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Speaker 1: Made a decision.

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Speaker 2: Pace Sunny Sound on Ahead Vision.

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Speaker 1: It's nice.

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Speaker 3: Let's up everybody, It's a fun Friday day for us.

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We're gonna have fun, fun, show, fun, fun. It's all

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gonna be fun. And because we have our pal Julie

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Speaker 1: So excited.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for thanks for coming back three shows, guys, Thank you.

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Speaker 3: We love it fun. It makes the time go bye

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so fast with our hair.

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Speaker 2: I know, hello, you guys have a tough job, truly

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to come up with things to talk about for two

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and a half hours every week.

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Speaker 1: That are you know?

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Speaker 2: I mean obviously we can sit down with our girlfriends

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and chit chit chat chit chat for hours, but you

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can't say everything you want to say on the air.

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Speaker 1: You got to pick and choose. And so yeah, that

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sounds like tough. So you know what makes me.

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Speaker 4: So mad is when people when we do a Patreon

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and people go for a or whatever that wasn't That

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wasn't a great Patreon.

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Speaker 1: It's like, what do you guys say, I think we're leaving?

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Speaker 4: Like do you think we're getting arrested every rdy?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 4: How juicy? And I think it's the lives of women

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in their fifties with kids who are like, you know,

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working on college. Uplint, like, are tie? Are we spilling

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our best?

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Speaker 1: Literally?

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Speaker 2: I feel for you guys too, because I exactly like

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from week to week, you know, thank god there's nothing

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that juicy going on, and like, you don't want that, right,

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you want your.

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Speaker 1: Life to be chill without a lot of drama.

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Speaker 4: I guess if you have a part.

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Speaker 1: But then also.

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Speaker 4: I can't win because if my life, if there is

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something like if I get in an argument with people,

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people are like, oh there's Stephanie always arguing with people

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or whatever, you can't It's my favorite.

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Speaker 1: Part of our show. Literally, I love it, so fuck that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, maybe I'll have stuff to talk about because

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my nephew Anthony just texted me and he's like, do

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you think we can go to Kimmel's show tomorrow night?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Whish?

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Speaker 3: Today's Friday, So tomorrow night is Tuesday for us, which

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means we could be there.

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Speaker 1: And he's like, and then he can meet my kids

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and stuff.

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Speaker 3: So I was just text him back, I think that's

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a great idea, So we'll see.

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Speaker 1: Cute we go. Yeah, yeah, it'd be a good idea. Yeah,

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be fun. I love.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, then we'll have a story for next week,

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hopefully it won't be Patreon. Now, guys, tell us, like,

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you know what you would talk about if you were

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doing a patriot Yeah, they eat our audience right really,

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like they're in on the Facebook page publicly? What stories,

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what personal stories you would share if you were like

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living our life, knowing by the way that whatever you share,

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just be prepared for a lot of backlash literally for

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people to go, I don't care about your opinion.

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Speaker 1: Be prepared for that.

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Speaker 3: By the way, you can turn it off if you

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don't care. The fuck literally wrong with everybody.

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Speaker 1: Remember years ago?

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Speaker 4: Okay, this was I'm gonna harken us back to like

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twenty sixteen's, but remember when, uh, I mean this was

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probably even because the election was twenties, it was November.

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Speaker 1: Can I talk really quickly, I'm totally gonna interrupt. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I listened to all these you know, SmartLess armchair experts.

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I listened to all these podcasts. I'm sorry, but you

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guys have been on the air so much longer than

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all of these podcasts, and it's like.

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Speaker 1: Oh, well, you know they really set the stage.

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Speaker 2: And that they started the podcasting and obviously I love

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all those podcasts and they're great, but no, you guys

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have been doing it so much longer fifteen years, all

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of them besides maybe Mark Marin, but you were there

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before any of these podcasts rally, and they do all

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talk about how they were on the forefront of podcasting,

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and I'm.

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Speaker 1: Like, no, dude, that's me.

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Speaker 2: So when you're like, yeah, back in twenty sixteen, I'm like, exactly,

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Speaker 1: Doing it for so freaking long. So you guys deserve

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a lot of credit. That was nine years ago, Thank you, Julie.

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Speaker 4: I do remember getting upset about uh Trump back then

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and saying something and I was like, yeah, blah blah blah,

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Donald Trump, and uh people lost their ever loving minds.

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Speaker 1: Talk about politics as if.

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Speaker 4: It's like a suddenly became like a political show. He said,

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I didn't like him, and it was so funny to

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me that I was I don't think we had a

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Facebook group, Yeah, I don't think, so, it was just

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Speaker 1: Singly.

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Speaker 4: People were like direct messaging me. They were so mad.

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Speaker 4: That obviously does have to do with the fact that

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you were married to Adam. Then Adam had a much

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more conservative political bent, and I think a lot of

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people were like, I want to hear like Lynette, I

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want to hear life with Adam from Lynette. I don't

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want to hear this cunt and her shitty leftist view.

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But I was very surprised.

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Speaker 3: I remember being very But then I think our audience

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evolved into more mature people and they like, you know,

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like us both. Now there's some people that don't even

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know Adam, the don't even listen to Adam that are

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on her Facebook page.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, which is fine with me. That is totally true.

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I think also our show has evolved, but there have

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been years of like not mentioning politics at all.

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Speaker 1: But if you.

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Speaker 4: Say anything that even has the slightest sniff of political people.

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Speaker 1: Really do like go crazy. Right, You're like, oh, there

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they are, there's our listeners.

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Speaker 4: But the thing that I think is funny is just

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going back to what you said. What I was going

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to say is when I said because I got mad

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way back then, right, and I was like, fuck that,

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I'm going to say what I want. It's my pod,

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because if you don't like it, don't listen. Oh god,

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you talk about people cancel culture they all do you

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remember when people tried to.

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Speaker 1: Tell on me to Adam? Oh god, they went on

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Adam's page and tried to go like I think you should.

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Speaker 3: Know as if Adam is going to go to the

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next studio B and be like, hey, Stephanie, pack.

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Speaker 1: Your bags literally Okay, Yeah, Adam did not carey cared

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about the money coming in and very barely like he

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knew that you even had a podcast and something you

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didn't even acknowledge it. Now. It's just so funny though,

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that he would be.

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Speaker 4: That mad right, Also, that Adam was free to talk

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his political views. I don't know that Adam ever would

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have been like, how dare you say something against from

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care It was really funny that people thought I was

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going to get they were going to bust me right right,

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because somehow does anybody think like honestly that we have

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a boss who's telling us what.

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Speaker 1: We can Well that's the other thing. Yeah, that's the thing.

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Speaker 3: People are like, you know, you should you know, be

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careful what you talk about and stuff on the podcast.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, be careful from who, Like, where are our bosses?

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Speaker 3: If you don't like the podcast, don't listen and you

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say what you want online, go ahead, you have your

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right of free speech, but we don't give a shit

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because we're just sixty. You think after fifteen sixteen years,

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we're going to be like, who's gonna.

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Speaker 1: Camp at this point?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: Right? That's the beauty of podcasting.

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Speaker 4: Literally, I just remember too like a long time ago,

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but this still this still comes up sometimes where people

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were just like, oh my god, poor Lynette. She doesn't

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agree with any of Stephanie's views, but she has to

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put up with it for the money. Okay, I cannot

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tell you how many things are wrong with that statement.

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First of all, dumb guys, Line does not need the

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money that.

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Speaker 1: Comes from this podcast.

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Speaker 4: Trust me when I tell you that we are not

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getting rich from crying out laws.

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Speaker 1: It was the.

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Speaker 4: Fifth step child of the Adam Krolla show. Right, nobody

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was getting rich.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 4: I had to get a better deal on my car

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so that I'm not paying as much as I was

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paying for a Tigue one. Okay, So I don't think

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Lynnete's hanging out for like the brother care the cash

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that are ating dropped at her door every month. Second

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of all, like imagine imagine doing a podcast for fifteen

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years where you you're so diametrically opposed. Can you imagine, Oh,

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Stephanie's personality is too strong. Right, I'm just gonna I'm

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gonna take it because I really need them to say.

