Speaker 1: Welcome back to the I'm Still Fun podcast where Fallon
Speaker 1: and Jenny. Hi, and thank you for letting me have
Speaker 1: the week off last week. Jenny, I appreciate it, so welcome.
Speaker 2: You did submit your PTO when I was like, this
Speaker 2: bitch doesn't desert.
Speaker 1: Noine's good.
Speaker 2: She almost did not approve it, Like I have the
Speaker 2: right to approve you going on vacation.
Speaker 1: That'll be awesome. I think I would like that actually,
Speaker 1: because you well, and not that rich has ever said
Speaker 1: no to any of my vacation requests. But Jenny, do
Speaker 1: I sound like the white Lotus theme? Okay, that's pretty
Speaker 1: good it. Don't you hate it?
Speaker 2: Though?
Speaker 1: No? This season? Oh sure? But do you know the
Speaker 1: drama with that? No? Okay, So basically this just came out,
Speaker 1: like the past couple of days, the composer quit due
Speaker 1: to differences with Mike White. So what happened was it's
Speaker 1: been the same composer for all three seasons, and this
Speaker 1: recent season everyone ripped him a new one because they're like,
Speaker 1: this sucks. It was so good before. Well, I guess
Speaker 1: he wanted the very end of the position piece to
Speaker 1: be used, which did have a more upbeat, and that
Speaker 1: it usually has, but Mike White was like, nope, he
Speaker 1: wanted this like center chunk. So then everyone ripped the
Speaker 1: composer like this sucks compared to previous seasons, and he's like,
Speaker 1: I didn't want that part to be used for the theme,
Speaker 1: and so he got mad and he quit due to
Speaker 1: creative differences. So I did not hear any of that.
Speaker 1: He posted I think on YouTuber or his channel or
Speaker 1: something the full piece, so you could hear at the end.
Speaker 1: It would have been better if they used the end.
Speaker 1: So I do actually think Mike White was the one
Speaker 1: in the wrong there, but also it's his show, so
Speaker 1: he kind of gets to choose. Yeah, I'm not going
Speaker 1: to spoiler alert the show, even though this is a
Speaker 1: full almost like thirty six hours after it came out.
Speaker 1: I will, but also Jenny hasn't seen it yet. I
Speaker 1: know I'm two episodes behind. I will say this without
Speaker 1: ruining anything. A lot of people have said that this
Speaker 1: is their least favorite season. It was too much of
Speaker 1: a slow burn. I would argue every season has I
Speaker 1: Think You're Forgetting has been a slow burn, but this
Speaker 1: one I think was more of one. There was a
Speaker 1: little bit of shock for me, but not even from
Speaker 1: the deaths. There was actually a shock for me from
Speaker 1: how one character completely changed and it was shocking to
Speaker 1: me and upsetting a little bit. And then I did
Speaker 1: think the ending was good in an explosive kind of
Speaker 1: way that like I didn't like I saw coming, but
Speaker 1: didn't see coming. But then the very end, I'm not
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say I don't want to. I'm trying
Speaker 1: not to run anything. My favorite group of people through
Speaker 1: the whole like season, I did not get close You're
Speaker 1: on and that is what is made has made me
Speaker 1: the most annoyed by it. The rest of it. I
Speaker 1: liked the three girl friend group was just great. I
Speaker 1: loved their dynam I loved each of those characters, and
Speaker 1: I don't know, I liked the season. A lot of
Speaker 1: people said that this was their least favorite season but
Speaker 1: their favorite cast. How do you feel about that?
Speaker 2: Okay, so I actually only watched like half of the
Speaker 2: first season, So I feel like I'm not a good
Speaker 2: person because I kind of jumped in like late.
Speaker 1: Well, season one was so long ago now it's hard
Speaker 1: for me to remember. I remember Connie Britton obviously, and
Speaker 1: I remember Sidney Sweeney was in it. Other than that
Speaker 1: the douchey guy, I remember him, and then the girl
Speaker 1: that has the super big blue eyes, but that's about
Speaker 1: all I remember.
Speaker 2: See, I really liked season two a lot because I
Speaker 2: loved the two couples where one the guy thought that
Speaker 2: the wife was sleeping with the other hot ysband guy whatever.
Speaker 2: I loved the dynamic of those four. And then I
Speaker 2: always forget her name, but the woman that's like super
Speaker 2: famous from the show, Jennifer Coolidge. Yes, Jennifer Coolidge. I
Speaker 2: loved her. I loved her assistant, and like that whole
Speaker 2: line with that. So I feel like I really love
Speaker 2: that castle lot, but I don't know. I the family
Speaker 2: with the incestuous stuff, that shit was just too much
Speaker 2: for me. However, the mom is like the best character.
Speaker 1: She's so good. She's so good.
