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Speaker 1: What an intro, guys, what an intro? Already?
Speaker 2: I wanted to kick you all out and this is
Speaker 2: all spots get crazy crazy, So y'all, I'm gonna be real.
Speaker 2: If I can be honest.
Speaker 3: If I can be honest, that's what we're for.
Speaker 2: So last week I had a clip going viral and
Speaker 2: I wanted to discuss right. So in the clip, I said,
Speaker 2: every woman needs a platonic male friend because it's nothing
Speaker 2: like hearing you being stupid about a man from a man.
Speaker 1: Right At first, I wanted to get your thoughts agree
Speaker 1: or disagree.
Speaker 4: From from a man like a nigga sitting around waiting
Speaker 4: to foot see.
Speaker 1: And that that's what I had to add in. This
Speaker 1: is a very good point, very good point.
Speaker 2: No, right, So, I don't mean those guys that like
Speaker 2: try to crack on you and you put them in
Speaker 2: the friend zone and then like they honestly just sitting
Speaker 2: around waiting for you to change your mind.
Speaker 1: I don't mean.
Speaker 4: Nothing anybody changed your mind before hell no, oh, come on.
Speaker 2: Hell story an, I'm on mym.
Speaker 4: So every nigga that you fuck, you already do you're gonna.
Speaker 2: When you met him, every nigga I fucked, I knew
Speaker 2: I was gonna fuck him within the first thirty seconds.
Speaker 1: I told you that it's real. It's real, it's real.
Speaker 4: You know how.
Speaker 1: I take that back, Maybe not thirty seconds.
Speaker 2: I might have waited like a date or two for
Speaker 2: a few but I pretty much knew, like this is
Speaker 2: gonna be great, this is not gonna one are the other.
Speaker 3: Okay, I do agree that having an honest platonic keyword,
Speaker 3: I'm gonna go with your keyword me before. You gotta
Speaker 3: know the definition place means he thinks you ugly, yes,
Speaker 3: and he don't want bomb. Yes.
Speaker 1: First of all, nobody not he thinks you ugly. Take
Speaker 1: that out.
Speaker 3: Just check that out.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're completely not a type.
Speaker 2: No, you can think somebody is attractive, but you don't
Speaker 2: want to fuck them.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the thing.
Speaker 4: That's that's real.
Speaker 3: That's no. No, no, no, that's a real thing. That's
Speaker 3: a real thing.
Speaker 1: Okay, so one of them, one of them, I can
Speaker 1: recommend why you.
Speaker 3: Want him to think you attractive though.
Speaker 1: Oh he don't got to. I just know he do
Speaker 1: because I think I'm attractive. That's it.
Speaker 3: There you go. This is the reason why niggas don't
Speaker 3: want their girls to.
Speaker 4: Be I was gonna go off another because listen, because
Speaker 4: you're basically saying right now that a dude that's your friend.
Speaker 3: Thinks you're hot. You're hot.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So that's why when you get a boyfriend, he
Speaker 4: don't want you to be friends with them.
Speaker 3: Niggas.
Speaker 2: Okay, I can I give you a pin to that, right,
Speaker 2: So I can think a man is attractive, but.
Speaker 1: I can also say he's not my type.
Speaker 2: Like I can recognize you get bitches, but I don't
Speaker 2: like you, like me saying somebody like air Pierre. Half
Speaker 2: the fucking world will sit here and tell you air
Speaker 2: Pier fire as fuck, but he's not my type. But
Speaker 2: I can say he's attractive. I know he get bitches,
Speaker 2: but he's not my type.
Speaker 3: He's wait, he's not your type.
Speaker 4: Yeah, there a scenario in the universe where he could
Speaker 4: fuck no.
Speaker 2: And I'm gonna tell you why, right, And I'm gonna
Speaker 2: tell you why though. Right, Let's go back to no, No,
Speaker 2: Let's go back to.
Speaker 1: He's not my type.
Speaker 2: And the reason I say that is because if you
Speaker 2: are somebody who prefers, because everybody has purposes, if you're
Speaker 2: somebody who prefers somebody of a certain color, of a
Speaker 2: certain stature, of a certain body type, you can recognize, say, yo,
Speaker 2: I know you get bitches.
Speaker 3: Like white niggas. No, no, let me, let me, let
Speaker 3: me get in one thing to say, just like, just
Speaker 3: like gim saying you don't like that, let me ask
Speaker 3: you just never happened. And this is a woman thing.
Speaker 3: And I don't want to take the show left, but
Speaker 3: women lines are ninety percent of the time. He grew
Speaker 3: on me. Is that not a common woman line?
Speaker 1: I can't speak for women. I can't speak for me.
Speaker 3: Oh now, we don't speak for women on this.
Speaker 2: Previous episodes, I always say to me, for me, I
Speaker 2: me what I.
Speaker 7: Like say that every person that you slept wasn't your type.
Speaker 4: Come on, let's let's have a real Let's have a
Speaker 4: real conversation.
Speaker 1: Let's have a real conversation.
Speaker 2: I am a woman who at my big age, I
Speaker 2: have one child, right, I have only had four serious boyfriends.
Speaker 2: Every every let me get to saying every nigga who
Speaker 2: I slept with was my type.
Speaker 1: I've never had sex with a.
Speaker 2: Respect and when I say not my type.
Speaker 1: It's not for me.
Speaker 8: What exactly is your type? Let's get into that.
Speaker 1: D niggas, but ner niggas think I don't like them,
Speaker 1: because I'm fine ship. I believe that.
Speaker 8: Ship.
Speaker 2: Nerd niggas think I don't like them. I promise when
Speaker 2: I be going to these kinds and ship like that,
Speaker 2: niggas do.
Speaker 1: Not crack on me.
Speaker 8: They don't like comic con with your ass cheeks out.
Speaker 1: And that's part of the problem.
Speaker 2: When I be at these kinds, I be like full
Speaker 2: ugly meigga salt traps.
Speaker 4: Don't really you know, I got history with kN as well,
Speaker 4: and I don't really.
Speaker 1: I wish I could see how dope this room is.
Speaker 3: Honest, niggas don't.
Speaker 4: Niggas don't holler at con like that. It's a different
Speaker 4: type of thing that they do, but it's not hollering.
Speaker 2: So to me, what I've picked up is it's not
Speaker 2: exactly hollering. You just hang with somebody all day, okay,
Speaker 2: and then as the day doing those down, It's like,
Speaker 2: so what you're doing, what you're doing, what you're trying
Speaker 2: to do.
Speaker 1: And that's how niggas end up.
Speaker 8: Question about the the whole kind thing. Right.
Speaker 7: It's like when y'all there and y'all like got these
Speaker 7: costumes on, y'all be like like y'all the people like.
Speaker 2: That's part of constant you embody.
Speaker 7: So I might like you, but I don't know that
Speaker 7: I want to hit the Pink Ranger from.
Speaker 1: The first of all, If you don't, who are you?
Speaker 3: Where did you grow up in?
Speaker 1: Honestly, growing up, everybody went the Pink Ranger come.
Speaker 3: On until because you know the words, not that show.
Speaker 2: Everybody wanted that Pink Raiser until the Yellow Ranger became black.
Speaker 3: That's a fact. That's a fact you didn't. Yeah, I
Speaker 3: just remember that.
Speaker 1: Yo, I'm CRIINGT. So what's the consensus?
Speaker 3: Agree, I disagree, I disagree, I don't disagree. I agree.
Speaker 3: I agree.
Speaker 4: I believe that think about us in our former co
Speaker 4: hosts and how we used to give knowledge and game
Speaker 4: and stuff like that, and now naturally we're older guys,
Speaker 4: so we felt fall into that category. But they do
Speaker 4: need that person that they respect their opinion that there's
Speaker 4: no like sexual things involved to like muddy up their advice.
Speaker 7: Also, I think that you should get advice from somebody
Speaker 7: who got good advice. I don't think it necessarily has
Speaker 7: to be a man of the opposite sex.
Speaker 3: I think it's who got the best.
Speaker 7: Advice, because you could be getting advice from another woman
Speaker 7: who got a lot of life experiences, who might have
Speaker 7: been ran through by a couple dudes or whatever.
Speaker 4: She might be a stud.
Speaker 8: Give great advice.
Speaker 7: I heard because they got they you know what I mean,
Speaker 7: they got kind of both sides, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 7: both the conversation.
Speaker 3: No, that's where I was going with you. I don't
Speaker 3: think sex matters when it comes to good advice. But also,
Speaker 3: can we be honest, how often did that oppos success
Speaker 3: sex listen to the man it took for them to
Speaker 3: be hard headed, go through the pain, then come back
Speaker 3: and say, you know what, guys, you were right.
Speaker 1: You got to much dip on your ship play. That's
Speaker 1: not really that's.
Speaker 3: Not really listening to the advice. I hear the advice,
Speaker 3: I store it, I go through all of the same
Speaker 3: nonsense regardless.
Speaker 8: And then I come back and tell you, y'all never
Speaker 8: listened to us.
Speaker 2: Learn you know a lot of what the comments in
Speaker 2: that clip was was men saying, y'all don't listen to
Speaker 2: us anyway, And you know, I just want to say,
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, man.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, but I think what you said goes both ways,
Speaker 4: because there's also benefits for the dude that has the
Speaker 4: female friend as well. She probably has friends for you
Speaker 4: to put your penis inside, you know, and and then
Speaker 4: you get to see how her and her friends move.
Speaker 4: And usually when you get you know, when they become
Speaker 4: friends with you, they don't care about how in their
Speaker 4: wholeness because you're just bro. So now you could truly
Speaker 4: see how slutty women are. They are diabolically sludy if
Speaker 4: they have their own apartment.
Speaker 2: I would like to change the word from diabolically to equally.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I'm going to say equally.
Speaker 4: It's not equal because your powers surpass ours you have.
Speaker 4: You know, she's a comic book dirt. These are alpha
Speaker 4: level mutants, Omega level noga Omega level mutants like Magneto,
Speaker 4: the way they can attract the opposite sex. If a
Speaker 4: woman has her own apartment, she's fucking what that.
Speaker 3: See.
Speaker 4: Men can be in their own apartment and be like,
Speaker 4: what the hell am I paying this rent for I
Speaker 4: ain't even got no bitches over here. I might as
Speaker 4: well be living with my mom. I might as well
Speaker 4: be living with my niggas. But a woman at any
Speaker 4: time that she get that craving, she.
Speaker 3: Can get it.
Speaker 4: She could pick up that phone, she could holler out,
Speaker 4: yell out the window if she wanted to, and Dick.
Speaker 3: Is just going to appear.
Speaker 8: Or she could just go to the gym and just
Speaker 8: post the results.
Speaker 3: With sweaty crotch every morning.
Speaker 1: The reason why all.
Speaker 7: Men who give advice are that is the quickest way
Speaker 7: into the female group chat for real, because what winds
Speaker 7: up happening is he ain't just giving you advice. He
Speaker 7: giving you that advice that you're going to take, and
Speaker 7: it's like you're going to take all the other women
Speaker 7: around you.
Speaker 8: Right, So we had a conversation.
Speaker 7: We had a conversation earlier, right, And this is something
Speaker 7: that I learned from death right.
Speaker 8: A lot of times.
Speaker 7: When when us as men give y'all advice, like let's say,
Speaker 7: fans as you was to call yo, GB, what's up?
Speaker 8: You know this niggas doing X, Y and Z.
Speaker 7: Quite naturally, what I'll do is I'll always agree with
Speaker 7: the dude to kind of throw you off of the
Speaker 7: scent that I'm really trying to get to you. So
Speaker 7: what I'll be like, I'm like, yeah, you gotta give
Speaker 7: him some grace, Like you know what I mean, go
Speaker 7: back to him and just say X, Y and Z.
Speaker 8: Yes.
Speaker 7: Now, what you don't realize is I'm controlling the whole
Speaker 7: entire narrative because I'm sending you back, I'm telling you
Speaker 7: what to say back to him.
Speaker 8: I'm changing I'm.
Speaker 3: He's leaving apart.
Speaker 4: The reason why is because you're already fixated on being
Speaker 4: mad at whoever the guy you're talking to. Right if
Speaker 4: I agree with him, you will never direct the energy
Speaker 4: to me. It actually makes you madter at him, at him.
Speaker 2: I just want to circle back to the point where
Speaker 2: I said, these are not.
Speaker 1: Men who wanted me.
Speaker 4: You are.
Speaker 1: We're just trying to I hear you.
