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<v Speaker 1>What's that, beautiful people?

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<v Speaker 2>It is your baby Mama, favorite baby Mama, Stormy Pe

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<v Speaker 2>And this is another episode of Chocolate Chip and Zip

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<v Speaker 2>the modern day female perspective. Damn Son, back at it again,

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<v Speaker 2>And honestly, I can't even say back at it again

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<v Speaker 2>because we've never been here before. As you guys can see,

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<v Speaker 2>we got some fly shit going on today. We haven't

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<v Speaker 2>done it in a minute, but y'all, we got some

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<v Speaker 2>special guests in the building, you know. And I have

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<v Speaker 2>never wanted to simultaneously smack and hug a group of

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<v Speaker 2>people at the same time in my life until I

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<v Speaker 2>met these individuals.

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<v Speaker 1>And the first time we linked.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, damn, somebody should definitely begining to SSI check

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<v Speaker 2>for all of you, but to my surprise, no one was.

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<v Speaker 2>I would like to introduce you all to the Talk

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<v Speaker 2>Heavy podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>Like the intro.

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<v Speaker 2>SA boys, So can we just give like a little

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<v Speaker 2>introduction each every one of your.

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<v Speaker 4>Look, man, it's dead Nasty aka dangerous dead Nasty aka

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<v Speaker 4>choke you mama, a ka, choke your pop out my dad?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, who else?

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<v Speaker 3>Just I don't even know if I should do my answer?

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<v Speaker 5>Please do please?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it's the prison Hunting Park, the b b W lover,

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<v Speaker 6>the pregnant woman slayer, Mister to push up the night,

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<v Speaker 6>the man built in the image of God himself.

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<v Speaker 7>Slice massiveness, It's the nord Philly legend. Uh huh, Strawberry

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<v Speaker 7>Mansion's finest, the b b W hater, the pregnant woman creator.

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<v Speaker 7>They still calling me Jesus first cousin. He go wraw

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<v Speaker 7>because the condom keep busting from North Philly to South Beach.

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<v Speaker 8>Because that's about as long as this pipe reach.

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<v Speaker 7>You should always fuck with a chick that stutter from

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<v Speaker 7>the get go because you might push it.

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<v Speaker 3>Nut before she say no.

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<v Speaker 7>And ladies, sucking dick is good for your mental health,

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<v Speaker 7>So don't do it for him.

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<v Speaker 8>Gotta say do it for yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Do it for yourself?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, gee, underscore, man, we just contaminated this shows three minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, when I started this show, what did I say?

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<v Speaker 1>What did I say to y'all? What did I say?

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<v Speaker 2>You gonna want to simultaneously hug and smack these niggas?

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<v Speaker 2>I said that, I said that once again. I'm so

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<v Speaker 2>happy to.

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<v Speaker 1>Have the Talk Heavy podcast. And this is so long overdue,

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<v Speaker 1>so long overdue it is.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm happy to be here in the studio, the demo

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<v Speaker 2>Wait Network studio. Thank you so much for lending your space.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm also happy to have you guys on the show.

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<v Speaker 3>We wait.

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<v Speaker 8>We happy to be here.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we waiting to get it, get it started.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, did y'all come us like a nineties morning?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>And it looks good.

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<v Speaker 8>It looks good to killed the show funeral.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I was thinking boys the man. But it's given,

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<v Speaker 2>It's given. It's given for sure. So for the people

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<v Speaker 2>who might have been living under a rock and did

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<v Speaker 2>not hear, we got some special things.

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<v Speaker 1>Going on, y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes we do.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen Philly.

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, the only place to be April thirteenth is at

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<v Speaker 2>Punchline Comedy.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm gonna tell you why. We got the sip

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<v Speaker 1>heavy talk show Chocolate Chip and Sip and.

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<v Speaker 7>Who else talk heavy podcast?

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<v Speaker 4>Come on, man, make sure y'all come out. It's on

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<v Speaker 4>a Sunday, seven pm. Come on now, listen, man, We're

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<v Speaker 4>going to have a lot of treats for y'all. It's

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<v Speaker 4>more than just a podcast. We got two podcasts coming

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<v Speaker 4>together to do more than just talk to.

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<v Speaker 7>The best podcast. I mean, let's look and the GB guarantee.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the GB guarantee?

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<v Speaker 3>You guaranteed to leave or you might nut on stage?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, you're gonna have a good time.

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<v Speaker 7>I just know the last Stormy show, Stormy p show

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<v Speaker 7>I was at I left horn.

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<v Speaker 5>I was crazy. So you were satisfied. Okay, you had

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<v Speaker 5>some workers.

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<v Speaker 1>Brian, y'all. We're gonna have games. We're gonna have bomb conversations,

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<v Speaker 1>dope segments. Andy'll just pop the balloon.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, somebody gonna get a date with you.

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<v Speaker 8>Somebody gonna win a date with Stormy Pig.

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<v Speaker 2>That's that's word on the streets, word on the streets

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<v Speaker 2>and saying. And if you want to be a part

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<v Speaker 2>of it, all you have to do is screenshot your

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<v Speaker 2>ticket and send an email to inquiries at stormyp e

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<v Speaker 2>a dot com with a screenshot of your ticket a

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<v Speaker 2>s l. If you're old enough, you know the vibes,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's it. You're a contender. Listen, man, Honestly, from

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<v Speaker 2>the bottom of my heart, I want to say, if

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<v Speaker 2>you've been trying to serve these niggas with child support paperwork,

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<v Speaker 2>the place to be is Punchline and April thirteenth, they're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be there, serve serve them all right, click the

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<v Speaker 2>link in your bio and get it now. Chocolate Chip

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<v Speaker 2>and Chip Talk Heavy Podcast is a sip heavy show.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's get it, let's get it.

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<v Speaker 1>What an intro, guys, what an intro? Already?

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to kick you all out and this is

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<v Speaker 2>all spots get crazy crazy, So y'all, I'm gonna be real.

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<v Speaker 2>If I can be honest.

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<v Speaker 3>If I can be honest, that's what we're for.

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<v Speaker 2>So last week I had a clip going viral and

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to discuss right. So in the clip, I said,

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<v Speaker 2>every woman needs a platonic male friend because it's nothing

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<v Speaker 2>like hearing you being stupid about a man from a man.

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<v Speaker 1>Right At first, I wanted to get your thoughts agree

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<v Speaker 1>or disagree.

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<v Speaker 4>From from a man like a nigga sitting around waiting

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<v Speaker 4>to foot see.

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<v Speaker 1>And that that's what I had to add in. This

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<v Speaker 1>is a very good point, very good point.

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<v Speaker 2>No, right, So, I don't mean those guys that like

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<v Speaker 2>try to crack on you and you put them in

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<v Speaker 2>the friend zone and then like they honestly just sitting

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<v Speaker 2>around waiting for you to change your mind.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't mean.

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<v Speaker 4>Nothing anybody changed your mind before hell no, oh, come on.

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<v Speaker 2>Hell story an, I'm on mym.

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<v Speaker 4>So every nigga that you fuck, you already do you're gonna.

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<v Speaker 2>When you met him, every nigga I fucked, I knew

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<v Speaker 2>I was gonna fuck him within the first thirty seconds.

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<v Speaker 1>I told you that it's real. It's real, it's real.

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<v Speaker 4>You know how.

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<v Speaker 1>I take that back, Maybe not thirty seconds.

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<v Speaker 2>I might have waited like a date or two for

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<v Speaker 2>a few but I pretty much knew, like this is

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be great, this is not gonna one are the other.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I do agree that having an honest platonic keyword,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna go with your keyword me before. You gotta

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<v Speaker 3>know the definition place means he thinks you ugly, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>and he don't want bomb. Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, nobody not he thinks you ugly. Take

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<v Speaker 1>that out.

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<v Speaker 3>Just check that out.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you're completely not a type.

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<v Speaker 2>No, you can think somebody is attractive, but you don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to fuck them.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's the thing.

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<v Speaker 4>That's that's real.

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<v Speaker 3>That's no. No, no, no, that's a real thing. That's

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<v Speaker 3>a real thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so one of them, one of them, I can

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<v Speaker 1>recommend why you.

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<v Speaker 3>Want him to think you attractive though.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh he don't got to. I just know he do

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<v Speaker 1>because I think I'm attractive. That's it.

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<v Speaker 3>There you go. This is the reason why niggas don't

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<v Speaker 4>Be I was gonna go off another because listen, because

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<v Speaker 4>you're basically saying right now that a dude that's your friend.

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<v Speaker 3>Thinks you're hot. You're hot.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, So that's why when you get a boyfriend, he

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<v Speaker 4>don't want you to be friends with them.

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<v Speaker 3>Niggas.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I can I give you a pin to that, right,

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<v Speaker 2>So I can think a man is attractive, but.

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<v Speaker 1>I can also say he's not my type.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I can recognize you get bitches, but I don't

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<v Speaker 2>like you, like me saying somebody like air Pierre. Half

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<v Speaker 2>the fucking world will sit here and tell you air

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<v Speaker 2>Pier fire as fuck, but he's not my type. But

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<v Speaker 2>I can say he's attractive. I know he get bitches,

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<v Speaker 2>but he's not my type.

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<v Speaker 3>He's wait, he's not your type.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, there a scenario in the universe where he could

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<v Speaker 4>fuck no.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm gonna tell you why, right, And I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>tell you why though. Right, Let's go back to no, No,

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<v Speaker 2>Let's go back to.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not my type.

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<v Speaker 2>And the reason I say that is because if you

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<v Speaker 2>are somebody who prefers, because everybody has purposes, if you're

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<v Speaker 2>somebody who prefers somebody of a certain color, of a

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<v Speaker 2>certain stature, of a certain body type, you can recognize, say, yo,

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<v Speaker 2>I know you get bitches.

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<v Speaker 3>Like white niggas. No, no, let me, let me, let

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<v Speaker 3>me get in one thing to say, just like, just

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<v Speaker 3>like gim saying you don't like that, let me ask

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<v Speaker 3>you just never happened. And this is a woman thing.

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<v Speaker 3>And I don't want to take the show left, but

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<v Speaker 3>women lines are ninety percent of the time. He grew

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<v Speaker 3>on me. Is that not a common woman line?

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<v Speaker 1>I can't speak for women. I can't speak for me.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh now, we don't speak for women on this.

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<v Speaker 2>Previous episodes, I always say to me, for me, I

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<v Speaker 2>me what I.

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<v Speaker 7>Like say that every person that you slept wasn't your type.

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<v Speaker 4>Come on, let's let's have a real Let's have a

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<v Speaker 4>real conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's have a real conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>I am a woman who at my big age, I

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<v Speaker 2>have one child, right, I have only had four serious boyfriends.

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<v Speaker 2>Every every let me get to saying every nigga who

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<v Speaker 2>I slept with was my type.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never had sex with a.

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<v Speaker 2>Respect and when I say not my type.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not for me.

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<v Speaker 8>What exactly is your type? Let's get into that.

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<v Speaker 1>D niggas, but ner niggas think I don't like them,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm fine ship. I believe that.

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<v Speaker 8>Ship.

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<v Speaker 2>Nerd niggas think I don't like them. I promise when

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<v Speaker 2>I be going to these kinds and ship like that,

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<v Speaker 2>niggas do.

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<v Speaker 1>Not crack on me.

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<v Speaker 8>They don't like comic con with your ass cheeks out.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's part of the problem.

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<v Speaker 2>When I be at these kinds, I be like full

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<v Speaker 2>ugly meigga salt traps.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't really you know, I got history with kN as well,

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I could see how dope this room is.

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<v Speaker 3>Honest, niggas don't.

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<v Speaker 4>Niggas don't holler at con like that. It's a different

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<v Speaker 2>So to me, what I've picked up is it's not

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<v Speaker 2>exactly hollering. You just hang with somebody all day, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>and then as the day doing those down, It's like,

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<v Speaker 2>so what you're doing, what you're doing, what you're trying

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<v Speaker 1>And that's how niggas end up.

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<v Speaker 8>Question about the the whole kind thing. Right.

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<v Speaker 7>It's like when y'all there and y'all like got these

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<v Speaker 2>That's part of constant you embody.

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<v Speaker 7>So I might like you, but I don't know that

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<v Speaker 7>I want to hit the Pink Ranger from.

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<v Speaker 1>The first of all, If you don't, who are you?

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<v Speaker 3>Where did you grow up in?

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, growing up, everybody went the Pink Ranger come.

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<v Speaker 3>On until because you know the words, not that show.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody wanted that Pink Raiser until the Yellow Ranger became black.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a fact. That's a fact you didn't. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>just remember that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yo, I'm CRIINGT. So what's the consensus?

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<v Speaker 3>Agree, I disagree, I disagree, I don't disagree. I agree.

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<v Speaker 3>I agree.

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<v Speaker 4>I believe that think about us in our former co

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<v Speaker 4>hosts and how we used to give knowledge and game

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<v Speaker 4>and stuff like that, and now naturally we're older guys,

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<v Speaker 4>so we felt fall into that category. But they do

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<v Speaker 4>need that person that they respect their opinion that there's

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<v Speaker 4>no like sexual things involved to like muddy up their advice.

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<v Speaker 7>Also, I think that you should get advice from somebody

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<v Speaker 7>who got good advice. I don't think it necessarily has

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<v Speaker 7>to be a man of the opposite sex.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's who got the best.

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<v Speaker 7>Advice, because you could be getting advice from another woman

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<v Speaker 7>who got a lot of life experiences, who might have

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<v Speaker 7>been ran through by a couple dudes or whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>She might be a stud.

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<v Speaker 8>Give great advice.

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<v Speaker 7>I heard because they got they you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 7>they got kind of both sides, you know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 7>both the conversation.

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<v Speaker 3>No, that's where I was going with you. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>think sex matters when it comes to good advice. But also,

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<v Speaker 3>can we be honest, how often did that oppos success

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<v Speaker 3>sex listen to the man it took for them to

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<v Speaker 3>be hard headed, go through the pain, then come back

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<v Speaker 3>and say, you know what, guys, you were right.

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<v Speaker 1>You got to much dip on your ship play. That's

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<v Speaker 1>not really that's.

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<v Speaker 3>Not really listening to the advice. I hear the advice,

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<v Speaker 3>I store it, I go through all of the same

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<v Speaker 3>nonsense regardless.

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<v Speaker 8>And then I come back and tell you, y'all never

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<v Speaker 8>listened to us.

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<v Speaker 2>Learn you know a lot of what the comments in

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<v Speaker 2>that clip was was men saying, y'all don't listen to

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<v Speaker 2>us anyway, And you know, I just want to say,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, man.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry, but I think what you said goes both ways,

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<v Speaker 4>because there's also benefits for the dude that has the

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<v Speaker 4>female friend as well. She probably has friends for you

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<v Speaker 4>to put your penis inside, you know, and and then

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<v Speaker 4>you get to see how her and her friends move.

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<v Speaker 4>And usually when you get you know, when they become

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<v Speaker 4>friends with you, they don't care about how in their

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<v Speaker 4>wholeness because you're just bro. So now you could truly

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<v Speaker 4>see how slutty women are. They are diabolically sludy if

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<v Speaker 4>they have their own apartment.

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<v Speaker 2>I would like to change the word from diabolically to equally.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, I'm going to say equally.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not equal because your powers surpass ours you have.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, she's a comic book dirt. These are alpha

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<v Speaker 4>level mutants, Omega level noga Omega level mutants like Magneto,

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<v Speaker 4>the way they can attract the opposite sex. If a

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<v Speaker 4>woman has her own apartment, she's fucking what that.

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<v Speaker 3>See.

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<v Speaker 4>Men can be in their own apartment and be like,

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<v Speaker 4>what the hell am I paying this rent for I

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<v Speaker 4>ain't even got no bitches over here. I might as

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<v Speaker 4>well be living with my mom. I might as well

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<v Speaker 4>be living with my niggas. But a woman at any

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<v Speaker 4>time that she get that craving, she.

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<v Speaker 3>Can get it.

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<v Speaker 4>She could pick up that phone, she could holler out,

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<v Speaker 4>yell out the window if she wanted to, and Dick.

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<v Speaker 3>Is just going to appear.

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<v Speaker 8>Or she could just go to the gym and just

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<v Speaker 8>post the results.

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<v Speaker 3>With sweaty crotch every morning.

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<v Speaker 1>The reason why all.

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<v Speaker 7>Men who give advice are that is the quickest way

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<v Speaker 7>into the female group chat for real, because what winds

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<v Speaker 7>up happening is he ain't just giving you advice. He

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<v Speaker 7>giving you that advice that you're going to take, and

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<v Speaker 7>it's like you're going to take all the other women

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<v Speaker 7>around you.

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<v Speaker 8>Right, So we had a conversation.

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<v Speaker 7>We had a conversation earlier, right, And this is something

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<v Speaker 7>that I learned from death right.

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<v Speaker 8>A lot of times.

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<v Speaker 7>When when us as men give y'all advice, like let's say,

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<v Speaker 7>fans as you was to call yo, GB, what's up?

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<v Speaker 8>You know this niggas doing X, Y and Z.

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<v Speaker 7>Quite naturally, what I'll do is I'll always agree with

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<v Speaker 7>the dude to kind of throw you off of the

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<v Speaker 7>scent that I'm really trying to get to you. So

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<v Speaker 7>what I'll be like, I'm like, yeah, you gotta give

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<v Speaker 7>him some grace, Like you know what I mean, go

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<v Speaker 7>back to him and just say X, Y and Z.

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<v Speaker 8>Yes.

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<v Speaker 7>Now, what you don't realize is I'm controlling the whole

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<v Speaker 7>entire narrative because I'm sending you back, I'm telling you

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<v Speaker 7>what to say back to him.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm changing I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>He's leaving apart.

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<v Speaker 4>The reason why is because you're already fixated on being

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<v Speaker 4>mad at whoever the guy you're talking to. Right if

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<v Speaker 4>I agree with him, you will never direct the energy

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<v Speaker 4>to me. It actually makes you madter at him, at him.

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to circle back to the point where

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<v Speaker 2>I said, these are not.

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<v Speaker 1>Men who wanted me.

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<v Speaker 4>You are.

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<v Speaker 1>We're just trying to I hear you.

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<v Speaker 2>But here's my whole thing, right, none of y'all are

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<v Speaker 2>related to me. If I called y'all with some ship

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<v Speaker 2>right now, you're gonna give me honest advice. You give

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<v Speaker 2>me some advice, So no answer the question, yes, exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>So there are more dynamics of that in the universe

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<v Speaker 2>that I feel like people like to agree to.

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<v Speaker 4>So say, married niggas, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Married, we are none of us a married man like

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<v Speaker 3>we are.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, we're kind of like married.

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<v Speaker 1>Niggas.

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<v Speaker 2>Ain't common law or illegally in this room right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody what you mean? What I said were ringing common law?

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<v Speaker 3>Be we liveing in s Chris for seven years, and

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<v Speaker 3>so you.

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<v Speaker 1>Live with your butch for seven years?

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<v Speaker 4>Three.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to say you is not seven years. You

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<v Speaker 1>might be, but you're not. You can't even keep a

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<v Speaker 1>best for two weeks. Up, Up, just got back in

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<v Speaker 1>these streets. Yeah, no, no, come here, Jim, ain't got

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<v Speaker 1>no bit come out.

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<v Speaker 8>Crazy.

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<v Speaker 7>Ain't know what's crazy since you've known me, right, I

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<v Speaker 7>probably was in a relationship longer than both of these

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<v Speaker 7>Niggas's up.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a lot, girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Every time I come and must he has between.

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<v Speaker 3>I had some breakers here the break I was in

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<v Speaker 3>the street for thirty six hours. Listen, listen, listen, listen, listen, listen.

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<v Speaker 4>The nigga, the nigga has been been in the relationship forever.

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<v Speaker 4>He'll have a flash breakup and then they're right back together.

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<v Speaker 1>I am here at every o, my mom, I am

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<v Speaker 1>here at every flash breakup, yes or no?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yes, yes, yes, but.

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<v Speaker 7>Say the thing about it is also people kind of

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<v Speaker 7>confused with the way that I talk on talk heavy.

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<v Speaker 7>People assume they sing know that I'm single, because no girl,

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<v Speaker 7>no woman would.

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<v Speaker 1>With one fact.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to get back to you platonic, So let

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<v Speaker 3>me let me then, So what's that you do not

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<v Speaker 3>want to fuck? I'm a clear a girl that you're

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<v Speaker 3>just your friend that you're not attracted to. Right, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>let's go with that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, that's the thing.

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<v Speaker 7>If you're a mill and I want to talk to him,

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<v Speaker 7>I'm just saying, like, how many like like this is

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<v Speaker 7>a scenario. I think that there's like a anception to

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<v Speaker 7>the rule, like how many people? How many ugly people

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<v Speaker 7>do you talk to to day?

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<v Speaker 1>It's not about.

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<v Speaker 3>How unattractive people do you talk.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not about being unattractive. If you like tall, slim chicks.

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<v Speaker 2>If there is a fine ass, thick woman, you can

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<v Speaker 2>look at her, it's like, yo, she she bad as shit,

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<v Speaker 2>But that's not my type.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I wouldn't say that.

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<v Speaker 1>What would you say?

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<v Speaker 8>You said, she's thick?

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<v Speaker 3>Like fat? I can't get past this.

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<v Speaker 4>You've never people have types right in everything, and I'm

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<v Speaker 4>talking about I'm talking about there's types in everything. I

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<v Speaker 4>like a certain genre of music. That don't mean that

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<v Speaker 4>that country song right there, I fuck with that. You

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<v Speaker 4>never liked the nigga that was outside of your type before,

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<v Speaker 4>you can like.

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<v Speaker 1>People that are outside your type.

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<v Speaker 2>But I feel like another piece that we're missing is

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<v Speaker 2>when you get close enough with somebody, you learn things

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<v Speaker 2>about that person. So they may be your type, but

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<v Speaker 2>you might also be close enough to know they're a

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<v Speaker 2>trash ass fucking person. You can get close enough to somebody,

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<v Speaker 2>but like, YO, they're.

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<v Speaker 1>Fine as shit. But I also know you don't wash

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<v Speaker 1>your feet in the shower. I also know you don't

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<v Speaker 1>like taking care.

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<v Speaker 3>Of your kids. Unless she was in the showroom.

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<v Speaker 1>Conversations come up, conversations come up.

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<v Speaker 2>You can hear ship, you can hear you can hear

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<v Speaker 2>ship that they argue about what other people. That'll make

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<v Speaker 2>you privy to YO, that bitch is not for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Like she'd fucking be snapping on her baby dad because

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<v Speaker 2>he won't give her money for all the other kids.

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<v Speaker 4>But you still might want to fuck him though, No,

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<v Speaker 4>some friends want to fuck I'm gonna go with this story.

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<v Speaker 3>Because these my two friends here, they actually don't believe

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<v Speaker 3>in this female friend platonic stuff obviously. No, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 3>no no. I have a female friend, female best friend, right,

435
00:21:34.240 --> 00:21:37.039
<v Speaker 3>and there's nothing there. Yeah, she's not a believer. She's

436
00:21:37.039 --> 00:21:38.960
<v Speaker 3>a good looking woman, but she's you know, we've been

437
00:21:39.079 --> 00:21:42.039
<v Speaker 3>friends and has just been there. So I do give advice.

438
00:21:42.079 --> 00:21:43.759
<v Speaker 3>She can call me at any time. We hadn't been

439
00:21:43.839 --> 00:21:48.319
<v Speaker 3>through multiple relationships opposite way, well I've had, she's been

440
00:21:48.400 --> 00:21:51.319
<v Speaker 3>in the same relationship. But in the in the grand

441
00:21:51.359 --> 00:21:53.200
<v Speaker 3>scheme of things, it's like, I do know what it's

442
00:21:53.279 --> 00:21:55.240
<v Speaker 3>like to have someone of the opposite sex that's truly

443
00:21:55.319 --> 00:21:57.759
<v Speaker 3>my friend. So I do feel like I'm able to

444
00:21:57.839 --> 00:22:02.200
<v Speaker 3>give her manly advice because women think more emotionally and

445
00:22:02.440 --> 00:22:05.000
<v Speaker 3>less logically, especially when Dick is slotting inside them.