Speaker 2: And yes, the three girlfriends in this season are hilarious
Speaker 2: and it's funny because you I feel like, you know,
Speaker 2: I'm still two episodes behind, so I don't feel like
Speaker 2: this is like a spoiler, but I feel like you
Speaker 2: start the season judging each one of those characters based
Speaker 2: on like what you think that they are, and then
Speaker 2: you start to see things more and more throughout the season.
Speaker 2: And you're like, actually, that one's not that bad. This
Speaker 2: one's really bad, you know what I mean? Like that
Speaker 2: was a fun like kind of flip of the characters.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I like that a lot, And I'm so
Speaker 1: how I rank it? For me? I go, season two
Speaker 1: is my favorite, then I think season one and then
Speaker 1: this season, but I don't. I think it's also like
Speaker 1: do I like season one? So because it was the
Speaker 1: first season and I was just like, oh, this is
Speaker 1: such a great idea. But it's been so long since
Speaker 1: I've seen it. I don't know. But there's so much
Speaker 1: good TV out and coming out. We are still watching
Speaker 1: The Pit. I love that. I just started a new
Speaker 1: one at The Pit is a medical drama starring Noah
Speaker 1: Wiley on HBO, and it's a I didn't know this,
Speaker 1: but it is based or the layout. It's kind of
Speaker 1: like the TV show twenty four but I never watched it.
Speaker 1: So each episode is one hour of their shift in
Speaker 1: the emergency room. Okay, so I like that, So like
Speaker 1: this whole season is one shift. Oh and it's broken.
Speaker 1: It's very interesting and it's so fast moving, but you
Speaker 1: still get connected to the characters. So The Pit is
Speaker 1: very good. I just started, but that's like week two weeks,
Speaker 1: so you only get one episode a week, and I
Speaker 1: think there's one or two left of this season. But
Speaker 1: then I started last night one that my sister in
Speaker 1: law Hannah recommended, called Dying for Sex with Michelle Williams
Speaker 1: and Jenny Slat. It's on Hulu.
Speaker 2: I just talked about that on the Morning Shoel today
Speaker 2: because it was like just like new release of a show,
Speaker 2: and I was like, this sounds really good. Actually it's
Speaker 2: based on like a true story, I guess, yeah, And
Speaker 2: there was a podcast that's where Hannah heard about it
Speaker 2: was the podcast. Yeah, So the gist is and I've
Speaker 2: only watched the first episode. They're short, they're like thirty minutes.
Speaker 2: Michelle Williams from like Dawson's Creek. She had breast cancer,
Speaker 2: and so the show opens up with her like she's
Speaker 2: horny af she wants to have sex, but her husband,
Speaker 2: who's like her caretaker in this like gentle soul, he
Speaker 2: doesn't want to have sex with her, and she's like, dude,
Speaker 2: it's been three years. And so they're in therapy and
Speaker 2: he's like and then she gets a call that she
Speaker 2: has like terminal cancer in her bones, like in this
Speaker 2: therapy session. So I'm gathering where it's gonna lead is
Speaker 2: she's just going to bang a bunch of people. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean I might be wrong, but I didn't read
Speaker 1: the synopsis of it at all, but she's just like
Speaker 1: horny and she like wants to live her life and
Speaker 1: try a bunch of sexual things before she goes.
Speaker 2: I mean there's stuff and like some of our show
Speaker 2: kind of prep stuff today that we had that said that, like, yeah,
Speaker 2: she just kind of like goes and fulfills, Okay, all
Speaker 2: of our sexual desire n is kind of what it is,
Speaker 2: which I feel like maybe that's a spoiler, but I'm
Speaker 2: sure it's in the trailer of the show basically, so
Speaker 2: I mean it's called Dying for Sex. So yeah, so
Speaker 2: I actually was thinking about starting that too. I've been
Speaker 2: watching the show Younger on Netflix and it's very much
Speaker 2: like a lot of people always say they put on
Speaker 2: like Friends or The Office or whatever as like kind
Speaker 2: of their comfort show. So I'm I think I'm on
Speaker 2: like the last season now at this point, because I've
Speaker 2: been watching for a few months now, but it's been
Speaker 2: a very like comforting show because it's just very millennial,
Speaker 2: and you know it kind of like I feel like
Speaker 2: a lot of people, not a lot of people, but
Speaker 2: some people have a dream of living in New York
Speaker 2: City and like what it might be. And I always
Speaker 2: thought like, oh, that'd be fun for like a year.
Speaker 2: But I don't really see myself like loving New York City.
Speaker 2: But I watch what they do and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 2: that would all be fun. Like they're just out doing
Speaker 2: all these things all the time, because that's like what
Speaker 2: you do in New York. But that's been the show
Speaker 2: that's kind of just been like my comfort, like where
Speaker 2: I'm like kind of settling down for the night. I
Speaker 2: might fall asleep watching the episode, but I'll put it
Speaker 2: on or something.
Speaker 1: I watched that in real time when it came out.
Speaker 2: Oh did you see? I never knew anything about it
Speaker 2: until it was on Netflix.