Speaker 2: But here's my whole thing, right, none of y'all are
Speaker 2: related to me. If I called y'all with some ship
Speaker 2: right now, you're gonna give me honest advice. You give
Speaker 2: me some advice, So no answer the question, yes, exactly.
Speaker 2: So there are more dynamics of that in the universe
Speaker 2: that I feel like people like to agree to.
Speaker 4: So say, married niggas, yeah.
Speaker 3: Married, we are none of us a married man like
Speaker 3: we are.
Speaker 8: Yeah, we're kind of like married.
Speaker 1: Niggas.
Speaker 2: Ain't common law or illegally in this room right now?
Speaker 2: Nobody what you mean? What I said were ringing common law?
Speaker 3: Be we liveing in s Chris for seven years, and
Speaker 3: so you.
Speaker 1: Live with your butch for seven years?
Speaker 4: Three.
Speaker 1: I want to say you is not seven years. You
Speaker 1: might be, but you're not. You can't even keep a
Speaker 1: best for two weeks. Up, Up, just got back in
Speaker 1: these streets. Yeah, no, no, come here, Jim, ain't got
Speaker 1: no bit come out.
Speaker 8: Crazy.
Speaker 7: Ain't know what's crazy since you've known me, right, I
Speaker 7: probably was in a relationship longer than both of these
Speaker 7: Niggas's up.
Speaker 3: That's a lot, girl.
Speaker 1: Every time I come and must he has between.
Speaker 3: I had some breakers here the break I was in
Speaker 3: the street for thirty six hours. Listen, listen, listen, listen, listen, listen.
Speaker 4: The nigga, the nigga has been been in the relationship forever.
Speaker 4: He'll have a flash breakup and then they're right back together.
Speaker 1: I am here at every o, my mom, I am
Speaker 1: here at every flash breakup, yes or no?
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, yes, but.
Speaker 7: Say the thing about it is also people kind of
Speaker 7: confused with the way that I talk on talk heavy.
Speaker 7: People assume they sing know that I'm single, because no girl,
Speaker 7: no woman would.
Speaker 1: With one fact.
Speaker 3: I want to get back to you platonic, So let
Speaker 3: me let me then, So what's that you do not
Speaker 3: want to fuck? I'm a clear a girl that you're
Speaker 3: just your friend that you're not attracted to. Right, yes,
Speaker 3: let's go with that.
Speaker 1: That's the thing.
Speaker 3: Okay, that's the thing.
Speaker 7: If you're a mill and I want to talk to him,
Speaker 7: I'm just saying, like, how many like like this is
Speaker 7: a scenario. I think that there's like a anception to
Speaker 7: the rule, like how many people? How many ugly people
Speaker 7: do you talk to to day?
Speaker 1: It's not about.
Speaker 3: How unattractive people do you talk.
Speaker 1: It's not about being unattractive. If you like tall, slim chicks.
Speaker 2: If there is a fine ass, thick woman, you can
Speaker 2: look at her, it's like, yo, she she bad as shit,
Speaker 2: But that's not my type.
Speaker 3: No, I wouldn't say that.
Speaker 1: What would you say?
Speaker 8: You said, she's thick?
Speaker 3: Like fat? I can't get past this.
Speaker 4: You've never people have types right in everything, and I'm
Speaker 4: talking about I'm talking about there's types in everything. I
Speaker 4: like a certain genre of music. That don't mean that
Speaker 4: that country song right there, I fuck with that. You
Speaker 4: never liked the nigga that was outside of your type before,
Speaker 4: you can like.
Speaker 1: People that are outside your type.
Speaker 2: But I feel like another piece that we're missing is
Speaker 2: when you get close enough with somebody, you learn things
Speaker 2: about that person. So they may be your type, but
Speaker 2: you might also be close enough to know they're a
Speaker 2: trash ass fucking person. You can get close enough to somebody,
Speaker 2: but like, YO, they're.
Speaker 1: Fine as shit. But I also know you don't wash
Speaker 1: your feet in the shower. I also know you don't
Speaker 1: like taking care.
Speaker 3: Of your kids. Unless she was in the showroom.
Speaker 1: Conversations come up, conversations come up.
Speaker 2: You can hear ship, you can hear you can hear
Speaker 2: ship that they argue about what other people. That'll make
Speaker 2: you privy to YO, that bitch is not for me.
Speaker 2: Like she'd fucking be snapping on her baby dad because
Speaker 2: he won't give her money for all the other kids.
Speaker 4: But you still might want to fuck him though, No,
Speaker 4: some friends want to fuck I'm gonna go with this story.
Speaker 3: Because these my two friends here, they actually don't believe
Speaker 3: in this female friend platonic stuff obviously. No, no, no, no,
Speaker 3: no no. I have a female friend, female best friend, right,
Speaker 3: and there's nothing there. Yeah, she's not a believer. She's
Speaker 3: a good looking woman, but she's you know, we've been
Speaker 3: friends and has just been there. So I do give advice.
Speaker 3: She can call me at any time. We hadn't been
Speaker 3: through multiple relationships opposite way, well I've had, she's been
Speaker 3: in the same relationship. But in the in the grand
Speaker 3: scheme of things, it's like, I do know what it's
Speaker 3: like to have someone of the opposite sex that's truly
Speaker 3: my friend. So I do feel like I'm able to
Speaker 3: give her manly advice because women think more emotionally and
Speaker 3: less logically, especially when Dick is slotting inside them.
Speaker 4: That because the only reason was because he was so professional.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sorry, so and when that's happening, I do
Speaker 3: understand that they sometimes need the game of a man.
Speaker 3: So I gotta retract my statement and say I agree
Speaker 3: with you. I agreed that doesn't have to be the
Speaker 3: opposite sex, but I do think it does help coming
Speaker 3: from a person whom I can see what she can't say.
Speaker 2: And that's and that's important right there, because that's what
Speaker 2: I was saying, Like you'll be all bent out of
Speaker 2: shape about a nigga and your homie will look you
Speaker 2: danny face, like.
Speaker 1: Yo, you're letting a nigga with three pair of jeans
Speaker 1: play you like.
Speaker 2: That's crazy because you'll be so dicmatized and so caught
Speaker 2: up in this nigga you won't realize Yo, he do
Speaker 2: live with his mom, He do got three pair of jeans.
Speaker 2: He do only call me at ten o'clock. But it's
Speaker 2: like having that outside for saying like, yeah, you're being
Speaker 2: dumb right now. It's like because your girlfriends, when they
Speaker 2: give you advice, they still gonna make it seem.
Speaker 1: Like you being a good person.
Speaker 2: Like maybe his phone dies or maybe he did have
Speaker 2: plans for now, he just forgot to tell you about
Speaker 2: a nigga. Ain't sugar coat and ship he gonna tell
Speaker 2: you like that ship don't make sense.
Speaker 4: And sometimes when your girls are saying bad ship about
Speaker 4: the nigga, they just want to suck his dick too.
Speaker 3: It's a different.
Speaker 8: Factors and niggas who dick they usually that was us.
Speaker 3: That was us he's.
Speaker 1: Whispering. It's crazy.
Speaker 3: People.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes I said all that
Speaker 1: to say today.
Speaker 2: I feel like I value you guys opinion maybe a
Speaker 2: little less now except for slice.
Speaker 3: Thank you, but.
Speaker 8: Never mind, go ahead.
Speaker 1: But I genuinely wanted to come to you guys with
Speaker 1: a few of my scenarios.
Speaker 2: And you know, honestly, I feel like Shaan be sick
Speaker 2: of hearing my ship every week. You know, is one
Speaker 2: of the niggas who will tell me, like, bitch, you
Speaker 2: being stupid. So you know, I just wanted to open
Speaker 2: the floor a little bit.
Speaker 3: Can I even disclaim it to these guys. Let's give
Speaker 3: us some bars, fellows that store.
Speaker 1: Okay, So I wanted to shot at the time, are
Speaker 1: you looking or no?
Speaker 3: God, he's enjoying the show.
Speaker 1: So I wanted to bring to you guys some situation
Speaker 1: and I wanted you to tell me.
Speaker 2: If I'm the asshole, that these are all people that
Speaker 2: I've chosen to, you know, cut off communications with over
Speaker 2: the past two years, and yeah, asks as many questions
Speaker 2: as you need to, and yeah, I just want to
Speaker 2: run into Am I the asshole?
Speaker 4: Okay?
Speaker 3: So first.
Speaker 2: I went on a date with the guy and this
Speaker 2: is probably our second date. At this point, he chooses
Speaker 2: to go to a bar our kid Uh.
Speaker 1: No, I lie.
Speaker 2: It was minigolf, right, So we got a bunch of
Speaker 2: holes downstairs, no diddy, We're doing like fourteen holes and
Speaker 2: afterwards we play like a Connect four and then we
Speaker 2: play Uno. I beat him in every single thing this
Speaker 2: night everything. I beat him in minigolf, I beat him
Speaker 2: in Connect four, I beat him in.
Speaker 3: He's a loser. Okay, continue now.
Speaker 2: After I beat him at Uno, he says, oh my god,
Speaker 2: let me fucking win.
Speaker 1: You are a terrible date. But he was serious. I
Speaker 1: feel like he was serious, right, And he also didn't
Speaker 1: win anything.
Speaker 3: That night, so he's a loser. This is the problem.
Speaker 3: This is the actual problem. I was rocking with him,
Speaker 3: you said that part because I thought he's letting you.
Speaker 3: I thought he was letting you win.
Speaker 7: But his reaction normally, when you letting somebody win, you know,
Speaker 7: you kind of be nachalant about him. He'd be like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 7: you that one. You know what I'm saying. You just
Speaker 7: being cool about it. But the fact that he was
Speaker 7: like really trying to beat you, and nah.
Speaker 2: It was the You're a terrible date for me, because
Speaker 2: even if you are joking, how am I a terrible
Speaker 2: date because you're not winning anything because everything isn't in
Speaker 2: the same level, the same skill level you need for
Speaker 2: a mini golf connect for and no our three different
Speaker 2: skill levels.
Speaker 7: Say that either type of dude who won't really get
Speaker 7: chicks like that, because any type of dude who really
Speaker 7: get chicks would a flip that even if you was
Speaker 7: really beating the.
Speaker 8: Shit out of me, you was really beating my ass.
Speaker 7: I'm gonna at least act like I'm letting you win, right,
Speaker 7: just so that he don't have no finesse. You understand
Speaker 7: what I'm saying. He was thinking more about the game
Speaker 7: and not thinking about later.
Speaker 4: But I gotta ask you said, you can ask questions why,
Speaker 4: it's the question I got g was he thinking more
Speaker 4: about the game, because sometimes I've only had this happen
Speaker 4: a couple of times where it was a chick that
Speaker 4: I thought that I was gonna vibe with and like,
Speaker 4: and when we went out it felt like I'm chilling
Speaker 4: with the homie. I was getting no energy from the
Speaker 4: person your first in a sense, so in a sense
Speaker 4: that was not really from me, though you feel me
Speaker 4: it's more like yo, and I don't want a fucking
Speaker 4: date or no, like I don't feel no date energy,
Speaker 4: and I feel like you could have been on this
Speaker 4: date giving ball no rhythm and just beating him in
Speaker 4: the games where he's just like cause it's not like
Speaker 4: you beat him in the games and then you dancing
Speaker 4: on him or you hugged up on him, or you're
Speaker 4: showing him some kind of like you're yeah, you're you're
Speaker 4: you're seducing him or giving them a rhythm where he like,
Speaker 4: oh this is dope, shorty beating my ass. But is
Speaker 4: she twerking on me? It's like, I'm just out with
Speaker 4: this chick. She beating me in the game. She ain't
Speaker 4: giving me no rhythm, no kissing, no nothing.
Speaker 3: It's just kind of hard.
Speaker 7: So it's like it's almost like certain ideas, especially when
Speaker 7: you're trying to get to know somebody, is a bad date.
Speaker 8: Some some dates are just set up wrong. It's like
Speaker 8: meat and Chicken take it them to the movies.
Speaker 7: Well we in the movies, we really don't get an
Speaker 7: opportunity to kind of talk and kick it, you know
Speaker 7: what I mean.
Speaker 8: If he was smart, he probably would have took you
Speaker 8: out for coffee.
Speaker 7: He probably would have took you somewhere where he can
Speaker 7: actually get the you know, put the combination in for
Speaker 7: what he needed to get.
Speaker 3: Real quickly got the point I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I was gonna say so.
Speaker 2: First of all, big Mama ain't never talking on nobody
Speaker 2: in no fucking date, So you ain't never gonna get
Speaker 2: that in.