446
00:22:06.440 --> 00:22:13.519
<v Speaker 4>That because the only reason was because he was so professional.

447
00:22:14.720 --> 00:22:18.119
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm sorry, so and when that's happening, I do

448
00:22:18.359 --> 00:22:21.039
<v Speaker 3>understand that they sometimes need the game of a man.

449
00:22:21.119 --> 00:22:23.559
<v Speaker 3>So I gotta retract my statement and say I agree

450
00:22:23.599 --> 00:22:25.079
<v Speaker 3>with you. I agreed that doesn't have to be the

451
00:22:25.119 --> 00:22:28.440
<v Speaker 3>opposite sex, but I do think it does help coming

452
00:22:28.480 --> 00:22:30.839
<v Speaker 3>from a person whom I can see what she can't say.

453
00:22:30.920 --> 00:22:33.039
<v Speaker 2>And that's and that's important right there, because that's what

454
00:22:33.079 --> 00:22:35.720
<v Speaker 2>I was saying, Like you'll be all bent out of

455
00:22:35.799 --> 00:22:38.640
<v Speaker 2>shape about a nigga and your homie will look you

456
00:22:38.759 --> 00:22:39.640
<v Speaker 2>danny face, like.

457
00:22:39.680 --> 00:22:42.000
<v Speaker 1>Yo, you're letting a nigga with three pair of jeans

458
00:22:42.039 --> 00:22:42.920
<v Speaker 1>play you like.

459
00:22:43.000 --> 00:22:45.319
<v Speaker 2>That's crazy because you'll be so dicmatized and so caught

460
00:22:45.359 --> 00:22:46.759
<v Speaker 2>up in this nigga you won't realize Yo, he do

461
00:22:46.839 --> 00:22:48.799
<v Speaker 2>live with his mom, He do got three pair of jeans.

462
00:22:49.000 --> 00:22:51.160
<v Speaker 2>He do only call me at ten o'clock. But it's

463
00:22:51.200 --> 00:22:54.119
<v Speaker 2>like having that outside for saying like, yeah, you're being

464
00:22:54.240 --> 00:22:56.440
<v Speaker 2>dumb right now. It's like because your girlfriends, when they

465
00:22:56.759 --> 00:22:58.720
<v Speaker 2>give you advice, they still gonna make it seem.

466
00:22:58.519 --> 00:22:59.480
<v Speaker 1>Like you being a good person.

467
00:22:59.559 --> 00:23:02.319
<v Speaker 2>Like maybe his phone dies or maybe he did have

468
00:23:02.440 --> 00:23:03.920
<v Speaker 2>plans for now, he just forgot to tell you about

469
00:23:03.920 --> 00:23:06.079
<v Speaker 2>a nigga. Ain't sugar coat and ship he gonna tell

470
00:23:06.119 --> 00:23:07.960
<v Speaker 2>you like that ship don't make sense.

471
00:23:08.000 --> 00:23:10.119
<v Speaker 4>And sometimes when your girls are saying bad ship about

472
00:23:10.119 --> 00:23:12.160
<v Speaker 4>the nigga, they just want to suck his dick too.

473
00:23:12.880 --> 00:23:13.880
<v Speaker 3>It's a different.

474
00:23:13.640 --> 00:23:17.200
<v Speaker 8>Factors and niggas who dick they usually that was us.

475
00:23:17.960 --> 00:23:20.000
<v Speaker 3>That was us he's.

476
00:23:22.440 --> 00:23:25.359
<v Speaker 1>Whispering. It's crazy.

477
00:23:29.319 --> 00:23:29.599
<v Speaker 3>People.

478
00:23:31.519 --> 00:23:35.319
<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes I said all that

479
00:23:35.400 --> 00:23:37.920
<v Speaker 1>to say today.

480
00:23:39.359 --> 00:23:42.400
<v Speaker 2>I feel like I value you guys opinion maybe a

481
00:23:42.440 --> 00:23:44.480
<v Speaker 2>little less now except for slice.

482
00:23:44.279 --> 00:23:44.839
<v Speaker 3>Thank you, but.

483
00:23:49.319 --> 00:23:51.119
<v Speaker 8>Never mind, go ahead.

484
00:23:52.119 --> 00:23:55.720
<v Speaker 1>But I genuinely wanted to come to you guys with

485
00:23:56.079 --> 00:23:58.079
<v Speaker 1>a few of my scenarios.

486
00:23:58.839 --> 00:24:02.119
<v Speaker 2>And you know, honestly, I feel like Shaan be sick

487
00:24:02.160 --> 00:24:04.640
<v Speaker 2>of hearing my ship every week. You know, is one

488
00:24:04.640 --> 00:24:06.119
<v Speaker 2>of the niggas who will tell me, like, bitch, you

489
00:24:06.240 --> 00:24:09.240
<v Speaker 2>being stupid. So you know, I just wanted to open

490
00:24:09.319 --> 00:24:10.000
<v Speaker 2>the floor a little bit.

491
00:24:10.599 --> 00:24:12.440
<v Speaker 3>Can I even disclaim it to these guys. Let's give

492
00:24:12.519 --> 00:24:14.640
<v Speaker 3>us some bars, fellows that store.

493
00:24:15.000 --> 00:24:19.359
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So I wanted to shot at the time, are

494
00:24:19.400 --> 00:24:19.920
<v Speaker 1>you looking or no?

495
00:24:20.960 --> 00:24:22.440
<v Speaker 3>God, he's enjoying the show.

496
00:24:27.799 --> 00:24:30.799
<v Speaker 1>So I wanted to bring to you guys some situation

497
00:24:31.720 --> 00:24:33.160
<v Speaker 1>and I wanted you to tell me.

498
00:24:33.519 --> 00:24:37.079
<v Speaker 2>If I'm the asshole, that these are all people that

499
00:24:37.160 --> 00:24:40.079
<v Speaker 2>I've chosen to, you know, cut off communications with over

500
00:24:40.160 --> 00:24:43.640
<v Speaker 2>the past two years, and yeah, asks as many questions

501
00:24:43.680 --> 00:24:45.720
<v Speaker 2>as you need to, and yeah, I just want to

502
00:24:45.799 --> 00:24:47.680
<v Speaker 2>run into Am I the asshole?

503
00:24:48.000 --> 00:24:48.279
<v Speaker 4>Okay?

504
00:24:49.480 --> 00:24:50.319
<v Speaker 3>So first.

505
00:24:51.880 --> 00:24:54.200
<v Speaker 2>I went on a date with the guy and this

506
00:24:54.640 --> 00:24:59.200
<v Speaker 2>is probably our second date. At this point, he chooses

507
00:24:59.240 --> 00:25:01.319
<v Speaker 2>to go to a bar our kid Uh.

508
00:25:01.400 --> 00:25:01.880
<v Speaker 1>No, I lie.

509
00:25:01.920 --> 00:25:04.960
<v Speaker 2>It was minigolf, right, So we got a bunch of

510
00:25:05.039 --> 00:25:10.319
<v Speaker 2>holes downstairs, no diddy, We're doing like fourteen holes and

511
00:25:10.519 --> 00:25:13.559
<v Speaker 2>afterwards we play like a Connect four and then we

512
00:25:13.640 --> 00:25:17.400
<v Speaker 2>play Uno. I beat him in every single thing this

513
00:25:17.599 --> 00:25:20.799
<v Speaker 2>night everything. I beat him in minigolf, I beat him

514
00:25:20.839 --> 00:25:22.240
<v Speaker 2>in Connect four, I beat him in.

515
00:25:22.920 --> 00:25:25.960
<v Speaker 3>He's a loser. Okay, continue now.

516
00:25:27.160 --> 00:25:31.039
<v Speaker 2>After I beat him at Uno, he says, oh my god,

517
00:25:31.319 --> 00:25:32.359
<v Speaker 2>let me fucking win.

518
00:25:32.480 --> 00:25:38.000
<v Speaker 1>You are a terrible date. But he was serious. I

519
00:25:38.160 --> 00:25:41.920
<v Speaker 1>feel like he was serious, right, And he also didn't

520
00:25:41.960 --> 00:25:42.839
<v Speaker 1>win anything.

521
00:25:42.599 --> 00:25:46.720
<v Speaker 3>That night, so he's a loser. This is the problem.

522
00:25:46.799 --> 00:25:48.920
<v Speaker 3>This is the actual problem. I was rocking with him,

523
00:25:49.319 --> 00:25:51.160
<v Speaker 3>you said that part because I thought he's letting you.

524
00:25:51.400 --> 00:25:52.440
<v Speaker 3>I thought he was letting you win.

525
00:25:52.720 --> 00:25:57.039
<v Speaker 7>But his reaction normally, when you letting somebody win, you know,

526
00:25:57.160 --> 00:25:59.839
<v Speaker 7>you kind of be nachalant about him. He'd be like, oh, yeah,

527
00:25:59.839 --> 00:26:01.319
<v Speaker 7>you that one. You know what I'm saying. You just

528
00:26:01.440 --> 00:26:03.319
<v Speaker 7>being cool about it. But the fact that he was

529
00:26:03.440 --> 00:26:06.839
<v Speaker 7>like really trying to beat you, and nah.

530
00:26:08.119 --> 00:26:11.880
<v Speaker 2>It was the You're a terrible date for me, because

531
00:26:11.920 --> 00:26:13.839
<v Speaker 2>even if you are joking, how am I a terrible

532
00:26:13.880 --> 00:26:16.559
<v Speaker 2>date because you're not winning anything because everything isn't in

533
00:26:16.599 --> 00:26:18.640
<v Speaker 2>the same level, the same skill level you need for

534
00:26:18.680 --> 00:26:21.640
<v Speaker 2>a mini golf connect for and no our three different

535
00:26:21.720 --> 00:26:22.279
<v Speaker 2>skill levels.

536
00:26:22.559 --> 00:26:25.839
<v Speaker 7>Say that either type of dude who won't really get

537
00:26:25.960 --> 00:26:29.720
<v Speaker 7>chicks like that, because any type of dude who really

538
00:26:29.839 --> 00:26:32.680
<v Speaker 7>get chicks would a flip that even if you was

539
00:26:32.799 --> 00:26:33.799
<v Speaker 7>really beating the.

540
00:26:33.799 --> 00:26:35.440
<v Speaker 8>Shit out of me, you was really beating my ass.

541
00:26:35.920 --> 00:26:39.640
<v Speaker 7>I'm gonna at least act like I'm letting you win, right,

542
00:26:41.119 --> 00:26:44.960
<v Speaker 7>just so that he don't have no finesse. You understand

543
00:26:44.960 --> 00:26:47.200
<v Speaker 7>what I'm saying. He was thinking more about the game

544
00:26:47.400 --> 00:26:48.559
<v Speaker 7>and not thinking about later.

545
00:26:49.119 --> 00:26:53.119
<v Speaker 4>But I gotta ask you said, you can ask questions why,

546
00:26:53.440 --> 00:26:56.079
<v Speaker 4>it's the question I got g was he thinking more

547
00:26:56.079 --> 00:26:59.799
<v Speaker 4>about the game, because sometimes I've only had this happen

548
00:26:59.880 --> 00:27:02.160
<v Speaker 4>a couple of times where it was a chick that

549
00:27:02.240 --> 00:27:03.920
<v Speaker 4>I thought that I was gonna vibe with and like,

550
00:27:04.039 --> 00:27:07.680
<v Speaker 4>and when we went out it felt like I'm chilling

551
00:27:07.759 --> 00:27:11.079
<v Speaker 4>with the homie. I was getting no energy from the

552
00:27:11.240 --> 00:27:15.200
<v Speaker 4>person your first in a sense, so in a sense

553
00:27:15.240 --> 00:27:17.519
<v Speaker 4>that was not really from me, though you feel me

554
00:27:17.960 --> 00:27:21.279
<v Speaker 4>it's more like yo, and I don't want a fucking

555
00:27:21.400 --> 00:27:24.519
<v Speaker 4>date or no, like I don't feel no date energy,

556
00:27:25.000 --> 00:27:27.000
<v Speaker 4>and I feel like you could have been on this

557
00:27:27.240 --> 00:27:31.200
<v Speaker 4>date giving ball no rhythm and just beating him in

558
00:27:31.279 --> 00:27:33.680
<v Speaker 4>the games where he's just like cause it's not like

559
00:27:33.759 --> 00:27:35.599
<v Speaker 4>you beat him in the games and then you dancing

560
00:27:35.680 --> 00:27:38.519
<v Speaker 4>on him or you hugged up on him, or you're

561
00:27:38.559 --> 00:27:41.319
<v Speaker 4>showing him some kind of like you're yeah, you're you're

562
00:27:41.519 --> 00:27:44.279
<v Speaker 4>you're seducing him or giving them a rhythm where he like,

563
00:27:44.960 --> 00:27:47.480
<v Speaker 4>oh this is dope, shorty beating my ass. But is

564
00:27:47.559 --> 00:27:50.039
<v Speaker 4>she twerking on me? It's like, I'm just out with

565
00:27:50.200 --> 00:27:52.400
<v Speaker 4>this chick. She beating me in the game. She ain't

566
00:27:52.440 --> 00:27:54.359
<v Speaker 4>giving me no rhythm, no kissing, no nothing.

567
00:27:54.440 --> 00:27:55.359
<v Speaker 3>It's just kind of hard.

568
00:27:55.440 --> 00:27:58.960
<v Speaker 7>So it's like it's almost like certain ideas, especially when

569
00:27:58.960 --> 00:28:01.240
<v Speaker 7>you're trying to get to know somebody, is a bad date.

570
00:28:01.759 --> 00:28:03.640
<v Speaker 8>Some some dates are just set up wrong. It's like

571
00:28:03.960 --> 00:28:05.440
<v Speaker 8>meat and Chicken take it them to the movies.

572
00:28:05.839 --> 00:28:07.640
<v Speaker 7>Well we in the movies, we really don't get an

573
00:28:07.640 --> 00:28:10.640
<v Speaker 7>opportunity to kind of talk and kick it, you know

574
00:28:10.680 --> 00:28:11.000
<v Speaker 7>what I mean.

575
00:28:11.079 --> 00:28:12.839
<v Speaker 8>If he was smart, he probably would have took you

576
00:28:12.920 --> 00:28:13.680
<v Speaker 8>out for coffee.

577
00:28:14.000 --> 00:28:16.039
<v Speaker 7>He probably would have took you somewhere where he can

578
00:28:16.160 --> 00:28:20.000
<v Speaker 7>actually get the you know, put the combination in for

579
00:28:20.119 --> 00:28:20.960
<v Speaker 7>what he needed to get.

580
00:28:21.400 --> 00:28:23.279
<v Speaker 3>Real quickly got the point I'm sorry.

581
00:28:24.160 --> 00:28:26.000
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say so.

582
00:28:26.599 --> 00:28:28.920
<v Speaker 2>First of all, big Mama ain't never talking on nobody

583
00:28:28.920 --> 00:28:30.400
<v Speaker 2>in no fucking date, So you ain't never gonna get

584
00:28:30.400 --> 00:28:30.559
<v Speaker 2>that in.

585
00:28:30.680 --> 00:28:33.079
<v Speaker 1>The chew from me, right. But I will say it

586
00:28:33.279 --> 00:28:36.519
<v Speaker 1>was a playful banner. It was you ship talking. Problem

587
00:28:36.640 --> 00:28:37.519
<v Speaker 1>was you couldn't back it up.

588
00:28:38.000 --> 00:28:40.640
<v Speaker 2>And my thought process was, if I'm on a second

589
00:28:40.720 --> 00:28:43.079
<v Speaker 2>date with a nigga, am I postal and win all

590
00:28:43.119 --> 00:28:43.480
<v Speaker 2>the games?

591
00:28:43.480 --> 00:28:44.599
<v Speaker 1>Because damn I might be single?

592
00:28:46.920 --> 00:28:48.400
<v Speaker 4>What did you do to show this man that you

593
00:28:48.599 --> 00:28:48.920
<v Speaker 4>liked him?

594
00:28:50.480 --> 00:28:52.119
<v Speaker 2>See now, the girl in me was about to say

595
00:28:52.200 --> 00:28:54.400
<v Speaker 2>other than show up, But I'm gonna be honest and

596
00:28:54.480 --> 00:28:58.119
<v Speaker 2>give a good answer. We were having dope conversations to me,

597
00:28:59.079 --> 00:29:03.799
<v Speaker 2>were reviving to me. But I feel like that's when

598
00:29:04.319 --> 00:29:06.599
<v Speaker 2>what your preference comes in. Maybe you are looking for

599
00:29:06.640 --> 00:29:09.000
<v Speaker 2>somebody who's going I'm.

600
00:29:08.880 --> 00:29:12.039
<v Speaker 4>Only saying say, I'm only saying that to say, men

601
00:29:12.279 --> 00:29:16.519
<v Speaker 4>usually received very very strong signals from a woman that like, oh,

602
00:29:16.640 --> 00:29:22.000
<v Speaker 4>she fucking with me. Somewhere in that date. He threw

603
00:29:22.079 --> 00:29:26.359
<v Speaker 4>that desperate thing out because he was like, Yo, I'm

604
00:29:26.480 --> 00:29:27.400
<v Speaker 4>not getting no.

605
00:29:28.200 --> 00:29:34.359
<v Speaker 3>Sick connect exactly connect.

606
00:29:38.200 --> 00:29:39.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't think that was it because even while we

607
00:29:40.000 --> 00:29:42.279
<v Speaker 1>were playing no, we was vibe, we was kicking.

608
00:29:42.440 --> 00:29:46.720
<v Speaker 3>We was like, you know, that's right because if a

609
00:29:46.759 --> 00:29:48.799
<v Speaker 3>girl to work on me too early, she probably I'm

610
00:29:48.799 --> 00:29:50.720
<v Speaker 3>probably not gonna like her. I think she's ditty, right,

611
00:29:51.440 --> 00:29:59.240
<v Speaker 3>my girl. But I'm saying it's subtle, touches its energy

612
00:29:59.359 --> 00:30:02.039
<v Speaker 3>like I I've been in restaurants, uh ship with my

613
00:30:02.119 --> 00:30:04.000
<v Speaker 3>girl now. And when we sat we sat on the

614
00:30:04.039 --> 00:30:06.720
<v Speaker 3>same side and it was just a simple lay against him.

615
00:30:06.759 --> 00:30:08.960
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so that you said, but you see that same

616
00:30:09.119 --> 00:30:12.440
<v Speaker 4>side energy when they give you that same side energy

617
00:30:12.599 --> 00:30:14.759
<v Speaker 4>feel it. That's one of those things that when I

618
00:30:14.839 --> 00:30:16.680
<v Speaker 4>talk when I think about the date that I was

619
00:30:16.759 --> 00:30:18.200
<v Speaker 4>on that I had that kind of feel.

620
00:30:18.319 --> 00:30:21.200
<v Speaker 3>It wasn't that same side energy got.

621
00:30:21.200 --> 00:30:23.079
<v Speaker 1>We was on the same side when I hit him

622
00:30:23.079 --> 00:30:24.079
<v Speaker 1>with that draw for and with this.

623
00:30:24.880 --> 00:30:27.559
<v Speaker 7>But you gotta understand and the way that your date

624
00:30:27.759 --> 00:30:30.720
<v Speaker 7>was set up, you treated him like an opt the

625
00:30:30.880 --> 00:30:34.200
<v Speaker 7>whole night because he was actually your opposition on.

626
00:30:34.480 --> 00:30:37.000
<v Speaker 8>Each one of them games was the whole night.

627
00:30:37.599 --> 00:30:42.200
<v Speaker 7>So it's kind of hard to kind of vibe and

628
00:30:42.359 --> 00:30:45.240
<v Speaker 7>get like, you know, kind of kind of kind of

629
00:30:45.359 --> 00:30:46.279
<v Speaker 7>you know, you can't.

630
00:30:46.119 --> 00:30:46.960
<v Speaker 3>Let corny get off.

631
00:30:47.440 --> 00:30:52.240
<v Speaker 1>I think, I think, I think that everybody ain't for everybody, right.

632
00:30:52.880 --> 00:30:56.000
<v Speaker 2>So there are some men who take pleasure in just

633
00:30:56.720 --> 00:30:59.759
<v Speaker 2>being the best at everything in their relationship, right, And

634
00:31:00.200 --> 00:31:02.519
<v Speaker 2>I'm not the type of woman to be with that

635
00:31:02.680 --> 00:31:04.880
<v Speaker 2>type of man, because I'm the type of woman where

636
00:31:05.240 --> 00:31:07.920
<v Speaker 2>I'm here to make my man better. It's not gonna

637
00:31:07.920 --> 00:31:09.960
<v Speaker 2>be no you carrying the whole funk shit by itself

638
00:31:10.119 --> 00:31:12.599
<v Speaker 2>if you're able to take off and like take a

639
00:31:12.640 --> 00:31:13.359
<v Speaker 2>break if you need it.

640
00:31:13.519 --> 00:31:16.799
<v Speaker 4>So just the crazy part in people's personalities. There's things

641
00:31:16.839 --> 00:31:19.039
<v Speaker 4>wrong with all of us, right, and it's about the

642
00:31:19.279 --> 00:31:22.599
<v Speaker 4>order in which you meet those things. That dude could

643
00:31:22.759 --> 00:31:26.359
<v Speaker 4>actually be the dude for you. You just met one

644
00:31:26.440 --> 00:31:31.720
<v Speaker 4>of his flaws too early, so you could have a dude.

645
00:31:31.720 --> 00:31:33.599
<v Speaker 4>You would have met all this dope shit about him,

646
00:31:33.759 --> 00:31:37.039
<v Speaker 4>ended up with him. You fuck with Gerald, Now that's

647
00:31:37.119 --> 00:31:39.440
<v Speaker 4>your man, and I'm naming them Gerald.

648
00:31:41.160 --> 00:31:42.119
<v Speaker 3>Fuck with Gerald, right.

649
00:31:42.599 --> 00:31:44.880
<v Speaker 4>But you know when you talk to people like yo,

650
00:31:45.079 --> 00:31:48.000
<v Speaker 4>Gerald be so corny about losing. But you didn't find

651
00:31:48.079 --> 00:31:52.359
<v Speaker 4>that out until after you and Gerald already fucking it

652
00:31:52.440 --> 00:31:55.400
<v Speaker 4>don't even matter. You just know he's a bit y'all

653
00:31:55.440 --> 00:31:57.400
<v Speaker 4>when it come to lose and he's mad. I'm talking

654
00:31:57.400 --> 00:32:00.880
<v Speaker 4>about while y'all live together as a family. Gerald get

655
00:32:01.000 --> 00:32:04.559
<v Speaker 4>mad when he lose, and that's it. But because you met,

656
00:32:05.519 --> 00:32:10.000
<v Speaker 4>because he showed that card in the beginning, that's what this.

657
00:32:10.359 --> 00:32:12.319
<v Speaker 4>So I want to fix that. And then GB says

658
00:32:12.400 --> 00:32:16.160
<v Speaker 4>something about the date thing going to the movies. Yeah,

659
00:32:16.240 --> 00:32:18.319
<v Speaker 4>you don't get to kick that game. But the movies

660
00:32:18.559 --> 00:32:22.079
<v Speaker 4>is still a good jowing because the movies puts in time.

661
00:32:22.279 --> 00:32:24.720
<v Speaker 4>I don't know what the time is because there's a

662
00:32:24.880 --> 00:32:27.240
<v Speaker 4>code that you punch into women's heads in order to

663
00:32:27.480 --> 00:32:28.680
<v Speaker 4>put your penis inside of him.

