're watching pretty woman. It's like, you

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know what I mean, It's like, whoa.

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Speaker 2: I love that. I love that she's already hot in

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the T shirt, no makeup and all that, and I

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love that.

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Speaker 7: It's just such a turn on to me. And then

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when she throws it on, when she throws it on,

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you're just like, oh my.

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Speaker 1: God, Okay, so tell us about your relations.

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Speaker 2: You didn't even care about that. I care about that compliment.

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Speaker 1: I thank you. We're about to take compliment. We don't you.

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Speaker 7: See that, Kaitlin, see how they just walk an amazing compliment.

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Speaker 1: For another guy around.

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Speaker 2: Kaylen agrees, Kaitlyn's always dressed like laundry. This is Kaitlyn

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an award show. That's his Award show.

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Speaker 1: I love that line.

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Speaker 3: It's my favorite line, and I always give you credit

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that you say that the guys around here look like look.

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Speaker 2: Like laundry day. Yeah. Yeah, man, I'm not a polite sorry.

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Speaker 4: Lynette and I are always like okay, First of all,

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the reward of being podcasters, yes, right, isn't that the

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thing we all dreamed of is doing radio? So you

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doesn't have to look like I'm like, I feel like

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I've made it because I don't have to make up

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like every once in a while, I do, you know,

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I try to like look my best, but it's like,

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what are we doing?

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Speaker 1: We're just talking, but not on campus.

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Speaker 7: That's the cool thing about you, too beautiful, even without

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that thank you?

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Speaker 1: Do you are you on Snapchat?

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Speaker 2: By the way, I got rid of that.

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Speaker 7: I got rid of that when my son was I

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got it and I remember telling my son that there's

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a snapchat and he was like, that's stupid, and then

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he slowly started doing it, and then I realized I'm

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stupid because there's no reason why I should share an

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app or be on the same app where my son

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has dog ears in a picture and I have dog

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ears in a picture, not mature at all.

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Speaker 3: And I either want you to like either open your

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mouth or like get next to a friend.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, what are we in a frat party?

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Speaker 2: Mask?

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Speaker 3: I either open your mouth or get with a friend.

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What the fuck? What's going on? But what do you

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think about social media and your kid and your son?

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Speaker 1: Like, how do you handle that? I feel like my

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son is on Instagram?

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Speaker 2: Do parents always say this? Every time we talk to

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a parent, they always say, I feel like my kid

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is just a little smarter than the other ones.

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Speaker 7: We all say that, right, I really truly feel that

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way with my son. I feel like there's there's something,

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you know. He said something to me the other day.

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I go, why don't you like inviting your friends to

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our house? Because our house is amazing. I've seen it.

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I saw you do a cooking thing the other day.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, cooking. Yeah, it was nice.

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Speaker 7: We have a he has a half court basketball court.

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My god, he's got a full size pool. He's got

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a tonne of land, he's got he's got a guesthouse

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with its own Wi Fi and own mattresses andfrigerators and stocked.

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Speaker 2: When his friends come over, they all stay over there.

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Speaker 1: What you said do you have any opening family?

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Speaker 2: And I go, why don't you? Why do you always

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go to your friend's house?

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Speaker 4: Why?

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Speaker 2: I don't understand why they can't come here? Like I'm

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the coolest you know, I'm the coolest Joe. Like your

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friends love me when you go when you go to parties.

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Speaker 7: Your friends always tell me, we put your Netflix on

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and we sat in the living room.

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Speaker 2: They always say that. His friends say.

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Speaker 1: That, not him, so funny, And.

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Speaker 7: I'm just like, your friends love me, man, they wear

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my sweatshirts. And then he just told me he goes. Dad,

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I just I don't really like it.

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Speaker 2: When people are here at our house, like I don't

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want to entertain.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I get it. I get him.

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Speaker 2: I want to hear, yeah, he goes.

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Speaker 7: I just want to go to a place, have pullow

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my friends and leave when I want, right, and not

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worry abound cleaning up. I don't want to worry about

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them spilling stuff on the ground.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I don't want to. I don't. Yeah, I just

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don't want them in my place.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it makes sense.

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Speaker 3: I know it makes sense. I see that with my

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son has his friends come over. He doesn't like it,

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and I see him I go like, Sonny, ask your

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friend if he wants something to drink? You want something

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in a drink? He doesn't think about, you know, the

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kid hasn't eaten, and you know, they have a sleepover

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and I wake up a little late or whatever, and

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it's like, did you guys see anything now? And the

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kid's like starving? Oh, do you want some cereal? You

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guys can make.

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Speaker 1: Yourselves bowls of cereals. It's there, right, you got anything

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you want.

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Speaker 2: Our kids are a.

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Speaker 4: Little younger, though, so we still have that like when

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the parents come pick up and then you send them

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on your way, and then you're all of a sudden,

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you get that feeling of fear that the kid's gonna

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go like, oh, yeah, I haven't eaten in about twenty

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four hours. Yeah, and then you're gonna get that totally

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forgot about that pretty hungry or the one that I had,

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which is a classic story on our podcast about the girl.

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The little girl came over and they did go get snacks,

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and then the mom texted me like in the like

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at one am and was like, yeah, so I'm at

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the er with my daughter and she's been throwing up.

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Speaker 1: Did she have anything red?

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Speaker 4: To eat, and I was like, only like two bags

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of talkies.

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, stuff, this is crazy. This is the

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same thing that happened to me.

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Speaker 2: It did happen.

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Speaker 7: So my son's birthday, this is like I think when

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he turned I don't know, I'll make up a number

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nine or eights.

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Speaker 2: Eight. Okay, let's just say he turned eight.

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Speaker 7: And I rented a Limo right and big suv one

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because that's what my son wanted, and and we went.

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I followed him because I wasn't allowing on the suv

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00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:56,599
and we followed him the Magic Mountain and he got

472
00:19:56,599 --> 00:19:59,240
to and he got to bring like five friends and

473
00:19:59,279 --> 00:20:01,440
I got them the f slash pass and everything in

474
00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:03,720
front of the line passed. Whatever you guys want to eat,

475
00:20:03,759 --> 00:20:06,519
I won't be around you. I'll hang out, uh, but

476
00:20:06,599 --> 00:20:08,839
you guys do whatever you want. And they, you know,

477
00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:11,599
Talkie sponsors Magic Mountains. I was just going to tell

478
00:20:11,599 --> 00:20:13,279
you that sponsored.

479
00:20:12,839 --> 00:20:17,599
Speaker 2: Magic and mice. They were killing it. Fingertips read everything

480
00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:22,640
and he hit his friend was throwing up really yeah

481
00:20:22,799 --> 00:20:23,279
to where.

482
00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:26,960
Speaker 4: These kids, huh this is the same age. Yes, this

483
00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:29,720
last year the girls. Yeah, so my kids are ten,

484
00:20:29,839 --> 00:20:31,359
so this was last year. The girl's nine.

485
00:20:31,559 --> 00:20:35,079
Speaker 7: I felt so bad. Oh yeah, eat, call the parents

486
00:20:35,079 --> 00:20:38,640
and go I'm so sorry. I guess he ate too

487
00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:39,519
many talkies.

488
00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:41,799
Speaker 2: I don't know the same thing.

489
00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:43,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, and this girl was not allowed at our house

490
00:20:43,799 --> 00:20:47,759
after that because they were like yeah, yeah, it was

491
00:20:47,799 --> 00:20:50,359
already I was already like having to work really hard

492
00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:53,759
because they're from another culture that's a very overprotective, and

493
00:20:53,799 --> 00:20:56,039
it was like really hard. I had to work very

494
00:20:56,079 --> 00:20:58,160
hard to get play dates to even happen at our house.

495
00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:00,400
Speaker 1: And then even then, they were like a lot of

496
00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:01,880
phone calls. What are you, what are you doing? What

497
00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:02,319
are you doing?

498
00:21:02,319 --> 00:21:02,480
Speaker 2: Now?

499
00:21:02,519 --> 00:21:04,519
Speaker 4: Can I talk to her on the phone? And then

500
00:21:04,599 --> 00:21:06,240
that happened and I was like I was done.

501
00:21:06,839 --> 00:21:08,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, we did get a good story out of it.

502
00:21:08,839 --> 00:21:11,119
Speaker 4: Now we're trying to get talkies to sponsor our next

503
00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:11,559
live show.

504
00:21:11,599 --> 00:21:13,000
Speaker 2: Oh that'd be great. Yeah.

505
00:21:13,079 --> 00:21:15,079
Speaker 4: Because of course tons of people were like, what are

506
00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:16,279
these talkies you speak of?

507
00:21:16,319 --> 00:21:19,440
Speaker 2: I'm going to try them exactly the man.

508
00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:21,319
Speaker 1: They're not but they're not.

509
00:21:21,559 --> 00:21:23,559
Speaker 2: But they're gious, they're good.

510
00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:26,039
Speaker 3: I couldn't eat a whole bag. I couldn't man be

511
00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:27,279
too much on my stomach.

512
00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:30,319
Speaker 7: You know what my son does? What it's so disgusting.

513
00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:32,720
He licks the powder off. This is he doesn't do

514
00:21:32,759 --> 00:21:34,880
it anymore. This is back when he was like eight

515
00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:37,599
nine ten, licks the powder off and just makes a

516
00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:43,039
stack of oh of the talkies without the powder And

517
00:21:43,079 --> 00:21:45,599
it's just the it's the And I remember just watching them.

518
00:21:45,599 --> 00:21:47,599
We're both watching like a game, and I'm just watching

519
00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:53,039
them just build this pile of corn stacks fingertips, red.