Speaker 1: The chew from me, right. But I will say it
Speaker 1: was a playful banner. It was you ship talking. Problem
Speaker 1: was you couldn't back it up.
Speaker 2: And my thought process was, if I'm on a second
Speaker 2: date with a nigga, am I postal and win all
Speaker 2: the games?
Speaker 1: Because damn I might be single?
Speaker 4: What did you do to show this man that you
Speaker 4: liked him?
Speaker 2: See now, the girl in me was about to say
Speaker 2: other than show up, But I'm gonna be honest and
Speaker 2: give a good answer. We were having dope conversations to me,
Speaker 2: were reviving to me. But I feel like that's when
Speaker 2: what your preference comes in. Maybe you are looking for
Speaker 2: somebody who's going I'm.
Speaker 4: Only saying say, I'm only saying that to say, men
Speaker 4: usually received very very strong signals from a woman that like, oh,
Speaker 4: she fucking with me. Somewhere in that date. He threw
Speaker 4: that desperate thing out because he was like, Yo, I'm
Speaker 4: not getting no.
Speaker 3: Sick connect exactly connect.
Speaker 1: I don't think that was it because even while we
Speaker 1: were playing no, we was vibe, we was kicking.
Speaker 3: We was like, you know, that's right because if a
Speaker 3: girl to work on me too early, she probably I'm
Speaker 3: probably not gonna like her. I think she's ditty, right,
Speaker 3: my girl. But I'm saying it's subtle, touches its energy
Speaker 3: like I I've been in restaurants, uh ship with my
Speaker 3: girl now. And when we sat we sat on the
Speaker 3: same side and it was just a simple lay against him.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so that you said, but you see that same
Speaker 4: side energy when they give you that same side energy
Speaker 4: feel it. That's one of those things that when I
Speaker 4: talk when I think about the date that I was
Speaker 4: on that I had that kind of feel.
Speaker 3: It wasn't that same side energy got.
Speaker 1: We was on the same side when I hit him
Speaker 1: with that draw for and with this.
Speaker 7: But you gotta understand and the way that your date
Speaker 7: was set up, you treated him like an opt the
Speaker 7: whole night because he was actually your opposition on.
Speaker 8: Each one of them games was the whole night.
Speaker 7: So it's kind of hard to kind of vibe and
Speaker 7: get like, you know, kind of kind of kind of
Speaker 7: you know, you can't.
Speaker 3: Let corny get off.
Speaker 1: I think, I think, I think that everybody ain't for everybody, right.
Speaker 2: So there are some men who take pleasure in just
Speaker 2: being the best at everything in their relationship, right, And
Speaker 2: I'm not the type of woman to be with that
Speaker 2: type of man, because I'm the type of woman where
Speaker 2: I'm here to make my man better. It's not gonna
Speaker 2: be no you carrying the whole funk shit by itself
Speaker 2: if you're able to take off and like take a
Speaker 2: break if you need it.
Speaker 4: So just the crazy part in people's personalities. There's things
Speaker 4: wrong with all of us, right, and it's about the
Speaker 4: order in which you meet those things. That dude could
Speaker 4: actually be the dude for you. You just met one
Speaker 4: of his flaws too early, so you could have a dude.
Speaker 4: You would have met all this dope shit about him,
Speaker 4: ended up with him. You fuck with Gerald, Now that's
Speaker 4: your man, and I'm naming them Gerald.
Speaker 3: Fuck with Gerald, right.
Speaker 4: But you know when you talk to people like yo,
Speaker 4: Gerald be so corny about losing. But you didn't find
Speaker 4: that out until after you and Gerald already fucking it
Speaker 4: don't even matter. You just know he's a bit y'all
Speaker 4: when it come to lose and he's mad. I'm talking
Speaker 4: about while y'all live together as a family. Gerald get
Speaker 4: mad when he lose, and that's it. But because you met,
Speaker 4: because he showed that card in the beginning, that's what this.
Speaker 4: So I want to fix that. And then GB says
Speaker 4: something about the date thing going to the movies. Yeah,
Speaker 4: you don't get to kick that game. But the movies
Speaker 4: is still a good jowing because the movies puts in time.
Speaker 4: I don't know what the time is because there's a
Speaker 4: code that you punch into women's heads in order to
Speaker 4: put your penis inside of him.
Speaker 1: Gat, I don't like the movie. The movies is never
Speaker 1: gonna be before date three.
Speaker 4: So if you might not need like the movie, right,
Speaker 4: but I would use the movie on you or any
Speaker 4: other woman because the movie only equals time. It's a
Speaker 4: weird thing. People don't realize how much time they're spending
Speaker 4: with each other, the true amount of time they spend
Speaker 4: with each other before they sleep with each other. When
Speaker 4: you go on a date with somebody, you spend two
Speaker 4: hours with a see them next week, spend two hours
Speaker 4: with them, see them next week, spend the hour with them,
Speaker 4: didn't see them for two weeks, for eight lunch real quick.
Speaker 3: You add it all up.
Speaker 4: You like, I've only been around this person for six
Speaker 4: and a half hours, even though it's been a month
Speaker 4: and a half, and then you gave them the cheeks.
Speaker 4: I'm getting my hours in somehow when we're watching that movie,
Speaker 4: just being in the presence is adding to my time clocks.
Speaker 1: But I think it depends on what you're looking for
Speaker 1: when dating.
Speaker 2: If I'm just looking for a justification for giving us
Speaker 2: nigga cheeks, yes we can do a movie date before
Speaker 2: date three, But if I'm really looking for my husband,
Speaker 2: a movie date before date three is pointless because I'm
Speaker 2: not getting to know you. We're not talking, We're sitting
Speaker 2: quiet next to each other while the movie is going on.
Speaker 1: That's a waste.
Speaker 4: Sometimes you're not looking for your husband, you're just looking.
Speaker 1: For Oh I said, if like, if I'm talking for
Speaker 1: all with all the women, like for me, for me,
Speaker 1: because that's my favorite shit for me. So we're not
Speaker 1: doing a.
Speaker 3: Movie and I want to get back on your topic.
Speaker 3: Is if we start off at breakfast and then at
Speaker 3: lunch time we go to the movie. And now after
Speaker 3: movies we go to what you said, top golf or somewhere.
Speaker 3: So now we just spend six seven hours all day.
Speaker 3: That one day feels like six weeks.
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, Yo, I had d you're my girlfriend. After Yo,
Speaker 4: I had dates. That was I used to plan it
Speaker 4: like that. Go out, eat like he said, something in
Speaker 4: the morning, do something in the afternoon, go to the
Speaker 4: movies at night. Because now it's like we've done chill
Speaker 4: and now it's just hold hands, watch the movie. Time.
Speaker 4: She getting tired, she leaning on it. It's just that time.
Speaker 8: Listen to what the key is?
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 7: Let me let me just give all the corny niggas
Speaker 7: out there, Oh my god, let me get'll go ahead
Speaker 7: from niggas who used to get bitches. A lot of
Speaker 7: us used to used to no more, no more, listen,
Speaker 7: just won't be clear. The perfect thing to do is
Speaker 7: when you're trying to date a woman is to go early.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 7: You want to pick them up early in the morning, right,
Speaker 7: do breakfast, Do things early in the morning. That way
Speaker 7: two things, One it gives you all day to spend, right,
Speaker 7: and two it kind of lets them know what's spending
Speaker 7: the night with you is kind of like because they're
Speaker 7: gonna wake up, they're gonna get breakfast. They get used
Speaker 7: to being around you in that early environment, that early vibe, right,
Speaker 7: that sets you up for the for the spend the
Speaker 7: night game. It's playing the long game, right It kind
Speaker 7: of mentally she's used to being around you that early.
Speaker 7: Now you got all day if you pick her up
Speaker 7: at ten am and let's just say at by six pm.
Speaker 7: Like Sli said, Yo, that feels like y'all been together
Speaker 7: for a month. She can actually see herself being with you,
Speaker 7: y'all and had fifteen different types of conversation right the
Speaker 7: whole time, y'all vibing in that instance, I could see
Speaker 7: getting a movie in. But listen, get there early, you
Speaker 7: get there at night, if you get there at six
Speaker 7: p m. Right, unless unless she already knows she gonna
Speaker 7: give you something, right, you really only got a couple
Speaker 7: hours to play ball, exactly.
Speaker 3: So, So oftentimes.
Speaker 4: A million niggas take you out to breakfast. If that
Speaker 4: ship is fire, right when you leave him, you actually
Speaker 4: wish you was still on a date with the nigga,
Speaker 4: Like like, right you feel me talk how craziest part
Speaker 4: is you could actually be on a date with him
Speaker 4: later that day. Most of the time, even if she
Speaker 4: gotta go do something yo, y'all talking all day, she
Speaker 4: gonna want to chill with you that night. Now, you
Speaker 4: don't knock two nights out at once. She feel like
Speaker 4: I've been on two days with the nigga, I might
Speaker 4: as well give you a.
Speaker 3: But storm your dude's corny.
Speaker 4: I just hold on.
Speaker 2: I just want to say, ladies, if you are one
Speaker 2: of those women who feel the way he does, stop
Speaker 2: doing that right now. Stop doing that right Stop doing
Speaker 2: that right now. And I'm gonna tell you why. First
Speaker 2: of all, when you go on your first few initue dates,
Speaker 2: they should not be longer than two hours.
Speaker 1: And I don't care hear me. I hear the second
Speaker 1: of the teeth. Okay, Nigerians are Okay, I hear the second.
Speaker 4: Why.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why.
Speaker 3: I'm I'm why.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why.
Speaker 2: You go on the first date right or you go
Speaker 2: on your first few first dates, things are going great,
Speaker 2: you want to go to a secondary location.
Speaker 1: Oh stop it there.
Speaker 2: It should not be too long because you're going to
Speaker 2: start to develop an anxious attachment stole where what they
Speaker 2: are saying it works good for them, but it don't
Speaker 2: work good for you because now you don't felt like,
Speaker 2: Oh I didn't spit two nights with him.
Speaker 3: It's good.
Speaker 1: I can give him the yams to you. To that nigga, No,
Speaker 1: you're not his girlfriend.
Speaker 2: I know y'allna spent that time together. I know y'all
Speaker 2: in boolof not even a shouldering in the movie theaters.
Speaker 2: Baby no no, And I know that's what you want,
Speaker 2: but hell no. Listen to Big Stormy when she says
Speaker 2: hell no.
Speaker 3: Sometimes them jones end up your girl. Sometimes.
Speaker 2: Okay, percentage go exactly, exactly, even not as hot. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna say about twenty thirty twenty thirty percent you gonna
Speaker 2: come his girlfriend, It's not.
Speaker 3: Gonna happen, probably lower lower than it is.
Speaker 1: So when you on a date with these niggas, what.
Speaker 3: Do you want?
Speaker 4: But women, have confidence in yourself that you that want,
Speaker 4: got you that one, that a nigga be like, yo,
Speaker 4: I gotta be with her now.
Speaker 1: Now let me ask you. Let me say this.
Speaker 2: When you're having your confidence that you that one, I
Speaker 2: want you also to look at that nigga and see
Speaker 2: how many bitches are also trying to.
Speaker 3: Be that one.
Speaker 1: Okay, because the more bitches it is.
Speaker 3: The lower, you know, so I gotta say this. I
Speaker 3: gotta say this, go ahead.
Speaker 4: That's actually the reason why I believe in the method,
Speaker 4: because y'all, god niggas, we know, I could take a
Speaker 4: chick out on a magical date, but she probably gotta
Speaker 4: do she just broke up with that. Really, I'm just
Speaker 4: a feeling nigg So I gotta strike. I need to
Speaker 4: get her on them three dates in one day so
Speaker 4: she could feel like given the years.
Speaker 3: Because Todd Ron Mike.
Speaker 2: Come back and asked a question, this whole time while
Speaker 2: you had that standpoint, is it a girl who think
Speaker 2: you they're your girlfriend?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: Yes, it is. The whole time y'all be having that standpoint.
Speaker 1: It be bitches in the wings thinking they are.
Speaker 7: Here's the thing, here's the thing when you first start
Speaker 7: dating this is this is the god honest truth, and
Speaker 7: this is how men think. Right when you first start
Speaker 7: dating a woman. Right, we go into it understanding that
Speaker 7: we're while we're putting this time in, somebody else is
Speaker 7: fucking right. So we go into it or y'all gotta
Speaker 7: understand how our egos work. We understand that I took her,
Speaker 7: I took her out to eat, we went wherever we went,
Speaker 7: We did all of this stuff, and then.