664
00:32:28.759 --> 00:32:30.960
<v Speaker 1>Gat, I don't like the movie. The movies is never

665
00:32:31.039 --> 00:32:32.400
<v Speaker 1>gonna be before date three.

666
00:32:32.599 --> 00:32:37.440
<v Speaker 4>So if you might not need like the movie, right,

667
00:32:38.240 --> 00:32:42.240
<v Speaker 4>but I would use the movie on you or any

668
00:32:42.359 --> 00:32:48.000
<v Speaker 4>other woman because the movie only equals time. It's a

669
00:32:48.079 --> 00:32:52.880
<v Speaker 4>weird thing. People don't realize how much time they're spending

670
00:32:52.960 --> 00:32:55.359
<v Speaker 4>with each other, the true amount of time they spend

671
00:32:55.400 --> 00:32:57.559
<v Speaker 4>with each other before they sleep with each other. When

672
00:32:57.599 --> 00:32:59.160
<v Speaker 4>you go on a date with somebody, you spend two

673
00:32:59.200 --> 00:33:02.519
<v Speaker 4>hours with a see them next week, spend two hours

674
00:33:02.559 --> 00:33:05.599
<v Speaker 4>with them, see them next week, spend the hour with them,

675
00:33:05.799 --> 00:33:08.240
<v Speaker 4>didn't see them for two weeks, for eight lunch real quick.

676
00:33:08.480 --> 00:33:09.359
<v Speaker 3>You add it all up.

677
00:33:09.400 --> 00:33:11.680
<v Speaker 4>You like, I've only been around this person for six

678
00:33:11.759 --> 00:33:14.039
<v Speaker 4>and a half hours, even though it's been a month

679
00:33:14.079 --> 00:33:15.880
<v Speaker 4>and a half, and then you gave them the cheeks.

680
00:33:16.279 --> 00:33:21.519
<v Speaker 4>I'm getting my hours in somehow when we're watching that movie,

681
00:33:22.119 --> 00:33:25.960
<v Speaker 4>just being in the presence is adding to my time clocks.

682
00:33:26.079 --> 00:33:28.359
<v Speaker 1>But I think it depends on what you're looking for

683
00:33:28.559 --> 00:33:29.160
<v Speaker 1>when dating.

684
00:33:29.680 --> 00:33:32.119
<v Speaker 2>If I'm just looking for a justification for giving us

685
00:33:32.160 --> 00:33:34.640
<v Speaker 2>nigga cheeks, yes we can do a movie date before

686
00:33:34.720 --> 00:33:36.799
<v Speaker 2>date three, But if I'm really looking for my husband,

687
00:33:36.880 --> 00:33:39.400
<v Speaker 2>a movie date before date three is pointless because I'm

688
00:33:39.440 --> 00:33:41.640
<v Speaker 2>not getting to know you. We're not talking, We're sitting

689
00:33:41.759 --> 00:33:43.680
<v Speaker 2>quiet next to each other while the movie is going on.

690
00:33:43.960 --> 00:33:44.519
<v Speaker 1>That's a waste.

691
00:33:45.359 --> 00:33:47.319
<v Speaker 4>Sometimes you're not looking for your husband, you're just looking.

692
00:33:47.119 --> 00:33:49.319
<v Speaker 1>For Oh I said, if like, if I'm talking for

693
00:33:49.400 --> 00:33:53.200
<v Speaker 1>all with all the women, like for me, for me,

694
00:33:53.319 --> 00:33:55.359
<v Speaker 1>because that's my favorite shit for me. So we're not

695
00:33:55.480 --> 00:33:55.799
<v Speaker 1>doing a.

696
00:33:56.000 --> 00:33:58.160
<v Speaker 3>Movie and I want to get back on your topic.

697
00:33:58.319 --> 00:34:01.359
<v Speaker 3>Is if we start off at breakfast and then at

698
00:34:01.440 --> 00:34:04.119
<v Speaker 3>lunch time we go to the movie. And now after

699
00:34:04.240 --> 00:34:06.559
<v Speaker 3>movies we go to what you said, top golf or somewhere.

700
00:34:06.599 --> 00:34:08.880
<v Speaker 3>So now we just spend six seven hours all day.

701
00:34:09.519 --> 00:34:11.840
<v Speaker 3>That one day feels like six weeks.

702
00:34:12.039 --> 00:34:15.639
<v Speaker 4>Yes, yes, Yo, I had d you're my girlfriend. After Yo,

703
00:34:15.760 --> 00:34:18.559
<v Speaker 4>I had dates. That was I used to plan it

704
00:34:18.719 --> 00:34:21.960
<v Speaker 4>like that. Go out, eat like he said, something in

705
00:34:22.000 --> 00:34:25.719
<v Speaker 4>the morning, do something in the afternoon, go to the

706
00:34:25.880 --> 00:34:28.039
<v Speaker 4>movies at night. Because now it's like we've done chill

707
00:34:28.119 --> 00:34:30.519
<v Speaker 4>and now it's just hold hands, watch the movie. Time.

708
00:34:31.119 --> 00:34:33.760
<v Speaker 4>She getting tired, she leaning on it. It's just that time.

709
00:34:34.039 --> 00:34:35.760
<v Speaker 8>Listen to what the key is?

710
00:34:36.280 --> 00:34:36.400
<v Speaker 3>Right.

711
00:34:36.519 --> 00:34:38.440
<v Speaker 7>Let me let me just give all the corny niggas

712
00:34:38.440 --> 00:34:40.920
<v Speaker 7>out there, Oh my god, let me get'll go ahead

713
00:34:41.119 --> 00:34:43.559
<v Speaker 7>from niggas who used to get bitches. A lot of

714
00:34:43.639 --> 00:34:47.079
<v Speaker 7>us used to used to no more, no more, listen,

715
00:34:48.360 --> 00:34:51.639
<v Speaker 7>just won't be clear. The perfect thing to do is

716
00:34:51.800 --> 00:34:55.079
<v Speaker 7>when you're trying to date a woman is to go early.

717
00:34:55.360 --> 00:34:55.480
<v Speaker 3>Right.

718
00:34:55.559 --> 00:34:57.880
<v Speaker 7>You want to pick them up early in the morning, right,

719
00:34:58.639 --> 00:35:01.800
<v Speaker 7>do breakfast, Do things early in the morning. That way

720
00:35:02.000 --> 00:35:05.400
<v Speaker 7>two things, One it gives you all day to spend, right,

721
00:35:05.639 --> 00:35:09.159
<v Speaker 7>and two it kind of lets them know what's spending

722
00:35:09.199 --> 00:35:12.360
<v Speaker 7>the night with you is kind of like because they're

723
00:35:12.400 --> 00:35:14.719
<v Speaker 7>gonna wake up, they're gonna get breakfast. They get used

724
00:35:14.719 --> 00:35:20.199
<v Speaker 7>to being around you in that early environment, that early vibe, right,

725
00:35:20.800 --> 00:35:23.239
<v Speaker 7>that sets you up for the for the spend the

726
00:35:23.360 --> 00:35:26.719
<v Speaker 7>night game. It's playing the long game, right It kind

727
00:35:26.760 --> 00:35:30.599
<v Speaker 7>of mentally she's used to being around you that early.

728
00:35:31.480 --> 00:35:34.519
<v Speaker 7>Now you got all day if you pick her up

729
00:35:34.559 --> 00:35:38.800
<v Speaker 7>at ten am and let's just say at by six pm.

730
00:35:39.239 --> 00:35:41.800
<v Speaker 7>Like Sli said, Yo, that feels like y'all been together

731
00:35:41.920 --> 00:35:45.760
<v Speaker 7>for a month. She can actually see herself being with you,

732
00:35:45.880 --> 00:35:50.280
<v Speaker 7>y'all and had fifteen different types of conversation right the

733
00:35:50.400 --> 00:35:53.039
<v Speaker 7>whole time, y'all vibing in that instance, I could see

734
00:35:53.079 --> 00:35:57.400
<v Speaker 7>getting a movie in. But listen, get there early, you

735
00:35:57.519 --> 00:35:59.679
<v Speaker 7>get there at night, if you get there at six

736
00:35:59.760 --> 00:36:03.760
<v Speaker 7>p m. Right, unless unless she already knows she gonna

737
00:36:03.800 --> 00:36:06.039
<v Speaker 7>give you something, right, you really only got a couple

738
00:36:06.199 --> 00:36:08.159
<v Speaker 7>hours to play ball, exactly.

739
00:36:08.199 --> 00:36:10.920
<v Speaker 3>So, So oftentimes.

740
00:36:14.599 --> 00:36:18.280
<v Speaker 4>A million niggas take you out to breakfast. If that

741
00:36:18.480 --> 00:36:23.199
<v Speaker 4>ship is fire, right when you leave him, you actually

742
00:36:23.360 --> 00:36:25.639
<v Speaker 4>wish you was still on a date with the nigga,

743
00:36:25.840 --> 00:36:28.360
<v Speaker 4>Like like, right you feel me talk how craziest part

744
00:36:28.480 --> 00:36:31.440
<v Speaker 4>is you could actually be on a date with him

745
00:36:31.480 --> 00:36:33.800
<v Speaker 4>later that day. Most of the time, even if she

746
00:36:33.920 --> 00:36:38.159
<v Speaker 4>gotta go do something yo, y'all talking all day, she

747
00:36:38.280 --> 00:36:39.880
<v Speaker 4>gonna want to chill with you that night. Now, you

748
00:36:39.920 --> 00:36:41.880
<v Speaker 4>don't knock two nights out at once. She feel like

749
00:36:41.960 --> 00:36:43.760
<v Speaker 4>I've been on two days with the nigga, I might

750
00:36:43.840 --> 00:36:44.760
<v Speaker 4>as well give you a.

751
00:36:46.880 --> 00:36:48.000
<v Speaker 3>But storm your dude's corny.

752
00:36:51.960 --> 00:36:52.840
<v Speaker 4>I just hold on.

753
00:36:52.920 --> 00:36:56.239
<v Speaker 2>I just want to say, ladies, if you are one

754
00:36:56.280 --> 00:37:00.760
<v Speaker 2>of those women who feel the way he does, stop

755
00:37:00.840 --> 00:37:03.039
<v Speaker 2>doing that right now. Stop doing that right Stop doing

756
00:37:03.079 --> 00:37:04.559
<v Speaker 2>that right now. And I'm gonna tell you why. First

757
00:37:04.599 --> 00:37:07.280
<v Speaker 2>of all, when you go on your first few initue dates,

758
00:37:07.559 --> 00:37:09.599
<v Speaker 2>they should not be longer than two hours.

759
00:37:09.960 --> 00:37:12.360
<v Speaker 1>And I don't care hear me. I hear the second

760
00:37:12.400 --> 00:37:16.840
<v Speaker 1>of the teeth. Okay, Nigerians are Okay, I hear the second.

761
00:37:18.480 --> 00:37:18.639
<v Speaker 4>Why.

762
00:37:18.639 --> 00:37:19.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell you why.

763
00:37:19.360 --> 00:37:21.239
<v Speaker 3>I'm I'm why.

764
00:37:21.239 --> 00:37:21.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell you why.

765
00:37:22.880 --> 00:37:25.000
<v Speaker 2>You go on the first date right or you go

766
00:37:25.039 --> 00:37:27.159
<v Speaker 2>on your first few first dates, things are going great,

767
00:37:27.280 --> 00:37:28.880
<v Speaker 2>you want to go to a secondary location.

768
00:37:29.400 --> 00:37:31.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh stop it there.

769
00:37:31.320 --> 00:37:33.360
<v Speaker 2>It should not be too long because you're going to

770
00:37:33.400 --> 00:37:36.960
<v Speaker 2>start to develop an anxious attachment stole where what they

771
00:37:37.039 --> 00:37:39.800
<v Speaker 2>are saying it works good for them, but it don't

772
00:37:39.800 --> 00:37:41.559
<v Speaker 2>work good for you because now you don't felt like,

773
00:37:41.599 --> 00:37:43.039
<v Speaker 2>Oh I didn't spit two nights with him.

774
00:37:43.079 --> 00:37:43.480
<v Speaker 3>It's good.

775
00:37:43.760 --> 00:37:47.280
<v Speaker 1>I can give him the yams to you. To that nigga, No,

776
00:37:47.679 --> 00:37:48.599
<v Speaker 1>you're not his girlfriend.

777
00:37:48.880 --> 00:37:50.920
<v Speaker 2>I know y'allna spent that time together. I know y'all

778
00:37:50.960 --> 00:37:53.119
<v Speaker 2>in boolof not even a shouldering in the movie theaters.

779
00:37:53.320 --> 00:37:55.960
<v Speaker 2>Baby no no, And I know that's what you want,

780
00:37:56.239 --> 00:37:58.880
<v Speaker 2>but hell no. Listen to Big Stormy when she says

781
00:37:59.159 --> 00:37:59.559
<v Speaker 2>hell no.

782
00:38:01.599 --> 00:38:04.320
<v Speaker 3>Sometimes them jones end up your girl. Sometimes.

783
00:38:04.519 --> 00:38:13.480
<v Speaker 2>Okay, percentage go exactly, exactly, even not as hot. I'm

784
00:38:13.519 --> 00:38:16.960
<v Speaker 2>gonna say about twenty thirty twenty thirty percent you gonna

785
00:38:17.039 --> 00:38:18.920
<v Speaker 2>come his girlfriend, It's not.

786
00:38:18.880 --> 00:38:21.880
<v Speaker 3>Gonna happen, probably lower lower than it is.

787
00:38:22.840 --> 00:38:24.440
<v Speaker 1>So when you on a date with these niggas, what.

788
00:38:24.440 --> 00:38:24.800
<v Speaker 3>Do you want?

789
00:38:24.840 --> 00:38:27.159
<v Speaker 4>But women, have confidence in yourself that you that want,

790
00:38:27.920 --> 00:38:29.960
<v Speaker 4>got you that one, that a nigga be like, yo,

791
00:38:30.039 --> 00:38:31.039
<v Speaker 4>I gotta be with her now.

792
00:38:31.159 --> 00:38:32.639
<v Speaker 1>Now let me ask you. Let me say this.

793
00:38:33.039 --> 00:38:35.440
<v Speaker 2>When you're having your confidence that you that one, I

794
00:38:35.599 --> 00:38:38.159
<v Speaker 2>want you also to look at that nigga and see

795
00:38:38.400 --> 00:38:39.840
<v Speaker 2>how many bitches are also trying to.

796
00:38:39.800 --> 00:38:40.159
<v Speaker 3>Be that one.

797
00:38:40.159 --> 00:38:41.639
<v Speaker 1>Okay, because the more bitches it is.

798
00:38:41.719 --> 00:38:44.360
<v Speaker 3>The lower, you know, so I gotta say this. I

799
00:38:44.440 --> 00:38:45.360
<v Speaker 3>gotta say this, go ahead.

800
00:38:45.440 --> 00:38:48.079
<v Speaker 4>That's actually the reason why I believe in the method,

801
00:38:48.440 --> 00:38:52.840
<v Speaker 4>because y'all, god niggas, we know, I could take a

802
00:38:53.000 --> 00:38:56.519
<v Speaker 4>chick out on a magical date, but she probably gotta

803
00:38:56.639 --> 00:38:59.159
<v Speaker 4>do she just broke up with that. Really, I'm just

804
00:38:59.239 --> 00:39:03.760
<v Speaker 4>a feeling nigg So I gotta strike. I need to

805
00:39:03.840 --> 00:39:05.679
<v Speaker 4>get her on them three dates in one day so

806
00:39:05.800 --> 00:39:06.880
<v Speaker 4>she could feel like given the years.

807
00:39:06.920 --> 00:39:07.920
<v Speaker 3>Because Todd Ron Mike.

808
00:39:07.840 --> 00:39:09.960
<v Speaker 2>Come back and asked a question, this whole time while

809
00:39:10.000 --> 00:39:12.280
<v Speaker 2>you had that standpoint, is it a girl who think

810
00:39:12.320 --> 00:39:13.360
<v Speaker 2>you they're your girlfriend?

811
00:39:13.519 --> 00:39:13.559
<v Speaker 4>No?

812
00:39:14.239 --> 00:39:17.000
<v Speaker 1>Yes, it is. The whole time y'all be having that standpoint.

813
00:39:17.360 --> 00:39:19.400
<v Speaker 1>It be bitches in the wings thinking they are.

814
00:39:21.079 --> 00:39:24.599
<v Speaker 7>Here's the thing, here's the thing when you first start

815
00:39:24.719 --> 00:39:26.920
<v Speaker 7>dating this is this is the god honest truth, and

816
00:39:26.960 --> 00:39:30.320
<v Speaker 7>this is how men think. Right when you first start

817
00:39:30.480 --> 00:39:35.280
<v Speaker 7>dating a woman. Right, we go into it understanding that

818
00:39:36.760 --> 00:39:41.119
<v Speaker 7>we're while we're putting this time in, somebody else is

819
00:39:41.239 --> 00:39:45.440
<v Speaker 7>fucking right. So we go into it or y'all gotta

820
00:39:45.519 --> 00:39:51.320
<v Speaker 7>understand how our egos work. We understand that I took her,

821
00:39:51.639 --> 00:39:54.320
<v Speaker 7>I took her out to eat, we went wherever we went,

822
00:39:54.400 --> 00:39:56.639
<v Speaker 7>We did all of this stuff, and then.

823
00:39:56.559 --> 00:39:57.679
<v Speaker 8>I drop her off.

824
00:39:58.480 --> 00:40:02.360
<v Speaker 7>Right now, she's making that phone call and somebody else

825
00:40:02.519 --> 00:40:07.559
<v Speaker 7>is coming and clamping left clap the cheeks until I'm

826
00:40:07.719 --> 00:40:09.320
<v Speaker 7>the person that's clapping the cheeks.

827
00:40:09.679 --> 00:40:12.599
<v Speaker 2>I'll say, I think there is a small percentage of

828
00:40:12.719 --> 00:40:15.239
<v Speaker 2>men who understand that they are preheating the oven for

829
00:40:15.360 --> 00:40:15.960
<v Speaker 2>somebody else to.

830
00:40:15.960 --> 00:40:18.039
<v Speaker 3>Put the beece Inboy.

831
00:40:22.880 --> 00:40:25.119
<v Speaker 1>I've had Okay.

832
00:40:26.000 --> 00:40:29.719
<v Speaker 2>What I will say is I think that it all

833
00:40:29.800 --> 00:40:32.920
<v Speaker 2>depends on where you are mentally and how mature you are.

834
00:40:33.119 --> 00:40:35.000
<v Speaker 2>Right because you could look at it's like, yo, I'm

835
00:40:35.000 --> 00:40:35.719
<v Speaker 2>gonna take her out.

836
00:40:36.280 --> 00:40:37.840
<v Speaker 1>You know, somebody else gonna bomb.

837
00:40:38.159 --> 00:40:40.360
<v Speaker 2>But it's like, yo, how many bitches are waiting for

838
00:40:40.400 --> 00:40:42.719
<v Speaker 2>you to call them back so you can bomb in

839
00:40:42.800 --> 00:40:45.800
<v Speaker 2>that same experience, Like when you start new dating experiences

840
00:40:45.840 --> 00:40:48.440
<v Speaker 2>with new women, we're gonna forget the bitches that you're

841
00:40:48.480 --> 00:40:51.199
<v Speaker 2>currently still bombing girl too.

842
00:40:51.320 --> 00:40:53.119
<v Speaker 8>Can I tell you something? This is This is where

843
00:40:53.199 --> 00:40:54.039
<v Speaker 8>you may not believe it.

844
00:40:54.239 --> 00:40:55.599
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna believe already.

845
00:40:58.280 --> 00:41:03.440
<v Speaker 7>Once when when when it's new cheeks involved a part

846
00:41:03.480 --> 00:41:06.519
<v Speaker 7>of our brain do cut some of the other chicks

847
00:41:06.519 --> 00:41:10.320
<v Speaker 7>out because we we're conquerors, right, and we like to hunt.

848
00:41:11.039 --> 00:41:14.320
<v Speaker 7>So when it's new cheeks on the horizon, that's all

849
00:41:14.400 --> 00:41:17.079
<v Speaker 7>you can focus on. At that point in time. You

850
00:41:17.280 --> 00:41:19.639
<v Speaker 7>actually a little bit fall out of love with the

851
00:41:19.760 --> 00:41:23.000
<v Speaker 7>other ones a little bit until you get this one conquered.

852
00:41:23.199 --> 00:41:26.840
<v Speaker 8>They don't come back into focus until I've conquered this.

853
00:41:27.039 --> 00:41:30.599
<v Speaker 1>This is what I'm saying is there's still someone waiting

854
00:41:30.719 --> 00:41:31.400
<v Speaker 1>who used to be.

855
00:41:32.960 --> 00:41:34.159
<v Speaker 4>I know that. I know that for you.

856
00:41:34.519 --> 00:41:36.559
<v Speaker 1>But what I'm saying is for that was for us,

857
00:41:37.000 --> 00:41:41.320
<v Speaker 1>for that woman, us, for that woman who's still waiting

858
00:41:41.360 --> 00:41:43.760
<v Speaker 1>for you to come back and conquer. What about her?

859
00:41:44.400 --> 00:41:47.239
<v Speaker 7>What about the fifty thousand? What about the fifty thousand

860
00:41:47.719 --> 00:41:50.000
<v Speaker 7>on your dms? Like they just gotta wait?

861
00:41:50.920 --> 00:41:55.159
<v Speaker 1>Where's your competitive spirit? I thought she was a conqueror?

862
00:41:55.320 --> 00:41:55.679
<v Speaker 1>What's up?

863
00:41:55.679 --> 00:41:57.199
<v Speaker 3>I am? I just read you, worry about.

864
00:42:00.039 --> 00:42:00.519
<v Speaker 1>Worry about you.

865
00:42:01.360 --> 00:42:02.559
<v Speaker 8>I'm trying to get the level ten.

866
00:42:02.559 --> 00:42:04.320
<v Speaker 3>You trying to send me back to level five.

867
00:42:06.079 --> 00:42:07.360
<v Speaker 1>Level two. Be thankful.

868
00:42:07.719 --> 00:42:09.199
<v Speaker 3>So if you want for the ladies at home, your

869
00:42:09.280 --> 00:42:11.719
<v Speaker 3>vice for your ladies, this is this is the God

870
00:42:11.800 --> 00:42:14.719
<v Speaker 3>on his truth. You cannot let him conquer too quick.

871
00:42:15.880 --> 00:42:18.679
<v Speaker 3>If you really want to lock a man down, you

872
00:42:18.840 --> 00:42:22.159
<v Speaker 3>have to have some difficulty of conquered. And I don't

873
00:42:22.199 --> 00:42:23.079
<v Speaker 3>think that's even the word.

874
00:42:23.159 --> 00:42:26.920
<v Speaker 7>But you also got to understand that not forever. I'm

875
00:42:26.960 --> 00:42:33.000
<v Speaker 7>saying that while you being difficult, being difficult.

876
00:42:34.079 --> 00:42:36.920
<v Speaker 2>Difficult, difficult as standards difficult, it's boundaries.

877
00:42:37.119 --> 00:42:40.840
<v Speaker 1>Be difficult difficult Too easy?

878
00:42:40.920 --> 00:42:43.639
<v Speaker 3>Is too easy is to turn off for any of

879
00:42:43.679 --> 00:42:48.159
<v Speaker 3>these guys, I agree me. Never friends, don't.

880
00:42:49.519 --> 00:42:51.440
<v Speaker 1>I said this before. Let me ask you this, my

881
00:42:51.559 --> 00:42:52.199
<v Speaker 1>friends are.