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Speaker 1: I know, right, I agree like that.

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Speaker 3: It's you know, we just we've been doing it for

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so long, and you know, we don't talk about politics.

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Speaker 1: We try to keep it light or whatever, and it's

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like going to escape for us. It is, yes, what

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we're doing escape for you guys, it's escape for the listeners.

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Like the listeners just want to hear, right, fun funny stories.

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Speaker 4: I just know that if Lynnette wanted to, she told

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Susanne Brisk to shut the fuck up.

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Speaker 1: That's true, I say, early on on air, not off

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air on air.

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Speaker 4: If she ever was upset with me. Do I sometimes

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talk way too much?

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Speaker 1: Yes? Do? Do I appreciate it? Yes?

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Speaker 3: I do.

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Speaker 1: You don't hear when Lynette comes in and goes, please,

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I hope you have a lot to talk.

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Speaker 4: About because I got nothing, you know, and what that

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has a story?

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Speaker 1: Trust me?

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Speaker 4: I sit back and listen but also I do something

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that's called active listening where I get excited and aged

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and want to ask more.

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Speaker 1: It just makes you a good podcast. That's the point

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of podcasting, hope. So I do get a little add

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and excited and do interact and I work on it.

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Speaker 4: I am, I hear you guys anyway, So do you

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have a story for us?

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Speaker 1: Well, it's not really a story as much as a

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little complaint.

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Speaker 4: I was just getting I was getting a little triggered

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by politics. No, I'm just kidding bye our local by

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nothing group. So here's what happened.

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Speaker 1: Happened. The best is you seem to be on this

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quite a bit.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I really wasn't for a long time.

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Speaker 1: And then like what are you looking for? Like stuff

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for LB and that kind of thing? Or no, no

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for a fight? Is that? What's okay?

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Speaker 4: I almost here's the thing. Do you guys remember a

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long time ago I told a story about winning a

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toaster oven and then it ended up being like the

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worst win in my life. So I'm always very careful.

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I wait, if I see something on buy Nothing, I

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always go like, is it going to be worth the struggle?

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Speaker 3: Like, you know, didn't you buy a couch on buy nothing,

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no no where was this.

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Speaker 4: All buy nothing? You don't buy anything. It's every free

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your neighbors giving stuff away. Remember a while ago, I

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told a story about one of my neighbors. Let's call

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him Rob because that's his name, but anyway, who was

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like giving away, Like would find a nail on the street,

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tell each of it and go, hey, heads up. He

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loves to curb alerts, which is just like you see

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something in front of a neighbor's house and you go like, hey,

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this looks like it's in pretty good condition.

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Speaker 1: It's a dining room, it's.

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Speaker 4: A chair with three legs and like a table. First

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come first. Yeah, we know it's outside and in front

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of someone's house. We know we can have it if

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we want. But also his thing was neighbors would like

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he'd get something from a garage sale that his neighbor

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was having, buy it, bring it.

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Speaker 1: Home, and then be like, flash give.

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Speaker 4: You know everybody's on buy nothing knows that Okay, So

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there's a flash give, which means you need this out

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of your house immediately, right, You're gonna give it to

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the first person new comments, or you need that person

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to pick it up that day. So he would do

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that all the time, and for god knows why, Like

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you went and found this item from someone else's house,

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brought it to your house, and now you're like, I

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got to get this thing out of here immediately. I mean,

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maybe he needs some super bored right, okay, but the

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thing is to remember a long time ago. He got

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mad at me because I said that I would get

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I He was like doing something where he had like

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ten pairs of sweats that his wife got. They were new,

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and I said that I would take a pair. You

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had to like go to the individual picture you wanted

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and register for which one, like put in stop now

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you needn't.

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Speaker 1: Put your name and what my god?

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Speaker 4: So that I got one. But then he gave me

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his address and it was like super far, even though

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it's in and SEENO Popper, but it was like really far.

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So I ended up telling him like, hey, I'm not

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going to come after it, because he wanted it like

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right away.

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Speaker 1: He wanted you to.

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Speaker 4: Come, and I was like, it's like pretty kind of far,

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and I don't know how much time I have today,

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so I said never mind, and he got mad, Oh

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my gosh, okay, but now egg on my face because

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I just got irritated. Okay, so I put, oh, okay,

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so I have Elbe's mattress topper, okay from when she

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So she's, wait, why.

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Speaker 1: Don't you keep it for Xander and Sandy. They're going

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to need it for their dorm room. You know what,

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I will get who knows? Who knows?

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Speaker 4: And that's a little bit far away. And also we

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just don't have room. And it was sitting like in

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a corner of my house, and I was like, I

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need somebody who has a kid in college who needs

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to their dorm room right now. I don't know what's

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going to happen with you know, maybe maybe e Xander's

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gonna go outside of California and we'll just go get him.

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Speaker 1: Want to send it? I don't know what's going to happen,

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but I wanted it out of my house.

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Speaker 4: So I posted it on Buy Nothing, and then so

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two people said they were interested, so I rob one

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of them was Rob one of them? No, Rob was

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not one of them. Okay, So I write to the

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person right away. I was like, great, I'm going to

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give this to you. And I didn't like let it

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simmer they call it, but I was like Hey, this

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person's interested.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to give it to him.

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Speaker 4: Oh and they wrote like as soon as I posted it,

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they wrote on there like a couple of minutes later.

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So I wrote back right away. I was like, great,

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you can have it. Proceed to like never hear from

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them the whole day.

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Speaker 1: So then I.

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Speaker 4: Direct message them and I'm like, hey, you said you

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wanted this, Like do you want it? Never hear back

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from them. So then I go to the one other

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person that said they were interested. So I go to

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that person. I message them. I'm like, hey, are you

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interested in this? And the woman goes yeah. So I

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go okay, like, so here's my address. She goes okay,

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Like I don't really exactly remember how this went down,

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but suffice it to say that like she didn't. She

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never came either. Then I so I write back to her.

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She's like, oh, can I get it in the afternoon?

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So I write back and I go, yeah, like around

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what time, you know, like around two? I go okay, great,

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no problem. So I put I put it in a

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plastic bag over it. I put it outside on my porch.

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She goes, can you make sure it's a porch porch?

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Speaker 1: Pickup? It's like, yeah, bitch, I don't want you coming

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in my house. Like I'm all about this. I'll leave

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it in my backyard. Yeah yeah exactly.

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Speaker 4: So anyway, she doesn't come. It's getting to be like

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it's like five o'clock now, so I just send her

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a message and I'm like, hey, are you.

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Speaker 1: Are you coming?

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Speaker 4: And she goes, I'm at work.

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Speaker 1: So it's like, what, I'm at work? What am I

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bugging you to?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: You?

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Speaker 4: This thing was like one hundred and fifty bucks.

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Speaker 2: And you said two o'clock, so like she said that right,

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so she said too, right right, and so whatever it was.

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Speaker 4: Maybe it was now like six o'clock. It's like starting

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to get dark and I'm deciding whether to bring it in,

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and she goes, I'm at work. So I write back

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like question mark, like what does that mean? They're not coming?

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Doesn't write, doesn't ever write me back, So I'm like, really,

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so I a deal in the house.

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Speaker 1: People are weird.

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Speaker 4: Then I delete the post and I posted again and

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I go now I'm mad, and I'm like, hey, I've

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got this item, please only respond if you're interested in it.

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Speaker 1: So then another bit.

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Speaker 4: Oh, So then a woman says that she wants it,

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so I write her back and I go, great, you

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can have it. Never hear from her. I direct message her.

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She doesn't respond. Meanwhile, the first person that I was

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going to give it to, who had never responded to

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me that the earlier post, said was like, oh my gosh,

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I'm sorry I didn't see I didn't see your message,

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but like, I'm still interested, and I was like, okay,

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Unfortunately I promised it to somebody else. This is when

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it was on the plane to the other woman. Now

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I got high right back to this woman, and now

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I'm like, okay, you can first of all, listen the

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whole thing. I cannot explain to you how much energy

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it took to do this. And I was like, what

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am I doing? Are you doing here.