Speaker 8: I drop her off.
Speaker 7: Right now, she's making that phone call and somebody else
Speaker 7: is coming and clamping left clap the cheeks until I'm
Speaker 7: the person that's clapping the cheeks.
Speaker 2: I'll say, I think there is a small percentage of
Speaker 2: men who understand that they are preheating the oven for
Speaker 2: somebody else to.
Speaker 3: Put the beece Inboy.
Speaker 1: I've had Okay.
Speaker 2: What I will say is I think that it all
Speaker 2: depends on where you are mentally and how mature you are.
Speaker 2: Right because you could look at it's like, yo, I'm
Speaker 2: gonna take her out.
Speaker 1: You know, somebody else gonna bomb.
Speaker 2: But it's like, yo, how many bitches are waiting for
Speaker 2: you to call them back so you can bomb in
Speaker 2: that same experience, Like when you start new dating experiences
Speaker 2: with new women, we're gonna forget the bitches that you're
Speaker 2: currently still bombing girl too.
Speaker 8: Can I tell you something? This is This is where
Speaker 8: you may not believe it.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna believe already.
Speaker 7: Once when when when it's new cheeks involved a part
Speaker 7: of our brain do cut some of the other chicks
Speaker 7: out because we we're conquerors, right, and we like to hunt.
Speaker 7: So when it's new cheeks on the horizon, that's all
Speaker 7: you can focus on. At that point in time. You
Speaker 7: actually a little bit fall out of love with the
Speaker 7: other ones a little bit until you get this one conquered.
Speaker 8: They don't come back into focus until I've conquered this.
Speaker 1: This is what I'm saying is there's still someone waiting
Speaker 1: who used to be.
Speaker 4: I know that. I know that for you.
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is for that was for us,
Speaker 1: for that woman, us, for that woman who's still waiting
Speaker 1: for you to come back and conquer. What about her?
Speaker 7: What about the fifty thousand? What about the fifty thousand
Speaker 7: on your dms? Like they just gotta wait?
Speaker 1: Where's your competitive spirit? I thought she was a conqueror?
Speaker 1: What's up?
Speaker 3: I am? I just read you, worry about.
Speaker 1: Worry about you.
Speaker 8: I'm trying to get the level ten.
Speaker 3: You trying to send me back to level five.
Speaker 1: Level two. Be thankful.
Speaker 3: So if you want for the ladies at home, your
Speaker 3: vice for your ladies, this is this is the God
Speaker 3: on his truth. You cannot let him conquer too quick.
Speaker 3: If you really want to lock a man down, you
Speaker 3: have to have some difficulty of conquered. And I don't
Speaker 3: think that's even the word.
Speaker 7: But you also got to understand that not forever. I'm
Speaker 7: saying that while you being difficult, being difficult.
Speaker 2: Difficult, difficult as standards difficult, it's boundaries.
Speaker 1: Be difficult difficult Too easy?
Speaker 3: Is too easy is to turn off for any of
Speaker 3: these guys, I agree me. Never friends, don't.
Speaker 1: I said this before. Let me ask you this, my
Speaker 1: friends are.
Speaker 3: Let me ask you this about this date, right, and
Speaker 3: this is the God on his truth. We talk about
Speaker 3: deal breakers, right. So a lot of when you go
Speaker 3: on dates with people, it's about knowing yourself more than
Speaker 3: knowing the other person. So if you don't like sore
Speaker 3: losers or men that crying bitch or if that's your
Speaker 3: if that's your thing that you can't tolerate, right, then
Speaker 3: automatically he's a no go. And you should be grateful
Speaker 3: and thankful that he showed that side of you, because
Speaker 3: that could just be some ship that you just don't like.
Speaker 7: You men, you feel like, hey, bro, and you and
Speaker 7: on some real shit talking to the ball, the corny ball. Listen, Bro,
Speaker 7: not the corny. You're supposed to take charge, right, you
Speaker 7: supposed to leave, Bro, you determine where the date is going.
Speaker 8: Bro, you don't let her pick.
Speaker 1: Stop playing, that's his idea.
Speaker 3: He gotta stop playing if you LOSINGO and then connect
Speaker 3: for and then you feel like she winning in golf. Bro,
Speaker 3: you gotta stop.
Speaker 8: You know when you play.
Speaker 7: When y'all both laying across the bed, that's when you
Speaker 7: play Uno. You don't play Uno while you out bro.
Speaker 3: Fact.
Speaker 1: So first I want to say, am I the ass Oh? Yes?
Speaker 4: Or no?
Speaker 1: Death no GB no, It's like absolutely not Okay.
Speaker 2: I want to say my final thoughts on this is
Speaker 2: I feel like there are some like bomb assed tribes
Speaker 2: where you have like the king and queen can take
Speaker 2: you the funk out right. But there are some men
Speaker 2: who want to be like patriarchies where it's like I'm important,
Speaker 2: You're just here to look.
Speaker 1: Cute and that's it. That's not the relationship for me.
Speaker 2: So I felt like I was not the asshole because
Speaker 2: I just feel like we're probably just not a good
Speaker 2: fit for one another, and that's cool. But I'm never
Speaker 2: going to be patient or let a guy win or
Speaker 2: feel like I have to dumb myself down to before men.
Speaker 2: So in my mind, he just wasn't a guy for me.
Speaker 2: So I'm happy that you guys agree. Okay, agree, Next
Speaker 2: scenario ten minutes.
Speaker 1: Wait, so we're in an hour.
Speaker 3: Version of Chocolate Tips and sit. It might have been recording.
Speaker 1: I was about to say, good okay, So next scenario. Right,
Speaker 1: I'm dating the guy.
Speaker 2: We've gone on a few dates before, right, you know,
Speaker 2: we're now past the three date point, right, So, no.
Speaker 1: We have not had sex yet. I have not had
Speaker 1: sex yet, but oh, come on, y'all know I put
Speaker 1: my cushie in a lumin foil, put in a deep phraser.
Speaker 3: That's how you make a man really want you. They
Speaker 3: did sweating, That's why. That's why sweating at the gym
Speaker 3: frost I hated here.
Speaker 2: Okay, So now I have been in his house late,
Speaker 2: but we haven't done anything, right, We just hang out,
Speaker 2: we do whatever.
Speaker 1: I go back home, right.
Speaker 2: So, now, there have been times where I've gotten to
Speaker 2: his house late and he'll just send me the cold
Speaker 2: to get up.
Speaker 1: Into his apartment building.
Speaker 3: Right. God, So.
Speaker 2: On this particular night, we went out to dinner, I
Speaker 2: went home to change my clothes. I'll go back to
Speaker 2: this house. I tell him my mom my way. It's
Speaker 2: after ten o'clock, right, I text him, I'm outside.
Speaker 1: You don't answer. Call him, I'm outside. I can hear
Speaker 1: him in the shower. He're like, Yo, I'm in the shower.
Speaker 1: Give me two seconds. I'm gonna come get you. I'm like, O, hey,
Speaker 1: I hang up.
Speaker 2: I think this is weird because you've given me the
Speaker 2: col to your house before ten minutes past.
Speaker 1: I'm still sitting in my park car.
Speaker 2: Now. We're not in a bad neighborhood, but we're not
Speaker 2: in the suburbs. So nigga, I gotta go. Like, as
Speaker 2: a woman, I'm not sitting outside in a park car
Speaker 2: for more than ten minutes. I'm like, yo, I don't
Speaker 2: feel comfortable sitting in the park car for myself by myself.
Speaker 2: I'm out right. So I go home, take my clothes off,
Speaker 2: and go to sleep. Right in the morning, I have
Speaker 2: a flood of text I don't know if he was
Speaker 2: text me before, but in my mom we're done for tonight, right,
Speaker 2: I'm urt. That's crazy as shit, that's corny. Why the
Speaker 2: fuck would you come and then not come like you
Speaker 2: on some nutshit.
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah blah blah.
Speaker 4: Right.
Speaker 1: I call him next day, like, I'm confused.
Speaker 2: You want me, as a woman to sit in a
Speaker 2: park car by myself at night? That don't sit well
Speaker 2: with me, especially for over ten minutes. He's giving me
Speaker 2: some excuse. I'm like, Yo, you got a teenage daughter.
Speaker 2: Would you want a nigga having your daughter sitting in
Speaker 2: a parked car by herself for more than ten minutes?
Speaker 2: And he says, you not my daughter.
Speaker 3: That's right. That's if I was about to say that
Speaker 3: I was actually wrong. He not wrong. This what happened.
Speaker 4: You kept playing with that nigga. That nigga was in
Speaker 4: that crib on multiple nights like this.
Speaker 3: In pain. You was coming over this time. He thought
Speaker 3: he had it on lockdown.
Speaker 4: He was scrubbing his nuts and.
Speaker 8: He was running around cleaning every little in the crib.
Speaker 4: He was straightening up. He was like, this is the
Speaker 4: time man, he got his He was he was all
Speaker 4: washed up, clean, ready to go. Took his red Ranger
Speaker 4: and next thing you know, you was gone to keep
Speaker 4: it up the blue hogans whatever. And next thing you know,
Speaker 4: you was gone, and he was sitting there to you like.
Speaker 2: Can I add some context today, I've been to his
Speaker 2: house filthy as fuck multiple times.
Speaker 1: Like when I got there, it's not clean like you
Speaker 1: got fucking.
Speaker 4: It's like, yo, did you I like, I'm about to
Speaker 4: try something different.
Speaker 3: He was ship up.
Speaker 8: He could have had dinner waiting on the table.
Speaker 1: We just went at dinner.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she went and she came back. But I can
Speaker 3: I say this, and this is the god honest truth
Speaker 3: that you you're missing. He wanted you to be his girl.
Speaker 3: So when guys are dating a girl and they really
Speaker 3: want them to be their girl, you're telling yo, it's
Speaker 3: the key underneath the mat. You don't sweat her about
Speaker 3: giving it back. That's the equivalent to him give you
Speaker 3: the cold to get in his ship. That means I
Speaker 3: could be in here with another girl. She got the cold.
Speaker 3: I'm not worried about her coming in because I'm not
Speaker 3: worried about no other bitches at this time. So he
Speaker 3: wanted something more. Now at this moment you're outside, he
Speaker 3: might he must have been getting ship together because he
Speaker 3: normally gave you the cold. He obviously ain't have no
Speaker 3: bitches in there. We don't know that.
Speaker 4: He obviously couldn't have had bitches in there because you
Speaker 4: were still inviting.
Speaker 3: He wouldn't answer the phone in the shower.
Speaker 2: Maybe he had multiple bitches who had the cold, which
Speaker 2: is why he didn't give me the cold that night.
Speaker 3: He wouldn't I'm not saying. I'm not saying. I'm saying
Speaker 3: maybe even so check this out. He would have said
Speaker 3: he was sleeping, never answered. I'm gonna tell you this.
Speaker 4: This sounds like he might just not have been street
Speaker 4: smart because he he wasn't concerned.
Speaker 3: I think it had nothing. The two things are separate.
Speaker 4: He didn't realize the danger level that you could have
Speaker 4: been in because he's looking at it like nothing's going
Speaker 4: to happen to He really just thought that And that
Speaker 4: was naiven dumb of all.
Speaker 2: And honestly, that's what my problem was. It wasn't uh,
Speaker 2: you know, him taking forever to come. It's when I
Speaker 2: say to you, would you want, you know, somebody to
Speaker 2: had your daughter outside way for more than ten minutes?
Speaker 2: He said, but you're not my daughter. It doesn't matter
Speaker 2: that I'm not your daughter. I'm a female, I'm a woman.
Speaker 2: I'm somebody's mom.
Speaker 1: And that point slipped your head. If you don't care
Speaker 1: about that shit, you're not gonna carry me.
Speaker 3: Don't give a fuck. So let me tell you something.
Speaker 4: Let me tell you some of the dangers of people
Speaker 4: in the street and guns and everything were equally targets. Right,
Speaker 4: Oh we need last time, last time I checked, niggas
Speaker 4: wasn't bulletproof.
Speaker 9: Right.
Speaker 4: Let me tell you something about my girl right when
Speaker 4: we got together. Matter of fact, this is probably like
Speaker 4: twelve thirteen years ago, right, I pull up to her.
Speaker 4: Crib is a motherfucking woo tang video outside of these
Speaker 4: apartments niggas mass hoodies. I mean, just drove droves of niggas.
Speaker 4: I'm calling trying to figure out what crib it is.
Speaker 4: She's like, oh, it's a she trying to describe it.