882
00:42:53.920 --> 00:42:55.639
<v Speaker 3>Let me ask you this about this date, right, and

883
00:42:55.719 --> 00:42:58.559
<v Speaker 3>this is the God on his truth. We talk about

884
00:42:58.960 --> 00:43:02.000
<v Speaker 3>deal breakers, right. So a lot of when you go

885
00:43:02.119 --> 00:43:05.320
<v Speaker 3>on dates with people, it's about knowing yourself more than

886
00:43:05.360 --> 00:43:08.199
<v Speaker 3>knowing the other person. So if you don't like sore

887
00:43:08.320 --> 00:43:11.800
<v Speaker 3>losers or men that crying bitch or if that's your

888
00:43:12.079 --> 00:43:16.239
<v Speaker 3>if that's your thing that you can't tolerate, right, then

889
00:43:16.360 --> 00:43:19.000
<v Speaker 3>automatically he's a no go. And you should be grateful

890
00:43:19.039 --> 00:43:20.599
<v Speaker 3>and thankful that he showed that side of you, because

891
00:43:20.639 --> 00:43:22.880
<v Speaker 3>that could just be some ship that you just don't like.

892
00:43:22.960 --> 00:43:26.000
<v Speaker 7>You men, you feel like, hey, bro, and you and

893
00:43:26.519 --> 00:43:29.320
<v Speaker 7>on some real shit talking to the ball, the corny ball. Listen, Bro,

894
00:43:29.519 --> 00:43:32.719
<v Speaker 7>not the corny. You're supposed to take charge, right, you

895
00:43:32.920 --> 00:43:36.119
<v Speaker 7>supposed to leave, Bro, you determine where the date is going.

896
00:43:36.239 --> 00:43:37.960
<v Speaker 8>Bro, you don't let her pick.

897
00:43:37.840 --> 00:43:39.760
<v Speaker 1>Stop playing, that's his idea.

898
00:43:40.039 --> 00:43:43.039
<v Speaker 3>He gotta stop playing if you LOSINGO and then connect

899
00:43:43.119 --> 00:43:45.440
<v Speaker 3>for and then you feel like she winning in golf. Bro,

900
00:43:45.559 --> 00:43:46.079
<v Speaker 3>you gotta stop.

901
00:43:46.119 --> 00:43:47.840
<v Speaker 8>You know when you play.

902
00:43:51.880 --> 00:43:54.760
<v Speaker 7>When y'all both laying across the bed, that's when you

903
00:43:54.840 --> 00:43:57.119
<v Speaker 7>play Uno. You don't play Uno while you out bro.

904
00:43:57.360 --> 00:43:57.559
<v Speaker 3>Fact.

905
00:43:57.960 --> 00:44:01.400
<v Speaker 1>So first I want to say, am I the ass Oh? Yes?

906
00:44:01.480 --> 00:44:01.599
<v Speaker 4>Or no?

907
00:44:01.960 --> 00:44:06.440
<v Speaker 1>Death no GB no, It's like absolutely not Okay.

908
00:44:06.920 --> 00:44:08.920
<v Speaker 2>I want to say my final thoughts on this is

909
00:44:10.159 --> 00:44:13.880
<v Speaker 2>I feel like there are some like bomb assed tribes

910
00:44:13.880 --> 00:44:16.119
<v Speaker 2>where you have like the king and queen can take

911
00:44:16.159 --> 00:44:18.480
<v Speaker 2>you the funk out right. But there are some men

912
00:44:18.840 --> 00:44:21.960
<v Speaker 2>who want to be like patriarchies where it's like I'm important,

913
00:44:22.079 --> 00:44:22.920
<v Speaker 2>You're just here to look.

914
00:44:22.840 --> 00:44:24.920
<v Speaker 1>Cute and that's it. That's not the relationship for me.

915
00:44:25.239 --> 00:44:27.400
<v Speaker 2>So I felt like I was not the asshole because

916
00:44:27.440 --> 00:44:29.480
<v Speaker 2>I just feel like we're probably just not a good

917
00:44:29.519 --> 00:44:31.440
<v Speaker 2>fit for one another, and that's cool. But I'm never

918
00:44:31.519 --> 00:44:33.360
<v Speaker 2>going to be patient or let a guy win or

919
00:44:33.400 --> 00:44:35.480
<v Speaker 2>feel like I have to dumb myself down to before men.

920
00:44:35.760 --> 00:44:37.440
<v Speaker 2>So in my mind, he just wasn't a guy for me.

921
00:44:37.760 --> 00:44:40.880
<v Speaker 2>So I'm happy that you guys agree. Okay, agree, Next

922
00:44:41.119 --> 00:44:43.239
<v Speaker 2>scenario ten minutes.

923
00:44:43.840 --> 00:44:45.360
<v Speaker 1>Wait, so we're in an hour.

924
00:44:50.360 --> 00:44:54.840
<v Speaker 3>Version of Chocolate Tips and sit. It might have been recording.

925
00:44:56.639 --> 00:45:01.360
<v Speaker 1>I was about to say, good okay, So next scenario. Right,

926
00:45:02.000 --> 00:45:02.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm dating the guy.

927
00:45:03.000 --> 00:45:05.280
<v Speaker 2>We've gone on a few dates before, right, you know,

928
00:45:06.199 --> 00:45:09.920
<v Speaker 2>we're now past the three date point, right, So, no.

929
00:45:11.320 --> 00:45:13.000
<v Speaker 1>We have not had sex yet. I have not had

930
00:45:13.039 --> 00:45:16.079
<v Speaker 1>sex yet, but oh, come on, y'all know I put

931
00:45:16.119 --> 00:45:18.199
<v Speaker 1>my cushie in a lumin foil, put in a deep phraser.

932
00:45:18.920 --> 00:45:21.159
<v Speaker 3>That's how you make a man really want you. They

933
00:45:21.239 --> 00:45:24.719
<v Speaker 3>did sweating, That's why. That's why sweating at the gym

934
00:45:25.199 --> 00:45:30.119
<v Speaker 3>frost I hated here.

935
00:45:30.440 --> 00:45:34.559
<v Speaker 2>Okay, So now I have been in his house late,

936
00:45:34.840 --> 00:45:37.480
<v Speaker 2>but we haven't done anything, right, We just hang out,

937
00:45:37.639 --> 00:45:38.280
<v Speaker 2>we do whatever.

938
00:45:39.000 --> 00:45:40.079
<v Speaker 1>I go back home, right.

939
00:45:40.760 --> 00:45:43.679
<v Speaker 2>So, now, there have been times where I've gotten to

940
00:45:43.760 --> 00:45:46.679
<v Speaker 2>his house late and he'll just send me the cold

941
00:45:46.880 --> 00:45:47.400
<v Speaker 2>to get up.

942
00:45:47.360 --> 00:45:48.280
<v Speaker 1>Into his apartment building.

943
00:45:48.440 --> 00:45:49.360
<v Speaker 3>Right. God, So.

944
00:45:54.960 --> 00:45:57.639
<v Speaker 2>On this particular night, we went out to dinner, I

945
00:45:57.760 --> 00:45:59.920
<v Speaker 2>went home to change my clothes. I'll go back to

946
00:46:00.079 --> 00:46:02.360
<v Speaker 2>this house. I tell him my mom my way. It's

947
00:46:02.440 --> 00:46:05.920
<v Speaker 2>after ten o'clock, right, I text him, I'm outside.

948
00:46:06.000 --> 00:46:08.559
<v Speaker 1>You don't answer. Call him, I'm outside. I can hear

949
00:46:08.639 --> 00:46:10.920
<v Speaker 1>him in the shower. He're like, Yo, I'm in the shower.

950
00:46:11.199 --> 00:46:13.599
<v Speaker 1>Give me two seconds. I'm gonna come get you. I'm like, O, hey,

951
00:46:13.679 --> 00:46:14.039
<v Speaker 1>I hang up.

952
00:46:14.119 --> 00:46:15.840
<v Speaker 2>I think this is weird because you've given me the

953
00:46:15.880 --> 00:46:18.280
<v Speaker 2>col to your house before ten minutes past.

954
00:46:18.519 --> 00:46:19.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm still sitting in my park car.

955
00:46:20.440 --> 00:46:22.559
<v Speaker 2>Now. We're not in a bad neighborhood, but we're not

956
00:46:22.639 --> 00:46:25.360
<v Speaker 2>in the suburbs. So nigga, I gotta go. Like, as

957
00:46:25.400 --> 00:46:27.159
<v Speaker 2>a woman, I'm not sitting outside in a park car

958
00:46:27.239 --> 00:46:29.119
<v Speaker 2>for more than ten minutes. I'm like, yo, I don't

959
00:46:29.119 --> 00:46:31.800
<v Speaker 2>feel comfortable sitting in the park car for myself by myself.

960
00:46:31.880 --> 00:46:35.639
<v Speaker 2>I'm out right. So I go home, take my clothes off,

961
00:46:35.679 --> 00:46:38.119
<v Speaker 2>and go to sleep. Right in the morning, I have

962
00:46:38.239 --> 00:46:39.679
<v Speaker 2>a flood of text I don't know if he was

963
00:46:39.719 --> 00:46:41.679
<v Speaker 2>text me before, but in my mom we're done for tonight, right,

964
00:46:42.679 --> 00:46:45.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm urt. That's crazy as shit, that's corny. Why the

965
00:46:45.920 --> 00:46:47.719
<v Speaker 2>fuck would you come and then not come like you

966
00:46:47.880 --> 00:46:48.480
<v Speaker 2>on some nutshit.

967
00:46:48.519 --> 00:46:49.400
<v Speaker 1>Blah blah blah blah blah.

968
00:46:49.519 --> 00:46:49.639
<v Speaker 4>Right.

969
00:46:50.039 --> 00:46:51.639
<v Speaker 1>I call him next day, like, I'm confused.

970
00:46:53.480 --> 00:46:55.519
<v Speaker 2>You want me, as a woman to sit in a

971
00:46:55.639 --> 00:46:59.039
<v Speaker 2>park car by myself at night? That don't sit well

972
00:46:59.079 --> 00:47:02.440
<v Speaker 2>with me, especially for over ten minutes. He's giving me

973
00:47:02.480 --> 00:47:05.119
<v Speaker 2>some excuse. I'm like, Yo, you got a teenage daughter.

974
00:47:05.519 --> 00:47:07.960
<v Speaker 2>Would you want a nigga having your daughter sitting in

975
00:47:08.039 --> 00:47:11.159
<v Speaker 2>a parked car by herself for more than ten minutes?

976
00:47:11.719 --> 00:47:13.039
<v Speaker 2>And he says, you not my daughter.

977
00:47:13.800 --> 00:47:15.679
<v Speaker 3>That's right. That's if I was about to say that

978
00:47:16.000 --> 00:47:19.000
<v Speaker 3>I was actually wrong. He not wrong. This what happened.

979
00:47:19.159 --> 00:47:22.400
<v Speaker 4>You kept playing with that nigga. That nigga was in

980
00:47:23.119 --> 00:47:25.480
<v Speaker 4>that crib on multiple nights like this.

981
00:47:27.719 --> 00:47:31.360
<v Speaker 3>In pain. You was coming over this time. He thought

982
00:47:31.440 --> 00:47:32.559
<v Speaker 3>he had it on lockdown.

983
00:47:32.840 --> 00:47:35.280
<v Speaker 4>He was scrubbing his nuts and.

984
00:47:35.400 --> 00:47:37.639
<v Speaker 8>He was running around cleaning every little in the crib.

985
00:47:37.800 --> 00:47:41.480
<v Speaker 4>He was straightening up. He was like, this is the

986
00:47:41.679 --> 00:47:45.039
<v Speaker 4>time man, he got his He was he was all

987
00:47:45.280 --> 00:47:47.960
<v Speaker 4>washed up, clean, ready to go. Took his red Ranger

988
00:47:48.159 --> 00:47:52.239
<v Speaker 4>and next thing you know, you was gone to keep

989
00:47:52.239 --> 00:47:56.239
<v Speaker 4>it up the blue hogans whatever. And next thing you know,

990
00:47:57.400 --> 00:48:00.320
<v Speaker 4>you was gone, and he was sitting there to you like.

991
00:48:02.679 --> 00:48:05.320
<v Speaker 2>Can I add some context today, I've been to his

992
00:48:05.400 --> 00:48:07.320
<v Speaker 2>house filthy as fuck multiple times.

993
00:48:08.159 --> 00:48:10.159
<v Speaker 1>Like when I got there, it's not clean like you

994
00:48:10.280 --> 00:48:11.159
<v Speaker 1>got fucking.

995
00:48:13.400 --> 00:48:17.119
<v Speaker 4>It's like, yo, did you I like, I'm about to

996
00:48:17.280 --> 00:48:18.840
<v Speaker 4>try something different.

997
00:48:18.920 --> 00:48:20.079
<v Speaker 3>He was ship up.

998
00:48:20.159 --> 00:48:21.920
<v Speaker 8>He could have had dinner waiting on the table.

999
00:48:22.079 --> 00:48:23.039
<v Speaker 1>We just went at dinner.

1000
00:48:23.480 --> 00:48:26.000
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she went and she came back. But I can

1001
00:48:26.079 --> 00:48:27.920
<v Speaker 3>I say this, and this is the god honest truth

1002
00:48:28.000 --> 00:48:30.480
<v Speaker 3>that you you're missing. He wanted you to be his girl.

1003
00:48:31.440 --> 00:48:35.079
<v Speaker 3>So when guys are dating a girl and they really

1004
00:48:35.159 --> 00:48:37.960
<v Speaker 3>want them to be their girl, you're telling yo, it's

1005
00:48:38.000 --> 00:48:40.519
<v Speaker 3>the key underneath the mat. You don't sweat her about

1006
00:48:40.559 --> 00:48:42.519
<v Speaker 3>giving it back. That's the equivalent to him give you

1007
00:48:42.599 --> 00:48:44.239
<v Speaker 3>the cold to get in his ship. That means I

1008
00:48:44.320 --> 00:48:46.920
<v Speaker 3>could be in here with another girl. She got the cold.

1009
00:48:47.159 --> 00:48:48.800
<v Speaker 3>I'm not worried about her coming in because I'm not

1010
00:48:48.840 --> 00:48:50.960
<v Speaker 3>worried about no other bitches at this time. So he

1011
00:48:51.199 --> 00:48:54.039
<v Speaker 3>wanted something more. Now at this moment you're outside, he

1012
00:48:54.159 --> 00:48:55.880
<v Speaker 3>might he must have been getting ship together because he

1013
00:48:55.960 --> 00:48:57.480
<v Speaker 3>normally gave you the cold. He obviously ain't have no

1014
00:48:57.559 --> 00:48:59.159
<v Speaker 3>bitches in there. We don't know that.

1015
00:48:59.480 --> 00:49:02.559
<v Speaker 4>He obviously couldn't have had bitches in there because you

1016
00:49:02.639 --> 00:49:03.480
<v Speaker 4>were still inviting.

1017
00:49:03.639 --> 00:49:05.559
<v Speaker 3>He wouldn't answer the phone in the shower.

1018
00:49:05.760 --> 00:49:08.519
<v Speaker 2>Maybe he had multiple bitches who had the cold, which

1019
00:49:08.559 --> 00:49:09.800
<v Speaker 2>is why he didn't give me the cold that night.

1020
00:49:09.880 --> 00:49:15.199
<v Speaker 3>He wouldn't I'm not saying. I'm not saying. I'm saying

1021
00:49:15.239 --> 00:49:17.679
<v Speaker 3>maybe even so check this out. He would have said

1022
00:49:17.679 --> 00:49:19.719
<v Speaker 3>he was sleeping, never answered. I'm gonna tell you this.

1023
00:49:20.280 --> 00:49:23.880
<v Speaker 4>This sounds like he might just not have been street

1024
00:49:24.000 --> 00:49:28.239
<v Speaker 4>smart because he he wasn't concerned.

1025
00:49:28.320 --> 00:49:30.519
<v Speaker 3>I think it had nothing. The two things are separate.

1026
00:49:31.119 --> 00:49:34.119
<v Speaker 4>He didn't realize the danger level that you could have

1027
00:49:34.280 --> 00:49:36.760
<v Speaker 4>been in because he's looking at it like nothing's going

1028
00:49:36.840 --> 00:49:38.559
<v Speaker 4>to happen to He really just thought that And that

1029
00:49:38.719 --> 00:49:40.079
<v Speaker 4>was naiven dumb of all.

1030
00:49:40.440 --> 00:49:44.760
<v Speaker 2>And honestly, that's what my problem was. It wasn't uh,

1031
00:49:45.199 --> 00:49:47.800
<v Speaker 2>you know, him taking forever to come. It's when I

1032
00:49:47.920 --> 00:49:50.719
<v Speaker 2>say to you, would you want, you know, somebody to

1033
00:49:50.760 --> 00:49:52.800
<v Speaker 2>had your daughter outside way for more than ten minutes?

1034
00:49:52.840 --> 00:49:54.920
<v Speaker 2>He said, but you're not my daughter. It doesn't matter

1035
00:49:54.960 --> 00:49:57.119
<v Speaker 2>that I'm not your daughter. I'm a female, I'm a woman.

1036
00:49:57.239 --> 00:49:58.159
<v Speaker 2>I'm somebody's mom.

1037
00:49:58.599 --> 00:50:01.760
<v Speaker 1>And that point slipped your head. If you don't care

1038
00:50:01.760 --> 00:50:03.199
<v Speaker 1>about that shit, you're not gonna carry me.

1039
00:50:03.239 --> 00:50:05.039
<v Speaker 3>Don't give a fuck. So let me tell you something.

1040
00:50:05.119 --> 00:50:06.960
<v Speaker 4>Let me tell you some of the dangers of people

1041
00:50:07.039 --> 00:50:09.880
<v Speaker 4>in the street and guns and everything were equally targets. Right,

1042
00:50:10.639 --> 00:50:13.320
<v Speaker 4>Oh we need last time, last time I checked, niggas

1043
00:50:13.360 --> 00:50:14.079
<v Speaker 4>wasn't bulletproof.

1044
00:50:14.159 --> 00:50:14.239
<v Speaker 9>Right.

1045
00:50:14.440 --> 00:50:17.239
<v Speaker 4>Let me tell you something about my girl right when

1046
00:50:17.280 --> 00:50:21.119
<v Speaker 4>we got together. Matter of fact, this is probably like

1047
00:50:22.360 --> 00:50:26.679
<v Speaker 4>twelve thirteen years ago, right, I pull up to her.

1048
00:50:26.800 --> 00:50:33.039
<v Speaker 4>Crib is a motherfucking woo tang video outside of these

1049
00:50:33.199 --> 00:50:40.679
<v Speaker 4>apartments niggas mass hoodies. I mean, just drove droves of niggas.

1050
00:50:42.000 --> 00:50:43.920
<v Speaker 4>I'm calling trying to figure out what crib it is.

1051
00:50:44.000 --> 00:50:45.760
<v Speaker 4>She's like, oh, it's a she trying to describe it.

1052
00:50:45.840 --> 00:50:48.599
<v Speaker 4>She's like, it's probably like a whole bunch of guys outside.

1053
00:50:49.320 --> 00:50:54.519
<v Speaker 4>Oh this place, you feel me? I hop out walk

1054
00:50:54.599 --> 00:50:58.119
<v Speaker 4>up to the jawn. Mad niggas just grilling a nigga

1055
00:50:58.199 --> 00:51:01.320
<v Speaker 4>standing sitting on the g that I gotta go through.

1056
00:51:01.880 --> 00:51:03.960
<v Speaker 4>I gotta be like, yo, excuse me, you know what

1057
00:51:04.000 --> 00:51:07.400
<v Speaker 4>I mean, Excuse me, my boy. He stepped off, move

1058
00:51:07.480 --> 00:51:09.239
<v Speaker 4>out the way, but he looking at me. I gotta

1059
00:51:09.280 --> 00:51:10.960
<v Speaker 4>walk through all of these niggas.

1060
00:51:10.679 --> 00:51:13.599
<v Speaker 8>And these niggas out there, so this no, this is

1061
00:51:13.679 --> 00:51:14.039
<v Speaker 8>the part.

1062
00:51:14.199 --> 00:51:17.400
<v Speaker 3>She told me this one time. She said, Yo, I

1063
00:51:17.599 --> 00:51:19.840
<v Speaker 3>was talking to a dude. I liked them.

1064
00:51:20.719 --> 00:51:23.199
<v Speaker 4>He came to the crib to pick me up on

1065
00:51:23.320 --> 00:51:28.440
<v Speaker 4>a date and he was like, Yo, I can't do that.

1066
00:51:28.719 --> 00:51:32.119
<v Speaker 3>I can't do that. These niggas that she was like.

1067
00:51:32.320 --> 00:51:36.239
<v Speaker 3>I was like, he is a pussy, So mind you.

1068
00:51:36.519 --> 00:51:40.039
<v Speaker 4>Bull just was smart. I'm just an asshole. I'm just

1069
00:51:40.119 --> 00:51:42.880
<v Speaker 4>an asshole, and I'm from that area, and I figure

1070
00:51:43.320 --> 00:51:44.360
<v Speaker 4>these niggas roll on me.

1071
00:51:44.480 --> 00:51:47.320
<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna come back here and shoot niggas. I know

1072
00:51:47.400 --> 00:51:50.119
<v Speaker 3>where they at that so.

1073
00:51:50.199 --> 00:51:53.719
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, it's very likely that these niggas gonna try

1074
00:51:53.760 --> 00:51:56.360
<v Speaker 4>to do something, but I don't give a fuck.

1075
00:51:56.440 --> 00:51:59.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm on a mission right now. Home was not homie.

1076
00:52:00.039 --> 00:52:03.079
<v Speaker 4>He had his head on straight. The other boy and

1077
00:52:03.239 --> 00:52:05.800
<v Speaker 4>my girl looked at him as puss. He not bulletproof.

1078
00:52:05.880 --> 00:52:07.039
<v Speaker 3>Can I say you don't have to be heard on

1079
00:52:07.079 --> 00:52:09.000
<v Speaker 3>straight because I've been in that scenario and it was

1080
00:52:09.079 --> 00:52:10.880
<v Speaker 3>with a girl I just recently met. She said, you know,

1081
00:52:11.000 --> 00:52:12.800
<v Speaker 3>my brother's in the out on the porch, and when

1082
00:52:12.840 --> 00:52:14.360
<v Speaker 3>I drove by, I was like, what address was it?

1083
00:52:14.400 --> 00:52:17.119
<v Speaker 3>And I've seen a hundred niggas outside, and I really

1084
00:52:17.119 --> 00:52:25.320
<v Speaker 3>I made an executive decision. You're not bad enough. It

1085
00:52:25.440 --> 00:52:31.639
<v Speaker 3>depends depending is worth taking that challenge would have guy,

1086
00:52:32.199 --> 00:52:34.119
<v Speaker 3>I mean, she might watch the show you don't watch.

1087
00:52:35.679 --> 00:52:37.079
<v Speaker 3>I don't have no problem with her, but she's not

1088
00:52:37.320 --> 00:52:39.920
<v Speaker 3>bad enough for me to even go through that experience.

1089
00:52:39.960 --> 00:52:41.599
<v Speaker 3>I was like, yeah, no, I gotta make a run.

1090
00:52:41.639 --> 00:52:43.559
<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna be right back. I was about to slide through.

1091
00:52:43.639 --> 00:52:45.760
<v Speaker 3>He never came back ever again, And.

1092
00:52:45.840 --> 00:52:48.880
<v Speaker 8>I may be honest, you really ruined that nigga, like

1093
00:52:49.480 --> 00:52:51.840
<v Speaker 8>what he ruined his life.