Speaker 1: First of all, Rud, I'm pretty sure I talked about
Speaker 1: it on our show did to me, but also in
Speaker 1: the first like season or two because uh, fun fact,
Speaker 1: Steve O loved the show too, so we would talk
Speaker 1: about it all the time. We are constant thing about
Speaker 1: the first season or two is we thought the camera
Speaker 1: person hated Hillary Duff because it I felt like the
Speaker 1: first season or two it made her look bigger than
Speaker 1: she is in like every angle and scene. Now it's
Speaker 1: been years, so maybe I would look at it differently
Speaker 1: by the time Steve and are like, oh, what'd you
Speaker 1: do that camera guy? He's awful to her. Well, she's
Speaker 1: definitely pregnant in some of those one of them, but
Speaker 1: I think she was also like even one, she is
Speaker 1: definitely pregnant, but they also still can angle things to
Speaker 1: look nicer for I.
Speaker 2: Do agree, because like when I see pictures of Hillary
Speaker 2: Duff online, and granted it's like probably her Instagram photos
Speaker 2: or maybe like a pop culture magazine sharing something or
Speaker 2: whatever it is, I do feel like she looks much
Speaker 2: smaller than what she appears on that show.
Speaker 1: It's because she has I know exactly how she is me,
Speaker 1: but she's different shaped, ye, But she's short and she
Speaker 1: has thick quads and that and like hips and that
Speaker 1: is how I am. She has like a flatter chest,
Speaker 1: like she's a better core and all that than me.
Speaker 1: But like when you're short and you have like any
Speaker 1: form of legs in like photos and videos, it makes
Speaker 1: you look a thout, like a thousand times bigger than
Speaker 1: like someone if they're just taller than you. It's and
Speaker 1: the the set and Foster, she's much taller than Hillary duff, Oh,
Speaker 1: it's so tall, so she's there's such a contrast that
Speaker 1: I feel like it makes Hillary look different. And anyway,
Speaker 1: I don't know Hillary cares at all, and I shouldn't
Speaker 1: care either, but I was just like, as a short person,
Speaker 1: I was like, ah, get her a better angle, assholes. God,
Speaker 1: I'm sure she cares.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Probably.
Speaker 2: I can't imagine someone who is on camera in that
Speaker 2: like aspect of being on camera all the time.
Speaker 1: I think that they would fucking care for sure.
Speaker 2: Okay, can I read you a DM I got because
Speaker 2: our last episode that we did like two weeks ago,
Speaker 2: I had talked about how somebody had shared like, oh,
Speaker 2: no more sunglasses, just like have your eyes out there
Speaker 2: and like see the sun in real life and whatever, like,
Speaker 2: oh my sunglasses, And I said, like, I don't like
Speaker 2: that because I actually need sunglasses and I give sensitive eyes. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I think certain people don't, because I said how Tina
Speaker 2: has brown eyes and she said that she only wears
Speaker 2: them for like fashion, she doesn't need.
Speaker 1: Crazy.
Speaker 2: So I got a message from someone that said Jenny
Speaker 2: I just listened to your Founce podcast. My son is
Speaker 2: blue eyes, and if a light like the sun, house lights, anything,
Speaker 2: catch his eyes right, they glow red like red eye
Speaker 2: from a camera flash. I was all worried, so I
Speaker 2: took him to the eye doctor and she said that
Speaker 2: the pigments in his eyes are so light, even lighter
Speaker 2: than mine and we have the same eyes, that he'll
Speaker 2: always have to be a sunglass person, and that his
Speaker 2: eyes are super sensitive to certain lights. He's four, and
Speaker 2: I keep sunglasses or hats in the car for him
Speaker 2: all the time.
Speaker 1: It's crazy wow.
Speaker 2: So I think it does have to do with the
Speaker 2: pigment in your eye, because I did have someone else
Speaker 2: and I can't find it right now. Also, DM me
Speaker 2: and say that they do have brown eyes and they
Speaker 2: need sunglasses too, So it's just it has something to
Speaker 2: do with some.
Speaker 1: Kind of like pigment in your eye. Crazy Jake is
Speaker 1: not lying either that when he says his eyes are
Speaker 1: so sensitive to the light.
Speaker 2: Well, I hate the big light, yeap, Jade's to big light. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it really is. It's like it's so yeah, it's it's
Speaker 2: hard to describe unless you can like feel it in
Speaker 2: your bone the way that light affects you sometimes. But
Speaker 2: I was like, that's interesting that this kid's eyes like low.
Speaker 2: Like no kidding, By the way, before we go completely
Speaker 2: off of like celebrity topics, Yeah, what are your thoughts
Speaker 2: on Sydney Sweeney and Glenn Powell probably being together? I
Speaker 2: am all for it because I don't know, it's just
Speaker 2: like they're so hot and I love the movie they
Speaker 2: did together, and I'm like, just be together.