Speaker 4: She's like, it's probably like a whole bunch of guys outside.
Speaker 4: Oh this place, you feel me? I hop out walk
Speaker 4: up to the jawn. Mad niggas just grilling a nigga
Speaker 4: standing sitting on the g that I gotta go through.
Speaker 4: I gotta be like, yo, excuse me, you know what
Speaker 4: I mean, Excuse me, my boy. He stepped off, move
Speaker 4: out the way, but he looking at me. I gotta
Speaker 4: walk through all of these niggas.
Speaker 8: And these niggas out there, so this no, this is
Speaker 8: the part.
Speaker 3: She told me this one time. She said, Yo, I
Speaker 3: was talking to a dude. I liked them.
Speaker 4: He came to the crib to pick me up on
Speaker 4: a date and he was like, Yo, I can't do that.
Speaker 3: I can't do that. These niggas that she was like.
Speaker 3: I was like, he is a pussy, So mind you.
Speaker 4: Bull just was smart. I'm just an asshole. I'm just
Speaker 4: an asshole, and I'm from that area, and I figure
Speaker 4: these niggas roll on me.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna come back here and shoot niggas. I know
Speaker 3: where they at that so.
Speaker 4: I'm like, it's very likely that these niggas gonna try
Speaker 4: to do something, but I don't give a fuck.
Speaker 3: I'm on a mission right now. Home was not homie.
Speaker 4: He had his head on straight. The other boy and
Speaker 4: my girl looked at him as puss. He not bulletproof.
Speaker 3: Can I say you don't have to be heard on
Speaker 3: straight because I've been in that scenario and it was
Speaker 3: with a girl I just recently met. She said, you know,
Speaker 3: my brother's in the out on the porch, and when
Speaker 3: I drove by, I was like, what address was it?
Speaker 3: And I've seen a hundred niggas outside, and I really
Speaker 3: I made an executive decision. You're not bad enough. It
Speaker 3: depends depending is worth taking that challenge would have guy,
Speaker 3: I mean, she might watch the show you don't watch.
Speaker 3: I don't have no problem with her, but she's not
Speaker 3: bad enough for me to even go through that experience.
Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, no, I gotta make a run.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be right back. I was about to slide through.
Speaker 3: He never came back ever again, And.
Speaker 8: I may be honest, you really ruined that nigga, like
Speaker 8: what he ruined his life.
Speaker 7: You get that like you added some trauma to his
Speaker 7: life because he probably was thinking, like yo, his hopes
Speaker 7: was all way up here. He had everything in his
Speaker 7: mind worked out. He in this shower, He's like, yeah,
Speaker 7: well when she here, bro, I'm gonna do X, Y
Speaker 7: and Z.
Speaker 4: But you might have rubbed one out to keep that way.
Speaker 4: His bullets wasn't all the way at the top. He
Speaker 4: made his clip lower so that he could really put
Speaker 4: work in.
Speaker 2: Can I just say, from the bottom of my heart,
Speaker 2: if you don't care that I'm a woman and I'm
Speaker 2: somebody's mom first, You're never gonna even smell my sit
Speaker 2: down here for You're never gonna smell my sit down.
Speaker 8: Question your intentions that let's talk. Let's talk.
Speaker 3: Tell us the truth now.
Speaker 7: It doesn't know what's going over there. It don't matter now.
Speaker 7: But you was going over there. It was late, you
Speaker 7: know what I'm saying.
Speaker 8: What was your intention?
Speaker 3: Was you going to go? You want to go?
Speaker 8: Let him clap the cheek.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be real with y'all. I feel like this
Speaker 2: is safe space. You know my listeners know this safe space.
Speaker 2: I might be the problem. And the reason I might
Speaker 2: be the problem is because, while I'm honest, I feel
Speaker 2: like in today's climate, niggas be thinking I'll be like, so,
Speaker 2: you know, we hang out like hey, real fast, you
Speaker 2: know I ain't really fucking We're going just cuddle And
Speaker 2: he'd be like, all right.
Speaker 1: Cool, yeah yeah, let me letting no, let me finish,
Speaker 1: man finished me finished.
Speaker 2: I feel like they be thinking, you know, once I
Speaker 2: get that you don't back men crack, she's gonna change
Speaker 2: your mind and let.
Speaker 3: Me slide in.
Speaker 8: I want her.
Speaker 3: So you wasn't the ball, so that's why he was
Speaker 3: right and leaving your ouse.
Speaker 4: Yo, bro, this should be this should be a relief
Speaker 4: to everything you've been thinking. If you're watching, she wasn't
Speaker 4: going to give you the MS anywhere.
Speaker 8: List She's saving the pussy for dark feeder.
Speaker 7: That bro, y'all, if you ain't gonna come listen, bro,
Speaker 7: you gotta you gotta like come in and bust in
Speaker 7: the room with the light saber to get like him.
Speaker 4: You don't really like.
Speaker 2: Here's my whole thing though, right, I feel like I'm
Speaker 2: wise and enough and mature enough, and I'm confident in
Speaker 2: myself to know I'm not like these bitches When I
Speaker 2: say I'm looking for my husband. I'm looking for my husband,
Speaker 2: So everybody's not gonna get mykouchie.
Speaker 3: Like I'm if you could get your husband a kuchie
Speaker 3: on the first day.
Speaker 2: Yes, No, the bitches you like ken, I cannot. I
Speaker 2: cannot different structure, different folks. I'm not one of those girls.
Speaker 2: And I feel like the waves that I'm more niggas
Speaker 2: be trying to make it seem like it's played out.
Speaker 1: It's corneous, unheard.
Speaker 3: Of, and we be fucking out outside listening in. Right,
Speaker 3: I believe you're one of the women who self sabotage
Speaker 3: every date you will every nigga you go. I'm gonna
Speaker 3: I'm gonna let a whole talk heavy jump on this too,
Speaker 3: because they're gonna keep it real. Look, it appears this
Speaker 3: way from the outside. Looking at that one, you're gonna
Speaker 3: find a problem of a guy, because no guy's perfect
Speaker 3: and you got this hard nose. I'm searching for my husband.
Speaker 3: I'm dating with a purpose. At the moment that he
Speaker 3: makes a mistake, he's out of here. And at that rate,
Speaker 3: you're gonna be single forever. You might as well get
Speaker 3: some cats.
Speaker 4: Now you have to give to start fucking Yeah, you're
Speaker 4: gonna look back and be like, I'm forty, So listen,
Speaker 4: you gotta give grace on a mistake.
Speaker 3: Now, I understand that guy bitching over connect for his
Speaker 3: whole ship. You might gotta let him go. But the
Speaker 3: god that leave you out there, y'all can have that
Speaker 3: conversation about what.
Speaker 1: That's not a conversation. I feel like I need to
Speaker 1: have a grown man. Is a conversation with a grown
Speaker 1: man who has a daughter. That's not a conversation.
Speaker 3: I need men. Grown men also got to learn grown
Speaker 3: men don't because women got this thing that you're a
Speaker 3: grown man, you got every answer, you know everything you
Speaker 3: should be at this, at this big grown man age.
Speaker 3: You should know better.
Speaker 4: Niggas grew up with moms that was walking through the
Speaker 4: hood by theyself.
Speaker 3: They whole life, no dad. My mom was everywhere by herself.
Speaker 2: But here's what I feel like makes it different. I
Speaker 2: could have that perspective for a nigga who didn't have
Speaker 2: a daughter.
Speaker 1: You have a daughter. When you have a daughter, you
Speaker 1: think different.
Speaker 4: So I don't think that happens magically like this. If
Speaker 4: he like so and and we might feel a certain way.
Speaker 4: The guys on this show were not leaving a woman outside,
Speaker 4: but we're just trying to think as other people. Having
Speaker 4: a daughter is not going to instantly give him that
Speaker 4: idea because people that be in the hood or wherever
Speaker 4: they at, they really he not one of them.
Speaker 3: Niggas.
Speaker 1: Let's start there, He's not. Let's start there. I don't
Speaker 1: talk to him.
Speaker 4: I don't talk to he really might not felt like
Speaker 4: like I said earlier, that there was he didn't even put.
Speaker 2: But here's the thing, I'm gonna tell you why he did.
Speaker 2: Because his response wasn't I didn't think about it like that.
Speaker 2: His response was you're not my daughter, meaning you don't
Speaker 2: deserve that curtain.
Speaker 3: Did he raise his daughter? Because I'm gonna give you yes,
Speaker 3: Because I'm gonna give him off because a lot of
Speaker 3: men who have daughters haven't really had the experience of understanding.
Speaker 8: And when I'm and when I got some on my brain,
Speaker 8: I'm not thinking about my daughter.
Speaker 3: Got to count.
Speaker 7: Understand that he at this point in time, he's one
Speaker 7: track minded as well. He's not doing his best, thinking
Speaker 7: a lot of the blood that's normally up his already.
Speaker 2: And I and I could have that conversation with him
Speaker 2: right if he would have said all that when we
Speaker 2: had it, because by this time the blood is back
Speaker 2: up to his head.
Speaker 1: This is the next day. No, really, you've had time
Speaker 1: to think about it, You've had time to decompress. So
Speaker 1: this is not like as I pull off conversation.
Speaker 4: Yes I can. He was.
Speaker 3: He was just still. He was very upset, traumatized. Whatever
Speaker 3: it might be.
Speaker 4: That last night he got more than stood up, because
Speaker 4: that's not a stand I.
Speaker 2: Was outside give me the cold. Can we talk about
Speaker 2: why he didn't give me the cold? Every other day
Speaker 2: that I come.
Speaker 3: He was prepared.
Speaker 1: I've seen how thirty already, I've seen how sturdy are.
Speaker 3: But they could have been trying to get what do
Speaker 3: you think he was doing? And correct? We should figure
Speaker 3: that out, bro.
Speaker 4: Dvius playing what's this man doing?
Speaker 3: And I called you here like I called you here and.
Speaker 4: Out the window you pulled up a few minutes too early.
Speaker 7: The nigga was in there getting because guess what, you've
Speaker 7: seen my apartment dirty? Right, So now you pulled up
Speaker 7: and hopped in the shower. I probably got dinner.
Speaker 3: Rose pedals and happened.
Speaker 4: I know what happened. It's as simple as fun. Actually, yo,
Speaker 4: my man, I apologize for what happened to you.
Speaker 3: Dog.
Speaker 8: We apologize on that nigga had to take.
Speaker 3: A ship and that's it, guarantee.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something.
Speaker 3: Guarantee.
Speaker 4: He was taking the wildest joint ever it could have been.
Speaker 3: Talking about.
Speaker 4: Jawn was spraying out his hole.
Speaker 3: And jumped in need it. He was trying to clean it,
Speaker 3: trying to I was catching the bubbles again. Damn had
Speaker 3: to jump the shower to toilet.
Speaker 10: What some son still on taking a ship like, oh
Speaker 10: my god, yo, dad, it wasn't.
Speaker 1: It was like a Chinese restaurant.
Speaker 4: Though, oh my god, no listen because now I'm sitting
Speaker 4: here trying to decipher all of the things that could
Speaker 4: have happened, and it's like, hold on, how would this happen? Yo?
Speaker 4: He had to take a ship and that's why he
Speaker 4: didn't want to let you in.
Speaker 3: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: Now once again I'm gonna tell you about it doesn't work. Okay,
Speaker 2: you are talking to surf farts a lot. You're taking
Speaker 2: a ship. Don't mean nothing to me because I'm a bitch.
Speaker 1: I'm the jet peck.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be behind you, big spoon while we sleeping
Speaker 2: a heart on your back. Taking a ship don't mean
Speaker 2: nothing to me.
Speaker 4: Then let me tell you something stormy me. I didn't
Speaker 4: fart around my girl for five years.
Speaker 3: You got me.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying. You say, I'm not fucking up my
Speaker 1: innerdes for nobody.
Speaker 3: Girl should be like Nigga, where was all of these farts?
Speaker 3: How did you do that?
Speaker 1: How did you do that?
Speaker 6: For?
Speaker 4: Yo?
Speaker 3: I just did not me.
Speaker 1: I ain't ever like somebody enough to hold in my farts.
Speaker 3: Ever, it depends on what level you shake me in
Speaker 3: my part. That's how I know. That's how I know
Speaker 3: that that man lost you because of his That nigga
Speaker 3: on the weekend, let me ask you this, because this
Speaker 3: is a real bar and forgiveness. If this man said,
Speaker 3: calls you tomorrow and say I listened to the show,
Speaker 3: I fucked up. I fucked up. I really took a
Speaker 3: ship yo, And the next day I'm worried about I
Speaker 3: should have just apologized. I wasn't thinking I am sorry
Speaker 3: now you like all this other ship about me. I
Speaker 3: made a terrible mistake that night. Where's your level of
Speaker 3: forgiveness for him? True?