1094
00:52:51.880 --> 00:52:53.960
<v Speaker 7>You get that like you added some trauma to his

1095
00:52:54.119 --> 00:52:59.320
<v Speaker 7>life because he probably was thinking, like yo, his hopes

1096
00:52:59.480 --> 00:53:02.239
<v Speaker 7>was all way up here. He had everything in his

1097
00:53:02.400 --> 00:53:04.719
<v Speaker 7>mind worked out. He in this shower, He's like, yeah,

1098
00:53:04.719 --> 00:53:06.800
<v Speaker 7>well when she here, bro, I'm gonna do X, Y

1099
00:53:06.880 --> 00:53:07.079
<v Speaker 7>and Z.

1100
00:53:07.199 --> 00:53:09.719
<v Speaker 4>But you might have rubbed one out to keep that way.

1101
00:53:10.639 --> 00:53:12.960
<v Speaker 4>His bullets wasn't all the way at the top. He

1102
00:53:13.079 --> 00:53:15.719
<v Speaker 4>made his clip lower so that he could really put

1103
00:53:15.840 --> 00:53:16.159
<v Speaker 4>work in.

1104
00:53:16.840 --> 00:53:18.760
<v Speaker 2>Can I just say, from the bottom of my heart,

1105
00:53:19.199 --> 00:53:20.960
<v Speaker 2>if you don't care that I'm a woman and I'm

1106
00:53:21.039 --> 00:53:25.400
<v Speaker 2>somebody's mom first, You're never gonna even smell my sit

1107
00:53:25.480 --> 00:53:29.159
<v Speaker 2>down here for You're never gonna smell my sit down.

1108
00:53:29.440 --> 00:53:32.400
<v Speaker 8>Question your intentions that let's talk. Let's talk.

1109
00:53:32.719 --> 00:53:33.840
<v Speaker 3>Tell us the truth now.

1110
00:53:33.960 --> 00:53:35.800
<v Speaker 7>It doesn't know what's going over there. It don't matter now.

1111
00:53:35.880 --> 00:53:37.599
<v Speaker 7>But you was going over there. It was late, you

1112
00:53:37.679 --> 00:53:38.280
<v Speaker 7>know what I'm saying.

1113
00:53:39.119 --> 00:53:39.920
<v Speaker 8>What was your intention?

1114
00:53:40.199 --> 00:53:42.320
<v Speaker 3>Was you going to go? You want to go?

1115
00:53:42.400 --> 00:53:43.239
<v Speaker 8>Let him clap the cheek.

1116
00:53:43.280 --> 00:53:45.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna be real with y'all. I feel like this

1117
00:53:46.079 --> 00:53:48.639
<v Speaker 2>is safe space. You know my listeners know this safe space.

1118
00:53:49.400 --> 00:53:52.760
<v Speaker 2>I might be the problem. And the reason I might

1119
00:53:52.840 --> 00:53:57.840
<v Speaker 2>be the problem is because, while I'm honest, I feel

1120
00:53:57.920 --> 00:54:01.599
<v Speaker 2>like in today's climate, niggas be thinking I'll be like, so,

1121
00:54:01.760 --> 00:54:03.360
<v Speaker 2>you know, we hang out like hey, real fast, you

1122
00:54:03.440 --> 00:54:06.480
<v Speaker 2>know I ain't really fucking We're going just cuddle And

1123
00:54:06.559 --> 00:54:07.280
<v Speaker 2>he'd be like, all right.

1124
00:54:07.239 --> 00:54:10.159
<v Speaker 1>Cool, yeah yeah, let me letting no, let me finish,

1125
00:54:10.239 --> 00:54:11.119
<v Speaker 1>man finished me finished.

1126
00:54:11.679 --> 00:54:14.000
<v Speaker 2>I feel like they be thinking, you know, once I

1127
00:54:14.079 --> 00:54:17.039
<v Speaker 2>get that you don't back men crack, she's gonna change

1128
00:54:17.039 --> 00:54:17.639
<v Speaker 2>your mind and let.

1129
00:54:17.599 --> 00:54:18.119
<v Speaker 3>Me slide in.

1130
00:54:19.239 --> 00:54:19.880
<v Speaker 8>I want her.

1131
00:54:20.320 --> 00:54:23.280
<v Speaker 3>So you wasn't the ball, so that's why he was

1132
00:54:23.440 --> 00:54:24.719
<v Speaker 3>right and leaving your ouse.

1133
00:54:28.159 --> 00:54:31.119
<v Speaker 4>Yo, bro, this should be this should be a relief

1134
00:54:31.800 --> 00:54:35.519
<v Speaker 4>to everything you've been thinking. If you're watching, she wasn't

1135
00:54:35.559 --> 00:54:38.760
<v Speaker 4>going to give you the MS anywhere.

1136
00:54:38.559 --> 00:54:41.000
<v Speaker 8>List She's saving the pussy for dark feeder.

1137
00:54:43.280 --> 00:54:47.480
<v Speaker 7>That bro, y'all, if you ain't gonna come listen, bro,

1138
00:54:48.079 --> 00:54:50.239
<v Speaker 7>you gotta you gotta like come in and bust in

1139
00:54:50.280 --> 00:54:52.519
<v Speaker 7>the room with the light saber to get like him.

1140
00:54:54.159 --> 00:54:55.119
<v Speaker 4>You don't really like.

1141
00:54:55.920 --> 00:54:59.239
<v Speaker 2>Here's my whole thing though, right, I feel like I'm

1142
00:54:59.519 --> 00:55:01.960
<v Speaker 2>wise and enough and mature enough, and I'm confident in

1143
00:55:02.039 --> 00:55:04.559
<v Speaker 2>myself to know I'm not like these bitches When I

1144
00:55:04.639 --> 00:55:06.719
<v Speaker 2>say I'm looking for my husband. I'm looking for my husband,

1145
00:55:06.719 --> 00:55:08.679
<v Speaker 2>So everybody's not gonna get mykouchie.

1146
00:55:08.599 --> 00:55:11.840
<v Speaker 3>Like I'm if you could get your husband a kuchie

1147
00:55:11.880 --> 00:55:12.440
<v Speaker 3>on the first day.

1148
00:55:12.599 --> 00:55:16.800
<v Speaker 2>Yes, No, the bitches you like ken, I cannot. I

1149
00:55:16.920 --> 00:55:20.199
<v Speaker 2>cannot different structure, different folks. I'm not one of those girls.

1150
00:55:20.239 --> 00:55:23.079
<v Speaker 2>And I feel like the waves that I'm more niggas

1151
00:55:23.119 --> 00:55:24.679
<v Speaker 2>be trying to make it seem like it's played out.

1152
00:55:24.679 --> 00:55:25.880
<v Speaker 1>It's corneous, unheard.

1153
00:55:25.679 --> 00:55:30.559
<v Speaker 3>Of, and we be fucking out outside listening in. Right,

1154
00:55:31.639 --> 00:55:34.199
<v Speaker 3>I believe you're one of the women who self sabotage

1155
00:55:34.239 --> 00:55:36.400
<v Speaker 3>every date you will every nigga you go. I'm gonna

1156
00:55:38.079 --> 00:55:39.840
<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna let a whole talk heavy jump on this too,

1157
00:55:39.840 --> 00:55:42.719
<v Speaker 3>because they're gonna keep it real. Look, it appears this

1158
00:55:42.880 --> 00:55:46.800
<v Speaker 3>way from the outside. Looking at that one, you're gonna

1159
00:55:46.880 --> 00:55:49.360
<v Speaker 3>find a problem of a guy, because no guy's perfect

1160
00:55:49.880 --> 00:55:52.599
<v Speaker 3>and you got this hard nose. I'm searching for my husband.

1161
00:55:52.599 --> 00:55:54.400
<v Speaker 3>I'm dating with a purpose. At the moment that he

1162
00:55:54.519 --> 00:55:57.679
<v Speaker 3>makes a mistake, he's out of here. And at that rate,

1163
00:55:58.079 --> 00:55:59.840
<v Speaker 3>you're gonna be single forever. You might as well get

1164
00:55:59.880 --> 00:56:00.360
<v Speaker 3>some cats.

1165
00:56:00.440 --> 00:56:04.920
<v Speaker 4>Now you have to give to start fucking Yeah, you're

1166
00:56:04.920 --> 00:56:07.960
<v Speaker 4>gonna look back and be like, I'm forty, So listen,

1167
00:56:08.239 --> 00:56:10.000
<v Speaker 4>you gotta give grace on a mistake.

1168
00:56:10.159 --> 00:56:12.599
<v Speaker 3>Now, I understand that guy bitching over connect for his

1169
00:56:12.679 --> 00:56:15.039
<v Speaker 3>whole ship. You might gotta let him go. But the

1170
00:56:15.119 --> 00:56:16.760
<v Speaker 3>god that leave you out there, y'all can have that

1171
00:56:16.920 --> 00:56:18.119
<v Speaker 3>conversation about what.

1172
00:56:18.360 --> 00:56:19.920
<v Speaker 1>That's not a conversation. I feel like I need to

1173
00:56:20.000 --> 00:56:22.039
<v Speaker 1>have a grown man. Is a conversation with a grown

1174
00:56:22.119 --> 00:56:23.960
<v Speaker 1>man who has a daughter. That's not a conversation.

1175
00:56:24.079 --> 00:56:27.960
<v Speaker 3>I need men. Grown men also got to learn grown

1176
00:56:28.000 --> 00:56:29.840
<v Speaker 3>men don't because women got this thing that you're a

1177
00:56:29.880 --> 00:56:31.719
<v Speaker 3>grown man, you got every answer, you know everything you

1178
00:56:32.159 --> 00:56:35.119
<v Speaker 3>should be at this, at this big grown man age.

1179
00:56:35.159 --> 00:56:35.800
<v Speaker 3>You should know better.

1180
00:56:35.880 --> 00:56:38.159
<v Speaker 4>Niggas grew up with moms that was walking through the

1181
00:56:38.280 --> 00:56:39.199
<v Speaker 4>hood by theyself.

1182
00:56:39.280 --> 00:56:42.719
<v Speaker 3>They whole life, no dad. My mom was everywhere by herself.

1183
00:56:42.760 --> 00:56:45.199
<v Speaker 2>But here's what I feel like makes it different. I

1184
00:56:45.280 --> 00:56:49.239
<v Speaker 2>could have that perspective for a nigga who didn't have

1185
00:56:49.280 --> 00:56:49.679
<v Speaker 2>a daughter.

1186
00:56:50.440 --> 00:56:52.360
<v Speaker 1>You have a daughter. When you have a daughter, you

1187
00:56:52.480 --> 00:56:53.039
<v Speaker 1>think different.

1188
00:56:53.400 --> 00:56:56.239
<v Speaker 4>So I don't think that happens magically like this. If

1189
00:56:56.360 --> 00:56:59.960
<v Speaker 4>he like so and and we might feel a certain way.

1190
00:57:00.199 --> 00:57:03.559
<v Speaker 4>The guys on this show were not leaving a woman outside,

1191
00:57:03.639 --> 00:57:06.840
<v Speaker 4>but we're just trying to think as other people. Having

1192
00:57:06.960 --> 00:57:09.880
<v Speaker 4>a daughter is not going to instantly give him that

1193
00:57:10.199 --> 00:57:13.679
<v Speaker 4>idea because people that be in the hood or wherever

1194
00:57:13.800 --> 00:57:16.039
<v Speaker 4>they at, they really he not one of them.

1195
00:57:16.119 --> 00:57:16.440
<v Speaker 3>Niggas.

1196
00:57:16.519 --> 00:57:21.079
<v Speaker 1>Let's start there, He's not. Let's start there. I don't

1197
00:57:21.159 --> 00:57:21.639
<v Speaker 1>talk to him.

1198
00:57:22.960 --> 00:57:26.760
<v Speaker 4>I don't talk to he really might not felt like

1199
00:57:27.000 --> 00:57:29.960
<v Speaker 4>like I said earlier, that there was he didn't even put.

1200
00:57:31.159 --> 00:57:32.960
<v Speaker 2>But here's the thing, I'm gonna tell you why he did.

1201
00:57:33.559 --> 00:57:36.599
<v Speaker 2>Because his response wasn't I didn't think about it like that.

1202
00:57:36.960 --> 00:57:40.599
<v Speaker 2>His response was you're not my daughter, meaning you don't

1203
00:57:40.679 --> 00:57:41.519
<v Speaker 2>deserve that curtain.

1204
00:57:43.039 --> 00:57:45.079
<v Speaker 3>Did he raise his daughter? Because I'm gonna give you yes,

1205
00:57:45.280 --> 00:57:48.639
<v Speaker 3>Because I'm gonna give him off because a lot of

1206
00:57:48.760 --> 00:57:54.119
<v Speaker 3>men who have daughters haven't really had the experience of understanding.

1207
00:57:54.159 --> 00:57:57.039
<v Speaker 8>And when I'm and when I got some on my brain,

1208
00:57:57.039 --> 00:57:58.199
<v Speaker 8>I'm not thinking about my daughter.

1209
00:58:00.039 --> 00:58:00.760
<v Speaker 3>Got to count.

1210
00:58:03.039 --> 00:58:06.719
<v Speaker 7>Understand that he at this point in time, he's one

1211
00:58:06.840 --> 00:58:10.519
<v Speaker 7>track minded as well. He's not doing his best, thinking

1212
00:58:10.639 --> 00:58:13.440
<v Speaker 7>a lot of the blood that's normally up his already.

1213
00:58:14.440 --> 00:58:17.039
<v Speaker 2>And I and I could have that conversation with him

1214
00:58:17.360 --> 00:58:20.039
<v Speaker 2>right if he would have said all that when we

1215
00:58:20.119 --> 00:58:22.320
<v Speaker 2>had it, because by this time the blood is back

1216
00:58:22.360 --> 00:58:22.960
<v Speaker 2>up to his head.

1217
00:58:23.320 --> 00:58:29.599
<v Speaker 1>This is the next day. No, really, you've had time

1218
00:58:29.679 --> 00:58:32.079
<v Speaker 1>to think about it, You've had time to decompress. So

1219
00:58:32.599 --> 00:58:34.800
<v Speaker 1>this is not like as I pull off conversation.

1220
00:58:34.960 --> 00:58:35.920
<v Speaker 4>Yes I can. He was.

1221
00:58:36.079 --> 00:58:39.280
<v Speaker 3>He was just still. He was very upset, traumatized. Whatever

1222
00:58:39.360 --> 00:58:39.800
<v Speaker 3>it might be.

1223
00:58:40.199 --> 00:58:43.840
<v Speaker 4>That last night he got more than stood up, because

1224
00:58:43.920 --> 00:58:45.360
<v Speaker 4>that's not a stand I.

1225
00:58:45.519 --> 00:58:47.840
<v Speaker 2>Was outside give me the cold. Can we talk about

1226
00:58:47.880 --> 00:58:50.039
<v Speaker 2>why he didn't give me the cold? Every other day

1227
00:58:50.119 --> 00:58:50.679
<v Speaker 2>that I come.

1228
00:58:50.679 --> 00:58:51.280
<v Speaker 3>He was prepared.

1229
00:58:51.840 --> 00:58:54.199
<v Speaker 1>I've seen how thirty already, I've seen how sturdy are.

1230
00:58:54.159 --> 00:58:56.119
<v Speaker 3>But they could have been trying to get what do

1231
00:58:56.199 --> 00:58:58.840
<v Speaker 3>you think he was doing? And correct? We should figure

1232
00:58:58.880 --> 00:58:59.400
<v Speaker 3>that out, bro.

1233
00:59:00.800 --> 00:59:03.559
<v Speaker 4>Dvius playing what's this man doing?

1234
00:59:03.679 --> 00:59:05.920
<v Speaker 3>And I called you here like I called you here and.

1235
00:59:08.000 --> 00:59:10.280
<v Speaker 4>Out the window you pulled up a few minutes too early.

1236
00:59:10.679 --> 00:59:12.960
<v Speaker 7>The nigga was in there getting because guess what, you've

1237
00:59:12.960 --> 00:59:16.239
<v Speaker 7>seen my apartment dirty? Right, So now you pulled up

1238
00:59:16.320 --> 00:59:18.760
<v Speaker 7>and hopped in the shower. I probably got dinner.

1239
00:59:23.119 --> 00:59:24.639
<v Speaker 3>Rose pedals and happened.

1240
00:59:25.000 --> 00:59:29.039
<v Speaker 4>I know what happened. It's as simple as fun. Actually, yo,

1241
00:59:29.159 --> 00:59:31.360
<v Speaker 4>my man, I apologize for what happened to you.

1242
00:59:31.480 --> 00:59:31.679
<v Speaker 3>Dog.

1243
00:59:31.719 --> 00:59:35.719
<v Speaker 8>We apologize on that nigga had to take.

1244
00:59:35.880 --> 00:59:38.559
<v Speaker 3>A ship and that's it, guarantee.

1245
00:59:39.000 --> 00:59:39.639
<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you something.

1246
00:59:39.639 --> 00:59:40.159
<v Speaker 3>Guarantee.

1247
00:59:40.239 --> 00:59:43.800
<v Speaker 4>He was taking the wildest joint ever it could have been.

1248
00:59:46.639 --> 00:59:47.280
<v Speaker 3>Talking about.

1249
00:59:48.280 --> 00:59:51.719
<v Speaker 4>Jawn was spraying out his hole.

1250
00:59:53.320 --> 00:59:56.280
<v Speaker 3>And jumped in need it. He was trying to clean it,

1251
00:59:56.679 --> 00:59:59.559
<v Speaker 3>trying to I was catching the bubbles again. Damn had

1252
00:59:59.599 --> 01:00:03.000
<v Speaker 3>to jump the shower to toilet.

1253
01:00:03.239 --> 01:00:12.559
<v Speaker 10>What some son still on taking a ship like, oh

1254
01:00:12.719 --> 01:00:19.519
<v Speaker 10>my god, yo, dad, it wasn't.

1255
01:00:19.599 --> 01:00:21.400
<v Speaker 1>It was like a Chinese restaurant.

1256
01:00:21.480 --> 01:00:26.599
<v Speaker 4>Though, oh my god, no listen because now I'm sitting

1257
01:00:26.639 --> 01:00:28.519
<v Speaker 4>here trying to decipher all of the things that could

1258
01:00:28.519 --> 01:00:30.840
<v Speaker 4>have happened, and it's like, hold on, how would this happen? Yo?

1259
01:00:31.440 --> 01:00:34.960
<v Speaker 4>He had to take a ship and that's why he

1260
01:00:35.199 --> 01:00:36.880
<v Speaker 4>didn't want to let you in.

1261
01:00:37.440 --> 01:00:38.760
<v Speaker 3>Oh my god.

1262
01:00:39.239 --> 01:00:42.440
<v Speaker 2>Now once again I'm gonna tell you about it doesn't work. Okay,

1263
01:00:43.519 --> 01:00:47.280
<v Speaker 2>you are talking to surf farts a lot. You're taking

1264
01:00:47.360 --> 01:00:49.639
<v Speaker 2>a ship. Don't mean nothing to me because I'm a bitch.

1265
01:00:49.880 --> 01:00:50.679
<v Speaker 1>I'm the jet peck.

1266
01:00:51.119 --> 01:00:53.599
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna be behind you, big spoon while we sleeping

1267
01:00:53.639 --> 01:00:56.960
<v Speaker 2>a heart on your back. Taking a ship don't mean

1268
01:00:57.039 --> 01:00:57.559
<v Speaker 2>nothing to me.

1269
01:00:57.639 --> 01:01:00.400
<v Speaker 4>Then let me tell you something stormy me. I didn't

1270
01:01:00.639 --> 01:01:04.719
<v Speaker 4>fart around my girl for five years.

1271
01:01:04.840 --> 01:01:05.400
<v Speaker 3>You got me.

1272
01:01:07.480 --> 01:01:09.719
<v Speaker 1>What I'm saying. You say, I'm not fucking up my

1273
01:01:09.800 --> 01:01:10.599
<v Speaker 1>innerdes for nobody.

1274
01:01:10.880 --> 01:01:14.760
<v Speaker 3>Girl should be like Nigga, where was all of these farts?

1275
01:01:15.280 --> 01:01:16.400
<v Speaker 3>How did you do that?

1276
01:01:17.239 --> 01:01:18.119
<v Speaker 1>How did you do that?

1277
01:01:18.199 --> 01:01:18.239
<v Speaker 6>For?

1278
01:01:18.760 --> 01:01:18.880
<v Speaker 4>Yo?

1279
01:01:19.159 --> 01:01:21.239
<v Speaker 3>I just did not me.

1280
01:01:22.239 --> 01:01:24.880
<v Speaker 1>I ain't ever like somebody enough to hold in my farts.

1281
01:01:25.079 --> 01:01:28.000
<v Speaker 3>Ever, it depends on what level you shake me in

1282
01:01:28.079 --> 01:01:34.599
<v Speaker 3>my part. That's how I know. That's how I know

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01:01:35.320 --> 01:01:42.039
<v Speaker 3>that that man lost you because of his That nigga

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01:01:42.960 --> 01:01:45.840
<v Speaker 3>on the weekend, let me ask you this, because this

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01:01:45.960 --> 01:01:49.239
<v Speaker 3>is a real bar and forgiveness. If this man said,

1286
01:01:49.320 --> 01:01:51.960
<v Speaker 3>calls you tomorrow and say I listened to the show,

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01:01:52.119 --> 01:01:54.320
<v Speaker 3>I fucked up. I fucked up. I really took a

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01:01:54.400 --> 01:01:58.360
<v Speaker 3>ship yo, And the next day I'm worried about I

1289
01:01:58.400 --> 01:02:02.079
<v Speaker 3>should have just apologized. I wasn't thinking I am sorry

1290
01:02:02.159 --> 01:02:04.320
<v Speaker 3>now you like all this other ship about me. I

1291
01:02:04.440 --> 01:02:07.559
<v Speaker 3>made a terrible mistake that night. Where's your level of

1292
01:02:07.599 --> 01:02:11.079
<v Speaker 3>forgiveness for him? True?

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01:02:11.119 --> 01:02:14.320
<v Speaker 1>For you want to lie? My initial response would be,

1294
01:02:14.320 --> 01:02:15.239
<v Speaker 1>how are you gonna make it up to me?

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01:02:16.039 --> 01:02:18.000
<v Speaker 3>You want me to get jumped by some niggas in

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01:02:18.079 --> 01:02:18.679
<v Speaker 3>the neighborhood.

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<v Speaker 1>Make it up to me? That's it a quote?

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01:02:22.400 --> 01:02:22.679
<v Speaker 9>Maybe not.

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01:02:22.880 --> 01:02:24.639
<v Speaker 2>That's for him to decide. When I say how are

1300
01:02:24.679 --> 01:02:26.320
<v Speaker 2>you going to make it up to me? I want

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01:02:26.360 --> 01:02:28.440
<v Speaker 2>to hear how would you make it up to him?

1302
01:02:28.519 --> 01:02:30.039
<v Speaker 2>Is it a way that he can Because women do this,

1303
01:02:30.320 --> 01:02:31.920
<v Speaker 2>they don't give you the answer. They just make some

1304
01:02:32.039 --> 01:02:35.119
<v Speaker 2>mysterious what you think? I'm worse When I say how

1305
01:02:35.119 --> 01:02:36.039
<v Speaker 2>are you going to make it up to me?

1306
01:02:36.199 --> 01:02:37.239
<v Speaker 1>I want to hear what you think.

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01:02:38.760 --> 01:02:39.039
<v Speaker 3>Gonna be?

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01:02:39.079 --> 01:02:39.360
<v Speaker 8>Right there?

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01:02:39.360 --> 01:02:40.039
<v Speaker 3>That's what I'm trying.

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01:02:40.320 --> 01:02:41.639
<v Speaker 1>That's not true, that's not true.

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<v Speaker 8>I don't want to forgive him.

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01:02:43.199 --> 01:02:45.960
<v Speaker 2>That's not true, because honestly, if he would come to

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01:02:46.039 --> 01:02:48.039
<v Speaker 2>me like what's like said, like I thought about, that's

1314
01:02:48.079 --> 01:02:50.920
<v Speaker 2>fucked up. I wouldn't want nobody to do that's my daughter.