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Speaker 3: Trying to get rid of something that somebody else could use,

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and it's like you're dealing with all these But I

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guess some people because I don't really check my direct

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messages on Facebook that often, so maybe some people. Okay,

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but if you but if you are you want something, you.

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Speaker 4: All you have to see is the notification. I just

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direct message him. I said a thing on the and

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they commented on I was like, you got it. You

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one messaged me for the item.

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Speaker 1: Nothing.

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Speaker 3: They just like close out and they don't go back

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and check and listen.

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Speaker 1: I grant you. It's kind of annoying when you win

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something and then you're like, oh, I gotta go pick

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it out.

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Speaker 2: But a mattress is such a unique thing. You either

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want it or you don't. You're either moving into college

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and you don't have one and you could use it,

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or you don't. It's not like a poster where maybe yeah,

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I don't know, it's just kind of a random So then.

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Speaker 4: I had also written back to remember I said there

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were two people on the first post that said they

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wanted it. So I went to the other one and

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I was like, hey, are you still interested? I never

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heard from the other person, and then she doesn't see

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that until the next day, and then she writes, well,

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I didn't see this, but I'm rescinding my interest sending

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interest you people have way too much time in your

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hands and I don't have this much time. And now

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I'm sorry for the whole thing.

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Speaker 1: Stuck with it.

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Speaker 2: Nobody wanted it, no.

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Speaker 4: I so so the very first woman that I was

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going to give it to you that hadn't seen it,

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wrote me back, was like, absolutely still want it. This

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was at night when I pulled it back in my

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house after I'd said question mark to the other woman

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and she just never wrote.

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Speaker 1: She blew me off. So then I pulled it back

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in the house.

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Speaker 4: I texted, I messaged that woman who had originally said

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she wanted it that. I was like, I'm so sorry

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I offered it to someone else. Went back to her.

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She was like, yes, I totally want it. I was like,

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can you come by tomorrow? She was like, I can

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come by first thing in the morning. I was like, great,

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put it out on the porch.

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Speaker 1: It's gone. Now.

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Speaker 4: Fucking question Mark lady up in my DMS going like hey,

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oh oh, and I said to her, I said, hey,

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it didn't work out. I brought it back in the house.

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So now she's in my DMS right now going like, hey,

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I want the mattress topper.

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Speaker 1: And I just didn't respond. You did it. You showed her.

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It's so stupid that I was like, yeah, I take it.

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Speaker 3: Do you think these some of these people just do

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this all the time. They just go on buy and

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then go I'll take it, I'll take it. I'll take it,

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and then just.

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Speaker 4: I don't like the fun of it, but I okay.

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So then like just the other day, I and I

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never do this because I always regret when I say

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I want something and I win it. But this woman

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had these really cool hair tools, like one of those brush,

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like a heated brush.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I love their hairs.

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Speaker 4: That I've seen on Facebook, and I kind of low

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key want to see it on my hair and like

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a curling iron kind of thing. And I was like,

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I don't need like more stuff in my house, but

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I do want my hair to look less frizzy. So,

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by the way, I haven't used it yet, so what

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you're seeing is not the it's not the effect.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, I won it. And yeah, it ended up

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being like a huge pain in the ask to.

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Speaker 4: Go get it because it was like a porch up

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but in a gated community, so I had to have

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a code and it had to be at a time

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that she could like let me in, you know what

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I mean. Like, I'm kind of sorry that I that

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i'd take it. So then show up, No I don't,

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you did.

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Speaker 1: You did show up?

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Speaker 4: I showed up even though I didn't want to. I

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tried to get Sadie to go with me, and she

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was like, nah, dude.

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Speaker 1: My name is Paul.

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Speaker 2: Y'all.

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Speaker 4: I was like, I know, but I just need somebody

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to get out of the car and do the gatecoade.

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Speaker 1: I want to be bothered. It's just like, neither do I.

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But I did it.

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Speaker 4: I parked the car, I went up to the gate.

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I even have like a little nervous anxious feeling because

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I was like, it's like, is she gonna be watching

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me like a camera like coming here? And then it's

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like then you have that feeling too. I'm doing all

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this for like a a heated hair tool.

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Speaker 1: Did you try it yet? Not yet? What's the brand name?

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I can't remember you No, no, I can't remember. Why

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have you tried one of those?

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Speaker 3: I've tried a bunch of them. Some of them are good,

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some of them are kind of junkie, like have you waked?

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It was like, I know, they makes it look like

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like your hair is going to turn out just perfect.

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Speaker 1: Like you've got a Brazilians. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Like Sophie came home from New York and she's like

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I used my friends and you know, in the dorm

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and it was amazing. So we I mean, we didn't

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buy an expensive one with like a Revlon one or something.

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Speaker 1: It's not circular.

476
00:21:28,799 --> 00:21:31,400
Speaker 2: It's the one that's like a brush on one side

477
00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:33,759
and like a heating thing, like it heats up and

478
00:21:33,759 --> 00:21:36,200
then you just it's almost like a straightening arm with

479
00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:37,440
a brush on one side.

480
00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:40,319
Speaker 1: Are we talking about kind of No, this one.

481
00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:43,359
Speaker 4: Is like just like Rush but it's but it's hot.

482
00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:46,359
Speaker 3: So I'll tell you the best one to get and

483
00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:48,400
I use it on my hair because I got thick,

484
00:21:48,559 --> 00:21:51,839
frizzy hair is the Revlon Round brush one.

485
00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:53,920
Speaker 1: Yes, that's what I use, and it's you get it

486
00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:57,160
at the drug store. It's easy sixty bucks. It's hot

487
00:21:57,160 --> 00:21:57,519
as hell.

488
00:21:57,599 --> 00:21:59,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, it gets hot when you do it when your

489
00:21:59,839 --> 00:22:01,920
hair is wet or if you know, wet your hair

490
00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:04,440
a little bit after it's dry, Like, it comes out

491
00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:05,079
really nice.

492
00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:05,920
Speaker 1: I totally agree.

493
00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:08,200
Speaker 2: Like when I go to my friend to do my roots,

494
00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:10,599
because she does it out of her house, She's.

495
00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:11,480
Speaker 1: Like, do you want me to blow dry it?

496
00:22:11,519 --> 00:22:13,400
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, I go home and do my Revlon

497
00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:15,880
and it comes out better than anybody can blow dry it.

498
00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:18,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, it makes it. It's just like two days ago. Julie,

499
00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:20,960
you always look good. Thanks girl.

500
00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:25,079
Speaker 4: So my kids have the have those. They have a Revlon.

501
00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:28,720
But then I bought them both member for Christmas. Christmas,

502
00:22:28,759 --> 00:22:32,599
there was one of these expensive dice do Yeah, but

503
00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:33,559
the dice and dupe.

504
00:22:33,759 --> 00:22:35,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, you got the real dyce In.

505
00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:37,920
Speaker 2: We returned it like the next day. This is like

506
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:40,079
a few years ago. The kids wanted it for Christmas.

507
00:22:40,079 --> 00:22:41,519
That was like a big gift for them.

508
00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:44,839
Speaker 1: It doesn't Yeah, it wasn't like great. Yeah, I don't

509
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:46,480
like any of theirs. They're dupe.

510
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:49,000
Speaker 4: Okay, good, it was still not cheap. I got it

511
00:22:49,039 --> 00:22:49,640
at Costco.

512
00:22:50,039 --> 00:22:54,640
Speaker 2: Yeah. We returned it to Nordstrom way back when. But then, okay,

513
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:58,880
so there's another dyce In that Sophie used in New York,

514
00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:00,839
her friend's Dyceon. I'm like, well, I'm not buying you

515
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:02,839
that because we tried that before and it didn't work,

516
00:23:03,079 --> 00:23:05,079
So I'll buy you the dupe but for Revlin and

517
00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:08,039
it didn't work. So whatever that dyce In was worked

518
00:23:08,039 --> 00:23:10,400
well for her. Well, I don't know what, I don't know.

