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<v Speaker 1>Do you still love cooking today? Yeah? It's like, what's

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<v Speaker 1>you What kind of thing do you like?

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<v Speaker 2>Several? I mean I didn't. I just got into it

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<v Speaker 2>maybe ten years ago or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so before that not really. So what we're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about is that they did a survey or a study

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<v Speaker 1>in Canada.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, Justin oh sorry, Justin Watson comes in and he

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<v Speaker 3>talks with them introduction.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I got I. Do you do a couple of weekends?

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<v Speaker 1>Shows that you think you're in the big leagues? Evidently

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<v Speaker 1>a little big bridge this year.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't even have working head funds. What are you

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<v Speaker 2>talking about?

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<v Speaker 4>You know?

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<v Speaker 1>Fun fact I'm filling in for him on vacation. No

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<v Speaker 1>I am not give it.

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<v Speaker 2>Give it a couple of weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you imagine?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, that would be horrible. He's so awful for so

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<v Speaker 1>many people, mostly me anyway. So they did this study

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<v Speaker 1>that found that cooking is one of the things, as

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<v Speaker 1>like an aptitude for life skills, is one of the

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<v Speaker 1>things that a child does not pick up from just watching,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you can't just set an example for cooking. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>What's interesting is I have seen other research that would

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<v Speaker 1>support that for eating habits like kids do pay attention

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<v Speaker 1>to what choices you make when you're choosing food to eat.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you choose less healthy foods, they will follow suit.

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<v Speaker 1>But they don't learn how to cook from just watching.

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<v Speaker 1>They have to actually participate in it. They have to

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<v Speaker 1>do the thing. And that's why I'm a big fan

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<v Speaker 1>of like having like one night a week, especially over

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<v Speaker 1>the summer, because my kids will tend to just hang

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<v Speaker 1>out in their rooms a lot over the summer. So

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<v Speaker 1>at least one night a week I make them cook dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not kind of supervised. They still have doors. They

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<v Speaker 1>do have doors so far, well, some of them have

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<v Speaker 1>gotten close to losing them.

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<v Speaker 2>But is this a thing? How generational is it?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, did you did you watch your parents cook?

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<v Speaker 2>Or I mean, pay any attention to what I was?

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<v Speaker 1>I was just talking about this with my kids about

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<v Speaker 1>how much of a colossal a hole I was as

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<v Speaker 1>a child. When my stepmom would clear like she would

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<v Speaker 1>make the food, we would come in and sit down,

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<v Speaker 1>we would eat the food, and we would just get

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<v Speaker 1>up and leave.

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<v Speaker 2>How old were you when your stepmom she.

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<v Speaker 1>Came into the picture when I was six? Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>I stayed there until I was eighteen. I moved out

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<v Speaker 1>a few months before I turned nineteen. That's when I

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<v Speaker 1>moved out of my parents' house six months after I graduated.

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<v Speaker 4>I think every kid gets to the kitchen table, fakes

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<v Speaker 4>their way through the family dinner, and then high tails

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<v Speaker 4>it back to the room.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think that's just America.

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<v Speaker 1>But we didn't even like take our dishes to the sink.

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<v Speaker 1>It's part of my point, like there was no chores

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<v Speaker 1>in that way of doing dishes. Was there an expectation

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<v Speaker 1>of it and you just didn't do it or there

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<v Speaker 1>was just no expectation, no expectation, Like I got it

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<v Speaker 1>on my own and I didn't. Really I totally agree,

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<v Speaker 1>but but it's funny like as soon as I moved out,

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<v Speaker 1>it took me all of a month living on my own,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, oh my gosh, I'm a jerk,

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<v Speaker 1>Like this is not okay. And again, not to speak

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<v Speaker 1>ill of my father, rested peace Pops, but like in

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<v Speaker 1>that way, he was very chauvinist. Like I know I've

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<v Speaker 1>told the story on the show before where I was.

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<v Speaker 1>He told me when I was like five or six,

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<v Speaker 1>because I wanted something. It's like sounds like you need

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<v Speaker 1>a job. And I was campaigning, and one of the

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<v Speaker 1>things I offered to do, weirdly enough, was dishes. And

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, I got your mom to do the dishes.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta find a job that I.