520
00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:54,000
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

521
00:21:54,519 --> 00:21:58,319
Speaker 3: Do your friends, so he has friends spend the night obviously, yeah,

522
00:21:59,119 --> 00:22:01,880
but do they does any parents ever give you heart?

523
00:22:02,079 --> 00:22:05,319
Do you ever experience what we've experienced coming across kids

524
00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:08,559
that there they don't let they don't like sleepovers, or

525
00:22:08,599 --> 00:22:10,279
they don't want to spend or maybe they think that

526
00:22:10,319 --> 00:22:12,920
you're like Hollywood or you're you know, one of those

527
00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:14,680
you're going to be having.

528
00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:15,319
Speaker 1: Like drug parties.

529
00:22:15,759 --> 00:22:23,880
Speaker 3: Ye. Yeah, at my house, he's had specials.

530
00:22:25,039 --> 00:22:28,480
Speaker 7: Yeah, they're all nice to me. When I was when

531
00:22:28,519 --> 00:22:33,880
he was at Saint Mel. Do you know Heather McDonald, Yes, Heather,

532
00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:36,480
she she was She's the one that got my son

533
00:22:36,519 --> 00:22:38,960
at the Saint Mel and uh and it was so

534
00:22:39,039 --> 00:22:44,200
crazy because uh, everyone always uh bragged because even his son,

535
00:22:44,559 --> 00:22:46,039
even her son, would always.

536
00:22:45,839 --> 00:22:50,240
Speaker 2: Go, uh, Joe Joe's dad is like our dad.

537
00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:53,920
Speaker 7: He feeds us all like like like Heather, we get

538
00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:57,599
so mad because she's like, you look like a bad mother,

539
00:22:58,599 --> 00:23:01,960
like my like my son came goes. Yeah, Joe brought

540
00:23:02,039 --> 00:23:04,920
tacos for everybody. Because I would always bring a bunch

541
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,960
of food for my son's lunch because when I'm on

542
00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:09,839
the road, I'm on the road Thursday, Friday, you know

543
00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:11,119
what I mean. So I miss those days. So when

544
00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:13,839
I come back Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, I'm making up for it. Yeah,

545
00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:15,119
and I want to you know what I mean, I

546
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:18,279
drive to my son's lunch. Yeah you were, Oh I

547
00:23:18,319 --> 00:23:20,880
told you. Yeah, you would bring him food. You bring

548
00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:23,640
a McDonald's all everything for his friends too.

549
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:24,200
Speaker 2: Yes.

550
00:23:25,319 --> 00:23:27,519
Speaker 7: And it was to the point where all the parents

551
00:23:27,519 --> 00:23:30,079
were like, yeah, little Joe's dad.

552
00:23:29,839 --> 00:23:33,279
Speaker 2: Is the ship. That's so cute. Yeah that's cool dad.

553
00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:33,720
Speaker 1: Cool dad.

554
00:23:33,839 --> 00:23:36,119
Speaker 4: Yeah, making the rest of us look bad, making us

555
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:38,599
five seven day a week parents look bad.

556
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:38,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

557
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:43,599
Speaker 7: Yeah, your twenty four parents look at me what I do.

558
00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:45,079
And just a little bit of time.

559
00:23:46,839 --> 00:23:49,400
Speaker 3: If we were part time, we imagine we could a

560
00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:50,200
gun done.

561
00:23:50,279 --> 00:23:52,359
Speaker 2: I never understood why that was such a big deal

562
00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:53,559
for my mom. I get it.

563
00:23:53,559 --> 00:23:55,440
Speaker 7: She was a single parent, she didn't have any money.

564
00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:59,079
My dad was skipping on on child support. But man,

565
00:23:59,279 --> 00:24:02,920
just one, just one happy meal. You couldn't do one

566
00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:04,319
one mom.

567
00:24:05,759 --> 00:24:09,440
Speaker 2: Cents. That was like pulling teeth with my mom. You know,

568
00:24:09,519 --> 00:24:11,000
I still remember this to my dailing.

569
00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:13,680
Speaker 7: I'm sorry, Stephan now walking all over I don't know,

570
00:24:14,079 --> 00:24:17,119
but this is like I want every parent to remember

571
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:18,680
what you remember the most.

572
00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:22,240
Speaker 2: It's always that little thing, yes, and that remember your

573
00:24:22,319 --> 00:24:24,240
kids are gonna do the same thing. They're gonna remember

574
00:24:24,279 --> 00:24:27,519
that little thing because I remember after church we went

575
00:24:27,519 --> 00:24:30,680
to this deli and there was a bowl of hard

576
00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:34,039
boiled eggs and it was twenty five cents an egg.

577
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:37,200
Speaker 7: And my mom would not buy me the egg. Really,

578
00:24:37,279 --> 00:24:39,319
she thought it was just like, Mike, we have eggs

579
00:24:39,319 --> 00:24:42,000
at home. I'm believing, but we're going to church or

580
00:24:42,079 --> 00:24:44,240
are we just left church? Like I forgot what the

581
00:24:44,279 --> 00:24:44,759
reason was.

582
00:24:44,799 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 2: I want the egg now.

583
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:47,519
Speaker 1: It's just a quarter, right.

584
00:24:47,839 --> 00:24:50,680
Speaker 2: She made me feel so bad. I remember sitting in

585
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:52,880
the car like hungry, and I wanted that egg and

586
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:55,680
like so mad, and I was like, to this day,

587
00:24:55,759 --> 00:24:57,400
look at me. I'm in my forties and I remember

588
00:24:57,400 --> 00:24:58,519
an egg store.

589
00:24:58,319 --> 00:25:02,359
Speaker 3: Right right, But you know food in kids, a lot

590
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:05,799
of memories come from that. What Adam Will would say, like,

591
00:25:05,839 --> 00:25:08,079
you know, it's good to cook for the kids, you know,

592
00:25:08,279 --> 00:25:11,000
because I hate cooking, like we don't like.

593
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:12,880
Speaker 1: To cook, but he likes it.

594
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:16,960
Speaker 3: But but as soon as he's gone, Natalia go, mom,

595
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:20,079
let's order Postmates, you know, like, let's order you know,

596
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:24,160
uh something whatever from Postmates, Tea pumps.

597
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:27,119
Speaker 1: Have you had tea pumps yet? No, it's all the

598
00:25:27,279 --> 00:25:30,359
rave in our school. It's it's like the kids are

599
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:31,799
all about these.

600
00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:37,839
Speaker 3: These these these teas, these iced teas with these goba

601
00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:41,240
But there's a place called Tea Pumps and they're franchised

602
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:46,400
now and they're like the kids go insane. Yeah, but

603
00:25:46,839 --> 00:25:50,000
it's as soon as they're gone, Natalian will order. We

604
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:53,079
ordered breakfast, lunch, and dinner the whole weekend. Don't tell him,

605
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:56,160
well he was gone because I don't like to cook.

606
00:25:56,599 --> 00:25:59,319
But I'm hoping that she'll remember Postmates when she gets older.

607
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:03,160
Speaker 2: That'll be fun. That is. Actually she's gonna love that

608
00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:07,640
about it. She isma never did that.

609
00:26:07,799 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, she didn't. She didn't order Postmates.

610
00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:15,039
Speaker 2: I wish she never got his fast food or anything

611
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:16,119
for you.

612
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:21,039
Speaker 4: I remember like just not getting like the c I

613
00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:23,519
remember and I we I actually talked to elv about

614
00:26:23,559 --> 00:26:26,160
this recently, my older daughter who's thirteen. We were talking

615
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:30,400
about how like some moms well about the things that

616
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:33,839
they all want, like Adidas Vans, right they and I

617
00:26:34,079 --> 00:26:38,000
always buy that stuff from my kids strictly maybe over compensating,

618
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:39,680
but I don't think so. Based on the fact that

619
00:26:40,039 --> 00:26:43,039
my mom never was she had no she could not

620
00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:46,440
empathize with how important it was that I wanted to

621
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:49,000
fit in and have the same brand that everybody when

622
00:26:49,039 --> 00:26:51,559
I was a kid had Nikes. Everybody had it, and

623
00:26:51,599 --> 00:26:53,400
I had to have the rip off brand from like

624
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:56,160
jac Penny something. And it was like I'd rather not

625
00:26:56,559 --> 00:26:59,880
have them, yeah, than have the one that's wrong, the

626
00:27:00,079 --> 00:27:03,880
wrong shoe. And it's like, I just I sometimes I don't.

627
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:07,279
I don't love spending like full price at like sports

628
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:10,599
whatever when you're at the mall, but I will sometimes

629
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:12,000
order them. But you know what I'm saying, because I

630
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:14,799
want them to have the exact one that everybody else has.

631
00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:16,759
Speaker 2: It's important, it's important.

632
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:18,039
Speaker 4: To them, and I want them to grow up and

633
00:27:18,079 --> 00:27:21,079
remember like, oh, I didn't want for fitting in with

634
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:23,559
my friends and my mom just being like, that's stupid.

635
00:27:23,559 --> 00:27:24,319
Speaker 1: I'm not buying them.

636
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:26,039
Speaker 2: That's exactly what my mom did.

637
00:27:26,079 --> 00:27:29,519
Speaker 7: She called them rubber shoes. She called them rubber shoes.

638
00:27:29,559 --> 00:27:32,640
How immigrant is that rubber shoes? Rubber shoes. I'm not

639
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:35,960
paying one hundred dollars for rubber shoes. It's just rubber.