519
00:23:10,759 --> 00:23:11,119
Speaker 1: I don't know.

520
00:23:11,559 --> 00:23:13,400
Speaker 3: I hope people are listening to us for their hair

521
00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:14,119
style tips.

522
00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:17,880
Speaker 2: I know, literally, but we both have like this thick

523
00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:20,200
You gotta tell y I at least, I mean, it's

524
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:22,720
not so thick anymore, but it's still hard to blow

525
00:23:22,839 --> 00:23:24,000
drive and that Revlin.

526
00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:28,039
Speaker 1: I give it thumbs up, thumbs up. I should try.

527
00:23:28,319 --> 00:23:30,480
Speaker 4: I should do like a thing where I just try

528
00:23:30,519 --> 00:23:32,640
all the hair tools that are in our house. There

529
00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:35,079
you go, Yeah, you should do a lot, the one,

530
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:38,920
the dice and dupe one. Though I feel like you

531
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:41,319
need to watch like YouTube videos to learn how to

532
00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:45,359
do it. I'm like, I can't learn new stuff. Yeah,

533
00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:47,480
you know, there's like a way you hold it, and

534
00:23:47,519 --> 00:23:50,160
there's all these different attachments, like I just need like

535
00:23:50,279 --> 00:23:51,160
one you can.

536
00:23:51,039 --> 00:23:53,799
Speaker 1: Do hard things. Oh my god, Oh my god, this

537
00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:54,400
is so funny.

538
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:57,480
Speaker 2: So when I was working at the school, there was

539
00:23:57,559 --> 00:24:00,200
someone they're still doing it, but there was some one

540
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:04,200
that would always put like a like an affirmation in

541
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:07,279
the bathroom every morning, so when you walk in, and

542
00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:10,359
so one one morning they put on the mirror you

543
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:12,559
can do hard things. And then I took a sticky

544
00:24:12,799 --> 00:24:14,519
and I put next to it or hard.

545
00:24:14,319 --> 00:24:20,039
Speaker 1: Things can do you isses. That's great. But then I

546
00:24:20,079 --> 00:24:21,480
was like, I don't want to get fired. So I

547
00:24:21,519 --> 00:24:25,640
took it and I showed my boss. I showed Hillary,

548
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:28,240
who's that's funny. I was like, can I keep this up?

549
00:24:28,279 --> 00:24:31,839
Speaker 2: She's like, no, you can't because I'm like, stop with

550
00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:32,799
the affirmations.

551
00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 1: Just stop. I can't. It's so funny. They write it

552
00:24:36,759 --> 00:24:38,440
like on a sticky on the mirror.

553
00:24:38,279 --> 00:24:42,279
Speaker 2: Every morning, and it's like, look, look, of course that's

554
00:24:42,319 --> 00:24:44,279
sweet and it's a nice way to start your day.

555
00:24:44,319 --> 00:24:46,720
Speaker 3: But it's like, you know, sometimes I have friends that

556
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:50,119
like will text me for me, like like a meme

557
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:53,279
or a post and like, you know, like yeah, I'm

558
00:24:53,319 --> 00:24:54,960
just like, okay, what do I thumbs up.

559
00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:57,319
Speaker 1: It right right? Yes, you got to heart it, and

560
00:24:57,519 --> 00:24:59,759
just like yes, yeah, yeah.

561
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,400
Speaker 2: I'm trying to get into this Mel Robins vibe and

562
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:03,240
I just can't.

563
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:06,440
Speaker 1: I feel like she just talks at you the whole time.

564
00:25:06,599 --> 00:25:09,079
Speaker 2: It's like you're not doing this, you're not doing that,

565
00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:11,039
but do it my way and it's the right way.

566
00:25:11,079 --> 00:25:12,519
Speaker 1: I don't know, have you guys gotten into that? No?

567
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:14,640
I just don't agree with the whole let them they

568
00:25:14,759 --> 00:25:15,559
let them theory?

569
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:19,799
Speaker 4: What like, isn't that just like, well, so explain what

570
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:21,680
Mel Robin's I.

571
00:25:21,599 --> 00:25:23,559
Speaker 2: To be honest, I don't know enough about her. I

572
00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:25,799
just listened to one episode of one of her podcasts,

573
00:25:25,839 --> 00:25:27,559
and I was like, oh, this is a lot because

574
00:25:27,559 --> 00:25:31,039
I had heard her on what on SmartLess? I think, hmm,

575
00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:36,160
and listen, I think which has to say makes a

576
00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:36,799
lot of sense.

577
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:38,720
Speaker 1: But it's her delivery. I think. I'm annoyed it, but

578
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:41,039
very self help.

579
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:42,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's self help.

580
00:25:42,279 --> 00:25:45,440
Speaker 2: The the let them theory is like, you know, there's

581
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:47,119
gonna be people around you that.

582
00:25:48,559 --> 00:25:50,039
Speaker 1: I don't even know, like that.

583
00:25:49,799 --> 00:25:51,319
Speaker 2: That do things that you may not like, and you

584
00:25:51,319 --> 00:25:53,039
want to always try and change them or make it

585
00:25:53,079 --> 00:25:54,000
better or fix it.

586
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:57,319
Speaker 1: And her whole point is just let them, let them

587
00:25:57,440 --> 00:25:58,000
and let you.

588
00:25:58,279 --> 00:26:01,640
Speaker 2: So let them do the thing, and you do you

589
00:26:02,279 --> 00:26:05,119
stop trying to fix everybody, stop trying to like help

590
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:08,720
a situation you can't help. Just let them, let them

591
00:26:08,839 --> 00:26:12,160
be assholes, right, and then you do you And.

592
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:14,319
Speaker 1: I think that's what I do all the time. But yeah,

593
00:26:14,319 --> 00:26:15,920
well exactly, it's pretty obvious.

594
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 2: But it blew up and it's there's a book They'll

595
00:26:18,559 --> 00:26:21,480
let them and this and that, but apparently.

596
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:23,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, there's a whole poem.

597
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:25,680
Speaker 2: Someone wrote a poem called let Them and it was

598
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:30,640
all about them, okay, and so or you could have boundaries, right, Yeah,

599
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:34,400
let people walk them over you too. I think her

600
00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:37,480
point is like, you can't change people, so just let

601
00:26:37,519 --> 00:26:39,920
them be. But you don't have to. It's how you

602
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:43,119
respond to that. So let you let them and let

603
00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:46,079
you let you respond to that in your own way

604
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,839
like you do you and just let them be them.

605
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:54,160
Speaker 4: Just it's just a very oversimplified, like therapy speak thing

606
00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:58,039
that like why is she Why are the people going

607
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:00,640
like that's oh my god, thank you for saying something

608
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:03,279
that I've never heard before, right, like, oh you do

609
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:04,279
you what?

610
00:27:04,759 --> 00:27:04,960
Speaker 3: Yeah?

611
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:07,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah are I think that's like what a lot

612
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:11,519
of self help really is. And I think, you know,

613
00:27:11,759 --> 00:27:14,880
some people just need to hear it again, you know

614
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:17,200
what I mean. It just sometimes it resonates with people

615
00:27:17,279 --> 00:27:20,119
in a way that it's delivered by Mel Robbins versus

616
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:22,119
a friend who tells you the exact same thing, like

617
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:25,039
freaking forget it, You're never gonna change them, let it go,

618
00:27:25,319 --> 00:27:28,079
you just do you, right, that's so obvious. But when

619
00:27:28,079 --> 00:27:31,720
it's told to you by someone in a position of authority,

620
00:27:31,759 --> 00:27:33,319
it's like, yeah.

621
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 1: What a great idea. I don't know, it just like

622
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:37,160
sticks in a different way.

623
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,519
Speaker 2: I will say, way back when I went to an

624
00:27:39,559 --> 00:27:43,920
Anthony Robbins Weekend sevenar my dad's sent me, my brother,

625
00:27:44,039 --> 00:27:46,039
my sister when we were like late teens.

626
00:27:47,039 --> 00:27:51,359
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Tony Robbins. What Robins? Yeah, yeah, yeah,

627
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:53,440
I don't know that. A lot of people call him Anthony.