Speaker 1: I know, single, now, just be together. People are like, no,
Speaker 1: like she would just became friends with his sister. She
Speaker 1: was at the wedding, and I'm like, she was at
Speaker 1: the rehearsal dinner and it wasn't a destination wedding. Why
Speaker 1: would she be at the rehearsal dinner. And someone said,
Speaker 1: there's this theory with hair. Have you seen this? And
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get it wrong. No, her hair was like
Speaker 1: this like natural, like curly, and so then you know
Speaker 1: this is what they do. They show her with her
Speaker 1: fiance and everyone. Her hair is like perfectly kind of
Speaker 1: like straightened with just like those Hollywood curls at the end,
Speaker 1: and they show other celebrities when they're with the person
Speaker 1: they leave and their hair is like that and then
Speaker 1: how they go to like their natural hair when they're
Speaker 1: like with the person they're supposed to be with or something.
Speaker 1: And I was like, I have never seen this theory
Speaker 1: in my life, but it made me laugh. I was like,
Speaker 1: I can see that. Okay, I don't know. I also
Speaker 1: I do think that they're they would literally be like
Speaker 1: the hottest couple in Hollywood if they were together. So
Speaker 1: this is an email we got. I don't just use
Speaker 1: the name or not. It says I'm listening to you
Speaker 1: talk about your trips, and both the Black Hills and
Speaker 1: Hawaii are on my to do list in the next
Speaker 1: year or so. I have two kids, five and seven.
Speaker 1: I'm torn about whether these are kid trips or not.
Speaker 1: They definitely would be great family locations. However, I do
Speaker 1: want to actually complete a hike or a dinner or
Speaker 1: go snorkeling without someone fussing. My kids are pretty good,
Speaker 1: but sometimes I don't want to have to drag their
Speaker 1: asses around. But if I bring them with us, we
Speaker 1: get awesome family memories. Falin, how do you decide if
Speaker 1: something is a kid trip or not. Well, I can't
Speaker 1: speak on the Black Hills because that was your trip.
Speaker 1: Jenny do you feel like that. I've always heard like
Speaker 1: the Black Hills and those places are great for kids. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's very family friendly in my opinion.
Speaker 2: I mean, like I did a hike that would be
Speaker 2: too hard for kids, but like there was it was
Speaker 2: like three different hikes in one and you could have
Speaker 2: done like the first part with kids probably, But there's
Speaker 2: also like plenty of other hikes that you could do
Speaker 2: if you want to do something a little more simpler.
Speaker 2: There's a fun lake. There's like the roads that you
Speaker 2: go through. There's all these like built in like rock bridges,
Speaker 2: like you go under the rocks or whatever that are
Speaker 2: built with the road underneath it. So those are always
Speaker 2: really fun. And then obviously you have the why am
Speaker 2: I blanking? What's it called the monument?
Speaker 1: Oh my Rushmore?
Speaker 2: Yeah, jesus, yeah, I can thank for a second. Yeah,
Speaker 2: Like you have Mount Rushmore. There's just like a lot
Speaker 2: of activities to definitely do with kids. I would feel
Speaker 2: like that would be more of like.
Speaker 1: Don't they have like Bear Country and stuff like that
Speaker 1: that you can go.
Speaker 2: Like gimmicky like little zac phones and stuff. So I
Speaker 2: feel like that is a trip you would want to
Speaker 2: take your kids in. Versus like, I don't know. I'm
Speaker 2: like a hiker and outdoorsy person, so that's why I
Speaker 2: thought it was super fun to just go do that stuff.
Speaker 2: But I think that, yes, like it's a very kid
Speaker 2: friendly trip.
Speaker 1: I also think you just have to. Yeah, for Hawaii,
Speaker 1: I definitely you're right, very kid friendly, but like five
Speaker 1: and seven a, I don't think they can go snorkeling period.
Speaker 1: I don't think like legally they can, like groups can
Speaker 1: take kids that young. I don't know that for a fact.
Speaker 1: But like when we were looking at like a kayaking
Speaker 1: canoe thing from our resort you could get you had
Speaker 1: to be ten and accompanied by an adult obviously to
Speaker 1: even do that. And that wasn't like in the water,
Speaker 1: you know, that was like on a canoe. So how
Speaker 1: do I decide, you know, when it's come to like
Speaker 1: I guess like when we've done the European trips, it
Speaker 1: was never even a debate on taking Olive because the
Speaker 1: group trips I take are adult only trips, so it
Speaker 1: wasn't even an option to take all of Dylan for
Speaker 1: his Like next year will be his well, I guess
Speaker 1: technically this year, at the end of this year, he'll
Speaker 1: start his senior year, and we told him we would
Speaker 1: take him on a trip wherever he wants to go.
Speaker 1: He gets to pick a place, and we talked about it,
Speaker 1: and he because he wants to go somewhere like in Europe.