640
00:27:37,279 --> 00:27:39,799
Speaker 2: It's the difference from that shoe and the one over

641
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:42,119
at Guineas. She always took me.

642
00:27:42,039 --> 00:27:48,279
Speaker 6: To Kenny Shoes. Of course, they had all the shoes

643
00:27:48,319 --> 00:27:52,200
that looked like Nikes. Is like a whale or something,

644
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:54,519
just like a way.

645
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:57,240
Speaker 2: It was like a whale, like.

646
00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:58,920
Speaker 7: A whale, but it wasn't It looked like a.

647
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:01,359
Speaker 1: Like a mile away.

648
00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:10,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, like yeah, some Nikes. That's a whale. So embarrassing,

649
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:14,680
and my mom thought, it looks just like it. It's

650
00:28:14,759 --> 00:28:17,400
why did this robber? It's robber.

651
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:20,240
Speaker 7: It's forty dollars for no, I'm not a big one

652
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:21,440
hundred dollars.

653
00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:22,759
Speaker 2: It's crazy.

654
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:27,519
Speaker 4: It's robber shoes, right, And then we're the ungrateful ones

655
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:29,599
always like I just spend forty dollars.

656
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:31,119
Speaker 1: Why aren't you happy? Why the face?

657
00:28:31,279 --> 00:28:33,079
Speaker 2: Why the they? Why are you sad? Because I have

658
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:36,680
a whale on my foot. I look like an idiot.

659
00:28:36,759 --> 00:28:42,920
We're not going to Sea World? Who? What is this? Yeah?

660
00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:44,880
You know she went to Disneyland and didn't take any

661
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:45,240
of us.

662
00:28:45,599 --> 00:28:49,519
Speaker 3: She did no when you were a kid, could you

663
00:28:49,799 --> 00:28:52,599
no wonder why you take your kids everywhere time?

664
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:53,319
Speaker 1: Really?

665
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 7: I never went to an amusement park really, And now

666
00:28:56,559 --> 00:28:58,079
you know what, Look, I'm not gonna make my mom

667
00:28:58,119 --> 00:29:00,880
sound like a bad person. You know this is I

668
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:04,440
clearly remember her going to Disneyland with I forgot who

669
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:05,960
she went with, Like, how do you.

670
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:07,279
Speaker 1: Go to Disneyland without your kids?

671
00:29:07,359 --> 00:29:10,039
Speaker 4: Like it's all about seeing the look on your kids' faces.

672
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:12,640
Although I know I went to Disneyland with only Albie,

673
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:14,880
but go on, I don't know.

674
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:17,759
Speaker 7: I remember it was we were very young, and I

675
00:29:17,839 --> 00:29:20,279
think I think they went to Disneyland. I think they

676
00:29:20,319 --> 00:29:22,960
had to go somewhere that was in LA and they

677
00:29:23,079 --> 00:29:26,000
just went to Disneyland because they were there. And I

678
00:29:26,079 --> 00:29:29,759
totally remember that, and that haunted me my whole life,

679
00:29:30,079 --> 00:29:31,920
because I didn't go to Disneyland until I was like

680
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:32,720
twenty three.

681
00:29:33,519 --> 00:29:35,640
Speaker 1: Oh my god, And you grew.

682
00:29:35,599 --> 00:29:36,559
Speaker 2: Up with my friend Peter.

683
00:29:37,519 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 1: We both went at age twenty three.

684
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 7: Like twenty three, twenty two. I just remember neither one

685
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:44,440
of us went. We had those immigrant parents.

686
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:45,400
Speaker 2: I just my god.

687
00:29:46,079 --> 00:29:48,720
Speaker 3: And when you got there to realize they didn't sell alcohol,

688
00:29:48,759 --> 00:29:50,000
and we were like, what the fuck are we doing?

689
00:29:50,079 --> 00:29:50,279
Speaker 4: Yeah?

690
00:29:50,279 --> 00:29:51,039
Speaker 2: Why are we here?

691
00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:52,599
Speaker 1: It's not magical.

692
00:29:52,839 --> 00:29:55,519
Speaker 4: Like there's a thing about being a kid in Disneyland

693
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:59,720
where you don't see the wires right, yeah, see like

694
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:02,680
how they built it. So you're just like, oh my god.

695
00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:05,559
There's pirates. Yeah right, they feel.

696
00:30:05,319 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 1: Real to you.

697
00:30:06,039 --> 00:30:09,720
Speaker 4: There's I do this right, You're in this world, you're flying,

698
00:30:09,799 --> 00:30:11,319
you're in the peter Pan. And then you're an adult

699
00:30:11,359 --> 00:30:14,160
and you're like, okay, I see that. I can see

700
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:14,599
the ceiling.

701
00:30:14,839 --> 00:30:17,599
Speaker 2: I see it now. I saw the employee eating a

702
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:18,440
hot dog.

703
00:30:18,599 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 1: And smoking right right right.

704
00:30:21,039 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 2: In between buildings, right right.

705
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:26,079
Speaker 1: Have you ever gone to Disneyland and got the chauf for.

706
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:30,599
Speaker 3: The the yes eating disney World Disney is it? No

707
00:30:30,799 --> 00:30:31,880
Disneyland has them.

708
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:36,079
Speaker 7: I did that Disney World. I did the vip limo.

709
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:39,880
My got backstage pass. We went through that whole parking

710
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:41,000
like maybe a hour.

711
00:30:41,559 --> 00:30:42,119
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

712
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 7: I got to see every animal, got to pet every animal,

713
00:30:44,759 --> 00:30:45,880
got to ride every ride.

714
00:30:46,119 --> 00:30:48,359
Speaker 2: It was amazing.

715
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 1: Those VIP people are expensive and worth every penny, every penny.

716
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:55,839
Speaker 7: I'm telling you, if you're going to do anything as

717
00:30:55,839 --> 00:30:58,519
far as vacation, go all out.

718
00:30:58,599 --> 00:31:00,240
Speaker 2: Man, it's so worth it it.

719
00:31:00,359 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, it is the flash pass by the flash pass

720
00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:04,359
by anything.

721
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 7: Whenever they offer a front of line pass, buy it,

722
00:31:08,119 --> 00:31:12,559
buy it. Just don't eat, bring chips something I turn.

723
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:17,039
Line is worth everything. Yes, especially okay, what is it called?

724
00:31:17,319 --> 00:31:20,799
Universal Studios always does their theme park the whore.

725
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 6: Night, Oh my god, and they sell the front of

726
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:26,319
line pass a month in advance.

727
00:31:26,839 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 7: Buy ituse that is a two and a half hour

728
00:31:30,039 --> 00:31:31,200
wait each line.

729
00:31:31,359 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 2: Oh man, there's one that's at least three hours. I'm

730
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:35,319
telling you at Universal.

731
00:31:35,559 --> 00:31:39,160
Speaker 7: Yes, it's the best. It's the best haunted house. Whatever

732
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:39,599
it's called.

733
00:31:40,119 --> 00:31:40,599
Speaker 1: My money.

734
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:49,519
Speaker 8: They han, Yeah, I'll scare you here, say and scare

735
00:31:49,559 --> 00:31:52,279
you it's free head.

736
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:54,960
Speaker 2: I'll hit you like that and go boo.

737
00:31:55,839 --> 00:31:59,079
Speaker 4: So my friend, my BFF Julie, said that she was

738
00:31:59,119 --> 00:32:03,519
hearing you on a pod cast talking about your mom movies,

739
00:32:03,559 --> 00:32:06,079
going to the movies and feeling like why is the

740
00:32:06,119 --> 00:32:10,599
movie so short, and that she the longer the movie

741
00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:11,480
even if it's shitty.

742
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 1: You were doing a bit about if the movie's longer.

743
00:32:14,519 --> 00:32:16,680
Speaker 4: She really enjoyed that because like you could get so

744
00:32:16,759 --> 00:32:19,400
much done, Like it wasn't about the content of the movie.

745
00:32:19,759 --> 00:32:23,559
Speaker 2: Why quantity, quantity over quality.

746
00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:25,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, that she was like, oh, Joe, that was a

747
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:27,319
good movie because it was like two hours.

748
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:32,319
Speaker 7: Two hours and forty five minutes. I don't remember saying

749
00:32:32,319 --> 00:32:33,920
that that was probably a riff or something like that.

750
00:32:34,039 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 1: And you're riffing and that you said that.

751
00:32:35,519 --> 00:32:37,519
Speaker 4: Your mom was like, oh, that was such a good movie, jo,

752
00:32:37,559 --> 00:32:40,599
I got my taxes done.

753
00:32:41,119 --> 00:32:42,000
Speaker 2: I don't remember that.

754
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:44,319
Speaker 4: She doesn't like how the movie was too short, like

755
00:32:44,359 --> 00:32:46,440
it was like an It was like, what's going on?

756
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 1: Why was it only an out and a half. It's

757
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:48,680
a terrible movie.

758
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 2: I'm glad. I'm glad you're telling you this. That is

759
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:55,279
my mom. That is my mom.

760
00:32:55,599 --> 00:32:59,839
Speaker 7: But that's that's her culture though, that quantity over quality.

761
00:33:00,079 --> 00:33:01,599
Speaker 2: It's it's so true.

762
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 3: My mom would go to the movies and walk right

763
00:33:03,759 --> 00:33:06,920
in because she's Italian, and she'd be like, nobody asked

764
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:07,519
me for nothing.

765
00:33:07,599 --> 00:33:09,519
Speaker 1: I took to go with the crowd. I just to

766
00:33:09,559 --> 00:33:10,200
walk right in.

