1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,279 Speaker 1: Hey, guys, please don't forget about arrow dot net A 2 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:05,440 r r Oe dot net. I believe in the power 3 00:00:05,480 --> 00:00:09,119 of choice, and your listening habits are a choice. There 4 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:13,199 are seventeen podcasts to listen to, please enjoy them a 5 00:00:13,560 --> 00:00:17,760 r r oe dot net. I'm always asking questions, and 6 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:19,519 the reason why is because the fund begins when you 7 00:00:19,519 --> 00:00:24,000 start researching for answers such as are we wasting way 8 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:26,879 too much time dreaming about having a better job at 9 00:00:26,879 --> 00:00:31,079 a better life? Plus? What three questions should we be 10 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:34,799 asking ourselves every single morning we wake up. My name 11 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:38,039 is Erro. I'm a daily writer, a silent wolf. I 12 00:00:38,119 --> 00:00:40,960 stand on the sidelines and do nothing but watch, listen, study, 13 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:43,920 then activate. I happen to call it the daily Mess, 14 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:48,079 a chronological walkthrough in everyday world. Yeah, it's my morning pages. 15 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:50,840 As a receiver of thoughts and ideas, we as people 16 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:53,200 tend to throw it to the side because we think 17 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:55,439 we're going to deal with it later on. When a 18 00:00:55,479 --> 00:00:58,359 subject arrives inside of me, I know it's time to 19 00:00:58,439 --> 00:01:03,399 dig in keeping that daily journal. But by doing the research, 20 00:01:03,719 --> 00:01:07,920 the picture becomes clearer. This is the daily mess. Are 21 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:10,599 we wasting too much time dreaming of? Having a better 22 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:14,239 life and career, which is an odd question in an 23 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:17,799 age when so many young adults can't even show up 24 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:20,959 for work on time, or even just show up. But 25 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:24,319 what I'm digging into is heavy. I come from the 26 00:01:24,359 --> 00:01:27,280 age of careers and how they were built, but today 27 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:30,920 feels more like a throwback. The majority of all daily 28 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:35,439 workers spends so much time optimizing or improving their career 29 00:01:36,159 --> 00:01:39,560 that what's happened is is that it's ruining their working conditions. 30 00:01:40,159 --> 00:01:43,840 We are totally forgetting to live life. Not my words. 31 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:47,920 It's research that clearly points out how we are disconnected 32 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:51,640 from what we really are in our daily lives. There's 33 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:55,760 a physical difference between growing a career and fixing a career. 34 00:01:56,439 --> 00:02:00,840 Growth is natural, curious, and fulfilling, but when we spend 35 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:04,640 all of our down time fixing career bumps and bruises, 36 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:09,120 it becomes extremely exhausting, and our dedication and loyalty tend 37 00:02:09,159 --> 00:02:12,840 to hollow out. That's usually when we jump into an 38 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:16,120 email or a text message and search for support from 39 00:02:16,159 --> 00:02:19,199 family and friends who are sitting there rolling their eyes saying, 40 00:02:19,319 --> 00:02:24,199 my god, I wish they would just go away. It's 41 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:27,280 part of the daily challenges and we keep walking into it. 42 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:31,120 So the question is are there any questions we should 43 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:32,840 be asking ourselves when we wake up in the morning 44 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:34,919 to get a better clue as to what we're supposed 45 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:41,000 to do. Those questions are coming up next. Hey, welcome 46 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:44,080 back to the daily mess. If we're spending too much 47 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:49,240 time optimizing or truly improving our work, time and space, 48 00:02:49,759 --> 00:02:53,120 what can we do to relocate our worth? Yeah, there's 49 00:02:53,319 --> 00:02:56,039 value in everything that each one of us do, but 50 00:02:56,240 --> 00:03:01,039 if you're not properly respecting it, that feeling of worth 51 00:03:01,319 --> 00:03:04,520 becomes worth less and it creeps in faster than a 52 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:09,080 sugar rush. Three questions you should never stop asking yourself 53 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:12,599 in the morning. Are your efforts to improve your life 54 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:16,360 giving you peace of mind or creative pleasure? This is 55 00:03:16,439 --> 00:03:19,280 your question, not to give to somebody else, no friend, 56 00:03:19,319 --> 00:03:22,280 no family member. You've got to ask it yourself. Do 57 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:26,319 you feel peace of mind or do you have creative pleasure? 58 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:31,120 Number two? Do you feel present? I'm talking about the 59 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:33,879 right now. Do you feel present or are you living 60 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:36,000 in the past or are you wishfully thinking of a 61 00:03:36,039 --> 00:03:39,400 better life? Does it really feel like that you're going 62 00:03:39,439 --> 00:03:42,120 through a rehearsal up on a gigantic stage that nobody's 63 00:03:42,159 --> 00:03:46,520 looking at number three? What would happen if you stop 64 00:03:46,719 --> 00:03:50,719 trying to improve what you do? Would the reaction be 65 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:55,879 relief or panic? Keep in mind, a greater life isn't built. Yeah, 66 00:03:55,879 --> 00:04:00,199 I said it, it's not built. A greater life is 67 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:04,039 is noticed. You don't call what you're doing a success, 68 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:07,840 not until you or someone takes note and puts value 69 00:04:07,879 --> 00:04:11,919 in your efforts of growth. It's not supposed to be 70 00:04:12,479 --> 00:04:16,560 an easy walk. I'm Marrow, and that's the daily mess.