Speaker 1: Hey there, it's your girl, kay love, and welcome to
Speaker 1: another episode of Taboo, Fetish, or Kink. Today, we're tackling juicy,
Speaker 1: often whispered about topic that has many people curious but
Speaker 1: also feeling a little shy. Yeah, we're talking about anal sex.
Speaker 1: We'll chat about why it's still taboo, the stigma around it,
Speaker 1: and how to have anal play safely. Stick around. It's
Speaker 1: going to be a fun one. Everyone seems eager to
Speaker 1: jump on the anal train because when done right, it
Speaker 1: can be magical. But before you venture into this territory,
Speaker 1: there are some crucial things you need to know first
Speaker 1: and foremost, let's talk about the elephant in the room, shame.
Speaker 1: Anal sex is still highly stigmatized and often seen as
Speaker 1: dirty in our culture. While we're making strides toward acceptance,
Speaker 1: saying we're completely okay with it would be misleading. In
Speaker 1: this segment, we'll explore why anal sex is considered taboo,
Speaker 1: why it can actually be amazing, and how to do
Speaker 1: it safely. Anal sex doesn't fit into the narrative that
Speaker 1: piv intercourse is the best and most natural kind of sex.
Speaker 1: We're often told to stay sexually inactive until we're in
Speaker 1: a long term relationship or marriage osisarka SKI or a
Speaker 1: net eight, and if we stray from this narrative, we're
Speaker 1: labeled as bad or wrong. This is complete. Yet the
Speaker 1: Internet is flooded with content about anal sex, but much
Speaker 1: of it is porn, and porn is like trying to
Speaker 1: learn how to cook by watching chopped, totally unrealistic for
Speaker 1: most people. The stigma surrounding anal mayeven make some people
Speaker 1: more aroused by it, because doing something forbidden can be thrilling.
Speaker 1: This is true for various kinky activities like BDSM, roleplay,
Speaker 1: or group sex. Anything society tells us not to do,
Speaker 1: we end up wanting more. What's even more concerning is
Speaker 1: that stigma and shame push people to engage in anal
Speaker 1: sex without proper knowledge that anus is highly sensitive and
Speaker 1: doesn't naturally lubricate or stretch like the vagina. If you
Speaker 1: rush into anal sex without any warm up, you risk
Speaker 1: causing tears, anal fissures, or even a trip to the er.
Speaker 1: Sweeping things under the rug doesn't mean people won't do them,
Speaker 1: It just means they'll do them unsafely. There's nothing inherently
Speaker 1: wrong with anal sex. But it needs to be done
Speaker 1: with care. All right, let's get into the good stuff.
Speaker 1: How to do butt stuff safely. Understanding how the anus
Speaker 1: can be a pleasure zone for everyone, regardless of gender
Speaker 1: is key. First off, you don't need to shove anything
Speaker 1: super far up to feel pleasure. Most of the anal
Speaker 1: nerves are concentrated within the first two inches of the
Speaker 1: anal opening. This is where you can easily stimulate with fingers. Now,
Speaker 1: let's talk lube. It'll be your golden ticket for all
Speaker 1: things anal play. Contrary to what some might say on
Speaker 1: Reddit spit is not a substitute for lube. The anus
Speaker 1: doesn't self lubricate like the vagina does, so good quality
Speaker 1: lube is essential. The wetter the better. If you skip
Speaker 1: the lube, you could end up hurting your partner by
Speaker 1: causing tears, not fun. Always use a condom if you're
Speaker 1: unsure of your partner's STI status. The delicate tissue of
Speaker 1: the anus is particularly vulnerable to STIs, so better safe
Speaker 1: than sorry. Start with one well loubed finger and then
Speaker 1: gradually move to two. You can also introduce small butt
Speaker 1: plugs as you progress. Remember that the anus isn't a
Speaker 1: naturally stretching muscle. It needs to be gently stretched and needed.
Speaker 1: Anal training can take anywhere from a few hours to
Speaker 1: a few months, so be patient. Rushing could lead to
Speaker 1: serious pain and might make future attempts at anal unlikely
Speaker 1: if you hurt your partner. So you think you're ready
Speaker 1: to explore anal with your partner, just remember to bring
Speaker 1: along plenty of lube and protection. Practice makes perfect and
Speaker 1: patience is key. When done safely and consensually, anal sex
Speaker 1: can be a highly pleasurable experience for everyone involved. Now
Speaker 1: go forth and enjoy your next adventure, so remember safety
Speaker 1: first always as it. For today's episode of Taboo, Fetish
Speaker 1: or Kink, I'm your girl, ka Love, and I hope
Speaker 1: you learned something new and feel a bit more confident
Speaker 1: about exploring anal play safely. Be sure to check the
Speaker 1: show notes for any links or articles mentioned in today's episode.
Speaker 1: Until next time, keep a kinky and take care.