Speaker 1: Hey, hey, hey, I'm bad with something for you to
Speaker 1: think about. Many of you have become prisoners in your relationships.
Speaker 2: You heard me, many of you have become prisoners in
Speaker 2: your relationships. And what's even worse is this a free will.
Speaker 2: Now many people may disagree with that, but let me explain,
Speaker 2: it doesn't matter what.
Speaker 1: You get into. You chose to get into it. See
Speaker 1: a lot of people look at the.
Speaker 2: Outcome, they look at the end result, they look at
Speaker 2: the devastation and the destruction, and they say to themselves, well.
Speaker 1: I didn't ask for that.
Speaker 2: You did when you chose to guide to get them
Speaker 2: to that relationship. When you got into that relationship of
Speaker 2: free will, you were signing up for it. See a
Speaker 2: lot of people make the mistake of missing the signs
Speaker 2: and red flats because they're blind to their wants, feelings,
Speaker 2: and desires. They can't see what's right in front of
Speaker 2: them because their unheal hearts and minds won't allow them to.
Speaker 2: So many people open themselves up to negativity. But what
Speaker 2: people don't understand is when you choose to go fourth
Speaker 2: in relationships, you.
Speaker 1: Know that are not good for you.
Speaker 2: You're always gonna get that extra that you didn't anticipate.
Speaker 2: You're always gonna get.
Speaker 1: That extra that you didn't.
Speaker 2: In any shape, form or fashion imagine.
Speaker 1: That you was gonna get.
Speaker 2: That's why you have to be able to see beyond
Speaker 2: your superficion You must be able to see beyond what
Speaker 2: your eyes show you because see looks.
Speaker 1: You know that big bully, that big chest, those.
Speaker 2: Pets, those biceps and triceps and.
Speaker 1: Fires, and you know that is nothing.
Speaker 2: Titles, position, status, money, that is there's nothing. It's all
Speaker 2: superficial and it's never anything of substance. It's gonna help
Speaker 2: you have a strong, loving, lasting relationship, it's not. I've
Speaker 2: said it so many times that I'm said again. Most
Speaker 2: people in this world are in one sided relationships.
Speaker 1: Most people.
Speaker 2: Most people are in relationships that they're just settling for because.
Speaker 1: They don't want to be alone. They don't want to
Speaker 1: be by themselves.
Speaker 2: They're afraid to be alone.
Speaker 1: They have so many insecurities.
Speaker 2: They don't think that they can stand to be by themselves.
Speaker 1: They're afraid to start over. I'm too old, I've invested
Speaker 1: too much, You've invested. Yeah.
Speaker 2: See, a lot of people are in relationships committed to
Speaker 2: the relationships, but not committed to the person that they're with,
Speaker 2: or I'll say, I'm not going anywhere. What you're cheating?
Speaker 1: Are You're miserably unhappy.
Speaker 2: Many many people are in one sided relationships, prisoners in
Speaker 2: their relationships because of their own mindsets.
Speaker 1: Some of you are prisoners also because the person you with.
Speaker 2: That person you're with, they're holding you in captivity, some mentally,
Speaker 2: some mentally and physically. Either way you allowing it of
Speaker 2: free will. Listen, Oh, I get it. I've been an
Speaker 2: abusive relationship.
Speaker 1: Me and myself. I was never that fearful person, you know, scared.
Speaker 2: Of him. It wasn't that way. I was scared what
Speaker 2: I was gonna have to do to protect myself, because
Speaker 2: when a person is that way, you never know what
Speaker 2: they may do. Many people have lost their lives in unhealthy,
Speaker 2: abusive relationships. But the worst thing in this world for
Speaker 2: an individual who's in a relationship is being a prisoner
Speaker 2: in your relationship. And most people are not because of
Speaker 2: the other person, not necessarily, but because of self.
Speaker 1: The mindset that you have.
Speaker 2: Now, I want you to think about it, and you
Speaker 2: are the only person who can answer for yourself, because
Speaker 2: you're the person who knows.
Speaker 1: What you're going through.
Speaker 2: Most of you, you don't have a gun to your
Speaker 2: head a knife to your throat. You stay off your
Speaker 2: own free will, and you have to become a prisoner
Speaker 2: in your relationship. Some of you are in relationship with
Speaker 2: people who are treating you.
Speaker 1: Like dog poop.
Speaker 2: Horrible, terrible, incomprehensible, inconceivable. But you stay because you choose
Speaker 2: to settle with that than to be by yourself. Because
Speaker 2: of your insecurities, your lack of confidence, you allow yourself
Speaker 2: to endure what you're enduring, so you are a prisoner
Speaker 2: in your relationship. Some people are talked to like dogs.
Speaker 2: Their relatives are talked to like dogs and treated like
Speaker 2: dogs by the significant others.