1315
01:02:50.920 --> 01:02:52.679
<v Speaker 2>I also wouldn't want you to anybody to do.

1316
01:02:52.679 --> 01:02:55.079
<v Speaker 3>It to you. Bro, come to her, bro, I'm trying

1317
01:02:55.119 --> 01:02:57.159
<v Speaker 3>to watch this show. Bro Bro called her.

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01:02:57.239 --> 01:02:57.320
<v Speaker 2>Bro.

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01:02:58.920 --> 01:03:01.159
<v Speaker 4>Man, let her know and tell her you ready to

1320
01:03:01.199 --> 01:03:05.920
<v Speaker 4>get jumped by by some niggas. Yeah, whatever you gotta do,

1321
01:03:06.719 --> 01:03:09.599
<v Speaker 4>call her man. She she dis thing her her man

1322
01:03:09.920 --> 01:03:12.440
<v Speaker 4>that you left her out there. Man, show her what

1323
01:03:12.599 --> 01:03:12.960
<v Speaker 4>you'll do.

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01:03:13.199 --> 01:03:15.320
<v Speaker 3>Man, Yo, put your daughter in the car in the park?

1325
01:03:20.480 --> 01:03:24.119
<v Speaker 1>Ten video of your daughter in a car on the street,

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01:03:24.679 --> 01:03:26.840
<v Speaker 1>not even And that was another thing. That was another thing.

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01:03:26.920 --> 01:03:29.280
<v Speaker 2>I wasn't even a part close to his door like

1328
01:03:29.440 --> 01:03:31.159
<v Speaker 2>I was far. He couldn't look out his window and

1329
01:03:31.239 --> 01:03:33.639
<v Speaker 2>see me or anything like I felt super exposed. Send

1330
01:03:33.679 --> 01:03:35.760
<v Speaker 2>me a ten minute video your daughter sitting in the

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01:03:35.880 --> 01:03:37.039
<v Speaker 2>car by herself.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think it that's fair. That's such a terrible

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01:03:41.840 --> 01:03:47.320
<v Speaker 3>first of all, with himself. But okay, you don't like.

1334
01:03:49.239 --> 01:03:49.880
<v Speaker 8>You don't like them.

1335
01:03:50.519 --> 01:03:51.920
<v Speaker 3>She don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>The crazy part is I did. That's why I felt

1337
01:03:54.159 --> 01:03:54.880
<v Speaker 1>so disrespected.

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01:03:56.440 --> 01:03:58.039
<v Speaker 3>You ain't meet no niggas you like.

1339
01:03:58.199 --> 01:04:01.000
<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you something. You don't let me say something.

1340
01:04:01.119 --> 01:04:02.920
<v Speaker 1>I've never met a nigga that I like more than

1341
01:04:02.960 --> 01:04:03.679
<v Speaker 1>I love myself.

1342
01:04:04.000 --> 01:04:04.880
<v Speaker 3>That's what the problem is.

1343
01:04:04.920 --> 01:04:07.519
<v Speaker 1>You're not gonna disrespect me. I know my worth and

1344
01:04:07.880 --> 01:04:10.400
<v Speaker 1>you're not gonna play in my face. That's what it is.

1345
01:04:10.880 --> 01:04:14.199
<v Speaker 2>You didn't play was taking the ship, and you couldn't

1346
01:04:14.199 --> 01:04:17.159
<v Speaker 2>text me and be like, yo, no it's no, no, no,

1347
01:04:17.239 --> 01:04:19.000
<v Speaker 2>no no no, not not the ship, not ship, I know,

1348
01:04:19.119 --> 01:04:19.559
<v Speaker 2>not the ship.

1349
01:04:19.800 --> 01:04:21.880
<v Speaker 1>But you couldn't text me and say, Yo, my cat

1350
01:04:21.960 --> 01:04:23.639
<v Speaker 1>knocked some ship overal fast. Give me like two seconds

1351
01:04:23.639 --> 01:04:23.960
<v Speaker 1>of clean it.

1352
01:04:24.000 --> 01:04:27.280
<v Speaker 3>Up, and you wouldn't have gave a fun ten minutes in.

1353
01:04:27.360 --> 01:04:28.880
<v Speaker 3>You wouldn't give I don't give that.

1354
01:04:28.920 --> 01:04:29.440
<v Speaker 8>What's the code?

1355
01:04:29.960 --> 01:04:32.880
<v Speaker 1>Honestly, I felt like me having an ax. What's the cold?

1356
01:04:33.119 --> 01:04:33.679
<v Speaker 1>Was the meaning?

1357
01:04:33.760 --> 01:04:36.679
<v Speaker 3>See, I think that's where women up at. If I

1358
01:04:36.719 --> 01:04:37.519
<v Speaker 3>gave you the cold.

1359
01:04:37.400 --> 01:04:38.880
<v Speaker 1>Before, give it to me again.

1360
01:04:38.920 --> 01:04:40.440
<v Speaker 3>If I gave you the give it to me again.

1361
01:04:40.599 --> 01:04:43.639
<v Speaker 3>I gave you gotta you gotta, but you ain't asked

1362
01:04:43.639 --> 01:04:45.320
<v Speaker 3>for you can say, yo, shoot me the cold. I'm

1363
01:04:45.360 --> 01:04:46.079
<v Speaker 3>just coming, and my.

1364
01:04:46.119 --> 01:04:48.199
<v Speaker 1>Mama said, don't ask me no where you ain't invited.

1365
01:04:48.280 --> 01:04:52.400
<v Speaker 3>I think I think he just answered the phone. Give me.

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01:04:54.119 --> 01:04:54.519
<v Speaker 4>What you are.

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01:04:55.639 --> 01:05:00.119
<v Speaker 7>You are one of those people that, like a nigg it,

1368
01:05:00.199 --> 01:05:04.440
<v Speaker 7>could do a thousand things right right and the minute

1369
01:05:04.440 --> 01:05:08.719
<v Speaker 7>that he do something wrong at a race, that he

1370
01:05:08.880 --> 01:05:11.639
<v Speaker 7>did because the nigga gave you the code, which God,

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01:05:11.920 --> 01:05:15.559
<v Speaker 7>I don't think you understand the level of what that minutes,

1372
01:05:15.639 --> 01:05:17.800
<v Speaker 7>what that represents when he gave you the code. But

1373
01:05:18.000 --> 01:05:20.719
<v Speaker 7>let me tell you you do understand because when he

1374
01:05:20.880 --> 01:05:24.239
<v Speaker 7>didn't give you the cold, it felt the meaning why

1375
01:05:24.400 --> 01:05:27.000
<v Speaker 7>when he gave it didn't put the.

1376
01:05:27.079 --> 01:05:28.280
<v Speaker 3>Nigga all the way up here?

1377
01:05:29.159 --> 01:05:31.639
<v Speaker 1>Well here's the thing, Come on, talk to me now,

1378
01:05:31.960 --> 01:05:34.239
<v Speaker 1>stay up here, you do you go back there?

1379
01:05:34.639 --> 01:05:36.400
<v Speaker 3>One bad nigga do one.

1380
01:05:38.559 --> 01:05:40.639
<v Speaker 2>It's not the one bad thing. It's the one bad

1381
01:05:40.719 --> 01:05:44.519
<v Speaker 2>thing when you understand what the right thing is, it's accountability.

1382
01:05:44.880 --> 01:05:46.280
<v Speaker 2>You know what the right thing is to do.

1383
01:05:52.719 --> 01:05:55.679
<v Speaker 1>Already by now now I'm confused. Y'all be that same

1384
01:05:55.800 --> 01:05:58.760
<v Speaker 1>niggas talking about women make matter, said women.

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01:05:59.440 --> 01:06:06.480
<v Speaker 3>Women better choices. Actually on my daughter better choice.

1386
01:06:07.760 --> 01:06:10.360
<v Speaker 2>You see, y'all be wanting women to make better choices

1387
01:06:10.360 --> 01:06:12.199
<v Speaker 2>than when they do. Now they're self sabotaged you.

1388
01:06:12.800 --> 01:06:13.440
<v Speaker 1>Isn't that funny to.

1389
01:06:13.440 --> 01:06:16.280
<v Speaker 7>Be honest with y'all? In twenty twenty five. In twenty

1390
01:06:16.320 --> 01:06:20.800
<v Speaker 7>twenty five, men more than likely are going to fuck

1391
01:06:20.840 --> 01:06:23.199
<v Speaker 7>their wives on the first night. The person that you

1392
01:06:23.320 --> 01:06:25.239
<v Speaker 7>want to marry is the person that you're going to

1393
01:06:25.320 --> 01:06:27.519
<v Speaker 7>fuck on the first night, which is why you're having

1394
01:06:27.559 --> 01:06:28.960
<v Speaker 7>a hard time finding your husband.

1395
01:06:29.000 --> 01:06:30.320
<v Speaker 3>I disagree with you that.

1396
01:06:31.039 --> 01:06:33.199
<v Speaker 7>I disagree with him trying to tell you, bro, it's

1397
01:06:33.280 --> 01:06:37.159
<v Speaker 7>like you hit on the first night. No I did not,

1398
01:06:37.480 --> 01:06:39.199
<v Speaker 7>But person got.

1399
01:06:41.360 --> 01:06:43.119
<v Speaker 1>Y'all know what's a place called Stake thirty eight?

1400
01:06:43.920 --> 01:06:44.280
<v Speaker 3>You heard of?

1401
01:06:44.400 --> 01:06:46.840
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I've never been there. I think that's so

1402
01:06:47.039 --> 01:06:48.360
<v Speaker 1>fucking funny. Is the fool good?

1403
01:06:49.000 --> 01:06:50.800
<v Speaker 8>I've never been there. I just rolled past it a

1404
01:06:50.840 --> 01:06:51.400
<v Speaker 8>bunch of times.

1405
01:06:52.239 --> 01:06:54.599
<v Speaker 3>It's like a real big deal too to people.

1406
01:06:54.840 --> 01:06:57.119
<v Speaker 4>Really, yeah, that's Steak thirty eight, white woman?

1407
01:06:57.159 --> 01:06:57.960
<v Speaker 3>What made you think of that?

1408
01:06:58.519 --> 01:07:02.119
<v Speaker 1>I want, he said Ruth Chris in my mind, that's

1409
01:07:02.159 --> 01:07:03.119
<v Speaker 1>how you make it up to her.

1410
01:07:03.199 --> 01:07:03.280
<v Speaker 4>Bro.

1411
01:07:11.960 --> 01:07:13.559
<v Speaker 2>So I have some more points, but we're gonna get

1412
01:07:13.599 --> 01:07:16.000
<v Speaker 2>into some edibles. So the edible portion of the show

1413
01:07:16.119 --> 01:07:18.599
<v Speaker 2>is when we read questions that people send in and

1414
01:07:18.840 --> 01:07:21.519
<v Speaker 2>we answer on the day that we record. I usually

1415
01:07:21.639 --> 01:07:24.199
<v Speaker 2>put a prompt up that says, ask me anything. But

1416
01:07:24.280 --> 01:07:26.360
<v Speaker 2>if you have something to ask, sort of story to

1417
01:07:26.480 --> 01:07:28.719
<v Speaker 2>tell that doesn't fit in the prompt, you can always

1418
01:07:28.800 --> 01:07:31.599
<v Speaker 2>email inquiries at Stormy p e a dot com.

1419
01:07:32.599 --> 01:07:34.440
<v Speaker 1>Do not d M because dms are like the Wild

1420
01:07:34.480 --> 01:07:34.840
<v Speaker 1>Wall West.

1421
01:07:34.840 --> 01:07:37.800
<v Speaker 2>I'm probably never going to see it, So email inquiries

1422
01:07:37.960 --> 01:07:39.440
<v Speaker 2>at stormy pe A dot com.

1423
01:07:39.760 --> 01:07:43.760
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So the first question, will the winner of Pop

1424
01:07:43.880 --> 01:07:46.719
<v Speaker 1>the Balloon actually go on a date with Stormy p

1425
01:07:47.039 --> 01:07:49.719
<v Speaker 1>We're paying for it, paying for that guest.

1426
01:07:50.079 --> 01:07:52.199
<v Speaker 3>And guess what, well, and guess what, niggas you.

1427
01:07:52.159 --> 01:07:53.000
<v Speaker 8>A't gonna get no ask.

1428
01:07:57.599 --> 01:07:59.880
<v Speaker 4>We already seen the other nigga that got an organ.

1429
01:08:00.159 --> 01:08:01.599
<v Speaker 3>They didn't get up, So.

1430
01:08:03.239 --> 01:08:10.440
<v Speaker 4>You ain't getting ship gets tracked, ain't getting and if

1431
01:08:10.480 --> 01:08:13.079
<v Speaker 4>you do get some ass, it's going to prove the point.

1432
01:08:13.880 --> 01:08:16.760
<v Speaker 4>She's just ain't like that nigga because if she if

1433
01:08:16.800 --> 01:08:19.159
<v Speaker 4>a nigga win the contest and she like, no, I

1434
01:08:19.479 --> 01:08:22.680
<v Speaker 4>like this nigga. People do different things for people that

1435
01:08:22.760 --> 01:08:23.119
<v Speaker 4>they like.

1436
01:08:23.439 --> 01:08:24.880
<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, hallelujah.

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01:08:25.520 --> 01:08:27.319
<v Speaker 1>I agree that depends where you are, It depends where

1438
01:08:27.319 --> 01:08:27.800
<v Speaker 1>you are in life.

1439
01:08:27.800 --> 01:08:29.239
<v Speaker 8>But I agree that's the thing, and I think that

1440
01:08:29.359 --> 01:08:31.479
<v Speaker 8>I think those niggas like you more than you like them.

1441
01:08:35.039 --> 01:08:38.079
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the contest, he like, yeah, he feeling you.

1442
01:08:38.680 --> 01:08:41.760
<v Speaker 1>I feel like after the date is over, we all

1443
01:08:41.880 --> 01:08:46.279
<v Speaker 1>have to have like a joint pod to discuss, like

1444
01:08:46.439 --> 01:08:50.800
<v Speaker 1>on some love connection type. I like it, all right, slice,

1445
01:08:50.840 --> 01:08:53.600
<v Speaker 1>what's what's the what's the minimum maximum on the date?

1446
01:08:54.239 --> 01:09:01.720
<v Speaker 3>You mean money? Yeah, she's talking to old cheap stake

1447
01:09:01.920 --> 01:09:07.840
<v Speaker 3>forty eight. I'm gonna be honest with you. It changed

1448
01:09:07.840 --> 01:09:09.920
<v Speaker 3>since I became a little older. It used to be

1449
01:09:09.960 --> 01:09:12.760
<v Speaker 3>one hundred dollars, right, That was that was my living

1450
01:09:12.800 --> 01:09:16.119
<v Speaker 3>girl cheese, one hundred dollars, Like I used to listen

1451
01:09:16.159 --> 01:09:18.279
<v Speaker 3>whatever we could do. One hundred dollars cool if I

1452
01:09:18.479 --> 01:09:20.760
<v Speaker 3>really really like her, two hundred.

1453
01:09:20.479 --> 01:09:25.640
<v Speaker 1>Dollars okay, okay. De bigs were different death Oh.

1454
01:09:25.960 --> 01:09:28.279
<v Speaker 4>No, So it just depends if I'm if I'm I'm

1455
01:09:28.319 --> 01:09:30.720
<v Speaker 4>on a mission. When I was out there, I was

1456
01:09:30.800 --> 01:09:34.880
<v Speaker 4>on a mission, So it didn't matter if it took

1457
01:09:35.359 --> 01:09:39.760
<v Speaker 4>a six hundred dollars hotel room, eating at a crazy spot.

1458
01:09:40.800 --> 01:09:46.199
<v Speaker 3>Babysitter want, oh yeah for babysitters. Quick questions.

1459
01:09:47.680 --> 01:09:51.840
<v Speaker 1>Question in today's society, are you paying for a babysitter.

1460
01:09:52.840 --> 01:09:57.359
<v Speaker 3>Yes, listen, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, okay yes.

1461
01:09:57.800 --> 01:10:00.960
<v Speaker 1>Are you paying for an uber? Yeah, that's not it.

1462
01:10:01.319 --> 01:10:02.520
<v Speaker 8>That's even easier.

1463
01:10:02.800 --> 01:10:04.319
<v Speaker 1>Are you paying for nails?

1464
01:10:04.800 --> 01:10:06.000
<v Speaker 3>No fuck?

1465
01:10:06.800 --> 01:10:08.840
<v Speaker 1>Are you paying for outfit? No fuck?

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01:10:09.000 --> 01:10:09.039
<v Speaker 4>No?

1467
01:10:10.159 --> 01:10:12.000
<v Speaker 1>Are you I say, paying for the date? But are

1468
01:10:12.039 --> 01:10:12.960
<v Speaker 1>you paying for the date?

1469
01:10:13.319 --> 01:10:16.279
<v Speaker 3>I'll pay for the date. I'm not paying for anything

1470
01:10:16.520 --> 01:10:17.680
<v Speaker 3>like that. So just the thing.

1471
01:10:17.880 --> 01:10:20.319
<v Speaker 4>We just actually had to talk about this, right, We

1472
01:10:20.399 --> 01:10:23.000
<v Speaker 4>were talking to a young lady about this, and it

1473
01:10:23.159 --> 01:10:26.279
<v Speaker 4>was because just like earlier, I said, women that have

1474
01:10:26.399 --> 01:10:28.960
<v Speaker 4>their own cribs, they fucked.

1475
01:10:30.000 --> 01:10:32.119
<v Speaker 3>That's just the truth. They get a lot of dick

1476
01:10:32.800 --> 01:10:34.159
<v Speaker 3>if they got the park.

1477
01:10:35.039 --> 01:10:39.640
<v Speaker 4>But also I said, ain't nothing more horny or ready

1478
01:10:39.680 --> 01:10:43.159
<v Speaker 4>to fuck than a woman who don't got their kid

1479
01:10:44.199 --> 01:10:47.600
<v Speaker 4>that night. They will find a way to go out.

1480
01:10:48.159 --> 01:10:53.319
<v Speaker 4>They not staying in the crest. They are in fucking action,

1481
01:10:53.680 --> 01:10:57.039
<v Speaker 4>you know what I'm saying. And that's what brought us

1482
01:10:57.119 --> 01:11:00.399
<v Speaker 4>to explained to them what we were talking about, what.

1483
01:11:02.079 --> 01:11:06.039
<v Speaker 7>It's like even if a woman's kids, you know, are

1484
01:11:06.039 --> 01:11:09.399
<v Speaker 7>at home, right, paying for the babysitter is like a

1485
01:11:09.680 --> 01:11:14.159
<v Speaker 7>It's like a stunt almost, because the stunt comes when

1486
01:11:14.199 --> 01:11:17.680
<v Speaker 7>you overpay for the babysitter. So it's like, yo, listen,

1487
01:11:18.079 --> 01:11:19.880
<v Speaker 7>oh oh you got the kids, Like, no, come out

1488
01:11:19.880 --> 01:11:21.680
<v Speaker 7>with me to mine. I got three hundred for the babysitter,

1489
01:11:22.199 --> 01:11:25.000
<v Speaker 7>because you know what's gonna happen. Gonna she's gonna give

1490
01:11:25.079 --> 01:11:28.399
<v Speaker 7>the babysitter one hundred. She's gonna throw two in her pocket,

1491
01:11:29.119 --> 01:11:30.840
<v Speaker 7>and that's how the day starts.

1492
01:11:30.880 --> 01:11:33.680
<v Speaker 4>So she's like, oh, ship, and most likely the babysitter

1493
01:11:33.880 --> 01:11:37.319
<v Speaker 4>is really like her sister. Anyway, when a woman tells you,

1494
01:11:39.479 --> 01:11:41.920
<v Speaker 4>I don't know, let me see if my sister will

1495
01:11:41.960 --> 01:11:44.000
<v Speaker 4>watch them, you don't. I don't want you to see.

1496
01:11:44.000 --> 01:11:47.119
<v Speaker 4>I don't want you to see offer I'm gonna I'm

1497
01:11:47.159 --> 01:11:50.439
<v Speaker 4>going to guarantee. It's like yo, I'm almost make it happen. Yo,

1498
01:11:50.680 --> 01:11:53.279
<v Speaker 4>just tell your sister you're gonna slide a like three hundred.

1499
01:11:55.119 --> 01:11:57.000
<v Speaker 8>Now, there's no way that date's not happening.

1500
01:11:57.119 --> 01:12:00.640
<v Speaker 4>It's it's impossible that if the day don't happened, she

1501
01:12:00.920 --> 01:12:03.239
<v Speaker 4>don't like you, don't like you, she don't like you.

1502
01:12:03.920 --> 01:12:06.199
<v Speaker 4>I was quick to be like, Y'll just tell your

1503
01:12:06.239 --> 01:12:08.359
<v Speaker 4>sister you're gonna slider like two hundred or whatever, and

1504
01:12:09.000 --> 01:12:11.880
<v Speaker 4>we go out. It's like for real, like for it's like, yeah,

1505
01:12:11.920 --> 01:12:14.600
<v Speaker 4>you tell her, so the sister is like, when the

1506
01:12:14.720 --> 01:12:16.720
<v Speaker 4>last time you gave me two hundred to watch my

1507
01:12:16.840 --> 01:12:19.760
<v Speaker 4>nephew for real? For real? They don't do that, so

1508
01:12:20.039 --> 01:12:23.119
<v Speaker 4>is guaranteed to happen. It's the same thing with I

1509
01:12:23.159 --> 01:12:24.800
<v Speaker 4>think I gotta pick up. I'm picking up some extra

1510
01:12:24.840 --> 01:12:26.359
<v Speaker 4>hours at my job, so I'm not gonna be able.

1511
01:12:26.239 --> 01:12:28.520
<v Speaker 3>To take it a day off. I'm pinning how much

1512
01:12:28.560 --> 01:12:34.039
<v Speaker 3>you make a job. You got a regular job. You're

1513
01:12:34.079 --> 01:12:36.359
<v Speaker 3>making two fifty a day to day off.

1514
01:12:36.479 --> 01:12:41.039
<v Speaker 4>Take the day off, man, tell them niggas you' and

1515
01:12:41.199 --> 01:12:41.479
<v Speaker 4>that's it.

1516
01:12:41.800 --> 01:12:47.880
<v Speaker 8>And here's another thing about giving up to a niggas

1517
01:12:47.880 --> 01:12:49.199
<v Speaker 8>who don't know how to get it.

1518
01:12:49.359 --> 01:12:52.720
<v Speaker 7>I was doing that as Another thing is if I

1519
01:12:52.840 --> 01:12:56.359
<v Speaker 7>paid three hundred for the babysitter, you kind of gotta

1520
01:12:56.399 --> 01:12:56.960
<v Speaker 7>spend the night.

1521
01:12:57.880 --> 01:12:58.760
<v Speaker 1>Let me ask you a question.

1522
01:12:59.319 --> 01:13:02.159
<v Speaker 2>What happened on date two when she expected that three

1523
01:13:02.239 --> 01:13:03.359
<v Speaker 2>hundred for the babysitter again?

1524
01:13:03.920 --> 01:13:05.000
<v Speaker 3>Did I hit on the first night?

1525
01:13:05.680 --> 01:13:06.680
<v Speaker 1>Give me both scenarios.

1526
01:13:07.039 --> 01:13:10.079
<v Speaker 7>Okay, If I hit on the first night, it don't

1527
01:13:10.159 --> 01:13:13.199
<v Speaker 7>matter now, right. If I hit, if I already hit,

1528
01:13:13.319 --> 01:13:16.039
<v Speaker 7>it don't even matter because I'll just wait to another time.

1529
01:13:16.119 --> 01:13:17.520
<v Speaker 1>And what you're saying, it don't matter.