Speaker 1: For you want to lie? My initial response would be,
Speaker 1: how are you gonna make it up to me?
Speaker 3: You want me to get jumped by some niggas in
Speaker 3: the neighborhood.
Speaker 1: Make it up to me? That's it a quote?
Speaker 9: Maybe not.
Speaker 2: That's for him to decide. When I say how are
Speaker 2: you going to make it up to me? I want
Speaker 2: to hear how would you make it up to him?
Speaker 2: Is it a way that he can Because women do this,
Speaker 2: they don't give you the answer. They just make some
Speaker 2: mysterious what you think? I'm worse When I say how
Speaker 2: are you going to make it up to me?
Speaker 1: I want to hear what you think.
Speaker 3: Gonna be?
Speaker 8: Right there?
Speaker 3: That's what I'm trying.
Speaker 1: That's not true, that's not true.
Speaker 8: I don't want to forgive him.
Speaker 2: That's not true, because honestly, if he would come to
Speaker 2: me like what's like said, like I thought about, that's
Speaker 2: fucked up. I wouldn't want nobody to do that's my daughter.
Speaker 2: I also wouldn't want you to anybody to do.
Speaker 3: It to you. Bro, come to her, bro, I'm trying
Speaker 3: to watch this show. Bro Bro called her.
Speaker 2: Bro.
Speaker 4: Man, let her know and tell her you ready to
Speaker 4: get jumped by by some niggas. Yeah, whatever you gotta do,
Speaker 4: call her man. She she dis thing her her man
Speaker 4: that you left her out there. Man, show her what
Speaker 4: you'll do.
Speaker 3: Man, Yo, put your daughter in the car in the park?
Speaker 1: Ten video of your daughter in a car on the street,
Speaker 1: not even And that was another thing. That was another thing.
Speaker 2: I wasn't even a part close to his door like
Speaker 2: I was far. He couldn't look out his window and
Speaker 2: see me or anything like I felt super exposed. Send
Speaker 2: me a ten minute video your daughter sitting in the
Speaker 2: car by herself.
Speaker 3: I don't think it that's fair. That's such a terrible
Speaker 3: first of all, with himself. But okay, you don't like.
Speaker 8: You don't like them.
Speaker 3: She don't know.
Speaker 1: The crazy part is I did. That's why I felt
Speaker 1: so disrespected.
Speaker 3: You ain't meet no niggas you like.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. You don't let me say something.
Speaker 1: I've never met a nigga that I like more than
Speaker 1: I love myself.
Speaker 3: That's what the problem is.
Speaker 1: You're not gonna disrespect me. I know my worth and
Speaker 1: you're not gonna play in my face. That's what it is.
Speaker 2: You didn't play was taking the ship, and you couldn't
Speaker 2: text me and be like, yo, no it's no, no, no,
Speaker 2: no no no, not not the ship, not ship, I know,
Speaker 2: not the ship.
Speaker 1: But you couldn't text me and say, Yo, my cat
Speaker 1: knocked some ship overal fast. Give me like two seconds
Speaker 1: of clean it.
Speaker 3: Up, and you wouldn't have gave a fun ten minutes in.
Speaker 3: You wouldn't give I don't give that.
Speaker 8: What's the code?
Speaker 1: Honestly, I felt like me having an ax. What's the cold?
Speaker 1: Was the meaning?
Speaker 3: See, I think that's where women up at. If I
Speaker 3: gave you the cold.
Speaker 1: Before, give it to me again.
Speaker 3: If I gave you the give it to me again.
Speaker 3: I gave you gotta you gotta, but you ain't asked
Speaker 3: for you can say, yo, shoot me the cold. I'm
Speaker 3: just coming, and my.
Speaker 1: Mama said, don't ask me no where you ain't invited.
Speaker 3: I think I think he just answered the phone. Give me.
Speaker 4: What you are.
Speaker 7: You are one of those people that, like a nigg it,
Speaker 7: could do a thousand things right right and the minute
Speaker 7: that he do something wrong at a race, that he
Speaker 7: did because the nigga gave you the code, which God,
Speaker 7: I don't think you understand the level of what that minutes,
Speaker 7: what that represents when he gave you the code. But
Speaker 7: let me tell you you do understand because when he
Speaker 7: didn't give you the cold, it felt the meaning why
Speaker 7: when he gave it didn't put the.
Speaker 3: Nigga all the way up here?
Speaker 1: Well here's the thing, Come on, talk to me now,
Speaker 1: stay up here, you do you go back there?
Speaker 3: One bad nigga do one.
Speaker 2: It's not the one bad thing. It's the one bad
Speaker 2: thing when you understand what the right thing is, it's accountability.
Speaker 2: You know what the right thing is to do.
Speaker 1: Already by now now I'm confused. Y'all be that same
Speaker 1: niggas talking about women make matter, said women.
Speaker 3: Women better choices. Actually on my daughter better choice.
Speaker 2: You see, y'all be wanting women to make better choices
Speaker 2: than when they do. Now they're self sabotaged you.
Speaker 1: Isn't that funny to.
Speaker 7: Be honest with y'all? In twenty twenty five. In twenty
Speaker 7: twenty five, men more than likely are going to fuck
Speaker 7: their wives on the first night. The person that you
Speaker 7: want to marry is the person that you're going to
Speaker 7: fuck on the first night, which is why you're having
Speaker 7: a hard time finding your husband.
Speaker 3: I disagree with you that.
Speaker 7: I disagree with him trying to tell you, bro, it's
Speaker 7: like you hit on the first night. No I did not,
Speaker 7: But person got.
Speaker 1: Y'all know what's a place called Stake thirty eight?
Speaker 3: You heard of?
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I've never been there. I think that's so
Speaker 1: fucking funny. Is the fool good?
Speaker 8: I've never been there. I just rolled past it a
Speaker 8: bunch of times.
Speaker 3: It's like a real big deal too to people.
Speaker 4: Really, yeah, that's Steak thirty eight, white woman?
Speaker 3: What made you think of that?
Speaker 1: I want, he said Ruth Chris in my mind, that's
Speaker 1: how you make it up to her.
Speaker 4: Bro.
Speaker 2: So I have some more points, but we're gonna get
Speaker 2: into some edibles. So the edible portion of the show
Speaker 2: is when we read questions that people send in and
Speaker 2: we answer on the day that we record. I usually
Speaker 2: put a prompt up that says, ask me anything. But
Speaker 2: if you have something to ask, sort of story to
Speaker 2: tell that doesn't fit in the prompt, you can always
Speaker 2: email inquiries at Stormy p e a dot com.
Speaker 1: Do not d M because dms are like the Wild
Speaker 1: Wall West.
Speaker 2: I'm probably never going to see it, So email inquiries
Speaker 2: at stormy pe A dot com.
Speaker 1: Okay, So the first question, will the winner of Pop
Speaker 1: the Balloon actually go on a date with Stormy p
Speaker 1: We're paying for it, paying for that guest.
Speaker 3: And guess what, well, and guess what, niggas you.
Speaker 8: A't gonna get no ask.
Speaker 4: We already seen the other nigga that got an organ.
Speaker 3: They didn't get up, So.
Speaker 4: You ain't getting ship gets tracked, ain't getting and if
Speaker 4: you do get some ass, it's going to prove the point.
Speaker 4: She's just ain't like that nigga because if she if
Speaker 4: a nigga win the contest and she like, no, I
Speaker 4: like this nigga. People do different things for people that
Speaker 4: they like.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, hallelujah.
Speaker 1: I agree that depends where you are, It depends where
Speaker 1: you are in life.
Speaker 8: But I agree that's the thing, and I think that
Speaker 8: I think those niggas like you more than you like them.
Speaker 3: Yeah, the contest, he like, yeah, he feeling you.
Speaker 1: I feel like after the date is over, we all
Speaker 1: have to have like a joint pod to discuss, like
Speaker 1: on some love connection type. I like it, all right, slice,
Speaker 1: what's what's the what's the minimum maximum on the date?
Speaker 3: You mean money? Yeah, she's talking to old cheap stake
Speaker 3: forty eight. I'm gonna be honest with you. It changed
Speaker 3: since I became a little older. It used to be
Speaker 3: one hundred dollars, right, That was that was my living
Speaker 3: girl cheese, one hundred dollars, Like I used to listen
Speaker 3: whatever we could do. One hundred dollars cool if I
Speaker 3: really really like her, two hundred.
Speaker 1: Dollars okay, okay. De bigs were different death Oh.
Speaker 4: No, So it just depends if I'm if I'm I'm
Speaker 4: on a mission. When I was out there, I was
Speaker 4: on a mission, So it didn't matter if it took
Speaker 4: a six hundred dollars hotel room, eating at a crazy spot.
Speaker 3: Babysitter want, oh yeah for babysitters. Quick questions.
Speaker 1: Question in today's society, are you paying for a babysitter.
Speaker 3: Yes, listen, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, okay yes.
Speaker 1: Are you paying for an uber? Yeah, that's not it.
Speaker 8: That's even easier.
Speaker 1: Are you paying for nails?
Speaker 3: No fuck?
Speaker 1: Are you paying for outfit? No fuck?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: Are you I say, paying for the date? But are
Speaker 1: you paying for the date?
Speaker 3: I'll pay for the date. I'm not paying for anything
Speaker 3: like that. So just the thing.
Speaker 4: We just actually had to talk about this, right, We
Speaker 4: were talking to a young lady about this, and it
Speaker 4: was because just like earlier, I said, women that have
Speaker 4: their own cribs, they fucked.
Speaker 3: That's just the truth. They get a lot of dick
Speaker 3: if they got the park.
Speaker 4: But also I said, ain't nothing more horny or ready
Speaker 4: to fuck than a woman who don't got their kid
Speaker 4: that night. They will find a way to go out.
Speaker 4: They not staying in the crest. They are in fucking action,
Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying. And that's what brought us
Speaker 4: to explained to them what we were talking about, what.
Speaker 7: It's like even if a woman's kids, you know, are
Speaker 7: at home, right, paying for the babysitter is like a
Speaker 7: It's like a stunt almost, because the stunt comes when
Speaker 7: you overpay for the babysitter. So it's like, yo, listen,
Speaker 7: oh oh you got the kids, Like, no, come out
Speaker 7: with me to mine. I got three hundred for the babysitter,
Speaker 7: because you know what's gonna happen. Gonna she's gonna give
Speaker 7: the babysitter one hundred. She's gonna throw two in her pocket,
Speaker 7: and that's how the day starts.
Speaker 4: So she's like, oh, ship, and most likely the babysitter
Speaker 4: is really like her sister. Anyway, when a woman tells you,
Speaker 4: I don't know, let me see if my sister will
Speaker 4: watch them, you don't. I don't want you to see.
Speaker 4: I don't want you to see offer I'm gonna I'm
Speaker 4: going to guarantee. It's like yo, I'm almost make it happen. Yo,
Speaker 4: just tell your sister you're gonna slide a like three hundred.
Speaker 8: Now, there's no way that date's not happening.
Speaker 4: It's it's impossible that if the day don't happened, she
Speaker 4: don't like you, don't like you, she don't like you.
Speaker 4: I was quick to be like, Y'll just tell your
Speaker 4: sister you're gonna slider like two hundred or whatever, and
Speaker 4: we go out. It's like for real, like for it's like, yeah,
Speaker 4: you tell her, so the sister is like, when the
Speaker 4: last time you gave me two hundred to watch my
Speaker 4: nephew for real? For real? They don't do that, so
Speaker 4: is guaranteed to happen. It's the same thing with I
Speaker 4: think I gotta pick up. I'm picking up some extra
Speaker 4: hours at my job, so I'm not gonna be able.
Speaker 3: To take it a day off. I'm pinning how much
Speaker 3: you make a job. You got a regular job. You're
Speaker 3: making two fifty a day to day off.
Speaker 4: Take the day off, man, tell them niggas you' and
Speaker 4: that's it.
Speaker 8: And here's another thing about giving up to a niggas
Speaker 8: who don't know how to get it.
Speaker 7: I was doing that as Another thing is if I
Speaker 7: paid three hundred for the babysitter, you kind of gotta
Speaker 7: spend the night.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you a question.
Speaker 2: What happened on date two when she expected that three
Speaker 2: hundred for the babysitter again?
Speaker 3: Did I hit on the first night?