628
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:55,079
Did I say Anthony Robins?

629
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:59,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, and my buddy aunt, I knew you were talking

630
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:03,799
about Tony Robbins, who at the time was a huge

631
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:08,440
I will tell you after three days, I was so inspired.

632
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:11,319
Speaker 1: Oh my god. I feel like it was like cultish

633
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:11,720
in a way.

634
00:28:11,759 --> 00:28:13,880
Speaker 2: You know, you're there in this huge stadium and everybody's

635
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:15,039
like cheering.

636
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:18,279
Speaker 3: And you're just like, yes, I don't know, I've heard

637
00:28:18,319 --> 00:28:20,599
that before. If you like, if you're there for the

638
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:21,480
three days.

639
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:24,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, it kind of changes you, it was. Does it

640
00:28:24,279 --> 00:28:27,599
change it forever? Yeah.

641
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:29,680
Speaker 2: There was one thing that he did when we were

642
00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:31,960
in the audience. He's like, I want you guys to

643
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,960
just get really happy and excited and just like just

644
00:28:35,039 --> 00:28:39,200
be so happy and like yelling go yes yet. And

645
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:43,480
I swear that whole room those vibrations were crazy, and

646
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:43,960
I was just.

647
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:48,839
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, it's because just one lottery and there was

648
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,559
nothing I was excited about. But I didn't and to

649
00:28:51,599 --> 00:28:53,519
this day. I swear.

650
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, it's a really great feeling. You just sit

651
00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:00,240
in that room and just cheer and be be so

652
00:29:00,319 --> 00:29:01,440
happy for no reason.

653
00:29:02,039 --> 00:29:04,279
Speaker 1: And then I walked on hot coals. Damn it. Well listen.

654
00:29:04,359 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 3: I mean, if it's making people happy, that's great. Did

655
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:07,559
you walk on the hot coals?

656
00:29:07,599 --> 00:29:09,599
Speaker 1: I walked on the hot coals. That was legit.

657
00:29:09,759 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 2: I saw them shoveling the coals into like this long walkway,

658
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:17,279
and then you were supposed to say, cool moss. You go,

659
00:29:17,359 --> 00:29:19,440
cool moss, cool moss, Cool moss, cool moss, and you

660
00:29:19,559 --> 00:29:21,720
just walk across it really fast. But this is after

661
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:25,119
a whole night of him just amping you up, so

662
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:28,200
your endorphins are like flying. You might as well have

663
00:29:28,279 --> 00:29:30,960
been on coke or something. And then you're just walking

664
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:33,880
across these hot coals and it's like nothing wow on

665
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:34,799
your feet, not at all.

666
00:29:35,519 --> 00:29:38,039
Speaker 1: It was a trus amazing. It was pretty cool. I

667
00:29:38,079 --> 00:29:41,160
will say I may maybe I'll do it for the show.

668
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:44,039
Do it for the show, Yes, I'll do a plot.

669
00:29:44,279 --> 00:29:45,400
Do it for the plot.

670
00:29:45,519 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 4: The thing is like a lot of these things can

671
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:54,480
border on that, you know, like manifest like manifesting ag

672
00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:57,319
where you're manifesting stuff, and it's really all about like

673
00:29:57,400 --> 00:30:00,960
getting material stuff. So yeah, really about self help or

674
00:30:01,039 --> 00:30:03,519
like feeling better from the inside. It's about like I'm

675
00:30:03,519 --> 00:30:05,000
going to do this thing and I'm going to focus

676
00:30:05,119 --> 00:30:07,920
on like, you know shit, and then I'm gonna have

677
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:10,759
like a lot of money. It's the think and grow rich.

678
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:12,680
Speaker 1: It's the there are those.

679
00:30:12,559 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 2: Melt Robbins is not that Tony Robbins was not that right,

680
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:18,160
but yes, there are definitely.

681
00:30:17,799 --> 00:30:21,119
Speaker 4: All that that's not abundance like that you're not just

682
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,480
trying to like get shit, because now this is very.

683
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 2: Much about learning how to get out of a rut

684
00:30:27,279 --> 00:30:30,880
you're in. Like I literally listened to one podcasto Ers

685
00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:33,200
and then obviously not want I didn't even listen to

686
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,079
the whole podcast. It was like eight things you should

687
00:30:35,079 --> 00:30:36,640
say to yourself when you wake up in the morning,

688
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:38,880
and I got to number four and I listened to

689
00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:41,599
but it was more about like you're gonna wake up

690
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:44,559
and you're going to say make I'm going to make

691
00:30:44,559 --> 00:30:47,000
it a great day. Then the second thing you're gonna

692
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:49,559
say is something cool is going to happen today or

693
00:30:49,559 --> 00:30:51,720
I'm gonna do something cool today. And the third thing

694
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:55,319
was like I can handle what comes my way, and

695
00:30:55,359 --> 00:30:58,400
the I literally the idea is it's just positive self talk,

696
00:30:59,039 --> 00:31:02,000
so that when you get out of bed, instead of

697
00:31:02,079 --> 00:31:05,400
feeling anxious and scared and anticipating all the shit that's

698
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:08,920
going to go wrong, you're literally programming your brain. And

699
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:12,200
there's like science behind it that you're programming your brain.

700
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:15,279
You're saying these things, so your brain is now looking

701
00:31:15,279 --> 00:31:17,319
for those positive things. Oh what's the cool thing that's

702
00:31:17,319 --> 00:31:19,039
going to happen to me today? Oh yeah, I can

703
00:31:19,079 --> 00:31:23,039
totally handle this today. You know, it's all in theory. Yeah,

704
00:31:23,119 --> 00:31:26,160
but she does quote science behind it, right, and she

705
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:28,640
has a lot of like science behind it. So as

706
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:31,240
much as I'm shitting on her, it does kind of expense.

707
00:31:31,559 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 1: Yeah. Not a scientist. Well, you know, she's an nayer.

708
00:31:34,519 --> 00:31:35,799
She was a nyah.

709
00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:40,039
Speaker 3: My kids when they went to starting in kindergarten, their school,

710
00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:44,119
they had the principal every day would go good morning, cougars,

711
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:46,880
give an announcement, and then at the end of the announcement,

712
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:49,200
he go, make it a great day or not. The

713
00:31:49,319 --> 00:31:51,799
choice is yours. And I would say that to them

714
00:31:51,839 --> 00:31:52,920
when they got out of the car.

715
00:31:52,839 --> 00:31:54,599
Speaker 1: Have a great day, make it a great day or not.

716
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 3: The choice All the way through high school when I

717
00:31:57,200 --> 00:31:59,200
would drop them off and they'd be like, oh my.

718
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:02,279
Speaker 1: God, shut up, I shut up. The fuck does that

719
00:32:02,359 --> 00:32:04,680
even mean? But I bet you.

720
00:32:04,759 --> 00:32:08,559
Speaker 2: Anything, as they become adults and they're facing something challenging,

721
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:10,359
they can go okay. I can either be in a

722
00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:12,400
bad mood about it, or I can just make it

723
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:14,559
a good day. The choice is my Like everything my

724
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:17,119
dad taught me when I was younger, I swear like

725
00:32:17,279 --> 00:32:19,880
all those things, as you get older, like it.

726
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 1: Does and then you start using it, Yeah, I would.

727
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:27,319
Speaker 4: I get more anxious the older I get, And even

728
00:32:27,359 --> 00:32:33,759
though my default is positivity and optimism, but the older

729
00:32:33,799 --> 00:32:36,640
I get, the more I get anxiety about stuff that

730
00:32:36,759 --> 00:32:39,200
can cloud it. But I've been really trying to be

731
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:42,759
a little bit more aware of it. Like yesterday our

732
00:32:42,839 --> 00:32:46,920
ice maker wasn't working and in our fridge, and my

733
00:32:47,119 --> 00:32:48,880
first I was, of course, like.

