1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: Creativity is an addiction. Unplugged because we will always say 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:07,040 yes to creativity, totally uncut because we all make mistakes. 3 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:10,439 So let's turn it into a tool. This is arrow unplugged. 4 00:00:10,759 --> 00:00:15,519 Replacing the sofa, Yeah, replacing the sofa. Do you realize 5 00:00:15,519 --> 00:00:18,440 that the average person keeps their living room fixture seven 6 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:21,120 to fifteen years, and it's a proven fact that it 7 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:23,760 was showing wear and tear long before the moment of 8 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:26,800 actually kicking it out of the house. Why will people 9 00:00:26,839 --> 00:00:30,519 love their sofa so much? When replacing your place of rest? 10 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:34,320 Experts say you should actually go ahead and not go cheap, 11 00:00:34,799 --> 00:00:37,320 spend the money on something that will lasts longer than 12 00:00:37,399 --> 00:00:39,920 just a few years. As for this thing called fou leather, 13 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:43,479 oh my god, those pieces still exist and they still 14 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:46,320 break down. It's going to always look like a cheap 15 00:00:46,359 --> 00:00:50,560 piece of mess. So in this world of fake springs 16 00:00:50,679 --> 00:00:54,439 and really bad wood in foe leather, you got to 17 00:00:54,479 --> 00:00:57,320 find yourself in a place of locked in comfort. You're 18 00:00:57,320 --> 00:00:59,679 gonna have to spend the extra money. And the only 19 00:00:59,719 --> 00:01:02,200 reason why I bring this up is solely based on 20 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:06,359 how much money we spend on buying cheap furniture. Are 21 00:01:06,359 --> 00:01:10,640 we just as cheap with our underwear, our toilet paper, 22 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:14,959 fast food, and car buying. I can't answer your question. 23 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:17,359 Only you can look at yourself in the mirror and say, 24 00:01:20,159 --> 00:01:24,359 replacing the blank, Hey, it's arrow. This is the daily mess, 25 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:27,319 a chronological look through in everyday world. I am a 26 00:01:27,439 --> 00:01:30,319 daily writer. I am the silent wolf. I sit beneath 27 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:33,280 the brush of a tree, and I look out at life, 28 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:36,120 and I study our behavior because there's a lot to 29 00:01:36,239 --> 00:01:39,319 learn and a lot to enjoy when you just stand 30 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:43,879 on the sidelines. This is the daily mess. Speaking of 31 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:46,799 daily the daily goal is to meet the need to 32 00:01:46,879 --> 00:01:49,840 super succeed. Can sometimes lead to areas of self doubt 33 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:53,519 and let down. Now because it's extremely difficult to keep 34 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:56,200 up with the good work. We live in a world 35 00:01:56,280 --> 00:02:01,640 of comparisons, always looking at the number, especially the steps 36 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:03,959 that we take. Hey, there's a ring you can wear 37 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:06,599 these days that not only counts your steps, but it 38 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:08,960 reports back to you on how your heart rate is 39 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:12,080 and how you're sleeping at night. I can't wear the 40 00:02:12,159 --> 00:02:16,199 ring because I'm always comparing today's numbers with a different 41 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:19,599 time and place. To get all worked up for not 42 00:02:19,759 --> 00:02:24,439 keeping up daily goals and our need for speed to 43 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:28,199 rush out and do something that's personal, calling it a gain. 44 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:32,840 To access higher levels of success, we need more better 45 00:02:32,879 --> 00:02:37,000 than last year. Research shows it can be achieved, Yet 46 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:40,360 we forget so easily how much hard work was actually 47 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:45,240 required to be in a place of super succeeding those numbers. 48 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:49,159 We are addicted to those numbers. I always talk with 49 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:52,400 other podcasters as well as musicians, and I ask them, so, 50 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:55,680 how are you putting up with that perfectionist inside of 51 00:02:55,719 --> 00:02:58,840 you that is addicted to those numbers? And they'll go, well, 52 00:02:58,879 --> 00:03:00,680 I don't even look at them. I can't because it'll 53 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:02,919 make me go insane. It will. But there's always going 54 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:05,199 to be that Sunday night or even an early Saturday 55 00:03:05,199 --> 00:03:07,080 morning where you're going to go, I wonder how I 56 00:03:07,159 --> 00:03:10,599 am doing, And the moment that you open up that door, 57 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:14,000 there you are. You thought you were doing better. Now 58 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:17,400 the self doubt steps in. Now you're hating yourself. Now 59 00:03:17,439 --> 00:03:19,039 you're trying to figure out what you can do better. 60 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:21,400 You're going to change everything around you. What In fact, 61 00:03:21,439 --> 00:03:26,000 before you opened that door, everything was fine. But how 62 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:29,240 do you break free of the numbers, especially since the 63 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:32,639 business you work for is always comparing numbers? We need 64 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:34,639 more clients, we need more of this. We've got to 65 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:37,680 have this, We've got to do that, and if you don't, 66 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:41,120 then their bosses will jump on their backs. I come 67 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:45,000 from the world of radio. Our numbers were every day. 68 00:03:45,199 --> 00:03:49,759 The world of podcasting is no different. We're constantly surrounded 69 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:52,840 by numbers. The goal is to go ahead and look 70 00:03:52,879 --> 00:03:56,960 at them, but don't judge yourself. If something isn't going right, 71 00:03:57,039 --> 00:03:59,400 such as the ring that I was talking about, it 72 00:03:59,479 --> 00:04:01,879 measures all of your steps. Man. I felt like I 73 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:05,439 put in twenty three thousand steps today and it's only 74 00:04:05,479 --> 00:04:09,400 thirteen thousand. Self doubt then you start shaming yourself. Oh 75 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:12,080 I'm not good enough for this. It's okay to look 76 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:15,280 at the numbers, but be aware of how it affects 77 00:04:15,319 --> 00:04:18,000 your emotions. I'm harrow and that's the daily mess.