767
00:33:10,279 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 3: I no, I don't go to buy a thing like

768
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:16,319
that's and she would do that at the gym. She

769
00:33:16,519 --> 00:33:22,599
never bought a gym membership. Remember that's Italian, that's Italian.

770
00:33:23,119 --> 00:33:25,519
She just walk right in and she just says, I,

771
00:33:25,799 --> 00:33:27,480
you know, walks right past the girl at the front

772
00:33:27,519 --> 00:33:30,400
desk when she's not looking, just goes and works out.

773
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:32,759
And I mean it was embarrassing because I go to

774
00:33:32,799 --> 00:33:35,599
that gym, they go, your mom keeps coming in. I

775
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:38,000
had to tell her, like there was a long time

776
00:33:38,039 --> 00:33:39,839
where she just kept did she was doing it, and

777
00:33:39,839 --> 00:33:41,880
there was a lot of turnover at the front desk,

778
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:45,400
so nobody really knew, like lady, this Italian lady would

779
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:46,079
just walk right by.

780
00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 6: They thought that, you know, she was part of the

781
00:33:48,359 --> 00:33:50,519
Oh she's cool, your mom's cool.

782
00:33:51,359 --> 00:33:52,240
Speaker 2: That's a cool mom.

783
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 3: No, I love this embarrassing. Nobody looks, nobody cares. I

784
00:33:58,759 --> 00:34:00,720
just walk right in, you know.

785
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:03,759
Speaker 2: Me sneaking of yesterday in.

786
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:04,960
Speaker 1: Her mind, she's not even sneaking.

787
00:34:05,079 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 3: Now.

788
00:34:05,279 --> 00:34:08,519
Speaker 1: It's like, why wouldn't I it's a public place.

789
00:34:08,639 --> 00:34:16,519
Speaker 2: Yeah it's probably. Yes, my mom is the same, well

790
00:34:16,519 --> 00:34:19,159
not the same as that. But if she can get

791
00:34:19,199 --> 00:34:22,320
it for a little free here and there, yeah, that's

792
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:22,960
that's good.

793
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:26,480
Speaker 7: Yes, that's our culture. It's like that's why I call

794
00:34:26,599 --> 00:34:28,760
my my tour break the mold. I'm trying to like,

795
00:34:29,639 --> 00:34:32,360
let's break that. Like that's good. I don't want the

796
00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:35,360
families to fight anymore. I see that's a trend in

797
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:39,760
every especially Filipino families. I see that a lot, you know,

798
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:43,400
and I'm probably gonna get phone calls right now, going.

799
00:34:43,199 --> 00:34:47,280
Speaker 2: Oh that's not right. We don't alight, but like, yeah,

800
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:47,840
it's true.

801
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:50,320
Speaker 7: Like every fan like that comes to my show, they go, yeah,

802
00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:53,119
my mom never talked to my brother, blah blah blah.

803
00:34:53,159 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 2: It's it's I feel like it's.

804
00:34:55,079 --> 00:34:56,840
Speaker 5: Is that every family or is that or is it

805
00:34:57,000 --> 00:35:02,639
just as Yes, the Italians do it, the Middle Easterns

806
00:35:02,679 --> 00:35:05,079
do it, Yeah, all of them, of course.

807
00:35:05,159 --> 00:35:08,599
Speaker 3: But our families, both sides of the family. Yeah, there's

808
00:35:08,639 --> 00:35:11,480
always drama. There's always drama. Like so and so can't

809
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:14,039
go to the wedding. Why because because the wife doesn't

810
00:35:14,079 --> 00:35:15,800
get along with her husband.

811
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:17,679
Speaker 2: True, you know, it's true.

812
00:35:18,159 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 1: It's just it doesn't need to be that way.

813
00:35:20,519 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's how it was. At my sister's wedding. Everyone

814
00:35:23,039 --> 00:35:27,320
was sitting in different spots. I thought, I know, the elephant,

815
00:35:27,679 --> 00:35:32,639
like three elephants in the room. Yeah, you know, yeah,

816
00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:37,400
just three rings. I had a top, had.

817
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:43,480
Speaker 2: My mama and everyone everyone turns their head.

818
00:35:44,199 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 1: So is your mom still mad at people? Always?

819
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:50,360
Speaker 2: No one even understands. Why have you ever asked her?

820
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:51,800
Speaker 1: Yes, what she says?

821
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:54,920
Speaker 2: She has an excuse, you know, Yeah, I don't agree

822
00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:57,400
with it, but she has her excuses.

823
00:35:56,880 --> 00:36:01,639
Speaker 7: And I just I'm all right, I don't see why

824
00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:04,119
that energy is being spent on that, right.

825
00:36:04,199 --> 00:36:06,719
Speaker 6: Have you ever been in a feud with her? Yeah,

826
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:09,000
all the time, but where you guys weren't talking? And

827
00:36:09,039 --> 00:36:13,679
I never and I'll never apologize. I never do because

828
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:16,280
I know I'm not wrong, and I'm going to continue

829
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:19,079
to disagree with her. But the thing is I don't

830
00:36:19,079 --> 00:36:20,000
stop talking to her.

831
00:36:20,559 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 1: That's that's good.

832
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:23,000
Speaker 2: Then yeah, she'll have.

833
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:24,679
Speaker 7: Her words with me and she'll say what she has

834
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:26,199
to say, and then I'll call her them the next

835
00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:29,599
day and like yeah, yeah, But I will never apologize

836
00:36:29,599 --> 00:36:33,000
for how I feel. I'm just I'm just letting her know, Like, Mom,

837
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:36,199
this is what you feel high, What do I say?

838
00:36:36,599 --> 00:36:41,480
What you care passionately about, your your reasoning? It's nothing.

839
00:36:41,639 --> 00:36:43,880
No one even thinks about it like that. It's it's

840
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:44,639
nothing to us.

841
00:36:44,679 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 1: But they don't understand.

842
00:36:46,199 --> 00:36:47,280
Speaker 2: She doesn't get it and get it.

843
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:49,320
Speaker 4: They don't look at it that way. Does she ever

844
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:50,760
send you long abuse of emails?

845
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 2: Man? You want to see this text? Yes? Wait, our

846
00:36:55,519 --> 00:36:58,320
parents are saying, oh my god, look.

847
00:36:58,119 --> 00:37:02,079
Speaker 3: For your text while we tell you about simply saying yeah, yeah,

848
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:02,679
we do.

849
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:05,840
Speaker 7: All right, So my mom doesn't have an iPhone? So

850
00:37:06,599 --> 00:37:09,400
her would you send a message? I guess it turns

851
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:12,320
green green? Okay, So so now you know, so now

852
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:14,840
you know that gray is her bubble.

853
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:17,239
Speaker 2: Right, okay, okay, So.

854
00:37:18,519 --> 00:37:21,199
Speaker 3: I'm surprised she has not, like my parents did, not

855
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:24,280
want anything to do with the iPhone or an iPad

856
00:37:25,199 --> 00:37:26,199
or even a d v R.

857
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:27,880
Speaker 1: We try to get my dad a d v R.

858
00:37:28,039 --> 00:37:31,159
I don't need. I don't need that crap my v

859
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:31,599
c R.

860
00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, with the v c R, that's clearly no. And

861
00:37:40,039 --> 00:37:44,480
then then we'll make up and then boom.

862
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 9: Again.

863
00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:48,760
Speaker 1: Can you just give us like a little look at that.

864
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:48,920
Speaker 2: What?

865
00:37:49,079 --> 00:37:51,559
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, they're always that, they're always bad, and then

866
00:37:51,639 --> 00:37:54,159
we'll make up.

867
00:37:54,639 --> 00:37:58,039
Speaker 4: Joseph, I see that she really does call you. Yeah,

868
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:00,440
can you read us one?

869
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 2: It's kind of it's kind of deep. Okay, Yeah, I

870
00:38:04,039 --> 00:38:06,360
want to it's just it's it's kind of deep. You

871
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:08,679
don't want to cry, especially this one. This one, this

872
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:10,679
one kind of made me mad right here. But I

873
00:38:10,679 --> 00:38:11,800
don't want to say anything.

874
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:14,239
Speaker 1: So she knows. Does she know like how to trigger you?

875
00:38:14,679 --> 00:38:16,320
Speaker 7: I think she does. She knows how to get under

876
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:20,000
my skin, but I ignore it. I will not respond. Yeah,

877
00:38:20,079 --> 00:38:22,800
and she'll just keep sending these big bubbles of something

878
00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:23,400
and I won't.

879
00:38:24,039 --> 00:38:25,800
Speaker 2: I won't respond and then will wait a couple of

880
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:26,800
mad huh.

881
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 1: But it makes you mad, like, yeah, feeling mad.

882
00:38:29,119 --> 00:38:31,840
Speaker 2: I call my sister, you know, and I'm just like, dude,

883
00:38:32,199 --> 00:38:35,519
I don't understand what she's not getting right now, you

884
00:38:35,519 --> 00:38:35,960
know what I mean?

885
00:38:36,159 --> 00:38:39,960
Speaker 3: And your sister will can sympathize, right, Yeah, she understands.

886
00:38:40,079 --> 00:38:43,880
Speaker 2: Yeah. My sister's starting to get frustrated too, because it's

887
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:46,000
like how many times we have to explain, you know, and.

888
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:47,039
Speaker 1: How old your mom?

889
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:51,559
Speaker 7: I see, here we go. We that's what my sister

890
00:38:51,559 --> 00:38:52,000
says to me.

891
00:38:52,119 --> 00:38:52,719
Speaker 2: She's old.