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<v Speaker 2>Already not not wrong, not wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Not wrong. My mom hated using the dishwasher too. It

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<v Speaker 1>was more used for like pot storage, than ever to

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<v Speaker 1>clean anything. She liked doing everything by hand, still to

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<v Speaker 1>this day, does not have a dishwasher in her house.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it doesn't make sense sometimes to use the dishwasher

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<v Speaker 4>when you can just wash it by hand.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but a whole family. You got a family of

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<v Speaker 1>four that just had dinner that you prepared everything.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I mean yeah, I mean I like, I'll put

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<v Speaker 4>the plates in the dishwasher. But in terms of all

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<v Speaker 4>the stuff I used to make dinner, you clean that

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<v Speaker 4>as you go my hand.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I guess that makes sense. I do, I

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<v Speaker 1>do pretty much except for pots. I will I will

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<v Speaker 1>hand wash a pot. This can't be interesting for anyone.

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<v Speaker 2>Were like one quarter like five?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yeah, Well the way to a skillet, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>wash the skillet.

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<v Speaker 4>Talk to me about your skillet. What kind of skillet

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<v Speaker 4>do you have?

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<v Speaker 1>I have? I have multiple skillets because my son to

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<v Speaker 1>kind of what why this maybe stood stood out to

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<v Speaker 1>me as my son loves to cook and he is

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<v Speaker 1>he lectures us. I'm already blanking on it. He would

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<v Speaker 1>slap me across the face if I allowed it. There's

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<v Speaker 1>a word that starts with M that in the in

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<v Speaker 1>the cooking world, it's like getting a little char Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, we have a whole thing about that.

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<v Speaker 1>You said that like it came up. You looked like

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<v Speaker 1>we had a whole session about his love of mayard.

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<v Speaker 3>You told doctor McGillicutty you would never bring it up again.

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<v Speaker 1>That was really fun for me to be in the

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<v Speaker 1>room for.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't remember exactly what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, your emotions are remember, because you seem very unhappy.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like we.

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<v Speaker 4>Need to explain it because I don't even know what

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<v Speaker 4>it is. Well, why was it a thing? Why are

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<v Speaker 4>you shaking your head and not using your word?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it dirty?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Dirty? How can they are dirty? I don't know? Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>he likes high heat, which has a tendency to ruin

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<v Speaker 1>nonstiff hands. If anybody who has a discoverable at home.

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<v Speaker 1>So he was like he was new to cooking and

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<v Speaker 1>I let him just do whatever he wants in the

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<v Speaker 1>kitchen so he can learn. And he's tore up so

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<v Speaker 1>many skillets in my house, and so now I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you can only use the cast iron skillet that is

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<v Speaker 1>only that is the only thing you were allowed to

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<v Speaker 1>cook on because he made me buy a stainless steel one,

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<v Speaker 1>and even that one, it's like if everything sticks to

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<v Speaker 1>it and it's just awful, and then he doesn't always

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<v Speaker 1>clean it, which drives me nuts.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the thing with those cast iron you got to be.

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<v Speaker 2>Cast iron is pretty bulletproof.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean you could screw it up and then clean it, receipt,

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<v Speaker 3>reseason it, and it's very much back. It's those non

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<v Speaker 3>sticks that once you break that surface or it's over,

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<v Speaker 3>it's yeah, trust me. I have not mentioned the incredible

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<v Speaker 3>amount of whatever that is made with is now.

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<v Speaker 2>In your food. Can't do Yeah, it's made.

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<v Speaker 1>With a bunch of I tried to explain that to

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<v Speaker 1>my son, but he's sixteen, and so all of the words.

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<v Speaker 2>You believe he's sixteen, isn't it crazy?

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<v Speaker 1>He's seventeen and a few shocking he told me recently.

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<v Speaker 1>He told me this yesterday, and I like, looked at

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<v Speaker 1>him like, you idiot.

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<v Speaker 4>Know.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like, Dad, I have basically like two more

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<v Speaker 1>years of school. And I was like what, No, what

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<v Speaker 1>are you talking?

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<v Speaker 2>And then I was like, oh, he's shocked by this development.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is again I say this. I said this

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<v Speaker 1>about being teenagers. So far it worked out middle school,

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<v Speaker 1>middle school. I hate. I hate being a parent of

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<v Speaker 1>a middle school kid. Teenagers have not been bad so far,

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<v Speaker 1>other than if once you get used to desensitized to

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<v Speaker 1>the not listening. But now I'm really finding myself getting excited. Guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting excited about like adult children, really stoked for

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<v Speaker 1>when they get to like graduate high school are a

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<v Speaker 1>living starts in my mind.

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<v Speaker 4>Your kids to find their wife the way you found

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<v Speaker 4>your wife.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, no idea. How much you have you have

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<v Speaker 1>struck a chord And there there's a there's been many

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<v Speaker 1>a late at night pillow conversation between my wife and

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<v Speaker 1>I where there's there's romance on the horizon for my

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<v Speaker 1>older son with a young lady that her family is great.