Speaker 1: He's chosen Norway, which is like one of Jenny's top
Speaker 1: places she wants to go, because he wanted Switzerland, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, I've already been to Switzerland, Like, let's pick
Speaker 1: somewhere new, and so he's like, Norway looks like Switzerland,
Speaker 1: so let's go there. I said, okay. So he chose that,
Speaker 1: and we decided we would not take Olive because it
Speaker 1: would be about Olive on that trip. Because she's young.
Speaker 1: We'd have to like there would be a time zone difference,
Speaker 1: and she couldn't do some of the hikes we would
Speaker 1: want to do at that point because she's too big
Speaker 1: for the carrier now like your kids at five and seven,
Speaker 1: too big for carriers. So we were like, this is
Speaker 1: Dylan's trip. We won't take her on that one because
Speaker 1: we don't want it to be about all. If we
Speaker 1: wanted to be about Dylan and what he wants to
Speaker 1: do and wants to eat and stuff, so I would say, Hawaii,
Speaker 1: we knew it was just gonna be a family vacation.
Speaker 1: We did one good hike and that was because Jake
Speaker 1: put her in the pack, but we did like some
Speaker 1: short ones. She complained her legs hurt. Of course, that's
Speaker 1: what kids do. So I don't know. I think you
Speaker 1: have to be like, you just have to decide is
Speaker 1: this trip what's more important on this trip? Is it
Speaker 1: that I get to do the hike in snorkeling if
Speaker 1: so than making an adult only trip, if it's we
Speaker 1: can do like some fun little off like some very short,
Speaker 1: easy hikes with kids, Like That's what we chose this
Speaker 1: year Akadia because it's not like a normal national park.
Speaker 1: To me, it doesn't seem like there's like it's not
Speaker 1: like co like crazy hikes that we're going to miss
Speaker 1: out on. So I was like, that's an easy one
Speaker 1: for a five year old. So we chose that one
Speaker 1: this year for like our national park. I guess that's
Speaker 1: where I would start. And also Hawaii there's a five
Speaker 1: hour time difference. All of is going to sleep at
Speaker 1: like ten pm or eleven pm. Now it's kind of brutal,
Speaker 1: So do you want to do that to yourself. I
Speaker 1: saw this theory by the way, the other day, which
Speaker 1: Jake and I don't do. It was for parents. It
Speaker 1: was called like I'm going to get it wrong, something
Speaker 1: along like the thirty thirty minute method. Okay, so you
Speaker 1: tag back and forth with your partner for thirty minutes,
Speaker 1: so that way you can get like a nap, or
Speaker 1: you can watch an episode of a show, or you
Speaker 1: can listen to a book on vacation so that you
Speaker 1: actually get to enjoy your vacation as well, and you
Speaker 1: just tag back and forth with your partner. I think
Speaker 1: thirty minutes feels pretty short.
Speaker 2: It does kind of I feel like to tag back
Speaker 2: and forth, like is it every other thirty minutes for
Speaker 2: a while, or you just each get like a thirty minute.
Speaker 2: I didn't read a full article, okay, So that's because
Speaker 2: I was like, that's not gonna be our thing. I'm
Speaker 2: very lucky that Jake is very much does not like
Speaker 2: sitting around and he does not like he like very
Speaker 2: much is happy and being in the pool. So it
Speaker 2: was a lot of Jake in the pool with Olive,
Speaker 2: and then I'd be like, oh, I've been here for
Speaker 2: like an hour, and then I would get up and
Speaker 2: be like.
Speaker 1: I would get in the pool and be like, all right, tag,
Speaker 1: you're out. He'd be like, no, I want to be
Speaker 1: with both of you. So it was kind of like
Speaker 1: I would try to give him time, but Jake just
Speaker 1: doesn't like time.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So I guess I'm lucky in that way because he
Speaker 1: wants to be like all of the whole time, or
Speaker 1: like Dylan or whatever. But it is hard with kids.
Speaker 1: They say that vacations with kids are not vacations, their trips. Yeah. Sure, true,
Speaker 1: so for sure.
Speaker 2: So I had saved this because I always like love
Speaker 2: reading comments like this on Instagram. And it was just
Speaker 2: a post that said women who are over thirty give
Speaker 2: one piece of advice to women who are in their twenties.
Speaker 2: It can be about anything, and so I just wanted
Speaker 2: to read some of these because I always feel like
Speaker 2: it's good. I mean, I think we have people who
Speaker 2: listen that are older and younger and stuff. I love that.
Speaker 1: I love those two. Yeah me too.
Speaker 2: Okay, so don't spend time looking for the guy. Focus
Speaker 2: that energy on building, loving and learning yourself, and get
Speaker 2: a dog. They say, lift heavyweights. It will not make
Speaker 2: you bulky, it will make you lean and strong.
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you want, like that's the thing you are.
Speaker 1: You see these women who are so bulky, they worked
Speaker 1: hard af to get bold and eat like five hundred
Speaker 1: grams of protein day. They're they're focused specifically on that.