Speaker 1: But you still say, but I love him, Hey, I
Speaker 1: love her.
Speaker 2: You still said, although you treated lack a dog, not
Speaker 2: shame on them, shame on you. Shame on you for
Speaker 2: enduring it because you don't have to endure it. You
Speaker 2: get what you allow your person exactly how they can
Speaker 2: treat you. I've told my story many times. I was
Speaker 2: very young, very young. I was foolish, didn't know anything,
Speaker 2: thought I knew.
Speaker 1: Because I was always a.
Speaker 2: Little bit more mature than the average eighteen year old. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I got married very young, had children young. But let
Speaker 2: me tell you, I woke up real quick and got
Speaker 2: out of there.
Speaker 1: Never looked back, because it makes no sense to.
Speaker 2: Me to go back for a double dose. Oh go god,
Speaker 2: Oh no, Because you set the pattern when you allow abuse.
Speaker 2: You set the pattern when you allow yourself to be
Speaker 2: taken advantage of it. You set the pattern when you
Speaker 2: allow yourself to be disrespected. You because you teach that
Speaker 2: other person how they can treat you.
Speaker 1: And the more you allow it, you become a prisoner
Speaker 1: in your own relationship.
Speaker 2: And like I said, not necessarily because the person you're
Speaker 2: with is abusing you physically, but a lot of times
Speaker 2: it's other things. And you stay because you think you
Speaker 2: love this person, but really you know it's not loved,
Speaker 2: because you know love is not.
Speaker 1: Any of what you act as if it is.
Speaker 2: You know love is not abusive, disrespectful, degrading, belittley.
Speaker 1: You know that's not love. You know it.
Speaker 2: But you're going off of your feelings, your wants, and
Speaker 2: your desires and you think it's love.
Speaker 1: But you have to look at the whole.
Speaker 2: Picture, not just at bits and pieces, and people literally,
Speaker 2: literally literally become prisoners in their relationships. Some of you
Speaker 2: you're afraid to go, you're afraid to stay. That is
Speaker 2: a horrible, horrible, horrible situation to begin. But yet you
Speaker 2: become prisoners in your relationships because you have given your power.
Speaker 2: When you empower people, you make them appear powerful, but
Speaker 2: they are always the weakest link.
Speaker 1: They know it, but they just manipulating, fool you to
Speaker 1: believe they have.
Speaker 2: Power over you because you empower them.
Speaker 1: So many people are living this night man.
Speaker 2: So many people are miserable in their relationships. So many
Speaker 2: have settled, unhappy, lonely in their relationships.
Speaker 3: Because you become comfortable with the familiar. It's horrible.
Speaker 1: Because of it.
Speaker 2: You are prisoners in your own relationships. Because of the
Speaker 2: mindsets that you have. You think that's all you're worthy of.
Speaker 2: You think, oh, I'm too old, nobody don't want me,
Speaker 2: or you think well I don't have anything.
Speaker 1: I don't have education.
Speaker 2: This some that you've talked negative to yourself, which is
Speaker 2: something you should never do.
Speaker 1: I don't care what's happening, I don't care what people say.
Speaker 2: You should never talk negative to yourself about yourself.
Speaker 1: It's really really bad when people do that. On my
Speaker 1: most terrible looking day.
Speaker 2: I still tell many things, wink my eye, up myself
Speaker 2: and everything.
Speaker 1: Yes I do.
Speaker 2: I look in the mirror and I weak myself, honey,
Speaker 2: and I will throw myself a kiss in the mornings.
Speaker 1: Yes I do. I'll say, you go, girl. I love
Speaker 1: on me.
Speaker 2: You know, I have confidence in me. I'm my biggest
Speaker 2: motive vator. Supporting all of that is good, but you
Speaker 2: gotta be able to do it for yourself because a
Speaker 2: lot of.
Speaker 1: Times people are not going to be there for you.
Speaker 2: Because of their own unhealed inner issues. Envy and jealousy
Speaker 2: is real. Brokenness is real. Brokenness don't discriminate. They don't
Speaker 2: care if you're rich or if you're poor, male females.
Speaker 2: Brokenness does not discriminate. People go through life the very same.
Speaker 1: Every day we live.
Speaker 3: As an opportunity to become better, to become better people.
Speaker 1: But people just go through life.
Speaker 2: You know. I've learned to say that all people do
Speaker 2: is parent and regurgitate. Parent and regurgitate, which is kind
Speaker 2: of the same thing. Go through life believing what they've
Speaker 2: been told, hearing what they've what people say, and then
Speaker 2: go and repeat the same thing to other people until
Speaker 2: it sticks with someone and the cycle continues. No one
Speaker 2: is learning anything, no one is becoming better.
Speaker 1: No one is growing mentally. That's why we in the sick, wicked, evil, dark, cold.