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<v Speaker 1>She's a very like just level headed young lady. And

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm very I'm very excited about this, and I've

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<v Speaker 1>been planning the wedding pretty much. I've never done this,

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<v Speaker 1>don't get me wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>What has your son said about this? Wait, let's do

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<v Speaker 4>it after the break. I'm dying.

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<v Speaker 3>Justin Warshon was Johnny. So we're talking about parenting, let's

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<v Speaker 3>discuss this. This is you already planning your kid's wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>So there's a story behind it in that when my

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<v Speaker 1>high school drama group was doing School of Rock and

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<v Speaker 1>we were touring to like elementary schools and doing the

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<v Speaker 1>show when you were when I was in high school,

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<v Speaker 1>and after Natalie and I got together and we were

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<v Speaker 1>going to get married, each of our parents said to

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<v Speaker 1>us separately. My father said, you know what's funny. When

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<v Speaker 1>you guys were doing that School of Rock. I noticed

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<v Speaker 1>Natalie and I was like, she seems like a nice girl.

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<v Speaker 1>That would be a good fit for Justin. And then

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<v Speaker 1>Natalie's mom saw me, but her impression to me was like,

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<v Speaker 1>he looks so sad and lonely. You bet that was

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<v Speaker 1>your move?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh, depressed kid?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I was just just.

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<v Speaker 2>Cheer me up.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyway, so there was there's this girl that uh

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<v Speaker 1>my son uh is in choir with and uh they

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<v Speaker 1>they had a moment where they were partnered together a

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<v Speaker 1>while ago, and I was like, it seems like a nice,

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<v Speaker 1>like level headed girl, but I don't want to get involved.

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<v Speaker 1>I purposely of like whatever, you know, I never said

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<v Speaker 1>anything to him.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not going to steer him towards her.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, no, until he said that there might

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<v Speaker 1>be mutual interest between the two parties.

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<v Speaker 2>And how he said it.

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<v Speaker 1>No, he said, I can't. I can't do it without

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<v Speaker 1>saying the poor young lady's name, and that's not fair

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<v Speaker 1>to her or really whom, to be honest, call her

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, I'm already sweating that you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>say the exact right name.

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<v Speaker 4>She's not, I'm not. Let's call her Valentina Valentino.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, good, that's good. All right? Yeah, so val he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, hey, I think Valentina might like me, and

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<v Speaker 1>the excitement that I had to restrain to me. And

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<v Speaker 1>then later that night when the kids are all going

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<v Speaker 1>to bed, and I got to tell Natalie like like

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<v Speaker 1>we were two girls, says. I was like, you're not

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<v Speaker 4>I totally envisioned you and your wife having those slumber

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<v Speaker 1>But she doesn't get as excited.

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<v Speaker 3>You're books, are sitting on the couch with your pillows

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<v Speaker 3>and you're holding them on your your little top of

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<v Speaker 1>Of it's ride, except for all you're describing is my

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<v Speaker 2>She goes full blow, dude, and she's just so, she's like,

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<v Speaker 2>just got to see what he likes out there first,

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<v Speaker 2>sitting on the other bed, scratching off.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have time. I've already used all my words today.

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<v Speaker 2>Get some milk from for free from these cows. First,

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<v Speaker 2>she's scratching.

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<v Speaker 1>And so she literally told me at one point he

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<v Speaker 1>At one point you literally told me, she goes, you

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation with the parents. And so I was like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a little soon for that. I was like, oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>the next eight years. Oh my god, I might have

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<v Speaker 1>jumped the gun on this man. I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you like the idea of an outdoor wedding?

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<v Speaker 4>So where are we at? We think there's mutual interests.

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<v Speaker 1>There's definitely mutual interest and we're waiting.

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<v Speaker 2>For texting going on.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, definitely lots of texting. Lots of texting that's happening.

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<v Speaker 1>And I am again, both of my sons have the nicest,

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<v Speaker 1>sweetest young ladies that they one has got a girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>The younger one's got a girlfriend and she's she's very kind.

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<v Speaker 1>I want him to go have dates with her, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to not like he's fourteen. He's thirteen, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>but he's been on other dates with other girls where

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<v Speaker 3>Thing like, oh my god, helicopter parent for a second,

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<v Speaker 3>I just need to talk to Shan for a second.

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<v Speaker 2>Turn off your headphones and everything. Should we do?

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<v Speaker 3>You think we should intercept the text messages between Justin

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<v Speaker 3>and his kids, just to temper Justin's reaction to his kids, Like, hey, guys, uh,

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<v Speaker 3>just you know what I'm saying, like, maybe they should

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna have to learn kids speak like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>Finn and the you know, wait, what is that right? Justin? Okay, Justin,

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<v Speaker 2>you can come back?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay back, So you guys are as excited as I am.