Speaker 1: Give me both scenarios.
Speaker 7: Okay, If I hit on the first night, it don't
Speaker 7: matter now, right. If I hit, if I already hit,
Speaker 7: it don't even matter because I'll just wait to another time.
Speaker 1: And what you're saying, it don't matter.
Speaker 2: Meaning like if she say like, oh, I gotta get
Speaker 2: a babysitter, they're like, all right, well just let me
Speaker 2: know when you free type shit.
Speaker 4: So it depends, it depends. It's possible depending on the scenario.
Speaker 4: But if I execute the plan, I was like, Yo, listen,
Speaker 4: I'm an old guy. Now, I was an elite foxman.
Speaker 4: I mean I knew that as long as I could
Speaker 4: get this joint, she was with me forever until I
Speaker 4: did the dumbest shit in the world. Until I did
Speaker 4: something dumb I am in. After that, she going bring.
Speaker 9: The kid, bringing that nigga like this you did. God,
Speaker 9: it was never a problem anytime.
Speaker 7: You know, after it, because after you hit she'll kind
Speaker 7: of go for anything. I could just be like, Yo,
Speaker 7: I'm gonna just pull up outside, chill in the car, anything,
Speaker 7: and will they just want to They just want to
Speaker 7: be with you. So the kid could just be in
Speaker 7: the crib, sleep or whatever, and I just pull up
Speaker 7: in front of the door. You're just get in the
Speaker 7: car all of a sudden.
Speaker 4: It's just like when you when a woman is like
Speaker 4: always busy and then y'all one day they get up.
Speaker 3: With y'all and y'all do something and.
Speaker 8: Never busy again.
Speaker 4: How the fuck was she busy for three years and
Speaker 4: now you are always available all the time.
Speaker 2: And I just want to step back in and say, women,
Speaker 2: stop talk to the lad Now here's the thing.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna sing her and act like what.
Speaker 2: Y'all saying is wrong because for a majority of women,
Speaker 2: and it's not let me tell you something, but I
Speaker 2: want to say, women, when y'all do this ship, it
Speaker 2: does not make them niggas like y'all more when y'all
Speaker 2: be saying like, oh, I'd be so busy, I can
Speaker 2: never have time for myself.
Speaker 1: And as soon as they hit now, all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: you get.
Speaker 2: Text back quick, you free every weekend, You got all
Speaker 2: the time in the world that does not think like, oh,
Speaker 2: she's the one for me.
Speaker 1: No, now that chase is going, the level of accessibility.
Speaker 3: Is way too high. You are a very busy woman,
Speaker 3: are you not?
Speaker 1: I am, And I make time for niggas I don't
Speaker 1: want to make time for So.
Speaker 4: This is where I was getting at. Stormy is extremely busy.
Speaker 4: She travels, she does a lot of stuff, She makes content.
Speaker 4: But I know that obviously if she's looking for someone,
Speaker 4: when she gets with the person, she's not gonna tell
Speaker 4: them I'm too busy. Niggas, so there is time available,
Speaker 4: and there would be a dude that would be like, damn,
Speaker 4: I knew a stormy I used to chase her around.
Speaker 4: She was super busy, and then once y'all hit it
Speaker 4: off in whatever way y'all hit it off, whatever way,
Speaker 4: it doesn't.
Speaker 2: It's a cheat cold male or female. Whenever they tell
Speaker 2: you they're busy or they don't have time, it's a
Speaker 2: cheat code. Well you say, like, yo, hey, what are
Speaker 2: you doing Friday night? If they are busy, the cheat
Speaker 2: code is, hey, Friday doesn't really work for me, But
Speaker 2: what about Tuesday?
Speaker 1: What about X day? If there is no follow up?
Speaker 1: What about X day?
Speaker 4: They don't like, they don't, they don't with you, they
Speaker 4: don't funk with That's a that's a fact.
Speaker 7: That's a fact, and sometimes that backfire when you're fucking
Speaker 7: with a nigga that got a lot of bitches though,
Speaker 7: what let's talk. I'm just being as a as a
Speaker 7: as a former Omega level mutant myself, who's back, No,
Speaker 7: I'm I'm I'm actually you know, I'm in the danger room.
Speaker 3: They don't understand it's nothing we can do. Yeah. So
Speaker 3: basically what that means is it's like the minute that.
Speaker 7: Can I say that, You say, all right, no, Friday
Speaker 7: doesn't work for me, but how about Tuesday.
Speaker 3: Yo.
Speaker 7: If a nigga got a stable of bitches, he don't
Speaker 7: care all your doing all all he all he gonna
Speaker 7: do is like yo, he's still he still don't care.
Speaker 7: Once you do that one too many times, he kind
Speaker 7: of be off you a little bit, but he still
Speaker 7: want to fuck you.
Speaker 1: Now, here's my thing.
Speaker 2: If I'm telling you, man, this day doesn't work for me,
Speaker 2: but this day is available, you're saying, once that happens
Speaker 2: too many times, how does that happen? If you're not
Speaker 2: available on the next day, then we just not gonna link.
Speaker 2: I'm never gonna stand you up. Also, if I tell
Speaker 2: you I'm not free this day, but I am free
Speaker 2: this day, and that puts you off because you got
Speaker 2: a stable full of bitches, Baby, You're.
Speaker 1: Not who I look for anyway.
Speaker 3: That's why not me?
Speaker 2: I am going to know because the distance is going
Speaker 2: to be there, The text are gonna slow, the calls
Speaker 2: are going to slow, the face, times are gonna slow.
Speaker 8: Not with it on mega level niggas.
Speaker 1: Let's say it was only twelve x men. It's not
Speaker 1: that many omega eleven niggas out there.
Speaker 3: There was There was actually like two hundred.
Speaker 1: There bill people in the world them two hundred act
Speaker 1: men equals twelve.
Speaker 4: But uh yeah, I still think you know both of
Speaker 4: y'all are are correct it in this situation.
Speaker 3: All I know is.
Speaker 4: Fuck the chicks that are not trying to give you
Speaker 4: no cheeks. If you're out here, try and get cheeks. Fine,
Speaker 4: fine horse. If that's what you're looking for. If you're
Speaker 4: looking for you know, this is what it is. If
Speaker 4: you're looking for a stormy pay who's not giving up
Speaker 4: the coach and looking for a husband, then put the
Speaker 4: work in. Don't leave her outside. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: Take care of your daughter, read your comic books each
Speaker 4: your motherfucking vitamins, gets your lightsaber game up.
Speaker 1: And that's that.
Speaker 2: All right, last question all because this ship is super long,
Speaker 2: but it's super funny, so I don't mind. Is nine
Speaker 2: months too short of a time to fall in love
Speaker 2: with someone new after a ten year marriage?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 8: What let me tell you something.
Speaker 7: I just was in a ten year relationship, okay, which
Speaker 7: you're saying, right, And then you said is nine months?
Speaker 7: Myself willing you, So you're saying it's nine months.
Speaker 3: Nine months is too long?
Speaker 8: What are we talking about?
Speaker 3: Nine months?
Speaker 4: Is?
Speaker 7: I'm not you saying it's nine months enough time after
Speaker 7: after coming out of a ten year marriage?
Speaker 8: Is nine months too long? Was not enough time?
Speaker 1: It's nine months too short of a time to fall
Speaker 1: in love with someone new after a teen year.
Speaker 3: Marriage, My girl, you're talking about.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you what.
Speaker 2: A majority of the confusion is gonna come in right
Speaker 2: now is probably looking at the camera like this, niggas
Speaker 2: in a relationship, everybody is confused.
Speaker 1: We're gonna need a little bit of clarification.
Speaker 3: I think that's the end of the show. Yo. Listen, Hey, listen.
Speaker 4: GB just says something so crazy on this show listen, man,
Speaker 4: that y'all.
Speaker 3: Don't even understand. He about to get it. I can't
Speaker 3: believe what he just said.
Speaker 8: Never yo, bro, I've only been potting, like.
Speaker 4: Come on, man, oh man, one person is gonna be
Speaker 4: destroyed and one person might be like, oh shit, this
Speaker 4: was up.
Speaker 3: I cannot all right, I'm gonna answer nine months is
Speaker 3: too short, never to all the way dive in. But
Speaker 3: I can't say that you can't have those feelings before
Speaker 3: nine months. And the reason why I'm saying, when you
Speaker 3: invest a decade with somebody, right coming from experience, that
Speaker 3: person becomes so much a part of your life. Just
Speaker 3: watching Game of Thrones at a certain time, just fucking you.
Speaker 3: You have a routine with this person. So even though
Speaker 3: you find the love of your life in this next person,
Speaker 3: you can't really give them all that you can because
Speaker 3: when Game of Thrones come on, you still get that
Speaker 3: little feeling like that. Let me tell you that. Me
Speaker 3: tell you you know.
Speaker 2: For a second, if you're with somebody for ten years,
Speaker 2: when y'all break up, it's not just a moment of like, yo,
Speaker 2: I gotta get myself together and I gotta jump out
Speaker 2: in the streets. If you're with somebody for ten years,
Speaker 2: you also have to grieve because you're not even the
Speaker 2: person you was when you were with that person.
Speaker 4: Sometimes I'm grieving the last two years while you was
Speaker 4: with him. Yes, you already is like a decline.
Speaker 2: Even if your dad was an asshole, when he dies,
Speaker 2: you're still gonna have to grieve your dad.
Speaker 1: So whether you're grieving the good or the bad, and
Speaker 1: you still have to grieve, you.
Speaker 3: Could be a total stranger. You can see the same
Speaker 3: mail man for ten for ten years, and he's mister Bob,
Speaker 3: the mailman, and then you find out mister Bob dies.
Speaker 3: Now he only delivered mail. You're gonna feel sorrow for
Speaker 3: mister and I got Bob. But that's bo.
Speaker 7: But if in that ten years time you broke up,
Speaker 7: got back together, broke up, got back together, broke up.
Speaker 7: So mister Bob and the mailman for ten years, but
Speaker 7: he took two years off.
Speaker 3: And now no, he keep doing.
Speaker 1: Ten year marriage, y'all. We're talking about a ten year marriage.
Speaker 8: But we separated, all right, we argued, we separated.
Speaker 3: I moved out the crib right now.
Speaker 7: And you you know, we separated for let's say a year,
Speaker 7: separated for a year, we got back together, then we
Speaker 7: separated for three four months, got back together.
Speaker 8: It's like, yo, the relationship was already dying so once.
Speaker 7: So once we broke up, broke up, it's like yo,
Speaker 7: it'd be like it was already grieved.
Speaker 2: It's a difference between the relationship is already dying and
Speaker 2: the relationship was dead. Okay, If it was that bad,
Speaker 2: it was no reason to drag it out for two years.
Speaker 2: You were dragging it out because you were holding onto something.
Speaker 3: You was dragging it out.
Speaker 4: No, no, no, it was you was dragging it out
Speaker 4: because y'all were too invested in other things. It ain't
Speaker 4: the person that I'm with. This motherfucker.
Speaker 3: We got this hard.
Speaker 4: No, we it's like we got We're connected to all
Speaker 4: this bullshit.
Speaker 1: And I'm technically supposed to love you. I said I
Speaker 1: was going to love you.
Speaker 8: But you love somebody and not like them.
Speaker 1: I'm saying, yeah, but you're a grieving that part of
Speaker 1: you too. That is what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: When you meet that new person, I ain't even thinking
Speaker 4: about you, bitch, moved on to some new ship.
Speaker 3: That's how you feel. That's the word.
Speaker 1: That's what I happen right now.
Speaker 3: I think men and this is this is the guy
Speaker 3: out of you. I think they're not honest with themselves right,
Speaker 3: and I think I might be guilty of it too.
Speaker 3: When we're out of that ship, were so like, man,
Speaker 3: fuck that like that ship over that ship was miserable
Speaker 3: for two years. But you don't count. We think of
Speaker 3: relationship is not just the intimacy part. It's the human
Speaker 3: side of relationships that you don't realize. Like, Yo, every
Speaker 3: day Eastern me and her her my kids used to
Speaker 3: fucking Easter egg hunt. Now I'm it's little things like that.
Speaker 3: We're not saying you give a about being with her.
Speaker 3: You just like some parts that that became a part
Speaker 3: of your life is different at the team. Yeah, you
Speaker 3: got a big booty Latina. Now the motherfucker like whatever, whatever. Easter.
Speaker 8: It's like, I mean, bro, it's like taking your your hotter, bro.
Speaker 3: Like the miss Bro.
