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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, hey, I'm bad with something for you to

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<v Speaker 1>think about. Many of you have become prisoners in your relationships.

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<v Speaker 2>You heard me, many of you have become prisoners in

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<v Speaker 2>your relationships. And what's even worse is this a free will.

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<v Speaker 2>Now many people may disagree with that, but let me explain,

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<v Speaker 2>it doesn't matter what.

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<v Speaker 1>You get into. You chose to get into it. See

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people look at the.

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<v Speaker 2>Outcome, they look at the end result, they look at

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<v Speaker 2>the devastation and the destruction, and they say to themselves, well.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't ask for that.

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<v Speaker 2>You did when you chose to guide to get them

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<v Speaker 2>to that relationship. When you got into that relationship of

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<v Speaker 2>free will, you were signing up for it. See a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of people make the mistake of missing the signs

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<v Speaker 2>and red flats because they're blind to their wants, feelings,

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<v Speaker 2>and desires. They can't see what's right in front of

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<v Speaker 2>them because their unheal hearts and minds won't allow them to.

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<v Speaker 2>So many people open themselves up to negativity. But what

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<v Speaker 2>people don't understand is when you choose to go fourth

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<v Speaker 2>in relationships, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know that are not good for you.

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<v Speaker 2>You're always gonna get that extra that you didn't anticipate.

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<v Speaker 2>You're always gonna get.

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<v Speaker 1>That extra that you didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>In any shape, form or fashion imagine.

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<v Speaker 1>That you was gonna get.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why you have to be able to see beyond

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<v Speaker 2>your superficion You must be able to see beyond what

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<v Speaker 2>your eyes show you because see looks.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that big bully, that big chest, those.

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<v Speaker 2>Pets, those biceps and triceps and.

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<v Speaker 1>Fires, and you know that is nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>Titles, position, status, money, that is there's nothing. It's all

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<v Speaker 2>superficial and it's never anything of substance. It's gonna help

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<v Speaker 2>you have a strong, loving, lasting relationship, it's not. I've

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<v Speaker 2>said it so many times that I'm said again. Most

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<v Speaker 2>people in this world are in one sided relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>Most people.

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<v Speaker 2>Most people are in relationships that they're just settling for because.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't want to be alone. They don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be by themselves.

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<v Speaker 2>They're afraid to be alone.

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<v Speaker 1>They have so many insecurities.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't think that they can stand to be by themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>They're afraid to start over. I'm too old, I've invested

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<v Speaker 1>too much, You've invested. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>See, a lot of people are in relationships committed to

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<v Speaker 2>the relationships, but not committed to the person that they're with,

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<v Speaker 2>or I'll say, I'm not going anywhere. What you're cheating?

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<v Speaker 1>Are You're miserably unhappy.

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<v Speaker 2>Many many people are in one sided relationships, prisoners in

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<v Speaker 2>their relationships because of their own mindsets.

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<v Speaker 1>Some of you are prisoners also because the person you with.

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<v Speaker 2>That person you're with, they're holding you in captivity, some mentally,

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<v Speaker 2>some mentally and physically. Either way you allowing it of

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<v Speaker 2>free will. Listen, Oh, I get it. I've been an

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<v Speaker 2>abusive relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Me and myself. I was never that fearful person, you know, scared.

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<v Speaker 2>Of him. It wasn't that way. I was scared what

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<v Speaker 2>I was gonna have to do to protect myself, because

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<v Speaker 2>when a person is that way, you never know what

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<v Speaker 2>they may do. Many people have lost their lives in unhealthy,

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<v Speaker 2>abusive relationships. But the worst thing in this world for

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<v Speaker 2>an individual who's in a relationship is being a prisoner

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<v Speaker 2>in your relationship. And most people are not because of

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<v Speaker 2>the other person, not necessarily, but because of self.

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<v Speaker 1>The mindset that you have.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, I want you to think about it, and you

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<v Speaker 2>are the only person who can answer for yourself, because

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<v Speaker 2>you're the person who knows.

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<v Speaker 1>What you're going through.

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<v Speaker 2>Most of you, you don't have a gun to your

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<v Speaker 2>head a knife to your throat. You stay off your

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<v Speaker 2>own free will, and you have to become a prisoner

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<v Speaker 2>in your relationship. Some of you are in relationship with

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<v Speaker 2>people who are treating you.

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<v Speaker 1>Like dog poop.

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<v Speaker 2>Horrible, terrible, incomprehensible, inconceivable. But you stay because you choose

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<v Speaker 2>to settle with that than to be by yourself. Because

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<v Speaker 2>of your insecurities, your lack of confidence, you allow yourself

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<v Speaker 2>to endure what you're enduring, so you are a prisoner

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<v Speaker 2>in your relationship. Some people are talked to like dogs.

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<v Speaker 2>Their relatives are talked to like dogs and treated like

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<v Speaker 2>dogs by the significant others.

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<v Speaker 1>But you still say, but I love him, Hey, I

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<v Speaker 1>love her.