734
00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:51,119
Speaker 1: I don't think the ice is working. Then I went

735
00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:53,319
into a little denial and I was like, well, maybe

736
00:32:53,359 --> 00:32:53,680
it is.

737
00:32:53,759 --> 00:32:57,039
Speaker 4: It's just like just running really low for so maybe

738
00:32:57,039 --> 00:32:59,599
the kids just used a bunch of ice. And I noticed,

739
00:32:59,599 --> 00:33:02,559
and then I I was like, no, there's no ice

740
00:33:02,839 --> 00:33:06,160
in here, like it's not working anyway. Then I knew

741
00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:10,079
that John had just changed the filter on the water thing,

742
00:33:10,119 --> 00:33:10,720
and I was like.

743
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 1: Oh, so John broke the ice maker.

744
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 4: It probably broke it, and I was having negative thoughts.

745
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:18,240
I was like negative, like now I'm going to have

746
00:33:18,279 --> 00:33:21,759
to call our applian Sky and it's going to cost money,

747
00:33:21,839 --> 00:33:23,279
and he's going to say and that we're going to

748
00:33:23,359 --> 00:33:25,799
need a new refrigerator. And then I was like, you

749
00:33:25,839 --> 00:33:30,160
know what I'm going to think of the like who

750
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:33,279
I was like, these are first world problems, like our

751
00:33:33,359 --> 00:33:37,880
icemaker's broken. Yeah, Like we'll get it fixed. It'll be fine.

752
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:41,279
And then swear to God. Next thing that happened because

753
00:33:41,559 --> 00:33:43,359
after I was like, I'm gonna just let this go

754
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:45,359
for right this minute. Doesn't need to be my top

755
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:46,720
thing that I need to take care of.

756
00:33:47,279 --> 00:33:50,799
Speaker 1: And then John had gone and like looked up like

757
00:33:51,039 --> 00:33:54,559
chat gpt'd what to do when your ice creamer isn't working,

758
00:33:54,799 --> 00:33:56,720
and he unplugged it.

759
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:58,599
Speaker 4: He found out you have to unplug it for like

760
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:00,480
seven minutes and then plug it back in and it

761
00:34:00,519 --> 00:34:03,759
could restart the cycle. And he was like, oh, I'm

762
00:34:03,799 --> 00:34:06,400
just gonna unplug the fridge because I looked it up

763
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:09,679
on chat GPT and I was like, oh, okay, cool,

764
00:34:10,039 --> 00:34:12,519
and then I forgot about it, and then this morning

765
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:13,920
a whole thing full of ice.

766
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 5: And because you had that positive thought, I just didn't

767
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:22,880
allow myself to go like, oh another thing, right, Yeah,

768
00:34:23,159 --> 00:34:24,960
I mean I did it for a minute, and then

769
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:27,159
I was like, this is what I do lately.

770
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:29,920
Speaker 1: I let myself be dragged down by way.

771
00:34:30,519 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 4: I catastrophize for no real reason, like who cares?

772
00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:38,320
Speaker 3: So you're more aware? Yeah, yeah, Julie. Do you want

773
00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:39,280
to talk about your hat?

774
00:34:39,599 --> 00:34:40,880
Speaker 1: Oh? Yes, okay.

775
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:43,880
Speaker 2: So I'm wearing a hat that says live like brawn

776
00:34:44,639 --> 00:34:45,360
and this is.

777
00:34:46,559 --> 00:34:49,239
Speaker 3: We should take a picture and put it on our Facebook. Yeah, okay,

778
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:51,599
take a picture of her. She looks cute right now.

779
00:34:51,599 --> 00:34:56,039
Speaker 2: And I'll think from very good friends of ours unfortunately

780
00:34:56,559 --> 00:35:01,039
lost their son to a drunk driver. He was crossing

781
00:35:01,079 --> 00:35:05,639
the street at night in Manhattan Beach and a woman

782
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:09,199
who was driving on a suspended license for already driving

783
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:13,719
under the influence, hit him. And he was eighteen years

784
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:19,199
old about to graduate high school. And you know, I

785
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:22,199
mean just an amazing kid all around. I mean, he

786
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:25,519
did a ton of philanthropy. He was an amazing student,

787
00:35:25,679 --> 00:35:28,880
he was an amazing friend. He lived life to the fullest.

788
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:32,280
His name was Braun and bron Levy. So this is

789
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:37,960
to Live Like Braun Foundation LLB. And basically his mom

790
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:41,280
and dad are doing the best they can in Adele,

791
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:46,239
his sister Adele, to honor their son, who's an amazing kid.

792
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:49,679
And they started a foundation. And the idea with living

793
00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:53,679
like Braun is just to live with, you know, positivity,

794
00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:57,199
with a sense of adventure, with a sense of kindness

795
00:35:57,320 --> 00:36:00,679
and giving back and just living life the fullest.

796
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:01,480
Speaker 1: And so the.

797
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:05,679
Speaker 2: Foundation is, you know, I'm not exactly sure what they're

798
00:36:05,679 --> 00:36:07,000
doing with the money. I do know they're going to

799
00:36:07,039 --> 00:36:11,239
try and start scholarships and things like that. And he

800
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:15,039
was a nationally ranked tennis player, like fifty in the country,

801
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:18,039
and so he was supposed to start college this fall

802
00:36:18,599 --> 00:36:22,559
like everybody else. And it's just tragic. And so Jen,

803
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:26,440
his mom is been lobbying in Washington to try and

804
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:30,960
get stricter laws in California, you know, and on a

805
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:35,000
federal level for driving under the influence and get more

806
00:36:35,079 --> 00:36:37,440
checkpoints and all of those things. So what happened with

807
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:41,119
the lady, I don't know. She was arrestless time she

808
00:36:41,199 --> 00:36:46,400
was arrested. Yeah, but she's out now and I don't

809
00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:48,239
know where that all is, to be honest.

810
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:50,760
Speaker 3: And this happened in Manhattan Beach because they had to

811
00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:52,039
move to Manhattan Beach.

812
00:36:52,679 --> 00:36:56,360
Speaker 1: It's so awful. Dan, yeah, Dan and Jen.

813
00:36:56,719 --> 00:37:00,400
Speaker 2: They Dan works with Jamil, but they lost their house

814
00:37:00,519 --> 00:37:03,400
in the fires. And not only did they lose their

815
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:06,239
house in the fires, they moved to Hermosa Beach, but

816
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:09,239
which is right next to Manhattan Beach. And then Braun

817
00:37:09,519 --> 00:37:13,840
took it upon himself to start like some organization to

818
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:17,840
get supplies and you know, help the people that have

819
00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:21,960
lost their homes get supplies and help them transition to

820
00:37:22,039 --> 00:37:24,679
their new living situation. Like that was just who he was,

821
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:25,119
you know.

822
00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:26,519
Speaker 1: And so.

823
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:30,400
Speaker 2: It's it's kind of a movement where a lot of

824
00:37:30,519 --> 00:37:32,639
people are now wearing these live like Braun hats, live

825
00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:35,840
like Brounz sweatshirts. A lot of colleges, a lot of

826
00:37:36,119 --> 00:37:38,280
all of his friends that are going to college now

827
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:40,440
have lived like Braun banners. They're putting up in their

828
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:43,559
dorm rooms just to remind everybody to like live each

829
00:37:43,639 --> 00:37:45,480
day to the fullest and be your best self.

830
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 1: So if you want to donate.

831
00:37:47,519 --> 00:37:50,039
Speaker 2: You can go to the Live Like braun br au

832
00:37:50,159 --> 00:37:53,119
N Foundation and you can read up on his story

833
00:37:53,199 --> 00:37:56,119
and see his pictures and just this kid was just

834
00:37:56,679 --> 00:37:59,159
full of light so well, and it's.

835
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:02,559
Speaker 1: All the and they sell all them. I'm going to go, yeah,

836
00:38:02,639 --> 00:38:05,280
I want that hat. Yeah you yeah, totally.

837
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:08,199
Speaker 3: Well, my kids were friends with him. Yeah, and my

838
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:11,119
daughter was was really close. He had a friend that

839
00:38:11,199 --> 00:38:13,679
was close to him, and she was close to that kid.