1530
01:13:17.840 --> 01:13:19.600
<v Speaker 2>Meaning like if she say like, oh, I gotta get

1531
01:13:19.600 --> 01:13:20.920
<v Speaker 2>a babysitter, they're like, all right, well just let me

1532
01:13:20.960 --> 01:13:21.880
<v Speaker 2>know when you free type shit.

1533
01:13:23.399 --> 01:13:28.640
<v Speaker 4>So it depends, it depends. It's possible depending on the scenario.

1534
01:13:28.920 --> 01:13:34.680
<v Speaker 4>But if I execute the plan, I was like, Yo, listen,

1535
01:13:34.760 --> 01:13:39.920
<v Speaker 4>I'm an old guy. Now, I was an elite foxman.

1536
01:13:42.079 --> 01:13:44.600
<v Speaker 4>I mean I knew that as long as I could

1537
01:13:44.680 --> 01:13:48.079
<v Speaker 4>get this joint, she was with me forever until I

1538
01:13:48.159 --> 01:13:50.560
<v Speaker 4>did the dumbest shit in the world. Until I did

1539
01:13:50.640 --> 01:13:56.359
<v Speaker 4>something dumb I am in. After that, she going bring.

1540
01:13:56.319 --> 01:14:03.359
<v Speaker 9>The kid, bringing that nigga like this you did. God,

1541
01:14:03.760 --> 01:14:06.800
<v Speaker 9>it was never a problem anytime.

1542
01:14:06.520 --> 01:14:09.600
<v Speaker 7>You know, after it, because after you hit she'll kind

1543
01:14:09.640 --> 01:14:11.560
<v Speaker 7>of go for anything. I could just be like, Yo,

1544
01:14:12.000 --> 01:14:14.920
<v Speaker 7>I'm gonna just pull up outside, chill in the car, anything,

1545
01:14:15.239 --> 01:14:17.079
<v Speaker 7>and will they just want to They just want to

1546
01:14:17.159 --> 01:14:19.199
<v Speaker 7>be with you. So the kid could just be in

1547
01:14:19.279 --> 01:14:21.319
<v Speaker 7>the crib, sleep or whatever, and I just pull up

1548
01:14:21.319 --> 01:14:22.520
<v Speaker 7>in front of the door. You're just get in the

1549
01:14:22.560 --> 01:14:23.479
<v Speaker 7>car all of a sudden.

1550
01:14:23.479 --> 01:14:25.560
<v Speaker 4>It's just like when you when a woman is like

1551
01:14:25.720 --> 01:14:28.239
<v Speaker 4>always busy and then y'all one day they get up.

1552
01:14:28.199 --> 01:14:29.800
<v Speaker 3>With y'all and y'all do something and.

1553
01:14:31.399 --> 01:14:32.079
<v Speaker 8>Never busy again.

1554
01:14:32.159 --> 01:14:36.199
<v Speaker 4>How the fuck was she busy for three years and

1555
01:14:36.439 --> 01:14:39.439
<v Speaker 4>now you are always available all the time.

1556
01:14:39.640 --> 01:14:42.359
<v Speaker 2>And I just want to step back in and say, women,

1557
01:14:42.479 --> 01:14:45.479
<v Speaker 2>stop talk to the lad Now here's the thing.

1558
01:14:45.720 --> 01:14:46.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna sing her and act like what.

1559
01:14:47.039 --> 01:14:49.760
<v Speaker 2>Y'all saying is wrong because for a majority of women,

1560
01:14:49.800 --> 01:14:51.119
<v Speaker 2>and it's not let me tell you something, but I

1561
01:14:51.279 --> 01:14:54.039
<v Speaker 2>want to say, women, when y'all do this ship, it

1562
01:14:54.159 --> 01:14:57.159
<v Speaker 2>does not make them niggas like y'all more when y'all

1563
01:14:57.239 --> 01:14:59.279
<v Speaker 2>be saying like, oh, I'd be so busy, I can

1564
01:14:59.359 --> 01:15:00.840
<v Speaker 2>never have time for myself.

1565
01:15:01.039 --> 01:15:02.800
<v Speaker 1>And as soon as they hit now, all of a sudden,

1566
01:15:02.800 --> 01:15:03.159
<v Speaker 1>you get.

1567
01:15:03.079 --> 01:15:05.640
<v Speaker 2>Text back quick, you free every weekend, You got all

1568
01:15:05.680 --> 01:15:08.159
<v Speaker 2>the time in the world that does not think like, oh,

1569
01:15:08.880 --> 01:15:09.680
<v Speaker 2>she's the one for me.

1570
01:15:09.840 --> 01:15:14.239
<v Speaker 1>No, now that chase is going, the level of accessibility.

1571
01:15:13.760 --> 01:15:16.479
<v Speaker 3>Is way too high. You are a very busy woman,

1572
01:15:16.520 --> 01:15:16.920
<v Speaker 3>are you not?

1573
01:15:17.479 --> 01:15:19.039
<v Speaker 1>I am, And I make time for niggas I don't

1574
01:15:19.039 --> 01:15:20.640
<v Speaker 1>want to make time for So.

1575
01:15:20.880 --> 01:15:24.680
<v Speaker 4>This is where I was getting at. Stormy is extremely busy.

1576
01:15:24.800 --> 01:15:27.279
<v Speaker 4>She travels, she does a lot of stuff, She makes content.

1577
01:15:27.760 --> 01:15:31.199
<v Speaker 4>But I know that obviously if she's looking for someone,

1578
01:15:31.479 --> 01:15:33.199
<v Speaker 4>when she gets with the person, she's not gonna tell

1579
01:15:33.239 --> 01:15:37.479
<v Speaker 4>them I'm too busy. Niggas, so there is time available,

1580
01:15:38.039 --> 01:15:40.439
<v Speaker 4>and there would be a dude that would be like, damn,

1581
01:15:40.800 --> 01:15:43.239
<v Speaker 4>I knew a stormy I used to chase her around.

1582
01:15:43.279 --> 01:15:45.880
<v Speaker 4>She was super busy, and then once y'all hit it

1583
01:15:45.920 --> 01:15:47.920
<v Speaker 4>off in whatever way y'all hit it off, whatever way,

1584
01:15:48.000 --> 01:15:48.399
<v Speaker 4>it doesn't.

1585
01:15:48.560 --> 01:15:50.960
<v Speaker 2>It's a cheat cold male or female. Whenever they tell

1586
01:15:51.000 --> 01:15:53.479
<v Speaker 2>you they're busy or they don't have time, it's a

1587
01:15:53.560 --> 01:15:55.680
<v Speaker 2>cheat code. Well you say, like, yo, hey, what are

1588
01:15:55.680 --> 01:15:58.880
<v Speaker 2>you doing Friday night? If they are busy, the cheat

1589
01:15:58.920 --> 01:16:01.479
<v Speaker 2>code is, hey, Friday doesn't really work for me, But

1590
01:16:01.600 --> 01:16:02.520
<v Speaker 2>what about Tuesday?

1591
01:16:02.880 --> 01:16:05.960
<v Speaker 1>What about X day? If there is no follow up?

1592
01:16:06.119 --> 01:16:07.119
<v Speaker 1>What about X day?

1593
01:16:07.439 --> 01:16:10.399
<v Speaker 4>They don't like, they don't, they don't with you, they

1594
01:16:10.479 --> 01:16:11.840
<v Speaker 4>don't funk with That's a that's a fact.

1595
01:16:11.840 --> 01:16:14.439
<v Speaker 7>That's a fact, and sometimes that backfire when you're fucking

1596
01:16:14.439 --> 01:16:15.960
<v Speaker 7>with a nigga that got a lot of bitches though,

1597
01:16:16.520 --> 01:16:20.720
<v Speaker 7>what let's talk. I'm just being as a as a

1598
01:16:21.039 --> 01:16:28.840
<v Speaker 7>as a former Omega level mutant myself, who's back, No,

1599
01:16:29.079 --> 01:16:32.439
<v Speaker 7>I'm I'm I'm actually you know, I'm in the danger room.

1600
01:16:38.159 --> 01:16:40.439
<v Speaker 3>They don't understand it's nothing we can do. Yeah. So

1601
01:16:40.760 --> 01:16:45.319
<v Speaker 3>basically what that means is it's like the minute that.

1602
01:16:47.600 --> 01:16:51.239
<v Speaker 7>Can I say that, You say, all right, no, Friday

1603
01:16:51.279 --> 01:16:53.479
<v Speaker 7>doesn't work for me, but how about Tuesday.

1604
01:16:54.000 --> 01:16:54.119
<v Speaker 3>Yo.

1605
01:16:54.439 --> 01:16:58.279
<v Speaker 7>If a nigga got a stable of bitches, he don't

1606
01:16:58.439 --> 01:17:01.720
<v Speaker 7>care all your doing all all he all he gonna

1607
01:17:01.720 --> 01:17:03.800
<v Speaker 7>do is like yo, he's still he still don't care.

1608
01:17:03.960 --> 01:17:07.720
<v Speaker 7>Once you do that one too many times, he kind

1609
01:17:07.760 --> 01:17:09.680
<v Speaker 7>of be off you a little bit, but he still

1610
01:17:09.680 --> 01:17:10.199
<v Speaker 7>want to fuck you.

1611
01:17:10.399 --> 01:17:11.119
<v Speaker 1>Now, here's my thing.

1612
01:17:12.079 --> 01:17:14.680
<v Speaker 2>If I'm telling you, man, this day doesn't work for me,

1613
01:17:14.800 --> 01:17:17.680
<v Speaker 2>but this day is available, you're saying, once that happens

1614
01:17:17.680 --> 01:17:19.840
<v Speaker 2>too many times, how does that happen? If you're not

1615
01:17:19.920 --> 01:17:22.039
<v Speaker 2>available on the next day, then we just not gonna link.

1616
01:17:22.079 --> 01:17:24.399
<v Speaker 2>I'm never gonna stand you up. Also, if I tell

1617
01:17:24.439 --> 01:17:26.600
<v Speaker 2>you I'm not free this day, but I am free

1618
01:17:26.720 --> 01:17:28.800
<v Speaker 2>this day, and that puts you off because you got

1619
01:17:28.880 --> 01:17:30.920
<v Speaker 2>a stable full of bitches, Baby, You're.

1620
01:17:30.840 --> 01:17:31.760
<v Speaker 1>Not who I look for anyway.

1621
01:17:31.760 --> 01:17:32.319
<v Speaker 3>That's why not me?

1622
01:17:33.319 --> 01:17:34.840
<v Speaker 2>I am going to know because the distance is going

1623
01:17:34.880 --> 01:17:37.520
<v Speaker 2>to be there, The text are gonna slow, the calls

1624
01:17:37.560 --> 01:17:39.239
<v Speaker 2>are going to slow, the face, times are gonna slow.

1625
01:17:39.359 --> 01:17:40.880
<v Speaker 8>Not with it on mega level niggas.

1626
01:17:42.159 --> 01:17:44.640
<v Speaker 1>Let's say it was only twelve x men. It's not

1627
01:17:44.760 --> 01:17:46.279
<v Speaker 1>that many omega eleven niggas out there.

1628
01:17:46.920 --> 01:17:50.720
<v Speaker 3>There was There was actually like two hundred.

1629
01:17:51.439 --> 01:17:54.720
<v Speaker 1>There bill people in the world them two hundred act

1630
01:17:54.760 --> 01:17:55.600
<v Speaker 1>men equals twelve.

1631
01:17:56.359 --> 01:18:00.680
<v Speaker 4>But uh yeah, I still think you know both of

1632
01:18:00.760 --> 01:18:04.279
<v Speaker 4>y'all are are correct it in this situation.

1633
01:18:05.000 --> 01:18:05.960
<v Speaker 3>All I know is.

1634
01:18:08.359 --> 01:18:10.319
<v Speaker 4>Fuck the chicks that are not trying to give you

1635
01:18:10.479 --> 01:18:13.039
<v Speaker 4>no cheeks. If you're out here, try and get cheeks. Fine,

1636
01:18:14.079 --> 01:18:16.560
<v Speaker 4>fine horse. If that's what you're looking for. If you're

1637
01:18:16.600 --> 01:18:18.920
<v Speaker 4>looking for you know, this is what it is. If

1638
01:18:18.960 --> 01:18:23.560
<v Speaker 4>you're looking for a stormy pay who's not giving up

1639
01:18:23.640 --> 01:18:26.680
<v Speaker 4>the coach and looking for a husband, then put the

1640
01:18:26.760 --> 01:18:30.279
<v Speaker 4>work in. Don't leave her outside. You know what I'm saying.

1641
01:18:30.680 --> 01:18:34.680
<v Speaker 4>Take care of your daughter, read your comic books each

1642
01:18:34.760 --> 01:18:39.039
<v Speaker 4>your motherfucking vitamins, gets your lightsaber game up.

1643
01:18:39.359 --> 01:18:40.600
<v Speaker 1>And that's that.

1644
01:18:41.119 --> 01:18:43.800
<v Speaker 2>All right, last question all because this ship is super long,

1645
01:18:43.960 --> 01:18:48.239
<v Speaker 2>but it's super funny, so I don't mind. Is nine

1646
01:18:48.359 --> 01:18:50.800
<v Speaker 2>months too short of a time to fall in love

1647
01:18:50.920 --> 01:18:53.399
<v Speaker 2>with someone new after a ten year marriage?

1648
01:18:53.840 --> 01:18:53.880
<v Speaker 4>No?

1649
01:18:55.319 --> 01:18:56.840
<v Speaker 8>What let me tell you something.

1650
01:18:56.920 --> 01:18:59.960
<v Speaker 7>I just was in a ten year relationship, okay, which

1651
01:19:00.039 --> 01:19:03.640
<v Speaker 7>you're saying, right, And then you said is nine months?

1652
01:19:11.479 --> 01:19:17.520
<v Speaker 7>Myself willing you, So you're saying it's nine months.

1653
01:19:17.680 --> 01:19:18.800
<v Speaker 3>Nine months is too long?

1654
01:19:18.920 --> 01:19:19.960
<v Speaker 8>What are we talking about?

1655
01:19:21.119 --> 01:19:21.640
<v Speaker 3>Nine months?

1656
01:19:21.680 --> 01:19:21.720
<v Speaker 4>Is?

1657
01:19:23.479 --> 01:19:26.640
<v Speaker 7>I'm not you saying it's nine months enough time after

1658
01:19:26.840 --> 01:19:28.399
<v Speaker 7>after coming out of a ten year marriage?

1659
01:19:28.439 --> 01:19:31.279
<v Speaker 8>Is nine months too long? Was not enough time?

1660
01:19:31.520 --> 01:19:34.079
<v Speaker 1>It's nine months too short of a time to fall

1661
01:19:34.119 --> 01:19:36.560
<v Speaker 1>in love with someone new after a teen year.

1662
01:19:36.439 --> 01:19:46.239
<v Speaker 3>Marriage, My girl, you're talking about.

1663
01:19:46.960 --> 01:19:47.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell you what.

1664
01:19:48.000 --> 01:19:49.960
<v Speaker 2>A majority of the confusion is gonna come in right

1665
01:19:50.000 --> 01:19:53.000
<v Speaker 2>now is probably looking at the camera like this, niggas

1666
01:19:53.000 --> 01:19:55.479
<v Speaker 2>in a relationship, everybody is confused.

1667
01:19:55.840 --> 01:19:57.439
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna need a little bit of clarification.

1668
01:19:58.000 --> 01:20:03.239
<v Speaker 3>I think that's the end of the show. Yo. Listen, Hey, listen.

1669
01:20:03.760 --> 01:20:07.119
<v Speaker 4>GB just says something so crazy on this show listen, man,

1670
01:20:07.199 --> 01:20:07.800
<v Speaker 4>that y'all.

1671
01:20:07.600 --> 01:20:11.239
<v Speaker 3>Don't even understand. He about to get it. I can't

1672
01:20:11.359 --> 01:20:12.760
<v Speaker 3>believe what he just said.

1673
01:20:13.800 --> 01:20:17.119
<v Speaker 8>Never yo, bro, I've only been potting, like.

1674
01:20:17.239 --> 01:20:19.600
<v Speaker 4>Come on, man, oh man, one person is gonna be

1675
01:20:19.640 --> 01:20:21.920
<v Speaker 4>destroyed and one person might be like, oh shit, this

1676
01:20:22.159 --> 01:20:22.399
<v Speaker 4>was up.

1677
01:20:23.000 --> 01:20:25.479
<v Speaker 3>I cannot all right, I'm gonna answer nine months is

1678
01:20:25.520 --> 01:20:29.439
<v Speaker 3>too short, never to all the way dive in. But

1679
01:20:29.520 --> 01:20:31.760
<v Speaker 3>I can't say that you can't have those feelings before

1680
01:20:31.880 --> 01:20:34.920
<v Speaker 3>nine months. And the reason why I'm saying, when you

1681
01:20:35.079 --> 01:20:39.760
<v Speaker 3>invest a decade with somebody, right coming from experience, that

1682
01:20:39.960 --> 01:20:42.720
<v Speaker 3>person becomes so much a part of your life. Just

1683
01:20:42.840 --> 01:20:46.000
<v Speaker 3>watching Game of Thrones at a certain time, just fucking you.

1684
01:20:46.399 --> 01:20:49.000
<v Speaker 3>You have a routine with this person. So even though

1685
01:20:49.079 --> 01:20:51.479
<v Speaker 3>you find the love of your life in this next person,

1686
01:20:52.119 --> 01:20:55.520
<v Speaker 3>you can't really give them all that you can because

1687
01:20:55.560 --> 01:20:58.199
<v Speaker 3>when Game of Thrones come on, you still get that

1688
01:20:58.279 --> 01:21:02.840
<v Speaker 3>little feeling like that. Let me tell you that. Me

1689
01:21:02.920 --> 01:21:04.520
<v Speaker 3>tell you you know.

1690
01:21:07.279 --> 01:21:10.239
<v Speaker 2>For a second, if you're with somebody for ten years,

1691
01:21:10.840 --> 01:21:13.680
<v Speaker 2>when y'all break up, it's not just a moment of like, yo,

1692
01:21:13.760 --> 01:21:15.880
<v Speaker 2>I gotta get myself together and I gotta jump out

1693
01:21:15.880 --> 01:21:17.880
<v Speaker 2>in the streets. If you're with somebody for ten years,

1694
01:21:18.119 --> 01:21:20.840
<v Speaker 2>you also have to grieve because you're not even the

1695
01:21:20.880 --> 01:21:22.760
<v Speaker 2>person you was when you were with that person.

1696
01:21:25.640 --> 01:21:28.960
<v Speaker 4>Sometimes I'm grieving the last two years while you was

1697
01:21:29.000 --> 01:21:31.640
<v Speaker 4>with him. Yes, you already is like a decline.

1698
01:21:32.560 --> 01:21:34.800
<v Speaker 2>Even if your dad was an asshole, when he dies,

1699
01:21:34.840 --> 01:21:36.399
<v Speaker 2>you're still gonna have to grieve your dad.

1700
01:21:36.680 --> 01:21:38.399
<v Speaker 1>So whether you're grieving the good or the bad, and

1701
01:21:38.479 --> 01:21:39.600
<v Speaker 1>you still have to grieve, you.

1702
01:21:39.640 --> 01:21:41.479
<v Speaker 3>Could be a total stranger. You can see the same

1703
01:21:41.680 --> 01:21:45.520
<v Speaker 3>mail man for ten for ten years, and he's mister Bob,

1704
01:21:45.600 --> 01:21:48.560
<v Speaker 3>the mailman, and then you find out mister Bob dies.

1705
01:21:48.680 --> 01:21:52.279
<v Speaker 3>Now he only delivered mail. You're gonna feel sorrow for

1706
01:21:52.399 --> 01:21:57.640
<v Speaker 3>mister and I got Bob. But that's bo.

1707
01:21:58.239 --> 01:22:01.359
<v Speaker 7>But if in that ten years time you broke up,

1708
01:22:01.760 --> 01:22:04.880
<v Speaker 7>got back together, broke up, got back together, broke up.

1709
01:22:04.960 --> 01:22:07.000
<v Speaker 7>So mister Bob and the mailman for ten years, but

1710
01:22:07.399 --> 01:22:08.600
<v Speaker 7>he took two years off.

1711
01:22:08.520 --> 01:22:10.039
<v Speaker 3>And now no, he keep doing.

1712
01:22:11.640 --> 01:22:14.439
<v Speaker 1>Ten year marriage, y'all. We're talking about a ten year marriage.

1713
01:22:14.720 --> 01:22:17.199
<v Speaker 8>But we separated, all right, we argued, we separated.

1714
01:22:17.239 --> 01:22:19.199
<v Speaker 3>I moved out the crib right now.

1715
01:22:19.920 --> 01:22:22.520
<v Speaker 7>And you you know, we separated for let's say a year,

1716
01:22:23.159 --> 01:22:25.920
<v Speaker 7>separated for a year, we got back together, then we

1717
01:22:26.079 --> 01:22:28.399
<v Speaker 7>separated for three four months, got back together.

1718
01:22:28.439 --> 01:22:32.359
<v Speaker 8>It's like, yo, the relationship was already dying so once.

1719
01:22:32.479 --> 01:22:36.239
<v Speaker 7>So once we broke up, broke up, it's like yo,

1720
01:22:36.319 --> 01:22:38.479
<v Speaker 7>it'd be like it was already grieved.

1721
01:22:39.439 --> 01:22:42.600
<v Speaker 2>It's a difference between the relationship is already dying and

1722
01:22:42.680 --> 01:22:46.239
<v Speaker 2>the relationship was dead. Okay, If it was that bad,

1723
01:22:46.560 --> 01:22:48.439
<v Speaker 2>it was no reason to drag it out for two years.

1724
01:22:48.560 --> 01:22:50.720
<v Speaker 2>You were dragging it out because you were holding onto something.

1725
01:22:50.880 --> 01:22:51.680
<v Speaker 3>You was dragging it out.

1726
01:22:51.720 --> 01:22:53.119
<v Speaker 4>No, no, no, it was you was dragging it out

1727
01:22:53.159 --> 01:22:55.760
<v Speaker 4>because y'all were too invested in other things. It ain't

1728
01:22:55.800 --> 01:22:59.000
<v Speaker 4>the person that I'm with. This motherfucker.

1729
01:22:59.279 --> 01:23:00.279
<v Speaker 3>We got this hard.

1730
01:23:00.399 --> 01:23:03.399
<v Speaker 4>No, we it's like we got We're connected to all

1731
01:23:03.439 --> 01:23:04.279
<v Speaker 4>this bullshit.

1732
01:23:04.479 --> 01:23:07.119
<v Speaker 1>And I'm technically supposed to love you. I said I

1733
01:23:07.239 --> 01:23:07.920
<v Speaker 1>was going to love you.

1734
01:23:08.119 --> 01:23:09.880
<v Speaker 8>But you love somebody and not like them.

1735
01:23:10.920 --> 01:23:14.039
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, yeah, but you're a grieving that part of

1736
01:23:14.159 --> 01:23:15.520
<v Speaker 1>you too. That is what I'm saying.

1737
01:23:15.720 --> 01:23:18.760
<v Speaker 4>When you meet that new person, I ain't even thinking

1738
01:23:18.800 --> 01:23:21.039
<v Speaker 4>about you, bitch, moved on to some new ship.

1739
01:23:21.399 --> 01:23:28.720
<v Speaker 3>That's how you feel. That's the word.

1740
01:23:30.039 --> 01:23:31.119
<v Speaker 1>That's what I happen right now.

1741
01:23:36.239 --> 01:23:38.199
<v Speaker 3>I think men and this is this is the guy

1742
01:23:38.239 --> 01:23:40.920
<v Speaker 3>out of you. I think they're not honest with themselves right,

1743
01:23:41.119 --> 01:23:43.199
<v Speaker 3>and I think I might be guilty of it too.