Speaker 7: I'm just saying, like, Yo, you think they care about
Speaker 7: they think they missed Eastern they missed Like like no,
Speaker 7: it's like I'm on, I'm onto something that's greater.
Speaker 8: That's one of something greater. I don't care about. I don't.
Speaker 8: I grew up my whole life so to bring Easter
Speaker 8: and Martin Luther.
Speaker 4: King Day, Miss Christmas, Muslim niggas, miss what the President.
Speaker 7: You gotta also understand even as I got older, bro,
Speaker 7: like I don't really bang with Thanksgiving like that, Like
Speaker 7: you know what I'm saying, Like, it's like, yo, you
Speaker 7: you you grow and you become a different person sometimes
Speaker 7: it's a relief to kind of find yourself and find
Speaker 7: out like, damn, you.
Speaker 1: Can't make bake mac and cheese. Just say that, you
Speaker 1: guess what.
Speaker 3: Let me ask you.
Speaker 4: Something, Jake, my girl can let me ask you something?
Speaker 4: We can well, I can't say we're gonna but you
Speaker 4: don't funk with Thanksgiving? But how much do you love turkey?
Speaker 3: I love.
Speaker 8: I love a turkey.
Speaker 1: You know, we learned so much today and I'm just
Speaker 1: so happy in your opinion.
Speaker 3: Before we get out of here, I'm curious, how do
Speaker 3: you feel about that question?
Speaker 2: It's not much too sure to fall in love with
Speaker 2: somebody after a ten year marriage. I'm going to say yes.
Speaker 2: And the only reason I'm going to say yes is
Speaker 2: because after a ten year marriage, you should have learned
Speaker 2: that love is not something that you can throw around lightly.
Speaker 2: If you stuck in this shit for ten years, it's
Speaker 2: because it was shit that you liked, it was shit
Speaker 2: that you didn't like, and it was shit that you
Speaker 2: obviously couldn't get over because you're now no longer in
Speaker 2: that marriage. Right, If you think in nine months you
Speaker 2: have found all the things that you could not find
Speaker 2: in this ten year marriage, that's just not even being
Speaker 2: honest with yourself. And don't get me wrong, that person
Speaker 2: might end up being your soulmate. It might be the
Speaker 2: person you end up being with for the rest of
Speaker 2: your life. But you haven't had enough time to You
Speaker 2: don't even know how they act on your birthday. You
Speaker 2: don't know how to act on her birthday. You don't
Speaker 2: know how they act on holidays. You don't know how
Speaker 2: they react to grief. You don't know how they react
Speaker 2: to celebrations. You don't know how they react to being
Speaker 2: around family members X, Y and Z. You just haven't
Speaker 2: put in the time preach coming off of a traumatic experience,
Speaker 2: because a ten year marriage is a traumatic experience. Coming
Speaker 2: off a traumatic experience, nine months is not enough to
Speaker 2: just throw away and just say yo, no now I'm
Speaker 2: in love.
Speaker 8: Shit nine days is but listen, I don't give listen.
Speaker 7: If we was in a ten year marriage, all that
Speaker 7: birthday and all of that stuff, none of that shit
Speaker 7: don't matter, And it don't got nothing to really do
Speaker 7: with the other person. It got to do with the
Speaker 7: way that the marriage ended, because guess what you could
Speaker 7: have been with a nigga that was whipping your ass, right,
Speaker 7: It don't got nothing to do with the fact that
Speaker 7: you met this other dude. It got everything to do
Speaker 7: with the fact that you relieved that I don't gotta
Speaker 7: get my ass whipped on Wednesdays.
Speaker 8: So a lot of times it depends.
Speaker 7: If I was already in the dark room and I
Speaker 7: was already going, like I was already healing and going
Speaker 7: through it while I was actually in it, like because
Speaker 7: people do that, like it's like it's like it's like
Speaker 7: with women. It's like when you when you messle with
Speaker 7: a women, right, and they say, well, when the women
Speaker 7: get quiet and she mentally checked out.
Speaker 8: Y'all could still be living in the same cred but
Speaker 8: she already gone.
Speaker 4: So when I'm hating to have ten years of birthdays
Speaker 4: with the person I'm married before I fell in love
Speaker 4: with them, I think.
Speaker 2: Another part to add on to that is in that
Speaker 2: nine months or however or however much time you had
Speaker 2: since you're divorce, did you learn whatever lesson you didn't
Speaker 2: know while you were in that ten year marriage, and
Speaker 2: did you learn how to avoid it for the next one,
Speaker 2: Because a lot of times people jump back into what's
Speaker 2: familiar and not what's better.
Speaker 7: So let me say this, right, and I'm going to
Speaker 7: really speak from experience, no jokes. Right, And the last year, right,
Speaker 7: I was in a ten year relationship, And the last
Speaker 7: year that I was in that relationship, I spent that
Speaker 7: last year noticing my eye, like the war was kind
Speaker 7: of pulled over my eyes. And I spent that last
Speaker 7: year noticing everything I really didn't like about the relationship,
Speaker 7: as opposed to just going through it and going off
Speaker 7: of feelings. Now I'm not going off of feelings. I'm
Speaker 7: using this up here, and it's like, damn, you know what,
Speaker 7: I really don't like that. You know what, I really
Speaker 7: don't like this food. I really don't like this TV show.
Speaker 7: I really don't like So you can still be there because,
Speaker 7: like dev said, you got mortgage, you got cornels, you
Speaker 7: got businesses, kids, you got you got other things that's
Speaker 7: really keeping you there that don't necessarily got nothing to
Speaker 7: do with the person.
Speaker 4: And sometimes you so checked out, but you might like
Speaker 4: some people are checked out of a relationship but don't
Speaker 4: have a dramatic reason to leave, Like it's not like
Speaker 4: somebody cheated, it's not like somebody did nothing. It's like
Speaker 4: a nigga but could be in a relationship for three
Speaker 4: like he inn at ten year relationship last three He like,
Speaker 4: I don't even fuck with this person. I'm here because
Speaker 4: I don't got no reason.
Speaker 7: That here because I want to see my my I
Speaker 7: wanted my daughter to see me. I make my daughter
Speaker 7: pancakes every morning.
Speaker 3: I enjoy making her pancakes.
Speaker 7: I enjoy making her pancakes. It has nothing to do
Speaker 7: with the motherfucker that's actually in the rum. And once
Speaker 7: you out of it, you like, you know what, I
Speaker 7: cat dying?
Speaker 3: You know what I'm done? Pancakes.
Speaker 1: I think out of it is one part of it.
Speaker 2: Other part of it is have I learned to not
Speaker 2: make that mistake again if it's in a different color.
Speaker 4: No, because it's not about Because this is the other
Speaker 4: part we talked about. People change. I don't give a
Speaker 4: fuck who I meet this day. This girl I meet now,
Speaker 4: she might be a different motherfucker ten years, you know
Speaker 4: what I'm saying. So we can never help or what
Speaker 4: somebody else is going to do. People marry serial killers,
Speaker 4: people marry people who I might get with a girl,
Speaker 4: and everything is beautiful. And then, like what we were
Speaker 4: just saying, he brought up, you know, a church, and
Speaker 4: it made that comparison maybe my wife, my new girl
Speaker 4: that I fell in love with in the nine months
Speaker 4: maybe six years from now, she get the holy feeling
Speaker 4: and want to go super church and I don't.
Speaker 3: I don't break up.
Speaker 7: It don't even have to be something bad. We just
Speaker 7: start growing in different Summarize it real quick. Sometimes you
Speaker 7: just ready for some different problems. You you're mature enough
Speaker 7: to understand that. Yo, this I've been I've been going
Speaker 7: through this over here. So even though I'm with this
Speaker 7: person now, it's like, Yo, even if it don't work out,
Speaker 7: I'm ready.
Speaker 8: I'm ready for some different problems.
Speaker 7: I'm willing to accept the problems that come with it
Speaker 7: just because it's different.
Speaker 3: I don't.
Speaker 7: I don't want to go through the same thing. I'm
Speaker 7: mature enough to know, like, Yo, this person is different.
Speaker 7: Not to say that they don't come with issues, but
Speaker 7: I'm ready for some different issues.
Speaker 3: Damn. That's that's that's arts.
Speaker 1: I appreciate that.
Speaker 2: I don't agree, but I appreciate it. I think that's
Speaker 2: that's a real lation to say. So listen, man, let
Speaker 2: me tell you something. If you enjoyed today's conversation, come
Speaker 2: see this crazy ass shit live.
Speaker 10: Okay.
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Speaker 1: Podcast, y'all talk to me, Talk to me what we
Speaker 1: got going on?
Speaker 7: All we could do is garm and tea that somebody
Speaker 7: is going to win the date witch stormy on Talk Heavy.
Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying. Listen, fellas, don't take her
Speaker 7: to the movies, don't don't, don't beat her and be
Speaker 7: clearly good at games. Don't don't don't do that, don't
Speaker 7: get up.
Speaker 1: I just want to say one thing.
Speaker 2: Excuse me for wanting a fucking top tier competitive ass nigga.
Speaker 3: Let me tell you. Excuse me?
Speaker 1: Who do I think I am?
Speaker 8: You not even thorough enough to let the nigga win?
Speaker 3: He told me that was my question.
Speaker 1: Was I supposed to let her?
Speaker 3: Wait?
Speaker 4: Wait wait he's a sore loser, right, Yeah, that means
Speaker 4: that he's a top tier competitive nigga. Michael Jordan is
Speaker 4: the most top tier competitive nigga on the plane.
Speaker 2: And that nigga was mad about every fucking But you
Speaker 2: know what, and Michael will tell you I took that
Speaker 2: personally and then worked.
Speaker 1: On it to get better.
Speaker 3: He didn't turn around on the top of you didn't
Speaker 3: get my chance though.
Speaker 1: He didn't one on why because he was a sore loser.
Speaker 3: I'll say this, if you see come out April thirteenth
Speaker 3: and find your.
Speaker 7: So I'm gonna also tell you if you in a
Speaker 7: relationship and you come with your girl to this show,
Speaker 7: is a possibility you might get in trouble.
Speaker 3: Bring it to show as well.
Speaker 2: Hey, let me tell you something. If your partner but
Speaker 2: on some bullshit and you want to know if you're
Speaker 2: tripping or not, come to the show and just slide
Speaker 2: a note.
Speaker 3: In the bucket. Won't read it. We'll tell you if
Speaker 3: you're trip it or not. How about that? How about that?
Speaker 2: Especially if you're the nigga who was in this ten
Speaker 2: year marriage, bring your nine month boo to the show
Speaker 2: and we're gonna let you know it's short fall in
Speaker 2: love or not.
Speaker 4: People that wear condoms come to the show. People that
Speaker 4: don't wear condoms and exclusively go row come to the show.
Speaker 1: No, you don't have to come, go be there.
Speaker 3: We want everybody here. Man.
Speaker 8: Yeah, people that don't wear condoms will be on state
Speaker 8: all right, We'll.
Speaker 1: Tell people where to find what the fuck it's gonna
Speaker 1: be one of them. It won't be the ladies. Let's
Speaker 1: just say that. Tell the people where to find y'all.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you can find us at the talk Kivvye Pop podcast.
Speaker 4: That's where you can find me, and.
Speaker 8: Find us on the Devin Waight Network. You can just
Speaker 8: go to YouTube.
Speaker 7: You could go to Talk Heavy podcast on I G
Speaker 7: to Talk Heavy podcast on TikTok to Talk Heavy podcast,
Speaker 7: you know what I mean. You can send your questions
Speaker 7: that your relationship questions and issues to the d m
Speaker 7: s the Talk Heavy Podcast.
Speaker 8: We promise we won't help.
Speaker 4: My help.
Speaker 7: Uh no, we won't help you in our email the
Speaker 7: Talk Heavy Podcast at gmail dot com.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm just so blessed and thankful for you all.
Speaker 7: And shout out one. I'm sorry, and shout out our
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Speaker 3: Do it, don't do it?
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Speaker 4: Man. We probably can't put no real advertisement on here.
Speaker 2: Keeping with hey, listen, I'm very pro team sit on
Speaker 2: that table, so get your money and I appreciate it.
Speaker 3: Thank you. I don't feel so good. You got one kid,
Speaker 3: but the other ones are somewhere.
Speaker 2: Follow me on the ground, ask for me. P p
Speaker 2: e A at chocolate chip and sip. And if you
Speaker 2: don't remember anything else, please.
Speaker 1: Remember in the yard.
Speaker 5: Fly.
Speaker 1: I love you guys. Don't see you next week. Peace,