Speaker 1: That is not what you're doing by going and doing
Speaker 1: some deadl So it's so good for you, And I've
Speaker 1: my trainer used to always just say, like, it's just
Speaker 1: so good. We start losing our bone density at a
Speaker 1: rapid rate as women as we get over thirty and
Speaker 1: then especially as we hit menopause. And my trainer used
Speaker 1: to always say that there is a huge difference in
Speaker 1: his old clients that like when they fall, here's the
Speaker 1: standard stare. You fall and break a hip. The person
Speaker 1: who was lifting weights taking care of their body, they
Speaker 1: typically recover pretty quickly. A lot of the people that
Speaker 1: aren't doing any of that, they're the ones you see
Speaker 1: that they they may not recover. Yeah, and so it
Speaker 1: really that really stuck in my mind, right, I agree.
Speaker 1: I mean, like I'm definitely I definitely used to be
Speaker 1: like only a cardio person, and then I definitely got
Speaker 1: into strength training and realized how important that is. A
Speaker 1: couple more let's see trust your gut feeling it's right,
Speaker 1: establish your medical care team, develop a skincare routine, and
Speaker 1: stick with it. Take the lesson rather than respond in
Speaker 1: emotional frustration. I like that one a lot. I could
Speaker 1: really still life.
Speaker 2: I definitely still have to work on that myself. Stop
Speaker 2: waiting for people to come with you on the things
Speaker 2: you want to do in life. You'll wait forever and
Speaker 2: miss out. Do what you want by yourself, and see
Speaker 2: how resilient and brave you can be on your own.
Speaker 1: That is so good. There are so many people that
Speaker 1: will be like I want. I've always wanted to go
Speaker 1: to Paris. Let's use that as an example. Always wanted
Speaker 1: to do that. I've never had anyone to go with
Speaker 1: a partner or my friends couldn't afford it. And I'm like,
Speaker 1: do not spend your entire life not doing that. If
Speaker 1: you can afford it, do what? Like what a lot
Speaker 1: of girls have done on like my group trips, They've
Speaker 1: come solo. They so they have like that security of
Speaker 1: like I'm not in a foreign country, I'm frae, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. It's just like I get it.
Speaker 1: It's scary and it's hard. It just is. But you
Speaker 1: should just you should do it. You should do it.
Speaker 2: I think that it's hard to say that sometimes to
Speaker 2: like tell women to go travel by themselves, because it
Speaker 2: is it's very different. Yeah, of course, but I do agree,
Speaker 2: like group trips are great. There's this one girl who
Speaker 2: she's originally from Montana but she lives in Norway and
Speaker 2: I follow her on Instagram and she hosts these group
Speaker 2: trips and she had recently posted about like a new one,
Speaker 2: and honestly, it's like a full application process because they
Speaker 2: pick who they want. Oh yeah, but it's like quite
Speaker 2: expensive and I'm like, yeah, I don't think I'm quite
Speaker 2: there yet, but like it would have been fun because
Speaker 2: I just admire everything that she posts and like the
Speaker 2: things that she does, so I thought that that would
Speaker 2: be fun. But I don't know, this is like a
Speaker 2: super fun I just think all these comments, there are so
Speaker 2: many more. I'm not gonna bore us with like reading
Speaker 2: all of them, but I can share it maybe when
Speaker 2: we post this podcast.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then.
Speaker 2: You can see for yourself. But also, do you have one?
Speaker 2: I would say, because I am someone who ruminates over
Speaker 2: things to try to work on if it's not going
Speaker 2: to affect you in five years.
Speaker 1: Don't let it bother you for five minutes.
Speaker 2: And I know that's harder said than done or easier
Speaker 2: said than done, but I think like certain things, like
Speaker 2: someone made a comment at work that day that upset
Speaker 2: you and then you just sit and all day you're
Speaker 2: thinking about it, and it's like, don't spend five minutes.
Speaker 2: You're not going to remember that in five years. Obviously,
Speaker 2: there's other huge things that happen in life that, yes,
Speaker 2: it is going to affect you longer than five minutes.
Speaker 2: You can't just forget about it. But it's I just
Speaker 2: think it's something that I've tried to work on of
Speaker 2: like forget it, it happened, it's done, move on.
Speaker 1: I still actively work on that and I have gotten
Speaker 1: a lot better. But I don't know if it's with
Speaker 1: just age, you know what I mean, because I use
Speaker 1: to spyro spiral is my word. I mean, that could
Speaker 1: have been my word of the year every year. A
Speaker 1: couple of things I would say, funny enough. Benny Blanco
Speaker 1: got to me recently with his in Everywhere he is,
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, in the interview with Selena Gomez, he
Speaker 1: had and this is big for me. He was like,
Speaker 1: in arguments. Why are you so desperate to be right?
Speaker 1: Like it's so embarrassing, So you're just gonna like keep
Speaker 1: going back and forth and nailing this into your partner
Speaker 1: until they can finally just say you're right? Then what?