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<v Speaker 2>You still said, although you treated lack a dog, not

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<v Speaker 2>shame on them, shame on you. Shame on you for

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<v Speaker 2>enduring it because you don't have to endure it. You

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<v Speaker 2>get what you allow your person exactly how they can

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<v Speaker 2>treat you. I've told my story many times. I was

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<v Speaker 2>very young, very young. I was foolish, didn't know anything,

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<v Speaker 2>thought I knew.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I was always a.

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<v Speaker 2>Little bit more mature than the average eighteen year old. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I got married very young, had children young. But let

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<v Speaker 2>me tell you, I woke up real quick and got

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<v Speaker 2>out of there.

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<v Speaker 1>Never looked back, because it makes no sense to.

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<v Speaker 2>Me to go back for a double dose. Oh go god,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, Because you set the pattern when you allow abuse.

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<v Speaker 2>You set the pattern when you allow yourself to be

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<v Speaker 2>taken advantage of it. You set the pattern when you

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<v Speaker 2>allow yourself to be disrespected. You because you teach that

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<v Speaker 2>other person how they can treat you.

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<v Speaker 1>And the more you allow it, you become a prisoner

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<v Speaker 1>in your own relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>And like I said, not necessarily because the person you're

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<v Speaker 2>with is abusing you physically, but a lot of times

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<v Speaker 2>it's other things. And you stay because you think you

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<v Speaker 2>love this person, but really you know it's not loved,

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<v Speaker 2>because you know love is not.

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<v Speaker 1>Any of what you act as if it is.

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<v Speaker 2>You know love is not abusive, disrespectful, degrading, belittley.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that's not love. You know it.

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<v Speaker 2>But you're going off of your feelings, your wants, and

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<v Speaker 2>your desires and you think it's love.

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<v Speaker 1>But you have to look at the whole.

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<v Speaker 2>Picture, not just at bits and pieces, and people literally,

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<v Speaker 2>literally literally become prisoners in their relationships. Some of you

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<v Speaker 2>you're afraid to go, you're afraid to stay. That is

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<v Speaker 2>a horrible, horrible, horrible situation to begin. But yet you

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<v Speaker 2>become prisoners in your relationships because you have given your power.

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<v Speaker 2>When you empower people, you make them appear powerful, but

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<v Speaker 2>they are always the weakest link.

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<v Speaker 1>They know it, but they just manipulating, fool you to

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<v Speaker 1>believe they have.

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<v Speaker 2>Power over you because you empower them.

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<v Speaker 1>So many people are living this night man.

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<v Speaker 2>So many people are miserable in their relationships. So many

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<v Speaker 2>have settled, unhappy, lonely in their relationships.

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<v Speaker 3>Because you become comfortable with the familiar. It's horrible.

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<v Speaker 1>Because of it.

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<v Speaker 2>You are prisoners in your own relationships. Because of the

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<v Speaker 2>mindsets that you have. You think that's all you're worthy of.

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<v Speaker 2>You think, oh, I'm too old, nobody don't want me,

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<v Speaker 2>or you think well I don't have anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have education.

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<v Speaker 2>This some that you've talked negative to yourself, which is

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<v Speaker 2>something you should never do.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care what's happening, I don't care what people say.

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<v Speaker 2>You should never talk negative to yourself about yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really really bad when people do that. On my

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<v Speaker 1>most terrible looking day.

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<v Speaker 2>I still tell many things, wink my eye, up myself

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<v Speaker 2>and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes I do.

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<v Speaker 2>I look in the mirror and I weak myself, honey,

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<v Speaker 2>and I will throw myself a kiss in the mornings.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes I do. I'll say, you go, girl. I love

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<v Speaker 1>on me.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I have confidence in me. I'm my biggest

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<v Speaker 2>motive vator. Supporting all of that is good, but you

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<v Speaker 2>gotta be able to do it for yourself because a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of.

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<v Speaker 1>Times people are not going to be there for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Because of their own unhealed inner issues. Envy and jealousy

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<v Speaker 2>is real. Brokenness is real. Brokenness don't discriminate. They don't

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<v Speaker 2>care if you're rich or if you're poor, male females.

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<v Speaker 2>Brokenness does not discriminate. People go through life the very same.

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<v Speaker 1>Every day we live.

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<v Speaker 3>As an opportunity to become better, to become better people.

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<v Speaker 1>But people just go through life.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. I've learned to say that all people do

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<v Speaker 2>is parent and regurgitate. Parent and regurgitate, which is kind

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<v Speaker 2>of the same thing. Go through life believing what they've

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<v Speaker 2>been told, hearing what they've what people say, and then

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<v Speaker 2>go and repeat the same thing to other people until

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<v Speaker 2>it sticks with someone and the cycle continues. No one

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<v Speaker 2>is learning anything, no one is becoming better.

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<v Speaker 1>No one is growing mentally. That's why we in the sick, wicked, evil, dark, cold.