840
00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:14,199
Speaker 1: Yeah.

841
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:17,599
Speaker 3: She said she's met him many many times and he

842
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:21,320
was just the best kid, so friendly, so easy to

843
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:24,719
get along with, like just full of life, of life,

844
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:27,480
and such a great athlete. She was so impressed with

845
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:31,199
tennis playing and just to be a senior, right, you know,

846
00:38:31,599 --> 00:38:33,559
don't get to go off to college and to have

847
00:38:33,679 --> 00:38:35,400
that happen, and I just can't imagine.

848
00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 1: It's like truly your worst nightmare. Yeah yeah, yeah.

849
00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:43,280
Speaker 2: And after losing your house in the fire, right, Like

850
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:45,480
you know, what I think is like they lost all

851
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:48,480
of his memories. You know, It's like I was thinking

852
00:38:48,519 --> 00:38:52,519
about that, like those were all of his memories and

853
00:38:52,559 --> 00:38:54,840
then they lose their son, and it's like what you know,

854
00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:58,679
obviously they have memories and photos, but like his tangible items,

855
00:38:59,599 --> 00:39:05,400
you know, lost. It's awful, but they really are turning

856
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:08,800
this tragedy into into hope and doing the best they

857
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:09,719
can to get through it.

858
00:39:10,679 --> 00:39:14,559
Speaker 1: So I'll live life Braun. Yeah seriously, Yeah yeah, I

859
00:39:14,599 --> 00:39:15,599
wear it to be honest.

860
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:18,280
Speaker 2: So Braun is the kid that decided one day he

861
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:20,760
was going to run the La marathon and just ran it.

862
00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:23,719
Speaker 1: You didn't train for it, not like this is who

863
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:24,960
this kid is. I'm not kidding.

864
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:28,559
Speaker 2: So like, I'll wear his hat to the gym, or

865
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,679
I'll wear his shirt to the gym. And I'm like,

866
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:34,400
if Braun can run a marathon, I can run taking

867
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:36,840
thirty minutes on the treadmill, like and I really try.

868
00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:38,800
And I think a lot of people like really feel

869
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:41,559
inspired by that movement and are like, yeah, let's we

870
00:39:41,639 --> 00:39:42,559
can do this, you know.

871
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:47,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh yeah, wow. Well we've had a very uplifting show.

872
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:52,639
Speaker 4: Yeah I'll tell you this before to you know, close

873
00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:56,840
us out on a happier note. What I do at

874
00:39:56,840 --> 00:40:00,679
the gym besides live like Braun is I watch. I've

875
00:40:00,679 --> 00:40:03,400
been watching Love Is Blind from different countries. So my

876
00:40:03,519 --> 00:40:06,920
latest one is Love is Blood Blind Sweden. You're on

877
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:09,119
the Sweden line. You already finished.

878
00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:12,159
Speaker 1: Wow, you're you're around the world. You're going international.

879
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 4: Man, I'm my brain from like politics right now?

880
00:40:15,119 --> 00:40:15,320
Speaker 2: Yeah?

881
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:17,840
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so and fear. So I'm like, let me

882
00:40:18,079 --> 00:40:19,559
let me watch some Love is Blind.

883
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:23,440
Speaker 4: So I asked Reddit which Love is Blind I should watch,

884
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:28,039
and people told me Sweden. So I've just finished, uh,

885
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:31,559
season two and now moving on to season one.

886
00:40:32,119 --> 00:40:35,480
Speaker 1: Yeah wow, so mid Love is Blind France.

887
00:40:35,679 --> 00:40:38,400
Speaker 4: That so we're recording on a Monday and that's going

888
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:42,519
to finish out the episodes on Wednesday. And Love is

889
00:40:42,519 --> 00:40:45,199
Blind Brazil with the older people. Was I telling you

890
00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:47,840
about that last Yeah? Yeah, yeah, it was Blind Brazil.

891
00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:49,000
There's older people on it.

892
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:52,000
Speaker 1: There's people over fifty. Yeah, oh there is you to

893
00:40:52,079 --> 00:40:54,039
tell us that. Yeah, I know you can do about that.

894
00:40:54,079 --> 00:40:57,639
Speaker 4: It's the latest season is all over fifty people. And

895
00:40:57,679 --> 00:41:01,480
these people are so goddamn ridiculous. I mean, these guys

896
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:04,679
are like, first of all, we all know that men

897
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:08,039
are not are never interested in like age appropriate women,

898
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:11,639
and this there's no exception here. The guys are older

899
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:15,519
and like even the woman who's fifty, they're like she's

900
00:41:15,599 --> 00:41:16,679
like the hottest.

901
00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:19,079
Speaker 1: One to them, you know. But the women who are

902
00:41:19,079 --> 00:41:20,239
like close to their age.

903
00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:23,920
Speaker 4: They're just like, the guys are ridiculous, and I don't

904
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:27,320
think any of these people are getting married on that one.

905
00:41:27,519 --> 00:41:29,519
Speaker 1: The Sweden season two was so.

906
00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 4: Good, really, yes, it was really good, and there's some like,

907
00:41:34,079 --> 00:41:37,239
oh good love stories on there, and it's very surprising.

908
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:39,639
Speaker 1: This is the thing with love is Blind.

909
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I loved it, but I just feel like the

910
00:41:43,639 --> 00:41:46,199
when they're in the Pods, it just goes on too long,

911
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:48,239
and I just like I start fast forwarding to like,

912
00:41:48,519 --> 00:41:49,239
is it gonna happen?

913
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:49,480
Speaker 1: Right?

914
00:41:49,559 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 3: And I know, I know, I fast forward the Pods,

915
00:41:52,519 --> 00:41:54,960
Yeah it could, just then I feel like if I do,

916
00:41:55,039 --> 00:41:57,639
fat what if I fast forward an apartment I know,

917
00:41:58,159 --> 00:42:00,960
or where he's talking about losing his or something, you know,

918
00:42:01,079 --> 00:42:03,440
right right right? I know, but yeah I do. It's like,

919
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:06,039
come on, let's get to the vacation exactly, the honeymoon.

920
00:42:06,079 --> 00:42:07,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you don't feel that way starts.

921
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:10,559
Speaker 4: There's sometimes why you need to watch the Pods is

922
00:42:10,599 --> 00:42:13,280
because some drama can happen where there's like a couple

923
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:15,880
of people interested in the same person and then that

924
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:19,440
person either lies to one of them or breaks up,

925
00:42:19,559 --> 00:42:23,000
and you need that because then later whenever when they

926
00:42:23,039 --> 00:42:28,039
bring everybody back the barbecuers, well Patrick, and they do

927
00:42:28,079 --> 00:42:31,159
they do the one event where all the old cano

928
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:33,480
didn't end up in a cup Patrick and didn't call

929
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:35,440
them the barbecuers.

930
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:37,599
Speaker 1: I think that's because they show up at the Yeah,

931
00:42:37,679 --> 00:42:39,800
I totally do. That's what they did last season on

932
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:40,519
the US one.

933
00:42:40,559 --> 00:42:43,159
Speaker 2: That's exactly what happened, right, Yeah, there was a guy

934
00:42:43,159 --> 00:42:46,480
that like was kind of bissing two different girls.

935
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:49,199
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, and he his name.

936
00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:52,159
Speaker 4: Sometimes they don't like the one that they meet that

937
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:54,920
they've chosen, right, and then the other they.

938
00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:57,679
Speaker 1: See the other one and she's like hi, yeah, yeah, and.

939
00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:00,480
Speaker 4: It creates a problem. Well that was on the last

940
00:43:00,599 --> 00:43:04,280
I think that was the last season. The guy picked

941
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:06,760
the girl and they weren't really getting along that well,

942
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:11,639
and then he started dating the other girl, like cheating, right,

943
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:14,880
and then she showed up at the barbecue or whatever,

944
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:17,159
and they ended up like going off on a jet

945
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ski together.