892
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:57,239
Speaker 1: Just yeah, she's seventy one. It's not old. But you

893
00:38:57,280 --> 00:38:58,920
want to roll with the punch. You got to just

894
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:01,840
let them be. I'll be seventy one next year. That

895
00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:02,519
is not old.

896
00:39:03,519 --> 00:39:05,480
Speaker 2: Read up my mouth dropped.

897
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:07,280
Speaker 1: Can you imagine?

898
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:09,960
Speaker 4: Okay, I'm at an age where apparently that is not

899
00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:20,119
completely outside the row, Like no, wait, wow, ift, no talks.

900
00:39:20,159 --> 00:39:22,880
Speaker 1: You've had a lot of botoks out of here. You

901
00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:27,199
weren't just like ah, you were like he was kind

902
00:39:27,199 --> 00:39:27,719
of like, huh.

903
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:29,360
Speaker 7: You know who I'm in love with right now? My

904
00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:32,239
next door neighbor. She lives right at the bottom of

905
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:32,639
my hill.

906
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:34,840
Speaker 1: Yeah right, she's seventy.

907
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:39,639
Speaker 7: Ninety oh, and she drives to Gelson's every week.

908
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:42,360
Speaker 2: I love that she's part of this.

909
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 7: She does like volunteer work for like the Nurse of

910
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:49,480
the Nuns, like this nun whatever thing she does.

911
00:39:49,519 --> 00:39:51,119
Speaker 2: She puts flyers together.

912
00:39:51,119 --> 00:39:53,519
Speaker 7: She always looks for donations, and it's always me that

913
00:39:53,639 --> 00:39:56,519
gives the most. She probably always gives me a letter

914
00:39:56,599 --> 00:39:58,960
from the nuns. They love you. They do a prayer

915
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:03,880
for your joke on. She's so sweet. And here's the

916
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:07,239
best part. She came to a show and I had

917
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:10,880
no idea, no way. She came to the ice House

918
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:13,000
in Pasadena. It was just a pop up show I

919
00:40:13,039 --> 00:40:14,920
did on a Wednesday to mess around.

920
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:16,000
Speaker 1: What is she on Facebook?

921
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 7: She found out for my sister and I didn't know

922
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:23,000
until I got off stage right, and then uh, and

923
00:40:23,079 --> 00:40:25,960
Jemma goes, did you see Denise. I'm like, Denise was here.

924
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:27,639
Why don't you tell me Denise was here? I would

925
00:40:27,639 --> 00:40:30,239
have gave her like the Queen's treatment, you know what

926
00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:32,760
I mean? And then uh, she said no, she didn't

927
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:34,159
want to bother you. She didn't want you to be

928
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:37,840
stressed out. But she came and she brought three of

929
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:38,599
her friends.

930
00:40:40,199 --> 00:40:41,519
Speaker 1: She knows how to bring her shows work.

931
00:40:41,679 --> 00:40:44,800
Speaker 7: So then so now I'm thinking maybe she like cause

932
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:47,760
it's you've seen the ice house. It's tiny. You can

933
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:50,199
see the back of the room. And I know I

934
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:53,559
know Denise, So I'm like, I go, general, she probably

935
00:40:53,559 --> 00:40:56,079
didn't come. She's just being really nice and I'm pretty dirty,

936
00:40:56,119 --> 00:40:57,920
so she probably walked out. And that's why she didn't

937
00:40:57,920 --> 00:40:59,480
want to say hi, you know what I mean.

938
00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:00,400
Speaker 1: Like she she's.

939
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:06,800
Speaker 2: She quoted all my stuff, my god, wow, and was dying.

940
00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:09,800
And then then our free our friendship became even stronger

941
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:13,480
because I thought she was, you know, a different, you know,

942
00:41:14,119 --> 00:41:16,840
different lady. And then then then I realized that she

943
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:18,480
loved that kind of humor. And now you got to

944
00:41:18,519 --> 00:41:22,360
hear how we talked. It's so great. That's funny. She

945
00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:25,280
collects money for nuns. That's right. So you think you

946
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:26,239
gotta have her on the show.

947
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:31,960
Speaker 7: She's so funny, she curses, she's so funny, crazy, she's

948
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:34,280
so funny, so goddamn funny.

949
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:38,679
Speaker 3: And she she lives by herself, by herself, having always

950
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:39,360
go to our house.

951
00:41:39,559 --> 00:41:41,159
Speaker 1: That's nice, that's so good.

952
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:44,239
Speaker 7: We go to her house, cleaner, cleaner, kitchen for I'm

953
00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:45,719
going to take her out to dinner this week.

954
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:47,519
Speaker 1: Really, you take her out to dinner?

955
00:41:47,559 --> 00:41:49,119
Speaker 2: Well, we got I haven't, I haven't yet.

956
00:41:49,159 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 7: She made me egg sandwiches the other day and she

957
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:54,480
cut them into a little tiny uh. By the way,

958
00:41:54,519 --> 00:41:57,280
she's from England and she goes every year. She leaves

959
00:41:57,280 --> 00:41:59,199
for three months and she says the same thing to me,

960
00:41:59,519 --> 00:42:00,920
this might be my last time.

961
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:03,719
Speaker 2: So I'm just saying, I love you and you were

962
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:05,679
the best. Oh my god, I wish.

963
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:07,840
Speaker 7: I had an English accent. But she always says that,

964
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:11,280
and then she always comes back that's what it goes.

965
00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:16,800
Speaker 2: And then but but she made me egg salad sandwiches,

966
00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:18,440
and she goes, come out, come to the house and

967
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:20,880
let's do it in a tea potty. She said that

968
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:23,000
let's do it in a tea potty. What kind of

969
00:42:23,039 --> 00:42:23,920
sandwiches do you like?

970
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:26,559
Speaker 7: And I go, well, little Joe wants a peanut butter

971
00:42:26,599 --> 00:42:27,960
and jelly and just make excel.

972
00:42:28,039 --> 00:42:30,239
Speaker 2: I was just trying to think of easy things. And

973
00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:32,800
then we get there. We get there and she has

974
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:36,800
the tea set up that you see in cartoons. She

975
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:39,320
actually had that with the tea in it, with the

976
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:42,480
squares of sugar with the little tongs, and then and

977
00:42:42,519 --> 00:42:45,119
then she had like this little tray with three plates

978
00:42:45,119 --> 00:42:48,400
and all of them had like triangle squares of sandwiches.

979
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:50,360
And then she goes, I had to hold one of

980
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:52,519
my friends because I don't know what an egg salad

981
00:42:52,639 --> 00:42:55,199
sandwich was really, and they had to tell me what

982
00:42:55,280 --> 00:43:01,159
egg salad was, and I saw stupid And it was

983
00:43:01,199 --> 00:43:02,360
the best time we ever had.

984
00:43:02,559 --> 00:43:03,400
Speaker 1: That's so sweet.

985
00:43:03,599 --> 00:43:05,039
Speaker 2: And that was a long time ago. That was like

986
00:43:05,039 --> 00:43:07,079
a few years ago. So I got to check it

987
00:43:07,079 --> 00:43:08,440
out to dinner. Yeah, so sweet.

988
00:43:08,519 --> 00:43:10,199
Speaker 1: I thought you just moved into that house.

989
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:12,360
Speaker 2: No, that was about yeah, how years did I say?

990
00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:13,119
About three? Four?

991
00:43:13,199 --> 00:43:13,400
Speaker 1: Yeah?

992
00:43:13,599 --> 00:43:14,480
Speaker 2: It was about four years.

993
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:17,840
Speaker 3: Ago, and so you're done with all your constructions still

994
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:18,559
going on.

995
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:21,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's beautiful though, you got to see it.

996
00:43:21,519 --> 00:43:23,800
Speaker 1: I've seen it in the videos. I would love to

997
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:25,280
see it. Where do you live in the valley?

998
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:28,599
Speaker 2: About a house in Vegas? Too? What games?

999
00:43:28,599 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 1: Really?

1000
00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:30,800
Speaker 2: Wow?

1001
00:43:31,119 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 1: Do you like going to Vegas?

1002
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:34,880
Speaker 2: I love it? Well, my family's there there. Yeah, I

1003
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:37,320
got a restaurant there. Yeah, I'm good too.

1004
00:43:37,559 --> 00:43:38,760
Speaker 1: Really. What do you play craps?

1005
00:43:39,159 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 2: No? I hate craps. I'm all blackjack?

1006
00:43:42,559 --> 00:43:45,119
Speaker 1: Oh true? Do you get mad at people like that?

1007
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:45,679
Speaker 2: Oh?

1008
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 7: Yeah, if they don't know how to play? But when

1009
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:50,119
I sit and Steph, you got to do this. It's

1010
00:43:50,159 --> 00:43:53,719
all about your energy. I can turn a table into

1011
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:57,519
a party, man, I'm sure yeah, because my my attentions

1012
00:43:57,800 --> 00:43:59,960
is if I lose two hundred, I lose two hundred.

1013
00:43:59,960 --> 00:44:01,760
Speaker 2: That's what I sat down with, and I'm cool with that.

1014
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:07,039
Speaker 7: But if I win, we're gonna have a party. Yes, Like,

1015
00:44:07,079 --> 00:44:08,840
but if I'm gonna lose two hundred, that's cool because

1016
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:11,000
I'm I'm I want to lose two hundred.

1017
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:12,960
Speaker 2: It's fun. We're gonna have fun. We're gonna have fun

1018
00:44:13,039 --> 00:44:13,360
doing it.