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<v Speaker 2>World because of the people that's in it, and all

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<v Speaker 2>of the mess.

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<v Speaker 1>Is displayed in relationships.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh of the unresolved inner issues comes out because that

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<v Speaker 4>one person, as you know, I've always said you cannot get.

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<v Speaker 1>Away from, is yourself. So guess what.

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<v Speaker 2>You're taking all of your brokenness into your relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>And you become prisoner in your relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>I've said many times, unhealed, broken people are always and

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<v Speaker 2>I do mean always, gonna be the prey for the

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<v Speaker 2>predatory son or God. But in your relationships, it is you, you, you, you,

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<v Speaker 2>you who teaches your significant other how they can treat you?

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<v Speaker 2>And baby, let me tell you, if you let them

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<v Speaker 2>get away.

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<v Speaker 1>With it, they gonna run with it.

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<v Speaker 2>They will treat you exactly how they want to treat

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<v Speaker 2>you because they know you're gonna take it.

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<v Speaker 1>And the next thing you know, your prisoner in your

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<v Speaker 1>own relationship, find your own doing and you settle for it.

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<v Speaker 2>This is what a lot of people are enduring at

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<v Speaker 2>their own hands by people who they believe love them.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't know love when you don't love yourself. So

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<v Speaker 2>you accept anything to be loved when you never receive it.

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<v Speaker 2>When I say prisoners to your in your relationships, I

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<v Speaker 2>mean every word because it's what you chose to be

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<v Speaker 2>by the power that you gave your significant other.

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<v Speaker 1>It is what you chose to be how you because

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<v Speaker 1>of how.

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<v Speaker 2>You empowered your significant others. You taught them that they

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<v Speaker 2>can mistreat you. You taught them that they can take

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<v Speaker 2>advantage of you. You taught them it's okay that they

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<v Speaker 2>cheat on you. You taught them everything that they do

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<v Speaker 2>to you. You taught them as they can do it.

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<v Speaker 2>If you want better in your life, don't look to

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<v Speaker 2>your left or to your right, look right, face forward

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<v Speaker 2>into that mirror at.

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<v Speaker 1>Yourself, because that is the person you gotta deal with.

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<v Speaker 1>That is the person who has to allow in or healing.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. I always talk about that inside work. You

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<v Speaker 2>gotta do that inside work for things to work well

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<v Speaker 2>for you on the outside. See that inside is invisible,

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<v Speaker 2>but the effects are visible.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me say it again that inside, the unresolved inner.

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<v Speaker 2>Issues, it's invisible, but the effects that it has in

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<v Speaker 2>your life are visible.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's powerful and until people choose to change.

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<v Speaker 2>Until people choose to mature and grow mentally, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>stay in this mess that we're in collectively as a whole.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know, I don't mind saying if tomorrow the

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<v Speaker 2>Lord come back set this place on fire, it'll be

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<v Speaker 2>all right with me. Because people not trying to be better.

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<v Speaker 2>So what's the point of letting the world putting you on.

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<v Speaker 2>People are not trying to be better. That's why we're

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<v Speaker 2>having earthquakes in diverse places. Two different states that I

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<v Speaker 2>know people in have had earthquakes within.

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<v Speaker 1>The last week.

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<v Speaker 2>One a matter of fact, was today this morning, and

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<v Speaker 2>one was last week in another state.

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<v Speaker 1>Two states that I know.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean the ones that you could feel big enough

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<v Speaker 2>could feel, and the weather don't even talk about it.

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<v Speaker 2>It is so weird.

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<v Speaker 1>So at God is wrapping things up. Time is flying flying.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember I was on here.

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<v Speaker 2>Just seemed like it was.

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<v Speaker 1>Months ago to me.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's been now going on four years that my

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<v Speaker 2>mom has passed, and I was right here talking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Going on four years now that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's insane, But it feels like it was just months

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<v Speaker 2>ago to me. I'm saying this because time is winding up.

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<v Speaker 2>But people aren't remaining the same.

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<v Speaker 5>Hatred, lustful, greedy, envious, mean, miserable, sad, depressed, I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>you name it.

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<v Speaker 1>People are choosing to remain the same as time is

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<v Speaker 1>flying by all of us.

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<v Speaker 2>So when you choose to not change, you remain the same.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's why many of you are prisoners in your relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>And guess what.

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<v Speaker 2>The only person can change that situation is you. You

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<v Speaker 2>can think somebody can fix, save and change you all

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<v Speaker 2>you want to. You can think somebody can make you

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<v Speaker 2>whole all you want to, you are wrong, and by

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<v Speaker 2>now you know you're wrong. You can't do it for

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<v Speaker 2>anyone either. So that's all I'm saying. I'm leaving it

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<v Speaker 2>right there. I'm leaving it right there, So thank you

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<v Speaker 2>for listening. Much love to each and every one of you.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I in every episode the same and I

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<v Speaker 2>hope you do it, think on it.