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my god, because Jake and
Speaker 1: I don't get into like these big arguments. But it'll
Speaker 1: be something. Okay, here's the perfect example. And I literally
Speaker 1: thought of Benny Blanco when it calmed me down. We
Speaker 1: got the America the Beautiful Pass for National Parks, so
Speaker 1: we can go into three parks this year.
Speaker 2: Yep.
Speaker 1: And and it would make more sense to pay for
Speaker 1: the one path pass, of course. So I get it.
Speaker 1: Comes the mail. I put it in a drawer. Jake goes, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: we're not putting it in that drawer. We'll never find
Speaker 1: it in here. It's gonna get lost. Let's put it
Speaker 1: up in this cab. And I go, what do you
Speaker 1: mean it's gonna get lost in a drawer. It's a drawer.
Speaker 1: I know where the drawer is. I was like, whatever,
Speaker 1: what makes you happier? So we're going you know where
Speaker 1: this is going, We're going to Hawaii. I say, grab
Speaker 1: the I had a. I had a reservation paper for
Speaker 1: our Sunrise and the America the beautiful past. I said,
Speaker 1: can you grab those two things? Those are the two
Speaker 1: things Shake was in charge of. Yep, grab them. We
Speaker 1: get to the National Park, I say, hand me the pass.
Speaker 1: He hands me the paper that the card was on,
Speaker 1: and I go, where's the where's the fucking card? He's like,
Speaker 1: what are you talking about? He's like, we're gonna be
Speaker 1: fine with that. I go, the card is the pass?
Speaker 1: We have the paper it came on. I go, okay,
Speaker 1: Like I calm down, I don't know. We get there,
Speaker 1: she's like, yeah, you have to tap the card. What
Speaker 1: am I supposed to scan? And I was like, and
Speaker 1: I did the one comment of like the one thing
Speaker 1: you were supposed to grab, but old fallon? What have I?
Speaker 1: I would have talked in circles about that, almost to
Speaker 1: make him feel bad. Why? And I literally fucking thought
Speaker 1: of Benny Blanco being like, do you have to be right?
Speaker 1: I'm like, Jake already feels stupid in this. It cost
Speaker 1: us thirty extra dollars, which is annoying, But do I
Speaker 1: want to ruin his entire morning where we're supposed to
Speaker 1: go see this beautiful sunrise with a family, And do
Speaker 1: I want to hold onto this weird anger for no reason?
Speaker 1: And I'm going to give Benny Blanco credit because I
Speaker 1: let it go and I was over it in like
Speaker 1: five minutes, and Jake probably was just waiting, bracing himself
Speaker 1: for me to be like and I didn't, and we
Speaker 1: had like such a great day. So do you have
Speaker 1: to be right in the argument? Sometimes like probably not
Speaker 1: and then maybe sometimes obviously right. But then this one,
Speaker 1: I've said this one a million times, but like when
Speaker 1: we're younger, we care so much more people think about us.
Speaker 1: We spend in circles over that too, and just people
Speaker 1: just do not think about you as much you think
Speaker 1: they do. So, like if you're like so stressed out
Speaker 1: about like starting a project, because what will people think
Speaker 1: if you're so like embarrassed to go through like you
Speaker 1: lost your job and you don't want to like post
Speaker 1: about it or like anyone to know because you're embarrassed,
Speaker 1: They're they're probably going to talk about you and text
Speaker 1: to their friends for about twelve minutes and then they're
Speaker 1: going to start caring about just themselves again. So we're
Speaker 1: just all very self involved people. So don't let that
Speaker 1: like destroy you. Worried about what other people are thinking
Speaker 1: about you? For sure? Those are my two hot tips
Speaker 1: for now. I agree. I have been worrying about one
Speaker 1: thing though, with my body. So I showed you add
Speaker 1: a new food to the list. No, have I No,
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I don't think so. Did he
Speaker 1: have an ongoing host in case you missed other podcast
Speaker 1: episodes of foods that destroy her stomach?
Speaker 2: Yes? So, and now I already forgot peanut butter, spicy ramen.
Speaker 2: There was something else I think I added.
Speaker 1: You did, but spicy ramen was ridiculous, Like, of course,
Speaker 1: spicy Ramen's going to destroy your stomach.
Speaker 2: I know, I know, Okay, No, uh so, there is
Speaker 2: like this weird discoloration patch of skin underneath my booby.
Speaker 1: I'm going to show you.
Speaker 2: I know this is a podcast, but you gotta look. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and then there's like a couple other blotches like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, do you have a rash? I don't know. I
Speaker 1: don't know.
Speaker 2: To change your laundry detergent, no, nothing, entire sheet, no,
Speaker 2: nothing like nothing's new. I feel like anything I'm doing
Speaker 2: at the house.
Speaker 1: Maybe is it a heat rash? I feel like I've
Speaker 1: had it for a while though.