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<v Speaker 1>Right kind of Oh man, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Feel like you're like ruining your kid's game, probably by

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Like here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Well you listen, I think you could puddle pull it

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<v Speaker 3>off where you're like whatever, yeah, dad.

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<v Speaker 2>Do that?

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<v Speaker 1>Normal?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you just did?

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<v Speaker 1>Do that?

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<v Speaker 2>And I can't try it?

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever?

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<v Speaker 2>Whatever, and listen. You know her name?

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<v Speaker 3>This is also this is also a step far beyond

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<v Speaker 3>anything I had this early on in my kid's relationships

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<v Speaker 3>with anybody which was name.

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<v Speaker 1>I know her.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't bother with the space.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, just norm Justin's a woman, probably girl's social

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<v Speaker 4>security number. He's like me track he had a first

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<v Speaker 4>name and found out everything about this girl within six seconds, just.

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<v Speaker 2>The last four exactly. It's a brilliant one.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen again, I know there are lots of things.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you bought them a home? Yet?

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<v Speaker 1>If I had the down I did make that joke,

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<v Speaker 1>though joke. He gets it. He knows me well enough

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<v Speaker 1>relationship with my sons and even my family, and like

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<v Speaker 1>so much of their life has been me being the

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<v Speaker 1>like authoritarian person of like this is how it's gonna go.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to bed at this time, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what it is about.

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<v Speaker 2>While you're holding a pillow on your lap, Yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>So have you have you had a conversation about sex?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, I we talked about that a couple of times.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like what I've decided with my sons is

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<v Speaker 1>I told them that all of the various items or

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<v Speaker 1>I call what I call them bedroom bucket list items,

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<v Speaker 1>I go, you could check that off after you hit

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<v Speaker 1>twenty five or when you're married. Right, this is not

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<v Speaker 1>the time I go right now, at this age. I

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<v Speaker 1>said I would encourage you, not because I'm spiritual, but

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<v Speaker 1>just because I think it's just better. Honestly, is that,

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<v Speaker 1>I said. I understand the curiosity. I said, I would

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<v Speaker 1>think that the stronger connection you have with that person,

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<v Speaker 1>the better the experiences. I said, but I understand that

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<v Speaker 1>there can be some excitement with like a fleing kind

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<v Speaker 1>of thing. I know it's not something I've ever experienced,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was like, I get that too, I said,

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<v Speaker 1>but the big thing for me, you have to be

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<v Speaker 1>a gentleman, and the girl drives the boat, so she

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<v Speaker 1>decides what is okay and what isn't. And that every

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<v Speaker 1>time I've said this to both my sons, every time

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<v Speaker 1>they decide to level up the experience. For lack of

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<v Speaker 1>a better way of putting it, I go, I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's important that you say, hey, like I'm this is

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<v Speaker 1>good for me. I'm cool with this, but we don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to do this so that you like me like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't need this for me to like

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<v Speaker 1>you back, because I feel like young ladies. And I

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<v Speaker 1>know I'm being wildly chauvinistic and sexist, but they're my kids,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm gonna do it. I feel like girls in

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<v Speaker 1>their teenage years, they start to if they have feelings

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<v Speaker 1>for a boy, they feel this pressure to feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>these are the things I have to do because he's

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<v Speaker 1>a nice guy and I don't want to lose him.

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<v Speaker 3>The girls give the sex to get the love. The

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<v Speaker 3>guys give the love to get the sacks.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, and I don't. I just so and so

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<v Speaker 1>far it's worked, like I but both of my I

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<v Speaker 1>was a little worried about the younger one, but as

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<v Speaker 1>he's grown up, he's he's so sweet and so giving,

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<v Speaker 1>like with all of the relationships he's had. He likes

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<v Speaker 1>to give him a little. He just wants to love

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<v Speaker 1>both of them, like and they're they're not overly. They

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<v Speaker 1>don't make out or they're not like overly if well,

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<v Speaker 1>my old or something there was there was a comforter. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I mean. He likes to cuddle like his

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<v Speaker 1>old man.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's that was awful. It's for him and me

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<v Speaker 2>justin thank you very much.

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<v Speaker 1>Stick around At the top of the made.

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<v Speaker 2>Talk trending my son ever heard of God?

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<v Speaker 4>Like I know, like, oh God, it was awful, so bad.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm still not over it.

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<v Speaker 3>Harley riding down the street and never coming back, and

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<v Speaker 1>Sunday No.