1019
00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:17,400
Speaker 7: And then but when Amy's mom sat with me with

1020
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:20,960
my fiance's mom and she she fell in love. Man,

1021
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:24,199
because I can turn I can turn any table. Oh

1022
00:44:25,679 --> 00:44:27,039
so you bought a house house?

1023
00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:31,760
Speaker 3: Uh yeah, wow, like right in like by the strip.

1024
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:34,480
Speaker 2: No, I bought it. It's really nice area.

1025
00:44:35,079 --> 00:44:36,719
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, wow, that's nice.

1026
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:41,480
Speaker 2: It's called the Ridges Summerlan. Oh yeah, it's beautiful and

1027
00:44:41,599 --> 00:44:44,320
so okay, Amy, I just dropped it too.

1028
00:44:44,559 --> 00:44:48,440
Speaker 3: Bam, wow, look at you, Joe.

1029
00:44:48,679 --> 00:44:49,239
Speaker 1: What does that mean?

1030
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:52,199
Speaker 2: There's no payment?

1031
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:56,480
Speaker 1: Oh really wow? Things are going good at your life shows.

1032
00:44:56,519 --> 00:45:03,760
Speaker 7: Huh my mom's house too. Bam there woman, Yeah, I

1033
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:04,480
want lady.

1034
00:45:04,519 --> 00:45:06,880
Speaker 1: And there's been a whole string of texts.

1035
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:10,519
Speaker 6: Still still what do you want?

1036
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:14,079
Speaker 4: You're like every response you should just have auto response.

1037
00:45:14,199 --> 00:45:16,760
Speaker 1: I bought you a house.

1038
00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:20,440
Speaker 2: And comers living room. What do you want? Woman?

1039
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:23,239
Speaker 7: That was the best day of my life. And I

1040
00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:25,000
don't like to brag, and I'm just doing all this

1041
00:45:25,079 --> 00:45:27,719
show let's see one, but I don't. I don't like

1042
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:31,039
to say it, but for you, that was the best

1043
00:45:31,079 --> 00:45:33,400
day of my life seeing being able to do that

1044
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:33,920
for my mom.

1045
00:45:34,119 --> 00:45:38,199
Speaker 3: Oh that's what else have you done for you're in

1046
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:38,719
the family.

1047
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:40,599
Speaker 6: I don't like to put it out there, but I

1048
00:45:40,639 --> 00:45:44,679
do a lot. You do all all of them? Yeah, yeah,

1049
00:45:45,079 --> 00:45:46,840
do you think you're slowing them though? Do you think

1050
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:48,679
that they're going to start like hitting you up for like.

1051
00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:52,599
Speaker 2: Well they had ship now, No, they won't because it's

1052
00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:55,159
very it's very specific, you know, Joe.

1053
00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:57,280
Speaker 4: I'm at seven eleven and I really have my eye

1054
00:45:57,280 --> 00:45:58,360
on this blueberry muffin?

1055
00:45:58,920 --> 00:45:59,679
Speaker 1: Can you help about it?

1056
00:46:00,159 --> 00:46:04,159
Speaker 2: Go fuck yourself. No. But it's like for my niece

1057
00:46:04,159 --> 00:46:06,360
and my nephews, you know what I mean, But I won't.

1058
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:07,079
They know.

1059
00:46:07,199 --> 00:46:09,960
Speaker 7: It's like if you're not, don't don't come at me

1060
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:12,039
with an idea, you know what I mean.

1061
00:46:13,119 --> 00:46:15,719
Speaker 2: Don't that that's nothing to me. You know what I mean.

1062
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:19,760
Speaker 7: Come with me with a legit business plan and with

1063
00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:22,679
a couple of years of you were hitting the pavement

1064
00:46:23,159 --> 00:46:26,960
and showing me some type of positive it's going in

1065
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:30,280
the positive. Don't come to me, yeah, man, because you

1066
00:46:30,599 --> 00:46:33,039
don't know my hustle. And the only ones that do

1067
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:37,079
are are my cousins and my fiance. See me do

1068
00:46:37,159 --> 00:46:39,800
my hustle? You know, they they know what I did.

1069
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:40,159
Speaker 2: You know.

1070
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:43,760
Speaker 7: I was before Facebook, I was before my Space. I

1071
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:46,960
was I was literally printing and cutting up flyers at

1072
00:46:47,039 --> 00:46:49,960
Kinko's Buy Myself at two o'clock in the morning and

1073
00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:53,039
then going to the malls and putting them on windshields

1074
00:46:53,039 --> 00:46:54,960
of cars. I was that annoying guy when you get

1075
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:56,320
those little cards in your windshield.

1076
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:57,840
Speaker 2: That was me, you know what I mean.

1077
00:46:57,880 --> 00:46:59,719
Speaker 7: I'm the one that went to doors to go to

1078
00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:01,440
people that said they were going to buy tickets to

1079
00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:02,920
the show, and I would be like, well, you said

1080
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:04,440
you were going to buy tickets. I need you to

1081
00:47:04,440 --> 00:47:06,920
buy these right now because I have to pay the

1082
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:09,559
rent on that theater. And I can care less if

1083
00:47:09,599 --> 00:47:11,599
you go or not, but I do need that fifteen bucks.

1084
00:47:11,639 --> 00:47:12,559
Speaker 2: You know what I was doing that.

1085
00:47:12,639 --> 00:47:15,079
Speaker 4: You know that when that once got fired from a

1086
00:47:15,199 --> 00:47:18,159
job for not handing up, for being in charge of

1087
00:47:18,199 --> 00:47:18,639
handing out.

1088
00:47:18,639 --> 00:47:21,320
Speaker 1: Oh, I was supposed to be passing flyers out. It

1089
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:23,559
was my first job. Yeah, And I sat down.

1090
00:47:23,599 --> 00:47:25,599
Speaker 3: I was having fat burger and my friends came on

1091
00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:28,599
Ventor Boulevard and showed up, and I was like, yeah,

1092
00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:30,679
let's go have something to eat. I sat down and

1093
00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:33,760
I took a I took a ketchup, turned over one

1094
00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:36,039
of the flyers we were fast at and put ketchup

1095
00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:39,880
and looked up and my boss was standing right there, going.

1096
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:40,480
Speaker 1: Are you having fun?

1097
00:47:40,599 --> 00:47:41,000
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1098
00:47:41,119 --> 00:47:43,239
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, her boss did not respect her.

1099
00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:45,239
Speaker 2: Hustle, of course not.

1100
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:49,800
Speaker 3: It was a hustling. I was like, sixteen for somebody else. Yeah, yeah,

1101
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:50,800
but you were hustling.

1102
00:47:51,239 --> 00:47:54,119
Speaker 4: Yeah, shows for how you busted your ass to get

1103
00:47:54,159 --> 00:47:54,599
your career.

1104
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:57,800
Speaker 2: Did my ass all the way up until last year.

1105
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:01,719
Speaker 7: Everything that I've done, I did on my own.

1106
00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:02,480
Speaker 2: You know what I mean.

1107
00:48:03,039 --> 00:48:06,079
Speaker 7: Netflix, They didn't give me Netflix. They said no to me.

1108
00:48:06,199 --> 00:48:07,519
You know how many times they said no to me,

1109
00:48:07,639 --> 00:48:09,239
Like three or four times they said no to me

1110
00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:13,639
in twenty fourteen, twenty fifteen, twenty sixteen, and I was like, dude,

1111
00:48:13,679 --> 00:48:16,440
I need to get this special up, like my son's

1112
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:18,079
getting older. I'm sorry if I keep running my nose,

1113
00:48:18,079 --> 00:48:20,400
I wash my hands later. But I was like, you know,

1114
00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:23,000
you're saying no to me, and I didn't understand it.

1115
00:48:23,079 --> 00:48:25,599
Like I knew that this special needed to be shot

1116
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:27,039
and it needs to be on Netflix.

1117
00:48:27,079 --> 00:48:29,079
Speaker 2: It can't be on any other network. It has to

1118
00:48:29,079 --> 00:48:29,679
be on Netflix.

1119
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:30,960
Speaker 1: I get them to say yes.

1120
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 7: I paid for it myself. I shot it myself with

1121
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:38,159
no one saying shoot it. They said no. They even

1122
00:48:38,199 --> 00:48:41,559
told me twenty seventeen is done, Our roster's done. Will

1123
00:48:41,559 --> 00:48:45,480
look at you twenty seventeen for twenty eighteen nineteen. That's

1124
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:48,280
what they said to me. And really, yes, and that

1125
00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:51,400
was in two thousand, late twenty fifteen, early twenty sixteen.

1126
00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:54,000
Speaker 1: What are they so busy running? Like Netflix?

1127
00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:56,639
Speaker 2: It was at it? But see there, But see this

1128
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:57,920
is how you can look at it. You can look

1129
00:48:57,960 --> 00:48:58,679
at it two ways.

1130
00:48:58,679 --> 00:49:00,679
Speaker 7: You can look at it that way and go, why

1131
00:49:00,679 --> 00:49:02,440
are you so busy your Netflix? Or you can look

1132
00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:05,280
at it this way where you go, hey, they aren't

1133
00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:08,719
Netflix and everyone is on that network. And yeah, they

1134
00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:11,679
did sign a ton of talent like Chris Rock and

1135
00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:15,639
Amy Schore and Chappelle and no, that was the year

1136
00:49:15,679 --> 00:49:17,920
that they signed all those people to Our Specials and

1137
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:18,559
I wanted to.

1138
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:20,639
Speaker 2: Be on that year, right, I wanted to be on

1139
00:49:20,639 --> 00:49:22,679
that year. They were making an announcement about this big

1140
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:24,840
Our Special push that they were going to do a

1141
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:25,480
don of them, and.