Speaker 2: Oh so I showed Tina and then she showed me
Speaker 2: something that she had had recently. Oh my god, you
Speaker 2: guys are becoming the old bitches that are showing each
Speaker 2: other your weird spots and boils.
Speaker 1: Well, who else am I supposed to show him?
Speaker 2: Might be a suggested psychologist? Okay, fine, but that costs money.
Speaker 2: Friendship does not cost money, so you don't looking and diagnosis.
Speaker 1: It just be like I don't know.
Speaker 2: But of course, then she took pictures of hers sent
Speaker 2: it to her friend's like friend who has a nurse
Speaker 2: wife or something, and was like, what's wrong with me?
Speaker 1: And I honestly forget what like the act making a
Speaker 1: photo of yours and send it to a nurse friend.
Speaker 1: I do have a photo of it already. I took
Speaker 1: a picture of it myself. I think I did. I
Speaker 1: think I was gonna like send it to you, actually,
Speaker 1: But anyways, it's just like a weird discoloration. And it
Speaker 1: doesn't really look like a rash because it's not red.
Speaker 1: It's more like a tanner like discoloration.
Speaker 2: So I don't get what it is. And of course,
Speaker 2: you know, you go on the internet and everything says
Speaker 2: you're dying. So I've been avoiding that for the most part.
Speaker 2: I did look up a couple things they said it was,
Speaker 2: but I feel like mine don't look like the pictures.
Speaker 2: And then also when you look up shit on the
Speaker 2: internet to try to figure out what your skin looks
Speaker 2: like or something on your body looks like versus something
Speaker 2: else you get you see the most.
Speaker 1: Disgusting, most disgusting, and it's like.
Speaker 2: That's not I didn't know. I didn't sign up for this.
Speaker 2: I just googled, like discoloration on my skin. Now all
Speaker 2: of a sudden, it's like the most disgusting things ever
Speaker 2: really is. So I was trying to avoid that, and
Speaker 2: I'm going to just let it ride for a couple
Speaker 2: of weeks and see what happens.
Speaker 1: And quick diagnosis from what I saw, Yeah, you're dying.
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 2: Should I go do what that show is, the dying
Speaker 2: for a sex show and just go out there and bang,
Speaker 2: just god, just go all out, go crazy.
Speaker 1: I think it's time for you to try anal. I've
Speaker 1: done it. Oh did I know this? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I did it one time and I hated it with
Speaker 1: every ounce. Well, I know you were like, it's a
Speaker 1: no go zone. So I don't think I knew that
Speaker 1: you had tried it once.
Speaker 2: I was young, and I probably honestly probably, and I
Speaker 2: hated it, and I think that.
Speaker 1: I probably would give it another try potentially if you
Speaker 1: were dating someone with a really thin dick. No, I don't,
Speaker 1: I'm not. I mean.
Speaker 2: Maybe, but more so more so, I know how my
Speaker 2: body reacts to things now, so I would like to
Speaker 2: have some pleasure in other areas. Yeah, than just being
Speaker 2: poked with a big old dick in my butt. You stand,
Speaker 2: end of the day, you could add it to your
Speaker 2: list of things that upset your stomach. Seriously, Oh my gosh,
Speaker 2: can I tell you one story? Yeah, I don't think
Speaker 2: this person would ever listen to this podcast, so if
Speaker 2: they do, I'm sorry, but you probably know who you are.
Speaker 2: My friend was doing anal one time.
Speaker 1: This podcast has turned so quickly and at that very
Speaker 1: end minutes by the way.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and when he like pulled out, she just got
Speaker 2: a huge part rip. Because I've heard of people. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm sure that that happens to I don't. I don't
Speaker 2: have any friends of personal experience in that aspect. But
Speaker 2: she was like there's nothing you can do. You're like
Speaker 2: pumping air in there and so just pull out.
Speaker 1: And it was like and I was like, that would
Speaker 1: be me? Was it with me? Her partner? Partner?
Speaker 2: Okay, it wasn't like a random person. It was too
Speaker 2: amad and so it's whatever. But okay, one more. Okay,
Speaker 2: this isn't about anyl, but it is about sex. My
Speaker 2: one friend dated somebody for a pretty long time and
Speaker 2: they very much became just like buddies almost instead of
Speaker 2: like sexual attractive partner whatever.
Speaker 1: But they're so banging.
Speaker 2: And they were having sex one time and he had
Speaker 2: like pulled out and she had queathed and he just
Speaker 2: like looked down there. He's like, talk to me baby,
Speaker 2: Oh oh my.
Speaker 1: Okay. At least he wasn't immature and like about it
Speaker 1: like what's that or something? You know what I mean.
Speaker 1: At least he handled it in a very funny, mature way.
Speaker 1: I like that for sure. Should I call the episode
Speaker 1: talk to me Baby?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Okay? I think so. All right, Well, uh, interesting turn
Speaker 1: of events. Sorry kid was in the car with you,
Speaker 1: but thanks for listening.