1744
01:23:43.800 --> 01:23:45.880
<v Speaker 3>When we're out of that ship, were so like, man,

1745
01:23:45.960 --> 01:23:48.399
<v Speaker 3>fuck that like that ship over that ship was miserable

1746
01:23:48.439 --> 01:23:50.640
<v Speaker 3>for two years. But you don't count. We think of

1747
01:23:50.720 --> 01:23:54.800
<v Speaker 3>relationship is not just the intimacy part. It's the human

1748
01:23:54.880 --> 01:23:58.399
<v Speaker 3>side of relationships that you don't realize. Like, Yo, every

1749
01:23:58.479 --> 01:24:01.000
<v Speaker 3>day Eastern me and her her my kids used to

1750
01:24:01.079 --> 01:24:03.960
<v Speaker 3>fucking Easter egg hunt. Now I'm it's little things like that.

1751
01:24:04.079 --> 01:24:07.479
<v Speaker 3>We're not saying you give a about being with her.

1752
01:24:08.359 --> 01:24:10.840
<v Speaker 3>You just like some parts that that became a part

1753
01:24:10.840 --> 01:24:12.680
<v Speaker 3>of your life is different at the team. Yeah, you

1754
01:24:12.760 --> 01:24:20.000
<v Speaker 3>got a big booty Latina. Now the motherfucker like whatever, whatever. Easter.

1755
01:24:21.359 --> 01:24:27.800
<v Speaker 8>It's like, I mean, bro, it's like taking your your hotter, bro.

1756
01:24:29.319 --> 01:24:30.720
<v Speaker 3>Like the miss Bro.

1757
01:24:31.159 --> 01:24:33.800
<v Speaker 7>I'm just saying, like, Yo, you think they care about

1758
01:24:33.840 --> 01:24:37.520
<v Speaker 7>they think they missed Eastern they missed Like like no,

1759
01:24:37.680 --> 01:24:40.880
<v Speaker 7>it's like I'm on, I'm onto something that's greater.

1760
01:24:41.119 --> 01:24:43.840
<v Speaker 8>That's one of something greater. I don't care about. I don't.

1761
01:24:44.119 --> 01:24:46.039
<v Speaker 8>I grew up my whole life so to bring Easter

1762
01:24:46.319 --> 01:24:47.560
<v Speaker 8>and Martin Luther.

1763
01:24:47.479 --> 01:24:56.960
<v Speaker 4>King Day, Miss Christmas, Muslim niggas, miss what the President.

1764
01:24:57.119 --> 01:24:59.800
<v Speaker 7>You gotta also understand even as I got older, bro,

1765
01:25:00.079 --> 01:25:02.479
<v Speaker 7>like I don't really bang with Thanksgiving like that, Like

1766
01:25:02.560 --> 01:25:03.920
<v Speaker 7>you know what I'm saying, Like, it's like, yo, you

1767
01:25:03.960 --> 01:25:08.720
<v Speaker 7>you you grow and you become a different person sometimes

1768
01:25:08.760 --> 01:25:11.119
<v Speaker 7>it's a relief to kind of find yourself and find

1769
01:25:11.159 --> 01:25:12.720
<v Speaker 7>out like, damn, you.

1770
01:25:12.840 --> 01:25:17.720
<v Speaker 1>Can't make bake mac and cheese. Just say that, you

1771
01:25:18.399 --> 01:25:18.680
<v Speaker 1>guess what.

1772
01:25:18.960 --> 01:25:19.479
<v Speaker 3>Let me ask you.

1773
01:25:19.520 --> 01:25:22.319
<v Speaker 4>Something, Jake, my girl can let me ask you something?

1774
01:25:23.479 --> 01:25:27.560
<v Speaker 4>We can well, I can't say we're gonna but you

1775
01:25:27.680 --> 01:25:30.319
<v Speaker 4>don't funk with Thanksgiving? But how much do you love turkey?

1776
01:25:32.840 --> 01:25:33.399
<v Speaker 3>I love.

1777
01:25:34.840 --> 01:25:35.600
<v Speaker 8>I love a turkey.

1778
01:25:37.760 --> 01:25:43.079
<v Speaker 1>You know, we learned so much today and I'm just

1779
01:25:43.239 --> 01:25:44.560
<v Speaker 1>so happy in your opinion.

1780
01:25:44.640 --> 01:25:48.359
<v Speaker 3>Before we get out of here, I'm curious, how do

1781
01:25:48.439 --> 01:25:49.399
<v Speaker 3>you feel about that question?

1782
01:25:49.439 --> 01:25:51.479
<v Speaker 2>It's not much too sure to fall in love with

1783
01:25:51.560 --> 01:25:54.479
<v Speaker 2>somebody after a ten year marriage. I'm going to say yes.

1784
01:25:55.359 --> 01:25:57.119
<v Speaker 2>And the only reason I'm going to say yes is

1785
01:25:57.159 --> 01:26:01.079
<v Speaker 2>because after a ten year marriage, you should have learned

1786
01:26:01.840 --> 01:26:04.159
<v Speaker 2>that love is not something that you can throw around lightly.

1787
01:26:04.560 --> 01:26:06.520
<v Speaker 2>If you stuck in this shit for ten years, it's

1788
01:26:06.560 --> 01:26:08.279
<v Speaker 2>because it was shit that you liked, it was shit

1789
01:26:08.359 --> 01:26:10.039
<v Speaker 2>that you didn't like, and it was shit that you

1790
01:26:10.319 --> 01:26:12.840
<v Speaker 2>obviously couldn't get over because you're now no longer in

1791
01:26:12.880 --> 01:26:16.279
<v Speaker 2>that marriage. Right, If you think in nine months you

1792
01:26:16.479 --> 01:26:20.000
<v Speaker 2>have found all the things that you could not find

1793
01:26:20.039 --> 01:26:22.880
<v Speaker 2>in this ten year marriage, that's just not even being

1794
01:26:23.000 --> 01:26:25.760
<v Speaker 2>honest with yourself. And don't get me wrong, that person

1795
01:26:25.920 --> 01:26:28.079
<v Speaker 2>might end up being your soulmate. It might be the

1796
01:26:28.079 --> 01:26:29.439
<v Speaker 2>person you end up being with for the rest of

1797
01:26:29.479 --> 01:26:33.119
<v Speaker 2>your life. But you haven't had enough time to You

1798
01:26:33.199 --> 01:26:35.199
<v Speaker 2>don't even know how they act on your birthday. You

1799
01:26:35.279 --> 01:26:37.159
<v Speaker 2>don't know how to act on her birthday. You don't

1800
01:26:37.199 --> 01:26:39.319
<v Speaker 2>know how they act on holidays. You don't know how

1801
01:26:39.359 --> 01:26:41.720
<v Speaker 2>they react to grief. You don't know how they react

1802
01:26:41.760 --> 01:26:44.439
<v Speaker 2>to celebrations. You don't know how they react to being

1803
01:26:44.520 --> 01:26:46.760
<v Speaker 2>around family members X, Y and Z. You just haven't

1804
01:26:46.760 --> 01:26:50.840
<v Speaker 2>put in the time preach coming off of a traumatic experience,

1805
01:26:50.840 --> 01:26:53.560
<v Speaker 2>because a ten year marriage is a traumatic experience. Coming

1806
01:26:53.600 --> 01:26:56.600
<v Speaker 2>off a traumatic experience, nine months is not enough to

1807
01:26:56.760 --> 01:26:59.680
<v Speaker 2>just throw away and just say yo, no now I'm

1808
01:26:59.720 --> 01:26:59.920
<v Speaker 2>in love.

1809
01:27:00.159 --> 01:27:05.199
<v Speaker 8>Shit nine days is but listen, I don't give listen.

1810
01:27:05.479 --> 01:27:07.800
<v Speaker 7>If we was in a ten year marriage, all that

1811
01:27:07.960 --> 01:27:10.199
<v Speaker 7>birthday and all of that stuff, none of that shit

1812
01:27:10.279 --> 01:27:12.640
<v Speaker 7>don't matter, And it don't got nothing to really do

1813
01:27:12.880 --> 01:27:15.560
<v Speaker 7>with the other person. It got to do with the

1814
01:27:15.760 --> 01:27:18.960
<v Speaker 7>way that the marriage ended, because guess what you could

1815
01:27:18.960 --> 01:27:21.359
<v Speaker 7>have been with a nigga that was whipping your ass, right,

1816
01:27:21.840 --> 01:27:23.680
<v Speaker 7>It don't got nothing to do with the fact that

1817
01:27:23.760 --> 01:27:26.199
<v Speaker 7>you met this other dude. It got everything to do

1818
01:27:26.319 --> 01:27:28.720
<v Speaker 7>with the fact that you relieved that I don't gotta

1819
01:27:28.760 --> 01:27:30.279
<v Speaker 7>get my ass whipped on Wednesdays.

1820
01:27:30.680 --> 01:27:33.239
<v Speaker 8>So a lot of times it depends.

1821
01:27:32.840 --> 01:27:35.159
<v Speaker 7>If I was already in the dark room and I

1822
01:27:35.319 --> 01:27:38.319
<v Speaker 7>was already going, like I was already healing and going

1823
01:27:38.439 --> 01:27:41.199
<v Speaker 7>through it while I was actually in it, like because

1824
01:27:41.279 --> 01:27:43.640
<v Speaker 7>people do that, like it's like it's like it's like

1825
01:27:43.680 --> 01:27:46.239
<v Speaker 7>with women. It's like when you when you messle with

1826
01:27:46.279 --> 01:27:48.279
<v Speaker 7>a women, right, and they say, well, when the women

1827
01:27:48.359 --> 01:27:50.239
<v Speaker 7>get quiet and she mentally checked out.

1828
01:27:50.520 --> 01:27:53.479
<v Speaker 8>Y'all could still be living in the same cred but

1829
01:27:54.239 --> 01:27:55.640
<v Speaker 8>she already gone.

1830
01:27:56.279 --> 01:27:58.960
<v Speaker 4>So when I'm hating to have ten years of birthdays

1831
01:27:59.039 --> 01:28:01.000
<v Speaker 4>with the person I'm married before I fell in love

1832
01:28:01.079 --> 01:28:02.279
<v Speaker 4>with them, I think.

1833
01:28:02.159 --> 01:28:04.720
<v Speaker 2>Another part to add on to that is in that

1834
01:28:05.039 --> 01:28:09.119
<v Speaker 2>nine months or however or however much time you had

1835
01:28:09.439 --> 01:28:14.000
<v Speaker 2>since you're divorce, did you learn whatever lesson you didn't

1836
01:28:14.039 --> 01:28:15.920
<v Speaker 2>know while you were in that ten year marriage, and

1837
01:28:16.039 --> 01:28:18.000
<v Speaker 2>did you learn how to avoid it for the next one,

1838
01:28:18.159 --> 01:28:20.600
<v Speaker 2>Because a lot of times people jump back into what's

1839
01:28:20.680 --> 01:28:22.279
<v Speaker 2>familiar and not what's better.

1840
01:28:22.680 --> 01:28:24.800
<v Speaker 7>So let me say this, right, and I'm going to

1841
01:28:24.880 --> 01:28:29.119
<v Speaker 7>really speak from experience, no jokes. Right, And the last year, right,

1842
01:28:29.239 --> 01:28:31.840
<v Speaker 7>I was in a ten year relationship, And the last

1843
01:28:32.079 --> 01:28:35.439
<v Speaker 7>year that I was in that relationship, I spent that

1844
01:28:35.800 --> 01:28:40.279
<v Speaker 7>last year noticing my eye, like the war was kind

1845
01:28:40.319 --> 01:28:42.720
<v Speaker 7>of pulled over my eyes. And I spent that last

1846
01:28:42.800 --> 01:28:48.520
<v Speaker 7>year noticing everything I really didn't like about the relationship,

1847
01:28:48.600 --> 01:28:51.880
<v Speaker 7>as opposed to just going through it and going off

1848
01:28:51.920 --> 01:28:55.319
<v Speaker 7>of feelings. Now I'm not going off of feelings. I'm

1849
01:28:55.439 --> 01:28:57.720
<v Speaker 7>using this up here, and it's like, damn, you know what,

1850
01:28:58.520 --> 01:29:01.760
<v Speaker 7>I really don't like that. You know what, I really

1851
01:29:01.800 --> 01:29:06.239
<v Speaker 7>don't like this food. I really don't like this TV show.

1852
01:29:06.479 --> 01:29:10.279
<v Speaker 7>I really don't like So you can still be there because,

1853
01:29:10.359 --> 01:29:13.720
<v Speaker 7>like dev said, you got mortgage, you got cornels, you

1854
01:29:13.840 --> 01:29:17.439
<v Speaker 7>got businesses, kids, you got you got other things that's

1855
01:29:17.520 --> 01:29:20.880
<v Speaker 7>really keeping you there that don't necessarily got nothing to

1856
01:29:20.960 --> 01:29:22.079
<v Speaker 7>do with the person.

1857
01:29:22.319 --> 01:29:24.319
<v Speaker 4>And sometimes you so checked out, but you might like

1858
01:29:24.399 --> 01:29:26.600
<v Speaker 4>some people are checked out of a relationship but don't

1859
01:29:26.680 --> 01:29:30.039
<v Speaker 4>have a dramatic reason to leave, Like it's not like

1860
01:29:30.159 --> 01:29:32.920
<v Speaker 4>somebody cheated, it's not like somebody did nothing. It's like

1861
01:29:33.199 --> 01:29:35.479
<v Speaker 4>a nigga but could be in a relationship for three

1862
01:29:36.039 --> 01:29:39.319
<v Speaker 4>like he inn at ten year relationship last three He like,

1863
01:29:39.640 --> 01:29:43.159
<v Speaker 4>I don't even fuck with this person. I'm here because

1864
01:29:43.159 --> 01:29:44.840
<v Speaker 4>I don't got no reason.

1865
01:29:44.800 --> 01:29:46.880
<v Speaker 7>That here because I want to see my my I

1866
01:29:46.960 --> 01:29:49.039
<v Speaker 7>wanted my daughter to see me. I make my daughter

1867
01:29:49.119 --> 01:29:50.119
<v Speaker 7>pancakes every morning.

1868
01:29:50.199 --> 01:29:51.600
<v Speaker 3>I enjoy making her pancakes.

1869
01:29:51.640 --> 01:29:54.079
<v Speaker 7>I enjoy making her pancakes. It has nothing to do

1870
01:29:54.199 --> 01:29:56.640
<v Speaker 7>with the motherfucker that's actually in the rum. And once

1871
01:29:56.720 --> 01:29:59.000
<v Speaker 7>you out of it, you like, you know what, I

1872
01:29:59.079 --> 01:29:59.760
<v Speaker 7>cat dying?

1873
01:30:00.079 --> 01:30:03.000
<v Speaker 3>You know what I'm done? Pancakes.

1874
01:30:04.039 --> 01:30:06.720
<v Speaker 1>I think out of it is one part of it.

1875
01:30:07.560 --> 01:30:10.319
<v Speaker 2>Other part of it is have I learned to not

1876
01:30:10.560 --> 01:30:13.359
<v Speaker 2>make that mistake again if it's in a different color.

1877
01:30:14.039 --> 01:30:16.119
<v Speaker 4>No, because it's not about Because this is the other

1878
01:30:16.199 --> 01:30:19.239
<v Speaker 4>part we talked about. People change. I don't give a

1879
01:30:19.319 --> 01:30:22.279
<v Speaker 4>fuck who I meet this day. This girl I meet now,

1880
01:30:22.720 --> 01:30:25.359
<v Speaker 4>she might be a different motherfucker ten years, you know

1881
01:30:25.399 --> 01:30:28.199
<v Speaker 4>what I'm saying. So we can never help or what

1882
01:30:28.439 --> 01:30:30.760
<v Speaker 4>somebody else is going to do. People marry serial killers,

1883
01:30:31.119 --> 01:30:34.439
<v Speaker 4>people marry people who I might get with a girl,

1884
01:30:34.520 --> 01:30:37.439
<v Speaker 4>and everything is beautiful. And then, like what we were

1885
01:30:37.520 --> 01:30:40.880
<v Speaker 4>just saying, he brought up, you know, a church, and

1886
01:30:40.960 --> 01:30:45.159
<v Speaker 4>it made that comparison maybe my wife, my new girl

1887
01:30:45.239 --> 01:30:46.800
<v Speaker 4>that I fell in love with in the nine months

1888
01:30:47.079 --> 01:30:50.640
<v Speaker 4>maybe six years from now, she get the holy feeling

1889
01:30:50.760 --> 01:30:52.720
<v Speaker 4>and want to go super church and I don't.

1890
01:30:52.960 --> 01:30:53.800
<v Speaker 3>I don't break up.

1891
01:30:54.159 --> 01:30:55.960
<v Speaker 7>It don't even have to be something bad. We just

1892
01:30:56.039 --> 01:31:00.119
<v Speaker 7>start growing in different Summarize it real quick. Sometimes you

1893
01:31:00.359 --> 01:31:05.520
<v Speaker 7>just ready for some different problems. You you're mature enough

1894
01:31:05.600 --> 01:31:09.600
<v Speaker 7>to understand that. Yo, this I've been I've been going

1895
01:31:09.640 --> 01:31:13.760
<v Speaker 7>through this over here. So even though I'm with this

1896
01:31:14.000 --> 01:31:16.920
<v Speaker 7>person now, it's like, Yo, even if it don't work out,

1897
01:31:17.319 --> 01:31:17.800
<v Speaker 7>I'm ready.

1898
01:31:17.920 --> 01:31:19.640
<v Speaker 8>I'm ready for some different problems.

1899
01:31:19.680 --> 01:31:22.680
<v Speaker 7>I'm willing to accept the problems that come with it

1900
01:31:23.079 --> 01:31:24.119
<v Speaker 7>just because it's different.

1901
01:31:24.319 --> 01:31:24.600
<v Speaker 3>I don't.

1902
01:31:24.720 --> 01:31:26.439
<v Speaker 7>I don't want to go through the same thing. I'm

1903
01:31:26.479 --> 01:31:29.039
<v Speaker 7>mature enough to know, like, Yo, this person is different.

1904
01:31:29.119 --> 01:31:31.239
<v Speaker 7>Not to say that they don't come with issues, but

1905
01:31:31.319 --> 01:31:32.680
<v Speaker 7>I'm ready for some different issues.

1906
01:31:33.039 --> 01:31:35.880
<v Speaker 3>Damn. That's that's that's arts.

1907
01:31:36.000 --> 01:31:36.600
<v Speaker 1>I appreciate that.

1908
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<v Speaker 2>I don't agree, but I appreciate it. I think that's

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<v Speaker 2>that's a real lation to say. So listen, man, let

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<v Speaker 2>me tell you something. If you enjoyed today's conversation, come

1911
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<v Speaker 2>see this crazy ass shit live.

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<v Speaker 10>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>April thirteenth at Punchline, we got chocolate ship and said

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<v Speaker 2>podcast we got to Talk Heavy.

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<v Speaker 1>Podcast, y'all talk to me, Talk to me what we

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<v Speaker 1>got going on?

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<v Speaker 7>All we could do is garm and tea that somebody

1918
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<v Speaker 7>is going to win the date witch stormy on Talk Heavy.

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<v Speaker 7>You know what I'm saying. Listen, fellas, don't take her

1920
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<v Speaker 7>to the movies, don't don't, don't beat her and be

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<v Speaker 7>clearly good at games. Don't don't don't do that, don't

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<v Speaker 7>get up.

1923
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<v Speaker 1>I just want to say one thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Excuse me for wanting a fucking top tier competitive ass nigga.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me tell you. Excuse me?

1926
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<v Speaker 1>Who do I think I am?

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<v Speaker 8>You not even thorough enough to let the nigga win?

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<v Speaker 3>He told me that was my question.

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<v Speaker 1>Was I supposed to let her?

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<v Speaker 3>Wait?

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<v Speaker 4>Wait wait he's a sore loser, right, Yeah, that means

1932
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<v Speaker 4>that he's a top tier competitive nigga. Michael Jordan is

1933
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<v Speaker 4>the most top tier competitive nigga on the plane.

1934
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<v Speaker 2>And that nigga was mad about every fucking But you

1935
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<v Speaker 2>know what, and Michael will tell you I took that

1936
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<v Speaker 2>personally and then worked.

1937
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<v Speaker 1>On it to get better.

1938
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<v Speaker 3>He didn't turn around on the top of you didn't

1939
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<v Speaker 3>get my chance though.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't one on why because he was a sore loser.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll say this, if you see come out April thirteenth

1942
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<v Speaker 3>and find your.

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<v Speaker 7>So I'm gonna also tell you if you in a

1944
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<v Speaker 7>relationship and you come with your girl to this show,

1945
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<v Speaker 7>is a possibility you might get in trouble.

1946
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<v Speaker 3>Bring it to show as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, let me tell you something. If your partner but

1948
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<v Speaker 2>on some bullshit and you want to know if you're

1949
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<v Speaker 2>tripping or not, come to the show and just slide

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<v Speaker 2>a note.

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<v Speaker 3>In the bucket. Won't read it. We'll tell you if

1952
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<v Speaker 3>you're trip it or not. How about that? How about that?

1953
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<v Speaker 2>Especially if you're the nigga who was in this ten

1954
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<v Speaker 2>year marriage, bring your nine month boo to the show

1955
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<v Speaker 2>and we're gonna let you know it's short fall in

1956
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<v Speaker 2>love or not.

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<v Speaker 4>People that wear condoms come to the show. People that

1958
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<v Speaker 4>don't wear condoms and exclusively go row come to the show.

1959
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<v Speaker 1>No, you don't have to come, go be there.

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<v Speaker 3>We want everybody here. Man.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, people that don't wear condoms will be on state

1962
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<v Speaker 8>all right, We'll.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell people where to find what the fuck it's gonna

1964
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<v Speaker 1>be one of them. It won't be the ladies. Let's

1965
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<v Speaker 1>just say that. Tell the people where to find y'all.

1966
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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you can find us at the talk Kivvye Pop podcast.

1967
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<v Speaker 4>That's where you can find me, and.

1968
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<v Speaker 8>Find us on the Devin Waight Network. You can just

1969
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<v Speaker 8>go to YouTube.

1970
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<v Speaker 7>You could go to Talk Heavy podcast on I G

1971
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<v Speaker 7>to Talk Heavy podcast on TikTok to Talk Heavy podcast,

1972
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<v Speaker 7>you know what I mean. You can send your questions

1973
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<v Speaker 7>that your relationship questions and issues to the d m

1974
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<v Speaker 7>s the Talk Heavy Podcast.

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<v Speaker 8>We promise we won't help.

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<v Speaker 4>My help.

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<v Speaker 7>Uh no, we won't help you in our email the

1978
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<v Speaker 7>Talk Heavy Podcast at gmail dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm just so blessed and thankful for you all.

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<v Speaker 7>And shout out one. I'm sorry, and shout out our

1981
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<v Speaker 7>sponsor of the Talk Heavy podcast.

1982
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<v Speaker 3>Do it, don't do it?

1983
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<v Speaker 8>No, do it no, shout out our sponsor Cherry Hill, abortion.

1984
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<v Speaker 4>Man. We probably can't put no real advertisement on here.

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<v Speaker 2>Keeping with hey, listen, I'm very pro team sit on

1986
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<v Speaker 2>that table, so get your money and I appreciate it.

1987
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<v Speaker 3>Thank you. I don't feel so good. You got one kid,

1988
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<v Speaker 3>but the other ones are somewhere.

1989
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<v Speaker 2>Follow me on the ground, ask for me. P p

1990
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<v Speaker 2>e A at chocolate chip and sip. And if you

1991
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<v Speaker 2>don't remember anything else, please.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember in the yard.

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<v Speaker 5>Fly.

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<v Speaker 1>I love you guys. Don't see you next week. Peace,