1142
00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:27,880
Speaker 1: I wanted to be in that room.

1143
00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:30,639
Speaker 4: It's not like NBC is going are we literally our

1144
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:33,039
lineup is full, there's only twenty four hours a day.

1145
00:49:33,079 --> 00:49:37,000
I'm saying Netflix could add it to their right, but I.

1146
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:38,599
Speaker 2: Know you could. But like I said, you could look

1147
00:49:38,599 --> 00:49:39,239
at it both ways.

1148
00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:40,880
Speaker 1: What had they so you had to go out and

1149
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:41,760
shoot at your site.

1150
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:43,719
Speaker 2: I looked at it the other way. I looked at it.

1151
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:44,920
I looked at it this way.

1152
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:47,840
Speaker 7: If you're you know, there's guys that go, okay, yeah,

1153
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:50,360
you're right, I'll talk to you next year. You can

1154
00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:53,199
be that guy. But but you know what happens is

1155
00:49:53,199 --> 00:49:54,960
it just everything just keeps getting.

1156
00:49:54,679 --> 00:49:57,360
Speaker 2: Pushed back in peak because there's no drive to push forward.

1157
00:49:57,679 --> 00:49:59,559
You're just in neutral, you know what I mean?

1158
00:49:59,679 --> 00:50:02,320
Speaker 7: Yes, Or you can be the other guy where you're like,

1159
00:50:02,400 --> 00:50:06,320
oh you you can't get it, you can't afford to

1160
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:08,400
pay for it, or you don't have room for me. Well,

1161
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:11,559
let me show you why you should have this. And

1162
00:50:11,599 --> 00:50:14,039
if you don't get it, I promise you someone else will.

1163
00:50:14,159 --> 00:50:16,760
Like that was my mentality. I knew, like if I

1164
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:18,880
didn't get on Netflix, and you know what, Showtime will

1165
00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:20,360
get it. If Showtime doesn't get it, I'll get it

1166
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:21,960
to HBO. If Hbo doesn't want it, I'll get it

1167
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:23,559
to Comedy Center. If they don't want I'll get it

1168
00:50:23,559 --> 00:50:25,400
on Hulu. I'll get it on Amazon. I'll sell it

1169
00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:26,800
out of my car because I've done it.

1170
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:28,840
Speaker 1: Before, like Blue Blockers, I did it now.

1171
00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:31,800
Speaker 7: I did though I used to burn my own DVDs

1172
00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:34,400
on iMovie, and I used to sell them.

1173
00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:36,760
Speaker 2: At the end of shows. I used to hand those out,

1174
00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:37,800
and then it got to the point where I was

1175
00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:39,519
just getting away for free because I just want people to.

1176
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Speaker 6: Go home with something tangible. Yeah you know what I mean. Yeah,

1177
00:50:42,639 --> 00:50:44,679
So I made that. I shot it myself. Shows to

1178
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:45,360
meet and greet.

1179
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:48,199
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we got to get you on meet and greet. Yeah,

1180
00:50:48,199 --> 00:50:49,559
I'll tell you about that. Yeah, I will tell you

1181
00:50:49,599 --> 00:50:50,079
about it after this.

1182
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:52,599
Speaker 2: I don't like it, but anyways, that's special. I shot it.

1183
00:50:52,760 --> 00:50:55,280
Speaker 7: I sat in the editing bay and we and we

1184
00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:57,320
brought it to a lot of networks and then we

1185
00:50:57,360 --> 00:50:58,719
got it to Netflix and when they saw it, they

1186
00:50:58,760 --> 00:50:59,599
were like, we want it, and.

1187
00:50:59,519 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 2: They bought it.

1188
00:51:00,519 --> 00:51:03,519
Speaker 7: See and they put it on two thousand, exactly the

1189
00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:06,239
year I wanted, which was the twenty seventeen year.

1190
00:51:06,840 --> 00:51:09,239
Speaker 2: And that changed my life and changed my life.

1191
00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:11,159
Speaker 1: That's Joe Croy Life from Seattle.

1192
00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:12,440
Speaker 2: That's life from Seattle.

1193
00:51:13,519 --> 00:51:15,280
Speaker 1: It's great, mind you everything.

1194
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:16,320
Speaker 2: I fund everything.

1195
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:22,599
Speaker 7: I funded director, the stage of the set, the lighting guy, everything, theater.

1196
00:51:22,760 --> 00:51:23,679
Speaker 2: We rented the theater.

1197
00:51:23,840 --> 00:51:26,519
Speaker 7: I I buught those tickets, everything that I sold that night,

1198
00:51:26,599 --> 00:51:28,280
everything everything.

1199
00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:31,039
Speaker 4: Amazing, Joe, Where do you get this? Like the drive?

1200
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:32,760
I mean, I get that from my mom.

1201
00:51:33,599 --> 00:51:36,079
Speaker 7: I saw a roll of egg rolls and someone for

1202
00:51:36,119 --> 00:51:37,000
twenty bucks a bag.

1203
00:51:37,119 --> 00:51:39,440
Speaker 2: So I saw that hustle, you know what I mean directly,

1204
00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:39,920
I saw that.

1205
00:51:40,159 --> 00:51:42,360
Speaker 7: Yeah, It's like, okay, I'm not getting child support, Well

1206
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:43,239
how can I make money?

1207
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:43,880
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

1208
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:46,960
Speaker 4: So I'm a Hustlelynette is such a hustler.

1209
00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:51,800
Speaker 1: I respect Lynett's hustle. I love any vice vice versa.

1210
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:54,679
Speaker 4: Lannette is like Lynette and I have a lot in

1211
00:51:54,719 --> 00:51:56,960
common that I think we have with you too, is

1212
00:51:57,039 --> 00:52:01,480
just growing up, like without some stuff we I always

1213
00:52:01,519 --> 00:52:03,400
feel like I'm never going to feel like that again,

1214
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:06,800
Like I'm never going to be in a situation where

1215
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:09,920
i can't just like if I remember feeling even as

1216
00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:12,760
a like a moving out here on my own and

1217
00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:16,400
feeling like, oh, I can't just buy a CD, like

1218
00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:18,159
when an artist comes out with a new CD and

1219
00:52:18,199 --> 00:52:20,519
I really wanted there and it was like, oh, it's

1220
00:52:20,559 --> 00:52:22,960
like fifteen dollars or whatever it was back there and

1221
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:26,360
that or rent like I don't ever, I was like,

1222
00:52:26,440 --> 00:52:28,320
I will never go back there. I will work my

1223
00:52:28,519 --> 00:52:31,400
asss whatever I need to do. I'm not too good

1224
00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:34,519
for anything, you know. I mean, I waited tables for

1225
00:52:34,559 --> 00:52:35,920
a lot of years. I put up with a lot

1226
00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:38,559
of shit, and like I've always said, I won't go

1227
00:52:38,639 --> 00:52:41,079
back to waiting tables. But I'm saying like a hustle

1228
00:52:41,159 --> 00:52:43,079
in the way of like, I want to work hard

1229
00:52:43,159 --> 00:52:45,239
to make things. I don't expect people to hand me

1230
00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:48,119
stuff like there's a way to make some extra point,

1231
00:52:48,159 --> 00:52:48,679
I'll do it.

1232
00:52:48,800 --> 00:52:50,360
Speaker 2: Let's do it right right.

1233
00:52:50,400 --> 00:52:52,519
Speaker 3: And you, I mean, you have that mentality and that's

1234
00:52:52,559 --> 00:52:56,760
why you're who you are today. And congratulations, as people

1235
00:52:56,760 --> 00:53:00,880
would say, Mazel dah, yes, break love the same mouzzel

1236
00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:04,599
top Filipino. But my daughter's best friend is Filipino. Yeah,

1237
00:53:04,639 --> 00:53:08,800
and their family she's wonderful, wonderful giving, right, Yeah, they

1238
00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:15,719
really are. They're two nights. They want to know they're

1239
00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:19,440
they're very sweet, but really quick. Tell us about the break,

1240
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:20,960
Break the mold, Break the mold.

1241
00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:24,119
Speaker 7: That's just my tour. That's uh, it's gonna end real

1242
00:53:24,199 --> 00:53:29,159
soon though. It ends in Hawaii. And and uh and

1243
00:53:29,199 --> 00:53:32,719
that's when I shoot my new special Nice which Netflix

1244
00:53:32,800 --> 00:53:35,119
is going to do this from Hawaii. It's gonna be well,

1245
00:53:35,159 --> 00:53:36,559
and I want to I got a name for it,

1246
00:53:36,599 --> 00:53:39,119
but I don't want to release the name. It's amazing.

1247
00:53:40,119 --> 00:53:42,719
But it's gonna be in Hawaii and uh.

1248
00:53:42,599 --> 00:53:45,280
Speaker 1: And I have the bit about the movies not being long.

1249
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:48,880
Whale on the shoe.

1250
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:50,239
Speaker 2: The whale.

1251
00:53:50,719 --> 00:53:54,239
Speaker 7: Whale on the Shoe is good the the but it's

1252
00:53:54,239 --> 00:53:56,440
so cool that's in Hawaii. I sold out three arenas,

1253
00:53:56,639 --> 00:54:00,760
four arenas. Wow, it's sold out in March. I'm we

1254
00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:04,679
believe until on March. Wow, yeah, March or April April.

1255
00:54:04,719 --> 00:54:07,360
I think it's sold out like a day or two days.

