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<v Speaker 1>Hey there, it's your girl, kay love, and welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>another episode of Taboo, Fetish, or Kink. Today, we're tackling juicy,

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<v Speaker 1>often whispered about topic that has many people curious but

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<v Speaker 1>also feeling a little shy. Yeah, we're talking about anal sex.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll chat about why it's still taboo, the stigma around it,

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<v Speaker 1>and how to have anal play safely. Stick around. It's

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<v Speaker 1>going to be a fun one. Everyone seems eager to

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<v Speaker 1>jump on the anal train because when done right, it

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<v Speaker 1>can be magical. But before you venture into this territory,

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<v Speaker 1>there are some crucial things you need to know first

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<v Speaker 1>and foremost, let's talk about the elephant in the room, shame.

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<v Speaker 1>Anal sex is still highly stigmatized and often seen as

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<v Speaker 1>dirty in our culture. While we're making strides toward acceptance,

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<v Speaker 1>saying we're completely okay with it would be misleading. In

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<v Speaker 1>this segment, we'll explore why anal sex is considered taboo,

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<v Speaker 1>why it can actually be amazing, and how to do

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<v Speaker 1>it safely. Anal sex doesn't fit into the narrative that

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<v Speaker 1>piv intercourse is the best and most natural kind of sex.

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<v Speaker 1>We're often told to stay sexually inactive until we're in

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<v Speaker 1>a long term relationship or marriage osisarka SKI or a

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<v Speaker 1>net eight, and if we stray from this narrative, we're

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<v Speaker 1>labeled as bad or wrong. This is complete. Yet the

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<v Speaker 1>Internet is flooded with content about anal sex, but much

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<v Speaker 1>of it is porn, and porn is like trying to

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<v Speaker 1>learn how to cook by watching chopped, totally unrealistic for

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<v Speaker 1>most people. The stigma surrounding anal mayeven make some people

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<v Speaker 1>more aroused by it, because doing something forbidden can be thrilling.

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<v Speaker 1>This is true for various kinky activities like BDSM, roleplay,

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<v Speaker 1>or group sex. Anything society tells us not to do,

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<v Speaker 1>we end up wanting more. What's even more concerning is

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<v Speaker 1>that stigma and shame push people to engage in anal

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<v Speaker 1>sex without proper knowledge that anus is highly sensitive and

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't naturally lubricate or stretch like the vagina. If you

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<v Speaker 1>rush into anal sex without any warm up, you risk

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<v Speaker 1>causing tears, anal fissures, or even a trip to the er.

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<v Speaker 1>Sweeping things under the rug doesn't mean people won't do them,

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<v Speaker 1>It just means they'll do them unsafely. There's nothing inherently

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<v Speaker 1>wrong with anal sex. But it needs to be done

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<v Speaker 1>with care. All right, let's get into the good stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>How to do butt stuff safely. Understanding how the anus

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<v Speaker 1>can be a pleasure zone for everyone, regardless of gender

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<v Speaker 1>is key. First off, you don't need to shove anything

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<v Speaker 1>super far up to feel pleasure. Most of the anal

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<v Speaker 1>nerves are concentrated within the first two inches of the

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<v Speaker 1>anal opening. This is where you can easily stimulate with fingers. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>let's talk lube. It'll be your golden ticket for all

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<v Speaker 1>things anal play. Contrary to what some might say on

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<v Speaker 1>Reddit spit is not a substitute for lube. The anus

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't self lubricate like the vagina does, so good quality

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<v Speaker 1>lube is essential. The wetter the better. If you skip

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<v Speaker 1>the lube, you could end up hurting your partner by

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<v Speaker 1>causing tears, not fun. Always use a condom if you're

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<v Speaker 1>unsure of your partner's STI status. The delicate tissue of

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<v Speaker 1>the anus is particularly vulnerable to STIs, so better safe

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<v Speaker 1>than sorry. Start with one well loubed finger and then

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<v Speaker 1>gradually move to two. You can also introduce small butt

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<v Speaker 1>plugs as you progress. Remember that the anus isn't a

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<v Speaker 1>naturally stretching muscle. It needs to be gently stretched and needed.

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<v Speaker 1>Anal training can take anywhere from a few hours to

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<v Speaker 1>a few months, so be patient. Rushing could lead to

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<v Speaker 1>serious pain and might make future attempts at anal unlikely

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<v Speaker 1>if you hurt your partner. So you think you're ready

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<v Speaker 1>to explore anal with your partner, just remember to bring

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<v Speaker 1>along plenty of lube and protection. Practice makes perfect and

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<v Speaker 1>patience is key. When done safely and consensually, anal sex

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<v Speaker 1>can be a highly pleasurable experience for everyone involved. Now

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<v Speaker 1>go forth and enjoy your next adventure, so remember safety

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<v Speaker 1>first always as it. For today's episode of Taboo, Fetish

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<v Speaker 1>or Kink, I'm your girl, ka Love, and I hope

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<v Speaker 1>you learned something new and feel a bit more confident

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<v Speaker 1>about exploring anal play safely. Be sure to check the

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<v Speaker 1>show notes for any links or articles mentioned in today's episode.

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<v Speaker 1>Until next time, keep a kinky and take care.