946
00:43:18,559 --> 00:43:22,360
Speaker 1: Remember that. Yeah, that guy was just a doue. Yes,

947
00:43:23,199 --> 00:43:27,519
it was. The Sweden one is really good. The problem

948
00:43:27,639 --> 00:43:29,760
is you're gonna want to like find out what happened

949
00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:32,000
to these people afterwards, and it's hard to get good

950
00:43:32,039 --> 00:43:35,280
info because I don't think as many people care so

951
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:38,679
they don't have they not get I want to know.

952
00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 4: There's a couple that did get married. I won't say who,

953
00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:48,320
which couple, but a couple got married, and then the

954
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:54,000
woman they taught, like vague, spoke about how she had

955
00:43:54,039 --> 00:43:56,159
gone through a bunch of stuff in her personal life

956
00:43:56,159 --> 00:43:58,960
and that's why they weren't living together. But everything's fine,

957
00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:01,840
they're totally in love, but blah blah blah, we can't

958
00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:03,519
live together because of my personal life.

959
00:44:03,519 --> 00:44:04,880
Speaker 1: And I was like, what the fuck happened in her

960
00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:07,840
personal life? And no way after the fact, So I'm

961
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:11,119
googling it to death. I cannot find anything. See that's

962
00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:12,880
the art that sucks. Yeah.

963
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:15,039
Speaker 2: The best was when the first season of Love Is

964
00:44:15,079 --> 00:44:17,079
blind Us came on. I think it was the first season,

965
00:44:17,079 --> 00:44:18,800
maybe the second, I don't know where. It was that

966
00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:22,199
shorter guy that had dark hair and the blonde girl,

967
00:44:22,639 --> 00:44:25,079
and when she saw him in real life, she was

968
00:44:25,199 --> 00:44:29,199
not into it, and so she's like, let's recreate the pods.

969
00:44:30,039 --> 00:44:32,840
Speaker 4: Like the drunkie Jessica Jessica, yeah.

970
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:35,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's right. So she was like, basically, she

971
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:37,880
was like, get away from me. I can't with you.

972
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:40,559
So just go around that wall and then let's tell

973
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:42,760
my god, terrible yeah.

974
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:47,119
Speaker 2: Mark, Yes, and so when he was older right then, yes, yes,

975
00:44:47,519 --> 00:44:49,280
and I was like, oh this is awful.

976
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:51,880
Speaker 1: It was cringe. Yeah, oh my god.

977
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:54,519
Speaker 2: This poor guy like he has no idea how she

978
00:44:54,679 --> 00:44:56,360
is so not into him. Y.

979
00:44:57,360 --> 00:44:59,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's good. That's good. That's a good show.

980
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:02,119
Speaker 4: And I want to say too, like last season on

981
00:45:02,159 --> 00:45:06,719
the US one, remember there was the guy. She felt

982
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:09,559
the guy was too short, but also and then she

983
00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:12,760
tried to say, well, also.

984
00:45:12,559 --> 00:45:13,880
Speaker 1: I think you've met me before.

985
00:45:14,039 --> 00:45:17,280
Speaker 4: I think you just yeah, yes, you snuck in.

986
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:18,719
Speaker 1: You were in my day.

987
00:45:19,039 --> 00:45:21,159
Speaker 4: But then they ended up falling in love and they're

988
00:45:21,199 --> 00:45:22,400
like happy and they got married.

989
00:45:22,679 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 1: That's amazing. So it does produce couples.

990
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:29,199
Speaker 4: She really into it first, and then sometimes the attraction.

991
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:32,400
Sometimes they're not into it right away, but then because

992
00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:35,119
of the experiment that like.

993
00:45:35,119 --> 00:45:37,119
Speaker 1: Falling in love. I love that.

994
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:40,679
Speaker 4: All right, Well, let us say hi to our people.

995
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:45,679
We don't have a ton of the business shoutouts this time,

996
00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:49,800
but we've got Dick Frolicker and Nikki call your Girl,

997
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:53,599
and Elizabeth Williamson has too many kids, and Rita's trying

998
00:45:53,599 --> 00:45:55,920
to help out with the bass yet, but you know, Holly,

999
00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:57,679
we live your pancakes. And Valerie hits it out of

1000
00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:00,440
the park and Katerina check your moller. And Gabby Missy

1001
00:46:00,519 --> 00:46:05,599
come on, get your shit together onpe but so cute.

1002
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:08,039
Speaker 1: Kelly Brandt, you know she'll help you out.

1003
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:11,880
Speaker 4: Alicia Escalante from the city of El Monte and Leslie

1004
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:15,480
with the coughing because of COVID. Aaron's a dirty Sanchez, Jennifer,

1005
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:17,199
get up, Sandra, it's not easy being green.

1006
00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:21,079
Speaker 1: Athena. We love your dancing and just your vibe, your

1007
00:46:21,119 --> 00:46:23,920
overall vibe. Let them, you know.

1008
00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:27,719
Speaker 4: Stephanie is a stinker rinker, Christa, get the strap.

1009
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:32,039
Speaker 1: And also don't forget if you're in Palm Springs or

1010
00:46:32,119 --> 00:46:36,599
Palm Desert to go to Wilman Frieda, get that get

1011
00:46:36,639 --> 00:46:39,599
that salmon. Also The Family Skeptical.

1012
00:46:39,639 --> 00:46:42,639
Speaker 4: It's a podcast about raising kids without religion, you know,

1013
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:43,679
just doing your own thing.

1014
00:46:44,199 --> 00:46:46,840
Speaker 1: Let them, you know exactly.

1015
00:46:46,559 --> 00:46:47,079
Speaker 4: Just let them.

1016
00:46:47,199 --> 00:46:51,360
Speaker 1: Let you girls go and burn candle. Light a candle.

1017
00:46:51,679 --> 00:46:54,239
You know they smell great. Light a candle.

1018
00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:57,519
Speaker 4: Let them light candles. Let them light candles. Tobacco, sage

1019
00:46:57,559 --> 00:47:00,880
and lavender, sandal wood. And there's soil so they last

1020
00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:03,320
a long time, they're better for the environment. And just

1021
00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:08,360
go to Ferncandle dot com and Adam Lerner goes without saying,

1022
00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:13,639
go to Adam's got a car, And everybody in this room, yes,

1023
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:16,400
has had a car from him. Yeah, he just will.

1024
00:47:16,639 --> 00:47:18,679
He'll get you the best deal and it just arrives

1025
00:47:18,679 --> 00:47:19,480
in your driveway.

1026
00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:22,480
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yes, it literally does. And you don't have to

1027
00:47:22,519 --> 00:47:25,760
negotiate it. He makes it so simple and he's so friendly. Yes,

1028
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:27,800
he'll figure out the financing.

1029
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:30,880
Speaker 4: He'll get you the best deal in fire doesn't if

1030
00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:33,159
you don't have great credit, he'll he.

1031
00:47:33,079 --> 00:47:34,760
Speaker 1: Does, Yes, me go ahead.

1032
00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:38,360
Speaker 3: And then you got Mike Gerstein if you need some plumbing.

1033
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:41,679
He said this till the end of September. He's offering

1034
00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:44,360
a free water heat or flesh to anyone that wants

1035
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:45,519
or needs one and eat.

1036
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:47,199
Speaker 1: Normally they're two hundred bucks.

1037
00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:49,119
Speaker 3: And even if you're not in his area and you

1038
00:47:49,119 --> 00:47:52,199
have plumbing questions, he can FaceTime with you. You can

1039
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:54,280
get in touch and ask him questions. To go to

1040
00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:59,119
drains surgeons a z like Arizona dot com and he's

1041
00:47:59,159 --> 00:47:59,920
all right there.

1042
00:48:00,039 --> 00:48:01,480
Speaker 1: You can get hold of them.

1043
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:05,800
Speaker 3: Julie, my goodness, this was so fun.

1044
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:09,719
Speaker 1: We love you, thanks for having me. This was amazing,

1045
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:12,440
loved it. Yeah, thank you for coming and we'll see

1046
00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:15,199
you soon. Yes, absolutely, and then you're a parent now,

1047
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:23,320
don't f it up. Let angle