1256
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:08,800
And when are you going to be It's not so

1257
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:13,400
November four areas. It's thirty one thousand tickets.

1258
00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:14,119
Speaker 2: Jesus.

1259
00:54:14,199 --> 00:54:16,239
Speaker 4: I want me and Lynette to open for you. You

1260
00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:18,000
have no promises that we can.

1261
00:54:18,280 --> 00:54:21,719
Speaker 1: It's work live pod before we end.

1262
00:54:21,800 --> 00:54:23,519
Speaker 3: I have to say, and I say this every time

1263
00:54:23,519 --> 00:54:27,079
when you're on the show, I feel like I discovered you.

1264
00:54:27,079 --> 00:54:28,280
Speaker 2: You did, I did.

1265
00:54:28,679 --> 00:54:32,360
Speaker 3: I remember vividly vacuuming and listening to Adam show and

1266
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:35,760
listening to you and listening you were I think you

1267
00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:37,480
were doing a live show with him. It was a

1268
00:54:37,519 --> 00:54:41,159
live show and you were on a Johnny on the

1269
00:54:41,199 --> 00:54:42,119
spot with.

1270
00:54:42,199 --> 00:54:44,480
Speaker 1: Him, and you were you were.

1271
00:54:44,199 --> 00:54:47,840
Speaker 3: Doing back and forth like Adam never, he rarely has that,

1272
00:54:48,039 --> 00:54:51,039
and you know it's hard to find, and you know,

1273
00:54:51,039 --> 00:54:53,920
there's only like five people I could think of four

1274
00:54:54,000 --> 00:54:57,039
that that can do that with him, and you were

1275
00:54:57,039 --> 00:54:59,239
doing it, and I remember going he came home. I

1276
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:01,559
was like, oh, my my god, who is that guy?

1277
00:55:02,039 --> 00:55:05,199
Oh yeah, Joe, Yeah he's good. Yeah, yeah, he's.

1278
00:55:05,440 --> 00:55:08,840
Speaker 1: He's got chops, He's got chops. You were, Yeah, So.

1279
00:55:08,960 --> 00:55:12,320
Speaker 7: I get nervous around Adam still, so do I. Yeah,

1280
00:55:12,800 --> 00:55:16,960
he's so he gets He's so quick, and it's crazy.

1281
00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:19,639
I try and matches his Oh you can, don't worry. Oh,

1282
00:55:19,719 --> 00:55:23,119
don't worry. You're you. You are funnier than him. I

1283
00:55:23,159 --> 00:55:25,039
don't go and say, you know, I got stand Up

1284
00:55:25,079 --> 00:55:29,079
Comedian of the Year, right, you did, really JFL gave

1285
00:55:29,079 --> 00:55:29,880
it to me this year.

1286
00:55:30,159 --> 00:55:30,480
Speaker 2: Wow.

1287
00:55:30,760 --> 00:55:31,639
Speaker 1: Congratulation.

1288
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:36,119
Speaker 7: And that is is what I put on the shelf

1289
00:55:36,159 --> 00:55:39,440
in front of my mom and also my son, you

1290
00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:42,199
know what I mean. My mom because she thought this

1291
00:55:42,239 --> 00:55:45,159
would never be anything, you know what I mean. So

1292
00:55:45,199 --> 00:55:49,159
that's that's that's my my little light boom your dreams.

1293
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:52,800
I'm already working for that. Yeah you need I want

1294
00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:56,480
that Grammy, Grammy. We're about to release my album and

1295
00:55:57,159 --> 00:55:58,239
I'm working on all that.

1296
00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:01,159
Speaker 1: Awesome, so exciting. So where can we find you?

1297
00:56:02,119 --> 00:56:03,039
Speaker 2: Wherever you want? Man?

1298
00:56:03,119 --> 00:56:04,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, find it.

1299
00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:07,360
Speaker 3: Follow him on Instagram as I do. I like his

1300
00:56:07,400 --> 00:56:10,840
Instagram stories. He'll teach you how to cook, yes, and

1301
00:56:10,840 --> 00:56:13,000
then he'll make you jealous by seeing all the lavish

1302
00:56:13,079 --> 00:56:14,440
vacations he takes his son on.

1303
00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:16,559
Speaker 1: And maybe they won't even be on vacation.

1304
00:56:16,639 --> 00:56:18,559
Speaker 3: They might be in Tarzana, but they're still having a

1305
00:56:18,559 --> 00:56:20,360
good time and it will still be jealous.

1306
00:56:20,679 --> 00:56:24,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay. So Patreon.

1307
00:56:24,599 --> 00:56:28,719
Speaker 4: Patreon is the place where you can find bonus content

1308
00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:32,519
from UH for Crying Out Loud and this week was

1309
00:56:32,599 --> 00:56:33,519
a barn burner.

1310
00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:36,760
Speaker 1: She didn't know how good it was going to be.

1311
00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:40,920
Speaker 3: I know how to, I just I didn't have any words.

1312
00:56:41,519 --> 00:56:42,719
It was unbelievable.

1313
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:43,400
Speaker 2: It will be.

1314
00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:46,920
Speaker 1: Worth every cent if you sign up for Patreon.

1315
00:56:47,079 --> 00:56:50,360
Speaker 4: It was a crazy email that I thought it was insane,

1316
00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:53,039
too much, too much that I've been really mad about.

1317
00:56:53,119 --> 00:56:56,440
So I get to use sometimes Patreon for it's like

1318
00:56:56,480 --> 00:56:59,719
my therapy. But also if you're on Patreon and you

1319
00:56:59,760 --> 00:57:02,000
want to give us fifty dollars a month, which really

1320
00:57:02,119 --> 00:57:05,119
breaks down to less than fifteen dollars a week.

1321
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:08,480
Speaker 1: You get a shout out for your business and thank

1322
00:57:08,519 --> 00:57:11,480
you guys. Yeah, thank you, jail, thank you, Joe Coy.

1323
00:57:11,840 --> 00:57:15,400
Speaker 2: Twelve dollars and fifty cents a week. You can get

1324
00:57:15,440 --> 00:57:16,719
to what is it.

1325
00:57:17,320 --> 00:57:20,000
Speaker 4: A shout out but your business?

1326
00:57:20,039 --> 00:57:22,679
Speaker 2: That's it. I'm buying one, Yeah, do it? Can I

1327
00:57:22,679 --> 00:57:25,880
buy it? Yeah? Can you do it now? Yeah? Sure?

1328
00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:29,559
Speaker 3: Can you get your neighbor on it too, the little lady?

1329
00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:32,679
Speaker 4: Yeah, for her egg sandwiches. Yeah, I'm doing the website

1330
00:57:32,719 --> 00:57:32,960
for her.

1331
00:57:33,119 --> 00:57:33,880
Speaker 2: I love it all.

1332
00:57:33,960 --> 00:57:36,119
Speaker 1: I thank you, Joe, I love you, thank you, we

1333
00:57:36,159 --> 00:57:38,480
love you too. You're a parent. Now, don't f it up.

1334
00:58:22,679 --> 00:58:27,800
Speaker 10: A nice breeze blouses whenever the b fella cracks of

1335
00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:32,199
print and won the time take. Since you said that's

1336
00:58:32,480 --> 00:58:37,639
the song for yuh big, I'm gonna help me.

1337
00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:43,159
Speaker 2: It is fun. I gotta kind of. I can get

1338
00:58:43,159 --> 00:58:52,719
a lot of med step whil fother shiner honest.

1339
00:58:52,840 --> 00:58:53,280
Speaker 4: Well, but.

1340
00:58:58,119 --> 00:59:04,599
Speaker 2: To love us parts rising, oh love the.

1341
00:59:08,880 --> 00:59:23,679
Speaker 9: Don't the way of the wheels a bit?

1342
00:59:36,159 --> 00:59:36,679
Speaker 2: Please?

1343
00:59:36,840 --> 00:59:41,320
Speaker 10: Everyone got thrown off the pot before the tree was stuck.

1344
00:59:41,159 --> 00:59:46,719
Speaker 2: So wes fine on your face. You disappeared with adults.

1345
00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:52,039
I don't know. Wait on was a little fun. Well

1346
00:59:52,079 --> 00:59:55,679
without down here, I let think I know we can

1347
00:59:55,719 --> 01:00:01,800
get a lot of bed stun. That's not as Simon.

1348
01:00:05,039 --> 01:00:05,360
Speaker 3: Wanted.

1349
01:00:05,519 --> 01:00:05,960
Speaker 6: Well, but.

1350
01:00:10,800 --> 01:00:18,119
Speaker 9: Two love us pouts by day oh alone before rude.

1351
01:00:21,159 --> 01:00:23,119
That's never away.

1352
01:00:23,360 --> 01:00:28,599
Speaker 2: Go to my own follow because I lost all away.

1353
01:00:28,719 --> 01:00:34,159
You want to know you? But do you love? That

1354
01:00:34,360 --> 01:00:35,679
should be that shod I.

1355
01:00:35,880 --> 01:01:17,639
Speaker 9: Never on the way the worn thy shining on his

1356
01:01:17,840 --> 01:01:28,239
web enough to love the half of my said, Oh

1357
01:01:28,639 --> 01:01:29,800
I love be born.

1358
01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:46,440
Speaker 2: I think that's all a min way.

1359
01:01:46,599 --> 01:01:48,039
Speaker 9: Gotta keep my nose.

1360
01:01:49,519 --> 01:01:53,760
Speaker 2: I no way you want to know, don't there will be.

1361
01:01:58,159 --> 01:02:07,679
Speaker 9: That's not it is not just standing bag strange stag

1362
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