Speaker 2: World because of the people that's in it, and all
Speaker 2: of the mess.
Speaker 1: Is displayed in relationships.
Speaker 4: Oh of the unresolved inner issues comes out because that
Speaker 4: one person, as you know, I've always said you cannot get.
Speaker 1: Away from, is yourself. So guess what.
Speaker 2: You're taking all of your brokenness into your relationships.
Speaker 1: And you become prisoner in your relationship.
Speaker 2: I've said many times, unhealed, broken people are always and
Speaker 2: I do mean always, gonna be the prey for the
Speaker 2: predatory son or God. But in your relationships, it is you, you, you, you,
Speaker 2: you who teaches your significant other how they can treat you?
Speaker 2: And baby, let me tell you, if you let them
Speaker 2: get away.
Speaker 1: With it, they gonna run with it.
Speaker 2: They will treat you exactly how they want to treat
Speaker 2: you because they know you're gonna take it.
Speaker 1: And the next thing you know, your prisoner in your
Speaker 1: own relationship, find your own doing and you settle for it.
Speaker 2: This is what a lot of people are enduring at
Speaker 2: their own hands by people who they believe love them.
Speaker 2: You don't know love when you don't love yourself. So
Speaker 2: you accept anything to be loved when you never receive it.
Speaker 2: When I say prisoners to your in your relationships, I
Speaker 2: mean every word because it's what you chose to be
Speaker 2: by the power that you gave your significant other.
Speaker 1: It is what you chose to be how you because
Speaker 1: of how.
Speaker 2: You empowered your significant others. You taught them that they
Speaker 2: can mistreat you. You taught them that they can take
Speaker 2: advantage of you. You taught them it's okay that they
Speaker 2: cheat on you. You taught them everything that they do
Speaker 2: to you. You taught them as they can do it.
Speaker 2: If you want better in your life, don't look to
Speaker 2: your left or to your right, look right, face forward
Speaker 2: into that mirror at.
Speaker 1: Yourself, because that is the person you gotta deal with.
Speaker 1: That is the person who has to allow in or healing.
Speaker 2: You know. I always talk about that inside work. You
Speaker 2: gotta do that inside work for things to work well
Speaker 2: for you on the outside. See that inside is invisible,
Speaker 2: but the effects are visible.
Speaker 1: Let me say it again that inside, the unresolved inner.
Speaker 2: Issues, it's invisible, but the effects that it has in
Speaker 2: your life are visible.
Speaker 1: Oh that's powerful and until people choose to change.
Speaker 2: Until people choose to mature and grow mentally, we're gonna
Speaker 2: stay in this mess that we're in collectively as a whole.
Speaker 2: And you know, I don't mind saying if tomorrow the
Speaker 2: Lord come back set this place on fire, it'll be
Speaker 2: all right with me. Because people not trying to be better.
Speaker 2: So what's the point of letting the world putting you on.
Speaker 2: People are not trying to be better. That's why we're
Speaker 2: having earthquakes in diverse places. Two different states that I
Speaker 2: know people in have had earthquakes within.
Speaker 1: The last week.
Speaker 2: One a matter of fact, was today this morning, and
Speaker 2: one was last week in another state.
Speaker 1: Two states that I know.
Speaker 2: I mean the ones that you could feel big enough
Speaker 2: could feel, and the weather don't even talk about it.
Speaker 2: It is so weird.
Speaker 1: So at God is wrapping things up. Time is flying flying.
Speaker 1: Remember I was on here.
Speaker 2: Just seemed like it was.
Speaker 1: Months ago to me.
Speaker 2: But it's been now going on four years that my
Speaker 2: mom has passed, and I was right here talking about it.
Speaker 1: Going on four years now that.
Speaker 2: It's insane, But it feels like it was just months
Speaker 2: ago to me. I'm saying this because time is winding up.
Speaker 2: But people aren't remaining the same.
Speaker 5: Hatred, lustful, greedy, envious, mean, miserable, sad, depressed, I mean,
Speaker 5: you name it.
Speaker 1: People are choosing to remain the same as time is
Speaker 1: flying by all of us.
Speaker 2: So when you choose to not change, you remain the same.
Speaker 2: And that's why many of you are prisoners in your relationships.
Speaker 1: And guess what.
Speaker 2: The only person can change that situation is you. You
Speaker 2: can think somebody can fix, save and change you all
Speaker 2: you want to. You can think somebody can make you
Speaker 2: whole all you want to, you are wrong, and by
Speaker 2: now you know you're wrong. You can't do it for
Speaker 2: anyone either. So that's all I'm saying. I'm leaving it
Speaker 2: right there. I'm leaving it right there, So thank you
Speaker 2: for listening. Much love to each and every one of you.
Speaker 2: You know, I in every episode the same and I
Speaker 2: hope you do it, think on it.